Omg... Your story about your husband driving you to the boutique sounds just like mine. Now in my late 40’s, I look back and realize how silly it was to have an obsession and own an object instead of enjoying a nice time together to celebrate important milestone occasions. We all live and learn. Thanks so much for giving me an opportunity to reflect back on past and silly mistakes.
Great points Eileen!!! Peer pressure, social media, “FOMO”..... all these are very real and scary. I have been trying to stay away from IG lately. Cultural influences are disabling as well. Thank you for the authentic chat and for sharing your insights with us!!!!
I don't do Instagram. It seems like a black hole for time and energy. But kudos to anyone with the courage and conviction to change direction. We all make mistakes, few admit to them!
@@ColourfulNoir no need for regrets. You are still young and can earn $$ Just pass on your knowledge to your kids. 😍 downfall of being first generation that can earn enough money for luxury.
Wow. I really needed to hear this. Im 23 and I'm trying to start my luxury collection (while in college (stupid I know!!! peer pressure is real)) but your video was amazing. Just what I needed to hear. Slow the hell down and dont define my happines and success by designer things.
Thank you for touching on the “investment” issue. I hear that word so much from UA-camrs in connection with clothes and bags, and it is a word used so mindlessly.
Thank you for this video, I really needed to her this. I recently discovered that I was buying things to make me feel good, but once I received it, the chase was over and I was on the hunt for the next thing. I sold about 40 items that I did not use or reach for any more and it felt great. I also did not get near half what I paid for them, and that part really sucks. This is a perfect video for people to hear. Thank you and god bless.
Great advice. I have sure learned the hard way, few weeks ago I went to my local LV boutique to repair my 6 key holder. And for whatever reason I decided to try on the Pochette Metis in monogram, after trying on on the bag. The SA says to me that the bag just got in this morning, I know in my heart of heart I do not need the bags but decided to get it anyway. Then the SA said how do you want to pay? Cash or Card? Then I ask myself do you really need the bag or just because some of your friends have it? I kindly told her sorry I think I'll pass on this one. Great content as always
I think it's fantastic that you listened to your heart and said no! It doesn't matter how popular a bag is, if it's not for you, it's not worth paying for it xx
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 i remember when i asked if LV has Pochette metis, the sa told me immediately ‘NO’ because its so popular... for some reason this stuck with me, because... she made something that costs thousands sound like a cheap thing that flies off the shelf. It may be true but its rather ridiculous.
I read from somewhere.. That most luxury brands are created for the "poor"... To feel rich when they own luxury items. It's a status symbol thing, which is really unhealthy imo
Not judging but because of the pandemic this past Christmas there were long lines outside of LV and Burberry. The mall I like is an open mall called Oak Brook and it was cold. Sadly the majority of the people I saw looked poor. I hope that whatever they purchased made them happy. When I was young and poor I had one Payless purse. I was just as happy then as I was when I bought my first LV in 2003. Not about the purse LOL I mean in my life.
Thank you Eileen for the honest & truthful thoughts. It is a good reminder for all of us to be mindful and intentional spender. "Luxury doesnt change who you are" I agree with this.
Luxury pieces are not investment, so true. Some of the luxury items are hard to sell and there are stress that could come up in the process of selling.
I walked into LV wanting to buy and I got completely ignored because I was dressed casually and my friend who didn't intend to buy but was dressed well was talked to and "looked after"...while they completely ignored me and used her name and not mine. I walked out so angry and thought I would not buy due to their disgusting behaviour. I will go to another store.
I totally agree with you, I have made similar mistakes. Thanks for your weekly sensible shopping videos, I have been doing good for a long while , but yesterday my “ handbag addiction “ almost got me again! 😅 Now I’m watching your videos on repeat to calm myself down! 🤣 I think it really helps! You are like my luxury shopping therapist! 😂 Thank you again ❤️
@@ColourfulNoir your video really made me evaluate a lot. This covid had me shopping a lot.... But it's really just fleeting. Which reminds me though, i do love Hermes but I can't justify $8000 or more for a purse.
It’s not easy to be so honest and candid - kudos to you. I think an honest self-reflection can lead to actions/behavior you will be more proud of, not to mention healthier, ie, less stress, the need to keep up, sleepless nights thinking about that item(s), etc.
I used to buy and buy to buy happiness. The products weren't luxury but the money wasted was a lot and I'm slowly dialling it back. Great message 👍 👏 🙂
You may not have as many luxury items, but you have an abundance of wisdom! This was an honest and in-depth analysis that ALL of us should consider. Well said!
Hi Heather, the pandemic definitely made me really think about my shopping behaviours. I still can't believe a lot of the silly things I did to be honest xx
This was so refreshing! Thank you for emphasizing that luxury items are not tied to your worth as a human being. It’s also so sweet how you talk about your husband and how these things have played a part in your relationship.
Luxury goods companies purposely raise their prices every year in order to create an urgency for their customers to buy now. In other words, if a potential customer doesn't buy the desirable Rolex watch or luxury handbag today, it will cost more money if they buy it next year or 2 years down the road. It's basically creating a psychological FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) for their prospective customers.
Omg! I know this cycle. I had lived it too. I’m happy I’ve grown from it also. Especially with what’s going on in the world right now. I appreciate family time a lot more.
I've got preloved bags and only a few that I paid retail, but then again I got them reduced. I've got enough to be happy with. There's always someone with more, or to their minds, better or newer. A few weeks back I got my nails done (don't usually do this but it was a bonding thing with a friend) and she had the latest Gucci camera style bag which was a particular shade of blue, and then I saw it twice again in the same place! There weren't many women in this nail place, and I thought: what's the point? If so many have the latest it's no longer special. It's just new, but that novelty will fade soon. All of these women paid full retail price, it's a LOT of $. Meanwhile I have some bags that are not sought after bags except by a minority. For example Morabito is based in Paris and top quality. Few know this, so I could get bargains in preloved market. It's a very brand-driven logo-driven phenomenon which I steer clear of except for one LV bag which I bought originally to flip. But it turns out I actually like it, it's the LV Alma PM in monogram and I like the shape as I'm tall and slim. The bigger size suits me. Most people seem to assume it's a fake but it isn't. How ironic! lol!
I have been on the same journey. I don’t know what got into me that I was so obsessed with buying luxury for a few years. I started reducing my collection a little over a year ago and am much happier with just a few nice pieces. I still have two items I want to sell but Fashionphile is saturated with inventory and no longer taking my items. I’m glad I started when I did and was able to already sell the majority of my collection. Everything is cyclical and I see the luxury craze coming to an end. Thank you for the conversation!
