“I DON’T DATE TRANS PEOPLE, AM I TRANSPHOBIC?” | NOAHFINNCE

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  • IS IT TRANSPHOBIC TO NOT DATE TRANS PEOPLE? WHAT ABOUR DETRANSITIONERS? I’M ANSWERING THE QUESTIONS! THANK U I GUESS CIS PEOPLE AND TRANSGENDERS
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  • @nottomass
    @nottomass 4 місяці тому +514

    no because the moment noah addressed trans kids i started crying then he continued the sentence and now im sobbing so thank you noah you are very big brotherly

    • @MadeAnAccountOnlyToReplyToThis
      @MadeAnAccountOnlyToReplyToThis 3 місяці тому

      You have been groomed by internet communities. You have a decision. You can choose to continue down this path towards self-mutilation, or you can choose to save yourself and be content with the body you were given.

    • @snap.-_-
      @snap.-_- 3 місяці тому +9

      ​@@MadeAnAccountOnlyToReplyToThis"self mutilation" ok karen

    • @MadeAnAccountOnlyToReplyToThis
      @MadeAnAccountOnlyToReplyToThis 3 місяці тому

      @@snap.-_- To become a "male", a skin graft is taken off the leg and sewn into a cosmetic, non-functioning penis. It is incapable of reproduction and excretion. The body treats it as scar tissue, just as it does the "female" operation.

    • @Therianboi
      @Therianboi 3 місяці тому +6

      @@snap.-_-I LOVE UR PFP😻

    • @snap.-_-
      @snap.-_- 3 місяці тому +6

      @@Therianboi thank you lol

  • @1rkhachatryan
    @1rkhachatryan 4 місяці тому +390

    I always tell people, particularly gay men that you're not transphobic for not wanting to sleep with trans man, the transphobic part is it usually follows up wit you're delusional and I like real men etc. That's the transphobic part lol. Its why it's ridiculous when they try to call me bi when I say I'm attracted to trans men too even when I straight up have zero attraction to cis women.

    • @dnzozo
      @dnzozo 4 місяці тому +31

      you are my hope for humanity

    • @wjulabasia5191
      @wjulabasia5191 4 місяці тому

      Too bad there are many individuals thst say otherwise and abuse the word "transphobe".
      I think it causes many people who are truly transphobic to have a free out of jail card: "People call everyone a transphobe!!!"

    • @planetaryg0
      @planetaryg0 4 місяці тому +3

      am i transphobic for only liking trans men, not cis men? i always get mixed opinions on this :/

    • @1rkhachatryan
      @1rkhachatryan 4 місяці тому +13

      @@planetaryg0 need more info about you to know for sure lol.

    • @dnzozo
      @dnzozo 4 місяці тому +32

      @@planetaryg0 if you don't consider trans men real men or it's not just about genital preference, yeah

  • @Castkett4ever
    @Castkett4ever 4 місяці тому +112

    I had surgery for my tumor, which has left me with a traumatic 5 week hospital stay and a long term (mild) disability. I regret it but nobody freaks out when learning about what happened to me and tries to ban the surgery, rightly so because I was on the unlucky/mistake side, not the majority when it comes to outcome

    • @nervesconcord
      @nervesconcord 3 місяці тому +4

      I think the issue largely comes when talk of surgery being offered to people under the age of 18 and the certain level of mental gymnastics that can occur with people when they defend it. I've seen people asked about tattoos and say that a 12 year old can't consent because it's permanent and they can't make informed decisions at that age immediately about face when asked about reassignment surgery, and their tune immediately changes to that of 12 year olds suddenly knowing their own bodies and being able to make a far more life changing decision... but not enough for a tattoo though? When people see that sort of hypocritical reaction it immediately makes the whole thing seem very shady and underhand.
      As far as I'm concerned, if you are of an age of informed consent you can have a unicorn horn fused to your skull for all I care, you do you. But anyway, hope your recovery is swift bud.

    • @Castkett4ever
      @Castkett4ever 3 місяці тому +8

      @@nervesconcord I was 16 when I had my surgery and still, nobody ever questioned the choice. But I understand your point about hypocrisy. I do believe that 12 year-olds shouldn't get surgery (or tattoos). I also believe it's not something that happens. At 16? I've heard of some, absolutely. At 12, most trans kids would receive therapy and maybe puberty blockers, which are reversible as far as we know.
      On another note, thanks for being polite in your response! Sounds dumb to acknowledge it, but the amount of times people throw insults is way to high.

