Before You Judge Someone - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 12 лис 2018
  • This story was inspired by "The Cookie Thief" by Wayne Dyer
    Hi, it’s Jay! I'd love to keep in touch. Add me on Messenger and you'll be the first to know about my latest podcast episodes, free courses, and BIG announcements every week! Click here: m.me/JayShettyIW?ref=youtube
    It would mean so much to me if you subscribe to my UA-cam Channel! bit.ly/2n6hiQP
    INSTAGRAM: bit.ly/2k1RILy
    FACEBOOK: bit.ly/2wFIOoB
    TWITTER: bit.ly/2A9a3Nb
    WEBSITE: bit.ly/2eBk2gA
    Credit for quotes
    "Don’t be so quick to judge, you never know when you might just find yourself walking in that person’s shoes." - Anonymous

КОМЕНТАРІ • 6 тис.

  • @karminiparsan4440
    @karminiparsan4440 5 років тому +5587

    "The best apology is changed behaviour" profound and true words. Thank you

    • @girlygirlwoman
      @girlygirlwoman 5 років тому +33

      That's a GREAT ATTITUDE and encouragement.

    • @lancemarchetti8673
      @lancemarchetti8673 5 років тому +20

      Surprise! These profound words were first spoken by John the Baptizer , It is recorded in the Bible in the Gospel of Luke chapter 3 verse 8.
      "Prove by the way you live that you have repented of your sins and turned to God"
      hows that for cool...before Himanshu Yadav reworded it 2000 years later...lol

    • @trishaw7751
      @trishaw7751 5 років тому +18

      No matter who first said this - it's worth repeating. And put into practice! 💞

    • @manitakarki4882
      @manitakarki4882 5 років тому +1

      Poor people

    • @mr.giggles6265
      @mr.giggles6265 5 років тому +4

      @@trishaw7751 You don't want to give credit to Christianity I see. Interesting, but not surprising.

  • @leoyu727
    @leoyu727 4 роки тому +832

    I love this story, never assume we’re always right.

    • @TomRipley7350
      @TomRipley7350 4 роки тому +5

      I am though.

    • @LittleTut
      @LittleTut 4 роки тому +2

      True. So True. :)

    • @hishamabdulwahab2164
      @hishamabdulwahab2164 4 роки тому

      Leo Yu 😀👍

    • @tavoiaiono8102
      @tavoiaiono8102 4 роки тому +6

      Leo Yu yes. One of my weaknesses....but I am working on bettering myself.

    • @ceftomapothelyamburcsvlafr2734
      @ceftomapothelyamburcsvlafr2734 4 роки тому +1

      THIS IS WHY, I NEVER LIKED READING OR WATCHING PSYCHOLOGIST’ way of READING PEOPLE, who are TOXIC AND WHO ARE NOT, unfortunately I have some of those what they consider NARCISSIST, but it depends on The person I am with SOMETIMES I NEED TO SHIELD MY SELF WITH SELF-WORTH because of TOXIC PEOPLE WHO HATES ME FOR NO REASON AND WANTS TO TAKE OVER MY LIFE, I needed to be STRONG and its why I prefer WORKING ALONE, A LOT OF PEOPLE ATTEMPTED TO STEAL MY IDEAS AND WHEN IN TEAMWORK THEY NEVER VALUED MY IDEAS AND ONLY THEIRS,I wish psycologist CAN JUST SHUT UP AND ONLY TALK WHEN SOMEONE ASKED FOR IT WHEN SOMEONE NEEDS THEM AND MOST OF ALL *KEEP THEIR VIEWS ON THEMSELVES, PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT, WHAT IF THEY ARE DEALING WITH PEOPLE THAT ARE COMPLETELY INCOMPATIBLE WITH THEM? THAT EXPRESSES THEIR HONEST THOUGHT OR KINDNESS IN A VERY OPPOSITE MANNER THAT THEIR VIEWS?* also in LYING AND TOXIC FRIENDS, I am The most caring friend my friends have and they Thank me for it, UNFORTUNATELY ACCORDING TO PSYCHOLOGY, some traits I Show I am a toxic person and even IMMATURE again, according to physcologist. While I am considered WISE BY NON-PHSYCHOLOGIST PEOPLE AROUND ME AND I AM THANKFUL FOR THAT.

  • @wiseshepherd1389
    @wiseshepherd1389 3 роки тому +641

    there is a story that i heard. i want to share it
    “a son asked his dad to invite 100 of his friends to his party. the dad went out and instead of telling them “come to the party tomorrow”, he told all of them “my son is extremely sick, could you guys come over tomorrow to be there for him”. the next day only 5 people came, the son asked the dad where his friends where. the dad told him, these are your real friends.

    • @MrETS68
      @MrETS68 3 роки тому +43

      So true......

    • @eo4295
      @eo4295 3 роки тому +37

      Ok but you wouldn't want to be around someone who's sick, especially in COVID-19 times

    • @eo4295
      @eo4295 3 роки тому +12

      @@MrETS68 Shut up or else I'll dislike ur videos

    • @robertfrate6665
      @robertfrate6665 3 роки тому +8

      Hi, ty for sharing it’s appreciated and helpful, goes to show you who your true friends really are, ty, Bob,

    • @fightfanentrepreneur5402
      @fightfanentrepreneur5402 3 роки тому +1

      Fantastic

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 4 роки тому +416

    Remember: "The best apology is changed behaviors."

