Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
I’ve been depressed from my breakup for two weeks straight. I’m 46 and ready to throw in the towel on relationships. This video is motivating me though. I love to cook, clean, listen to music and workout. I’ve gotta get myself happy again. I’ve endured enough heartbreak in my life . I’m not looking for love I’m Looking to be happy 😩😩🥺🥺
I'm also 46. And just broke up with someone. I believe he wanted me to break up with him because he didn't have the guts to, wasn't man enough, and wanted to leave feeling like he's a good guy. I'm disappointed with alot of people and my life. Firstly I'm disappointed with myself. I'm disappointed that I've not loved, valued, or respected myself my entire life. I'm disappointed in God, my parents, family, friends, and all my previous partners. Since the breakup, I've been in such a dark, horrible place. Not necessarily because of him though more because it's another disappointment I have to get over, move on from, and heal. I feel totally burnt out, empty, and some days numb. All this fighting, discovering, healing and understanding is both mentally and physically draining. God said it's not right for man to be alone then why is so many of us alone. Sad, unhappy, unfulfilled, and neglected. Purpose, everyone talks about it like it's a given we all have one. I've given up trying to figure out what mine is. The only thing that is guaranteed is death. We will eventually all die. So maybe waiting for the enviable is my new strategy because giving all of you to people no matter who they are and you getting nothing back is to soul destroying to keep doing it.
@@nataledominigrant6985 praying for you friend. As someone similar to yourself I wouldn’t suggest you shut yourself off from everything and everyone. Hopefully you have job that can distract you. I’ve been working more hours but I’m still comparing our horoscopes mind you I work with him from time to time. I’m a happy person I just became very introverted because of like you said so much disappointment in people 🙏🏾👍🏾
It's like someone passed away. A heartache is the worse hurt in the world. I think I need a break then I worry about him finding someone that he thinks is better than me.
He blocked me so I'm not bothering him anymore. I cried twice now I'm moving on and working on loving myself not dating anyone for a long time. The right guy will find me when the time is right.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I can get qover a bad relationship, but, he hasn't gotten over me and wants me back. I went through four other bad relationships once I alert my children dad 22 years ago. Those relationships didn't last more than five months because of how they were and they all cheated on me.
I'm not trying to get back with any of my ex boyfriend because I don't go back wards and I just move forward. I'm already talking to someone that I've been talking to for a year on July 3.
This is so true.....Hurt people hurt people and also choose hurt people.......as well as Free people free people and choose free people. Heal so you can make better choices. Great session.
Absolutely a breakup from the wrong one can & will bless your life tremendously & refocus your life back on track to the blessings God had always had in store for you if you allow Him to guide you ❤️
I'm so thankful for you Stephan. I'm going through a tough break up where she went into a new relationship within a couple months and rubbed it in my face in a harsh, cold way, is now ignoring me when she sees me and it crushed me. Your videos continue to pull me back from the edge and refocus me. Thank God for your gifts brother ♥️🙌
First off…fuck that person trying to make a dollar off your emotional trauma ^ and second dude I feel you. Just broke up with my girl about 2 weeks ago and she’s been stringing me along not really giving me anything while I’ve been pouring into her. Pretty sure she’s already hooked up with someone else too but fuck it. We deserve better and there’s better out there for us. Just focus on you brother, level up and work through your own trauma. The right woman will see that you’ve done the work, appreciate you and love you for it! Good luck dude stay strong 💪🏻
I feel your pain. The girl strung me along for months after the break-up, just to post her hugged up with her new dude. Then she unfriended me and ignored my calls, why do they do this smh lol
I had an unhealthy attachment to my sons father. I knew I was no longer IN love with him after he cheated on me the first time. I took him back for three reasons: My Mother instilled that women are only truly a wife to the person she lost her virginity to. She will only be a concubine to any other man after that. 2. We had a child together 3. I didn't want to be the bad guy because he'd always guilt trip me. The best thing he did was get his hussy pregnant. That was the one unforgivable offense that he could have committed that could allow me to freely walk away. 😌
It is happened to me two weeks ago I lose my beautiful daughter another one on the way six month it was sad he was so sad as you move another state so I need to heal😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I’m so sad I lose my beautiful daughter another on the way and she moves another state😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 l need heal Give me a good advice I can move on
This is the 1st day of my breakup. I am confused and sad. I going to stay focused and positive on the betterment of my life in every capacity. These tips are great and implementation starts TODAY! Thank you 🙏🏿
@@akomeyam Hey Sis, First I want to say thank you for wondering about my mental health and how things are going thus far. I’m good. I’ve lost 39 lbs thus far and just taking small steps in being the best I can be…. How are you?
I almost give up dreams to save a relationship nothing I give up was gonna work for him to commit but after we broke up I returned to God, started eating healthy, go to therapy, travel and go out with my friends and workout... He was controlling, jealous....The quarantine was necessary it affected my self esteem but I didn't let it turn into depression it lasted 3 years it has been 5 months after I ended for good....somedays I wonder if I could have done more then I realize I did every single thing in my power to save it ....I havent heard from him but I know I did the right thing
I am taking full advantage of the breakup and I want to be healed. I have more life behind me than in front of me (that's a nice way to say I'm older); however, I knew that it should have never happened, and I want to stop repeating the same (mistake) lessoned finally learned.
I asked God to help us in our relationship and not long after we decided to break up, it was a extremely hard time for me but I’ve gotten better and it honestly pushed me to start focusing on myself and fighting for the life I want to achieve. I’ve grown a lot in these few months after the breakup. I believe this was God trying to help us be ready for each other when the time comes. I think about him everyday and pray that he is also doing well and healing too. I really believe he’s the one for me but unfortunately life got in the way and maybe we have to go thru different paths before we can be with each other again. I’m just letting God lead me there.
