"Why Are You Advising Men To Talk To Single Mothers?

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  • @garyaveryii995
    @garyaveryii995 13 днів тому +302

    I hate when people use animal metaphors and don't even understand the animal they're talking about. In the wild lions, don't raise other lion's cubs. They kill them off.

  • @unclericky5850
    @unclericky5850 13 днів тому +190

    It’s ALWAYS “fatherless men” or step daddy raised men that cosign men raising another man’s DNA….

    • @ftwnoobbuster
      @ftwnoobbuster 13 днів тому +25

      Freaking facts and then they think single men like us are gonna take anything they say seriously like I want to sign up for that bs. Smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @FaithandPurpose828
      @FaithandPurpose828 13 днів тому +13

      Yeah, Simps.

    • @mongoslade6170
      @mongoslade6170 13 днів тому +9

      Thank you. It had to be said. The one that said it is hurt and lost by losing his dad. His mother taught him that. TOP SIMP

    • @joelbreezy3116
      @joelbreezy3116 13 днів тому +4

      By default, you WILL be last
      Which for some men isn't a problem if he has his grind going on. The issue comes in when... You are the last...but your WALLET is the first. The two don't mix

    • @mman6283
      @mman6283 13 днів тому +3

      @@unclericky5850 you are absolutely correct men with no backbone raised by either just the mother or a backboneless man

  • @Hideyourjewelry
    @Hideyourjewelry 13 днів тому +255

    “ Being a Stepfather is a Thankless Job.” - KS

    • @NODE1975
      @NODE1975 13 днів тому +2

      I know many stepfather who are getting treated like kings by their step kids while the bio-dads are alone

    • @curtbuckmire9194
      @curtbuckmire9194 13 днів тому

      @@NODE1975 Please stop. Your antidotal evidence does not override the majority of men who are being used for as an ATM.

    • @dhorved9562
      @dhorved9562 13 днів тому +18

      And it is interesting that the 6'5" dude just proved the exact same point to your comment. His mother married some other guy, but did not take guidance from him. And that came out of his mouth. Being a stepfather is a thankless job.

    • @keiththomas3422
      @keiththomas3422 13 днів тому

      @@NODE1975 Not the norm. Only SIMPS raise another man's child!

    • @nottodayimbusy7146
      @nottodayimbusy7146 13 днів тому +5

      I love my step father even though I call him Dad I tell him all the time he's my hero and the best guy I know, but yeah most of the time it's not like this it's the complete opposite

  • @____-hl6eh
    @____-hl6eh 13 днів тому +69

    You can't convince a 304 that she is a 304,
    You can't convince a SIMP that he is a SIMP.

    • @AlsoKnownAsP
      @AlsoKnownAsP 12 днів тому +1

      Facts 💯

    • @jinkazama2555
      @jinkazama2555 4 дні тому

      simps can change, but 304 is a 304

    • @Loveispainj
      @Loveispainj 3 дні тому

      I think you actually have a better chance with a simp..their simps that willing opt out to simpin and trickin

  • @beyallluv
    @beyallluv 13 днів тому +185

    At this point its pointless to have this convo with ninjas. Its a loop of stupidity.

    • @whiteranger79
      @whiteranger79 13 днів тому +18

      They need to experience getting cheated on by the kids father/ kids don’t listen/ mother control your power

    • @MegaJune08
      @MegaJune08 13 днів тому +7

      I’m feeling that !

    • @floydmir9709
      @floydmir9709 13 днів тому +12

      It’s not pointless. Hopefully a young man can get this game before it’s too late

    • @johnw.3636
      @johnw.3636 13 днів тому +10

      Yup. They're not listening to understand. They're listening to argue.

  • @bigbknyc
    @bigbknyc 13 днів тому +132

    There’s a lot of these simps Larping as red pill content creators

    • @JaiOva
      @JaiOva 13 днів тому +12

      An those two dudes seem like the chameleons

    • @DamienKross20
      @DamienKross20 13 днів тому +21

      Dude on the end with the locks is a pandering simp

    • @ytvill8120
      @ytvill8120 10 днів тому

      @@DamienKross20

  • @bashirjohnson4120
    @bashirjohnson4120 13 днів тому +137

    WOW!? the " pander " is strong within this simp

    • @dmv_larry_b
      @dmv_larry_b 13 днів тому +10

      Ok a little Star Wars reference but facts 😂

    • @Weshoppingforless
      @Weshoppingforless 13 днів тому +2

      😂😂😂facts

    • @DamienKross20
      @DamienKross20 13 днів тому +5

      Yea it is. Smh both of them had stepfathers & it sounds like the guy in black didn’t even like his so he’s actually proving why you don’t do it smh

    • @FaithandPurpose828
      @FaithandPurpose828 13 днів тому +5

      6'5" Lamont Sanford-Dummy.

    • @kms4124
      @kms4124 13 днів тому +1

      Keeping it 100....
      He not only does he sound like the problem he also sounds like a contributor to it.