    • @robsmith2925
      @robsmith2925 3 роки тому +2

      Sure. But so many people refuse to admit that they are the problem judging others in the first place. I used to work in the UK for a crappy large American company called Honeywell who I'm sure most people have heard about. Anyway I used to sit with this guy Andy Hill at break time until I had an absolute-nough of his relentless canteen time rants judging everyone in a negative way to make a conversation with whoever was sat at that table. For example - REALLY? eating the same thing all the time, I never understood you Rob. Really Tibor eating chips all the time! Why are they coming on their break late? Why are they going back to work a minute early? Really? Oh f**k off! Why are they always sat over their on their mobile phones all the time? Why does Fiona always eat her lunch in her car? Why is that person sat over their drinking out of such a large carton? Because that's big athletic people tend to do Andy. Really?
      And it got a lot worse than that when I was sat over the other end of the canteen minding my own business which I was trying to do anyway. People starting coming up to me saying, oh Andy said you look silly eating a banana because you eat it so slowly. Oh Andy had a good rant about you for half an hour at lunch when I mentioned to him that you have four electric scooters and so on.
      This negative bull shit went on for just over four years, that's how long I had worked at Honeywell who were bad enough to work for as it was due to bad management, favoritism, corruption etc. But one morning I had enough & pushed him flying, he responded whats wrong. I shouted stop f**king talking about me in the canteen & he acted all sheepish & apologetic like he was innocent the blady coward. Of course I was eventually sacked which was all apart of the plan to be honest as I was so happy to get away from such a negative corrupt cover up type of company.
      It crosses my mind from time to time as to what causes another human-being like Andy to be so badly distracted by what is going on around them & feel the need to use it as leverage to start a conversation & be so wound up & angry about other people who are just doing their own thing. I mean does the guy have a very strong level of autism, bipolar, ADHD, or something else that could bring on this behavior. People will say I over reacted but I honestly couldn't care as my motto will always be don't judge others in this fashion unless you are trying to cause a fight other wise learn to deal with your mental illness particularly talk openly about it otherwise if you are going to be denial & aggressive then obviously something has to give such as - You have a problem with me? Then lets go out in the car park like men & see who walks back in otherwise stop judging the way others including myself live life.

    • @robsmith2925
      @robsmith2925 3 роки тому

      @Monish Raj 🤣😅🤣😅

    • @xerxes5592
      @xerxes5592 3 роки тому

      Oh my god 🙏🙏❤️ so much deep meaning 👍

    • @Abhi-qm3jj
      @Abhi-qm3jj 3 роки тому

      @Monish Raj someone’s angry here....

    • @arianagrandefan8101
      @arianagrandefan8101 2 роки тому

      Gsjjjfbbsngos s

  • @SonamChOkie
    @SonamChOkie 5 років тому +2149

    It is from a poem 'The Cookie Thief' by Valerie Cox. I think due credit should be given to the original writer 2:52

    • @WisdomKeeper11
      @WisdomKeeper11 5 років тому +62

      Sonam ChOkie Actually Douglas Adams first wrote this in his book The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

    • @TheLittlechicthings
      @TheLittlechicthings 5 років тому +158

      That's what I was thinking when I saw written by Jay Shetty. It is not the first time he's done this and even if I like his videis, I don't appreciate the dishonesty. Once he shared a famois quote and his name was under it.

    • @uuhbsj297
      @uuhbsj297 5 років тому +27

      @@TheLittlechicthings That's sad.....

    • @whisperingwind7730
      @whisperingwind7730 4 роки тому +17

      Iizzy che Was he taking credit for making it up or simply retelling the story?

    • @Adamsjourney20
      @Adamsjourney20 4 роки тому +4

      Facts

  • @joshclayg
    @joshclayg 5 років тому +2370

    Before you judge someone, get your head out of your own arse and realise you're eating someone else's food.

    • @MsUnknown007
      @MsUnknown007 5 років тому +29

      Hahahahhaha u got the point

    • @maybemasoud2229
      @maybemasoud2229 5 років тому +11

      Please brothers and their sisters....!
      Please visit my channel and please subscribe it...and help me reach 500 subs...
      I request u all ... please

    • @sigaries4062
      @sigaries4062 5 років тому +2

      Hahaha..true, true.

    • @user-sz6rm8pg2x
      @user-sz6rm8pg2x 5 років тому +4

      @@maybemasoud2229 Nope lol bai

    • @Belacak
      @Belacak 5 років тому +2

      🤣😂

  • @soultosoul6645
    @soultosoul6645 4 роки тому +394

    My preschooler (now grown) had a year-end school party at one of the classmates homes so they could play/swim. Since it was the last day everyone brought appreciation gifts for the teacher. I noticed one little girl off to herself w her head down as the teacher was opening the gifts & oohing/aahing. I immediately put 2/2 together & said I’d be right back. There was a Hallmark one block away so I quickly went and purchased a gift w a card & hurried back. I pulled her to the side & asked if she’d like to give it to her teacher & her eyes lit up & she couldn’t get to the teacher fast enough. I don’t know why she didn’t have one to give & it certainly wasn’t required but I could see she wanted to have something & maybe her parents didn’t have time or the resources. I’d been there myself, countless times. All I knew is it was important to her & I had the ability to help, so I did.

