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  • 48 Hours" reports on cases that changed families' lives forever in this UA-cam marathon, featuring "Home Renovation Homicide," "Death at the Front Door: Who Shot Heidi Firkus?" and "Paradise Lost."
    00:00 Home Renovation Homicide
    40:14 Death at the Front Door: Who Shot Heidi Firkus?
    1:22:04 Paradise Lost
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  • @48hours
    @48hours  12 днів тому +23

    Watch more "48 Hours" marathons: ua-cam.com/play/PLcFHkKbd_jTJWv3_D-qlUro42RIj8JHjn.html&si=0Wjl7GDlE9eMr6Zh

    • @stephaniehay8092
      @stephaniehay8092 День тому +3

      I'd love to watch all the marathons, but every single video is hidden except for this one. I'm in Canada , but why hide the others and not this one?! Make them available to true crime buffs in Canada, please and thank you.

  • @Berryandmango
    @Berryandmango 28 днів тому +1005

    When my Mum died at the age of 53 unexpectedly, I did not shed a tear. Family and friends asked me what was wrong, I did not look sad when actual fact, I was absolutely devastated and so deep in shock that my grief, caused me to go almost mute, unable to speak for days but not a tear came out. 30 years later, I sobbed and sobbed and sobbed.

    • @sim-b
      @sim-b 28 днів тому +28

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn 28 днів тому +64

      Yes, but this dude was not in shock, not speechless, not in grief etc. When he said "it hit my wife", a giggle came out.

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d 27 днів тому +5

      Did you love her?

    • @blue-vv3rd
      @blue-vv3rd 27 днів тому +81

      ​@@DX-d Stupid question

    • @beverlyjordan3791
      @beverlyjordan3791 26 днів тому +76

      I could not cry when my mom died nut years later it hit me so hard I almost lost my mind and everything else.

  • @carlydelvecchio2287
    @carlydelvecchio2287 29 днів тому +1518

    Just because someone doesn't have a "history" of violence does not mean they are not capable of being violent.

    • @smears6039
      @smears6039 29 днів тому +84

      Yep just means they haven’t been caught yet

    • @tech5298
      @tech5298 28 днів тому +15

      Well said, “Joey”

    • @amberparker9883
      @amberparker9883 26 днів тому +24

      It is USUALLY a pattern though.. that's why it's mentioned

    • @tech5298
      @tech5298 26 днів тому

      @@amberparker9883
      “Joey”, had a history of violence. It was a well established pattern. It was history…He hid it well and set up a new, non-violent life. He did not get caught, but rather, “they” caught up with him. Eventually the pattern exposed itself, by happenstance, exposing his hidden secret, and ultimately they re-entered the picture, and became the salvation of his new, non-violent life.

    • @gracie4200
      @gracie4200 26 днів тому +15

      The devil 😈 can get in any-ones- body

  • @Goldiegirl2009
    @Goldiegirl2009 28 днів тому +160

    Heidi Firkus - 1:09:21 - I’m sorry but Nick’s friends are in huge denial. You have to believe he killed his wife for no reason? There’s a gigantic reason. He lied about their finances so much she had no clue their house was already sold in a foreclosure and their eviction was happening the day he killed her. He could not tell her. He’s a darn coward. This woman just sounds ridiculous standing up for him.

    • @Katiee0592
      @Katiee0592 7 днів тому +15

      I agree. There are also NUMEROUS examples of spouses having ZERO past behaviors that would hint they are capable of killing their spouse, yet they do. They all have secrets, and 90% are over money or affairs, or both. Their arguments are asinine and have no basis in reality. It’s obvious he killed his wife.

    • @keith_59
      @keith_59 4 дні тому +9

      Even her walking downstairs before him proves he is one. He is a coward.

    • @samhosner2459
      @samhosner2459 4 дні тому

      I'm with you he killed her you can see that he's that type of guy you can see it

    • @RangerMelB
      @RangerMelB 4 дні тому +4

      Nick's story is complete crap... 'the door burst open' magically with no sign.. he bears no sign of a struggle, the ghost disappeared without anyone seeing him.. shore...

    • @lanawr80
      @lanawr80 3 дні тому +3

      OMG it’s mind blowing!!!! Especially when his second wife (who would have known him much better) even thought to record the convo because she was so suspicious!!!! He did the same thing all over again!! How could they be that naive?!!

  • @race8810
    @race8810 24 дні тому +92

    “David was sleeping downstairs with the dogs” 🤣

    • @caroladler3148
      @caroladler3148 6 годин тому +1

      And his wife slept in the garage~By choice? Or was she a victim of emotional abuse~🙏

  • @WindDancer435
    @WindDancer435 29 днів тому +708

    Cindy initially stated she was charmed because he told her she was beautiful. That was not charm, but instead manipulation.

    • @Jaialai828
      @Jaialai828 28 днів тому +22

      Charmed so much that she believed he couldn’t have murdered her .🙄

    • @cicada38
      @cicada38 28 днів тому +23

      Quite sad isn't it?!

    • @ebdo7863
      @ebdo7863 28 днів тому +12

      Cindy shouldn't have access to her own finances!!!

    • @tech5298
      @tech5298 28 днів тому +19

      Charm used to manipulate. More accurate?

    • @LovelessFascination
      @LovelessFascination 28 днів тому +48

      I am old and not beautiful, so whenever a dude I barely know says stuff like that to me, I have to restrain myself from rolling my eyes. First thought is always, that isn’t gonna work on me bud.

  • @phillipsmom6252
    @phillipsmom6252 29 днів тому +1329

    Never date, live with, or marry any guy that needs you or your family members to “Bank Roll” anything. 👍

    • @heezypeasy8611
      @heezypeasy8611 29 днів тому +63

      Yes! That is a huge red flag

    • @RWB20
      @RWB20 29 днів тому +56

      True that my ex-husband is truly a horrid human. He took everything from me. Whats even more horrible is how good he is at it. When you grow up dirt poor like him, you learn young how to deceive and manipulate others. And his churches all cover for him. So he gets to keep using his mission trips to get what he wants...a starving child will do anything for food. Yes sick but true.

    • @addjoaprekobaah5914
      @addjoaprekobaah5914 29 днів тому +11

      He is a missionary? Where does he serves.

    • @startingtech3900
      @startingtech3900 29 днів тому +6

      Or wahman

    • @RWB20
      @RWB20 29 днів тому +14

      @addjoaprekobaah5914 where Bethal Redding sends him - mostly Africa, I believe. RodBradley. Don't be deceived.

  • @CJLOVE23
    @CJLOVE23 21 день тому +27

    I’m not understanding how Shanti didn’t know Nick was gay? I mean, he isn’t just gay. He is _flaming_ gay. I’m talkin’ dancing in leather chaps, singing Cher songs in the car, crying to Funny Lady gay 🕺🏼I knew it within 5 seconds. She didn’t know it that whole time?

  • @nicholasschoonbeck6866
    @nicholasschoonbeck6866 28 днів тому +124

    It always annoys me that Nick's new friends think that we have to believe that a good man (who lies), killed the woman he adored (but didn't mourn her & quickly found a new woman to use), & that he killed her for no reason (even though the reason is so obvious). Its crazy to me how often people will just lie to themselves.

