6 Extroverts vs 1 Secret Introvert | Odd One Out
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01:51 Round 1
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For an introvert, the only thing that's worse than a room full of loud extroverts, would be a room full of loud extroverts trying to prove to each other that they're extroverts hahaha
that
Exactly 😂
couldn’t have said it better 💯😂
Right?! It all seemed so scary to me specially Ellie😂
Right. It must've been hell for her in that box lol
As an introvert, I would have voted against myself just to escape this nightmare.
LMAO same 😭😭😭
Comentario infravalorado xD
me too 😭💀
You are not an introvert, you are asocial. Introvert means reaponding and introverts can be out going and enjoy sending time with people
Why? - a fellow introvert
"A SMALL group of 20 size people" that's how you know Zed definetily was not the introverted, that's a HUGE group!
Lol, you got me
@@zedlyfe dude you were so cool, loved your energy! i knew before the first round even started that you weren't the mole.
@@clearerthanwater I appreciate your kind words💙
No it isn't its so tiny
As an extrovert 20 people is definitely a lot lol
I’m an introvert with social anxiety so just imagining being the mole trying to prove you’re in introvert in a room full of people looks like a nightmare
Being introvert and being anxious have no direct causual connection.
Mabye there is some corelation but introverts doesn't equal socially anxious...
@@serujiphonx9070 they said “I’m an introvert *with* social anxiety” they didn’t say introversion and social anxiety are the same thing, in fact their comment clearly makes the distinction. Did you even read what they said? 🤦🏾♀️
@@pumkinspiceallthingsnice4051 no they say stuff like “ *as an introvert* this is my worst nightmare”
literally same
@@whizz_0711Believe me that is 🤧
6 horsegirls/horseboys and 1 secret horse
That would be so epic!
finally something worth my time
Now
What is a horse boy
Rainy is 4 parallel universes ahead of us all
everyone immediately revealing who they voted for is the most extroverted thing ever
This is true.
LMAOOOO FR
frr i was so scared of them
hahahha omg yes
Exactly
I love how some of Zed’s hobbies (chess, computers) and his job as a photographer are often stereotyped as “introvert hobbies”, but he’s wholeheartedly an extrovert😂
Dude I thought he was the introvert from his looks alone, dude looks like he plays world of warcraft in his free time or something
Anyone: *talks*
Every other person: I just feel like they were talking too much and being suspicious
Imagine how draining this was for the introvert. Wow that's a lot
Ahaaa that’s what I was thinking. My head would’ve been pounding from all the energy in the room😅
I would’ve been dead after that
@@cam-lg2xy literally
For real i've just seen on the internet that being around people like that is draining for introverts and now i understand why i take a nap everyday after school. I thought i was depressed or sum cause my soul litteraly leaves my body when i am back home but no i'm just an ambivert but more introvert.
This environment was a vibe 😭 It sucks when you're an extrovert but because of Covid you can't even be one anymore. I can totally see how this would be draining for an introvert!
*"I voted for her because she seemed like she was voting for me"* 😂😂😂😂
Isn’t that what your suppose to do?
Among us
Haha, yes I loved that logic 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 that’s why I didn’t raise my hand cause I knew Zed would vote me out
Same
As an extrovert, that was overwhelming for me. People generally stereotype extroverts as loud, talkative, and high energy. To me extroverts recharge their energy by being around people, and are more comfortable in social situations (which lends to us being more open to approaching strangers). I feel refreshed and less stressed when I'm with people and that includes calm activities like playing board games or even watching a movie. Contrary to popular belief, we aren't screaming all the time :) We just like being around other people!
THIS omg same group activities and like talking games are everything
exactly
I'm an introvert and I totally agree with you, people stereotype extroverts wayy too much
LOOK!
I was scrolling through the comments l found soooo many “as an introvert”.
Can l see more extroverts on the media?
honestly i am extroveretd but i am kind of less intelligent so i am pushed out from your groups. so i hate you.
The real introverts were the ones who didnt show up when they got messaged they were accepted
"extroverted doesn't mean talking alot"
- votes out the person who spoke the least in the first round 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Doesn't mean the person talking the least is an extrovert lol
@@dimbulb2959 some extroverts take time to feel the vibe and energy.
They were talking THE WHOLE TIME through yeah definatly doesn't mean talking alot 🤡
They voted out the person that interacted with people the most. The person can be talking a little bit however interacting with people a lot. Eg; asking questions
That works for every game. The mole speaks the least for fear of showing their hand. Doesn't have to be a intro-/extrovert thing.
