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There is one about how fathers can parent there children , you had to pay for it on a different UA-cam channel, is this above board? or is this a scammer?
I haven’t heard of a single company that will evaluate their leadership’s health. I have always worked in places where the leaders are always protected and HR will always save them and kick out everyone who doesn’t agree with them. Every single place was like that. It’s beyond discouraging and disgusting.
The abuse causes the most talented staff to abandon ship, and eventually the leader will tank the whole department through lack of truth telling and loss of talent.
I experienced it and it was not pleasant. It did not help the company I worked for and liked working for was sold to entitled brats that inherited their grand parents company before they bought the one I worked for. It was non stop disrespect. Upside I know they will loose it all in time and leave their next generation with nothing. The world does not operate as many were taught to believe. No worries for me as my life is flourishing with little to nothing as I value people not money.
Whilst this is absolutely true, from what I have experienced from a narcissistic partner who has been riddled with this complain his entire working life, it’s mirror of how he treats those he claims to love. I’m not saying that is how it is in every situation but it most definitely is, in his. He gets treated poorly because he doesn’t understand boundaries in anyway, then complains and moans after betraying, cheating, lying, deceiving etc etc. very unhealthy behaviours with myself and our children. He gets to put in a grievance against them, I don’t get to claim the same justice in how and what he has done to me and my children.
This is exactly what happened at the company I walked away from, after 7 years work. I was the first one to ragequit that company. 5 years later I heard the exact same thing "all the good and talented guys, either quit the job with a severe burnout or they abandonned the sinking ship to better companies." That was an old coworker wich I encountered at the streets. He was sitting at a clinic for alcoholics, 2 years after he also quit the job with workrelated burnout and alcoholism. I think my angry departure from this narcissistic company made a huge impression on some guys. Other guys simply didn't know or didn't dare to quit. Some even joined the narcissists boss's side. I can only hope it opened their eyes and motivate them to also leave that narcissistic company.
This literally happened where I was at. Many talented people came and now there's only one left who acts just like the leader. It's sad to watch such potential get wasted like that.
I truely asked God for over 20 plus years everyday "When will people wake up?" Same answer everyday "The bigger they get the harder they fall" I stopped asking as I started to see both happening. We are at a time of major changes for humanity to take away from the few to allow the many to thrive not survive. God will not be mocked and the truth is coming out everywhere you look. No one can hide from God and that will be proven. Best to all healing and learning in preparation for a new way of living.
I’ve just been fired by someone who’s done exactly this for the past 8 weeks in a new job. Genuinely I was suicidal the last two weeks and didn’t realise what was being done to me actually had a name! Best explanation of this character. Thank you 🙏🏼 ❤
Your two part description of narcissism both individual and collective systems is phenomenal. My masters degree (small M) lacked education on this I think because we were in a group of some Narcisstic professors. Your presentation uses common everyday words with common sense. As a child I had a preoccupation with the the little Red Riding Hood Story as a foreshadowing of my studies to come. Very calm presentation of a harsh truth. Thank you so much. Awesome job and understanding of a harsh reality. World wide global scale SHAME. I get it.
Are there any churches without this kind of leadership? I'm exhausted with churches. It would be so great for cptsd to have some help finding healthy churches.
It would be nice if you explained how to communicate and collaborate with this type of leaders in the way to stay emotionally and mentally intact. Not everyone can just quit an organisation, especially if they have a rather rare profession and work in a relatively small town. Thank you for your work. I appreciate it. It helps to navigate through difficult times especially when there's very few people to talk to..
I lost my last corporate job because of someone like this. He tried to control me through intimidation and he was successful for some time because i obviously needed that job, until i started to go against him and even complained about him to HR and other managers. I asked to move to another department because i couldn't even explain myself to him with his constant accusations and manipulation. Then he started to go after me because of my complaint. No one backed me up. He had this "power" that everyone was afraid of him and no one went against him.I got fired in the end. I filled a lawsuit for discrimination.. still going on.
