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I thought i was doing well last night, but i woke up this morning and i have never felt this type of pain before, my chest is so heavy, I’m shaking, and feel like throwing up.... idk what to do anymore
I've had it where I don't even get 3 seconds... I literally wake up from a dream I was having about her and then she just continues to be on my mind from there on out for the rest of the day. After a month it's still insanely painful
Yes I can find some peace while I'm sleeping then I wake up and it's like slap to my face all over again. I sweat in panic thinking over and over. How do we move on?
Ladies, the first step in moving on is to make that painful decision to move on. Allow yourself to go through that grieving process... there really are more people out there that will be a much better fit!
Going from the routine of talking/texting every day, seeing one another often, to suddenly and abruptly not ... That's always been the hardest part for me to adjust to.
I have not yet terminated the relationship, however I already feel a partial amputation. I havent cried so hard, for so many hours/days for over 25 yrs. I never want to feel a mans negative, unhealthy drama again. I need peace, not a mans love.
@@dianeferre1273 I just had a major fight with my boyfriend. This is also the first time he didn't talk to me for a whole day until I reached out and he was cruel and cold in a way I've never seen before. I love him so much but it hurts so much. I just feel so tired, shocked, and betrayed. Truly the ones you love can hurt you the most.
5 years… it wasn’t cheating… it wasn’t a huge fight… it was just she thought it was best for both of us to try to find happiness elsewhere before we tried to make another person happy… I’m in shreds
If you’re reading through these comments. Trying to gather your life back together after someone’s ripped a chunk of your heart away. I hope you’re healing and that life brings you so much happiness. I’m on day 2 of the worst heartbreak I’ve ever felt. We got this
@@SilentVi3wer if it helps, i was broken up with in jan, blindsided completely, lost 12 lbs, fell into deep depression. But 3-4 months later I wS able to recover 90% and 5 months later i recovered fully. Its not as bad as i thought, it took way less time than i thought. And now I can honestly say that it was probably the best thing thats ever happened to me!
@@annie_cbn hey! Im glad everything worked out for you. I’m feeling a lot better now. I’ve been jus focusing on myself and my craft. It’s honestly a blessing and a disguise. Having a mindset that it’s going to get better really help
@@SilentVi3wer I’m in a very awkward situation now. We needed up getting back together. But I’m starting to think it’s more of a trauma bond than anything else
I knew we weren’t for each other but I wanted to hold on because at times I was really happy even though I was hurting. He left me and I didn’t have to strength to leave. Now I’m trying to cope with the fact that It is really over.
Saddest comment section ever.. Hugs everyone we will get through this. Update: I remember writing this and I was in so much pain, it gets better guys the pain is gone and I'm good now.
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@@luxxy209 it's not the end of the world but it feels like it , it's hard to breathe ... Like you're physically hurting and there's no one to hold you and the only person who used to make you feel better or could deal with you being upset or low is now not within reach .
I'm going up and down. One minute I'm fine, the next I'm pissed off, the next I feel like crying. Is hard especially when you've genually loved a person and they hurt you deeply. I'm a man. Tougher than a lot of people but she made me cry. Everyone hurting, you're not alone. Thanks for sharing everyone.
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Never thought this would happen to me. It’s been 3 days and I can’t stop crying. Can’t eat or sleep. It hurts so much more grieving over someone who’s still alive
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Sometimes I feel like I’m making progress and getting somewhere. Then suddenly something triggers a memory, like a song or place I drive by, and it all comes back along with a flood of grief over it. I just wish I could turn off my memories when it comes to him😞
Olivia Dobre knowing sleep will help the pain just to wake up and think “damn , it wasn’t a dream this is real and it’s happening” so now I rather not sleep Cause thinking it wasn’t real almost puts me back at square 1
I can relate to it so bad. I’m in a point where I wake up and the first thing I feel is a pain in the chest for knowing that we’ll never be together again.
I had a dream that we were on a call, we used to always sleep on the phone. In my dream I barely woke up and he told me “Madison I love you, I’m sorry about all of this” it felt so real... it hurts so badly
To everyone feeling pain after a breakup, here’s a tip from my experience: YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT. Keep busy, express gratitude for other aspects of your life and one day you won’t feel a thing about them. Better days are ahead.
@@donalgraeme I’m sorry that you’re not feeling your best. I hope you can reach out to someone to talk to because it will help purge the sadness. Humans are programmed to survive, and you will get through the tough days. Just take it slowly and it’s okay to be sad. Just observe your emotions and grab any positive memory you can. Think of any hardship from the past for yourself or people around you and how they overcame it in the end. You’re stronger than you think.
@@donalgraeme I wish you all the best. It’s okay to have ups and downs in life. Enjoy the highs and hold your ground on low days, knowing that they’re temporary. Write down positive things you want to materialize for you and leave it in the hands of the universe to make them happen. Example “I live the life I want. I am happy for my … “. It will help you visualize your dreams come true. That’s a first step. I wish all good things to come to you 🙏🏻
It should feel good that your experience is shared and the same as so many others. It would be worse to be having an experience that nobody else could share, experience or understand. No?
I'm so sorry you have to grieve your relationship now when there is so much craziness going on. I use evidence based research to do free break up coaching- feel free to DM me @ditchwdallas
4 years of relationship gone to dust in just a week. Hurts so bad. The comments here are ridiculously accurate on how it feels: it's the morning after waking up that kills you, full of rumination. Every morning feels like you are back to square one.
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There's not unlimited options of compatible partners for everyone. So no, there doesn't necessarily have to be someone else out there, and even if there is, the likelihood that you will meet them is very, very small.
@@eskil2980 Yes. Well it's all in your Attitude. Law of Attraction. If you believe you will meet your Soulmate you will. If you don't believe...you won't.
Dealing with a breakup in quarantine. I feel so hopeless, I have no one to talk to about it. I thought he was going to be my future. I feel so lost now...
I feel you. My wife and I just broke up too. I have never thought about living my life without her. I do feel lost too. I see no future happiness in my life. I hope you get better.
Dealing with a breakup during quarantine is the worst. It’s like you have no option to make new memories. You slip into just replaying the past, replaying the memories with them and not being able to have any hope for the future.
You know when you’re pretty sure your relationship is over and you have no one to talk to about it and you have to search UA-cam for some sort of solace. Yeah that.
The worst part for me is the memories...one moment I know its for the best but then I start crying because I still love her and what we had...this is by far the worst pain I've ever experienced
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The hardest thing is when the relationship is over, you’re still in love with the other person, and you’re trying to get over it but there were no bad things in the relationship beside bad timing. I almost wish he just cheated on me so I could hate him to move on.
Yes I have the same. Just because we wanted different things in a relationship and because we have different ideas for the future, we split up last week after being together for 3,5 years.. :( It is really hard since I almost only have good memories of us and I still think he is a great guy
a little fun update: I found out that he hooked up with my best friend of 5+ years months after it happened. It was after we had broken up but still... never thought either of them would do that... they both were planing on never telling me. Safe to say I’ve moved on from both of them! Cut toxic ppl out!! 🥰🥰
It hurts so bad to dream about so much, about marriage, children, vacations and see it all to turn into ashes. A person who was the closest on earth to you, in matter of minutes of last painful phone call becoming a stranger. UPDATE: Havent spoke to her since september 23rd(Today is October 29th). Havent texted her anything at all since october 3rd. Basically No contact works very well. No contact allowed me to go over the suffering, let the emotions cool down and currently realize that the girl I was dating was 40% my imagination. I loved who I wish she would be. She never fitted me, that's why it was abusive- constant arguments and drama. Well, thats an experience, I suggest everyone to follow no contact rule because it helps a lot. Another update(june 17th): Memories hunt me sometimes and I miss her, but I feel much better.
Those dreams are still alive, just you get choose who will be in them with you. View it as an exciting opportunity to create the best future for yourself.
@@jasoni8119 YES! I left this comment 4 days ago and was at like last stages of my depression because for me it's been 2months of long distance relationship/slow, painful break up(high school sweetheart onto college...), but now I moved on gradually to realizing that I miss the person I wish she had been, rather than her. We would constantly argue, so yeah, you are absolutely right!
I'm only 4 days in, trying to be positive. Be kind to yourself. Focus on you. I already forgive her and myself for what happened. Holding on the resentment will hold me back. It still hurts.. Yes. But it's okay for it too hurt. She choose to end it, I can't control that. But I can control what I do with myself now. No contact. Grieve when I need too. Go to the gym, see friends, walk, etc. I am also figuring out my flaws.. No one is perfect. I am seeing a therapist to talk everything through. I don't want to go through the same stuff in my next relationship. In every situation, try and do what is right for your mind and body.
@@jasoni8119 Man, I feel you so much! Dont worry about forgiving, you have the right not to unless you cheated or did something certainly "unacceptable". If you tried all you could, you fought and loved her, and she still ended it, dont even bother about it. Of course its painful, but Im telling you, 2 months ago I thought I wouldnt be able to live without her, now I am way too excited to meet a new girl that will appreciate me much more for who I am instead of looking for ways to cause arguments. First 2weeks will be the hardest, but it will go away soon. So dont worry. And dont blame yourself, analyze your behavior/flaws, but do not allow yourself to take all the blame, girls tend to convince guys that its all their fault, so dont fall into that!
Just want to say to anyone that needs to hear this. I went through a break up last year and thought my whole world was collapsing. Spent weeks watching videos like this non stop. Ive just found out she is engaged to another person and i dont feel anything. I have literally never been happier. Trust me. It gets better. Take each day as it comes and things will get better. Much love Ryan
so true i’ve been watching so many videos like this too but ive been reading the comments of this for some hope. thank you ryan for coming back and sharing your hope with us that it gets better and i will feel happy again
@@melissagreene6960 after 4 years of such a happy relationship I had to spend 2 months away from him and now he doesn't feel the same way. It hurts so much, I thought I was going to marry this guy. It's so unfair he let distance hurt such a beautiful relationship. I'm emotionally and physically sick. I don't know what to do.
I'm in the same boat rn. Abusive cheating lying ...stayed a year and a half longer than I should have and now I find it so gut wrenching ... i wish I left sooner
@@Gregair13 The thoughts of both not being loved and not falling in love with someone depends on the person and how they let the break up effect them. Both scenarios can be solved. But the idea of not being loved is probably the reason most guys/girls run back to their ex the moment he/she contacts them
I nees help. I broke up with my gf cuz she seemes so bored of me I didnt want to be a hurdle. Now she is always making me feel bad because we are in the same class. Help
@@fastmeansoftransportation2719 if you left because she stopped making effort because she was "bored" don't even bother man, let her do whatever she wants and you just focus on improving yourself everyday. Ignore her, and focus on yourself and your future. I've been through the same when i was younger man
These words made me overcome the break up: 1. Nothing is permanent 2. People & feelings changed 3. If someone made you feel UNIMPORTANT, leave his/her life SILENTLY Its not easy, but you will overcome.
Or just take 3 years to work on yourself and then start dating again. You can get over that person because ultimately we're just souls that are attracted to each other because we have a physical body.
@@yveltal6474 it sucks bc idk, we had such a strong bond, idk what went wrong, after she moved to a new state everything went downhill, she wasnt even there for almost a week and she wanted to end it so abruptly, i just feel a little numb lol :(,, but thank you, i really appreciate it 😔
I feel so heartbroken to have to end things with my ex. We both knew it was what we needed. I love this quote: “You cannot suddenly stop loving someone. But you can slowly start learning to live without them.”
Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my wife after three(3) years of marriage just because another Man had a spell on her and she left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a man had a spell on my wife and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my wife back. I never believed him until today when my wife came pleading with me that she is sorry for everything, i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my wife.
Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my wife after three(3) years of marriage just because another Man had a spell on her and she left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a man had a spell on my wife and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my wife back. I never believed him until today when my wife came pleading with me that she is sorry for everything, i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my wife.
