Watch This To GET OVER A Break Up & Find The PERFECT GUY! | Stephan Speaks

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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +66

    ❤️ Get your copy of "Love After Heartbreak" today! CLICK HERE 👉 www.loveafterheartbreak.com?sl=YTC​​ 👈 This book is for men and women, giving you the steps to healing and experiencing more peace and happiness in your life.

    • @PK-kz9rm
      @PK-kz9rm 3 роки тому +2

      Day 10 Really going through it.

    • @sylverberry3711
      @sylverberry3711 3 роки тому +3

      I know a man who can help you to bring back your ex to you without delay he help me to bring back my ex to me within two days

    • @sylverberry3711
      @sylverberry3711 3 роки тому +1

      His name is Dr

    • @sylverberry3711
      @sylverberry3711 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 8 0 5 1 1 7 6 3 1 3,,

    • @sylverberry3711
      @sylverberry3711 3 роки тому +1

      + 2 3 4 8 0 5 1 1 7 6 3 1 3***

  • @gurudra
    @gurudra 3 роки тому +605

    The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone🙏

  • @marieowens4943
    @marieowens4943 3 роки тому +745

    My last relationship was 15 years ago, and once the breakup happened, I took the time to focus on me and learned to REALLY love myself. I went back to school, obtained TWO degrees and I'm now doing my best to live my best life. I didn't see it then, but I came to the realization a long time ago that the breakup WAS a blessing. Thanks for posting Stephan.

  • @cammyTalksLife
    @cammyTalksLife 3 роки тому +383

    I don’t want anyone or anything to disturb my Peace PERRRRIOD . Being single is a blessing . I have more time to focus on me and do what makes me happy . It helps with making small positive changes everyday .Get rid of negative things and reward yourself with self love . Things just start opening up and then you know your on the right path.

  • @eddiemetriumzone3583
    @eddiemetriumzone3583 3 роки тому +345

    Accept the fact that, "what has a beginning has an end!" It's just life.

  • @Eraseyourmemory1
    @Eraseyourmemory1 3 роки тому +290

    Acknowledge the pain, hurt and loss..reflect but don’t lose sight. You come
    First. Self love is paramount.

  • @Grisett998
    @Grisett998 3 роки тому +318

    I got out of a toxic relationship little over a year ago. We were together for almost 3 years. Since the very beginning I kinda knew he wasn’t the one but he was handsome and charming. It was harder and harder to try to leave him. I felt I had invested a lot in the relationship and I ended up taking him back every time. When I finally made the decision that this relationship was costing me my mental and emotional sanity, it has passed years already. I never met a person like him before so I was very confused about his behavior a lot of times. Getting over him has been very difficult (I had no idea it will be) because I had to walked away from someone who I loved but was not good for me... thank you for your advice 🙏🏼

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +9

      My pleasure ❤

    • @laurena5165
      @laurena5165 3 роки тому +26

      Thank you for sharing! I am going through a very fresh breakup (3 weeks in) from a toxic relationship with someone that I questioned whether he would be right for me as well. I could detect incompatibility almost off the bat but he is also handsome and charming and was soo different than anyone I had dated, so I was intrigued. The relationship started off on a rocky foundation and we both contributed to a lot of hurt but it ended in a very bad way. We were together 1.5 years and were living together and even though it’s been my shortest relationship, it’s been the most painful heartache I have ever experienced. Sometimes I wish I never continued to date him despite feeling like it wasn’t fully right…but we live and learn (I have already learned many lessons). I love him so much but know separating is for the best.
      I hope you continue to heal and grow! And I hope we both find the man that is right for us ❤️

    • @Fay1106
      @Fay1106 3 роки тому +7

      @@laurena5165 this is literally my life right now, everything you said happened to me too living together and all and by far the most painful

    • @tuti7227
      @tuti7227 3 роки тому +13

      Wow. Same here. I'm making the decision to walk away today. Although he's ignoring me right now. When he tries to come back, no way

    • @butterflyqueen9727
      @butterflyqueen9727 3 роки тому

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @juliedaly2381
    @juliedaly2381 2 роки тому +26

    Don't let someone tell you twice they don't want you

  • @loveurself1197
    @loveurself1197 3 роки тому +218

    Your used to him or her ur attached. You created a routine and memories. Once you let that go you will have withdrawals. You will always think of the good times. Everyday you will think of him or her. You will either turn to drugs or alcohol to cope or you will be strong and focus on urself, its up to you what choice to make. Only time and hard willpower will make you heal.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @ayoutubegirl5933
      @ayoutubegirl5933 3 роки тому

      Perfectly said👌

    • @longislandny696
      @longislandny696 3 роки тому +2

      Ooh I needed to read this Today.Thank You for this a million times over.

    • @loveurself1197
      @loveurself1197 3 роки тому

      @@longislandny696 Your’e welcome.

    • @erikafox9651
      @erikafox9651 3 роки тому +1

      Thank u for sharing. I needed this rn. And it will help others in the future. It can feel hard emotional rollercoaster. Then u find that strength thru time grief etc

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 3 роки тому +230

    Relax, recharge and reflect. Sometimes it's OK to do nothing.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @marieowens4943
      @marieowens4943 3 роки тому +10

      Stayhappylittle mermaid...AMEN!!! I did absolutely nothing for roughly six months to a year, and used that time to figure out a game plan and establish myself before diving head first into anything.

    • @PS-xb9hc
      @PS-xb9hc 3 роки тому +4

      Hmmm I will have to respectfully disagree. We tend to think like that and self sabotage ourselves.

    • @renostubbs8504
      @renostubbs8504 3 роки тому

      Interesting concept,you think so???