I had trouble looking the part in my social circle, too. I felt like I had to have luxury handbags to hang out with my friends. I also felt a void and looked to shopping to feel happy but the happiness was fleeting. After having my son, I feel much more confident wearing whatever and having a sense of purpose. I still struggle with shopping when feeling stressed out or down, but it’s getting better. You have some really good advice.
@@ColourfulNoir Thank you! Yes, I’ve been getting into gardening lately and started working out again. I need to just focus on finding healthy ways to be happy. ❤️
Intentional shopping. Perfectly put. All my bags will stay in my collection forever. Yes, forever. I made excellent choices. But I'm older now. I did the trendy thing when I was young and didn't buy luxury yet, thank goodness. I made some mistakes in my life but not when it comes to fashion. I Love everything you said.
Everyone make mistake. Impulse purchased n regret later alwys the case. As one grow older will realise hw silly it was. Social media also play a crucial part. If can, just avoid it at times.
i missed out on my dream black ferragamo heels.... and thought i would be very sad, and i still am pretty disappointed but i move on and i dont think about it every day - like it doesnt really matter to me at the end of the day.... I needed perspective that $1000 is ALOT OF MONEY. When you keep spending money on luxury, exponential amounts of money starts to feel too easy to spend...
Is call maturity. The you tube influencers gives a false sense that luxury items are “investment”. But we all have to go through the crazy luxury shopping phases, then we realize our purchases are crazy waste of money. If you look at all the purses in your closet, rather than looking at them as investment or collection, look at how much money is locked in those items that are just sitting in your closet. Instead of $6K on a bag, how about use that money to buy stocks. Instead owning 10 bags, how about limit to 3, and you are going to use the value out of it. It’s so hard to have discipline on luxury shopping! Slowly weaning ourselves off the craze.
Really enjoyed your video. It’s nice to have people being genuine. Social media has definitely influenced me in wanting more. And for those who misuse the term “investment” purchases. They’re not. Unless your job is to buy for clients or you have a huge social media following, it is very unlikely you will break even on a handbag unless you’re going to sit on it for x amount of years. Better to invest in stock market or real estate but unfortunately that doesn’t really draw a huge following.
You gave me so much wisdom in this video. I can relate to the impulse buys. I’ve also wasted a lot of money 😣 Definitely going to remember some of your tips before I buy things in the future.
Dear Eileen congratulations ...You evolved ..you grew up ,,,early enough !! The pressure of marketing in a capitalist system is hard to resist ...The credit cards were created for pain-free !!!! spending!! Generating the Oh so painful "credit rating ",,. When one is from "humble beginnings " the urge to buy is stronger . But 2020 will mark a new area ... this is why we all were stoped and had to reflect . It is of good business practices to take inventories periodically ...and correct our mistakes. Luxury shopping is on the list of Addictions ... You buy these "stuff" not sure why !!?? So BRAVO for the detox !! Your charming -patient husband must exhale !! (If i may say : The chunky bracelet should go too !!) It goes only with a Harley 😉
I am so glad that I didn’t follow the trend, I remember back then, Celine Nano, Balenciaga, and Valentino was really popular and I know for sure that these bags won’t appreciate in value, that’s why I bought only forever Classic items on LV & Chanel and those are the ones that appreciate in value. While everyone else has 20+ bags in their collection, I only have less than 10 bags in my collection including Birkin & Kelly.
Thank you so much for sharing your honest opinions. I was just like you going for designer brands from head to toe but this pandemic had changed my mindset. Yes branded things only reflect our exterior but not who you are. ❤️❤️❤️ this video abs have a great week ahead.
Thank you for another incredible video Eileen! With so many youtubers encouraging constant and mindless consumerism, it’s so refreshing to watch and listen to your level headed content. I started my luxury journey around 15 years ago and made many of the same mistakes so this was extremely relatable! Your message will save those starting their collections a lot of heartache and money!
This pandemic has caused much self reflection for many of us. Eileen your words of wisdom are so well articulated and summarizes the psychology of non-essential shopping and shopping ‘addiction’. I truly agree how it is so easy to be influenced by others including sales associates, creating this ‘need’ and material self worth . Thank you for sharing those personal learnings which many of us have also experienced. We all need to seize those important moments more than ever now. Happy and healthy holidays to you and your family !
Don't beat yourself up, Eileen...I am probably old enough to be your mother, and I can tell you that all of those experiences shaped you into who you are, now. Hindsight is always 20/20, also.
Wise thoughts. I made the same mistake when I watched UA-cam content that focused on hauls and luxury items I thought I really needed. I went on a Chanel earrings phase. Now I hardly wear any of them and regret the money I could’ve saved for a real gold item instead of costume jewelry. That’s the danger of social media influence. You always have to be aware of it if you’re gonna watch that content. Good advice!
I really enjoy your videos because these are not crazy luxury shopping in a day. You have made very good points. I believe balance in life is very important. A Long lasting happiness does not come from buying luxury items. Yes luxury item does give you happiness when done carefully and agin in balance. I love watching luxury hauls but have only couple of luxury items in my collection. I have been wanting to buy Love Bracelet but given I am a physician and typically no jewelry, mostly scrubs :) I have been wondering if it’s worth the investment. I can’t wrap my head around how some ladies spends $20,000- 30,000 in one day. I see a luxury UA-camrs says luxury handbags etc are a good investment, I believe luxury items are only to give you happiness which is important but an investment. You can invest in stocks with much higher return if you are mostly interested in investment.
This is such useful advice. When you look at the millions of IGers out there, they are constantly buying .... I don’t know about the selling though. I have to wonder how they’re finding their luxury purchases. So many of them have several Chanel handbags, they’re constantly doing hauls of clothes bought from Zara plus a few luxury belts or shoes.... I can’t imagine that every IGer is making tonnes so I can only conclude they must be in serious debt unless they have a seriously good day job that supports that .... but given their age and the fact they’ve not founded Uber or Deliveroo ... I doubt it. Not to mention the lack of sustainability when it comes to frivolous purchasing for the sake of a few likes on a photo.
hi Eileen, thank you so much for sharing , exactly what i have been through along my luxury bag journey. Wasted so much money and things doesn't really change for the past 10 years. i was in the credit card debt as well, just because of owing a luxury bag. However, its ok for me to see people doing unboxing, i feel happy for them. Just that i am more wiser in spending my money. I started to practicing minimal lifestyle in where i noted its such a chaos and troublesome when i want to move out with plenty of things inside the house or wardrobe . Happy to see your sharing and thank you for your sincere thought as well. Happy New year
I definitely can related. I wish I saw your video a bit earlier. I did make some similar mistakes. I thought to myself the bag wasn’t too special. The hardware color wasn’t what I want. The SA told me how limited and hard to get that bag was. I left the store. But still thinking about it. So my husband went back and bought for me. After a few days. I bought same bag with nicer color. And now I regretted it. And even with new condition. I checked to sell online. And look like I’m gonna loose over $1000 . If I saw your video earlier. I should know I should go care much if the bag hard to get according to the SA. I should only get what I like. If I know the bag wasn’t what I really want. I should just walk away. Thanks for sharing. I find it very helpful. And btw you have very nice Hermes collection. Practical and easy to wear.