    • @ghadira1950
      @ghadira1950 4 роки тому +19

      thats so cool of u!!!! that little girl must of been so grateful to you! it makes me so happy there are good people out there that will do things like that to others. if we as people don't look after each other then i dont know who will

    • @soultosoul6645
      @soultosoul6645 4 роки тому +12

      Doori A So very true. I try my best to leave everything, & more importantly, everyone a little better than the way I encountered & it’s always given me more than I gave. 💯💕

    • @kookchu9313
      @kookchu9313 4 роки тому +12

      appreciate what you did to her. I'm sure she will remember you and spread your kindness to others.

    • @snook7100
      @snook7100 4 роки тому +12

      Your comment deserves 1 million PLUS ‘thumbs up’. And, a whole lot of LOVE! Big LOVE.
      💙💛💜♥️

    • @soultosoul6645
      @soultosoul6645 4 роки тому +5

      Elaine Dwyer 🙏🏼💕Thank you so much, Elaine. You made my ❤️ smile. 💯

  • @Theslayqueens.
    @Theslayqueens. Рік тому +30

    “One day I wish people will judge people not by money or looks but by personality and their heart.”

    • @MaysMeow
      @MaysMeow Рік тому +3

      Your wish will come true

    • @robbiehall9958
      @robbiehall9958 5 місяців тому

      Right On 👍 I agree completely

    • @mrbro9675
      @mrbro9675 18 днів тому

      Allah can only make it true.

  • @ashutosh3658
    @ashutosh3658 4 роки тому +421

    That man was such a good person. He shared his cookies with a person he never knew. 👏.

    • @maribelarellano1275
      @maribelarellano1275 4 роки тому +1

      Merdain Skumit Yes! That was very sweet and generous of him, say as lit if this kind man.

    • @muminurrhoman8318
      @muminurrhoman8318 4 роки тому +3

      Yeah we need people like him in our every day life

    • @Mitutumuch
      @Mitutumuch 4 роки тому

      Facts cuz i woulda said somthing, i would have looked for my boz though before jumping to conclusion

    • @mrmurdx8956
      @mrmurdx8956 4 роки тому +1

      What if he didn't wash his hands prior to eating those cookies and his filthy hands contaminated that half which he later eat🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • @simonngatia7454
      @simonngatia7454 4 роки тому

      Truee

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 5 років тому +915

    Many people naturally come to assumptions on seeing people do certain things, when the reality is usually much deeper. Beautiful story, the generosity of the man sharing his cookies was how we should all aim to be

    • @lxrson1916
      @lxrson1916 5 років тому +1

      I know true

    • @lindylu8414
      @lindylu8414 5 років тому +1

      I think some hearts get tainted by so much bad in the world. Thing is to be positive and see the beauty.

    • @lindylu8414
      @lindylu8414 5 років тому

      @markjvp True.

    • @eddiesilverbackson6829
      @eddiesilverbackson6829 5 років тому

      Not to be a hater or anything, but this is a rip-off of a more original short film called snack attackua-cam.com/video/38y_1EWIE9I/v-deo.html

    • @charlotteknoblauch3901
      @charlotteknoblauch3901 5 років тому

      This is a poem by Valerie Cox called the cookie thief.....so this should be called the poem thief.

  • @makaylahollywood3677
    @makaylahollywood3677 3 роки тому +33

    I started to tear up. This story will make me a better human being.

    • @jeffreypetro3803
      @jeffreypetro3803 3 роки тому +2

      The reply I could've written. In a time spent viewing the most reprehensible behavior by my so many of my fellow humans, I wasn't ready for such a kind & gracious outcome/moral to this story. Namaste🙏🕊🙏

    • @keephiscommandmentsandlive9860
      @keephiscommandmentsandlive9860 2 роки тому

      Makayla no it won't, and not because you don't want to but because you don't know how to.

  • @kenenth84
    @kenenth84 4 роки тому +349

    Me: "Hey, you are eating my cookies."
    Him: "Nah-ah, those cookies are mine, you want some?"
    Me: (look around) "No, I'm good."
    Me: (Spot the cookie.) "Here it is, I must have misplaced it while grabing the magazine to read. My apology."
    Him: "Don't need to mention it"
    -------------------------------------------------
    (just talk it out instead of giving stares)

    • @pamthetraveler7224
      @pamthetraveler7224 4 роки тому +24

      kenenth84 that would be nice, proper communication. We now live in a world of instant judgment and passive aggressive is standard. I’m too straight forward, which used to be applauded but now I’m too aggressive. I’m combative. I’m negative. Sigh. When did forthright facts and communication become wrong?

    • @TheBurninator50
      @TheBurninator50 4 роки тому +16

      You mean...talk to the other person???? No no no I couldn't do that. I'm much more comfortable judging and glaring in silence.

    • @TruthOne313
      @TruthOne313 4 роки тому +1

      The better lesson seriously, haahaha

    • @wafi9746
      @wafi9746 4 роки тому +1

      Totally agree

    • @vaishnavibakshi2716
      @vaishnavibakshi2716 4 роки тому +7

      Try to understand the moral of the story instead of being logical about it.

  • @rosefadel5421
    @rosefadel5421 4 роки тому +292

    I think most of us are guilty of judging others
    Peace everyone 😊

    • @jeffreygranger6913
      @jeffreygranger6913 4 роки тому +3

      @mohit adhana Yes, ALL of us. The ones who deny it have an additional problem.

