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  • @luxuryinModeration
    @luxuryinModeration 3 роки тому +135

    😂I’m definitely on this journey with you. Stopped buying souvenirs, high heels, manicures, and costume jewelry! Great to see another luxury lover with a healthy mentality!

  • @elizawang9232
    @elizawang9232 3 роки тому +59

    I can listen to you for hours, calm, peaceful and wise, like playing soothing music. Purging for pure joy. Thanks.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +6

      Wow, thank you! It's really encouraging for me to hear such positive feedback, you've made my day xx

    • @brianne8123
      @brianne8123 3 роки тому +1

      I agree

  • @slothbear8638
    @slothbear8638 3 роки тому +49

    I’m with you on UA-cam over TV. I can’t even remember the last time I watched TV, and I watch UA-cam almost every day!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +4

      Glad to have you here on my channel for sure! xx

  • @lilian.bloom.petite.stylist
    @lilian.bloom.petite.stylist 3 роки тому +38

    I agree with you about budget and conscious spending. As long as you are happy, you don’t need too many things. And it doesn’t have to be frugal either.

  • @vnssz
    @vnssz 3 роки тому +28

    I loved these ideas, I don’t buy a lot of these things either as I’m trying to be more mindful and too much “stuff” actually makes me anxious. The only thing from this list I could never stop buying is souvenirs from trips. It’s actually a tradition for me, I always buy one key ring from each city/country I visit and I keep them in a box. For me a $5 key ring is worth it, I mean there really is no logical reason why, but for me it holds a ton of sentimental value as traveling is my favorite thing ever, and looking through my key ring collection always makes me so happy, especially during these times. 😊

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +5

      I used to collect badges and museum coins too! At one point I had about 67 badges (I used to pin them all on a piece of canvas and hang it on the wall). I understand what you mean, they can feel really special. If they still bring you joy, I'll say go for it xx

    • @ninasan1524
      @ninasan1524 Рік тому +1

      I’m working my way into becoming a minimalist, but I don’t think I’ll ever give up buying my souvenir magnets. I love traveling too and I always make sure to buy one from each city I’ve visited. Looking at my collection evokes memories of past travels and joyful once-in-a-lifetime moments.

  • @rosieschweebie
    @rosieschweebie 3 роки тому +30

    You remind me of my daughter.
    She drove her car for almost 10 years before she had to buy another one. (When she found out her car cost more to fix than it was worth).
    So...She got a used car.
    She never uses plastic store bags, only used filtered water from her refrigerator or her Brita filter, plastic bottles are a no no, and keeps her nails clean , and short. She’s uses recycled items if possible, and even has a compost bin.😊

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +4

      She must take after her mum 😇 Really glad to hear she's living an intentional life xx

    • @LittlestBlackJack
      @LittlestBlackJack 3 роки тому +1

      That’s awesome! I have a VW Polo which I have driven for 3 years now and as it was already used, it has almost 300k kilometres on it. My parents and friends always tell me to buy a new car but I absolutely like driving my small car and when it breaks the last time then it breaks. Then I might get a new car or drive with one of my boyfriend’s. Or use public transportation. :) It’s not a big deal!!

  • @denisesheehan6525
    @denisesheehan6525 3 роки тому +8

    I am of the same mindset as well. Less is more (freedom, money, time, space). I think the Covid lockdowns have been a wonderful time to pause and think about what's important in life.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      Hi Denise, I agree! The pandemic definitely changed the way I used to think so much xx

  • @dessertdays
    @dessertdays 3 роки тому +21

    Yes to encouraging sustainability 👏 I have my reusable grocery bags and I'm using the plastic ones I still have as garbage bags

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Same here! It's a bit different due to the pandemic now but in the past when my colleagues used to buy single use carrie bags everyday, I would ask if I could keep them (seeing they're going to bin them anyway). I then used them as my bin bags xx

    • @lindasvenssonsmith4794
      @lindasvenssonsmith4794 3 роки тому +1

      Also started with bringing my own bags, like foldaway bags in my handbag. In Sweden plastic bags at the supermarket have always costed money, but now they cost about 50p or more. I'm also trying my best of thinking of the environment. Thank you again for good subjects.