Hi Eileen (sorry if I misspelled your name, just saw how other people spell it, please, feel free to correct me)! Thank you for your thoughts - I think most of the conclusions you came to are valid to most people, but I have 2 questions: - why you call all these "regrets"? I mean those decisions made you a person you are now, and it looks like you found piece, learned some lessons and enjoy your time now. Do you think it might have been possible to achieve such results without your previous experience? - a second question is a consequence of the first one: do you think it is possible to to learn those lessons on someone else's experience (like a young girl could watch you video or several videos like yours and change her behaviour)? Don't get me wrong, I don't think such videos are useless. I personally enjoy watching your videos and similar videos on UA-cam, but I am also approaching a state where I've learned some lessons (and it's great to know through UA-cam videos that someone has passed the same and feels great now), but I don't see them as regrets - I am happy to pay those money to be able to understand that luxury items don't change anything inside me, to understand my style, to understand my values etc. Those lessons seem to be more valuable then the money I "lost"... What's your opinion on that?
Great questions! I certainly think my experiences have influenced me to become who I am today. However, the truth is, you don't know what you don't know. So I certainly think if I was told these at a younger age, I would have shopped a lot more mindfully. Just like investing, I would have started a lot sooner if I enlightened myself earlier with reading and exploring. This is why a lot of people would say the same, they wish they had started investing earlier and respecting the value of money. I truly believe in early education about these topics, which is why I'm also trying to teach my little one and hopefully he will have to not learn from too many mistakes xx
Great video!! I have always had a shopping problem but lately i have been buying less small things so i can afford the thigs i really want!! I just purchased my first peice of ready to wear! Last month i ordered my first two pairs of luxury shoes!! At the beginning of the year i bought my second luxury bag!! Love your videos!!
I can relate to shopping and feeling fulfilled for a few days and on to more purchases after. I've experienced one Louis Vuitton wallet that peeled and cracked. Never did I want anything from LV again. I'm NOT into acquiring a collection of bags. A collection would overwhelm me. I must admit, I have had ZERO regrets due to a resolution I made a years ago. I return immediately what I don't wear. I know the stores return policy and make a decision by the end date to prevent regret and impulse purchases.
thank you for this video. i bought 3 luxury items recently because i felt i “i deserved it” for my many years of hard work. but afterwards i keep having a nagging voice in my head wondering if i truly deserve it. so torturous. 😂. next time i will remember your advice!
I think you did some good soul searching in these past few years. I'm glad you know our worth doesn't come from material items. Our worth comes from who we are in Christ. God bless you!
Great advice, esp referring to the investment select as one of enjoyment and use rather than ROI. You’re one of the ‘guys’ and not the usual kind of gal who accumulated stuff for no reason!
Your video is so insightful, i have been thinking for some time, why i spend so much on luxury bags when the “happiness” that came with the purchase only lasted a few days... then its another bag on the shelf that i neglect or another bag i use... thats one of the reasons I havent purchased a bag for 2 years. I’m using my existing stash which makes me happy too.
Very educational, all women past the same feelings and medias just shows influencers pushing to desidere things that may be' wouldn't rapresent us and give enough satisfaction in the same measure that spend that money shoud. Thank you very much.
Hi Eileen... I'm glad that I live in South Africa (sometimes) where its hard to get certain luxury brands. Also with customs charges in the stratosphere & the schlep... I have to think long & hard before buying. This helps curb my spending on unnecessary items. Lovely video 👌
I think that's such a good point. I too think creating some barriers for shopping can be great in reducing impulse shopping. I don't even save my password for my Amazon account, otherwise it's too easy to order the whole store! xx
Thank you so much, Eileen! I SO needed this. I have to save this video and keep watching it in the future when I need a reminder again. I'm not even into fashion or in the market of any high-end bags/jewelry...but I am a stationary addict and have collected so many leather notebooks, fine stationaries and casual bags...when you add up, it's still A LOT of money spent unnecessarily! I stumbled upon your video while searching for a handmade leather backpack...lol. Love your contents and I've learned a lot about fashion and intentional spending after watching your videos in the past few days. This one is what I need THE MOST. I absolutely agree with every words in this video. Thank you for sharing!
Eileen...Eileen is such a beautyful lady,adorable,intelligent and she is now more smarter...what she said is 100% correct...no doubt..Her husband is also very nice person ,patience even he has busy with her loving wife...drove her from one mall to other mall because of one bag...no wonder now she is a mentor for the youtubers who influence by the luxury items...I knew about LV..Agner..Chanel since 30 years ago...now i start to brouwsing the LV,,becuse LV have very gorgeous bags...I buy when I need..I don't care is the seller treats me good or not...the important thing is beautyful inside...never let anyone hurt your feeling because you don't have /don't carry the luxury bags,,but enjoy & satisfied what you have & a good heath,,happiness.Happy holiday for all youtuber...stay safe .GBU all
Thanks for sharing your advice with such honesty. I think the biggest takeaway is to not allow luxury brands to define who we are. It’s so easy these days to let the social media fuel our desire for the latest and ‘most sought after’ pieces, to the point that we get desensitized with the huge price tags and consider them normal splurges just because many others have them. Learning to be content with a few classic pieces that we really love and will wear for a long time takes a lot of wisdom and discipline!
I went through the same thing, I kept buying things and ended up reselling some of them. I think having less but better quality luxury items is much better, it’s less of a headache.
Tx for your sharings!! I agree with everything you say!! I think it’s really hard especially when starting out but as my own collection has grown I’ve had the same feeling !! Thanks for sharing !! I hope to cut down on my collection soon too !!
All good points. Actually, social media influence has its good and bad points. For me, IM will influence you more without really thinking because it’s all Eye candy photos but with UA-cam like this one, I get to see people reviews, their thoughts and experiences with the item and this helped me a lot deciding on that next luxury piece.
