I watched this...went into the kitchen where my wife was working on the phone, asked her for her undivided attention and we shared a deep embrace, i told her how wonderful every moment spent with her has been and thanked her for everything we share and continue to experience together. She was moved deeply. Thank you
You have just helped a suicidal person get momentum when she had none to talk to. I hope this warmth returns to you too, Laurie. You made me fall in love with you in 6 minutes.
strive to fall more in love with God each day and yourself and take lessons from the rest! Life is a special gift and I pray you will keep fighting for it. Wishing you well friend.🤎
When my grandmother was on her death bed in the hospital, she had so much anxiety and regret. She left everything to my Mom and told her to LIVE NOW! Do not wait till you retire to travel, do not wait till "X" to do "Y", do not wait! If you can do it today, do it. My Mom started traveling, helping other people and doing the things she was afraid to do. When my Mom was on her death bed, she was relaxed, told us she was ready and when she closed her eyes for the last time, she was at peace. Do! Yes, you still have to save some money for tomorrow and retirement, it is balance, not saying spend every dollar today, just say have goals on a regular basis and do them, you will be so much happier.
It does matter, money does. My lack of money prevents me from going out with my friends. It prevents me from traveling to see my friends. It means family no longer invites me for vacations because I cannot afford to take days off. Yes money does matter to stay connected and enjoy life
@@carmenhealer4635 sure but single parent that doesn’t live near friends. I do some but it’s mostly with others that have children. Otherwise there’d be paying for a babysitter. Also, everyone seems so busy. My notes and letters are rarely get replies. Being able to take a simple 30 minute walk has become a life goal.
@jessicarogers9420 if others are not available to you at the moment, it's because you are in a season of isolation. Do what you must now cause change is coming.
It is, and it's something that transformed the way I live and work. When we look back to all of the actions and steps we've taken, we will realize that we are where we were suppose to be all along 🙌
@lauriexwang That’s a very old quote. At least since the 70s. Maybe older. The person who made the comment didn’t originate it. lol Great vid by the way. Glad the algorithm sent it my way 👏🏼😎
I reluctantly clicked into this video expecting hard truths to swallow. It ended up being validating. A life of constant hustle terrifies me. I want friendships. I want to continue pursuing my hobbies and travel. I want to enjoy what I do. I've always wanted those things. It's not your primary message, but you do touch on these regrets.
You are good and great as you already are, whether you started or "accomplished" anything. Don't fall for that trap of only being worthy & valuable when you have achieved this or that. Be happy now with yourself ❤
Unfortunately, sometimes, being stuck will feel so familiar, that change will feel even more scary. Yet I believe your message here will push a few people to get in gear. Love this.
This resonates so well for me. Been hesitant to publish my stories for 5-10 years because I always think I ain't good enough yet. Then one day, a few month ago, i thought "F-k it" because i will never be good enough, but if i start, i will get better. That is how stuff works. We get better at what we practise. Even if i dont even have 10 people reading/listening, it is still worth it. For me.
@@alwayslearning7672, What is meant is, when you "do" something, or "move" in a direction you think you want to go, clarity shows you whether or not you are moving toward or away from what you really desire as you take each step. 🙏😇✨💫🌱🌿🌻🐝🌳🌎💖🙌😺
@TravisBHartwell Exactly! This is the reason I always jump queues and insist on being served first. If you want something, just take it. If you snooze, you lose. This mindset really does work and can get you quite literally ahead of others in most situations. Just maybe don't give this advice to someone who is suicidal though, as I did once and it was taken slightly out of context..
To me what opened my eyes was seeing all my aunts and uncles dealing with health problems. I find it crazy how at one point they were young thriving living having fun and now they’re sick all the time or in the hospital or even dying. It makes me sad that life doesn’t always get better the older you get and the NOW is the time to enjoy life because you may not be able to later. I’d say that also so many young people that have died. My cousin was my age and he died last year in an accident. Liam Payne was also someone young who just died and so on. Everyday we have is a blessing and we just have to remember that none of us are invincible.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s such a powerful reminder that life can change in an instant, and we often forget how precious our time really is. Seeing those we love face health challenges or lose their lives too soon really does bring everything into perspective. The “right time” to enjoy life is now, as you said. Each day really is a gift, and it's moments like these that make us appreciate the present so much more. Thank you for sharing your heart here-it’s a message we all need to remember.
A Hospice nurse said how, she's never ever heard a person, near their end, ever say how they wished that they would've spent more time at their scrappy jobs! Absolutely true! Great video, Laurie!
"no man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. it is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable." -Unknown writer dedicated to Socrates
@@donjohn2239 Those people have no choice. Hell many in first world countries these days don’t have that choice. The reality is that if they could afford it, the vast majority of people would most likely regret working so much if it wasn’t strictly necessary for survival.
I don't regret work and will never regret it. I love my job. It fulfils me in ways, nothing else possibly could and has given me the life I have. Not everyone is the same
I started UA-cam in August and it is as though scales fell off my eyes. So much is happening and I’ve evolved a lot in just the three months. Don’t wait on whatever it is people. ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. Watching someone you love go through such a difficult journey must have been incredibly hard, but it’s beautiful how you’re taking her experience as a reminder to cherish life and be grateful. Moments like these truly shift our perspective, reminding us how precious every day is.
I wish I had learned most of these principles about seven years ago. Many people find themselves stuck in the traditional cycle-go to school, get a job, and work tirelessly without exploring alternative opportunities. Unfortunately, this mindset can cause them to miss out on life-changing financial insights. In 2020, I experimented with the stock market, and the results exceeded my expectations. Now, I'm considering investing an additional $190k in the market. I've heard that some investors are still seeing impressive returns, even with the current downturn. Do you have any recommendations?
Steer clear of 'too-good-to-be-true' schemes. It's wise to consult a fiduciary advisor, as these professionals are among the most reliable in the industry, providing personalized guidance tailored to a client's risk tolerance. While not all advisors have the best reputation, those with a proven track record can be invaluable.
I've been working closely with a Financial Analyst for about 8 months now. These days, it's tempting to jump into trending stocks, but the real challenge lies in deciding when to sell or hold. That's where my advisor steps in, guiding me on the best entry and exit points in the industries I’m involved in. It’s been a worthwhile decision-I’m up 40% in profits in just 5 months, starting with an initial capital of $160k
What's the best way to find a reputable financial planner? I'd be interested in learning more about the professional who assisted you. I'm planning to retire in two years, and I’ll need reliable management for a significantly larger portfolio. I can't afford to take any risks.
Rebecca Lynne Buie has consistently been my top recommendation. She’s widely recognized for her expertise in financial markets and has a strong track record. I highly recommend her.
I have always been a positive person & lived my passions. She is a mirror of me when I was 38. A traumatic experience that happened 6 years ago has seemingly ended. At 52 I began living in extreme stress & survival - we are not meant to stay in chronic freeze, it destroys our nervous system. I always use to wonder why people didn’t just take action towards their dreams? “Just do it” blah, blah…It takes a lot of conscious work to learn to regulate our nervous systems once safety has been taken from us. I am planning to start my own YT channel about starting over later in life, it’s not as easy as just deciding to - not for everyone. That just makes people wonder what’s wrong with them. Even though everyone wants happiness, we are all wired differently.
Hi Laurie, it’s 5:11 am and I woke up at around 3 am stressing over an email I got from the president of the company that I work at. I’m sitting here trying to figure out what to do with the email and after a prayer I opened up my iPad to see this see video pop up in my feed. I was going to ignore it at first but something guided me to watch it. I’m glad I did, your message touch so many points that I have been struggling with for a while now. I’m a 50 year old male very successful professionally and financially but so miserable. I’ve never really taken the time to stop and focus on what I have in front of me, my amazing children and wife. I hope this video will be my seed for the future that I want to have, be less concerned about my career and financial stress and more about the stuff that really nourishes the soul! Thank you for sharing this very inspiring video, I look forward to seeing more content and help me on this journey. With love from Montreal Canada. Alex.
Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt message. I’m so glad this video reached you at the right time. It’s easy to get caught up in work and stress, but it’s inspiring to hear you’re focusing on what really nourishes your soul-your family and yourself. I resonate with many of the things you said having experienced that in my own career before I came to this realization, which inspired me to do the work I do today, in speaking to organizations and coaching individuals to live intentionally and make time for what matters. Recognizing that is such an important step, and I’m excited for you as you embrace this new chapter. 🌱
The president of your company is only as important as you believe. You and your family are what truly matters in your life. Make a real plan, save your money and retire early. Freedom is for those that fight for it. Best wishes to you and NEVER underestimate true value.