    • @nicholasschoonbeck6866
      @nicholasschoonbeck6866 28 днів тому +18

      And his lawyers, who think that Nick, the liar, would be honest with them. lol

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 13 днів тому +4

      They seem delusional and naive.

    • @T.2.S.A.
      @T.2.S.A. 10 днів тому +2

      Typical

    • @T.2.S.A.
      @T.2.S.A. 10 днів тому +1

      @@trawlins396 typical isn't it?

    • @fabiodafonseca3879
      @fabiodafonseca3879 3 дні тому

      ​@@nicholasschoonbeck6866they are liars by career, they are also lying, if anything they identified with the liar

  • @JessicaPaus
    @JessicaPaus 29 днів тому +654

    That crying on 911 is incredibly pathetic
    No person on earth would believe that is genuine

    • @patriciaoreilly8907
      @patriciaoreilly8907 29 днів тому +12

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 29 днів тому +47

      Exactly. Its no wonder the police immediately blamed him. Not only did he not "have an explanation for her extensive injuries", he was also saying ridiculous things like "I've never been more in love." That's not something anyone would say for any reason unless they were writing a book lol. It's just so cheap and fake and everyone knows it 🙄

    • @hSquaredSunshine
      @hSquaredSunshine 29 днів тому +19

      He sounded like Beaker from the Muppet Show.

    • @brendakok7377
      @brendakok7377 28 днів тому +8

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @JessicaCruz-ro4ps
      @JessicaCruz-ro4ps 28 днів тому +7

      I would believe it

  • @Nook747
    @Nook747 29 днів тому +641

    He didn't want to be married.......He just wanted her money !!!

  • @dadycreations100
    @dadycreations100 27 днів тому +91

    They found a lot of blood around their bed, she showed signs of strangulation, she wasn't wet and the bathtub was empty. What else ?

  • @Mindyobidnessm8
    @Mindyobidnessm8 27 днів тому +86

    The destruction of that beautiful historic home is a crime in itself. Why not buy a new home if that’s what you wanted 🙄 And he’s clearly not into women- could see that a mile away- never understood this relationship.

    • @dandydiavoless1473
      @dandydiavoless1473 14 днів тому +13

      she thought she had won the lottery with ¨such a beautiful and handsome man¨ 🤣

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 11 днів тому +5

      What can you “see from a mile away” through pictures alone? Enlighten us. 🙄

  • @sassysue6472
    @sassysue6472 29 днів тому +1276

    So he pays cash for a house, puts it in trust with his mom, refuses to put his wife in the trust,guts it like a scrapper making it unsafe, his wife foots the bill for “renovations” and she’s living in the garage and he’s with his mama. Yeah. He’s a real winner.

    • @twilfits
      @twilfits 29 днів тому +134

      Talk about red flags

    • @texasrefugee7888
      @texasrefugee7888 29 днів тому +179

      Run screaming from adult men enmeshed with their mommy

    • @patr70
      @patr70 29 днів тому

      Don't tell the Mothers that.. they're very protective of their sons and don't want someone that they don't approve of in the family nest. 😮​@@texasrefugee7888

    • @troismoutonsetuntigre5988
      @troismoutonsetuntigre5988 29 днів тому +36

      He's a keeper for sure

    • @sassysue6472
      @sassysue6472 29 днів тому

      @@texasrefugee7888 you got that right!

  • @RideoutMr
    @RideoutMr 29 днів тому +741

    Another intelligent successful woman picking a loser & losing her life.

    • @KitKatToeBeans
      @KitKatToeBeans 29 днів тому +128

      The older I get the more I realize being single might be a blessing.

    • @fionagregory9147
      @fionagregory9147 29 днів тому +50

      ​@@KitKatToeBeansyes and you can decide what to watch on telly etc.

    • @artemisiam.8391
      @artemisiam.8391 29 днів тому +20

      A misoginist also

    • @tictactoehuhn6
      @tictactoehuhn6 29 днів тому +27

      Was she intelligent then? It was HER pick...

    • @jameslomenzo1139
      @jameslomenzo1139 29 днів тому +73

      I been single, no kids, never married' 63 years old and I don't need anyone's drama.

  • @christinasornbutnark1208
    @christinasornbutnark1208 28 днів тому +43

    I believe her wholeheartedly. I’ve lived with someone that was clinically depressed. It was a constant battle keeping him alive. Till it wasn’t. I truly hope she finds peace. What a lovely woman.

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 26 днів тому +11

      I believe her too. Her grief is very real. The story seems unbelievable , especially trial after trial. But I'd bet The Behavior Panel would clear her.

    • @annihilatedbutcomingback1119
      @annihilatedbutcomingback1119 День тому +2

      I believe her too , poor lady has been through so much, I pray she finds peace and happiness ❤

  • @reginafromrio
    @reginafromrio 28 днів тому +21

    When my loved one died, my body gave out and I dropped on the floor in uncontrollable tears. Everyone is different but man ..

  • @unique_frenchie_vi
    @unique_frenchie_vi 29 днів тому +373

    No one should ever fork over money for any type of property without having their name on the deed or mortgage.

  • @sofia7374
    @sofia7374 29 днів тому +370

    2nd story: Hubby’s wife is murdered by an imaginary intruder and two months later he starts dating someone else. 🚩

    • @DJ-nk4dq
      @DJ-nk4dq 29 днів тому +46

      And that someone else is his dead wife’s friend. Hmmm

    • @inakigazte9329
      @inakigazte9329 29 днів тому +29

      @@DJ-nk4dq Not exactly. His dead wife's friend's sister

    • @DJ-nk4dq
      @DJ-nk4dq 29 днів тому +28

      @@inakigazte9329 ok, close enough

    • @inakigazte9329
      @inakigazte9329 28 днів тому +11

      Indeed ; )

    • @senses70
      @senses70 28 днів тому +10

      I found that the defence had good arguments that casted serious doubts on what the prosecution alleged about Nick. People react differently in highly stressful situations. And the sentencing was in my view disproportionate. But I wasn’t a judge in that courtroom…

  • @connieobrien3807
    @connieobrien3807 23 дні тому +38

    Advice.....DO NOT move to Costa Rica! The justice system is long and absurd. My in-laws retired there, and both passed away there and for 6 years we are still in court regarding the estate and there was a will. Judges play musical chairs, and mistakes are made as it drags on and on and on! It cost thousands of dollars and my father-in-law's legacy that he left has been robbed! Just don't do it!!! You can trust No One!

    • @alliea9272
      @alliea9272 3 дні тому

      third world country corruption .

  • @80bbygrl
    @80bbygrl 25 днів тому +26

    I absolutely never would have bankrolled a house that I was not on the deed for.

  • @taylormajors5677
    @taylormajors5677 29 днів тому +515

    Whomever decided to knock all of those interior load bearing walls down should never be allowed to touch tools again. Tile roofs are extremely heavy.

    • @auntiemeemaw3885
      @auntiemeemaw3885 29 днів тому

      ​@zed-df2pzlicensed contractors are hiring undocumented workers.

