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  • @MrGumby-cj8gz
    @MrGumby-cj8gz 3 місяці тому +690

    I'm a cis gender 61 year old man....and in my opinion you should live your life to the greatest extent and be comfortable who you are ...screw people who are negative.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +6

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere 3 місяці тому

      @@p-__
      lets analyse the nonsense /lies many amongst you believe in:
      lie: schools are of use (fact. schools keep slavery alive and stands for dumbing down the population of mankind)
      lie: moon and mars landings, (fact: even masons know they cannot leave - earth is closed system, unless you want to drown, there is no other place created for us to live in.)
      lie: news channels share truth (fact: these are for politic propaganda)
      lie: money has a value of its own (fact: it is just a tool of this world, which value has been agreed upon world wide)
      lie: NASA lies (globe and all....) (fact: NASA stands for TO DECEIVE) - you havn´t searched - have you?
      lie: the lgbtq++++ propaganda (fact: it is a part of masonry depopulation agenda, 500 000 000 souls, thats their goal.)
      lie: Evolution and the dinosaurs. (fact: mankind is not hybrid kind)
      to keep stating that there was an evolution, then we ain´t humans, we aint then mankind, we are then hybrids. Are you a hybrid?
      Lie: holidays (xmas, Halloween, new year eve and so on) (fact: PAGAN HOLIDAYS, to praise BAAL, the god of this world)
      lie: U.F.Os (fact: they are demons/evil spirits in high places, against whom we fight daily = spiritual warfare)
      lie: rules and laws rule the world (fact: signs and symbols of masonry do)
      lie: believe in being educated (fact: found daily living with the lack of knowledge)
      lie: religions are ways to heaven (fact: JESUS CHRIST is only way to heaven. Religions, no matter its name = masonic garbage)
      lie: our dead loved ones stay around to “ghost” (fact: hunting and ghosting is job of demons, not of humans. We, humans, come from GOD and return back to HIM and all the stories of having been seen a ghost - terrifying, scary, dark, cold - again no job of analysing been done here by you- right?)
      Lie: Humans have no immune system and we need vaccines as these save lives (fact: humans HAVE IMMUNE SYSTEM and vaccines are created for one or two purpose: to kill or to cripple)
      lie: there is no GOD (fact: There is GOD, who redeems sinners and we are directly created by GOD, Psalms 139:14
      I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.)
      to keep claiming that there is no GOD and we aint created directly from the dust of the earth, we soon run out logic, regardless to we place “evolution” in our claims or not.)
      lie: 911 was terror attack (fact: 911 was an inside job, meaning the work of your loved government)
      16 lies, should i go on?

    • @xavier1maccarrone228
      @xavier1maccarrone228 3 місяці тому +37

      what@@p-__ 💀

    • @LHZOZ777
      @LHZOZ777 3 місяці тому +43

      Slayyy!! Great to see progressive people from Gen X and older

    • @mother.natures.friend
      @mother.natures.friend 3 місяці тому +19

      Guys like you are awesome! Thank you so much for this

  • @waytoobiased
    @waytoobiased 3 місяці тому +202

    to be fair, “I don’t want to feel complete and whole” would be a great name for an album of nihilistic emo songs

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

  • @SorrowGuitar
    @SorrowGuitar 3 місяці тому +855

    I'm a trans guy, not yet transitioned. Seeing people post positive trans videos or just supporting the lgbtqia+ community makes me so happy. ❤

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +6

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @willewiking98
      @willewiking98 3 місяці тому +28

      i hope all goes well for you, i do think we will have a positive future for our entire community despite all the horrible politicians

    • @rainndrops_goodvibes5257
      @rainndrops_goodvibes5257 3 місяці тому +11

      Same I'm not yet transitioned yet either

    • @Lochness184
      @Lochness184 3 місяці тому +16

      My guy SAME
      I swear Noah has the magical ability to summon the queer people lol

    • @spacebunsarah
      @spacebunsarah 3 місяці тому +11

      Stay strong dude. We see you and you can do it!

  • @Definitlynotmentallyill
    @Definitlynotmentallyill 3 місяці тому +289

    Im still in the closet as a pan trans man and its so hard tbh but coming out is so scary esspecially when i hear my chosen name out loud

    • @starlight5852
      @starlight5852 3 місяці тому +12

      You got this 🫶
      I know it’s not easy being yourself but the right people won’t judge you and if they do don’t even worry about them. What matters is that you’ll be happier being yourself

    • @hannies_my_bias
      @hannies_my_bias 3 місяці тому +8

      I get that too. My mom is “okay” with my new name (but doesn’t use it) so when my friends use my chosen name around my mom it always makes me on-edge.

    • @starlight5852
      @starlight5852 3 місяці тому

      @@hannies_my_bias honestly same for me. I mean I told my parents the name I wanted to be called but they said they refuse to call me that , yet they still say they support me… everyone else doesn’t have a problem with my name.. but my parents think my name is a symbol of personality and if I change it then my future Will apparently be corrupted… (they are a bit spiritual)

    • @starlight5852
      @starlight5852 3 місяці тому +5

      @@UTubeTrollPolice298 no one asked you either ?

