7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive
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- Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
- 7 Weird Reasons Why Introverts are So Attractive to Others
Are you, as an introvert, attractive to others without even realizing it?
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110% agree that introverts are attractive
I am introvert+ Extravert . . . . and I am so F***** ATTRACTIVE ! ! . . . . . . . . . . . .
Anytime at the end, when you say "stay cool & attractive ", you have that kind of smile+ sight that the soft Dominatrix have, like Heather Locklear or Bo Derek
M_ Lion this made me snort laugh seeing you’re comparing Frank to two women!
@@Julia-LArt he's actually compared to TWO Big Stars !
_Imagine being the "mysterious and cool introvert type"_
-this comment was made by the "mysterious but nerd and awkward" gang-
Even better
I had the nerd part in high school,now at college,i'm just akward
Ahaha I'm part of the gang too wassup
I'm in the gang 😂😂😂
I cant relate!!
"Why Introverts are so attractive"
Me: Don't do that... Don't give me hope.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That’s exactly what I thought!!-.-
Exactly!
Yeahhhh😂😂😂
Ikr 😭
Being an introvert myself, I always found it funny that my high school peers would freak out when ever I spoke up or when ever I laughed about something in class. They would always say " I have never heard you speak or laugh before" .
Same here✋
Thanks for sharing your experience!
My teachers laugh
My teacher once asked the class to be quiet so they could hear me talk for the first time.
I went through that
The problem is that some people just don't understand introverts and they often judge them superficially. I consider myself an introvert but if I have the right person in front of me I became really open. People cannot imagine how big is the universe in a mind of an introvert. Give chances to introverts to converse with you, insist also if the situation becomes awkward and you will see that you will not be disappointed.
Reminds me of komi san
As a Schizoid myself, i think of introverts as - " Thats so normal "
Same
So tru ❤
Introverts can talk a lot when they are with people they are comfortable with
Yup!
@@cameraflash150 Well personalities differs, for me i can play a lot when i'm around friends
Exactly
So true
Yup! That's me. All that info comes right back out.
"İntroverts are good listeners"
Me who zones out in the middle of conversation: 👁👄👁
Samee
Story of my life. Infp here:)
"Introverts are good listeners"
Me: Eavesdropping on people on "accident"
Floof Bone LMAO
Same 😂
"people are really attracted to those who can go out on their own from the crowd and be okay with it"....I'm so glad to hear this.
To all extroverts out there, please dont ask us too many questions. Idk about other introverts, but too many questions just make me uncomformtable. Also when we dont talk much, it means we are uncomformtable and dont feel like talking. Im not attacking any extrovert, im just saying. Have a great day/night :)
And still we are single. And without friends.
Are we really cursed or something ?
I feel you 🤣
I feel attacked as an introvert. Sometimes i feel like only if i could just talk to people.
Personally, I think people are attracted to us because we look mysterious but when they get to really know us they realize we really are just normal people 🤷🏻♂️
@@roulis640 GOOD ONE😉 YEP we are just like the others.....but a little weird....like Albert Einstein😉❤👍
Damn your comment describe ma whole life , but we are independent and mysterious, people find me intimidated, alot of people told me after we talked and am like what am simple and just living btw am INTJ.
"Introverts are attractive"
People to me: Why r u so weird?
People to me: Why r u so quiet?
Omg me too almost everyday
@Sumedh Kamble 🤣
@Sumedh Kamble ikr i hate that bro
@@svetajkp same but I just say: eh
why introverts aren't attractive:
-being mysterious is usually seen as being weird (in my experience)
-being a good listener makes you a good friend (& nothing else)
-powerful (others can take advantage of silent people, since they don't talk back/doesn't seem like we got much power)
-not annoying (I definitely embarrass myself a lot, but idc/there's more ways to be annoying than saying dumb things)
-introspective (having a clear vision of how life should be doesn't mean your life is actually that way/example: I wanna go out more; have a hobby; find a girlfriend; start a family. reality: I sit at home; watch a youtube video; comment what's wrong in the video; watch the next video)
-people complain about me staying inside, not having a life, being a loser (they clearly don't think I'm cool/having a party by myself?)