Let them be what they are memories, good, bad, or indifferent memories; so you don't make the same mistake twice; until it's time to move, on smooches everybody
Really needed this. Lord knows I have been struggling emotionally and mentally with accepting the breakup. Listening and absorbing this message has really given me hope that better days are ahead of me. Thank you
Wow Stephen!!! This really helped me. This is a year since my husband left me and were divorced now but I needed this today. I praise God for the gift he has graced you with. You did this session JUST FOR ME!!!! My healing was happening as I was watching this. Oh how He loves me! Again thank you!
It's amazing that we can blame God for our choices and decisions that we made ourselves. This is the perfect example of projecting instead of reflecting on our own issues. Identifying and admitting that we have a problem within ourselves is the first step to healing. You are in the spirit with this teaching today brother. 🙏💪
I Concur! I have literally zipped a body bag over my mother and that wasn’t as hard as deciding not to go back! I think the biggest epiphany for me is that he never changed but I did! Nobody ever taught me how to leave when I was still in love OR leave when he was trying but the damage was already done! So these videos are therapeutic
Great video, I am learning how to heal from a guy who never even loved me. Words don't speak actions do. His actions were toxic, painful. I'm gonna learn how to get better, not bitter...
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
I think in the long run the healing starts when you can forgive yourself for your mistakes and the mistakes of others take accountability for everything, I am learning this step by step.. maybe its from simply watching your videos..😉
Lost my lover of 25 years and I'm so desperate but I watching this video its helping me. I keep telling myself this " that person its gone, you need to accept the loss, be a better person and reach some goals"
Loved her but I knew deep down I had to let go of her to work on me to fix, address and get rid of all of my historical suppressions. I had to pull the trigger the moment I started to display unhealthy dependant behaviours deep rooted in a place of brokenness well before her that I never fully addressed nor found strength in! I appreciate her guidance to Therapy. It's been life changing. Thank you God. It feels good to work on what you need me to fix. Your timing is right on time. You spoke and I had to listen.
This video helped me soooo much. I just broke up with an individual. Relationship was unhealthy due to the fact that I had childhood trauma and so I attracted an unhealthy attachment. I didn't recognize it until recently and this video confirmed it. He was not the right person for me. And as long as it took me 2 days ago I finally pulled the trigger. I literally feel liberated. Thank you Stephen for the work you do. 🙏🏽 🙌🏾💯❣👏🏽🌸
That was deep!💜 I feel even when we get the relationship that we need, sometimes people forget to continue connecting with The Most High☀️& our Divine Ancestors when they get it. Finding compablitiy in someone that practice healing with our Creator makes life much better on our way back to True Real Love. Healing101 💫
I have not yet healed and felt I was getting into another toxic situation..I wondered why I was seeing the same person in a different body? I am now healing and see red flags everywhere🙏
Wow! It was really mind blowing to me when you mentioned being upset with God.. that really hit my spirit. Never thought of it that way before. “Sometimes God breaks your heart to save your soul.”
I love this because I thought I didn’t need to hear this because I’m over my break up but this is much more then just for a break up; Thank you for this message!!!
Im in a season of healing and it feels amazing! Not easy but rewarding through each step of being completely healed. Thankful for your tips during my journey.
Excellent video with many great points. As painful as it is breakups almost force you in a way to look at areas of one's life that are broken and need healing. Especially, if you were stuck in a toxic relationship you have to look at the mindset of how certain situations happen. This allows you to dig deep beyond the surface and analyze the how and why of unhealthy relationships. Agree, healing is the only way to get to the root of any issue and to establish clarity on the range of emotions. Taking time to heal does allow you to put the focus back on you, getting closer to God and walking in your purpose. Once we began the process of falling in love with ourselves when the right one comes along they will find it easy to fall in love with a healed and happy person. Thank you for the insightful video. Keep in pursuit of excellence always. Blessings and abundance to you always.
As man who just got out of a relationship this hits home very blessed to find this information you are a true blessing brother it's hard but I know it will all work out wasn't a bad relationship at all she was 5 years older then me and I just wasn't ready and didn't know how to handle her thanks brother
I almost went back … I spoke with someone this was the 1st time I was all the way honest the true whole story. Just by me saying it out loud for the first time. Made me realize I definitely need to move on .. I was so numb and confused and stuck. I am ready to take the steps to healing.
I just recently finished my potential relationship. I thought he was the one. He showed me kindness, love for God, has a big heart for those unfortunate people, he's respectful and other qualities I want for a godly man. I ended everything because I think it was wrong and not our time for he is a separated man. It really hurts deeply. Praying to God and listening you sir is all I need to get me through this process. God bless you always
I just broke up 5 weeks ago with the husband after 7 years life with him. After separation, as a woman I did a lot of mistakes. Because I still love him. But your video helped me a lot to sort out crazy things in my head and not to make new mistakes. Thx a lot!!!
Hi l got my relationship was fixed back again with the help of a great man my ex is back to me we loving and happily together again after many years of separation, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 48 hours.
Thank you for this video. In a relationship 20 years not divorce is being discussed. But this help me understand things much better and help through this hurting process of losing my husband and the cheating repeatedly and be blamed it my fault.
Thanks a lot man! I just ordered your book. What you said about more hurt from the past made a lot of sense. I want to get past all of it. Not that it was much, but I think you speak sense when you say some things are still lingering somewhere around in your head. Past 'semi-relationship' hurts and rejections. I know my ex girlfriend had the same things, even more hurt from the past. I knew that it would made our relationship tough, but I did not think it would have been so drastically important for our relationship. Of course there was more to us why we stopped, but then again like you said: you still miss her. I've broken up the 15th of august and I have seen her 3 times since. The first 2 times to come together and talk about things, then when she came and got her stuff. I haven't talked to her for 8 days and we agreed on the no contact rule. I've watched dozens of UA-cam videos, but this video is definitely the one who made me see clearer. Thanks a lot, I am watching for the second time now and I am going to read your book. Take care!