Sorry for your loss,my lovely mum passed away in April she was my best friend and I don’t know if Iwill ever feel that loved again,but we spent so much time together and did everything we could over the years so for that I’m grateful
@lauriexwang Thank you. Yes, it does change your perspective. Things I once cared for don't matter, it's all about family & friends even more.Thank you for the response & video. 😀😄
@janeforrest6838 Thank you and condolences to you and your loved ones. she passed in March 3 days after her bday. My mom & I were close too so much is lossed but Thankful for seeing the positive side of everything now.
This was actually a line in the book Fight Club written by Chuck Palahniuk in 1996 made into a movie in 1999 starring Ed Norton who spoke the line. Seems that people threw Dave Ramsey’s face with this quote as a meme.
Which means that, ultimate happiness, for many people, is impressing enemies and people perceived as superior. It's all about a wound of rejection. We just want to be loved and included. The lengths we will go to just get that small revenge. It's crazy.
I don’t enjoy Dave’s arrogance and meanness. This was not his quote.
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Ive never been wealthy, but ive been rich. Living in the moment has been my piece of mind. Live simple live minimal live without debt and the world just feels different. 5:53
So much truth in your video. Thank you. As a family I made it a rule that we always eat together at the dinning room table every evening. In a busy world it brings us together. And during the meal we always ask "what was your favourite moment of the day?" It might be as simple as going for a walk in the countryside, or that very moment of sharing time together. It doesn't matter what it is, just the ability to think on the days events and be thankful and joyful for something every day.
Thank you for that. Just what I needed to hear right now. Some of my very favorite quotes: "Will your life be an inspiration or a WARNIG?", "Fill your life with memories-not regrets", "Worry will never solve a problem", "Action puts you a day ahead-procrastination puts you a day behind", 'The material "things" filling your house were all once MONEY", "The more you know, the LESS you need" (from a sticker on a bicycle), "You can eat an ELEPHANT one bite at a time". At 79, two things I know for sure: Your children will be grown and gone in what seemed to be the blink of eye , one day you will wake up and suddenly realize you are OLD. TIME is the most valuable commodity we have.
the "clarity by doing" comment was eye opening. I'm sure there's some neurological explanation to it, but put simply, nothing beats experience. And your comment in minute 3:20 on not knowing what the next step is, if you haven't read Michael Crichton's "Travels" (non fiction), I recommend it> He relates to climbing the Kilimanjaro. Basically you can't see the top from the starting point, but as long as your putting one step above the last step, you will end up at the top! Thank you for such clarity.
Sometimes we overthink, but real understanding seems to come when we’re actually in the process, facing each step as it comes. Thank you for the book recommendation! I love that metaphor about Kilimanjaro-it’s such a perfect reminder that we don’t always need to see the whole path to make meaningful progress.
That’s cool you’re talking about this book. I literally purchased it 3 weeks ago. I think the regret about working hard is why I preach getting out of debt as fast as possible. Short term pain for long term gain.
Not all debt is bad but many people do not know how to use it. We don't teach financial literacy in our educational system unfortunately. Debt to acquire an income producing asset is good leverage. Credit card debt paying only minimum balances every month is bad.
Clarity doesn't come with waiting, it comes with doing. That's a good one. It's been ringing true in my professional life over the last few months. Thanks for the video Laurie.
"You don't need to know the last step, only the next one." Although it's not an answer for everything, and planning is also important, this sentence inspired me. Thanks.
This is a very good mantra to live by! So many people are lazy, waiting for a sign from god. They don't realise that god doesn't exist and it's up to them to make the best of life!
You are so right when you say that we should just start before we are ready. Magical things will happen! That’s what I recently did with my UA-cam channel. I just started, and I noticed as I go along, I learn a little something almost every time I record a video and upload it. Thank you so much for sharing all of his wisdom. Have a great day!
It's amazing how much we learn through the process, and your experience is a perfect example of that. Thank you for sharing your journey 🙌 Have a great week ahead
They say there are two days in the life of a person that are most important 1. The day you were born and the second one (2) The day you find out why !! Laurie you have found out why and have answered your calling so never stop doing what you have been called to do !! You are a magnificent speaker whose compassion is felt ! Watching your video moved me so much and I just want to say thank you for being such a Blessing ! Continue doing what you love and you will never work another day in your life. God Bless you ! Christina
Christina, thank you so much for this beautiful message! It means the world to hear that the video resonated with you like that. Finding purpose has been such a journey, and knowing it’s bringing something positive to others like you makes it all worth it. 🙏
Your sharing is so touching and really hits the truth that none of us know when our time is up. I used to work as a nurse in a hospital, and I've seen so many people pass away or suddenly get really sick before even reaching their 60s, whether it's from cancer or an accident. They often end up unable to get out of bed or even speak or eat. It’s such a shock, and it throws all their life and family plans into chaos. We really need to cherish every day, be grateful for our loved ones, and take action now. Don’t let yourself have regrets!
Thank you for sharing your story and personal experience. It's something that myself and others can always hear as a reminder about the fragility of life and how to live to make the most of it. ❤️ For me, my daughter has been the biggest reminder for me to be present and enjoy each moment with her.
Beautiful video! Happiness isn’t a destination; it’s the journey! Work towards your goals, but also watch a sunset, smell and brush against a rose, hug your friend, write a letter to someone telling them what they mean to you. ❤️🌹
Well said and love this. ❤️ Thank you for these beautiful reminders. I always believed in work for what you want, but don’t forget to pause and be grateful for what you have. It’s this balance that leads to both success and satisfaction.
You don’t need your know every step, just the next one.. such a wise statement!! Thank you for this great advice. So true ! We need to learn to enjoy the journey of like every step of the way.
Start living your life! Do what you want to do! Don't waste time doing things you don't want to! But tomorrow I have to go to work, and the next day and the next. And in the evenings I will cook and clean and do the washing etc and on the weekend I will take my child to her sports clubs and work in the garden and try to do some home improvements that have been waiting for years for me to have some spare time. None of these things I want to do. I'm not waiting to start living my life, I'm trying to live it now but there always seems to be something more important than my things.
I hear you completely, as a parent to a toddler with (more busier social plans than me on the weekend), so much of life as a parent feels like it's filled with commitments and tasks that never seem to end. It can feel like our days are spent taking care of everyone else while our own dreams are on hold. Balancing what "living life" looks like with all the responsibilities we take on is a tough challenge. But even in the midst of it all, finding those small pockets of time for ourselves can make a big difference. Plus kids have this wonderful way of making time stay still and reminding me to be present as they grow so fast. You’re doing your best, and that’s no small thing!
I watched this video about 5 times back to back. I was laughing out loud a few times. This information is so real and refreshing. Thank you for this gem because you are touching hearts going this deep ❤
People desire different things at different stages. This is a process that happens layer by layer. Don't cheat by jumping to the end and look backwards because that won't work. Without the mistakes and wastefulness, there would be no recognition to treasure what's valuable either. Cheating won't work.
This was a real wake up call. Thank you for making such a short video that was direct and to the point. I will be watching this over and over again. Powerful words! I feel like my daughter and I reside under the same roof, but aren't living as a family. She will be off to college in a few years and I need to make changes now to make the time we have together matter.
These times are very precious, I remember the time after i left home for college, it was different when I returned for visits. I really treasured those times I lived in the same house as my parents. Thank you for sharing your story with me, your daughter is very lucky to have a Mom who thinks like you do. Make the most of each moment together ❤️
Yes. Love your daughter the most you can. Life is too short. Make her a very special dinner.that you know she will like. And tell her that you love her❤
Thanks. I just started crying after watching this video. I promise myself to live every day like it is my last. Will cherish every moment in life and do what I want. Thanks, Laurie, you are awesome.
