I am a luxury enthusiast and have been purchasing luxury for a while now. I have 15 bags that I love, along with luxury shoes, jewelry, and accessories. Which means that I have done my fair share of shopping. Coincidentally, in the beginning of the year, I read an article about "creating more and consuming less" and that hit me hard. So, I decided to write the book I always want to write. I am about half way through, and my goal is to finish by summer. As a result, I have spent far less time shopping and I feel better about how I am spending my time. The decrease in shopping has also made me realize that I have more than enough. I used to have a giant wishlist, but I have reduced that number to 5. So, in 2021, I will buy up to 5 items. Great video!!
In 2020 I was on a very low buy year. Then I was in shock to see how much I actually saved last year. Since then I’m haven’t had any desire to shop. The dopamine I used to get from buying now I get from seeing my savings grow. I haven’t had to fight myself like before.
It's a massive positive change for me too! I'm so glad you're going through the same journey. I hope more people join us, I'm sure they won't look back xx
Me too, from May 2020 until now I’ve saved over a third of my income, & that’s in spite of purchasing 2 new bags, buying my mother some fine jewellery & getting some major work done to my car. I’m having so much fun watching my savings grow that I’ve started selling off part of my collection. Of course there will probably be a fun purchase or two along the way, but I’m now really looking forward to paying cash for my next dream car (which is reasonably modest) whenever my old one needs to retire. Then I can put the interest I would have paid on finance into something useful, like investments...
I realized I'm only wearing 1/3 of my current wardrobe but are still buying more. I definitely buy out of boredom. When my child is doing her activities I'm in the shops for those hours in the afternoon just buying stuff I most likely will not wear. I'm over it now that I have no wear to put the stuff I'm getting. I feel overwhelmed buy the amount of stuff I have and don't even wear it. Waste of money and space in my closet.
I know the feeling! Start posting things on Poshmark little by little or reach out to a resale site if it is too overwhelming. Once you declutter a little, you will feel better and keep on going!
Thank you so much for sharing! You really read my mind, I've just finished filming a video about how luxury minimalism has changed my life for the better. It's going live next week, please join us again xx
Are you me? I’ve been doing same. But I’ve been doing the deed online since I don’t drive and hard to get to the good stores. Just bought 4 designer bags and a ton of new great clothes online. FOR GOING OUT FOR A DAILY WALK AND MY WEEKLY TRIP TO BUY FOOD. other my going broke, what am I going to do with all these things? Help!
For me, i now feel sick at the thought of the amount of money a bag cost, $6000 could feed someone for a year or 2... having a few bags are fine to pamper yourself but buying a few a year... i can’t seem to do it anymore. I’m also very picky so there isn’t many bags i like. And I stop myself from going into the stores because i have a terrible habit of buying impulsively. Strangely, watching videos of youtubers, buying chanel bag every month make me want to buy less...
I recently read that people who own 100 Prada bags think they’re not hoarders because the bags are expensive. In actuality they are hoarders. Whether it’s books or bags or animals it still usually requires a mental health expert. I used to collect porcelain dolls and Lladros , Royal Doulton and pottery. One day I made up my mind to let go and my daughter sold it and I let her keep the money. Please everyone...don’t get caught up in the hype. These things will not bring happiness. If it does it’s short lived. Listen to Eileen!
Eileen, I do have to say that it never ceases to amaze me just how enterprising and creative you are in coming up with interesting new topics every week. Personally, I would struggle to constantly find subjects that would keep my audience listening; you are an absolute inspiration 💕👍
I had so much fun acquiring my collection of LV, but I am having just as much fun getting rid of it, lol! I recently traveled and I had so much less stress worrying about my stuff in the hotel room or my collection left at home. It really is so liberating to only have a few pieces. Less is more!
That is awesome! I feel the same with logo too nowadays, less logo means less unwanted attention. At least in some places, I do feel safer looking more discrete xx
I have a blog literally called The Mindful Spender so I absolutely loved this video! I’m really into luxury (though I’m not quite ready to spend the money on a handbag yet) and my philosophy is always that if you truly want something go get it! Just don’t spend on stuff other people tell you you should want!
I really enjoy your videos, Eileen! I totally agree that shopping out of boredom is such a common habit and I've been trying to be more and more mindful about the things I buy. It's almost been a challenge in an of itself to actually spend more on some things that I REALLY WANT instead of multiples of something that looks like it's a 'savings' or on sale. Less is definitely more if you love what you have.
I downsized a lot over the years and still am, including getting rid of most of my expensive/designer handbags & wallets and shopping much much less. It feels truly wonderful to desire less and have more money for savings and investments. As a result, I have no mortgage (my house is worth around $550k), zero debt and bought my (used) car with cash. This to me feels a lot richer than having a bunch of expensive things.
My motivation for shopping less is financial independence. I want to pay off my student debt and make enough investments so that I can leave my job if I want to. The freedom to do what you want, without needing to worry about the financial ramifications for you and your family, is the ultimate luxury. It has made me not even want to buy more bags at the moment, although I still enjoy living vicariously through UA-camrs!
I like to take the time to thoroughly shop for the thing I want to buy. It make take a year or more to find the right thing. Thats fun. I also agree about honesty. Stop shopping for things you _know_ you are not going to wear. No one is judging. Your purchases are for your use and enjoyment, get the most out of them.
I used to always buy on impulse or stress but thankfully I’ve manage to get rid of that bad habits. These days I’ll think hard and long and sit on it to evaluate if I really absolutely want it before I take the plunge. Yes I know sometimes I might miss out on certain items especially Chanel but I would rather pay a bit more to a personal shopper to get it for me rather than buy in a FOMO headspace. I’m also curbing on buying clothes as I’ve too many too much especially when they are on sale, it’s super hard to control. But all in all, I’m practicing self restraint and hope we all can succeed in a low buy, less clutter year :)
@@ColourfulNoir indeed, and I’m very proud of my gradual increase of self restraint. You know I was seeing so many unboxing and raving of YSL mini Lou / Toy Lou Lou as a good ‘substitute’ for Chanel / LV etc. I do agree totally that it’s worth every penny. I was very tempted to buy, but I’m looking at Loewe puzzle bag too. To me, they are both very similar size and shape so I told myself I can only have 1. It was a struggle but eventually I feel so good because I respected both my money and bag :)
Love your videos Eileen!! I’m doing a low buy challenge for this year too, with a nobuy in the first 4 months! It has been almost 3 months now and it has been feeling so so satisfying! Videos like yours help reassure me when I am getting tempted!
I didn't know what a "no-buy" year was until I started following you recently. I was so inspired, also scared, but once I realized that I could pay off my student loans within one year, it's been so easy to say NO to luxury or frivolous spending. I've totally changed my finances and knowing I can be debt free makes me so much happier than the thought of a new bag!
Hi Heather, you have no idea how happy you've made me feel! I'm so so glad my content has helped you make some good financial decisions. Please let us know when you're debt free, I'll raise a glass for you from here! xx
Thank you, Eileen, for the cheerleading. I was hit enormously since the lockdown so I chose the bizarre approach of "overdose" myself on Chanel shopping last year towards peace. And, now I am sick so I can watch your videos as a sound person as it meant to be. You may not realize how much your channel meant to me to get through my crazy stage of life. A deep deep thank you to you and wish all is well.