  • @Mike-dz3fi
    @Mike-dz3fi 13 днів тому +63

    Using lions as an example didn't make sense. Lions don't raise other lion's cubs. If a lion takes over a pride from another lion the cubs are either cast out or unalived by the new leader.

    • @TheDarkNinja7
      @TheDarkNinja7 13 днів тому +13

      Thank you, I was thinking the same thing!

    • @HTTC4life1981
      @HTTC4life1981 13 днів тому +14

      And if u not a alpha lion u won't even get to procreate with the lioness 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @Mike-dz3fi
      @Mike-dz3fi 13 днів тому +3

      @@HTTC4life1981 Facts

    • @promotechs2540
      @promotechs2540 13 днів тому +2

      @@HTTC4life1981well there is usually 1 lion to a pride or at most 2 or 3 who are brothers that will mate with the females by the time any other male reached sexual maturity they are cast out to find their own pride

  • @3ShadesBlack5
    @3ShadesBlack5 13 днів тому +78

    Only Simps and dudes that need father validation will sign their names on Step Daddy Applications

  • @mnickiel09
    @mnickiel09 13 днів тому +77

    _Fellas, If You're In A Place Where It's Only Women That Are Applauding And Clapping For You, You Should Rethinking Everything_It's Because You Feeding Their Ego And Validation_

    • @altonmcleod2204
      @altonmcleod2204 12 днів тому +1

      It’s to late for him the indoctrination is complete he must then unlearn what he has learned

  • @clockehvac1240
    @clockehvac1240 13 днів тому +191

    No single mothers period. I ain't bout to drain my DAMN pockets

    • @joannwilson9097
      @joannwilson9097 13 днів тому +5

      Did anyone asked you to spend anything 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @beautifulsoul6535
      @beautifulsoul6535 13 днів тому

      Y'all do not have the money to drain. The delusion of men is insane. Most women don't need you and the ones your mad you can't afford. Y'all are killing me

    • @cptstratboss8561
      @cptstratboss8561 13 днів тому

      @@joannwilson9097fucc awf we don’t want used cars. Or someone else’s saved game. Newshit only

    • @jinmori918
      @jinmori918 13 днів тому +22

      @@joannwilson9097 you must be a single mother

    • @Jaymoe-lh6rl
      @Jaymoe-lh6rl 13 днів тому

      ​@joannwilson9097 Single moms ask men every day for resources in America..
      Especially single BW with kids..
      What you been living under a rock? 🤔

  • @VERITASnpg
    @VERITASnpg 13 днів тому +49

    The lion metaphor doesn’t work because when the new lion gets the lioness all her previous cubs get killed

  • @NaijaBoiTellEm
    @NaijaBoiTellEm 13 днів тому +78

    Call me a weak man: I'll never be involved with a single mom.

    • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
      @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 13 днів тому +11

      It’s shaming language.

    • @joannwilson9097
      @joannwilson9097 13 днів тому +5

      As a single mother myself of one kid I'm not appalled or offended guys with no kids she find a woman with no kids and create their own legacy sometimes that's not always the case

    • @cptstratboss8561
      @cptstratboss8561 13 днів тому +4

      @@joannwilson9097if you only you wasn’t a used woman you’d be A ok but you’ve been used so unapologetically peace ✌🏿

    • @AhmadWatkins
      @AhmadWatkins 13 днів тому +3

      Facts!!!

    • @yawaydatruth6595
      @yawaydatruth6595 12 днів тому +2

      Listen don’t do it

  • @gregorynorth436
    @gregorynorth436 13 днів тому +131

    Say no too single mother's 🫵🏾🤦🏾‍♂️💯

    • @joannwilson9097
      @joannwilson9097 13 днів тому +4

      Also say no to single dad's too for the childless women just have fun and don't get serious

    • @FaithandPurpose828
      @FaithandPurpose828 13 днів тому +12

      @@joannwilson9097 keep your legs closed and say no until you are married. That solves all the single parent problems.

    • @keiththomas3422
      @keiththomas3422 13 днів тому +10

      @@joannwilson9097 I rarely meet a Black woman with no children.

    • @mman6283
      @mman6283 13 днів тому

      @@joannwilson9097 you don’t see single fathers going on the Internet, crying about all of their issues, whining about how the woman wants them, begging the Internet for attention and a woman to help take care of their children so here goes number two where you’re all in your feelings, I bet you have your phone in your hand while you’re children are running a muck take care of your children. Get off the Internet go find a simpleton to take care of your kids with you. The fact of the matter is single fathers don’t ask women for help goofy a single father is not going to ask you to house them feed them. pay their bills or babysitter when you go out to eat… stop it you better woman, old azz lady… messing with a man who has children is not going to affect you very much at all, but a man dealing with a woman like you is going to be a massive burden on his pockets and his sanity… I guarantee you will be single in your 50s like you are single now

    • @mman6283
      @mman6283 13 днів тому

      @@keiththomas3422 here’s a bitter single mother trying to do comparison… talking about women without children don’t get serious. Like does that even matter all you’re telling me is you did not get serious until after you had children well it’s too late old ass lady.😂

  • @brocks1810
    @brocks1810 13 днів тому +90

    Dude is a Simp
    💯
    No matter what happens that will never be your child

    • @mondomondo9138
      @mondomondo9138 13 днів тому +6

      He a Step Dad and Tring to make it ok its not

    • @AfroGlobal
      @AfroGlobal 13 днів тому +2

      The dude in the glasses is one.

