The Disappearance of Maddi Kingsbury | Full Episode

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  • @48hours
    @48hours  Місяць тому +116

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  • @infinitybless7132
    @infinitybless7132 Місяць тому +3303

    Adam’s sister is delusional.

    • @sharonmickey
      @sharonmickey Місяць тому +116

      I posted the same thing.... total denial. :(

    • @lowee333able
      @lowee333able Місяць тому +207

      150% delusional at that

    • @confidentminaj
      @confidentminaj Місяць тому +234

      Right I can’t believe she was seeing someone’s behind my brother back
      The brother:(abusive) 🫠

    • @drewbranch7700
      @drewbranch7700 Місяць тому +32

      @@confidentminajexactly!

    • @erikaxchristine
      @erikaxchristine Місяць тому +120

      I knew it when she kept making him the “victim”. Disgusting

  • @alglavic8475
    @alglavic8475 Місяць тому +2549

    Never tell an abuser what your intentions are. Leaving quietly will save your life. Rip Maddi.❤

    • @alglavic8475
      @alglavic8475 Місяць тому +121

      @@user-zj7tu1gi3q It doesn't matter,she didn't deserve to be murdered.

    • @n.g.l.
      @n.g.l. Місяць тому +49

      Right! For them that’s a loss of control and that makes them more dangerous.

    • @monicarenee7949
      @monicarenee7949 Місяць тому +86

      @@user-zj7tu1gi3q were they even together? They weren’t married so that’s not adultery anyway. Seems more of a roommate situation and she wanted to see other people. Regardless no reason to take her away from their kids.

    • @alglavic8475
      @alglavic8475 Місяць тому

      @@MMAMike22 women just need to get in line so the guy in their life doesn't end up killing them. You do realise that men don't own women and vice versa. That guy was never normal.

    • @plasticjesus444
      @plasticjesus444 Місяць тому +37

      @@MMAMike22what a disgusting thing to say

  • @jackfitzpatrick8173
    @jackfitzpatrick8173 29 днів тому +171

    Missing woman + scratches on the husband's face + blatant threats = you've found the killer.

    • @ailyyang5982
      @ailyyang5982 2 дні тому

      People make blatant threats all of the time.

    • @sarahwolfe3692
      @sarahwolfe3692 День тому +1

      @@ailyyang5982yeah but when you combine that with a missing spouse and injuries on the spouse that’s still around…

  • @angeldip5797
    @angeldip5797 24 дні тому +145

    My ex fiancé violently attacked me one evening, slamming me to the ground on my face and held me down screaming at me at the top of his lungs, keeping my phone away from me, wouldn't let me get up, leave his sight or leave the house etc.
    He had NEVER before even raised his voice to me, he was wonderful, I loved him deeply, my family loved him, we all trusted him completely and had known him almost 20 years.
    I could have let it go, after all I had felt partially responsible for pushing him too far that night and it could have been chocked up to a "one time thing" but I knew deep down I HAD TO LEAVE. That broke my heart but I knew the statistics and now I was truly terrified and traumatized.
    So, I played it cool with him but told my therapist, friends and family, found an apartment, packed up and left the following week during the day while he was at work.
    We cannot mess around when it comes to things like this. It's hard to leave the one you love and the life you built but when they lay violent hands on you, it has to be GAME OVER, the *first time* , period! This is the ultimate "deal breaker".
    Stay safe. Not just the ladies either, men are vulnerable to DV too and it can and does escalate quickly. Life is too precious and too short. 🙏🏼🩵🙏🏼

    • @GM-ue8xc
      @GM-ue8xc 17 днів тому +5

      So glad you are safe! You’re brave for leaving! Did he ever try to find you?

    • @jessiec4128
      @jessiec4128 16 днів тому +1

      So sorry you had to experience such horrible treatment. I hope you are doing much better today.

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 15 днів тому +5

      Well, if he never even raised his voice and you pushed him, you destroyed a perfectly good relationship!!

    • @Thecaptain666
      @Thecaptain666 15 днів тому +10

      @@mistersniffer6838
      What a ridiculous thing to say. You obviously have very different standards of behaviour to the vast majority of right-thinking people. You need to have a good, long look in the mirror…

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 14 днів тому +6

      @@Thecaptain666 - Okay, sherlock, if he never even so much as raised his voice, why now? Thats something OUT of character. Other people/things make you go out of character, you just dont "go" out of character.
      I bet she was cheeeting and didnt want to tell us the whole story!!

  • @stephaniediego4068
    @stephaniediego4068 Місяць тому +1121

    Adam’s sister is the WORST!!! “He let her get her degree” LET. Just shows how terrible is family is.

    • @rethabilenxumalo9742
      @rethabilenxumalo9742 Місяць тому +67

      That part! She's a monster just like her brother😒

    • @mmeettwwoo
      @mmeettwwoo Місяць тому +43

      Adams family.

    • @RaquelGarcia-gb9pu
      @RaquelGarcia-gb9pu Місяць тому +26

      Systemic

    • @MsSonali1980
      @MsSonali1980 Місяць тому +47

      The constant "He never would hurt her" made me so angry. Like, woman, he did hurt her, he hit her, he choked her, he threatened her with killing her, your argument is false. She doesn't even acknowledge that he was a violent partner. And get me lost, with the two sides of the story devil's advocatery. If they deep inside know that he killed her, they also think she provoked it. What utter despicable beings that whole family is.

    • @pettykittyfam
      @pettykittyfam Місяць тому +28

      "Let" yep I've been in controlling relationships & they come from controlling families.
      Absolutely disgusting
      His sister is delusional.
      I normally give grace but shes insufferable!

  • @einienj3281
    @einienj3281 Місяць тому +667

    "You'll adjust"....What a pos!

    • @Nikki_with_the_blikki
      @Nikki_with_the_blikki Місяць тому +98

      RIGHT!?
      37:36 _"We were treated like we were delusional. He would never harm Maddi"_
      That's because y'all are delusional! That text - "you'll adjust" alone confirms that yes, he would harm her🤦🏾‍♀️ c'mon!

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 Місяць тому +80

      @@Nikki_with_the_blikki Exactly. "You'll adjust -to being abused in front of the children"...that is some sick sh*t ..

    • @Marlaina
      @Marlaina Місяць тому +35

      But it was all a joke.....seems to be the go to excuse

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Місяць тому +51

      total violent narc. couldn't pull his weight and took it out on her.

    • @paramilitarypandemic7098
      @paramilitarypandemic7098 Місяць тому +5

      She did adjust

  • @JudgeDredd_
    @JudgeDredd_ 29 днів тому +125

    Telling a guy who chokes and beats you that you’re leaving him for another guy is probably not the best move.