  • @ceecee7879
    @ceecee7879 3 роки тому +10

    Valentines Day is the perfect example of excess! I did just as your husband by preparing a special breakfast and just enjoy the day as every day should be, grateful and loved.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +2

      Love that! Seize the day, everyday xx

  • @wonderingstar29
    @wonderingstar29 Рік тому +2

    This is the most sensible video I have seen!!!

  • @tanechkaamericanochka4839
    @tanechkaamericanochka4839 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you very much for talking about this.I came to the same ideas.Probably, I will continue to use my hair conditions.Recently, I found one more thing-when I go to restaurant for special occasion, I try to eat home before, so I don’t order full dinner and can share with my husband.When we go out, I really appreciate every moment with champagne and small meal ♥️👩‍🦰♥️

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      That's really sweet! A lovely idea too xx

  • @lisaszunyog7603
    @lisaszunyog7603 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you Eileen! I really look forward to your posts every week. You seem like a genuinely nice person. Your advice is priceless and much appreciated.

  • @ladyayusha4960
    @ladyayusha4960 3 роки тому +6

    So informative. I don’t buy costume jewelry or accessories, makeup or clothes that we see on influencers, fashion trends, beauty and skincare, latest gadgets or technology add ons anymore. Minimalism is a mindset. Less is more. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing!! Less is definitely more, I feel so much lighter when I desire less too xx

  • @rashmipatil1202
    @rashmipatil1202 3 роки тому +3

    Completely agree with you. I am also spending less in the things that are not necessary. I am making these changes not just to spend less but also to take care of our planet.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      I agree! It's always a good idea to be kinder to the one planet we have xx

  • @cindytrieu4599
    @cindytrieu4599 3 роки тому +3

    Love this! So refreshing to see people talking about not buying something

  • @anneliberntsson3023
    @anneliberntsson3023 3 роки тому +3

    Excellent content! Thank you so much for sharing. I realized I have done much the same, except for the nail polish. I use a beige colour and keep my nails short as I play the piano 😊. I have also started borrowing more books from the library and from friends (before the pandemic) and am not just buying them right away. I'm an avid reader and many books are just "one time reads" even if they are very good.

    • @laurablake8330
      @laurablake8330 Рік тому

      The books thing is huge…esp if you read a lot. I’ve realized too I don’t have to own everything I read.

  • @otterbearcub588
    @otterbearcub588 2 роки тому +1

    Loved your videos so much particularly your attitudes toward a more intentional lifestyle not only for your own healthy but for Mother Earth. This shared list is almost the same one I’ve been practicing through my life starting couple years ago, except for the TV cable part that I have not found a best way for a replacement yet as my husband really loves golfing. Our world will be getting better!

  • @perthfanny3017
    @perthfanny3017 3 роки тому +13

    Wow! You are such an inspiration!
    I live in Spain and having a brand new car is really a thing. So many new cars around here...
    I agree about costume jewelry. I feel like it is just some random cheap jewelry with a logo on it.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing! Leashing a new car every few years is quite a norm here in the UK too xx

    • @claudiakalkbrenner4148
      @claudiakalkbrenner4148 3 роки тому +2

      Neighbour from Portugal and totally understand about the car! My friends ask why I have luxury bags and drive such a simple car? I love bags and not cars so 😊

    • @perthfanny3017
      @perthfanny3017 3 роки тому +1

      @@claudiakalkbrenner4148 to each his own!

    • @claudiakalkbrenner4148
      @claudiakalkbrenner4148 3 роки тому

      @@perthfanny3017 so true!

