SPOT A Narcissist In ONE MINUTE (Signs You're Dealing With A Narcissist)
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Do you know someone who is always putting themselves first and seems to have no regard for others? Chances are, you're dealing with a narcissist. In this video I share five signs that will help you spot a narcissist in one minute or less.
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Covert -Artists .... 'Poor me, Feel sorry for me.
I've had one actually ask me to feel sorry for them (just complaining) nothing urgent etc.
Told them;Good God, don't waste my time...(and they did) for 2+ years.
1 centre of attention
2 charming/persuasive
3 grandiose sense of self-importance
4 overly sensitive to criticism
5 constant admiration
6 manipulative
7 arrogant
Hypersensitive people are overly sensitive to criticism too though. So far I think it’s the only trait that I would not associate to this list. All the other traits can be spotted immediately indeed.
Thank you for jotting them down ✍
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I love how they are “concerned”about you- you should get help…smear you all over then say they love you! And are wanting to help you!! 😂😂😂 if you are drained and exhausted with them around/ that’s KEY! Also they RUIN absolutely everything- any type of joy you can have they will be sure to ruin it! They need constant attention, constant care - they take EVERYTHING personal
Omg…you just described my husband and my mothers! Many years after divorcing my husband, I “wondered how I fell into marrying someone so self centered”. Lolol but also sad: I realized that I grew up with a narcissistic mother BIG TIME. My father passed 18 Yrs ago, my mother passed one year ago.
A few years ago my eyes finally opened up…at age 65! With my mother’s passing, I’m finally free of both of those toxic influences in my life. Now, time to heal!
Yes. My nex and his kids were "concerned" about me. They all lined up on the couch one day to say exactly that. I "needed help". I cried all the time. I remember saying that everyone should matter. Including me. He used to say that the relationship wasn't all about me. He was right. It wasn't about me at all. Only him. The "help" I needed was to get away from them. I've been all smiles since.
They also provoke ppl to get a reaction alot of times by insults and passive aggressive behaviors.
The ex a covert narc always needs to be the center of attraction as he thinks he’s the cats meow; he’s playing the victim always even now; he’s a con artist; he doesn’t help anyone except himself; he con’s everyone by ACTING nice etc . Again a con artist; per his victim stories EVERYONE has done HIM wrong therefore he’s the victim but he victimized everyone in his life; he does think he more important than everyone. He’s not at all. SMH!
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i tell you i am picking up narcs faster and faster and faster
Totally totally totally!! I’ve dealt with one !! SUPER TOXIC! so glad I realized in time!
Raised by at least one narc parent. That one is nearing 80 years old, and it is still "poor me" and detrimentally 'rescuing' people.
Totally! Shut them down! Turn the spotlight off when they want to be the center of attention.
Now I do spot them very quickly
Delighted you now spot them so quickly ✨☘️🙏Keep up the brilliant work ✨☘️🙏
My in laws check off every single one of these, so toxic and exhausting
TOTALLY!!! Unfortunately I have been dealing with narcissists that take advantage of me being such an empath for too long. Thanks to the internet and you, I have been able to spot them and figure out why some of my relationships have depleted me until I found strength to get away from them and now spot them before they can hurt me. Thank you so very much!
I just negotiated with one. I gave half my loaf, they countered with a breadcrumb. I agreed to the breadcrumb they took it away then gave half a breadcrumb I agreed.
They kept their half a breadcrumb and took my half loaf.
An obvious sign is not being able to spend time alone.
Or more over their by themselves personality contradicts their social personality.
Totally. You really have a good handle on what these people are like. How on earth do they suck us all in??? The transactional nature of every interaction with them is so disgusting, unattractive and exploitative. Keep away from these people. Thanks Rebecca for sharing this advice.
If your not aware of it,you'll be a victim of it.Expect to be treated accordingly,if they sense your an easy target,you'll feel mistreated,it's embarrassing for them if you expose it❌🆘🚩💲✔️
WOW Rebecca, you have nailed it 💯 % Totally 💯🎯🎯🎯All of the above and beyond of what have said, I have seen it All from the very beginning, middle and end of the relationship (discarded about 6 months ago) now I am going through the divorce process and with 2 minor children. Thank you for sharing, just wished I was Leveled educated then when I met the narcissist… now I am in the healing process and is just so thankful and peaceful I am walking farther and farther from the toxic waste of individual that is no more in my life.