    • @LONEWOLF-rq5tl
      @LONEWOLF-rq5tl 4 роки тому +3

      @mohit adhana Oh, that's pretty much everyone.

    • @desiavenger2666
      @desiavenger2666 4 роки тому +2

      That's human nature. Don't blame yourself. Nature made us like this only. Don't know why though? 🤔

    • @simonngatia7454
      @simonngatia7454 4 роки тому +1

      Truee

    • @cory4682
      @cory4682 4 роки тому +2

      I was at a restaurant in a bad neighborhood,People outside were knocking at the window,tweeked out in Meth,I wondered Why someone would choose to do that to themselves,I caught myself,look at some of the stuiput choices I made in my own life,some out of fear,some from grief.Everyone has their own struggles.

  • @kaykaye8106
    @kaykaye8106 5 років тому +475

    OMGosh... I cried my eyes out watching this video because I saw myself in the irritated man.... so sorry... thank you for the eye opener...

    • @Filip-cr2ir
      @Filip-cr2ir 5 років тому +11

      Why cry

    • @TomRipley7350
      @TomRipley7350 5 років тому +7

      Yeah, pull yourself together.

    • @lovepink2078
      @lovepink2078 5 років тому +16

      @@TomRipley7350 because they have a heart. Don't be cold.

    • @lovepink2078
      @lovepink2078 5 років тому +7

      @@TomRipley7350 So that's all you got from this video? There's no deeper meaning to you? I pity you then. I hope one day you can see what I saw in this.

    • @lovepink2078
      @lovepink2078 5 років тому +5

      @@TomRipley7350 OK and do you think you're the only one who empathizes with what happened at Sri Lanka? Your logic is that people should only cry when you feel they need to? You do realize we are all our own person right? Not everyone cries, laughs or feels the same way towards the same thing. We aren't robots all programmed with the same emotions. Crying over something doesn't make someone weak and doesn't justify your first cold statement. Tears also come from happiness and many other things.

  • @kingc3521
    @kingc3521 4 роки тому +12

    That happened to me a couple years ago, it humbled me to the bone. I was quick to judge and that person I was judging ended up helping me not knowing that with out that help I would have lost everything. Definitely made me change my view on people , and try to understand their situation.

  • @monmonblanco
    @monmonblanco 3 роки тому +12

    This is one of the best episodes. Short but meaningful.

  • @anisia792
    @anisia792 4 роки тому +129

    "The best apology is changed behavior"
    That makes a global sense

  • @mr.zagzagata5889
    @mr.zagzagata5889 5 років тому +428

    Lord keep me strong
    so i will not judge others .

  • @daslous89
    @daslous89 3 роки тому +10

    That was brilliant. We need to realize that it's not about "me", we are here for everyone else. To love and serve one another. Give everything you can, cause it all comes back in the end better than before. He did realize on the way out and gave

  • @bicdrako6580
    @bicdrako6580 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for showing on my path of self empowerment and better myself, this is one the lessons I learnt when I was younger, don’t judge if you don’t want to be judged, judging without context is just pointless and not fair .

  • @cmw7916
    @cmw7916 4 роки тому +128

    Three years ago I took my 92 year old mother to sit at a public concession area overlooking a lovely nearby beach.
    While going up the ramp she started having some twinges in her neck area which also moved to her shoulder.
    Concerned, I googled “heart attack symptoms in women”, saw some similarities in her condition, and explained to her maybe we should call an ambulance. She angrily refused, thinking I was wrong, so I told her to stay put so I could get the car which was parked a distance away.
    Driving back, in order to get close to her, I had to drive on something like a wide pathway, and some angry beachgoers screamed some nasty profanities at me while I was struggling to get by them. We spent hours in the emergency room and the hospital, she had to have a stent put in her artery, was home for a bit but then 6 months later died from bladder cancer.
    I just remember my anxiety hearing the people yelling at me, thinking “please don’t be so angry - my mother, my mother!” While I was trying to rush to her.
    My patience with others has improved a lot.

    • @littyblissed2004
      @littyblissed2004 4 роки тому +3

      why did your patience improve fr them being so jerky, ?,

    • @cmw7916
      @cmw7916 4 роки тому +14

      litty blissed ...thanks for your concern. I meant my patience towards people who look like they are not obeying the “rules”, maybe they have an emergency or are having a bad day and are not acting normal.

    • @johnjohn-cs9eu
      @johnjohn-cs9eu 4 роки тому +6

      She is at rest now RIP

    • @littyblissed2004
      @littyblissed2004 4 роки тому +2

      @@johnjohn-cs9eu im taking back what i said re canu help me lose weight cuz of your yucky description of food.(another post not this 1)....i was just joking..about your weight loss help..in case u mightve sent something my way

  • @JonathanJK
    @JonathanJK 5 років тому +225

    "Tried to look for him".*
    *Never even got out of his chair to look.

    • @deepanshugarg1497
      @deepanshugarg1497 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/ipBnX7UvEog/v-deo.html
      please support me guys🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @theequalizer4justice879
    @theequalizer4justice879 3 роки тому +3

    This is So Great, what a Great example for a really true statement
    "Things aren't always as they seem, looks can be deceiving "

  • @farazyshahin
    @farazyshahin 3 роки тому

    I couldn't stop my tears from my eyes . what a story. we people are judge other people so much easy. I'm one of them . your story open my heart and eyes. thank you sir. God bless you.

