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3 Reasons Your Wife is Less Sexually Interested In You
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Better question:
How come there are a plethora of excuses for women's weaknesses and faults, but men are held accountable for EVERYTHING? Answer that!!!
Absolutely agree. This lady is very reasonable and intelligent, but it is still all basically our fault, apparently.
ignore what she's saying at your own peril
@@tinyshepherdess7710 Would you listen if a man told you the faults of the woman as well as you seemed to have listened here? Because from what I see, it doesn't even have to go to sex. Women have unreasonable expectations long before that happens.
Because you can't be the victim and the leader. So if you want to be the leader you must do what? Except fault, correct behavior, and hold the standard. It's that simple. And if the woman doesn't follow your lead... cut her off ASAP. And that's why you need a group of men that hold you to a standard, so you can be assured that your leadership is/has been sufficient. Additionally, when she sees you competently interact with the group of strong men you'll easily obtain more of her respect. But blaming the chicks is a sure path to failure. I don't care if it is her fault... it's still your fault because you're the leader, aren't you?
@murphyman814 More over, though hard to find, there are better women who are looking to be led by a good man, and they understand that they must take accountability for their flaws & mistakes. Any other way allows for bad behavior to continue to be blamed on the leader. I'm not having it.
Short answer, the guy signed the marriage contract between him, her and the State. She now can use sex as a major bargaining chip. He is afraid of being financially ruined by the State courts that are female centered. He therefore silently suffers for decades hoping it will change but it never does. Meanwhile his wife will not stay in shape, goes on ant-idepressents, drinks, etc. but still expects him to provide the money, time, chores, etc.
So he will be forced to cheat and then lose 50%. Bad deal.
@@OverandOutChief1 Exactly!
Precise and accurate statement. Not sexually satisfied and Held hostage by "monogamy" . So, so sad.
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Why has her desire declined? That’s an easy one: she’s got the marriage and got him by the balls so now she’s got the house money, etc whether he in the pic or not.
Yes that's it.. so what exactly was occurring a 150 years ago? Women would lie back and think of King and country. Or had no choice. Health issues etc...
If women crave novelty, women can introduce it. If they introduce it - men would welcome anything the woman would bring to the table or bed. But women don't bring, they take and demand: "it is give me, give me, give me, and oh by the way, I want to be your equal"
The thing is, men primarily get married for the physicality and women tend to stay sexually interested in the man that has not yet become her husband, hence hot sex before marriage. In the past, wives accepted men's marriage proposals because they needed provision and protection with sex being the transactional tool. Now that this is no longer the case, there is no longer a reason to get married as it only serves to create born again virgins of men. Marriage is antiquated. Also it seems the only man that has this problem is THE HUSBAND and husband-like men. It is as I have said; the husband is the first to be disrespected and the last to get fucked. The best way to not get into a sexless marriage is to not get married in the first place. Society expects us to have understanding for a woman's flaky libido yet, it demands men suppress their natural proclivity to spread our seed. We are asked to be "unnatural" on so many levels yet society embraces every excuse that it can to promote the acceptance of whatever a woman does. Men now understand all of the elements on the playing field and are opting out of marriage. The responses in the comments support my observations.
Completely agree, but only in the context of Western woman. Try living in Asia and I promise you will quickly find yourself living a life with more sex than you can handle.
@@skranz7790 if you remain in Asia, there is a chance. If you bring her here, the chance of corruption is great. It is such a hot mess in the States.
“You can’t negotiate genuine desire” -Rollo Tomassi
Once she trapped me, she just switched off.
In summary, Women are complicated, and the juice is not worth the squeeze. Guys, be free and follow your purpose; do not commit to a woman ever!
In a woman's case, "complicated" is synonymous with childish, and ruled by unstable emotions.
So how do you paralyze a woman from the waist down? Put a ring on her finger.
GREAT one!
In my case she got fat, became less interested, didn't communicate. After I left her she began to call me and try to pull me back into the relationship. I don't get it. Will not be going back. I'm an older man, I don't need the blue pill because everything works just like the energizer bunny. I resorted to masturbating before marriage, during marriage and after marriage. Guys your sex life does not change after marriage. I tried everything this video recommended, it does not work. The only thing that works is to have a relationship with yourself. Take care of you.
When sexbots are perfected, women are done...
Attack of the clone whores
Really? There will be no people being born if that happens. Or through test tube.. People don't engage their brains.🤡
Sex is symptomatic of your marriage. The initial Playfulness, dating, fun get replaced by marital responsibilities. Children, mortgage, finances fluctuations...no environment for women to desire sex. Environment for men to seek sex to distress and unwind.