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@@dalymarithe3381 Thank you but he hasn’t left. We been together 16yrs. We have 3 kids and a house together. I love him and my family like crazy and he is 100% fine with the way it is now. He proposed in yr 9 and I was so happy. That’s when I got pregnant with my boys back to back. After almost 2yrs of being engaged we got into a argument and he said “You would be a horrible wife!” to me. I asked him why he would say that and he said because I don’t cook or clean the way I use to. Him saying that runs through my head over and over STILL. It didn’t matter to him that I had a 1yr old, 3month old, a FT job and he doesn’t help me. That’s the day I gave the ring back and told him when he thinks I deserve it he can give it back. I tried my hardest to keep everything up to make him happy. I made sure dinner was hot and ready when he got home but he would come home with meals from restaurants. He is NEVER home anymore. He still never gave the ring back. I’ve tried talking to him and he tells me “get to the point” or he will give a broken promise that I now realize is his way to shut me up. He tells me how all he does is work to better our lives BUT he’s ONLY PAID 300. THIS YEAR IN BILL MONEY!!!!! He’s using me for a free ride and taking advantage of my love. He tells me that when he’s not home I bug him when I call. Yes I do call when he’s not home after he’s been gone 15-16 HOURS! I can’t understand why that’s a bad thing for me to call after all those hours. I don’t believe he’s a bad person at all but he don’t love me the way he did before. I’ve asked him to PLEASE let me go so I can find my partner but he won’t. He tells me “If I didn’t want to be here I wouldn’t be. I have places I could move to.” I’m like maybe you have places you could go but not for 300. A YEAR! This is so hard for me and my boys. I don’t want to raise boys without a daddy IN THE HOME and that’s why I put up with stuff I shouldn’t have to. Yesterday topped it off though. We went to his family’s house for dinner and he got really really drunk. He started talking about how I was off of work for months and he was working “to pay all the bills”!!!! I was off of work because my dad was DYING and I was still paying all the bills!!!!! He said I was lying!!!! I pulled up my bank account and showed his family I have in fact been paying ALL the bills!!!!! I wish he would just pay his share and love me again OR GO! 😭😭😭😭
It's so liberating to hear him say you can decide not to forgive. So often you hear that you have to forgive the other person, but sometimes what they do is unforgivable.
Yes, like hurting children. That is quite unforgivable 😢 He left without saying goodbye. He didn't take the presents and cards they bought him over the years. He just left in the middle of the night like a coward. 14 years of being together.
Here's a mind blowing truth: external forgiveness is a lie. It will satiate the ego of the other person for a while but it will not stop the pain from hurting or getting hurt. You only owe forgiveness to yourself for allowing to be hurt, it's the only way to heal.
Yes, and when you forgive someone you're more likely to want to answer their texts or calls later on or even reach out to them yourself. You have to cut all ties and don't give in.
The hardest part is going from talking all day to nothing and then seeing their new person all over their social media. This was my first ever breakup and I have never felt such pain in my heart before. He never showed me the 100% respect that I deserved yet I still let him clog my mind with thoughts and memories. To all who are going through this, I hope we all find peace and can somehow move on from our sadness and loneliness.
Jocelyn Imburgia I felt your comment 🥺 I’m going through it, and the pain I feel is unbearable. I feel like someone is just squeezing my heart, and my throat and stomach are knotted. I can’t fall asleep without crying, I wake up in the middle of the night crying, and I cry when I wake up in the morning. I don’t remember to ever being this depressed in my life! I wish that all of this pain would go away 😔 I feel hopeless and the feelings of rejection that I have are killing me. I was nothing, but good to that man and he one day decided to let his feelings change. I just can’t wrap my head around it. Nobody can’t tell me that he allowed another woman in his life, and that’s killing me inside. I didn’t deserve this 😔😭😢
Carmen86 I know exactly how you feel. I couldn’t fall asleep to save my life and I just would take a Benadryl to make sure I would get some sleep. It’s going to hurt for a while but I promise you it will get better. Just keep telling yourself that you are an amazing person who deserves nothing but the best! You can get through this! No man is worth the pain we go through. Keep your head up. I will pray for you
I feel stuck, I loved my ex but the pain she brought me always made me feel unwanted even in the best parts of the relationship there was also a what if
I’m going thru the same thing again. We’ve been fighting for 2 months and he kept disrespecting me. He knew I’d come crawling back to him cause I loved him and the truth is he was right. I didn’t hsve self respect cause I loved him and didn’t wanna lose him. Today he broke up with me and I feel like my world is ending
Today is my first day of being single after a wonderful five year relationship. Everything hurts, my eyes are raw from crying. I hear my heart beating in my ears. And I feel so alone and abandoned. He gave up on us and I can't stop thinking about the undeclared losses. I wanted to marry him. I wanted to have his kids if he wanted. I just can't believe it's all over.
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Hey are you trying to attract love (sp) or get an ex back to you, the love specialist offers the best solutions in fixing,restoring broken relationships and attracting love 🌺
1. Practice self-care 2. Connect with people (new or old) 3. Embrace alone time 4. Take time to feel your emotions 5. Don't let social media mess with your progress
One individual will follow these steps. The other will make it difficult, relationships hardly end mutual. Usually the one that leaves peacefully understands heartache, betrayal and unhealthy behaviors.
It's day 4 for me. Healing is not linear, I have days were I am completely fine. Some days I cry until i fall asleep, I get angry and I keep blaming myself for the break up. But you know what? We'll get through it. We gave them our all and now we can give ourselves that too.
@@cabrondemente1 hey can I talk with you also? My ex dumped me into over one year relationship. it's only been 1 month of break up but I can't stop to forget about him at all 😢
Boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few days ago. He was my first everything. I thought we were gonna get engaged. I feel like im drowning all the time and it’s like i have rocks in my stomach. I love food and it’s my passion but im struggling to eat and when i do i get stomach pain. I didnt even see it coming. He really pulled the rug out from under me. EDIT: i am a billion times better now everyone. It is so hard at first but at some point it stops staying hard and things become happier. I realized i was too good for him, and that I am so much better off. I am so much more full of life and have been devoting so much more time to friends. Every single relationship i have now is much stronger. My advice for you all going through it is to let yourself live and feel everything you need to feel. Cry when you need to. Enjoy the little things that make you happy to the fullest extent. Especially never forget your supports like friends, family, and therapy 😌 much love to all of you going through it
Hey, are you doing ok now? It’s been 5 months... I just had my first heartbreak and I’m so sad but I feel so numb, I feel like this always happens to me, I always get left behind.
It amazes me that humans have been dealing with this for tens of thousands of years, and I just so happen to live at the time of the internet where I can see that this is a universal human experience. Much love y’all we’ll get through this ❤
It truly made me feel less alone reading this comment section. Thank you guys all for sharing. I feel sad numb angry lost all together. I guess it's just part of the human experience. I try to invite those feelings in even if they are unbearable at times. The peak always passes and then it's kind of okay. Big hugs to everybody here.
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you heal when you except that they won't come back, maybe you already know this or this is no longer an issue, but it really helped me when I was feeling the same thing. It helped a lot to view the loss positively as for me.
I have learned the lesson: nothing lasts forever! Sometimes, you will be the one leaving, sometimes they. It hurts, truly hurts and there is no medication for that, and for some, not even time helps to heal it. However, you must keep yourself busy (forcebly busy). The only way to get over is by reprogramming your mind and that requires discipline and repetition. What also helps: 1- crying out all the tears and pain 2- sharing with someone trustworthy 3- keep up with routine and hobbies 4- doing exercises and eating healthy 5- forgiving the person (not because they deserved it, but because you can not move on, if you do not do it) 6- and, finally, accepting the end. Accept that it was the best for both parties. And please, do nor rush into a new relationship, it is a waste of time and energy, besides being coward - do not use someone to "forget your ex". Love yourself, respect yourself, value yourself and have faith that the best is yet to come.
It's sad that my ex is using someone to forget about me, or actually get over me. That's what hurts me, hurts me more accepting the fact that our "future" was just a though, I had too much hopes cause I thought she was the one.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
It's been 11 days. The hardest part is I know the breakup is right. He's incapable of emotional intimacy and entirely emotionally unavailable which means no capacity to build a relationship. Still, I was blindsided. I wasn't brave enough to leave despite feeling I should. I'm glad certain events caused him to end it despite the brutality. It still hurts so much and I'm desperately praying for the serenity to accept and release my attachment. I don't want what doesn't want me.
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Don't be carried away by all this videos stop wasting your time here , I've tried this so many times and it didn't work until I met a powerful man👱who helped me bring back my ex who left me a 3 year ago and now we are back together through his help
omg these replies :") but i hope you're doing better now. i'm in the exact same scenario now. there was a catalyst and we tried to repair our relationship by getting back together after a break, but nothing changed and i became a chore to him. we don't have an emotional connection and he doesn't want emotional intimacy with me :/ i hope you're all healed now and that life has shown you many more beautiful things
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6 years. We broke up 3 weeks ago and it comes in waves. Sometimes I'm completely fine and believe I'll get through this. Other times I have pangs of anxiety wondering if he still loves me and I feel the urge to ask him to come back. But I never do because deep down I know that this was for the best. When both people break up still loving each other it's absolutely heart shattering.
i was in the same situation. After 7 years of relationship we had to broke up. Its now 4 Months. It was very hard and I cried a lot and always wanted to call her or writing her and so. But in the end I hold to my word and stayed alone. You have your arguments why u broke up. keep it up!!
same situation. 6 year relationship just ended 3 weeks ago. I love him he's my best friend. Idk if I will ever get use to this new normal. Just rollercoaster of emotions and anxiety and depression. Just lost in this all.
Hi. How are you feeling now after 2 months? Does it get better? How long does the hardest phase of it lasts?
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@@dinushaariyarathna5155 it does get better day by day. But it's still hard. There's not a day I don't think about him and think if he thinks of me too.
When my partner left me for another man after 20 years together it was like a death. We owned a dairy farm and when I got home from milking cows I was making baked beans for breakfast he walked into the kitchen with two bags told me he’s leaving because he has meet someone else and he’s sorry. He would be back in three weeks time with his new partner and his parents were going to pay me out my share of the farm before I leave. I was in total shock never saw it coming his parents were deeply affected also because they loved me dearly.he didn’t mean to hurt me he just fell in love with someone else. I meet up with him 5 years later with his parents at a friends funeral. When we were able to speak alone he broke down apologising for what had happened and how badly he had treated me explaining how he made the biggest mistake of his life because his relationship only lasted 2 years .He asked if I was single which I replied yes I hugged him an told him It took along time to get over what happened but I’m ok now. He wanted to see if we could find a way to get back what we had but I said I’m happy with my life and being alone is not so bad. With tears in his eyes we parted ways me telling him to look after himself and it was good to see him. I hugged his mum an dad who didn’t want to let me go and headed for the north island. I didn’t leave contact details I thought it was better this way. I will never forget that crushing feeling I was a little Boat in a Massive Storm I suppose I don’t want to risk feeling that heartbreak again. I’m ok
I also wish to be that strong. I was in a relationship with 5 years, he met another girl and took off. Doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, says he doesn't love me......I'm dying every day
6 years and I feel like I meant nothing.. completely disgarded. The pain is like nothing I have ever felt... Anxiety.. depression.. just wanting to reach out. The hardest part is having to accept they don't want you too. Life is hard.. I hope anyone reading this finds the strength they deserve and finds happiness again 🙏❤
@@DibbaFlower thank you so much for your kind words... it hasn't seem to get any easier of yet but I know time is a healer and I have faith. Thank you again 🙏💚
It’s so so brutal man, and I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. It’s truly the most painful thing you’ll ever have to go through, which in a backwards way is some sort of comfort because; this is as hard as it will get. It only gets better and less painful from here. You are right, time will heal this. Unfortunately this is one of the only situations where time is the sole thing that can truly make this better, it’s just a slow and difficult process, but there will come a day when you will look back on this and feel nothing but gratitude for what you have learned and how you were strong enough to get through it. Wishing you love and peace from afar. You’ve got this. ❤
@@jin6000 thank you for your words... I'm just waiting for that time to come but it just never seems to get any closer. I can't switch my brain off... the constant thinking is draining and the times I'm alone I just breakdown but logically I know it will come... it has too because I don't want to feel this way anymore. Thank you for reaching out to me 💙
I’m only 3 days in, and Ik time heals all and everyone says it, but it also hurts remembering how you used to light up whenever you used to hear their name or see their notification pop up. You spend so much time making memories and now they are one. Everyone’s got their problems and if you’re feeling some type of way just know that their are other people that are feeling this way. This is all character development, a test, it’s time to see how you will respond, and grow.