    • @hSquaredSunshine
      @hSquaredSunshine 29 днів тому +13

      ​@zed-df2pz those crews are EVERYWHERE now.

    • @Truthologyee
      @Truthologyee 28 днів тому +11

      Whoa that's scary😢

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn 28 днів тому +55

      I am amazed he found craftsmen who would knock down any load bearing wall! They risk their own lives too.

    • @moskie325
      @moskie325 27 днів тому +31

      I think that would be Dave.

  • @SusanFieldhouse-fe5ji
    @SusanFieldhouse-fe5ji 29 днів тому +377

    I love the female detectives who interrogated this pos. He's a horrible monster

    • @angelgirldebbiejo
      @angelgirldebbiejo 29 днів тому +25

      What a fake Cryer......

    • @raysitzes2455
      @raysitzes2455 29 днів тому +21

      His lawyer is pretty slimy too

    • @TheMactone
      @TheMactone 29 днів тому +1

      They didn’t prove anything. They presented a horrible case. The jury was empathetic to the woman.

    • @ALT-vz3jn
      @ALT-vz3jn 29 днів тому +17

      @@TheMactoneBS! He was obviously guilty as sin.

    • @smears6039
      @smears6039 29 днів тому +8

      @@TheMactoneyou’ve got to be joking…

  • @cherylsabol387
    @cherylsabol387 27 днів тому +15

    Heidi’s case: there isn’t a real man alive that would send his wife down the stairs ahead of him if an intruder was in the house!!!

    • @marivipalomino6975
      @marivipalomino6975 3 дні тому

      Exactly. I as a woman would never go first. I always send my husband to go check for any unusual noise and ask him to please be careful 😂😂😂.

  • @emilyemily444
    @emilyemily444 25 днів тому +23

    David Tronnes is exactly where he belongs. I hope this gives some semblance of peace to the victims family & I hope her little boy has a loving & fulfilled life as possible💔😔🙏

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 29 днів тому +544

    Typical narcissist with love bombing the women.

    • @carsonc6659
      @carsonc6659 29 днів тому +27

      Yeahh I've had one. They're dangerous.

    • @moniqueengleman873
      @moniqueengleman873 29 днів тому +27

      As a Southerner, I have rolled the word "charming " over in my head.
      It has many different meanings.
      His "charming" was a Narcissist sign.

    • @carsonc6659
      @carsonc6659 29 днів тому +15

      @moniqueengleman873 Right. Being naturally charming is different.

    • @hSquaredSunshine
      @hSquaredSunshine 29 днів тому +32

      I'm a 56 yr old woman. When guys say stuff like that, I find it more "cringe" than "charming".

    • @maudlindgren525
      @maudlindgren525 29 днів тому +18

      And when someone calls you one of the most beautiful he have ever seen!! I would look in the mirror😮

  • @centre_stage5599
    @centre_stage5599 29 днів тому +462

    So he said she drowned in the tub and yet the tub and her clothes are not wet (REALLY DAVE , REALLY)

  • @ruthortiz9395
    @ruthortiz9395 26 днів тому +13

    "' Erin , this is Florida. Nothing is strange here"'. The perfect way to describe Florida and its habitants. That should be Floridas motto

  • @Elizabeth-fp7os
    @Elizabeth-fp7os 29 днів тому +556

    Never put a dime on something that doesn't have your name on it

    • @hSquaredSunshine
      @hSquaredSunshine 29 днів тому +44

      Especially when you have a CHILD.

    • @FatLittleOldLady
      @FatLittleOldLady 28 днів тому +13

      Small thing by comparison, but I knew someone who wasn't allowed to put food she bought into the deep freezer she also bought because her man wouldn't let her because he needed it to store weed so he could freeze it to collect the keef. Hope I spelled that right. when she pointed out the fact she was the one who paid for the freezer she was not allowed to use because it was his house, she said he thought she was crazy until he thought about it and remembered it was true. He withdrew her stimulus money to buy the freezer.

    • @TheDriftwoodlover
      @TheDriftwoodlover 28 днів тому +4

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @scorpiohughes2383
      @scorpiohughes2383 28 днів тому +6

      That's what I was taught !!! Nbs

    • @andreambrownridge7642
      @andreambrownridge7642 27 днів тому +5

      Exactly…hardfast rule- resist all temptations to break it for ANY REASON

  • @jerseygma
    @jerseygma 29 днів тому +788

    She says "We adored Dave. The first time we all ate lunch together, he said 'How lucky am I ? I get to eat lunch with two of the most beautiful women I know.' That's charming." . . . Uh, No - that's *lying* 🙄🙄🙄

    • @meredithmucha4644
      @meredithmucha4644 29 днів тому +118

      I know, it’s sad. Clearly he’s lying as you look in the mirror. A false compliment is not charming.

    • @DawnChetty
      @DawnChetty 29 днів тому +32

      That's sick

    • @twilfits
      @twilfits 29 днів тому +72

      He's thinking what fools

    • @Rose-hm6vp
      @Rose-hm6vp 29 днів тому +7

      😂😂

    • @cecillec2331
      @cecillec2331 29 днів тому +113

      It is called manipulation.

  • @sherimann6144
    @sherimann6144 27 днів тому +33

    Not EVER on over 45 years of having a menstrual cycle? Did I ever!! Spill menstrual blood ALL OVER my bed or the floor!

    • @1USACitizen192
      @1USACitizen192 24 дні тому +2

      I heard menstruation attracts bears.

    • @sherimann6144
      @sherimann6144 24 дні тому +1

      @1USACitizen192 sharks too! 🦈

    • @angielovesusa
      @angielovesusa 24 дні тому +1

      I did. I had endometriosis.

    • @angielovesusa
      @angielovesusa 24 дні тому +3

      I had endometriosis and I did have a few episodes where blood went everywhere.
      But there's a difference between menstrual blood and regular blood. The man in the video even said the blood wasn't menstrual blood.

    • @sherimann6144
      @sherimann6144 24 дні тому

      @angielovesusa I stand corrected! Have a great day and life Angie!

  • @lenoreromero1046
    @lenoreromero1046 28 днів тому +33

    John Bender's where they talk about he's left-handed I am totally left-handed and I shoot with the right hand, I always here this in left handed cases.

    • @rasberryfields2132
      @rasberryfields2132 27 днів тому +9

      I do everything left handed( and left footed) except write and shoot a gun. But, I'm not convinced John wasn't shot by someone else.😢

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 26 днів тому

      Yup, many people are ambidexturous.

    • @c.2538
      @c.2538 26 днів тому +7

      It’s true being a lefty is weird. I’m left handed but I swing a baseball bat like a righty.

    • @kp7032
      @kp7032 26 днів тому +1

      In a world where approx. 90% of people are right handed, then us left handed people have had to get used to doing many actions with our right hand, as up until the last few decades, many tools and everyday items were designed to be used with right handed people in mind. Historically, children were forced to write with their right hand at school (my mum used to get whacked with a ruler if she used the pen in her left hand), and eat with the knife held in the right hand.
      I knit right-handed, use right handed golf clubs, and hold my knife and fork as a right handed person would do in public when eating (at home I swap around), and until I had my own place, had equipment stored or facing ready to be used in the right hand. Thankfully my hubby is also a lefty, so we’ve set things up accordingly for us, but admittedly it made things a little more awkward for our daughter who turned out to be right handed!