The more you read and understand masculine and feminine physiology and psychology the more you realize men will never find sexual satisfaction in the boundries of marriage.
Most will stay and remain faithful but utterly dissatisfied.
Modern men need twice as much for half the woman compared to the past.
I am a married man for 51 years and love my wife very much. I still long to make love to my wife though she doesn't seem interested and always finds excuses .
I try everything buy her things and would die for her.
Do not know where to turn.
Missed your own point. Women who have been damaged are often hypersexualized. So a large number of partners is a red flag for possible unresolved trauma. Also the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. A woman who as established a pattern of hopping from partner to partner is less likely to be satisfied with just one, or stick around and work it out when things get tough.
Also your past follows you. No man want to have deal with people coming up an treating him to stories of his wife’s escapades. It reflects poorly on him that he committed to someone who gave themselves to others so freely.
Oh, then there is the matter of becoming pregnant with someone else’s child and then being tricked into raising it as your own. Women have no idea how much of a violation this is for a man. It is on par with being assaulted.
After having spent 73 yrs. on this earth and after having run through my share of women; I have come to the following conclusion: the juice is not worth the squeeze.
You SIR, are a sage. I am 72 and that's how I feel about it.
@@makalu877 Thank you, Sir.
Pretty much spot on..Im 56 and there are lots of things to do on this planet. Im glad Im older now because Im not caught up in that trap like I used to be.
Thank you I,m 45 divorced since I was 39 and this helped me a lot since I was thinking maybe I was wrong just thinking like you.
@@rockinstrumentalcovers2063 I wish all the best for you, my friend.
Way too much “value” placed on sex. married or not. For one thing, it requires a man to be in a pretty vulnerable situation when being physically intimate, which is why the male body seeks to complete the act quickly and get back to defending himself, family, and possessions in the hostile word around him. Don’t think men are as interested in copulation as the mass media would have us believe.
I truly belive that women are more sexual than men. They think about it more often, and it characterised their thought processes more.
Because "She F'in HATES ME"
The last 22 years of 45 my wife has told me she is through with intimacy. I can deal with it. Okay, divorce, annulment, whatever. I am not dead, my desire for a woman is very strong. She is done so be it. I'm out !!!!!
It really just means she's used to you. The novelty is gone. I'm sure if her favorite actor, musician, athlete, etc propositioned her, she would be all into it.
As a wise man once said: "DTB!" (dump that *)
Yea she is breaking the contract I'd move on.
This ties in with your why men don't want a relationship ; men are the ones who you are making responsible for their wives loss of interest. Being an over-weight slob is not restricted to men, and men are also sexually repressed when young, and are also made to feel shame, particularly about testosterone driven masturbation and also when devoid of 'everyday' experience with females by , for example, not having a sister or having a dominant mother and going to an all-boys school, all three in my case. In my one very long relationship, I always had to instigate sex, I was never turned down but one gets fed up with being the one who has to start it, then at the end, for the last four years my partner never wore a dress or skirt, so I always had a woman dressed to do housework, gardening or muck out horses etc. Didn't get me interested, and we stopped having sex and it eventually ended.
Not only that, but life is enough difficult in itself. Men cannot stay super driven and do all this crazy shit 24/7. There's times when u just have to do things even when u don't feel like it. Imagine bringing a child into the world and after a few weeks deciding u don't feel like raising it lol
Bad hygiene on the man's side would be a total turn-off for women.😮
We don't care. Our interest in providing financial security has also disappeared.
When the woman's sexual attraction to the man in a relationship disappears, so do the woman's feelings for him. When respect for the man disappears, attraction and feelings disappear - whereupon modern women leave.
For men, attraction does not necessarily equate to feelings. In this way, men are more easily attracted and do not need to have feelings involved to want to have sex.
Men's and women's sexuality differ, as you also describe.
A question for a supposedly experienced woman. How would you say women generally view men's sexuality? It is seen as something "toxic", unattractive. Or is the more straightforward male visual sexuality where a man can be attracted by an unknown woman's appearance and want to have sex with her without further contact seen as something sexy and attractive?
Men's sexuality makes women feel objectified by men. Basically, do women like or dislike being seen as sex objects?
Men on the other hand are seen as "success objects" by women. - A man without success has no value in a high value woman.
It is usually claimed by various researches that a relationship between a man and a woman is biologically "programmed" to last for approximately 3 years. - During this time, reproduction should have had time to take place.