As an introvert just watching them talk is draining my energy
😅😅😅
I’m an extrovert and watching them talk is draining me out
I had to skip to then end 😅
same, im sitting here shocked
same now i’m really tired 😭
It's interesting thinking about the fact that the one secret introvert had to step out of their shell for this video while the other 6 all enjoy being around people and expressing themselves lol, that's actually super insane to realize haha.
As an introvert, I got mentally exhausted by just seeing these ppl being too energetic 2 min into the video😂😂
People act as if introverts are exotic animals who can't communicate with other people in any situation, we just like personal space, comfortable places and some time with ourselves. After spending my energy on long, lingering conversations I lie down on my bed and enjoy the time with myself, there's nothing unusual about doing this
@@m.m6565 Maybe nobody you have met. However, many extroverts have this false narrative that they perpetuate about introverts.
@@SerpentineWisdom that's because most of the introverts they meet are like that.
@@aj3706 Maybe extroverts have less sensitivity for introversion than introverts, so they only notice someone being an introvert, if it's really obvious.
I'm an introvert but I also like spending time with people. But only those people who I'm absolutely comfortable with.
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Someone: *is quiet*
Literally everyone: I feel like she's too quiet
Someone: *assertive/seemingly outgoing*
Also everyone: "Seems kinda sus, s/he's kinda overcompensating 🤔"
That’s the point of the game Lmao..
I always get the "are you okay?" lol yes I'm just minding my business
😂
😂😂
8896 likes wohu! I see lots of introverts liking that.
I’m an introvert and I couldn’t imagine how scary it would be in this environment
Fr
tbh as an introverted person. i would not even come to the show..
I hate that introversion is falsely correlated with being anti-social. It's just that after I am done interacting with you.... I just need time to get away and recharge
💯
YES. EXACTLY. That's all it is and I hope people can better understand this
Exactly, I'm an extravert but I'm not social at all... also it's asocial👀
YES👏🏼👏🏼
Yes ! Totally.
I feel like Zed raised his hand to continue playing because he just wanted to hang out with everyone for longer😅
mostly cause i didn't think the mole was out
anyone who knows 100% that they aren't the mole should have raised their hand, I see why he was questioning that.
I love this comment so much
@@zinowagner Any extrovert knows about feeling sad when everyone is about to go home because you're having too much fun hanging out😂
@@caitlynpercy9555 I actually loved this video so much. The only video which I related. A lot of my friends are quite introverted
The best definition I've heard about extroverts and introverts is that extroverts talk first and think afterwards, and introverts think first and then talk. 6:30 is a great example of that
im an introvert but zed said being an extrovert means loving meeting new people and hearing their stories..that's one of my favorite things. i LOVE people and i love talking to them
Talvez você seja tímido então? As pessoas confundem ser introvertido com timidez..
I have to agree with pitty2734 because introverts just don't normally LOVE talking to people, it is just not as fun for them most of the time, but don't quote because I'm not an expert or anything
Maybe you're an extrovert with social anxiety? Pretty sure I am
We shouldn't think that "because I'm this I have to do this and be like this" you can do whatever you feel like doing in the moment
@ouui that's true, how "extroverted" I am/feel is GREATLY impacted by my mood
how did people not vote out alex he literally said “if i were an extrovert” like 😭
Ikr
😂 in my introverted mind i just thought about how i overthink every word i say, so i wouldn’t make a mistake like that. whereas most extroverted people just say the first thing they think of and don’t give it too much thought
@@allyssiahale5572 that makes a lot of sense but then again that was such a big slip up
It's not the first time this happens. It's arguably not a mistake. You say "If I were..." because you're talking assuming that no one is sure that you are or are not, and you subconsciously talk as if people assume that you're the mole (cause that's what you're afraid of, and therefore what you assume). Obviously, it's just a theory and I admit it's a bit far fetched, but there's probably an explanation for it, cause it happened more than once in these jubilee videos
Exactly I thought it was him or the mole girl first round and he seemed super quiet and chill
As an introvert, my energy got down as everyone in the room talking AT THE SAME TIME
Damn right. I'll just walk out.
my biggest pet peeve
im literally so tired after watching this video
@@kaykeescorner same here.
i've just seen on the internet that being around people like that is draining for introverts and now i understand why i take a nap everyday after school. I thought i was depressed or sum cause my soul litteraly leaves my body when i am back home but no i'm just an ambivert but more introvert.
