Divorce Attorney Reveals Why Women initiate 70% of divorces
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- Опубліковано 20 січ 2024
- In this eye-opening episode of 8 At The Table, our host gathers a diverse panel to delve into the intriguing topic of divorce. Join New Jersey Divorce attorney Fawn Dyer as she sheds light on the startling statistic that women initiate 70% of divorces. The discussion covers various aspects, including the reasons behind this trend, insights into prenuptial agreements, the financial toll of divorce, and the common belief that staying together might be more economical. Rico Hundo opens up about the challenges of co-parenting, while Erin The Renegade, Amanda, and Romeo share their perspectives on the delicate issue of children referring to new spouses as "dad" or "mom."
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Why do women initiate 70% of divorces? Fawn Dyer breaks it down.
The role of prenuptial agreements in divorce proceedings.
Exploring the financial costs of divorce and the misconception of staying together for economic reasons.
Rico Hundo's personal insights on the complexities of co-parenting.
Panelists Erin The Renegade, Amanda, and Romeo share their thoughts on children calling new spouses "dad" or "mom."
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A lot of adults have a problem with co-parenting cause they haven't matured and still stuck on THEIR gratification instead of the child's (who didn't ask to be here)
No one that ever lived "asked to be here". I hate that analogy.
People are humans. Having kids doesn't stop the need for gratification.
Your just perpetuating the idea that your life stops once you have kids. Which is part of the reason so many people are choosing not to have them.
This is the dumbest shit I have ever heard. You talk about self-gratification being immature, when self-gratification is the reason why many women get divorced. If you really want to co-parent & put the children first, you should've worked on the marriage.
Cheating and treating someone with respect doesn’t even go in the same sentence.
Coz for women you invest your feelings when you cheat, men just smash
If you let them know up front. It's not cheating. Telling them up front is respect
@@Rbhawk3rd 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So someone letting you know before they smack the shii out of you is respect ??!?? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Rbhawk3rdsilly logic
@@ThatiswhatitismadeforThat's exactly what an open marriage is. Don't get me wrong imo, an open marriage is a really bad idea. Technically your committing adultery, by willingly having sex with some that isn't your lawful spouse, but you still treat your spouse with respect. Somehow that 'works' for some couples.
7:40 3rd boyfriend and still not divorce is crazy. Says a lot about a Women able to find another Man to take place.
I'm with rico when we separate we're done no hanging out done im not that mature lol❤❤
Yea if u did me dirty, I don't wanna b around u. Their frequency is off!😮😂😂😂😂
After listening to the attorney I still don’t know why women file 70% other than they had an unrealistic ideal that did not happen. If there is not commitment to the vows and God, it won’t last.
Most of these women stick it out longer than Jeezy did.
@@filmadcamp1512which is a false equivalent because Jennie Mai moved her whole family in and tried to financially abuse while admitting to emotionally and verbally abusing him
I'm only 20 minutes in and already see the clear bias.
I think they should've had a male attorney's perspective
Why do that when we can continue kissing women ass every chance we get?
RIP to Kevin Samuels
All of these shows are because of him. And plenty of these women were angry at the time.
100 !!....KS is Michael Jordan.
Soo she always gotta a excuse for women but when it come to men she very direct and cut throat
We also forgot about being in tribes, now it's the "me and mine" mentality ... The irony of this is why they say black folks can't come together
if it was about the tribe you would stay together .
@@ras6857 my thoughts exactly
@@djbdubb gotcha
This female attorney got on here and played dumb. If men think she was gonna get in front of this camera and tell real reasons why they divorce and the tactics lawyers like her use to get the most money out of the men..you're crazy
Thought I was the only one who caught it. The sisterhood is strong….
If u haven’t already check out a divorce lawyer on UA-cam named James Sexton. He has a good audiobook out as well called “If your in my office it’s already too late” amazing book.
The red flag for me was when she said everyone took his side on the DV accusations. I think she definitely not as innocent as she is trying to portray on her behind. “We had some words and it happened quickly”. She definitely got him to that point. I do think he was short patient in his demeanor and lacks strong control of his emotions but she definitely was part of the problem. The story about the dog also was a red flag.
Honestly, this was a wonderful and informative conversation to listen.
