I did not want to let go and I begged and pleaded because I knew I loved him. Yet his dismissive behavior and the words “ It’s time to leave this alone” woke me up and God reminded me that I am more and I will have great. My burden is light and my yolk is easy. I love you all and I wish you an easy process I’m running with you
@@diariesbycynI had to come to my senses and release him because that’s what he wanted. I asked God to walk me through this process because I was hurting bad. I turned my love I had for him back to myself. I’m still hurting but I’m no longer begging. He doesn’t value me, but I have to value myself. Love you sister it will get better. I also dealt with regret but I repented and laid it all out before God
@@CM-ye1bcwake up sis if they want to walk away we have to let them. Lean into God and cry out to him. Not to man. People failed me time and time again but God never has.
This pain I feel is so intense that sometimes all I want to do is sleep. There was a fear that I messed up something that was great. But I receive Gods Word that even if it was me God still has a plan for me.
We just broke up this morning - 8/21/24 - and I came across this video. God knew i needed this. To all who are hurting, suffering, mending, healing... I'm with you. God bless us all. 🙏 💔
Same date as you. I was stuck in a state of denial because I didn't see it coming, but as I listen to God's words, I know it had to have happened. Praise god for period of growth and restoration of my relationship with Him the savior.
I feel so broken right now......everything in my life is scrambling down but wat scares me the most is my relationship with God and my career 😢.....leaving this comment here in april 2024 for future reference coz i know God is gonna deliver me 🙏 🙏 Glory be to God
I need this word so badly!! I'm struggling so badly w/ this breakup! Nothing has hurt be this badly in my entire life. I'm in therapy, been in no-contact since he dumped me, deleted every picture, voice-mail, text message, sent back every gift he gave me & threw away all the cards & notes. I feel so stuck with this & I'm still so hurt. I miss his friendship so much, it's excruciating. I'm fine 1 day & not the next. I cry so much it's crazy😢 I've never been through anything like this. It's been almost 2 months & Idk how or when I'll ever get past this. I don't want him back, I don't trust him anymore, I'm just hurt. There were no arguments, I was happy & thought he was too, but there were so much deception & lies on his part it hurts so much knowing he probably never really cared about me. I just pray God delivers me from this pain soon.
When your relationship grows closer to God you will forget him I'm going through the same thing but I know I'm worth so much more than sex and a late night blunt now I'm clean do drinks no weed and no sex praise god
Sometimes God is kind enough to let us learn these hard lessons before your spouse comes along. You may have wanted her to be the one, but hopefully the clarity you gained can be a blessing. I am sorry for your heartache and pray God gives you the answers you need 💗
It’s truly hard to think U had someone that was it for U.. Where U had all your hopes and dreams with this person only to find out he isn’t it… My situation is a bit unique I guess… I got married 20 years ago with my first bf to help him with his papers.. Long story short he ended up getting deported and I never got to getting a divorce… I met someone and we had been dating for roughly 4 months when I told him i was still married his perception changed of our relationship… I can’t really afford to get divorced at the moment soo after much discussion.. He basically said he couldn’t continue with the relationship because of the fact that I am still married on paper.. He said it bothers him and blocks him from moving forward with this relationship… I honestly dont understand that, I mean… If U really want to be with someone should that really matter? I mean it’s not like we are getting married now and eventually I do plan on getting divorced just not rite now.. Unfortunately financial circumstances does not allow me too..: Anywho, I really thought he was the finally the one! He was everything I had been praying God in a man and so I thought God had finally answered my prayer… Needless to say Im pretty tore up rite now… Just been praying for God to give me clarity and help me heal…
God Bless everyone in these comments that’s going thru any heartaches. Doesn’t matter if it was your fault or not . God will redirect your steps and continue to heal your heart and mind. It’ll all be clear in the end ❤
I ignored all the red flags. This person came into my life at my most vulnerable season in 1997, and I believed it was a God send and was married to this person for 25 years through all the narcissistic, childhood trauma and dysfunction. I am determined to heal from this grief from this divorce!
Shake off the dust. Don’t allow heart to be calloused. Staying in a place where you’re not received is wasting time. If I’m at the wrong address, the receiver won’t receive us. Shake it off and enter my new season!! Go and take my peace with me…to the new village.
it’s been 10 months for me & i never experienced pain this intense. I truly thought she was the love of my life, but i was wrong. 6 years of putting my heart & soul into someone only for it to be a lesson. She moved on a couple months after the breakup & seems happy. Meanwhile i’ve been dealing with excruciating pain every single day. I pray to God everyday to heal my heart & help me move forward with my life but it’s a long process. I have faith that it’ll get better eventually, God is just working on me a little longer.
That’s my situation right now But God is the one healing me to make me ok and accept the breakup and not have excruciating pain So you gotta get your spiritual life right
I initiated the break up out of great emotion but I really didn’t want to and then I tried to get them back. I knew I was not always the best in the relationship but I did try to truly love them. I often felt as though I was not cared about the way I wanted to. This relationship was also taking me away from God not because the other person forced me but I thought that if I got too close to God he would wouldn’t want to be with me anymore. Now that it is over I feel guilty for how it ended and how I could have done better. I pray that God guides me and him I deeply loved him. But the good thing about this break up is that I now want to get back to God and forever this time. I want Jesus to be my everything.
