If You're an Introvert - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty
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Saying an introvert to speak up is as rude as to say an extrovert shut up.
Wow.
Let me break this.
chhota bhai 😂😂
It is as rude as saying to a banana stop being a fruit.
Wow, I would get mad with both things, if someone would say that to me.
I’m an introvert, I used to get in “fights” very often, just by doing nothing, so it’s really weird. When I speak and say something they tell me to shut up, when I don’t they ask me why I don’t talk.
When you’re both shy and introverted people take you as arrogant
Exactly
True.
Its soo truee
Yeahh
Omg, finally someone who understands!!
Sitting alone is better than surrounded by fake people 👏
True 🥺
agreed🙌
These lines literally hit to my heart man you're a legend
@@Mustafa-qq5hg thanks 👍
Right
Being an introvert at workplace is hell, no matter how good you’re you’ll always feel left out coz you’re not the chatty one
Same happening to me in university 😭
I feel like I don't fit into other people
Edit: I made two best friends are they are the best people of my life. And with other people, they are the ones who start conversation with me. Sometimes you just have to make a little move and everything starts moving towards you
we introverts lives in our heads so we do not have the necessary energy to chat with others.
Ah yeah
😭😭😭😭me
@@iqrabhat645 same Here at College
Basically I'm an introvert. But when I get true loving friends, I become an extrovert. Anyone like this?
Exactly me
Sankara Narayanan yes!
Mee 😂😂🤚🤚
Totally me hah
Me
Introverts report card be like:
She/he is a smart student but needs to participate more in class.
this is so relatable.
Yas.. totally relatable
Relatable
It's not like I didn't participate its just I don't know what to do
Relatable AF
You may think I'm small, but I have a universe inside my mind."
Same
Exactly
So true ❤
100 percentage true
I am an introvert
But as you can see
I am in my way to success
"THE BIGGEST MISTAKE AN INTROVERT CAN MAKE IS TRY TO BE AN EXTROVERT" this line 💥
Oh
Am I the only one demotivate after this line ? 😔😔😔
@@kjjadeja3531 oh why? Are you an introvert who is currently trying to be an extravert ?
@@hibs_tan yeah can i be 😶
lol that's weird cuz i did 💀
*I’m an introvert, I wouldn’t even consider being at the party.*
yep last party I went, I was chillimg with his cat 😂😂😂 while they're blasting music having fun
Yep... But then i have my parents who are like... "You have to go there, you are lucky that we allow you to go to friends parties or other events unlike other parents"
I probabbly would but the think is that I am not invited.
I was introvert at the start of party but then at the last everyone was my friend :)) sometimes you need to speak up
Sometimes my parents force me to go to a party. I rather lock myself in my room tbh
I’m an introvert and would never bring a book to party.
I'd say it depends on the book 🤷♀️
I never bring my book to a party. I just find the bookcase and pick one from there. 😅
As an introvert I'd have to convince myself it'd be worth showing up to the party first.
I wouldn't go to the party
Unless it's a book on how to be an extrovert.
Introvert can actually very social. Just with the right people ♥
I guess u meant being talkative. Speaking for myself, I guess that's not essentially a trait that doesn't occur with introverts, it's just that we can have as much fun when we're alone as when accompanied. But we're like this mostly when in a one on one conversation (as said in the video).
@@thiagogs2524I’m An Introvert and I talk a lot with the people I feel comfortable with
Being an introvert doesn't mean that they are always sad or feeling lonely.
We are so comfortable with ourselves ♥
Usually only after a certain point in life when we see things from another angle
Man i seen life mostly for what it is. (Hopefully) sometimes it's funny that whatever job I'm at I'm teased in earshot about how quiet I am. But majority of the time just uncomfortable with being watched all shift because I'm quiet.
Yeah there’s a difference to being alone and being lonely, being alone is to not be around people, being lonely is not being around people and to wish you were around people.
Yup. :)
Yes absolutely but the society is not comfortable with us so they ask many questions that why we were so quiet 🤫
You know what introvert means:
You can't start speaking with someone that you're not close to..
You can't stop talking with someone that you are close with..
