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If Women Love Sex As You Claim, Why Aren't they DTF?
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You are the Xaviera Hollander of the new Millennium. I read all her books (borrowed from my Mother) during puberty in early 70’s.
Changed my life & never had a desire young girls “fumbling for cookies” so to speak.
You're emparting a mature, thoughtful, understanding of sex. Well done.
Amen!!! Thanks for a refresher course!!! How easy it is for a man to forget details that are essential to success... One of my favorite sayings, is that if it is not good for both then it is not good for either... That is because if I do not get the woman off I feel I have failed!!!
Women are designed to naturally protect access to the eggs. This could explain all the requirements you spoke of.
You yolk of :-)
Some women use withholding sex as a weapon.
We don’t withhold sex as a weapon, we withhold it if you’ve been an asshole. I am not having sex with an asshole until he genuinely sees that he has made a mistake and makes up for it.
You still have a lot to learn about women, it looks.
@@sherekhan90Men are sex addict, women know it, why not taking advantage of men's addiction?
Consider the negative spiral you create if your man has enough backbone to punish you for withholding sex with his withholding sex. If nobody compromises, this would ultimately lead to no sex at all for anyone.
@@_FightForYourFreedom_ men are able to have sex even with someone they hate and despise. Think about rape: it’s often actually used by men as a form of punishment. Rapists are full of anger and violence yet they do the act. They hate someone yet they have sex with her. They are upset or angry with someone, yet they want to have her. Seeking out the services of prostitutes by men is the same; they despise prostitutes, yet they use their services. Women are not built like that. When a woman is upset or angry with someone, she won’t have sex with him because sex is the last thing on her mind during that time. So it’s not like she is withholding sex but she actually doesn’t want it at all with that person during that time. I will simplify it for you: if you are a child and your friend has been a little asshole, will you play with him? No! Not until he apologises or changes his behaviour.
You don’t know women, you just imagine you know them!
@@_FightForYourFreedom_ - Hah yeah my wife STILL doesn't get why I withheld sex FOR OVER A YEAR. Maybe 2 I forget. When you get rejected all the time except the once a month when her egg drops and SHE'S horny, you finally just snap and say F this crap let's see how YOU like it.
Excellent again, Love the analogies about sport & food . This is high quality psychology, you’re a smart lady keep going ❤
Interesting. Even when it makes the viewer feel discomfitted, her blunt speak is totally appreciated.
Great video. Thank you!! ❤
It’s always better when there is emotional, intellectual, physical and I feel spiritual connection!
Also our anatomy matches our mentality, the woman is letting someone in, the structure its more complex, a man's is out there and just needs some basic friction
I love this! So true!!
Basic friction! Yes! So true. As simple as that.
@@dickieblench5001 😄 exactly, why getting to know the guy makes it for a more stress free time, just like the gas man haha
Interesting metaphor. Great way to help people understand how things feel.
Women are more competitive about sex.
If your out with girl (A) that is lukewarm to you and catch the attention of her friend (B), chances are girl (A) is going to take you home just to spite her friend.
Now are you more desirable only because girl (B) has raised your value?
My video is about emotionally healthy women. I cannot account for outliers ie asexual or indiscriminate or toxic women.
Agreed! A man asking for sex on the first date is like a woman asking a man to pay her rent on the first date..both are offensive because we are wired different
Yesss!!
If a women is not a virgin, what is she holding out for??
@@journeytrials to see if the guy is interested in getting to know her and vice versa..did you watch the video?
"Emotionally connected" meaning that she has agency over the man in the power dynamics. Men are addicted to sex, women much less, therefore they can demand more out of men in exchange for sexual access.
This is spot on! Thank you!
"You should read my book The Fuck List".
Do you actually see the smoke from the shoes when men run?
5% of the sex I had, was Heaven on earth, just like melting together ,to one flow of energy.
So ,I had to rescale the sex-quality , before- and after the Heavenly Years.
I am spoiled rotten now , now I know how it could be. It's so sad, the chance I will
experience it again, is extremely low.
Lot's of women, in my circles and area, ( The Netherlands) are DTF.