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I think the hardest part for me was waking up, knowing that you are alone. Knowing that the love of your life, has moved on, and is potentially with someone else. Seeing her empty, cold spot in the bed that used to be warm and occupied. Once I get past the morning stage, everything starts reminding me of her. I drove past her favorite coffee spot. I see a commercial to her favorite movie. I hear a song on the radio that we both used to listen to together. Then I come home, crawl into bed, and the depressing thoughts of being alone and not being with her sink in. It’s a daily torment, worse than any physical pain I have ever endured. I wish it was as easy as just “moving on”. But it’s not.
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People say to keep yourself busy. But no matter what you can’t stop those first few minutes of the day when you wake up and your brain instantly thinks of that person. No matter what you can’t stop those moments late at night when you’re laying in bed and alone with your thoughts…and your thoughts are of that person.
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Writing this now so that I can look back at some point and know things get better. 2nd day of the break up and it’s not like we weren’t good, he just wasn’t feel strong enough. Feelings are not something either can force. While I know it’s for the better, I still wish he’ll come around, but I know that they may most likely not be the case. Take care everyone. We’ve done it before and we can get through it again
When it ended, I lost my best friend, my dream person, someone I cared deeply and genuinely for. I’ll never get to see her smile or hear her laugh again. No explanations why, it just happened. I cant hate her or have any negative feelings towards her because I love her. God I miss her so much and it hurts. Hope everyone here, as well as myself, find what you’re looking for and heal, no matter how long it takes.
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I saw some guy comment under another break up video that he kept his body moving because time passed by slower if he stayed still. It’s day 6 of my post break up. It’s hard. It’s damn hard. I still miss him every few hours. My emotions are still on rollercoasters that don’t seem to have an end. But I’m going to get through this. I took that commenter’s advice and I’ve ran 3-4 miles everyday since the day we broke up. I’ve journaled everyday, whenever I felt like I couldn’t stop myself from thinking about or missing him. I got fake tattoos and I put one on. I plan to put a new one on each week to remind myself of my strength and progress. I’ve finished 2/3 of my exams so far this week & you bet that I am so damn proud of myself. Everyday, I continue to be proud of myself for continuing on. It’s not easy. I don’t have an appetite, I barely eat anymore. I still cry everyday. I still think of texting him and fighting for our relationship. I look at our text messages countless times a day. It’s hard. And I’ve accepted that it will continue to be hard, for the next few months and maybe even the next year. But I will hold myself back from running back to him. Because it means nothing if I’m the only one who wishes to make things work. If our relationship is worth the fight, then he will fight for it. But he isn’t. And I will no longer overextend myself for others. I will only fight for myself now. Because I have to remember that we broke up for a reason. And I know damn well that I tried my absolute hardest in that relationship. I will no longer push my energy outwards and try to be someone’s something or everything. I’m gonna focus my energy inwards, & what’s meant for me will be attracted to me. I wish nothing but blessings and happiness for everyone who’s going through a break up right now🫶 we can do this🤝
It hits hard when you and your first love break up. I keep trying to stay positive, but then memories come rushing back, and the feeling of nostalgia hits me. It hurts more when they were your best friend. It hurts even more when they walk out your life, and you know they aren’t coming back.. Edit: Looking back on this is crazy, lol! It really highlights that life is just a series of phases we go through, and they each teach us something new. Don’t worry guys, you will get through it🥰
I'm sorry that you're going through this right now. You will come out stronger, and you will love again. Someday you may even call that person your friend again. If you need me, I'll be here.
My first and only boyfriend of 7 years just ended it today. I don’t know how to feel. He’s not a bad person. It’s just bad timing. Wish he was a bad guy. This would be easier perhaps.
Happiness is a true or falsify virtue we feel and generate withing to the outward relating to our personal opinion to suit or trigar to any event or persons
I remember praying and begging God to help me unlove someone . It felt like I was trying to rip my own heart out. I never knew real pain until I had to move on from someone I loved.
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I beg myself to stop caring, stop wondering, it spills out of my heart and fills my mind. It's for the best, I'm determined to keep going but daaammmit if I could go back and listen to my boundaries I would've walked away before the pain.
The hardest part for me is the one person I thought I could always count on, no matter what happens, no matter what I'm going through is not the person I have loved so deeply
Long time. Be gentle with yourself. I hope you seek help to understand it wasn't all you. No good person can understand the narcissist. You just have to understand why you reacted the way you did.
same. he said that'd we'd always be together, that we're soul mates. Then he lost feelings. How can you lose feelings for someone who was always there for you and listened to you?? I'll never get it
@@myennaaa2165 i am sorry to hear about what happened to you. . . i get you :( same thing happened to me too. . .its just the bitter truth about today's world. . . and it hurts hard :(
@@myennaaa2165 its mainly cause they don't feel the same about you :( these things help you grow as a person and deal with stuff like this more maturely. . .its all about taking the best of any terrible situation like this :)
So much of your reality is different know. I understand it's hard to process and get used to. Remember that these feelings, as excruciatingly painful as they are, are temporary. You WILL be happy and find love again. @ditchwdallas
If you're here because of someone who's now part of your past and you still can't get over them, I have a few words of advice for you and I hope you'll take it: You're wasting time and energy obsessing over someone who clearly doesn't feel the same about you. What's the point? It may sound cliché but there's plenty of fish in the sea, and in the sea there could be your real soul mate. But by chasing something that's just not meant to be you're denying yourself the chance to have a loving relationship with someone who can give you all the love you crave. You need to move on. It's called growing up. You grew up with that person and in that stage of your life she/he was important to you. So what? You met her/him for a specific purpose and she/he served that purpose. You are no longer together because she/he is not the right person to accompany you for the rest of your journey which we call life. Cherish those moments. Take with you what she/he taught you and what you have learned during the time you spent with her/him. But now move on. Stop overromanticising the past. It's not healthy. Look around have fun and be more open minded about meeting other women/men. There are other nice women you could meet. The right person, the one you are meant to be with, the real love of your life is just around the corner. You just have to allow yourself to be loved again. Blessings and lots of love ❤️
The end of a relationship is about the same experience as a death. Please do not act as though this grieving process should be easy and then find a new person. Grieving is very difficult and needs respect and time.
@@S24KP6 I won't go as far as saying that there's no such thing as eternal love because there are couples who have and continue to attest to the fact that love can stand the test of time and be forever, albeit in my view this is rare. We have to acknowledge that nowadays life can be challenging, we pursue success, happiness in every aspect of our lives, our careers or whatever our pursuits are can take us towards different directions. We get to a point in our existence when we move into a different direction and we grow apart from the one we loved. We, as human are continually evolving, and as we do so we realise that what was once essential to our growth and what made us happy once no longer serves that purpose. This is why it's important to learn to let go. Simply acknowledge the good that person brought to your life and release them do not cling onto that past relationship. Wish them well for the future. Making someone a vehicle of our own gratification is not love. Love means wishing them love and happiness even if they don't want to be with us.
From texting and calling each other every day to being mute on each other. From being best friends to being enemies. When you still love her, but she don't is the worst feeling
Pain is temporary. I’m going through a breakup and I keep telling myself things will be ok. It hurts so much right now. I hope I can come back to this and feel better soon.
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It is very important to work on yourself and have something to live for before you get into a serious relationship. Ppl steal so much energy from you through love and devotion . Giving back to your community, helping ppl who don’t have anyone, learning a new skill, etc … finding love for yourself is a never ending relationship. That’s the one that matters most.
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@@tashae.denise just want to let you know, I thought I wouldn’t make it. I have been more blessed since that girl left me than in the rest of my life combined. I found the right partner, with too much serendipity to text here involved. I now have a baby girl on the way, and I’ve never been more motivated or excited. I’m also a better partner than ever, and I have a better partner than I thought existed. Things get better, I know it’s been a week since you said this so maybe it already has. I just saw this, but trust me. If it hasn’t already gotten better it will, and even if it’s only marginal success you’ve seen, realize that it’s success nonetheless. It’s uphill.
I feel so comforted by the comment section, so I want to add to it. A 4 year relationship ended the other day. She was my fiance. It was a mutual breakup, but ultimately I wanted to keep trying because I'm still in love with her. She lost her feelings for me though and wanted independence. She was my beautiful girl and I've lost her. I had to pack my bags and drive 6 hours to my family all within a day. I feel like my whole life has ended and I crave her closeness and touch so much. So many dreams crushed. Good luck everybody. We're all in this together.
@@JB-qf8kh I'm on day 12. I think I'm in the anger phrase. I'm starting to see all the red flags and her lack of respect for my boundaires when it came to how she spent time with other men. I just can't control this anger, and I keep calling her to start fights and I say hurtful things when she doesn't admit where she went wrong. It's so rough. I might get therapy. Stay strong brother.
@ at least she is answering the phone. Take some time, don’t call or try to contact her. Let her miss you and let her think about the good times that you and her had. My relationship is over. I would give anything to get it back. Today is my birthday and I don’t have her. I hope she misses me.
You know that feeling when heart is always aching, always feeling feverish and exhausted, nothing feels interesting and how being asleep seems better and less hurtful than staying up ?
This hurts the most. I wish I hand mutual reciprocation in romance. I pray God has my back. It’s tough to keep the faith after 10 years alone and meeting men who don’t want get to know me where it’s mutual. It’s very deflating.
Lisbe Delahoz thank you. I do, and still I walk alone. My heart is crushed. Hard to maintain faith when no signs of hope for romance are there. I’m not a puppy but a queen. I deserve to be treated with love and consistency not detachment and silence.
Going through the worst one of my life. My soulmate. Twin flame. The best person I have ever met and the best friend I have ever had. I have no idea how I’m going to make it through.
Hey I’m in the same boat. I also just found out he is dating someone else right after. I just want to die everyday but I am surviving. I hope we can heal from this
My niece shared this with me and it really helped... she said that sometimes we cry and get into a state of depression... we even blame God for our unhappiness. But she told me that God had taken us out of that relationship because God has heard conversations we didn’t hear ... fights in the future, deeper pain, darker emotions... So bloom where you are planted.... flourish from where you are right now. This moment. This point in time. If you were meant to be ... you would still BE.
@@amankumarjaiswal1721 Yes, it worked. After 2 weeks, I feel so much better because I accepted the situation. All the signs I didn't want to see came through. I realize that there would have been too much problems in the future.
I think the hardest part for me is remembering how things were in the beginning and watching how they end . It so sad to see something so good turn toxic . I’ve spent a lot of time with myself and got to know me better . And honestly I feel so much better :)
I am going thru the same thing , I really miss the start and then it turned out toxic and now we finally ended but I really want it back I really keep hoping that things will go back to how they were at the starting , I really can’t let go . Idk what to do
The start was amazing the feeling of pure happiness was something I never felt, he slowly became toxic and I was never enough for him. We broke up numerous times and one of the last times we did I was so lonely that I ended up hanging w someone he knew and then we got back together and he found out and we ended it and it’s heartbreaking knowing I let myself get caught up in that. But the other guy made me feel appreciated and my ex didnt all the time I felt nothing I did was good enough. He would use tinder all the time and message girls behind my back. Then when I started talking to his friend I was so vulnerable and heartbroken from being broke so many times I leaned on it. He kind of took advantage of my pain and I feel so so guilty. It eats me up alive and I cry a lot. It’s been almost 4 months and I wish we never turned toxic. The loving side of him was so beautiful. Idk what to do rn
@@chestrick2683 wow omg.. this is so weird because that was EXACTLY my situation . We were so good at the beginning but overtime he did so much that threw me off so we took a break and I got with someone else.. he ended up getting me back and found out about the other guy. He used that as a way to take advantage of me and I fell for it. I know exactly how you felt because I felt it too. I’m so sorry that happened🤍 hopefully ur doing well..
@@yannalenaa crazy. It’s sad but comforting to know I’m not alone. I was in his car and he said some terrible things to me and it broke me. I feel so guilty for it, but Im glad to know I’m not alone.. it’s been easier but there’s still a part of that thinks I won’t get over it all
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
You can't force someone to love you.... if they left you like nothing...remember you really never matter to them... find peace with your self. one day you will over it
Thats not true at all. You might have been the best thing that ever happened to them, and we cant keep everyone forever no matter how lovely they are or how much they like us
3.5 years gone. this is the most painful experience i’ve ever had and i’ve had my fair share of bad ones. it’s only been 5 days. it feels like a death.