Am I right ?
I'm totaly aggre with u
Absolutely 👍
Yes thats true.One day i talked with a girl in my class and i realised im too much cause i kept talking and still when she see me she laughs at me istg
yup
Nope, I never speak unless people talk to me first. Idk about talking with friends tho since I don't have any
One of the worst situations for an introvert is when you have to do a group activity with people you don't know.
Yeah, cuz we have trust issues 😂
Group projects is my worst nightmare 😅😂😂
omg I feel this ahahah
Actually with people cooler than u and on top of that you have to do presentations
copyright Free to use song???
only introverts can understand the power of silence
Friends think why I am not partying and enjoying life🙃.
Introverts are powerful
When two introverts became friend its is amazing
Yeah searching for someone like that, but looks like on real society introverts don't exist at all 🤔
me and my friend 🥲
Extrovert: Quarantined is hell
Introvert: *Finally, it's heaven*
Yasssssss🖤Introverts just enjoy themselves and Never care about others
@@akilaakhila5604 thats not true. I care about others.
@@sadjklfthere maybe different types of Introverts . I just say what I feel✌️
Actually 😂😂😂👏👏👍👍
True...
why does modern society still think bullying is “haha loser”
I got sodomized once
Ikr
I cringed at that part
Vanish a lot of people are taking the mick out of everything I show interest in. And I mean everything. Any tiny thing. They laugh and mess around and tease and take the mick out of everything. They do it every day and I don’t know if they think it doesn’t bother me or not but it’s getting to the point that I don’t want to go into school. I can’t tell if this is bullying or not but I don’t think it is. We’re all kids. They’re just messing around. That’s what I’m telling myself
Also I don’t know why I just put this in here I apologise
LucyTheEvilFox you need someone to talk to? i hope you can look past the things they say to you and if you wanna be a little more specific i can help you. sorry if my comment offended you
Saying Introverts are so quiet and need to talk more to their face, is just as rude as telling an Extrovert to shut up. I love this video.
Ah. The rules of society aren't about being just. That's the reality I've realized. They set the rules and exceptions that they want to.
@@kevinzhang6623 So make your own rules for yourself, and tell society to take its rules and shove it!
I am 20 years old and I am an introvert. Growing up, I was really a shy guy. I used to think myself as an introvert when I was shy and sometimes try to pretend like an extrovert which was hard. These past couple of years, I have been trying to be aware of myself. All the things you have mentioned is true and I have experienced most of them. I have realized that it is very important to express our feelings and communicate whenever needed, no matter of our personality. Thank you, you have been really educating us.
Totally agree! I have done that too.
Pretending like an extrovert is really hard when we are not actually..
I too 20 years introvert 😃
Yes I totally agree with you 💯💯💯💯
Why the hell he is reading in a party? We introverts dont attend dump party
We aren't even invited ,most of the time...
I get invited but , i make excuses
We make excuses
They wanted to show how we feel in social gatherings
U r right we introvert rarely attend party
I’m an introvert and I would never bring a book to a party
I wouldn’t go to party
i would not go to the party 😉😂😂
They wouldn't even know i exist
I went to one (it was supposed to be a tame birthday party...yeah, no) and played candy crush in the chair in the corner. Never going to another ‘birthday’ again
I’d never be invited... haha.. ha.huh
I would be at home 😂😂
As an introvert, I have to deal with many difficulties on a daily basis. The worst of them are when someone forces me to talk
Now you realised what intriversin is
Same
Wait, how can anyone FORCE you to talk against your will???
I love how for most or perhaps even all of us introverts is that as soon as we find someone in the group that's also introverted or even more introverted than you are we will immediately pull ourselves together to include them more and be kind because we know exactly how it feels to be left out or misunderstood. We got each others backs 💯
*"You don’t need to be loud to have great ideas."*
Susan Cain
"AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH"
Jacksepticeye
@@djbaro3047 ding ding ding top of morning
yeah
You just quoted a quote
@@justarandomperson7798 I love doing that
*“Don’t think of introversion as something that needs to be cured."*
Susan Cain
@Top Most No they even can be artists. Skill like sketching etc can only be learned in quite and lonely places.
myrically yeah I also watched 2 minutes into the video
@@SomeGuy-sf7bc I just wrote the quote down for you, so you'll never forget 😉
I m an introvert then
@Top Most Stop quoting me!