    • @brocks1810
      @brocks1810 13 днів тому +3

      @@mondomondo9138I agree 💯

    • @joannwilson9097
      @joannwilson9097 13 днів тому +6

      There are plenty of CHILDLESS women out here so take your pick and create your own legacy

    • @WarlockX4
      @WarlockX4 13 днів тому

      ​@@joannwilson9097 you like trolling the comments section with your verbal diarrhea? It's pathetic.

  • @Napptrully_Beautiful
    @Napptrully_Beautiful 13 днів тому +137

    No one is listening to him bc they feel attacked. When you feel attacked thats when you need to listen more than speaking.

    • @akjr927
      @akjr927 13 днів тому +16

      So True, unfortunately some will never listen to understand. It's the need to be correct..

    • @ejakaegypt
      @ejakaegypt 3 дні тому

      Doesn’t matter how the message is relayed.

  • @narclem
    @narclem 13 днів тому +39

    These guys are responding to Anton in a very feminine manner. Responding to how his statements make them feel as opposed to the substance of the statements.

    • @jordanhead2023
      @jordanhead2023 11 днів тому +2

      Bruh shit is sickening how they think 😂

  • @killaextacy15
    @killaextacy15 13 днів тому +81

    Every time Anton said anything everyone else would immediately have their own individual slick thing to say 😂

    • @Ravenfanatic5
      @Ravenfanatic5 13 днів тому +16

      Cuz Anton stands on business

    • @raisinbrand3663
      @raisinbrand3663 12 днів тому +2

      That little
      Romeo looog dude is a simp , yo the stats are there and they still won’t admit when they’re wrong

    • @CeeWorld69
      @CeeWorld69 3 дні тому +1

      Of course, NO emotional control!

  • @TheCheshier88
    @TheCheshier88 13 днів тому +46

    No matter how they try to spin it There is no upside to dating a single mother when there are single single childless women out there.

  • @RogueSpartanB292
    @RogueSpartanB292 13 днів тому +71

    Anton constantly spits facts

  • @mondomondo9138
    @mondomondo9138 13 днів тому +43

    My Boy Saying that Because he is a Step Dad and he Trying to Justify Why a man should be a Step Dad no man should Be a Step Dad

  • @Dre_aka_sleepysandman
    @Dre_aka_sleepysandman 13 днів тому +32

    Can we just hit the reset button. I'm so tired of these mislead men. It's no hard to figure this stuff out.

  • @metoo7557
    @metoo7557 13 днів тому +16

    Accepting a single mother is accepting responsibility for someone else's poor life choices.
    99% of single mothers chose their wants over the content of their partner's character.
    If they were actually mother material they wouldn't be single mothers.

  • @jamescarter8662
    @jamescarter8662 13 днів тому +37

    As a man who was the child of a single mom but raised by my maternal grandparents, I truly agree with Anton. Being a stepfather used to be an honorable and respected position. No longer. Because single moms continue to make horrible decisions! Be honest. They raise their kids to not be respectful of the stepfather. You not my daddy! Is engrained into these children. My grandfather was very authoritarian when necessary. Instilled so many positive principles into me. He was a marine who served in WW2 to give you an idea of what kind of man he was.

    • @sidneyhill7064
      @sidneyhill7064 13 днів тому +4

      Facts bro and that disrespectful single mom who most likely is and will trained those kids to disrespect step-dad will eventually run and possibly ruin that men in some many way.

    • @demond1818
      @demond1818 13 днів тому +2

      ​@sidneyhill7064 Exactly!! Women used to respect a man taking on that responsibility. The problem is that we now have so many single moms that they just look at it as something a man is supposed to do.

  • @OkayJayy_
    @OkayJayy_ 13 днів тому +27

    The women should be held accountable more because they’re choosing said men

    • @andyetshestillwasntenough5
      @andyetshestillwasntenough5 12 днів тому +1

      BOTH should be held equally accountable since they BOTH played a role in creating a child. And don’t spew that “women control sex” bs. You’re both in control of your bodies and the choices you make with them BEFORE a child is created.

    • @spooky99
      @spooky99 11 днів тому +1

      ​@andyetshestillwasntenough5 but women control whether or not a child is born. They fought for the right of " my body, my choice", so the ultimate responsibility is with the woman. If she choose trash to sleep with, that makes her trash to has a baby with him.

    • @andyetshestillwasntenough5
      @andyetshestillwasntenough5 11 днів тому

      @@spooky99 As stated in my previous post, both the man and woman have a choice PRIOR to the conception of a child. Women might have the final say in whether or not a child is born, but both the man and woman have the final say in if a child is even created in the first place. I agree that majority of the responsibility of pregnancy is on a woman since she carries the child. But responsibility of preventing pregnancy and the pregnancy itself are not the same. Males will never take accountability for any of their actions so let's not even get into the last part of your statement.

