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I painted my nails today. As a transmasculine person it took me a while, but I'm finally starting to get rid of gender norms! 🏳️⚧️
Proud of you! Painted nails look amazing :)
I'm proud of you :)
I’m a trans guy and i’ve got a similar thing but im painting my nails pink for my schools barbie day so i think im doing okay. Congrats on ur journey!
IM LITERALLY PAINTING MY NAILS AS I WATCH THIS LMAOO (im also transmasc)
So proud of you dude! I painted mine a few weeks ago for the first time since I came out as trans
As a trans person, I don’t personally feel like I was born in the wrong body, and I don’t have an issue with anyone who feels that way. It does get to be a bit of an issue when people say that feeling like you were born in the wrong body idea is the *only* way to be trans, which is annoying gatekeeping garbage. Thankfully that’s only a very small minority of people who think like that.
Exactly. The shift in thinking shouldn't be "no one feels like they're born in the wrong body", but just recognizing that some trans people feel that way while others don't, that the trans experience is complex and individual, and that no trans person's experience is any more or less valid than anyone else's.
Hey, this is really in no way transphobic or anything like that, I just havent heard about that before and if you dont mind, I would like to ask a question. Trans is that you feel a different gender then what was assigned to you at birth isn't it? But if you dont feel the disconnection to your current self or body how do you know you are trans and not just not fitting the "gendernorms"? I am not saying that your experience isnt valid but I am just genuinely curious. 😅
Hope you have a great day and sorry if my English isn't the best, its not my first language...
@@spencer7151a lot of us try to exist outside gender norms, and still don't feel fully comfortable. I tried being a masculine woman but it just didn't work to address the discomfort I was feeling. I'm currently a somewhat feminine trans man, and much happier than I've ever been.
@@jackriver8385first of all I am very happy for you, that you found yourself! And secondly, so there is a sort of discomfort with your current body (before transitioning) but why don't you say then that you were born in the wrong body? Again just curious!
@@spencer7151 you can be uncomfortable with some aspects of your body without the entire body being wrong. It's my body so it can't be wrong, imo. I just had to change some things to be more comfortable
(Sidenote I'm almost a year on T and 5 months post top surgery)
The "born in the wrong body" really fits with me for some reason. I am a triplet of 2 girls and a boy (i am one of the girls for now). I am trans and have always wanted to be a boy and my brother (for now) is also trans and has always wanted to be a girl, so I think that our souls where just swapped around somehow.
Aww, that is sweet! (Although frustrating, I'm sure.)
I'm an only child, so I don't know who I got swapped with. I think just myself on an alternate timeline.
me and my girlfriend have the same scenario! i’m transmasc and she’s transfem lmao
@@electronics-girl kjsdkjds that's literally me. Like - I just imagine myself in an alternate universe being a happy jolly cis girl
@@neptunesdemise that's so cute omg 😭😭
get help
As a trans dude myself. My biggest frustration is when someone accidentally misgenders me and apologizes. I basically just wave them off like "yeah its fine, i dont mind" and they take that as permission to continuously misgender me. All im doing is saying the slip-up is okay, not telling them that they can use whatever pronouns they want for me.
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que internal screaming
@@Rene-is-confused Exactly. ✋️😭
Lol, my friends started using gender neutral pronouns and a shortened version of my dead name before I came out to anyone, I was just wasn’t hiding my gender expression. My mom didn’t believe me when I came out to her as trans, meanwhile my friends were just like “oh thank god we don’t have to pretend not to know anymore”
honestly a mood.
I think the term for this is you had a glass closet
I did too, I cut my hair short, my favourite song was I kissed a girl and I had a really obvious crush on a girl, so when I came out, my mum said, "Ok good, I didn't want to ask before you were ready!" Lol
Lmao I love ur friends for that 😂
MOOD
Hey, I’m in the same situation with the mom not believing you’re trans thing. Any advice?
HI OK I'VE GOT A TAKE ON THE "BORN IN THE WRONG BODY" THING
I always support how someone else describes their own gender dysphoria or their own personal struggles, also personally I just feel like I had the wrong bits. I love my body, I love my shape/size/face/hair/etc, but I hate the parts that make me fem like boobs, vagina, and higher pitched voice (I'm trans FTM). Being friends with a ton of gamers made me describe it as I made my character at the beginning of the game, picked the hair, skin tone, shape, size, etc, then just accidentally clicked "female" instead of "male". It's not that it's the wrong body, it's still my body, it's just the wrong bits.
