7 Types of Unhealthy Crushes

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  • Опубліковано 7 жов 2018
  • Do you have a crush on someone, and wonder if it's an unhealthy or a healthy crush? Here are seven types of unhealthy crushes! It does not matter if you have a crush on a K-Pop idol, your friend, or your neighbor; you should always consider whether or not it is a healthy or an unhealthy crush. A crush can be unhealthy if you crush on someone who is already in a relationship, or if you crush on someone who is too old or young for you. It is unhealthy if your crush becomes an obsession. Also, it is not a good idea to develop a crush on someone who treats you badly, or if you crush on an ex. We also advise against crushing on someone in a long distance relationship, when you are not ready to commit to the circumstances. It also is not fair to your partner if you crush on someone when you are already in an exclusive relationship.
    You might find yourself having a healthy crush! Find out by watching our video on the 7 Types of Healthy Crushes:
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 33 тис.

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  5 років тому +12941

    Do you have a crush on any musicians/idols? I have a crush on EXO #dontmessupmytempo. 😊❤️❤️

  • @totallyunblueskye3038
    @totallyunblueskye3038 4 роки тому +6518

    “Crushing on an ex” bold of you to assume I’ve ever dated anyone

  • @cottoncandysubs4500
    @cottoncandysubs4500 4 роки тому +3840

    Types of unhealthy crushes:
    1) Car crushes
    2) Airplane crushes
    3) Boat crushes
    4) Elevator crushes
    5) Train crushes
    6) Bike crushes
    Edit: I'm adding any other unhealthy crush you put down here

  • @paull2937
    @paull2937 2 роки тому +3817

    Me: Kisses crush
    Crush: Kisses me
    Alarm clock: *I’m gonna ruin this man’s whole dream*

    • @sukiichi4549
      @sukiichi4549 2 роки тому +86

      THATS ME BUT INSTEAD OF CRUSHES AND KISSING ITS JUST :
      Me: peacefully sleeps
      Brain: finally shuts down
      Alarm clock: hello b1tch wake up. I just wanted to remind u that in *1 hour* you're going to have to wake up and take your math exam.

    • @dabeanne
      @dabeanne 2 роки тому +17

      I just had this dream last night.😭 now I can't stop thinking of her and I'm shy to see her again this weekend

    • @definitelynotinlovewithharry
      @definitelynotinlovewithharry 2 роки тому +9

      Omg yes😭

    • @jojoemape1303
      @jojoemape1303 2 роки тому +4

      Umm u stole this dude wtf

    • @jitensmail7326
      @jitensmail7326 2 роки тому +12

      Me : Aight imma sleep
      Brain : yawns * I am gonna shut down too
      Meanwhile ....
      Me : Come over and have dinner at my house !
      My crush : ok fine I guess ?
      Me : feeling holy molly at night
      Finishes eating together
      My crush : let's go outside somewhere people don't know I-I need to tell you something
      Me : tHiS goNnA bE hoLy
      My crush : I love y-
      Alarm clock : Buzes * Buzes * Buzes *
      Me : tf damn this alarm clock just ruined the most perfect dream of life
      YEETS ALARM CLOCK *
      Based on a true story 1 year ago

  • @nallyaaaaaa
    @nallyaaaaaa 2 роки тому +451

    i feel like almost all of us started to chuckle nervously when they mention that crushing obsessively isn't good for you

    • @nickelpicker
      @nickelpicker 2 роки тому +10

      true

    • @quirinedeerenberg1745
      @quirinedeerenberg1745 Рік тому +1

      Forreal

    • @TanyaNirielle
      @TanyaNirielle Рік тому +5

      I mean you have a miraculous pfp and that show is kind of the pinnacle of that /lh /j

    • @AdrianHernandez-rn1sq
      @AdrianHernandez-rn1sq Рік тому

      That's my friends if I show them this not me cause I'm living the life out here not liking anyone 😎

    • @boyse6541
      @boyse6541 Рік тому +3

      All crushes get obcessive

  • @honeycomb6621
    @honeycomb6621 4 роки тому +17688

    8. Having a crush on someone who doesn’t exist

  • @paigek.5736
    @paigek.5736 5 років тому +5487

    1. Crushing on someone who’s already in a relationship
    Me: oof

    • @madisynjeansonne2653
      @madisynjeansonne2653 4 роки тому +87

      Literally me

    • @leafychild5179
      @leafychild5179 4 роки тому +82

      I developed a crush on a girl, but then she started dating someone and I kind of got jealous, then they broke up. I'm getting over it though because she is out of my league.