@@lee5802 Well, if you mean each and every god in the scriptures is not a narcissist in disguise, offering hope in ignorance while turning a blind eye to the atrocities of slavery at a time when up to a third of the population was enslaved in some places, then I'd love to hear from you. I'm not here to defend myself but to learn and expand knowledge together.
@@lee5802 To know who controls someone, look at who they will never criticize. In our case it's the enslavers themselves. And, if you haven't realized it yet, slavery never really went away. It just advanced into free-range wage slavery after industrialization made the old system of slavery obsolete.
Here we are , after the election . I find myself in deep fear about what will be done to the vulnerable people in our nation . I am not in one of those populations but I will stand up for them .
The world is ashamed of their sins, how they killed Jesus and how they put faith in anything but the Son of God to this very day. Many are descendants of the angels cast out of Heaven , others just remnants of parents who taught them the narcissistic lifestyle. I broke the mold in my family but not without a lot of wounds getting out of it. Thank you. You get narcissism, little n.
30:45 growth and innovation… the USA machine. This is how the USA projects and promotes itself. American exceptionalism, as if there’s no innovation and development anywhere else in the world, as if no other system besides the American one can be innovative.
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There is one about how fathers can parent there children , you had to pay for it on a different UA-cam channel, is this above board? or is this a scammer?
This is a crucial topic for Christians to understand. So many pastors are narcissistic.
I haven’t heard of a single company that will evaluate their leadership’s health. I have always worked in places where the leaders are always protected and HR will always save them and kick out everyone who doesn’t agree with them. Every single place was like that. It’s beyond discouraging and disgusting.
In 40 years of working, I now realize that I seldom worked in a healthy environment. I wish that I would have had all of this information years ago.
I took demotions and "expulsions" very personally when it had to do with politics I would not comply with and really nothing actually bad about me.
The abuse causes the most talented staff to abandon ship, and eventually the leader will tank the whole department through lack of truth telling and loss of talent.
I experienced it and it was not pleasant. It did not help the company I worked for and liked working for was sold to entitled brats that inherited their grand parents company before they bought the one I worked for. It was non stop disrespect. Upside I know they will loose it all in time and leave their next generation with nothing. The world does not operate as many were taught to believe. No worries for me as my life is flourishing with little to nothing as I value people not money.
Whilst this is absolutely true, from what I have experienced from a narcissistic partner who has been riddled with this complain his entire working life, it’s mirror of how he treats those he claims to love. I’m not saying that is how it is in every situation but it most definitely is, in his. He gets treated poorly because he doesn’t understand boundaries in anyway, then complains and moans after betraying, cheating, lying, deceiving etc etc. very unhealthy behaviours with myself and our children. He gets to put in a grievance against them, I don’t get to claim the same justice in how and what he has done to me and my children.
This is exactly what happened at the company I walked away from, after 7 years work. I was the first one to ragequit that company. 5 years later I heard the exact same thing "all the good and talented guys, either quit the job with a severe burnout or they abandonned the sinking ship to better companies." That was an old coworker wich I encountered at the streets. He was sitting at a clinic for alcoholics, 2 years after he also quit the job with workrelated burnout and alcoholism.
I think my angry departure from this narcissistic company made a huge impression on some guys. Other guys simply didn't know or didn't dare to quit. Some even joined the narcissists boss's side. I can only hope it opened their eyes and motivate them to also leave that narcissistic company.
This literally happened where I was at. Many talented people came and now there's only one left who acts just like the leader. It's sad to watch such potential get wasted like that.
I truely asked God for over 20 plus years everyday "When will people wake up?" Same answer everyday "The bigger they get the harder they fall" I stopped asking as I started to see both happening. We are at a time of major changes for humanity to take away from the few to allow the many to thrive not survive. God will not be mocked and the truth is coming out everywhere you look. No one can hide from God and that will be proven. Best to all healing and learning in preparation for a new way of living.
