The silent treatment doesn’t bother me, it use to because I want to talk things out and communicate but now it doesn’t bother me because if you don’t want to talk to me then don’t, it takes two to have a healthy relationship and communication.
I had this for 2 weeks. I had to find out from a mutual friend why he wasn't talking to me. That was the final straw for me and the end of the relationship.
I had this for 3 weeks, I had to find out from a mutual friend why he wasn't taking to me, that was the final straw before I even realised I was Targeted. If not for Worldfix1 that I ws reffered to talk to on IG, I don't know what would have been my case.
30 years, 5 kids, high school sweetheart that I thought was till the end. She found someone else and discarded me the day after Fathers Day. 7 months later about learning about narcissism, she knows I know and is afraid to talk to me. Educate yourselves lovely empaths. 💛🙏🏾
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
After lovebomb, I got silent treatment, went no contact until 2 freaking months when he reached out to me. I decided to speak to him to figure what happened (didn't tell him that tho) but he fed me excuses also moved on in a month, these people suck. At least I was able to call him out, I'm done. Hurt, but done.
I did an oops the other day. Got called out on it and apologized. I knew I would get the silent treatment but after so many times getting it from this person... It doesn't hurt like it used to. I allowed a hoover when I knew better so...This is what they do. Now I'm discarded, again....OK whatever!
I have gone no contact and I am so depressed and have panic attacks......he hinted to me that he is bisexual.....what??? I don't want to talk to an abuser.
Hi sorry about what is happening to you. Your fight or flight has been triggered. It may help to try and regulate your cortisol. Exercise. Taking a shower. Especially a cold one.Reading. Watching old movies. And listening to music you love. Will all help. A couple of Paracetamol is often prescribed to people suffering from panic attacks by paramedics. Everyone reading your comment will be routing for you. Take care❤
Don’t show the narcissist any fear……the silent treatment from you is where you will relax from the abuse, it’s where you will stay focused, it’s where you will plan an exit strategy, and it’s when you leave the narcissist asap if you’re able to……if you can’t leave during this time it will also help you deal with the narcissist much better because you will be in control of their abusive behavior…….remember have no sympathy or mercy on the narcissist whatsoever ……stay strong and good luck. ✊🙏
Found your channel and love your content. Everything you say just resonates the relationship I am in and getting out of. Thankyou for the content and keep up the good work 😊
The abuse makes you turn inwards resulting in you giving the abuser the silent treatment which makes you feel like an abuser yourself. However, it is s form of self protection as everything you say is twisted and used against you. I have been indirectly accused of not opening up anymore but doing so only results in more abuse. It is a vicious circle with no positive outcome. It is bad for both parties.
Do you mean during the relationship or after?…….she did it to me many times in the apartment. If I went on with my day or filled my time when she was doing it then that would wind her up even more. I had to be sat on the bed looking fed up for her to be pleased by the situation. She is doing it now after the relationship because she thinks she is punishing me
My advice: learn as much as you can about narcissism.. the family that you have to be around , I would be as dull as possible; limit what you tell them.. utilize ‘grey rock’ The girlfriend: same , unless you can safely end the relationship & go no contact.
The silent treatment doesn’t bother me, it use to because I want to talk things out and communicate but now it doesn’t bother me because if you don’t want to talk to me then don’t, it takes two to have a healthy relationship and communication.
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Give the narcs their medicine back.
Turn the energy and attention back to ourselves 💛
I had this for 2 weeks. I had to find out from a mutual friend why he wasn't talking to me. That was the final straw for me and the end of the relationship.
I had this for 3 weeks, I had to find out from a mutual friend why he wasn't taking to me, that was the final straw before I even realised I was Targeted. If not for Worldfix1 that I ws reffered to talk to on IG, I don't know what would have been my case.
He want to let you feel you are guilty Never ever response to silence ❤
Yes silent- treatment is definetely abuse! 🚩Red flag alert! Thanks for discussing/ explaining this topic!
trueeee 🥰💙 instead of getting mad or responding, focus on self-care and use the silent treatment as a way to prioritize our own 💙💙💙
30 years, 5 kids, high school sweetheart that I thought was till the end. She found someone else and discarded me the day after Fathers Day.
7 months later about learning about narcissism, she knows I know and is afraid to talk to me.