Great video! As someone who's had some challenging few years and starting over again, I'm embodying a lot of what you've said here. You're right that tomorrow isn't guaranteed and I'm trying to do more things that bring me joy 😍
You got this! It sounds like you're in a powerful place of rebuilding and focusing on what truly brings you joy. I’m glad the video resonated, and I wish you all the best on this journey forward! 🌱
@@CaixadeSkinner yeah. When dealing with the conventional experience in the outside world, it's full of pretence and political correctness - so you wear a costume (do like they). When it's about your real development, don't sugarcoat anything - go bare (without costume ). More like going for the truly truth so you don't deceive your own self For example, everyone wants to be a doctor but you know you are deeply yearning for being a dietician. It'll make it all ok, if you go for your heart desires and not attempt the costume of being a doctor
I really appreciate this video because it's the exact same view I share. Especially the line of "The pain of feeling stuck is always worse than the pain of taking action. Because every day you stay in place is a day you're further away from living the life you really want." I always try to learn something or get a bit faster or a bit more efficient or better at *something* every day, I try improve even if it's only by 1% each day. Hearing someone else say it out loud and in that view makes me feel confident.
This is very motivating and so very true! Ever since I was born, I've been into music and playing the drums. I've always wanted to do something with music, more specifically to be a session drummer for a band or an artist. I'm almost 30 and that has yet to happen. Fear and doubt have taken hold of my life, and I've passed up the very few opportunities that I've been offered simply because of the fear of saying yes and my routine changing. Now, I'm filled with regret and wonder if my lifelong goal will ever come to fruition.
It’s never too late to pursue what lights you up, and I can feel your passion for music in your words. Fear and doubt can be powerful, but they don’t have to define your path. The fact that you’ve always wanted this shows how deeply it resonates with you, and that’s something worth fighting for. It’s okay to take small steps toward your dream, even if it feels overwhelming. You’re allowed to change your routine, to step outside your comfort zone. Your dream is still very much possible, and by facing that fear, you might just find the opportunity you've been waiting for.
OMG The Universe SENT me this video simply to hear your words of 'not to worry' and to 'start it'. I started magnificent things when I was a child, things that typically only a few adults achieve. But was held back from receiving the due rewards and it traumatized me. Perhaps listening to this again and a few of your other videos, I might just be "set free". I might just get my life back.
It’s easy to let past setbacks hold us back, but remember that every step, no matter how small, brings you closer to reclaiming your path. You deserve to feel free and empowered to pursue what truly lights you up. 🙌
@@lauriexwang The hardest part is to get over the "principle" of "it" not working out, brush oneself off, and start fresh trusting that good things can and are coming. I think its the definition of Bravery! Today I feel better and I'm choosing it. Thank you.
This lady is very spiritual and really understands the meaning and experience of being human…her words deeply resonated within me and have given me renewed focus. Thankyou.❤
I've always been waiting for the perfect moment and have been wasting so much time and opportunities. Growth comes from moving, of going forward. I am very thankful for your input. Thanks for everything, you're a life saver.
I don't know what to expect from this video but after hearing this, I completely agree. Live our lives now, don't wait untill something happens to be happy ❤
I lived in Korea for 6 years. The entire experience changed my life forever. During those years, I felt like I truly live my life to the fullest! Thank you for reminding me of that time!❤😊
That's wonderful and I'm glad this video brought back some great memories. Thank you for sharing your story! 😊 Here is to living our lives to the fullest.
@louarmstrong6128 Sir or madam now I just *know* you aren’t going to judge an entire race of people based on your singular experience with ONE Korean person, right?
Yes the real reality is that we will die. Sooner or later. And that we will spend eternity. Either in. Heaven. Or. Hell. Where do you want to go?... Choose. Jesus. Christ. He is the only way. The truth and the life. John.3.16.kjv. bible.
this was very powerful. I watched the video and immediately got up and made myself a bagel. I had not eaten breakfast because I was working. Bagels are beautiful.
You can escape regrets by practicing according to the Buddhadhamma. When mindfulness and concentration is developed regrets won't get hold over the heart. You notice them and accept them quicker with wisdom.
I always told people this. You can lose and gain money, you lose time from your life but you can never gain it back. I don’t celebrate birthdays/ Christmas / valentines or any gifting holidays, if you appreciate someone make sure they feel appreciated don’t wait for holidays to show it as you never know if they’ll make it to such holiday
I am now 50 and always based my life on the principles of rhis video. Been through tough times but I can say that togetjer with my family I am simply happy and grateful for every day of my life.😊
Hi laurie, im in my 42 atm and feeling fucked up in life. Really need booster for gradually changing reality in my life coz i realize im not in my prime anymore. Life knocked me hard. Hopefully im catching up to the fullfilling life i meant to be. Ty 4 the content.
In Latin Philosophy the past is an inaccurate memory, and the future is still a dream. Neither are real, but the present is real. The present is what you choose to make of it at this very moment. Today is the beginning of the rest of your beautiful life. Let go of the past and have compassion for those that hurt you and especially for yourself, giving yourself permission to start fresh today. I truly hope you feel better soon that you choose that for yourself as your "first step for living more fully on your own terms".
Hey there. I feel your words deeply, and just want to say-42 is absolutely not too late to start turning things around. Life can throw some tough punches, but every new day is a chance to make those small, meaningful changes. Even if it feels gradual, each step forward is powerful. Sending you all the encouragement as you find your path back to the life you want. You’ve got this, one step at a time.
Yes love HIS love we share with ourself and others and being true to myself and others. Thank you LORD FOR TJIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMAN SHARING THIS. THANK YOU LORD. BLESS HER MIGHTILY.
As a person who experienced a near death experience I learned this lesson and try to teach others these lessons. It’s in the journey where the magic happen and the blessing is in each breath. Love you stay strong ❤
I just found this video, and I know that it's not an accident! Been stressing about what to achieve for 2025, finances, etc. until I feel low and empty. Feels like I'm setting too much pressure on myself that I forget to enjoy THIS MOMENT NOW. Been really obsessing about the future. I mean, yeah, it's great to be an achiever, but do not ever ever overdo it. So thank you! Your video gave me a much better perspective of WHAT I REALLY WANT in life.
This message needs to be spread far and wide. It's very hard for all of us to break out of a lifetime of societal programming. But it's so worth it!!! We all need to be brave and take that step towards our freedom.
4:40 let's give birth to that ideas that we have inside our hearts . Thank you so much Laurie for this powerful message, can I share the clip on my channel? Much much love 😘
Thank you, and I'm grateful that you resonated with the message. 🙌 You can clip the video in the section that you like on UA-cam and share the YT link with them, or alternatively you can share it the clip as a short. Have a great week!
I stumbled upon this book in 2011 when I was traveling reguarly for work. Sitting on the plane, I read Ware's book with tears streaming down my face as I took stock in the countless wasted years I'd spent chasing "success" - whatever the hell that meant. This book is indeed transformational and should be included in everyone's library. I recommend it to everyone I talk to that is experiencing uncertainty and lack of clarity in their life. It's been a few years since I've read it. Time to open that back up and read it again. It literally changed my attitude about life. "Clarity doe not come from waiting. It comes from doing." An exception statement, Laurie. Thank you for the reminder of Bronnie's amazing book!
That's beautiful to hear your story and I'm really grateful that I get to share this message with so many others. Thank you for sharing your story and this book definitely should be a timely reminder to how we can all live intentionally, which is different for everyone. ❤
You're right😉 Thank you for this advice. I often times find myself putting things for later. I have to stop, pause and enjoy what God has blessed me with. Great reminder thank you ❤
It’s so easy to get caught up in what’s next and forget the beauty in what’s already here. Pausing to appreciate those blessings can truly change everything. Thank you for sharing this reminder! ❤️
Eckhart Tolle got it right when he gave his book that title (The Power of NOW) and I so wish my ex could watch your video because he abandoned me suddenly after 5 years to seek career progression elsewhere. He was totally obsessed and motivated by money because he was £30k in debt and rather than us navigating this hurdle together, he left behind the most decent woman he’ll ever know. He’s nearing retirement now so I wonder - when his career no longer defines him, who will he be??
The most important thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different sources of income that doesn't depend on the government. Especially with the current economic crisis
If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation
Thank goodness you brought this up! Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 10 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life. Great piece!
@@keithoj4037 Wow, congratulations on your impressive investment success! Your discipline and focus on delayed gratification is truly inspiring. I'm curious, what are some of the key factors that you consider when making investment decisions? Do you have any tips for those of us who are just starting to dip our toes into the world of investing? Thanks for sharing your story!