    • @madisynjeansonne2653
      @madisynjeansonne2653 4 роки тому +39

      @@leafychild5179 Duuuude me to. Except the guy that I like is still dating his girlfriend

    • @leafychild5179
      @leafychild5179 4 роки тому +11

      @@madisynjeansonne2653
      Oof.

    • @pavan923
      @pavan923 4 роки тому +15

      I used to have a crush on a girl and we both knew it, back in 2018. They were lesbian and we're already with somebody else. Now though, the other person moved to Thailand and the girl I had a crush on told me she wasn't actually lesbian and wasn't really attracted to the other girl as much as for her personality. Now I am getting feelings for her again and I wonder if I should make a move. But last year I was extremely down for half a year because I found out she was lesbian and she couldn't date me. So I'm not sure what to do..

  • @jcman-lp6lg
    @jcman-lp6lg 2 роки тому +40

    3 years ago I developed a crush on a girl I was so obsessed that I looked up her name on social media, tried looking up her address, and see where she hung out. I'm glad she didn't know I did any of these things. I unconsciously did all these things and it was terrifying when I snapped out of it, I had to end that crush. I'm glad that I snapped out of it and ended that crush because now I am more self-aware and in a better mental state in fact this is the best I have ever felt about myself since I was a cocky kid.

    • @afreakingtree
      @afreakingtree 10 місяців тому +1

      what if they have snapchat and it shows all of that to you? thats not bad right 😥

  • @Psusanoo
    @Psusanoo 2 роки тому +42

    I knew a girl that ended up having a crush on a boy. This boy was a introverted geek, but for some reason, she liked that he was "mysterious". I wouldn't call him a 'bad boy' , but, the boy wasn't reciprocating her feelings. And this continued on for her entire high school life.
    Maybe she saw something in him that I didn't, but she didn't end up moving on to try new people and was stuck in a loop. (Thankfully, this didn't stop her from having a good high-school life, but it sure felt like it was a thorn in her side)

    • @elsie4802
      @elsie4802 2 роки тому +3

      lmao that girl sounds like me with all my crushes

  • @Megamorg07
    @Megamorg07 3 роки тому +3937

    "Age is just a number"
    Actually age is a word
    Edit: I think some of y'all are taking this comment too seriously.
    It's just a joke

    • @lose_somebraincells2578
      @lose_somebraincells2578 3 роки тому +163

      Word is just a word?
      The documentary

    • @Megamorg07
      @Megamorg07 3 роки тому +82

      @@lose_somebraincells2578
      Yes
      Word is a word

    • @lose_somebraincells2578
      @lose_somebraincells2578 3 роки тому +59

      @@Megamorg07 the worlds mystery has been solved

    • @acidicnebula3.011
      @acidicnebula3.011 3 роки тому +42

      That’s like saying the floor is just a floor

    • @medalyn.8046
      @medalyn.8046 3 роки тому +10

      @@lose_somebraincells2578 i told my brother the same thing 😃🔫 we almost died

  • @xoxo_xoxo..
    @xoxo_xoxo.. 5 років тому +2828

    *when a crush becomes an obsession*
    Me: *deletes entire gallery*

  • @thevatharshinitiruchellven8902
    @thevatharshinitiruchellven8902 2 роки тому +62

    I crushed on someone who is 3 years older than me and he's already in a relationship but now I don't really care about him anymore and that's such a relief ahhh

    • @inkfernado9114
      @inkfernado9114 2 роки тому +9

      If I ever had a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship I would immediately try to get over it, and I’m pretty good at it

    • @thevatharshinitiruchellven8902
      @thevatharshinitiruchellven8902 2 роки тому +2

      @@inkfernado9114 yeah I'm so over him rn ig I'm pretty good at it too

    • @inkfernado9114
      @inkfernado9114 2 роки тому +2

      @@thevatharshinitiruchellven8902 that’s nice

    • @jimenaeiselefarag8073
      @jimenaeiselefarag8073 Рік тому

      I am in the same exact situation but the verb “crushed” is in present tense and the word “don’t” is erased 🥺

    • @sugar3764
      @sugar3764 8 місяців тому

      i’m facing the same problem but he’s 4 years older then me and we actually have a few classes together so i see him everyday. how did you get over him because i really don’t want to feel this way.