  • @kimberlyberlin4999
    @kimberlyberlin4999 3 роки тому +2

    I'm with you Eileen. I no longer buy typical souvenirs when we travel. Now I might buy a nice article of clothing or an accessory like a scarf. This way every time I wear it I'm reminded of my trip. We sometimes buy food to bring home. We just traveled to San Francisco and bought 2 giant loaves of sourdough bread to bring home. Much better than some trinket. I also agree with many of your suggestions. Keep up the good content. You are a joy to watch.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      I agree! I now much rather spend my money of good food, travel and experiences too. Trinkets look lovely in the store, but when they start piling up in our homes, they become more of a burden xx

  • @alexajazmin7559
    @alexajazmin7559 3 роки тому +7

    I wish you would have included a picture of your beautiful wedding shoes. Btw I love your videos! I look forward to them every Sunday! And for the acne, I suggest Differin.

  • @tessamack6995
    @tessamack6995 3 роки тому +2

    Logical way of thinking ..is a must...you’re absolutely correct in the choices you make

  • @DaniOchannel
    @DaniOchannel 3 роки тому +43

    I bought my engagement ring with my mom. My husband just gave us a budget and we got it less than half his budget. Win win!

    • @comfynlux5695
      @comfynlux5695 3 роки тому +3

      I got my anniversary ring the same way

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      What a lovely idea! Thank you for sharing xx

    • @comfynlux5695
      @comfynlux5695 3 роки тому

      @@ColourfulNoir the upside I got exactly the one I wanted!

    • @LittlestBlackJack
      @LittlestBlackJack 3 роки тому

      That’s sweet! Not all men know their woman’s taste in those things so I appreciate that gesture. :)

    • @DaniOchannel
      @DaniOchannel 3 роки тому

      @@LittlestBlackJack Precisely, happiness all round. I find jewellery companies very easily send men on guilt trips. Bless them!

  • @anas.6870
    @anas.6870 3 роки тому +1

    You are so down to earth, really nice listening to you! My TV and washing machine are 15 years old, I change my phone maybe every 5-7 years when it really stops working. The pandemic made it clear to me what I don't use. Jeans and jewelry. So I really really try to stop myself from buying any now😃 T-shirts I love, dresses too, but this is something I wear a lot, especially when working from home now all the time, so much more creative with my outfits! I think we should all try to look at our lifestyles and wardrobes etc and be honest about what WE love and wear and want in our lives. And if there's a more sustainable version, second hand etc.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for sharing! I share your sentiment, sometimes simplicity is what brings joy xx

  • @MrSoyan
    @MrSoyan 2 роки тому +2

    I completely resonated with this! Thx for sharing 😊 Valuable content especially prioritizing life choices & what brings joy!

  • @LadyGrace67
    @LadyGrace67 3 роки тому +3

    I am exactly like you with the cars! I had to buy a “new” used one 3 years ago and had a decent down payment for it. I adore your philosophies on spending. I am working on downsizing and consciously purchasing items. Thanks as always❤️

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for your kind words! xx

  • @blktauna
    @blktauna 3 роки тому +5

    What a lovely Valentines Day! Sadly I have curly hair and I require deep conditioning and regular conditioning. Your husband is a gem. Luxury tshirts are a ripoff. You are wise on that one. They also are surprisingly cheaply made, which I don't like for the price. Heels are a blight. I don't wear them either. No expensive costume jewelry thanks. Nice video. It makes you think.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing your list with us xx

  • @Sheduh88
    @Sheduh88 3 роки тому +4

    Malaysian subbie here :) I absolutely love your curated content and appreciate your realistic (but satisfying) approach to luxury and life!

  • @kristinfarinola9687
    @kristinfarinola9687 3 роки тому +5

    Great list! I am with you on the heels! I am doing a low buy year this year...it's not easy when watching luxury videos on youtube!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      You can do it! Sending you lots of positive energy xx

    • @AnUrbanGypsy
      @AnUrbanGypsy 3 роки тому

      I watch the luxury videos for the people I enjoy to see, followed by a low buy/no buy video to keep me on the straight and narrow. 😆

  • @baharehsamani8079
    @baharehsamani8079 6 місяців тому

    I do like your perspective! I am learning! I wish you could share more about your skin care products and little make up collection 😊 and a Big Thank you

  • @marimarino6981
    @marimarino6981 3 роки тому +2

    I just discovered you and I like your content. I see the need to downsize my closet tremendously … at this point it is an act of sanity!!!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Glad you're decluttering things you don't need, it's really refreshing xx

  • @huongnguyenl89
    @huongnguyenl89 3 роки тому +1

    Great insight as always, and big BIG THUMBS UP on cutting plastic waste, that’s what I’ve been doing too, thank you!!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      It's always good to be kinder to our planet xx

  • @654ujala
    @654ujala 3 роки тому +2

    You always look so lovely with your minimal fine jewelry and neutral classic tops!