-people usually don't want me to be there & invite me mostly out of politeness (if they invite me at all, which is usually not the case)
I did like the positive side about all of these that you mentioned, but as an introvert/pessimist/realistic thinker, I know this isn't the case most of the time (or maybe I'm extremely unlucky & I just happen to meet all the wrong people & live at the wrong side of the planet)
I believe there is atleast some truth in what ur saying even tho I don't agree with it completely
We are on the same page dude. People always manipulate me, assume me as a dumb. They would ignore me if i put forward my opinion. They don't want me to even talk with them (if i message someone with whom i have not interacted much , they would just block my number). Don't know why they behave like this, it sometimes breaks me to think that i am of no value for others.
However, fortunately i have 3 good friends who understand me and talk with me.
It seems that way to you bro, because you are pessimistic and look at things with a negative twist. I used to be extremely pessimistic (it's still there), but no one likes a downer. This video has a lot of truth to it with the right approach. Just because you are introverted does not mean you are all those things he said. You might be invited more, well received, and appreciated if you kept the pessimism to yourself and try to speak more positively. Yes it sounds cringe but people don't always want to hear how the cup is half empty. I'm a realistic thinker too and that's good, keep it. We need more thinkers like that. But pessimism isn't as helpful with friends. I've found life to be more enjoyable when I make an effort to see the brighter side of life, and accept that theirs a lot of awful things but to not make that my focus. We have the rare ability to make a difference since we easily see the problem. I hope this helps 👍
@@I_Yogita Those kind of people aren't worth your time. Move on and focus on others who give you their own time too. Don't worry about the others, life is full of jerks, it's our responsibility to ignore them and accept people who aren't.
@@princetraxk that's fair, this is just my experience after all
I am an Introvert, though once I feel comfortable in your presence I will talk more and my full personality will show. I usually don't just go up and talk to people. If people come up and talk to me I will be quiet but I will talk back. When you first meet me you might think I'm shy. But in reality I'm just with new people I don't know. If your in my friend group then you know your special to me. And if I come up to you first then your really special to me.
*After watching this video*
Self-esteem: *Improved*
Confidence: *Improved*
Optimism: *Improved*
Reality: "YOU THOUGHT"
😂🤣
😂😂😂 accurate lol
Had us there in the first half not gonna lie.
Ha
same lmao
“hell is other people“ this is such an introvert thing to say
And animals, I think they'd agree with that! I believe Nietzsche said something along the lines of 'if animals have a devil, it would be in the form of man'. So, introverts, and animals (and probably nature as a whole!).
Weirdwolf wild animals yeah, my dog would be extremely sad though
as for nature, the problem relies with the kind of people that don’t respect it, we see many great kind hearted people trying to do justice to our nature, unfortunately they are not as many as they should be ♥️
Sartre said that because he was ugly and he felt that people were looking at him that way.
Yeah 😂
I found a new line to say now
Yessss👏🏽👏🏽
0:24 Mysterious
0:39 Good listeners
1:04 Powerful by being quiet
1:32 Less annoying overall
2:11 Introspective
2:41 Cool?
3:25 When u speak to em u feel special just like TWICE
"This introvert 'has it together'!" Best line in the whole video. 👌😂 I humbly believe that I do, so if that's what others perceive... Perfect!
"Introverts are attractive"
People to me: She looks so scary and serious
I'm a boy but I can relate, everybody thinks I came from a funeral of my bloodline and rejected by my girlfriend. And I don't have a girlfriend.
Agreed and they think I am angry with them
I agree. People around me always thought I was angry because my face was serious and expressionless.
True🤧
@lilac Phile yep they also think that im serious and scary
Other people: "This introvert has it together"
Me: *screaming internally*
The keyword was: "it APPEARS that the introverts have it together"
Exactly xD
LMAO
Hold it together hold it together *HOLD IT TOGETHER*
Lmaoooo yep
The thing about making others feel special...one of my friends told me about it. She told me how happy she was when she could be my friend. She said that "she admired me". I felt embarassed suddenly, and I still get the same embarassment when I think about it, because I'm just a normal person, not a star or something. I had a pretty good academic history and I was also a quizzer. But that doesn't make me special, or atleast I thought so. This friend of mine, she used to tell everyone around her soo proudly about how she's close with me. It made me laugh sometimes. I had no idea why she's so happy about it. She also told me that she thought I looked distant, yet somehow cool before becoming friends with me. I thought she was joking. But after watching this video, I wonder if it was indeed true.