Sampling error: to have a complete picture, she would also have needed to talk to a bunch of skid row bums and asked them whether they wished that they had tried a little harder for the promotion. And talking to the victims of paragliding accidents and asking whether, instead of chasing their dreams, they would have remained alive to see their children's birthdays and graduations. And asking the YOLO/Living in the Now enthusiasts whether they had invested some of their earnings with compound interest so they had something to retire on. These lessons are fine, so far as they go. But they aren't the complete piicture.
Life and wisdom are not linear. The message was for just you as the single "data point" to affect the rest of the sample population by living YOUR best life.
I doubt anyone ended up on skid row because they didn’t spend 60-80 hours a week chasing a promotion. If you want to do things like paragliding, that is your choice, and realize that there is risk involved that you don’t really need to chance. As for compound interest and YOLO, the idea is to invest for the future, but not spend time taking away from the now worrying about how it will all turn out.
@@1SevenFive Anyone on skid row is there because he or she was cognitively impaired, substance addicted, didn't work on the right stuff or didn't work hard enough. The fact that no one is asking the deathsporter victims their top regrets means this list is flawed, period. I've never heard YOLO practitioners state what you're stating. They're generally screaming "YOLO!" while starting an activity they're reasonably certain they'll regret, and trying to excuse their poor decisions.
@ So now it’s not because they didn’t try hard enough for a promotion, it’s because they were slackers or addicts. Big difference. If someone wants to engage in risky activities, they need to do so with the awareness that they are adding unnecessary risk to their lives. And it doesn’t matter if you’ve never heard someone saying YOLO hasn’t said that or not. Living in the now doesn’t mean you completely give up planning for the future, it’s keeping your main focus on the here and now. Sure, there will be those who don’t care about the future and don’t plan for it, but it doesn’t detract from the idea of living now regardless if you care or not.
@@1SevenFive I'm speaking to level of effort, generally, and focus on work vs. other priorities. My point--which is that there's massive sampling error by only asking the regrets of comfortable geriatrics in pleasant hospice environments--applies regardless. You and the rest of the YOLO yoyos are all entitled to your respective meanings of the phrase, and I'm entitled to draw conclusions from your respective actions. Living "in the now" is the absolute opposite of planning for the future. It is preferencing current pleasure instead of current self-denial. It is eating the marshmallow on the table instead of waiting for the two that the researchers will give you in 45 minutes.
I'm really sorry you're feeling this way-it sounds incredibly tough, and I just want you to know you're not alone in feeling this. Life can get really heavy when it seems like things aren’t lining up, but sometimes these moments can be the start of a new chapter, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Take small steps one at a time and be kind to yourself in the process. Sending you strength and hope, and remember: things can and do change.
Thank you for sharing your feelings. It is no small thing. Others will see that they are not alone, and neither are you. Have faith and take your next small step today, a step toward the life YOU want.
I feel I am so late in life yes from the day I was born till today I have had calm environment 😌 also I grew up from being poor no home to lower middle class with debt feel I have wasted 25 years my youth and teenage are gone 😭😭😭 sometimes I wonder is it worth living 😢
WOOOWWW!!! THAT WAS ONE OF THE MOST PROFOUND MOTIVATIONAL VIDEOS I EVER SAW HERE IN YT!! THANK YOU SO MUCH LAURIE FOR SHARING YOUR LIFE AND WISDOM TO ALL OF US!!
What’s one step you’d take today to start living more fully on your own terms?
stop worrying.. this would be a huge step.
just seening this 6 minutes, got me in tears
@@richardkloos5916 that means you're ready for a change and your body could not contain its passion for your best life.
@@JasmineIbrahim-y9z Trust
Write the first page ✍
"The pain of feeling stuck is always worse than the pain of taking action." 👍
Absolutely! 🙌
Exactly.
I’m stuck
You are absolutely correct
I felt this personally. Seriously, go after your goals and don’t worry too much about what people think. Everyone’s too busy focusing on themselves
I watched this...went into the kitchen where my wife was working on the phone, asked her for her undivided attention and we shared a deep embrace, i told her how wonderful every moment spent with her has been and thanked her for everything we share and continue to experience together. She was moved deeply. Thank you
That was beautiful...
Just did this and she asked wtf is wrong with me
Wow, I was moved. Thank you for sharing.
@@Tmate4444 🤣🤣🤣
This is so beautiful and thank you for sharing the moments of your life and how this video moved you ❤️
You have just helped a suicidal person get momentum when she had none to talk to. I hope this warmth returns to you too, Laurie. You made me fall in love with you in 6 minutes.
I feel the same way. Hope you’re doing a little better though
strive to fall more in love with God each day and yourself and take lessons from the rest! Life is a special gift and I pray you will keep fighting for it. Wishing you well friend.🤎
agreed
"Clarity doesn't come from waiting...it comes from doing." I really gravitate to this...thank you
Romans 10:9 - 10! Ephesians 2:8 - 10! nasb 1995
When my grandmother was on her death bed in the hospital, she had so much anxiety and regret. She left everything to my Mom and told her to LIVE NOW! Do not wait till you retire to travel, do not wait till "X" to do "Y", do not wait! If you can do it today, do it. My Mom started traveling, helping other people and doing the things she was afraid to do. When my Mom was on her death bed, she was relaxed, told us she was ready and when she closed her eyes for the last time, she was at peace. Do! Yes, you still have to save some money for tomorrow and retirement, it is balance, not saying spend every dollar today, just say have goals on a regular basis and do them, you will be so much happier.
It does matter, money does. My lack of money prevents me from going out with my friends. It prevents me from traveling to see my friends. It means family no longer invites me for vacations because I cannot afford to take days off. Yes money does matter to stay connected and enjoy life
Yeah, that's hard 😢
Be honest with friends and family and do things that are free like taking walks, taking on the phone, writing emails.
I can't agree with you more
@@carmenhealer4635 sure but single parent that doesn’t live near friends. I do some but it’s mostly with others that have children. Otherwise there’d be paying for a babysitter. Also, everyone seems so busy. My notes and letters are rarely get replies. Being able to take a simple 30 minute walk has become a life goal.
@jessicarogers9420 if others are not available to you at the moment, it's because you are in a season of isolation. Do what you must now cause change is coming.
I love that quote..."You don't need to know every step...just the next one.". Very powerful statement.
It is, and it's something that transformed the way I live and work. When we look back to all of the actions and steps we've taken, we will realize that we are where we were suppose to be all along 🙌
Romans 10:9 - 10! Ephesians 2:8 - 10! nasb 1995
I don't know why the almighty Algorithm brought me here, but i am so glad about it 😉
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift-that's why it's called the present.
Beautifully said!
So deep. You are like a wise kung fu panda.
@lauriexwang That’s a very old quote. At least since the 70s. Maybe older. The person who made the comment didn’t originate it. lol
Great vid by the way. Glad the algorithm sent it my way 👏🏼😎
@@marie-francoiset9402I believe it is a quote from Eleanor Roosevelt, I saw it on a coffee mug years ago. Lol
Thats wonderful
Its not just getting 10 years of life back. Its the meaning of life in 6 minutes.
Thank you for the video!
I reluctantly clicked into this video expecting hard truths to swallow. It ended up being validating.
A life of constant hustle terrifies me. I want friendships. I want to continue pursuing my hobbies and travel. I want to enjoy what I do. I've always wanted those things.
It's not your primary message, but you do touch on these regrets.
Romans 10:9 - 10! Ephesians 2:8 - 10! nasb 1995
*Do what you want to do*
*Don't just work work work*
*Sit down alone and think*
*Go out and see the world*
❤
Sit down alone and don't think
@@henrymuhindi1858 Except if work is what makes you happy (no. 5) and true to yourself (no 1.)
I have. and trust me, its not all that.
@@tamsinthai yeah. Because everybody else is wired the same way you are.
For a period of time, work can be a lifesaver. Literally
Every day you wait is a day you could have been closer to where you want to be.
🙌🙌🙌
Everyday i wait, i am closer to were i want to be, out of here 😉
@@mariolambrechts3306 😢
The fear of failing shouldn’t be stronger than our desires
@@jatinho_jato 👏
You don’t have to be great to get started , but you have to start , in order to be great
Very true.🙌
Romans 10:9 - 10! Ephesians 2:8 - 10! nasb 1995
You are good and great as you already are, whether you started or "accomplished" anything.
