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Thank you 🙏 Im
I hate him 😪
Thank youuuuuu ❤️
Thank you I will try to get it.
Im going through this right known.
Forgive yourself for loving them . Forgive yourself for seeing the best in them . Forgive yourself for being patient with them . Forgive yourself for holding on to the relationship. Forgive yourself for everything
Omg just out of nowhere your comment made me start crying. I'm going to screenshot it. Thank you.
@@nunya257 I said the same thing.
Well put. Very articulate Esther. Thank you.
I needed this.....
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Being single i found it a blessing.
You gain clarity about who YOU are.
Wisdom where you lacked.
You can listen to God.
Your so right jermetra, since i left my last relationship last summer, ive got closer to god, been able to indentify my gift , start a blog/business. you get a lot of clarity and clear vision.. i will say there moments where u feel lonely but you get past those... god bless you and your future
@@Bakesonline How did u identify ur godgiven gift?
@@freedom123-j8j hey Claudia, its funny because steve harvey broke it down which made me identify my gift rather quickly. he said your gift is the thing you do the absolute best with the least amount of effort.. i love to write and words come to me so naturally.. i wrote to my best friend who was in jail for 4 years and it didn't really feel like chore. after prayer and steve harvey breaking it down i came to that conclusion so to further show off my skill i started a website and growing it.. its very slow atm but i'm here for the long game and i know i will do it full time one day.. so my advice to you Claudia is what you do the best without much effort.. we can even reverse engineer your gift, the bible says your gift will make room for you. my question for you is , is there anyone you do really well that progresses you, is constantly noticed by other people who need what you do. remember a gift isn't just what society celebrates ( singing , acting , rapper, athletes etc ) it could be drawing, painting, writing, public speaking, event management anything!! u have a gift, go find it love!!! i might make a youtube video on this.. lastly read the story in the bible, parable of talents... you have it in you !!! god bless!!!!
@@Bakesonline big thanks for the reply and your detailed advice. I appreciate it a lot. I wish u success with ur website!:)
@@freedom123-j8j no problem love!!! x
I just want tha pain to b gone 😭
Im feeling it as well keep strong were in this together
I’m feeling you!
Me too sis😭😭😭😭
Feel like I’m dying,being hard to get up out of bed. Sleeping to much i just want to get well man 🙇🏾
How you guys doing?
I agree it probably wasn't Love but a Unhealthy Attachment to a person who was not suppose to be in our life permanently anyway.
This got me
george rachford me too 💔
@@meekashabazz6135 can we connect
george rachford I’m 💔 not Desperate!!!
girl yes!!!
Getting "under someone else" will not help you at all. It will just cause another soul tie and confusion. Get completely healed and focus on your growth.
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Yep. It absolutely does not work and hurts the other person, and eventually yourself even more.
I made that same mistake
So true getting under someone else will not help at all.
Not at all...you just put the love and energy you had for the other person into the next, and we’re never healed. And at the end, you will hurt more😖.
Gave this man my everything, my body , my heart , and my mind , and he left me , when i got pregnant. After years of love , and support , made i clear that he would be by my side , and lied and left me , heartbroken and alone . With a new baby on the way. Because i decided not to unalive a baby that he said we would be ok with . Some men can be really evil , and selfish , and manipulative. Now i have to move on with what’s left of my heart , and a new baby . I pray god see me through this pain . And when i have my baby I’ll then begin to have some form of joy in my heart , till then , i am broken .😞 💔
I am praying for you. 🙏
Love you🩷
I swear after moving on i won’t allow my heart to be played again
Never ever again. Pray for wisdom and discernment when dealing with ppl.