  • @CoralsandRoses
    @CoralsandRoses Рік тому +40

    “If you find yourself following your crush around, creeping on their social media profiles and generally just worshipping them, then you’ve probably developed some unhealthy thought patterns”
    *Marinette Dupain Cheng this one’s for you*

  • @raegan8274
    @raegan8274 3 роки тому +3633

    "when a crush becomes an obsession"
    Me: *I'm gonna pretend I didn't hear that*

    • @loiccooper5375
      @loiccooper5375 3 роки тому +6

      @Music Addict me and stephen Amell

    • @invadervamps9076
      @invadervamps9076 3 роки тому +8

      Me and Rouxls Kaard

    • @henrynguyen6799
      @henrynguyen6799 3 роки тому +20

      Me and Rosé from South Korean Kpop girl group BLACKPINK 😅

    • @nolife4588
      @nolife4588 3 роки тому +29

      I used to had a crush on a boy, until when I fall in love with him, I realized he had a girlfriend so I knew it was unhealthy and hurtful😢

    • @kevinbl7821
      @kevinbl7821 3 роки тому +7

      Me and my uncle

  • @bingusdingus5209
    @bingusdingus5209 5 років тому +11346

    Why fall in love
    When you can just fall asleep

  • @bruixadedol
    @bruixadedol 2 роки тому +36

    so u telling me its unhealthy to be in love with my english teacher?
    lesbians: **sweating**

  • @marianatrench3414
    @marianatrench3414 2 роки тому +22

    "When a crush becomes an obsession"
    Ayano Aishi: “Y'all heard something?”

  • @eggsnhashbrowns
    @eggsnhashbrowns 5 років тому +17962

    “Age is just a number”
    ...
    court is just a room

    • @dondemitri3760
      @dondemitri3760 5 років тому +324

      is law justice or morality?

    • @Nakai865
      @Nakai865 5 років тому +1001

      Prison is just a free home

    • @mizmartini
      @mizmartini 5 років тому +329

      Quoc Hung Tran inmates are just friends living amongst you.

    • @jillc1526
      @jillc1526 5 років тому +192

      Hello World. 911 is just a number but that’s pretty important

    • @zariahmonae3490
      @zariahmonae3490 5 років тому +118

      Jail is just a place

  • @goatsfluffy8254
    @goatsfluffy8254 Рік тому +14

    drinking game: take a shot every time they say “attracted” or “unhealthy”

  • @Natalie_Milana7
    @Natalie_Milana7 2 роки тому +27

    2, 3 and 6 sadly happened to me. I had a crush on Ashton Kutcher. I remember dreaming about him and wanting to kiss him in the lips. Even though we had a 26 year difference, I still thought he was super hot in Just married. Now I feel embarrassed about it, and keep blaming myself on why I just can't like normal guya and not celebrities.

  • @spacadet.
    @spacadet. 5 років тому +1666

    #5: Crushing On An Ex
    me: can't have a crush on your ex if you never had an ex
    * insert the more you know image *

  • @scribliez
    @scribliez 5 років тому +23438

    Jokes on u my crushes can’t hurt me bc they’re all fictional.

  • @Adeyum64
    @Adeyum64 2 роки тому +10

    You know what sucks? When people who are already in a relationship kinda hint towards the fact, that they would've chosen you, if they weren't in a relationship now. And those who aren't end up being the abusive type (number 4) or are completely obsessed with you, even though it doesn't fit at all.
    I really, REALLY got some mental breakdowns thanks to this, and it still goes on today. Sometimes, I'd like to know what the f I did in my life to deserve that kind of treatment. Love just happens, but in my (and probably some others) case, it goes wrong in every possible way *ever*

    • @thatonepinkdwarf
      @thatonepinkdwarf 10 місяців тому +1

      Am so sorry but in a way am envious u lowered ur standards and expectations from love cuz when that person that treats u like an absolute king/queen comes along and loves u unconditionally...hell the feeling is inexplicable fr so don't give up on the whole right love thing

    • @Adeyum64
      @Adeyum64 10 місяців тому

      @@thatonepinkdwarf Wish I could say things changed a lot, but the only thing that changed is that I don't have abusive people anymore. The rest is the same. Obsessed person, but is the most boring person ever. Like, REALLY boring omg. Got rejected by the most beautiful and pretty much perfect person I know and the desperate boring person is still after me. I can't do this anymore man, it's beyond ridiculous. It's so ridiculous, that my brain can't comprehend this shizz anymore. It's not that I really am desperate for love, but I also don't want people to crawl at me at the age of 30 and act like they always wanted me. If that happens, then I'll be very mad. I'm not a worthless POS who can be picked out of desperation, just because they didn't get what they wanted...

