the past always has weight, regardless of your gender. Like there was a woman that cancelled her engagement with a man because he told her he used to do homosexual acts in college but he said "that was in the past it shouldn't matter" and most of the women were agreeing with what she did because "if he did it then he can do it again" which is exactly how men feel about body count, it's a biological thing mixed with societal aspects. I've even seen women asked that question myself and the answer is usually the same.
"Women want men that have a future, Men want Women that dont have a Past" that quote in itself speaks volumes & holds weight to what this video is talking about💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
At this point I've come to the realization not to interact with people who can't use logic in real time. These conversations are tiring. People know exactly what they are doing in the moment, but they still expect zero blowback in the future.
There's actually 2 problems: 1. They lack basic logic and reasoning skills. 2. When they finally do figure out the truth behind what is being said... They simply lie or play dumb. It's all pointless.
Women will go half their lives lowering their value and in their mid 30s 3 kids, 2 baby daddies and 100 lbs later they're mad that men won't except them
She’s not misunderstanding. She’s about that life with many skeletons. She’s defending, while hiding, her normal. She doesn’t understand that her defense exposes her past, present and future, while it cancels every man’s potential investment in her.
The real problem with this is never really getting explained like it should. When a woman has had many partners/relationships she becomes desensitized to the natural bonding process and typically doesn’t know how to allow herself to love a man. And that leaves an open to destruction. Financially, emotionally and spiritually.
Finally somebody speaking the truth. Women literally retain the DNA of every man they’ve had sex with and they carry tha LT bad energy over to the next man. I don’t think these things get brought up because they don’t know it for real. When they talk about a woman’s body count it honestly stays on the surface level and never goes deeper but you are 100% correct.
A woman's past only becomes irrelevant when her heart has changed... A lot of these women are still active in the street and want men to turn a blind eye to what's being done.
Nice Video. A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters....
U can potentially probably have good marriage if u both of u say f pride , f social media , f the bad mouth n mind ppl (keep them out ya life) then will u have great marriage ultimately wat fucc it up is outside elements … real problem is women wanting ready product instead being there …
If u was a child meloster at 19 years old.......then if your dating a single mother with kids.....somebody whisper in yo ear"he a child molester" ih her words...it doesnt matter what he use to be.....now they married.....its ok cause people change and she won't feel any different about the man.....😮....she capping hard
@@shanikad3999 its wayyy easier for women to have sex than men. A woman can wake up and say "i wanna have sex" and literally do nothing to get it. A man has to sway the woman whether it be with looks, conversation, money, dates, etc. Women not throwing it at men and being thirsty for men on social media unless you maybe social media famous and even then it still dont be as easy
She’s lying the minute that stripper told her that, she’s going to text one of her homegirls like wtf.. probably size up the stripper and compare herself, then act phony the whole night like she’s not bothered…
shorty missed the whole point, he not saying would you be mad he didn't tell you, hes saying how are you not disgusted with stripper muches character, the fact that he was ever that dude means he didn't hold himself in a high enough regard to never be that dude.
she’s defending herself and other women’s promiscuity that’s why she doesn’t want to catch on! Bottom line is, she wants everyone to move past a women’s past. Men and women look through different lenses. Once I know anyone and many many men can or have had you, you hold no value to me. I don’t care how great you are today! Most of these women also keep all of their men from the past a moment away or file them under “ that’s my boy”. Women lose the ability to bond, they get bored, and the more guys she’s had the more comparison! The more she’s like but what if the next guy is better or has more. Nothing natural about today’s women! I don’t want a woman who acts like man in her youth and then masquerades as a new virgin at 35! Women like trying to clean up their act later to catch a simp!
Your past can come back to haunt you. If you were a drug dealer /gang member, someone could have resented you and come after you years later. If you were a stripper, sex worker, and onlyfans worker your pictures/acts can be found online. Your children and family can be subject to the shame of your actions.