    • @nervesconcord
      @nervesconcord 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Castkett4ever I can say the exact same thing around being polite tbh, it seems people can't have calm and informed discussion around sensitive subjects any more; unless you immediately fall in lockstep with their view you're a bigotoraceophobopile. I hate goddamn thought tribalism.
      I think the main thing with the age part is the statistic that a lot of people under the age of 18 who think they might be trans actually, and without any sort of interventions, realise themselves that they're just homosexual and the dysphoric stage was a part of their process in coming to terms with their sexuality. Obviously this isn't the case for everyone, yourself apparently included, but the problem is finding where to draw a necessary firm line on an issue where either way you might end up catching some people on the wrong side of it; either trans people who wish for more permanent measures to make themselves comfortable being denied until an arbitrary point, or homosexual people who might in turn be railroaded down a path where given enough time they would realise that it wasn't a path they actually wanted to go down, and after a severely stunted puberty or surgery it's already far too late.
      Honestly I feel the correct answer is one that should be undertaken personally. I have two tattoos, each of them I spent 6 months thinking about, constantly asking myself whether I was certain I wanted them, the design, the image, whether I would regret them etc. In doing this I actually did change my mind on one because I gave myself long enough to think, and I think in cases like reassignment, a similar approach should be taken by both the individual and their medical professionals before any sort of treatments are applied. For the latter, rather than being seen (as they often are and as a result of which being less inclined to do so) like they are trying to dissuade trans people from undergoing reassignment, but instead because they are doing so out of care for those individuals who in fact are just going through a stage of them realising themselves. Of course, this won't do anything to prevent parents declaring their 4 year old is trans because they picked up a doll once or they prefer cars over princesses, but it's certainly an approach that could be applied at the sharpest end of the discussion.
      Ain't it fun when we can all just chat and get along lol

    • @Castkett4ever
      @Castkett4ever 3 місяці тому +6

      @@nervesconcord Figuring yourself, whether it is sexuality or gender, is difficult no matter how old one is. I agree that parents shouldn't label their kids as trans because they like something that is stereotypically not for their gender. If a boy likes dolls, it doesn't mean he is trans. From what I've seen, so I am not stating this as a fact, it's not the majority of parents who do think like that; which is reassuring.
      Surgery, whether it's for a tumor, like my case, or GRS, or anything else, should not be done without a lot of thinking (what are the pros and cons, ...) and without giving it time to reflect, just like you did for your tattoos. I think that the topic is simply not a white and black situation and should be taken case by case, with a baseline of not doing surgery under a certain age. It's a complicated topic that will always have people disagreeing, no matter how things are done.

  • @micheleirl22
    @micheleirl22 4 місяці тому +205

    I'm a trans woman and your videos give a very good expleations to cisgender people to understand us trans people. I learned a lot as well a long the time about the transition opposite of mine works from your videos.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 4 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @MadeAnAccountOnlyToReplyToThis
      @MadeAnAccountOnlyToReplyToThis 3 місяці тому

      You will never be a woman. You know this. If you felt you were truly a woman, you would not need to add a qualifier beforehand. There is time to reverse your decisions.

    • @conlon4332
      @conlon4332 3 місяці тому

      @@p-__ ?????

    • @digitalreko
      @digitalreko 2 місяці тому +1

      @@p-__they’re not

    • @Sqwidiot
      @Sqwidiot Місяць тому +1

      if that's you in your profile, you look great

  • @minipolitician7018
    @minipolitician7018 4 місяці тому +203

    THANK YOU!!! Not wanting to date a trans person before bottom surgery is NOT transphobic. It’s called genital preferences people.

    • @radical_emo.
      @radical_emo. 3 місяці тому

      but not wanting to date a trans person who has had all the surgeries and shit because they are trans, that it is transphobic

    • @planetgd
      @planetgd 3 місяці тому +6

      But how do I tell?? Because it obviously feels so disrespectful asking someone.

    • @CodeineSkeeter
      @CodeineSkeeter 3 місяці тому +6

      It's not transphobic after the surgery either

    • @minipolitician7018
      @minipolitician7018 3 місяці тому +2

      @@CodeineSkeeter reaallllllll. 100% agree.

    • @minipolitician7018
      @minipolitician7018 3 місяці тому +3

      @@planetgdFair enough. Like "Have you gone through surgery yet? If not I won't date you." Kind of awkward.

  • @VoicedNat
    @VoicedNat 4 місяці тому +57

    Oh wow, the gaydar for trans people is real, I was questioning myself so much and worrying about it all the time that now it's active all day and sometimes I catch myself analyzing people in the streets. I wish I hadn't my brain wired like this :(

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @RolePlayingEditor
      @RolePlayingEditor 3 місяці тому +4

      Yah, I relate. I always gotta keep myself in check, can't be who I want just yet- It's always bothering me!

  • @linaj.moratoo.8039
    @linaj.moratoo.8039 4 місяці тому +112

    3 day headache is such a banger!!!! Loved it!

  • @Nova_is_silly_goofy
    @Nova_is_silly_goofy 4 місяці тому +91

    I’m agender and I think finding you in my recommended helped me understand that I wasn’t a girl like everyone had always told me when I had asked “why do I have to be one or the other? I don’t wanna be either” and was met with “you were born that way”
    I would have continued convincing myself I was just imagining it and it was normal to question yourself if these videos didn’t exist as well as other people in my life
    So thank you

    • @dasha_ucko
      @dasha_ucko 4 місяці тому +8

      Same! I'm coming to terms with non-binary, and suddenly my hatred for gendered products makes so much more sense now - it was more than just feminism

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 4 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @Nova_is_silly_goofy
      @Nova_is_silly_goofy 3 місяці тому +1

      @@dasha_ucko Exactly! I never liked using public restrooms bc I didn't like the idea of being a girl, but I didn't wanna be in the mens one either, I just said it was because I thought it was gross.