    • @sapphia_frog
      @sapphia_frog 3 місяці тому +4

      @@UTubeTrollPolice298i wonder how often you get reported…whatever add another one to your total

  • @SourSweets8217
    @SourSweets8217 3 місяці тому +468

    Watching Noah talking about his past is so comforting, because I'm currently going through the early stages of figuring out I'm trans and knowing what to do with my life, as a closeted kid raised in a Christian household. My brother and cousin are trans, so it's kind of comforting to know that we're probably all gonna come out together. But watching Noah talk about his issues being similar, even if it's different circumstances, it's so pleasing. Thanks man

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +5

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @sogolbahremand688
      @sogolbahremand688 3 місяці тому +2

      SAME

    • @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf
      @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf 3 місяці тому +21

      Trans guy, biromantic asexual here, I was raised Catholic and I just wanted you to know I understand how hard it can be to come out in situations like that.

    • @SourSweets8217
      @SourSweets8217 3 місяці тому +16

      Thanks :D
      My parents aren't horrifically transphobic, they wouldn't kick me out or smth, but coming out as a teen would be super hard. And when (if) I do come out to them, I doubt they'd do anything to try change how they perceive me. But I'm aware that there are loads of people going through the same thing as me, which sucks for us but is also super comforting

    • @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf
      @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf 3 місяці тому +5

      @@SourSweets8217 🖤🖤🖤

  • @prinaecess
    @prinaecess 3 місяці тому +165

    being a cis girl and watching noahs channel feels so rare for some reason. but i love his content and watching youtubers from various different communities is always so fun for me and a learning experience. some of my friends are trans and ik everyone is different, but i love always educating myself and bettering myself so i dont end up hurting their feelings because ik how harsh society is on them nowadays. keep being you noah!

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +3

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @brendaleelydon
      @brendaleelydon 3 місяці тому +24

      You're not rare! There's plenty of us! 😊

    • @prinaecess
      @prinaecess 3 місяці тому +20

      @@brendaleelydon AA IM GLAD THERE ARE OTHERS HERE WITH ME hii 👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼

    • @emilieloveskiwi
      @emilieloveskiwi 3 місяці тому +12

      This is exactly why I started watching Noah's channel! My friend came out as trans and I felt I needed more education, so off to UA-cam I went. That was years ago and I'm still watching. Haha!

    • @prinaecess
      @prinaecess 3 місяці тому +6

      @@emilieloveskiwi im so glad theres more of us here 😭😭💕

  • @seth_i.thinkk
    @seth_i.thinkk 3 місяці тому +170

    as a closeted trans girl with homophobic parents im legit petrified of them finding out before im capable of moving out, love ur videos!!

    • @wdtproductions6710
      @wdtproductions6710 3 місяці тому +23

      imma be so fr it scares me how easily my youtube home page could out me

    • @seth_i.thinkk
      @seth_i.thinkk 3 місяці тому

      @@wdtproductions6710 REAL

    • @oliverkoenig276
      @oliverkoenig276 3 місяці тому +4

      @amphibia4uu I’m so sorry you have to go through that. As someone with a similar situation I’m sorry sister 😭 🧡

    • @mazzy_ivy
      @mazzy_ivy 3 місяці тому

      you deserve to be your true self. you can get through this

    • @LHZOZ777
      @LHZOZ777 3 місяці тому +2

      We're gonna get through it sisss!! Hang in there ❤️

  • @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf
    @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf 3 місяці тому +143

    15:30 This description of dysphoria is probably like the best I’ve ever heard, I immediately understood what you meant. That sinking guilt feeling is exactly how I feel.

    • @waytoobiased
      @waytoobiased 3 місяці тому

      same, except it's not dysphoria, it's just guilt

    • @kuuderepanda4207
      @kuuderepanda4207 3 місяці тому +1

      Right?? It's like almost a physical feeling but not quite
      Like between worlds 0.o

    • @Puck-ez1mn
      @Puck-ez1mn 3 місяці тому

      fr

    • @chickenanddoodles
      @chickenanddoodles 2 місяці тому +2

      Exactly, it just feels like there's something fundamentally wrong like the way I'm presenting or being perceived right now does not match up with who i really am and it feels awful

  • @NoahIsStuck
    @NoahIsStuck 3 місяці тому +182

    I’m trans and I still have questions abt other trans ppl 😭

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +1

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @NoahIsStuck
      @NoahIsStuck 3 місяці тому +27

      @@p-__ not u again bruv 😭😭🤚

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma 3 місяці тому +1

      Same tho

    • @chuuislovechuuislife
      @chuuislovechuuislife 3 місяці тому +7

      @@NoahIsStuckreport them for spam

    • @Quartermistress
      @Quartermistress 3 місяці тому +4

      Don't worry thats natural. Everybody has a different path and different experiences. And it's always fun and interesting to learn from other trans people.

  • @Jordan-xd2ue
    @Jordan-xd2ue 3 місяці тому +79

    as a trans guy who just had top surgery and almost 1 year on t- this video is exactly what I needed to kind of help word how I feel a lot of the time. I'll definitely be sending this to family members or other curious cis people because sometimes it's really awkward to answer these questions!

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @biggestptvlover
      @biggestptvlover 3 місяці тому

      i just got top surgery as well! i’m 12 days post op wby?

    • @IamAliceHall
      @IamAliceHall 3 місяці тому +1

      What’s it like bro 😭😭

    • @William_Nowin
      @William_Nowin 3 місяці тому +2

      @@IamAliceHall Haven't had top surgery yet, but I would assume a huge weight has been lifted off there chest :-)

  • @CraigUntlNytTym
    @CraigUntlNytTym 3 місяці тому +42

    My suspicion as to why there's so many micro labels is that humans seem to love categorisation and those micro labels are just more descriptive categories.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +1

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @peaches65835
      @peaches65835 3 місяці тому +10

      For me micro labels are helpful for communication. I found it hard to fully understand my own gender experience until I discovered the word that explained my experience. Now it makes perfect sense.