    • @drighalo87lovespellcaster92
      @drighalo87lovespellcaster92 3 роки тому +1

      Love is a magical feeling we all desire whether good or bad, beautiful or ugly, smart or dirty, old or young, educated or illiterate, everybody deserves to be loved.
      But your case may be different you may date various men/women in the times before but none of those relationships lasted the way you wanted them to, some ended up in fights, others left you for your friends why some didn't even bother to explain the reason for living you. Was you ugly, also you want to get your ex lover back talk to me today dr ighalo the best love spell caster talk to me now and cry no more

  • @yalvia
    @yalvia 3 роки тому +205

    Going thru a heartbreak but I wasn't being treated well. Can't wait until I'm healed. I'm keeping my heart open. ❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +17

      I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal all that you have been through! 🙏

    • @mariowright4787
      @mariowright4787 3 роки тому +5

      Stay positive and stay happy 😊

    • @yalvia
      @yalvia 3 роки тому +1

      @@mariowright4787 Thank you! 😊

    • @ladyk2002
      @ladyk2002 3 роки тому +8

      I had to do the same thing...sometimes we leave because its not for our best. Still hurts...you will heal because you want to...

    • @creamycazz1
      @creamycazz1 3 роки тому +11

      I recently had to end it with someone too. It really was for my best interest. Some days I’m doing well, others not so much. I see it’s been a few months since you guys left your comments.. so I have to ask, does it get better? Hope y’all are doing well, hoping this for myself over time too! 🙏🏾

  • @quiqui5793
    @quiqui5793 3 роки тому +245

    God is a jealous God!!! I'm a living wittness. If we don't put God first, and KEEP Him first, He will show us just how jealous He is. 😔 Humbling experience. Nevertheless, powerful teaching, as usual. God bless you Stephan 🙏🏿

    • @pdoll96
      @pdoll96 3 роки тому +22

      Yep. He knows that we shouldn’t put our hope and trust in people bc we’re flawed. He wants us to love each other but our hope and trust needs to be ultimately in Him. People will disappoint (we even disappoint ourselves) but God never will.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      @@pdoll96 Thank you for sharing!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you and may God bless you!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

    • @elizabethrivera5203
      @elizabethrivera5203 3 роки тому +1

      I agree 💯

  • @alexakearney
    @alexakearney 3 роки тому +177

    Tomorrow will be 7 months exactly since I broke up with the man I truly thought I’d be with. No contact since October. And I think of him always. Thank you for this

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +4

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

    • @mariowright4787
      @mariowright4787 3 роки тому +10

      Stay strong be ur self enjoy life

    • @ehiggins360
      @ehiggins360 3 роки тому +4

      Good job! Hang in there. Has he been trying to contact you?

    • @alexakearney
      @alexakearney 3 роки тому +36

      @@ehiggins360 hey. He hasn’t attempted to speak to me since October when he last said he would call me back to discuss something I told him was very important to me on a personal level (had nothing to do with us).
      And from that day on he never called like he said. Never reached out for any holiday. Never checked on me through the rest of this pandemic....if I think about it I get so incredibly upset because he’s not who I thought.
      it’s like I’m mourning who I thought he was, the life i wanted, and recognizing who he really is all at the same time. But I’ve been praying for strength.

    • @ehiggins360
      @ehiggins360 3 роки тому +22

      @@alexakearney I know how you feel. We have all been there. Just remember that humans have felt that way for thousands of years. If he’s not contacting you, that should tell you everything you need to know. You will have love in your life again someday. Until then, work in being your best self and find happiness while your alone so that you won’t use your next relationship to fill a void or to make you happy. You’ll be okay. Some man will be totally happy to be with you someday.

  • @kevinlattimore2574
    @kevinlattimore2574 3 роки тому +144

    As long as we have breathe in our body, there is always hope. 🤟🏿💪🏿💪🏿🤟🏿

  • @MorningStar-nd3yg
    @MorningStar-nd3yg 3 роки тому +66

    This video came at a clutch. I still think about her sometimes but I know our break up was for the best. I made her my idol and placed her above God, and that was my biggest mistake.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      I pray that you heal all you have been through.

    • @PeeGeeMAnU
      @PeeGeeMAnU 3 роки тому

      Same here bro,it was a 6 year relationship,how are you managing the heartbreak bro?

    • @kikkysamuel7180
      @kikkysamuel7180 3 роки тому

      This is me, even though I cannot explain it, I know this relationship takes me far away from God, Abba really wants me back

  • @greengoddessof75
    @greengoddessof75 3 роки тому +17

    I can’t be mad with God for me putting myself in these situationships. I can walk away and asked that he guide me .🙏🏽😘

    • @phelipjaymax1880
      @phelipjaymax1880 3 роки тому

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  • @ginafromdabronx9333
    @ginafromdabronx9333 3 роки тому +71

    5 heathly things that make me happy:
    1.listening to Stephan's video's
    2.gym
    3 listening to Stephan's video's
    4 my work(clients)
    5 listening to Stephan's video's
    Boom!!! 5 😂😂😂

  • @MA-yc7pz
    @MA-yc7pz 3 роки тому +34

    I needed this 3 years only a month after the break up...I did everything I could gave everything in my power 🥺I want God to help me is to heal I left loving him but his heart was not in the relationship...I havent Heard from Him in 6 weeks...
    And it is true I saw all the red Flags and I stood there longer than I should
    Thanks God I have a life and goals ahead of me and great friends

    • @NN-zk2qs
      @NN-zk2qs 3 роки тому +2

      God will definitely heal you. You're going to pleased with learning how strong you are and pleasantly surprised with how much happier you are.