    • @Bese2
      @Bese2 22 дні тому +3

      I mean why? Why would you💔

    • @OsceolaNola7
      @OsceolaNola7 20 днів тому +1

      She cheated

    • @herowrex9937
      @herowrex9937 20 днів тому +1

      @@OsceolaNola7no she didn’t they made it seem like but she didn’t Ik Spenser personally

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 19 днів тому

      @@OsceolaNola7that’s like stating one variable of a very involved dimensional analysis equation…one variable doesn’t say much. Learn to be able to consider life has way more complexity than a dualistic and limited mindset.

    • @rhondadavis1483
      @rhondadavis1483 19 днів тому

      @@herowrex9937Spencer literally admits it in the video.

  • @laurahykes9206
    @laurahykes9206 Місяць тому +110

    HE KILLED HER!!! The fact that his family is supporting him!!! So sorry Maddi, may you RIP 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @damkegunner2414
    @damkegunner2414 Місяць тому +709

    It would be nice to see one episode where the killers family just accepts the fact that their family member is a psychopath.

    • @NefariousEvildoer
      @NefariousEvildoer Місяць тому +46

      Unfortunately, it's easier to live in that river in Egypt than to face the fact your relative is a murderer.

    • @moonstar7775
      @moonstar7775 Місяць тому +25

      It follows the same thought that everyone goes to heaven when they die. So far, I have never read an obituary stating that someone went straight to haides!

    • @michaelmastro9382
      @michaelmastro9382 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@NefariousEvildoerwhat can of evil are you doing......are you in a 48 hours video?

    • @m.alexander5355
      @m.alexander5355 Місяць тому +6

      Remember they don't know that person. Suspicious sometimes but people are definitely different per relationship. Accepting that was another part of them good or bad is key. No one Is all they seem in my life exerperince

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Місяць тому

      Yes

  • @caylajay7532
    @caylajay7532 Місяць тому +1570

    The sister being “shocked to hear Maddie was dating Spencer behind her brothers back” hits a nerve with me - ok, how “shocked” were you when you found out your brother had abused Maddie, and killed the mother of his children??

    • @aparnarajesh
      @aparnarajesh Місяць тому +52

      i feel sorry for spencer and megan and but adam's family are still delusional

    • @tranquility9325
      @tranquility9325 Місяць тому +65

      ​@@aparnarajesh they really are severely delusional. I guess him slapping her in the face on a video call and threatening to make her like Gabby Petito is normal to them😮

    • @Laurah88
      @Laurah88 Місяць тому +7

      This!!!

    • @79Bobola
      @79Bobola Місяць тому +57

      THANK YOU! It reminded me of Chris Watt’s mother when they interviewed her, she spent the whole fricken interview bashing Shannan, and I’m like, so you’re fine with your golden boy strangling her and your grandchildren??? Victim blaming at it’s ugliest tbh.

    • @estherdmartinez1346
      @estherdmartinez1346 Місяць тому +7

      ​@79Bobola she even had strong supporters doing it on the internet too it was disgusting I had to moved on from all that

  • @ZaryasBestFriend
    @ZaryasBestFriend 29 днів тому +42

    --Adam chokes Maddie, slaps her, and threatens her life
    --Adam's sister: "My brother would never do anything to harm Maddi."
    You can't make this level of delusion up.

    • @SteveDrenser
      @SteveDrenser 9 днів тому

      hes innocent homie was set up by spenser

    • @TheSpiritRoom23
      @TheSpiritRoom23 7 днів тому +2

      @@SteveDrenseru must be just as delusional…

  • @moonlightmelodiesasmr3766
    @moonlightmelodiesasmr3766 29 днів тому +20

    “We were treated like we were delusional.” I WONDER WHY

  • @TawnyC_
    @TawnyC_ Місяць тому +2638

    His sister so proud that he MANNED up, he went and got a JOB, he LET Maddie finish college...then loses his job during Covid and never bothers to get another one, the kids go to daycare, and he contributes a big fat nothing to the household.

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Місяць тому +187

      yeah they are completely delusional. and they know it. which means they are just tryna protect.

    • @bln8285
      @bln8285 Місяць тому +239

      +1. she was doing clinical research at mayo clinic and working on advanced degrees? he didn't "let" her finish studying, he was hoping for a meal ticket

    • @scroogemcduckrich9705
      @scroogemcduckrich9705 Місяць тому +322

      imagine kids going to daycare when a parent doesn’t work my wife would drop kick me

    • @christinap-c
      @christinap-c Місяць тому +172

      But never married Maddie. Such a man.

    • @rachaelobryan2411
      @rachaelobryan2411 Місяць тому +67

      Right, like any of that was an excuse to harm her! I doubt she told him to quit school.

  • @flapjackbickle645
    @flapjackbickle645 Місяць тому +668

    Police: "The first 24 hours are the most crucial in an investigation".
    Police: "You'll need to wait 24 hours before we do anything".
    More flawless logic from our finest.

    • @michelleMYHELL5244
      @michelleMYHELL5244 Місяць тому +36

      That is changing in most states thank GOd

    • @adriennem7927
      @adriennem7927 Місяць тому +3

      Atleast you don't have to wait for cops to search. They are gonna be in same position, where do we start from.

    • @TamiraHines-gd5ti
      @TamiraHines-gd5ti Місяць тому +8

      Exactly my thoughts each time I watch these stories pertaining to missing persons smh like something has to change!!! Especially for kids 13and under they should not have to be missing for 24hrs,not at all!!

    • @sprinkdesign7170
      @sprinkdesign7170 Місяць тому +7

      Not the case in the UK thankfully.

    • @jimwednt1229
      @jimwednt1229 29 днів тому +8

      Yeah that old system needs to change with the times.
      The average American nowadays has a phone and can call and check around for where their missing friend or family member is in minutes and determine if the person is really missing.
      Where as decades ago people were not nearly as connected and checking with friends and family took almost all day and the person would be found safe at a friend's house asleep or something. Thats why there was the 24 hour rule.
      Police resources were "wasted" by worried parents whose kids were just late getting home. Most of the time!

  • @justlynsey8778
    @justlynsey8778 21 день тому +14

    Her best friend breaking down on her porch made me break down 😭 such a heartbreaking story of a beautiful young woman

  • @janettemcdonough1156
    @janettemcdonough1156 Місяць тому +27

    His sister, get a grip...YOUR BROTHER KILLED MADDIE !!!!! She says 'He would not do anything to the mother of his kids' BUT, a friend witnessed him slapping her across the face and reported it to the police !!!!! HE financially didn't support the woman he was meant to love !!!
    HIS SISTER NEEDS TO SHOW SOME BLOODY RESPECT TO MADDIE'S FAMILY, AND THE BROTHER ' THERE'S ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO A STORY' HE IS 100% DELUSIONAL 🤬🤬🤬

    • @divine_mortality
      @divine_mortality 7 днів тому

      What can anyone expect from someone who looks like they eat people weekly. His sister needs to be investigated.

  • @Ana_17319
    @Ana_17319 Місяць тому +1086

    To everyone, please never tell your spouse that you are leaving him. Do it quietly and make sure you find a place to stay where you know he can't find you.