I’ve just been fired by someone who’s done exactly this for the past 8 weeks in a new job. Genuinely I was suicidal the last two weeks and didn’t realise what was being done to me actually had a name! Best explanation of this character. Thank you 🙏🏼 ❤
You’ve just described Corporate America, the Western Political Class, elites, Globalists, most religious organizations… and my ex-husband.
It's world wide!
I love this topic! I want to help create a world with good leaders who don't have a core wound of shame.
Your two part description of narcissism both individual and collective systems is phenomenal. My masters degree (small M) lacked education on this I think because we were in a group of some Narcisstic professors. Your presentation uses common everyday words with common sense. As a child I had a preoccupation with the the little Red Riding Hood Story as a foreshadowing of my studies to come. Very calm presentation of a harsh truth. Thank you so much. Awesome job and understanding of a harsh reality. World wide global scale SHAME. I get it.
You've just described my former workplace, Amazon Web Services, to a T. A nest of narcissists.
Are there any churches without this kind of leadership? I'm exhausted with churches. It would be so great for cptsd to have some help finding healthy churches.
Maybe Baha’i?
The ambiguous part. It happened to me, and it was awful. My life ended up in shambles working under that leadership.
This is so revealing, thank you for your observations. Helps me understand my brother.
It would be nice if you explained how to communicate and collaborate with this type of leaders in the way to stay emotionally and mentally intact. Not everyone can just quit an organisation, especially if they have a rather rare profession and work in a relatively small town. Thank you for your work. I appreciate it. It helps to navigate through difficult times especially when there's very few people to talk to..
You’ve just described neocolonialism, the alphabet agencies, and Hollywood.
And the “west”
I lost my last corporate job because of someone like this. He tried to control me through intimidation and he was successful for some time because i obviously needed that job, until i started to go against him and even complained about him to HR and other managers. I asked to move to another department because i couldn't even explain myself to him with his constant accusations and manipulation. Then he started to go after me because of my complaint. No one backed me up. He had this "power" that everyone was afraid of him and no one went against him.I got fired in the end. I filled a lawsuit for discrimination.. still going on.
I hope you win the lawsuit.
For the entirety of the video, I am reminded of my prior boss.
The most popular form of narcissistic leadership is religion though. Religion normalizes glorification of narcissism.
One of the most popular. It’s a tool of Imperialism. I hear him describing neocolonial governments.
They're coacroaches down to anything to gain power ! From spiritual abuse to intellectual and emotional abuse etc.
Or you’ve had a very negative experience that’s coloring your view. That’s a very blanket statement
@@lee5802 Well, if you mean each and every god in the scriptures is not a narcissist in disguise, offering hope in ignorance while turning a blind eye to the atrocities of slavery at a time when up to a third of the population was enslaved in some places, then I'd love to hear from you. I'm not here to defend myself but to learn and expand knowledge together.
@@lee5802 To know who controls someone, look at who they will never criticize. In our case it's the enslavers themselves. And, if you haven't realized it yet, slavery never really went away. It just advanced into free-range wage slavery after industrialization made the old system of slavery obsolete.
Another powerful study
You describe my former boss to a tee. I did end up leaving, but really should have left sooner.
Thank you again. Helpful
Here we are , after the election . I find myself in deep fear about what will be done to the vulnerable people in our nation . I am not in one of those populations but I will stand up for them .
Bingo u win the jackpot
The world is ashamed of their sins, how they killed Jesus and how they put faith in anything but the Son of God to this very day. Many are descendants of the angels cast out of Heaven , others just remnants of parents who taught them the narcissistic lifestyle. I broke the mold in my family but not without a lot of wounds getting out of it. Thank you. You get narcissism, little n.
Thank you 🌻
30:45 growth and innovation… the USA machine. This is how the USA projects and promotes itself. American exceptionalism, as if there’s no innovation and development anywhere else in the world, as if no other system besides the American one can be innovative.
Stop killing natives!
You’ve described the WHO and the response to covid by the western political class.
So.. 3/4 of all orgs out there?
DIIFFICULT
businesses, obiden
Joe Biden and Donald Trump come to mind.
I'm atheist.
For the entirety of the video, I am reminded of my prior boss.