    • @josiewagner8631
      @josiewagner8631 3 місяці тому +1

      Hello 43 Trans,Pan, Faerie: The dictionaries of the world have thousands of words that are hardly ever used; and it’s just adding pigments to the flag 😻I also really first came out in 2017, but I have known since I was four, I grew up with two sisters until 1988 when my brother was born and my Aunt had four daughters and my father was constantly ripping a Barbie out of my hand and telling me that men don’t sit like that……😊❤

  • @jamesmathis5063
    @jamesmathis5063 3 місяці тому +44

    That’s the best description of dysphoria that I’ve heard so far, at least how I experience it.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @kingcharizardakaCX
      @kingcharizardakaCX 3 місяці тому

      Yes I definitely agree with that

  • @finch4309
    @finch4309 3 місяці тому +28

    DUDE your explanation of dysphoria feeling similar to guilt is SO ACCURATE, i handnt made that connection but thats 100% what it feels like for me too

  • @transmaniandevil
    @transmaniandevil 3 місяці тому +45

    i'm trans masc and came out around the same time as Noah, it's been like 7 years and I didn't change my name until this past year. I was 5 years on T and still going by my birth name because I couldn't find a first name that fit me. I now go by Thunder! I'm finally getting used to it and like it way more than the fem name I used to go by. But this is just a reminder that there's no timeline, there's not one way "to be trans"

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @simongaming5247
      @simongaming5247 3 місяці тому +10

      thunder goes so hard oml

    • @waytoobiased
      @waytoobiased 3 місяці тому +1

      lightning and the thunder??

    • @ahseymania
      @ahseymania 3 місяці тому +1

      i immediately thought of the song thunder from imagine dragons lmao /pos

  • @goldak6423
    @goldak6423 3 місяці тому +27

    I really don't get why people don't get the deadname thing. I feel physically uncomfortable when people call me by my pre - emigration name. Especially those who didn't know me before I've changed it. In many religions you get a new name when you convert and it's also a very emotional topic for many. In many cultures there is a tradition of changing your name after a near - death experience. People change the name that their abusive parents gave them. Women change their surnames all the time when they get married. And most of the people who have chosen their names are very very very sensitive about it. Like it's much more universal experience then most of what trans people go through.

  • @xspaceskullx
    @xspaceskullx 3 місяці тому +126

    You know it’s a good day when Noah posts

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @Thefire957
      @Thefire957 3 місяці тому +4

      Stop saying that

    • @xspaceskullx
      @xspaceskullx 3 місяці тому

      @@Thefire957 no??

    • @Thefire957
      @Thefire957 3 місяці тому +2

      @@xspaceskullx I'm not talking to you I'm talking to @p-__•

    • @xspaceskullx
      @xspaceskullx 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Thefire957 oh okay sorry

  • @zayden.o.
    @zayden.o. 3 місяці тому +48

    Hey noah! You've been my "comfort UA-camr" for over 4 years now , im ftm too and I'm only 16, I'm patiently waiting till I get 18 so i can start my transition. You've helped me a lot, made me feel less alone, and every time I doubt myself , I come back to your channel and it gives me hope, that things are gonna be okay someday and i will be able to live my life however i want to. So thanks for that ❤ also I LOVE every single one of your songs!!!

  • @PlutosAsleep
    @PlutosAsleep 3 місяці тому +14

    I used to watch you when you loved to talk about “trans-trenders” and I stopped watching years ago and decided to click on this video and hearing you address that stuff really made me feel so good, growing is hard as fuck and so is admitting when you are wrong, i used to agree with you and now i still agree with you 😭

  • @River_the_guy
    @River_the_guy 3 місяці тому +23

    i'm a trans guy who has an *interesting* thing of being out and not out to my family at the same time. but, seeing guys like Noah, Jammi, ect. make me feel really happy for them and it keeps a little hope in me that I will be able to transition on day and be happy just like them. I love seeing LGBT+ stuff on the internet because it makes my day to see that one day it's not always gonna be transphobia, homophobia, ect.

  • @jesthered7966
    @jesthered7966 3 місяці тому +19

    Thank you for comparing dead names to the nickname you were bullied under... that comparison is very helpful.

    • @river9215
      @river9215 3 місяці тому

      @user-nd4vm1bc8t what about this doesn't make sense to you

  • @teissi
    @teissi 3 місяці тому +13

    For me dysphoria is not anything like guilt but instead I feel so annoyed at the neverending discomfort, exhausted to battle it 24\7 and so damn furious because I can't do anything about it at this point in my life and the nearest future. There is such a good line in the recent kdrama Death's Game "if you're not living as yourself, it's not a life" - this is exactly it. I feel like I'm stuck in a limbo, or even in hell. Dysphoria turns me into a big ball of destruction and hate towards myself and everything around.

    • @MaxShroomTV
      @MaxShroomTV 3 місяці тому +3

      For me its like- what he describes with the buzzing and on bad days the sinking feeling but like- it’s mostly my brain knowing that what im seeing is wrong but getting frustrated that my body is incorrect.