9-1-24 i have finally decided to release an unhealthy situation that i wanted marriage so bad, i want commitment but expect it from someone that not meant to be in my life anymore, God has shown me time and time again that i needed to let go but I have been holding on to maybe it can still work! Its not ! I know this because our season is over! We both have sabotage the relationship that we wanted so badly but seasons change and so have we! So i just ask God to help us both to grow up and learn how to love the way we are meant and to heal from our traumas! God help me to be still long enough to heal!
I’m only 5 minutes through this video and Pastor Jerry is nailing my exact feelings. I always use to ask people how do you grieve someone that’s still alive, still breathing, walking around as if the hurt they caused means nothing. Oh but god, it truly blows my mind at how he works in the midst of it all. Cause in the end, it only brought me so much closer to him. And at one point I had to ask god “Did I hurt you the way he hurt me?” …because when god said no other idol above him, that’s truly what he meant. I’m so grateful for where my relationship is with him now, and if it took having to go through what I had to, to get here, then so be it. I definitely shared this with a few friends already ✨ “There is still more after this.” Amen 🙏🏾
Hi! I would like to start a women’s group that uplifts women and we all help each other strive to be kingdom women that God has called us to be would you like to be apart of it?
I allowed my insecurities and jealousy to take over my mind. I pushed away my ex. I am grateful that I see the errors in my ways. I understand my thoughts needed healing. I will use this time to mentally heal. I will keep God 1st pray for healing and seek help. I will renew my spirit and mind in GOD'S NAME AND WORD.
I idolize the idea of marriage and relationships and need deliverance from this thinking. I try to believe/understand that God is all that I need, but I have this desire in my heart for companionship so bad that, sometimes, I lose myself in this thought, and I lose myself in a man. I am proud of myself for walking away (I believe this demonstrates growth), but I’ve internalized this to mean that something is wrong with me, or God may not love me enough, or that i’m not deserving. I feel a bit defeated, but I know that God is still good, and His plans are not my plans.
This!!! baby this thinking has held me in a place, using God''s word to even hold me there. Glory to God for the release! Praying for you too sister on this journey of ours.
Thankful for the Lord letting me see it was me and the relationship was not good for me either! Grateful to God for caring enough to snatch me out when I didn’t have the strength or sense to do it myself. 🙌🏾hallelujah for freedom and true healing to move on! 🎉
Everything he said is so true! I had to realized the part I played in certain things & I am very honest with myself. I’m disappointed in most of my actions man, I wish I knew how to control my emotions. I’m not as great as I thought I was to him. But I did love him, I’m just disappointed that I didn’t properly know how ALL THE TIME.
THERES STILL MORE AFTER THIS!! Lord your story for me continues onward,,, heal my heart, spirit, and mind the right way, the way it's intended for, Hallelujah! Thank you brother for being a vessel & allowing God to speak through you!
I can’t believe I begged and cried😅… no more of that! Better is coming and I needed that relationship to end so that my Faith could be made stronger in Christ. My faith NOW is so much more mature now that I am not connected to my ex. I pray for him and I wish him nothing but the BEST!! Thank you God!
My heart is so broken right now I don’t love myself so I couldn’t love him neither. This man loved me unconditionally and I couldn’t give or receive it back. I promised God before I met him I would work on and heal myself before I entered a relationship I didn’t keep my promise and now Ive ran off a good man. I know God is working in my life but it’s hard not to feel anger with God! when does my happiness come when will the pain from my past not affect my present and future
What a word 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Yes when I was with my ex narc my spiritual life greatly declined. Stopped going to church, prayer life came to a halt.. Thank you Jesus my Boaz is on his way 🙏🏽
Omgoodness I really needed this today because I’m in the middle of the healing process of healing from a six year relationship with two kids out of it 😢it’s really hard thank you lord for this
Amen 🙏🏾. I needed to hear this . Went thru a divorce and I still find myself missing her and thinking about our family . Healing is messy, but necessary. Amen 🙏🏾
i was planning on marrying my ex we haven't spoke in three weeks.. i'm really struggling. we were unevenly yoked & did alot of fighting but had amazing times as well. God has revealed he separated us to get me closer to him and if he didn't i was only going to stray away from him even more.. hallelujah.
The death was my doing. I lied to him because I was afraid of telling him the truth and fearful of the reaction I would get from telling him the truth. He was my best friend and I betrayed his trust. He had the grace to still forgive me but we’re no longer together. I recognize that I have unhealed issues. I pray for him to this day. Currently in a phase of suffering and shame but grateful for this suffering otherwise I would not be changing for the better. I am striving to walk with God more and strengthening my relationship with Him. Thank you for this video. God Bless everyone who is in the same situation as I am, I pray you heal and learn from the word so you can stop hurting your loved ones.
Going through my first ever break up.. The Holy spirit told me it was time to end the relationship and it really hurts. It's been a roller coaster and may God help me stay away from relationships that aren't from Him in future. This really really hurts.