  • @bobbivaneman1584
    @bobbivaneman1584 4 роки тому +185

    I was in a grocery store at 11pm.The store was fairly empty.A man kept staring at me.When I moved to another section of the store,there he was again staring at me. I thought oh great, this guy is either trying to pick me up or is a stalker.As it was late, there was only one lane open to pay for my groceries.There he was in front of me! I hesitated but thought, ok I'll get the security guard to walk me out.As I stood there I could hear his conversation with the cashier.He began to tell her that his mother had just died that day & he had no one to talk to about it.I felt absolutely horrible that I had made such a gross mistake in prejudging this brokenhearted man.I immediately gave him a hug & began to talk to him.I listened to him as he poured his heart out.I let him cry until he was all cried & talked out.I prayed with him & told him that his mom was happy & in the arms of Jesus & she would be waiting for him to join her. I have tears in my eyes right now thinking about that man. I shall never forget that night. I'm so glad that you made this video so I could share my story of the man in the grocery store.

    • @BlueWithoutBiu
      @BlueWithoutBiu 4 роки тому +24

      Bless you, sweetheart. Can't really blame you for being wary and doubtful at first. But I feel bad for that man too. May he find his peace soon.

    • @bobbivaneman1584
      @bobbivaneman1584 4 роки тому +13

      Crystal Jung God bless you Crystal, for your beautiful heart. 😘

    • @BlueWithoutBiu
      @BlueWithoutBiu 4 роки тому +11

      @@bobbivaneman1584 😘🤗❤❤ Love you. This world needs more warm-hearted people like you. ❤

    • @bobbivaneman1584
      @bobbivaneman1584 4 роки тому +6

      Crystal Jung And you too, Crystal. May God richly bless you & your family. I will keep you in my prayers, Sister. 💝

    • @bobbivaneman1584
      @bobbivaneman1584 4 роки тому +7

      Crystal Jung I LOVE YOU TOO !!! 😘

  • @gingerteddy618
    @gingerteddy618 5 років тому +150

    so many empty tables...he picked that one.

    • @user-gv5hm8po6b
      @user-gv5hm8po6b 5 років тому +6

      Ginger Teddy+ They’re just trying to prove their point, and that’s what’s important.

    • @mnotumnotu9141
      @mnotumnotu9141 5 років тому +5

      Its bcoz director said him to choose it...😂

    • @cfjlkfsjf
      @cfjlkfsjf 5 років тому

      Well he did forget where he put his cookies and took another mans cookies.

  • @JapaneseSatori
    @JapaneseSatori Рік тому +1

    Judgements... deep topic. I love this story. Knowing how we often judge others and things gives us hints about how we think about relationships and how we see our realities too ♡

  • @belincisneros6019
    @belincisneros6019 4 роки тому

    Your video made me cry. An amazing way to show such kindness in a dark world. God Bless you

  • @eviecarter-kerr9517
    @eviecarter-kerr9517 5 років тому +56

    OMG when he found his actual cookies my heart sank

  • @rebeccakahrs7290
    @rebeccakahrs7290 4 роки тому +321

    Great to see this re enacted this is based off a poem called “The Cookie Thief” by Valarie Cox. Credit should be given to the original artist by saying..based off of a poem by...Valarie Cox

    • @charlottes.
      @charlottes. 4 роки тому +6

      Rebecca Kahrs I live in Germany and in our German lessons at school we discussed a similar story but instead of cookies it was a soup that was shared

    • @neelsboonzaaier5022
      @neelsboonzaaier5022 4 роки тому +6

      You are actually correct - BUT oh dear the “high horse”!! Time for someone to share a similar story about people on their high horses....

    • @octaviomichel.r2986
      @octaviomichel.r2986 4 роки тому +7

      I totally agree with you 100 percent, whomever wrote the original story should get the credit, I say whomever because I read a comment that said that in Germany there was a version with soup instead of cookies. Jay Shetty has to find out who the original person is and give credit to the original writer..

    • @onlythetruth1686
      @onlythetruth1686 4 роки тому +5

      "The stories' thief "...not respecting others rights..for many stories and quote he does that as if he invented it..and people just like ..saying very inspirational.

    • @vs7412
      @vs7412 4 роки тому +2

      @@charlottes. Omg yes I had to read that story over 10 years ago and it's the first thing that popped in my mind, love that story!

  • @imsamiurrahman
    @imsamiurrahman 3 роки тому +3

    That man is so nice and inspiring that it makes me want to become like him.

  • @evehellod9776
    @evehellod9776 4 роки тому

    I've heard this story countless of times with different food items but I'm always touched by it

  • @MaxUglyDuckling
    @MaxUglyDuckling 5 років тому +1395

    5 years later, the man tells his kid...
    “Let me tell you how I met you father. I accidentally ate his cookies at an airport but he was so generous and kind to me”...

    • @Gabiche
      @Gabiche 5 років тому +13

      Hahaha!