    • @thatonepinkdwarf
      @thatonepinkdwarf 10 місяців тому

      @@Adeyum64 ngl ik it might feel impossible and a bit unrealistic with today's society pressure on relationships and craving affection and I don usually say this but have u tried takin time off like genuinely not evaluating everyone in ur life if they wud be good if they r compatible w u and stuff and just livin in ur own bubble sorta

  • @michaelmusic201
    @michaelmusic201 Рік тому +7

    I’m terrified of developing obsessive feelings towards people bcs I have OCD and a past of obsessive behavior and this video definitely helped, thanks!

    • @sleepingboiz8155
      @sleepingboiz8155 Рік тому

      I think I have ocd according to this 😂, but I get obsess over anything I find interest in or had a info being crammed into my brain for it to replay the scenario or an imaginary one over and over again 🥲

  • @user-jd3vz2eg5o
    @user-jd3vz2eg5o 5 років тому +4433

    Age is just a number
    and jail is just a room

  • @frogpols
    @frogpols 5 років тому +2724

    how to know if your crush is unhealthy:
    1. they don't exercise
    2. they don't bathe
    3. they don't sleep
    4. they don't eat
    5. they lick the ground
    6. their favorite food is laundry detergent
    7. they have 1000+ hours on a game
    yep i'm not funny

    • @darcyryan9461
      @darcyryan9461 5 років тому +81

      ThisIsFrog this actually made me laugh

    • @danychxn1020
      @danychxn1020 5 років тому +55

      That's actually funny I get it...

    • @saarimali4614
      @saarimali4614 5 років тому +9

      100th like

    • @rosiaxo
      @rosiaxo 5 років тому +50

      well, I have 4000+ hours on a game! hah!
      ):

    • @fionna_cool_girl
      @fionna_cool_girl 5 років тому +42

      I agree with all of them... except the last one. Gaming is life. X3

  • @That_one_edgy_metalhead
    @That_one_edgy_metalhead 2 роки тому +6

    The way that I just got rejected by my crush makes this recommendation feel like a personal attack

  • @shadyfigure0778
    @shadyfigure0778 2 роки тому

    wow, this really helped, i have someone in mind that is already in a relationship but it is long distance she has also been leading me on lately... yeah, love happens.

  • @jelannajagmohan666
    @jelannajagmohan666 3 роки тому +2395

    " Crushing on someone way to older than you"
    Kpop stans like :😅----🙂----🤔----😲-----😬----🤷----🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @legohead23432
    @legohead23432 4 роки тому +1790

    "Crushing on someone too old or too young for you"
    *FBI has entered the chat*

  • @marsmarshaha
    @marsmarshaha 2 роки тому

    i luv ur vids and animations! they help me alot :D

  • @bottomtext3990
    @bottomtext3990 2 роки тому +3

    the one thing ive learned is the closer you get with them in your mind, the farther they get from you in real life. They wont be able to supply the expectations and fantasies youve made because love grows, and if it goes too far with one person, the other cant keep up.

  • @6otato
    @6otato 5 років тому +2042

    *3) When a crush becomes an obsession*
    Yandere-Chan:

    • @Evielicious
      @Evielicious 5 років тому +34

      I WAS WONDERING WHEN SOMEONE WOULD REFERENCE THAT! 😂😂😂👏👏👏

    • @mmeIodie
      @mmeIodie 5 років тому +3

      XD

    • @shadowyct
      @shadowyct 5 років тому +2

      True very true XD

    • @zillentdelta1339
      @zillentdelta1339 4 роки тому +13

      Yan Chan: what do you mean *Continues to murder her crushes friends*

    • @Nana-lf9hr
      @Nana-lf9hr 4 роки тому +3

      Starlig 11 yea..I think I might be obsessive with my crush but I’m not a crazy psychopath