You know, it's amazing because for the first time, I did see a breakup as a blessing, despite the pain I saw I had mnay things to heal, and that's the reason why it didn't work and wouldn't work with anyone. And because the pain of this loss was so strong I decided to make a commitment to myself. I told myself I will heal from all the traumas that block me, so I can be ready to love and be loved, because I deserve it. And this person was so amazing and I pushed her away. I felt guilty and like I broke the relationship and now it can't be fixed. It also helps me to think that it does not mean it's forever. That one day if it's ment to be we can still get together, cause we are not ready now. And decided to focus on myself and my healing. And I realised all this before I saw your video, so when I saw it I was just 😮 Maybe it's God telling me I'm on the right path. Thank you!
my girlfriend after 7 years dumped me for another guy, the pain of a break up was painful enough but to know she went right to another guy hurt even more, been getting help from friends and family getting good advice what steps I need to take, the pain doesn’t go away still stabs you in the heart in waves, hardest thing I have ever had to endure, did not know if i could keep going to another day like this, nights are brutal thinking that she’s with him at his place now and mornings are like a nightmare that doesn’t go away when you wake up, it waits for you to wake up and instantly my chest gets a sharp pain and I come to realize it’s not just a dream, it’s reality and anxiety hits my whole body and thirs nothing I can do or take to take away this pain, turned to god and began praying like I’ve never before, it is his will I will see where I’m lead to, love to everyone that has to go through this in thir life, nothing can prepare you when you lose your first love
Stephan you give me strength. Especially now, I’m heart broken, I been through my share of relationships after my divorce 15 years ago. I never wanted to remarry until I met my soulmate, or so I thought. So many things are going on I don’t understand? Or didn’t expect from him. With your help I’m trying my hardest to stay strong. God bless you, Ty
Hi, thank you for all your youtube videos. They have been such an eye opener for me. I am 54 years old and have spend a lot of my precious time on earth in a number of toxic/failed relationships. My heart was and still is for that wholesome God given one. Your videos have helped me understand my lack of wisdom with making choices and handling my relationships. You cover all areas. I have been clueless in handling communication with any of my partners, and in return I have lost my femininity and become independent and hard. I wish I had learnt this stuff earlier - life would have alot easier. Not too late, I hope.
I don't remember writing that!! Lol😊 Sounds just like me! No way is it too late, ok!!!! I won't believe that even if I'm 80...I'm not quite there yet (just turned 50). So that means it not too late for you either. You sound like a good person and I hope this turns around for you as quick as possible. God bless you, hang in there.
Stephen, God is trying to deliver a message to me through you. I have been following you for a while and have just purchased some of your books to help with my healing. I recently listen to one of your messages the other day. So happens, this one came to me again in another way. So I know its something that I need to do. Most difantely,I need to start putting in the work. I know I'm half stepping with it. Your a Blessing to so many of us. Thank You for all You Do..This Journey is not easy at all. I'm Looking forward to all the Blessing God has for me. I just have to continue to stay the course and stay focused. Have a Great Day and Weekend Everyone 🙏🏽❤.
"Time itself does not heal." I wish I knew that 20 years ago. I'm finally doing the work to heal using EFT Tapping. Somatic therapy is really working for me better than just overthinking, rationalizing or just avoiding.
I have learned I have attachment issues from me being adopted as a baby. Everything I’ve researched about this has made sense. I have somewhat disorganized attachment and possible borderline personality disorder with narcissist traits or that’s what my two toxic narcissistic exes said about me. I don’t know my own reality but I care deeply. I’m going to do these exercises as soon as I am off the bus! Thank you so much. I love all of your videos you are a blessing, sir.
Going to a breakup right now, but I'm learning fast now by this and seeing more clearly. I will speak up that something is addressing my feelings that it now doesn't go well and talk more. It's only too late now...thank you for your wisdom. I'm sorry I am not on the same page for beliefs in God, but I am spiritual. You know you know, it's a feeling I can't describe. You talked about your holding in because you choose the individual above God. But for me, I was feeling that he was holding me back in what I'm intent and have to do I just know it's not the same path. I need to break free and need my man to be supportive, whatever that will be. And he needs a woman with more stability which is more quiet probably and less active or bubbly.
Thank you for this video Stephan! I truly appreciate you for all that you do through your videos. You are truly a blessing to so many people. May God continue to bless you🙏🏾
Thanks Stephan for dropping your knowledge and wisdom on us. Your video was on point. I can admit in my last relationship I did put him first in everything. I had lost myself in that relationship. I put a lot of stuff on hold that I should have accomplish a long time ago. But I did walk away from that relationship and I never looked back. But I can say I dont have feelings for him. I was holding a grudge towards him but I had to learn to let go and forgive. Being single is making me a better person.
It took me 8 yrs to heal from the real toxic parts of my life. And I am still healing everyday!!🙌I realized after taking my people to dinner and having conversations of the hurt they caused me face to face that they were never going to change and I needed to release them. (My own mother laughed in my face) In order for me to heal and be the best me. I see them out I say hi, but I see the hate in there faces for me. And when you realize they were sent as a counterfeit to destroy your light and you have won the battle and can heal everytime someone has wronged you. Then you are headed down the right path. But, I also need to ask for forgiveness as well so other people can heal and release me so I can complete my purpose of this life and make it to heaven.😇😇😇👼😊.....it's one of my goals
This video has helped me so much! I listened to it first yesterday morning and felt a shift around how I was navigating my recent break-up. Stephan knows just what to say. Thank you so much ❤
I'm in a relationship with the man that I don't think fully healed from his last relationship so I love him enough to let him go and deal with this situation and I just want him to know that I'm right there if you need me but I won't wait around for him when he's ready he can find it I will take it from there
Healing is definitely key! I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 My video on how to heal while you're in a relationship will be helpful to you. You can check it out here 👉ua-cam.com/video/G_Axhm1p__g/v-deo.html
I needed to hear this today, God bless everyone struggling to know their worth. God has better in store for us, if we realize this we won't hold onto things or people who are not the best for us.