Don't fall for that trap of only being worthy & valuable when you have achieved this or that. Be happy now with yourself ❤
Unfortunately, sometimes, being stuck will feel so familiar, that change will feel even more scary. Yet I believe your message here will push a few people to get in gear. Love this.
This resonates so well for me. Been hesitant to publish my stories for 5-10 years because I always think I ain't good enough yet.
Then one day, a few month ago, i thought "F-k it" because i will never be good enough, but if i start, i will get better. That is how stuff works.
We get better at what we practise. Even if i dont even have 10 people reading/listening, it is still worth it.
For me.
"Clarity doesn't come from waiting, it comes from doing."
Thanks for the timeliness of this small sentence. It's what I needed today.
Glad this video showed up at the right time for you 🙌 let’s go live this life ❤️
Funny because I always thought that clarity comes from "not doing".
Just stopping and observing.
@@alwayslearning7672,
What is meant is, when you "do" something, or "move" in a direction you think you want to go, clarity shows you whether or not you are moving toward or away from what you really desire as you take each step. 🙏😇✨💫🌱🌿🌻🐝🌳🌎💖🙌😺
Amazing quote 🔥🔥🔥💯.
@TravisBHartwell Exactly! This is the reason I always jump queues and insist on being served first. If you want something, just take it. If you snooze, you lose. This mindset really does work and can get you quite literally ahead of others in most situations. Just maybe don't give this advice to someone who is suicidal though, as I did once and it was taken slightly out of context..
Success is achieving what you want in life.
Happiness is being satisfied with what you get…
Happiness is Priceless!!!
Priceless indeed! 🙌
Romans 10:9 - 10! Ephesians 2:8 - 10! nasb 1995
To me what opened my eyes was seeing all my aunts and uncles dealing with health problems. I find it crazy how at one point they were young thriving living having fun and now they’re sick all the time or in the hospital or even dying. It makes me sad that life doesn’t always get better the older you get and the NOW is the time to enjoy life because you may not be able to later. I’d say that also so many young people that have died. My cousin was my age and he died last year in an accident. Liam Payne was also someone young who just died and so on. Everyday we have is a blessing and we just have to remember that none of us are invincible.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s such a powerful reminder that life can change in an instant, and we often forget how precious our time really is. Seeing those we love face health challenges or lose their lives too soon really does bring everything into perspective. The “right time” to enjoy life is now, as you said. Each day really is a gift, and it's moments like these that make us appreciate the present so much more. Thank you for sharing your heart here-it’s a message we all need to remember.
It's called being healthy. Being active.
Yeah cause people have complete control over their health..
Remaining happy, grateful, joyful IN SPITE of chronic health issues.....
man, that is some god-tier human behaviour.
A Hospice nurse said how, she's never ever heard a person, near their end, ever say how they wished that they would've spent more time at their scrappy jobs! Absolutely true! Great video, Laurie!
Glad you resonated with this video and here is making the most of this beautiful life!
“Clarity comes from doing, not waiting”.
Beautifully put.
No one at the end of their life wishes they worked more. Family, friends, relationships, experiences are what is important.
"no man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. it is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable." -Unknown writer dedicated to Socrates
@@smithy1578 And it doesn't cost anything to exercise and strength train. Push-ups are free.
Bs. Tell that to someone from a third world country. You people act like some know all people.
@@donjohn2239 Those people have no choice. Hell many in first world countries these days don’t have that choice. The reality is that if they could afford it, the vast majority of people would most likely regret working so much if it wasn’t strictly necessary for survival.
I don't regret work and will never regret it. I love my job. It fulfils me in ways, nothing else possibly could and has given me the life I have. Not everyone is the same
I started UA-cam in August and it is as though scales fell off my eyes. So much is happening and I’ve evolved a lot in just the three months. Don’t wait on whatever it is people. ❤
It’s amazing how much growth can happen in such a short time when we just go for it. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤️
So cool!
I love YT and this video is perfect.
I do use the timer tho. I can get lost in it for hours otherwise.
Yes . Don't wait because than it may be too late. We are not promised tomorrow.
Today is all we have.
I'm subscribing
Go girl! Subscribed❤
I watched my mom dying with breast cancer and this was an opening eye for me to be grateful for everything and every moment is precious to us
Sorry, may they, you, and all those that she knew find peace. I experienced something similar. Thanks for the reminder.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Watching someone you love go through such a difficult journey must have been incredibly hard, but it’s beautiful how you’re taking her experience as a reminder to cherish life and be grateful. Moments like these truly shift our perspective, reminding us how precious every day is.
I’ve experienced the same ( was young ) so I didn’t get the same lesson from it
I wish I had learned most of these principles about seven years ago. Many people find themselves stuck in the traditional cycle-go to school, get a job, and work tirelessly without exploring alternative opportunities. Unfortunately, this mindset can cause them to miss out on life-changing financial insights. In 2020, I experimented with the stock market, and the results exceeded my expectations. Now, I'm considering investing an additional $190k in the market. I've heard that some investors are still seeing impressive returns, even with the current downturn. Do you have any recommendations?
Steer clear of 'too-good-to-be-true' schemes. It's wise to consult a fiduciary advisor, as these professionals are among the most reliable in the industry, providing personalized guidance tailored to a client's risk tolerance. While not all advisors have the best reputation, those with a proven track record can be invaluable.
I've been working closely with a Financial Analyst for about 8 months now. These days, it's tempting to jump into trending stocks, but the real challenge lies in deciding when to sell or hold. That's where my advisor steps in, guiding me on the best entry and exit points in the industries I’m involved in. It’s been a worthwhile decision-I’m up 40% in profits in just 5 months, starting with an initial capital of $160k
What's the best way to find a reputable financial planner? I'd be interested in learning more about the professional who assisted you. I'm planning to retire in two years, and I’ll need reliable management for a significantly larger portfolio. I can't afford to take any risks.
Rebecca Lynne Buie has consistently been my top recommendation. She’s widely recognized for her expertise in financial markets and has a strong track record. I highly recommend her.
Thank you for the recommendation. I looked her up and reached out via email. I'm hoping to hear back from her soon.
This was incredible. Thank you for sharing these words. This hit me somewhere deep today.
"Get Busy Living or Get Busy Dying" - Shawshank Redemption
Love this quote and movie! 🙌
Red.!
without money, good luck
HOPE is a good thing, maybe the best of things
Romans 10:9 - 10! Ephesians 2:8 - 10! nasb 1995
"You don't need to know every step, just the next one."
This is how I try to live, this is profound. Thank you for reminding me/us.
Thank you and I'm glad this was a timely reminder 🙏
Happiness doesn't come at the finishing line, it's found in the process in who we become along the way.👌
Very nice.
I have always been a positive person & lived my passions. She is a mirror of me when I was 38. A traumatic experience that happened 6 years ago has seemingly ended. At 52 I began living in extreme stress & survival - we are not meant to stay in chronic freeze, it destroys our nervous system. I always use to wonder why people didn’t just take action towards their dreams? “Just do it” blah, blah…It takes a lot of conscious work to learn to regulate our nervous systems once safety has been taken from us. I am planning to start my own YT channel about starting over later in life, it’s not as easy as just deciding to - not for everyone. That just makes people wonder what’s wrong with them. Even though everyone wants happiness, we are all wired differently.
Hi Laurie, it’s 5:11 am and I woke up at around 3 am stressing over an email I got from the president of the company that I work at. I’m sitting here trying to figure out what to do with the email and after a prayer I opened up my iPad to see this see video pop up in my feed. I was going to ignore it at first but something guided me to watch it. I’m glad I did, your message touch so many points that I have been struggling with for a while now. I’m a 50 year old male very successful professionally and financially but so miserable. I’ve never really taken the time to stop and focus on what I have in front of me, my amazing children and wife. I hope this video will be my seed for the future that I want to have, be less concerned about my career and financial stress and more about the stuff that really nourishes the soul! Thank you for sharing this very inspiring video, I look forward to seeing more content and help me on this journey. With love from Montreal Canada. Alex.
Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt message. I’m so glad this video reached you at the right time. It’s easy to get caught up in work and stress, but it’s inspiring to hear you’re focusing on what really nourishes your soul-your family and yourself. I resonate with many of the things you said having experienced that in my own career before I came to this realization, which inspired me to do the work I do today, in speaking to organizations and coaching individuals to live intentionally and make time for what matters. Recognizing that is such an important step, and I’m excited for you as you embrace this new chapter. 🌱
The president of your company is only as important as you believe. You and your family are what truly matters in your life. Make a real plan, save your money and retire early. Freedom is for those that fight for it. Best wishes to you and NEVER underestimate true value.
This is so true. I lost my mom this year, and life just changed. A different outlook to see something new and Thank God for everyday I wake up.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one, especially a parent, changes everything, and it makes us realize how precious each day truly is.
Sorry for your loss,my lovely mum passed away in April she was my best friend and I don’t know if Iwill ever feel that loved again,but we spent so much time together and did everything we could over the years so for that I’m grateful
@lauriexwang Thank you. Yes, it does change your perspective. Things I once cared for don't matter, it's all about family & friends even more.Thank you for the response & video. 😀😄
@janeforrest6838 Thank you and condolences to you and your loved ones. she passed in March 3 days after her bday. My mom & I were close too so much is lossed but Thankful for seeing the positive side of everything now.
"We buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like" -Dave Ramsey
very true!
This was actually a line in the book Fight Club written by Chuck Palahniuk in 1996 made into a movie in 1999 starring Ed Norton who spoke the line. Seems that people threw Dave Ramsey’s face with this quote as a meme.
Which means that, ultimate happiness, for many people, is impressing enemies and people perceived as superior. It's all about a wound of rejection. We just want to be loved and included. The lengths we will go to just get that small revenge. It's crazy.
@@JDB4197 dude giving Dave Ramsey credit for this quote is wild
I don’t enjoy Dave’s arrogance and meanness. This was not his quote.
Ive never been wealthy, but ive been rich. Living in the moment has been my piece of mind. Live simple live minimal live without debt and the world just feels different. 5:53
I was feeling burnt out and empty the past few days, but this video was a great course correction and a much needed kick in the butt. Thank you.
You're not alone and we all have those days. You've got this!
So much truth in your video. Thank you. As a family I made it a rule that we always eat together at the dinning room table every evening. In a busy world it brings us together. And during the meal we always ask "what was your favourite moment of the day?" It might be as simple as going for a walk in the countryside, or that very moment of sharing time together. It doesn't matter what it is, just the ability to think on the days events and be thankful and joyful for something every day.
Thank you for that. Just what I needed to hear right now. Some of my very favorite quotes: "Will your life be an inspiration or a WARNIG?", "Fill your life with memories-not regrets", "Worry will never solve a problem", "Action puts you a day ahead-procrastination puts you a day behind", 'The material "things" filling your house were all once MONEY", "The more you know, the LESS you need" (from a sticker on a bicycle), "You can eat an ELEPHANT one bite at a time". At 79, two things I know for sure: Your children will be grown and gone in what seemed to be the blink of eye , one day you will wake up and suddenly realize you are OLD.
TIME is the most valuable commodity we have.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙌
the "clarity by doing" comment was eye opening. I'm sure there's some neurological explanation to it, but put simply, nothing beats experience. And your comment in minute 3:20 on not knowing what the next step is, if you haven't read Michael Crichton's "Travels" (non fiction), I recommend it> He relates to climbing the Kilimanjaro. Basically you can't see the top from the starting point, but as long as your putting one step above the last step, you will end up at the top! Thank you for such clarity.
Sometimes we overthink, but real understanding seems to come when we’re actually in the process, facing each step as it comes. Thank you for the book recommendation! I love that metaphor about Kilimanjaro-it’s such a perfect reminder that we don’t always need to see the whole path to make meaningful progress.
That’s cool you’re talking about this book. I literally purchased it 3 weeks ago. I think the regret about working hard is why I preach getting out of debt as fast as possible. Short term pain for long term gain.
That’s amazing, really cool that you got this book recently, thanks for sharing your lessons! 🙌
Not all debt is bad but many people do not know how to use it. We don't teach financial literacy in our educational system unfortunately.
Debt to acquire an income producing asset is good leverage. Credit card debt paying only minimum balances every month is bad.
Clarity doesn't come with waiting, it comes with doing. That's a good one. It's been ringing true in my professional life over the last few months. Thanks for the video Laurie.
"You don't need to know the last step, only the next one." Although it's not an answer for everything, and planning is also important, this sentence inspired me. Thanks.
This video just changed my life. “Clarity doesn't coming by waiting it comes my doing.” Is so powerful. I wish I heard this sooner
All you need is that next step, you've got this! ❤️
This is very true...
This is a very good mantra to live by! So many people are lazy, waiting for a sign from god. They don't realise that god doesn't exist and it's up to them to make the best of life!
You are so right when you say that we should just start before we are ready. Magical things will happen! That’s what I recently did with my UA-cam channel. I just started, and I noticed as I go along, I learn a little something almost every time I record a video and upload it. Thank you so much for sharing all of his wisdom. Have a great day!
It's amazing how much we learn through the process, and your experience is a perfect example of that. Thank you for sharing your journey 🙌 Have a great week ahead
@ and I must say that I enjoy the process of learning a little something almost every time. It feels good. You have a great week too!
They say there are two days in the life of a person that are most important 1. The day you were born and the second one (2) The day you find out why !! Laurie you have found out why and have answered your calling so never stop doing what you have been called to do !! You are a magnificent speaker whose compassion is felt ! Watching your video moved me so much and I just want to say thank you for being such a Blessing ! Continue doing what you love and you will never work another day in your life. God Bless you ! Christina
Christina, thank you so much for this beautiful message! It means the world to hear that the video resonated with you like that. Finding purpose has been such a journey, and knowing it’s bringing something positive to others like you makes it all worth it. 🙏
Your sharing is so touching and really hits the truth that none of us know when our time is up. I used to work as a nurse in a hospital, and I've seen so many people pass away or suddenly get really sick before even reaching their 60s, whether it's from cancer or an accident. They often end up unable to get out of bed or even speak or eat. It’s such a shock, and it throws all their life and family plans into chaos. We really need to cherish every day, be grateful for our loved ones, and take action now. Don’t let yourself have regrets!
Thank you for sharing your story and personal experience. It's something that myself and others can always hear as a reminder about the fragility of life and how to live to make the most of it. ❤️ For me, my daughter has been the biggest reminder for me to be present and enjoy each moment with her.
This woke me up “Clarity doesn't come by waiting it comes my doing.” Very powerful. Thank you. Love & Light
Beautiful video! Happiness isn’t a destination; it’s the journey! Work towards your goals, but also watch a sunset, smell and brush against a rose, hug your friend, write a letter to someone telling them what they mean to you. ❤️🌹
Well said and love this. ❤️ Thank you for these beautiful reminders. I always believed in work for what you want, but don’t forget to pause and be grateful for what you have. It’s this balance that leads to both success and satisfaction.
@ Agreed! 🌹
You don’t need your know every step, just the next one.. such a wise statement!! Thank you for this great advice. So true ! We need to learn to enjoy the journey of like every step of the way.
This has been transformative in my own life and I'm glad that you found this useful! ❤️
Start living your life! Do what you want to do! Don't waste time doing things you don't want to! But tomorrow I have to go to work, and the next day and the next. And in the evenings I will cook and clean and do the washing etc and on the weekend I will take my child to her sports clubs and work in the garden and try to do some home improvements that have been waiting for years for me to have some spare time. None of these things I want to do. I'm not waiting to start living my life, I'm trying to live it now but there always seems to be something more important than my things.
I hear you completely, as a parent to a toddler with (more busier social plans than me on the weekend), so much of life as a parent feels like it's filled with commitments and tasks that never seem to end. It can feel like our days are spent taking care of everyone else while our own dreams are on hold. Balancing what "living life" looks like with all the responsibilities we take on is a tough challenge. But even in the midst of it all, finding those small pockets of time for ourselves can make a big difference. Plus kids have this wonderful way of making time stay still and reminding me to be present as they grow so fast. You’re doing your best, and that’s no small thing!
I watched this video about 5 times back to back. I was laughing out loud a few times. This information is so real and refreshing. Thank you for this gem because you are touching hearts going this deep ❤
Glad it was helpful! And I'm really grateful that this video was helpful to so many. Now let's go live this beautiful life ❤️
"You don't have to know every step just the next one" I love this! ❤🙏😊
People desire different things at different stages. This is a process that happens layer by layer. Don't cheat by jumping to the end and look backwards because that won't work. Without the mistakes and wastefulness, there would be no recognition to treasure what's valuable either. Cheating won't work.