Maybe it's as simple as that human biology comes into play here. People are attracted to each other for a few years, then the attraction is supposed to die out and we're supposed to move on to finding new partners to reproduce with!? That it goes against human nature to maintain emotional and sexual relationships for a longer period.
Let's face it, people judge and dislike being judged.
Wrong- it's not "women who do not like sex" who are prized, it's women whom have not yet been overly sexed that are prized. Big difference. Someone who is thin and fit is not necessarily someone who does not like to eat, but rather exercises some self-discipline and that is what is prized.
Very true. When it comes right down to it, we don't want to make all the sacrifices in a relationship for a woman that didn't require them from the men that came before. She isn't expected to be a virgin but she can't have been with dozens of guys.
I'll admit that I'm to blame too. It's hard for me to be spontaneous when we have kids. I'll be like, "Saturday, we are going ____." Then the wife will be like, but daughter A or daughter B has a friends b-day party to go to. Since my mother-in-law passed away, we are also down a babysitter. I'm 50 and I have been going to the weight room for the last year. I previously was nearly at 2 years until a little thing caller a pandemic kicked me out. I find that working out has raised my libido. If she doesn't give it to me, I'll take matters into my own hands or I should say hand.
When I think about the men changing, at least in my case it was from lack of support and emotional exhaustion. Women are extremely emotional and I don't think they understand what type of drain the bombardment of constant emotion and drama causes a man. I think it might be the same way a women feels when a man is also bothering her for sex, just the other side of the coin. I think the change women often see in a man is from constantly being emotionally drained from dealing with the relationship. So I think you end up with back and forth cycle between the two. Men trying to connect with physical intimacy that the women can't handle and the women trying to connect emotionally to the man which he cannot handle.
i think women have forgotten how to treat a man so he feels like a king as much as he has forgotten how to treat a woman as a godess/queen/princess. how we get back to that who knows but it not about men just going back to dating your wife or loosing a few pounds.
I cannot imagine a dude with a six pack not getting some from his wife. I think the majority of guys let themselves go.
Possibly, but in general, women are NOT stimulated visually.
Hi, a Muslim here! We Muslims love sex and lovemaking. It just has to be a specific realm.
Men have to have sex, women is optional. Therefore women want to get paid for sex. It's amazing how emotionally driven women can get at an expensive restaurant the man is paying for.
Yes it is!
The main reason women dry up on a man is he was only a wallet and she gave the kitty to secure you. Once she’s secured the bag she don’t feel like giving out because she wasn’t really into you.
She’s hot and heavy for the douchebag though anytime.
It’s a simple dynamic if she’s into you or not ( and yea to an extent you’re upkeep ). It all comes down to primal instincts and drive. Things you can’t negotiate as you either have it or you don’t. Point being getting with a woman 1-2 notches down from you so she can look up to you. Never ever go for women out of your league
You are speaking of deceitful women. My video is about relational women. Different topic.
You forgot the kids….. some women want the wallet, the lifestyle and the kids….
Once those requirements have been met then it’s sayonara to sex….we’re a bother at that point.
This is a two way street
when women get what they want sex drops off and then when kids come its all gone.
They are great actresses
The key words. Your wife
Do you agree that the Beauty and the Beast thing going on as well? In the beginning, we were the beast that she had to tame. Now, after a wedding and kids, she has domesticated us, the game is over. I know that I have to stop acting like a pussy and be a man.
Here’s a tip. Instead of blaming men how about looking in the mirror.
Why? Because people were never meant to be monogamous. Both sexes eventually lose interest in each other because that's how nature designed relationship dynamics between men and women. Moreover, add cohabitation, financial entanglements, child rearing, etc, to the relationship orbit....and well, I'm sure you get the big picture. It's not rocket science. Relationships shouldn't be akin to solving a mathematical equation, or require a boatload of effort. Move on.
It could be that online dating has created unrealistic expectations. Actually before that there was Great Expectations dating service. They should have called it Modest Expectations.
PERFECT SOCIETY = 10 women ( young attractive ) to 1 man !
Great reason to never get married
She wants someone else(her fantasy).
Women who don't like sex are prized????? That ain't the reason.
And another thing. This is not about sexual desire as a couple ages. But I want to say this because my wife and I are trying to mentor our adult daughters about their respective life challenges. And you may want to make a video about this issue. My daughter and my wife’s daughter are the primary bread winner’s in their respective families. My son-in-law is pretty OK with it. He is pretty much a stay-at-home Dad, and that has tremendous advantages for their three boys. But my step daughter and her husband have issues that are under the surface, mostly. Both have high level corporate jobs but she out earns him by one and a half time and has too hide the amount of her bonuses as long as she can because he sulks. What advice can you give to young mid-career women about dealing with her man’s bruised ego?