Definitely! UA-cam is such a useful platform to gain information. I think as long as we remain in the driving seat of our shopping, it's absolutely fine to consume luxury content xx
I always admired the Chanel black flap bag. I bought a dupe which was $200. I never used it. I realized that it wasn’t my style. It’s on consignment now. I think learning your personal style is important and now I know that luxury bags with logos are not really me. I don’t have the urge to own one anymore. Thanks for your insight Eileen! I recently discovered your channel and I really enjoy it.
Well done you, I am very disappointed in some UA-cam people that are now using the hard sell. I must get them out of my life. I Do now appreciate everything that I already own and my wish list is empty. Xx
When I was young I could not afford any luxury bags. I bought a few fakes at the Flea market, that were poor quality, and quickly stopped using them, as they fell apart. Graduated from college and all through my 30' and 40's I had money and quickly bought authentic Chanel, LV, Fendi, Gucci, and on and on. I was hooked Thousands of dollars sat in my closet, including a Maxi double flap I purchased for $3,800, as I could not and did not use all of these bags often, just a few favorites. Now prices are ridiculous and keep going up. These companies encourage addiction (of course they do) and embrace bloggers & young people to buy and want these items. Now in my late 40's I find a closet with thousands and thousands of dollars sitting. I ended up selling everything, and only kept 5 of my favorite bags. Now I buy a occasional triple A/mirror replica when the urge comes over me to have the new "it" bag. I have found the replicas are NOT what they once were some are so so well done, and some even made better than my authentic, and because of this I am comfortable carrying them . I can go on about my authentic LV Metis having a coating issue and cracking and multiple trips to LV to fix the issue, and hardware on my authentic YSL that fell apart. I have expensive jewelry and use both my authentic items and replicas and no one knows. I've even had compliments in the Gucci and Chanel shops when I wear my replicas and sales people rush over to me all the time. I have a large diamond wedding ring and expensive watches and no one knows the bag I might be carrying that day is a replica. Granted, I will say I can tell the difference mostly by feel of leather grade and the inside details, but otherwise you just cannot tell, unless you feel and look very closely, even then its not easy to see the difference! I would rather spend my money on investment for retirement and experiences! That large Chanel 19 price is a nice 10 day cruise! I would encourage those on the designer handbag trap to ask yourself this:" Which adds more to my life a thing or experience??? The answer was clear to me.
Omg... Your story about your husband driving you to the boutique sounds just like mine. Now in my late 40’s, I look back and realize how silly it was to have an obsession and own an object instead of enjoying a nice time together to celebrate important milestone occasions. We all live and learn. Thanks so much for giving me an opportunity to reflect back on past and silly mistakes.
Poor those gentlemen 😆 I am definitely a lot more sensible now and he no longer has to drive around like a headless chicken lol xx
Lucky that the same man is still with us to this day😉! Feeling more appreciative....for sure.
Great points Eileen!!! Peer pressure, social media, “FOMO”..... all these are very real and scary. I have been trying to stay away from IG lately. Cultural influences are disabling as well. Thank you for the authentic chat and for sharing your insights with us!!!!
Thank you so much for your feedback! Have a lovely day xx
I don't do Instagram. It seems like a black hole for time and energy. But kudos to anyone with the courage and conviction to change direction. We all make mistakes, few admit to them!
Good lessons. With age, comes wisdom.
Definitely 💛
Nope, the regrets become more expensive 😉
Most of us r not much different from one another , we seem to go through the same cycle/evolution
So true! But I only wish I knew earlier, a lot of money would have been saved xx
@@ColourfulNoir no need for regrets. You are still young and can earn $$
Just pass on your knowledge to your kids. 😍 downfall of being first generation that can earn enough money for luxury.
I am so glad i found your channel
I'm so glad to have you here! xx
Wow. I really needed to hear this. Im 23 and I'm trying to start my luxury collection (while in college (stupid I know!!! peer pressure is real)) but your video was amazing. Just what I needed to hear. Slow the hell down and dont define my happines and success by designer things.
Aww you're too sweet! Thank you! I'm so glad you found my video helpful xx
Thank you for touching on the “investment” issue. I hear that word so much from UA-camrs in connection with clothes and bags, and it is a word used so mindlessly.
Too bad I didn’t see this in June which started my pandemic shopping craze
You are absolutely amazing. I am in awe of you!
Thank you so much xx
Omg u are the most relatable, down to earth, real, wise luxury youtuber i ever known. I reasonates and agree with you.
Thank you so much, Sam! I really appreciate it xx
Thank you for this video, I really needed to her this. I recently discovered that I was buying things to make me feel good, but once I received it, the chase was over and I was on the hunt for the next thing. I sold about 40 items that I did not use or reach for any more and it felt great. I also did not get near half what I paid for them, and that part really sucks. This is a perfect video for people to hear. Thank you and god bless.
I feel your pain! It can be so liberating to let go of the things that no longer serve you, but the financial loss can be hard to swallow xx
Great advice. I have sure learned the hard way, few weeks ago I went to my local LV boutique to repair my 6 key holder. And for whatever reason I decided to try on the Pochette Metis in monogram, after trying on on the bag. The SA says to me that the bag just got in this morning, I know in my heart of heart I do not need the bags but decided to get it anyway. Then the SA said how do you want to pay? Cash or Card? Then I ask myself do you really need the bag or just because some of your friends have it? I kindly told her sorry I think I'll pass on this one. Great content as always
I think it's fantastic that you listened to your heart and said no! It doesn't matter how popular a bag is, if it's not for you, it's not worth paying for it xx
Wow you’re rich 🤑 I can’t even afford it 😅
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 i remember when i asked if LV has Pochette metis, the sa told me immediately ‘NO’ because its so popular... for some reason this stuck with me, because... she made something that costs thousands sound like a cheap thing that flies off the shelf. It may be true but its rather ridiculous.
I read from somewhere.. That most luxury brands are created for the "poor"... To feel rich when they own luxury items. It's a status symbol thing, which is really unhealthy imo
i dont agree with this, but it is definitely something that occurs
Not judging but because of the pandemic this past Christmas there were long lines outside of LV and Burberry. The mall I like is an open mall called Oak Brook and it was cold. Sadly the majority of the people I saw looked poor. I hope that whatever they purchased made them happy. When I was young and poor I had one Payless purse. I was just as happy then as I was when I bought my first LV in 2003. Not about the purse LOL I mean in my life.
Is not created for the poor. Is created for celebs and elite. The hermes, gucci, etc and middle class wants to be part of the elite club
Thank you Eileen for the honest & truthful thoughts. It is a good reminder for all of us to be mindful and intentional spender.