    • @eternallustformedusa4844
      @eternallustformedusa4844 3 місяці тому +2

      i thought i would feel better after i started transitioning, like finally i was doing something, but i just find myself being annoyed that hormones don’t work fast enough, or surgery wait lists are too freaking long.
      but i try not to be mad at myself and instead direct my anger at transphobia and cisnormativity because i know 99% of my problems would be solved if people weren’t such assholes.

  • @blutomindpretzel-
    @blutomindpretzel- 3 місяці тому +5

    Hey I’m 17 years old in Texas (yeesh) and a trans guy pre-T (he/they) going through the tedious process of going out of state to get the care I need. And it’s been absolutely exhausting having to go through the process of getting “consent” from my unsupportive dad so my therapist could be able to write a letter- which already has to be vague because laws in my state label that as “child abuse”. Watching your videos, even if it’s about shit that I already know- has been so comforting to me and I just wanted to thank you. Knowing that it’s possible to get the care you need anywhere gives me hope. Everyone should have full availability to the care they need in their home state, flight costs on top of testosterone costs, prescriptions, bloodwork and doctors visits etc isn’t something i’d want for anyone else because it’s hell. Anywayyyys I just wanted to thank you for continuing to put out videos like this

  • @Elliotisfrogobsessed
    @Elliotisfrogobsessed 3 місяці тому +26

    The name thing is really comforting because I use my new name on the internet and with close friends and my deadname with my family and in school and it's really strange because it's like I live a double life

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @billybobjimmyjohn
      @billybobjimmyjohn 3 місяці тому

      @@p-__what?! 😭😭😭

    • @Thefire957
      @Thefire957 3 місяці тому

      ​@@billybobjimmyjohn I know their saying that

  • @ceruleangolem4936
    @ceruleangolem4936 3 місяці тому +10

    I have a 27 years old cisgender male friend who doesn't have any facial hair other than some mustache. It's common for men to have it, but not a requirement. If you're going through your transition and the beard is not showing up, don't worry! It's all right either way! ❤

  • @calikitkat8429
    @calikitkat8429 3 місяці тому +20

    Im a bi=mother whose just recently found ya and think everything about you is awesome! My daughter is obsessed with TX2 which is how we found you! Love you! Love your music! Love Love Love your journey! Cant wait to see ya in the US in Anaheim!! Love that youre open to educating those that want to take the time to learn

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @ThatgenderlessGremlin
      @ThatgenderlessGremlin 3 місяці тому

      ​@@p-__ wtf?!!??!???!🥲🥲💀💀💀💀

  • @Shroomiton_
    @Shroomiton_ 3 місяці тому +67

    I’m gender fluid (he/they) and I call myself “Jayden”. I’ve told my parent to call me that, but they thought I was joking. So idk, that’s how my life is going.
    And yes I know Jayden is a common name, sue me.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +1

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @ashanenbyrogue804
      @ashanenbyrogue804 3 місяці тому +16

      Jayden is a lovely name :) and I'm sorry about your parents that really sucks. Hopefully they'll use your chosen name soon! I'm sending my best wishes to you

    • @ashanenbyrogue804
      @ashanenbyrogue804 3 місяці тому +1

      @@user-nd4vm1bc8t maybe stop being rude to people?? It's literally a trans friendly channel, we don't need your bigotry here.

    • @Shroomiton_
      @Shroomiton_ 3 місяці тому +2

      @@ashanenbyrogue804 oh thanks :D I love the name. Please Ignore the bigoted frog spawn for me 🙃✊

  • @michellehart1215
    @michellehart1215 3 місяці тому +7

    Noah, thank you so much for sharing so much of yourself with us. I'm not your target audience. I'm a cis bi mom in my 30s from hickville, USA. I started watching you in 2020 when a trans man moved next to me and I wanted to learn more and avoid being an asshole. I stayed for your personality and then I fell in love with your music. I'm so inspired your bravery, compassion and talent. You're awesome. Thanks for allowing me to know you

    • @maesaliva
      @maesaliva 3 місяці тому

      awwww you’re great

  • @irlstanleyuris
    @irlstanleyuris 3 місяці тому +32

    SO EXCITED FOR APRIL AND MARCH YAYAYA(new album and I’m seeing you VIP in April)

    • @KermitTheFrog42069
      @KermitTheFrog42069 3 місяці тому

      OMG SAAMMMMEEE

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @irlstanleyuris
      @irlstanleyuris 3 місяці тому

      @@p-__ BAHAHA YOU AGAIN?

  • @AceClark12
    @AceClark12 3 місяці тому +17

    this is answering a question at 14:08 but personally watching your videos has helped MASSIVELY as a pre transitioned trans man, makes me realise i can reach where you are now and that im not the only person who is going through struggles I thought no one else has/had. Also starting T in march and your vids have really helped me on what to expect. thanks dude :)

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @AceClark12
      @AceClark12 3 місяці тому +2

      @UTubeTrollPolice298 okay? It's my life, not yours. you don't know anything I've been through. You've just motivated me to want to go through it more, thanks dude :))

    • @AceClark12
      @AceClark12 3 місяці тому

      @UTubeTrollPolice298 I'm royal? ty so much that's so sweet !!

    • @user-qf4ce3mr1c
      @user-qf4ce3mr1c 13 днів тому

      hows T dude? its april so youve probably started it, right? good for you man, like, the fact that im reading this now and thinking, "oh hey, youve been on T for a litttle now" is just so wild, especially because im hoping i can go on it myself one day. Like, good for you, and i really and truly mean it :3

  • @willewiking98
    @willewiking98 3 місяці тому +11

    As a cis person always ready for their knowledge to be expanded I really appreciate these videos, you're the best noah

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @I-Hate-Everybody-But-You
      @I-Hate-Everybody-But-You 3 місяці тому +5

      @@p-__hey, you dont seem like a bot. Can you please explain why you do this?