I have been married to my second narcissistic husband for 38 yrs now and actually everything you have said Rebecca Is so very true but also my 70 yr old husband has lots of anger too and there is absolutely no planning for the most simple things to even a vacation and no way will he do a will or anything serious that needs to be taken care of at our age! No planning whatsoever 😢
He definitely has a will hidden from you
"scarcity mode, you nailed it, it's the belief that they don't have enough to give"
Totally! I noticed they will try to make you look bad to other people in order to shift attention and cover up their tracks!
Totally!! Lol. My ex-restaurant business partner was every one of the things you mention. Once I recognized, I had to walk away from the business at the risk of never seeing my investment again.
My old boss was totally the "oh poor me" type. That's awesome that you just verified what I thought I already knew. Also has to be the center of attention. He would turn any conversation into being about him. God, I don't miss that guy after putting up with it for 11 years
As I continue to listen to you, it's amazing how everything you are saying is him , Lol
Totally. My dad was one ,I was married to one for 38 years. I'm in a " friend" relationship for 10 years( the worst one.) Worn out
I always spotted them in person. The cyber stalkers ones can temporarity trick everyone but soon it's game over.
I HATE covert narcissists!!
Happy New Year to you and your family and I appreciated the reminder of what to look out for in regard to narcissistic people!
I also want to mention that eyes can be a sign as well, especially when they have the looks that could kill, as the saying goes, or another look I encountered when I made a mistake by smiling at a man sitting near a rubbish bin at a cafe recently.
He returned the next night and sat not far from me to eat his food. He turned around to look a few times, then suddenly appeared in front of me while I was using my phone.
He said "hello" and asked if he could say "hello," which he'd already done, yet obviously wanted to sit down. I said "no" and he looked devastated when he was going down the escalator.
I KNOW that I did the right thing for my protection though, because I SAW that LOOK in his eyes, which I've seen with dangerous people in the past. 👁👁
True. I've dined with narc's who mistreated wait staff without reason. And orders food without knowing the difference between oysters and clams and complain when the food comes.
Rebecca,
Thank you, you are deeply appreciated for sharing and helping others including myself on the subject of Narcissists. I have been abused over and over by one of my own daughters put up with it for 12 years. (I will say it was for the best due to extenuating circumstances. I have finally - because of you- changing my ways for the best for me. I don’t even know how to express this gratitude and humble feeling to you. You are making a difference and helping a multitude of individuals. Sending you blessings,
Sharp, intelligent, crafty, highly observant, are the words I equate with my cov-narc-exgf.
This vid is a great refresher as I put myself back out there
In my case, I was absolutely bedazzled by the narcissist - very good looking, charming, clever, accomplished - and seemed absolutely genuine. Note to self: if it seems to be too good to be true, it is.
Totally Rebecca! Thanks!
This is so totally intelligently spot on!
Totally agree. Thanks a lot. Lot of love and prayers from Egypt
Sending you light & love! What is something you are struggling with? ❤
I have no contact with a family member. Now the family wants me to make up with this person and fix the problem . It's impossible and should not be on my shoulders the one person who has the courage to get away
i totally agree take k the power happy new year by the way hope you are all ok over there
Spot on! When you talked about the restaurant example, I realized my ex-MIL had been showing her colors back before it became blatantly obvious. I recall being at a restaurant with my husband's family and she was brushing pieces of food off the table and onto the floor after she had dropped them while eating, which caused her husband to glare at her and ask her what she was doing. Her response: "What?! THEY'LL clean it up!", while scoffing in the direction of the waitstaff. It was absolutely disgusting and embarrassing.
T.O.T.A.L.L.Y. Thank you Rebecca!
I appreciate you.
Victim-pretender narcissist is definitely more crafty & snake-y than the overt narcissists.