    • @Nova_is_silly_goofy
      @Nova_is_silly_goofy 3 місяці тому +1

      @@p-__ Erm... What the scallop!!!

  • @alexelion7084
    @alexelion7084 3 місяці тому +10

    About detransitioning: I think what needs to happen is to have more research about detransitioners, especially their reasons for transitioning in the first place (and maybe also how they came to the decision to detransition). As far as I‘m aware there are some fairly common issues that make people believe they are trans when they are not and these should be standard things to be checked if someone wants to transition.
    We also should make our society more accepting of both being „gender nonconforming“ without thinking they must be gay or trans, and of experimenting with your gender identity and being able to transition socially without being judged for doing so and without being judged if you realized it isn’t for you. I believe social transition is the best way to determine if someone is really trans, because they can try it and if it isn’t right, they can just go back no harm done.
    The last thing is more therapy!! No matter if someone is trans or not or thinks they are, making therapy more accessible and treating issues if there are any goes a long way in general, but in the case of someone thinking they are trans, taking care of any other issues will either make them realize they aren’t actually trans, or it might rule out some sources of confusion.
    This all would make (potential) detrans peoples lives, trans peoples lives and basically everyones lives better! Why can’t we just all agree on that instead of going against each other?

    • @danielthecake8617
      @danielthecake8617 Місяць тому

      most people never realize that racism and transphobia etc is natural. a kid who has had no experience with black or asian people will naturally look at them weird. you can't fix that. what you can do is try to introduce the foreign person the same way as a non foreign person. most trans people hate detrans because it comepletely breaks the idea that you know if you're trans or not. they just need introduced as normal people.
      also, the idea that you know you're trans from birth is crazy. trans ideas develop from experiences and preferences, not genetics or other crazy voodoo stuff.

  • @joshuadk13
    @joshuadk13 3 місяці тому +7

    Weird tangent but my mother had breast reduction surgery last month for chronic pain and the whole time I couldn’t help thinking “now why is this acceptable but trans top surgery isn’t as much?”

  • @monsterduck2756
    @monsterduck2756 4 місяці тому +30

    lol that clock will haunt me forever

  • @elton1981
    @elton1981 3 місяці тому +11

    15:06 I’m totally gay. As in women do literally nothing for me. But I have ‘been’ with a trans-guy who hadn’t had btm surgery, and I would again. Thing is even though his bits were different to mine, i still saw him as a man. If i didn’t I don’t think I would have gone all the way. It was one of the hottest encounters I’ve ever had.

  • @Rr-yo7go
    @Rr-yo7go 3 місяці тому +10

    as a lesbian I thank you for calling me a double girl!

  • @ScizzoringGirlz
    @ScizzoringGirlz 4 місяці тому +68

    Saying you’re transphobic is like saying you’re sexist for not wanting to date women 😃 it’s okay to have preferences and you don’t need to date people you don’t want to date!

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 4 місяці тому +1

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @ArAsDeCos
      @ArAsDeCos 3 місяці тому +9

      There's a difference between preferences (only wanting to date men, for example) and just not wanting to date someone solely because they're trans. Hope that helps

    • @Tobithepurpleducc
      @Tobithepurpleducc 3 місяці тому +4

      I’m a trans person, I’m grey-aroace and I would honestly prefer dating a cis person if at all. Like you said, it’s a preference, it doesn’t make you transphobic :)

    • @Tobithepurpleducc
      @Tobithepurpleducc 3 місяці тому +2

      @@ArAsDeCosI think they meant sexual preference

    • @al3xf132
      @al3xf132 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ArAsDeCos it’s generally a sexual preference as opposed to not seeing trans women/men as women/men. And other aspects are also just preferences, you might not want to date a guy (cis or not) with a high voice, and same with a woman with a deep voice (cis or not) both of which can happen when you’re not trans. (I am trans btw)

  • @cursedbug
    @cursedbug 3 місяці тому +10

    The being able to spot trans people as a trans person is so real. I had a dentist appt at a new place and the second I saw the nurse that was getting me set up and everything I was like 'that's a trans man if I've ever seen one' I was also wearing my pronoun pins that day and he asked me if I started transitioning yet and how that was going for me, and how testosterone changed his life. And in my head I was like ha I knew it

  • @snap.-_-
    @snap.-_- 4 місяці тому +46

    😂 I clicked so fast
    12:49 no cause same. Glad im not alone lol
    13:37 jump scare

    • @linaj.moratoo.8039
      @linaj.moratoo.8039 4 місяці тому +3

      Who doesn't 😂

    • @a_weird_mess3
      @a_weird_mess3 4 місяці тому +1

      Kinda same when I was little but I did try standing up but it’d be too difficult so yeah I’d just face the toilet and think that I’m peeing like a boy lol

    • @Oreoaxolotl1
      @Oreoaxolotl1 4 місяці тому +1

      I just saw you on a diff video by a completely different person omg

    • @snap.-_-
      @snap.-_- 4 місяці тому

      @@Oreoaxolotl1 omg which one?