This pain hurts. I married this man and thought it was forever. I was discarded and he and another lady have moved in together. He has tried to literally tried to destroy me and is now trying to take the home even though he has not paid one mortgage since 2023. The lies, abuse, smear complains, manipulation, and deceit was overwhelming but I never would have left him. Please keep me lifted in prayer
Move on right; walked away hoping they’ll stop you;don’t know how to grieve about something that is dead but the person is still alive…. Move on with health, Heal with clarity
I'm ok with losing the person, they didn't value me or see my worth and because I know my worth to God I had to let go and let God, it's hard but Hod has greater than what we lost for us
I am struggling so bad to let go. It’s very clear that it doesn’t matter if I stay or if I go to him. I begged, questioning my worth. Why not me, why not fight for me. I want it to be him…. It hurts so bad, my anxiety eats me up, I over think. The day I see him with someone else.
I have watched a few of your videos back to back now and I want to say thank you for showing me how to heal the right way. By seeking and trusting God instead on turning to worldly ways. This is a nice reminder that God always has my best interest.
A much needed message after a 5 year relationship that led nowhere. I’m officially 2 months with no contact. I’ve felt every emotion (anger, sadness, denial, etc.) over the past few weeks and it’s still an ongoing battle but I know God will guide me out of this as long as I stay by His side . 💜
I needed to hear this today. I have held on to the dust of another village with dear life because it's what I want even when I heard a whispering in my spirit that God had to close that door.
It’s been about 4 months I’m just seeing this therapy Thursday however everything you said made so much sense. In this breakup I broke up with him. It hurt soo bad and went back and forth with God on why do I got to be the one to do it. He gave me strength and I noticed how weak this person made me. Ignored every red flag and almost married him I postponed the wedding at first and a month later had to break up with him for my sake and I did just that on the day we were supposed to be married! Can I tell you God has done His big one for me! I’m happier day by day and more of myself than I was two years ago! I’m not saying I’m perfect I just met this person in the most vulnerable state I just had lost my dad a month prior thinking it would fix my wound that I put a bandage on.
I’m going thru a breakup right now and is hard because besides all the amazing time we have spent together we have a family, we have kids. But the hardest part is still loving him as I walk away 😢 I needed this because my heart is literally shattered and you make me see things different ❤
Stay strong keep praying and you’ll get through it, it’s easier said then done but there’s a lot of us going through the same exact thing rn ❤ listen to all these sermons there’s a great word in them all that will help with your healing process
I was with a man who eventually said he didn’t want to pursue God yet, It’s been painful and I never stopped seeking God. The pain drew me closer than ever because I just didn’t understand. But I’m healing, God never chose this for me.. my actions led me here but I know better now. He’s helping me every step!
Pastor Jerry Flowers ALWAYS delivers God's message in the most loving, gentle yet firm & simple way. God bless you Pastor. I totally needed this. Watching from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Amen and Amen. Thank you Lord for showing me that I had to end that relationship. Thank you Lord for showing me my own brokenness. Please help me to heal and to get on the right path - to get on Your path Lord. I can’t do this by myself anymore without You. Thank you Lord for Pastor J and his ministry and for access to Therapy Thursday. In Jesus name Amen!
I ended my 2yr relationship but regretfully kept in contact and allowed him in my space time and time again. He cheated and lied about A-LOT of unnecessary stuff. I finally found the courage to speak out against his actions but I was harsh I did apologize which almost led me to trying to make an attempt to fix us but I caught myself and listened to my intuition and finally let go it’s hard but I all of the sudden feel lighter and free. It’s a difficult process but my heart soul and mind are telling I made the right decision. During this healing journey, I pray that it only brings me closer to God and closer to my person who is meant for me. Praying for everyone who is trying to heal from their pain and suffering. Keep God close and you’ll be fine!
we broke up a week ago and i just learned that it was really me. I already had that mindset before watching this video. We dated for a year. We both 17 but trust me i did not pursue the relationship because i was bored or needed something to do but because i genuinely love her and i wanted to make a covenant with her. I love the way she way was brought up since she is a pastor's child and we attend the same local church. I really wanted great things for us. After a year of ups and downs we broke up. it was really my fault and i wish i had identified my toxic behaviour before it was too late. I feel i lost a Boaz all because of my ignorance. I will try to shake it off and try to trust God's plan in my life even tho i messed up. At the moment the idea of being in another village makes me nauseous. She was my first girlfriend and the reality of being separated feels like the longest nightmare ive ever experienced but i appreciate this message. Thank you.
I understand my friend I was just broken up with 4 days ago after almost a 2 year relationship. We both played a part but I feel as if it was me. She gave me the blueprint on how to love her and I failed . I could never put my pride and ego aside to just listen and be that leader for. I understand now but I feel as if it’s too late. I’m already blocked on everything and she’s already seeking for others. I lost my boaz. I got her a house, never made her pay a bill or work a job, very expensive things and my efforts went un seen. Now I’m stuck with everything around me reminding me of her.