I agree with the first part. but heeding advice from elders is not cheating.
This was a real wake up call. Thank you for making such a short video that was direct and to the point. I will be watching this over and over again. Powerful words! I feel like my daughter and I reside under the same roof, but aren't living as a family. She will be off to college in a few years and I need to make changes now to make the time we have together matter.
These times are very precious, I remember the time after i left home for college, it was different when I returned for visits. I really treasured those times I lived in the same house as my parents. Thank you for sharing your story with me, your daughter is very lucky to have a Mom who thinks like you do. Make the most of each moment together ❤️
Yes. Love your daughter the most you can. Life is too short. Make her a very special dinner.that you know she will like. And tell her that you love her❤
Let's be honest
we can't get our lost years back....but we can change ourselves starting today
From one UA-camr to another, thank you very much for this reminder!
Thank you and I'm grateful to be able to share this message with you and the UA-cam community 🙏❤️
Thanks. I just started crying after watching this video. I promise myself to live every day like it is my last. Will cherish every moment in life and do what I want. Thanks, Laurie, you are awesome.
saying no to people who don't have a value in my life in a positive way
I just tell them to piss off.
Great video! As someone who's had some challenging few years and starting over again, I'm embodying a lot of what you've said here. You're right that tomorrow isn't guaranteed and I'm trying to do more things that bring me joy 😍
You got this! It sounds like you're in a powerful place of rebuilding and focusing on what truly brings you joy. I’m glad the video resonated, and I wish you all the best on this journey forward! 🌱
“I was ashamed of myself when I realised life was a costume party and I attended with my real face”
― Franz Kafka
For me it was the opposite. I felt better when I stopped pretending to be a character.
@@CaixadeSkinnercan I say both - depending on context ?
That's it
@@ifeanyiemmanuel4729 Maybe life demands that we all wear a costume at times.
@@CaixadeSkinner yeah. When dealing with the conventional experience in the outside world, it's full of pretence and political correctness - so you wear a costume (do like they).
When it's about your real development, don't sugarcoat anything - go bare (without costume ). More like going for the truly truth so you don't deceive your own self
For example, everyone wants to be a doctor but you know you are deeply yearning for being a dietician. It'll make it all ok, if you go for your heart desires and not attempt the costume of being a doctor
I really appreciate this video because it's the exact same view I share. Especially the line of "The pain of feeling stuck is always worse than the pain of taking action. Because every day you stay in place is a day you're further away from living the life you really want." I always try to learn something or get a bit faster or a bit more efficient or better at *something* every day, I try improve even if it's only by 1% each day. Hearing someone else say it out loud and in that view makes me feel confident.
What an INCREDIBLE title holy shit. I actually didn’t have the willpower to even put this in my watch later, I had to watch it immediately.
These are such timeless lessons that more people needs to hear and thanks for sharing this. ❤
Thank you! I hope more people can realize these, if you know anyone who needs to hear this let them know ❤️
This is very motivating and so very true! Ever since I was born, I've been into music and playing the drums. I've always wanted to do something with music, more specifically to be a session drummer for a band or an artist. I'm almost 30 and that has yet to happen. Fear and doubt have taken hold of my life, and I've passed up the very few opportunities that I've been offered simply because of the fear of saying yes and my routine changing. Now, I'm filled with regret and wonder if my lifelong goal will ever come to fruition.
It’s never too late to pursue what lights you up, and I can feel your passion for music in your words. Fear and doubt can be powerful, but they don’t have to define your path. The fact that you’ve always wanted this shows how deeply it resonates with you, and that’s something worth fighting for. It’s okay to take small steps toward your dream, even if it feels overwhelming. You’re allowed to change your routine, to step outside your comfort zone. Your dream is still very much possible, and by facing that fear, you might just find the opportunity you've been waiting for.
OMG The Universe SENT me this video simply to hear your words of 'not to worry' and to 'start it'. I started magnificent things when I was a child, things that typically only a few adults achieve. But was held back from receiving the due rewards and it traumatized me. Perhaps listening to this again and a few of your other videos, I might just be "set free". I might just get my life back.
It’s easy to let past setbacks hold us back, but remember that every step, no matter how small, brings you closer to reclaiming your path. You deserve to feel free and empowered to pursue what truly lights you up. 🙌
@@lauriexwang The hardest part is to get over the "principle" of "it" not working out, brush oneself off, and start fresh trusting that good things can and are coming. I think its the definition of Bravery! Today I feel better and I'm choosing it. Thank you.
This lady is very spiritual and really understands the meaning and experience of being human…her words deeply resonated within me and have given me renewed focus. Thankyou.❤
I've always been waiting for the perfect moment and have been wasting so much time and opportunities. Growth comes from moving, of going forward. I am very thankful for your input. Thanks for everything, you're a life saver.
Thank you for being here and I'm just grateful to be able to share this with you at the right moment ❤️ I'm glad it was helpful
I don't know what to expect from this video but after hearing this, I completely agree. Live our lives now, don't wait untill something happens to be happy ❤
Absolutely, the key to lasting happiness isn’t just in getting what you want, it’s in appreciating what you already have.
I lived in Korea for 6 years. The entire experience changed my life forever. During those years, I felt like I truly live my life to the fullest! Thank you for reminding me of that time!❤😊
That's wonderful and I'm glad this video brought back some great memories. Thank you for sharing your story! 😊 Here is to living our lives to the fullest.
Do the Koreans live life to the fullest. I knew someone that was very superficial in college .
@louarmstrong6128 Sir or madam now I just *know* you aren’t going to judge an entire race of people based on your singular experience with ONE Korean person, right?
@@marie-francoiset9402 why would you say that? I asked a question to gain information.
Am I not allowed to ask questions?
Always good to be reminded about our reality, only passengers on this earth ❤
Thank you for this beautiful message, and we can all make this life count ❤️
Yes the real reality is that we will die. Sooner or later. And that we will spend eternity. Either in. Heaven. Or. Hell. Where do you want to go?... Choose. Jesus. Christ. He is the only way. The truth and the life. John.3.16.kjv. bible.
this was very powerful. I watched the video and immediately got up and made myself a bagel. I had not eaten breakfast because I was working. Bagels are beautiful.
I’m both proud of you AND inspired by you - thank you for sharing your wisdom, Laurie! I’ll definitely be seeing more of you❤
This came at the right time in my life. Thank you. I'm going to watch it twice so I can get another 10 yrs back. 😎
Haha, I love that! 😎 Glad this came at the right time for you and here is to making this life count 🙌
You can't escape life regrets no matter what you do or don't , it's human nature
90% agreed!
You can escape regrets by practicing according to the Buddhadhamma. When mindfulness and concentration is developed regrets won't get hold over the heart. You notice them and accept them quicker with wisdom.
I always told people this. You can lose and gain money, you lose time from your life but you can never gain it back. I don’t celebrate birthdays/ Christmas / valentines or any gifting holidays, if you appreciate someone make sure they feel appreciated don’t wait for holidays to show it as you never know if they’ll make it to such holiday
Well said , "clarity doesn't come from waiting ,it comes from doing". write that down everyone !!!
Thank you. It's something I aim to live by each day 🌱
I am now 50 and always based my life on the principles of rhis video. Been through tough times but I can say that togetjer with my family I am simply happy and grateful for every day of my life.😊
That's beautiful and thank you for sharing your story! ❤️
Hi laurie, im in my 42 atm and feeling fucked up in life. Really need booster for gradually changing reality in my life coz i realize im not in my prime anymore. Life knocked me hard. Hopefully im catching up to the fullfilling life i meant to be. Ty 4 the content.
In Latin Philosophy the past is an inaccurate memory, and the future is still a dream. Neither are real, but the present is real. The present is what you choose to make of it at this very moment. Today is the beginning of the rest of your beautiful life. Let go of the past and have compassion for those that hurt you and especially for yourself, giving yourself permission to start fresh today. I truly hope you feel better soon that you choose that for yourself as your "first step for living more fully on your own terms".
Hey there. I feel your words deeply, and just want to say-42 is absolutely not too late to start turning things around. Life can throw some tough punches, but every new day is a chance to make those small, meaningful changes. Even if it feels gradual, each step forward is powerful. Sending you all the encouragement as you find your path back to the life you want. You’ve got this, one step at a time.