  • @Aaquilegiaa
    @Aaquilegiaa Рік тому +1

    Great video. I already do all of the things you mentioned, except bottle water. Great tips! thank you

  • @marianaduarte2754
    @marianaduarte2754 3 роки тому +2

    Dear Eileen! I love your content and your way to see things!! Kisses from Brazil!

  • @flohough1870
    @flohough1870 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent, lots of really good advice!

  • @Serena_9
    @Serena_9 3 роки тому +4

    You have a soothing voice I can fall asleep with this tone of sound :)

  • @indefat
    @indefat 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for your video.
    I needed this. I have to get myself a birthday present and this list has helped me narrow it down to the one item I really want.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      Happy birthday! I hope you get something you truly enjoy xx

    • @indefat
      @indefat 3 роки тому

      A while ago, I read a tweet which said, if an item was 1000$ but was discounted to 800$ and you buy it, you did not save

  • @CristaStylista
    @CristaStylista 3 роки тому +2

    Great video Eileen. I love the concept of luxury minimalism and appreciate the guidance that you share. I agree on all of the points in the video, particularly the luxury logo tees. I'd have to take it to the drycleaner. Tees are so fragile and prone to holes and stains, I would be devastated if I ruined one. Admittedly I am looking at one particularly beautiful piece of costume jewelry, but I'm planning to transition to a few fine jewelry pieces in the near future.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing!! Less is certainly more for me when it comes to jewelry. Fine jewelry will truly last forever, you'll enjoy them xx

  • @lvaa3744
    @lvaa3744 3 роки тому +4

    Never did high end clothes except jackets, some knitwear and denim that have longevity. Agree on phones and TV but laptop is my main work tool and is used quite quickly. Like to buy my shoes on sale, and have a very limited supply of cosmetics. What I buy is really high quality though. Usually a couple of perfumes that I like to use up and then replace. Love my twillies though, they can so easily change the look of a bag.

  • @eileendolan9745
    @eileendolan9745 3 роки тому +1

    wonderful tips! thank you Eileen

  • @Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb
    @Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb 3 роки тому +2

    I do treat myself to a slice of cake once in a while but I have cut down on buying trinkets and Knick nacks a lot. Good advice on the leather charms. I want to save towards a road trip this year. My weakness is souvenirs I admit. You look so elegant today. 💕

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Aww thank you! I love having a goal to work towards, wishing you a lovely trip xx

  • @heidijay5902
    @heidijay5902 3 роки тому +3

    I have a very similar lifestyle, I like to keep everything reasonably simple & just enjoy a few luxuries here & there. I definitely agree about the cars, I drive mine until it’s no longer worth fixing & by then I have more than enough money put aside to purchase another one without having to waste money on interest. I prefer to try & purchase cars around 2 years old with low mileage, that way I’m not worried about scratches or initial depreciation. Costume jewellery is also a definite no.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing!! I send your sentiment, I'll most likely get a gently used car for my next one xx

  • @janetgonzalez7883
    @janetgonzalez7883 3 роки тому +1

    Great money saving changes, kudos to you! Very helpful!

  • @xmochix604
    @xmochix604 3 роки тому +1

    I love your videos. they keep me on track!