"Luxury doesnt change who you are" I agree with this.
Thank you so much xx
Luxury pieces are not investment, so true. Some of the luxury items are hard to sell and there are stress that could come up in the process of selling.
You are absolutely right! Time spent with loved ones is truly the most important thing in life.
Definitely! xx
I walked into LV wanting to buy and I got completely ignored because I was dressed casually and my friend who didn't intend to buy but was dressed well was talked to and "looked after"...while they completely ignored me and used her name and not mine. I walked out so angry and thought I would not buy due to their disgusting behaviour. I will go to another store.
I'm so sorry to hear about your less than satisfactory experience. I hope you find a store that better deserves your business xx
I totally agree with you, I have made similar mistakes. Thanks for your weekly sensible shopping videos, I have been doing good for a long while , but yesterday my “ handbag addiction “ almost got me again! 😅 Now I’m watching your videos on repeat to calm myself down! 🤣 I think it really helps! You are like my luxury shopping therapist! 😂 Thank you again ❤️
Aww I'm so happy I could help xx
This is wonderful. Confirms what I realized and feel now that I'm older ... Happiness is found within. ❤
Someone wise once said, happiness is a form of being, not buying xx
@@ColourfulNoir your video really made me evaluate a lot. This covid had me shopping a lot.... But it's really just fleeting. Which reminds me though, i do love Hermes but I can't justify $8000 or more for a purse.
It’s not easy to be so honest and candid - kudos to you. I think an honest self-reflection can lead to actions/behavior you will be more proud of, not to mention healthier, ie, less stress, the need to keep up, sleepless nights thinking about that item(s), etc.
I must say owning less has made me a happier person xx
I used to buy and buy to buy happiness. The products weren't luxury but the money wasted was a lot and I'm slowly dialling it back. Great message 👍 👏 🙂
Thanks for sharing!! And all the best to you, I'm sure you'll do very well with mindful spending xx
You may not have as many luxury items, but you have an abundance of wisdom! This was an honest and in-depth analysis that ALL of us should consider. Well said!
Thank you so much! xx
All great advice. I need to remind myself of these things. You have obviously done a lot of self reflection. Very mature perspective.
Hi Heather, the pandemic definitely made me really think about my shopping behaviours. I still can't believe a lot of the silly things I did to be honest xx
Beautifully said. You are a class act and speak so much common sense.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate it xx
Such an honest and genuine video 👍
I really enjoyed your insights 💜
Thank you so much! xx
This was so refreshing! Thank you for emphasizing that luxury items are not tied to your worth as a human being. It’s also so sweet how you talk about your husband and how these things have played a part in your relationship.
Thank you so much! My poor husband had definitely been very patient with my shopping. Looking back, I really wonder how he managed that 🙈
Luxury goods companies purposely raise their prices every year in order to create an urgency for their customers to buy now. In other words, if a potential customer doesn't buy the desirable Rolex watch or luxury handbag today, it will cost more money if they buy it next year or 2 years down the road. It's basically creating a psychological FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) for their prospective customers.
I can't agree more! The fear of missing out has pushed many of us into buying thing we don't really think xx
I am having a curate luxury bag collection which contains 7 bags and I am very happy with it! Staying minimal makes me happy. Love your advice Eileen!
Thanks for sharing!! xx
Omg! I know this cycle. I had lived it too. I’m happy I’ve grown from it also. Especially with what’s going on in the world right now. I appreciate family time a lot more.
I agree! If there's one good thing that happened this year, it's my realisation about what's really important in life xx
Thank God I’m perfectly contented with my medium range bags even though my friends kept telling me to “invest” in expensive luxury handbags.
Thanks for sharing! Gratitude is really the true key to happiness xx
I've got preloved bags and only a few that I paid retail, but then again I got them reduced. I've got enough to be happy with. There's always someone with more, or to their minds, better or newer. A few weeks back I got my nails done (don't usually do this but it was a bonding thing with a friend) and she had the latest Gucci camera style bag which was a particular shade of blue, and then I saw it twice again in the same place! There weren't many women in this nail place, and I thought: what's the point? If so many have the latest it's no longer special.
It's just new, but that novelty will fade soon. All of these women paid full retail price, it's a LOT of $.
Meanwhile I have some bags that are not sought after bags except by a minority. For example Morabito is based in Paris and top quality. Few know this, so I could get bargains in preloved market. It's a very brand-driven logo-driven phenomenon which I steer clear of except for one LV bag which I bought originally to flip. But it turns out I actually like it, it's the LV Alma PM in monogram and I like the shape as I'm tall and slim. The bigger size suits me. Most people seem to assume it's a fake but it isn't. How ironic! lol!
I have been on the same journey. I don’t know what got into me that I was so obsessed with buying luxury for a few years. I started reducing my collection a little over a year ago and am much happier with just a few nice pieces. I still have two items I want to sell but Fashionphile is saturated with inventory and no longer taking my items. I’m glad I started when I did and was able to already sell the majority of my collection. Everything is cyclical and I see the luxury craze coming to an end. Thank you for the conversation!
Thank you so much for sharing, Paige. Less is definitely more xx
I had trouble looking the part in my social circle, too. I felt like I had to have luxury handbags to hang out with my friends. I also felt a void and looked to shopping to feel happy but the happiness was fleeting. After having my son, I feel much more confident wearing whatever and having a sense of purpose. I still struggle with shopping when feeling stressed out or down, but it’s getting better. You have some really good advice.
Thank you so much for sharing!I used to do a lot of emotional shopping but it's so liberating to free myself from the dopamine addiction xx
@@ColourfulNoir Thank you! Yes, I’ve been getting into gardening lately and started working out again. I need to just focus on finding healthy ways to be happy. ❤️
Intentional shopping. Perfectly put. All my bags will stay in my collection forever. Yes, forever. I made excellent choices. But I'm older now. I did the trendy thing when I was young and didn't buy luxury yet, thank goodness. I made some mistakes in my life but not when it comes to fashion. I Love everything you said.
Thanks for sharing!! xx
Everyone make mistake. Impulse purchased n regret later alwys the case. As one grow older will realise hw silly it was. Social media also play a crucial part. If can, just avoid it at times.
Very smart woman. Love your videos. Keep doing that! Greetings from Poland!! :))
Wow, thank you! xx
i missed out on my dream black ferragamo heels.... and thought i would be very sad, and i still am pretty disappointed but i move on and i dont think about it every day - like it doesnt really matter to me at the end of the day.... I needed perspective that $1000 is ALOT OF MONEY. When you keep spending money on luxury, exponential amounts of money starts to feel too easy to spend...