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      @@I-Hate-Everybody-But-You for the funny

    • @I-Hate-Everybody-But-You
      @I-Hate-Everybody-But-You 3 місяці тому +5

      @@p-__ its not “funny” though, in fact, I believe most people find it the opposite.

  • @randompersonontheinternet1435
    @randompersonontheinternet1435 3 місяці тому +10

    Commenting again because what he said at 14:54 really made me feel better. I don’t feel “trans enough” when I watch Noah’s videos or Jamie’s videos because it’s so much more confusing for me. It wasn’t all dysphoria in the beginning, and sometimes it still isn’t. Sometimes I’m alright with where I’m at- uncomfortable, but alright. Other times I want to crawl out of my skin. I’m not gender-fluid- I never feel like a girl. I always want to be called masc pronouns, not fem ones, but for some reason that isn’t enough for me. I feel like I have to have some deep sense of dysphoria all the time or I’m just not trans. I feel like I’m faking it a lot. Noah, someone I look up to (not as an idol or anything, more so like a younger sibling would look up to an older one) saying that it can be confusing really helps.

  • @AlexxOH
    @AlexxOH 3 місяці тому +7

    I’ve had 2/3 stages of phallo, it’s been rough at times but so worth it for me personally and I’m so much happier with my body now

    • @AlexxOH
      @AlexxOH 3 місяці тому +1

      @@sven5216 pretty much everything 😂

    • @eternallustformedusa4844
      @eternallustformedusa4844 3 місяці тому +2

      trans joy is the best joy. hope stage three goes smoothly

    • @AlexxOH
      @AlexxOH 3 місяці тому

      @@eternallustformedusa4844 thank you!

  • @Handsome_frog12
    @Handsome_frog12 3 місяці тому +4

    Noah has given the best description of dysphoria that i have heard yet

  • @sawadeelee
    @sawadeelee 3 місяці тому +2

    16:04 someone once explained gender dysphoria to be like when you put your shoes on the wrong foot, it’s super uncomfortable. And when you sit down, you may forget the feeling for a second because you’re off your feet, but as soon as you start walking again, there’s that extreme discomfort once again!

  • @Marstheweird0cos
    @Marstheweird0cos 3 місяці тому +15

    I really wish that I could go to your Cleveland, Ohio show but it's about 5 hours away from me. I do hope that someday I can see one of your shows!

    • @little.zayzay
      @little.zayzay 3 місяці тому +1

      I'm far away to I'm from Dayton Ohio and cleveland is like 3hrs away.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @Thefire957
      @Thefire957 3 місяці тому

      Stop fucking saying that

  • @Onehorniboy
    @Onehorniboy 3 місяці тому +7

    I’m a trans guy and I’ve never found another trans guy with such similar experiences, I’m going to be watching and following your content from here on out! Thanks Noah!

  • @jduley1
    @jduley1 3 місяці тому +2

    I found Noah through one of his ADHD vids a couple years ago, as a recently diagnosed adult with ADHD and thought "he's adorable (and so darn hyperactive.)" Took me a couple videos to even realize he was trans. I've learned so, so much since then from Noah. Very grateful to have you in my subs.

  • @samthebreadloaf
    @samthebreadloaf 3 місяці тому +10

    I'm a transmasc teen, and I'm in the closet. Videos like these are sooo helpful, thank you 🫶❤

  • @cobalt.studios
    @cobalt.studios 3 місяці тому +8

    Transition guilt is so real

  • @ZoinEoin
    @ZoinEoin 3 місяці тому +23

    Thanks Noah! I always view you as an inspiration, currently im experiencing confusing gender stuff and you’re one of the UA-camrs that has helped me through it the most!

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts.

  • @KorysCornFlakes
    @KorysCornFlakes 3 місяці тому +5

    As a trans boy unable to start transitioning I do feel sad that I can't start transitioning more then socially. But I am so happy you are this far. So I can get past that and continue to enjoy all your content :)

  • @Stayville_Clown
    @Stayville_Clown 3 місяці тому +3

    My best friend is ftm trans. When he still went to the same school as me, our math teacher used to call him by his dead name as a punishment if he forgot his homework or didn’t know the answer to a math problem.
    He’s say: "Well, if you can’t do your homework, then I can’t call you by your new name, **dead name**.
    That Teacher is not at our school anymore (thank goodness)
    Also, a classmate of me said today that gendering is stupid (which I PARTLY agree on) and that he identifies as a tractor. Obviously, he tried to be mean to trans people and that is really bad. I just don’t get why the teachers don’t do anything about it. They just let him say those things and won’t intervene.