  • @KermitHands
    @KermitHands 3 роки тому +90

    You hit it right on the head. It’s so hard to accept it when the family and friends are close to you too. I’m hurting so bad right now but I’m praying I can get over this and become a stronger person in the end

    • @dkr3260
      @dkr3260 3 роки тому

      Amen! Ditto🙏🌼

    • @Juliadaniel773
      @Juliadaniel773 3 роки тому +3

      I’m very close to my ex mom and hurts me including 2 smallest daughters

    • @gkeropkgrmgmreg6487
      @gkeropkgrmgmreg6487 3 роки тому +5

      I just broke up with my boyfriend today. I pray that God give you strength to overcome this break up. I prayed and ask God to remove this Guy from my life and he did it.💕

    • @gkeropkgrmgmreg6487
      @gkeropkgrmgmreg6487 3 роки тому +2

      @Malvin Easther no thanks I’m not in to the voodoo only Jesus Christ❤️

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 3 роки тому +67

    Everyone I think experience the same symptoms. When me and my gf broke up 1yr and a half ago I woke up every morning feeling like my heart weighed 200lbs and would try to get through the day but she kept popping back up in my head regardless if i had a good day or not

    • @2008LadyLaura
      @2008LadyLaura 3 роки тому +8

      Replace her with someone more sincere, genuine, respects you, is good hearted same values/morals and fun!!!!! You'll forget about her instantly!!! Right a list of all the qualities and see if you can also offer the same qualities you are requiring🤔 stop living from a scarcity mind set. Its a great big world. Say hi to the girl at the supermarket, strike up a conversation at the park, at the post office, anywhere, out bowling at church. Go to a variety of places.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +8

      I pray that you heal all that you have been through!

    • @drighalo87lovespellcaster92
      @drighalo87lovespellcaster92 3 роки тому +2

      Love is a magical feeling we all desire whether good or bad, beautiful or ugly, smart or dirty, old or young, educated or illiterate, everybody deserves to be loved.
      But your case may be different you may date various men/women in the times before but none of those relationships lasted the way you wanted them to, some ended up in fights, others left you for your friends why some didn't even bother to explain the reason for living you. Was you ugly, also you want to get your ex lover back talk to me today dr ighalo the best love spell caster talk to me now and cry no more

    • @sonyagumbs9629
      @sonyagumbs9629 3 роки тому

      @@drighalo87lovespellcaster92 I need to talk to yoi

  • @unityrothhaas5591
    @unityrothhaas5591 3 роки тому +16

    GOD is my safety net that I can always turn to at my darkest moment. My life has changed tremendously after I accepted GOD. I don’t blame GOD for the hurts in my life as He gives me free wills and when I really look closely at my life I was the one making choices that led to those fails and disappointments. I agree in seeking professional help to improve your mental health. I believe we need to be fully healed before we could expect a next better relationship as a better partner also deserves a better version of myself too.

  • @NoahsArt93
    @NoahsArt93 3 роки тому +50

    "Gods timing not mine." All the points hit home for me when 2015 me and 2016 me needed you man. I can see the healing is true and God does have a reason for everything. Even if I argue, cry and get mad He has better. Thank you.

  • @HakeemIsMyWorld
    @HakeemIsMyWorld 3 роки тому +72

    I love this! I feel like god sometimes lets us go into situations hoping that we see the pattern of actions that we are taking that will not be good for our destined relationship. So when we get into that relationship, it will be successful.

    • @errands2run950
      @errands2run950 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you for writing this! Exactly what I needed to hear

    • @erikafox9651
      @erikafox9651 3 роки тому +3

      Yes it's the lessons we have yet 2 learn, have failed 2 learn and have to grasp and grow up to go forward with a happy satisfying life.

  • @gambinored81
    @gambinored81 3 роки тому +6

    When you raise your vibration the people that are not vibrating at your level cant match your frequency.

  • @GreeneChakra
    @GreeneChakra 3 роки тому +5

    I pulled the Paper 📝 out and the Person that Hurt me was “ME”

  • @gambit3950
    @gambit3950 3 роки тому +18

    My marriage is falling apart and I’m in a lot of pain. This was very comforting. Thank you

  • @sarahmitchell4010
    @sarahmitchell4010 3 роки тому +60

    Also, when you’re on your journey towards healing, don’t beat yourself up! When searching for your own happiness, keep that mind shift Stephan mentioned about. It does take a lot of focus!

  • @josieclash208
    @josieclash208 3 роки тому +10

    I can't lie, it hurts. I've considered myself a strong, successful woman that can endure anything, and I have. But this last past break up shook every emotion inside of me and now I'm faced to heal from all of my past that I swept under a rug. I am now open and aware of myself and the truly taking the time and effort to heal every area of life and be reborn into the new me. Thanks again for breaking it down, step by step. Everything has a process unfortunately. I've skipped some steps in my lifetime, but never made it to the finish line. Let the Healing commence and release all things that has never served me well. May God continue to bless you and bless us all! 🙏

    • @beckyanna7287
      @beckyanna7287 3 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @beckyanna7287
      @beckyanna7287 3 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @beckyanna7287
      @beckyanna7287 3 роки тому

      十𝟮𝟯𝟰7030894892⏯⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️

    • @rhodamadalene8376
      @rhodamadalene8376 2 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @rhodamadalene8376
      @rhodamadalene8376 2 роки тому

      What'sapp him;

  • @sinceroamor
    @sinceroamor 3 роки тому +58

    Forgiveness is the ultimate healing ✌️💜💗

  • @rebeccaabel6632
    @rebeccaabel6632 3 роки тому +19

    A lot of folks out here move on quickly and don't heal. Makes it so hard to date even if you have invested the time in yourself to be a better person.

  • @SealztheMan
    @SealztheMan 3 роки тому +49

    This message is more important than people may think. Breakups can hinder people for years, based on the fact that most people do not like to Let Go of things they've invested so much in. And its understandable, but like the natural process of life, you must move on. Peace & Love and thanks for the gem Stephan

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest anything you want to manifest within two-day ❤❤❤

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three day ago with out delay💯💯

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him**

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      +234=810=876=2652//##

  • @mary-lousaikaley4771
    @mary-lousaikaley4771 2 роки тому +11

    My father was driving the car and was responsible for the accident that killed my mother. I was only 17 when I lost my mother. Writing a letter to my late father , let out so much pain and tears. I am so grateful for your book Stephan. I didn't realize how this sub conscience pain was affecting my life and relationships.