I do shop out of boredom and it is really one of an expensive hobby!😅 But now that I get an enjoyment to see my bank balance growing, I focus on why I should not buy it.😂 I totally agree with you,it becomes just an afterthought the "low buy challenge!" Thanks Eileen for imparting your thoughts! Very helpful!!!💗💓💖
So far I found one of the most effective way to stop impulsive buying is to unsubscribe from shopping websites. It's only been a week and I'm completely off the website I thought I abosolutely "loved" (I checked it every time I got their news letter, which was almost daily!).
I came back to this video tonight. I’ve watched it several times since finding your channel & this one is just one of several that have been very helpful in encouraging me to be mindful about my spending & not be tempted to fall in to old bad habits of overspending. I do struggle with impulse purchases & getting bit by the luxury bug did not help my finances. What has helped is your videos & I am grateful for this resource. You are such a voice of reason & encouragement for a healthy financial lifestyle & sound perspective.
@@ColourfulNoir As do your videos. They really are exactly what I needed and I’m sure they have provided needed encouragement to many others. Your message is so refreshing amongst all the temptation and encouragement to buy more, more more! Thank you so much for your efforts in making these.
Another great video! Thanks for finding such interesting topics and presenting them eloquently. If it's not a HELL yes, it's a no! Yes!! I've been saying it for ages!! And if you need to take a picture, ask a friend, partner or parent for opinion - then the item is NOT for you. You need to look at it, look at yourself in the mirror and be like, hell yes, wow, yes, oh my god! This way, even if in a couple of years the item doesn't work for you anymore, you won't be sorry that you bought me and it'll be easier to pass it on to someone else because you loved it so much and its was such a lovely part of your life😃
I grew up in a room that was full of things. All sorts of things ranging from expired lipsticks to random plastic containers to even an old, spoilt clock from probably 10years ago. Since then, I have moved several times and each time I did was a headache because of the things I mindlessly bought and accumulated through the years. Recently I started to wonder.. where did all the money go? Looking at my peers all thriving and having a substantial amount of savings, I started to reflect and it hit me hard. I really need to cut down on the buying and consuming. At the same time, I came across minimalism, living simply and how practicing it can help me to focus on the things that matter! Hence my motivation to start a Low buy year this year. Love your videos Eileen! Your words constantly remind me that less is more. Thank you!
The last few years I have felt very overwhelmed by the clutter in my home. I have decided to start decluttering my home and try to be much more minimalistic. I think it will help me in many ways but most importantly will lessen my anxiety. I’ve only started buying luxury in the last 4-5 years so I don’t have a big collection. I still love luxury items but will be very intentional with my purchases as I have been recently with everything I bring into my home. I’ve definitely turned a corner in my mindset and I love how it feels. I feel very satisfied with what I have and only plan to buy things as they need to be replaced. As it’s my birthday month my husband will buy me a pair of shoes or a bag but that will be it for the year and I will be very happy with that decision. As I’ve said before, being content with what you have is an amazing feeling.😊💖🙏
That's beautiful, thank you so much for sharing! Someone wise once said, the key of happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you already have 😇
I so appreciate this type of content I’m on no buy which I plan to transition into a low buy lifestyle. My main reasons are to start making larger retirement investments, to build a 12 month emergency fund, and to enjoy and love what I own (so much of my stuff isn’t used very much because I was always bringing new in.)
I couldn't agree more. I did a low buy last year and saved 4000€ the luxury items I saw if I were to buy them it was a want and not a need. Video on how I saved 4k will be my channel on Sunday.
I couldn't agree more!. I've tried all last year actually to curate my wadrobe and stop buying things that I don't need. I feel at times less is more. As long as you have your basic items , there is no need to splash out on money , which we know , we work hard for. Thanks again for sharing this Eileen. :)
So true 🤣 There's a lot of psychology behind all of this and it's really hard to resist the allure of buying something to supposedly elevate your mood and status. I really admire Eileen's mindset and willpower.
Agree - nothing against Charis - I actually enjoy her as a UA-cam personality, but a lot of the hauls are more than excessive now. More power to her and her purchases seem to give her cheer - but it’s too much for myself to watch IMO . I love luxury too, but how much do you really need to own?
Thank you! I might not have the same shopping mindset like Charis, but I really admire her for being able to do it all. Sometimes I really wonder how she can run such a big channel, look after he children so well, keep her house so tidy and still look so lovely all the times xx
I intend to have a low-buy year this year because (1) I went off the rails last year and (2) I want to know how much I can actually save if I focus on what I do want to buy and not get distracted by anything else. My luxury spending steadily increased from 2018-2020 so I want to lower my total significantly this year. It's mid-March and I'm still at zero luxury purchases (yay). I feel like it's something very achievable because my wants (or wishes) has decreased significantly. I am also more aware of how much I need to work to buy one item.
Thank you for this video. I have been thinking in the last few days to purchase a Chanel that I don't need. I think it's Covid fatigue lol. After watching this video I have decided I will not buy the bag! You are the voice of reason!
First of all, you look lovely today. I love that saying from the book you read about why do we work so hard just to pay for our things. I like your advice about doing activities we enjoy other than shopping. For me, those activities are reading books, exercising, and self care like making and eating more nutritious food than I did in the past. It was a tough change but I stopped going to the mall on weekends. I used to go to the mall every other Saturday. If I do go to the mall nowadays, it is just to stop by for a latte to treat myself and then I leave. I do not browse in any stores like I used to. If I do make any wishlist purchases in the future, I would prefer to go preloved. If I buy in store, I feel pressured to buy things I don’t need like perfume and twinkies etc. Buying online or preloved would take away that pressure. It is tough not to engage in retail therapy after a bad day at work I admit though. I do feel the temptation after a bad day at work. 💕
I think you're doing really well! I understand it's hard to resist the temptation of instant gratification, but practice makes perfect! After a while, you will really find joy in not consuming mindlessly, even after a bad day xx
Tq for this video! Im doing a low buy this year because I'm sick of the overconsumption...donate/sell...buy again. Also, I want to save more money to invest and spend it for my family instead :)
Excellent video with great points! Desiring less is more valuable than owning less, great point! Also liked your tip on making your default no vs yes. Thanks for sharing Eileen!
Thanks for another great video. I did way too much online shopping last year, I really have all I need in terms of luxury items, for now. It’s good to watch your videos to reinforce my will power, and stick to my low buy year.
Eileen this was soooo inspiring & I just decided to add Goodbye Things to my audible account since I had a couple of extra credits. I’m in the process of gathering items to sell from my overall wardrobe collection. I am considering selling my home within the next year due to many reasons so I need to pare down even more. My Dad used to call things “golden handcuffs” in the way you describe the acquisition/work cycle. I agree that the financial security and flexibility that comes with owning fewer things and keeping our money in long term investments for the big picture, is far more comforting than any handbag. I just sold all of my extra luxury belts and bought an Hermès Collier de Chien reversible belt with a gold and a silver buckle on the 2nd hand market for a fraction of the retail cost. This will now be my only belt of its kind. This is what I’m trying to do with everything. And I definitely agree with focusing on developing other parts of our life & development. This was a wonderful video so thank you for sharing so authentically.🙏
This is why I love following you! I've decided to do a low buy year and it's harder than I thought but you really encourage me! I've also started selling items I don't wear.