    • @Oreoaxolotl1
      @Oreoaxolotl1 4 місяці тому +1

      @@snap.-_- hmm lemme check

  • @sunsetiza
    @sunsetiza Місяць тому +7

    i dont think anyone in their life ever changes sexualities, they discover :)

  • @Solllaz
    @Solllaz 4 місяці тому +16

    ❤❤ I love the trans kid part. I’m 15, almost 16, and my grandparents said they can’t mentally handle me medically transitioning. But I feel so unsafe and uncomfortable in my body, of course I haven’t voiced this out because I’m scared of ruining everything as it is right now. Going to crack soon though, I was in a horrible spot a few days ago when I was on my period. Dissociated a lot and seriously wanted to just die. Silly guy feelings!!

    • @danielthecake8617
      @danielthecake8617 Місяць тому

      please, don't medically transition until you think it is absolutely sure. try finding someone you can trust and just make friends. if you have an lds church in your area try going there (they are really nice). find something you love doing and commit yourself to it. surgery doesn't fill the emptiness permanently.

    • @Solllaz
      @Solllaz Місяць тому +3

      @@danielthecake8617 I will not take this negatively though I feel like on my side I must argue, I have things that make me happy and at peace, it’s my body that ruins it; gender affirming care would just be my knee surgery to a broken knee (if you get that reference). So, I do not feel empty in side, I have people I love and that love me, I go to therapy and actually my mental health is getting better. But my thoughts, and brain, has never changed about feeling unsafe and uncomfortable in my body and certain aspects of the biological sex I was born into.

  • @lindsayestrella9959
    @lindsayestrella9959 4 місяці тому +44

    I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW YOU EXPECT ME TO WAIT A WHOLE NOTHER MONTH FOR YOUR ALBUM BUT IM SO EXCITED ANYWAY LY

  • @WaterLilly4446
    @WaterLilly4446 4 місяці тому +55

    I want to meet you so bad! 😭 you actually really helped me come out and feel comfortable with myself, you've also helped me deal with bullying. I'm youth LGBTQ+ so it's really hard, THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 4 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @Catpuke14
      @Catpuke14 3 місяці тому

      ​@@p-__ WHAT

  • @mikuenjoyerXD
    @mikuenjoyerXD 3 місяці тому +11

    I'm doing it, it's been really scary. I've been out as a trans guy for two days and my family has been harsh and it's even more embarrassing that im 22 and this isn't the first time i tried to come out but this time im not going to get scared and go back on it. It just gets so terrifying having a body

  • @shadesofcallum
    @shadesofcallum 4 місяці тому +30

    the real transphobia surrounding dating is the gatekeeping towards straight and gay/lesbian individuals who date trans people. if a gay man likes me then hes still gay and it others me when people go 'no hes straight' or 'hes bi'
    but also the intersection of transphobia and biphobia where people will be homophobic towards me no matter who i date because im trans is so annoying.
    MORAL OF THE STORY dont gatekeep sexuality because its a nuanced experience and call yourself what you want and date who you want

  • @unicorn14
    @unicorn14 4 місяці тому +12

    OT but I noticed your Fugglers in the background and I love the multicoloured one.

  • @oliverhalewood3364
    @oliverhalewood3364 4 місяці тому +9

    I am autistic and I like to watch noah and I like the colour yellow and roller skating too 🎉 hi to everyone who likes noah too

  • @highoninfinity
    @highoninfinity 3 місяці тому +6

    i've watched u since i was like 12 and i'm 18 now, just finally started T almost two months ago :') it's awesome to see how much you've grown u have always made me feel so much less alone in my life as a trans guy. thank you

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

  • @kezinoel
    @kezinoel 3 місяці тому +5

    Im an Irish dancer and there is a young (like 8 or 9 years old) trans boy who is a few levels below me and it shocked me how much the dance school calmly told us. The younger kids reactions though were adorable… they were like “well thats okay because i wear clothes from the boys section! Thats nothing to be ashamed about!” Or “yeah i get it! Sometimes you just don’t like your name.” And everyone (well almost) was so understanding and it was just so wholesome ❤

    • @cutiepiepanini
      @cutiepiepanini 2 місяці тому +1

      the fact a 9 year old was allowed to make such a big decision is very concerning.

    • @kezinoel
      @kezinoel 2 місяці тому

      @@cutiepiepanini cutting hair and changing name? How is that a big decision?

    • @cutiepiepanini
      @cutiepiepanini 2 місяці тому +1

      @@kezinoel how is changing their entire identity not a big decision?