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I was dating this girl and I took a lot of small memories and gave them a lot of meaning. Little did I know, these small memories held a lot of emotions behind them. Now we’re broken up and those memories I keep are like little needles. I see a lot of good in that because she’s a teacher, a life lesson. I realized that there’s a lot of unresolved issues about myself that I need to work on. I’ve stopped blaming others and alcohol. I’m taking responsibility for my actions and I want to grow from this. I still love her but I have to let her grow in order for me to grow. Detach myself from her and just let go
My breakup was in october 2023, more than one year ago. I remember watching this video (and many others) while crying desperately. Healing is a non-linear process, with its ups and downs, and it will take the time it needs to. For me it was 1 year. One advice I would give is allow yourself to feel whatever you need to feel with the intensity you need, don't suppress. Sharing and opening up with close friends is always good too. To avoid loving is to avoid living. We love, we can get hurt, it's part of our shared human condition. You got this 🙏
I'm 5 weeks in a breakup of my 13 year relationship. I find "help" in these videos along with comments like yours. Thank you. The pain is intolerable. We have children together and I can't even bring myself to see them. I don't know why I'm saying all this to strangers. I guess I'm hoping to feel ok just for a minute. Thanks again for comments like yours.
Hey you crying while watching this hoping you'll be better, well, you won't for the moment. I just wanna say that I know how you feel, alone in the world, thinking all those amazing moments you made with her/him. What hurts is that those moments are lost forever and even if I know you know maybe she/he was not the right person for you, it hurts. That's why you're here, with me. Because all this pain and suffering will end, soon or later, you just need react in the right way. We need to react in the right way. The easy way is to start smoking, using drugs, or punish yourself somehow. You're free to do it, but don't. Instead, go for the hard way, embrace all this suffering without avoiding it, without hiding it under the carpet, and then start doing something nice which won't look nice at the beginning, but it will make you a stronger person. Go to the gym, start that hobby you always wanted to, go outside and talk to as much people as possible, do the right thing for you. Because you are important. That's what I would like to ear from somebody in this moment. All I need is someone who hug me and say "don't worry it's gonna be ok, I'm here.", but I'm alone. We're alone and that's what will make us stronger. React.
The hardest part is knowing someone else gets to see my daughter everyday and I only get her 2 days out of 2 weeks. The second hardest part is knowing someone else has the woman you’re in love with. The third hardest thing is trying to wake up everyday and not hurt yourself. The east way out is a constant thought that will not go away. Staying strong for my daughter is my motivation!
I’m sorry bro. Your daughter loves you and you needs you don’t ever forget that! I have to live for my children and that helps me get through everyday. I have to be there for them and show them how a dad that loves them and supports them looks like so that they grow up to be healthy well adjusted adults. It’s the biggest job we are here to as fathers. Whether it’s your daughter for son they need their father in there life, you are important and have value and when you thing nobody cares yourre wrong your kids do and they deserve you! Much love.
How are you doing now? I am going through something similar with 2 daughters. Do you have an advice on how to deal with some of these feelings? Especially someone else being in the spot you used to be in…
For me the hardest part is accepting that there is no hope that you will get back together. And the fact that before the relationship we were best friends, so it was a double loss.
Even tho we weren't friends before, the loss of the friendship aspect is incredibly hard and often overlooked. An important reminder to make effort to retain our other friendships when entering a new relationship.
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I’m right there with you. Last night was the end of a 3 year relationship for me aswell and being alone for the first time in a long time is very scary
It's a shame I've gone from being incredibly happy 90% of the time to being incredibly sad 90% of the time and even though I'm trying all I can to distract myself the feeling still lingers. Even during the relationship when there were times when I wouldn't be happy it was alright because I knew there was something safe and reassuring for me to come back to, but now the sadness is just an empty sadness. There's no respite from it, I just have to work through it and wait for it to leave.
I found out I was pregnant 2 months after we split up...we ended getting back together for 7 more years and they were an awful 7 years..we should never of gotten back together I should of quit then and had my daughter on my own. X
I watched this video after my last break up, five years ago, and the two things that stuck with me most were that you have to allow yourself to feel the emotions and grieve the various losses. I drew little tombstones for all the little losses I had to name. Time to start the process all over again. 🌧️ 🪦 😢
@@kidronreddy1671 I’m sorry to hear that. It’s so hard! As much as it sucks, I recommend no-contact. I don’t like to throw things out, but I will put the reminders of the relationship in a box and put it up in a closet, out of sight. Hide photos on your phone. I keep a note in my phone where I write down anything I would want to text him. I also write letters to myself or to him that I put away to be opened six months to a year from the date they were written (to see what progress I’ve made down the road). Cry as much as you need to. Give yourself time. If you have a good day where you don’t miss the person, don’t feel guilty about it, just ride that wave as far as it will take you. I try to keep things in perspective by telling myself that this person probably won’t mean anything to me in five years, and when I look back at this period, I might be annoyed at myself for spending so much time mourning him when I could have been enjoying the other people I love and the other beautiful things in my life. Name your losses, like this guy says. Take it one day at a time, or moment by moment. Go out for walks or do something active outdoors. Focus on activities that you enjoy that will be beneficial to you. Don’t isolate yourself. Take care of your health. Hydrate, get good sleep, and eat. Watch shows or movies that make you laugh. Get some hugs, if you can. Learn something new that you’ll really be interested in. I wish you well on your journey. You will make it through this in time. ❤️
Those 3 seconds of when you wake up in the morning and then remembering it and starts hurting all over again
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Whtsaap him**.
I thought i was doing well last night, but i woke up this morning and i have never felt this type of pain before, my chest is so heavy, I’m shaking, and feel like throwing up.... idk what to do anymore
I've had it where I don't even get 3 seconds... I literally wake up from a dream I was having about her and then she just continues to be on my mind from there on out for the rest of the day.
After a month it's still insanely painful
When you wake up after a break up and it just hurts to even exist.
I know what you're going thru. It's like I'm living a nightmare and all I can see is darkness. Can't wait to start feeling better.
Hope you feel better now
Yes I can find some peace while I'm sleeping then I wake up and it's like slap to my face all over again. I sweat in panic thinking over and over. How do we move on?
I thought I was the only one with that feeling
Ladies, the first step in moving on is to make that painful decision to move on. Allow yourself to go through that grieving process... there really are more people out there that will be a much better fit!
The hardest part isn't moving on but not wanting to move on
Bryce Morris this🥺🙌🏻
true, cz that comes with some fear aswell in my opinion
I dont know what i did wrong ! 😞
Having to move on
Felt
Going from the routine of talking/texting every day, seeing one another often, to suddenly and abruptly not ... That's always been the hardest part for me to adjust to.
I have not yet terminated the relationship, however I already feel a partial amputation. I havent cried so hard, for so many hours/days for over 25 yrs.
I never want to feel a mans negative, unhealthy drama again.
I need peace, not a mans love.
@@dianeferre1273 I just had a major fight with my boyfriend. This is also the first time he didn't talk to me for a whole day until I reached out and he was cruel and cold in a way I've never seen before. I love him so much but it hurts so much. I just feel so tired, shocked, and betrayed. Truly the ones you love can hurt you the most.
Same
5 years… it wasn’t cheating… it wasn’t a huge fight… it was just she thought it was best for both of us to try to find happiness elsewhere before we tried to make another person happy… I’m in shreds
Try moving on after you’ve spent 30+ years building your mutual routines…
If you’re reading through these comments. Trying to gather your life back together after someone’s ripped a chunk of your heart away. I hope you’re healing and that life brings you so much happiness. I’m on day 2 of the worst heartbreak I’ve ever felt. We got this
How are you now?
@@SilentVi3wer if it helps, i was broken up with in jan, blindsided completely, lost 12 lbs, fell into deep depression. But 3-4 months later I wS able to recover 90% and 5 months later i recovered fully. Its not as bad as i thought, it took way less time than i thought. And now I can honestly say that it was probably the best thing thats ever happened to me!
@@annie_cbn hey! Im glad everything worked out for you. I’m feeling a lot better now. I’ve been jus focusing on myself and my craft. It’s honestly a blessing and a disguise. Having a mindset that it’s going to get better really help
@@annie_cbn I’m so glad you’re doing so much better now ! 🤍
@@SilentVi3wer I’m in a very awkward situation now. We needed up getting back together. But I’m starting to think it’s more of a trauma bond than anything else
The worst part about a breakup is when you know in your heart it's for the best.
I knew we weren’t for each other but I wanted to hold on because at times I was really happy even though I was hurting. He left me and I didn’t have to strength to leave. Now I’m trying to cope with the fact that It is really over.
@@Ask4Alli how long has it been and how do you feel now?
In a way, it's the most liberating moment in your life. When you are free from your own (wrong) desires.
Yes this hurts worse than a dagger because at that point, you no Longer can control The circumstances
I had a breakup today and i am feeling the same way... i hope it will get better and i will not let my emotions play tricks on me
Saddest comment section ever.. Hugs everyone we will get through this. Update: I remember writing this and I was in so much pain, it gets better guys the pain is gone and I'm good now.
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Doris your beautiful.. thank you for the hugs I really needed it tonight! I’m so ready and it’s my 2 yr sobriety. God is good
you too!!! :))))
Please tell me it gets better.
@@christymarch7245 it will with time passing... dont push yourself too hard allow yourself to feel whatever u need to feel
I’ve got to say, the hardest part of a breakup is losing that feeling of closeness and security. Like your best friend just died.
This x1000. Been the hardest part of all of it.
God finally somebody who understands
Feeling it now…. Prayers to those of you feeling the same!
You're absolutely right!
That's exactly what I'm feeling right now, does that feeling ever go away or ?
Its like one minute im okay ..the next minute im tryna drown out flashbacks.. Idek man , cant vent to nobody so im pouring my heart here.
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Yup. But you will be fine I promise. Not the end of The world
I hope you're okay , if not okay then better ❤️
@@luxxy209 it's not the end of the world but it feels like it ,
it's hard to breathe ... Like you're physically hurting and there's no one to hold you and the only person who used to make you feel better or could deal with you being upset or low is now not within reach .
One of the hardest things in life is grieving for someone who is still alive.
and left for someone else... i call him Judas Iscariot.
Just imagine they are dead. Cus really they are.
@J OneLife Mine too. It's bad to be lonely with your child bride husband in the same bed with you.
You ain't kidding.
❤️
this is somehow the saddest and most helpful comment section ever
F.B.I so true i feel much better yet sad at the comments here :(
Yesss
Yeah
Right!
Yes it is.. I pray i am able to move on, as i am trying hard to do. I need a man in my life.
To anyone who needs to hear this:
The love you gave was never a waste. 💙
It really can be a waste sometimes, though. Especially, if you were tricked into believing that person loved you, too.
How?
Oooff this hit me hard.
Thank you.
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Trust me you can I've been feeling anxiety and i feel sick
I'm going up and down. One minute I'm fine, the next I'm pissed off, the next I feel like crying. Is hard especially when you've genually loved a person and they hurt you deeply. I'm a man. Tougher than a lot of people but she made me cry. Everyone hurting, you're not alone. Thanks for sharing everyone.
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How are u now bro??
I'm going thru this
@@tsholofelorakgokong2600 how are u now bro?
the hardest part is knowing that I'm hurting so much, and knowing that he's doing fine.
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Maybe that’s the reason why you in dismay.
Same here girl
Same
Never thought this would happen to me. It’s been 3 days and I can’t stop crying. Can’t eat or sleep. It hurts so much more grieving over someone who’s still alive
I'm in the same situation, right now I just feel lost, food doesn't even has taste, I hope we both get better! It's just matter of time I guess :(
I’m going through the same, just found out last night he’s with someone else. This hurts so bad. I feel so alone idk what to do
@@jadac8814 same here 😞
100% I’m so sad I can’t eat or sleep either 😔
7 years and im at day 1... does it ever get better? i hoppe it does for u
Crazy how a heart break really makes your heart hurt. Being in public holding back tears for hours at a time will dim anyone’s light.
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I totally understand.