Hopefully every person, will experience these amazing feelings and emotions.
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I've been married three times. LOL.
And all three of my exercise for different comma but not one of them wanted to make me feel like I was having good sex. So all I got out of it was the release of the action which was good, But it wasn't fulfilling.😢 So even though ninety percent of the men might say that they really enjoy that. There's much more to it. And a person who communicates that gets to hear It.People who are not communicating you don't listen don't care
Beautifully explained! Thank you !!
Cite the biological reasons behind the differences in (most) mens' & womens' sexual habits.
That's covered by the academics. Even our brains and muscles in our hands are different. I encourage you to read evolutionary psychology and follow podcasts w these people interviewed on Life of a CEO or Chris Williamson.
Do women who offer companionship go for regular std checkups????
Companions are usualy more strict about safe sex than avarage women Who hook up. Hopefully they go for regular checkups to and always have fresh test results on them.
4:00 That's called Pump n Dump
This is very insightful! Thanks.
Call me strange as a man, but I don't really get into my sexual stride with a woman until maybe the 5th or 6th time with her. It takes time to get to know a woman's body and how you interact / fit with her - They are all similar but different. Hook-ups are generally a waste of time for me - I'd just as soon have a wank most times as I guess I also require a bit of personal / emotional engagement to get the most from sex. Hook-ups oftentimes involve drunk sex, so performance and sensitivity of both partners is usually compromised resulting in crap sexual performance or in the worst case the terrible question next morning "did we have sex last night?" LOL. I suspect that the issue of trust is a factor in the woman taking time to be able to fully relax in the present moment in the knowledge that she won't be treated disrespectfully or coldly abandoned after the act. - Just my thoughts. :)
Well said. You’ve made a very good point about the fact that even for men, sex is much more satisfying if there’s an emotional connection/ love with the woman than just being a random hookup. I have heard many experts talk about this actually.
Women want variety? Then explain the phenomenon of lights off plain vanilla missionary ONLY. FOREVER. And TOTAL rejection, shame and extreme controlling behavior of even any attempt to merely suggest anything new or different.
Sounds like a woman who does not feel safe and/or lacking confidence. Missionary in the dark is likely the 'safest' for her. She can lay there, no expectations and does not have to be physically seen/exposed. To take a woman who has gotten comfortable with that and used to that for years to being open to something different won't be easy or may even be impossible.
You are suggesting new and different but is she even enjoying the only position you are doing? A woman having an explosive experience becomes practically limp, open, free, movable, etc. after a certain point. If she's still stiff and rigid, the job wasn't done right, she's never expecting it to be done right and so on.
I don't know the age or history of this woman, but like he lady in this video says, past trauma can also play a role. Having children, body changes etc can also play a role. For a women to be open and free to try new things she needs to feel so very safe but also like every inch of her is loved, praised, and appreciated and that she has nothing to be ashamed of or keep in the dark. And that doesn't mean just accepting 'flaws' or things you may not like about her, but actually falling in love with them because women can sense that.
Like I said, it may be impossible, especially if the woman has some trauma, not confident in her body and being seen, feels like parts of her are just put up with instead of nearly worshipped. End result will be a stuff rigid woman who just wants to get it over with, add no pleasure or climaxes and a man who does the deed for himself and asks about trying something new like it's something he needs and wants, and you have a recipe for a woman who does not see any benefit or drive to change anything.
This is really valuable information for the fu**boy
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@schahrzadmorgan I’m not joking, really. Fu**boys need to be aware of the adverse impact on the women they progress things with the intention of not being around.
Excellent explanation from my experience. Most women I’ve dated have been traumatized. They want sex quickly… first night but no longer than a month.
I actually disagree with what you say about men at the end. It's nearly impossible to have great sex with someone you just met 15 mins earlier. At that point it's just a physical release. Which as a man the physical release is still pleasurable.... But that's still a long way from having great sex.
Can you explain why women are so repulsed by most men?
Because women want either a man who will provide very good resources (rich man) or very good genes (good looking man), ideally both for good sex. Majority of men are not top tier in these two categories. If you’re not providing those two things, women require some form of investment aka commitment/relationship to sleep with you.