For me: income goes to investments first then bills. Savings. Then I get play money. 😂😂😂 i was always very money conscious and I was very ok at not buying. 💜 love your message.
I wish I had always been so financially savvy as you! It's never too late for everyone though, hopefully more people join us on this mindful journey xx
Great video as always Eileen. I find myself buying less luxury items and saving more. I feel so good at the end of the day. ✨✨. Love love love the concept of mindful spending.
My son (though not a daughter with that shopping pleasure we get), has always been a very minimalist in material items. He prefers to live life traveling with his girlfriend and experiencing the joys of our very large and beautiful World. They rent in lieu of purchasing a home. It's easier to move, and they are not responsible for the taxes, repairs and appliances etc that comes with owning a home vs renting. He's fortunate and works from home - his own business. So I have been thinking of all the real joy this style of life has brought him. While they don't have children,, they both enjoy meeting people all over, seeing majestic places and a simple life of a loaf of bread, some meats, cheese and wine in a park or on the steps of Rome, Australia, New Zealand, Iceland, Japan and many many more 💙
Thank you so much for sharing with me! Your son is absolutely living the life. I really applaud him for making life choices that make him happy. You've raised him well, I hope my little boy will grow up to be brave and go after what truly makes him happy too xx
hank you for this video! I love luxury bags, but don’t want to own more than 7 or 8. It’ll ruin it for me because they will no longer be special. I choose classic designs that have been around for years and I’ll be able to use for years to come. I loved when you said “ If something brings you joy and value, it is worth paying for, but that is quite different from indulging in excessiveness on a regular basis”. There are other things we can do instead of shopping, I love learning foreign languages. There are so many resources now right on your phone. It brings me more satisfaction to be able to understand a song in French than to buy things. Spend more time leaning something new will give you a joy that will last.
Thank you so much for sharing! I always admire people who put effort into learning a new language. My cousin is half Dutch and she's learning German and French at the moment, I'm so proud of her xx
As a parent, being mindful with spending is important for me, I really hope I'm setting some kind of example for my little boy. Hopefully he will not get too attached to physical things when he grows up xx
I would love for you to go over your favourite minimalism sources! Books, documentaries, podcasts, UA-camrs etc. I have a few myself that I have discovered over the years while following minimalism but would love to see if there’s any I haven’t come across yet that you like!
Hi Diana, I've come across so many amazing content but the few that really stands out include the book Goodbye Things by Fumio Sasaki, podcasts by The Minimalists, UA-cam channel by Joshua Becker. Please share those you like too xx
@@ColourfulNoir Have you seen The Minimalist’s newest documentary, Less is Now on Netflix? Absolutely fantastic. I love it more than their first documentary. I am a fan of all Konmari books as well. In terms of podcasts, I love the Millennial Minimalists and The Wannabe Minimalist. For UA-cam, I 100% recommend A Small Wardrobe. I followed her for about 3.5 years. A lot of other UA-camrs I tend to watch videos here and there.
thank you for sharing. what you said is so true. but so hard to do. i became addicted to Chanel and online preloved market is my downfall! i will come back to this video in my moment of weakness! ☺️
We are saving a bigger down payment. We are trying to change homes. We are trying to “upgrade” to a nicer home with granite countertop bathrooms and a better chefs’ kitchen. I know what you say about “upgrading”. But I don’t believe we have to keep unappealing spaces just to save money. We can move next summer if we don’t buy any lux items.
1) I buy bags by type so how many totes/ crossbody / work etc. bags do I need. 2) My bag shelf is full and I don't want a 2nd so any extra has to check all the boxes. 3) I avoid temptation like Ebay (I love vintage luxury bags)
I did a high buy year last year and i don't think i gained too much real happiness from the items. I'm going to try low buy because less belongings will be liberating i believe.
I get what you mean! I used to buy so much but I then realised the excessiveness did not bring me happiness at all, if anything it caused me a lot of anxiety. Wishing you a successful low buy year xx
Thanks for sharing, great advise. It takes me 1 entire year to work for my bonus, I sure wont be spending it in a month. I use my time to read, spend time with my family and learn French. I have never had a soft spot for luxury goods.
1) I bought 100 hangers. I won't buy more and I hate folding so only sweaters. 2) I don't go to clothing stores for months and I don't buy what I can't try. 3) I know I have all I need so I'm careful with the bonus.
My why is : I want to put more money on a side for investment. But it is so hard because I recently down side almost all of my designer handbags ( because watching your channel I realized many of them I don’t enjoy using and not even touch for many years. And I left them there to collecting dust) because of the down size of handbags. I feel I don’t have enough handbags that I can enjoy. I have a quite big cash I got from selling my old bags. So now I tempted to buy more new bags that I like. Or putting money for investment. Recently I love dior medium bobby bag. I really enjoying using it. So I feel I need to buy a large size . But I’m hesitant because I wonder should I spend money for 2 bags that is almost the same. Only difference size and colors. I wish I have you to give me advice.
Due to the Covid -19, I hardly buy online. I don't like this routine: get, try on and send back. Before any purchase I ask myself if I need it and how often I would use it. And the last, I want to have something special, unique: for example, not an offered Birkin in the store but a SO Birkin or something of high end quality but not very recognisable. Shopping costs tons of hours in our lives. It is stressful, and stress produces cortisone. The last one is not healthy for our bodies.
Hi Eileen! I just started getting into luxury handbags last year and have bought 5 bags so far - Senreve mini maestra, Chanel classic flap medium, LV multi pochette, mini lady Dior and Saint Laurent Kate medium tassel. These are all my dream bags accumulated past a few years and I finally got all of them! Like you, I believe that less is more and I am pretty happy with my current small collection. However, I think that I will only reach purse peace when I have my dream Kelly 28 etoupe and Birkin 25 Sakura in my collection! My question to you is, knowing the Hermes game, it seems impossible not to buy some things that you don’t really need in order to be offered a bag. Can you share your Hermes experience and what did you do to be offered a bag? Thank you!
What r ur thoughts on lv empriente? Debating of buying my 3rd bag lv spoedy in DE canvass or empriente for casual everyday bag and thats all no more lux bags
Hello. I love your channel and all the advice you give about mindful spending. I’ve noticed you talk about getting joy from investing. I don’t have a lot of knowledge in this area, and would like to learn more. Is there a book you recommend, or a video or class you took to learn more that you can recommend to me? I appreciate any information you share. Thank you. Hope you are well. ☺️
I've read quite a lot of books on investing but if you're fairly new, there a some I'll really recommend. Hope you find them helpful xx Simple Path To Wealth amzn.to/2njt0IB Money Master The Game amzn.to/2nhWAht Unshakeable amzn.to/2lOpB3Z I Will Teach You To Be Rich amzn.to/2mLi860
Along the lines of hours worked, I think about hours worked after my bills. For example, if I have to work 50hours to pay my bills, and the item costs 10 hours of work, I think about how far through the month I work before I reach that 60 hour mark. Does that make sense?