  • @ahumanmaybe625
    @ahumanmaybe625 3 місяці тому +20

    Noah thank you so much you helped me feel comfortable in my identity and half understand my emotions you are a amazing creator and I look up to you a lot

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

  • @KJaxDragon
    @KJaxDragon 3 місяці тому +10

    Losing height dysphoria from Resident Evil: 😄
    Gaining name dysphoria from The Amazing Digital Circus: ☹

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Clockman’s farts 💨

    • @KJaxDragon
      @KJaxDragon 3 місяці тому

      @@p-__ r/cursedcomments

  • @Tory_the_sprite
    @Tory_the_sprite 3 місяці тому +8

    14:08 I'm trans masc, pre transition, and i don't get upset at your videos, I actually watch your top surgery vids if i'm ever feeling down/dysphoric cause it makes me feel better 😁

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +1

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

  • @sweetpotato3117
    @sweetpotato3117 3 місяці тому +4

    THE WAY YOU JUST PERFECTLY DESCRIBED HOW MY DYSPHORIA FEELS WORD FOR WORD

  • @Thequietkid9999
    @Thequietkid9999 3 місяці тому +1

    Being a gay cis man who discovered your channel to learn on the t in the lgbtqia. You have helped me a lot, thank you and I hope you have a great life.

  • @levial.reinyy
    @levial.reinyy 3 місяці тому +14

    i love videos like these noah thank you, it really helps my trans boyfriend 💙

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts.

  • @MollySarahx
    @MollySarahx 3 місяці тому +10

    So glad to have found your channel again !! I’ve watched you since you’re coming out video , you’ve come for far and it’s amazing to see how much happier you are now :)

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

  • @louisthesunking4778
    @louisthesunking4778 3 місяці тому +6

    when I first started watching Noah i spent like a fucking month watching his channel without realizing he is trans and out of blue on a random ass video he drops it so casually and I'm like what??? still hard to believe lol

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @louisthesunking4778
      @louisthesunking4778 3 місяці тому

      what@@p-__

  • @valdemarbjork1193
    @valdemarbjork1193 3 місяці тому +3

    As a guy with a recently out trans friend, this was really helpful. Tanks, I also love your music!

  • @dylan_blakeee
    @dylan_blakeee 3 місяці тому +2

    I am an afab nonbinary person and I have severe chest dysphoria. Seeing other people who have gotten surgery makes me so happy but at times I do get jealous. I haven’t come out yet and any time I hear my chosen name I freak out because I think people have found out. I can’t wait until I’m free

  • @rainndrops_goodvibes5257
    @rainndrops_goodvibes5257 3 місяці тому +3

    I am a 18 year old trans guy, and I came out to my parents today and they support me!

  • @Bloody_Corpses
    @Bloody_Corpses 3 місяці тому +6

    For people wanting to remove facial hair laser is good for dark hair and electrolysis is good for light hair (I learned this because it was required for Phalloplasty)

  • @peaches65835
    @peaches65835 3 місяці тому +3

    I feel that micro labels aid communication. For me discovering the word for how I experience gender aided me to both process how I felt and with telling people close to me about my experience. I feel that micro labels are something deeply personal and important for self understanding.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

  • @claudiakarl7888
    @claudiakarl7888 3 місяці тому +9

    Facial and body hair is not only influenced by testosterone, there are other genetic dispositions that reduce hair growth.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @Thefire957
      @Thefire957 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@p-__ you keep saying that just stop !

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      @@Thefire957 no

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@p-__yes 😭😭😭 I literally just saw you on another video from a WHOLE different creator!!! STOPPPP ITTT!!! 😭😭😭

  • @RetroVRR
    @RetroVRR 2 місяці тому +1

    Watching your videos make me proud of who I am, but the second I watch something else, it goes away. I LOVE YOU NOAH MY POOKIE BEAR

  • @cambo338
    @cambo338 3 місяці тому

    Enjoyed this! You explain things so so well and intellectually. Excited for part two!

  • @theonoelle
    @theonoelle 3 місяці тому +1

    HI NOAH SO EXCITED FOR NEW MUSIC

  • @moonticorn
    @moonticorn 3 місяці тому

    ❤omg thank you so much for putting yourself in a vulnerable position to help other people ❤

  • @FortK
    @FortK 3 місяці тому +1

    Back when I was 11, riding my bike 🚲 on the sidewalk on the next block, a kid playing on a porch screamed out “hey are you a boy or a girl”. I replied “somewhere in between”. Only logical explanation at the time, as far as my vocabulary good muster (summer of 1969). I’ve long since transitioned FTM, remember that day clearly, which always elicits a smile for that brave young kid I was then. Be proud of who you are today, and proud of who you will be tomorrow. Be patient, let yourself be you!

  • @sageraeofficial
    @sageraeofficial 3 місяці тому

    meeting you in March at the Fort Worth show i love your energy cannot wait!

  • @rlwpower
    @rlwpower 3 місяці тому +1

    This was a very educational video for me. I am glad you did it. Great job.

  • @LibertateMuzicala
    @LibertateMuzicala 3 місяці тому

    Bro, i just love you for who you are and what you do! So please keep going ❤

  • @A_Guy_Named_Jeronimo
    @A_Guy_Named_Jeronimo 3 місяці тому +4

    YOUR NEW SONG IS AMAZING NOAHFINNCE

  • @marchalmoody1009
    @marchalmoody1009 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the info. I came to this channel through your music, and got really confused at first (I've always know you as Noah). I hope this can help those that need it.