  • @cherylking5748
    @cherylking5748 3 роки тому +48

    James 1:13 When under trial, let no one say: “I am being tried by God.” For with evil things God cannot be tried, nor does he himself try anyone.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @phelipjaymax1880
      @phelipjaymax1880 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @ayoutubegirl5933
      @ayoutubegirl5933 3 роки тому

      Perfect verse 🙌

    • @sheilaprice1942
      @sheilaprice1942 3 роки тому +1

      @Cheryl king Amen sis!! You got a good view on God🙏🏼🥰

    • @lovehope4822
      @lovehope4822 3 роки тому

      Ty

  • @Marie-vz2qp
    @Marie-vz2qp Рік тому +2

    What helps is forgiveness, forgive them and yourself.

  • @drj73176
    @drj73176 3 роки тому +19

    She left me after 3 years it’s hard but life go on

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +2

      I'm sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you are now on a path to healing 🙌❤

  • @tonyag.9168
    @tonyag.9168 3 роки тому +16

    Been in a toxic relationship for 15 years. Finally caught what was needed to let it go. I’m lost and hurt. I have depression and it’s getting worst. No happiness on the job nor my personal life. This person has played me for years only because I allowed it. He broke it off but said he had to say something strong to back me off so I decided this was the last straw.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +4

      I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal all that you have been through! 🙏

    • @dymise_yt
      @dymise_yt 2 роки тому +1

      Im so sorry. Been through something similar. Its humiliating to know how you have allowed someone to treat you so bad. I understand. Its painful. Im trying my best to not call. I dont understand how someone mistreating you makes you want to wonder why, instead of just leaving

  • @anntownes6685
    @anntownes6685 3 роки тому +5

    I was in a toxic marriage for 3 years, we were together for 9 years. I'm happy I learned how to love myself because I realized I was trying to do everything to make him happy and nothing to make me happy. He was selfish and evil and didn't know how to love unconditionally. This is bad for any relationship or marriage. Listening to this and the other videos really helped me to realize so many things. Thank you for your encouragement

  • @mmommo-hx4dx
    @mmommo-hx4dx 3 роки тому +6

    very helpful thank you. Got out after 38 years of him cheating since Day One. I never did. I raised 3 good children. I'm free now, so happy I cry.

    • @johngift5211
      @johngift5211 3 роки тому

      Hello Mr John He can recover your relationship back.

    • @johngift5211
      @johngift5211 3 роки тому

      Wha'txpp him..,.....

    • @johngift5211
      @johngift5211 3 роки тому

      + 4 4 7 4 1 8 3 2 9 7 8 5

  • @atlantasfaithsmom
    @atlantasfaithsmom 3 роки тому +27

    "This just hit my spirit!" ❤
    Mr. L., will you please consider doing a video (probably even a book) about the obsession out here with being part of a Power Couple? The first thing men ask me is what do you do for a living! People are choosing partners based on what they can materialistically HAVE together, how they LOOK together, their social media BRAND and presence, if they have a 401K and stock or their own successful business, etc....It's so UGLY! I even believe many people do these things JUST TO position themselves to be qualified and be considered eligible for that Dream Come True relationship! It's like one's worth or attractiveness is being tied to this man-made Success Industry that this world seems addicted to!

  • @tashamack8701
    @tashamack8701 3 роки тому +50

    Thanks Stephan for dropping this knowledge. I agree leaning and trusting on God is very important. My last relationship didn't have God in it all. God was showing me some things but I was to busy ignoring the signs. I have learned my lesson. God will always come first my life. God is good!!! God will bring you out any situation as long as you lean on him.

  • @medicinekeysformrcps5025
    @medicinekeysformrcps5025 3 роки тому +55

    Summary of the video :-
    1. Recognize that this was necessary
    2. Don't fight how you feel
    3. Focus on your healing and take time to heal
    4. Focus on your happiness
    5. Focus on becoming the best of you
    6. Stay focused on positivity and productivity
    7. Lean on God and let God lead you
    It is always better to watch the entire video 💐

  • @orange7666
    @orange7666 3 роки тому +21

    God please lead me thru this. I belive in you. Universe lead me thru this. I belive in you. Amen

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you! ❤️

    • @orange7666
      @orange7666 3 роки тому

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks I just bought your book, really hope it Will make me move on from my breakup.

    • @livenow13
      @livenow13 3 роки тому +1

      How are you feeling? I am having a hard time accepting my break up

    • @orange7666
      @orange7666 3 роки тому

      @@livenow13 i listen to subliminals during night i’d give you that tip aswell bro

    • @livenow13
      @livenow13 3 роки тому

      @@orange7666 subliminals to help forget about someone?

  • @yinks.s9946
    @yinks.s9946 3 роки тому +26

    Literally broke up with her yesterday. I know I hurt myself and disappointed myself and I need to come to terms with it all. Thank you so much for this video. God bless! On the path to healing!🙏🏾

  • @Marie-vz2qp
    @Marie-vz2qp Рік тому +1

    It is a blessing, it never meant to be, it was an unequally yoke relationship.

  • @NiyaB81
    @NiyaB81 3 роки тому +43

    It hurts sometimes but it was definitely necessary. Thank you for the video. Walking my journey to healing.

  • @keyiamitchell5892
    @keyiamitchell5892 3 роки тому +4

    Lifting up our energetic vibration in order to attract what is meant to be in our lives

    • @keyiamitchell5892
      @keyiamitchell5892 3 роки тому

      What God has for you is for you lifting our vibration helps clear the path of all the negative energy weighing us down energetically removing those burdens connects us to manifesting our true purposes in life

  • @kerryanderson3060
    @kerryanderson3060 3 роки тому +32

    Sometimes, it is good to be by ourselves, and really reflect on ourselves, getting to really know ourselves and be content with, and at peace with our Spirit. When I find that quite place for me, I find it so easy to Talk to God. I begin to love ❤️ myself. I stop trying to seek happiness from others and things. Thankyou Stephan

  • @nustrandsnustrands9700
    @nustrandsnustrands9700 3 роки тому +34

    Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and then all His righteousness will be added unto you , great word Stephen as usual 💥💫

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest anything you want to manifest within two-day ❤❤❤

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three day ago with out delay💯💯

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him**

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      +234=810=876=2652//##

  • @paniq_fnite
    @paniq_fnite 3 роки тому +3

    Speakin facts. God first, self-love second, everyone else

  • @inigopetersen2486
    @inigopetersen2486 2 роки тому +1

    Young man- you're not old enough to have this kind of wisdom. Thank you so much.