That is such fantastic tip! Thank you so much for sharing with us! I think that totally makes sense, especially when we absolutely need pay our bills first before any shopping xx
Thanks for this!! I started my 2nd annual no buy 3 month challenge on Feb. 22nd. 😁 I think I’m going to shift gears in a different way afterward, instead of shopping again. Maybe extend it or do a low buy, or something of that nature. I have a hard time selling/decluttering even though I don’t consistently wear everything, it’s too emotional. Any tips for that??
I won't say don't push yourself too hard. If you're not ready to let go yet, that's really quite OK. However, I might suggest to set a time line. If there's something you've been thinking to sell, maybe leave it for 12 months and see if you have a change of mind. If you still have the same sentiment after a year, maybe it's time to let go xx
I’ve had things I haven’t worn for about 2 years at least, and they fit fine, it’s just that they don’t feel “something”, my style or mood. But I feel bad about leaving them, it’s kind of overwhelming. Seems like I’d have them sitting there, but I know it’s stuck energy. :/ do you ever struggle with clothes like that? If so what is your strategy?
Great content. If you wouldn't mind talking about investment, basic stuff in one of your future video. Do you do that with a broker? Or is real estate? Thank you!
@@ColourfulNoir it would be great to have a short video about this topic if you get many requests. I'm also from Europe and I know you live in the UK and I'll appreciate if you would like to share your experience. do you do it yourself or with a broker? I haven't see that many yt video's from ppl within Europe. thank you !
Hello hope you are well. i love your channel and has been watching ur videos since u started. I am from Abudhabi and i agree with most of your fashion statements. As both of us are asians, we come from cultures that admire gold and collect it . Do you have any gold set collections? Have you ever considered collecting gold ? Much love to you. If you ever visit Dubai or Abudhabi i would like to invite you to a meal♥️🌹
Aww that's such a kind offer, thank you! I would absolutely love to visit Dubai and Abudhabi one day 💛 I did try investing in gold before but decided it's not my calling. I still keep the very teeny tiny gold I invested a long ago but not looking to get more now xx
I wholeheartedly agree with mindful spending and resisting consumerism, however, you make it sound like you are somehow being forced to purchase luxury items. The very vast majority of all humans do not worry about this stuff at all because they have no other options lol. Furthermore, it's kind of weird to preach "don't buy, don't buy" with a Birkin, Kelly, and Chanel bags in your closet. You already have your holy grail bags and the amount you have spent on one Birkin or Kelly is likely still higher than what most people spend on luxury in a year anyways. This isn't to put you down, I clearly enjoy your videos since I am watching them, but at times it does feel like you are being condescending.
Hi Alissa, I'm sorry if I came across as condescending. As a child, I would even worry about asking for bus fee from my parents because resources were scarce. It might sound cliche, but I'm now very blessed to be able to splurge on myself in the ways I never thought I could. So in a way, you're right in saying this is more or less a 'first world problem topic'. However, this channel focuses mainly mindful designer shopping tips, so I do think the content is somewhat relevant. I truly love beautiful pieces, and because of this passion, I used to struggle to balance my priorities. It's never my intention to preach 'don't buy, don't buy'. I think people should reward themselves, but do it very intentionally. If I could turn back time, I would still buy my Birkin, because I absolutely love it. On the other hand, I 100% would not buy many of the Chanel pieces I sort of liked but mainly bought because I was in a low mood. Going forward, I might even say yes to another Birkin if it's in the right colour and hardware, but I will not buy a Louis Vuitton just because its the last one in the country. If there's a word that could sum up my video, I guess it's 'intentionality'. 😉
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I am a luxury enthusiast and have been purchasing luxury for a while now. I have 15 bags that I love, along with luxury shoes, jewelry, and accessories. Which means that I have done my fair share of shopping. Coincidentally, in the beginning of the year, I read an article about "creating more and consuming less" and that hit me hard. So, I decided to write the book I always want to write. I am about half way through, and my goal is to finish by summer. As a result, I have spent far less time shopping and I feel better about how I am spending my time. The decrease in shopping has also made me realize that I have more than enough. I used to have a giant wishlist, but I have reduced that number to 5. So, in 2021, I will buy up to 5 items. Great video!!
Congratulations on your effort to write a book! Please share with us when it's ready to meet the world, I'm sure it'll be great xx
In 2020 I was on a very low buy year. Then I was in shock to see how much I actually saved last year. Since then I’m haven’t had any desire to shop. The dopamine I used to get from buying now I get from seeing my savings grow. I haven’t had to fight myself like before.
It's a massive positive change for me too! I'm so glad you're going through the same journey. I hope more people join us, I'm sure they won't look back xx
Good for you.☺️
Me too, from May 2020 until now I’ve saved over a third of my income, & that’s in spite of purchasing 2 new bags, buying my mother some fine jewellery & getting some major work done to my car. I’m having so much fun watching my savings grow that I’ve started selling off part of my collection. Of course there will probably be a fun purchase or two along the way, but I’m now really looking forward to paying cash for my next dream car (which is reasonably modest) whenever my old one needs to retire. Then I can put the interest I would have paid on finance into something useful, like investments...
I realized I'm only wearing 1/3 of my current wardrobe but are still buying more. I definitely buy out of boredom. When my child is doing her activities I'm in the shops for those hours in the afternoon just buying stuff I most likely will not wear. I'm over it now that I have no wear to put the stuff I'm getting. I feel overwhelmed buy the amount of stuff I have and don't even wear it. Waste of money and space in my closet.
I know the feeling! Start posting things on Poshmark little by little or reach out to a resale site if it is too overwhelming. Once you declutter a little, you will feel better and keep on going!
Thank you so much for sharing! You really read my mind, I've just finished filming a video about how luxury minimalism has changed my life for the better. It's going live next week, please join us again xx
I agree! Decluttering can be so refreshing, and a bit addictive for me 🙈
Are you me? I’ve been doing same. But I’ve been doing the deed online since I don’t drive and hard to get to the good stores. Just bought 4 designer bags and a ton of new great clothes online. FOR GOING OUT FOR A DAILY WALK AND MY WEEKLY TRIP TO BUY FOOD. other my going broke, what am I going to do with all these things? Help!
Money is power and freedom. Only spend it on things that really matter. Xx
so true, buying less means gaining freedom
Definitely! Let's not spend all our freedom away xx
That's so true, when you buy what you don't need, you give your power and freedom away.
For me, i now feel sick at the thought of the amount of money a bag cost, $6000 could feed someone for a year or 2... having a few bags are fine to pamper yourself but buying a few a year... i can’t seem to do it anymore. I’m also very picky so there isn’t many bags i like. And I stop myself from going into the stores because i have a terrible habit of buying impulsively. Strangely, watching videos of youtubers, buying chanel bag every month make me want to buy less...