I wish you were my BFF. 😅 you’ll be my go to to seriously produce a smile. Just listening to you about healing and become the best version of you gives me hope of so much happiness.
At this time or in this moment i decide myself to move on to be alone to be happy with my family to be heal at least. Even I feel trap in this page that I feel vulnerable, I will just loose them all gradually but I still remain in this page sometimes to listen at least some activity in their coaching about the principles in relationships. Only the times will bring back again whatever but I will not anymore to fell advances of my feelings or make myself to be cautious not to trap again the true feelings in me and to make sure next time to recognize first the man for being truthful or honest or whatever as a human being before I dwell with them in reality with truth. Thank you so much for letting or having me on your page and appreciate so much all advantageous approach or some productive knowledge in your activity in coaching about in relationships. Thanks in a million. stay safe always and be strong. Ok God bless to us and good morning!
I really appreciate the wisdom that you share. Just purchased your Healing after heartbreak bundle, super excited to dive into it. The price for the bundle was super affordable which is really awesome as well. Thanks so much for all you do to help others heal in a healthy way.
Relate much here Stephan... i put my husband on pedestal that i forget myself..Now i found the courage to leave to that relationship,little by little i see the reasons why i should leave..Breakup is really a blessing in disguise..Past is Past but my Future is in my Power🙂.. after my broken Marriage i keep myself busy No room for Sadness, dissapoinment and Negativity..after work i do exercise everyday, meditate and watching movies until i feel sleepy thats my way to help myself.. i love your videos..Your advice it helps me really🙂 Lovelots❤
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Every word is spot on!! The best thing I ever have done for myself is telling God exactly how and what I was feeling and felt. No matter what my truth was and is. 🕊️🕊️🙏💞
I feel like i am going to die. The pain is so unbareable. I haven't slept well in two weeks. I have lost 5kgs since then. Funny thing is, i was doing well until we spoke and he broke me. He said he wanted to reconcile over Easter, he ghosted me and spent it with his rebound. I was willing to work things out and he broke me!! I have been crying since, i broke down in the gym. I am tired of crying. I feel like i am grieving all over again. I can't work on anything. I need it to stop!!!!
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Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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True, 12 years together, 5 years married.. cheat on me been so long I did know coz I trust him... more pain, hurt, struggling everyday 😪 😢
It went on for 14 yrs,I knew it wasn't working but I still stayed,I blame me,and now suffering for it..
1. Recognize that the breakup was necessary.
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Yes. It was necesario
Powerful.."that breakup was necessary to get things in proper order with God " hit home. Thank you
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Amen
I’ve been depressed from my breakup for two weeks straight. I’m 46 and ready to throw in the towel on relationships. This video is motivating me though. I love to cook, clean, listen to music and workout. I’ve gotta get myself happy again. I’ve endured enough heartbreak in my life . I’m not looking for love I’m Looking to be happy 😩😩🥺🥺
Me to it hurts keep your head up it'll get better
I'm also 46. And just broke up with someone.
I believe he wanted me to break up with him because he didn't have the guts to, wasn't man enough, and wanted to leave feeling like he's a good guy.
I'm disappointed with alot of people and my life.
Firstly I'm disappointed with myself. I'm disappointed that I've not loved, valued, or respected myself my entire life. I'm disappointed in God, my parents, family, friends, and all my previous partners.
Since the breakup, I've been in such a dark, horrible place. Not necessarily because of him though more because it's another disappointment I have to get over, move on from, and heal.
I feel totally burnt out, empty, and some days numb. All this fighting, discovering, healing and understanding is both mentally and physically draining.
God said it's not right for man to be alone then why is so many of us alone. Sad, unhappy, unfulfilled, and neglected.
Purpose, everyone talks about it like it's a given we all have one. I've given up trying to figure out what mine is.
The only thing that is guaranteed is death. We will eventually all die.
So maybe waiting for the enviable is my new strategy because giving all of you to people no matter who they are and you getting nothing back is to soul destroying to keep doing it.
@@nataledominigrant6985 praying for you friend. As someone similar to yourself I wouldn’t suggest you shut yourself off from everything and everyone. Hopefully you have job that can distract you. I’ve been working more hours but I’m still comparing our horoscopes mind you I work with him from time to time. I’m a happy person I just became very introverted because of like you said so much disappointment in people 🙏🏾👍🏾
I was not in love!!!! It was an unhealthy attachment. Thank you 🙏🏻
I’m with you
It's like someone passed away. A heartache is the worse hurt in the world. I think I need a break then I worry about him finding someone that he thinks is better than me.
How are u?
I said the same thing it felt like a death.
Not good....just taking it day by day thanks for asking
I’m feeling that way right now. I’ve been in bed crying for the past 2 days. Haven’t eaten and all I want to do is sleep so I don’t have to feel this.
I’ve been going through it for two months and it feels like it’s getting worse!
He blocked me so I'm not bothering him anymore. I cried twice now I'm moving on and working on loving myself not dating anyone for a long time. The right guy will find me when the time is right.
For me, staying out of relationships does help me and a man doesn't make me. I can heal without a man coming into my life for me to heal.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I can get qover a bad relationship, but, he hasn't gotten over me and wants me back. I went through four other bad relationships once I alert my children dad 22 years ago. Those relationships didn't last more than five months because of how they were and they all cheated on me.
I'm not trying to get back with any of my ex boyfriend because I don't go back wards and I just move forward. I'm already talking to someone that I've been talking to for a year on July 3.