  • @donald061966
    @donald061966 13 днів тому +22

    As you said this is a conversation that needed to be had but not all the panelists were listening because they felt attacked.

  • @ProWhat-xr5lb
    @ProWhat-xr5lb 13 днів тому +22

    Birds and simps, the only one making sense is anton Daniels

  • @real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
    @real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687 13 днів тому +27

    Both dudes with the hair are fools.
    I would never listen to either one about anything in life.
    Dudes trying to sell you on playing stepdad won't be there if you get divorced and put on step-child support.
    Full transparency: I played step-dad and adopted my little girl but my situation is special.
    My ex never asked for child support, alimony, money of any kind or anything after we split.
    She asked if I wanted to stay in her life, and my daughter loved me like dad. She calls me dad, fears my disappointment, loves me, and my ex allows me full parental rights. My situation is special. It's not the normal at all. My ex sacrificed so her daughter would be happy because of pure love. I would do it all over again, but only this one time.
    I DO NOT ADVISE ANY MAN PLAY STEPDAD BECAUSE MOST WOMEN DO NOT SACRIFICE FOR THEIR KIDS LIKE THIS.
    I stand on what I said.

    • @kenyattaali5356
      @kenyattaali5356 13 днів тому +1

      Thank you for sharing this story, and still being honest about how rare the outcome is.

    • @demond1818
      @demond1818 13 днів тому +1

      Exactly!! A lot of women are bitter with the biological father once the relationship ends. A stepfather generally doesn't stand a chance.

  • @dustymcdust825
    @dustymcdust825 13 днів тому +8

    In the black community 18% of the men are responsible for 80% of babies born. Most Pookies have several baby mommas and most Keishas have several baby daddies.

  • @thesteambox856
    @thesteambox856 13 днів тому +17

    These 2 guys paid for by Kendra G.

  • @themasterteacher
    @themasterteacher 13 днів тому +26

    Shout to CNC as well as Anton Daniels in the video.

  • @haroldsmith5084
    @haroldsmith5084 13 днів тому +10

    Male Loins when they take over a pride they kill the cubs of the other Lions, they don’t raise another Lions cubs

  • @JaeFrt
    @JaeFrt 13 днів тому +9

    That Rico guy is a great example of why men need fathers. He literally said if his father was in his life, he would have been sweet/soft! Does Rico not have mirrors in his crib ? Wtf

    • @CoachTikalTV
      @CoachTikalTV 13 днів тому +4

      That’s what I said… Ole Baby Hair Azz Nihh .. Pops would be like get your azz out the mirror and come help me with this yard work.. 4:16 😅

  • @q_p13
    @q_p13 13 днів тому +8

    I watched this clip prior to this post, Anton is the only adult in the room 🤦🏽‍♂️ the other 2 men n 3 women basically come up with every excuse known to humanity to convince male viewers that they should date w/ the intent to marry single mothers, when it’s clearly a terrible idea

  • @sreed8570
    @sreed8570 13 днів тому +7

    People talk all day about single mom this, stepdad that and how women are laying down with the wrong men. But why doe's absolutely no one talk about birth control and the reasons women refuse to use it. From the standpoint of self protection you'd think single women would insist upon it, they always did when I was young and dating.

    • @demond1818
      @demond1818 13 днів тому

      Bruh, I've been saying it must be a conspiracy. Evidently it doesn't work. I can never seem to understand it. Several different options for BC, and some women are still out here having 4 and 5 kids with 4 and 5 men. Plus, it's free. I know birth control has side effects, but the side effects can't be worse than birthing a whole human. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @desmcneil3296
    @desmcneil3296 13 днів тому +5

    “If the man not a lion, why are women still sleeping and having kids with him”? 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @CensorshipVictim
    @CensorshipVictim 13 днів тому +16

    When I met my husband, I was 21 and he was 29. He was just getting out of a relationship with his ex who was a 32 year old single mother of two (by two different guys).
    She was messing around with one of her baby daddies, but my husband couldn't prove it, but my husband kissed another girl at a party and his ex pulled the "I can't forgive you" "I love you, but I'm not in love with you", "but we can still be friends " (he was planning B)
    When we started dating, she basically stalked him. She would show up places we were at in skimpy outfits and bragging about their sexual exploits. She would try and get my husband to leave with her (to prove he would choose her over me) and she would get mad when he didn't.
    When we became official and moved in together, she pulled the, "it's either me or her" ultimatum. My husband told her he chose me. When she demanded to know why.
    He said, "She's younger, doesn't have kids/baby daddies, and hasn't slept with half the city."
    22 years later she's still single and miserable.😂 How do I know, she tried hitting my husband up on Facebook and got blocked.

    • @DarkWRLDGmz
      @DarkWRLDGmz 13 днів тому +6

      Turn up then 🎉

    • @sheldonhollis5258
      @sheldonhollis5258 13 днів тому +1

      1

    • @Ravenfanatic5
      @Ravenfanatic5 13 днів тому

      "Hasn't slept with half the city." Sheeesshhhhh🤣🤣 she belongs to the city when your husband puts it like that. I pray you all have a healthy and long marriage

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man 13 днів тому +8

    Being a stepfather is assumed and never appreciated. I would NEVER recommend it.