  • @mimishouse176
    @mimishouse176 3 роки тому +4

    I used to be extra girl. Thanks fully i found your videos. Your contents so interesting, hope i can learn from you to be a minimalist person sooner or later

  • @reivendelcielo2747
    @reivendelcielo2747 3 роки тому +3

    I bought my camera in 2008 and still take amazing pic so for me I only upgrade tech devices if I can no longer use them. Never a fan of costume jewellery I'm with you to save a bit longer to buy fine jewellery or I go to pawnshop because it is way cheaper. Great list!!!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      I must say I never thought of the pawnshop option, good tip! xx

  • @teolicious
    @teolicious 3 роки тому +2

    I am very intrigued by the olive oil tip, as my hair feels very dry since I have dyed it to gray... I heard JLo loves olive oil as well in her beauty routine! Thanks for the tip Eileen! ❤️

  • @KateKay28
    @KateKay28 3 роки тому +1

    Wonderful video. Great points. I hope you keep making these! New subscriber so I’m catching up on all these (& will be rewatching them all!)

  • @nueah
    @nueah 3 роки тому +2

    Yay! Glad to see you posting 💜

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      More to come! Thank you for dropping by xx

  • @murniaty1814
    @murniaty1814 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much, i watched many of your video its really inspired.

  • @Mystical1022
    @Mystical1022 3 роки тому +1

    you have helped me with my spending so much - thank you

  • @jennifermayola1986
    @jennifermayola1986 3 роки тому

    I love this! Thank you so much for sharing..

  • @donaldirene
    @donaldirene 3 роки тому +4

    I have a few things similar. Eg heels, fake lashes, upgrade gadgets, charms, costume jewellery . But I do go for facials and manicure because at my age I would not want to look like mom next to my spouse. The treatment has massage that gives blood circulation and lift up my face. I only have a belt and I am. Happy.

    • @ilial7278
      @ilial7278 3 роки тому +1

      I agree with the facials. It’s a treatment that some people need and it’s equally a treat. Same with pedicure and manicure. I hardly have my nails painted is just the massage and tlc that I appreciate.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for sharing! xx

  • @prettyalina7237
    @prettyalina7237 3 роки тому +1

    Been doing most of what was said for years. I see some of it is personal for you to obstain from(like sweets,I use to be like you until a friend became a classically trained french pastry chef and I felt like I entered a word of artistic edible art in flavor and experience due to her and her classmates at the time.To me the creativity that came from some of the high end desserts are unreal and an experience that I want to spend some money from time to time on. Just to name one of my things I like to invest in sometimes. )
    On the other hand,some of the advice is pure common sense. We only live on this earth once we should live comfortably but with a sense of sensibility which I see is completely lost during these days..when even the algorithm on UA-cam glorifies people who buy in excess.

  • @YadiraStyle
    @YadiraStyle 3 роки тому

    Great video! I can relate with the belts. The make up is still something I’m working on but have dialed back a lot. Getting there. Lol. Thank you for sharing!

  • @dancer2749
    @dancer2749 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this!! Great suggestions!!!!! Also, I love you hair length now. A bit longer is very pretty on you.

  • @itziarhoces8417
    @itziarhoces8417 Рік тому

    Hello.Thanks a lot for sharing.I fully agree with your points.You're very smart and savvy.Thanks!!

  • @lizs1passion
    @lizs1passion 3 роки тому +1

    Omg I love your channel!!! I am so glad I found you, I can listen to you all day, you are so smart and an inspiration 😘 i just started getting into luxury brands especially Chanel but i am so disappointed with the constant crazy ridiculous price increases, you are a lifesaver 🥰 liked and subscribed

  • @starrysloth8018
    @starrysloth8018 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Eileen, I have a tiny request! Could u please share with us get-ready-with-me or morning routine? 😝 really like your clean and elegant look!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Great idea!! Although my routine is really quite simple and boring 🙈

  • @dorinatudisco1308
    @dorinatudisco1308 3 роки тому +1

    Wonderful and thoughtful video. Thank you!

  • @654ujala
    @654ujala 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! You’re skin looks amazing...I would have never guessed you broke out! I think a healthy diet and drinking lots of water makes the most significant difference on your skin. Of course, I agree that a dermatologist can help more with problem skin than facials.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      It's a lot better now but I used to get a lot of acne on my chin. I'm so thankful for my dermatologist, she gave me back so much confidence. Water and a good diet are key too xx

  • @susanclarke431
    @susanclarke431 3 роки тому +1

    Totally agree with you about designer t shirts and designer jewelry.