I’m on your cuffing series, trapped series, timing series and the current…. Recent breakup that effected me spiritually, mentally, emotionally the past 3 years. Coming across your page has been a blessing from God. I have been praying and I watch a few pastors online who I absolutely love and you have just been absolutely amazing because it’s biblical. It’s not sugarcoating. It’s exactly what I need to hear and this therapy Thursday is it on another level!
It’s me, I have gotten to a place where I almost hate myself. I see all that is within me and how I push away everyone I loved…and I hate it. I’m so sick of myself, I’m sick of the result of what I’ve inflicted on others.
Wow....soaking myself in worship helped alot,It switches focus...I pray you focus on Jesus....I love this video...like this to remind me that can take it❤
This message is so healing. I’m going through a breakup and I know this has to be God sending this message. I literally had a conversation with my ex 2 months post break up. I gave him a message God put on my heart. Extended the olive branch and told him I’m dusting my sandals off like the disciples. He laughed but I was serious I’m going to move forward and wait for Boaz.
Cover this MAN of GOD!! I am so grateful for your obedience, which is teaching me obedience. This one hit real different! I am so grateful that you and your amazing family have been apart of my healing journey for the last 3 years. God bless you all!
So timely for me but hey that’s the power God! I needed today after a ending of a 9 year marriage and whatever the last 2 years were about. Grateful to the Lord for His strength, grace, and the healing of my heart… Time to shake that dust brother!!!
@ I’m doing really well! Grateful to the Lord for daily healing in my life. It hasn’t been always easy letting go of the past but God is good! He’s brought a wonderful Godly women into my life that I didn’t expect to happen.
"God will wreck your plans when He sees that your plans will wreck you".
That hit home!
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Yes grieving is hard but there is still more after this
Amen! Needed this today! 🙏🏼
That part!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I did not want to let go and I begged and pleaded because I knew I loved him. Yet his dismissive behavior and the words “ It’s time to leave this alone” woke me up and God reminded me that I am more and I will have great. My burden is light and my yolk is easy. I love you all and I wish you an easy process I’m running with you
I’m struggling with this too… the begging and the pleading. It hurts. Let me know what you’re doing to cope with this.
Experiencing this now
@@diariesbycynI had to come to my senses and release him because that’s what he wanted. I asked God to walk me through this process because I was hurting bad. I turned my love I had for him back to myself. I’m still hurting but I’m no longer begging. He doesn’t value me, but I have to value myself. Love you sister it will get better. I also dealt with regret but I repented and laid it all out before God
@@CM-ye1bcwake up sis if they want to walk away we have to let them. Lean into God and cry out to him. Not to man. People failed me time and time again but God never has.
@@TheAnissaMonee thank you sister. Been filling my head and heart with the word of God to keep me going. About to use this time to work on myself.
I think it was both: I was the problem and also divine intervention. I’m praying for all of us.
I was dumped recently & struggling to move forward. Feeling blessed that God led me to this video. ❤
@natashatate2332 I’m going through one now how hard was it for you
This pain I feel is so intense that sometimes all I want to do is sleep. There was a fear that I messed up something that was great. But I receive Gods Word that even if it was me God still has a plan for me.
I've been there. It will get better. Even if you messed it up, God still loves you. This too shall pass! ❤
I messed up terribly
You got this!
Thank you for comment. I feel the same way
Amen
We just broke up this morning - 8/21/24 - and I came across this video. God knew i needed this.
To all who are hurting, suffering, mending, healing... I'm with you. God bless us all. 🙏 💔
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We broke up on 8/3/24, and the pain and hurt is unexplainable. I didn't see it coming, but God. Keep healing and moving forward!
Amen 🙏
Same date as you. I was stuck in a state of denial because I didn't see it coming, but as I listen to God's words, I know it had to have happened. Praise god for period of growth and restoration of my relationship with Him the savior.
8/22/24 And I’m still feeling all the hurt. It’s been HARD. But I have a God who loves me and while I may feel alone I know I’m not
I woke up to a break-up text 10.7.2024 and Jesus gave me peace. He was cold, but Jesus was there ❤😊
I broke up with my girlfriend exactly that same day, she didn’t even try to fight, she stopped loving me and I could tell
Yesss same here! It’s tough but I know Jesus is with me 💕
I feel so broken right now......everything in my life is scrambling down but wat scares me the most is my relationship with God and my career 😢.....leaving this comment here in april 2024 for future reference coz i know God is gonna deliver me 🙏 🙏 Glory be to God
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Please come back and testify. Trusting God for you. You are loved ❤
Praying for you
This breakup has brought me closer to God, and I pray it will bring her closer as well. I pray we collide again.
“You could be a whole package,but if you end up at the wrong address, the receiver could mishandle you”
I need this word so badly!! I'm struggling so badly w/ this breakup! Nothing has hurt be this badly in my entire life. I'm in therapy, been in no-contact since he dumped me, deleted every picture, voice-mail, text message, sent back every gift he gave me & threw away all the cards & notes. I feel so stuck with this & I'm still so hurt. I miss his friendship so much, it's excruciating. I'm fine 1 day & not the next. I cry so much it's crazy😢 I've never been through anything like this. It's been almost 2 months & Idk how or when I'll ever get past this. I don't want him back, I don't trust him anymore, I'm just hurt. There were no arguments, I was happy & thought he was too, but there were so much deception & lies on his part it hurts so much knowing he probably never really cared about me. I just pray God delivers me from this pain soon.