  • @chilzone966
    @chilzone966 13 днів тому +4

    It's not about raising a child, it is about authority & respect over & in his house. But the talk is done. Many men have & are moving on. "Passports Up!"

  • @EnemeeXerro
    @EnemeeXerro 13 днів тому +4

    The question they need to ask is: What are single moms accountable for without using men as scapegoats?

  • @cjampack2011
    @cjampack2011 13 днів тому +8

    These dudes are caped up! This is crazy!!!

  • @evertonwood
    @evertonwood 13 днів тому +5

    It irritates my soul when uneducated people misapply concepts to make analogies. SMH

  • @michaelmeux4137
    @michaelmeux4137 13 днів тому +5

    When did they discontinue condoms because no one across clips I've seen act like they know condoms even exist

  • @lawrenceburton4649
    @lawrenceburton4649 13 днів тому +8

    I’m so tired of these type arguments. Dude’s like these not countin Anton are the problem. They show how thirsty cats can be& don’t want things to change because it’s easier for them to get attention from these types of women. Pandering is real

    • @lawrenceburton4649
      @lawrenceburton4649 13 днів тому

      What children are they raising, is the question. All they talk about is dating/f…in.

    • @demond1818
      @demond1818 13 днів тому

      I have to credit Anton. He made a great point a couple of years ago when he said a whole generation is going to have to be sacrificed in order to turn things around.
      In other words, dudes like the two on this panel are going to have to stop dating single mothers, even if they have kids themselves, in order for women to start to get the message. Drastic times call for drastic measures. Even still, it'll never happen

  • @zanieyoung2201
    @zanieyoung2201 13 днів тому +5

    Are they serious? You, as a single mother, don't get to change the father(s) of the child(ren) that you are raising. Now, if the next man decides to help you with said child(ren) (why?) that's his choice. The point is men shouldn't be thinking of single mothers as more than a fling unless they made a child(ren) with her. Why? Because unless he made the child(ren) with you, he's not responsible for the child(ren) you bring into the relationship. There's a reason why the elders tell us to marry before you carry. And any man shouldn't even be thinking of adopting a single mother's child(ren) anyway! It's against male nature!

  • @risingphoenix1484
    @risingphoenix1484 13 днів тому +7

    Anton is the only one talking sense..... and this is why BP are the worst parents.

    • @demond1818
      @demond1818 13 днів тому

      Correction: Look up that study by the CDC about black men being the most involved fathers. And if black fathers are the most involved out of any racial group, who really are the bad parents in the black community? 🤔

  • @marcasino3117
    @marcasino3117 13 днів тому +3

    Rico obviously speaking from a place of trauma. The data says children living with stepfathers are twice as likely to be victims of abuse.

  • @Dru2maBoii
    @Dru2maBoii 13 днів тому +4

    Believing that it's everyone's job to save a woman from her bad choices is crazy. When you do that, they don't learn. Therefore, they won't stop making them. This is what we teach children. Which is why fatherless homes don't do well, because the mothers live like the children too.

    • @andyetshestillwasntenough5
      @andyetshestillwasntenough5 12 днів тому +1

      Should the mothers instead live like fathers and simply abandon their kids and act as if they don’t exist?

  • @no.1spidey-fan182
    @no.1spidey-fan182 13 днів тому +5

    I literally just saw this vid in my recommends. You should cover the rest of the vid, Anton was COOKING...but these people are soooo caught up in "me Me ME" that they can't see the COLLECTIVE or the WHOLE😐😑😒

  • @NFERNO100
    @NFERNO100 13 днів тому +3

    It always amazes me how it's the people with kids who are always telling people without kids that they should have no problem raising other people's kids. SMH

  • @DamienKross20
    @DamienKross20 13 днів тому +5

    Nobody is doing this. Raise you own children it’s that simple. Those dudes with the locks are on some soft simp BS smh not one once of accountability for the female wtf

  • @erickqwesibentilmanie2382
    @erickqwesibentilmanie2382 13 днів тому +5

    The dude in black and Rico were a real disappointment during that convo. It’s really disheartening tbh. And to his point, if the only women left is the ones with kids then most will be useful to the group.

  • @tinmanslickgreasy999
    @tinmanslickgreasy999 13 днів тому +4

    Men with their stuff together usually will not date a single mother seriously! Thats the fact! He might hangout play around for a little bit but his first choice is not a woman who already has children from another man. I dont advise any man for that matter to date a single mother.

    • @demond1818
      @demond1818 13 днів тому +2

      Bruh, I said this exact same thing on a different post. I see a lot of men that need "help" are the ones open to dating single moms. A man with a decent/great career and no problem paying his bills is less likely to date a single mom with long-term in mind.