    • @thelords3394
      @thelords3394 Місяць тому +43

      Particularly if he’s violent.

    • @lanabuehrer5616
      @lanabuehrer5616 Місяць тому +13

      That’s bull crap! Majority are not violent .

    • @MMMmyshawarma
      @MMMmyshawarma Місяць тому +21

      @@lanabuehrer5616 Think you need to run, now.

    • @Ana_17319
      @Ana_17319 Місяць тому

      But they can become violent in a split second. ​@@lanabuehrer5616

    • @stee8345
      @stee8345 Місяць тому +11

      Crazy thing is--they weren't even married. He must have had some sort of supernatural hold on her...

  • @josestephaniedaniel8253
    @josestephaniedaniel8253 Місяць тому +813

    Ladies you don’t tell people you’re leaving because it’s the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship, you just leave

    • @moonie9000
      @moonie9000 Місяць тому +31

      If you're in an abusive relationship then leave. Don't cheat and then leave. Just leave. Cheating on an abuser is absolutely dumb - just get the f out of there.

    • @sunshine1221
      @sunshine1221 29 днів тому +33

      ​@@moonie9000in this case, I think it was the new relationship that gave her the strength and courage to leave the unhealthy relationship.

    • @moonie9000
      @moonie9000 29 днів тому +20

      @@sunshine1221 she couldn't have been that scared of him if she was gonna cheat. Just leave.

    • @kayblinky
      @kayblinky 29 днів тому +18

      @@moonie9000you don’t know that though. You don’t know how a lot of these situations work.

    • @talex1625
      @talex1625 28 днів тому +5

      ​@sunshine1221 in this case, it was the new relationship that likely got her killed.

  • @fievelknievel8283
    @fievelknievel8283 Місяць тому +13

    Adam's Sister: "We were just treated like we were delusional."
    You are. He's guilty. The moment an abuser puts his hands around their victim's neck it's only a matter of time before the abuser kills their victim.

  • @PinkGrammarGirl
    @PinkGrammarGirl Місяць тому +19

    Oh, his sister know. "He would never do such a thing," followed by one of the hardest lip retractions I've ever seen...she knows deep down.

  • @cali.girllivinnnevada8
    @cali.girllivinnnevada8 Місяць тому +437

    FYI: Dear Adam’s family; Cadaver dogs are specifically trained to sniff out human decomposition not animal or etc.

    • @melb1215
      @melb1215 Місяць тому +14

      Right! 😂

    • @religiohominilupus5259
      @religiohominilupus5259 Місяць тому +7

      True; however, they don't always get it right.

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 Місяць тому +5

      Absolutely 💯 😅

    • @StofStuiver
      @StofStuiver Місяць тому +4

      Thats not true.
      Cadaver dogs also alert on dead animals, even if solely trained on human remains.

    • @cali.girllivinnnevada8
      @cali.girllivinnnevada8 Місяць тому +18

      @@StofStuiver no they don’t.

  • @suebila9702
    @suebila9702 Місяць тому +1179

    The first time your partner lays his or her hand you, let that be a warning and leave.

    • @veganbutcherhackepeter
      @veganbutcherhackepeter Місяць тому +28

      The abuse usually starts before this and that's when you grab your stuff and the kids and leave.

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Місяць тому +23

      esp. like that. unbelievable. i don't care what the reason. hands on you ,time to go.

    • @teemo2mill
      @teemo2mill Місяць тому +29

      It's not that simple which is why so many women are murdered. They say the most dangerous time is when you tell your partner ur leaving so never tell them. But like I said it really is not that simple.

    • @mya200014
      @mya200014 Місяць тому +24

      The sad thing is there is a woman right now watching this story who is choosing to ignore the signs and will land up in some precarious situations as well.

    • @chaddobson7056
      @chaddobson7056 Місяць тому +3

      Exactly!

  • @richardlippincott8881
    @richardlippincott8881 Місяць тому +22

    I think it is wonderful when one sees communities coming out to help the Police and family when searching for missing members.

    • @trixi1608
      @trixi1608 19 днів тому +1

      It's hardly ever effective though.

  • @charlewalker3608
    @charlewalker3608 Місяць тому +14

    His sister is absolutely delusional. Adam is totally guilty

  • @claireboudreaux4318
    @claireboudreaux4318 Місяць тому +967

    His siblings are disgusting. How can you defend someone who literally threatened to make someone end up like GP? 😡

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Місяць тому +10

      thank u.

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl Місяць тому +43

      And also try to shift blame back on to Spencer. They are bad news like their brother.

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Місяць тому +10

      They’re pick mes that’s what they do. This is the final boss form of a pick me that’s why they should get all the shame they can get

    • @OutWestRedDirt
      @OutWestRedDirt Місяць тому +15

      Very creepy family.

    • @moonstar7775
      @moonstar7775 Місяць тому

      Delusion to it's max degree!

  • @LotsofLisa
    @LotsofLisa Місяць тому +1128

    There isn’t a woman on this planet who would think GP’s case is a joke… It’s a threat.

    • @okotbryan2011
      @okotbryan2011 Місяць тому +53

      The GP case is nothing to joke about, Adam meant to recreate one of his own and did lie it was a joke

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Місяць тому +43

      there isn't a sane human that would think the gp case was a joke.

    • @traviscoates6878
      @traviscoates6878 Місяць тому +5

      I've heard many funny jokes in regards to the GP case ...Enter Shane Gillis

    • @elefent4642
      @elefent4642 Місяць тому +8

      what is gp?

    • @christinap-c
      @christinap-c Місяць тому +11

      @@traviscoates6878But he’s not funny.

  • @oregonscratchers9694
    @oregonscratchers9694 25 днів тому +11

    Ballsy to not only cheat on an abuser, but then to tell them about it. That’s an exercise in poor judgment even on a great day.. I do not understand people’s lack of caution in what people are capable of..

  • @JoanTarpley-hx9sh
    @JoanTarpley-hx9sh 21 день тому +6

    His sister is so cringe! "He allowed her to continue her education." Say WHAT?? Girl, you need to keep that trap of yours shut. "He manned up." The hell he did! He used her as a meal ticket and a punching bag. When a violent relationship ends, get as far away from him as possible and DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH THE MONSTER! You simply MUST make a clean break.

  • @heyspeckle8782
    @heyspeckle8782 Місяць тому +626

    "He would never harm Maddie" Lady, he literally hit her in the face while she facetimed. He wasn't even trying to hide it

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Місяць тому +20

      My thoughts exactly.
      Does she have amnesia or something that she would forget about his violent history?

    • @adriennem7927
      @adriennem7927 Місяць тому +13

      It's not about his sister! They all knew at poor maddys family, EVERYONE. They continued to let her stay with him.. I would have made her. You gonna go around, " if I'm gone, Adam did it" you should take the help handed. And as a mom , I would have made her come home, for the sake of her babies and me..