I feel you! It's dangerous when spending thousand of dollars on a bag becomes a norm xx
yes luxury items are not investment😘
Is call maturity. The you tube influencers gives a false sense that luxury items are “investment”. But we all have to go through the crazy luxury shopping phases, then we realize our purchases are crazy waste of money. If you look at all the purses in your closet, rather than looking at them as investment or collection, look at how much money is locked in those items that are just sitting in your closet. Instead of $6K on a bag, how about use that money to buy stocks. Instead owning 10 bags, how about limit to 3, and you are going to use the value out of it. It’s so hard to have discipline on luxury shopping! Slowly weaning ourselves off the craze.
Another tip is to use the gains from investment to buy luxury rather than locking in the money and have no return 😊
Really enjoyed your video. It’s nice to have people being genuine. Social media has definitely influenced me in wanting more. And for those who misuse the term “investment” purchases. They’re not. Unless your job is to buy for clients or you have a huge social media following, it is very unlikely you will break even on a handbag unless you’re going to sit on it for x amount of years. Better to invest in stock market or real estate but unfortunately that doesn’t really draw a huge following.
Hi Annie, that is so true! I also believe there should be more education about stocks and real estate, even from a young age xx
So much wisdom. And definitely needed especially in the age of COVID. #sobering LOTS of other vloggers need to watch this~~ #cantbuyhappiness
Glad you enjoyed it! xx
Consumerism in UK is really crazy and scary. No wonder why there are so many youtubers based on UK working as influencers
You gave me so much wisdom in this video. I can relate to the impulse buys. I’ve also wasted a lot of money 😣 Definitely going to remember some of your tips before I buy things in the future.
I talk about mindful spending a lot, I hope my videos help you cut down on impulse spending a bit xx
Dear Eileen congratulations ...You evolved ..you grew up ,,,early enough !! The pressure of marketing in a capitalist system is hard to resist ...The credit cards were created for pain-free !!!! spending!! Generating the Oh so painful "credit rating ",,.
When one is from "humble beginnings " the urge to buy is stronger .
But 2020 will mark a new area ... this is why we all were stoped and had to reflect .
It is of good business practices to take inventories periodically ...and correct our mistakes.
Luxury shopping is on the list of Addictions ... You buy these "stuff" not sure why !!??
So BRAVO for the detox !! Your charming -patient husband must exhale !!
(If i may say : The chunky bracelet should go too !!) It goes only with a Harley 😉
I am so glad that I didn’t follow the trend, I remember back then, Celine Nano, Balenciaga, and Valentino was really popular and I know for sure that these bags won’t appreciate in value, that’s why I bought only forever Classic items on LV & Chanel and those are the ones that appreciate in value. While everyone else has 20+ bags in their collection, I only have less than 10 bags in my collection including Birkin & Kelly.
Smart! 💕
Thanks for sharing!! xx
Thank you so much for sharing your honest opinions. I was just like you going for designer brands from head to toe but this pandemic had changed my mindset. Yes branded things only reflect our exterior but not who you are. ❤️❤️❤️ this video abs have a great week ahead.
Glad it was helpful! I actually feel a bit conscious about displaying too much logo as well now, so less shopping for me lol xx
Just found your channel and LOVE your videos🤍Where is the top you are wearing from please? It looks so cosy😀
Appreciate your transparency. I totally can relate. Please keep making videos !
While I can’t afford most luxury items, you certainly taught me to be more selective and that it’s not all shiny and high quality.
Glad it was helpful xx
Thank you for another incredible video Eileen! With so many youtubers encouraging constant and mindless consumerism, it’s so refreshing to watch and listen to your level headed content. I started my luxury journey around 15 years ago and made many of the same mistakes so this was extremely relatable! Your message will save those starting their collections a lot of heartache and money!
Thank you so much! This really means a lot to me xx
I’m glad I find this channel just when I started my luxury journey!!
That's awesome! Thank you! xx
I feel like you are talking about me .I am in my 50s and I have realized what you say now .Good lessons ❤️
It sounds like we've walked the same path, glad we've arrived at the slightly wiser end now xx
This pandemic has caused much self reflection for many of us. Eileen your words of wisdom are so well articulated and summarizes the psychology of non-essential shopping and shopping ‘addiction’. I truly agree how it is so easy to be influenced by others including sales associates, creating this ‘need’ and material self worth . Thank you for sharing those personal learnings which many of us have also experienced. We all need to seize those important moments more than ever now. Happy and healthy holidays to you and your family !
The turbulences this year brought definitely made me reflect a lot. Happy holidays to you too xx
What’s a wonderful advice. Thank a lot for making this one. I have thought the same and now have learned 🙏🥰
Glad it was helpful and that you enjoyed it xx
Don't beat yourself up, Eileen...I am probably old enough to be your mother, and I can tell you that all of those experiences shaped you into who you are, now. Hindsight is always 20/20, also.
I love how you put it!- hindsight is always 20/20 xx
LUXURY IS NOT AN INVESTMENT!! Thank you for making this clear and giving the reasons why.
Glad you liked my video! xx
Wise thoughts. I made the same mistake when I watched UA-cam content that focused on hauls and luxury items I thought I really needed. I went on a Chanel earrings phase. Now I hardly wear any of them and regret the money I could’ve saved for a real gold item instead of costume jewelry. That’s the danger of social media influence. You always have to be aware of it if you’re gonna watch that content. Good advice!
I agree! Social media is good and all, as long as we take full control of our own spending xx
I really enjoy your videos because these are not crazy luxury shopping in a day. You have made very good points. I believe balance in life is very important. A Long lasting happiness does not come from buying luxury items. Yes luxury item does give you happiness when done carefully and agin in balance. I love watching luxury hauls but have only couple of luxury items in my collection. I have been wanting to buy Love Bracelet but given I am a physician and typically no jewelry, mostly scrubs :) I have been wondering if it’s worth the investment. I can’t wrap my head around how some ladies spends $20,000- 30,000 in one day. I see a luxury UA-camrs says luxury handbags etc are a good investment, I believe luxury items are only to give you happiness which is important but an investment. You can invest in stocks with much higher return if you are mostly interested in investment.
Definitely! Handbags should be seen as consumer's products which occasionally can increase in value, but I won't say they are assets xx
You're such an honest and real person! Thanks for sharing learned lessons in life!