    • @tinmanslickgreasy999
      @tinmanslickgreasy999 13 днів тому +1

      @@demond1818 facts

  • @three5353
    @three5353 13 днів тому +5

    Sorry to those woman 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @eghck.push_
    @eghck.push_ 13 днів тому +7

    team Anton all mfn day 💯

  • @doooooo01
    @doooooo01 13 днів тому +5

    Seriously, How do the guys not understand what Anton is saying??

  • @chrysanthemums4963
    @chrysanthemums4963 13 днів тому +3

    The dude with the blonde dreads….smh…..his input was so redundant and slow asf. It’s like his mama nudged him to say something and he blurted out what she told him to say 😂😂😂

  • @QuiseCortez
    @QuiseCortez 13 днів тому +7

    I am BM raised by a step-father and I understand what Anton was saying (the bigger guy). People need to get out of their feelings and realize their situations are most times not the norms. Both my step-father and mother told me to not date single mothers. Specifically my step dad saying "don't do it" and my mom saying "one kid maybe more than that no".
    Men are already held accountable for habing children out of wedlock. One good example is child support and then going to jail if child support is not met. For women they get not jist chikd support but, government assistant.
    Women alwaysbhave a hand out and can get many chances for making mistakes. Men learn very early on that making mistakes have serious consequences.

    • @demond1818
      @demond1818 13 днів тому

      I can't remember the channel, but someone covered the story about "baby drop-offs." The moms can now just drop them off with no penalty. I'm still a little confused by that story.

    • @raymondben36466
      @raymondben36466 12 днів тому

      ​@demond1818 No, it's a thing. A mother can drop her baby off at either a fire station or hospital, no questions asked.

    • @demond1818
      @demond1818 12 днів тому

      @raymondben36466 You're right, but my question is what happens when the mom drops the baby off without telling the father, but the father wants custody? How does that work? How does the father/system track down the baby from a random drop-off if the mom doesn't tell the father? If the father is able to get custody after a drop-off, is he still able to take the mom to court for child support?

    • @raymondben36466
      @raymondben36466 12 днів тому

      @demond1818 My second cousin and her brother (no relation to me) were a toddler and child when they were taken by CPS (which is kinda similar, all roads concerning children in peril lead to CPS), and what happened is they tried to find my first cousin, the father of the toddler, but after a period of time of not finding him, they became wards of the state. When he tried to get custody after this, they said that since they couldn't find him, he automatically lost his rights. My aunt had to get custody of both so he could still be active in her life and she wouldn't grow up without her brother.
      As far as child support, I don't know. My cousin never got his rights back to my knowledge.

  • @darrylnevels6141
    @darrylnevels6141 13 днів тому +9

    Ice cube said it best "some these ninja's be B's too."😮😮😮😮

    • @Eg-bw1ce
      @Eg-bw1ce 13 днів тому

      That was Ice T

    • @darrylnevels6141
      @darrylnevels6141 12 днів тому

      What song was that?

    • @Eg-bw1ce
      @Eg-bw1ce 12 днів тому

      @@darrylnevels6141 99 problems by ice t

    • @Eg-bw1ce
      @Eg-bw1ce 12 днів тому

      @@darrylnevels6141 wait nahh he had a song off the og album called bitches 2

  • @cruzerzeitgeist9137
    @cruzerzeitgeist9137 13 днів тому +3

    If you’re smart and have any self value, you’ll find a childless woman and create your own family. Leave single mothers to older single fathers

  • @teraillesane4368
    @teraillesane4368 13 днів тому +1

    I was raised by a single mother, and growing up, I understood the challenges I faced being raised by a single mother that I didn't want to have children out of wedlock and contribute to this cycle. I've also dated single mothers in the past and it's something that I prefer not to do because some single mothers would try to make it your obligation to raise their kids.

  • @TonyToning-ne7uq
    @TonyToning-ne7uq 13 днів тому +4

    Been there don that! and now ive seen the sense and im never doing it again...

  • @kennethmack3226
    @kennethmack3226 13 днів тому +2

    You can only have conversations like these with older people or folks that are willing to listen to a different opinion other than there own.

  • @sloan58
    @sloan58 13 днів тому +3

    I think everybody confused about the lion analogy. Lions kill other male lions cubs , not raise them .

    • @bl1429
      @bl1429 13 днів тому

      That's true. When mothers stop nursing, they go back into heat a lot faster. I had a male Doberman, that I had to keep away from the pups, because he'd try to bite them if he got near them.

  • @tonylittle7288
    @tonylittle7288 12 днів тому +1

    Man, this is life. Single mothers aren’t going anywhere. And you don’t know everyone’s situation.

  • @Bronxmoody1414
    @Bronxmoody1414 13 днів тому +2

    Let’s stop blaming each other and figure this out

  • @user-fm3tu6gu4r
    @user-fm3tu6gu4r 13 днів тому +4

    I will never ever date or marry a single mother.not happening.

  • @charlesknight7019
    @charlesknight7019 8 днів тому +1

    This man exposed what being a step father is like. He rejected his step father

  • @MrsGator7
    @MrsGator7 12 днів тому +1

    I have advised my son to not date single mothers. As a child of a woman who had 5 kids with 4 men, I’ve told him to run from that hotmess. My husband and I have been married for 33 years.