    • @FidgetyGuy
      @FidgetyGuy Місяць тому +6

      Adam is evil. Maddie was evil. The sisters and friends are evil. The parents are evil. Are there any good people in this story?

    • @sunshine1221
      @sunshine1221 29 днів тому

      👏👏👏I totally agree. Parents should take their daughters away from such abusers and not allow them to return. Sometimes you have to move to another city so that the person doesn’t find you.@@adriennem7927

    • @lillyyoung9644
      @lillyyoung9644 29 днів тому +2

      Exactly my thoughts!

  • @PettyLabelle
    @PettyLabelle Місяць тому +232

    The family of the killer “ WE WERE TREATED LIKE WE WERE DELUSIONAL “ ….: because yall are

    • @L.D.Intheditch
      @L.D.Intheditch 25 днів тому +17

      They are worse than delusional. They are complicit enablers.

    • @irism4101
      @irism4101 17 днів тому

      A dead raccoon 😆😆🤡 nice try

  • @PinkGrammarGirl
    @PinkGrammarGirl Місяць тому +12

    Seeing him come to get their kids and petting the dog, knowing his just murdered their mother...ugh, haunting.

    • @littlegirllost2654
      @littlegirllost2654 8 годин тому

      I thought I was the only one who caught that. He was able to be so cool and casual after a heinous incident

  • @consolacionarguzon469
    @consolacionarguzon469 Місяць тому +13

    I cried watching this video. I hope and pray that she’ll be in peace and that justice will prevail. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @jessjacobs2738
    @jessjacobs2738 Місяць тому +533

    Adam's siblings are horrible. ESPECIALLY the sister. As a WOMAN, to sit and defend someone who "jokes" about Gabby case that is a suspect to murdering his GF.. absolutely atrocious. She's absolutely lost her mind.

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz Місяць тому +5

      I as a woman can never defend a cheater

    • @solidway
      @solidway Місяць тому +15

      ​​@@elorah-sh1ozthink a minute. think deep and hard about your values as a human being and then come back and tell us if you really think that this is an appropriate comment in this situation

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz Місяць тому +2

      @@solidway you can't break someone's trust and your marriage and not expect consequences.

    • @Dontcomeformepeople
      @Dontcomeformepeople Місяць тому +10

      @@elorah-sh1ozthey weren’t married.

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Місяць тому +6

      Add to the fact his “joke” wasn’t even that. Sounded like a direct threat.
      Saying one is “joking” after getting in trouble for saying something they shouldn’t is simply a cop out and a cover.

  • @thisxisxmexabby
    @thisxisxmexabby Місяць тому +245

    “You’ll adjust” makes my blood boil… smh

    • @emic621
      @emic621 Місяць тому +4

      Same!

    • @mtnewt1
      @mtnewt1 22 дні тому +1

      Yea, they're gonna have to hunt real hard for a good change of venue cuz I know everyone is ready to drag and convict this monster! Sounds to me like her body was so messed up all they could put was homicidal violence smh

    • @TheBlackMadonna222
      @TheBlackMadonna222 21 день тому +2

      Her response was everything tho

    • @fromthegetgo4981
      @fromthegetgo4981 21 день тому +1

      Genuinely so evil

    • @OsceolaNola7
      @OsceolaNola7 20 днів тому

      You’ll adjust

  • @diannenaworensky6698
    @diannenaworensky6698 Місяць тому +13

    Thank you 48hours for putting this full episode on

  • @Fallenlyrics218
    @Fallenlyrics218 29 днів тому +16

    I wish my cousin got this kind of coverage. Jojo Boswell was leaving owatonna Mn on foot making her way back to Minneapolis and the only sighting of her was in a Home Depot surveillance footage a man comes up to her talks for a bit then they walk off she never made it home. It’s been nearly 18-19yrs

    • @Fallenlyrics218
      @Fallenlyrics218 29 днів тому +6

      I believe Because she is indigenous she barely got a dismal 1 min clip on local news. You don’t everrrrrrr see huge media coverage of any missing Indigenous/Native Americans, she did get another small clip or mention on the issue of missing and murdered indigenous women. She was only 19 just shy of 20. I pray for all misssing people and children to come home safe or remains be found for closure for us families who sit day after day year after decade after decade of wondering who what why.

    • @dabsallday9938
      @dabsallday9938 29 днів тому +3

      I wish too! I do remember hearing about this ONCE 😢
      Try reaching out to Podcasts! Get her story out there again!

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 21 день тому +1

      That’s what happens when you’re indigenous.

  • @cynthiakritika5047
    @cynthiakritika5047 Місяць тому +201

    Adam, I have a feeling “you’ll adjust” to life in prison. RIP Maddi. 🙏

    • @jenna-a-gogo
      @jenna-a-gogo Місяць тому +14

      Best comment here! 💯

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 Місяць тому +10

      I hope he doesn't and struggles with it every day..

    • @alleynejoelle
      @alleynejoelle Місяць тому +6

      🏆Best comment

    • @Wisdom24-7
      @Wisdom24-7 29 днів тому

      Adam I know what you are going through that's why I started dating overseas didn't want to end up where you are I'm praying for you

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 29 днів тому +3

      @@Wisdom24-7 So you went over seas, bc you couldn't get one woman in your country to like you? I can see why..

  • @Nurik_ocean12
    @Nurik_ocean12 Місяць тому +316

    Adam stood up and found a job at the age of 20+ ! Wow , such an accomplishment 🎉

    • @dsmusicbird
      @dsmusicbird Місяць тому +5

      Lol

    • @johndeer9968
      @johndeer9968 29 днів тому +9

      He also lost his job during covid and the pandemic happened like two years before this took place

    • @kimpayton727
      @kimpayton727 28 днів тому +13

      ​@@johndeer9968right, and i forget but had he found a job since covid or just depending on Maddie to take care of the bills seeing as he ALLOWED her to finish college. Such a scumbag!! I hope and pray her gets the maximum sentence!! RIP Maddie❤

    • @nikiahandy4403
      @nikiahandy4403 26 днів тому +1

      Right lol

    • @RevLeigh55
      @RevLeigh55 24 дні тому +4

      @@kimpayton727To be fair, that quote didn’t seem to mean Maddi needed permission to go to school. The intention was to say she was able to go back to school with his help with the kids.

  • @DL-cs6fz
    @DL-cs6fz Місяць тому +5

    Adam and his sister are just nauseating. She’s basically trying to
    to blame the victim, instead of holding her brother accountable.
    Pure delusion.

  • @Billsmith77
    @Billsmith77 Місяць тому +14

    Why is CBS's woman reporter smiling so big while telling the story? It seems off when the story is so grim. Her giant smile just seems like she is laughing about it.

    • @forbudt4u2
      @forbudt4u2 8 днів тому +1

      Probably plastic surgery. Some women get the "always smiling" face-lift, which comes off pretty creepy up in certain situations. This would be one of them!