I'm now watching more of such videos to know what others think of me. I think it's not really as bad as I think of it 😆
It's definitely true! My friend told me as well, not only one of them but a few, that they think I'm special and feel good to be my friends!
I'm always in my head. Thinking, processing, questioning, and improving!
"Why introverts are attractive"
Every introvert in the world: *DOUBT*
Not me:(
True
@@SwaggerToast hey
@@jofunny7425 are you, like, simply wanted to say hi or are you not liking me for saying 'true'
@@SwaggerToast why you say true i don't get it😤 do you know Albert Einstein was introvert
Strangers:she's so quiet and mysterious
My best friends: dhfjesj no she's a loud ass crackhead
Accurate
Well at least you have friends
@@atomcat5242 yup. I'm new at middle school and in the first 6 weeks, I still don't have a friend because people think I'm antisocial because of how quiet I am. It sucks.
@@thefoolsfavorite omg really?
I AM having the same problem too
me 😂
Why do all of these points apply to me! Thank you for saying these things in a positive way instead of you know, saying they are just shy n choose to say in or nerdy. This makes me feel good about myself. I'm glad i got your videos as yt recommendations!😃💛
Omg I can’t believe you just made me proud to be an introvert, it’s something I’ve had insecurities about especially how much time I want to be alone and because of that I find it hard to maintain close friendships
Introverts are extroverts when they start talking to their best friends.
THIS!!!
True, and also for me its anyone that has played or watched what I have.
So true 😂
I'm an introvert around people I feel very comfy with (literally only 2 people at my job) and only on Christmas or New Years for like 5 min.
I'll kinda sorta scream "Happy (insert holiday here)!!!" a few times and go WOOOO and then it's back to my bed eating chips and coke all day
Yup
"Tension creates attraction" -- that's awesome news because I'm tense all the time ahaha... ha...
🤣🤣
Me too...I'm worried I might get high bp
LOL
Just pull a gun out on a person and the tension between the two of you will cause him/her to forever be in love with you.
Elise S not a dude. Don’t reply to me. Why would I care what you think if I don’t know who you are?
I am an introvert. I hate talking to people and starting conversations. I never liked going out and would always spend the whole day at home and alone. Yet when I got into high school, our class was so well assembled that every time I entered the classroom I suddenly became one of the most extroverted students. Introverts can become very open if you give them time to make themselves comfortable around you.
Hey there! Just watched your video on "7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive" and I absolutely loved it! As an introvert myself, it's refreshing to see our strengths being celebrated. Keep up the great work and keep spreading the introvert love! 👍
"why introverts are so attractive."
me, being one : *aRe yOu sUrE aBoUt tHaT?*
To me, they only are if they are good looking. If not, good luck. Just being real.
Army 😏
@@Rezzmari attraction isn’t always looks, curiosity plays a role too and I believe that’s what this video is referring to why they say introverts are attractive
Everyone is good looking
To me, I like that they're challenging to talk to since they had either soft or avoiding attitude towards talking and idk why but they do speak softly and a lil different to others. Which is a turn on. And also for how they dress, ain't revealing.
Expectations:
Vs
Reality: Too nervous to make friends, people think your snobby and mean, doesn't interact with people because afraid of judgements, actually wants to socialize but is scared of what people would think if they made a mistake
If only you knew how cool you are ;)
Same, plus I'm afraid to speak English more,bcz it's not my native language, and I just moved to English school so.....
I'm akward af
true
So true ;(
@@svetajkp awww its okay you'll get the hang of it 👏👏👏
I was you like 8 years ago 😂
This video is the most accurate for true introverts among all other videos on UA-cam, you did a really good job man 👍
Thanks so much for this. You really spoke to my heart!
to all the bullys and people who tease introverts for being quiet
REMEMBER-
'no on plans a murder out loud'
🤣
Shit got dark real quick💀
@@savageme7330 hehe
@@kr4v389 report that
As an introvert I can confirm this
"introverts are good listeners" - me, an introvert, who skipped the whole video and just looked for the key points
I am a fucking awful listener lmao
Lol
😄😄
Lol bro 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. He want to say in real life your good listener
"Or atleast they appear to be good listeners"
want to create me own destination without caring what others think of me or about my age.
feel intense shyness inside, outward appear grim.
hesitation stops me to think one more time before doing things.
conscience is my best friend in helping making decisive steps.
staying calm is the best option rather than leaving superficial topics.