"PewDiePie"
It's really funny how my teacher said that "she's introvert, she's quiet, she doesn't speak often, she has to be an extrovert" Like now I feel so relieved that a video like this existed to give me such an important lesson! Thank you so much!!
Btw HAPPY NEW YEAR;)
I literally teared up 😭💞 this is relatable af- people just give us a "quiet one" or "not so cool one" tag and they think it's funny it actually hurts a lot. To all the introverts, be who you are and don't let the words to people stop you ✨ 💛
Introvert squad✋
Fazil 🙋♂️
🙋🙋
Cheers
INFP here!
🙆♂️
When you are being asked to introduce yourself in front of the class :
me: Ah shit, here we go again
This is why I hate first day of school
I hated it
if anyone want a introvert frnd then join this group chat.whatsapp.com/HvIn0lYHFc8JkfjoFM5m1o
Teacher: Introduce youself
Me: -I exist, live, and breathe oxygen-
Teacher:
Class:
Facts😂
As an introvert i get depressed many times but this video gives me chill, thank you💛
being introvert is an art ❤❤
It's natural .
Imagine being introvert, shy and have social anxiety. Let me tell you, it's a nightmare.
I think i have those in me, but not sure
True dude
It really is.
It's not,if u look at it right.
That is not what an introvert is, that is being socially awkward.
"Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured" I wish more people understand that😪
Me too.
But studies show that extroversion correlates with happiness and healthy self-image
Same
No Name What a load of bullocks. I bet I’m more happy than most extroverts.
No one can cure me
Being an introvert is far better than trying to rub elbows with everybody against your will
I'm actually an "outgoing introvert", which basically means i love interacting with people and making new friends, but at the end of the day social interaction will always drain me and i still prioritize alone time, and it's kind of hard for me to be social if i'm not already with a few close friends (for example, in a class where i have no friends i won't speak to anyone, but in one where i have a couple i'll be super chatty and outgoing)
"The biggest mistake an introvert can make is trying to be an extrovert."
I felt that💔
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Edit
I somehow developed myself to being extrovert but the most thing that I'll ever advice u all, "You must accept who u really are bc that's the last thing that u'll be proud of." I realized that I don't need others' hate sayings to me just to pleased them. I learned that when u became true to yourself & to people around u, others would love you u. Not that I'm saying all would love you bc there's no such thing in world that all would be loving u, it's impossible but you'll be happier with yourself if u start giving yourself no care to what other's are saying about u.
I tried that...Only lasted one day, was too exhausting :/
@@juanmanuelmoramontes3883 *hugs u**
@@juanmanuelmoramontes3883 that is so sad for u, me I tried it for months but I didn't survive
Tried that, became an ambivert lol
What kind of partner should an introvert guy seek, an introvert, or an extrovert girl?
Mostly introverts are watching this whereas extroverts should watch this.
I'm an extrovert but too lazy to watch this. It was recommended to me so I clicked to read the comments. Some of y'all mistake social anxiety for introversion and yes I made my research. My older brother is at the end of the introversion spectrum and he is more confident around people than me. I'm a socially anxious extrovert which is literal hell. Also I love introverts ya'll are cute
Kyle tf
@@zerlix.4878... what
chhota bhai I am
@@kyleg2294 I too is an extrovert then i question myself
What happens if 2 introverts met each other?
Thank you for this episode from the bottom of my soul. I feel inward love and affection for myself and I know that being an introvert is beautiful.
I have seen 21 years of my life being and introvert, shy, staying away from people, not attending any parties. Hate parties. Hate gathering. Hate relatives . Hate to talk to anyone. Love being alone. But family and friends hate me because of this. Making fun of me.
21 years old?
Oh yeah so true I agreee
Its alright mate we all are in the same boat 🗿
@@gowtham6822 almost
if you really love being alone you would not be shy.
Every introvert was once or more than once called "shy and timid" by teachers and relatives.