Why would anyone be shame of their partners or parents sexuality? We were going thru old family photos and saw a pic of my dad flexing n a speedo and we all had a great laugh but it was all n fun. My man, my mom...good sexy fun memories r awesome
@@shanikad3999 smh you dont get it. Its imagery and symbolism. No son wants a mom or sister thats a pornstar or sex worker or is know for giving her body away. A woman should feel the same about a man.
@shanikad3999 I think that you have misunderstood what I am saying. The shame that your parents or partner can receive. As a man, my friends can shame me for dating someone who was a sex worker. As for parents, someone could say, "Why would you let your daughter do that?"
@masternickaville8681 i think it boils down to how you view sex. Many stable loving couples n the kink community do all kinds of things to/with each other and others as well; but they don't allow shame to influence their connection or commitment. I wish more black relationship content supported different dynamics as the narrow box we all strive for is so limiting and most r failing. Different strokes for different folks, i guess.
A lot of women need to do research into pair bonding. This is not opinion..it’s been scientifically researched. After a certain amount of partners(5-10)the likelihood of staying in a relationship and remaining happy drastically decreases. It applies to men but the number is much higher. Divorce rates especially lesbian ones back this.
If the past doesn't matter than why was so many of our elder successful Black women so worried about the Freaknik documentary coming out. It clearly shows that your past does matter and that it could catch up to you.
Young women place themselves on a path of acquiring trauma never realizing each single traumatic experience builds on the previous one. And because she willingly took that path and remained on it for years, she became toxic to normal relationships. She doesn’t know it and may even reject the label. But men see it, sense it and are repulsed by it. However, men who are not relationship minded will still sleep with her, and even keep her around to keep sleeping with her, thereby damaging her even further. No sane man wants a relationship with her. One day she becomes bitter and defensive, and will have difficulty having a conversation about relationships with a man who has no romantic interest in her.
Men and women do not view these matters the same way. A better example is, “What if you find out that he abused kids in his past. He went to jail, served his time, he’s now a different man.” You would still not trust him.
What these conversations often miss is that men have a certain level of disgust for promiscuous behavior in women that we would consider marrying. So, it really doesn't matter if she has changed or not. The thought of committing your life to a woman that's been ran through is really more of a reflection on the man than it is the woman. It says a lot about what he thinks about himself and the value he places on his self-worth. That is why he would feel ashamed if others found out.
*THIS IS A PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: This is a battlefront, and men must acknowledge it as such. Women like her are the adversaries. Refusing to impregnate her strips away her power over you. The modern feminist endeavor has failed, leading to a shift in strategy. Presently, proponents are adapting by upholding the ideals central to feminism but avoiding the explicit use of the term. As Western governments gradually dismantle the bureaucratic support systems that enabled women to challenge traditional marital norms, leaders within the feminist movement seem to be strategically employing language to guide young women towards seeking financial stability from a partner without overtly expressing the need for a man. Their discourse often centers on the desire for financial security, avoiding explicit mentions of wanting a contented marriage or acknowledging a need for a man's support.*
Real playa shit if you tell the truth you ain’t got shit to worry about. But if you can’t, all your problems stem from there. Risk management is also an important skill so apply where necessary.
Very true life changes but a woman’s past does matter. I witness a male friend talk about his friend behind his back about my female friend who has a promiscuous lifestyle. Told me secretly idk why he dating her. I didn’t say one word but kept it a secret.
She is the only person on this podcast who speaks long term. Rico is speaking on the exception not the rule. Spend some time around folks 50+ and ask about their past. I had this proper legal older admin who I found out was at Woodstock building a body count you can’t ever imagine while practicing free love. People go through various stages in their lives trying to find themselves. The Bible is filled with Sinners trying to become Saints
Who so ever finds a wife finds a good thing. This means you have to be a wife be you can be found. When you apply for a job, the employer wants to see a resume. If you withhold important information or lie on your resume, you will be terminated. Your past matters.
Talking to Those who cant imagine hypotheticals is like talking to a wall, its simple. And its because they dont want to open an avenue in which there is the slightest chance the other party can actually be right in a debate.