Their understanding of extrovertedness has a very clear undertone of misconceptions
After watching this video, I'm confused as an introvert. Literally most things they explained about themselves as extroverts is also how I feel. I love people, I like talking to people and meeting new people. I also need to be alone but it doesn't change that, it's just about balance
You can still be very social and outgoing as an introvert. The only difference is that you get recharged from spending time alone and that you focus on your inner world.
How did they have doubt on Zed, the guy was like the most extrovert extrovert ever
facts
he was initially too sterotypical but that 'my name is zed' drove it home that he was truly an extrovert
Maybe because his voice wasn't as harsh/loud and his energy was more chill than some of the others.
Fun fact : his mbti "ENTJ" is actually nicknamed the most *introverted* extrovert but well....
@@asmael4787 mmmh no actually ENFP are the most introverted extroverts (and you didn't ask but INFJ are the most extroverted introverts)
Everyone: doesn’t vote for the mole
Everyone after the mole is revealed: I KNEW IT!!!
Ong lmaoo
They do vote but they don't get enough 😭
hindsight bias 🥵
Broo😂😂😂
Lmaoo😭
This would be so much fun for me, because I’m an extrovert but also more of a listener. In liking to be around people, my favourite part is hearing their stories and getting to know them, so I know I would get targeted quickly and I’d have to put in so much effort to show that I am still extroverted and just prefer listening.
I one hundred percent thought it was Alex. From the “if I were an extrovert” comment, to being an actor, and then saying “I don’t think the mole is here”. I thought that last one was a smokescreen. Stunned
You should do an episode where they are all "moles" and they're all just lying about everything
they did this with the sorority girls episode :)
@@siendohmen5819 that one was online through message , itd b more interesting in person
6 moles and 1 who’s not a mole
@@DrunkenGyarados it kind of doesn't work
Because the not-mole would technically be the mole (because they are the only one who doesn't share the group's characteristics)
But it is funny to see everyone lying and trying to find out who is not
that's a great idea
I would have loved to see one where they all were introverts trying to convince each other they are extroverts
I would definitely watch this😌
They actually did that video a while back, you should def check it out! It’s much more interesting than this and much harder to do.
I know right 😂
@@timothyjoseph8524 really ? Can i have the link ?
THIS ONE!!!
I literally love Zed, with his hobbies, with his story and his nametag, love that so much
As an extrovert, watching this really makes me want to know them, it would be fun meeting new people who love to meet new people as well :))
Anyway, Elysia really did trick me though, I didn't expect that it would be her! hahaha
I’m an introvert, and if I were the mole, I would have told everyone I was the mole to get out of there 😂 everyone talking at the same time would have been too much for me lol
Sameee
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460th like
That sounds a lot more like social anxiety
@@Sxndri you don’t say…..
basically if you’re too quiet, you’re suspicious and if you’re too loud, you’re suspicious
And Ellie got voted out cuz she's 'just kinda in the middle' 9:43
@@axiomaticoxymoron9111 that’s not why she got voted out... that’s what she thought
If you breath to loud you are suspicious.
It's a fine line
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Extrovert? Introvert? For as long as you are showing respect and being polite it doesn't really matter. People will love you because of your nice manners.
When I first saw Elyssia’s cute pink outfit I immediately thought of her. She looks straight from a Melanie Martinez video and seems the kind of sweet girl who eats cupcakes and drinks tea in a library and gives you the best advice 💖💖💖
Lesson to be learned: Too many extroverts is chaotic. You need introverts to balance things out.
No these people are just weird lol they think being an extrovert is being a overly bubbly Disney character
nah they’d drive the introverts insane because im going insanw
I love talking with people all the time but I don’t talk like that
YES
@@thepizzaelf i think its because they got more of the stereotypically extroverted sort of people together?? (ngl tho i would love to hang out with people like these they seem fun)
I'm an introvert and just thinking about showing up to do something like this has me dying on the inside.