Yep
Many times
I'm literally the ghost in my class, every teacher write that i'm really discreet, shy...
I often get called the quite king in my class
Yep
Being Introverted doesn’t mean that they’re nerds who read books all day.
Edit:A lot of people are replying that they're introverts and they read books and alot are saying they're introverts but they don't read books.What I meant with the og comment was that reading books all day doesn't make you introvert.You could read all the books you want but your personality type is a diffirent thing.
Edit 2:You guys still don't get it
True.
And that's exactly what society thinks of us
Yeah and not all introverts are self-conscious there are confident introverts out there
Me who's read all Harry Potter books, and is writing my own book series: *wheeze*
True
the first three scenes literally happened with me multiple times, only people who faced it will understand the feeling. almost crying
Yes
ALL of these scenes happened with me multiple times!
I'm an introvert and people think that I have attitude and ego but that's not true nobody even understand that what's going on my mind.. I study in class 9th and I don't speak a lot.. Nobody is my friend, nobody talks with me.. I just feel lonely 🙂.... I had told my secrets to the one whom I trusted, but she went and spread them here and there 💔.. I adore a didi in class 12th I mean she is my favourite even she knows abt that, ki mujhe woh achi lgti hai...but still I'm scared to talk with her idk why 😢.. when I start feeling comfortable with someone then mujhe aisa lgta hai ki woh insaan bore ho rhe hai mujhse isliye main baat nhi krti fir and then unhe bhi koi frk nhi padhta... Sometimes I hide my tears , and then people come and ask what happened then I say nothing I'm fine... Nobody even said a once that tell me what happen you can trust me.. nobody ever said this 💔 I don't even have my mom and dad 💔 Sometimes I be like please God take me to them.. then I just think abt my bro and sis 😢.... I can't even tell all this to someone but here I can b'coz nobody can judge me
Do you live with your grandma and grandpa?
@@ggmu8926 No.. I live with my brother and sister
You are loved 💗
Can relate to everything
god bless you all the happiness , focus on your future you have so much to do in your life ❣❣
a psychologist will help you a lot
"There is a big difference between being shy and being an introvert."
Yeah I'm both. 😒
Same bro. I am happy till lockdown but now schools open and my classmates again making fun of me. And the other boys just humiliates me to put better impression on girls. And I am depressed now.
@@prashantlamba-thestar8972 I am so sorry about you🙁
Me tooi
@@gabrielamedvedtadic thanks for the sympathy
Same here I’m both
Introverts love to work alone, but that doesn’t mean we can’t work in groups.
That is a good distinction to make.
I can work with a group but it's very mentally draining. I prefer working alone.
i only like to work in a group if it’s with friends or people i know other that groups make me very uncomfortable-
True, but when it comes to working in groups it’s going to be like our *last option*
Right, but I still never have liked group work when it came to school. Ya know, such as "stations" in English.
After knowing that 3 million people are introverts like me
I am feeling much better☺️☺️
Around 30-50% of the population are introverts. That is a lot more than 3 million
Why don't we learn something so important as that in school? It would have helped me a lot to not feel like an alien..
I hope this video helps kids today to understand that: You are okay, just the way you are.
Thank you, Jay! 💙
What I hate about being an introvert, is that everyone would think that I’m sad or really lonely. But in reality I just wanna stay away from people and actually have a moment to be by myself.
Same bro ify
Same
My mom asks me if something is wrong at least 3-4 times a day. And then she gets upset when I get mad....
Exactly bruh👊👊
@@ioanaberbece8137 Yeah it's kinda annoying how people instantly assume that you're depressed or something if you're alone instead of socializing all the time
I just hate when someone say:
*why are you not speaking much?*
Same here😂
U don't know how much I hate it. It's totally none of their business.
Same. Its even a reason that my bf almost breaks up with me.. I'll be like "hey lets play a game" and he is like "ight only if you talk more" and we fought alot, I say that I really cant talk much,he doesnt believe me tho
@@dilarakarabulut1243 you deserve better person who will never leave you.
Tell them "coz you are!"...and just do what you were doing.