This is so true.....Hurt people hurt people and also choose hurt people.......as well as Free people free people and choose free people. Heal so you can make better choices. Great session.
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Absolutely a breakup from the wrong one can & will bless your life tremendously & refocus your life back on track to the blessings God had always had in store for you if you allow Him to guide you ❤️
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God never hurts us ,, He gracefully breaks us🙏🏽
Absolutely!
"That which bends can never break"
God is molding us into what we have to become
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I broke up with him and blocked him and now I’m over here watching videos to help me not act on my emotions by calling 😫🤦🏽♀️
I'm so thankful for you Stephan. I'm going through a tough break up where she went into a new relationship within a couple months and rubbed it in my face in a harsh, cold way, is now ignoring me when she sees me and it crushed me. Your videos continue to pull me back from the edge and refocus me. Thank God for your gifts brother ♥️🙌
First off…fuck that person trying to make a dollar off your emotional trauma ^ and second dude I feel you. Just broke up with my girl about 2 weeks ago and she’s been stringing me along not really giving me anything while I’ve been pouring into her. Pretty sure she’s already hooked up with someone else too but fuck it. We deserve better and there’s better out there for us. Just focus on you brother, level up and work through your own trauma. The right woman will see that you’ve done the work, appreciate you and love you for it! Good luck dude stay strong 💪🏻
I feel your pain. The girl strung me along for months after the break-up, just to post her hugged up with her new dude. Then she unfriended me and ignored my calls, why do they do this smh lol
@drogramadanjohnson1061 The girl like her have no self-esteem. Don't worry her time will come.
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Good advice to that person. I hope you have a new and happy relationship, too.
So hard to let him go, even when I know he was never the one for me
How did long did it take for u to feel better? I know its 2yrs old lol but thats even better
I had an unhealthy attachment to my sons father. I knew I was no longer IN love with him after he cheated on me the first time. I took him back for three reasons:
My Mother instilled that women are only truly a wife to the person she lost her virginity to. She will only be a concubine to any other man after that.
2. We had a child together
3. I didn't want to be the bad guy because he'd always guilt trip me.
The best thing he did was get his hussy pregnant. That was the one unforgivable offense that he could have committed that could allow me to freely walk away. 😌
Thank you for sharing, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks hmmm... better... more tailored 😏 I have healed. Thank you.
Sending love... strong woman
It is happened to me two weeks ago I lose my beautiful daughter another one on the way six month it was sad he was so sad as you move another state so I need to heal😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I’m so sad I lose my beautiful daughter another on the way and she moves another state😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 l need heal Give me a good advice I can move on
This is the 1st day of my breakup. I am confused and sad. I going to stay focused and positive on the betterment of my life in every capacity. These tips are great and implementation starts TODAY! Thank you 🙏🏿
Same situation as you sad and confused it’s just been 2 weeks . I’m feeling like he’s moved on already I’m just hurting
How are things now?
@@akomeyam Hey Sis, First I want to say thank you for wondering about my mental health and how things are going thus far. I’m good. I’ve lost 39 lbs thus far and just taking small steps in being the best I can be…. How are you?
@@myrapagett6210 It gets better just hang in there😘 It will pass you are stronger than you know❣️💐💐💐
This is my first day. I feel like he targets woman but still want to know how you are doing now? Will this get better?
I almost give up dreams to save a relationship nothing I give up was gonna work for him to commit but after we broke up I returned to God, started eating healthy, go to therapy, travel and go out with my friends and workout... He was controlling, jealous....The quarantine was necessary it affected my self esteem but I didn't let it turn into depression it lasted 3 years it has been 5 months after I ended for good....somedays I wonder if I could have done more then I realize I did every single thing in my power to save it ....I havent heard from him but I know I did the right thing
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
I love your advice today!🤗 Are looking so handsome to like always.
I am taking full advantage of the breakup and I want to be healed. I have more life behind me than in front of me (that's a nice way to say I'm older); however, I knew that it should have never happened, and I want to stop repeating the same (mistake) lessoned finally learned.
The blessing is that you learned your lesson, and you’ll be better off at it 😊
I loved this man with everything that I am, he was my best friend and all. I'm hurting so so bad 😭😭😭 just wish he respected what we had.
I asked God to help us in our relationship and not long after we decided to break up, it was a extremely hard time for me but I’ve gotten better and it honestly pushed me to start focusing on myself and fighting for the life I want to achieve. I’ve grown a lot in these few months after the breakup. I believe this was God trying to help us be ready for each other when the time comes. I think about him everyday and pray that he is also doing well and healing too. I really believe he’s the one for me but unfortunately life got in the way and maybe we have to go thru different paths before we can be with each other again. I’m just letting God lead me there.
Going through the same situation 😢 Keep swimming. God’s got us ❤
Let them be what they are memories, good, bad, or indifferent memories; so you don't make the same mistake twice; until it's time to move, on smooches everybody
Really needed this. Lord knows I have been struggling emotionally and mentally with accepting the breakup. Listening and absorbing this message has really given me hope that better days are ahead of me. Thank you
Hang in there dear ❤
I am struggling terribly also. Heartache is devastating.
Esp when you realize that person didn’t love you like you thought.
I feel the same right now, couldn't think straight emotionally & mentally I'm exhausted😪
LOVE heals the heart and the fastest and best way of healing comes from loving yourself.
Wow Stephen!!! This really helped me. This is a year since my husband left me and were divorced now but I needed this today. I praise God for the gift he has graced you with. You did this session JUST FOR ME!!!! My healing was happening as I was watching this. Oh how He loves me! Again thank you!
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I can help you to connect to someone who helped me to Attract my husband back to me after separation..