BTW I'm almost 2 years on T and the happiest I've ever been :D
duuude i feel this so hard. hope i can get on t soon too 🤞
I've never seen it from the angle your describing. Its very intresting. I've always kinda felt that I had my soul inside which was correct and kinda was my "body", and then there was the outer casing which is my actual physical body. I'm not sure if thats the "born int he wrong body" idea
Congrats for the 2 years on T!!!! I hope you join you on that path one day
That's exactly how I would describe it! Nicely worded.
this is so real honestly
Literally how I feel, took the words right out of my mouth. 😄
i’m cis and i may not be on trans TikTok but i’m on trans UA-cam lol. here to support y’all and here because i’m bisexual haha
we appreciate your support, love the bi-s
LOL same but i'm also on trans tik tok. cis Bi power!
OH MY GOD WE’RE THE SAME BASICALLY
((even though i’ve also sort of ended up on conservative transphobe yt and my feed is a little contradicting 😭😭😭😭😭))
@@IsabelleAAAAHH girl why are you on conservative transphobe youtube😭 😭 😭
@@gummitheguppy5901 they just appeared and now they won’t leave 😭😭😭😭
I feel like “born in the wrong body” is a nice easy way to explain it to cis people who don’t understand. Sometimes I feel like that, often times I feel like my body just grow into the wrong one but started out as the right one and if it had not changed and I had puberty blockers it would still be the right one
I don't personally think I was born into the wrong body, but I understand that some people do feel that way
It's a bit silly for people to think that something is untrue just because they haven't experienced it
Yep. It feels to me that people who don’t believe trans is a thing treat us like looking at a person in a wheelchair and telling them to get up and walk due to not being able to imagine not being able to walk🤦🏼♂️
I think a lot of trans people who don’t literally feel like they are born in the wrong body think this phrase was only used as an easy way to explain being trans to cis people because it’s easy to understand, but doesn’t exactly capture the true experience, while in reality it just doesn’t capture their experience. When you are only surrounded by people who tell you this because they believe it themselves, it makes sense that you would believe it too. Most people that repeat this narrative (at least the ones that I have come across) would definitely listen to trans people who do feel like they are born in the wrong body and take them seriously, though I can imagine that there are people who wouldn’t, there are lots of stupid people around
i don’t feel like i was born in the wrong body, i just feel like i got a few things that were meant for someone else.
@@alistair_yippee now this is actually a better way of looking at myself
Bingo, bullseye, right on the money. I wish i could just project this comment into some people's brains to maybe give them a nice dose of the facts you are spitting right now.
i definitely still feel like i was born in the wrong body- idk why people are saying no one feels like that… i’m legit just not in the body i want to be in or i was supposed to be in i don’t want this lol
I thought no one or only few people felt like this because I was told so and it made sense to me (as in: not literally the wrong body but some things are wrong about it) but now I know better. Guess part of why I believed that too is because I have a weird/unusual relationship with my body myself and it feels like a big part of me not feeling like my body/appearance is not quite right, doesn’t actually (only) have to do with me being trans/nonbinary
No yeah I was too. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that I will never have a penis or a completely flat chest unless I get a surgery that could cause serious complications. I don’t actually want to speak because of my voice dysphoria, but my oral grades have always been bad and my teachers are worried.
I’ve previously thought it was social anxiety caused by bullying from my previous school, and it may have been that at some point, but now it’s just my autism planning what I wanna say and my voice dysphoria.
fr i genuinely feel like there was a mistake and i'm just wrong. even as a little kid i would look at myself in the mirror and go 'that's not me, whoever that is isn't me.' i just feel wrong
@@Nat_778 yeah i just got that from the video but yeah i’ve heard many ppl say that nobody feels like they are actually in the wrong body that they are just uncomfortable, but no i am just not supposed to own a body that looks like this it’s not mine it’s some random girl’s lol
Alternative title: Noah saying things then realizing they came out wrong and struggling to re-explain himself
*We love you, Noah.*
ADHD hitting hard
@@laultimarebanada felt that fr lol
@@laultimarebanada Danger: atheism leads to being like the girl in this video, and it's a stepping stone to eternity in the hot place.
You've just been warned by the Virgin Gary.
@@laultimarebanada It's not required of you to believe in Jesus for you to end up spending eternity in the hot place. It's only necessary to believe in Jesus to not end up there. He said it himself.
@@TheVirginGaryLovingDemocrats um I'm gona ssume you're being sarcastic? What does that even mean lol
My first gender affirming haircut was something I gave to myself in a bathroom. Shaved sides but long top and back. I don't even know what I was going for tbh.
