Full Episode: "He Left Her for Another Woman After 5 YEARS..But Why?"

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  • Опубліковано 19 кві 2023
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  • @chriss6945
    @chriss6945 Рік тому +23

    Happened to me. Was with ex for 6 years. Gave her time to improve, told her what I needed, kept flipping the table on me and said I was the issue, so she broke up with me. I healed, went back to dating, met a new woman who met my standards, married within 8 months and we are still together. It’s been 2 years of marriage and kids are now on the way.

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 Рік тому

      Simple

    • @2436golden
      @2436golden 11 місяців тому +1

      I guess your point is that you wasted 6 years of your life being with the wrong woman.

    • @Peacebsteele
      @Peacebsteele 10 місяців тому

      ❤.

  • @yahowshuabenyahudah7734
    @yahowshuabenyahudah7734 Рік тому +6

    Old heads, men in general aren’t afraid of a woman making money, it’s 9 times out of 10 the attitude that comes with it

  • @refinedqueen2260
    @refinedqueen2260 Рік тому +26

    This older lady needs to be a guest because she brings realism to the show

    • @jmbwithcats
      @jmbwithcats Рік тому +1

      True, she's clearly seen a lot and been through a lot that the younger girl clearly has not. Such an interesting contrast of two women.

    • @Keshahayes2011
      @Keshahayes2011 Рік тому

      I agree

  • @CC-cv3xk
    @CC-cv3xk Рік тому +9

    Rico listens to respond 🥴 This episode wasn’t it. Nice to see T! Come back more💜

  • @shermanrobinson9471
    @shermanrobinson9471 Рік тому +5

    How could a passport bro be a dusty? Doesn't it takes money to move overseas and support yourself and a wife without working a job in that country.

  • @isaacisgud
    @isaacisgud Рік тому +16

    Men Know who they want to Marry

  • @Superpius91
    @Superpius91 Рік тому +7

    Amanda you should listen and learn. It's not that easy to move on so quickly after breaking up from a 5yrs relationship.

  • @leichaurellelux7547
    @leichaurellelux7547 Рік тому +4

    32:00
    A single cycle of egg freezing can cost anywhere from $8,000 to $20,000. Costs may go up depending on the number of cycles needed and, later, embryo creation and implantation fees

  • @biggmixxo
    @biggmixxo Рік тому +6

    Rico needs to listen to older, wiser elders more. They have more life than he has.

  • @tanellT
    @tanellT Рік тому +7

    I can’t take Rico’s perspective about marriage seriously, he’s extremely immature and has a lot of growing up to do when it comes to understanding relationships and marriages. Interesting topic though!

  • @johnhargrove4584
    @johnhargrove4584 Рік тому +5

    Good show, mature conversation finally! There were a few generalizations; however, the conversation didn't go down the typical rabbit hole of the blame game. I disagree with Rico on this point...it starts at home, no policy is going to save people who aren't willing to save themselves.

  • @Navyblue0785
    @Navyblue0785 Рік тому +2

    The more I watch the podcast, the more I realize i need a woman like Erin in my life. Every women in the panel is beautiful but beautiful can only go so far in today's day and age. Amanda is turning into the typical modern woman and Tamara is showing her insecurities by being on a time schedule. Erin on the other hand, is grounded, calm collected and a lot more feminine

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    That's the most trues statement the lady in the back ground said it is our responsibility to get it together & not judge everything according to history meant to be 4given.

  • @steviebee333
    @steviebee333 Рік тому +4

    Unfortunately, a person as the right to change their minds at anytime

    • @chrissyj8920
      @chrissyj8920 Рік тому +2

      Fortunately people can change their mind at anytime

    • @steviebee333
      @steviebee333 Рік тому +1

      @@chrissyj8920 That applies as well

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    1of the things about buying homes is you must deal in credit many people have much $$ but bad credit regardless to even afford home ownership

  • @tamiekagreenhow8314
    @tamiekagreenhow8314 Рік тому +2

    Most of the marriages I know financially stable or not suck… love is love if it’s real getting the ring shouldn’t be the goal his/her heart , loyalty , friendship desire etc should be the goal.