  • @thejcs7114
    @thejcs7114 3 роки тому +5

    I'm so so hurt I just broke up with my boyfriend.i pray I find love again

  • @michellepetersen9794
    @michellepetersen9794 3 роки тому +1

    This man has broke me to the core. I don't think I am ever able to trust it already took me years to trust him and he took that away from me. 😒

  • @kianatimmons8860
    @kianatimmons8860 3 роки тому +8

    I'm getting over a breakup and I wasn't expecting it to happen. He disturbed my peace. He knew what I was going thru regarding my sickness and even stayed so I thought he was the one. Even though he cheated, played with my feelings and stayed longer than I should. So now in accepting that it wasn't meant to be and to get back to enjoying the single life.

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest anything you want to manifest within two-day ❤❤❤

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three day ago with out delay💯💯

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him**

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      +234=810=876=2652//##

    • @kianatimmons8860
      @kianatimmons8860 3 роки тому +2

      @@sarahanthonia2941 No disrespect to you sweetie but it I have to use a spell to bring back a man that dogged me out...nah I'm good. I'm fighting enough demons right now boo and I dont need another one 😜🤣😂

  • @isabellamcardle1925
    @isabellamcardle1925 3 роки тому +22

    Stephan, you are amazing.
    I'm over here eating peanut butter pretzels crying at my kitchen counter right now

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +5

      I pray that you heal all you have been through.

    • @Peladotrankilo
      @Peladotrankilo 3 роки тому +6

      Hope all is well they never deserve you. God got you 🙏🏾

  • @Jamarcus13
    @Jamarcus13 3 роки тому +19

    Thank you. I saw so many of the mistakes that I have and still making in me. Working on my who hurt me list right now. Tired of being sad and crying. It’s draining

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому

      I pray that you heal all you have been through.

    • @Jamarcus13
      @Jamarcus13 3 роки тому

      Thank you. I am on my way and your videos and books are very helpful. Looking forward to seeing what else you have in store

  • @VJ-zw7xz
    @VJ-zw7xz 3 роки тому +13

    You are definitely right don’t hide your feelings

  • @tam_to_evolve
    @tam_to_evolve 3 роки тому +4

    God please give me the strength. Please put your healing hand on me and give me peace to move forward. Help me to see there is a light at then end of the tunnel 🙏🙏

    • @janeowen573
      @janeowen573 3 роки тому

      Hi, get help from Dr Steve who can make your ex come back to you begging for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

    • @janeowen573
      @janeowen573 3 роки тому

      Send him a message on Whatsapp

    • @janeowen573
      @janeowen573 3 роки тому

      +2347030894892.

  • @PrayersForMyEnemies
    @PrayersForMyEnemies 6 місяців тому +1

    My breakup was one of the worst things I have ever been through. I now see that God was present where I wasn’t and saw what I could not see happening behind closed doors. I believe that God heard the conversations being had in my absence and I believe the Lord has protected me. Rejection is redirection but it is painful when we can’t see the next page yet. I’m so thankful God made me a virtuous woman and I can look back with no regrets. God saw it ALL and he is my protector, healer, and vindicator.

  • @kentrinaeltoro5067
    @kentrinaeltoro5067 3 роки тому +8

    Im learning to love me and not allow men to ignore my feelings to disregard my emotions to be selfish and inconsistent with me just bc he thinks he can im healing my heart focusing my mind and dating me to learn me

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest anything you want to manifest within two-day ❤❤❤

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three day ago with out delay💯💯

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him**

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      +234=810=876=2652//##

  • @coachtin-onlinerelationshi5924
    @coachtin-onlinerelationshi5924 3 роки тому +5

    Some break ups doesn't only crush ur heart but ur soul. I'm in a heartbreak right now and doing some reflecting. There are times u just tremble and break down but I guess u just have to respect the process. It is what it is. I'm just thinking, the purpose has been served, ..life is forward, by doing this I'm not seeing the break up as something negative, rather as something that's so beautiful, it makes u human. It has a purpose. But again it's so hard especially when difficult painful episodes just comes in and u don't have a choice but to feel it.

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest anything you want to manifest within two-day ❤❤❤

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three day ago with out delay💯💯

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him**

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 роки тому

      +234=810=876=2652//##

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 3 роки тому +26

    I’m getting over a 6 year break up . May Allah bless me with someone better

    • @abenagemini
      @abenagemini 3 роки тому +1

      wow 6 years. you will be fine dear 🙏🏻

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 3 роки тому +1

      @@abenagemini thank you

    • @livenow13
      @livenow13 3 роки тому +2

      Six years for me as well and I can’t get her out of my mind. I love her so much and we had so many plans together then bang she is gone just like that

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 3 роки тому

      @@livenow13 same he just move right on got new woman he posted on IG

    • @wimbballm
      @wimbballm 3 роки тому

      @@livenow13 Brother, I feel you. Same. We'll get through this man.

  • @PS-xb9hc
    @PS-xb9hc 3 роки тому +21

    When people do not know themselves and get into a situationship that will be a combo for dissaster.

    • @royalbohemian9757
      @royalbohemian9757 3 роки тому +7

      It has damaged me and I'm trying to shake it. Soul ties with the wrong one for too long

    • @margomazzeo1680
      @margomazzeo1680 3 роки тому +1

      @@royalbohemian9757 Same 4 me..