Edit: I don't do the born in the wrong body thing for myself because I've always felt like my body was on the masculine side, just needed some adjustments. If you were born in the wrong body, however, you absolutely have the right to self describe that way.
I wasn’t born in the wrong body, but a few things did get mixed up
9:44 I hate that so much. Especially when the women in my family continually talking about how jealous they are of my body all the time, knowing how uncomfortable that makes me. Then they have the audacity to say they’re not transphobic. (This is not the only reason I say they are transphobic, it’s just one of the things they do)
I remember first thinking i could be trans, top surgery had come up in conversation (i already knew i was part of the lgbt community just not trans yet so i knew pleanty about trans people and top surgery already) and thinking "damn, what i would give-". the egg broke in public.
BE YOU BE HAPPY. Also, I love how his dad is just like "YOU are a BULL DOG!" 😂😂😂
i don't feel like i was born in the wrong body, but i know that some trans people do and that's fine. what's annoying is when people use that to define trans people, and say "trans people are people who were born in the wrong body" as a general thing. it can be useful sometimes to explain it to certain people and it's fine if people feel that way personally about their own transness but i don't want trans people's bodies to be seen as wrong as a general rule.
Sorry to get all sappy but that inspirational talk at the end of the video about the future getting better was actually just what I needed today. Thanks Noah 💗💗💗
The inspirational speech at the end sounds like the medical professional level really good that Noah could also choose to be in addition to a UA-camr.
Dinosaurs are in fact cool btw
sameee... like I am the angry adult trans enby (and will fight for every other trans person and especially trans youth) but at the same time sometimes I just feel so small and defeated and I also need others to be angry and protective for me sometimes tbh
@@erdbar718 this is Juliana not Honka this time we are trading phones from time to time.
@@erdbar718 I can meet that need to be angry and protective for you too and support you in doing what you are already doing.
before I was on t I felt like I was born in the wrong body, not because i couldn't ever be happy in my body but because I needed significant changes to my body in order to feel happy in it
I am a cis, bisexual. My friend group consists of about 4 trans boys, a non binary, a few queer cis girls, a gay guy, and 3 or 4 cishets. Myself and two of the others had been diagnosed with severe depression on top of other mental illnesses. UA-camrs such as yourself have helped us all feel better. We send each other different UA-camrs to watch and its made us all happier. Thank you for helping us and being a go to watch when us little Queer kids a are going through tough times
Everyone Noah says "HELLO UNDERACHIEVERS!!!" I honestly can't help but smile lol
Me too, and I’m nearly 50!
4:30 Yup. Going through it right now Noah
12:12 It’s a journey that’s for sure
14:48 Yes, No, Idk
15:21 11/10 is accurate
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I started feeling wrong in my body once puberty came around. Before that i didnt care at all
It’s normal to feel uncomfortable during puberty.
may the ✊🏻✨ never go away
YAAAAZZZ
@AlexUTTP876 i didn’t even use any pronouns buddy 💀 u trippin ballz
Alex being goofy rn 💀
@AlexUTTP876 transphobe so scared of pronouns they start seein it everywhere 💀💀
@AlexUTTP876You transphobed so hard you forgot to spot the pronoun you wanted to replace first💀💀
4:39 Yeah, this is me. I pass most of the time, if I don’t speak, everyone knows me as a guy, even when I wore a very tight fitting uniform with a skirt (because my parents didn’t let me get the guy’s uniform), I was still told I looked like a drag queen by people who didn’t know me (I live in an area where people aren’t exactly transphobic, just very unaware of what to say or how to word things). Then there was my mom, talking to everyone about me as her daughter and using my deadname, I’m pretty sure half of the people there know by now what’s going on, but plenty are unsure what to call me or how to refer to me because they see a guy and hear his mom calling him “she”.
This^^ oh my god the amount of times I've been told I "look like a drag queen" or "look like a trans woman" because I'm afab with a masculine facw and like to dress up 🙃
I'm very envious I have very feminine features that I despise
That last one made me happy. I’m 12 and non binary, and am constantly seeing idiots on the internet invalidate me and others, and much worse stuff like the actual horrific stuff like healthcare. I kinda want puberty blockers but there banned. I’m scared to mention being trans to any adult at this point.