  • @aaronjerome1200
    @aaronjerome1200 Рік тому

    This conversation is the epitome of a marriage argument..

  • @tamikaramsey1487
    @tamikaramsey1487 Рік тому +2

    I’m a Capricorn so if that nigga get married to somebody else I would not care and if I did care he would never know 😂😂😂😂😂 and that’s me congrats y’all and I would keep it pushin lol

    • @tamikaramsey1487
      @tamikaramsey1487 Рік тому

      And this girl not gone b sayin this shit when she hits 30 😂😂😂

  • @philipmeyer8801
    @philipmeyer8801 Рік тому +1

    Rico on point

  • @samc6503
    @samc6503 Рік тому +1

    Rico you should respond more respectfully to the opinion of others. As a fellow Aquarius, I get how you think and love listening to your opinion. The male perspective is really insightful. I just wish you were mindful of thinking your opinion is law. It's that Aquarius God-like complex😉
    I'm South African and men here do want to get married. I agree with the ladies, your childhood, surroundings and family structure inspire or discourage marital commitment. It's wrong to make your ( Rico's) experience the rule, on this topic specifically.

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    Being what each other ask when a woman can ask any man for so much & he asking for more 💕@ least as rewards &most can't even get that regardless

  • @TheBiggest205
    @TheBiggest205 Рік тому

    Wow. Such a vast difference in the mindset of the married woman and the other females on the podcast. Be mindful of who you are listening to

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    Protection does not mean mutual unconditional happiness to be exactly specific

  • @AroundTheWayGirl88
    @AroundTheWayGirl88 Рік тому +6

    I can't with this guy! He wines and makes generalized statements. It's either his way or no way. When they don't agree, instead of agreeing to disagree, he makes it seem like they're wrong. He's very childish. Let me go back to "Tonight's Conversation".

    • @alexduru7162
      @alexduru7162 9 місяців тому

      People who agree to disagree don’t date lol

  • @yahnisrael7388
    @yahnisrael7388 9 місяців тому

    Dude speaking facts about Marrying out of spite

  • @isaacisgud
    @isaacisgud Рік тому +6

    I dont understand why People go into Marriage and dont have sex smh #Sexless Marriage (Mostly apply to Husband)

    • @princewells8441
      @princewells8441 Рік тому

      Worst idea ever

    • @Keshahayes2011
      @Keshahayes2011 Рік тому

      What if they just lose their sex drive

    • @princewells8441
      @princewells8441 Рік тому

      @@Keshahayes2011 It’s the couple’s responsibility to keep it spicy and fun. Sometimes you gotta switch it up.

  • @mainageorgewanjau1288
    @mainageorgewanjau1288 5 місяців тому

    Rico listen to they ladies for a minute

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove Рік тому +1

    These conversations are always slightly funny...because men and women think differently. We're supposed to think differently. It's designed that way. These podcasts are us arguing back & forth about things that are simply perspective based. I do agree that if we listen, we'll get further- and not agree- but listen.

  • @eatemup88
    @eatemup88 Рік тому

    A woman or man has to do what other one what. I had to learn this. You can be a good person but if you not doing what he wants. He isn’t going to marry you.

  • @TshepyN_23
    @TshepyN_23 9 місяців тому

    Rico needs to grow a little... he's quick to interject yet he gon dismiss everything thats being said.....i really love Erin ..lady be grounded in her thoughts, analysing before she could speak her mind..... more like me 🤭

  • @jmbwithcats
    @jmbwithcats Рік тому +1

    When the 4 tells the 8 she ain't gonna picked and the 8 says, impossible, She's right, she's gorgeous, she's never gonna have the problems the 4 is having at 35, sorry, life ain't fair.

    • @Keshahayes2011
      @Keshahayes2011 Рік тому

      People age and looks fade

    • @jmbwithcats
      @jmbwithcats Рік тому +1

      @@Keshahayes2011 yes, but that's not where she is NOW, and where she is NOW matters in context. Obviously she should develop skills that dont rely on her looks for the long term.