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Yep! Im pretty sure I've been with a narcissist this whole time. He discarded me 3 weeks ago. After 18 years together this all makes sense, he used his sly skills to keep me there until he found a new supply. All these years didnt realise it was narcissistic behaviour, just thought thats how he is and it was normal. When he broke it off, it was the most lies I've ever heard. Its me its not you, im not happy, need to be alone find myself, we kept trying but didn't work (he never tried only when he wanted) we're different, i was showing signs. My god i saw every single sign. Absolute mixed signs and I didnt know that's a form of manipulation. Every other break up was arguing and yelling this one was too calm. He knew when to use me and discard me. I always apologised he never once did even for the smallest thing. Made me question my sanity? He has his chat with me and was done. Fast forward a few days im obviously a mess got completely blindsided! My gut was telling me no, it's that hes got someone new. My suspicions were correct! This whole time behind my back he was talking to someone and used me slowly until he was ready to have the 'chat' with me. I went over to confirm my suspicion and that POS after 18 years that I gave him my whole world and what my family gave him he just shat on it! He opened the door and he knew right then oh crap, I just got caught out, but I only knew because I saw her car in his driveway and he quickly tried to hide us from seeing each other. I asked him to be a man and step outside and give me the honest truth and all he could say is you need to leave, she clearly didn't have a clue he even had a gf this whole time because when I started screaming out hes a cheater a liar and everything under the sun the first thing he did was yell youre a psycho! Im glad i did because she wouldn't have had a clue, so if it happens to her one day, then I warned her! But I keep thinking he will change and treat her like a queen the way i shouldve been treated.A psycho because I've been hurt and betrayed and asking you the truth?! So he was making me out to be crazy and threatening to call the cops!!! The cops because he got busted with the lies and this girl didn't know anything coz he has fed her with lies! I knew there was more to it when he deleted his social media and he would never do that when I would ask him to because he was infatuated over the instagram models and then say to me no we like natural girls this is all fake, but then still be obsessed with them and that im just insecure! I am so disgusted that allowed my whole time, body and soul to this guy! I gave him my world my heart! He stomped on it all for his new supply?! He used me to better himself for the next person?! That is evil! This is a guy that lost his family and we took him under our wings living with my family gave him a whole new life and he simply shat on us all! The lies and manipulation he has caused me. He's made me feel worthless so disgusting I can't even look at myself while he's already happy out there with someone that I didnt get to see, to see why she is better than me? But I have to think, STOP, its not you. He lied his was with her like he did with you. POS! I've never felt this low in my life. My mental state, he has ruined! Belittled me and I took it all because I just thought i can help him hes depressed or I loved him?! Who does that to another person and wakes up living and breathing like you did not do anything wrong?! All these unanswered questions how did it happen? When did it happen? What does she have I dont? Who is she? Where did you meet? How did I not see anything? My mind is nuts! Im in so much pain from 1 person?! How could 1 person ruin your life and go about their day with the next person? Ao sick! Sick to think he did this for God knows how long and I was used. He mentally detached himself ages ago and I didnt see it? He manipulated me so much that I was the insecure one its all in my head! To only be with me this whole time acting up and down and she was there all along?! So sick! To call the cops? That is insane! It was all about his ego and to make me look pathetic in front of her! Goes to show no matter how long someone can be in your life can still shit on it and continue with theirs! I will definitely get a 'i didnt want to hurt you response' or protect you! Hell no! You did it to protect yourself and your new supply so she doesn't know the real you! POS i didnt see anything in his phone!! He obviously was deleting msgs. Im furious ! If only I dug more I could have ended this months ago because there is no way this had just happened the day after we broke up. He planned it. Especially due to being stuck in a pandemic and being on lockdown for 5 months not being able to see anyone he planned it. I dont know how I didnt see it! I can't get past this. Im constantly thinking how blinded I was to not see it! There were red flags (now I see them), but during the time he just kept reassuring me its in my head! I feel like such an idiot! I guess, he'll love her more than me, treat her better and change for her! Im so mad as I kept asking the last few months what are we? Im over getting treated differently everyday and he would just bypass the conversation or come up with something shitty and be like oh you this or you that and then I'd either cry and leave or I would apologise! If I threatened to leave im done I've had enough of this treatment he'd smirk and I'd leave not speak to him and he would get in touch with me in a week and be like hey, I dont wanna argue if were gonna argue ill be over it and he'll ignore me! How many times he would ignore me for a week or so while I would beg for him to just speak to me. Beg and cry to speak. Oh it was sickening. I fought and fought and im at the bottom. We had broken up for 2 years at one stage it took me a year to get on with my life and I thought ok we've both grown we know what we want now, well looks like I did and this whole time he was just using me until he found someone better. I feel so sick and disgusting and am afraid how will I get past this? Im scared if I dont. Im trying my hardest and its killing me. Not even the decency or respect to be honest and tell me he was never in it for full term. I close my eyes every night and i can't sleep I panic all over again. How did I not know or see anything? How did I get so fooled? I see the signs now, even with our dog that he supposedly loved so much, he stopped asking for her all makes sense now because he couldn't tell her why she wasn't there when she'd be around! I feel like a fool. An idiot. Disgusting, worthless every single thing you can feel. Cheating is bad enough, but forming an actual relationship with someone while you didn't end the other one is pure evil! And I saw nothing! I asked so many times i cant handle this what are we I cant keep going on like this and just knew how to manipulate me and keep me in until he was ready to let me go! Who does that? Just leave. Break up I dont deserve this
Yep. That’s me. I’m going to be single for the rest of my life.