  • @ellabilge4982
    @ellabilge4982 5 років тому +1915

    I KNOW ITS UNHEALTHY BUT THE REAL QUESTION IS HOW TO *STOP CRUSHING*

    • @smileyface8832
      @smileyface8832 5 років тому +19

      @Ella Bilge
      *Seriously? I'm not saying this to offend you. But- you're going to need a lot of therapy. And, guess what else, my friend? Nobody is perfect.*

    • @mehreenfatima7503
      @mehreenfatima7503 5 років тому +96

      Crushing or not crushing on someone is not in our hands really,however it IS in our control that is for sure!
      I have some tips/suggestions to stop crushing on ur crush!🙂...
      1) Get urself really busy,take part in new activities,make ur daily routine so busy that the only time u get free is literally for dinner n then sleep!
      Also note even if u don't want to join new activities etc,u have to,even if u don't feel lyk it,this way na,ur mind will get so busy that eventually u WILL move on (cos u won't allow ur mind to think about ur crush)!😏
      2) Be safe flirty with all girls/guys (safe flirty means for example compliment everyone but don't make it seem flirty to em,but FEEL flirtfull urself when u do so),for example u could say '' I'm in love with ur clothes WOW!😍" instead of saying "Hey I love ur clothes babe!😉"
      This is helpful because when u be safe flirting,u will start to feel alive, without feeling guilty,as u will feel that u don't need ur crush to outshine ur sweetness (many atimes we deep inside want our crush to know that we r amazing,sweet,kind)!
      Also by doing this,a time will come when u will feel that u could fall for someone else,if u allow ur self to do so!
      Make sure tho that ur safe flirtyness is honest, meaning compliment honestly when u feel lyk it,not cos u think u have to! Safe flirty is genuinely to be done if u find someone attractive in general but feel they r not ur cup of tea in someway or another either! Be careful not to mislead anybody's feelings,safe flirting should be done with super caution!😌
      3) Love urself n focus on ur well being,when u love urself,true love finds u,n by true love I don't necessarily mean a partner,I mean u will for sure find out that the only person who deserves ur true love is u urself,n urself deserves ur love in return,once u realize this,u would become the cake with frosting that only needs to be decorated but ur yummy even without the decoration, meaning ur enough for u,n if someone comes into ur life,the person is only a bonus in ur life,n that the person maybe a part of ur life to add extra beauty,but the person is definitely not ur life,n ur just as good even if the person is not part of ur life,ur STILL a very yummy cake!😛❤️
      4) Allow ur heart to accept the fact that life doesn't only revolve around ur crush,for example instead of focusing on ur crush most/all of ur time,u may instead switch ur thought to that there r people who starve n r hungry,n all I'm thinking about is my crush?! This way u will feel a sense of shame that there r more deep important matters to think about n look at me,I'm letting my mind wonder about someone who I probably can not be with,n look at me I'm purposely wasting my time (this feeling of shame is good for u)!🙂
      Thanku!❤️

    • @annamarie5994
      @annamarie5994 5 років тому +4

      @@mehreenfatima7503 thanks

    • @mehreenfatima7503
      @mehreenfatima7503 5 років тому +1

      @@annamarie5994 mention not❤️

    • @ellabilge4982
      @ellabilge4982 5 років тому +11

      mehreen fatima ok actually thank you so much for that, I really appreciate you taking the time to write it :)

  • @thebadpianist535
    @thebadpianist535 2 роки тому +1

    I've been studying behavioral psychology for a bit now and I watch this stuff to give me a break from my constant studying with.. more studying? This video will inevitably help me help my friends with their crushes. Big cool

  • @lily_faito.28
    @lily_faito.28 Рік тому +4

    "It's easy to cross the line into some very weird territories"
    Marinette: *Sweats nervously*

  • @mystvvmg
    @mystvvmg 5 років тому +15935

    You forgot crushing on a fictional character.

  • @aasthathakur8628
    @aasthathakur8628 Рік тому +1

    I m really so glad to know that I don't have any signs of unhealthy crush and this also helped me clear somethings in my mind like even if I am too relaxed and not following my crush in any sort of condition , it doesn't mean that I don't like that person its just that I would like things to go pretty slowly and comfortably and maybe someday he might like me 💛

  • @CanalKizaru
    @CanalKizaru Рік тому +2

    I can confirm that crushing badly on someone who lives very far away from you, doesn't love you back in the same way, loves another guy and tells it to you, AND has suicidal tendencies, is defintely torture. I have been through that myself... (And I get really obsessed which makes it a lot worse...)