This convo doesn’t work. Women will still stay with that man no matter his history if he’s THE MAN. Men don’t move the same way. We don’t want to be with a woman that that was wildn in the past. We are different. So the conversation can’t really stand on nuffin
Want to do what they wanna do with no life consequences. Any choice you make there are pros and cons. The cons to stripping and sex work history is the world won't give you the same respect as a woman who never did that. You lost that. But you gained a monetary benefit from it, thats the pros. You can't have both, the respect of a woman that never did sex work AND have the monetary benefit AND be a wife. The cost of making that good money is that you lose that pre-sexwork respect and risk not being married. Get your money and be OK with a man not choosing you for marriage OR date a man in the SAME INDUSTRY as you. Stop looking for regular dudes or wealthy dudes that never worked in that world to understand your past and give you the respect of a WIFE. Thats selfish childish thinking.
She’s not misunderstanding. She’s about that life with so many skeletons and defending, while hiding, her normal. She doesn’t understand that her defense identifies her past, present and future, while it cancels a man’s potential investment in her.
This is crazy… to say a persons past does not matter is wild. Why do we have resumes with work history. If you say your past doesn’t matter it’s a red flag that you cannot accept accountability and are likely irresponsible. Choices have consequences.
Women like this will be saying where are all the good men at when down the line they have gone from relationship to relationship to relationship to relationship......truth is yeah your a good time but no man will ideally ever want to settle down with them and take them home to Mom and Dad..
Munch vs. Supahead comparison doesn’t work, because men’s experience only makes women want them. Women’s experience makes men cast them away. Even it does bother her, in an effort to be right, she’s going to say it doesn’t.
No cap it’s women still living like they are in there 20s still and reality left them 20 yrs ago fr bro, n I’m 27 now seeing this from a lot women in Houston bruh idk what she saying maybe the people in her bracket ya but people who don’t live the life she live is still stuck bro
@14:35 " you know who she is with you" Good ol' The what one man wont another will - game inversed What i do with them isnt what ima do for you. Psychopaths promotion of sociopathic behavior 😢 Anyone with a brain and one season of Criminal Minds can see through these kinds of evil creatures
I'm not gone lie, he has a crew of homies that does this red pill content. And out of all of them, i feel he articulates his point the weakest. He never gets to the meat and potatoes of the topic. He says a whole lot of pointless ideas with a few good ideas sprinkled in, then the women always over talk him. He doesn't control the room well enough. Like bro, check this 304, u letting her make these remedial rebuttals.
It's obviously clear that women can give better goods in the past and then not in the present. If u find out she was doing xyz in the past with whoever and they got better treatment and she don't exhibit that treatment for u, u have a right to judge her past. Women protect men too by holding a virtuous modest image in public eyes
Thats the thing, in our black culture the women don’t respect blue collor workers. If you’re in a trade making bank you’ll be looked at as a bum because you come home dirty..
Bro who cares what they want? Noone fucking marries them. 1 to 4 get married not including divorce. Fuck that masculine, drama shit they bring. There's good ones out there but not enough to go around.
if you go from sex work to trying to be a pta mother society will silently ice you out for having the nerve ppl talk especially if one of the pta members were connected to one of your clients
Everything with these black women is to compare. Lol why are these youtube sites even exist. Look lady's you don't have to agree date yourself. Don't worry about it.
She deflected on purpose because her argument won’t support her feelings
as we all know that feelings aren't facts lol
Lmfao women will dodge accountability nd responsibility at ANY COST!!
But men don’t?? Yall expect a pure woman after having 100s of bodies 🤦🏾♀️
the past always has weight, regardless of your gender.
Like there was a woman that cancelled her engagement with a man because he told her he used to do homosexual acts in college but he said "that was in the past it shouldn't matter" and most of the women were agreeing with what she did because "if he did it then he can do it again" which is exactly how men feel about body count, it's a biological thing mixed with societal aspects.
I've even seen women asked that question myself and the answer is usually the same.
"Women want men that have a future, Men want Women that dont have a Past"
that quote in itself speaks volumes & holds weight to what this video is talking about💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
She is NEVER going to give it up. She can’t, the sisterhood won’t allow it. She is telling us how women think. She knows omission is LYING.