    • @kezinoel
      @kezinoel 2 місяці тому

      @@cutiepiepanini Because they could always go back. Its not like he had surgery or changed a birth certificate

    • @cutiepiepanini
      @cutiepiepanini 2 місяці тому +1

      @@kezinoel except they can't just go back??? I'm assuming you believe 9 year olds should be able to have alcohol and enlist in the army too? like you're doing the exact opposite of supporting and helping questioning children

  • @justethan03
    @justethan03 2 місяці тому +3

    I want to legally change my name to Ethan (I’ll make up a fake deadname, Layla) and my friend said “I don’t care if your name is legally Ethan, I don’t care if it’s your name by law. I’ll still call you Layla because it isn’t fair on me to call you Ethan if I’ve always known you as Layla.” okay then !! ouch !!

  • @TomiThemself
    @TomiThemself 4 місяці тому +8

    Gosh, if I were financially stable, I would buy all the EPs and albums, both vinyl and CDs (I love vinyls) :c

  • @lucyohno
    @lucyohno 4 місяці тому +11

    ur so educating and funny i’m not lgbtq but i love watching ur vids i find them so useful. Also, i love ur fugglers

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @sugarcoatit1664
      @sugarcoatit1664 Місяць тому

      Fr

  • @hobgoblinmcflorbson3281
    @hobgoblinmcflorbson3281 4 місяці тому +33

    *Timestamps*
    0:25 Does having sex make you dysphoric?
    1:42 Is your name legally Noah?
    2:15 Does sexuality fluctuate on HRT?
    4:06 How does presenting femininely make you feel at this time in your life? (e.g. wearing skirts, dresses, or makeup)
    5:07 Does being trans affect your everyday life?
    6:11 Can you still have an orgasm after gender reassignment surgery and HRT?
    6:43 Do you have any regrets after transitioning?
    8:08 What are your (and other trans folks' you know) thoughts on detransitioning? Do you think there's any way to prevent it? Do you believe there's too much moral panic around it compared to the actual number of cases?
    10:17 Why do trans people feel the need to take testosterone?
    11:58 Was there a specific time or experience that made you realize you were trans?
    13:18 Do you notice when someone is trans? Cis men often claim they always notice when someone is trans, but do you?
    14:23 Do you feel like you pre-transition is a different person?
    15:05 Do you think it's transphobic if a straight person won't be with/in a relationship with a trans individual because they haven't had bottom surgery?
    15:48 Do you think someone has to be bisexual to date a trans person?
    16:23 "So like, u cut ur titties off? did it hurt?"

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 4 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @snap.-_-
      @snap.-_- 3 місяці тому

      ​@@p-__ omg first Anthony's videos and now here? Go away!

  • @artanme
    @artanme 4 місяці тому +3

    Changing my birth certificate was such a pain in the a**, I had to get like 20 different documents that i don't even knew that existed, and i had to pay so much money! Also, i had to pay for every other document, I still haven't done it all, and because of that I can't vote... I live in Brazil btw

    • @azaria7528
      @azaria7528 4 місяці тому

      I can't find my birth certificate and the documents require my parents full names and all their info and I don't know it so I have to have them fill it out but they never have time 🙄🙄

  • @oliviarose-oj5uo
    @oliviarose-oj5uo 4 місяці тому +13

    thank you for this video, it helps me figure out so much about myself and my identity, you have no idea how much your content means to me

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

  • @Tobithepurpleducc
    @Tobithepurpleducc 3 місяці тому +2

    I’m a trans guy, I’ve known since I was younger that I wasn’t a girl, I didn’t know I was a boy, but I knew I just wasn’t a girl. It got waaaay worse once puberty hit, before that I had always just thought of myself as a tomboy with long hair. Now that I’m transitioned, (not medically yet sadly,) I feel so much happier with myself. But when I look at old photos of myself, I feel almost guilty. Like, I want what I had back. I think it’s more so the fact that girls are typically much less homophobic and sexist, but as a cis passing guy (most of the time) I have to worry about my voice, since I can’t use T, can’t have a binder so I have to make sure all of my undershirts aren’t showing, etc. but damn when I put on makeup I really start questioning everything again 🥲

  • @FrozEnbyWolf150
    @FrozEnbyWolf150 4 місяці тому +6

    Sometimes, your orientation can feel like it's changing when you start to transition, not only because your point of reference is changing but also because you might discover new things about yourself. I'm aroace myself, but I'm open to the possibility I might be abrosexual and T4T. Though I'm not in any hurry to rush into that.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 3 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

  • @mxdnxght_moor
    @mxdnxght_moor 4 місяці тому +13

    I wanna share this for others who may be like me: I'm FTM and asexual. I've been on T briefly but unfortunately had to stop bc I couldn't afford it anymore (and I'm DYING to get back on it).
    Before I went on T, I was confused about my sexuality because I found myself 'attracted' to people, but really didn't have much interest in actually *doing* anything sexual with anybody, ever. And then after I went on T, the little bit of sexual attraction I felt completely disappeared and my sex drive actually tanked down to zero. It's because of this brief stint on T that I know very well that I'm Ace and have no interest in sex as a concept (at least, not with other people).
    So just so you know, it is possible for the inverse to happen. Not everyone's sex drives goes up on hormones. Mine competely disappeared, but then came back when I stopped. And I predict that when I go back on T, it'll tank again.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 4 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf
      @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf 3 місяці тому +3