Educate yourselves lovely empaths. 💛🙏🏾
Go to the Most High Yah 🙏 he is the only way to move on please study and pray to him l did it you can to
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
Yes there is a solution for those who are truly looking for one. The best solution is to stop the silent treatment or at least i will be gone 😂
I’m doing that now. Over a month. No contact
Wow! That's a long time 😢
After lovebomb, I got silent treatment, went no contact until 2 freaking months when he reached out to me. I decided to speak to him to figure what happened (didn't tell him that tho) but he fed me excuses also moved on in a month, these people suck. At least I was able to call him out, I'm done. Hurt, but done.
Anoushka brilliant on silent treatment . I experienced this ..
I did an oops the other day. Got called out on it and apologized. I knew I would get the silent treatment but after so many times getting it from this person...
It doesn't hurt like it used to. I allowed a hoover when I knew better so...This is what they do. Now I'm discarded, again....OK whatever!
I have gone no contact and I am so depressed and have panic attacks......he hinted to me that he is bisexual.....what??? I don't want to talk to an abuser.
Hi sorry about what is happening to you. Your fight or flight has been triggered. It may help to try and regulate your cortisol. Exercise. Taking a shower. Especially a cold one.Reading. Watching old movies. And listening to music you love. Will all help. A couple of Paracetamol is often prescribed to people suffering from panic attacks by paramedics. Everyone reading your comment will be routing for you. Take care❤
Don’t show the narcissist any fear……the silent treatment from you is where you will relax from the abuse, it’s where you will stay focused, it’s where you will plan an exit strategy, and it’s when you leave the narcissist asap if you’re able to……if you can’t leave during this time it will also help you deal with the narcissist much better because you will be in control of their abusive behavior…….remember have no sympathy or mercy on the narcissist whatsoever ……stay strong and good luck. ✊🙏
Very very true words, Thanks for your guidance
First time you really don’t know what the hell is going on! 🤭 hurts…
Found your channel and love your content. Everything you say just resonates the relationship I am in and getting out of.
Thankyou for the content and keep up the good work 😊
Completely erased her from my life, she don't matter to me at all.
The abuse makes you turn inwards resulting in you giving the abuser the silent treatment which makes you feel like an abuser yourself. However, it is s form of self protection as everything you say is twisted and used against you. I have been indirectly accused of not opening up anymore but doing so only results in more abuse. It is a vicious circle with no positive outcome. It is bad for both parties.
Was like the sun was shining but now you need to clean or work to much to be there
Do you mean during the relationship or after?…….she did it to me many times in the apartment. If I went on with my day or filled my time when she was doing it then that would wind her up even more. I had to be sat on the bed looking fed up for her to be pleased by the situation. She is doing it now after the relationship because she thinks she is punishing me
I do the gardening n painting or something n get nicked
she is doing that now but I have a autistic child and she is not telling me how he getting on that's not fair on him😢😢
She's adapt at avoiding sleeping in the same bed
Anoushka...when you refer us to a video and motion it's located in the upper screen it doesn't come up.
My family and my girlfriend they are narcissists, what should/must I do? To make my life better?
My advice: learn as much as you can about narcissism.. the family that you have to be around , I would be as dull as possible; limit what you tell them.. utilize ‘grey rock’ The girlfriend: same ,
unless you can safely end the relationship & go no contact.
She is divorced by the husband eventually
Whish could be normal communication
Or living in same county
He gives me silent treatment since 6 months ago…… because I message him for some cookies ( I couldnt prepare cookies)………
So is soul thing real or made up?
I might as well be Mr bean
Please tell me
But isnt the silence what you say people should do to the narcissist ?
Yes, it is, but only to save yourself more insanity ,not to use as the narc does for power and control.
Nasty ain't built in you
Background music is so annoying and disturbing
It ends around 1:45
I didn’t notice
I went back to the beginning
Woman
My ex Narc did this to me for 3 days all because I sent a meme he didn’t like 🥲🙄🥴🥴 rather than communicate like a normal healthy adult . So cruel
My ex narc did it like clockwork in 3 day intervals. She would never tell me why she did it. Crazy behavior!
She said I was so stubborn because I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of caving in.
She is divorced by the husband eventually