I'm glad my videos helped you cut down on Chanel shopping! I'm doing a video soon about Chanel, please stay tuned xx
I recently read that people who own 100 Prada bags think they’re not hoarders because the bags are expensive. In actuality they are hoarders. Whether it’s books or bags or animals it still usually requires a mental health expert.
I used to collect porcelain dolls and Lladros , Royal Doulton and pottery. One day I made up my mind to let go and my daughter sold it and I let her keep the money. Please everyone...don’t get caught up in the hype. These things will not bring happiness. If it does it’s short lived. Listen to Eileen!
Thank you so much for sharing!! I agree, expensive clutters are still clutters. They certainly take up mental and physical space xx
Eileen, I do have to say that it never ceases to amaze me just how enterprising and creative you are in coming up with interesting new topics every week. Personally, I would struggle to constantly find subjects that would keep my audience listening; you are an absolute inspiration 💕👍
Thanks so much 😊 You've really made my day xx
I had so much fun acquiring my collection of LV, but I am having just as much fun getting rid of it, lol! I recently traveled and I had so much less stress worrying about my stuff in the hotel room or my collection left at home. It really is so liberating to only have a few pieces. Less is more!
That is awesome! I feel the same with logo too nowadays, less logo means less unwanted attention. At least in some places, I do feel safer looking more discrete xx
I have a blog literally called The Mindful Spender so I absolutely loved this video! I’m really into luxury (though I’m not quite ready to spend the money on a handbag yet) and my philosophy is always that if you truly want something go get it! Just don’t spend on stuff other people tell you you should want!
I really enjoy your videos, Eileen! I totally agree that shopping out of boredom is such a common habit and I've been trying to be more and more mindful about the things I buy. It's almost been a challenge in an of itself to actually spend more on some things that I REALLY WANT instead of multiples of something that looks like it's a 'savings' or on sale. Less is definitely more if you love what you have.
Thank you so much! Buy best but buy less is so important xx
I downsized a lot over the years and still am, including getting rid of most of my expensive/designer handbags & wallets and shopping much much less. It feels truly wonderful to desire less and have more money for savings and investments. As a result, I have no mortgage (my house is worth around $550k), zero debt and bought my (used) car with cash. This to me feels a lot richer than having a bunch of expensive things.
Thanks for sharing!! Congratulations on all your financial achievements! xx
My motivation for shopping less is financial independence. I want to pay off my student debt and make enough investments so that I can leave my job if I want to. The freedom to do what you want, without needing to worry about the financial ramifications for you and your family, is the ultimate luxury. It has made me not even want to buy more bags at the moment, although I still enjoy living vicariously through UA-camrs!
I can relate to you so much! Our peace of mind, financial security and freedom are worth way more than any luxury bags xx
I like to take the time to thoroughly shop for the thing I want to buy. It make take a year or more to find the right thing. Thats fun. I also agree about honesty. Stop shopping for things you _know_ you are not going to wear. No one is judging. Your purchases are for your use and enjoyment, get the most out of them.
I agree! Luxury items are expensive so it only makes sense to put them to good use xx
I used to always buy on impulse or stress but thankfully I’ve manage to get rid of that bad habits. These days I’ll think hard and long and sit on it to evaluate if I really absolutely want it before I take the plunge. Yes I know sometimes I might miss out on certain items especially Chanel but I would rather pay a bit more to a personal shopper to get it for me rather than buy in a FOMO headspace. I’m also curbing on buying clothes as I’ve too many too much especially when they are on sale, it’s super hard to control. But all in all, I’m practicing self restraint and hope we all can succeed in a low buy, less clutter year :)
It might need a bit of self discipline at first, but I promise you, low buy will soon become a pleasure xx
@@ColourfulNoir indeed, and I’m very proud of my gradual increase of self restraint. You know I was seeing so many unboxing and raving of YSL mini Lou / Toy Lou Lou as a good ‘substitute’ for Chanel / LV etc. I do agree totally that it’s worth every penny. I was very tempted to buy, but I’m looking at Loewe puzzle bag too. To me, they are both very similar size and shape so I told myself I can only have 1. It was a struggle but eventually I feel so good because I respected both my money and bag :)
I’m doing my best. I’ve purchased 2 small items in 3months for less than $1k... it’s a major improvement from last year 🥲
Nice work! Keep it up xx
@@ColourfulNoir thank you!
Love your videos Eileen!! I’m doing a low buy challenge for this year too, with a nobuy in the first 4 months! It has been almost 3 months now and it has been feeling so so satisfying! Videos like yours help reassure me when I am getting tempted!
Wonderful! Sending you a lot of positive energy, I'm sure you'll have a successful low buy year xx
I didn't know what a "no-buy" year was until I started following you recently. I was so inspired, also scared, but once I realized that I could pay off my student loans within one year, it's been so easy to say NO to luxury or frivolous spending. I've totally changed my finances and knowing I can be debt free makes me so much happier than the thought of a new bag!
She is good isn’t she... I think she advocates for low-buy challenge as opposed to no-buy challenge.
Hi Heather, you have no idea how happy you've made me feel! I'm so so glad my content has helped you make some good financial decisions. Please let us know when you're debt free, I'll raise a glass for you from here! xx
Thank you!! xx
Thank you, Eileen, for the cheerleading. I was hit enormously since the lockdown so I chose the bizarre approach of "overdose" myself on Chanel shopping last year towards peace. And, now I am sick so I can watch your videos as a sound person as it meant to be. You may not realize how much your channel meant to me to get through my crazy stage of life. A deep deep thank you to you and wish all is well.
I'm so glad you found my videos helpful, Eliza! The whole lockdown situation was really testing to many people, I hope you feel better now xx
@@ColourfulNoir Thank you so much. Apparently I got through it in an unhealthy way. Thank you for the rescue.
I do shop out of boredom and it is really one of an expensive hobby!😅 But now that I get an enjoyment to see my bank balance growing, I focus on why I should not buy it.😂 I totally agree with you,it becomes just an afterthought the "low buy challenge!" Thanks Eileen for imparting your thoughts! Very helpful!!!💗💓💖
Thank you so much for sharing, Janice! xx
So far I found one of the most effective way to stop impulsive buying is to unsubscribe from shopping websites. It's only been a week and I'm completely off the website I thought I abosolutely "loved" (I checked it every time I got their news letter, which was almost daily!).
Fantastic tip! I'm glad you're making so much progress! xx
I came back to this video tonight. I’ve watched it several times since finding your channel & this one is just one of several that have been very helpful in encouraging me to be mindful about my spending & not be tempted to fall in to old bad habits of overspending. I do struggle with impulse purchases & getting bit by the luxury bug did not help my finances. What has helped is your videos & I am grateful for this resource. You are such a voice of reason & encouragement for a healthy financial lifestyle & sound perspective.
Thank you so much for your support! It really keeps me going xx
@@ColourfulNoir As do your videos. They really are exactly what I needed and I’m sure they have provided needed encouragement to many others. Your message is so refreshing amongst all the temptation and encouragement to buy more, more more! Thank you so much for your efforts in making these.