But i still believe in love...i dont wanna live like i dont wanna be in love.
Unhealthy attachment
I have been there my whole life
I need prayers.
This s tooo hard for me
"Sometimes you werent in love, you were just in an unhealthy attachment"....Wow!!! this total discribes EVERYTHING
This spoke to me honestly. I think my issue is being too available and always waiting for the person. I need to focus on myself more. I think my problem was that I wasn't letting myself accept the fact that I let my guard down and I let someone in my life who wasn't supposed to do all that damage to my heart.
Omg this comment hit my soul! My exact problem as well. And it sucks cuz everyone says not to be too available for a man but when you love him and cherish his company and good times what is availability?!?! Too bad we as women now have to hold back. But I understand now. We cannot wait on him. We must be comfortable with our own lives and our own space. Blessings to you 💞💞
Hi i think i night be able to help
If you don't mind can we talk privately on Hangouts my email is isaacmoses457@gmail.com
James Miles Soft ass
Me to
well since you experienced this, may i personally tell you my situation and can u tell me what you think i should do.
so basically i’ve been with this girl for 4 years, Since 8th grade of middle school
She called the relationship off and decided to be freinds and take a break. I didnt honestly want to do that but i let it be.
I’m giving her so much attention , effort, and energy to see her, talk to her, etc. But she keeps saying “ tmwr tmwr “ which ends turning into never. I’ve been telling her to call me to help us fix this but nope, nothing. If i don’t call her, she doesn’t. It’s been a week.
i’ve been waiting and waiting for her texts, calls, etc. I never get her calls but she went from answering in under 5 mins to now 20-30. I’m confused on what to do, she called this relationship off but i have not seen ANYY effort from her and she’s so dry with me now. And also, i forgot to mention that she literally makes me wait for her, everything is on her time.
This made me cry.. I have to let go of what no longer serves me. Do more damage holding on then letting go.
YOU DESERVE BETTER
It's so hard. It's hurts extremely bad.
I was broken then, feels good to move forward. The past is the past for a reason. No thanks 😊 I’ll keep moving forward.
@sansuggs - I hope that you are doing well and that you're enjoying life now without them.
Omg this was years ago lol. Update I’m doing great thanks for asking. I found Jesus Christ in my pain and Jesus Christ lead me to my fiance and I am now engaged.❤️🥰 There is healing in your tears and I pray for whoever is reading this. Know that you’re worthy and God loves you!
My Step by Step process of Moving on.
1. Pray
2. Bonding moments with my Friends.
3. Forgive &
4. Let Go.
i dont have any friends...sigh.
@@ugliestart8265 same
@@fathomD i understand
@Shai444lol lol same as not having frens. Welcome to our group mate😂😂
I did that on the first one and i did fine. But this one is different from my other relationship. I am in love this time and it seems to grow stronger each time I try and cut it off. The feelings I have now or of my heart and not physical as before. We talk and share things with each other about ourselves and family. It's just different this time.
It's not the breakup that I struggle with, it's the rage and resentment at the damage he did on his way out.
This !!!! but baby I got my lick back but the way he think her did he gonna remember forever
This
He put his hands on me in front of his new girlfriend… I feel so worthless .
Everything happens for a reason when it’s time to let go and it’s not working anymore it’s just time to let go and work on yourself!! If it not meant to be for that person than it’s not... move on for better things to come!!!
Stephan Speaks yep exactly!!!!
Unhealthy attachment is exactly what it was it wasn’t love at all thank you for the clarification!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
😫Unhealthy attachment💔💔... I just saw my reflection in the mirror.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks How do you know if it's unhealthy or not?
You will be fine! Force yourself to reject this relationship! You are helping yourself this way! Otherwise, you will not focus on yourself, your goals, and your future! This person will control easily each thought in your head!