When I use to be kid parents thought being quite is good things that what kid should be in front of elders. So I thought to be good kid and trying my best to be quite. Once I grew up I found out that I am an introvert. But then also I knew there is disadvantages being introvert and also advantages being introvert. So even being extrovert also have same benefit and problem. But the most important is that never stay silence when you need to speak. "Be who you are!"
I am an introvert that's why nobody wants to talk to me I am always alone in my class , I am an introvert and talk less that's not mean I don't want to talk but people will never understand introvert people 😒 I am always quite because I hate fake drama like when people are in group they will always shouting and laughing loudly etc... They are pretending like how they are happy in their life 😒
If no one can understand me. I become an introvert. I will listen the things around me. Find the things that make me felt value.
Omg, man, I really understand you
I understand u bro
I understand you man
I totally understand you bro.. We in the same boat
Life of introverts is not easy at all 🥺
It's easy for me 😌😄
Seriously I dont see the big deal its literally so easy to just ignore other people why would you listen to people you dont feel like talking to or arguing with
@@neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022 I wish I have that confidence
@@joelvalencia2721 you can have that confidence you just gotta find it
True
Introvert things:
i personally hate short talks.
random idiot: hey , how are u?
me: fine.
*now what?*
Ikr
Relatable
Same
Surface talk....the worse
i guess i'm that one idiot that always do the short talks to keep up the conversation
I was always the one left out because of being so quiet in class but nobody understood what being an Introvert is all about so I thank you for this video!
❣️😍 Its soo connecting soo relatable.. and the best thing is we all introverts came out and expressing our feelings and opinions through comments here
I really hope society starts accepting more introverted behavior as time goes on, maybe then we'll have peace instead of the usual bullying and insecurities.
Teacher: "EVERYONE BE QUIET! CANT YOU ALL BE QUIET?!"
Intervert kid at the back: *hold my words*
Patrick Dulfo this is funny, but I also don’t like this
Again an ARMY member fr tho. Its like being scolded for no reason
Wait, I am an introvert and I talked a lot.
Teachers: be quite. How many time i need to tell you. Why i never said this to her(me)
Me: because I'm shy
I hate when teachers are saying this to my classmates. Im always blushing.
I'm more like the introvert kid in the front
It's hard being an introvert in this extroverted world. 😔
sure ...
You are correct...I always suffer and get depressed when sitting among a group and being alone
Entertain yourself. There's no point in getting disappointed because of the blabberings of some idiot extros.
True mate
Don’t let them affect you. Once you embrace your introversion and shine that light. No one will judge you and when they do, you should have the attitude “i don’t give a f**k”
Most introverts got burned hard by pretending to be an extraverts, cause they thought there was something wrong with them and they wanted to "fit in" and be liked by others. Accept your true nature. Introverts are the coolest
Being an introvert is one thing
Being shy is another. Find which one you are
You can be both. Sometimes being an introvert can cause shyness. I don’t believe the opposite is true, however.
@@HeronCoyote1234 Introversion is mostly inherited and immutable, whereas shyness is acquired and can be changed!
saying the words "speak up" to an introvert is the most worst feeling.
Or can be the most annoying phrase people say to you
@@infernalshogun2064 yeah
Indeed
It's the same feeling for an extrovert being told to shut up 😂
I won't say that it's the worst feeling ever but it does kinda hurt. Being an introvert is hard fam...
Introverts don’t read books while everyone else plays games.
I mean if it’s a damn good book I will. Depends on the game and the book
@@vavacadoz Exactly..
Wait...are we all armys?
It's so funny 🤣 I watch a random clip on yt and army are everywhere 🤣
Maybe you don't if someone want to what's wrong with that?
This hits me so hard as this is how i feel so much whenever i go out. I despise large groups but absolutely love seeing others i love have such a good time. I ❤️ YOU fellow introvers and extroverts. You all make this an extraordinary place.
I hate being in any kind of large group, and when I see such a large group, I sometimes just sit and watch them from afar just because I love the feeling of being left out and of CHOOSING to be left out! I ❤ you fellow introverts -- and to the extroverts, I say this: feel free to do what you want, but don't try to get ME to join you!