    • @earlessroboticcat7102
      @earlessroboticcat7102 5 років тому +117

      So they’re a gay couple? 😂

    • @uknasa007
      @uknasa007 5 років тому +55

      @@earlessroboticcat7102 IN HIS VERSION YES LOL

    • @sapientiamax
      @sapientiamax 5 років тому +42

      ok so I like this version lmao ;)

    • @nostalgia6068
      @nostalgia6068 5 років тому +20

      Vowel
      Just replace man with woman and a second version is Formed
      Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jhillberrymixa.3730
    @jhillberrymixa.3730 4 роки тому +83

    It’s so embarassing really! But the moral lesson here, don’t judge someone for in the end you’ll be judge too! I really
    loved the story! 😍

  • @andreja1973
    @andreja1973 3 роки тому +2

    I found faith in 2015. I was once like the blind guy; I got easily annoyed if someone took something of mine, now I believe giving is humble sharing. I would never go back to being that person. I believe in God and believe those LESS fortunate are more giving. Stay blessed. Thanks #Jayshetty

  • @annex247
    @annex247 2 роки тому

    The best apology is changed behavior. Thank you for this.

  • @godsamazinggrace5331
    @godsamazinggrace5331 4 роки тому +47

    If people know how to put themselves in another's shoe
    This would be awesome
    Truth is
    Most people are prideful, arrogant and despise others!

    • @lucasgibbs4879
      @lucasgibbs4879 4 роки тому

      I really want to say your wrong

    • @lucasgibbs4879
      @lucasgibbs4879 4 роки тому +1

      @lulu some trolls do move out of thier mums basement and go on to lead normalish lives

    • @shanemitchell5807
      @shanemitchell5807 3 роки тому

      Most people are conceited knobs and not intelligent enough to realize they are stupid.

    • @shanemitchell5807
      @shanemitchell5807 3 роки тому

      @Christine Gainer My case in point....

  • @GursherGM
    @GursherGM 5 років тому +805

    “A man was waiting at an airport”
    Dude clearly walks into a shop on the street in broad daylight

    • @kpoptrash2674
      @kpoptrash2674 5 років тому +11

      Lmaoo

    • @energetic1803
      @energetic1803 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂😂💀

    • @pinkchampagne9965
      @pinkchampagne9965 5 років тому +18

      Lol, LET IT GO.

    • @lyssweet2979
      @lyssweet2979 5 років тому +1

      Yeaaa hahahaha

    • @aaminah952
      @aaminah952 5 років тому +5

      This is taken from an original video where a man was waiting for his flight,instead of donut they put biscuits here the original one had an old men too

  • @Allastrology
    @Allastrology 4 роки тому

    What i liked about this was the depth. We usually say, actions speak louder than words. Here you taught us that even action can be mis-read🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Rukhsana2056
    @Rukhsana2056 3 роки тому +8

    Good Lessons learned from others are long lasting and he/ she is rewarded for it as long as such deeds are passed on from one to another ... Just like smiling ... 😊 ongoing charities ! 💫

  • @domeniconatali8069
    @domeniconatali8069 5 років тому +225

    I already heard this story, but by the way you shared an inspiring message. Amazing job as always! So much love from Italy!🌟

  • @liboojil
    @liboojil 5 років тому +69

    this was the deepest message ever

    • @liboojil
      @liboojil 5 років тому +1

      @fredo Fred i mean ya... mybe

    • @Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97
      @Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 5 років тому

      It really was, it's at the core of the world's misunderstandings.

  • @sanderossi8013
    @sanderossi8013 4 роки тому

    Very very good example! One is mistaken yet very patient, the other is also patient, kind and generous. We can learn from both of these two men. Because in their minds the other is taking from them without asking.

  • @pamelajohnson8900
    @pamelajohnson8900 4 роки тому

    Yes sometimes things that happen are not as they appear!
    Real enlightening! Thank you!

  • @henryhildebrand7997
    @henryhildebrand7997 4 роки тому +18

    "The best apology is changed behavior" absolute truth 👏

  • @virrap.2092
    @virrap.2092 4 роки тому +28

    "The best apology is a changed behavior." That was also repentance is all about. It strikes me.

  • @Ytnzy250
    @Ytnzy250 3 роки тому

    Wayne Dyer originally spoke of this story many decades ago, still a valuable lesson worth repeating for today's audience.
    God bless all.

  • @farihamohamedhilmy4700
    @farihamohamedhilmy4700 4 роки тому

    Now that is a powerful message. The best apology is changed behavior

  • @1TheWhiteKnight1
    @1TheWhiteKnight1 4 роки тому +1168

    Nobody is touching anyone else’s cookies in Covid19

    • @jengable4888
      @jengable4888 4 роки тому +1

      1TheWhiteKnight1 ..no they just go into your apt illegally before the "virus" and "eat your cookies" and screw with the rest of your food and belongings !

    • @johnjohn-cs9eu
      @johnjohn-cs9eu 4 роки тому +8

      Why? They've probably been handled by the baker and his staff the delivery guy and his staff several of the cafe staff; flies have ate bits and sh*t on them. Covered in dust from being left out from the day before. And even if they were wearing gloves when put into boxes l expect the same gloved hands handled the money (circulated around millions.) Why do you think they were half price?
      Also, the only way to avoid viruses is to live in a bubble which is impossible: all this glove and mask wearing is superfluous.

    • @littyblissed2004
      @littyblissed2004 4 роки тому +3

      @@johnjohn-cs9eu wd u be my weight loss coach? I think u have a knack for it. :)

    • @1TheWhiteKnight1
      @1TheWhiteKnight1 4 роки тому +5

      John Kean I bake my own cookies. If your dirty, grubby little hands come near them I will gut you like a fish 😘

    • @nobodybutme2698
      @nobodybutme2698 4 роки тому +1

      😂🤣

  • @limming5589
    @limming5589 5 років тому +34

    Nowadays too many people are judge the books by its cover, this is a great story that you never know how hard he/she walk into the path that had been choosen

    • @eduardochavacano
      @eduardochavacano 5 років тому

      you would have to be a total moron not to wonder.... some dude is eating all your food and you are not talking to each other, this is so GAY. AND ITS OKAY, if you were into the game.