I appreciate that! Thank you xx
This is such useful advice. When you look at the millions of IGers out there, they are constantly buying .... I don’t know about the selling though. I have to wonder how they’re finding their luxury purchases. So many of them have several Chanel handbags, they’re constantly doing hauls of clothes bought from Zara plus a few luxury belts or shoes.... I can’t imagine that every IGer is making tonnes so I can only conclude they must be in serious debt unless they have a seriously good day job that supports that .... but given their age and the fact they’ve not founded Uber or Deliveroo ... I doubt it. Not to mention the lack of sustainability when it comes to frivolous purchasing for the sake of a few likes on a photo.
hi Eileen, thank you so much for sharing , exactly what i have been through along my luxury bag journey. Wasted so much money and things doesn't really change for the past 10 years.
i was in the credit card debt as well, just because of owing a luxury bag.
However, its ok for me to see people doing unboxing, i feel happy for them. Just that i am more wiser in spending my money.
I started to practicing minimal lifestyle in where i noted its such a chaos and troublesome when i want to move out with plenty of things inside the house or wardrobe .
Happy to see your sharing and thank you for your sincere thought as well.
Happy New year
Hi Evelyn, thank you so much for sharing! Wishing you a wonderful and 'clutter free' 2021 xx
I definitely can related. I wish I saw your video a bit earlier. I did make some similar mistakes. I thought to myself the bag wasn’t too special. The hardware color wasn’t what I want. The SA told me how limited and hard to get that bag was. I left the store. But still thinking about it. So my husband went back and bought for me. After a few days. I bought same bag with nicer color. And now I regretted it. And even with new condition. I checked to sell online. And look like I’m gonna loose over $1000 . If I saw your video earlier. I should know I should go care much if the bag hard to get according to the SA. I should only get what I like. If I know the bag wasn’t what I really want. I should just walk away. Thanks for sharing. I find it very helpful. And btw you have very nice Hermes collection. Practical and easy to wear.
Thank you for sharing your experiences! I do a lot of mindful spending videos, so do drop by xx
Hi Eileen (sorry if I misspelled your name, just saw how other people spell it, please, feel free to correct me)! Thank you for your thoughts - I think most of the conclusions you came to are valid to most people, but I have 2 questions:
- why you call all these "regrets"? I mean those decisions made you a person you are now, and it looks like you found piece, learned some lessons and enjoy your time now. Do you think it might have been possible to achieve such results without your previous experience?
- a second question is a consequence of the first one: do you think it is possible to to learn those lessons on someone else's experience (like a young girl could watch you video or several videos like yours and change her behaviour)?
Don't get me wrong, I don't think such videos are useless. I personally enjoy watching your videos and similar videos on UA-cam, but I am also approaching a state where I've learned some lessons (and it's great to know through UA-cam videos that someone has passed the same and feels great now), but I don't see them as regrets - I am happy to pay those money to be able to understand that luxury items don't change anything inside me, to understand my style, to understand my values etc. Those lessons seem to be more valuable then the money I "lost"...
What's your opinion on that?
Great questions! I certainly think my experiences have influenced me to become who I am today. However, the truth is, you don't know what you don't know. So I certainly think if I was told these at a younger age, I would have shopped a lot more mindfully. Just like investing, I would have started a lot sooner if I enlightened myself earlier with reading and exploring. This is why a lot of people would say the same, they wish they had started investing earlier and respecting the value of money. I truly believe in early education about these topics, which is why I'm also trying to teach my little one and hopefully he will have to not learn from too many mistakes xx
Lovely words of wisdom. Thank you for your valuable advice as I navigate the luxury world. Staying humble is the lesson that I have learned.
Thank you! xx
Great video!! I have always had a shopping problem but lately i have been buying less small things so i can afford the thigs i really want!! I just purchased my first peice of ready to wear! Last month i ordered my first two pairs of luxury shoes!! At the beginning of the year i bought my second luxury bag!! Love your videos!!
Thanks for sharing!!xx
I can relate to shopping and feeling fulfilled for a few days and on to more purchases after. I've experienced one Louis Vuitton wallet that peeled and cracked. Never did I want anything from LV again.
I'm NOT into acquiring a collection of bags. A collection would overwhelm me. I must admit, I have had ZERO regrets due to a resolution I made a years ago. I return immediately what I don't wear. I know the stores return policy and make a decision by the end date to prevent regret and impulse purchases.
You sound like a very rational spender, kudos to you! xx
thank you for this video. i bought 3 luxury items recently because i felt i “i deserved it” for my many years of hard work. but afterwards i keep having a nagging voice in my head wondering if i truly deserve it.
so torturous. 😂. next time i will remember your advice!
Thanks for sharing!! I think a bit of reward is totally fine -- it might even motivate you to work harder xx
I think you did some good soul searching in these past few years. I'm glad you know our worth doesn't come from material items. Our worth comes from who we are in Christ. God bless you!
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Great advice, esp referring to the investment select as one of enjoyment and use rather than ROI.
You’re one of the ‘guys’ and not the usual kind of gal who accumulated stuff for no reason!
I appreciate that! xx
Your video is so insightful, i have been thinking for some time, why i spend so much on luxury bags when the “happiness” that came with the purchase only lasted a few days... then its another bag on the shelf that i neglect or another bag i use... thats one of the reasons I havent purchased a bag for 2 years. I’m using my existing stash which makes me happy too.
I agree! Seeing your bank balance grow can be so much more satisfying xx
Very educational, all women past the same feelings and medias just shows influencers pushing to desidere things that may be' wouldn't rapresent us and give enough satisfaction in the same measure that spend that money shoud. Thank you very much.
Glad you enjoyed my video!xx
How beautiful, brave, and transparent of you to share this wisdom. It really did ring a bell inside me.
Thank you for your kind words xx
Love your advise. Seems like I am talking from my heart. I want a lady Dior but I will wait and think about it a lot before buying 😀😀
I really appreciate your kind words! Thank you! xx
May I ask where your cuff bracelet is from? It’s stunning 🥰 greeting from uk
Hi it's Hermes CDC bracelet xx
Wow, what a great video! I think everyone interested in luxury handbags should watch this
That really means a lot, thank you so much xx
I hope its not creepy but i love listening to you speak. Your tones and your cadence. 😍😍
I think i have a crush 😂 🙈
😊 thank you! I'm so flattered xx
Your husband is amazing! Glad that you appreciate his efforts as well
He's really sweet I agree 😊 Thank you for your support xx
really liked the content all of your videos. Minimalist in progress. ❤️
Thank you so much 😊
Thanks For your sage advice 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank you so much, Grace xx
Thank you for this video. Exactly what I needed.💜
Glad it was helpful! xx
I love your honesty, thankyou!