Go and survive!
I was in your situation! It is not easy. However, after you release yourself from those feelings, you will feel yourself a new person full of life, wisdom, and power!
Merry Christmas! 😊
Being single and learning to love yourself is paramount before you can even m fathom learning to love someone else.
Learned this the hard way and I feel bad for those I've dated thinking it would fix my pain
Yeah absolutely
@@toddlagerholm2304 Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
Whatspp**him*
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Feel like im gonna die sometimes. 5 years gone at the snap of a finger and minimized to a friend. You speak with wisdom and truth. Thank You
Girl same I’m in so much pain . How you doing ?
@@sharnashields7118Thanks for asking 🙂... your comment is timely. I can't believe its been 9 months. Lets just say Im not in the same place I was then. Coming back to this comment is a reminder that bad times don't last always. The time varies with each individual but your process of healing will come with working towards it and time. ❤🤗 Sending love and positivity your way.
@@dolledupdiana7131 that’s great . And it’s good you’re in a different place as noone deserves this pain . My ex texted me today after day four of no contact . He said “are you okay “ I replied hours later “I’m good u?” He replied “ yeah I’m good “ and I didn’t reply after that as what is there for me to say to that and as I’m meant to be playing it cool ? I don’t know if he will message me again
hes probably just trying to test out the temperature and see if your gonna be emotional and pouring out to him. Its good u didn't.
@@dolledupdiana7131 girls...I’m in serious pain right now. I just ended a 5yr relationship and I don’t know what to fucking do...it hurts so much
"Forgiveness is your freedom"...this was all really good and well said. You make it all so easy to understand! It's so interesting how we as people become so attached and addicted to our significant others....when the attachment should be with God, first and foremost.....Thanks for sharing.
Loved* forgiveness is freedom.
* Flow with your feelings. If you love them you love them. No contact. Stay focus.
* Forgiveness - letting go of the disappointment
* “Not really in love just an unhealthy attachment “ ..... I was blown away with that statement. Light bulb 💡 turned on. Wow!
You’re a blessing Stephan. I needed to hear that today.
How do i know if it is an unhealthy attachment or love?
I agree with this💙 I've been single for awhile now, but I'm just focusing on becoming a better person each day & building a closer relationship with god.💜🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I sure will🙏 Thanks Stephan😊😉
Me too sis
@@paulaprice4605 Yes Sis. I pray things get well for you.😍😘
Hi
Can we have a private conversation if you don't mind my email is isaacmoses457@gmail.com I'm on Hangouts hope to getting a reply from you
Great video! My career and spiritual walk are where I happen to be right now. The break up happend Dec. 2018 after my birthday. I brought in the new year crying on my mothers shoulder. Although I brought in the new year crying, I have recieved blessing after blessing. My career has been soaring, new job, over a 25% increase in pay, GOD has been working on me and I have been reading and talking about GOD every since. When I talk HE is always a part of my conversation. Remember mans rejection is God's protection. Sometimes GOD has to remove people out of your life so that you can focus on HIM. GOD could not move me because I was not ready. I'm proud to say he graduated me from kindergarten. I'm proof that your year does not have to end how it started. Stay prayed up!
This indeed is a testimony to key in! Very soothing. Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.
This is so profound, thank you 🙏
Oh my God! This is my story my birthday was on Saturday and I broke up the next day, I key into this testimony
I love this!! Thanks for the encouragement!!
Amazing story to read! I just got of my relationship a week ago, due catching him cheating on me. We were together 4 years. I'm in pain buy I know God will heal my broken heart.
It was very very hard to break up with him I love him i still love him very much but I noticed the relationship was consuming me. The moment I broke things off like literally two weeks had went by and I found myself praying more, fasting more I even decided that I would diligently work on my business. I didn't want to do this but it's the best thing that has happened to me. My relationship with myself and God went from 5 to 8. To me that's big.
Am happy for you.put that love all over yourself.nice move an inspiring. #Stay Strong 🤓
Bryana, How are you holding up now?
But ull settle down eventually, i guess love is replaceable.
God!! I needed to see this
Please can I have your contact?
I've come to a place to finally remain single for a reasonable time to heal & give Christ my heart to truly heal to my core & grow. Gain clarity, focus on my two kids, focus on my career & allow myself to trust in God to place the right man in my life. My heart is tired of failed relationships, and I just want a real break to rebuild my peace in Christ.