ALWAYS A GOOD DAY WHEN NOAH UPLOADS
@AlexUTTP876get in the bin
This is so true I just have to watch over his videos again for entertainment like I have with this one
I only recently came out to those that matter to me as non binary. I got my hair cut short and the stylist insisted on leaving the points at the sideburn area so I “still look feminine” and I told her I don’t want it to look feminine and she asked very condescendingly “why. Are you gay?” I didn’t say a single word for the rest of the haircut and broke down crying as soon as I walked out the door. She still left the points and didn’t even get my hair short enough.
Also as for misgendering (I use they/them pronouns) it doesn’t bother me much when someone uses the wrong pronouns. What DOES bother me is when I accidentally misgender myself. When you’ve called yourself something for 30 years it can be so hard and weird trying to break that habit.
Doesn’t exist
really sorry that happened. stylists can be so entitled, like god.
Noah i just want to, ya know, just hug you. You are such a positive force for trans youth nowadays. Thank you, genuinely.
Noah as a transmasc who is sick right now this was very relatable
Yooo I’m a transmasc whose sick rn too
Yea I relate just to being sick and Honka is really mad currently at Matt from the pool because Matt called me fat and told me my legs are to big in addition to not taking my trauma that is now an open noncrocked police and detective investigation tho not by my calling 911. However because I live in reality that I am cool with having been done. He has a mood swing and called Matt a stupid fucking asshole and is really focused on meeting his needs of standing up for me to various people he very mad and raging at currently. I think he will comment his support later he loves Noah even if he is mad right.
Honka relates to being transgender female to male. I don’t relate to that and it try my best to understand and related to anything that I have had similar experiences to as someone that is transgender.
I relate also though to feeling unwell or sick currently. But thankfully Honka isn’t feeling unwell and is feeling a lot better currently. He doesn’t feel sick at all he feels way better.
Fellow Transmasc who is sick rn :)
Ok but the haircut thing 😂
One day several years before I figured my stuff out a guy said something about how every trans guy gets that first really bad pixie cut and I got offended which made me question EVERYTHING. That guy single handedly and unwittingly caused both my gender and sexuality crisis lol
I use the “born in the wrong body” thing to tell people how I felt because before surgery and T I WAS NOT comfortable in the slightest and saying “ye i’m in the wrong body” helped and ye it’s been a couple years but I still say that because it makes it easier for people to understand especially when explaining the biology behind it
i think once i hit puberty i was hit with the “born in the wrong body” feeling, but it didnt really happen before that because i never had any outward issues until my body decided to mature. now after hrt, top surgery, and a full hysterectomy, i feel completely at ease and at home in my body and identity
I relate but before puberty I thought I would grow a penis so that was disappointing 😅 but after Phalloplasty I feel more comfortable with my body besides my face or voice I don't believe it changed much at all and that's fantastic I'm happy you are comfortable In your body entirely 🤗
My first gender affirming haircut was a buzz cut and I CRIED because I felt so good : my hair was the longer it has ever been and my best friend buzzed it all off, he's the one who helped me the most through my transitionn💚 and I felt so freeeeeee. It looked DOPE on me as well 💁
As someone who is going trough the shit stuff with not being able to come out as trans cause of transphobic parents i feel the 11/10 is really accurate! The thing with the voice is also so true. I often sing much when im alone so that my throat hurts and my voice sounds deeper xD
I just wanted to let you know that your channel brings me joy. 😊 I'm 46 and just recently came out as bisexual ( it wasn't safe to do so when I was still in contact with my family). Subscribed! Thank you!
I was at a pub the other day and the men's stall was out of order, so I went to the women's and drunkenly said "hey sorry everyone I'm a guy but the stall is out of order does anyone mind if I come in?" and no one gave a shit bc drunk women in the toilet are the best lmao
Ikr! Also the womans restroom is way cleaner (despite being a pub) lol 😭😭😭
i find it so fascinating how different everyone's trans experiences are. like for example i didnt even have to "come out" in a big way as ive always looked/behaved like a boy and always insisted on being called by boy names and pronouns literally as soon as i could talk. so the only time i had to come out was legally i guess to change my name etc and obv to therapists/doctors to get t and surgeries. was lucky to grow up in such an open minded, accepting and supportive environment! i dont even know how i wouldve managed otherwise
The first time I attempted to get a "guy" haircut, I wasn't out and was too scared to ask the stylist to do a guy haircut. So I picked out the most butch/tomboy haircut I could find in the women's hairstyle book and was like "I want this one." LOL It wasn't until this last spring that I actually got a haircut that made me feel affirmed and comfortable though. I came out to my parents last year and this spring when I wanted a haircut, my mom actually did it. And she was like "So you want me to cut it like a boys right?" And then proceeded to give me my first official guy haircut, which was a cool moment :3
I feel like I was born with certain attributes of my body being wrong, but not necessarily in the wrong body as a whole. My body is still my body and I wouldn't wish to be born in a random man's body instead, but I wish my body had naturally developed as male instead of me having to undergo HRT treatment for it.