They are in a fight against statistics. Sorry to hear that, hope it all turns out for the better.
My wife’s libido too the first train for the coast, the day the music died…(but wasn’t the music that died)
Not married never will be in the US, but I thought it might be the antidepressants or the anxiety medication, or a half dozen other variety of instability pills western women chew on like tic tats. Very few western women that I've interacted with didn't have a bottle of "I'll be okay in a minute" I've lived oversea for some years now and found that not to be the case with the women I've been involved with outside the US.
Interesting, never thought about that aspect.What is it, something like 30% of American women are on some form of antidepressants? 🤔
@@noahbrown43884388 Not sure of the number many have been bounced about but if you add anxiety meds well it's over 30%
Just curious, so do you think women from outside the U.S. wold make better wives and if so, what culture would be the best?
@@naturalobserver1322 Well I dated in Vietnam, Malaysia and the Philippines, Malaysia women first then women of the Philippines but all three are preferred over western women
@@CornellSandifer thanks for the info. 👍
Reasons why both marriage and religion are in a steady decline.
Hi… Thank you for your posts. They are very instructive. In this post, 3 out of 4 points are consequences of either men’s or society. This could well be true. I am not trying to be difficult. My question is, shouldn’t a mature (adult) woman who desires her relationship to her boyfriend, fiancée or husband to work, take some responsibility as well? My own experience tells me that living together is very difficult on a good day. However, one thing that is rarely mentioned in order to achieve success, is maturity or simply: “The willingness to make things work”. I did not say force nor impose anything on anyone. But being willing to make a conscious daily efforts to do what must be done to protect that relationship. Love is not something one finds, but something one builds. And this is very difficult. There will be times of boredom in a relationship. Kids will drive you up the wall on a good day. Work or career changes will be very stressful. One’s health can decline for whatever reason, and take time to recover fully. All these are challenging realities. Yes, seeing and accepting a partner’s flaws too is part of conjugal life. However and in the main, you are ABSOLUTELY right. One must always strive to do and be our VERY best CONTINUOUSLY for our partner.
Buyers remorse after the fact. Maybe she prefers the streets.
She probably doesn't, but why did she lose interest in you?
@@schahrzadmorgan Idk. I was never denied sex. Maybe she just lost attraction. Outside pressure. Friends, family, potential crushes, i was never not a happy idiot. Its who she married,its who she divorced. I was always completely in the dark. If it wasnt my business,i didnt make it my business. No greener grass, none of that bullshit. Roughneck life,work,home,Beer,and food. I hear she locks herself in her room now. The " House" her most prized possession. Her new husband for the past 10 years is quite the voyuer exhibitionist. Anyway i consider her an act of charity. Took her away from an oppressive family and gave her place of her own. Dont get married,its not worth it. Chances are your marrying a petulent trend. Caterpillar eyelashes included.
Don’t be shy about turning on the volume.
One reason she could be less interested in you is because she is cheating on you
Hello S Morgan….thank you for your advice I was curious do you take HRT
Some repression is a good thing. We don't need "to let it all hang out." In this overly permissive society, repression is a virtue.
In our mid fifties, my wife and I both had testosterone therapy. Wow, for a few years we got it on every chance we got.
Why put all that effort back into a relationship when you've already done the hard work?
Would be better to put that effort into someone more appreciative, plus get the hot, possibly better sex with someone younger and less emotionally broken.
Yep its almost 3 months to the day then it's a chore to get any ....seen it several times .....focus on being no flap ....give
It a back shelf ....focus on other stuff that brings u joy....u will be better off for it
No.1 BOREDOM
No.2 BOREDOM
No.3 BOREDOM
She lost desire because men and women are not meant to be together for too long.
I'll transfer you to Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, rich cooper, on the subjects of men and women dynamics in modern society
She got what she wanted...........a mug to pay for her existence?
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Has anyone attempted to ban missionary? This clip prompts me to propose a missionary ban with my man - ha ha, 😉 I'll update!
Just find someone who can keep up with you.
The good information in this video is falling on deaf ears in this thread. Sad. This is really good info. Ignore it at your own peril.
Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows.
Maybe the good information in the comments is falling on your deaf ears. It isn’t just one or two disgruntled misfits. If it’s what 90 something percent of guys are saying, maybe there is something to it and maybe it is YOU who have missed something.