You still haven't told me how to heal
I was in a really unhealthy and toxic relationship for 7 years, and I thank god I found the strength to leave. I know I wasn't in love, just attached.
How did you do it? Im trying so hard to leave a toxic 7 year relationship.
I’m in a relationship that’s toxic between us but now we have a young child and it’s so so so difficult to leave.. I want the best for all of us regardless of what has been said or done.
@@DiscoveringMe1111 I saw that I was unhappy and my kids could see it and I know that's not what I wanted for them or myself, so I thought about it and just left him.
@@BreadnButtuh as long as he wants the same, it could work out for the better. I wish you the best and remember, always put your baby and you first ❤
@@DiscoveringMe1111 oh and one more important thing... I prayed everyday and asked God to give me strength cause I know it wasn't easy.
I’m only 18 and been with him since I was 16. He’s older then me by 5 years and he was all I knew. I seen him almost every single day for 3 years straight than out of nowhere we started to hate each other, attitude every conversation, nonchalant, going days without talking. Today is the day I said I’m done I’ve said it hundreds of times but self love is important. It’s hard already I’ve cried on and off trying to look past it but it’s so hard y’all. I feel empty. I just want to be years ahead of today and forget all about it.
Thank you for saying it's okay to be single. I'm 35 without kids and people feel working on yourself is an excuse. And it SO is not. Its needed it! I'm definitely buying this book for me and some family and friends lol.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks absolutely. I love how you are allowing God to use you. Your books have helped me so much!
Taneshia,Don't Let NOBODY Make YOU Think YOU Are Doing Anything "WRONG" YOU Are Doing lt The Absolute Right Way. Working on YOU & Making YOU The Very BEST YOU That YOU Can & Will Be
@@NYCCHOCOLATE7777 thank you so much 😘
I'm 46. No kids. Just ended a situationship with someone I cared about - probably too much-with a good bye and a hang up. Still trying to find my way.
Your not alone!
I am here if you want to talk girly!
I needed this, I haven’t talked to or entertained a man in about a month and honestly, I feel more focused on myself and not waiting like something is missing. I still love my ex and I’m healing, I’m realizing we are in two different head spaces and I can’t keep holding on to someone who is emotionally unavailable and doesn’t seem to wanna be kept, nevertheless see the worth in a woman like me! To all my woman struggle, day by day we are making it 🙏🏽
Yes!!
Heavy on the emotionally unavailable. 😩
Same exact position I’m in
Felt this! ♥️
That’s so me right now I haven’t had sex in 8 months right now & I’m not trying to justify my heartbreak with sex I want to become friends with someone who wants to know me the real me don’t jump head first into a relationship just take things slow one day at a time
there is a reason and only God knows as to why you cannot be with that person.
that attachment is something else. I gotta move on & forgive myself.
Healing is definitely key!
OMG I was so relieved to hear that reminder: Stop fighting what you are feeling! I need time to grieve, even if I know that that person was toxic for me right now. I keep sending him love, offering myself the love that I deserve...and forgiving him and myself.
Ready to finally be healed completely.. I cry everyday…
To be successful in anything one must be willing to endure some pain, to be able to handle any situation in come out on top. Trusting that God will give you the power to withstand after you have suffered a while. God gives pain and power they both go together. BUT in order to fully receive the life you desire and truly be happy, whole and at peace it’s important to take a deeper look from within by looking at past hurt, and past situations. The pain one has caused address those people, express those emotions, forgive, take the necessary time you need to COMPLETELY heal from the past/pain and move on because LIFE WILL HAPPEN! Trust the PROCESS.
Focus on You and Believe in Yourself.
BUT Don't Give Up On ❤️
My heart goes out to you. It is at times we feel we are alone in what we are facing; but the truth is someone is going through just as much as we (I) am. My prayers are going up for you; and it makes me realize that I am not alone. As you lean on God; He will give you peace & comfort doing this time. I have learned this one thing: When we love someone as God has commanded us to do so, God is pleased with us doing so; however if that person choose to not accept that love; then they are the ones who have not experienced what true love is & that is Gods love.. So, with this being said within time you will receive the grace of Gods love to restore; and rebuild your life as God has planned. Your healing starts within you, and God will show you His perfect, unconditional love; to move ahead and as you do graciously; you will reap the true love you have sown. It amazes me, how we are hurt, but still God imparts in us to bring comfort to the heart of someone else who is hurting. Be strong in the Lord; and you will see His goodness of how He turns it all out for your good. I'm praying for you, & you pray for me because I'm hurting right now; yet & still, I'm determine to lift others up as He heals my broken heart.