Facts sad world
At this point I've come to the realization not to interact with people who can't use logic in real time. These conversations are tiring. People know exactly what they are doing in the moment, but they still expect zero blowback in the future.
Exactly, and it's crazy
Don't talk to black women it'll save your sanity.😉
There's actually 2 problems:
1. They lack basic logic and reasoning skills.
2. When they finally do figure out the truth behind what is being said...
They simply lie or play dumb.
It's all pointless.
Women will go half their lives lowering their value and in their mid 30s 3 kids, 2 baby daddies and 100 lbs later they're mad that men won't except them
@@Im-your-huckleberryfacts
Women dodge accountability like The Matrix
Every single time she said “that’s not what I said” it was literally what she said 😂😂😂
If a person can change, there’s no need to lie about who they used to be.
She’s not misunderstanding. She’s about that life with many skeletons. She’s defending, while hiding, her normal. She doesn’t understand that her defense exposes her past, present and future, while it cancels every man’s potential investment in her.
"The way that a person sees the world is a confession of how they see themselves "
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 facts
@@darksydelycan85 Amen
She's a 304.
Once a 304 always a 304 PERIOD!!!
The real problem with this is never really getting explained like it should. When a woman has had many partners/relationships she becomes desensitized to the natural bonding process and typically doesn’t know how to allow herself to love a man. And that leaves an open to destruction. Financially, emotionally and spiritually.
Finally somebody speaking the truth. Women literally retain the DNA of every man they’ve had sex with and they carry tha LT bad energy over to the next man. I don’t think these things get brought up because they don’t know it for real. When they talk about a woman’s body count it honestly stays on the surface level and never goes deeper but you are 100% correct.
A woman's past only becomes irrelevant when her heart has changed... A lot of these women are still active in the street and want men to turn a blind eye to what's being done.
You can have all of them who have changed. I'll still pass.
Nice Video. A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters....
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
U can potentially probably have good marriage if u both of u say f pride , f social media , f the bad mouth n mind ppl (keep them out ya life) then will u have great marriage ultimately wat fucc it up is outside elements … real problem is women wanting ready product instead being there …
Men don’t want women who have been run through. Period
Woman always talk about trama and healing. Yeah cuz that pum pum been used and abused. 😂😂😂 it matters
Amanda is good at “being right” in the argument and sticking to her point. She’s not good at being realistic & logical
No one is saying no one can’t change over time. Actions have consequences. That girl knows this however she’s refusing to accept that.
If u was a child meloster at 19 years old.......then if your dating a single mother with kids.....somebody whisper in yo ear"he a child molester" ih her words...it doesnt matter what he use to be.....now they married.....its ok cause people change and she won't feel any different about the man.....😮....she capping hard
FACTS!!!!!
These women realize that if you bring a real expectation of moral behavior from them, the historically low marriage rates would become even lower.
Men finding out our woman has been with 40 men is the same way a woman would feel finding out her man has been with 40 men. Immediate deal breaker.
How is it not the same as finding out he's been with 40 women?
@@shanikad3999it may be the same to you. Does body count matter to you?
@@shanikad3999because women prefer men w higher body counts for the most part
@@shanikad3999 its wayyy easier for women to have sex than men. A woman can wake up and say "i wanna have sex" and literally do nothing to get it. A man has to sway the woman whether it be with looks, conversation, money, dates, etc. Women not throwing it at men and being thirsty for men on social media unless you maybe social media famous and even then it still dont be as easy
@@Nick_legit not at all
She’s lying the minute that stripper told her that, she’s going to text one of her homegirls like wtf.. probably size up the stripper and compare herself, then act phony the whole night like she’s not bothered…
That need to be right is so strong with these women
Don’t trust what women say Trust what they do
Actions speak louder than words
shorty missed the whole point, he not saying would you be mad he didn't tell you, hes saying how are you not disgusted with stripper muches character, the fact that he was ever that dude means he didn't hold himself in a high enough regard to never be that dude.
she’s defending herself and other women’s promiscuity that’s why she doesn’t want to catch on! Bottom line is, she wants everyone to move past a women’s past. Men and women look through different lenses. Once I know anyone and many many men can or have had you, you hold no value to me. I don’t care how great you are today! Most of these women also keep all of their men from the past a moment away or file them under “ that’s my boy”. Women lose the ability to bond, they get bored, and the more guys she’s had the more comparison! The more she’s like but what if the next guy is better or has more. Nothing natural about today’s women! I don’t want a woman who acts like man in her youth and then masquerades as a new virgin at 35! Women like trying to clean up their act later to catch a simp!