  • @scroogemcduckrich9705
    @scroogemcduckrich9705 Місяць тому +322

    If the sister is any indication this guy was coddled and praised for doing the basics in life

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Місяць тому +18

      "So proud of him" 👍🤥👌 😡

    • @jamesbowman6925
      @jamesbowman6925 Місяць тому +11

      As a kid, he was probably rewarded with a trip to Toy-R-Us every time he wiped his own ---.

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 Місяць тому +11

      Much like Chris Watts

    • @jacquiesbrood
      @jacquiesbrood 21 день тому +1

      Well said

  • @jordanalbano9780
    @jordanalbano9780 Місяць тому +270

    Telling your girl she’ll end up like Gabby Petito then being shocked when she leaves you is crazy

    • @teresah4972
      @teresah4972 Місяць тому +13

      No kidding! What a sick-o to even ‘joke’ about that! It’s horrible any way you look at it. A joke, a threat. Either is awful!

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 Місяць тому

      *so shocking* that she didnt have the wherewithal to leave his abusive a** without the support of a 3rd party (another man)

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Місяць тому +1

      @@teresah4972That’s not even a “joke” (where was the punchline) and more like a direct threat.
      I’ve seen many times someone get arrested for saying something they shouldn’t (such as a threat) and then they try and cover themselves and downplay it by saying “it was a joke”.

    • @ashleyspells-hayes5539
      @ashleyspells-hayes5539 Місяць тому +4

      ​@herewegokids7 um... she was the bread winner. She made plenty of money, she didn't need the other guy.

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 29 днів тому

      @@ashleyspells-hayes5539 i wasnt talking about money

  • @KellieCorinne
    @KellieCorinne 23 дні тому +6

    Telling your financially dependent abusive boyfriend you have another boyfriend is wild. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @littlegirllost2654
      @littlegirllost2654 8 годин тому

      She was trying to hurt him like he hurt her, I get it, but not the right thing to do. I was in an abusive relationship and he almost killed me. I had him arrested

  • @diaethomas2071
    @diaethomas2071 28 днів тому +7

    These lawyers who defended a murderer will have bad luck for the rest of their days

  • @MashaRistova
    @MashaRistova Місяць тому +929

    It makes me so mad that in this day and age police departments are still lying to people saying they can’t file a missing persons report until the person has been missing for 24 hours.

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 Місяць тому +61

      Take it to the local news, the police commissioner, the mayor, the governor if they won’t file a report!!!

    • @giancarlocrumps7564
      @giancarlocrumps7564 Місяць тому +58

      Because actually MOST missing people show up
      Blame the people that wasted the police time

    • @scroogemcduckrich9705
      @scroogemcduckrich9705 Місяць тому +52

      it’s like we pay them to disrespect us. some are so lazy

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Місяць тому +52

      Usually family and friends know their loved one and know when something's wrong if the person has always been consistent about contacting them or being there when they say they're going to be there ... and this is why some people don't want to wait 24 hours because they just know something is wrong and for that person to not contact them or show up is totally unlike them

    • @andreweston233
      @andreweston233 Місяць тому +29

      Makes no sense. More time less likely the person will survive

  • @danastewart8709
    @danastewart8709 Місяць тому +422

    The husband family is in utterly denial.

    • @everlynevins
      @everlynevins Місяць тому +35

      They're just as obnoxious as Cindy Watts. It's not even denial. They know he did it; they're too arrogant to admit blame.

    • @KATYMCGINN
      @KATYMCGINN Місяць тому +23

      JUST TO CLARIFY. MADDI DID NOT MARRY ADAM. BUT YES, HIS FAMILY IS VERY DELUSIONAL! 😒

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Місяць тому +14

      You can also tell his family was raised weird

    • @deevillarreal9475
      @deevillarreal9475 Місяць тому +7

      There sick !!!!

    • @margochanning6868
      @margochanning6868 Місяць тому +10

      They know the truth. They are liars at best.

  • @DL-cs6fz
    @DL-cs6fz Місяць тому +5

    Unfortunately, perfect example of how NOT to get out
    of a relationship but an abusive man. You need a plan
    and you need to be careful, methodical.

  • @Victoria-kl7su
    @Victoria-kl7su 27 днів тому +6

    10 minutes in and I say her husband did it as he said ‘find the amazing mother of my kids’. Saying ‘find the mother of my kids’ on Facebook, not my wife is depersonalising her/distancing her from him, he knows she’s already gone as there’s no emotion attached, if he cared and was genuinely concerned he’d have said please my beautiful wife I am devastated or something like that

  • @lisawentworth6831
    @lisawentworth6831 Місяць тому +277

    A few minutes in, the fact that the guy picked up the kids and went to his parents an hour away...not home...is already suspicious. Why would anyone do that, if they didn't already know Maddie would not be coming home?

    • @brittneyjake2010
      @brittneyjake2010 Місяць тому +19

      I said the same thing....

    • @softlifejasmine
      @softlifejasmine Місяць тому +10

      Right!!

    • @livingitup9647
      @livingitup9647 Місяць тому +12

      Exactly! I was surprised they didn't mention that suspicious behavior in this video.

    • @AvXstudio
      @AvXstudio Місяць тому +4

      That was i thought

    • @user-jm6ol7qc7n
      @user-jm6ol7qc7n Місяць тому +4

      I was just about to say the same thing 😢

  • @KimberlyBishh
    @KimberlyBishh Місяць тому +375

    "..she was alive when i left her.." - every man that kills a woman they know and were the last one alone with.

  • @surlygirly1926
    @surlygirly1926 27 днів тому +6

    How does the "TikTok" angle bear any relevance whatsoever to this case? Why did we watch multiple clips of her sister updating her "following" with no news - particularly wrapped in a towel?

  • @nancyloomis3046
    @nancyloomis3046 29 днів тому +3

    So sad...what a tragic loss for her children, sister, parents and friends.

  • @cc92873
    @cc92873 Місяць тому +208

    Adam’s sister: “He would never do such a thing”
    Yet Adam texts Maddie: “you’ll adjust” (to being hit in front of our children).
    Wonder what she thinks about that text?

    • @DollishDes
      @DollishDes Місяць тому +24

      Right?! I really wanted to see what she had to say after that too! omfg the delusion 🤡

    • @chantelletrembath3345
      @chantelletrembath3345 Місяць тому +3

      Me too 👍

    • @pearls7272
      @pearls7272 Місяць тому +11

      That text was truly unhinged

    • @philippamediwake1235
      @philippamediwake1235 Місяць тому +6

      Not hit. Adam had her pinned down with his hands around her throat!

    • @eh-i1841
      @eh-i1841 Місяць тому +8

      She’ll have her own delusional spin,on it.

  • @vanessacarvalho9076
    @vanessacarvalho9076 Місяць тому +410

    I have a 31 year old stepdaughter. When I discovered that her former boyfriend was being verbally abusive and threatened her, I confronted him and said that I wasn't afraid of jail. To watch his back. She finished the relationship and he left her alone. Please, families. Get involved and show these cowards the same medicine. They always retreat. If Maddie was my daughter, he was the one being missed.