Same here ❤😢
God will. It does get better. ♥️ I’ve been there. God loves you and I pray he comforts you through it all.
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When your relationship grows closer to God you will forget him I'm going through the same thing but I know I'm worth so much more than sex and a late night blunt now I'm clean do drinks no weed and no sex praise god
How are you feeling now? ☺️
This is so easy to listen to but so hard when you're in the mist of pain
Dude, it was me all the time, I regret not changing while she was here and now that she is gone I miss her ☹️ Miss her so much, guys pray for me …
That’s my situation too! I miss him like crazy but I know he needs the space from me to move on and heal.
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Sometimes God is kind enough to let us learn these hard lessons before your spouse comes along. You may have wanted her to be the one, but hopefully the clarity you gained can be a blessing. I am sorry for your heartache and pray God gives you the answers you need 💗
Bro I feel you, we got a son together so I gotta see her almost everyday. It’s tough but I’m taking it day by day
It’s truly hard to think U had someone that was it for U.. Where U had all your hopes and dreams with this person only to find out he isn’t it… My situation is a bit unique I guess… I got married 20 years ago with my first bf to help him with his papers.. Long story short he ended up getting deported and I never got to getting a divorce… I met someone and we had been dating for roughly 4 months when I told him i was still married his perception changed of our relationship… I can’t really afford to get divorced at the moment soo after much discussion.. He basically said he couldn’t continue with the relationship because of the fact that I am still married on paper.. He said it bothers him and blocks him from moving forward with this relationship… I honestly dont understand that, I mean… If U really want to be with someone should that really matter?
I mean it’s not like we are getting married now and eventually I do plan on getting divorced just not rite now.. Unfortunately financial circumstances does not allow me too..: Anywho, I really thought he was the finally the one! He was everything I had been praying God in a man and so I thought God had finally answered my prayer… Needless to say Im pretty tore up rite now… Just been praying for God to give me clarity and help me heal…
God Bless everyone in these comments that’s going thru any heartaches. Doesn’t matter if it was your fault or not . God will redirect your steps and continue to heal your heart and mind. It’ll all be clear in the end ❤
Grieving and they’re still alive! Definitely that part!
“They twist their insecurities & project it as your flaw”
Thank you, I needed to hear that .
I ignored all the red flags. This person came into my life at my most vulnerable season in 1997, and I believed it was a God send and was married to this person for 25 years through all the narcissistic, childhood trauma and dysfunction. I am determined to heal from this grief from this divorce!
I was so toxic ,narcissistic, manipulative. 100 percent wrong. I regret it. I will I've grown so much but extremely guilty.
Same here!
I also ignored the red flags 20 years and 4 kids later 😢 I'm struggling to move on
I getting divorce too
Shake off the dust. Don’t allow heart to be calloused. Staying in a place where you’re not received is wasting time. If I’m at the wrong address, the receiver won’t receive us. Shake it off and enter my new season!! Go and take my peace with me…to the new village.
it’s been 10 months for me & i never experienced pain this intense. I truly thought she was the love of my life, but i was wrong. 6 years of putting my heart & soul into someone only for it to be a lesson. She moved on a couple months after the breakup & seems happy. Meanwhile i’ve been dealing with excruciating pain every single day. I pray to God everyday to heal my heart & help me move forward with my life but it’s a long process. I have faith that it’ll get better eventually, God is just working on me a little longer.
Try fasting and praying it helps also delete everything that reminds you of her.
@@Bonafide0324 Thanks alot! Trying my best
That’s my situation right now
But God is the one healing me to make me ok and accept the breakup and not have excruciating pain
So you gotta get your spiritual life right
I initiated the break up out of great emotion but I really didn’t want to and then I tried to get them back. I knew I was not always the best in the relationship but I did try to truly love them. I often felt as though I was not cared about the way I wanted to. This relationship was also taking me away from God not because the other person forced me but I thought that if I got too close to God he would wouldn’t want to be with me anymore. Now that it is over I feel guilty for how it ended and how I could have done better. I pray that God guides me and him I deeply loved him. But the good thing about this break up is that I now want to get back to God and forever this time. I want Jesus to be my everything.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS.
I BEEN THROUGH THIS .
“Healing scares people who benefit from your brokenness”
You can tell that Jerry genuinely loves the Lord and wants to help others
9-1-24 i have finally decided to release an unhealthy situation that i wanted marriage so bad, i want commitment but expect it from someone that not meant to be in my life anymore, God has shown me time and time again that i needed to let go but I have been holding on to maybe it can still work! Its not ! I know this because our season is over! We both have sabotage the relationship that we wanted so badly but seasons change and so have we! So i just ask God to help us both to grow up and learn how to love the way we are meant and to heal from our traumas! God help me to be still long enough to heal!