Salute... This was the BRIGHTEST comment.
I broke up with my first ever girlfriend because we couldn't have a future together. Our visions for life are very different. I want to find someone to build a lasting relationship with and someone I can one day build a family with. She does not want to have kids nor get married. I had to let go even though I liked her so much. It's been a tough monthso far, even more so because I see her at university almost everyday accompanied with a guy friend of hers... Thank you for your videos, they are very reassuring. I was in need of something like this.
I really needed to hear this because my heart is just broken in pieces I was cheated on the whole time while we was together saw so many red flags 🚩 but didn’t leave because I thought it would change in are relationship. All the domestic violence I went thru & I’m only 20 😢
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you
Heyyy luvvv glad to see u out
I needed to hear this now. God knows how miserable I am, inside and out😭 I hope God will not get tired of helping me and fixing myself for myself and Children 💙💙
Me as well… i hope he regrets… god bless him…. This pain…. Devastation
@@gemini0n40 hirap umibig at mgmhal ng tunay😊
Same here 😭
@@_khalunda 😞😞😭💔
Same here
The timing for the video could not be more perfect since I just experienced a break up last night! Thank you for the words of wisdom!
This makes the 2 of us. My break up was yesterday too. What I needed to hear. Thank you.
I was divorced 2yrs ago it was the worst time of my life, I was depressed. I didn't think I could live without him. I started loving me, taking care of me 100% . Now I realize what happened was the best thing for me. Now I would never date him or anyone that behaves like him.
@@hairstylistterrymais4582 Thanks for your positive input.
Sharon Dixon Gods got you trust me!💖
Me too..
Right on time message. I’m new to the breakup and he immediately texts me with the I miss yous! It’s not even 48 hours. I’m not going to be responsible for his stages; especially having my own to go through.
Thanks Stephan, I’m given good tools for this journey towards healing. I’m going to have a good cry(or two🥺), write it out, sort it out with support, and go forward.
If he’s truthful about having to get himself where he needs to be in order to come back & offer me his whole self great. I’m moving on in the meantime.
All my breakups were a blessing in a disguise❤❤❤❤
I have gain so much clarity since I stopped dating 😊
Honestly I watched this video a few short months after the breakup and I can't remember resonating as much I am now, 1 yr later. almost every point made was the nail on the head. I couldnt see it all clearly back then. I really fell into the attachment so hard, the gap wound from separating from my ex-husband was fresh, and so I wanted so badly to not be alone and without feeling loved. I can't be sure if I really had feelings for guy I dated after my separation but I can't ever remember feeling so in love and a sweet love. It was the wrong time and setting. I feel hurt but I can't stop thinking about him, which makes me mad and confused. I ask god to help me let him go. Everytime I try, I'm pulled back into my memories. I agree focusing on my goals and self-wellness is important but forgiving and accepting is freedom
Honestly everything you said was on point. God Bless
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Forgiving yourself is hard.
I needed this. Listening to this every day till i fully heal 🙏🏿
So true that's how soul ties develop not taking time alone to be with God and love self...hard to love through brokeness.
Knock it off with the soul ties nonsense.
I needed to hear this. I am trying to restore myself and almost made all of those mistakes, wise words- I appreciate it
Hello I feel your pain, I just went through a divorce with my wife and it wasn't easy
She left me with the kids and things have not been the same
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Back here again.. trying to heal after 2.5 years single. My ex lost his son a month ago and since then he ghosted me and will not speak to me. I have been reaching out. I then saw on twitter that he had been updating the football results when he was supposed to be in grief. On one of the times i reached out his ex wife/wife (who knows anymore) answered his phone. Then i realised they were back together or had never broken up. So i blocked and deleted and now trying to move forward. All my mates were saying i was jumping the gun cause he was grieving but i knew something wasnt right. So i got to accept i got played and move on.