The couple of narcissists I’ve dealt with sadly in my life ,neither of them could understand analogies or parables. I thought that was strange. The other odd thing was they simply could not watch Faulty Towers with John Cleese both of them had to actually leave the room when the show was on, another weird observation. Think about it it’s like a horror show for them, watching Basil being outed for his strange behaviour and lies.😂😂😂😂 one was a covert and one an overt narcissist.
I experienced the analogy thing as well. He never could grasp it. Interesting! Never heard that trait before as toxic. Great point!
I think it would be a great tool to test for the condition.
Spot on!!
I laughed out loud when you indicated that narcissists will even compete for affirmation and admiration with a dog! It's not just hilarious, it's also true. I don't know which one comes first, the fast trigger of competitive mode of them or the attention-starving state they are in that causes narcissists to be like that.
The saying "I am an alcoholic" is side by side with " I am a narc survivor." And the narc's biggest weapon is their flying monkeys--they turn people into zombies, and they can turn your favorite person against you.
Omg. You are literally speaking for me or at me. I am finally walking away from the woman I've been a toxic relationship with a Leo woman for 8 long long years. She broke up with me again on the 23rd of December. I was trying with an Aries woman and we tried but she was the one bread crumbling me. I was in love with the Aries woman at first site but still was in a relationship with the Leo woman. I think I can write a book of my roller-coaster relationship with the Leo. 8 years together, she has never met my kids but I have met all her whole family from Louisiana to here. I thought the Aries woman was my SOULMATE/twinflame but all along it was the Leo woman. Every time we broke up, I would meet another woman and then I mess it up with that woman. Leo is my SOULMATE/TWINFLAME but I didn't see it. Now I do. With that being said, this will be the hardest thing I will ever or need todo - let her go. It's crazy bc I always wanted to leave her but I couldn't and when she would reach out again, she reels me in again. Now I get it. Wow. It took 8 long long years to realize this. She's been my crutch. It's crazy to realize and look back how much further I would be in life. I was in denial. Wow. I have to cut the bond before I go crazy. I pray every morning to protect my loved ones and help me be strong. I realized my worth and she doesn't like it bc now, I speak my mind. Thank you for this reading from the bottom of my heart. Blessings. Blessings.
Totally, Totally, 😆...I'm Surrounded.
Amazing
Wow- you're on point.
Thank you very much! What was your favorite part of the video? 🙌
It's difficult to separate the examples in the video because it flows nicely and hit the target. The narc has been getting away with their crimes against the soul for far too long. And many people are unaware the narc is using them as their flying monkeys-maybe the narc is a flying monkey to something more sinister.
TOTALLY :Envious vicious saboteur of own family, career, co-workers
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Spotting them is Simple. 9 out of 10 people you see are Narcissists. Assume they all are until proven wrong! ❤
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No 1 They will never see themselves as flawed. Never admit their faults.
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Wow. I saw one of your videos and was very relieved to find that I am not a narcissist! Yaay. I am rather inwardly and self-focused so sometimes I had wondered and worried that I might actually be one! But I'm not. By your definition anyway. So I wanted to see some more of your videos. But my gosh, do you EVER get tired of writing and saying the word narcissist? I don't know what you would call it but being that obsessed with ANY one thing would seem to be some kind of strong neurosis! Maybe money making-osis! LoLoL....
Also, they expend so much energy on the target that they do not have enough reserve to fake it with restaurant staff or anyone in the vicinity! Before learning about this, I thought it was odd that this guy had no interaction with anyone. ?? At first I thought he didn’t want to be caught making eye contact with women (or men)…
Just open your eyes
the forced laugh. the brits call it 'Dupers Delight"
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TOTALLY MY WIFE 🤢🤮 I love her and hate myself for doing so
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does your female narc still target you?
Sounds like two former royals lol
p.s sorry for spelling mistake like with word k cheers have a good d
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I've tried to sign up on plenty of fish three times and right when I finish the last part of completing my profile the page goes back to the very beginning.
Might be the universe telling you not to sign up. Lol. Try bumble.
@@mindfullymellow2323 It's still better than not putting in any effort to date and meet new people.
@@lc4972 It's the cyberstalker hacker in Ottawa closing out the window.
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