Damn, exactly what you said is what should have been said on the show. That is the point he was trying to make!
She missed it on purpose
Your past can come back to haunt you. If you were a drug dealer /gang member, someone could have resented you and come after you years later. If you were a stripper, sex worker, and onlyfans worker your pictures/acts can be found online. Your children and family can be subject to the shame of your actions.
Why would anyone be shame of their partners or parents sexuality? We were going thru old family photos and saw a pic of my dad flexing n a speedo and we all had a great laugh but it was all n fun. My man, my mom...good sexy fun memories r awesome
@@shanikad3999 smh you dont get it. Its imagery and symbolism. No son wants a mom or sister thats a pornstar or sex worker or is know for giving her body away. A woman should feel the same about a man.
@shanikad3999 I think that you have misunderstood what I am saying. The shame that your parents or partner can receive. As a man, my friends can shame me for dating someone who was a sex worker. As for parents, someone could say, "Why would you let your daughter do that?"
@masternickaville8681 i think it boils down to how you view sex. Many stable loving couples n the kink community do all kinds of things to/with each other and others as well; but they don't allow shame to influence their connection or commitment. I wish more black relationship content supported different dynamics as the narrow box we all strive for is so limiting and most r failing. Different strokes for different folks, i guess.
@@shanikad3999 Nothing wrong with wearing a speedo. It wasn't wrong at the time, it's not wrong in the future. Apples and oranges.
She did some messed up stuff before 😂😂
A lot of women need to do research into pair bonding. This is not opinion..it’s been scientifically researched. After a certain amount of partners(5-10)the likelihood of staying in a relationship and remaining happy drastically decreases. It applies to men but the number is much higher. Divorce rates especially lesbian ones back this.
Someones past effects them in every way unless their a woman being and 304
If the past doesn't matter than why was so many of our elder successful Black women so worried about the Freaknik documentary coming out. It clearly shows that your past does matter and that it could catch up to you.
Facts!!! They know if their husband found out how they really were he’d leave!!!
Young women place themselves on a path of acquiring trauma never realizing each single traumatic experience builds on the previous one. And because she willingly took that path and remained on it for years, she became toxic to normal relationships. She doesn’t know it and may even reject the label. But men see it, sense it and are repulsed by it. However, men who are not relationship minded will still sleep with her, and even keep her around to keep sleeping with her, thereby damaging her even further. No sane man wants a relationship with her. One day she becomes bitter and defensive, and will have difficulty having a conversation about relationships with a man who has no romantic interest in her.
And even when they say they like their lives doing multiple men _now,_ in ten years those women will be talking about those men causing them trauma.
This girl is not even answering ricos question. She keeps trying to chnage the subject
A Drug dealer is way more respectable than a stripper.
Men and women do not view these matters the same way. A better example is, “What if you find out that he abused kids in his past. He went to jail, served his time, he’s now a different man.” You would still not trust him.
Not a good example, because they get with these types of men all of the time even after knowing.
Black women cuss more than the men, they are so masculine now!
Facts
What these conversations often miss is that men have a certain level of disgust for promiscuous behavior in women that we would consider marrying. So, it really doesn't matter if she has changed or not. The thought of committing your life to a woman that's been ran through is really more of a reflection on the man than it is the woman. It says a lot about what he thinks about himself and the value he places on his self-worth. That is why he would feel ashamed if others found out.