2:15 : this is exactly what my mom and my sister needs to hear . I don't really engage with people unless its necessary so my mom and my sister will always be like ''you'll be ok once you grow up" . Like dude , just because i don't talk unnecessarily doesn't mean that something's wrong with me , i am ok !!!
I feel different from my family because I'm the only one "introvert" in my family.
Same bud
Same
Sane
Naur same 😭 went to a family event yesterday and I was not that sociable. Felt out of place
@@deandrebrown4354 Bro I feel the same way. No matter what you say or do I feel like I don't belong here.
"Extroverts change the world, but introverts makes worlds" (citation not from me ;-;')
Bruh you have positive thoughts keep it up
Wow motivational Line ✌👍
I have a better one
Women change the world but men get prostate cancer
@@superleekegshoondinovevo6998 wut. (Lol I'm confused, as a female)
@@xhlcus88 consider yourself lucky you are free from the clutches of the prostate cancer demon
Actually I don't know what to say... I was just crying while watching the videos because the struggles of the guy at the video are actually similar to mine. I have always find it difficult to get inserted in a group of people in particular at school. But the struggle increases in University, when i have to find a group for the project work, the option were two: get inserted in a group of people where all the work is going to be done by me, or doing the project work alone.
Even, when i tried to starting talking to people at my age, i don't know what to talk about, and they make me feel I'm weird, because of my interests, that differs from the majority of people at my same age. Even at the question of "what are you doing this weekend?", I usually invent something and lie, saying that i go out with some friend of mine, when actually I don't have friends! And actually i want a friend with which i could share my interests, my thoughts, my experiences, my time, share with him/her activities, but it might seem strange, but i don't know from where to start!
Sorry to be vulgar but you need to learn to not give a fuck and love yourself. If you spent your weekend locked in your room reading a book, don't be afraid to say that to people. And if they judge you for that and call you boring then just shrug and move on. You don't have to please everyone. We're different and society will never understand us, the sooner you accept this the easier it gets to realize how special you are trust me.
Most introverts doesn't take avoiding that seriously but it makes a deep mark in heart for a long time
"Quiet people have the loudest minds"
They do because we observe things in the wider picture
Preach💪
Yeah😃👍
Yeah....
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
"Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured". I love this
But whole world thinks different. And I don't "love this". Society so far needs to understand introversion. When you have a job interview you need to be an extravert e.t.c. We are not understood. And I oftenly fall into a trap of thinking that something is wrong with me.
@proper psychology thank you
@serega superman I grew up thinking something was wrong with me. The world isn't kind to us introverts
@@leratomabusela7468 yep
That was a relief to me
I am discovering that being an introvert is my super power. It really is a struggle now that things are returning to what it once was. The lock down and isolation was a dream.
100% relatable, people labeled me as a "Quite person" & i have 0 friends ... Literally "0" 🙂
I’m an introvert but if I get bullied someone is going to get a punch in the face from me
Wish I has that thinking I'm always telling myself it's not worth it
@@panzer2781 me too. If I end up being bullied I would consider how that develops. If it's going to be temporary I won't react. If it's not physical, I definitely won't hit the person, because I'm not stupid enough to start a fight. So far I have never had the need to fight, but I'm always prepared for the possiblity
I'm an introvert and I don't know how to fight
Yea. We can still stand up for ourselves. We not shy or anything its just too fucking much to talk or to be wth other ppl. We like quiet.
@@alextint5987 you learn on the road no one know how to fight until he/she gets into a real fight
Extroverts: "why do u never talk, why are u so quiet?"
Meanwhile the extroverts do nothing to try and start a conversion or get to know the introvert.🤦🏾♂️
"Have you ever tried talking to me....yeah" 😂
Maybe because *you* have to start the conversation? Not everyone is willing to play the babysitter.
I'm socially awkward but I still understand their perspective wtf, it's not the world's fault...