Another great video! Thanks for finding such interesting topics and presenting them eloquently. If it's not a HELL yes, it's a no! Yes!! I've been saying it for ages!! And if you need to take a picture, ask a friend, partner or parent for opinion - then the item is NOT for you. You need to look at it, look at yourself in the mirror and be like, hell yes, wow, yes, oh my god! This way, even if in a couple of years the item doesn't work for you anymore, you won't be sorry that you bought me and it'll be easier to pass it on to someone else because you loved it so much and its was such a lovely part of your life😃
I love that saying too lol! I should make it my wallpaper for my phone soon xx
I’m shifting to my new home and the limited space is a reminder to me of mindful spending and decluttering. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
Thank you for sharing! Enjoy your new space xx
I grew up in a room that was full of things. All sorts of things ranging from expired lipsticks to random plastic containers to even an old, spoilt clock from probably 10years ago. Since then, I have moved several times and each time I did was a headache because of the things I mindlessly bought and accumulated through the years. Recently I started to wonder.. where did all the money go? Looking at my peers all thriving and having a substantial amount of savings, I started to reflect and it hit me hard. I really need to cut down on the buying and consuming. At the same time, I came across minimalism, living simply and how practicing it can help me to focus on the things that matter! Hence my motivation to start a Low buy year this year. Love your videos Eileen! Your words constantly remind me that less is more. Thank you!
The last few years I have felt very overwhelmed by the clutter in my home. I have decided to start decluttering my home and try to be much more minimalistic. I think it will help me in many ways but most importantly will lessen my anxiety. I’ve only started buying luxury in the last 4-5 years so I don’t have a big collection. I still love luxury items but will be very intentional with my purchases as I have been recently with everything I bring into my home. I’ve definitely turned a corner in my mindset and I love how it feels. I feel very satisfied with what I have and only plan to buy things as they need to be replaced. As it’s my birthday month my husband will buy me a pair of shoes or a bag but that will be it for the year and I will be very happy with that decision. As I’ve said before, being content with what you have is an amazing feeling.😊💖🙏
That's beautiful, thank you so much for sharing! Someone wise once said, the key of happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you already have 😇
I so appreciate this type of content I’m on no buy which I plan to transition into a low buy lifestyle. My main reasons are to start making larger retirement investments, to build a 12 month emergency fund, and to enjoy and love what I own (so much of my stuff isn’t used very much because I was always bringing new in.)
You're definitely heading in the right direction! I'll be cheering you on xx
I couldn't agree more. I did a low buy last year and saved 4000€ the luxury items I saw if I were to buy them it was a want and not a need. Video on how I saved 4k will be my channel on Sunday.
I couldn't agree more!.
I've tried all last year actually to curate my wadrobe and stop buying things that I don't need.
I feel at times less is more.
As long as you have your basic items , there is no need to splash out on money , which we know , we work hard for.
Thanks again for sharing this Eileen. :)
Than you for sharing, Maria! Always love having you here xx
You are so refreshing after watching LVloverCC
So true 🤣 There's a lot of psychology behind all of this and it's really hard to resist the allure of buying something to supposedly elevate your mood and status. I really admire Eileen's mindset and willpower.
Agree - nothing against Charis - I actually enjoy her as a UA-cam personality, but a lot of the hauls are more than excessive now. More power to her and her purchases seem to give her cheer - but it’s too much for myself to watch IMO . I love luxury too, but how much do you really need to own?
@@inzhagicornsalad9541 I really cringe when I see another new haul video from her. It's a problem.
@@Peachlover345 Yes!! I stopped watching her video for the same reason. it's excessive at this stage
Thank you! I might not have the same shopping mindset like Charis, but I really admire her for being able to do it all. Sometimes I really wonder how she can run such a big channel, look after he children so well, keep her house so tidy and still look so lovely all the times xx
So refreshing. I always enjoy your content.
I intend to have a low-buy year this year because (1) I went off the rails last year and (2) I want to know how much I can actually save if I focus on what I do want to buy and not get distracted by anything else. My luxury spending steadily increased from 2018-2020 so I want to lower my total significantly this year. It's mid-March and I'm still at zero luxury purchases (yay).
I feel like it's something very achievable because my wants (or wishes) has decreased significantly. I am also more aware of how much I need to work to buy one item.
It really sounds like you're doing great this year! Keep it up, if you ever need motivation, drop by here any time. We'll cheer you on xx
Thank you for this video. I have been thinking in the last few days to purchase a Chanel that I don't need. I think it's Covid fatigue lol. After watching this video I have decided I will not buy the bag!
You are the voice of reason!
Yes!! I was doing the same exact thing. We don’t need it!
I'm so glad I saved you some money! Please return for more videos if you're ever tempted again in the future 😆 xx
First of all, you look lovely today. I love that saying from the book you read about why do we work so hard just to pay for our things. I like your advice about doing activities we enjoy other than shopping. For me, those activities are reading books, exercising, and self care like making and eating more nutritious food than I did in the past. It was a tough change but I stopped going to the mall on weekends. I used to go to the mall every other Saturday. If I do go to the mall nowadays, it is just to stop by for a latte to treat myself and then I leave. I do not browse in any stores like I used to. If I do make any wishlist purchases in the future, I would prefer to go preloved. If I buy in store, I feel pressured to buy things I don’t need like perfume and twinkies etc. Buying online or preloved would take away that pressure. It is tough not to engage in retail therapy after a bad day at work I admit though. I do feel the temptation after a bad day at work. 💕
I think you're doing really well! I understand it's hard to resist the temptation of instant gratification, but practice makes perfect! After a while, you will really find joy in not consuming mindlessly, even after a bad day xx
Tq for this video! Im doing a low buy this year because I'm sick of the overconsumption...donate/sell...buy again. Also, I want to save more money to invest and spend it for my family instead :)
Wonderful! Wishing you a great success with everything you want to do this year xx
Excellent video with great points! Desiring less is more valuable than owning less, great point! Also liked your tip on making your default no vs yes. Thanks for sharing Eileen!
Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much xx
Thanks for another great video. I did way too much online shopping last year, I really have all I need in terms of luxury items, for now. It’s good to watch your videos to reinforce my will power, and stick to my low buy year.
Thanks for sharing!! I'm sure you'll do very well this year! xx
Eileen this was soooo inspiring & I just decided to add Goodbye Things to my audible account since I had a couple of extra credits. I’m in the process of gathering items to sell from my overall wardrobe collection.
I am considering selling my home within the next year due to many reasons so I need to pare down even more. My Dad used to call things “golden handcuffs” in the way you describe the acquisition/work cycle. I agree that the financial security and flexibility that comes with owning fewer things and keeping our money in long term investments for the big picture, is far more comforting than any handbag.
I just sold all of my extra luxury belts and bought an Hermès Collier de Chien reversible belt with a gold and a silver buckle on the 2nd hand market for a fraction of the retail cost. This will now be my only belt of its kind. This is what I’m trying to do with everything.
And I definitely agree with focusing on developing other parts of our life & development. This was a wonderful video so thank you for sharing so authentically.🙏
This is why I love following you! I've decided to do a low buy year and it's harder than I thought but you really encourage me! I've also started selling items I don't wear.