Ol girl got a lot of bodies under her belt that’s why she’s trying so hard to convince Rico more so convince herself that her pass don’t matter
*THIS IS A PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: This is a battlefront, and men must acknowledge it as such. Women like her are the adversaries. Refusing to impregnate her strips away her power over you. The modern feminist endeavor has failed, leading to a shift in strategy. Presently, proponents are adapting by upholding the ideals central to feminism but avoiding the explicit use of the term. As Western governments gradually dismantle the bureaucratic support systems that enabled women to challenge traditional marital norms, leaders within the feminist movement seem to be strategically employing language to guide young women towards seeking financial stability from a partner without overtly expressing the need for a man. Their discourse often centers on the desire for financial security, avoiding explicit mentions of wanting a contented marriage or acknowledging a need for a man's support.*
Hate this show bcuz of these women they need a piece of Myron
14:48 - get the fire extinguisher - that boy cooking with all the fire.
This video is a beautiful reason why paternity fraud is so rampant.
She's lying she's lying
They weren't trying to understand what he was saying. It was clear as day lol
There are mistakes you know not to make, but you still make them. That's a 304 to me.
Honesty is key and love is a choice and everyone is missing that.
The thing about asking a fictional question to a woman is she going to lie....Its a waste of time
Real playa shit if you tell the truth you ain’t got shit to worry about. But if you can’t, all your problems stem from there. Risk management is also an important skill so apply where necessary.
Very true life changes but a woman’s past does matter. I witness a male friend talk about his friend behind his back about my female friend who has a promiscuous lifestyle. Told me secretly idk why he dating her. I didn’t say one word but kept it a secret.
Thank you for watching and supporting 8 At The Table.
Amanda I appreciate your candor and perspective
Here's the simple fact, men care about a woman's past. Women care about a man's future.
I Understand Both Sides. Some Stuff You Just Cannot Unsee Though. You Have To Be Accountable For Ya Past Present And Future Though.
discernment matters. A woman's discernment matters to a man. Your past tells us the history of your judgement.
She defended that topic like she got a lot of bodies.
She is the only person on this podcast who speaks long term. Rico is speaking on the exception not the rule. Spend some time around folks 50+ and ask about their past. I had this proper legal older admin who I found out was at Woodstock building a body count you can’t ever imagine while practicing free love. People go through various stages in their lives trying to find themselves. The Bible is filled with Sinners trying to become Saints
Who so ever finds a wife finds a good thing. This means you have to be a wife be you can be found. When you apply for a job, the employer wants to see a resume. If you withhold important information or lie on your resume, you will be terminated. Your past matters.
What if her boyfriend said I used to be gay how would she feel knowing that
The whole subject went over her head
Talking to Those who cant imagine hypotheticals is like talking to a wall, its simple. And its because they dont want to open an avenue in which there is the slightest chance the other party can actually be right in a debate.
It’s like these women think can do wat ever they & wen their done we suppose over look the past … it really hurts my head sometimes
Bro keep the thots off the show get real women on it cuz they be talking crazy smh 💯
If any of yall women are listening to her then throw ya life away…..😅
A older dude told me the women in their 20s are the same in their 30s my advice to the young guys ask the older guys for advice about anything
We need to stop using that word ...when will we start respecting ourselves. UA-cam blocks all comments utilizing the N word. STOP
😅😂😅😂 like mankind would fall apart if they took they drawls off the conveyor belts!
It does matter. Women don't comprehend the importance of character.. They play silly games and cry wolf.
Your past matters, the women are fighting the topic because they do or have done things they know men wouldn't approve of or find acceptable.
You two are beautiful. Can yall take the shades off?!
This convo doesn’t work. Women will still stay with that man no matter his history if he’s THE MAN. Men don’t move the same way. We don’t want to be with a woman that that was wildn in the past. We are different. So the conversation can’t really stand on nuffin
Pick me’s will …but those not the ones y’all want lol no real woman staying with a man who several woman can say they had,it’s not a flex
Want to do what they wanna do with no life consequences. Any choice you make there are pros and cons.
The cons to stripping and sex work history is the world won't give you the same respect as a woman who never did that. You lost that. But you gained a monetary benefit from it, thats the pros.