  • @juniquedesigns9612
    @juniquedesigns9612 Рік тому

    You'll need to go back to that 18:51 it's way more than one time😮..why you shut her down 😊😊but continue 🙏🏿

  • @allyssaj1488
    @allyssaj1488 Рік тому

    ❤ Erin

  • @dken1149
    @dken1149 Рік тому +4

    The 25 yr old definitely showed her age lol she’ll understand one day

    • @tiajay4693
      @tiajay4693 Рік тому +2

      Nah she thinks she’s better than them because she 25 & she be pretending she don’t know stuff cause she 25 like girl I’m 23 so I know she be cappin 🤣 she just wanna seem young cause she pushing 30

  • @demetriuswalls45
    @demetriuswalls45 Рік тому

    She spittin

  • @kaleburnett8188
    @kaleburnett8188 Рік тому +3

    Because you had never really been around real men and she's correct you been around boys

    • @ninaj.4885
      @ninaj.4885 Рік тому

      He's never met men that actually want to be married. Thats sad so he can't say that there aren't men out here looking to get married. Four of my male cousins (brothers) grew up in a religious household with two parents. Three were married. One was about to propose to his girlfriend on a family cruise but unfortunately he died suddenly in his sleep a few months before the trip. The youngest brother ended up divorced because his wife's single friends convinced her she had married too young and missed out on alot eventhough she had children, a nice home, a career and a good husband. He let her go and be single and three years later he remarried. He and his wife travel all over the world. They opened a couple businesses together too. His ex wife's life has gone downhill in a bad way......There are men out there looking for wives. And how the older woman explained about how in other cultures men are more drawn to marriage is true. They just have a different mindset.

  • @ninaj.4885
    @ninaj.4885 Рік тому +2

    Getting married out of spite is just some highschool bs. Man you're wasting your time trying to get at me that way. Jealously is a wasted emotion and I'm definitely not wasting it on an ex....GTFOH. Fellas please tell me ya'll aren't that bothered to be out here really doing that mess. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sonnyqsoul
    @sonnyqsoul Рік тому +2

    If this happens to you more than twice, you're the fucking problem.

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    Ego & pride is the worse sin

  • @alexduru7162
    @alexduru7162 9 місяців тому

    First you would have to talk length time you ex has been successful dating someone else. Second I’d have to agree if people keep breaking up with you for valid reasons it’s only correct to self reflect and decide who you want to be. But tbh single at 35. I wish you the best. Nothing is impossible but time waits for no one. This is how this generation wants to live their lives and we are stuck in it lol.

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    All submissive is each other conforming into each other's likeness & standards of expectations within don't likes that actually make each other more happier& satisfied regardless

  • @markwelch7125
    @markwelch7125 2 місяці тому

    The fact is before you marry a woman , you have to see her family dynamics. Don't be surprised if you end up divorced if she comes from a single parent household its not a written in stone but very very likely. When a woman makes statements about I all about booking a flight, vs efficiency on family and growth. But now watch the friends they keep. Drowning in drama, negative comments about men and always looking to your wife for a wing woman. The destruction of the family and lack of positive communication is dead, regardless of how hardworking and family oriented

  • @Jmillz_84
    @Jmillz_84 Рік тому

    Question what about on the flip side where the women leaves the relationship then her next one she gets married in shorter time what does that say for the last guy she was with

  • @Objectivespectator777
    @Objectivespectator777 10 місяців тому

    DS11 kings are winning. We know that you all don’t care! Hahaaa

  • @sonicboonetv
    @sonicboonetv Рік тому +2

    Why is this woman in the black dress attempting to tell a man about what men want!?

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    But significant mean something more than nothing because regardless for who own more who never had much help to help own anything REGARDLESS

  • @cassandralewis8137
    @cassandralewis8137 Рік тому

    This really my first time watching this since I subscribed that's why I don't watch certain podcasts. I like to hear the man perspective because women just like to ramble and get off topic.