      Fellow ace trans guy! I’m biromantic and have been on T for almost 6 months now, sex drive isn’t a thing for me either lmao. Like I said, biromantic, so I am attracted to people it’s just purely romantic and not sexual. Being more comfortable with myself and my body has made me more confident in my identity as well. Before coming out and being accepted I thought I was straight, which is very much not the case lmao. For some reason I thought being straight made me more of a man I guess? (Big screw you to society for that ideology btw) After coming out, but still before getting on T, I realized that yeah, men are hot, I just didn’t have the confidence to accept that about myself (also friendly reminder that you can identify as bi and be attracted to men, women, and people with nonbinary identities).

  • @zwodder_
    @zwodder_ 4 місяці тому +6

    i've been waiting all day for this

  • @Pogulation
    @Pogulation 4 місяці тому +7

    Istg whenever noah uploads I'll drop whatever I'm doing and watch his upload

  • @Ezechoes
    @Ezechoes 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m getting a record player mad your new album is going to be my first vinyl ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hazyeditsss
    @hazyeditsss 4 місяці тому +2

    NOAHS MUSIC AND JUST OVERALL VIBES>>>>>>

  • @CharlieCole89
    @CharlieCole89 4 місяці тому +3

    3 day headache has been on loop on my Spotify since it came out!

  • @shellyfoster7319
    @shellyfoster7319 3 місяці тому +1

    You are so knowledgeable about this subject. Great job Noah.

  • @hello425
    @hello425 3 місяці тому +2

    I got a ticket for the US tour IM SO EXCITED ❤❤

  • @cw9475
    @cw9475 4 місяці тому +5

    Maybe instead of a skirt you could try a kilt? Go full highlander lol

  • @asher-jo1lzz
    @asher-jo1lzz 4 місяці тому +6

    1:29 is quite literally me rn,, i hope i can someday get top surgery too and talk about it like u are too :’)

  • @charleysdailylife
    @charleysdailylife 4 місяці тому +10

    As a non-binary teenager I love you content ! It really makes my day when you upload a video. I will maybe be present in one of you concert in the U.S. But I have a question: will you come to France ? I would love to see you here !

    • @alexelion7084
      @alexelion7084 3 місяці тому +1

      I‘m nonbinary too and not from France, but not to far from it, he definitely should do a Europe tour

  • @BusyBob6971
    @BusyBob6971 3 місяці тому

    You are one of the more remarkable people I have seen on youtube. I have been following you for years.

  • @rileykate37
    @rileykate37 4 місяці тому +2

    I came out to my mom today (wasn't ready but kinda had to) and this video was great to watch. Helped me calm down. Thank you sososo much for doing what you do ❤❤❤❤

  • @mktvmktv1539
    @mktvmktv1539 4 місяці тому +8

    Hey noah!!! I love you so much and i got vip tickets for your toronto show and am beyond excited!!!!

  • @nottomass
    @nottomass 4 місяці тому +2

    AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH WOOOOOO NEW VIDEOOOOOOOOOO

  • @goblindude4242
    @goblindude4242 4 місяці тому

    Your album is coming out on my birthday! Omg

  • @Spacebomb36
    @Spacebomb36 4 місяці тому

    I got out of school today early, great thing for me to come home to

  • @neverlives
    @neverlives 4 місяці тому

    Been waiting 3 hours for this

  • @TheLakeWitchWriter
    @TheLakeWitchWriter 4 місяці тому +14

    Thanks for not spreading the hatred towards detrans people.

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 4 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

    • @alexelion7084
      @alexelion7084 3 місяці тому +3

      You say you love him despite being trans? Are you implying there is something wrong with being trans or am I just misunderstanding something?

  • @jumxwx9014
    @jumxwx9014 4 місяці тому +3

    ALREADY BOUGHT THE VYNIL!! CANT WAIT FOR IT TO ARRIVE 💗

  • @upsetspaghettio
    @upsetspaghettio 3 місяці тому +1

    some of the things you hit on like feeling pre-pubescent and always being able to tell bc of how you saw yourself really resonated w/ me so I just wanted to thank you for sharing. Have a good day noah :)

  • @coffee_crossing_
    @coffee_crossing_ 4 місяці тому +2

    I SQUEAKED COMING HOME TO SEE YOU POSTED(also I got some of my fans into ur music)
    LOVE YOU NOAH!❤

  • @wilmonfluff
    @wilmonfluff 4 місяці тому

    damn this title is eye catching GOOD JOB JGDJHD

  • @mr.mozquito_
    @mr.mozquito_ 2 місяці тому

    ur vids are great man !! im a trans guy too and i love watching your vids when i get really dysphoric, and it makes me realize what I could look/feel like someday🩵

  • @BrendanTripp
    @BrendanTripp 3 місяці тому +3

    Noah ... very interesting vid ... you certainly opt for an extreme transparency. I'm looking forward to seeing you on tour when you hit Chicago!