  • @reginahutchinson4057
    @reginahutchinson4057 3 роки тому +8

    I am in my kitchen preparing red onions and eggs While drinking green Tea you got me thinking about my life. You are always so good Stephan in helping us to heal. This was excellent as usual. I love it please please keep it coming I need it. I am thankful to God for finding your channel. I have been seeing your face for a long time at least 13 months or more. Finally I said let me see what this man is speaking about. I to pray about everything God kept showing me your face. So here I am ready to learn.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for sharing I'm happy to hear that 🙌 be sure to subscribe and don't forget to hit the notification bell so that you can be notified every time I release a new video!

  • @chrisbell361
    @chrisbell361 3 роки тому +9

    I truly believe in everything Stephan says I've been following all his advice and I have been happier and healthier physically and mentally let things go I figured out how to find the perfect man I found out how to be more of a lady and other things that I would have never imagined that I had to do so I had to step out of my comfort zone and learn new things it is so exciting I love this journey Thank you Stephan you are truly an angel and I love how you talk about putting God in your life because without him we would have nothing. That's

    • @jackiejachan8906
      @jackiejachan8906 3 роки тому

      Hi dear I know of a very good and a very powerful man who can you to manifest your ex within 2 days. I got back my ex through his love manifestation and it worked effectively I urge you to seek help from him.

    • @jackiejachan8906
      @jackiejachan8906 3 роки тому

      Whatsapp him

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      @jackiejachan8906 3 роки тому

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  • @Yaya-lu8bs
    @Yaya-lu8bs 3 роки тому +3

    God is Love!! It covers all life's desires. Relationships!!!

    • @whatsap5105
      @whatsap5105 3 роки тому

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART ❤DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX ❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR BABA,, WHO HELPED RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,,,

    • @whatsap5105
      @whatsap5105 3 роки тому

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    • @whatsap5105
      @whatsap5105 3 роки тому

      What Sapp him now,

    • @rhodamadalene8376
      @rhodamadalene8376 2 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love;;.

    • @rhodamadalene8376
      @rhodamadalene8376 2 роки тому

      What'sapp him;;;

  • @jlxphoto4027
    @jlxphoto4027 3 роки тому +2

    I have put her first before God. Man oh man... the last step really opened my eyes.. thank you God bless 🙏🏽

  • @AskCoachDenise11
    @AskCoachDenise11 3 роки тому +10

    God truly speaks through your messages! Thank you for reminding me that a breakup is the chance to evolve my life to a higher level. I stayed far too long in a relationship just because on paper he was a good guy. But he wasn’t willing to communicate or truly open up on any deeper level. Your videos helped me realize I needed to listen to my intuition and God!🙏🏻❤️

    • @juliesmith4998
      @juliesmith4998 3 роки тому

      I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

    • @juliesmith4998
      @juliesmith4998 3 роки тому

      Send him a text message on Whatsapp 💓

    • @juliesmith4998
      @juliesmith4998 3 роки тому

      +2347030894892🙏🏾 🙏🏾

    • @jorgeramos5495
      @jorgeramos5495 3 роки тому

      Unbelievable, Dr Roarke Ominimini brought back my ex withing 24 hours. After 2 years of divorce, what a wonderful and true spell caster. It's still like a dream to me. All thanks to Dr Roarke Ominimini all what he said came to pass he is a man of his words real and legit 🎀🎀❤

    • @jorgeramos5495
      @jorgeramos5495 3 роки тому

      Get in touch with him onnwhat sap

  • @oliviaduarte7056
    @oliviaduarte7056 7 місяців тому

    I got the book and commited to the process. Hurt people do hurt people. I had no idea I had so much hurt buried in me.I won't lie. It's a hard process. Time consuming. We go through all types of emotions while doing it. I had 83 names in it. From co workers, to family members to past partners, Friends, people who impacted my life. For each . I am writting a letter. 2 to sometimes 5 pages each. It's hard. I burned most of the letters and am close to half way through. I pray for each before and after writing the letter. But it's helping. I already see a shift in me. My Soul is lighter. I do recommend. God bless you.

  • @melindabarrineau4865
    @melindabarrineau4865 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you! This video is me completely. I have been in therapy for 6 years and had problems my whole life. I was 35 when I first told a man I loved him, even though I married at 18 and divorced at 33. Even after all the therapy I had been through I am still afraid to date. I'm afraid I could destroy a good man or end up with another abusive one.

  • @SUPERGEORGEOUS1
    @SUPERGEORGEOUS1 3 роки тому +2

    Stephan I been binge watching your videos and I must say I need a 1 on 1 ..Breakup after 18yrs and it has taken over my life! I’m in counseling for depression and I’m just ready to move forward but still don’t know how...he has moved on but constantly telling me he hasn’t and he wants to make it work but not showing me that he does. I feel so silly! I been praying praying and praying and I’m leaning on GOD for healing. I seriously need to get through this.

  • @msedmocsu
    @msedmocsu 3 роки тому +23

    Thank you so much 💓
    I'm healing from my past now. I'm reading your book, going to counseling, and I signed up for your coaching program last week 👍 it was a good idea that you put the insert inside of the book that offered coaching. Good business move🙂

  • @tinasmith7827
    @tinasmith7827 2 роки тому +2

    I LOVE Stephan’s wisdom,,, I listen to many of his videos and never thought in a million years, 1 year later I’m looking at all his “Break Up” videos 🥺☹️😣😩

  • @pdoll96
    @pdoll96 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you for the message. I needed to be reminded to stop fighting how I feel. It’s been nearly a year and I’m still beating myself up and feeling hurt but it’s because I’ve been fighting. I really needed this reminder.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback and pray that you heal all that you have been through!