    • @emilyemily444
      @emilyemily444 25 днів тому +3

      I'm left-handed too- but I do everything else with my right, including hairdressing/cutting scissors.

  • @hightorrexplore4370
    @hightorrexplore4370 29 днів тому +433

    I’m totally confused as to why the lawyers weren’t charged with perverting the course of justice if they were hiding bloody sheets and cords?

    • @mariee.5912
      @mariee.5912 29 днів тому +21

      There was no trial yet or discovery to transfer to the DA.

    • @jennifermaddy2442
      @jennifermaddy2442 28 днів тому +3

      Exactly

    • @texasray5237
      @texasray5237 28 днів тому +18

      They're lawyers.

    • @tommygriffith9594
      @tommygriffith9594 27 днів тому +32

      Laws are for the peasant class,not the ruling class.

    • @maryhalverson5713
      @maryhalverson5713 27 днів тому +19

      The legal system protects its own, above all other concerns.

  • @jamiedecker7853
    @jamiedecker7853 29 днів тому +305

    Lol my periods are so heavy that I require frequent infusions, but I have never bled down the SIDE of the bed onto the slats. Impossible

  • @charlibaltimore7641
    @charlibaltimore7641 22 дні тому +8

    Ann Bender is amazing to still be standing. God bless you Ann.

  • @ronnetteharvey2002
    @ronnetteharvey2002 25 днів тому +13

    Poor Ann. I totally understand what happened according to the experts. I'm sad you had to keep reliving that event over and over.

    • @NC-ub9qy
      @NC-ub9qy 21 день тому

      The so called experts said it could have happened either way. The trajectory of the bullet is very plausible if Ann was on the other side of the bed and leaned over. The so called experts were there to defend a white woman. Its clear no one cares about John.

  • @dy9278
    @dy9278 29 днів тому +238

    Shame when folk mistake BS for charm.

    • @sofia7374
      @sofia7374 29 днів тому +20

      Seriously. That woman doesn’t get complimented much

    • @tech5298
      @tech5298 28 днів тому +11

      Always takes two willing, to enable one seduction. Sad, but true…

    • @barbaramccollum-sd8vi
      @barbaramccollum-sd8vi 24 дні тому +5

      I agree but it does happen, awful 😖 😱 😨 😮

    • @reginamushi6582
      @reginamushi6582 24 дні тому +8

      I thought of the same thing whilst she was saying that he is charming for complementing her, oh dear lady need to receive more compliments to get used to it

    • @maraholmes7999
      @maraholmes7999 20 днів тому +1

      The shame is needing to use others. These men were manipulators and users.

  • @heezypeasy8611
    @heezypeasy8611 29 днів тому +330

    Nick killed his wife. That lady says he had no reason, but the financial issues he hept from Heidi are a big reason.

    • @cynthiawoods883
      @cynthiawoods883 29 днів тому +6

      Nick, Heidi?

    • @smears6039
      @smears6039 29 днів тому +12

      And the fact that he was gay, but yeah the money and her finding out the pile of lies on lies he fed her is one of the strongest motives I’ve seen

    • @sunshine3914
      @sunshine3914 29 днів тому +8

      Wouldn’t be the first time someone killed because they kept a lie going.

    • @BradyRanger
      @BradyRanger 29 днів тому +22

      @@smears6039 you're mixing up cases

    • @PinkGrammarGirl
      @PinkGrammarGirl 28 днів тому +5

      I believe he did it, but there is slight reasonable doubt, especially the 38 second misdials. It really sucks he would think murdering his wife is preferred to fessing up. I mean, there wasn't even life insurance.

  • @gaylegoodman9097
    @gaylegoodman9097 25 днів тому +5

    Never talk to cops!”, which was told to me by a retired cop. His advice was aways ask for a lawyer, no matter what! You can always go from Not Guilty to Guilty, immediately, if you want. Not so easy to go from Guilty to Not Guilty. You always have the opportunity to tell your story at any time, showing remorse. When the Interrogator’s claim to want to help you, they are lying. They have many specific techniques to manipulate you. They can legally lie to you all they want. Their only goal is to close the case. They are not your friends. They will tell you that talking to them is the only way you can show you’re not a monster, or show remorse, acting like this will be your only time to explain your side. That is a lie in itself. Talk to a lawyer anytime they want to talk to you. Get up and leave, when they say you can. Them saying you must have something to hide or it makes you look guilty, if you obtain one. This is not true. Many times, polygraphs read false positives that say you’re lying, which is why they’re not admissible in court.
    You have the right to a lawyer. Use it. If you’re arrested, you may request one when you’re booked into the jail, and talked to the judge, so you’ll have to stay at least one night in jail, but it’s just best to talk consult with a lawyer, so you fully understand your rights. Even if you’re innocent. There is a specific list of specific techniques, called the “Reid” technique, which is used to totally manipulate you to confess, whether guilty or not.
    They will say, they have enough evidence to convict “right now”. That probably is a lie right there to
    you. It’s because they need more evidence, or strengthen the case. Just remember, their goal is to close the case, and that’s all.

  • @jordanbrascia3483
    @jordanbrascia3483 24 дні тому +14

    Please.pray for my precious daughter to be saved & healed in body mind and spirit ❤

    • @deborahcraven6435
      @deborahcraven6435 22 дні тому +1

      I will say a prayer , love from Ireland ❤

    • @KitttenAniimations
      @KitttenAniimations 22 дні тому

      God bless her. Pray to orthodox Saint Valentine, a bishop from Umria, Italy. He always heals sick.

    • @Myeyesareopen8
      @Myeyesareopen8 8 днів тому +1

      I too prayed for her salvation and healing. God bless you too.

  • @fionagregory9147
    @fionagregory9147 29 днів тому +225

    If I was depressed I would not look for a man who was also depressed.

    • @corneliuscornia4436
      @corneliuscornia4436 29 днів тому +3

      😊😊😊

    • @StofStuiver
      @StofStuiver 29 днів тому +60

      Not look for, but chances you will be with someone thats also depressed is far higher than the chance youd be with a cheery person.
      For several reasons.

    • @GruenerGummistiefel
      @GruenerGummistiefel 29 днів тому +6

      Often like this 2 crazy do not make a right. Costa Rica justice is a own system too ! Justice systems are different in each country to make it a little more drastic I say would you like to be prosecuted in Iran or Afghanistan ? Just consider when move away from your system .

    • @GruenerGummistiefel
      @GruenerGummistiefel 29 днів тому +2

      ​@@StofStuivertrue I know some and all of them are in total mess

    • @jennifermaddy2442
      @jennifermaddy2442 28 днів тому +5

      Exactly the whole story is just bizarre

  • @moonbubbles3046
    @moonbubbles3046 29 днів тому +176

    When the first thing a gunshot victim whose wife was also shot says to the 911 operator, “please please somebody just broke into our house…” - they did it.