The "the power cuz they don't know what your thinking" is so true 💀 happened to me earlier with my friends
I was just too quiet and when we played truth or dare, someone dared my friend to make an eye contact with me for 10 sec and she just can't stop laughing or keeping herself cuz when she stares at me, she feels like there's some sort of demon behind my eyes if you dig deeper like xkdjxjdn 💀 she complains that i was just too calm that makes it seem impossible😭
"Why introverts are so attractive"
* Looks in the mirror *
*Ya no.*
RIGHTT 😭
Plot twist: you said "ya know"
I'm gonna regret writing this comment
I gave him glasses 👁️👄👁️
@@nej6246 XD big brain plot twists
Extrovert: Hey, you wanna hang out this weekend?
Introvert: * actually has nothing better to do this weekend* Sorry, I already have plans, maybe next time
Extrovert: Wow, I guess he's too cool for me
Jajaj we really do that! We tend to decline making them think we haven't it clear. But in our head we know from the minut one we're not going. It's an akward situation. Sometimes in my head I think...maybe I cannot have it so clear? But 99% of the times I finish really not going because I really feel I prefer to be on my own that day. Sometimes when you finally decide to let yourself go and give it a try! there you finally end up thinkining...what am I doing here? I would be better home alone. Luckily in some situations you end up having a great time but it's not what happens most of the times.
I don’t decline those invitations because they are so RARE!
Yes my plans are doing nothing but I'd rather do nothing then go out and socialize.
Ugh... no literally thats not what we think or at least not what i think we would just say this person is not for me and just ask for other extrovert to hang out with us especially for me ENTP i dont mind being alone and hanging out with myself probably forget you exist few weeks later
Damn this hurts when it’s a girl because I can’t tell if she’s rejecting me or what
Introverts are the most calm people and have a great heart !!
*BIG APPLAUSE for those that being an introvert's person & had given a quality comments. THANK YOU, FRANKJAMES for all of your informations are so true & I'm so glad that out there, I'm not alone & others will gain knowledge about us neither they misjudged us as Antisocial/Ego/Negative's person. By the way, I'm already hit your subscriber. Keep up the good work!!!*
“Introverts are good listeners...”Me: trying to listen but half way spacing out lost in a cloud of thoughts. “or at least they appear to be good listeners.” Me: Snaps back to reality, feeling personally attacked.
Ayyyyy twins!
@Divya Divyanshi me to introvert
@Divya Divyanshi from where you are from India
@Divya Divyanshi Lol I have this too, it's annoying because I have genuine great conversations with my best friend, but I just can't concentrate for too long. Same thing for studying, I just can't concentrate for long enough.
No Bc literally same
"Hell is other people". YES! 🤣
💀
Theres a kdrama with the same title its a good one
@@maddymaddyval OMG THATS LITERALLY MY FAVORITE KDRAMA
@@blankieten5384 TASTE
Being an introvert is a blessing in disguise 🔥
I consider myself an introvert but in a one on one conversation I love talking and talking and talking
“They wonder what’s going on in your head”
*whats going on in my head*
Wii music
*_plays shreksophone_*
Yes
Yep.
😂😂😂
My head:
*cricket noises*
"introvert are good listener"
Me daydreaming during math class : •-•]
Ahhh
In this case it means you can hear others' problems well
@@MagisterArtiumExylon wait what? how?
*in a conversation.
Same I'm always day dreaming because as Thanos once said reality is often disappointing
It's all about who will give you the most energy and be the most interesting. Because we like to receive but not to give(mostly).
i was an ambivert before pandemic....but now i am more into introvert....i was wondering why i became like this, even my friends were asking...thanks for comforting me through this video 💞🥺
When I don’t talk, people find me scary not attractive lol
How do u know what they think of u?
I was gonna say something but I don't know how to spell the word so nope
I was told I am creepy for staring at people, I just like people watching. I don't like PEOPLE I like PEOPLE WATCHING.
Yes. Same. A lot of people afraid of me too because I'm quiet and look cold. But, it just my normal face. （￣へ￣）
Same here 😐
This guy is the most extroverted introvert ever.
@@TT-rz5td or in other words 'normal'
He is being himself, online, with no one around. He had also been at this for years...
Yeah, that's INFJ for ya
I agree cause he has ayt channel
He's an INFJ
This was a great confidence booster. Thanks Frank!