Fantastic video as always!
Also yes I absolutelly feel like I was born in the wrong body all the time so idk,I think its very accurate to say that
13:16 The last time I got sick my friend told me I sounded like a sickly Victorian boy begging to see the sunlight one last time...gender affirmed!
14:07 for me I wasn't born in the wrong body, the issue was that I went my entire childhood thinking I would never have tiddies despite every woman in my life having them and my mom literally taking me to the bra section at some store so I never actually thought about how I felt, even now when I'm getting dressed or just not binding and I see the tots I'm just confused because in my mind I don't have any, the wrong body bit happens when I realize that yeah I do actually hence the dysphoria. But every experience is different
When I was growing up (5-9), I knew I was a boy, but I didn't necessarily think I was born in the wrong body just because nothing had really developed yet and the most dysphoria I got was from being treated as a girl because I knew I wasn't one I just didn't know how to describe it when I was that young. But now, I feel more body related dysphoria because of puberty and it is really tough and I do understand the concept of being born in the wrong body.
Noah saying things and immediately regretting it and trying to explain himself afterwards in the first few minutes 😂
i think not enough people point out that using they/them pronouns on someone who you know doesnt use they/them pronouns is in fact misgendering and im glad you mentioned that
When I was younger I def felt like I was born in the wrong body. As I've grown up, underwent HRT & booking top surgery, I've come to realise that my body isn't female because I'm not, so it's not the 'wrong body', just a wrong version of it.
I am 50 and yes even today I feel like I was borne in the wrong body. Felt like this at 4 and still so.
Hi! Transmasc here. The wrong body vibes were 100% for me until I'd been on T and had top surgery, but now it only sometimes rears its ugly head. I think dysphoria can take a few different forms, and for people like Noah and myself, it's got a lot to do with body, but for others it's mostly social. So the people who say "it makes me comfortable and happy/no one actually feels like they're in the wrong body" probably only/primarily experience the social aspect of the dysphoria which has a lot more to do with how one is addressed and perceived by others, vs how one feels in their own body regardless of if they're being perceived. My dysphoria is probably like 90% body and 10% social, where it didn't matter if I'm being perceived or not, the chest, voice, and menstrual cycle played a huge factor in my mental and emotional wellbeing. Before I had the effects of T and top surgery, social interactions that alluded to those incorrect aspects of my body (she/her, deadname, doctor appointments, etc) would send me spiraling. Now that I've been on T for about four years and I've had top surgery and a total hysto, I am less likely to feel dysphoric both on my own -and- around others, even if someone misgenders me. And I'm a small and somewhat effeminate person, so I only pass about 80% of the time, and pretty much everyone I meet seems to clock me as some brand of trans or gay but I'm not bothered by it.
My first trans guy haircut was a karen cut from my mum, that got me bullied
Then I got it cut at a hairdresser/barber (unisex), it cost me £25, it got me gendered correctly sonetimes, but it looked awful
Then I got a crew cut, and my mum never let me go to the barbers alone again (my dad is always there now). She didnt like my crew cut. She said it looked like I was getting over chemotherapy-
I wasn't born in the wrong body, I wasn't born wrong, I'm just a bit different. That's how I see myself but idc how other trans peeps wanna describe themselves or their experience. There isnt one trans experience, everyone and every journey is different.
I certainly feel like I was born in the wrong body. I don’t really understand how someone who is trans doesn’t feel that way, but everyone is different so they can do and feel as they wish. And as a “trans youth”, i’ve personally lost everything due to the fact that I am trans. My mother is constantly saying how i’m “mutilating my body” and “delusional” and “misinformed” every single goddamn weekend. It’s always “you’ll never be a real boy” and never just “i’ll love you no matter what”. Honestly I don’t even care anymore, it’s just a shame. She took away all of my friends who validated my identity and now ridicules me for being alone when she caused it. She talks shit about me when I have done nothing wrong to gain pity points from her friends. But again, I am used to this. It feels normal now. I have never been one to express many emotions which is precisely why she feels the need to invalidate me. Then of course you have idiotic politicians who want people like me dead. I’m just tired, just as I have always been.