  • @C0y0te_.
    @C0y0te_. 2 місяці тому +3

    im getting my first hormone blocker shot this month and yayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayay

  • @Jake_webber18
    @Jake_webber18 4 місяці тому +7

    Love you noah!! 🫶 wish i could see you Cleveland so bad ☹️

  • @Sl33pParalysisDemon
    @Sl33pParalysisDemon 4 місяці тому +1

    U doin great bud :)

  • @deadgirlonlinez
    @deadgirlonlinez 4 місяці тому

    AAA IM COMING FROM MIAMI TO ORLANDO TO SEE U!!

  • @ImboredImboring
    @ImboredImboring 4 місяці тому +22

    WOW, I didn't even watched the video yet but I'm sure it's gonna be a masterpiece, btw I'm trans and I really like the fact that some youtubers like you are capable of doing a real video with real personnal question !
    Thank you, Noah, and good luck with the 1 million!!😢

    • @p-__
      @p-__ 4 місяці тому

      My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨

  • @GHOSTYDiSolace
    @GHOSTYDiSolace 4 місяці тому +2

    Hiii Noah I love 3 Day Headache My new favorite song ❤

  • @NoahFelixx
    @NoahFelixx 4 місяці тому +11

    WOW IM THE FIRST LIKE IM VERY SPECIAL ✨SPECIAL✨, IN BOTH A NEURODIVERGENT WAY AND A NON NEURODIVERGENT WAY

    • @chaoticcacophony2690
      @chaoticcacophony2690 4 місяці тому

      🤓☝️ actually i was 20 seconds before you lmao but congrats

    • @NoahFelixx
      @NoahFelixx 4 місяці тому +2

      @@chaoticcacophony2690 it said 1 like when I liked it but slay u

  • @Noahsharks
    @Noahsharks 4 місяці тому +5

    noah im gonna cry if you dont tour europe in the future

  • @AstraAnimates
    @AstraAnimates 3 місяці тому +1

    THE FUGGLERS IN THE BACKGROUND, I LOVE

  • @salchichon4198
    @salchichon4198 3 місяці тому

    You should do the video rating your own music!

  • @OliverAndLilyGillin
    @OliverAndLilyGillin 3 місяці тому

    I’m just gonna say I love your hair ❤

  • @AndersWatches
    @AndersWatches 4 місяці тому

    I relate a lot, we have a lot of similar experiences.

  • @ineffablemars
    @ineffablemars 4 місяці тому +1

    I wanna see him in Philly so bad!!!

  • @Nautilus.119
    @Nautilus.119 4 місяці тому +5

    3 Day Headache has already found a place in my daily routine...won't ever drop the song, I need thw sonf more than it needs me but I am alright with this one-sided relationship

  • @jiliciar.1423
    @jiliciar.1423 3 місяці тому +1

    I appreciate this video, this help further confirm that I'm bi too.

    • @user-my5nw4sv6s
      @user-my5nw4sv6s 3 місяці тому

      LOL ... next week you will be tan, sand, or hand sexual.

  • @MrCharlesdick
    @MrCharlesdick 4 місяці тому +3

    Regarding skirts, maybe go visit Scotland and try on a kilt? You could ham it up and go scotcher than tape. Could be fun. Maybe make a video of this?

  • @joanarelizcamacho-ik7dd
    @joanarelizcamacho-ik7dd 3 місяці тому +1

    im a big ass fan i like this bruhs music

  • @alyssa_sturniolo44
    @alyssa_sturniolo44 4 місяці тому +1

    noah i love you sm

  • @bruce8443
    @bruce8443 4 місяці тому

    Thanks!

  • @cuartemi6582
    @cuartemi6582 4 місяці тому +1

    Really wanna get tickets to your Portland show!! I’m just about to schedule my top surgery probably in April so I need to know the date for that before purchasing but 🤞

  • @robynstales
    @robynstales 4 місяці тому +3

    hello again noah

  • @jackmedcalf6254
    @jackmedcalf6254 3 місяці тому

    I think you are wonderful!

  • @Thefire957
    @Thefire957 4 місяці тому

    Hes made the part two!!!!