I'm so so glad to hear that! Please keep us updated about your progress! All the best Nicole xx
For me: income goes to investments first then bills. Savings. Then I get play money. 😂😂😂 i was always very money conscious and I was very ok at not buying. 💜 love your message.
I wish I had always been so financially savvy as you! It's never too late for everyone though, hopefully more people join us on this mindful journey xx
Great video as always Eileen. I find myself buying less luxury items and saving more. I feel so good at the end of the day. ✨✨. Love love love the concept of mindful spending.
Love that! Let's keep encouraging each other to stay mindful xx
New house, my husband and my early retirement, and my baby’s future!👶🏻Take care!
Thank you for this very helpful video Eileen! This really helps me stay on track! 🙏🏼
Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much xx
My son (though not a daughter with that shopping pleasure we get), has always been a very minimalist in material items. He prefers to live life traveling with his girlfriend and experiencing the joys of our very large and beautiful World.
They rent in lieu of purchasing a home. It's easier to move, and they are not responsible for the taxes, repairs and appliances etc that comes with owning a home vs renting. He's fortunate and works from home - his own business.
So I have been thinking of all the real joy this style of life has brought him.
While they don't have children,, they both enjoy meeting people all over, seeing majestic places and a simple life of a loaf of bread, some meats, cheese and wine in a park or on the steps of Rome, Australia, New Zealand, Iceland, Japan and many many more 💙
Thank you so much for sharing with me! Your son is absolutely living the life. I really applaud him for making life choices that make him happy. You've raised him well, I hope my little boy will grow up to be brave and go after what truly makes him happy too xx
@@ColourfulNoir 🥰
hank you for this video!
I love luxury bags, but don’t want to own more than 7 or 8. It’ll ruin it for me because they will no longer be special. I choose classic designs that have been around for years and I’ll be able to use for years to come. I loved when you said “ If something brings you joy and value, it is worth paying for, but that is quite different from indulging in excessiveness on a regular basis”.
There are other things we can do instead of shopping, I love learning foreign languages. There are so many resources now right on your phone. It brings me more satisfaction to be able to understand a song in French than to buy things. Spend more time leaning something new will give you a joy that will last.
Thank you so much for sharing! I always admire people who put effort into learning a new language. My cousin is half Dutch and she's learning German and French at the moment, I'm so proud of her xx
For me the low buy and no buy are really good for my investment. I have two kids that’s a big reason to build wealth
As a parent, being mindful with spending is important for me, I really hope I'm setting some kind of example for my little boy. Hopefully he will not get too attached to physical things when he grows up xx
These types of videos really help me. I appreciate you helping us! Thank you!
I'm so glad! Thank you xx
I would love for you to go over your favourite minimalism sources! Books, documentaries, podcasts, UA-camrs etc. I have a few myself that I have discovered over the years while following minimalism but would love to see if there’s any I haven’t come across yet that you like!
Hi Diana, I've come across so many amazing content but the few that really stands out include the book Goodbye Things by Fumio Sasaki, podcasts by The Minimalists, UA-cam channel by Joshua Becker. Please share those you like too xx
@@ColourfulNoir Have you seen The Minimalist’s newest documentary, Less is Now on Netflix? Absolutely fantastic. I love it more than their first documentary. I am a fan of all Konmari books as well. In terms of podcasts, I love the Millennial Minimalists and The Wannabe Minimalist. For UA-cam, I 100% recommend A Small Wardrobe. I followed her for about 3.5 years. A lot of other UA-camrs I tend to watch videos here and there.
A very helpful video, as always! Thank you for sharing this with us!
Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your support xx
thank you for sharing. what you said is so true. but so hard to do. i became addicted to Chanel and online preloved market is my downfall! i will come back to this video in my moment of weakness! ☺️
I’m definitely doing this. Thanks for the video. Very useful!
Good luck with your low buy challenge! Drop by here any time if you need some motivation, we're all rooting for you xx
@@ColourfulNoir thanks
Not sure if I made a right decision! Used my 2020 saving to buy an ETF instead of my 1st luxury handbag! Thanks for sharing your insights.
Eileen you are just awesome what wonderful content in your channel. Love it.
Thank you so much! xx
Great tips. You are keeping me motivated.
I'm so glad! Thank you! xx
Again a great video. 100 % agree! Thanks so much. Great points
Thank you so much, Diane xx
We are saving a bigger down payment. We are trying to change homes. We are trying to “upgrade” to a nicer home with granite countertop bathrooms and a better chefs’ kitchen. I know what you say about “upgrading”. But I don’t believe we have to keep unappealing spaces just to save money. We can move next summer if we don’t buy any lux items.
1) I buy bags by type so how many totes/ crossbody / work etc. bags do I need. 2) My bag shelf is full and I don't want a 2nd so any extra has to check all the boxes. 3) I avoid temptation like Ebay (I love vintage luxury bags)
I did a high buy year last year and i don't think i gained too much real happiness from the items. I'm going to try low buy because less belongings will be liberating i believe.
I get what you mean! I used to buy so much but I then realised the excessiveness did not bring me happiness at all, if anything it caused me a lot of anxiety. Wishing you a successful low buy year xx
Your sharing is so valuable. Please try to recomend also some sites that sell in euros and in Europe. Many thks and blessings for you and your family!
Thanks for sharing, great advise. It takes me 1 entire year to work for my bonus, I sure wont be spending it in a month. I use my time to read, spend time with my family and learn French.
I have never had a soft spot for luxury goods.
Thanks for sharing! I think you deserve to pop open a bottle of champagne too! Congratulations on being rewarded for your hard work xx
@@ColourfulNoir thank you. Hope you are enjoying your week👍
Happy to see the Kelly Double Tour make an appearance!
It's been hibernating for a bit for sure 🙈
Great tips! Really enjoy your videos 💐
Glad you like them! Thank you so much xx
I’m learning a lot from you! Thank you!♥️
I'm so glad! Thank you ! xx
1) I bought 100 hangers. I won't buy more and I hate folding so only sweaters. 2) I don't go to clothing stores for months and I don't buy what I can't try. 3) I know I have all I need so I'm careful with the bonus.
Fantastic tips! xx
My why is : I want to put more money on a side for investment. But it is so hard because I recently down side almost all of my designer handbags ( because watching your channel I realized many of them I don’t enjoy using and not even touch for many years. And I left them there to collecting dust) because of the down size of handbags. I feel I don’t have enough handbags that I can enjoy. I have a quite big cash I got from selling my old bags. So now I tempted to buy more new bags that I like. Or putting money for investment. Recently I love dior medium bobby bag. I really enjoying using it. So I feel I need to buy a large size . But I’m hesitant because I wonder should I spend money for 2 bags that is almost the same. Only difference size and colors. I wish I have you to give me advice.
Due to the Covid -19, I hardly buy online. I don't like this routine: get, try on and send back. Before any purchase I ask myself if I need it and how often I would use it. And the last, I want to have something special, unique: for example, not an offered Birkin in the store but a SO Birkin or something of high end quality but not very recognisable. Shopping costs tons of hours in our lives. It is stressful, and stress produces cortisone. The last one is not healthy for our bodies.