***edit - to the debate in the comments and now speculation on my mental health - 🤣 I typed ONE sentence that wasn't even that deep. Calm down, ffs. Nevermind groups of people in real life, the internet is exhausting enough. 🤣
that aint introversion, that's anxiety bro
@@AmiriHipHop No, but I think they meant that an introvert rather be just at home watching youtube and stuff than having to spent several hours with complete strangers pretending to be an extrovert. BUT, the money makes it much better
@@AmiriHipHop I'm an introvert who got 89% with 100% being completely introvert and I am not shy, not afraid of public speaking, and people think I'm extrovert after having a few drinks
@@AmiriHipHop and im on the opposite side of a_fever_dream, i have very rarely social anxiety and im an introvert (people who dont know me commonly assume im extroverted at first)
Ikr, but if it's money I'll probably go because I'm an ambivert but I'm more introverted than extrovert.
As an introvert, I immediately spotted the fellow introvert based on body language and assertiveness. You can see slight hesitation before she speaks (as she’s a bit more internal about expressing herself before vocalizing) and she kinda sways a bit while standing (which is a form of self soothing as she is in a very extroverted and stimulating environment) and keeps her limbs close to her body.
as an extrovert i just loved this ! i find it hard to find other extroverts almost everyone i know are introverted which is ok but it can be hard keeping up the energy by myself
PREACH
It was strange that when they were talking about their jobs and they made it out like introverts couldn’t hold jobs that required lots of social interaction. As an introvert, I can handle kids and the only reason why having a job that has lots of socializing with customers is challenging sometimes is because I have social anxiety. Contrary to the stereotype, introverts are very capable of being social, we just become drained after a certain period of time.
no because i'm an english teacher and teach kids 1-6th grade but am super introverted. It can be a bit tiring by the end of the day but I love it and its super fun
RIGTH THAT ANNOYED ME SO MUCH
So true! I work in customer service and I always get reviews saying I’m bubbly and really outgoing. Then I go back to my flat and roll up into a blanket to watch a series and recharge in absolute silence. Your job has no bearing on your introvert/extrovert status
@@Eli_Opal amen to that
I'm also an introvert and work as a server and host, for whatever reason when I'm working I'm able to act super falsely confident, it's a completely different feeling than anywhere else in life. I for sure have to recharge after tho lmao
To me Ellie is just the DEFINITION of an extrovert. I really don't understand how anyone could vote her out
Fr I felt the same way.
Same, as an extrovert I was basically like, 'yeah I'd be friends and go to the club with Ellie.' She was totally an extrovert!
I KNOW RIGHT???
No Fr immediately looking at her I could tell
yeah. I am like 99% introverted and I was like "yeah this girl is my total opposite"
Ive been an introvert all my life (im 13) but now, im starting to come out my shell and if you compare me now to 3 years ago, there’s definitely a big difference
I think this would’ve actually been really fun as an introvert! I love getting to meet people, but being around people is often draining for me so it would depend on how fast they can wear me down haha
I literally thought it was Alex the whole time he just seemed like he was trying to prove himself a lot and when he said "If I were an extrovert" I wondered how come no one other than Ellie noticed that
i believe it's just poor choice of words
I knew it wasn’t him because I dated a guy that was exactly like him for months and he’s also an extrovert
I just assumed he was giving a senario of what a typical extrovert would say when he said that lol
Rlly spoiled it for me eventho I knew it was Alex from the start too 😭
I noticed it you idiont
Honestly at this point, I think Zed kept raising his hand because he just loves playing the game so damn much lmao
not really
This is the hardest one because extroverts are not always high energy. I feel like they were all trying to just be high energy. On the reverse, introverts can be social and have high energy when need be, the difference is the introvert will only tolerate the social activity for a limited amount of time, go seek out a quiet place to be alone to recover, and be mentally and physically drained until they recover.
Loved Zed! Such an angel. Sincerely, an introvert.
Thank you❤
Ellie working at build-a-bear is the most accurate thing I've ever seen. She even looks like one 😂
shes so freaking adorable
Elysia *wins money*
Elysia: "Yay! this going to buy so many books"
that was the most stereotypical introverted thing I have heard
She even bought lunch like she's a really cool person ngl
WHAT?! It was her?!
Well... Can't people like books? 🤨🤨🤨
And then proceeds to invite a large group of people she barely knows to lunch...yeah, introvert my a**!
@@funshine817being introverted doesnt mean they hate people. they just prefer time alone most of the times
I enjoyed this episode a lot. It was very psychological. 👏
cool video jubilee. well done. love the people
As an introvert, this is exactly what I imagine hell to be like.