  • @ggb9267
    @ggb9267 3 роки тому +1

    Always love all you advices and contents.

  • @drcandybonsu995
    @drcandybonsu995 3 роки тому +1

    Great choice.. I already do most of that but that was good.🥰

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Love having another mindful spender here! xx

  • @sophienguyen6474
    @sophienguyen6474 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Ai Lin,
    It’s funny how we think and act alike.
    Always looking forward to your Sunday video. Great content 💖

  • @nicola646
    @nicola646 3 роки тому +1

    I didn't know you could stop paying for the TV tv licence! We never watch the tele either. Thanks, Eileen! xx :DDD

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      I didn't either but as soon as I found out I cut it straightaway, best decision lol xx

  • @weing5823
    @weing5823 3 роки тому +2

    Nice sharing and now I’m rethinking the need to buy a new car haha 😆 am also considering to streamline my costume jewellery collection to start investing in fine jewelry. I reckon I won’t be wearing them as much in the future but I totally love some of Hermes’ clic H and CDC24! I don’t do cosmetic either but will spend on good skincare supplements and products 💖

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      I feel you! For me, skin care is always worth my money xx

  • @ReneeSLiu
    @ReneeSLiu 3 роки тому +1

    No more TV for me too lol. I just watch YT when I have some spare time. I need to try out the olive oil for my hair. Thank you for sharing😍💕

  • @Seemstobereal
    @Seemstobereal 3 роки тому +2

    Lol after watching your video I guess I was always a minimalist. I only started buying bags two years ago and I am 60. We have stayed in a decent home for the last 20 years. I never buy luxury RTW or shoes. We spend more money on travel.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      That is awesome! Traveling and seeing the world are always worth the money xx

  • @DasZuckerhaus
    @DasZuckerhaus 3 роки тому +8

    Im so happy to have your perspective in my feed. With the lockdowns ive been shopping too much :(

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      I'm so glad you found my video helpful! Sending you lots of positive energy xx

  • @raapyna8544
    @raapyna8544 2 роки тому +1

    I don't collect designer anything, but I do enjoy watching your videos, because you speak so beatifully and appreciatively of stuff. I think sustainable consuming lies there - appreciating things more, in a way that we want them to last and to take good care of them, and where we appreciate quality. I have one or maybe a few 'designer'-brand pieces, because at the time of purchase, they were the best tailoring for me. I'm not attached to the brands themselves, and I prefer if there are no visible labels, and the pieces are classical and simple in a way where you can combine them with anything, expensive or cheap, old or new. It makes me embarrased if I'm dressed from head to toe with one brand and it's visible (I have some full outfits like this in outdoor wear, because certain brands are better fit for my body or fit my other criteria better than others, like materials and price) I'm a frugal minimalist but I like to go for products that don't look cheap or expensive and are more on the traditional side. For example beautiful bar soaps can be hand-made and somewhat expensive to buy, but they last a long time. I like owning less but beautiful and carefully chosen items that reflect the times before consumerism, when things were made with craftsmanship and lasted for generations. If feels luxurious compared to owning lots of consumeristic stuff. But my things don't reflect this completely of course. I have many fast-fashion clothes left, my home is not plastic-free, and so on.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 роки тому +1

      Oh I think you’re doing great! To be honest I don’t think any of us can be perfectly sustainable anyway. Someone wise once said, a more sustainable world requires all of us to do things imperfectly rather than one person doing them perfectly xx

    • @raapyna8544
      @raapyna8544 2 роки тому

      @@ColourfulNoir Exactly! I try to incorporate new sustainable things to my life every now and again. Over time, it makes a difference. Love your videos and good luck on your journey!

  • @helloxluxury
    @helloxluxury 3 роки тому +2

    Great advice and tips as always 😊💕

  • @LinhHueTran
    @LinhHueTran 3 роки тому +1

    You don’t have to explain yourself but I can understand for those in the back! I am the exactly same way! Frugal and thoughtful.