As a fellow introvert I love your extremely informative content! Great hair btw!
Disclaimer: These are only true if you are visually attractive
Umm no but actually yes.
So much truth to this comment here. Not that I'm complaining though.
True. If an introvert isn't good looking, people think they are just boring, but if someone is attractive, they become "mysterious" in people's eyes.
@@a.s.8679 yep accurate
Yeah!
I'm an introvert who says ONLY annoying things
so talking less doesn't help at all lol
🙌🙌😂
It helps because it prevents you from talking lol
I love you already
You're not alone :,)
I mostly second this
Very well said.. introverts are always there to listen not thinking twice to stay with you.. until u feel better.
Back in the school days, I used to be the hot, mysterious musician introvert guy and people were curious about me. Now in adulthood, everybody just thinks of me as the creep that stands by the window in parties🤣
When introverts gets comfortable with their fav person they become extroverts...😁
😂😂
And then they stop being cool and mysterious and get really annoying
~ Me, a professional introvert
@@mikael355 Exactly...then we talk too much and become annoying...😒
🙋🏽♀️😄
@@Jewel351 🤣🤣🤣
Introverts in a conversation with another introvert: ....
3 hours later: sooo
😆😆😆😆
😂
You'd be surprised how much of a conversation I can have with my friends each just speaking like 3-5 words an hour :') We call it mental chess because we're bouncing thoughts of each other yet though we don't share most of them and elaborately we still end up with the same conclusions in the end.
It’s not even a conversation it’s standing and looking at each other in awkward silence 😥😅😂
Yup
Wow this really gave me a confidence boost
You know , Your helping many people with these videos frank , Thanks brother hope life is bliss and prosperous !
Me who does all of these: I'm such a boring person. People probably think I'm weird.
*Sees an Introvert with all the same traits as me*
Me: wow they're so cool and mysterious 😍😍😍
It’s weird how true this is
literally me
LMAO SAME!
That’s also me.
"...or at least they appear to be good listeners."
I'm dead.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
ikr, my teacher thinks im a good listener because i always look people in the eyes when they talk and used me as an example of how to be a good listener infront of the entire class, i had to stand infront of him and listen to what he says, and after he finished, he was like "see this is how to be a good listener, look at the speaker in the eyes while they talk, *my name* could repeat every word i said if he wanted to", and i literally couldn't remember a single thing he said, good thing he didn't tell me to repeat it
@@ayanokouji5784 I relate to that a little too well. People assume I'm a much better listener than I actually am.
This is the first positive review I'm watching on introverts. Thanks Frank👏🏽 going to look for "Quiet" now🚶♀️
Great points, especially appreciated the one about introverts being introspective.
I'm introverted to a point where people find me intimidating and well that sucks because they don't talk to me and of course I'll never start a conversation so I just end up alone lmao :(
I know exactly how u feel it's a sad feeling 😣 do u have snapchat ??
@@JohnCena-wv9es I'm sorry Mr. John Cena, but I don't
u don't have any other platforms I could reach out to you
classic introvert interaction going on here lol
@@demetrarossi4212 uncover your face lmaoo
Me being an introvert.
Students in class: Why are you so quiet??
*My mind: because I don't want to talk.🤷♀️
Yes. One time a teacher walked to me and she asked if I was okay because I was so quiet. I just smiled and said 'It's alright, I'm just not a very talkative person.'
@@VibingMeike Me being an introvert.
Students in class: Why are you so quiet??
Me: *shrugs and goes back to whatever I was doing*
I’m an ambivert it’s both, I can get energy from social interaction depending on the circumstances but it can also really drain me. It’s a very interesting tug of war
Or just say 'Why are you so loud?'
I hate this question. Then it makes me think so quiet is wrong¿ Then I think we don't have to talk all the time. But give me a beer or to and I'm not quite.
this video is so unique not just only for the topyc , it's also interesting because of all the great and realistic comments I have found
I've been an introvert myself for a long time. That's something I'll always be proud of. Whenever I'm outside by myself of a small group of people I usually just walk or stand around contemplating life and hear myself breathing with my mouth closed listening to the sound of the ocean. 😊😊😊
When he says introverts does a lot of internal processing to figure things out. Me arguing with myself and creating imaginary situations and day dreaming all day.
Same😂😂😂
Meera
That's called Maladaptive Daydreaming. Look it up.