  • @rileykate37
    @rileykate37 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for answering these questions bc I've needed answers for some of these (either myself or others have asked me). Love you and your videos so much, and I can't wait for part 2 ❤

  • @sammo9086
    @sammo9086 3 місяці тому +1

    Omg I love that u briefly talked about the gatekeeping within the trans community as well as outside of it. I'm a non-binary trans*masc and it was for me a long time rly hard to feel trans enough bcs my childhood experience were different compared to other trans experiences I learned off at that time. And I was scared other trans ppl would tell me I was not trans enough.
    That is why I first came out as non-binary and only later as trans*masc. I think additionally I still carry a lot of baggage with the term man and therefore it needed a lot of redefining for me. Anyway thx for bringing this up, I feel this a lot.
    Uhhh and I LOVE ur music! :))

  • @lindsayestrella9959
    @lindsayestrella9959 3 місяці тому +4

    the lighting in this video is actually perfect

  • @boredperson-xj1ks
    @boredperson-xj1ks 2 місяці тому

    Ty noah- im a teenager figuring out my identify and i'd be a complete liar if i didnt say that i have questioned if im trans or not and your channel (especially videos like these where you answer questions) just helps me get more of a grasp on what being trans is like and answers the questions im too scared to ask my parents-

  • @madisonparker01983
    @madisonparker01983 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm non-binary, questioning trans man but watching this chance makes me so happy and seeing Noah (and LGBTQIA+ videos in general) make me so happy being happy with them!

  • @user-lv8to3rt9y
    @user-lv8to3rt9y 3 місяці тому

    thats a really good description about dysphoria physically feeling like guilt. my dysphoria feels a lot like that too but ive never put it into words

  • @septiceye_3706
    @septiceye_3706 3 місяці тому +6

    I absolutely loved watching this video and I can't wait for part 2 to come out! Been stuck in that uncomfortable "my online friends know about my gender identity but no one in my family does" type situation (I thought I'd have it figured out by now tbh, especially now as an adult but here we are) and I often feel so hopeless - like I'll never get to where I want to be at. But videos like this and hearing Noah talk about his past experiences gives me hope that I too one day can make that leap and leave this uncomfortable in between state. Thank you for your videos and music, Noah! It genuinely makes things feel less dark 💙💙💙💙

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts.

  • @nottomass
    @nottomass 3 місяці тому +3

    your shirt is so sick im obsessed :0

  • @Nyxtime
    @Nyxtime 3 місяці тому

    I love you so much. Thank you for making me feel better about who I really Am.❤️

  • @dereknewbury163
    @dereknewbury163 3 місяці тому +2

    You are a great advocate and communicator, Noah. Good luck with the tour

  • @LeoStarred
    @LeoStarred 3 місяці тому +1

    started t a week ago today!!!!! ur channel has been genuinely so helpful and comforting , you're certainly a trans guy I look up to!! I love your music too :)

  • @HistorysHodgepodge
    @HistorysHodgepodge 3 місяці тому +4

    I'll timestamp since maybe some of you are eager to get to a particular question.
    0:00 intro
    2:07 "what was it like detaching yourself from your dead name and letting 'Noah' become part of your internal identity?"
    4:38 "'Do you get annoyed/sad when people talk about your lack of beard?"
    5:54 "why do you think most people don't get bottom surgery? Is it the recovery +results?"
    8:20 "Do you believe that only trans people should be able to bind their chests? I've seen loads of people that do."
    9:00 "Does going on T affect your sex drive?"
    9:18 "Opinion on cis people doing trans debates?"
    10:08 "Do you find it offensive or off-putting if a guy has a preference for trans guys like they only date or seek out trans guys to date?"
    11:00 "How long until T started having real noticeable effects?"
    11:30 "How do trans females successfully get rid of facial hair? Not the right person to ask. It is a forever my burning question. As a cis female, this is a lifelong battle."
    11:41 Do you prefer it in the ass or in the front?
    12:15 Why do we have microlabels if gender is a spectrum and there is (in theory) infinite ways to express yourself and thus potentially infinite possible labels?"
    13:00 Did you/do you ever feel that you aren't 'trans' enough compared to other trans people?
    14:09 Do you think trans kids watching your videos would feel happy to see where you're at or just be reminded they're not there yet and be sad watching your videos
    14:50 Could you describe the feeling of feeling like you're trans?
    16:14 How do you feel about cis people who continue to support transphobic celebrities despite their bigotry? is that an immediate deal breaker for you? e.g., someone still largely obsessing over harry potter
    17:53 Why do some trans people get so upset/mad when you accidently dead name them?
    19:04 When you get bottom surgery can you chose how long your c__k is like can it be a foot long?
    Next week:
    20:01 Does having sex make you dysphoric?
    20:03 Is your name legally Noah?
    done!

  • @hippiemetalhead
    @hippiemetalhead 3 місяці тому +7

    thank you so much for your videos, you helped me to accept the fact that I'm trans and feel better, I love you❤

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @hippiemetalhead
      @hippiemetalhead 3 місяці тому

      @@p-__ what's farts?

  • @elanorsloan6612
    @elanorsloan6612 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for making this video. I just started testosterone a few weeks ago and watching this video was just what I needed right now

  • @solkarn
    @solkarn 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for answering these questions clearly and patiently. Im 100% agree with that. When I explain someone what is my experience of being trans, I say the same things

  • @brodiebuckingham2846
    @brodiebuckingham2846 2 місяці тому

    Holy crap man, the way you described going by your new name after socially transitioning really helped me, I've been having really hard thoughts about how I might've tricked myself into it but hearing the way it didn't feel right, right away made it better

  • @BiMyself_
    @BiMyself_ 3 місяці тому +1

    i’m so excited to watch this

  • @neverlives
    @neverlives 3 місяці тому +7

    was rlly stressed ab my test tomorrow but this was very calming thank you mr finnce

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому +2

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @dinosaurs_rule
      @dinosaurs_rule 3 місяці тому +1

      Good luck in your test

  • @AnneOnymaus
    @AnneOnymaus 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for being prepared to answer these kind of questions, Noah: you're doing good work for trans & cis people alike.
    Best wishes, from an Aussie ally

  • @melissa_jelinic
    @melissa_jelinic 3 місяці тому

    I love your educational videos! I think it'd be great if you had like a google form or something where people could anon ask questions and you could kind of collect them for another q&a in the future. I missed this one and it's also made me think of other questions

  • @wdtproductions6710
    @wdtproductions6710 3 місяці тому +3

    my best friend is a trans guy so he knows that when i ask him questions it comes purely from my rabid curiosity
    But he also will very gladly explain trans things to me, sometimes unprompted, which is convenient

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts.