I feel that 😔 how are you now?
Why didn't anyone let me it would hurt so bad.. my heart physically hurts
Sometimes I feel like I’m making progress and getting somewhere. Then suddenly something triggers a memory, like a song or place I drive by, and it all comes back along with a flood of grief over it. I just wish I could turn off my memories when it comes to him😞
You just said all what's happening to me right now.
...same here!
It is a death. Grief is so appropriate and takes it’s time to move on. I’m sorry for our losses.
same here :((( you got this girl
Sabrina Nicoara I’m going threw the same thing
He’s my first thought as I wake up, and my last as I close my eyes
Olivia Dobre knowing sleep will help the pain just to wake up and think “damn , it wasn’t a dream this is real and it’s happening” so now I rather not sleep Cause thinking it wasn’t real almost puts me back at square 1
I can relate to it so bad. I’m in a point where I wake up and the first thing I feel is a pain in the chest for knowing that we’ll never be together again.
Same, especially I was in a LDR for one year till 50 days ago
Bru Tenório yep, that’s me right now.
I had a dream that we were on a call, we used to always sleep on the phone. In my dream I barely woke up and he told me “Madison I love you, I’m sorry about all of this” it felt so real... it hurts so badly
To everyone feeling pain after a breakup, here’s a tip from my experience: YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT.
Keep busy, express gratitude for other aspects of your life and one day you won’t feel a thing about them. Better days are ahead.
Thank you❤️
Thank you for saying that. I'm sorry. But I'm not strong enough. Right now, I don't want to live.
@@donalgraeme I’m sorry that you’re not feeling your best. I hope you can reach out to someone to talk to because it will help purge the sadness. Humans are programmed to survive, and you will get through the tough days. Just take it slowly and it’s okay to be sad. Just observe your emotions and grab any positive memory you can. Think of any hardship from the past for yourself or people around you and how they overcame it in the end. You’re stronger than you think.
@@lede1810 Thank you so much for the encouragement. I will try.
@@donalgraeme I wish you all the best. It’s okay to have ups and downs in life. Enjoy the highs and hold your ground on low days, knowing that they’re temporary. Write down positive things you want to materialize for you and leave it in the hands of the universe to make them happen. Example “I live the life I want. I am happy for my … “. It will help you visualize your dreams come true. That’s a first step. I wish all good things to come to you 🙏🏻
after reading some of the comments is it bad that it feels good to not be the only one?
Carlos Gonzalez agree
same
Honestly same bro. I thought I was the only one.
Not at all brotha, feeling alone is one of the worst parts
It should feel good that your experience is shared and the same as so many others. It would be worse to be having an experience that nobody else could share, experience or understand. No?
Four years and a pandemic, and i ended up here, trying to get answers from strangers
I'm so sorry you have to grieve your relationship now when there is so much craziness going on. I use evidence based research to do free break up coaching- feel free to DM me @ditchwdallas
Exactly the same situation as me. 4 years and a pandemic.. feel free to drop me a DM if you want to talk
I am at year 8. Shes married now. I still don't understand.
I''m in exact same situation, 4 years, got cheated on, looking for strangers to cope
@@kyleafc9583 what's Dm.
Sadness brought me here
4 years of relationship gone to dust in just a week. Hurts so bad. The comments here are ridiculously accurate on how it feels: it's the morning after waking up that kills you, full of rumination. Every morning feels like you are back to square one.
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Just because ONE person doesn't want you doesn't mean your worthless. You WILL find someone who LOVES you.
@The Dream Medium Why would you want someone who doesn't want you?? Find someone who ADORES you!
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no you dont.
There's not unlimited options of compatible partners for everyone. So no, there doesn't necessarily have to be someone else out there, and even if there is, the likelihood that you will meet them is very, very small.
@@eskil2980 Yes. Well it's all in your Attitude. Law of Attraction. If you believe you will meet your Soulmate you will. If you don't believe...you won't.
Dealing with a breakup in quarantine. I feel so hopeless, I have no one to talk to about it. I thought he was going to be my future. I feel so lost now...
I feel you. My wife and I just broke up too. I have never thought about living my life without her. I do feel lost too. I see no future happiness in my life. I hope you get better.
Stay strong🙏🏿
Dealing with a breakup during quarantine is the worst. It’s like you have no option to make new memories. You slip into just replaying the past, replaying the memories with them and not being able to have any hope for the future.
@@ChapatiLover hey, i feel you, want to chat rn? i feel sad too, just woke up in the midle of the night, with that chest pain
I just got broken up with 2 days ago. I feel ya. You doing okay tho?
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You still in quarantine? :(
My gf left me cuz I need emotional support since my dad is dying
it's hard
Was in quarantine with my ex for three months. 💔😭
Ever since my ex ended things with me I’ve never felt so lonely. Reading these comments makes me feel understood and not alone ❤
You are not alone.
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Same here
You aren't alone.
She ended things after 6 years together, it's been 3 weeks and I feel absolutely broken.
Don't give up.
@@_multiverse_ you don’t give up either. Fight.
The worst part for me is the memories...one moment I know its for the best but then I start crying because I still love her and what we had...this is by far the worst pain I've ever experienced
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The hardest thing is when the relationship is over, you’re still in love with the other person, and you’re trying to get over it but there were no bad things in the relationship beside bad timing. I almost wish he just cheated on me so I could hate him to move on.
Yes I have the same. Just because we wanted different things in a relationship and because we have different ideas for the future, we split up last week after being together for 3,5 years.. :( It is really hard since I almost only have good memories of us and I still think he is a great guy
Same thing happened to me today, he was my boyfriend of a year and a half
a little fun update: I found out that he hooked up with my best friend of 5+ years months after it happened. It was after we had broken up but still... never thought either of them would do that... they both were planing on never telling me. Safe to say I’ve moved on from both of them! Cut toxic ppl out!! 🥰🥰
Sarah lol I’m so proud of you
I hope you’re ok now!!
It hurts so bad to dream about so much, about marriage, children, vacations and see it all to turn into ashes. A person who was the closest on earth to you, in matter of minutes of last painful phone call becoming a stranger.
UPDATE: Havent spoke to her since september 23rd(Today is October 29th). Havent texted her anything at all since october 3rd. Basically No contact works very well. No contact allowed me to go over the suffering, let the emotions cool down and currently realize that the girl I was dating was 40% my imagination. I loved who I wish she would be. She never fitted me, that's why it was abusive- constant arguments and drama. Well, thats an experience, I suggest everyone to follow no contact rule because it helps a lot.
Another update(june 17th): Memories hunt me sometimes and I miss her, but I feel much better.
Those dreams are still alive, just you get choose who will be in them with you. View it as an exciting opportunity to create the best future for yourself.
@@jasoni8119 YES! I left this comment 4 days ago and was at like last stages of my depression because for me it's been 2months of long distance relationship/slow, painful break up(high school sweetheart onto college...), but now I moved on gradually to realizing that I miss the person I wish she had been, rather than her. We would constantly argue, so yeah, you are absolutely right!
I'm only 4 days in, trying to be positive. Be kind to yourself. Focus on you. I already forgive her and myself for what happened.
Holding on the resentment will hold me back. It still hurts.. Yes. But it's okay for it too hurt.
She choose to end it, I can't control that. But I can control what I do with myself now.
No contact. Grieve when I need too. Go to the gym, see friends, walk, etc.
I am also figuring out my flaws.. No one is perfect. I am seeing a therapist to talk everything through. I don't want to go through the same stuff in my next relationship.
In every situation, try and do what is right for your mind and body.
@@jasoni8119 Man, I feel you so much! Dont worry about forgiving, you have the right not to unless you cheated or did something certainly "unacceptable". If you tried all you could, you fought and loved her, and she still ended it, dont even bother about it. Of course its painful, but Im telling you, 2 months ago I thought I wouldnt be able to live without her, now I am way too excited to meet a new girl that will appreciate me much more for who I am instead of looking for ways to cause arguments. First 2weeks will be the hardest, but it will go away soon. So dont worry. And dont blame yourself, analyze your behavior/flaws, but do not allow yourself to take all the blame, girls tend to convince guys that its all their fault, so dont fall into that!
@@jasoni8119 Therapist is also great! You will be assisted on how to deal with it, I did the same thing!)
Just want to say to anyone that needs to hear this.
I went through a break up last year and thought my whole world was collapsing. Spent weeks watching videos like this non stop.
Ive just found out she is engaged to another person and i dont feel anything.
I have literally never been happier.
Trust me. It gets better. Take each day as it comes and things will get better.
Much love
Ryan
so true i’ve been watching so many videos like this too but ive been reading the comments of this for some hope. thank you ryan for coming back and sharing your hope with us that it gets better and i will feel happy again
I hope you are happy now Ryan 😎
@@ddt67 I'm very happy. I have good bad days like anyone else does. But my heart feels whole ❤️
@@TheBraker06 That is wonderful to hear. Your heart being full is a gift ❤️
thank you for the reminder ryan. i feel very confused and, obviously sad. lonely and empty and hurt. i hope it gets better.
Sad how someone you made memories with can become a memory
I know it hurts but you’re going to be fine. Just see it as you learning lessons. I am here if you want to talk
@@melissagreene6960 after 4 years of such a happy relationship I had to spend 2 months away from him and now he doesn't feel the same way. It hurts so much, I thought I was going to marry this guy. It's so unfair he let distance hurt such a beautiful relationship. I'm emotionally and physically sick. I don't know what to do.
Valid point Optix!!
Noo don’t do this to me
And the happy memories we made all make me want to cry now
He didn’t treat me well, I stayed for longer hoping that things will be better but they didn’t. It still hurts but I have to let go and choose me
This just happened to me but it was a her. Crazy
Nombuyiselo Nyembezi i really can relate ,i am in the same situation. I was hoping
@гав nuke feel the same, don't worry everyth will be better in the future.. we will be fine we will heal ourselves
I'm in the same boat rn. Abusive cheating lying ...stayed a year and a half longer than I should have and now I find it so gut wrenching ... i wish I left sooner
Exact same here..
You dont actually miss your ex, you miss the idea of the intimacy, the intimacy you had with your ex. The idea of her? Not the real thing
ImZQY this is an accurate comment. Also the thought of never being loved or loving someone else again.
@@Gregair13 The thoughts of both not being loved and not falling in love with someone depends on the person and how they let the break up effect them. Both scenarios can be solved. But the idea of not being loved is probably the reason most guys/girls run back to their ex the moment he/she contacts them
I nees help. I broke up with my gf cuz she seemes so bored of me I didnt want to be a hurdle. Now she is always making me feel bad because we are in the same class. Help
@@fastmeansoftransportation2719 if you left because she stopped making effort because she was "bored" don't even bother man, let her do whatever she wants and you just focus on improving yourself everyday. Ignore her, and focus on yourself and your future. I've been through the same when i was younger man
@@ImZQY I will try but she is in my class and she won't stop teasing me. Thanks for the help tho
These words made me overcome the break up:
1. Nothing is permanent
2. People & feelings changed
3. If someone made you feel UNIMPORTANT, leave his/her life SILENTLY
Its not easy, but you will overcome.
Or just take 3 years to work on yourself and then start dating again. You can get over that person because ultimately we're just souls that are attracted to each other because we have a physical body.
@@cartergomez5390 I can get over him without dating again. I'll date myself🤣
Ok
I wanna hug everyone who commented here and say "it's okay angel , they didnt deserve you"
Hug me because it hurts so much
@@mislynpeeches9051 **offers a huge bear hug**
I actually teared up reading this lol, it really hurts :(
@@cesar5011 it's okay man. When someone goes ....we'll find someone much better. Trust me. After all I've seen , I can say this.
@@yveltal6474 it sucks bc idk, we had such a strong bond, idk what went wrong, after she moved to a new state everything went downhill, she wasnt even there for almost a week and she wanted to end it so abruptly, i just feel a little numb lol :(,, but thank you, i really appreciate it 😔
I feel so heartbroken to have to end things with my ex. We both knew it was what we needed.
I love this quote: “You cannot suddenly stop loving someone. But
you can slowly start learning to live without them.”
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I'm so sorry about what happened to you, hope you get better.
I know I’m not the only person crying my eyes out listening to this.