Thank you so much! xx
Hi Eileen... I'm glad that I live in South Africa (sometimes) where its hard to get certain luxury brands. Also with customs charges in the stratosphere & the schlep... I have to think long & hard before buying. This helps curb my spending on unnecessary items. Lovely video 👌
I think that's such a good point. I too think creating some barriers for shopping can be great in reducing impulse shopping. I don't even save my password for my Amazon account, otherwise it's too easy to order the whole store! xx
I love you and your content. You are such a genuine, rare find! Thank you for your openness . It is so refreshing to listen to your channel.
Thank you so much xx
Thank you so much, Eileen! I SO needed this. I have to save this video and keep watching it in the future when I need a reminder again. I'm not even into fashion or in the market of any high-end bags/jewelry...but I am a stationary addict and have collected so many leather notebooks, fine stationaries and casual bags...when you add up, it's still A LOT of money spent unnecessarily! I stumbled upon your video while searching for a handmade leather backpack...lol. Love your contents and I've learned a lot about fashion and intentional spending after watching your videos in the past few days. This one is what I need THE MOST. I absolutely agree with every words in this video. Thank you for sharing!
I'm so happy you found my video helpful! I speak about intentional spending a lot so make sure to visit often xx
@@ColourfulNoir Absolutely! I've been watching A LOT of your videos and also followed your IG and visted your Blogs. :)
beautiful wisdom! take good care of your husband, he seems to have understood a thing or two
Thank you, Ben! Sometimes i wonder what I did right to deserve him 😇
Eileen...Eileen is such a beautyful lady,adorable,intelligent and she is now more smarter...what she said is 100% correct...no doubt..Her husband is also very nice person ,patience even he has busy with her loving wife...drove her from one mall to other mall because of one bag...no wonder now she is a mentor for the youtubers who influence by the luxury items...I knew about LV..Agner..Chanel since 30 years ago...now i start to brouwsing the LV,,becuse LV have very gorgeous bags...I buy when I need..I don't care is the seller treats me good or not...the important thing is beautyful inside...never let anyone hurt your feeling because you don't have /don't carry the luxury bags,,but enjoy & satisfied what you have & a good heath,,happiness.Happy holiday for all youtuber...stay safe .GBU all
Thank you for sharing! xx
I love your channel. I too am inclined towards minimalism. Less is more.
Thank you so much xx
Thanks for sharing your advice with such honesty. I think the biggest takeaway is to not allow luxury brands to define who we are. It’s so easy these days to let the social media fuel our desire for the latest and ‘most sought after’ pieces, to the point that we get desensitized with the huge price tags and consider them normal splurges just because many others have them. Learning to be content with a few classic pieces that we really love and will wear for a long time takes a lot of wisdom and discipline!
The key to happiness never comes from seeking more, but the ability to enjoy less 😇
I went through the same thing, I kept buying things and ended up reselling some of them. I think having less but better quality luxury items is much better, it’s less of a headache.
Hi Monique, I truly believe in investing in quality, it's better for the wallet and environment too xx
Tx for your sharings!! I agree with everything you say!! I think it’s really hard especially when starting out but as my own collection has grown I’ve had the same feeling !! Thanks for sharing !! I hope to cut down on my collection soon too !!
Hi Clara, thank you for sharing and please keep me updated regarding your downsizing xx
@@ColourfulNoir Thanks Eileen, I need to match all the receipts...I've accumulated way too much over 10 years. I should probably make it a 2021 goal!
Love what you said...I so agree with this ...I am doing the same! Thank you for all your video's ! I've learned so much!!
Thanks for watching! xx
Thank for being so honesty..loved your video!
Thanks for watching!xx
All good points. Actually, social media influence has its good and bad points. For me, IM will influence you more without really thinking because it’s all Eye candy photos but with UA-cam like this one, I get to see people reviews, their thoughts and experiences with the item and this helped me a lot deciding on that next luxury piece.
Definitely! UA-cam is such a useful platform to gain information. I think as long as we remain in the driving seat of our shopping, it's absolutely fine to consume luxury content xx
I am thoroughly enjoying your videos!
Thank you so much! xx
I always admired the Chanel black flap bag. I bought a dupe which was $200. I never used it. I realized that it wasn’t my style. It’s on consignment now. I think learning your personal style is important and now I know that luxury bags with logos are not really me. I don’t have the urge to own one anymore. Thanks for your insight Eileen! I recently discovered your channel and I really enjoy it.
This whole video.....
Well done you, I am very disappointed in some UA-cam people that are now using the hard sell. I must get them out of my life.
I Do now appreciate everything that I already own and my wish list is empty. Xx
I agree! Wanting less is so much better than buying less xx
I love this video. Thank you for sharing.
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you xx
Hi,Eileen~I come from Taiwan.I love your channel, it's available for me. Can I have known about your hair care.It so beautiful.Thank you.❤️🌹
When I was young I could not afford any luxury bags. I bought a few fakes at the Flea market, that were poor quality, and quickly stopped using them, as they fell apart. Graduated from college and all through my 30' and 40's I had money and quickly bought authentic Chanel, LV, Fendi, Gucci, and on and on. I was hooked Thousands of dollars sat in my closet, including a Maxi double flap I purchased for $3,800, as I could not and did not use all of these bags often, just a few favorites. Now prices are ridiculous and keep going up. These companies encourage addiction (of course they do) and embrace bloggers & young people to buy and want these items. Now in my late 40's I find a closet with thousands and thousands of dollars sitting. I ended up selling everything, and only kept 5 of my favorite bags. Now I buy a occasional triple A/mirror replica when the urge comes over me to have the new "it" bag. I have found the replicas are NOT what they once were some are so so well done, and some even made better than my authentic, and because of this I am comfortable carrying them . I can go on about my authentic LV Metis having a coating issue and cracking and multiple trips to LV to fix the issue, and hardware on my authentic YSL that fell apart. I have expensive jewelry and use both my authentic items and replicas and no one knows. I've even had compliments in the Gucci and Chanel shops when I wear my replicas and sales people rush over to me all the time. I have a large diamond wedding ring and expensive watches and no one knows the bag I might be carrying that day is a replica. Granted, I will say I can tell the difference mostly by feel of leather grade and the inside details, but otherwise you just cannot tell, unless you feel and look very closely, even then its not easy to see the difference!
I would rather spend my money on investment for retirement and experiences! That large Chanel 19 price is a nice 10 day cruise! I would encourage those on the designer handbag trap to ask yourself this:" Which adds more to my life a thing or experience??? The answer was clear to me.
You are so so right about luxury not being an investment and the sheen that wears from buying something new! Fantastic video ❤️
Thank you! xx