I feel the reason for that is men totally forget about impressing women which they were doing early
Constantly having to impress someone is bloody hard work. What do women have to do in return? F...all.
We as humans get bored fn the same person after a while which is why marriage is a bad idea stay single and bang anybody u want when u get bored
@@RS-xo7rdyes
Stupid. Cold. No talk of Love.
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I agree with your 3 reasons but a bigger factor may just be biology. Basically everyone is much less horny when they are not fertile. The need for emotional connection can be expressed in different ways, sometimes sexually but other times not.
Men who want to be married to one woman will just have to come to terms with the fact that a woman's biology changes a decade and a half earlier than the men. The husbands may still be awesome but disappointed. Your wife isn't less interested in you, she is just less interested. The good news is you will get there too.
That’s where the giving part comes in. Men have less of a need for emotional stimulation than women do. But men are still expected to meet that need for her even if they don’t feel it themselves
A sexless marriage is not a marriage, and ignoring a husband’s need for physical connection is no more acceptable than a husband ignoring his wife’s need for emotional connection.
This selfishness is why relationships fail. It’s “what can I get”, rather than “what can I give?
@@kellygreenii Everything you say is correct but it sounds like a review of a movie I am not going to enjoy watching so should just give it a pass. Good luck.
@@jaytan915 Whole world needs to change so you can stay the same?
@@kellygreenii No, just you do you and I do me.
@@jaytan915 I am doing me….
#1 - GOD FORGOT TO GIVE WOMEN A SEX DRIVE.
4. You have a small 🥕
What about statistics about women with a lot of sexual partners and their bounding capabilities? Please look on the whole picture and not only on "cultural oppression". But meanwhile not a lot of guys really care about relationship with "modern," women, so good luck
Husband and Wife need to work out together and work as a team: weight lifting or exercise bike moving the legs that keeps the heart pumping.
They need to keep things simple: eat together, pray together, sit together without any pets or children as a distraction.
Both need Nitric oxide in their diet.
You give some good advice, and all these comments are angry Red Pill people - weird!
another common part of some women’s restricted sexual expression is the idea that it is their duty to “give” sex to their partner even though they may not enjoy it. this sends the message to sone
incompetent traditional men that they don’t have to try.
this is more of a traditional mindset that you see in older couples . they never had a real exciting intimate relationship . they just married and went through the traditional motions to be socially accepted and be married. she is not that attracted to him sexually now because she never was…..and he can’t see that she does not desire him because there is no reason why she should.
this is where the wife meets a more modern intuitive man and starts thinking about cheating instead of addressing the problem with her husband.
commitment between a couple is important but tolerance for unhappiness should have a limit.
you can’t just forget or ignore many years of thoughtless
neglect .sometimes it’s just too late. sometimes there has just been to much stored up emotional pain.
Yes, I agree with you. You get it. Some of the other comments on this video from men have me shaking my head - the woman haters out there will never get it.
He married a wife, not a hore
@@schahrzadmorgan You have to ask yourself an honest question though: "Why do these "women haters" feel the way they do? Men are naturally attracted to women. Why would so many men be turning their backs on women and relationships?
Have you actually read the comments you're referring to? The horror stories that these men have been through, trying to make a woman happy and/or keep her satisfied? Have you considered many of these men are just tired of jumping through hoops and getting little-to-nothing in return?
All I'm saying is: A young man's libido is out of this world. As a woman, you will never truly understand how strong the desire is, and how much it controls your thoughts throughout the day. For a man to choose to ignore that base desire, takes a lot of heartbreak and trauma. We would never choose to avoid women just for the heck of it.
But of course, it's always the man's fault. We just need to "man up" and keep take abuse, I guess🙄
Just three?
When a couple first man it could have been years or decades ago when you're a lot younger more attractive and more appealing and also the clothing and Fashions they were at the time also made them attractive as well like during the '70s or '80s or '90s since then as time goes by people age times change fashion change what was a really a decade ago is no longer appealing today when did 2000s Roll Along and beyond that people have now have put on tattoos and piercings and it's so visible everybody can see it and what was appealing decades ago now they are no longer appealing and that's one of the reasons why relationships don't usually last and especially those who lived in those decades ago and change tragically is a constant and does not always go for the better and some of us have a very difficult time adjusting to that reality and we like things to be attractive continuously unless that is litigated it's only a matter of time before a relationship could come to an end
Get a new better model.
It's the same with men.