You are not girl
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@@dalymarithe3381 Thank you but he hasn’t left. We been together 16yrs. We have 3 kids and a house together. I love him and my family like crazy and he is 100% fine with the way it is now. He proposed in yr 9 and I was so happy. That’s when I got pregnant with my boys back to back. After almost 2yrs of being engaged we got into a argument and he said “You would be a horrible wife!” to me. I asked him why he would say that and he said because I don’t cook or clean the way I use to. Him saying that runs through my head over and over STILL. It didn’t matter to him that I had a 1yr old, 3month old, a FT job and he doesn’t help me. That’s the day I gave the ring back and told him when he thinks I deserve it he can give it back. I tried my hardest to keep everything up to make him happy. I made sure dinner was hot and ready when he got home but he would come home with meals from restaurants. He is NEVER home anymore. He still never gave the ring back. I’ve tried talking to him and he tells me “get to the point” or he will give a broken promise that I now realize is his way to shut me up. He tells me how all he does is work to better our lives BUT he’s ONLY PAID 300. THIS YEAR IN BILL MONEY!!!!! He’s using me for a free ride and taking advantage of my love. He tells me that when he’s not home I bug him when I call. Yes I do call when he’s not home after he’s been gone 15-16 HOURS! I can’t understand why that’s a bad thing for me to call after all those hours. I don’t believe he’s a bad person at all but he don’t love me the way he did before. I’ve asked him to PLEASE let me go so I can find my partner but he won’t. He tells me “If I didn’t want to be here I wouldn’t be. I have places I could move to.” I’m like maybe you have places you could go but not for 300. A YEAR! This is so hard for me and my boys. I don’t want to raise boys without a daddy IN THE HOME and that’s why I put up with stuff I shouldn’t have to. Yesterday topped it off though. We went to his family’s house for dinner and he got really really drunk. He started talking about how I was off of work for months and he was working “to pay all the bills”!!!! I was off of work because my dad was DYING and I was still paying all the bills!!!!! He said I was lying!!!! I pulled up my bank account and showed his family I have in fact been paying ALL the bills!!!!! I wish he would just pay his share and love me again OR GO! 😭😭😭😭
It's so liberating to hear him say you can decide not to forgive. So often you hear that you have to forgive the other person, but sometimes what they do is unforgivable.
Yes, like hurting children. That is quite unforgivable 😢 He left without saying goodbye. He didn't take the presents and cards they bought him over the years.
He just left in the middle of the night like a coward.
14 years of being together.
Here's a mind blowing truth: external forgiveness is a lie. It will satiate the ego of the other person for a while but it will not stop the pain from hurting or getting hurt. You only owe forgiveness to yourself for allowing to be hurt, it's the only way to heal.
@@Romana1shmoothat's brutal. Very cowardly. I'm so sorry.
But u have to forgive them for Yourselve only not for them
Yes, and when you forgive someone you're more likely to want to answer their texts or calls later on or even reach out to them yourself. You have to cut all ties and don't give in.
The hardest part is going from talking all day to nothing and then seeing their new person all over their social media. This was my first ever breakup and I have never felt such pain in my heart before. He never showed me the 100% respect that I deserved yet I still let him clog my mind with thoughts and memories. To all who are going through this, I hope we all find peace and can somehow move on from our sadness and loneliness.
Jocelyn Imburgia I felt your comment 🥺
I’m going through it, and the pain I feel is unbearable. I feel like someone is just squeezing my heart, and my throat and stomach are knotted. I can’t fall asleep without crying, I wake up in the middle of the night crying, and I cry when I wake up in the morning. I don’t remember to ever being this depressed in my life! I wish that all of this pain would go away 😔 I feel hopeless and the feelings of rejection that I have are killing me. I was nothing, but good to that man and he one day decided to let his feelings change. I just can’t wrap my head around it. Nobody can’t tell me that he allowed another woman in his life, and that’s killing me inside. I didn’t deserve this 😔😭😢
Carmen86 I know exactly how you feel. I couldn’t fall asleep to save my life and I just would take a Benadryl to make sure I would get some sleep. It’s going to hurt for a while but I promise you it will get better. Just keep telling yourself that you are an amazing person who deserves nothing but the best! You can get through this! No man is worth the pain we go through. Keep your head up. I will pray for you
Jocelyn Imburgia I feel like I’m dying inside 🥺
I feel stuck, I loved my ex but the pain she brought me always made me feel unwanted even in the best parts of the relationship there was also a what if
I’m going thru the same thing again. We’ve been fighting for 2 months and he kept disrespecting me. He knew I’d come crawling back to him cause I loved him and the truth is he was right. I didn’t hsve self respect cause I loved him and didn’t wanna lose him. Today he broke up with me and I feel like my world is ending
Today is my first day of being single after a wonderful five year relationship. Everything hurts, my eyes are raw from crying. I hear my heart beating in my ears. And I feel so alone and abandoned. He gave up on us and I can't stop thinking about the undeclared losses. I wanted to marry him. I wanted to have his kids if he wanted. I just can't believe it's all over.
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1. Practice self-care
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This totally hit home for me. Thank you!
@@emmawatson6582 I'm glad to hear that. :)
That's so true.We really need to adore ourselves as individuals.
@@marvellouslymystic1158 Yep! Absolutely!
One individual will follow these steps. The other will make it difficult, relationships hardly end mutual. Usually the one that leaves peacefully understands heartache, betrayal and unhealthy behaviors.
It's day 4 for me. Healing is not linear, I have days were I am completely fine. Some days I cry until i fall asleep, I get angry and I keep blaming myself for the break up. But you know what? We'll get through it. We gave them our all and now we can give ourselves that too.
I hope you're feeling better Lia ❤
Hey- just wondering. How are you now?
Since it’s day 4 for me today…
@@shelbychamberlain6180 You can talk to me if you want, it's been 3 months and I'm feeling better now.
how are you know?
@@cabrondemente1 hey can I talk with you also? My ex dumped me into over one year relationship. it's only been 1 month of break up but I can't stop to forget about him at all 😢
I'm so in pain right now.
888999ization me too
Same i cant stop crying and thinking about the memories
You are not alone guys, me too
Same here. Sending love ❤️
888999ization I’m in the worst pain
Boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few days ago. He was my first everything. I thought we were gonna get engaged. I feel like im drowning all the time and it’s like i have rocks in my stomach. I love food and it’s my passion but im struggling to eat and when i do i get stomach pain. I didnt even see it coming. He really pulled the rug out from under me.
EDIT: i am a billion times better now everyone. It is so hard at first but at some point it stops staying hard and things become happier. I realized i was too good for him, and that I am so much better off. I am so much more full of life and have been devoting so much more time to friends. Every single relationship i have now is much stronger. My advice for you all going through it is to let yourself live and feel everything you need to feel. Cry when you need to. Enjoy the little things that make you happy to the fullest extent. Especially never forget your supports like friends, family, and therapy 😌 much love to all of you going through it
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Hey, are you doing ok now? It’s been 5 months... I just had my first heartbreak and I’m so sad but I feel so numb, I feel like this always happens to me, I always get left behind.
@@Priinav hey. Just hold on. Avoid being alone, be always with people to cheer you up. Time is a master healer, you'll be okay .
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It amazes me that humans have been dealing with this for tens of thousands of years, and I just so happen to live at the time of the internet where I can see that this is a universal human experience. Much love y’all we’ll get through this ❤
It truly made me feel less alone reading this comment section. Thank you guys all for sharing. I feel sad numb angry lost all together. I guess it's just part of the human experience. I try to invite those feelings in even if they are unbearable at times. The peak always passes and then it's kind of okay. Big hugs to everybody here.
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I physically can’t do it, I keep thinking they’re gonna come back but I know they won’t
It’s OK because God loves you more than anyone ever can.
Same here i need to stop thinking that he will come back cause he wont
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you heal when you except that they won't come back, maybe you already know this or this is no longer an issue, but it really helped me when I was feeling the same thing. It helped a lot to view the loss positively as for me.
Kill the hope and you'll forget them
I have learned the lesson: nothing lasts forever!
Sometimes, you will be the one leaving, sometimes they.
It hurts, truly hurts and there is no medication for that, and for some, not even time helps to heal it. However, you must keep yourself busy (forcebly busy).
The only way to get over is by reprogramming your mind and that requires discipline and repetition.
What also helps:
1- crying out all the tears and pain
2- sharing with someone trustworthy
3- keep up with routine and hobbies
4- doing exercises and eating healthy
5- forgiving the person (not because they deserved it, but because you can not move on, if you do not do it)
6- and, finally, accepting the end. Accept that it was the best for both parties. And please, do nor rush into a new relationship, it is a waste of time and energy, besides being coward - do not use someone to "forget your ex".
Love yourself, respect yourself, value yourself and have faith that the best is yet to come.
You forgot forgiving yourself... Otherwise that's a pretty solid list. 😊
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It's sad that my ex is using someone to forget about me, or actually get over me. That's what hurts me, hurts me more accepting the fact that our "future" was just a though, I had too much hopes cause I thought she was the one.
And getting out of your own head by helping others. I swear it works
@@xvsn7777 same here man :/
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
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It's been 11 days. The hardest part is I know the breakup is right. He's incapable of emotional intimacy and entirely emotionally unavailable which means no capacity to build a relationship. Still, I was blindsided. I wasn't brave enough to leave despite feeling I should. I'm glad certain events caused him to end it despite the brutality. It still hurts so much and I'm desperately praying for the serenity to accept and release my attachment. I don't want what doesn't want me.
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but i hope you're doing better now. i'm in the exact same scenario now. there was a catalyst and we tried to repair our relationship by getting back together after a break, but nothing changed and i became a chore to him. we don't have an emotional connection and he doesn't want emotional intimacy with me :/
i hope you're all healed now and that life has shown you many more beautiful things
6 years. We broke up 3 weeks ago and it comes in waves. Sometimes I'm completely fine and believe I'll get through this. Other times I have pangs of anxiety wondering if he still loves me and I feel the urge to ask him to come back. But I never do because deep down I know that this was for the best. When both people break up still loving each other it's absolutely heart shattering.
i was in the same situation. After 7 years of relationship we had to broke up. Its now 4 Months. It was very hard and I cried a lot and always wanted to call her or writing her and so. But in the end I hold to my word and stayed alone. You have your arguments why u broke up. keep it up!!
same situation. 6 year relationship just ended 3 weeks ago. I love him he's my best friend. Idk if I will ever get use to this new normal. Just rollercoaster of emotions and anxiety and depression. Just lost in this all.
Hi. How are you feeling now after 2 months? Does it get better? How long does the hardest phase of it lasts?
@@dinushaariyarathna5155 it does get better day by day. But it's still hard. There's not a day I don't think about him and think if he thinks of me too.
@ I’m proud of you, I’m going through this and it’s been a few days
When my partner left me for another man after 20 years together it was like a death. We owned a dairy farm and when I got home from milking cows I was making baked beans for breakfast he walked into the kitchen with two bags told me he’s leaving because he has meet someone else and he’s sorry. He would be back in three weeks time with his new partner and his parents were going to pay me out my share of the farm before I leave. I was in total shock never saw it coming his parents were deeply affected also because they loved me dearly.he didn’t mean to hurt me he just fell in love with someone else. I meet up with him 5 years later with his parents at a friends funeral. When we were able to speak alone he broke down apologising for what had happened and how badly he had treated me explaining how he made the biggest mistake of his life because his relationship only lasted 2 years .He asked if I was single which I replied yes I hugged him an told him It took along time to get over what happened but I’m ok now. He wanted to see if we could find a way to get back what we had but I said I’m happy with my life and being alone is not so bad. With tears in his eyes we parted ways me telling him to look after himself and it was good to see him. I hugged his mum an dad who didn’t want to let me go and headed for the north island. I didn’t leave contact details I thought it was better this way. I will never forget that crushing feeling I was a little Boat in a Massive Storm I suppose I don’t want to risk feeling that heartbreak again. I’m ok
Terry M you are very strong for not going back
I wish I am strong as you. I salute you
I wish to be strong as you are. Thanks for the words.
I also wish to be that strong. I was in a relationship with 5 years, he met another girl and took off. Doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, says he doesn't love me......I'm dying every day
@@bellecortes1635 this happened to me as well. Same thing. Its gets better, trust me. Stay strong.