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It's amazing that we can blame God for our choices and decisions that we made ourselves. This is the perfect example of projecting instead of reflecting on our own issues. Identifying and admitting that we have a problem within ourselves is the first step to healing. You are in the spirit with this teaching today brother. 🙏💪
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“The reality is, when you haven’t healed, you are 99% likely to choose the wrong person” AMEN
I'm having trouble with my recent break up so this was desperately needed! Thank you 💗
Glad I could help!
I Concur! I have literally zipped a body bag over my mother and that wasn’t as hard as deciding not to go back! I think the biggest epiphany for me is that he never changed but I did! Nobody ever taught me how to leave when I was still in love OR leave when he was trying but the damage was already done! So these videos are therapeutic
@@monalisasmiles1978 how are you today?
This is probably the best break up advice video I have seen.
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
You've helped me to recover from 2 narcissist husband's. I do forgive but will never forget. Thanks Stephan.
You seriously have no idea how many people you have probably helped, including me 🙏 You are a blessing
Being able to let go of anything/anyone when God says is POWERFUL!! PROPER order is so key! Thank You for these gems!
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This breakup is a blessing. This breakup is a blessing. I’m going to just keep telling myself that.
This was perfect. I’m going through the pain right now. It was just right person, wrong time.
Glad I could help!
Great video, I am learning how to heal from a guy who never even loved me.
Words don't speak actions do.
His actions were toxic, painful.
I'm gonna learn how to get better, not bitter...
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Message him on Whatsapp
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I think in the long run the healing starts when you can forgive yourself for your mistakes and the mistakes of others take accountability for everything, I am learning this step by step.. maybe its from simply watching your videos..😉
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thanks for the words of wisdom 🙏
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How do you know when it’s right person wrong time?
Lost my lover of 25 years and I'm so desperate but I watching this video its helping me. I keep telling myself this " that person its gone, you need to accept the loss, be a better person and reach some goals"
I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine what it would be like. Just the thought of it is terrifying. Hope you can heal from it.
That breakup made me found you ❤️ thank you for your knowledge
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Thanks for your guidance I now really understand why you said that a break up can be a blessing in disguise 🤗🙌🏾
Loved her but I knew deep down I had to let go of her to work on me to fix, address and get rid of all of my historical suppressions. I had to pull the trigger the moment I started to display unhealthy dependant behaviours deep rooted in a place of brokenness well before her that I never fully addressed nor found strength in! I appreciate her guidance to Therapy. It's been life changing. Thank you God. It feels good to work on what you need me to fix. Your timing is right on time. You spoke and I had to listen.
This video helped me soooo much. I just broke up with an individual. Relationship was unhealthy due to the fact that I had childhood trauma and so I attracted an unhealthy attachment. I didn't recognize it until recently and this video confirmed it. He was not the right person for me. And as long as it took me 2 days ago I finally pulled the trigger. I literally feel liberated. Thank you Stephen for the work you do. 🙏🏽 🙌🏾💯❣👏🏽🌸
I'm happy this has been helpful to you ❤
That was deep!💜 I feel even when we get the relationship that we need, sometimes people forget to continue connecting with The Most High☀️& our Divine Ancestors when they get it. Finding compablitiy in someone that practice healing with our Creator makes life much better on our way back to True Real Love. Healing101 💫
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I have not yet healed and felt I was getting into another toxic situation..I wondered why I was seeing the same person in a different body? I am now healing and see red flags everywhere🙏
Healing is definitely key and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!
Realizing it’s a blessing
Exactly what my cousins were saying
God help me accept and get through this
Wow! It was really mind blowing to me when you mentioned being upset with God.. that really hit my spirit. Never thought of it that way before. “Sometimes God breaks your heart to save your soul.”
I love this because I thought I didn’t need to hear this because I’m over my break up but this is much more then just for a break up; Thank you for this message!!!
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I can help you to connect to someone who helped me to Attract my husband back to me after separation..
What'szapp him
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Im in a season of healing and it feels amazing! Not easy but rewarding through each step of being completely healed. Thankful for your tips during my journey.
I'm happy to help and I pray that you heal from all you have been through 🙏
Excellent video with many great points. As painful as it is breakups almost force you in a way to look at areas of one's life that are broken and need healing. Especially, if you were stuck in a toxic relationship you have to look at the mindset of how certain situations happen. This allows you to dig deep beyond the surface and analyze the how and why of unhealthy relationships. Agree, healing is the only way to get to the root of any issue and to establish clarity on the range of emotions. Taking time to heal does allow you to put the focus back on you, getting closer to God and walking in your purpose. Once we began the process of falling in love with ourselves when the right one comes along they will find it easy to fall in love with a healed and happy person. Thank you for the insightful video. Keep in pursuit of excellence always. Blessings and abundance to you always.
I know this video was two years old but I needed it today! Thanks Stephan
As man who just got out of a relationship this hits home very blessed to find this information you are a true blessing brother it's hard but I know it will all work out wasn't a bad relationship at all she was 5 years older then me and I just wasn't ready and didn't know how to handle her thanks brother
Never a disappointment when I watch your videos. ❤️
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I almost went back … I spoke with someone this was the 1st time I was all the way honest the true whole story. Just by me saying it out loud for the first time. Made me realize I definitely need to move on .. I was so numb and confused and stuck. I am ready to take the steps to healing.
I just recently finished my potential relationship. I thought he was the one. He showed me kindness, love for God, has a big heart for those unfortunate people, he's respectful and other qualities I want for a godly man. I ended everything because I think it was wrong and not our time for he is a separated man. It really hurts deeply. Praying to God and listening you sir is all I need to get me through this process. God bless you always
❤ 🙂 Thank you, I pray that you heal and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you so much good sir! I pray as well for you to have God's abundance in your life 🙏😊💖
I need to write it! I feel pure love when I'm watching your videos. Just pure love. Got your books, thank you for everything you do to help people!