I’m only 5 minutes through this video and Pastor Jerry is nailing my exact feelings. I always use to ask people how do you grieve someone that’s still alive, still breathing, walking around as if the hurt they caused means nothing. Oh but god, it truly blows my mind at how he works in the midst of it all. Cause in the end, it only brought me so much closer to him. And at one point I had to ask god “Did I hurt you the way he hurt me?” …because when god said no other idol above him, that’s truly what he meant. I’m so grateful for where my relationship is with him now, and if it took having to go through what I had to, to get here, then so be it. I definitely shared this with a few friends already ✨
“There is still more after this.” Amen 🙏🏾
Hi! I would like to start a women’s group that uplifts women and we all help each other strive to be kingdom women that God has called us to be would you like to be apart of it?
I said the same thing
Amen!
@@AshiaNecoleI’d love that!
This was well written and I had the SAME experience!
I allowed my insecurities and jealousy to take over my mind. I pushed away my ex. I am grateful that I see the errors in my ways. I understand my thoughts needed healing. I will use this time to mentally heal. I will keep God 1st pray for healing and seek help. I will renew my spirit and mind in GOD'S NAME AND WORD.
I hooe youve been well my love remmever God is good!! How is everything now? If the time is right you guys can meet again
Amen,sis! i have been like this
Amen 🙏🏽 I really could not have said it any better!
I walked away, and he didn't try to stop me its been really hard. I hope God heals me. You personally spoke to me😢🙌🏾
Same here. It's been 4 days but my calender keeps filling up so I'm grateful it's just the mornings are hard
Things break apart easier when they were being held together by a lie!!!!!! My GOD!
I idolize the idea of marriage and relationships and need deliverance from this thinking. I try to believe/understand that God is all that I need, but I have this desire in my heart for companionship so bad that, sometimes, I lose myself in this thought, and I lose myself in a man. I am proud of myself for walking away (I believe this demonstrates growth), but I’ve internalized this to mean that something is wrong with me, or God may not love me enough, or that i’m not deserving. I feel a bit defeated, but I know that God is still good, and His plans are not my plans.
This!!! baby this thinking has held me in a place, using God''s word to even hold me there. Glory to God for the release! Praying for you too sister on this journey of ours.
Can relate to this!
📖 _If your always the teacher and never the student, then your probably the problem_ . 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yes Lord I needed this!!!!! I receive this message in the name of JESUS! Amen Amen Amen
My ex, in every talk the teacher. Ignored my feelings, kept seeing his exwife.
Thankful for the Lord letting me see it was me and the relationship was not good for me either! Grateful to God for caring enough to snatch me out when I didn’t have the strength or sense to do it myself. 🙌🏾hallelujah for freedom and true healing to move on! 🎉
Everything he said is so true! I had to realized the part I played in certain things & I am very honest with myself. I’m disappointed in most of my actions man, I wish I knew how to control my emotions. I’m not as great as I thought I was to him. But I did love him, I’m just disappointed that I didn’t properly know how ALL THE TIME.
THERES STILL MORE AFTER THIS!! Lord your story for me continues onward,,, heal my heart, spirit, and mind the right way, the way it's intended for, Hallelujah! Thank you brother for being a vessel & allowing God to speak through you!
“You’re healed when you see the person who cut you and you don’t want to cut them back” - this is soooooo good! 👍🏾
This! 👆🏾👏🏾✨️
I can’t believe I begged and cried😅… no more of that! Better is coming and I needed that relationship to end so that my Faith could be made stronger in Christ. My faith NOW is so much more mature now that I am not connected to my ex. I pray for him and I wish him nothing but the BEST!! Thank you God!
Broken but I trust in God someday I’ll come back to this comment to see where I was at some point and give Glory to God..😢
How are you feeling now ?
“I just don’t want to move on, I want to move on right and with health.” A powerful message! Thank you for allowing God to use you. 🥹
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My heart is so broken right now I don’t love myself so I couldn’t love him neither. This man loved me unconditionally and I couldn’t give or receive it back. I promised God before I met him I would work on and heal myself before I entered a relationship I didn’t keep my promise and now Ive ran off a good man. I know God is working in my life but it’s hard not to feel anger with God! when does my happiness come when will the pain from my past not affect my present and future
Sending love and strength. Going through this now
Thank you Lord for using Jerry for delivering this message
The way this man preaches is astounding ❤
I miss him for real and it's a roller coaster day to day and I know I can't go. Back
Understanding my purpose...even as a single woman and mother
My mother always warned me about this: “You can’t be wrong AND strong….
What a word 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Yes when I was with my ex narc my spiritual life greatly declined. Stopped going to church, prayer life came to a halt.. Thank you Jesus my Boaz is on his way 🙏🏽
I just broke up
And seeing right away is just God😭
God provides, the love we can trust
@@jessieoakford6113 are you okay now?
THIS IS GOING TO BE GOOD !!!!
Omgoodness I really needed this today because I’m in the middle of the healing process of healing from a six year relationship with two kids out of it 😢it’s really hard thank you lord for this
Hi girlie! How are you doing now?