Best of luck stay strong 🤗
when I was young I was more just jealous that girls could wear dresses and have long hair but by the time I was in my pre-teens I definitely thought I was in the wrong body. Is this something a lot of people experienced? It is right?
I don't feel like I was born in the wrong body, and I'm saying this as a trans person with a diagnosis of gender dysphoria, body image issues, and a history of self-neglect. In spite of these issues, this is my body, and the way it interacts with my mind is precisely what makes me trans. It's mine to change however I see fit, and to express how I feel on the inside. I personally consider the "wrong body" explanation to be oversimplified. It can be an expedient way to communicate my experiences to someone unfamiliar with trans people, but it leaves out a lot of important nuance.
I be a 32 yr old trans-guy, recovering from a recent top surgery, yes. And now more than ever, I can say....this body I got ain't so bad. ( Even though it feels like I tangled with a grizzly) For a while, I felt as if the body I had didn't feel mine, or right, for my guy/mascness, but. Likely a mix of how society views masc folks, vs folks with breasts and how that oozed into my own perception. Though, it mostly had to do with my chest. It's still wierd to look down, and see them gone, but it's a good weird. Farewell chesticles, I knew thee for two decades, and while you weren't so bad, it is your time to be gone. I feel like when Dysphoria hits less, and Euphoria is at its height, the idea that the body one has isn't the right one, diminishes.
You’ve helped me come to terms with my feelings and I love your music so much!!!! I’m going to come out as trans man one day hopefully and thanks for getting to where I am now :) also I do feel like I was born in the wrong body because every day I look at myself and cry a little so yeah that’s still a thing in the trans community for me at least
~hugs~ Good luck!
After having a really bad dysphoria day when my autism:adhd has also been bad recently this video made me remember my community, made me feel every good emotion under the sun and was exactly what I needed. Thank you Noah 👍
11:20 with they/them I only use it when I don’t know what gender they identify with but I don’t have the confidence to be like “hey what are your pronouns?” With people I don’t know lol.
I remember last year being in Amsterdam with my dad, we were in a weed cafe and I went to the toilet - no mens cubicles?? It's so confusing, do men not need to shit too? I just suffered through it lmao.
My first gender affirming hair cut I was about 23 years old and went from having long natural black hair my whole life to cutting it all off and getting a giant red mohawk. My parents were not pleased lol. I didn't actually come out though till I was 31 years old.
the way when you said "what are the rules" i instantly thought of that clip from IASIP... and then you played it
He's just awesome since he's so confident about himself
2:14 I actually started watching your videos as a “cis girl”, and I kind of got really obsessed with trans content in general. Yeah, I’m a trans guy now. Hi.
Same. Started as a bi girl. Now I’m a bi guy.
Same started as a cis lesbian, now I'm a trans guy
@@hello_im_nothingyou’re still a bi girl
That’s cool Noah provided you with that support. I feel very much the same about my being a cisgender women wail watching Noah really good content as my gender still I don’t think it will change for me because it’s not who I am. I support people definitely that is who they are. I am here to just be a really good Ally to the transgender community. Because they are in my experience very kind and empathetic as well provide me with really good support as well.
Hi im a 15 year old trans boy and i feel like i was definitely born in the wrong body. The word "wrong" is accurate to describe the whole experience of being in a female body, and a boy.
I really do feel bad for you and all the people in the comments.
@@feelmacrackingam1ng531 you should but is this a transphobic comment?
If it is why would you care. It’s Literally a phobia. Are u gonna be mad at my for having a phobia of spiders?
I’m cis and would also protect trans youth even though i might not completely understand. They are going through too much, i have it lucky to be a lesbian as people aren’t as aggressive to us.
Stay safe, youse’ll get through this! You have lots of support
I’m a pre-t ftm teenager and yeah I really do feel like I was born in the wrong body. I don’t really understand the upset with saying that but everyone is entitled to their opinion. I currently have the shaved sides with just like some hair on top haircut, it’s… interesting😂
I love your videos so much because they really help me feel like I am in a safe space where I can just have a break from all the shit life throws at me, so thank you for that. and I love your music so much! I hope I can see you on tour one day!❤️😁
As a transmasc that his family doesn’t support I watch your videos and I fell like I belong ❤ Thank you Noah ❤❤
@AlexUTTP876 uh no I’m a guy
@AlexUTTP876 *he
@AlexUTTP876 lmfao 'first warning' get your goofy ass out of here 💀💀
i grew up squarely in the "born in the wrong body" daytime talk show era. Describing it that way made sense to a lot of people because it's easy and quickly illustrates how the body and mind can be in two different forms... that said, I'm kinda glad it's dying out. "Wrong" is a heavy word. Some females are born with bodies that are more male and vice versa and they can change their bodies to match how they feel. Nothing "Wrong" about that.