It’s not that you don’t know your partner until they have kids, a lot of people don’t know who they are going to be when they have kids. Everything before that is speculation. No matter how much you try to get to know someone ahead of time, the truth is you never fully know someone bc you don’t know who that person is going to be when they lose their job, house catch on fire, car get stolen, car accident, sickness/injury, death. All of those things change a person.
It seems people want guarantees. Don't the wedding vows say through good and bad times, sickness and death? People get divorced over not being happy.😟😒
That's what you're signing up for when you get married, the unknown. The only thing that is supposed to be known is, no matter what happens (good, bad, ugly) you won't be alone. It's just sad that people aren't built like that anymore.😢
Rules to a satisfactory marriage.
FTK! They gone leave y'all at some point and start their own lives. Don't pour all your lifeforce into a child and not your spouse.
Have a healthy hobby that is separate from your spouse.
Have clear boundaries for opposite sex acquaintances(I didn't say friend for a reason).
I agree.💯
I agree with you 💯%. However women will fight you tooth & nail on your 1st & last point. & they'll be opposed to the 2nd point, if they don't approve of the hobby.
30:30 I think it really depends on how the marriage ended. When people speak of bitter exes sometimes they are bitter because they got cheated on.
It's like cheetahs don't want to take accountability for the hurt that they did to the other person.
Imagine your kids being around the guy who was banging your wife while you were married to her.
Every woman have an exit plan before that big day of marriage
The Lawyers and the Court wins
There is serious static on this episode fyi.
Actually crazy bro mad expensive too
The part about the grandma @ 25:00 is the dumbest thing Ive heard, if dude is retire from working and taking care of “grandma” why she asking telling “he can’t stay for too long” like lady u live a house that man paid for …people are staight up delusional
Athletes go thru this all the time. Once u get done with 80 games, now you're at home everyday with a person u realize u don't like.😮
@@biggmixxo das crazy I can’t see myself living like that man. What’s the point of doing everything right and at the end of it, it’s not enough.
I saw this with my sister-in-law. She was so happy in her marriage when her husband was serving in the military, only being home a few weeks out of the year. But when he got hurt & was forced into retirement, all of a sudden she couldn't do it anymore.
She said she believes women file for divorce more often than men because women are better at paperwork. WTF?!!.
Amazing how she dodged the fact of women's selfish nature and prominent advantage in family court while simultaneously complimenting them too.
Someones Bitter😂😂
Nah he made an excellent observation and most men caught that BS @yahira6928
@@yahira6928and someone a hyena
...yep..Rite around 30 -40, she wants to get rite back out to the streets 😂😂
Have any of these people actually Been married? And who made these people relationship experts? Dude with the Locs probably never cut grass a day in his life. What type of woman you think he attracts?
Our Guest is a Divorce attorney.
@@8AtTheTable I’m not talking about the guest
your point ?
@@GogettaJahan22 I’m in engaging with you. You lack education. Do you see the question marks?
I agree. Sick of all these panels of black people who have never been married speaking on ideals…
There is lots of static in the background
I have been married 25 yrs. Been with my wife since we both 19 so I have experience. We have allowed women to feel like they have to be happy 100% of the marriage. Also no sense of duty to the marriage and the family. Anyway, marriage today is dead. Men today are not looking to get married anymore. Good luck .
No one allows women to feel happy. Because statistically married women aren't happy.
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Husband got cheated on is perfect example why you don't tell your wife about your business especially if it's not legit
Soooo don’t get married then or stay w that person forever chile…
This is why marriage as an institution by today's societal image does not work. If your goal is to be married than stick to the curriculum from day 1.
What she doesn't seem to understand is that if you push a man until he's almost out of control, he might grab you by the neck because he's still trying not to hurt you seriously. If he didn't care or thought he could get away with it and wanted to really hurt you, he'd start hitting you like you were a man.
It sounds bad but many women don't recognize mercy when they see it. You can push anybody too far.
Shes right stepparents get called Aunt/Uncle in Haitian culture as sign of respect.
RICO said bringing a new man around with your child is a problem and they said it’s not.. WE ARE ADVOCATING FOR MEN TO BE WITH THIER FAMILIES AND WOMAN NOT TO BE WICKED AND IT GOES OVER THESE WICKED WOMAN HEAD
Naw only issue I would have with my child's mother having a new dude is her just springing it on me. Introduce me to him b4 he meets my kids and if hes cool cool.