  • @appl3sauc3la
    @appl3sauc3la 3 місяці тому

    describing the feeling of dysphoria as like guilt resonated with me SO much. i've never known how to explain how it feels to cis people and that literally makes so much sense. another day, another brilliant moment from NOAHFINNCE :)

  • @Asa-io8gu
    @Asa-io8gu 3 місяці тому +18

    Thank you, i have a trans i person in My family and i dont want to sound rude if Im asking them on trans stuff😅❤

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @Asa-io8gu
      @Asa-io8gu 3 місяці тому +1

      @@p-__ ok?

    • @mikusuwu420
      @mikusuwu420 3 місяці тому +1

      hey, if you have any other questions u can ask them to me! cuz yk noah can't really answer all hah. i found i really enjoy answering cis people's questions

    • @Asa-io8gu
      @Asa-io8gu 3 місяці тому +1

      @@mikusuwu420 thank you i’ll keep that in mind

  • @shellyfoster7319
    @shellyfoster7319 3 місяці тому

    Hello Noah. I am 70 yrs old and I have been following you for a couple yrs. I have learned so much from you. I really support you and I truly love to listen to you talk. You are very knowledgeable and you are a great teacher. Thank you.

  • @Lochness184
    @Lochness184 3 місяці тому +2

    I get so much euphoria from watching these videos
    Love you Noah!

  • @codeymiller5954
    @codeymiller5954 3 місяці тому +1

    for microlabels, its the same for colours, infinite number of colours, but we still give them labels, and some people might view a certain colour as a different label to someone else. and light's not just a spectrum, it has brightnesses too each with different names, like pink being a light red

  • @sam.ethystt
    @sam.ethystt 3 місяці тому +1

    I used to watch your vids when I was pre-T in 2017/2018. Haven’t been on trans UA-cam in a longgggg while BUT I’m glad I watched this today. This vid feels so relatable and seeing your channel again makes me feel like I’ve come so far. Much more at peace now. Seeing other trans guys go through the same experiences/thoughts as I did without viewing it from under the lens of jealousy and hurt like I used to is such a relief.

  • @beeurd
    @beeurd 3 місяці тому

    Kudos to you for being so open about your experiences.
    Although I'm not trans, there are a bunch of things you said that resonated with me as a gay guy, particularly the fear of coming out to extended family members, somehow that can sometimes seem worse than coming out to the people close to you. There seems to be a perception that coming out is a one-time thing but instead it can be a very long and repetitive journey. It's always interesting to me when people say they knew from a young age that they were different because although I know a lot of people who had that but I didn't know I was gay until I was like 20-something; looking back I can see it should have been obvious but it feels like there was a whole aspect of me that was locked away until I got the DLC. I guess growing up as a practising Catholic and going to school during Section 28 didn't help with that.
    Anyway, rambling over. Keep doing what you do!

  • @RyattWolf
    @RyattWolf 3 місяці тому +1

    14:08 Personally, watching Noah’s videos helps distract me from my dysphoria. Watching cis, male creators on bad days just makes me feel like I’ll never be able to look like them. Watching Noah’s videos helps remind me that it’s possible.

  • @user-mz6ri3bu4l
    @user-mz6ri3bu4l Місяць тому +1

    (I don't speak English, so I'm sorry if there are any mistakes, I used a translator)
    I'm a trans guy pre-t (and I won't be able to do anything until I'm twenty? I'm not sure that later I will be able to have top surgery, change my documents, or go on hormone therapy, because I'm afraid to move to another country, and transgender people are literally banned in my country????? stupid Russia.) I want to say that despite the fact that I still look so well... It's disgusting, I admire you and your videos, they help me feel that I'm not alone, and I also feel what can probably be called euphoria? your videos help me in a difficult moment, and I'm just glad that one day I came across you on the Internet. You also have SOME REALLY cool songs. No envy, just love.

  • @jamiethestranger91
    @jamiethestranger91 3 місяці тому

    Loved this video noah, been watching you for a long time and have always enjoyed your content!. I am currently 7 months on testosterone

  • @carmosilva3589
    @carmosilva3589 3 місяці тому +5

    As an agender person who feels more comfortable with being called boy, I just try to separate myself from other people's perceptions of me, even though it's stressful

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      my farts are better than Noah’s farts.

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma 3 місяці тому +2

      I felt this as a rxsboy (it's under the agender umbrella)

    • @carmosilva3589
      @carmosilva3589 3 місяці тому +1

      @@PGOuma is it like a demiboy? I never heard of it

  • @dudewheresmydad__
    @dudewheresmydad__ 3 місяці тому

    AAH IM SEEING YOU IN MARCH IM SO EXCITED

  • @Lukas_695
    @Lukas_695 3 місяці тому +2

    for once im early to this wonderful person's videos