Same 😭 when they started talking over each other am like 🥺
Nah seems like fun to me to be able to talk to people instead of bein stuck at home 😭 😭
Ur just anti social
🤣🤣🤣
I need a remote control for these humans, pleass
as an introvert this was ALOT to watch, i got so overwhelmed. i couldn’t imagine being the introvert in this environment!
Fr!
And then took them out to eat after!! I can't even imagine
same i think my anxiety wouldve just made me so quiet
Same!
ikrrrrrrrrrr, i though it was only mee
I like to consider myself an Ambivert (introvert-extrovert hybrid), so I’m either very quiet or talkative depending on the crowd. This crowd I would be talkative around because it’s small and they are all so sweet.
I love meeting new people and am usually the one to initiate conversations. Just never with more than one person at a time or in group setting. At parties I desperately cling to the few people I know.
“Lunch is on me” 😂 I know she regretted that immediately. As an introvert, she needs rest after this 😅
Same thoughts 🤣
"I'm not gonna be there but enjoy"
social battery recharge
She still was so in tune with her role
I regretted it (some random introvert watching this vid)
As an introvert tho, honestly if I'd ever be around any extrovert I'd choose Zed. He has this certain "healthy extrovert" vibes that would make you feel like when you talk, he's gonna listen and wont talk over you nor invalidate you. I am working with the bad kind of extroverts right now and I dont talk much, I just work. If ever there are instances that I talk, whatever words come out of my mouth I collected confidence and courage for and practiced it in my head many times and being ignored twice or being disregarded after talking just feels... It just makes me sad tbh.
facts
I had 2 co-workers exactly like that at my summer job :(( whenever they came in I knew the day would suck cuz they drain the hell out of me and are not even friendly lol, I was just on edge the whole time with them and eventually stopped trying to talk with them cuz they just treated me weirdly. Made my overthinking soo much worse:/
My thoughts exactly
@@jasmijnvansprengel Damn was that you I was working with this summer?
@@maximalsakerhet7930 I don't think so lol
Great episode!
ellie is sooooooo pretty not only her style and looks but the way she's so cheerful and nice
Every Jubilee contestant ever: Yeah, I'm actually an actor
Everyone else: NO WAY ME TOO
Imagine that, they want to get noticed and maybe cast in some project. Wait, was this filmed in LA?! Did they seek out industry types?
If they shot it in Kansas, there would be no actors.
@@realmorgan3075 I totally get that, I just think it's funny that it happens in every video
i actually personally know ellie, one of the girls on here, shes not an actor she just works at build a bear
I really love Zed and Ellie. As an introvert, I feel like they're those people who are willing to talk to you without judgment
Aliya too
@@emilyloeb3811 as someone on the introverted side, would totally hang out with her. she seems rlly chill.
exact opposite personally did not care for zeds energy at all
Interesting. For me I personally wouldn't want to spend time with Ellie at all
Totally
As an introvert, this would be an absolute nightmare LOL
Am I the only one who was fangirling over Ellie, like she is so CUTE💗
I love her fashion taste and her personality
Zed literally gives off YOUTH PASTOR vibes and "the my name is" sticker thing solidified it for me
BRO IKRRR. And when he said Christ in his C's list I was like ahhhh fam 😌
So, wait, he really did wear a “My name is Zed” sticker for a year?
@@jeremygwoods that was extra even for the extroverts
Yessss
It's frustrating that they don't know what being an introvert actually is. I work in customer service and I do a fantastic job. I also like hanging out with my friends! I just need time to recharge at the end of the day, but I'm still capable of being around people and not dying.
Agree! ppl make it seem like we r incapable to enjoy life because we like being more reserved and quiet.
Agree. I’ve always thought i was considered an extrovert because i absolutely love partying, meeting new people etc. But at the end of the day, i feel like i always need a bit of alone time to recharge after prolongued periods of social interaction so would i be considered an introvert?
People for some weird reason mix up being and introvert with having social anxiety
@@bigmarv5656 I would say you’re neither/both not everyone falls into one or the other necessarily, like you said you love meeting new people and being out that is an extrovert quality, and extroverts don’t always need to be around people either they also need alone time, everyone does! but if you feel drained and need alone time to recharge that is an introvert quality. whereas extroverts get recharged by being social. so you can see it as you’re both or that you’re neither.