I know some people feel like they were born in the wrong body, but for me it feels more like my body decided to betray me for the dark side or something. As in, I was mostly fine when I was born, it only got a lot worse afterwards- especially as I didn't know anything about sex-based anatomy and stuff until secondary school. I've never felt particularly connected to my body anyways. Obviously though, it's different for different people and my feelings may change/evolve.
literally all of your music is so amazing and I love it so so much!!! And I love watching your yt videos
my first trans haircut made me look like an emo karen 😭😭😭
As a trans man, i can say that i often describe myself as feeling like i was born in the wrong body. Because it does actually feel like that
my parents knowing im trans and just blatantly ignoring that fact, calling me she/her and my deadname while everyone else in my life calls me Kai and he/him is insane. i didnt realize how crazy it was until u said it
sometimes i feel like i was born in the wrong body but usually i dont bc i only really have chest dysphoria, so i can understand both sides
Also my first gender affirming haircut was a short cut little emo pixie
15:52 you probably won't read this, but Noah, you do do important things, the fact you even talk about being trans on the Internet is important since the people who get to talk about that are usually transphobes. So ty ❤
I think Noah read all the comments he seems to really care about and love is fans, as well as close friends. He doesn’t comment or like all of them because it would take a long time.
@@AlexUTTP876 It’s agains my belief system for you to be bigoted and not gender affirming because doing makes you a bad person that will not ever become a good person.
I’ve been listening to all of your music on repeat 🔁 you’ve help me come to terms with my identity you are my fav UA-cam channel and music artist
i'm a trans guy and i got kicked out if women's bathroom at one occasion. I didn't think i was passing that well
13:30 that’s why I’ve loved this weekend, bc we’ve had our homecoming football game (American) and our homecoming dance and I’ve screamed my heart out, I might have a few more months until T steps up to change my voice but man does screaming make me feel manly
I'm in love with the ✨✊✨ forever
Haven’t come out to my family yet, was on a little trip with them and we were in a parking garage there were 6 single bathrooms, 3 women’s 3 men’s and as we were waiting for the bathroom along with a few other women a mans stall opened up. The women who didnt know me said “Hey it’s opened!” And looked at me and I walked right in. I’m only 3 months on T and I’ve been suuuper self conscious about public toilets because of the TERFs but that was a great feeling. Thank you random French lady for the gender euphoria
Id love to come see the show but sadly im unable 😭. But yourmusic is amazing and your videos have been such a huge comfort for me for years now. Keep up the good content!
I'm an american and one time I told my brother his gf had gone to the toilet. He was like "OMG that's so gross don't say that!" so that's why we don't say that lol 😅
euphemisms pog
I am trans, do not feel like I was born in the wrong body. I don't have any issue that people feel that way, but it's weird that some people assume that I feel that because "it's what it means to be trans" or all trans people feel that way.
Also, I cut my hair short BEFORE I cracked my egg so I never really had my boy haircut moment :(
I always heard such bad things about first trans haircuts and i was so scared going for mine but when i got it and learnt to style it i absolutely love my hair now
my first "trans guy" haircut was during a depressive episode, because my hairdresser (the only one in my small town) was always messing it up when I went there, and one random day of the week I woke up, grabbed a hair cutting machine (???? I don't know the name for it), and shaved my hair to a beautiful lenght of 2 cm....
Dude is a walking greenscreen. Making the full transgender to translucent journey.
@@AlexUTTP876he
14:51 absolutely! 100% I’ve used that so much to explain being transgender
14:28 talking from my experience, the frase "born in the wrong body" kinda perfectly describes how i feel on a daily basis. I have a panic attack every time I feel pain during periods, not for the pain itself, but because it makes me physically feel the presence of those organs that "shouldn't even be there"
Omg I also had agoraphobia while I was transitioning! I was going to an online school and had so much anxiety anytime I had to leave the house. Which, for a while I was forced to do once every weekday to pick up my little sister, even though I'd have to pass by this gross little girl the same age as her on my street who was a huge bully and would always call me things like "he-she" and "gaylord". I didn't want anyone to look at or perceive me and I'd try my hardest to pretend like I didn't exist. Once I started going to community college, I eventually got rid of it through the exposure with the help of these group anxiety sessions I was attending.