    • @pdoll96
      @pdoll96 3 роки тому

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you and God bless you 🙏

  • @genevaaneus8281
    @genevaaneus8281 2 роки тому +1

    Oh my God Stefan everything you're saying right now was about me I've been in a very toxic relationship for 12 years because I love the man we started out in the wrong place and we ended up in the wrong place but I wanted to be with him because I didn't want to be alone now that I'm older by being with him I have learned he have taught me a lot of things about life people and listening to you everyday and night have really helped me now that I'm older than 65 I don't want a relationship all I want is a booty call every now and then you know some of these men say just want someone to take care of them cook their food clean the house wash their clothes too much I'm at the point I don't want to share my money my apartment or anything with anyone I love being alone now I'm being stingy and I'm enjoying it thank you

  • @rubyzaleta7299
    @rubyzaleta7299 3 роки тому +4

    I just got my heart broken yesterday and this really helped me right now

  • @bodunrinogunlola
    @bodunrinogunlola 3 роки тому +9

    Break Up Necessary and Hard 😊 Bye to all Ex👋👋Released all the Negative Emotions 😉😄👌🙏Prepare for NEW!!!!!Thankyou Stephan💯🙌💋❤️🙏🙏

  • @JoseSAntos-yn3dl
    @JoseSAntos-yn3dl 3 роки тому +24

    Currently going trough this. Truly an eye opener. Makes sense

  • @soubermustapha3695
    @soubermustapha3695 2 роки тому +3

    I appreciate you man you have no idea how much you helped me through so many tough sleepless nights, this pain slaps very hard I keep watching your videos to give me strength when I’m down. Thanks again god bless you my g.

  • @mw7882
    @mw7882 3 роки тому +6

    I recently broke up with my ex even though he exhibited so many of the traits I would respect in a husband. I purchased all three of your recovering from a heartbreak books. So far they are excellent and offer the emotional support and guidance that I need to heal and break generational curses right now. Thank you Mr. Labossiere. God bless.

    • @sophiajasper1894
      @sophiajasper1894 3 роки тому +2

      Hello friend, true love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.

    • @mw7882
      @mw7882 3 роки тому +1

      @@sophiajasper1894 thank you. ❤️🙏🏽. I receive and appreciate that so much. Best wishes to you on your journey to love and happiness as well. 🫂

    • @livenow13
      @livenow13 3 роки тому

      Why did you break up with him if he possessed husband like traits? Just curious because my gf said I was the one for her over and over but still broke up with me

    • @ngocmaichu92
      @ngocmaichu92 3 роки тому

      My ex broke up with me saying that I am not the one. We are still so happy and even the meet to breakup is all over fun and cuddles and kisses and hugs. We both cried. I just don't know why he thinks I am not the one when he still has feeling for me, and he told me that there is nothing wrong with me, it was all about his mind. but I know once he decided, he will never come back. He is my love and he also ticks all the boxes I need in a partner. I know I will never find anyone like him.

  • @RachyNoodleNest
    @RachyNoodleNest 3 роки тому +77

    God has been a wonderful friend throughout my struggles. He's showed me so many things which I'm eternally grateful for.

  • @aciccia40
    @aciccia40 3 роки тому +5

    I've learned to love myself more hence the reason I've been single since my divorce in 2019.. i have him many chances yet the verbal abuse continued. I kept it moving. True definition of a narcissist

    • @houstontexas587
      @houstontexas587 3 роки тому

      Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love...I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours....
      He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.

    • @houstontexas587
      @houstontexas587 3 роки тому

      What sapp him

    • @houstontexas587
      @houstontexas587 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 8 1 1 5 6 7 1 2 1 2

  • @patriciamanning7854
    @patriciamanning7854 3 роки тому +8

    Yes leaning on God is always best way 🙏🙏 because the paryer of a righteous man is powerful 🙏
    Thank you so much for sharing this video 🙏 I really appreciate you 🙏

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      Glad to hear that and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

  • @elyasdenebja9872
    @elyasdenebja9872 2 роки тому +5

    Thanks Stephan for the amazing content I just came out from a relationship where it felt more like an illusion or a pushed relationship where nothing felt genuine or connected and all I can say God never takes something from you if it’s meant to be for you and the more time I spend with myself I realise this persone should’ve gone a long time ago and the pain is that it costed me 5 years of my life and a lot of commitment and loyalty and effort

  • @pamboyle708
    @pamboyle708 3 роки тому +10

    So strange I'm still trying to figure things out. I didn't date anyone for almost a year after being with someone for almost 3 years and I was so sad at the beginning of that break up that I prayed to God to help me heal all of my love wounds. And then I met someone almost a year later not even thinking I would end up caring about that person. But I felt so much joy just being around him and with him. I thought that prayer was answered and I was blessed somehow. But then he ended up being more messed up then me when it came to relationships. So scared to just let it let it happen because of his fears. So now I'm even more confused and hurt than I was before. I was giving and loving and not afraid to try again but he got scared I guess or I don't even know was it just a cruel game? But me being honest and open and willing to offer my cup of love just to feel drained and ghosted and rejected got me nowhere but heartache. I'm really trying to understand what does God want from me?

    • @2008LadyLaura
      @2008LadyLaura 3 роки тому +4

      Take your time even when it feels right.
      Look at it as a blessing when people fail the test meaning guys who get scared, or show you your true colors mean they aren't for you. Look at it like process of elimination and not internalizing attachment. Sometimes you have to go through the cornfield to get to the sunflower lol. Weird analogy of mine lol

    • @Yeshuaseekinggirl
      @Yeshuaseekinggirl 3 роки тому +2

      I’m in a similar situation. I know your pain. Keep leaning on The Lord.. even when it seems He’s being silent.. I believe we will come out of this stronger. 😭❤️🙏🕊

    • @pamboyle708
      @pamboyle708 3 роки тому +1

      @@Yeshuaseekinggirl Thank you it's a hard road to travel for sure. But I know God and Universe has my back. I'll look back some day with amazement. All in devine timing. Have a beautiful weekend.

  • @TeeceABeast
    @TeeceABeast 2 роки тому +1

    Dear God please keep me strong please release me from the nostalgia of the good times I deserve peace joy and loyalty! I ask that you completely refresh my life give me wisdom as I journey forward to not allow myself to fall into repeated traps! Father I know you hear my cries but I recognize rejection is your protection ! Thank you for watching over me and removing anything that doesn’t serve my highest good!