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn 28 днів тому +26

      lol. The whole version would be: "someone broke into our house, I confronted him with my shotgun but shot my wife. Then I shot myself in the leg. The burglar escaped". I can't stop laughing. lol

    • @Avasmommy11509
      @Avasmommy11509 27 днів тому +9

      ya he did that sht 💯

    • @kes52282
      @kes52282 27 днів тому +9

      Was just coming to make the same comment. You are trying to set up your cover up.

  • @danieln.2590
    @danieln.2590 27 днів тому +14

    How could someone be tried 4 times? that's ridiculous and pathetic

  • @caroleminke6116
    @caroleminke6116 27 днів тому +19

    His attorney is also a gay boy ♥️ love that bow tie look!

  • @bugsea54
    @bugsea54 29 днів тому +198

    Acting like a little kid that has to get his way... that is a red flag!

  • @emach07
    @emach07 28 днів тому +103

    Wow! So the shooter shot her, then her husband yelled and cried out, "You shot her!! You shot her!!" and the shooter what?? Ran away????? And didn't finish the only witness??? Sure...

    • @cindyshirreffs2099
      @cindyshirreffs2099 24 дні тому +18

      ...And left the weapon...

    • @rabim106
      @rabim106 17 днів тому +7

      @@cindyshirreffs2099remember it was his weapon to begin with and the “intruder” used it.

    • @shelleynielsen6411
      @shelleynielsen6411 7 днів тому +4

      I thought the same thing like he’s just saying that out loud who says that who plays out what’s happening right in front of them out loud so cheesy

    • @marivipalomino6975
      @marivipalomino6975 3 дні тому +1

      He shouted so a neighbor could hear him and make everybody believe there was a third person. The neighbor however only heard one voice and saw nobody outside the house.

  • @Odanti
    @Odanti 28 днів тому +24

    I"m glad and happy Ann Bender was finally found not guilty. Costa Rica sounds like a scary place to live. Costa Rica won't stop pursuing Ann is
    because this woman has money, and Costa Rica wants it.
    Be careful if you have decided to move to Costa Rica!
    ❤️🙏❤️

    • @kaylaharper6222
      @kaylaharper6222 24 дні тому +11

      I thought the same thing! Did you see she had to pay taxes to get HER jewelry back? They sound so corrupt !

    • @casey5683
      @casey5683 9 днів тому +2

      I think so too. She should sell that house and never turn back

    • @Odanti
      @Odanti 9 днів тому +2

      @@casey5683 Exactly!!(

  • @akpokemon
    @akpokemon 29 днів тому +209

    i absolutely knew his "double life" was hooking up with guys as soon as they said he had a "double life". look at that face.

    • @Dana-ue9ss
      @Dana-ue9ss 28 днів тому +22

      Yea, just listening to him it's pretty clear what he was.

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d 27 днів тому +26

      EXACTLY!!! Just from looking at his face!! On top of that the plucked armpits!!! His voice!!!

    • @emghee2510
      @emghee2510 26 днів тому +8

      Yup.

    • @DeirdreRawlings
      @DeirdreRawlings 24 дні тому +8

      And his lawyer…

    • @mlane8560
      @mlane8560 23 дні тому +12

      Right! As soon as I started watching I'm like.... why is no one talking about his screaming sexuality... then was like... yep there it is. 😂

  • @myopinion5508
    @myopinion5508 29 днів тому +172

    Too many women got killed by their spouse ...I prefer to stay singel...and i need no house

    • @fionagregory9147
      @fionagregory9147 29 днів тому +19

      Yes single is best.

    • @heezypeasy8611
      @heezypeasy8611 29 днів тому +23

      Same. I've been single for almost 2 yrs. I was married from 2012 to 2019. Then, I dated someone from 2019 to 2022. Being single is a lot better. At least for me!

    • @user-lo7eo3nt6t
      @user-lo7eo3nt6t 29 днів тому

      Hey, sweetie girl! Check out all the men who have got murdered by their girlfriends or wives! You tube is full of these stories! 😮

    • @jstuplayer2282
      @jstuplayer2282 28 днів тому +13

      ​@@heezypeasy8611 I hear you. Please stay away from good men. They don't need selfish narcissists in their lives. You probably think you deserve a great man for some reason. Really? Maybe a good idea to ask yourself: What do you have to offer a great man? Any confident man worth anything won't waste their time with women who jump from relationship to relationship. Stay single and live with your cat. Don't complicate the life of a great man.

    • @kkkookie37
      @kkkookie37 28 днів тому +6

      You do need spelling and grammar lessons however.

  • @begladwme
    @begladwme 16 днів тому +15

    Excellent reporting on Ann Bender. This was an amazing story. Hats off to 48hours team. May God bless that poor woman who has lived so much trauma. May she heal to the best state possible. Oh, Ann! Im so sorry for all your suffering!
    Only Jesus can truly comfort you. May you find rest in Him & have true divine peace. He also suffered the keenest anguish. He also experienced brutal betrayal. Then, evil men, inspired by the prince of darkness, beat Him beyond recognition and then murd3ered the innocent Lamb of God, as His holy Father covered Him in supernatural darkness and stood beside His beloved Son, as His tortured body and supreme mental suffering took His pure life & He died on the Roman cross. But in His anguish, He was the victor in the Great Controversy. By faith, in the character of His Father, He cried out : Father, into Your ( holy loving hands) I commit My Spirit!. He had the victory by faith. The battle was won, for each & every one of us, by non violent selfless means. Only satan uses force. He lost. Now supernatural comfort can come to each one of us who is suffering. And the promise of eternal life where there is no more suffering, is sure, if you accept it as a completely free gift.
    May Ann find peace through our gentle Savior and each one of you reading this, that is suffering right now.
    If you have never read the Bible, please turn to the 4th chapter in the New Testament, The Book of John.
    You will find your best Friend there.

  • @gaslitworldf.melissab2897
    @gaslitworldf.melissab2897 25 днів тому +12

    It's a amazing how many people agree to take up a life with someone having so little information about them and no history. It's really sad that our desire for love sometimes makes us a bit stupid. And loss of life, OMG. That's just too much.

  • @LarryGoldenTalksLikeBuckwheat
    @LarryGoldenTalksLikeBuckwheat 29 днів тому +272

    I would imagine nobody was surprised about his sexual orientation after hearing the way he sounds when he cries

    • @laraoneal7284
      @laraoneal7284 29 днів тому +36

      So true. Hilarious 😂

    • @peaches79
      @peaches79 29 днів тому +40

      I thought it was a friend initially not husband, very obvious women are not his preference

    • @lindajean803
      @lindajean803 29 днів тому +8

      😆

    • @heezypeasy8611
      @heezypeasy8611 29 днів тому +47

      I had a feeling just by his mannerisms, and the crying sealed the deal 😂

    • @patriciaoreilly8907
      @patriciaoreilly8907 29 днів тому +7

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @suni.L
    @suni.L 29 днів тому +154

    The common denominator when some men call 911 in these situations... the weird crying 🚩

    • @yasemins1313
      @yasemins1313 29 днів тому +8

      I know, right! 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @patr70
      @patr70 29 днів тому +23

      The FAKE crying 🤨

    • @jrambo7495
      @jrambo7495 29 днів тому +7

      ​@@patr70💯

    • @Nook747
      @Nook747 29 днів тому +7

      Guilty

    • @heezypeasy8611
      @heezypeasy8611 29 днів тому +12

      The fake crying is so ridiculous and off-putting

  • @karendodson9136
    @karendodson9136 28 днів тому +11

    Excellent reporting, Erin!!! Thank you for bringing this to us!!!