We definitely don't need any stress from shopping, especially when it costs us a fortune 🙈
Hi Eileen! I just started getting into luxury handbags last year and have bought 5 bags so far - Senreve mini maestra, Chanel classic flap medium, LV multi pochette, mini lady Dior and Saint Laurent Kate medium tassel. These are all my dream bags accumulated past a few years and I finally got all of them! Like you, I believe that less is more and I am pretty happy with my current small collection. However, I think that I will only reach purse peace when I have my dream Kelly 28 etoupe and Birkin 25 Sakura in my collection! My question to you is, knowing the Hermes game, it seems impossible not to buy some things that you don’t really need in order to be offered a bag. Can you share your Hermes experience and what did you do to be offered a bag? Thank you!
Hi Shu Yan, I've done a video about my Hermes experience before, I hope it's helpful! ua-cam.com/video/p_CbHWtq0tg/v-deo.html
Preparing for low buy year 2022
What r ur thoughts on lv empriente?
Debating of buying my 3rd bag lv spoedy in DE canvass or empriente for casual everyday bag and thats all no more lux bags
I used to own a LV Montaigne in the black empreinte leather and it was amazing!! The material is classy and durable, I love it xx
Colourful Noir when u say ‘used to own’ do u mean to say i already let go of it? If u dont what was d reason y u let her go?
Do you have any advice on handbags to avoid if you live in a hot humid climate?
Hello. I love your channel and all the advice you give about mindful spending. I’ve noticed you talk about getting joy from investing. I don’t have a lot of knowledge in this area, and would like to learn more. Is there a book you recommend, or a video or class you took to learn more that you can recommend to me? I appreciate any information you share. Thank you. Hope you are well. ☺️
I've read quite a lot of books on investing but if you're fairly new, there a some I'll really recommend. Hope you find them helpful xx
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Along the lines of hours worked, I think about hours worked after my bills. For example, if I have to work 50hours to pay my bills, and the item costs 10 hours of work, I think about how far through the month I work before I reach that 60 hour mark. Does that make sense?
That is such fantastic tip! Thank you so much for sharing with us! I think that totally makes sense, especially when we absolutely need pay our bills first before any shopping xx
Thank you very much for wisdom!!♥️👩🦰♥️
Thank you for always showing up, I really appreciate it xx
Thanks for inspiring me to curate!!!
Thank you for showing up, Marie! xx
Thanks for this!! I started my 2nd annual no buy 3 month challenge on Feb. 22nd. 😁 I think I’m going to shift gears in a different way afterward, instead of shopping again. Maybe extend it or do a low buy, or something of that nature. I have a hard time selling/decluttering even though I don’t consistently wear everything, it’s too emotional. Any tips for that??
I won't say don't push yourself too hard. If you're not ready to let go yet, that's really quite OK. However, I might suggest to set a time line. If there's something you've been thinking to sell, maybe leave it for 12 months and see if you have a change of mind. If you still have the same sentiment after a year, maybe it's time to let go xx
I’ve had things I haven’t worn for about 2 years at least, and they fit fine, it’s just that they don’t feel “something”, my style or mood. But I feel bad about leaving them, it’s kind of overwhelming. Seems like I’d have them sitting there, but I know it’s stuck energy. :/ do you ever struggle with clothes like that? If so what is your strategy?
I really like your content
Thank you! xx
Great content. If you wouldn't mind talking about investment, basic stuff in one of your future video. Do you do that with a broker? Or is real estate? Thank you!
Hi Raluca, I invest mainly in index funds, ETFs and stocks xx
@@ColourfulNoir it would be great to have a short video about this topic if you get many requests. I'm also from Europe and I know you live in the UK and I'll appreciate if you would like to share your experience. do you do it yourself or with a broker? I haven't see that many yt video's from ppl within Europe. thank you !
Hi, !! I was wondering if you can make a video of your daily luxury face products you use? Thank you
She is beautiful and i also want to know her skin routine. I have used dermalogica products for years and i would really recommend them
Hi Lesley, I will definitely do an updated video soon! Thank you for the suggestion xx
Aww thank you! xx
Thank you 🙏🏼 no problem
Have you read Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robin? It is such an enlightening book in line with your content.
Hi Agnes, it's one of my all time favourite reads! I highly recommend it to everyone xx
Hello hope you are well. i love your channel and has been watching ur videos since u started. I am from Abudhabi and i agree with most of your fashion statements. As both of us are asians, we come from cultures that admire gold and collect it . Do you have any gold set collections? Have you ever considered collecting gold ? Much love to you. If you ever visit Dubai or Abudhabi i would like to invite you to a meal♥️🌹
Aww that's such a kind offer, thank you! I would absolutely love to visit Dubai and Abudhabi one day 💛 I did try investing in gold before but decided it's not my calling. I still keep the very teeny tiny gold I invested a long ago but not looking to get more now xx
Lol I got a Versace ad before this video 🤣
Would love to know what you got! xx
If you only have 1 luggage to pack the most important things during emergency , what would you pack? Then you will realise why buy more?
Me: ohhh I can buy 15 Apple shares with that handbag money 😂😂😂
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Thank you! xx
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I had my "no luxury buying" challenge in February. It wasn't easy but I made it! :)
Wonderful! Well done Belle xx
Try to minimise all luxury branded stuffs money is not easy to earn. Spending is easy saving is hard.
So true! Paying with your credit only takes seconds, but earning those pennies certainly takes much longer xx
Hermes look classic very nice but it's so heavy not suitable for evey day use.
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I wholeheartedly agree with mindful spending and resisting consumerism, however, you make it sound like you are somehow being forced to purchase luxury items. The very vast majority of all humans do not worry about this stuff at all because they have no other options lol. Furthermore, it's kind of weird to preach "don't buy, don't buy" with a Birkin, Kelly, and Chanel bags in your closet. You already have your holy grail bags and the amount you have spent on one Birkin or Kelly is likely still higher than what most people spend on luxury in a year anyways. This isn't to put you down, I clearly enjoy your videos since I am watching them, but at times it does feel like you are being condescending.
Hi Alissa, I'm sorry if I came across as condescending. As a child, I would even worry about asking for bus fee from my parents because resources were scarce. It might sound cliche, but I'm now very blessed to be able to splurge on myself in the ways I never thought I could. So in a way, you're right in saying this is more or less a 'first world problem topic'. However, this channel focuses mainly mindful designer shopping tips, so I do think the content is somewhat relevant.
I truly love beautiful pieces, and because of this passion, I used to struggle to balance my priorities. It's never my intention to preach 'don't buy, don't buy'. I think people should reward themselves, but do it very intentionally. If I could turn back time, I would still buy my Birkin, because I absolutely love it. On the other hand, I 100% would not buy many of the Chanel pieces I sort of liked but mainly bought because I was in a low mood. Going forward, I might even say yes to another Birkin if it's in the right colour and hardware, but I will not buy a Louis Vuitton just because its the last one in the country. If there's a word that could sum up my video, I guess it's 'intentionality'. 😉