    • @celestialstar8115
      @celestialstar8115 Місяць тому +21

      Yes families need to help. But if the victim isn’t willing to help themselves the family cannot do anything. Victims would rather have their ego satisfied than care for their safety.

    • @sunshine1221
      @sunshine1221 29 днів тому +10

      You are so great!

    • @perfectlyimperfect7373
      @perfectlyimperfect7373 29 днів тому +16

      Good for you! I was 37 when I stayed at my parents’ while obtaining a RO and getting the sheriff’s to escort my abusive ex out of the house. I’m forever grateful to my family for their efforts in keeping me safe during that scary time in my life.

    • @jimvacuum
      @jimvacuum 29 днів тому +5

      And If your step daughter lied Because we know people don't ever lie (sarcasm),If i were on your jury I'd vote to convict you

    • @christychristy5951
      @christychristy5951 29 днів тому +14

      Good for you! I was 27 when I left my husband of 3 years. We had a 3 year old. Was pressured to marry him because of the pregnancy. He was emotionally abusive but he started becoming physically abusive 2 years into marriage. I plotted my escape, woke up after a nasty fight where I was forced to lock myself in our guest bedroom because he physically stopped me from leaving the home to go to my parents and yanked our toddler from my arms injuring her. I made up my mind that night I would leave him the next morning after he left for work. I didn't tell him or my parents (for fear they would accidentally tell him) where I moved for months. Drove around the city until I found an apartment that would give me a key that day. Left with nothing but what would fit into my car. Filed for divorce and waited the mandatory 6 months required by court. Celebrated my freedom and safety once I realized he "moved" on. It only took him a few months to find a new girlfriend. I do think I saved my life. He continues to be abusive. He is divorced again. Unlike some abusive men he openly proclaims to be a Narcissistic megalomaniac. He wrote an entire online blog about his self destructive personality. However he denies ever abusing me.

  • @Luv2Ski4500
    @Luv2Ski4500 Місяць тому +2

    Police need to start investigating immediately. They don’t need to wait. If people turn up while you’re looking that’s ok.

  • @bushlovesska
    @bushlovesska 26 днів тому +5

    This doesnt take sherlock holmes to figure out. Boy meets girl. Boy beats girl. Girl cheats on boy. Girl goes missing. Hmm? Duh.

  • @Findpepperbridge
    @Findpepperbridge Місяць тому +186

    When your family tells you to get out, you get out.

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Місяць тому +18

      And don’t tell the abuser you’re leaving.
      It will just set them off.

    • @saminabibi2015
      @saminabibi2015 27 днів тому +1

      How absolutely heartbreaking

  • @wyteriajacobo34
    @wyteriajacobo34 Місяць тому +85

    I WISH young ladies would stop telling these abusive men their plans to leave them. MOVE IN SILENCE!!!!

    • @ultimatums1
      @ultimatums1 27 днів тому +1

      Jodi Arias says hi.

    • @Victoria-kl7su
      @Victoria-kl7su 27 днів тому +5

      I think in some cases they say it when they don’t actually want to leave them , they want them to change, they haven’t yet accepted they will never change and that they are in real danger, once they get to the point to really really wanting to leave or realising things have got dangerous, then hopefully they just leave and hopefully it is not too late. Most people ignore many signs and red flags until they hit breaking point. In this case, it’s got to an affair and telling him of it -she should have been long gone before the affair - narcissists don’t want you but they won’t knowingly ‘allow’ you to leave them for someone else

    • @Daaaanielle
      @Daaaanielle 25 днів тому +1

      They need to stop protecting these men. I mean every single time, it’s he was abusing her but she didn’t want to hurt him. Or get him arrested. Like how dumb can you be?

    • @ultimatums1
      @ultimatums1 25 днів тому +1

      @@Daaaanielle Jodi Arias sends her regards to you.

    • @hardwired8084
      @hardwired8084 19 днів тому +4

      AND don't add a boyfriend cuz. it acts like gas on already outta control flame!!!

  • @SoriDori
    @SoriDori 26 днів тому +2

    Im from across the river and helped in the search for her. There were SO many people that came together to help. Busses upon busses. Its a very sad situation, but the love shown for her from the community was beautiful. I hope her family felt the love and support from everyone.

  • @perrieargent9997
    @perrieargent9997 Місяць тому +5

    That 24 hour rule about missing people is the most pathetic rule ever. An excuse for laziness, almost as if the 👮‍♀️ police hope you’ll just go away.

  • @donnazivny4134
    @donnazivny4134 Місяць тому +260

    Siblings are oblivious that their brother is a murderer

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 Місяць тому +20

      Chosen ignorance

    • @Fakegrape7777
      @Fakegrape7777 Місяць тому +13

      No, they know, they’re just trying to protect him. They sleep well at night telling themselves lies about their brother.

    • @brooklyn8760
      @brooklyn8760 Місяць тому +4

      Nah, they’re well aware.

    • @armsproposedlegislation
      @armsproposedlegislation 29 днів тому +1

      No their not in denial, they knew he was dangerous

  • @akubajoy3394
    @akubajoy3394 Місяць тому +265

    Narcissist don’t want you but at the same time don’t want to see you happy with someone else. The denial of his siblings is ridiculous 😢 RIP beautiful…

    • @JAnKl17
      @JAnKl17 Місяць тому +4

      Absolutely 😢

    • @tnannylynn8221
      @tnannylynn8221 Місяць тому +4

      💯 the truth

    • @waninigichuki1732
      @waninigichuki1732 Місяць тому +3

      So true. For them to say when they heard of the break-up, that they felt like they'd lost a sister is such an 'about me' thing to say - people retain relationships and you'd both still have been an aunt & uncle to the kids.

    • @stfuplsok
      @stfuplsok Місяць тому

      Narcissists* don't

    • @fenris6051
      @fenris6051 28 днів тому +2

      Not much beauty in being unfaithful... but of course modern women now applaud that kind of behavior

  • @Goldiegirl2009
    @Goldiegirl2009 Місяць тому +4

    Adam’s family is in such denial. I can’t even listen to them defending him. It’s obvious he killed her. Spencer had no motive and he has an alibi. He’s not the one who assaulted and threatened her. Hopefully she will get justice this fall. RIP Maddi.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Місяць тому +231

    Joking about Gabby Petito? Naah from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. That was a huge red flag💔

  • @caramileelliott1719
    @caramileelliott1719 Місяць тому +144

    His sister and brother are delusional and the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

  • @truthblunt
    @truthblunt 20 днів тому +7

    Looking that man in the face telling him, "I am cheating on you, leaving you for your frat brother and taking the children" is dangerous.

  • @selinas8039
    @selinas8039 28 днів тому +3

    people, when you call the police, tell them the person has been missing for 24 hours so you don't have to wait

  • @marygoff3332
    @marygoff3332 Місяць тому +133

    I raised/trained cadaver dogs. A raccoon would not cause a trained dog to alert. Human remains only cause alerts. We train them to know the difference between animal scent & human scent.