❤ Thank you very much I appreciate that and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
I just broke up 5 weeks ago with the husband after 7 years life with him. After separation, as a woman I did a lot of mistakes. Because I still love him. But your video helped me a lot to sort out crazy things in my head and not to make new mistakes. Thx a lot!!!
Stronger, wiser, better!! Thank you.
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I'm trying to found my self because I'm dealing with a unhealthy attachment and leasing to this is been open my eyes more and more.
I am not okay. I wasn’t healed and fumbled a good relationship 😖💔 I just pray God will allow us to heal and that he’ll come back into my life
Hi l got my relationship was fixed back again with the help of a great man my ex is back to me we loving and happily together again after many years of separation, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 48 hours.
He was the one who helped me restoring back my ex 3 days ago without delay 🌹🌹
Thank you for this video. In a relationship 20 years not divorce is being discussed. But this help me understand things much better and help through this hurting process of losing my husband and the cheating repeatedly and be blamed it my fault.
Thanks a lot man! I just ordered your book. What you said about more hurt from the past made a lot of sense. I want to get past all of it. Not that it was much, but I think you speak sense when you say some things are still lingering somewhere around in your head. Past 'semi-relationship' hurts and rejections. I know my ex girlfriend had the same things, even more hurt from the past. I knew that it would made our relationship tough, but I did not think it would have been so drastically important for our relationship. Of course there was more to us why we stopped, but then again like you said: you still miss her. I've broken up the 15th of august and I have seen her 3 times since. The first 2 times to come together and talk about things, then when she came and got her stuff. I haven't talked to her for 8 days and we agreed on the no contact rule. I've watched dozens of UA-cam videos, but this video is definitely the one who made me see clearer. Thanks a lot, I am watching for the second time now and I am going to read your book. Take care!
You know, it's amazing because for the first time, I did see a breakup as a blessing, despite the pain I saw I had mnay things to heal, and that's the reason why it didn't work and wouldn't work with anyone. And because the pain of this loss was so strong I decided to make a commitment to myself. I told myself I will heal from all the traumas that block me, so I can be ready to love and be loved, because I deserve it. And this person was so amazing and I pushed her away. I felt guilty and like I broke the relationship and now it can't be fixed. It also helps me to think that it does not mean it's forever. That one day if it's ment to be we can still get together, cause we are not ready now. And decided to focus on myself and my healing. And I realised all this before I saw your video, so when I saw it I was just 😮 Maybe it's God telling me I'm on the right path. Thank you!
I just realized most of women go through a lot yet we’re so Strong..
Your videos really helped a lot Thank you so much 👏May God bless you
❤ 🙂 Thank you very much I appreciate your feedback and may God bless you as well!
my girlfriend after 7 years dumped me for another guy, the pain of a break up was painful enough but to know she went right to another guy hurt even more, been getting help from friends and family getting good advice what steps I need to take, the pain doesn’t go away still stabs you in the heart in waves, hardest thing I have ever had to endure, did not know if i could keep going to another day like this, nights are brutal thinking that she’s with him at his place now and mornings are like a nightmare that doesn’t go away when you wake up, it waits for you to wake up and instantly my chest gets a sharp pain and I come to realize it’s not just a dream, it’s reality and anxiety hits my whole body and thirs nothing I can do or take to take away this pain, turned to god and began praying like I’ve never before, it is his will I will see where I’m lead to, love to everyone that has to go through this in thir life, nothing can prepare you when you lose your first love
Hope you are feeling better by now. You won't forget but it does get better
Stephan you give me strength. Especially now, I’m heart broken, I been through my share of relationships after my divorce 15 years ago. I never wanted to remarry until I met my soulmate, or so I thought. So many things are going on I don’t understand? Or didn’t expect from him. With your help I’m trying my hardest to stay strong. God bless you, Ty
Hi, thank you for all your youtube videos. They have been such an eye opener for me. I am 54 years old and have spend a lot of my precious time on earth in a number of toxic/failed relationships. My heart was and still is for that wholesome God given one. Your videos have helped me understand my lack of wisdom with making choices and handling my relationships. You cover all areas. I have been clueless in handling communication with any of my partners, and in return I have lost my femininity and become independent and hard. I wish I had learnt this stuff earlier - life would have alot easier. Not too late, I hope.
I don't remember writing that!! Lol😊
Sounds just like me!
No way is it too late, ok!!!! I won't believe that even if I'm 80...I'm not quite there yet (just turned 50). So that means it not too late for you either. You sound like a good person and I hope this turns around for you as quick as possible. God bless you, hang in there.
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Amen holy ghost keep speaking through Stephan. This was awesome. Blessings 🙏🏾🙏🏾
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
Stephen,
God is trying to deliver a message to me through you. I have been following you for a while and have just purchased some of your books to help with my healing. I recently listen to one of your messages the other day. So happens, this one came to me again in another way. So I know its something that I need to do. Most difantely,I need to start putting in the work. I know I'm half stepping with it. Your a Blessing to so many of us. Thank You for all You Do..This Journey is not easy at all. I'm Looking forward to all the Blessing God has for me. I just have to continue to stay the course and stay focused. Have a Great Day and Weekend Everyone 🙏🏽❤.
Thank you for sharing and may you have a great day and weekend as well!
"Time itself does not heal." I wish I knew that 20 years ago. I'm finally doing the work to heal using EFT Tapping. Somatic therapy is really working for me better than just overthinking, rationalizing or just avoiding.
In my situation, it never meant to be.
Dude, the “aha” moments this video gave me. Thank you. 🙏
Just walking away now,painful,but ready to work within,ready to get on the path I desire
I needed to hear this I'm going through a breakup from the first love of my life who was my first everything.. thank you
Glad I could help!
I have learned I have attachment issues from me being adopted as a baby. Everything I’ve researched about this has made sense. I have somewhat disorganized attachment and possible borderline personality disorder with narcissist traits or that’s what my two toxic narcissistic exes said about me. I don’t know my own reality but I care deeply. I’m going to do these exercises as soon as I am off the bus! Thank you so much. I love all of your videos you are a blessing, sir.