You can't have both, the respect of a woman that never did sex work AND have the monetary benefit AND be a wife. The cost of making that good money is that you lose that pre-sexwork respect and risk not being married.
Get your money and be OK with a man not choosing you for marriage OR date a man in the SAME INDUSTRY as you. Stop looking for regular dudes or wealthy dudes that never worked in that world to understand your past and give you the respect of a WIFE. Thats selfish childish thinking.
You can’t be a stripper forever 😂 there’s no longevity in that.
People change and grow past is past
Yeah ! No…..
This skinny keisha misunderstanding his whole point
She’s not misunderstanding. She’s about that life with so many skeletons and defending, while hiding, her normal. She doesn’t understand that her defense identifies her past, present and future, while it cancels a man’s potential investment in her.
This is crazy… to say a persons past does not matter is wild. Why do we have resumes with work history. If you say your past doesn’t matter it’s a red flag that you cannot accept accountability and are likely irresponsible. Choices have consequences.
a persons past always matters sis...if my wife was getting trains ran on her at one point i dont want that
Old habits die hard
They don’t change
the problem is ladies having a problem with us only dating 21 yr old cause they don't have ur embarrassing past
Let Rico cook!!!
Is this an adult conversation?
Women like this will be saying where are all the good men at when down the line they have gone from relationship to relationship to relationship to relationship......truth is yeah your a good time but no man will ideally ever want to settle down with them and take them home to Mom and Dad..
Munch vs. Supahead comparison doesn’t work, because men’s experience only makes women want them. Women’s experience makes men cast them away. Even it does bother her, in an effort to be right, she’s going to say it doesn’t.
No cap it’s women still living like they are in there 20s still and reality left them 20 yrs ago fr bro, n I’m 27 now seeing this from a lot women in Houston bruh idk what she saying maybe the people in her bracket ya but people who don’t live the life she live is still stuck bro
Humans are creatures of habit hence why your past actions may give insight into your future reactions to life.
@14:35 " you know who she is with you"
Good ol' The what one man wont another will - game inversed
What i do with them isnt what ima do for you.
Psychopaths promotion of sociopathic behavior 😢
Anyone with a brain and one season of Criminal Minds can see through these kinds of evil creatures
Logic is an acquired taste
there is no such thing as half truths. there is truth and lies. omitting or altering info is a lie.
I don’t understand why people still with this back and front. Nothing but cap on both sides
I'm not gone lie, he has a crew of homies that does this red pill content. And out of all of them, i feel he articulates his point the weakest. He never gets to the meat and potatoes of the topic. He says a whole lot of pointless ideas with a few good ideas sprinkled in, then the women always over talk him. He doesn't control the room well enough. Like bro, check this 304, u letting her make these remedial rebuttals.
It's obviously clear that women can give better goods in the past and then not in the present. If u find out she was doing xyz in the past with whoever and they got better treatment and she don't exhibit that treatment for u, u have a right to judge her past. Women protect men too by holding a virtuous modest image in public eyes
But if she's equallybor more freaky withbyou and only u, do u exclude her from wife material?
Call her Trinity
Thats the thing, in our black culture the women don’t respect blue collor workers. If you’re in a trade making bank you’ll be looked at as a bum because you come home dirty..
Bro who cares what they want? Noone fucking marries them. 1 to 4 get married not including divorce. Fuck that masculine, drama shit they bring. There's good ones out there but not enough to go around.
Love dont change 304😢
He has to slow down and dumb down everything he said I'm sorry UA-cam but she a lil slow foreal
if you go from sex work to trying to be a pta mother society will silently ice you out for having the nerve ppl talk especially if one of the pta members were connected to one of your clients
That goes for drug dealers, too, which is why the young man's argument is weak.
Everything with these black women is to compare. Lol why are these youtube sites even exist. Look lady's you don't have to agree date yourself. Don't worry about it.
Talking loud, saying nothing….both of them 🤷🏽♂️
Another example of females not listening its over fellas stop even trying to talk
Once for the streets always for the streets.
You can see right thru the lies lol