  • @tyolmedo1127
    @tyolmedo1127 4 роки тому +3188

    “Age Is Just A Number”
    Wrong
    *Age Is A Word*
    I edited it back

  • @yentgama
    @yentgama 5 років тому +1461

    *2) Crushing on someone who’s way too young or old for you.*
    Danielle Corn:

  • @bubbelpop2274
    @bubbelpop2274 2 роки тому +70

    There are a few exceptions to this! For example, in polyamory, if all people involved in a relationship consent to everyone dating everyone, jealousy or crushing on someone is more a thing that needs to be talked about or worked out with your partners, to see if there's a clear cause or solution or any objections to a new Integration into the relationship.
    For example, I have a boyfriend and another partner. We are all dating each other freely. I've just recently confessed to a crush of mine, and I'm hoping to make dating official soon. There's nothing wrong with this, because all parties consent and know about all parties.

    • @daisy4life238
      @daisy4life238 2 роки тому +9

      Um-

    • @boopdoop2251
      @boopdoop2251 Рік тому +9

      Lack of consent makes a relationship unhealthy but consent doesn’t automatically make a relationship healthy.

    • @ChillingDusselgurr
      @ChillingDusselgurr Рік тому +4

      ngl even in a monogamous relationship it might be sensible to tell your partner about you having another crush. Definitely depends on how you personally think they'd take just the fact you feel that way. But still imo better than working out that crush or jealously or anything with yourself. Communication is super important in any kind of relationship after all.

  • @jesterfreefalling8506
    @jesterfreefalling8506 2 роки тому +9

    Me instastalking my crush and likes 2011 photo: "HOLY SH-- *explodes*

  • @MarkBrown-iw8oj
    @MarkBrown-iw8oj 4 роки тому +1058

    8. Having a crush on someone who just doesn’t like you back

  • @petrosmixides2843
    @petrosmixides2843 4 роки тому +2834

    8: *Having a crush who doesn't exist in the real world*
    Edit: Holly shit wtf I got 2.8K likes I didn't even expect to get 10 tysm guys.

  • @mrsiracha7717
    @mrsiracha7717 Рік тому

    I find it very convenient how this video comes up to my recommendation at the right time 😀

  • @65EKS65
    @65EKS65 2 роки тому +4

    8. Crushing on someone who doesn't have that kind of feelings for you because they "know what they want" and they want someone different than you.

  • @chirui9187
    @chirui9187 4 роки тому +958

    "Crushing on someone who treats you poorly"
    Literally every "Falling in love with my bully" on wattpad and gacha life says hi-

  • @user-xf6ty4iv9w
    @user-xf6ty4iv9w 5 років тому +11982

    Age is just a number.
    *And jail is just a bad hotel*

    • @liv-qu2ds
      @liv-qu2ds 5 років тому +29

      Κώστας Ξενοφοβικός oof

    • @GyreArts
      @GyreArts 5 років тому +372

      And the inmates are "rougth neighbours"

    • @aila6094
      @aila6094 5 років тому +17

      Lollllll

    • @dontperceiveme3025
      @dontperceiveme3025 5 років тому +189

      Hell is just a sauna

    • @user-xf6ty4iv9w
      @user-xf6ty4iv9w 5 років тому +30

      @@dontperceiveme3025 true.

  • @lilhellboy6571
    @lilhellboy6571 2 роки тому +1

    i had a crush on a girl that was single when i met her and i told her how i felt , she said she wanted to just be friends , she got with one of my friends and it was hard and took almost 2 years to fully get over her which sucked and truly hurt

  • @galaxywolf1917
    @galaxywolf1917 2 роки тому +2

    Good thing my crush has a crush on someone but the girl doesn’t like him back

  • @avsaucyboi9733
    @avsaucyboi9733 5 років тому +1794

    Yeah, a crush is pretty unhealthy
    That’s why I don’t drink soda

  • @tomurashigaraki--murielgar8349
    @tomurashigaraki--murielgar8349 5 років тому +10618

    * Texts crush *
    * 1 minute later this video pops up *
    O-O

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 років тому +434

      I hope they text you back!

    • @p.a.5254
      @p.a.5254 5 років тому +43

      same

    • @Donorito
      @Donorito 5 років тому +254

      That's weird I didnt receive any texts

    • @Sadcat-vy8xn
      @Sadcat-vy8xn 5 років тому +49

      Donovan Smith OH

    • @Sadcat-vy8xn
      @Sadcat-vy8xn 5 років тому +26

      Bubble Double whoa that’s a little much

  • @Gisele11
    @Gisele11 2 роки тому

    Great 😊 thanks!