1) Understand you needed to be away from them
2) Stop trying to fight how you feel
3) Heal from Relationship
- How Not to Get over someone: Getting under someone else
4) Could’ve been an Unhealthy attachment
There's stages to healing after a break up. Let time do its perfect work and occupy your time and mind with things that will help you become a better version of yourself.
I've been going almost 6 months and still cry almost daily. Like WTF???? She jumped to a rebound relationship within a week after our relationship and got engaged 4 months after we broke up!!!! And getting married 3 months later and here I am still crying and not being able to even go on one date!!
It hurts so much. He was lying and cheating. Then he left me for someone else.
I'm hurting too. I was so good to her and she threw me out like trash for absolutely no reason.
@@J_Allen3556so sorry to hear. What a snake, heartless snake. They will get their karma, happiness is the best revenge.
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So true. You have to acknowledge and feel your pain in order to overcome it. Great point!
10 years, 3 kids, isolated from family… Day 1 of letting go.
I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Me as well… Thank you🖤
I know that I had deeper problems within myself. I wasn’t ready for a relationship, but I gave it a shot. We were together for over 2 years, and I can truly say that I was absolutely in love with them. I loved everything about her. But I was so unhappy with myself that instead of lifting her up when she did a great job on something, it came off as jealousy. TO MY OWN PARTNER! We’ve been broken up for almost 2 months now. And I’m still broken over her. She’s moved on but we had a phone call last night forgiving each other for everything and thanking each other for everything. That was the first time I cried with a smile on my face. I thought that I was finally free, that I could move on. But this morning I felt like I was back at square one. Was what I had just an unhealthy attachment? I was so in love with her.
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It was harder for me to stay I'm so glad i let go i thank God it's over.
10 year relationship and all I hear from anyone is to simply "get over it" and "move on".
It's definitely over but I don't wish this pain on anyone....
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This is my second time feeling a breakup. Genuinely kills :( I’m tired of feeling this instead of being loved
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Finding Love After Heartbreak has lots of great advice about healing. If you go through the process and apply the methods that Stephan Labossiere lays out in his book you will heal from hurt and open the door to receive the love that you deserve.
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You posted this the day before my ex-fiance broke off our relationship on 4/12. I appreciate your words and trying to let God heal this scar.
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Hope you are good now 🙏
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BINGO!!! Unhealthy attachments vs “Being in love” whoa that resonated with me....Digging deeper now🤔Purchasing your book today Stephan “Finding Love After Heartbreak” ! Namasté
I was sad until I saw this video
Now I’m happy and it is true
I centered my life around the relationship that I didn’t focus on my businesses and growing myself
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It truly happens for a reason 🙏🏾
Dats me right now, am just trying to let go and move on… 😭😭😭I need the strength
Thanks so much for encouraging us
I don't care about the who careless on me
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It's not gud to be with someone who doesn't make u happy
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So true.
No body can make you happy. You will not be always happy. You make yourself happy.
Nobody is responsible for your happiness
I wish the pain could go away.
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I'mma 270 pound monster of a man but gawd damn u took me to tears when u said it was not love, it was a unhealthy attachment.
Here’s my situation I’m in the military for the navy. And we split up 2 days ago and it’s very tuff. Because this is the second time my heart gets broken. And right-now it’s hard because when I get with someone I treat them the best I can.
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What was my mistake loving him he left me when i was taking care of my mom who died of cancer and left with his ex i love him but i dont want to see him ever ever again it was not fair
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So sorry . How are you now ?
@@sharnashields7118 im fine i don't love him no more im at peace with him don't hate neither but he did his damage i can't seem to start a relationship because im so afraid to get hurt again
last tip speaks volume, great advice my man!
Yaaaaaaz for an unhealthy attachment!! Tell the truth...Also lets not 4get about TRAUMA BONDS😩....TELL IT!
Just discovered this channel.. what stood out is "flow with the feelings, that doesn't mean act on it" .. true that!!!
Loved* flow with the feelings, that doesnt mean act on it.
Thank you my brother , you’ve instilled so much knowledge into me this evening. Will take advantage of this info and apply it moving forward.
To everyone coping with the breakup with a loved one: We are going to be okay. With healing , sharing love with friends and solitude we will get through this. Remember to find the root cause ❤️. Love, Bless.
My ex cheated on me and now I have lost all trust in men. He didn’t even breakup with me just moved out and said hurtful things. He said everything he said he meant! And the main thing is that stood out to me is here I am eight months pregnant and you’re leaving. And you said you never wanted to be with me but yet we’re on our third child. I have no love left in me so if the right Man came along I will have my guard up and so much doubt.