That sounds exactly like what I do
same
Same
The “introverts give themselves fewer chances to say annoying things”- not true for me because every time i say something it turns out being annoying and i regret having opened my mouth once again
lisa_
The few times I actually speak I say dumb things so same lmao
Yeah it happens. I have ADD so I do it more often that usual, despite appearing to be a good listener.
@@mysticfellow9843 what is ADD?
@@anjaliroy1139 Attention Deficit Disorder
Same. Then I'd reflect and blame myself and say less.
These videos make me feel understood. I appreciate it!
This is eye opening, thanks
Only people I'm not attracted to think I'm attractive.
that is the law of life.
@@raygengamer8440 aw shucks
jokes on you no one even likes me
@@raygengamer8440 The ugly ones chase, the pretty ones run away. Makes me wonder why mankind hasn't gone extinct.
Tell me about it
It’s like a roller coaster with this channel
FJ: INFPs are the best girlfriends
Me: :) aw yay
FJ: are INFPs dumb?
Me: uhh....
FJ: why introverts are attractive
Me: : , )
i'm not dumb i'm mentally lazy! ):
I think that’s cos the INFJ mind is a rollercoaster!
Ahahahahahah, INFP and I can relate to this
🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Honestly, you presented really nice points ! Well done 👍
I stumbled upon this video discussing the reasons why introverts are attractive and found it to be an interesting perspective. The video offers a refreshing take on the positive qualities that introverts possess, It was a thought-provoking and uplifting watch that reminded me of the unique strengths that introverts can bring to any situation.
As an extrovert who loves introverts.... I humbly request a video about what introverts like and don't like about their extrovert friends/partners. Though I'm scared, I'm more curious... hahaha! 😆
Great suggestion!
@@g.i.r.l. that's not true at all...
My cousin who is an extrovert watches.
So that's at least 1 other person... ;)
@@g.i.r.l. I was joking Haha! There are way more than just 2, I actually feel like I see a lot of ENFPs here gushing over you beloved introverts! 🥰
We love you guys!
There are so many introverts in the comments though, I agree hahaha
I love that extroverts are easy to talk to because it’s hard for me to continue on a conversation
@@XxKawaiiCookies that's really nice to hear! I like to make introverts feel comfortable and see what's inside when they're quiet Haha I have a lot of introvert friends. I appreciate you guys. 💖
The idealized version of an introvert, sadly. Most people don't put much thought into why a introvert skips out on a party
Lmaooo “too cool to go to a party” more like “I’ll be alone and have no one to talk to and I’ll be too nervous to talk to someone new and maybe start crying if I go to a party”
loving kokichi fr and then I just have a meltdown when there’s too many people
“Lazy ass”
Yes hun im lazy and dont want to interact with people 👄👁
Coz they are busy with their "assignments".
Abhishek .G gurl thats a flaker not an introvert
Subject matter is sooo accurate!! I wonder if you're an introvert too and process your thoughts about mbti
edit: he is (INFJ) and I'm INFP btw:)
This made me so happy about myself, thank you.
Don’t you just love it as an introvert when you say something profound, like say in a class, and then later someone comes up to you and says, “that was so interesting! You should talk more!” (Cringe)
This used to happen all the time to me in school hahaha
I had the same thing said to me plenty of times, though if that someone who says "that was so interesting!" is your crush, I'd guess that makes it more special(?) More of a guess I suppose.
"Introverts are attractive."
Me, an introvert: LIAR!
Me
I have always been extremely shy and introverted and I also don't think I'm attractive that way😂 I mean I interact like an autistic person🤷♀️
@@ME-nw7er same
Idk some people have told me that, i still hardly believe it.
@SpeedyArrow_420 that's really nice
Worst thing for introvert is that when your best friend leave you because he/she finds new one 😢😢
Thankyou so much sir, you shared such useful insight. I came to know myself, preferably MY OWN POWERS because of you. I'm an introvert . And thankyou for explaining myself to me so well. 🙇🏻♀️👍🏻
„Why introverts are so attractive?“
Me, to myself : WE ARE??
Me: I wasn't aware of that and, i don't care if i am or not actually.
It was news to me also...
@Oliver Windsor Just a guess but maybe because it makes you feel empathic as you realize how much people have little trust in their appearance? There are people who write based on their own experience so their strong opinion isn't going to change easily because a UA-camr says the contrary.