  • @BearPawSwipe
    @BearPawSwipe 13 днів тому +3

    This is very much the hot stove paradigm. You cannot tell someone what it feels like to be burnt, they have to experience it and some will experience it multiple times before they learn it is damaging. Single mothers are that way for a reason and any man who walks into that situation is at a disadvantage. Shrugs, men can make their own choices and yes, a lot of them will be utter destroyed by this but maybe they will learn.

  • @modifiedjaymill
    @modifiedjaymill 13 днів тому +4

    1. Lions don’t even take care of another lions cub. He gonna try to use that as a reference lol
    2. Blended families are not the same as same parent home. It comes with unnecessary problems and different sets of rules. You in more cases feel like two families staying together.
    3. Relationships are better off when it’s a men coming in with a kid verses the women. If he taking care of his child and coming in to take care of her he taking on 1 additional. Vice verse she coming in with a child then he now gained two instead of 1. Not to mention men are usually more relaxed about allowing a women to discipline his child, he look at it as making them tough. Women usually not so much because they look at it as abuse.
    I’m speaking from the experience of someone who was married, divorced, and now have a blended family. We both have 1 from our prior marriages, and we share 1 together. It’s like 2 different sets of rules in the house, my kids and then her kid. Idc what them brothas say, do not get with a single mother if you have options. I gave it a chance because we had history and though she is a good person, sometimes the juice is not worth the squeeze. If I didn’t have a son, then yes I might have reevaluated my life.

  • @Jus4-Us
    @Jus4-Us 13 днів тому +2

    Something major is missing in this conversation. "The vast majority of divorces and break ups among married and unmarried couples with or without children are initiated by women".
    Therefore, women are breaking up their families far more often than men. Yet, the onus is almost always swinging back to the men as leaving their children. Well, if the women are leaving their men at a much higher rate than are men leaving them, then how can the one being left be responsible for the outcome?
    Most men are willing and want to stay with their children's mother but it's the woman choosing to leave, and they usually take the children with them in order to use them to demand child suppprt from the father, and when he doesn't pay or jump to the woman's drum beat, he gets labeled a 'deadbeat'. This is a very unfair and distorted perspective.
    If the woman chooses to leave or divorce her marriage and take full custody of the children, then she should also be held fully responsible for supporting those children, or leave them with the father.

  • @GEN-XQUEEN
    @GEN-XQUEEN 13 днів тому +8

    Stop having children out of Wedlock!#HAPPYHUSBAND #HAPPYWIFE4LIFE #GENXQUEEN #MARRYB4UCARRY #NOTASINGLEMOM #PROTECTION #MARRYBLACK #BLACKMARRY SINGLE MOMS MAKE HORRIBLE PARENTS PERIOD!

  • @narclem
    @narclem 13 днів тому +3

    At the end of the day if I meet you and you are a single mother it is MY choice whether I want to be a father to your child. You can’t shame me or somehow try to make me feel compelled to do so. And if I do so there will have to be clear lines surrounding my inputs.

  • @stonefacedninja
    @stonefacedninja 12 днів тому +1

    Bro really said "Love conquers all "😂 Nah buddy, no single mother's

  • @yahawadahyahawahbenyahawas642
    @yahawadahyahawahbenyahawas642 13 днів тому +13

    His mansplaining doesn’t make sense

  • @Jus4-Us
    @Jus4-Us 13 днів тому +3

    Another thing is that as men we should not be having open discussions about how to be men with women. As men, we should be meeting and defining as a body of men or a community of men what we are, amd who we are. Getting a woman's input will only confuse us and weaken our disposition. Men sharpen men as steel sharpens steel. Women weaken men. Let's keep women out of our conversatiions on what black manhood needs to look like. That's exclusively for us to do among ourselves. Leave women out of that conversation, period.

  • @johnowen9349
    @johnowen9349 13 днів тому +1

    I wouldn't trust that dude to raise dandelions. Also, talking about you're going to come in and raise another man's kids is a good way to find yourself a candlelit memorial.

  • @tracymorgansbelly3322
    @tracymorgansbelly3322 11 днів тому +1

    Some men really know how to talk straight B's in the presence of women

  • @cyniczen233caines
    @cyniczen233caines 13 днів тому +2

    I do agree with everyone taking accountability for their actions. In most cases, these women know the type of man they are dealing with. A childless man has the right to say he doesn't want to date a single mother, in the same way a childless woman has the right to say she doesn't want to date a single father.
    I agree with what Anton is saying, but Rico had a point too. If the parent has one child and learned their lesson, the childless person can take their chance and prayerfully, it works out.
    A 2 parent household works when the relationship is healthy. You can have both DNA parents in the home, but if that relationship isn't healthy, the statistics can go the route of single mother household.

  • @qbizzy37
    @qbizzy37 13 днів тому +1

    My ex wife married a beta. She’s masculine as hell. Now my older daughter hides in her room.

  • @BrandonTaylor-zn6kl
    @BrandonTaylor-zn6kl 13 днів тому +2

    Anton Daniels and Kevin Samuels are goated

  • @billsbeardreaction8406
    @billsbeardreaction8406 9 днів тому +1

    It's always the guys who were raised by a bitter babymama, who always advocates for men to lower their standards and to be a stepfather.