  • @jeanarose9032
    @jeanarose9032 28 днів тому +15

    Never live in Costa Rica poor Ann has to go through this three times and plus she's 84lbs and looked like death and was in the hospital herself. Prayers to Ann.

    • @NC-ub9qy
      @NC-ub9qy 21 день тому

      what about justice for john?

    • @jeanarose9032
      @jeanarose9032 20 днів тому +4

      @@NC-ub9qy I agree for justice for John but Ann didn't do it and authorities can't just treat someone like a ping pong ball. Either find her guilty or not and stay with that. The end but still poor Ann for having to go through that.

    • @samking2094
      @samking2094 2 дні тому

      Ann killed him...

  • @angien1410
    @angien1410 29 днів тому +72

    They should stop giving defense attorneys some much of an air time. We get your point but yall annoying

    • @Love-pd8lz
      @Love-pd8lz 24 дні тому +5

      Fr it's all fun and games until its their family members, then you'll see them screaming at the top of their lungs

    • @Brendan-Black
      @Brendan-Black 23 дні тому +1

      are

    • @marivipalomino6975
      @marivipalomino6975 3 дні тому +2

      I totally agree, I dislike them as much as I dislike the criminals they are defending.

  • @cecillec2331
    @cecillec2331 29 днів тому +80

    He had Heidi calling 911 so he can shoot her while she was preoccupied talking to the 911 operator. If he did say, "You shot me and you shot her...", according to the neighbor, it was to make the neighbor think there was a third person in the house. It was a strange thing to say in the chaos of everything. He was creating an alibi for the neighbor to testify to.

    • @senses70
      @senses70 28 днів тому +1

      I found that the defence had good arguments that casted serious doubts on what the prosecution alleged about Nick. People react differently in highly stressful situations. And the sentencing was in my view disproportionate. But I wasn’t a judge in that courtroom…

    • @nuorigin
      @nuorigin 21 день тому +5

      No the neighbor just heard him on the phone with 911. He said the same thing

    • @dandydiavoless1473
      @dandydiavoless1473 14 днів тому

      EXACTLY what I thought

  • @lorricannon189
    @lorricannon189 23 дні тому +6

    Wow, I commented when I seen he remarried. I didn't realize someone was going to keep this investigation on the forefront! Great job to those investigators who knew better! Ontario, 🇨🇦

  • @racheljersey8247
    @racheljersey8247 24 дні тому +9

    If you hear that first 2 seconds of the 911 call.... my 9 year old could tell it was phony! Horrible 😢 rest in paradise 🙏

  • @RWRogers
    @RWRogers 29 днів тому +113

    Absolutely love these themed playlists. The best thing 48 Hours could’ve done, aside from going strong and performing well decades after launching back in 1988, is pull together episodes throughout its massive library and piece together these themed playlists. This is what I look forward to weekly now… along with the brand new episodes each weekend.

    • @BeaTrice10
      @BeaTrice10 28 днів тому +1

      I have a message that says 19 episodes are "hidden." Any idea why or how to access? Thank you.

    • @andyroid5028
      @andyroid5028 28 днів тому +4

      *_It's the only good show CBS has ever done._*

    • @musicmichi007
      @musicmichi007 8 днів тому

      Goes to show how many sick ppl there are to even have a show dedicated to it! It's sad to see we live in this kind of world.

    • @RWRogers
      @RWRogers 8 днів тому +1

      @@BeaTrice10it’s usually because of copyright issues or the uploader has chosen to keep or make them private. There’s no way to access without permission. P+ has full episodes and countless seasons available to stream. But these uploads are making most of them available here these days.

    • @RWRogers
      @RWRogers 8 днів тому +1

      @@musicmichi007Right? Dark, crazy world we live in! That’s for sure.

  • @sofia7374
    @sofia7374 29 днів тому +76

    Last story: a man who decides to shoot himself in the head, places his sleeping ear plugs in before bed and chooses to shoot himself while she is sleeping right next to him instead of a moment when she is not next to him? Got it.

    • @kaylavarela7215
      @kaylavarela7215 25 днів тому +15

      They were both severely depressed, he was dealing with suicidal ideation. You don’t care too much about who finds you, or where you do it once you’ve decided you’re absolutely doing it.

    • @erinhammel8177
      @erinhammel8177 20 днів тому

      I wasn’t buying Ann Bender’s story and fake crying throughout. She was also on a lot of meds and bipolar at the time of his death. She killed him.
      Her attitude and demeanor sure changed when she was first acquitted and at the end when she moved back to the states. She wasn’t the frail person she wanted you to believe.

    • @eerielconstantine5051
      @eerielconstantine5051 4 дні тому +2

      Im…pretty sure she killed him

  • @lisamareepritchard6375
    @lisamareepritchard6375 27 днів тому +9

    It’s shocking how the legal system works in Costa Rica, they were able to try Ann for the 3rd time omg 😱

  • @aaronblank2318
    @aaronblank2318 29 днів тому +212

    Not specifically regarding the first case, but it has always bothered me whenever police say it couldn't have been a burglary-gone-wrong because of valuable stuff not taken. The way I see it, if someone tries to rob a house, stumbles upon someone being there, fights them, and kills them, I think it would be very likely that the burglar (now murderer) would then flee as quickly as possible, abandoning plans to steal stuff.

    • @ruthysmith8953
      @ruthysmith8953 29 днів тому +18

      exactly

    • @taylormajors5677
      @taylormajors5677 29 днів тому +21

      Entering someone's home without their consent is a burglary charge regardless of anything being stolen.

    • @throwitatthewall6289
      @throwitatthewall6289 29 днів тому +20

      Burglary is: entering a dwelling with the intent to commit a crime. So no just entering a house is not burglary. That would be unlawful entry.

    • @c.2538
      @c.2538 29 днів тому +13

      @@taylormajors5677yeah but when they say it on these shows they mean burglary with intent to steal

    • @missmo463
      @missmo463 29 днів тому +14

      Same as when they clear someone bcs they had an alibi. Uhhhhh…. They could have had someone else do it?

  • @JK-gm6kk
    @JK-gm6kk 29 днів тому +68

    Bankrolling a house renovation that she didn't even own. He must have been a smooth talker to convince her of doing that for as long as he was able to. To say he didnt have a motive is crazy. Think I saw Mike in that chapter cover this one first

    • @JK-gm6kk
      @JK-gm6kk 29 днів тому +2

      Third story, I think I'd make the biggest animal rescue anyone's ever seen, if I had eff you money like that

    • @chrissieroxba2949
      @chrissieroxba2949 29 днів тому +5

      I remember Mike from That Chapter doing this story too.. it’s a sad one for sure!