  • @RyattWolf
    @RyattWolf 4 місяці тому +2

    12:49 I just unlocked a memory of me doing/thinking the same thing when I was 5-6 lol

  • @huntercharleston5812
    @huntercharleston5812 3 місяці тому

    14:11 THE BEAR IN THE BIG BLUE HOUSE REFERENCE KILLED ME 😂😂😂

  • @ragnarokelerm
    @ragnarokelerm 4 місяці тому +8

    Here have some ASD (I hold out a bit of my autism)

    • @oliverhalewood3364
      @oliverhalewood3364 4 місяці тому

      Yes I am autistic too and I like yellow and roller skating and noah videos too 🎉 I can't share my autism though but that's so good that you can if you want too , have happy day

    • @ragnarokelerm
      @ragnarokelerm 3 місяці тому

      @@oliverhalewood3364 🦭 here if you ever feel sad or overstimulated think of sealy the seal

  • @Fusiss
    @Fusiss Місяць тому +2

    I’m a lesbian and I don’t actually think I’d mind dating a trans woman since I’d likely not agree to interacting with anyone’s parts full stop anyways. I’m not interested in sex with other people I’ve only ever been interested in a romantic relationship. Not sure if I’ll always feel this way with relationships but yeah.

  • @MoonpieDragonBubblesTea
    @MoonpieDragonBubblesTea 2 місяці тому

    I know how frustrating it can be to talk to your Dr about medications. I've been on so many different pills for my diagnosis over the years. My condition fluctuates too. It's not hormones but it is life saving. It feels like everything changes often. Just when it's going well there's a side effect that needs to be treated with more medications or a switch to something else. I know how that feels. It's very frustrating!😢

  • @scratchthatfnaf
    @scratchthatfnaf 4 місяці тому +4

    saying you dont want to date a trans woman or trans man isn't transphobic. its just saying that 'i want to have bio kids'. wanting to birth and raise a family together isnt transphobic.
    - a trans guy.

    • @lifeaftermidnight6132
      @lifeaftermidnight6132 4 місяці тому +5

      As another trans guy, I agree. Everyone has a genital preference, and that's totally fine. Or, like you said, they may want to have their own children one day. Even if the trans individual did get bottom surgery, it's still fine if someone doesn't want to date a trans person as long as they're respectful and don't invalidate their gender.

    • @snap.-_-
      @snap.-_- 3 місяці тому +1

      It really depends. Are they saying that because the person is trans or is it actually just a preference?

  • @user-yw3gp3wv4y
    @user-yw3gp3wv4y 3 місяці тому

    THE CLOCK JUMPSCARE MADE ME FUCKING CRY 😭👍

  • @coryket
    @coryket 3 місяці тому

    Thank you, Noah!
    Your content helped me realize I'm non-binary.
    Your take on trans-related themes got through my thick layer of denial - I always thought I am a straight gal cause I am attracted to my man (demi 😅) ... how wrong I was.
    I love to be on a journey to myself!
    Keep going!

  • @blindedpearl
    @blindedpearl 3 місяці тому

    To whoever edits your videos:
    WHY ARE YOU SO FRICKING HILARIOUS?!??!?

  • @radirpok99
    @radirpok99 4 місяці тому +1

    Ugh, I totally understand the gel vs nebido thing, I've been on Androgen for 4+ years, still can't switch to nebido because I'm underweight, but my levels are fluctuating all the time, it's difficult to get accurate blood test results with gel, and I genuinely just forget to put it on sometimes...

  • @Nautilus.119
    @Nautilus.119 4 місяці тому +4

    Before I keep watching the video, I want to take a moment to reflect on UA-cam advertisement choice for this video: that was a website for that apparently creates a wedding speech for you...That was super odd...had never seen that ad before...what does it want from me?!!😅🤣😅

    • @Nautilus.119
      @Nautilus.119 4 місяці тому

      Another advertisement stopping the video...about an investment workshop/course and the guy in the video talking about saving money for my family life.....these ads...I think are so extra odd for this video...Anyone else got weird ads on here???

  • @arsonist127
    @arsonist127 3 місяці тому +1

    about changing name legally. where i live, when i wanted to change my name, it costed 50€. (i did not have the money) when i had the money, it costed 60€. i paid 60€ and a shit ton of mental distress because paying is not enough, you also have to navigate the insanely difficult online form to apply to change name, you have to basically traumadump on the application to justify your name change that you are PAYING for… then you have to wait months and go to the office where its rly hard to reserve appointments at and do everything there and then wait months and then you might be allowed a name change.. also now it costs 95€ FOR NO REASON other than the far right government.. inflation did not do that in a few months… like bruhhh….. now my they cant afford to get THEIR OWN NAME. LIKE?!??:?:?;!€;€!?;€;€;

  • @mimo5941
    @mimo5941 3 місяці тому +1

    AHH release date for your album being the same as Adriana grandes is honestly iconic haha. Which one are y'all listening to first?

  • @elliothegland7843
    @elliothegland7843 3 місяці тому

    The sims Edit😭 also we have the same lamp!

  • @Lorenzopurp4213
    @Lorenzopurp4213 3 місяці тому

    4:57 a lot of men wear skirts just for fashion instead of a daily piece of clothing

  • @SwisSarmYGHoul
    @SwisSarmYGHoul 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m so early omg

  • @Rab1d-K9
    @Rab1d-K9 4 місяці тому

    The clock is in my dreams now o_O

  • @nathryl03
    @nathryl03 3 місяці тому

    Regular reminder that you're all awesome, beautiful and valid , just the way you are ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Love you all ❤🧡💛💚💙💜