@@lupdiloop Right i get you. I think it just depends really. Sometimes i feel recharged in social settings, sometimes i don’t
I feel anxious as soon as the video started and I saw them jumping up and down while they spoke to each other 😂😂
That was painful to watch... Room full of extroverts trying to PROVE they are extroverts... That's just too much 😂
The fact they voted out the most extroverted person in the group first is hilarious 😂
That's what extroverts do 🤣🤣
@@mishynaofficial TRUE… 😳🧐
He literally said that.
How was Brayan the most extroverted? Zed was easily the most
i think he just is flamboyant
Why were they sus with ellie ? She literally was so bubbly and excited to be there 😂
That’s probably why😭😭😭
The excited bubbly ones are usually just really extreme cases of extroversion or are suffering from mania
ikr!!! i was like even if she was an introvery, that would be sooo hard to do!!
Right, plus her outfit gave me more of an extroverted vibe😂
I think they must edit it so we don’t see the full picture. Cos from what we saw there was absolutely no reason to suspect her.
I would have been spotted immediately cuz I'd have stayed silent and just listen and stare at the other players talking
i don't want this nightmare
"I voted for her cause she seemed lik she was voting for me"
~Zed 2021
😂😂😂😂😂
"A true intellectual"
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why is that funny for no reason 🤣🤣
@@florence.066 The petty🤣🤣.
Petty queen
I think they mistaken what a introvert is. Being an introvert doesn’t mean you don’t enjoy talking to people because if anything meeting new people just seem like a wonderful thing to me, but I simply prefer to be alone in most chances unless it’s a special occasion. Otherwise you can catch me in my room or at the gym, some may say that isn’t introverted and some may classify me as ambivert but that’s how I see it.
Pp
@@bobus5681 yes
I think introversion is just like a phone. Each one of us has a specific amount of battery social life that once it runs out, we’re pooped and basically have no depleted it all.
Exactly!! I'm an introvert and have worked many jobs that involve being on all day for other people, which I love, but then I need that alone time to recharge after work.
That's what i was thinking, too! I feel like they've mistaken introversion with being shy, low-self esteem, or social anxiety. There are many introverts who love people or are in managing positions, but then go home to re-charge. Like, I absolutely love people, love their energy. but other people's energy burns my meter too fast and so i need more alone time to recharge vs being social. Plus, i have been one to include people even though i am an introvert. But, i definitely am the type who practically never speaks. And kudos to the gym. I also don't see that as not being an introvert. There are introverts who go to the gym. They can still have their alone time with low-socialisation needed for being at the gym. For me personally, i haven't started going because of my anxiety. But i'll get there soon, hopefully this fall lol. I'm also really glad you brought up ambivert. I feel like they were missing that for this video. People forget that it can be a switch/spectrum sometimes for certain people.
We as introverts are very used to this, even with the thing of faking and trying to be extrovert to fit in, but it's painful, trying to be something that you're not it's always exhausting
I thought Alex was an introvert cuz he once said “if i were extroverted” and also he said that he’s an actor so it made my mind running through the fact if he pretending like acting to be an introvert and i found him the quietest among the people inside the box
I'm so glad Ellie addressed that there is no correlation between anxiety and shyness and whether you're an introvert or an extrovert. As an introvert, I keep hearing that introverted means shy and hating people, but that's not the case for me. In fact, I enjoy public speaking and meeting new people. I just value alone time and don't really enjoy being around others all the time.
Well, there doesn't *have* to be a correlation, sure. I mean, I'm an extrovert and I have to deal with social anxiety all the time, but I would love to know why you think you love public speaking as an introvert.
@@drdramatik I appreciate your interest. To put it simple, I love sharing my thoughts and ideas. And when it comes to public speaking, I can do that without really worrying what the people in front of me are gonna think. I'm not really gonna meet these people again, and even if I did, I don't really care what they might think of me (this sounds way harsher in my head but I hope you get my point lol).
Another thing I like is engaging with the audience. Seeing how they react to a shocking sentence I say whether it be a fact that interested them or just something random they weren't expecting. Although I gotta admit, having a stale and bored audience is so frustrating and really takes the fun out of presenting in front of them.
This being said, I can't deny the embarrassment that follows when you mess up (bonus points if it's in front of a friend or family member that will never forget lol). But for me, those mistakes really helped me grow as a person and I'm really thankfuk for that.
I've just entered my first year of college this August, and most of my experiences are from competitions, class presentations, and ceremony speeches, so maybe my opinions might change in the future (I really hope not tho).
This is got pretty long lol
@@drdramatik I just realized that I didn't address the introvert aspect.