  • @Georgino893
    @Georgino893 28 днів тому +10

    Seeing these family members try to paint these psychos as “good people” drives me insane. So crazy how she was shot in the back with a shotgun, when he admitted he had his shotgun & sent her down in front of him?! And they ALWAYS shoot or stab themselves in a some non lethal way to try to make them seem like victims too. Like you really mean to tell me “the guy who broke in” shot her in the back but only grazed the husbands leg with a shot? Absolutely not. I’ve never instantly known someone was guilty until that second story. So many trash murderers who almost get away with it bc “they’re so nice and sweet!” Or “omg they’re a good person! He doesn’t *look* like a murderer” 🙄 murderers don’t look any certain way. It’s *almost always* the ones you least expect. Good lord.

  • @ronnetteharvey2002
    @ronnetteharvey2002 25 днів тому +8

    My mother told me to stay away from charmers. ... I have.

  • @hashem26962
    @hashem26962 29 днів тому +56

    He should've done less renovation and spent more time watching these 48 Hour episodes!!

    • @HumanityInCrisis
      @HumanityInCrisis 10 днів тому

      😅🙈🙈🙈 true but 😮😮

    • @hashem26962
      @hashem26962 8 днів тому

      @@HumanityInCrisis I meant as a deterrent not as a source of inspiration 😁

  • @gardenplots283
    @gardenplots283 29 днів тому +139

    Men always come up with the stupidest stories. "Someone was breaking in so I loaded the gun and told my wife to go ahead of me." Sure. That makes as much sense as when a man says his wife left him after they had an argument but left her car, her keys, her purse and her phone.

    • @senses70
      @senses70 28 днів тому +1

      I found that the defence had good arguments that casted serious doubts on what the prosecution alleged about Nick. People react differently in highly stressful situations. And the sentencing was in my view disproportionate. But I wasn’t a judge in that courtroom…

    • @bevcamren1316
      @bevcamren1316 28 днів тому

      Good point, garden plot

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d 27 днів тому +2

      @@senses70 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you should work on your discerning capabilities.

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d 27 днів тому +4

      @@senses70 the way you defend him by making so many comments under this video, is very odd.. are you related to him or do you find him attractive?

    • @tiahenry4743
      @tiahenry4743 27 днів тому

      Chris Watts.

  • @getin3949
    @getin3949 27 днів тому +12

    He was a billionaire and their bed looks like an Ikea knockoff. Ugly and didn't even fit the room as far as decor. Weird!!

  • @paulj0557tonehead
    @paulj0557tonehead 9 днів тому +2

    This dual episode should be called. "Record Your Every Move! Trust Nobody."

  • @bonnieboyz
    @bonnieboyz 29 днів тому +112

    “How lucky am I? I get to have lunch with the two most beautiful women I know!” 🙄 He obviously only knew only one woman! Not charming Dear, just manipulatively insincere! 🤨🙈

    • @firetakesall8000
      @firetakesall8000 29 днів тому +8

      Not many women want to know him so his options are limited

  • @dorothyspeaks6997
    @dorothyspeaks6997 29 днів тому +88

    I love a good marathon on a weekend 😍😍 Spaghetti and 48 hours mystery. #winning

  • @JoanaSousaLopes
    @JoanaSousaLopes 9 днів тому +3

    His attorney saying “we all react to stress and grief differently” but crying for 8 hours without a single tear coming out of your eyes like the police detective said? Who cries for hours and has no tears?

  • @Godwins47
    @Godwins47 29 днів тому +120

    That "crying" 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
    😔😔😔

    • @maryc1849
      @maryc1849 29 днів тому +8

      Yessss!! 🙉

    • @tartaninka
      @tartaninka 29 днів тому +10

      ...so pathetic 🎉😮🎉😊

    • @jeannerountree952
      @jeannerountree952 29 днів тому +14

      That was suspicious to me as well. It does seem suspect. Everyone is different but I think most men don't cry like that.

    • @laraoneal7284
      @laraoneal7284 29 днів тому +5

      Yep🤨🤨

    • @b.visconti1765
      @b.visconti1765 29 днів тому +7

      The guy had $300,000 in the bank so his lawyer had every reason to tell David he could get him off..probably charging him 150,000-200,000..😢

  • @latinaalma1947
    @latinaalma1947 29 днів тому +68

    Re Costa Rica....I built a home in a different Central American country. And it is paradise BUT building something on that scale is a tremendous temptation to others. The more you have the more a target you are.

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 26 днів тому +11

      I think that's exactly why there was trial after trial. A lot of money/jewels at stake. And the taxes.

    • @TharaLetzISLANDER
      @TharaLetzISLANDER 24 дні тому

      Right?

    • @Tobymare
      @Tobymare 24 дні тому +4

      @@cdes1776She did finally get her jewels back.

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 23 дні тому

      @@Tobymare Yes, I heard that ... 😊 thanks

    • @mwituamweene9850
      @mwituamweene9850 23 дні тому +9

      She got away with it.

  • @mmaemserna9696
    @mmaemserna9696 26 днів тому +9

    My Sister died.when I got the News I CRIED MY HEART OUT I HOLLERED AT GOD I HOLLERED AT MY SIS then returned to hollering at GOD again. Then I HEARD HIM SAY”go to your Bible open it to THESSLONIANS 4:16 I read it says,Those who died In Christ Shall meet Those in CHRIST will be with each other again. So I was comforted. Since then I only cry in private CAUSE I miss so much,but at her Funeral I could not Cry. For my Brother too can’t cry We’re All born again I will see them again GODS PROMISE.

  • @wolfwolf-sr6he
    @wolfwolf-sr6he 27 днів тому +12

    When you see the photos of Dave with his both of his wifes you instantly feel they not matching very good. I was not surprised he was leading a double life and was member of the "Orlando Club".

  • @melinapaixao82
    @melinapaixao82 29 днів тому +93

    I’m so sorry for the last woman, Ann Bender. I struggle with depression and it’s a very strange ideation. There is no logic, there is no typical way, the state of mind is just wrong. There’s nothing usual or unusual to it. It’s just a deep sadness, like you are dead but they forgot to bury you. I hope she can heal from this excruciating tragedy

    • @danitaharris9919
      @danitaharris9919 26 днів тому +5

      I'm so sorry you have felt that way. It sounds like you're living in a nightmare from hell. I hope you have got help and are truly at peace and happy🕊️

    • @bbe3034
      @bbe3034 25 днів тому +2

      My doctor prescribed Pristiq for me, and it really helps. I’m not sure if I spelled it correctly but this how it’s pronounced. Hope you get better soon.🥰

  • @patriciapuchelt4663
    @patriciapuchelt4663 29 днів тому +31

    You don’t spend a dime on something you don’t have your name on…. Love or no love. My spouse and I share absolutely everything and it has never been a question about it, we agree on most things and when we don’t, we compromise like adults. We also don’t have secrets and maybe thats why we have been happy and functional for almost 20 yrs. Marriage is not perfect but its work just like all else in life. Be transparent people!

    • @brooklyn8760
      @brooklyn8760 21 день тому

      Never took a grammar class, ay?

  • @New_Zealand_1
    @New_Zealand_1 27 днів тому +9

    Why did nobody notice that he was Gay? Its obvious by his body language and voice and clothes 😳

  • @michaellafleur15
    @michaellafleur15 27 днів тому +7

    Mrs Bender has no tears.