6 years and I feel like I meant nothing.. completely disgarded. The pain is like nothing I have ever felt... Anxiety.. depression.. just wanting to reach out. The hardest part is having to accept they don't want you too. Life is hard.. I hope anyone reading this finds the strength they deserve and finds happiness again 🙏❤
I hope you find it first, you are gorgeous! You have a beautiful voice! I am sure you will find someone to love in the capacity you deserve
@@DibbaFlower thank you so much for your kind words... it hasn't seem to get any easier of yet but I know time is a healer and I have faith. Thank you again 🙏💚
The affairs of love can really be a minefield, you never know when you are going to get burned.
It’s so so brutal man, and I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. It’s truly the most painful thing you’ll ever have to go through, which in a backwards way is some sort of comfort because; this is as hard as it will get. It only gets better and less painful from here.
You are right, time will heal this. Unfortunately this is one of the only situations where time is the sole thing that can truly make this better, it’s just a slow and difficult process, but there will come a day when you will look back on this and feel nothing but gratitude for what you have learned and how you were strong enough to get through it.
Wishing you love and peace from afar. You’ve got this. ❤
@@jin6000 thank you for your words... I'm just waiting for that time to come but it just never seems to get any closer. I can't switch my brain off... the constant thinking is draining and the times I'm alone I just breakdown but logically I know it will come... it has too because I don't want to feel this way anymore. Thank you for reaching out to me 💙
I’m only 3 days in, and Ik time heals all and everyone says it, but it also hurts remembering how you used to light up whenever you used to hear their name or see their notification pop up. You spend so much time making memories and now they are one. Everyone’s got their problems and if you’re feeling some type of way just know that their are other people that are feeling this way. This is all character development, a test, it’s time to see how you will respond, and grow.
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I think the hardest part for me was waking up, knowing that you are alone. Knowing that the love of your life, has moved on, and is potentially with someone else. Seeing her empty, cold spot in the bed that used to be warm and occupied. Once I get past the morning stage, everything starts reminding me of her. I drove past her favorite coffee spot. I see a commercial to her favorite movie. I hear a song on the radio that we both used to listen to together. Then I come home, crawl into bed, and the depressing thoughts of being alone and not being with her sink in. It’s a daily torment, worse than any physical pain I have ever endured. I wish it was as easy as just “moving on”. But it’s not.
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People say to keep yourself busy. But no matter what you can’t stop those first few minutes of the day when you wake up and your brain instantly thinks of that person. No matter what you can’t stop those moments late at night when you’re laying in bed and alone with your thoughts…and your thoughts are of that person.
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You are right. It just eats you up.
Yeah it is
Writing this now so that I can look back at some point and know things get better. 2nd day of the break up and it’s not like we weren’t good, he just wasn’t feel strong enough. Feelings are not something either can force. While I know it’s for the better, I still wish he’ll come around, but I know that they may most likely not be the case. Take care everyone. We’ve done it before and we can get through it again
When it ended, I lost my best friend, my dream person, someone I cared deeply and genuinely for. I’ll never get to see her smile or hear her laugh again. No explanations why, it just happened. I cant hate her or have any negative feelings towards her because I love her. God I miss her so much and it hurts.
Hope everyone here, as well as myself, find what you’re looking for and heal, no matter how long it takes.
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I loved her.... she said I did nothing wrong. She just “lost feelings” Everyone’s saying not to blame myself but I try so hard.
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I saw some guy comment under another break up video that he kept his body moving because time passed by slower if he stayed still. It’s day 6 of my post break up. It’s hard. It’s damn hard. I still miss him every few hours. My emotions are still on rollercoasters that don’t seem to have an end. But I’m going to get through this. I took that commenter’s advice and I’ve ran 3-4 miles everyday since the day we broke up. I’ve journaled everyday, whenever I felt like I couldn’t stop myself from thinking about or missing him. I got fake tattoos and I put one on. I plan to put a new one on each week to remind myself of my strength and progress.
I’ve finished 2/3 of my exams so far this week & you bet that I am so damn proud of myself. Everyday, I continue to be proud of myself for continuing on. It’s not easy. I don’t have an appetite, I barely eat anymore. I still cry everyday. I still think of texting him and fighting for our relationship. I look at our text messages countless times a day. It’s hard. And I’ve accepted that it will continue to be hard, for the next few months and maybe even the next year. But I will hold myself back from running back to him. Because it means nothing if I’m the only one who wishes to make things work. If our relationship is worth the fight, then he will fight for it. But he isn’t. And I will no longer overextend myself for others. I will only fight for myself now. Because I have to remember that we broke up for a reason. And I know damn well that I tried my absolute hardest in that relationship. I will no longer push my energy outwards and try to be someone’s something or everything. I’m gonna focus my energy inwards, & what’s meant for me will be attracted to me. I wish nothing but blessings and happiness for everyone who’s going through a break up right now🫶 we can do this🤝
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Love that you got fake tattoos!!
i started reading the end of your comment as my personal affirmation. thank you. how are you now?
It hits hard when you and your first love break up. I keep trying to stay positive, but then memories come rushing back, and the feeling of nostalgia hits me. It hurts more when they were your best friend. It hurts even more when they walk out your life, and you know they aren’t coming back..
Edit: Looking back on this is crazy, lol! It really highlights that life is just a series of phases we go through, and they each teach us something new. Don’t worry guys, you will get through it🥰
I'm sorry that you're going through this right now. You will come out stronger, and you will love again. Someday you may even call that person your friend again. If you need me, I'll be here.
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@@KekesEnergy no problem. Stay strong.
I’m also here for you too and I’m rooting for you!! Just got dumped not too long ago and it hurts but we both got this!!!
My first and only boyfriend of 7 years just ended it today. I don’t know how to feel. He’s not a bad person. It’s just bad timing. Wish he was a bad guy. This would be easier perhaps.
*Don’t expect relationships to make you happy.*
Make yourself happy!
Happiness is a true or falsify virtue we feel and generate withing to the outward relating to our personal opinion to suit or trigar to any event or persons
What is "myself"?
True, but once a relationship trauma ( or loss or any kind of trauma really) occurs we must process it in order to regain happiness or complete peace
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If it's that easy, there wouldn't be clinical depression
I remember praying and begging God to help me unlove someone . It felt like I was trying to rip my own heart out. I never knew real pain until I had to move on from someone I loved.
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Help me. Please, i need to move on
I beg myself to stop caring, stop wondering, it spills out of my heart and fills my mind. It's for the best, I'm determined to keep going but daaammmit if I could go back and listen to my boundaries I would've walked away before the pain.
The hardest part for me is the one person I thought I could always count on, no matter what happens, no matter what I'm going through is not the person I have loved so deeply
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@@sleepydoppy8516 I have been better but I am managing. Thank you for asking.
@luke riley how long were you guys together.
@@sleepydoppy8516 10 years
Long time. Be gentle with yourself. I hope you seek help to understand it wasn't all you. No good person can understand the narcissist. You just have to understand why you reacted the way you did.
It was never about moving on but choosing to not move on because you aren't ready to let go of one of the best experience you had in your life :(
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same. he said that'd we'd always be together, that we're soul mates. Then he lost feelings. How can you lose feelings for someone who was always there for you and listened to you?? I'll never get it
@@myennaaa2165 i am sorry to hear about what happened to you. . . i get you :( same thing happened to me too. . .its just the bitter truth about today's world. . . and it hurts hard :(
@@nerose2053 Yeah especially when u felt the happiest with them ;(( oh well it was for the best I suppose :)
@@myennaaa2165 its mainly cause they don't feel the same about you :( these things help you grow as a person and deal with stuff like this more maturely. . .its all about taking the best of any terrible situation like this :)
It’s so hard going from waking up to their face everyday to nothing. My heart aches
So much of your reality is different know. I understand it's hard to process and get used to. Remember that these feelings, as excruciatingly painful as they are, are temporary. You WILL be happy and find love again. @ditchwdallas
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You’ll be fine
If you're here because of someone who's now part of your past and you still can't get over them, I have a few words of advice for you and I hope you'll take it:
You're wasting time and energy obsessing over someone who clearly doesn't feel the same about you. What's the point? It may sound cliché but there's plenty of fish in the sea, and in the sea there could be your real soul mate. But by chasing something that's just not meant to be you're denying yourself the chance to have a loving relationship with someone who can give you all the love you crave. You need to move on. It's called growing up. You grew up with that person and in that stage of your life she/he was important to you. So what? You met her/him for a specific purpose and she/he served that purpose. You are no longer together because she/he is not the right person to accompany you for the rest of your journey which we call life. Cherish those moments. Take with you what she/he taught you and what you have learned during the time you spent with her/him. But now move on. Stop overromanticising the past. It's not healthy. Look around have fun and be more open minded about meeting other women/men. There are other nice women you could meet. The right person, the one you are meant to be with, the real love of your life is just around the corner. You just have to allow yourself to be loved again. Blessings and lots of love ❤️
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The end of a relationship is about the same experience as a death. Please do not act as though this grieving process should be easy and then find a new person. Grieving is very difficult and needs respect and time.
The hardest thing for me is the question: Why?. I don't know the answer to it and it baffles me. Why????
@@S24KP6 I won't go as far as saying that there's no such thing as eternal love because there are couples who have and continue to attest to the fact that love can stand the test of time and be forever, albeit in my view this is rare. We have to acknowledge that nowadays life can be challenging, we pursue success, happiness in every aspect of our lives, our careers or whatever our pursuits are can take us towards different directions. We get to a point in our existence when we move into a different direction and we grow apart from the one we loved. We, as human are continually evolving, and as we do so we realise that what was once essential to our growth and what made us happy once no longer serves that purpose. This is why it's important to learn to let go. Simply acknowledge the good that person brought to your life and release them do not cling onto that past relationship. Wish them well for the future. Making someone a vehicle of our own gratification is not love. Love means wishing them love and happiness even if they don't want to be with us.
From texting and calling each other every day to being mute on each other. From being best friends to being enemies. When you still love her, but she don't is the worst feeling
Pain is temporary. I’m going through a breakup and I keep telling myself things will be ok. It hurts so much right now. I hope I can come back to this and feel better soon.
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It is very important to work on yourself and have something to live for before you get into a serious relationship. Ppl steal so much energy from you through love and devotion . Giving back to your community, helping ppl who don’t have anyone, learning a new skill, etc … finding love for yourself is a never ending relationship. That’s the one that matters most.
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@@tashae.denise just want to let you know, I thought I wouldn’t make it. I have been more blessed since that girl left me than in the rest of my life combined. I found the right partner, with too much serendipity to text here involved. I now have a baby girl on the way, and I’ve never been more motivated or excited. I’m also a better partner than ever, and I have a better partner than I thought existed. Things get better, I know it’s been a week since you said this so maybe it already has. I just saw this, but trust me. If it hasn’t already gotten better it will, and even if it’s only marginal success you’ve seen, realize that it’s success nonetheless. It’s uphill.
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A 4 year relationship ended the other day. She was my fiance. It was a mutual breakup, but ultimately I wanted to keep trying because I'm still in love with her. She lost her feelings for me though and wanted independence. She was my beautiful girl and I've lost her. I had to pack my bags and drive 6 hours to my family all within a day. I feel like my whole life has ended and I crave her closeness and touch so much. So many dreams crushed. Good luck everybody. We're all in this together.
I’m on day 5 of the same journey.
@@JB-qf8kh I'm on day 12. I think I'm in the anger phrase. I'm starting to see all the red flags and her lack of respect for my boundaires when it came to how she spent time with other men. I just can't control this anger, and I keep calling her to start fights and I say hurtful things when she doesn't admit where she went wrong. It's so rough. I might get therapy. Stay strong brother.
@ at least she is answering the phone. Take some time, don’t call or try to contact her. Let her miss you and let her think about the good times that you and her had.
My relationship is over. I would give anything to get it back. Today is my birthday and I don’t have her. I hope she misses me.
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This hurts the most. I wish I hand mutual reciprocation in romance. I pray God has my back. It’s tough to keep the faith after 10 years alone and meeting men who don’t want get to know me where it’s mutual. It’s very deflating.
Lisbe Delahoz thank you. I do, and still I walk alone. My heart is crushed. Hard to maintain faith when no signs of hope for romance are there. I’m not a puppy but a queen. I deserve to be treated with love and consistency not detachment and silence.