When it comes to chatting with others, I tend to take the position of the listener. I like to know more about people and ask them questions about the subject they're talking about out of interest and to engage in what they have to say. I rarely add any input to what's being said, because I'd be either too drained to really give my views on the subject or I just think it's unnecessary. I'm also really not high energy and can't keep up with a lot of conversations lol my mind just wanders off suddenly.
So when it comes to public speaking, it's my chance to share my thoughts. No one to interrupt, no one to distract me, just my time to say what I have to say. ^^
@@leeno7oreo Wow, it is very interesting how we both have very similar motivations but different likes.
For me, it's a LOT more embarrassing to present in front of a large group of people that I don't know because I am always very self conscious of what I say or do, and if those people don't actually know me, then one little slip up or mistake or even if my method wasn't to their liking is going to be their entire opinion on me. Now, you mentioned that you didn't mind because you're probably not going to meet those people again, but for me as an extrovert that wants to get to know as many people as possible, it gives me major anxiety. That's not to say I don't enjoy public speaking, on the contrary, I absolutely love it and love being able to show an audience what I got, but it's really stressful for me because I tend to be very aware of people's judgements. However, if I'm presenting in front of people I know, I tend to be more casual about it and even more excited since I geto hear their thoughts on it afterwards, and if I did slip up, they get to hear my explanation.
On the other side, I also love engaging in long meaningful conversations with large or small groups of people because then, I know for a fact I'm being heard and that they're giving me attention. I will definitely listen too, but it's not a one way street; I'll listen and respond accordingly. If you seem interested to speak a lot, I will listen a lot lol
This got a little longer than I thought too XD maybe we can talk about this in length somewhere?
I relate 1000% to this. I love public speaking, big crazy parties or performing on a stage, but NEED my alone time afterwards.
when the mole said, "when I was 14, I noticed that I no longer enjoyed being in a group", I felt that. We kinda have the same story tho lol
yeah, me too
Same
Same
thanks for not spoiling the results for people who haven’t finished the video
Same im 14 rn
omg this ep was so cool (I wanna come to the show now 😭😭)
Wow I've learnt a lot from this. I didn't know extroverts actually get shy too. And I, too, am an Introvert who can speak in public.
It’s unnatural. There should never be this many extroverts in one room
Totally agree
They have scared an introvert (me)
@@stacyroth8836 yup! This was exhausting to watch. I gotta rest now.
Agreed 🤣
That was so annoying to watch until there were only 5 left honestly
"I'm an actor, we HAVE to be extroverts."
Honestly, I'd say most actors are introverts.
We're creative and expressive but we have to be in our head and focused on ourselves more than on other people.
I'm literally doing drama rn at college and I am such an introvert. It annoys me how they applied all these stereotypes.
EXACTLY
My best friend is an introvert: she works in phone sales, loves acting, & hangs out with her friends almost every weekend. From my understanding, it’s how they are feeling & what they’re thinking. My best friend usually tells me that she definitely feels drained or wants to go home earlier. She gets a lot of social anxiety & needs some distraction when being in a group setting. She definitely gains energy when she’s alone & often has these random sparks of energy at night.
I guess that implies you are an actor yourself. Not also that but introverted as well. So I have to ask-- do you feel tired or drained after acting? Just wondering thanks.
Introverted also means that you lost energy when you talk to people
Its not only to be in your head
This has to be the most wholesome episode ever. Elysia was so nice too.
I'm a listener someone that likes to learn other people's stories and origins.
I can make friends easily I've learned how to be extroverted but I can build energy both with people and by myself
I think as I try to be a writer being introverted and focusing more on listening and less on sharing can help diversify my writing but idk where I stand on the into extro scale
Zed makes the world seem like such a magical place.. he’s so passionate about people, what a sweet angel, protect my mans at all costs
I know! I think he would be great to have as a friend even as a very introverted person
He definitely seems nice, but as an introvert who loves my own space, he would be insufferable to be around IMO. Nothing against him! But i know so many loud people like that who just drain my "social battery"
@@Winnister Very true, for me, as well.
He was such a vibe!
Or he is a psychopath.🙂
The thing that people need to understand is that introverts aren't necessarily unsocial. There's a big difference between someone with social anxiety that fears and worries about social situations and an introvert. An introvert can do well in social situations but it makes them tired and they'd rather be alone while an extrovert needs to be in social situations because it's comfortable for them and replenishes their energy. That's how I see the difference tbh.