Dallas you’re not a baby, you can do things yourself for once
@@glianonimi602 I think that his or her point is that extroverted people shouldn't undermine an introvert for "being quiet" or "never talking" when they aren't doing one thing to help. He or she isn't complaining about not being talked to. If he/she really is introverted, she/ he probably prefers not being talked to lol
As a person who prefers keeping to themselves despite being capable of "socializing like an extrovert ", I really do hate when some ignorant extroverts or even others who fall in other social or antisocial categories, judge based off of seeing only a small portion of my life. If people showed more decency and compassion, things like being reserved and less talkative wouldn't be seen as something to ridicule others
Yes thats right for my situation. Love it. Eventhough i try to get conversation but they even dont care and when im in converstion with them, i even dont know what theyre talking about
I’m an introvert and as a child, was shy because of a lazy eye and we all know how cruel people can be. I had my eye surgically corrected at 16, giving plenty of time to develop a lot of insecurity. I was very athletic but not into team sports; I rode my 12 speed 10 miles a day after school, swam, hiked, liked rock climbing and in winter ice skating was always on the menu! My husband is an extrovert and doesn’t understand my need for quiet and calm; he truly thinks there’s something wrong with me. So I showed him the Myers-Briggs test that my Aunt, a qualified Therapist, gave me years ago. He’s since changed his mind, thankfully. He was concerned that I was becoming isolated after our move to a new town…which I admit, I was missing Phoenix and our home there. Being an introvert can open you up to times of feeling overwhelmed, like in stores or busy restaurants. In that situation I need James to lead me in, especially if it’s low light because I can’t see well in that situation. ❤
I love to be an introvert in this fake world ❤️
"Be alone that's the secret of invention, that's where the ideas are born" - Nikola Tesla
Brandon L Love it!!!
Also an odd patient
But not all are genius , what about ordinary person who wants a simple life
@@shankardas6938 live simply
@@rajeev6126 he cant, becuz of this
I'm an introvet but I don't let others bully me...sheesh
Hi fie
Same, I always got bullied since elementary and high school but I fight back
@@phaydimalenda787 with force?
same I don't want to get bullied and I fight them back in not intentionally way
@@vermelho7801 if they hurt me physically of course I will fight back
I watched Susan Cain video just before this . . It’s so overwhelming to watch these videos . . I read so many comments, realised one thing that there are so many introverts like me that have been bullied and made fun of . . It’s very emotional to and a roller coaster to experience the brutality of the world, yet being so sensitive and kind to not hurt anyone back cause you already know what it feels like to feel that void of not being understood for the way you are . . The surprise is that an introvert will rarely do the same with anyone what he or she went through because of the fact we have the gift of intuition and the understanding and being the big person . . But then it feels really heavy also sometimes . . !! 🥺
This is probably the first time I’m expressing myself like this . . But the fact is I have been through situations like these and I felt so emotionally overloaded . . Thank you so much for this video Jay . . Keep rising ✨✨
I was an introvert and still growing.... Making others proud and being unavoidable important person in my circle. I am happy with that.
"The quietest person in the room, is actually the loudest."
Mind isEverything k
Sounds deep but actually doesnt make sense at all, sorry
i think he means
the quietest person in the room is the loudest in their mind
The quietest person in the room gets the most attention therefore without saying a word he is the loudest in the room. All eyes on him and if he ever chose to say just one sentence it would hold more value and worth than the other guy who thinks he is the loudest in the room.
i thought it will be in their minds but actually im loud in my mind,even when im trying to sleep
I'm proud to be an introvert...
Same bro
Same
#Mee tooo
Why?
same
But I'm not, I'm sad cause I don't have friends
Thank you for your true words.
In the end of the video I realised that I, as an introvert, often try to act like an extrovert, just to fit better into society. It's just sad that those thoughts are so common
Be yourself, everybody is already taken-oscar wilde... These words comfort me and makes me accept myself who i am
Extroverts bullying introverts is the neverending story
True, it’s mainly because the bully is often the one who feels insecure though
As an introvert since childhood thankfully I was not bullied ever in school or college. Even those so called bully or stronger looking guys from my classroom were good to me. Maybe I got lucky or what I don't know.
@@makadoxvsdk9530 that's a whole new meaning to the - "silent kid".