i'm doing my first t shot today!!!!! (just wanted to share im really excited)
hope it goes well my guy! :]
@@EllaHoward-nl7oq ty! it went well :)
I definitely frequently feel like I was born in the wrong body and for me it’s probably more prevalent cause I havn’t been able to transition at all but I definitely feel that way
the end of that video was apreseated so much my dysphora is horrific right now and just thank you so much
Good luck soldier
I remember the first noahfinnce video i watched 😂 i was confused until i heard him complain he still got awful periods and i started crying laughing and I fell off my bed😂😂😂 i immediately followed 😂
My first gender affirming haircut was cutting my own hair a little too short bc i was way too scared to go to a hair stylist
I love to do that. I give myself a trim sometimes also and cut my own hair if I really need. I’ll be it not at all times does it look like someone professional did it and it doesn’t look bad ever I don’t think. I wouldn’t ever dye my own hair though that’s been a complete disaster anytime I have tried to do so. I would go to a hair salon for that if I needed to, I suppose.
There really good and is support you all the way in gender affirming anything. Hair cuts included! I appreciate you sharing that.
I’m nonbinary, and I don’t necessarily feel like I was born in the wrong body… more like I feel like society just isn’t working with the same ideas of my experience of gender as I am 😭 I think this might be a very autistic experience.
Like, I’m fine with how I look, which is fairly stereotypically like most people my agab
But it’s like- as soon as I step out my room and I’m viewed by other people, I’m aware of this disconnect- that they are just working with this social construct that I can’t relate to in any way
And this category they are seeing me in is just something invisible to me
I’d that makes any kind of sense-
It’s kind of frustrating
And I kind of which I was just a big cozy floating jumper sometime 👍
I will never forget the time I went into the women's room (closeted transmasc) in a SKIRT and a lady walks in, looks at me, looks at the sign, and asks if she's in the right room. God bless you ma'am 🫡 ❤️
Hey, thanks for the video! They always bring a brightness to my day. Also just want to request that if you ever have the chance, a tour to Australia would be greatly appreciated!
i have a question for people on Testosterone:
so I spoke to my therapist abt starting T and she said if im 110% sure, then we can talk abt starting it in half a year (our next appointment). We talked about the effects it will have and what will happen, etc. And she talked about hair loss and fast hair growth. And I'm really uncomfortable with hair in general (that's not on my head-) and insecure abt losing it, like my hair is everything to me-. Can you start with small doses, that will change your voice and face features ? Or does even a smaller dose (if that's a thing) cause hair growth/loss ?
So, male pattern baldness usually occurs after a looong time on T, most cis men dont start going bald until (at the earliest) their mid 20s. As for going on T you likely wont see hair loss until the 5+ year mark. As for bodily hair growth, youll notice some patches of thick hair probably after around a year, but this will spread very very slowly aswell. If you wanted to 'pass' you could go on T for a year and then come off it, changes like a deep voice and thickening of the cartilidge in your nose, are permanent. These are just some averages based on what ive seen and my own experience as a trans man so it could be different for you. Have a look at the men in your own family and see how long after puberty they noticed they were going bald. Ive been on T 5 years and have a full head of hair still, as for the body hair i keep it trimmed 😂.
I am not on testosterone and I don’t think that is will all people something that happeneds and when it does if it’s more gender affirming and from what I hear it usually is to have men’s hair then I’m sure there’s ways to find ways around that if it becomes a side effect. I support people being on testosterone that need to be on testosterone I say make it more widely available for people when they are naturally starting puberty and covered completely by insurance. Also cover any gender affirmation surgeries with state insurance and all insurances completely as well as testosterone cover by state and all insurances completely. As reasonable way to say gain transgenders forgiveness and provide really good support to transgenders rights.
I love your new song it's amazing ❤️❤️❤️
there was a trans/homophobic kid at my school, and nor said that nors pronouns when asked were “nor/mal” and we’ve been using nors pronouns ever since.
Omg what i do is when they dont use the right pronouns for me/my friends i use the wrong pronouns for them 2 for example little boy at my school, uses slurs, etc my friends were using he/him for me just normally and he said something like "ugh these trans males and their pronouns" and one of my friends said smt like "omg SHES so rude." And i still remember it
Hadn't watched Noah Finnce in so long. Been listening to his music. Finally got into one of his videos again. He said "booba". My day is saved.
I fucking love the way you talk noahhh❤
I agree your voice sounds really good Noah. I tell Honka that all the time to also.