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God will send the right one my sister don’t lose hope just pray to god ask him to send the right just start loving yourself as never before I’ve gone through the same situation so I know what you’re talking about and I’m loving myself
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I blossomed so much on all aspects after being removed from a toxic relationship. Please ladies listen to Stephan... it’s ok to be alone... take the time to heal. Wow... could it be that my entire marriage was an unhealthy attachment verses being in love 🤔. That’s deep..
Loved* it's okay to be alone.
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This is so true! I’m not interested in dating anyone now because number 1 I’m separated technically I’m married second I wouldn’t won’t to hurt someone else because I’m not ready for no dating! Some people try to tell me to start dating! I really don’t understand this because it would be rebound for sure! For me I need to focus on myself right now! This time in my life I can focused on me! 😇😇😇💯💯👍👍👍👍
I needed to hear that especially since I just got out of an unhealthy relationship with all the lies and the damage that was done. I’m a total mess right now but only thing I can do is just pray and ask God to heal this pain and to help me grow from it. It was too toxic to try to make it work. Thanks man!
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Thank you ao much from the bottom of my heart. I've watched so many videos and it didn't click until I found yours. Wow! For the first time in 3 months since my breakup I feel a sense of true relief.
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I left I'm hurt I been praying 2days no sleep, I need to heal yall pray for me . I forgive him Stephan your truly a blessing from God thank you.
This advice is priceless and timeless to apply for any type of relationship. When you make a decision to love yourself, step away and reflect, your healing process is activated.
People are sometimes skeptical when you say that you're ok being single. Be mindful that they may give advice, out of love ,based upon their own experiences and/or insecurities. Listen with an open mind and out of respect but don't allow their insecurities about being alone influence your journey to happiness.
I really needed to hear this especially when you said that we need to shift the focus back on ourselves, because I am guilty of focusing all my attention on him.
Also the part when you said to stop fighting our emotions, if you still care and love them accept how you feel instead of being angry about it, this video has given me a whole new perspective on how to deal with my feelings.
It is going to be hard though since I still live with this person...
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I just got out toxic attachment I’m starting to realize. We started off the relationship toxic and I made it worse. I blame myself and it’s the best (WORST) thing I’ve ever done because without her who knows if I would set out on a journey to heal and prepare myself for love.
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That’s what mine was it was unhealthy attachment. as soon as he said that i felt my heart at ease. And my weight off my chest. Maybe it wasn’t real love but just the level of comfort was so high i just got used to it. And i was using her for emotional support. 5 years all gone but I know the truth atleast.
I told myself ima make me happy iv not been hurt in awhile but I carried pain for years and the person I thought I knew was her at all so heal is the key 🔐
I agree Stephan after a breakup you should work on yourself. Seek therapy for yourself and exercise, exercise and lose weight. It helps mentally to exercise. After a break up walking is key walk 2-3 miles a day four days a week.
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😢 a Loss such as a Narc relationship is more like a God’s Mercy for a broken child. That child was me. 😔
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Thanks for the message; I am 50 and single. When I was in my 20’s-40’s, I learned that the hard way because I was not properly taught this. Right now, I’m content being single and loving myself. I’m struggling with dealing with a break up that resulted in my ex and I having a child. I was hard on myself for years for not keeping the relationship intact for the sake of our child. I now see that my ex and I were in a toxic relationship because my ex has issues which she hasn’t addressed and still does. I was emotionally broken after my ex broke up with me after our daughter was born. I have healed from the impact of the breakup, still dealing with the emotional consequences of the relationship. Taking it one day at a time and will ask God to help me.
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That's what I need to do is stop being hard on myself and continuing to blame myself. He did enough of blaming me for him not being Happy because of this & that. My Mom didn't think he was good for me because anytime I did something my ex didn't like he would always rehash it over and over. At times I felt like I was on trial. Although I'm tore & hurt over our long distance relationship break up. I try to tell myself that because he had alot of things about me he didn't like that maybe he just didn't like me as a person. Then I also try to tell myself that maybe I was just too good of a woman for him. God bless you!
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I realized that I just didn't want to be alone so I held on longer only to leave her any way it was the best thing I could've done!