  • @LeahHa8
    @LeahHa8 29 днів тому +58

    “He slept next to me and I slept next to him.” 😂

  • @heather-cz8yk
    @heather-cz8yk 29 днів тому +47

    Thank you to Rachel for coming forward.

    • @ninaballerina2807
      @ninaballerina2807 21 день тому +1

      Yes, Rachel has been remarkable with her intuitions and self-preservation skills, thanks to which her kids are not motherless today. Not to forget how she did not refrain from withholding very crucial information/evidence which finally helped clinch the case against the pretentious scumbag and brought some semblance of justice to a very trusting Heidi.

  • @getin3949
    @getin3949 27 днів тому +9

    It's sad that the rain forest house (silo) looked so depressing from the outside and black everywhere in the kitchen??? You would want uplifting colors if you have a propensity for depression. I think it's ugly myself and I do like a/c, A LOT!! Rainforest conditions are hot and sticky.

  • @maryshade9728
    @maryshade9728 28 днів тому +5

    I am still doubting Anne Bender. The evidence is saying something completely different than what she said.

  • @InteriorDesignStudent
    @InteriorDesignStudent 29 днів тому +89

    I love the opening music so much.

    • @stuartstobhill
      @stuartstobhill 29 днів тому +12

      me too. it should win a grammy, its perfect.

    • @saralyinn0519
      @saralyinn0519 29 днів тому +11

      LOL! Strange to find this comment. I was just "dada-dada-da"-ing to it a few minutes ago. I love it, too!

    • @fionagregory9147
      @fionagregory9147 29 днів тому +6

      In UK we don't drink water from the bathroom. Only kitchen water is drinkable.

    • @fionagregory9147
      @fionagregory9147 29 днів тому +3

      In UK we say life and soul of the party, not just life.

    • @fionagregory9147
      @fionagregory9147 29 днів тому +4

      In UK we say holidays not vacations.

  • @DeboraHolland-ei2yq
    @DeboraHolland-ei2yq 29 днів тому +27

    You don't "think someone grabbed the barrel" if you're being attacked. You know. This guy is a bad liar.

  • @carolmitchell6155
    @carolmitchell6155 25 днів тому +6

    Be wary of a person accused of a crime who keeps using the word "absolutely" in every sentence. Every time I have seen this they are guilty!

  • @ninaballerina8136
    @ninaballerina8136 27 днів тому +19

    Anne Bender cries and cries.
    And walks on 6 inch stilettos with a walking stick in hand😂😂😂😂

    • @missquiles
      @missquiles 24 дні тому +2

      She did it

    • @monitawit8173
      @monitawit8173 23 дні тому +4

      @@missquiles I really don’t know if she did it, but if my husband kept talking about killing himself day after day like she said I would try my best to get him help.
      Also, this is a woman diagnosed with a bipolar depression. I would assume someone like that would go into even bigger depression instead she got herself a new boyfriend…🤔

    • @karolinaszczudlo9871
      @karolinaszczudlo9871 10 днів тому +2

      Yes, this is wired alright, I'm trying not to judge on shows like this based on shallow things like that, or body language, cause it can be indeed not a reliable tool, but something was off

  • @beachfeetgirl9824
    @beachfeetgirl9824 25 днів тому +36

    Why are some women blinded by love ?? If you have a gut feeling about something , you’re USUALLY RIGHT!!

  • @therealdachshunddjangosmom
    @therealdachshunddjangosmom 28 днів тому +26

    Nothing else is more convincing Heidi did in fact NOT know about the eviction, than nothing being prepared, no boxes being packed not even personal belongings were sampled. She did not know. Period.

  • @randi_with_an-i_
    @randi_with_an-i_ 29 днів тому +37

    How did she not know he was gay?

    • @Elena-fe3os
      @Elena-fe3os 28 днів тому +7

      Maybe he was bisexual.

    • @bevcamren1316
      @bevcamren1316 27 днів тому +9

      He was a good actor to get what he wanted...there are many out to get money from whomever they can manipulate

    • @smilebigiloveyou
      @smilebigiloveyou 25 днів тому +6

      Sadly a lot of women are in that position

    • @lelemurray5320
      @lelemurray5320 15 днів тому +3

      @@Elena-fe3osnah he was Gay and used women to keep his secret.

  • @rosemadder5547
    @rosemadder5547 23 дні тому +4

    I would be mortified if my emails doting on my future murderer were on TV... What a disgrace to do to a person that's passed.

  • @nicholasschoonbeck6866
    @nicholasschoonbeck6866 28 днів тому +6

    The story of the rich couple is a great illustration of how rich people think, both brilliant ideas but often very selfish & arrogant, & a good illustration of why people should use therapists & shrinks.

  • @michellemck4108
    @michellemck4108 29 днів тому +44

    His cry, OMG, pitiful!!!

    • @bevcamren1316
      @bevcamren1316 27 днів тому

      You can always tell when no real tears in interviews but lots of fake sobs

  • @Falconer22
    @Falconer22 29 днів тому +160

    A beautiful house? Who tf is she kidding? It looks like a run down Mexican restaurant that was built as a joke.

    • @Janadu
      @Janadu 29 днів тому +24

      I've seen playhouses with a "No Gurlz Aloud" sign on the door that were better looking than that sorry waste of lumber and stucco. Even the gargoyles look embarrassed.

    • @IhaveMy0pinion
      @IhaveMy0pinion 29 днів тому +8

      Tell it how it is 🤪😁🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

    • @gradyjones9678
      @gradyjones9678 29 днів тому +31

      I thought the exterior of the house was beautiful. Sadly, it sounds like he didn't know what he was doing. And by taking out the interior foundation of the house, he rendered it structurally unsound.

    • @missyann7588
      @missyann7588 29 днів тому +5

      @@Janadu
      Or “he-man woman haterz club”…but yeah. I agree. I built better shelters at 6 years old with things I found in my dad’s shop. Lol😂

    • @zephyrcalm9717
      @zephyrcalm9717 28 днів тому +4

      he did it deliberately to drain her of money. something shady going on here. he allegedly stashed away quite a large sum in his joint account with ex wife. no idea where that money came from.

  • @tracesee681
    @tracesee681 27 днів тому +6

    Third case… I don’t think she killed him. The independent experts hired by 48 had the most plausible description of what likely happened.

  • @THEBIGLIE20
    @THEBIGLIE20 27 днів тому +5

    I keep falling asleep and mixing these stories all up. I start over and same thing happens. My adderral is not what it once was

  • @Chooge
    @Chooge 23 дні тому +19

    That isn’t charming. Saying “How lucky am I to be having lunch with two of the most beautiful women I know?” is vomit inducing and an obvious attempt to b.s. and it worked like a charm. Why can women not see through that? I am female and it screams red flag.

    • @ksf9729
      @ksf9729 12 днів тому

      Yes! Thinking the same. 😬

  • @deforestshields4612
    @deforestshields4612 29 днів тому +32

    I don't understand why a husband would let his wife lead 5he way to the door, when you think you all about to get robbery, and you are the one with the gun, uf it was me,im telling my wife call 911 ,and im going down there by myself, because i don't wont nothing to happen to my wife #big#facts####