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn Місяць тому

      what about rotten porc meat?

    • @peezypeeze9140
      @peezypeeze9140 Місяць тому

      @@RichardWagner-hi4znI am pretty sure they are still able to tell the difference.
      I could just be assuming but I feel like I’d use pork to train the dog 😂

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn Місяць тому

      @@peezypeeze9140 Imagine you had once left porc chops in the car during summer. Then your wife goes missing and you 'll end up in prison bc of that. Vegans: not gonna happen with me! lol

    • @ABC-ed8cg
      @ABC-ed8cg 24 дні тому +1

      @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      Not the brightest bulb eh? There were other incriminating evidence against him too- the cctv evidence & all his past domestic violence episodes and Gabby Petito remark..

    • @RichardWagner-hi4zn
      @RichardWagner-hi4zn 23 дні тому

      @@ABC-ed8cg The dim bulb is which does not spot irony.

  • @jamesl9371
    @jamesl9371 Місяць тому +97

    Don’t tolerate abuse in your life or the lives of others

  • @adiakiyes6354
    @adiakiyes6354 29 днів тому +3

    Its a good thing that the two childrens went to the care of Maddie's parents and not to the narcissists family.

  • @tammydouglas8497
    @tammydouglas8497 28 днів тому +2

    Im glad they got him, my sister was murdered by her husband in 2000 but the judge let him go not because there wasn't enough evidence as there was plenty, it's because of the police ties of his family. Joyce Douglas - Coulier was missing for a month before she was found on the Coulier property

  • @ellekay4758
    @ellekay4758 Місяць тому +37

    Adam’s siblings DEFENDING A COLD BLOODED, LAZY, VILE MAN makes them genuinely atrocious!!!

    • @L.D.Intheditch
      @L.D.Intheditch 25 днів тому +3

      Hope they never get partners,or have children to abuse. They are just like him.

    • @JoanTarpley-hx9sh
      @JoanTarpley-hx9sh 21 день тому

      I don't know what they thought the end result would be with their blathering and cringe statements, but they certainly did not earn any points for themselves OR their vile brother!

  • @abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj
    @abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj Місяць тому +87

    Never ever tell your abusive narcissistic spouse that you're leaving them or that you're seeing someone else, just make your plans silently while planning your exit and don't even share your address or contact.

  • @julien.4395
    @julien.4395 29 днів тому

    Thank you for making this! Justice for Maddi. Been here since the beginning, wish it could have been a different outcome

  • @StaceyBronk
    @StaceyBronk 27 днів тому +2

    So very sad for the children 😔

  • @reneeklein3048
    @reneeklein3048 Місяць тому +179

    Adam’s family needs to wake up….

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz Місяць тому

      She cheated .. I wouldn't care either

    • @shmwmlam3953
      @shmwmlam3953 29 днів тому +3

      ​@elorah-sh1oz no wonder she cheated..this man was a dead beat living off his gf's money not only that he never helped her around the house and also have the nerve to beat her while living off of her? Her having an affair is not even cheating at that moment.
      And if you defending him that means you are just like him

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz 29 днів тому

      @@shmwmlam3953 no wonder she cheated? She's six foot under tho.. she's probably all Skelton by now

    • @shmwmlam3953
      @shmwmlam3953 29 днів тому

      @@elorah-sh1oz and where is he now?

    • @elorah-sh1oz
      @elorah-sh1oz 28 днів тому

      @@shmwmlam3953 in prison but at least alive

  • @jamiemiesler322
    @jamiemiesler322 Місяць тому +243

    To Everyone (men & women): Please do not ever take any threats lightly. It’s not a joke. Get out! Your life depends on it. Any discomfort & heartbreak felt from leaving is nothing compared to losing your life & possibly the lives of the children you may have.

    • @TH-hy9kr
      @TH-hy9kr Місяць тому +11

      Agreed and thank you for acknowledging that violence against intimate partners is not isolated to women, nor isolated to straight relationships.

    • @charlotted6247
      @charlotted6247 Місяць тому +7

      And it's never a joke. That's not a joking matter😢😢😢

    • @Pippi-Longstocking
      @Pippi-Longstocking Місяць тому +6

      Agreed. And remember that leaving is THE most dangerous time.

    • @StofStuiver
      @StofStuiver Місяць тому +3

      Oh get real. There are a billion threats made every day.

    • @mypud4068
      @mypud4068 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@charlotted6247lol it's NEVER a joke, ew

  • @wuviebby9494
    @wuviebby9494 25 днів тому +1

    just knowing that my mother had to tell family and friends the same message, “if anything happens to me (her bf at the time) did it. i would never leave my kids” breaks my heart. she luckily made it out alive but it absolutely destroyed her life. her identity was stolen, she got beat regularly, he would also lay hands on me and my siblings and he put me and my sibling in extremely dangerous situations. still now years later we feel like we have to watch our backs for him because law enforcement did absolutely nothing to help ever.

  • @kristiebrown5808
    @kristiebrown5808 Місяць тому +2

    "When someone shows you their true colors, believe them" --Adam did it. Duh.....

  • @jackieacheson4928
    @jackieacheson4928 Місяць тому +93

    It makes my blood boil when family defends murderers, when they know they're guilty.

    • @cat_lover007
      @cat_lover007 Місяць тому +9

      Almost all the time... including Chris Watts' delusional fam. It makes me sick!!

    • @MMAMike22
      @MMAMike22 Місяць тому +1

      What about women that are lying cheaters? Do they make your blood boil too?

    • @thegoatudontknow
      @thegoatudontknow Місяць тому

      theres no proof he did it at all

    • @jackieacheson4928
      @jackieacheson4928 Місяць тому +6

      @@thegoatudontknow except for the proof.

  • @lisaw9263
    @lisaw9263 Місяць тому +65

    NEVER EVER tell someone you're leaving, kids or no kids. Just have a plan and go!

  • @jorgemontefusco650
    @jorgemontefusco650 28 днів тому +3

    Keep the secret of dating somebody else while living with another man who is the father of your children is very dangerous.

  • @johndeer9968
    @johndeer9968 29 днів тому +7

    “He had the job up until he got laid off during COVID” Covid started in 2020 that means he was unemployed for at least 2 years 😂. What a miserable loser

  • @dsmusicbird
    @dsmusicbird Місяць тому +101

    Sister says that her brother would never harm Maddie? Do you have any idea how traumatic being choked by the father of your children is like!??? That is past Harm!

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Місяць тому +6

      Exactly!
      It’s like they conveniently forget his violent history.

    • @user-kf4zh5qm8z
      @user-kf4zh5qm8z Місяць тому +3

      Speaking of the Racoon his dad was supposed to have cleaned up, where is it,? Was it buried. They can easily prove it, if it's the truth.