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Thanks.
It’s almost as if the great memories we had together are what hurt the most
We got this! Ain’t dead yet tho.. just get hype.. kill em with kindness lol
Let’s gooo
Going through the worst one of my life. My soulmate. Twin flame. The best person I have ever met and the best friend I have ever had. I have no idea how I’m going to make it through.
Hope you are doing ok, dude.
Hey I’m in the same boat. I also just found out he is dating someone else right after. I just want to die everyday but I am surviving. I hope we can heal from this
Same it’s horrible
My future isn’t what I thought it would be
Good luck
Same 😢
how are you now bro?
My niece shared this with me and it really helped... she said that sometimes we cry and get into a state of depression... we even blame God for our unhappiness. But she told me that God had taken us out of that relationship because God has heard conversations we didn’t hear ... fights in the future, deeper pain, darker emotions... So bloom where you are planted.... flourish from where you are right now. This moment. This point in time. If you were meant to be ... you would still BE.
Thank you for this.
You right thank you
Wow. Thank u so much for this.
@@liyah3051 did this worked for you??
@@amankumarjaiswal1721 Yes, it worked. After 2 weeks, I feel so much better because I accepted the situation. All the signs I didn't want to see came through. I realize that there would have been too much problems in the future.
I think the hardest part for me is remembering how things were in the beginning and watching how they end . It so sad to see something so good turn toxic . I’ve spent a lot of time with myself and got to know me better . And honestly I feel so much better :)
I am going thru the same thing , I really miss the start and then it turned out toxic and now we finally ended but I really want it back I really keep hoping that things will go back to how they were at the starting , I really can’t let go . Idk what to do
The start was amazing the feeling of pure happiness was something I never felt, he slowly became toxic and I was never enough for him. We broke up numerous times and one of the last times we did I was so lonely that I ended up hanging w someone he knew and then we got back together and he found out and we ended it and it’s heartbreaking knowing I let myself get caught up in that. But the other guy made me feel appreciated and my ex didnt all the time I felt nothing I did was good enough. He would use tinder all the time and message girls behind my back. Then when I started talking to his friend I was so vulnerable and heartbroken from being broke so many times I leaned on it. He kind of took advantage of my pain and I feel so so guilty. It eats me up alive and I cry a lot. It’s been almost 4 months and I wish we never turned toxic. The loving side of him was so beautiful. Idk what to do rn
@@chestrick2683 wow omg.. this is so weird because that was EXACTLY my situation . We were so good at the beginning but overtime he did so much that threw me off so we took a break and I got with someone else.. he ended up getting me back and found out about the other guy. He used that as a way to take advantage of me and I fell for it. I know exactly how you felt because I felt it too. I’m so sorry that happened🤍 hopefully ur doing well..
@@yannalenaa crazy. It’s sad but comforting to know I’m not alone. I was in his car and he said some terrible things to me and it broke me. I feel so guilty for it, but Im glad to know I’m not alone.. it’s been easier but there’s still a part of that thinks I won’t get over it all
i hope i can have this same experience. i’m trying to find my old self.
The heavy feeling in my chest from the time I wake up till I sleep.
Hugs
God I can relate to this. Hang on in there 🙏🏾
I have this too 😢
this. exactly this is what im feeling. im shaking even typing this
Same :'(
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
You can't force someone to love you.... if they left you like nothing...remember you really never matter to them... find peace with your self. one day you will over it
Haha, what if they had children? Treat me like they never matter? Ok that’s responsibility at it’s peak... not
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Thanks man
Thats not true at all. You might have been the best thing that ever happened to them, and we cant keep everyone forever no matter how lovely they are or how much they like us
@@hayamy3583 if i am the best thing happened to him he never treat me like that ......
3.5 years gone. this is the most painful experience i’ve ever had and i’ve had my fair share of bad ones.
it’s only been 5 days. it feels like a death.
Hello lovely I can introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me to recover back my ex fiancee. He can also help you to get back with yours and make your relationship to blossom Forever.
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How are you now? Just asking for educational reasons...
How are you feeling now ?
wyd u up?
I didn’t know how much memories could hurt
it’s always the smallest of memories too that mean so much to you.
The best thing we can do is acceptance and try to pick up our self again
Right
I was dating this girl and I took a lot of small memories and gave them a lot of meaning. Little did I know, these small memories held a lot of emotions behind them. Now we’re broken up and those memories I keep are like little needles. I see a lot of good in that because she’s a teacher, a life lesson. I realized that there’s a lot of unresolved issues about myself that I need to work on. I’ve stopped blaming others and alcohol. I’m taking responsibility for my actions and I want to grow from this. I still love her but I have to let her grow in order for me to grow. Detach myself from her and just let go
Brian Voyageur bless your Brian, same here
My breakup was in october 2023, more than one year ago. I remember watching this video (and many others) while crying desperately.
Healing is a non-linear process, with its ups and downs, and it will take the time it needs to. For me it was 1 year.
One advice I would give is allow yourself to feel whatever you need to feel with the intensity you need, don't suppress. Sharing and opening up with close friends is always good too.
To avoid loving is to avoid living. We love, we can get hurt, it's part of our shared human condition.
You got this 🙏
I'm 5 weeks in a breakup of my 13 year relationship. I find "help" in these videos along with comments like yours. Thank you. The pain is intolerable. We have children together and I can't even bring myself to see them. I don't know why I'm saying all this to strangers. I guess I'm hoping to feel ok just for a minute. Thanks again for comments like yours.
@@briskstevens8604 Wishing you strength for the journey ahead and sending you a virtual hug 🤍
Hey random stranger! Someone is out there waiting for you! Stay strong! Love exist!❤️
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I needed this.
@Tammy. Dean who?
Worse thing is, your alone now when they were there with you through everything
Be strong
Hey you crying while watching this hoping you'll be better, well, you won't for the moment.
I just wanna say that I know how you feel, alone in the world, thinking all those amazing moments you made with her/him.
What hurts is that those moments are lost forever and even if I know you know maybe she/he was not the right person for you, it hurts.
That's why you're here, with me. Because all this pain and suffering will end, soon or later, you just need react in the right way. We need to react in the right way.
The easy way is to start smoking, using drugs, or punish yourself somehow. You're free to do it, but don't.
Instead, go for the hard way, embrace all this suffering without avoiding it, without hiding it under the carpet, and then start doing something nice which won't look nice at the beginning, but it will make you a stronger person. Go to the gym, start that hobby you always wanted to, go outside and talk to as much people as possible, do the right thing for you. Because you are important.
That's what I would like to ear from somebody in this moment.
All I need is someone who hug me and say "don't worry it's gonna be ok, I'm here.", but I'm alone.
We're alone and that's what will make us stronger. React.
dont worry its gonna be ok too, were all here :)
I need a hug but this was amazing to hear thank you...
🤎
thankyou so much🙏🏼🥺
You helped so many people out there, Marco. And their well wishes are with you. You are not alone. May God bless you, all of you.
The hardest part is knowing someone else gets to see my daughter everyday and I only get her 2 days out of 2 weeks. The second hardest part is knowing someone else has the woman you’re in love with. The third hardest thing is trying to wake up everyday and not hurt yourself. The east way out is a constant thought that will not go away. Staying strong for my daughter is my motivation!
Get extra help if you need it and work on your mental and physical strength! Hang in there :)
I’m sorry bro. Your daughter loves you and you needs you don’t ever forget that! I have to live for my children and that helps me get through everyday. I have to be there for them and show them how a dad that loves them and supports them looks like so that they grow up to be healthy well adjusted adults. It’s the biggest job we are here to as fathers. Whether it’s your daughter for son they need their father in there life, you are important and have value and when you thing nobody cares yourre wrong your kids do and they deserve you! Much love.
2 days a week is better than none, God bless brother 🙏 🙌 Jesus is the only way to eternal happiness
How are you doing now? I am going through something similar with 2 daughters. Do you have an advice on how to deal with some of these feelings? Especially someone else being in the spot you used to be in…
you got this bro
For me the hardest part is accepting that there is no hope that you will get back together. And the fact that before the relationship we were best friends, so it was a double loss.
I know that is awful
Even tho we weren't friends before, the loss of the friendship aspect is incredibly hard and often overlooked. An important reminder to make effort to retain our other friendships when entering a new relationship.
That can really hurt and but must move forward dispite the tragedy of life you just keep going for the sake for yourself and love
huggs❤
I was friends with my ex it's horrible it's been almost 2 months and I'm still heartbroken
It’s been two years since I first watched this video. I’ve healed, and now I’m sharing it with a friend who just left an abusive relationship.
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I hope your friend is doing better now..
today was the first day i was alone after the end of a 3 year relationship. i don’t wish this on anyone
I’m right there with you. Last night was the end of a 3 year relationship for me aswell and being alone for the first time in a long time is very scary
@@anthonyesqueda6206 such a strange feeling. i’ve been keeping myself occupied wiht small tasks. it helps
same here, it ended last night too :
@@seb7006 how is it now? I’m 4 days in of being broken up with after an almost 3 year long relationship
@@manuela9242 better than i’ve ever been actually. focusing on yourself makes such a different. thanks for the follow up
I’m 5 weeks in and the pain is still as heavy. We got this 🥺🖤
How are you now?
Hope you’re ok? I’m a mess in just over a year.
It's a shame I've gone from being incredibly happy 90% of the time to being incredibly sad 90% of the time and even though I'm trying all I can to distract myself the feeling still lingers. Even during the relationship when there were times when I wouldn't be happy it was alright because I knew there was something safe and reassuring for me to come back to, but now the sadness is just an empty sadness. There's no respite from it, I just have to work through it and wait for it to leave.
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@@pearlleo2945 no I dont want my ex back don't worry I don't think we were good for each other 😂
“Children that now , will never be born “ that hit home . That brought me to my knees because it’s exactly how I feel
Rene Ponce but it will be ok. That person did you (and your next partner!) a huge favor. We don’t always see it so early on but it will come. 😊
😔
The day after I broke up with my ex, I literally heard a baby's cry as I headed out the door to class.
I found out I was pregnant 2 months after we split up...we ended getting back together for 7 more years and they were an awful 7 years..we should never of gotten back together I should of quit then and had my daughter on my own. X
I can never be angry. He's such a good person and he treated me so well. I can't stop crying every day
Hi girl I’m going through the exact same thing rn I cannot express in words this awful feeling.. how are you recovering? Is there hope?
I thought I was the only one with this feeling. Glad to know there is someone else feel the same
That's now how you gonna cope up with yourself. Try remembering everything and not crying
@@yaelitz2544 am I late.... how are you guys? 🥺 I’m going through the same thing
I watched this video after my last break up, five years ago, and the two things that stuck with me most were that you have to allow yourself to feel the emotions and grieve the various losses. I drew little tombstones for all the little losses I had to name. Time to start the process all over again. 🌧️ 🪦 😢
Sorry to hear that. 😢
@@georgechijarira6074 Thanks!
😢😢😢😢i am here as we speak...any advice .so heart broken.
@@kidronreddy1671 I’m sorry to hear that. It’s so hard! As much as it sucks, I recommend no-contact. I don’t like to throw things out, but I will put the reminders of the relationship in a box and put it up in a closet, out of sight. Hide photos on your phone. I keep a note in my phone where I write down anything I would want to text him. I also write letters to myself or to him that I put away to be opened six months to a year from the date they were written (to see what progress I’ve made down the road). Cry as much as you need to. Give yourself time. If you have a good day where you don’t miss the person, don’t feel guilty about it, just ride that wave as far as it will take you. I try to keep things in perspective by telling myself that this person probably won’t mean anything to me in five years, and when I look back at this period, I might be annoyed at myself for spending so much time mourning him when I could have been enjoying the other people I love and the other beautiful things in my life. Name your losses, like this guy says. Take it one day at a time, or moment by moment. Go out for walks or do something active outdoors. Focus on activities that you enjoy that will be beneficial to you. Don’t isolate yourself. Take care of your health. Hydrate, get good sleep, and eat. Watch shows or movies that make you laugh. Get some hugs, if you can. Learn something new that you’ll really be interested in.
I wish you well on your journey. You will make it through this in time. ❤️