Amen 🙏🏾. I needed to hear this . Went thru a divorce and I still find myself missing her and thinking about our family . Healing is messy, but necessary. Amen 🙏🏾
I feel you, going thru the same😢
i was planning on marrying my ex we haven't spoke in three weeks.. i'm really struggling. we were unevenly yoked & did alot of fighting but had amazing times as well. God has revealed he separated us to get me closer to him and if he didn't i was only going to stray away from him even more.. hallelujah.
Same here 😔
This is how I feel now and I’m still in the relationship 😢
Amen
The death was my doing. I lied to him because I was afraid of telling him the truth and fearful of the reaction I would get from telling him the truth. He was my best friend and I betrayed his trust. He had the grace to still forgive me but we’re no longer together. I recognize that I have unhealed issues. I pray for him to this day. Currently in a phase of suffering and shame but grateful for this suffering otherwise I would not be changing for the better. I am striving to walk with God more and strengthening my relationship with Him. Thank you for this video. God Bless everyone who is in the same situation as I am, I pray you heal and learn from the word so you can stop hurting your loved ones.
Going through my first ever break up.. The Holy spirit told me it was time to end the relationship and it really hurts. It's been a roller coaster and may God help me stay away from relationships that aren't from Him in future. This really really hurts.
This pain hurts. I married this man and thought it was forever. I was discarded and he and another lady have moved in together. He has tried to literally tried to destroy me and is now trying to take the home even though he has not paid one mortgage since 2023. The lies, abuse, smear complains, manipulation, and deceit was overwhelming but I never would have left him. Please keep me lifted in prayer
Move on right; walked away hoping they’ll stop you;don’t know how to grieve about something that is dead but the person is still alive…. Move on with health, Heal with clarity
My lord!!!!!! Thankyou for releasing me from liars
I'm ok with losing the person, they didn't value me or see my worth and because I know my worth to God I had to let go and let God, it's hard but Hod has greater than what we lost for us
There's still more after this❤❤❤❤
That was spot on! The worst combination is when somebody is arrogant and ignorant 😂😂😂
Lol
I dont want to just move on but i want to move on right😢. Help me Lord🙏🙏
I am struggling so bad to let go. It’s very clear that it doesn’t matter if I stay or if I go to him. I begged, questioning my worth. Why not me, why not fight for me. I want it to be him…. It hurts so bad, my anxiety eats me up, I over think. The day I see him with someone else.
I have watched a few of your videos back to back now and I want to say thank you for showing me how to heal the right way. By seeking and trusting God instead on turning to worldly ways. This is a nice reminder that God always has my best interest.
THERES STILL MORE AFTER THE BREAKUP ❤️
A much needed message after a 5 year relationship that led nowhere. I’m officially 2 months with no contact. I’ve felt every emotion (anger, sadness, denial, etc.) over the past few weeks and it’s still an ongoing battle but I know God will guide me out of this as long as I stay by His side . 💜
I needed to hear this today. I have held on to the dust of another village with dear life because it's what I want even when I heard a whispering in my spirit that God had to close that door.
Amen
YOU CAME FOR MY SCALP ON THIS ONE JERRY!! THANK YOU!!
We have to move on the right way .
Omg the warfare is real! I needed this today, I needed to hear this! Lord I’m not going crazy! I thank you for sending me this message! ♥️ 🙏
THERE IS STILL MORE AFTER THIS, THE BREAKUP
I’m getting my peace back. 🙏🏽
It’s been about 4 months I’m just seeing this therapy Thursday however everything you said made so much sense. In this breakup I broke up with him. It hurt soo bad and went back and forth with God on why do I got to be the one to do it. He gave me strength and I noticed how weak this person made me. Ignored every red flag and almost married him I postponed the wedding at first and a month later had to break up with him for my sake and I did just that on the day we were supposed to be married! Can I tell you God has done His big one for me! I’m happier day by day and more of myself than I was two years ago! I’m not saying I’m perfect I just met this person in the most vulnerable state I just had lost my dad a month prior thinking it would fix my wound that I put a bandage on.
Amen!!! There is still more after this🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I just want to grieve and get over him 🥺
I’m going thru a breakup right now and is hard because besides all the amazing time we have spent together we have a family, we have kids. But the hardest part is still loving him as I walk away 😢 I needed this because my heart is literally shattered and you make me see things different ❤
Stay strong keep praying and you’ll get through it, it’s easier said then done but there’s a lot of us going through the same exact thing rn ❤ listen to all these sermons there’s a great word in them all that will help with your healing process
I was with a man who eventually said he didn’t want to pursue God yet, It’s been painful and I never stopped seeking God. The pain drew me closer than ever because I just didn’t understand. But I’m healing, God never chose this for me.. my actions led me here but I know better now. He’s helping me every step!
MANNNNN YOU BETTER PREACH because I can’t stand my ex/baby daddy!!! Whew yeah you talking to me ‼️
Pastor Jerry Flowers ALWAYS delivers God's message in the most loving, gentle yet firm & simple way. God bless you Pastor. I totally needed this. Watching from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪
Yes, the breakup was because of me. I'm still hopeful we'll get back together. And I'm praying for the strength if it's not meant to be
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
MY FATHERS LINEAGE IS SAVED !!!!!!!! JESUS yes i can get over!