Going to a breakup right now, but I'm learning fast now by this and seeing more clearly. I will speak up that something is addressing my feelings that it now doesn't go well and talk more. It's only too late now...thank you for your wisdom.
I'm sorry I am not on the same page for beliefs in God, but I am spiritual. You know you know, it's a feeling I can't describe. You talked about your holding in because you choose the individual above God. But for me, I was feeling that he was holding me back in what I'm intent and have to do I just know it's not the same path. I need to break free and need my man to be supportive, whatever that will be. And he needs a woman with more stability which is more quiet probably and less active or bubbly.
Thank you for the video Stephan. I did pull the trigger because I felt it was necessary but I feel so lost
It’s so hard but I did the right thing. He knows where I’m at, when he’s ready.
thank u u really don't know how much this video save my confusion
Thank you for this video Stephan! I truly appreciate you for all that you do through your videos. You are truly a blessing to so many people. May God continue to bless you🙏🏾
😢😢😢 when I was accused of things I never done that's what hurts
Thanks Stephan for dropping your knowledge and wisdom on us. Your video was on point. I can admit in my last relationship I did put him first in everything. I had lost myself in that relationship. I put a lot of stuff on hold that I should have accomplish a long time ago. But I did walk away from that relationship and I never looked back. But I can say I dont have feelings for him. I was holding a grudge towards him but I had to learn to let go and forgive. Being single is making me a better person.
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I left my phuysically abuse person 2 weeks ago and Im just going up and down with my feelings towards him. I really thank God that I found this.
It took me 8 yrs to heal from the real toxic parts of my life. And I am still healing everyday!!🙌I realized after taking my people to dinner and having conversations of the hurt they caused me face to face that they were never going to change and I needed to release them. (My own mother laughed in my face) In order for me to heal and be the best me. I see them out I say hi, but I see the hate in there faces for me. And when you realize they were sent as a counterfeit to destroy your light and you have won the battle and can heal everytime someone has wronged you. Then you are headed down the right path. But, I also need to ask for forgiveness as well so other people can heal and release me so I can complete my purpose of this life and make it to heaven.😇😇😇👼😊.....it's one of my goals
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that.
Thank for this! I am hurting right now and I feel comfortable and optimistic listening to you. Thank you again!
This video has helped me so much! I listened to it first yesterday morning and felt a shift around how I was navigating my recent break-up. Stephan knows just what to say. Thank you so much ❤
I'm in a relationship with the man that I don't think fully healed from his last relationship so I love him enough to let him go and deal with this situation and I just want him to know that I'm right there if you need me but I won't wait around for him when he's ready he can find it I will take it from there
Healing is definitely key! I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 My video on how to heal while you're in a relationship will be helpful to you. You can check it out here 👉ua-cam.com/video/G_Axhm1p__g/v-deo.html
I'm not in a relationship but I felt that .
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
Love to hear you speak. Thank you. You are a beautiful soul helping so many of us. 🥰
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
This is very profound here Stephan!
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Your advice released my confusion 👏🏽
Glad I could help!
I needed to hear this today, God bless everyone struggling to know their worth. God has better in store for us, if we realize this we won't hold onto things or people who are not the best for us.
I wish you were my BFF. 😅 you’ll be my go to to seriously produce a smile. Just listening to you about healing and become the best version of you gives me hope of so much happiness.
At this time or in this moment i decide myself to move on to be alone to be happy with my family to be heal at least. Even I feel trap in this page that I feel vulnerable, I will just loose them all gradually but I still remain in this page sometimes to listen at least some activity in their coaching about the principles in relationships. Only the times will bring back again whatever but I will not anymore to fell advances of my feelings or make myself to be cautious not to trap again the true feelings in me and to make sure next time to recognize first the man for being truthful or honest or whatever as a human being before I dwell with them in reality with truth. Thank you so much for letting or having me on your page and appreciate so much all advantageous approach or some productive knowledge in your activity in coaching about in relationships. Thanks in a million. stay safe always and be strong. Ok God bless to us and good morning!
I really appreciate the wisdom that you share.
Just purchased your Healing after heartbreak bundle, super excited to dive into it. The price for the bundle was super affordable which is really awesome as well.
Thanks so much for all you do to help others heal in a healthy way.
Relate much here Stephan... i put my husband on pedestal that i forget myself..Now i found the courage to leave to that relationship,little by little i see the reasons why i should leave..Breakup is really a blessing in disguise..Past is Past but my Future is in my Power🙂.. after my broken Marriage i keep myself busy No room for Sadness, dissapoinment and Negativity..after work i do exercise everyday, meditate and watching movies until i feel sleepy thats my way to help myself.. i love your videos..Your advice it helps me really🙂 Lovelots❤
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Every video I watch, every text I receive speaks to me in some way. Though I am who I am. I am currently healing from a breakup. Thank you.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Message him on Whatsapp
Now I feel better in myself and I'm back on track.
Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing!
"You were in a wrong relationship to begin with.".... yah true!
Every word is spot on!! The best thing I ever have done for myself is telling God exactly how and what I was feeling and felt. No matter what my truth was and is. 🕊️🕊️🙏💞
Glad I ran across this…I am so sad
Im.more hurt that i didnt pull the trigger instead showed more love and spoke life into him
I feel like i am going to die. The pain is so unbareable. I haven't slept well in two weeks. I have lost 5kgs since then. Funny thing is, i was doing well until we spoke and he broke me. He said he wanted to reconcile over Easter, he ghosted me and spent it with his rebound.
I was willing to work things out and he broke me!! I have been crying since, i broke down in the gym. I am tired of crying.
I feel like i am grieving all over again. I can't work on anything. I need it to stop!!!!