You're 100 percent right 😉
You’re 100% right on! I’m introverted but I like meeting new people and am not shy I just can’t typically be out as long as others without my energy being depleted and need time to recharge and be alone.
This is eyes opening, like I’m not anti social and I’m okay/having fun in social situation but I get extremely tired after a short period of time being around being.
I’m an introvert with social anxiety
I definitely don’t do well in social situations 😂
The mole isn't really an introvert. She falls somewhere in the middle. She even admit that as a kid, she was extremely extroverted. That itself says it all
i mean you can definitely change from being an introvert to an extrovert and vice versa. sometimes it could be based on peoples’ experiences that could cause a change. i just think it’s easier for an introvert to act like an extrovert because of the way people are expected to act socially. also, being an introvert doesn’t mean you are shy, soft-spoken, or don’t like talking to people, it just means it drains your energy after interacting after so long !
@@YH-rh1pf Yes, we can change and I agree with your definition. However, I don't believe introvert and extrovert is black and white. Its on a scale and everyone falls somewhere in between. Kind of like rich and poor. There are some introverts that cant even pretend to be extroverted. I tend to believe that whatever your personality is as a child is actually your true nature. As we grow up, we mold ourselves to fit in with society. My overall point is that the contestant probably wasn't the best representation of introverts.
Agree
I never thought I would call myself introvert but after seeing this yea I’m definitely not extrovert ….. just watching this I got overwhelmed
To me Aliya is the best kind of extrovert. Super chill and brings people together just because its fun to hang out with her. Also loved the way she walked off the stage haha
No Zed is Aliya was doing too much
@@clararemy7224 what do you mean she was so chill and laidback x)
@@clararemy7224 she was so chill bruh
She was sweating buckets I totally thought she was the introvert!
U mean u just vibe with her personality
As an Introvert and watched the Introvert episode last year, I could only imagine how it would be if it was the opposite. Oh boi they did not disappoint!!
They did it in reverse already a year ago.
They referred to the introvert episode, they were saying they were happy about this episode and how it came out.
Yess me too
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As an extrovert, this sounds fun! These guys seem nice :-)
I feel like I could do well at something like this. I'm a social introvert who has worked retail, been a summer camp counselor for 20 years, and taught everything from kindergarten to college.
As a introvert, I would need to be tipsy to even carry a conversation with all these people 🤣 but honestly I wouldn’t even show up.. I’d just cancel plans like always
are you sure you are an introvert then? sounds like you just don’t like socialising with people, especially since you mentioned how you cancel plans frequently. introverts are fine with social interaction but just need time to recharge.
@@wolfzmusic9706 No. A big part of being an introvert is to not be fine with social interaction to bigger degrees.
@@Nekotaku_TV All the introverts here say they are fine with social interaction but they just need time to recharge, and they say that is literally it. Being an introvert just means needing time to recharge after hanging out with people.
@@wolfzmusic9706 but sometimes you aren’t charged up enough to hangout, so you cancel. You need more time to yourself before going back out again. Also a lot of people may be introverts and have social anxiety, so there’s that on top of it.
@@wolfzmusic9706 someone can be an introvert and something else at the same time
Like: introvert and antisocial; introvert and shy; introvert and anxious; etc
A person can literally be an introvert and an extrovert at the same time (an ambivert)
Yeah☺️
:V so, not all introverts are very ok with social interactions
And some of them r not ok with them at all
As an introvert I would definitely have a vote on Alaa because from the beginning she just started asking questions, maybe she took the lead, but in a very introverted way, she was strategic, she was actually really observing the situation and trying to figure things out, while "extroverts" where just bragging and talking about themselves not really paying attention
She just looks introverted. Like she’s more quiet and observant later on
She was focusing on finding the introverted but then she started to bind with them
the way i saw it is that she really wanted to win so thats why she acted the way she did
Not trynna be stereotypical here, but from experience usually girls with hijab i have interacted with tended to be more calm spoken and introverted. So i already had suspicion of her since the beginning to end
Thank you
Ellie seems so sweet, welcoming, and genuine! Makes me want to be friends with her! :D (says an introvert)
It's been really hard for me figuring out.. what I am. I do value my alone time sometimes, and I do get nervous in a room full of extroverts. But at the same time I cannot STAND being alone for more than a day, and I start getting depressed and overthinking. I personally think I am an extrovert with social anxiety.