  • @littlebean8856
    @littlebean8856 3 роки тому +1

    2021 is my low buy year, I need to keep watching your videos.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      You can do it! Sending you lots of positive energy xx

  • @NiniLeNguyen
    @NiniLeNguyen 3 роки тому +9

    I can't agree with you on the manicure pedicure part 🤣🤣🤣 I hate seeing naked nails.

    • @comfynlux5695
      @comfynlux5695 3 роки тому +1

      Agreed

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +2

      I can't see myself maintaining them well either xx

    • @NiniLeNguyen
      @NiniLeNguyen 3 роки тому +1

      I can go and not getting a hair cut for over a year but I have to do my nails every 2 weeks 🙃😅

  • @imbaghappy
    @imbaghappy 3 роки тому +1

    I also don’t buy a lot of the things on this list. I will take note of that olive oil tip next time. 😊
    Great video!

  • @maijam6709
    @maijam6709 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks again for the wise video!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      I love how people look in heels! If my feet liked them, I might have bought some myself xx

  • @mursepurse
    @mursepurse 3 роки тому +4

    I love your lifestyle! I am very minimalistic just like you :) Never spend anything on makeup or beauty products. The only thing I splurge on is Hermes bags ;P

  • @tamiewert808
    @tamiewert808 3 роки тому +2

    Covid caused me to have to colour my hair at home, and my husband helps me do the back. I find I'm saving tons of money, the look is just as good, and I don't have to worry about making small talk for hours with the stylist,!

    • @jessie9653
      @jessie9653 3 роки тому

      I cut my own hair now and I agree no small talk 😁

  • @marshawilliamson8602
    @marshawilliamson8602 Рік тому

    I drive my cars to the ground, too. 😂 When my 2003 C32AMG died after many years of service and over 200,000 miles, my husband found a 2004 Benz S Class with only 22,000 miles. I was so happy. I could continue to drive a nice car without worry of a small scratch or dent and continue to use my favorite German car repair service. 🌸🐝

  • @comfynlux5695
    @comfynlux5695 3 роки тому +1

    I agree about the car. I recently had to get a new one I was so pissed the engine blew up in my car and I had to get another one. I never buy designer tees or tennis. I also do my hair at home and use essential oils I think it is much healthier now.
    I love to cook so homemade sweets work best for my family. We don’t eat out much. I also take my lunch and snacks to work everyday

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Safety comes first! I hope your new car is serving you well. I religiously bring lunch to work too, so much cheaper and healthier xx

    • @comfynlux5695
      @comfynlux5695 3 роки тому

      It is thank you despite my apprehension it worked out for the best. We got a beautiful car

  • @justinalou1752
    @justinalou1752 3 роки тому +4

    You make me feel that I'm absolutely normal! 😅😍😘🥰

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      You're more than normal, you must be a rational spender xx

  • @annedonker4795
    @annedonker4795 2 роки тому

    i totally love this. i don't use make up or nail polish either. no designer anything for me either. i do have a wekness for bags, but not luxury bags

  • @mariesanchez
    @mariesanchez 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for these tips!!!!!

  • @meiltoo
    @meiltoo 3 роки тому +4

    Its hard to know what another person likes, unless she tells you specifically... i agree its better i choose what he gives me if its an expensive item.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Definitely! I also love gifting gift cards for that reason xx

  • @opalbeach9626
    @opalbeach9626 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Eileen, thanks for Sharing. Ok I agree with the car, I have my car for 11 years now, I bought it new. I will always buy a new car because i know it last me for many years. Ok, I love my face, so I do spend my money on good face creams. I got rid of my cable last year and I dont miss it. I am learning French and I have been doing a lot of reading. I get movies from my Amazon Prime membership. Unfortunately most people get their values in their cars, handbags and clothes (that they cannot even afford). You will be saving a ton of money from your choices. Good luck!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      When I remove unnecessary things from my life, I feel lighter, my house is roomier and my bank account looks healthier too xx

  • @moondoggiesbaby
    @moondoggiesbaby 3 роки тому

    Really enjoyed this video, my husband and I do a lot of these things too. Can you please share the skincare you've been using?