I'd suggest, if i am any near right, to stop reading these comments. You'll only ruin your self-confidence ; remember you ARE not the person you're reading.
@Oliver Windsor In that case, my apologies. I did went ahead of myself with my answer. Sorry once again and thank you for taking the time to explain yourself.
Sudden realization only to be crushed down by girl you ask out.
FJ: "Introverts are mysterious. This is simply by virtue of them being . . . quiet."
My crippling tendency to overshare: Am I a joke to you?
Relatable 😭
@Warda Siddiqui damn same when I get comfortable I start talking I don't stop and then I start talking about my childhood then Leads to awkwardness😂😭
I’ve somehow found a way to over share yet share nothing
@@alexs6746 Teach me please-
me trauma dumping on the bus
Party of one! Yeehaw!
Love it, live it ❤️
I completely completely agree on the last point
If you want another reason: because you tell us to stay cool and attractive, haha 😎. I remember I had a conversation with another introvert and he told me that I was the least annoying person of our group of friends and that's why he felt so comfortable with me. I really felt flattered about that. :3
@@smalltownvvitch 💖
How is this comment is from 15hrs ago, when this video is uploaded literally 7minutes ago?
@@nobody_fadhhlanndy7 it's a mystery
did you get his phone number?
@@nobody_fadhhlanndy7 FJ puts out an early view of Ko-fi.com for subscribers.
“Why introverts are attractive”
Random person: “Why do you look so depressed all the time?”
Me: literally just glances at them
Them: “I’m sorry, I’m sorry if I offended you really! I’m sorry” *runs away*
Legit happened today 😂
Same.. people that are not close to me, are just scared everytime I'm staring at them, and I'm literally not doing anything wrong tho. :))
This is so me!!! Im not sure why people feel like im depressed. Im just happy with no expression. But it bothers people
Same here.. and I don't even understand why they get scared by someone with social anxiety 🙈
It happened to me too😂😂😂😂😂I felt bad tho cuz I meant nothing 👀🌚I was abt to smile I was just a little late
@@Klaudia09119 probs cus u creepy
I just found that before watching this video, I hadn't realized I am an introvert, but then I found I match all these 7 traits you mention. haha
him causually validating our feelings
“Introverts are good listeners or at least they appear to be”
Did he just call me out like that-
Mate I zoned out in middle of the video what else do you expect from me!
😂😂😂
🤭
🤣😂
I'm am an introvert and I appear to be a good listener but I am actually not.😂🤣 They think I am listening but they don't know I'm overthinking what they're telling me.lol
😂
"Why are Introverts so attractive?"
Me: *So who's gonna tell him?*
That's just mean.
...and accurate.
I didn't get it.
Can you explain it to me
@@mohithhoney9630 we all ugly as fuuuu
@@phoenixangel5073 I know that. Everyone is ugly in their own way and everyone is beautiful in their own way
But I don't understand what @The Duck is saying
Thank you so much for this video. I live it, I’m an introvert.
wow I've never felt this attractive before ! thank u
“Introverts are attractive”
Me: “don’t believe everything you see on the internet...don’t believe everything you see on the internet...don’t believe everything you see on the intern- WHY CANT THIS BE REAL”
Yeah I would have so many friends I wouldn't talk to for a year. Because reasons.
C'est la vie (same here)
Saying I am attractive is like saying jabba the hutt is Beautiful
@@rexdemon1590 same situation 🛌
What he's saying - what people perceive/what it actually is.
1. Mysterious - Weird/awkward.
2. Good listeners - inattentive/nonchalant.
3. Powerful - closed off/anxious to make a mistake.
4. Not annoying - shy/again, anxious to make a mistake.
5. Introspective - narcissistic/love myself. So, basically, yeah. Narcissistic.
6. Cool - reclusive/seriously? Us nerdy geeks? Cool?
7. Presence - okay, maybe this might be true.
Edit : Thanks for the 1k likes. And the narcissistic thing was a joke, jeez guys. Calm down.
@@sunandinighosh6037 that sounds way more like an extravert tbh
@@djefk7788 I can assure you I am very much introvert and I talk cut into the only conversation I have with my best friend
Seems...suspicious.
But i vibe casually by myself
Well i hate myself so i guess i'm not narcissistic xD
I've never gotten so mad at something that I totally agree with
I love being an introvert and attractive