@@vamshitarun4399 Yeah I was silent but not that dangerious kind of silent kid. I was good at exam and I kinda used to help them in exam by showing my answers. Maybe that's why they were not bad to me.
@@makadoxvsdk9530 oh lol. relatable haha
I think this fits more with nonsocial people, rather than introverts
I'm both so it fits me either way
Gareth same
Are they different
@@kidmundane8029 Yes. An introvert just means someone who recharges when they're alone rather than around other people. An introvert can be the life of the party and know how to socialise but still prefer to be at home. An introvert can also be nonsocial and shy, there's many different types tho that is the stereotype when people think of the word introvert. Bottom line is introverts get energy from being alone/in a place they think is comfortable and extroverts get it from being around people.
behrlo moyn exactly 🤤😭
As an introvert, I always apologize for not being able to work with others, not being able to just talk to someone whenever I'd like or being assertive and this really made me realize that I shouldn't view my introversion as a weakness but rather a perspective that some people won't experience which I'm happy with because after spending a year trying to be an extrovert, it kind of messed with me in a way and I will start getting across to people that I don't want my introversion/quietness to be "cured".
I am a great example for this video
I used to be introvert until my college life but when things started to change in my life i am proud to say “I too loved being extrovert”
:)
I like your speech a lot
"Loneliness is not necessarily when you are alone".
Some people need space. Just give it to them.
True
True
I wish people understood some of us just need the space and be alone for a while!
But now, I'm too old being a single man😭
@@user-ci2ds7mw7s Try to like Steve Harvey said "be comfortable being uncomfortable"and excesise doing things outside your comfort zone especially with women, because women want to have a connection with men and making them feel a spark of attraction and connection, which may require expressing yourself more while flirting with them, check out dating couches like Dan Bacon here on UA-cam for dating advice.💯
I literally never say a word unless I absolutely have to.
Right!!!😍😍
Same
SAME
Me too
Same, now I stutter whenever I talk
wow.this is so real and true.....thanks for sharing this...now i feel happily being an introvert
This made me cry when he said it's not something cure
This were a lot of examples of bullying. Being an introvert doesn’t mean you’re being bullied and doesn’t mean you have no friends or are always the one left out. I get the message of the video, but the examples weren’t that great
Thank you. Someone who understands the meaning of the word "introvert"
Introvert r the person who love being alone , they doesn't feel jealous of being alone
Brenda TB yeah ikr
Yeah the success thing is too cliche and could lead to bad impression and expectations to introverts
Yeah and they too have best friends to whom they openly speak up. They don't have any problem being with their friends and teachers.
Life is hard when you are both shy and introvert beleive me this is the truth
I agree @Saa chi
I can relate to it
Spot on
Probably tougher to be a shy extrovert
Skyler D. agreed, assume you would be expected to be loud but you’d be scared. the shy introvert would expected to be quiet and could sneak out of it
Best message for those who always say to us he/ she doesn't speak alot, she /he is a shy person. They don't know that Silent is Golden 💛. Thanks you for golden messages 🙏🙏🙏
When I don't fit in this world then I imagine a World where iam cool and Very happy.
I am not an introvert please
I have lots of friends...(imaginary)
I talk a lot...(with myself)
I take part in lot of activities... (Like overthinking)
I even have a best friend...(my dog)
Same
Same here 😌
You are not alone 🙃
Same.Like I also sometimes talk to myself and then my parents say that I should not talk to myself saying that others will think u are crazy.
Same here
I'm a shy introvert and I always was. When I was in kindergarten I was always lonely, and with no friends. But one girl would always come to me and talk to me. I tried to walk away because I liked the loneliness, but after I switched my kindergarten she came too and tried talking to me again. She never gave up on me and now we are still best friends till this day. UwU.
Me too same
Ur lucky to have that 😉 kinda frndd whoohooo
Aww that’s so sweet:’) 😭💗
OMG me too.... but soon I figured out that she just used me in the end.... she betrayed me....
So cute 😍💕
I'm introvert...and it feels better when you're alone with low music, books and a cup of coffee ☕.
Wow This Is What I Needed To Hear 🫂 Thanks Mr.Jay Shetty