  • @yunnieo9498
    @yunnieo9498 3 роки тому +1

    Great video as always. Please share the link for substituting conditioner with olive oil as I’ll really like to give it a try 😊 xx

    • @mysticfox1563
      @mysticfox1563 3 роки тому +1

      I do a similar thing. I have a hair oil in a pump. After shampooing I put it in the bottom third of my hair while it is still wet. I’ve been doing this for a couple years.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      Hi Yunnie, I can't really recall the exact video but a few minimalists have posted the same tips, maybe try UA-cam it xx

  • @rosersara6211
    @rosersara6211 3 роки тому +1

    I agree (and already do 😌 ) with Point 1, 3, 5, 11, 12, 14, 15, 17, 18, 20
    I still have to work on Point 2, 6, 7, 8, 9, 16, 19,
    Point 4: I don’t have a car 🙃
    Point 10 and 13: Never 😱 I love Make-up to much 😉
    Love this Video 😘

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому

      That looks like a fabulous list to me! xx

  • @gloriachan1333
    @gloriachan1333 3 роки тому +2

    I agree with all of these! and already follow majority of these.

  • @veechan9885
    @veechan9885 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Eileen, I am always amazed with how healthy your hair looks. You mentioned that you added few drops of olive oil into your shampoo, I wonder what kind of olive oil is that? Is it the one specially for hair or you can simply use normal olive oil? As always, your videos inspire me and remind me to be wiser in my spending:) thanks Eileen

  • @positivelyhappymom3238
    @positivelyhappymom3238 3 роки тому +1

    Loved your video idea and content.

  • @claudiakalkbrenner4148
    @claudiakalkbrenner4148 3 роки тому +1

    Really enjoy your videos! I’m the total opposite, I don’t buy flats 😅 always prefer heels over flats, aside from my trainers for the gym!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for sharing!! You have one great talent right there! I absolutely love how people look in heels to be honest xx

    • @claudiakalkbrenner4148
      @claudiakalkbrenner4148 3 роки тому

      @@ColourfulNoir many years working in fashion and it was a requirement, plus I’m quite petite so I feel more confident in heels... can’t wear heels as high as I used to all day 😅

  • @dimpymatharu8921
    @dimpymatharu8921 3 роки тому +2

    Hi Eileen! Where do you shop for your jumpers and tunics? I love the pieces you wear especially the longer style tops!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      The one I wore in the video was from Zara. Usually I also look at John Lewis, Allsaints, and Outnet xx

  • @krushr17
    @krushr17 3 роки тому +1

    I just purchased my first and only rodeo charm. I waited until I found one that I really love the color. I also want a Kelly belt.

  • @athena3865
    @athena3865 Рік тому

    Boomer and former beauty adviser and retired professional nurse, here. I used to go to salon also for hair color. I am now silver, and have not seen a salon in almost a decade. I even cut my own hair, which is now longer and thicker than it has been since I was a child. I am on zero meds, so no hair thinning. My salon colorist told me back in the day that home kits are extremely damaging to the hair follicles because of the salts in them, which contribute to hair thinning. So, I stopped coloring altogether, and have a beautiful silver look. I keep my hair from turning yellow by avoiding heat of any kind, and I never use shampoo. Oribe is all I use.

  • @SundayRose99
    @SundayRose99 3 роки тому +1

    Great tips! Thanks for sharing 🥰

  • @ummlittlemuslim
    @ummlittlemuslim Рік тому

    Love your natural nails and we are very similar, no lipstick or lashes for me too

  • @mariselbaluran4943
    @mariselbaluran4943 2 роки тому

    Wow … I’m glad I came across your channel thank you

  • @bold_beautiful_and_opinionated
    @bold_beautiful_and_opinionated 3 роки тому +1

    Absolutely love your videos! I am watching this video while deep conditioning & steaming my hair at home because I don’t want to pay to have it done at a salon. 🤣 If there is anything this pandemic has taught me, it is that we can live on a lot less than we think. I enjoy having nice things but I would rather have my money in my pocket.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  3 роки тому +1

      I agree! The pandemic has really opened up my eyes about what I really need to live a good life xx