Yes love HIS love we share with ourself and others and being true to myself and others. Thank you LORD FOR TJIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMAN SHARING THIS. THANK YOU LORD. BLESS HER MIGHTILY.
Thank you lovely, all of the best wishes to you
I launched my business today and really needed to see this!! 11/11/24
You've got this! 🙌
Congratulations on the promotion to C.E.O!
As a person who experienced a near death experience I learned this lesson and try to teach others these lessons. It’s in the journey where the magic happen and the blessing is in each breath. Love you stay strong ❤
This is the best video of all times
Thank you for sharing this moment with me ❤️
*I'm glad you made this video,* it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $89k biweekly and a good daughter full of love..
Please how ?
Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞
It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.
$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....
Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!
The fact that nobody talks about the book The Cosmic Wealth Frequencies on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance."
I just found this video, and I know that it's not an accident! Been stressing about what to achieve for 2025, finances, etc. until I feel low and empty. Feels like I'm setting too much pressure on myself that I forget to enjoy THIS MOMENT NOW. Been really obsessing about the future. I mean, yeah, it's great to be an achiever, but do not ever ever overdo it. So thank you! Your video gave me a much better perspective of WHAT I REALLY WANT in life.
This message needs to be spread far and wide. It's very hard for all of us to break out of a lifetime of societal programming. But it's so worth it!!! We all need to be brave and take that step towards our freedom.
Find the NOW in your life❤
Absolutely!
Really needed to hear this today. Going through some challenging and difficult times. Thank you, Laurie.
Sorry to hear that and I'm glad this video came to you at the right time. You can get through this 🌱
4:40 let's give birth to that ideas that we have inside our hearts . Thank you so much Laurie for this powerful message, can I share the clip on my channel? Much much love 😘
Thank you, and I'm grateful that you resonated with the message. 🙌 You can clip the video in the section that you like on UA-cam and share the YT link with them, or alternatively you can share it the clip as a short. Have a great week!
I love how powerful the message in this video is and how concise and to the point its delivery was.
I stumbled upon this book in 2011 when I was traveling reguarly for work. Sitting on the plane, I read Ware's book with tears streaming down my face as I took stock in the countless wasted years I'd spent chasing "success" - whatever the hell that meant. This book is indeed transformational and should be included in everyone's library. I recommend it to everyone I talk to that is experiencing uncertainty and lack of clarity in their life. It's been a few years since I've read it. Time to open that back up and read it again. It literally changed my attitude about life. "Clarity doe not come from waiting. It comes from doing." An exception statement, Laurie. Thank you for the reminder of Bronnie's amazing book!
That's beautiful to hear your story and I'm really grateful that I get to share this message with so many others. Thank you for sharing your story and this book definitely should be a timely reminder to how we can all live intentionally, which is different for everyone. ❤
You're right😉 Thank you for this advice. I often times find myself putting things for later. I have to stop, pause and enjoy what God has blessed me with. Great reminder thank you ❤
It’s so easy to get caught up in what’s next and forget the beauty in what’s already here. Pausing to appreciate those blessings can truly change everything. Thank you for sharing this reminder! ❤️
Eckhart Tolle got it right when he gave his book that title (The Power of NOW) and I so wish my ex could watch your video because he abandoned me suddenly after 5 years to seek career progression elsewhere. He was totally obsessed and motivated by money because he was £30k in debt and rather than us navigating this hurdle together, he left behind the most decent woman he’ll ever know. He’s nearing retirement now so I wonder - when his career no longer defines him, who will he be??
4:07 my problem mostly is, I don't know what the next step should be
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Thank you for opening my eyes again to realize the here and now and not stressing for the future. This was the wake up call on I needed.
Right now is all we need, and appreciate what we have while working towards what we want! ❤️
I just took a huge sigh of relief after seeing this video. Thank you for making my day
Thank you for sharing this with me, comments like this and so many others makes my day! ❤️
The most important thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different sources of income that doesn't depend on the government. Especially with the current economic crisis
The Rich Get Richer by Trading, While the Poor Rely on 9-to-5 Jobs and Government Promises"
If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation
Thank goodness you brought this up! Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 10 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life. Great piece!
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Wow, congratulations on your impressive investment success! Your discipline and focus on delayed gratification is truly inspiring. I'm curious, what are some of the key factors that you consider when making investment decisions? Do you have any tips for those of us who are just starting to dip our toes into the world of investing? Thanks for sharing your story!
@@daruneekutjana5527Things you can invest In
Real estate
Stock Crypto
Bonds
Bitcoin
Sampling error: to have a complete picture, she would also have needed to talk to a bunch of skid row bums and asked them whether they wished that they had tried a little harder for the promotion. And talking to the victims of paragliding accidents and asking whether, instead of chasing their dreams, they would have remained alive to see their children's birthdays and graduations. And asking the YOLO/Living in the Now enthusiasts whether they had invested some of their earnings with compound interest so they had something to retire on.
These lessons are fine, so far as they go. But they aren't the complete piicture.
Life and wisdom are not linear. The message was for just you as the single "data point" to affect the rest of the sample population by living YOUR best life.
I doubt anyone ended up on skid row because they didn’t spend 60-80 hours a week chasing a promotion. If you want to do things like paragliding, that is your choice, and realize that there is risk involved that you don’t really need to chance. As for compound interest and YOLO, the idea is to invest for the future, but not spend time taking away from the now worrying about how it will all turn out.
@@1SevenFive Anyone on skid row is there because he or she was cognitively impaired, substance addicted, didn't work on the right stuff or didn't work hard enough. The fact that no one is asking the deathsporter victims their top regrets means this list is flawed, period. I've never heard YOLO practitioners state what you're stating. They're generally screaming "YOLO!" while starting an activity they're reasonably certain they'll regret, and trying to excuse their poor decisions.
@ So now it’s not because they didn’t try hard enough for a promotion, it’s because they were slackers or addicts. Big difference. If someone wants to engage in risky activities, they need to do so with the awareness that they are adding unnecessary risk to their lives. And it doesn’t matter if you’ve never heard someone saying YOLO hasn’t said that or not. Living in the now doesn’t mean you completely give up planning for the future, it’s keeping your main focus on the here and now. Sure, there will be those who don’t care about the future and don’t plan for it, but it doesn’t detract from the idea of living now regardless if you care or not.
@@1SevenFive I'm speaking to level of effort, generally, and focus on work vs. other priorities. My point--which is that there's massive sampling error by only asking the regrets of comfortable geriatrics in pleasant hospice environments--applies regardless. You and the rest of the YOLO yoyos are all entitled to your respective meanings of the phrase, and I'm entitled to draw conclusions from your respective actions. Living "in the now" is the absolute opposite of planning for the future. It is preferencing current pleasure instead of current self-denial. It is eating the marshmallow on the table instead of waiting for the two that the researchers will give you in 45 minutes.
Yeah I am 26 no job broke 😢 no friends 😢 no one to talk to or hang out feel my pain 💔💔💔😭😭😭
Same
@jenifermelo7280 sorry about that 😐
I'm really sorry you're feeling this way-it sounds incredibly tough, and I just want you to know you're not alone in feeling this. Life can get really heavy when it seems like things aren’t lining up, but sometimes these moments can be the start of a new chapter, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Take small steps one at a time and be kind to yourself in the process. Sending you strength and hope, and remember: things can and do change.
Thank you for sharing your feelings. It is no small thing. Others will see that they are not alone, and neither are you. Have faith and take your next small step today, a step toward the life YOU want.
I feel I am so late in life yes from the day I was born till today I have had calm environment 😌 also I grew up from being poor no home to lower middle class with debt feel I have wasted 25 years my youth and teenage are gone 😭😭😭 sometimes I wonder is it worth living 😢
WOOOWWW!!! THAT WAS ONE OF THE MOST PROFOUND MOTIVATIONAL VIDEOS I EVER SAW HERE IN YT!! THANK YOU SO MUCH LAURIE FOR SHARING YOUR LIFE AND WISDOM TO ALL OF US!!
You are so welcome! Thank you, I'm grateful you came across this video, and that I get to share it to help impact other people's perspectives. 🙌
I burst my tears when I watch this video, thank you for sharing! It's beautiful!