  • @shaquayshahill4498
    @shaquayshahill4498 Рік тому

    They rolled in a house is not cleaned

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    That old ass lady not understanding what he meant when say reciprocal because it's true there isn't much for women to give much to men who sacrifice there life there own well being there trust regardless

  • @marquais1992
    @marquais1992 Рік тому

    Rico is very dismissive when someone doesn’t wanna be his yes man. If someone has a different opinion, he dgaf bout wht u talm bout

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому +1

    Of course you not telling everybody your training the 🐈 around that's another reason men been doing that because there always been rumors how black women been going other places smashing all type a dudes without telling 🤔 right

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    Shit all fun& game when young but after 30 shit hit different when you rejected nor gave fair chance to the past men , men will judge you for that like I always ask myself why Tf she been single for long, but it's only when after30 realizing how your competing more than being 💕 1sT

  • @InfamouseShy
    @InfamouseShy Рік тому

    It's definatly people out here on thee third and fourth marriage lol

  • @KingCrypto25
    @KingCrypto25 Рік тому +3

    Why we separated is cuz of Daddy Government giving money and resources for free to women for breaking up the family.

    • @Tanniab09
      @Tanniab09 Рік тому

      Were the kids supposed to starve? What the hell were the men doing?

    • @ninaj.4885
      @ninaj.4885 Рік тому +1

      Ya'll have been using this excuse since the 80's. Its a tired excuse at this point. Its 2023. I know plenty of women that raised kids mostly on their own, have a home, have a good job or their own business and who have never been on assistance but can't get their children's father to keep up his child support. I know plenty in that situation.

    • @KingCrypto25
      @KingCrypto25 Рік тому +1

      It's true the Govt was like damn these women are taking the money over family 🤔

    • @Keshahayes2011
      @Keshahayes2011 Рік тому

      The government must be doing more for them than dad if they picked the money. Not all women qualify for the money.

    • @KingCrypto25
      @KingCrypto25 Рік тому

      @@Keshahayes2011 Well if someone pays you, gives you housing, food stamps and other benefits.. When's the last time you heard of a man getting all this aid for having a kid and leaving the mom?

  • @locknesmonster
    @locknesmonster Рік тому

    What up with homeboy hair!!

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    But plenty women putting down men been a thing regardless

  • @ChanelStar1
    @ChanelStar1 Рік тому +3

    *99% of the people you meet are not the 1*

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    Exactly if don't care wouldn't mention anything about it who cares.& Can't believe everything mfs why would dude just impregnating everything

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    Black women will assume they won't be happy with any man before marriage to the point there every thought is negative projecting

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    If so many women got the💰 & there husband or dude got the 💰 how?? Tf ??do you go about life just only thinking about the family 1sT

  • @Superpius91
    @Superpius91 8 місяців тому

    I watched this again. Black people blame everyone but themselves. The rich black people prefer to buy mansions and 40 cars than help poor black neighbourhoods. The same mentality in Africa.

  • @Tryin-ig2wl
    @Tryin-ig2wl Рік тому

    1.09.40 what yall considering non black though?

  • @shecorabrown9874
    @shecorabrown9874 Рік тому +1

    A this dude get on my nerves he think he know everything and he's so quick to talk about no men bashing, and don't keep that same energy about women!!! Like shut up.

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove Рік тому

    The 25 year old takes accountability in a beautiful way. I think the older woman speaks through a lens of despair of the modern women. In the words of Sarah Jakes Roberts: GIRL GET UP lol

  • @jamesbell4266
    @jamesbell4266 Рік тому

    They need a real man on the show Rico is to much of a kid with no real experience the things he say are childish.

  • @peachesll3073
    @peachesll3073 Рік тому

    I could really get into this show if he wasn’t on it..he’s rude..always cutting the females off..telling them to listen as if their kids..he’s clearly hurt..get him some help

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Рік тому

    Black women Complain more because that's how much complain in relationships

  • @andrewferguson9648
    @andrewferguson9648 Рік тому +1

    In 2023 & moving forward, there's no reason for men to marry today.

  • @SavageSurf
    @SavageSurf Рік тому +2

    First