    • @beverlybalius9303
      @beverlybalius9303 29 днів тому

      Still no reason for cheating on him…

    • @dsmusicbird
      @dsmusicbird 29 днів тому +3

      @@beverlybalius9303
      Obviously you’ve never been in her type of situation. I understand how you feel about that. There’s much more that you don’t understand.

    • @ABC-ed8cg
      @ABC-ed8cg 24 дні тому +1

      @beverlybalius9303.. so she’s expected to stay in a faithful relationship with an abuser??

  • @UK-sm4co
    @UK-sm4co Місяць тому +73

    At the point of leaving an abusive relationship, remember, it is the most dangerous time for the abused person. RIP Maddie

  • @trixi1608
    @trixi1608 19 днів тому +1

    I'm so sorry for Spencer. I hope he'll be able to find love again in his life.

  • @racheltabron2086
    @racheltabron2086 Місяць тому +1

    Adams' sister is actually the one who sounds delusional. What's so sad about the narcissistic people who commit these horrendous crimes when they can't have their way, is that they actually fool a lot of people.
    All the facts are here. It seems so obvious, I hope he gets convicted and looses his freedom for the rest of his life. My heart says a prayer for Maddie's family and her precious children, may peace come.

  • @mangasmurphy7466
    @mangasmurphy7466 Місяць тому +102

    If Adam finds some of the non-consensual aspects of prison life to be a bit taxing, I can only say, "You'll adjust."

    • @AskAlex1999
      @AskAlex1999 Місяць тому +3

      Nice!

    • @awesomebeautiful8782
      @awesomebeautiful8782 Місяць тому

      That's really gross and you should never joke about it. I don't care what crime somebody committed, sexual violence is not an acceptable part of the punishment.

    • @w.thiller7822
      @w.thiller7822 Місяць тому

      ?

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 21 день тому

      @awesomebeautiful that’s why am eye for an eye is better

  • @Alyssa-rf1fi
    @Alyssa-rf1fi Місяць тому +194

    This dude's siblings seem to be totally in denial. Their childhood home must have been so full of normalized violence for them to defend their brother even after he told the mother of his children that she'd end up like Gabby Petito if she wasn't careful. Poor Madi. This is why it's important to have protected sex, too. If she hadn't gotten pregnant, she may not have felt obligated to stay with the man who abused and ultimately murdered her, for the sake of her child. She could've left Adam for Spencer and been in a much healthier, happier relationship. Now those kids are motherless and practically fatherless too, if he ends up serving time for his violence as he should. What a completely avoidable tragedy caused by an emotionally immature man-child. May she rest in peace and may her family find strength and closure.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Місяць тому +17

      They look like they were raised weird ... his sister said he let her go to college😂 .
      Crazy stuff like that

    • @bleeknee28
      @bleeknee28 Місяць тому +3

      I know a few families like that, it's like a family full of narcissists, it's scary

    • @Alyssa-rf1fi
      @Alyssa-rf1fi Місяць тому +5

      @@gardensofthegods you're right, I caught that, too! And the first thing she said was "he manned up" because he didn't leave her when she got pregnant.... 🙄🤮

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Місяць тому +3

      @@Alyssa-rf1fi yes I responded to and now I see that my comment disappeared .
      Yes I agree with you they said a lot of weird stuff and you can tell they grew up in a family where they don't see women as equals and I don't think they really liked his girlfriend very much .

    • @priscillayoga4040
      @priscillayoga4040 Місяць тому +1

      Sometimes accidental pregnancy happens. My sister had an IUD when she got pregnant! And she was also told by doctors that she would never be able to get pregnant, but she used birth control just in case anyway. So when she did get pregnant, she did end up keeping the baby as it was truly a miracle!

  • @jackreacher4233
    @jackreacher4233 28 днів тому +3

    That girl using her missing sister for social media clout

  • @user-id7ql3lv6d
    @user-id7ql3lv6d Місяць тому +3

    His sister is in total denial! How does she know what happened behind closed doors?

  • @IRELAND_MY_LOVE
    @IRELAND_MY_LOVE Місяць тому +55

    The fact that the killer's siblings are trying to deflect blame to Spencer, says more about the crazy family that Frabels grew up in. What nuts we share the earth with.

    • @dianabehr3169
      @dianabehr3169 10 днів тому

      Exactly! His siblings are not right in the head either

    • @SteveDrenser
      @SteveDrenser 9 днів тому

      might been spenser homie we dont know

  • @katkelleher9
    @katkelleher9 Місяць тому +97

    The mayor was almost getting emotional when he basically said he was proud of Maddy and also saw her as a child. What a good mayor.

    • @Faunaviolet
      @Faunaviolet Місяць тому +4

      We love him here in Winona!

  • @shaleniramsahai5782
    @shaleniramsahai5782 28 днів тому +1

    In this day and age there is so much readily available infos about domestic violence warnings and tell tale signs. What to do and not. and especially NEVER disclose your intention of leaving to the abuser. So why are we still seeing the same pattern repeated in all these cases???

  • @iveylynmay
    @iveylynmay Місяць тому +48

    My eyes bugged out when he answered her with "you'll adjust". Very sick.

  • @PsychoKupcake
    @PsychoKupcake Місяць тому +50

    BEWARE: There is no law that says police have to wait 24hrs before looking for a missing person. NO LAW! Although, it might be that stations protocol, that doesn't matter.
    If you are ever in this type of a situation, which I hope never happens, you tell the police you want to speak with the head of missing persons and point out that there is no law prohibiting police to wait any amount of time. You fight for your loved one. No matter who you have to fight. The first few hours are crucial. Be an advocate. Please.

  • @johnfox9169
    @johnfox9169 11 годин тому

    Another stark warning about a man, a husband, being dependent upon his wife. He was "forced "to quit school, while Maddi continued her education getting her Bachelors. However, Adam should have gone back to school, and treated Maddi with respect and kindness. My heart ❤️ goes out to Maddi's family.

  • @krystal7836
    @krystal7836 Місяць тому +2

    Adam is so guilty. Never held accountable for anything. Never had to work for anything. A free loader and his family is in denial and enabling him. And if he walks free....he will do it again to another woman.

  • @mandybradley3079
    @mandybradley3079 Місяць тому +226

    48 hours is one of the most informative investigative shows on UA-cam. And hopefully they get awards and recognition for it.

    • @Jedstop
      @Jedstop Місяць тому +23

      You know it’s a TV program right? It’s just been uploaded to you tube.

    • @redrumhum
      @redrumhum Місяць тому +4

      😂​@@Jedstop

    • @TawnyC_
      @TawnyC_ Місяць тому +11

      🏆 Here you go 48 hours, here's your UA-cam award.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Місяць тому +6

      Yes they are well presented but the times I investigated and did more research and looked at other shows and documentaries then I realized sometimes they would leave out some information that I felt was really important and I would wonder why they didn't mention that in the show

    • @jwil2414
      @jwil2414 Місяць тому +5

      ​@@gardensofthegodsThey do that to slant the viewer in the direction they want.