  • @doublepromo8240
    @doublepromo8240 13 днів тому

    The whole video is crazy. Anton giving all facts. Rico got all in his feelings when he was questioning Anton but Anton didn't flinch.

  • @TheMegatron673
    @TheMegatron673 13 днів тому +4

    Have these women heard of birth control? I mean damn bro…

    • @Ravenfanatic5
      @Ravenfanatic5 13 днів тому

      Or abstinence

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 13 днів тому +1

      @@Ravenfanatic5 Let's be honest abstinence isn't really an option unless you saving yourself for marriage. Otherwise ptotect yourself.

    • @Ravenfanatic5
      @Ravenfanatic5 13 днів тому +2

      @TheMegatron673 yea nobody wants to talk about that. Like you said unless it's really with the intent of marriage. But nowadays, it's mostly a smash and dash type of thing

    • @andyetshestillwasntenough5
      @andyetshestillwasntenough5 12 днів тому

      Have the men? Interesting how it takes two to create a baby but only one should be accountable for preventing unwanted pregnancy. And I’ve heard all the red-pill talking points about women having multiple options for bc so please spare me. There are options for males too. Well aware that there are not as many bc options for males, but that doesn’t remove his responsibility to still prevent a pregnancy.

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 12 днів тому +1

      @@andyetshestillwasntenough5 Look no woman get's pregnant unless she wants to. Yes it takes two to make a baby but only one has to carry the baby for 9 months and that's IF she decides to keep it. So yes the majority of the responsibility is on the woman whether you like it or not.

  • @mikemosley535
    @mikemosley535 13 днів тому +1

    Lions??
    Just FYI…
    When a male lion takes over a new pride, he deletes all of the previous males kids to force the lionesses to start breeding with him.
    So…
    You really want to portray your self, moving into a single mom relationship, as a lion??

  • @DaDemonFox75
    @DaDemonFox75 13 днів тому +3

    This guy is talking out of his ass

  • @weneedareset
    @weneedareset 10 днів тому +1

    Light skin dude def took his mother traits 🤣🤣🤣

  • @generatelle2907
    @generatelle2907 13 днів тому +1

    🤔 IDK why Anton will not ask the woman on the panel a simple question. Why they do not give 💯 % blame to single mother who agree to sex without requiring condoms while not being on birth control .

  • @theonyxwarlord1
    @theonyxwarlord1 13 днів тому +1

    This clearly must be opposite day for this episode, because buddy with the long locs is normally on the side of not dating single mom's. I can't take them seriously cause they flip flop so often.

  • @TheMegatron673
    @TheMegatron673 13 днів тому +1

    Look man at the end of the day women have say if they wanna carry the child or not. Because otherwise, there's plenty of options to help prevent that.

  • @mikewillis3016
    @mikewillis3016 13 днів тому +2

    Best to have your own

  • @anybodycangetit-e1s
    @anybodycangetit-e1s 13 днів тому +2

    To be honest this is slowly becoming a non issue because marriage isn't occurring as it once was you hear many younger generations not even wanting to have children or get married I understand the conversation but I personally am tired of the man always being the issue that gives women an escape a go to there is always three sides to a story

  • @RayRangerBear
    @RayRangerBear 13 днів тому +1

    I just help this girl raise her 16 year old son and I will never do it again

  • @seer1
    @seer1 13 днів тому +2

    Nah... I'll Pass. Seent dat Movie already. 👀😳

  • @ToDDthaGod1973
    @ToDDthaGod1973 10 днів тому

    It's funny how we overlook the reality that women are far likely to prefer messed up men over the man that has his stuff together.

  • @spade1ace7
    @spade1ace7 13 днів тому

    I've been a step father before & while I loved my ex's children like they were my own, it was EXTREMELY difficult because she didn't agree with my principles & order I tried instill into them.

  • @winslcoop
    @winslcoop 13 днів тому +1

    You are walking a very thin line when you are being responsible for somebody else's child that is not yours

  • @DomEverythingEZ
    @DomEverythingEZ 13 днів тому +2

    They don’t get antons point because all of the ones who are against him are participating in what he’s against.
    Anton himself is married with a kid so he can advocate for the people who are in relationships and have kids with the right people.
    The thing is single women or men should date single women or men.
    If you do have a kid I think it’s probably best if you can find someone who also have kids.
    Easy to disagree with a man because he got it right. No one wants to admit that they got it wrong that’s why they don’t want to hear it from his perspective

    • @andyetshestillwasntenough5
      @andyetshestillwasntenough5 12 днів тому

      No adult should determine what’s right or wrong for another adult (unless they cognitively can’t themselves). If they CHOOSE to date single moms, why does anyone else care? Especially if a person is fully against dating single moms, why try to convince someone to make the same choices just because they are right for you?

  • @closeredge5198
    @closeredge5198 13 днів тому +1

    As soon as he started in on black men, they immediately gravitated to him 🧐.... #simpmode