Thats why you don't bring ppl youre dating around family unless we bout to get married aint no meeting nobody.
Women actually divorce other women more in same sex relationships.
Lawyer lost credibility not giving the real real
Rip the license move on
I suspect, women are statistically more likely to be married to troubled men, then men are to be married to troubled women. So it's not shocking to me that more women need to get out than men do on average.
-20% of men are addicts vs 7% women
-25% of men cheat vs 13% women
-10-30% of all men commit domestic violence at some point in their lifetime vs 10-20% women
-Nearly 1 in 5 women (18.3%) and 1 in 71 men (1.4%) have been raped in their lifetime.
-93.3% of inmates are male, while 6.7% are female
I'd also like to add the core motivations for the feminist movement was to grant women equal rights in the workforce, in large part because countless women suffered in horrible marriages and couldn't leave and support themselves. Unfortunately bad men have always existed. My great grandmother has huge lumps on her outer wrists. I learned later in life it was because her husband threw her out of a 3rd story window and she broke her arms when she hit the pavement. My other grandmother had memories of her mother taking the kids and standing outside a hotel in the morning with her children waiting for her husband to come outside after having been with his mistress. Another great grandmother took on the cause of abolishing alcohol and was as a teetotaler because her husband spent all the money on alcohol and they literally couldn't feed their children. My great aunt suffered from domestic violence and became catatonic and put in a mental ward. Her 7 children all ended up in an orphanage. I think what we're seeing today, largely is what would've happened all along had women had the option to leave troubled men. There's also the domestic labor part of the equation. The average working full-time married woman with children puts in 3 hours a day in domestic labor while her husband averages less than an hour. I think some women are exhausted and feel taken for granted and decide they're better off doing it alone and file for divorce.
If you're an upstanding man who prioritizes finding an upstanding woman with character you really don't need to be paranoid about divorce. If you have struggle to stay out of trouble and make good choices you should worry about your mate reaching a breaking point. Go get help and find community at church or in support groups that'll help you be a better person. If you didn't have great role models when you were young take a course on healthy relationships or find a counselor to acquire these skills, and look for a partner who's got these skills to build a life with if you're seeking a long term mate. Having a healthy supportive relationship is one of the best things life can offer. I'm rooting for you!
AwwwReady
Marriage has nothing to do with love. Because if love was already there, when yall were on a relationship than theres no reason to go into a legal agreement to stay together. If you wouldnt start a business with her, you shouldnt get married with her
After the attorney said she got a divorce because of a dog, which she said she wanted gone had me like WTF!! She is one of the 70% Problem. Maybe need a Male attorney to tell the real. Women lie to dam much! 😂
The guy in the brown with shades is a whole clown. Very immature!
1 main ingredient why it's so high.....no god in the relationship
Marriage is between two people. You do your vows in front of God and these witnesses. It ain't say nothing about no courthouse say we are here in front of God and these witnesses. Put your marriage license between a Bible. Have faith in each other and if not you all want to end the marriage. Just tell the marriage license. Don't take it down to the courthouse soon as you do you get that third party rights
They over talked the expert all the time. Wish y'all can stf up for a minute.
Maybe replace Mr. Profanity/Mr. Sunglasses has no respect for your guest at all. He actually sounds like he doesn't respect women OR himself. If he must be there, maybe he can just sit there and look pretty. Sounds like the other guy in the blue needs some relationship therapy from past or current hurt.
we know why women file for divorce 80% of the time. They can now leave due women being able to take care of themselves now, they can now leave if being cheated on or abused, men dont believe that household chores are their responsibility too, also men are refusing to open up and express their feelings, thats a miscommunication in the relationship and thats not fair to the woman either. Notice how men will stay with a woman he doesnt trust to express his feelings too but most women will leave if they didnt feel safe
Your a clown, most men do house chores (women believe men should work 10 hours a day and do all house work as well). Women get divorce because its easy, didnt the lawyer say that the money to pay her legal fees comes the the family aka from her and her soon to be ex husband, meaning you are paying your lawyer and hers. Its women get paid to leave at the expense of the husband, once all the battery life is use up, off to the next victim. The only benefit men get from marriage is children, thats assuming the wife doesnt poison the mind of the child. If you hate men, just say.
That gotta be 1 helluva women to pay her divorce fees I don’t think no one that special 🫡