  • @bryantsang225
    @bryantsang225 2 роки тому

    It's deep thanks Jay Shetty God bless and the whole Shetty's army here, may God hear your prayers.

  • @LidaMLira
    @LidaMLira 2 роки тому

    So so true. You don’t know what the other person is going through.!

  • @darksoul479
    @darksoul479 4 роки тому +28

    " Things aren't always as they appear"
    Thank you, I have been telling people that for years.

  • @pot_kivach160
    @pot_kivach160 4 роки тому +398

    The moral of the story is: you can get away with eating someone else’s cookies by looking at them as if they’re stealing yours.

  • @ha6092
    @ha6092 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for sharing this life lesson and moment of laughter and tears.

  • @ultranate8618
    @ultranate8618 3 роки тому +2

    This was a delight with a great message for us all. Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @gangavi3
    @gangavi3 4 роки тому +29

    "best apology is changed behaviour"- superlike 👍

  • @MrKundu-vp7td
    @MrKundu-vp7td 5 років тому +52

    Okay. I'm shocked. Seriously.
    I don't really judge people, I don't like judging them but sometimes unconsciously I do. But from now on, no I won't. Or at least I'll think thousands of times to do so.
    Thank you for this wonderful story.😇

    • @girlygirlwoman
      @girlygirlwoman 5 років тому +1

      Love this transparent honesty! God Bless You!

    • @kierarose3966
      @kierarose3966 5 років тому

      Don't worry I see this in myself but judging other people is part of human nature but the more Concoiusly you decide on not Judging someone the easier it gets hope this helped 😊😊😊

  • @life_in_paper
    @life_in_paper 3 роки тому

    Finally got back my spirituality. Thanks Mr. Shetty. 🙏🏾

  • @GuitarGrrrella
    @GuitarGrrrella 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for posting this. I heard Wayne Dyer tell this story a while back. We all can learn from this--especially now with Covid. We're fighting among each other with partisan politics, yet most of us--democrat and republican, liberal and conservative--most of us want the same thing--freedom to be our genuine selves, to live up to our true potential and to spend time with our friends and family. Maybe we can find a common ground?

  • @fnujasvinder6690
    @fnujasvinder6690 4 роки тому +11

    I can't stop myself watching this video over and over again. I don't know why it's so touchy

  • @Abhiiishekkkk
    @Abhiiishekkkk 5 років тому +634

    Wait what I think I have seen this before but where I don't know??

    • @purnendupanchal9454
      @purnendupanchal9454 5 років тому +6

      In GOPAL DAS' video

    • @simonrogsgarcia5118
      @simonrogsgarcia5118 5 років тому +62

      The granny right?

    • @dhirajverma712
      @dhirajverma712 5 років тому +26

      i have also seen it
      but his representation is amazing.

    • @insiNew
      @insiNew 5 років тому +5

      Same here

    • @shreeju5543
      @shreeju5543 5 років тому +34

      It is a story that was written long ago in some english course books of school level

  • @Aritul
    @Aritul 4 роки тому +4

    I pray that I'll remember this in my interactions with people.

  • @aquietone3809
    @aquietone3809 4 роки тому

    I stumbled across this video that I enjoyed. I’m happy to see that you’re still opening eyes, in your own way

  • @amazingvibens568
    @amazingvibens568 4 роки тому +18

    The problem we have as human beings we judge alot, l love the part when he said the best apology is change of behavior ,remember don't judge someone no matter what the circumstances is be generous

  • @LessonsInLife
    @LessonsInLife 5 років тому +3

    I will always remember that "The best apology is changed behaviour". Love you so much !

  • @ileencarston2144
    @ileencarston2144 Рік тому +10

    Don't be so quick to judge someone, you never know when you're going to find yourself walking in someone else's shoes. True words Jay. Love and light

  • @neharasilva4278
    @neharasilva4278 3 роки тому +2

    , actually, his lectures are treasures, so important to our lives

  • @rebeccaallen2608
    @rebeccaallen2608 4 роки тому +4

    I always say be kind and compassionate because you never know when you are entertaining an angel!
    Blessings. 💜🐾🧚‍♀️

  • @safaltaofficial4112
    @safaltaofficial4112 4 роки тому +319

    I felt so bad, i thought the casual guy was trying to flirt him.

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 роки тому

    My favorite video of Jay. Awesome speech.

  • @ajaykumara7158
    @ajaykumara7158 2 роки тому

    Thank you JAY for your message!

  • @whisperingwind7730
    @whisperingwind7730 4 роки тому +8

    And remember the BEST apology is changed behavior!
    I got chills listening to this...
    Beautiful and True.
    Thank U for sharing~
    🌬🙏🏻💗☺️🙌🏻✨✌🏻

  • @yeadontwearitout
    @yeadontwearitout 4 роки тому +142

    The irritated man showed plenty of restraint actually. I'd be like don't touch mah cookeez

    • @unrighteous3066
      @unrighteous3066 4 роки тому

      Keith Segovia 😂

    • @cockeyedoptimista
      @cockeyedoptimista 4 роки тому +4

      Keith Segovia Yeah, it was a good thing! He'd have made even more a fool out of himself. - This video is a great reminder for me..