Amen and Amen. Thank you Lord for showing me that I had to end that relationship. Thank you Lord for showing me my own brokenness. Please help me to heal and to get on the right path - to get on Your path Lord. I can’t do this by myself anymore without You. Thank you Lord for Pastor J and his ministry and for access to Therapy Thursday. In Jesus name Amen!
💔🥀😔Dude left me on 09/04/24. I’m so hurt been crying ever since then. This sermon was meant for me 🙏🏽
Definitely agree with this, not easy to move on from someone u cared about. But when u do…😫🙌🏽
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Thank You for covering emotional abuse. I am Blessed that God removed me from an abusive marriage, but at the right time He sent my Boaz
THERES STILL MORE AFTER THIS 🙏🏽
There is still more after this! Thank you Jesus!! 🙏🏼
I ended my 2yr relationship but regretfully kept in contact and allowed him in my space time and time again. He cheated and lied about A-LOT of unnecessary stuff. I finally found the courage to speak out against his actions but I was harsh I did apologize which almost led me to trying to make an attempt to fix us but I caught myself and listened to my intuition and finally let go it’s hard but I all of the sudden feel lighter and free. It’s a difficult process but my heart soul and mind are telling I made the right decision. During this healing journey, I pray that it only brings me closer to God and closer to my person who is meant for me. Praying for everyone who is trying to heal from their pain and suffering. Keep God close and you’ll be fine!
There’s still more after this… glory to the most high
we broke up a week ago and i just learned that it was really me. I already had that mindset before watching this video. We dated for a year. We both 17 but trust me i did not pursue the relationship because i was bored or needed something to do but because i genuinely love her and i wanted to make a covenant with her. I love the way she way was brought up since she is a pastor's child and we attend the same local church. I really wanted great things for us. After a year of ups and downs we broke up. it was really my fault and i wish i had identified my toxic behaviour before it was too late. I feel i lost a Boaz all because of my ignorance. I will try to shake it off and try to trust God's plan in my life even tho i messed up. At the moment the idea of being in another village makes me nauseous. She was my first girlfriend and the reality of being separated feels like the longest nightmare ive ever experienced but i appreciate this message. Thank you.
I understand my friend I was just broken up with 4 days ago after almost a 2 year relationship. We both played a part but I feel as if it was me. She gave me the blueprint on how to love her and I failed . I could never put my pride and ego aside to just listen and be that leader for. I understand now but I feel as if it’s too late. I’m already blocked on everything and she’s already seeking for others. I lost my boaz. I got her a house, never made her pay a bill or work a job, very expensive things and my efforts went un seen. Now I’m stuck with everything around me reminding me of her.
I'M GETTING MY PEACE BACK🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏻
THERE’S STILL MORE AFTER THIS.❤
I’m on your cuffing series, trapped series, timing series and the current…. Recent breakup that effected me spiritually, mentally, emotionally the past 3 years. Coming across your page has been a blessing from God. I have been praying and I watch a few pastors online who I absolutely love and you have just been absolutely amazing because it’s biblical. It’s not sugarcoating. It’s exactly what I need to hear and this therapy Thursday is it on another level!
It’s me, I have gotten to a place where I almost hate myself. I see all that is within me and how I push away everyone I loved…and I hate it. I’m so sick of myself, I’m sick of the result of what I’ve inflicted on others.
I’m 19 minutes in and I can’t take it!!!!!!! Whew!!!!!!
Wow....soaking myself in worship helped alot,It switches focus...I pray you focus on Jesus....I love this video...like this to remind me that can take it❤
This message is so healing. I’m going through a breakup and I know this has to be God sending this message. I literally had a conversation with my ex 2 months post break up. I gave him a message God put on my heart. Extended the olive branch and told him I’m dusting my sandals off like the disciples. He laughed but I was serious I’m going to move forward and wait for Boaz.
God is always one time ! Not me seeing this video a day after a toxic break-up🤭. Thank you Lord for this message ❤❤❤
❤❤I need this❤
Cover this MAN of GOD!! I am so grateful for your obedience, which is teaching me obedience. This one hit real different! I am so grateful that you and your amazing family have been apart of my healing journey for the last 3 years. God bless you all!
5:23 THERE IS STILL MORE AFTER THIS!🙌🏾
I needed thissss!!!! I will be okay! God will never crack a Red Sea to return only to depart!!!!!
Thank you for this sermon, I needed to hear it more than I thought I did ❤
So timely for me but hey that’s the power God! I needed today after a ending of a 9 year marriage and whatever the last 2 years were about. Grateful to the Lord for His strength, grace, and the healing of my heart… Time to shake that dust brother!!!
How are you doing?
@ I’m doing really well! Grateful to the Lord for daily
healing in my life. It hasn’t been always easy letting go of the past but God is good! He’s brought a wonderful Godly women into my life that I didn’t expect to happen.