  • @nickm3911
    @nickm3911 3 роки тому +5

    I thought the second time of a breakup would be easier since I know I can get through it cause I did before, but I'm at the beginning stages of a breakup again and it's horrible. This video is exactly what I needed to hear. I'm hoping I can get through this quickly because the hurt is real

    • @dabodc5046
      @dabodc5046 3 роки тому

      I recommend you with a powerful man who can help you get your ex back ...

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      @dabodc5046 3 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp...

    • @hidayambuha4528
      @hidayambuha4528 2 роки тому

      Because we love diffrent people this is my fifth break up and it still hurt me so much

  • @htalks740
    @htalks740 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Stephen greetings from the UK. Feeling so lost right now, like im trapped in a cycle of thoughts that I cant get out of. I felt when you said "someone who stayed longer than they ever should have and the reality is that you may not have pulled the trigger if this current thing that happened did not occur. You needed it to happen" As much as this is a hard pill to swallow, it's so real as I definately wouldn't have ended things. It's like my choice was taken away and I was forced to go through this even though I didnt want to. Just wana say thank you for making me feel normal for feeling how I'm feeling as sometimes it feels like I'm losing myself but I felt better listening to what you said about not fighting how you feel and that its completely normal. Thank You x

  • @breighfaith
    @breighfaith 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you for this video...Indeed God will never bless me with an idol. Make God the foundation of all relationships. God Bless you brother.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +1

      🙏❤ my pleasure

    • @akeemsaibu1722
      @akeemsaibu1722 3 роки тому

      Amen!!!!!! Babe how u I will like to no u better if you don't mind am form Nigerian

  • @iamshannonmack
    @iamshannonmack 3 роки тому +4

    This is really a great video. Definitely lifted my spirits after dealing with a necessary separation from a guy I was really falling for.

  • @crystalg4883
    @crystalg4883 3 роки тому +14

    Thank you so much this came right on time. It’s hard to get over failed relationships but I’m definitely going to take the time now to become my very best self.

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 роки тому

      Yes it hard find good woman who ‘ s ants good man in their life who ‘ s going too show actions n by doing simple things too keep a woman happy , just be your self

  • @chironaherreras2635
    @chironaherreras2635 2 роки тому

    My heart was broken for the last time. I want to cry but the river of tears are all dried out now. I realized I was swimming against a current and instead of him handing me a life raft he’d throw me an anchor. He made me feel bad for expressing myself when I’d try to communicate. Five years I’ve loved him. But with the cancerous pain in my head and sadness in my heart that slows the beat in my chest, I had no choice but to let go. I know with time and healing I will breathe again and most importantly LOVE. I WILL love again.

  • @yalvia
    @yalvia 3 роки тому +9

    I just received the book this morning. Can't wait to read it and start healing!

  • @CocoAmandaJane
    @CocoAmandaJane 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you
    By watching this I realised I’m not healed from my previous relationship and then going to the next one that I am now struggling to move on from, I was relying on him to make me happy and I stopped doing that for myself.
    Thank you
    Btw your articulation is sublime keep doing what you do!

  • @AmayaZelaya
    @AmayaZelaya 3 роки тому +141

    "You can lose money chasing women but you'll never lose women chasing money..."

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 роки тому +8

      That's a good one, thank you for sharing!

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      @drighalo87lovespellcaster92 3 роки тому +3

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    • @albertodeulofeu5277
      @albertodeulofeu5277 3 роки тому +25

      Disagree. I lost the love of my life prioritizing my business over her. All the success and money in the world is empty without that person.

    • @gospelmuanza4814
      @gospelmuanza4814 3 роки тому +3

      @@albertodeulofeu5277 that Is why I have a hard time starting doing things, it feels pointless to have everything and have no one by your side

  • @ms.ladykey515
    @ms.ladykey515 3 роки тому +7

    Why are there so many interruptions with ads???
    It's a rhetorical comment.
    I just want to hear the message without interruptions. 😑

    • @neceynecey4679
      @neceynecey4679 3 роки тому +2

      That is how he makes his money. Don't hate the hustle. Me and you can just stop watching any of it until they get less. Which probably won't happen 😂

    • @pdoll96
      @pdoll96 3 роки тому +1

      It’s because UA-cam is free. You have to pay a monthly subscription to UA-cam to get rid of all the ads.

  • @mwhite805
    @mwhite805 3 роки тому +3

    WOW, Mr. STAPHAN, You are telling the truth I have been through all of what you are talking about and Yes, it was necessary to get the person out of my life and to be honest God had been showing me But I didn't listen and the relationship became like a evolving door , There was a lot of healing I needed in my life and forgiveness towards family I had to let go of some but still Love them from afar, But Yes, I know now what I want and to share with the man God has for Me

    • @MA-yc7pz
      @MA-yc7pz 3 роки тому

      Same over her I saw plenty red flags

  • @kimberlysangare3158
    @kimberlysangare3158 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much at the end of a 8yr. toxic relationship abuse, drugs, arguing, and alot of manipulating. I told him he has to go n now his tryin everything not to. But its to late its over I need to heal!!!!

  • @MS-kg8jr
    @MS-kg8jr 3 роки тому +14

    So needed and confirmation I'm on the right track

  • @YS-js5my
    @YS-js5my 3 роки тому +1

    I found these videos at the right time . 15 years and I always thought I was asking too much out of him and all of these videos have clarified and helped me realize that I wasn’t. When you TRULY LOVE someone, this is how things should be . Thank you for all your videos .

  • @akrodriguez2720
    @akrodriguez2720 3 роки тому +4

    Engaging, dynamic, down-to-earth, excellent advice!! The Who Hurt Me and the Facing Our Flaws And Correcting Them Exercises are essential to creating our Best Selves. We will then be able to heal and attract positive people into our lives. Healthy Living and Connecting with God are also very important! Your videos are awesome.