    • @yeadontwearitout
      @yeadontwearitout 4 роки тому +2

      @PMP Professional no, not seriously relax yourself. How do you watch an inspirational video about patience and get all snippy at a simple joke. You should rewatch the video and pay attention the second time around

    • @snaggle2012
      @snaggle2012 4 роки тому

      Lol YASSS

    • @joshua50101
      @joshua50101 4 роки тому

      But those aren't you efing cookies

  • @FLNYgirl1980
    @FLNYgirl1980 3 роки тому

    I believe this video changed my entire life! Thank you Jay!

  • @micheleallen1402
    @micheleallen1402 3 роки тому

    All his videos are immensely sobering.

  • @solomonlee4503
    @solomonlee4503 4 роки тому +9

    Always remain calm in any situation. This give one a clear mind to assess and perceive what is happening.

  • @SweetMariehoneybee0933
    @SweetMariehoneybee0933 4 роки тому +5

    Watched this twice. Thank you, very true. I’ve heard this around & try to apply it most times, tho I have my days. I’ve suffered, a brain injury amongst additional symptoms via the accident. I’m mentally “with it” & still able to manage but my God, pain 70%. You never know who this other man really was. “Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby some have entertained Angels unaware.” Hebrews 13:2 🕊

  • @neddalakhdarchaoche9232
    @neddalakhdarchaoche9232 3 роки тому

    Simply Beautiful.You always show us wonderful things and always say very pleasant comments Thank you Jay.

  • @vito6238
    @vito6238 4 роки тому +1

    It's a touching but rare story! in my part they say: "to think badly is a sin but often you are right"

  • @JohnSmith-zo6ir
    @JohnSmith-zo6ir 4 роки тому +12

    "The best apology is changed behaviour" 👍👏

  • @Archer335
    @Archer335 4 роки тому +25

    One of my all-time favorite quotes:
    “Reserving judgments is a matter of infinite hope.”
    - First chapter of The Great Gatsby

  • @shashwatverma3545
    @shashwatverma3545 3 роки тому

    This guy is spreading some real positivity

  • @irenemakoni1151
    @irenemakoni1151 2 роки тому +1

    Well said. Thank you so much for the words of wisdom

  • @nqobazibuko
    @nqobazibuko 5 років тому +72

    Wow! Another hit from Jay, I was wondering where he was going to with this and delivered another classic!

  • @Fabby47
    @Fabby47 4 роки тому +6

    Love this ! So very true. Don’t judge.

  • @theodre0896
    @theodre0896 4 роки тому

    This story is truly an eye opener!

  • @eschwarz1003
    @eschwarz1003 4 роки тому

    Make more of these! They are important.

  • @dreamer9071
    @dreamer9071 5 років тому +7

    I always save what i hear from u..I am trying to bring a change in me,but i am one step away

  • @Simaq7
    @Simaq7 4 роки тому +9

    I laughed alone as I watched where he realized he'd been eating someone else's cookies all along, and then I found myself peeling Onions, thankfully in the privacy of my office. I was touched by the generosity of the other gentleman, breaking that last cookie in half

  • @StingerSecSol
    @StingerSecSol 3 роки тому

    I believe everybody needs to see this video! Powerful lesson!

  • @coryhollywood6021
    @coryhollywood6021 3 роки тому

    I love this. I could watch it a million times

  • @kusumfernandes4057
    @kusumfernandes4057 5 років тому +3

    Thx Jay for such heartwarming videos. Good Bless

  • @ezetheobryrorrim9909
    @ezetheobryrorrim9909 4 роки тому +25

    That was a good one, good story, good example, and good lesson to learn.

  • @ivymiriamrawagia5500
    @ivymiriamrawagia5500 3 роки тому

    That's a good lesson in life. Sharing is caring after all with a smile. Don't judge as yet coz you might not know who that person is. 😊👍

  • @vipulsankpal967
    @vipulsankpal967 4 роки тому

    Simple message with simple story.
    Good one.

  • @shadesofdreams5957
    @shadesofdreams5957 5 років тому +5

    This is such a good illustration explaining how to treat every new person that we meet in life.

    • @keswarnathragbar8225
      @keswarnathragbar8225 5 років тому

      Yes it is .To much time people tend to miss the big picture.God given virtues are great .look beyond the surface and try to be in someone else's shoes.This is how i look at it .We are all beautiful souls in the world . God loves us .

  • @GreenEyes-gv6zj
    @GreenEyes-gv6zj 4 роки тому +21

    My father, always said never jugde a book by its cover !!! That goes for people as well !!

    • @kristyrodriguez5220
      @kristyrodriguez5220 4 роки тому

      My take on that is don't misjudge the cover either. It may not be what you believe it's about.

    • @TomRipley7350
      @TomRipley7350 4 роки тому +1

      @@kristyrodriguez5220 That's my take too! If you're judging a book by it's cover, you have a prejudice about the cover.

  • @NoreenDyer
    @NoreenDyer 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this, important, kind and good hearted message! Much appreciated!!! Love ❤🌍✨🙏

  • @callieraquel
    @callieraquel Рік тому

    Thank you, I needed to hear this today.