Interesting i hear what your saying and agree thankyou, i think we all see how women select partners - it tends to be high status, attractive or sometimes the abusive guys that bypass the selectiveness with abuse and games. From a mans perspective you hope women would want to put the same effort into a relationship but what you notice is the more kind and good you are the more your status lowwers to women whether they agree verbally or not is irrelevant they vote with their feet in the end.
The "treat them mean keep them keen" seems to work as i think it bypasses the default selective nature of women, the notion that men dont give emotionally is false from my perspective, i think women date and select the emotionally unavailable men and this general idea men only want one thing is a result of women dating those guys, the nice guys are sht tested endlessly and if you dont act bad your coded as weak (what if know we are being sht tested and see it as abuse dressed as strength testing) - i think women dont realise they are seeking the bad guys, the rich and cut throat guys who succeed often at the cost of others financial loss - i can set boundaries and im rock solid, women will leave once they are set - clearly im not the top 5% but if men acted this way and disreguarded most women i would try to act outside of the norm, im not a statistic or a group member im an individual who has freewill, i love women more than they are capable of loving back as they have this notion of emotional needs that can never be defined so is never attained - im fine with women having the freewill choices to date whoever they want i wouldnt have it any other way but i kinda wish they would do better actually select good guys rather than sociopaths, i think the more judgemental you become the less open to joy, sex and connection you become, if all you focus on is negative then of course sex will be bad unless your distracted from such thought processes, maybe its a biological program women will never overcome they are too engineered for producing babies but with birth control they should relax and enjoy themselves a little more, i think i get it but from my limited perspective, i dont like womens choice of partners - the world is proof of bad choices as there are so many bad guys and girls alive, maybe most of the brave and good men and women died in war lol its an interesting topic and i hope to learn more if im wrong
Women with attachment issues will be exceptions. They are indiscriminate about partners or, as you describe, form feelings only for abusive men. Looks are not the reason. Here are some tips for any man who is challenged meeting women
1. Read No More Mr Nice Guy
2. Get up early like 6am and work out daily. Be physically fit.
3. Pursue a career, be disciplined and motivated
4. Develop social skills, put away the phone, pursue women not porn, stop watching manosphere videos as they are pure evil
You're lacking in one of these areas when you're whining and complaining. Quite a turnoff to women frankly.
@@schahrzadmorgan Thanks for the tips appreciated im actually quite skilled at turning women off id say it was a gift i havent found use for yet lol
She's pretty right on what she's saying in this video.
Love your channel
Thank you 😊 spot on
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Good points.
You made me think of the episode of Star Trek TNG Sub Rosa, a season 7 episode where Dr. Crusher gets into a romance novel type relationship with an alien energy lifeform. He was able to earn and win Dr. Crusher's trust and halfway through the episode, she has intense orgasms. She was ready to spend the rest of her life with this alien who took the form of a sensual human male.
You get it. I really appreciate your comments.
????????? I totally agree. But as a man. I have.
Eight point five seconds To convince a woman that I am interested in her for more than just sex. Please tell me how am I supposed to do that.When I open up my mouth to say something they already turned around and walked away.
Are you physically fit and strong? Wear decent well fitted clothes?
So accurate!
Well explained 👍
Thank you 🙂
What does DTF mean?
Down to Fuck
I really do not care.
I agree 100%
I see how porn and toxic masculinity have ruined my mind.
there is no such thing as toxic masculinity. its all propaganda
She gorgeus
hey I love your vids. I also wanted to ask if you have an only fans or anything like that?
Lol
I am truly "screwed", always have been, because the ways you say women are picky about sex apply to me, and all the ways you say men are picky about relationships also apply to me. Far too selective, I suppose...
And most of the women that are possibilities that I have encountered seem to be as much simplistic brutes, as the men are normally expected to be. Sigh!
Can't accept that "pay the rent for a month" as an exchange, in this light either - though it is more honest than most of the words I have heard during coupling attempts. That's like something else I have never tried, and l hope not to.
But I liked the vid...and others of yours
ITS NOT THAT WE DON'T GET IT WE DONT CARE LETCH
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