  • @greatcitysportaction2289
    @greatcitysportaction2289 2 роки тому +2

    This is a very helpful video. I know it’s unhealthy to have a crush on someone who is too old or young for you. However is it unhealthy to have a crush on someone who is one year older than you?

    • @yos.5684
      @yos.5684 Рік тому +1

      No. One year is nothing unless one of those persons is still underage, for legal reasons, although mentally there isn't much difference either. Difficult age gaps depend on the moment of life each person is in. Normally 10+ years difference pose problems, although not so much after people get into their late 20s and early 30s.

    • @greatcitysportaction2289
      @greatcitysportaction2289 Рік тому +1

      @@yos.5684 Oh ok thank you for the information

  • @toasterstrudel2572
    @toasterstrudel2572 5 років тому +674

    “Age is just a number”
    Jail is just a room

    • @ZigZnagol
      @ZigZnagol 5 років тому +24

      Age a number, jail is a building

    • @kafial7776
      @kafial7776 5 років тому +2

      I am just gonna think that you dont have a life and you copy these shit jokes to make yourself funnier

    • @faizadar1222
      @faizadar1222 5 років тому +21

      911 is also just a number

    • @Michelle-zl5bs
      @Michelle-zl5bs 5 років тому +1

      Lmaoo

    • @channelname4331
      @channelname4331 5 років тому +1

      I shall slay you and relinquish my honour as you have plagiarized my comment.
      FEEAAARREE MEEEE!!!!

  • @jaiden5447
    @jaiden5447 4 роки тому +1890

    When your 17 and she's 18
    *Confused FBI Screaming*

    • @dusterbird2604
      @dusterbird2604 4 роки тому +89

      They are a year apart-- But, but, but one is a minor and the other is a legal adult-- And having a relationship with a minor is--
      *_AAAAAAAAAAA_*

    • @upsidekit4755
      @upsidekit4755 4 роки тому +36

      @@terkanovakova9531 it is legal, although each state has their own "age of consent". A 16yr old and 24 yr old could technically date, but if their state has an age of consent of 18, some activities between both individuals could not be done. I'm not sure of the whole country though, since I dont live there

    • @juliancasalez6447
      @juliancasalez6447 4 роки тому +6

      Clythe I’m not 100% sure about this but there is a group of laws called the Romeo and Juliet laws. Basically as long as they’re at least three years apart and one is an adult it’s all good.

    • @nelmae6026
      @nelmae6026 4 роки тому +26

      No, its only illegal if the age gap is big, if the age gap is like small, then thats fine. If its like a 30 yr old guy and an 18 yr old teenager, *Oh hell nah*

    • @briannacarter8051
      @briannacarter8051 4 роки тому +1

      In many states that’s legal

  • @Cutenerdywoman
    @Cutenerdywoman 10 місяців тому +1

    crushing on someone when you are in a realship is sometime a sign that the realship isn't fullfill or there is problems.

  • @Thebluedevil078
    @Thebluedevil078 2 роки тому +2

    I'm guilty of no. 5... Even so, she helped me snap out of it and we are really good friends rights now

  • @clemintyne7898
    @clemintyne7898 3 роки тому +3225

    “When a crush becomes a obsession”
    7 year old me: laughs nervously and tucks away picture of Raven from Teen Titans

  • @Masiser
    @Masiser 5 років тому +605

    3 - "When a crush becomes an obsession"
    *WERE GOING FULL YANDERE MODE BOIS*

  • @linne_a23
    @linne_a23 2 роки тому +2

    “don’t be obsessive”
    me: *slowly rethinks decisions*

  • @yurap7923
    @yurap7923 2 роки тому

    Thank gosh, i have a healthy crush.
    but also separation anxiety, social anxiety, and overall awkwardness when i’m around her so

  • @frogpols
    @frogpols 5 років тому +11368

    me: hmm... are my crushes unhealthy?
    *remembers that i'm really only into fictional characters*
    me: no i'm just pathetic

  • @lunak.8739
    @lunak.8739 5 років тому +1956

    jokes on you all of my crushes are anime characters

    • @cheeryfairys
      @cheeryfairys 5 років тому +88

      This is the best and most relatable comment I’ve ever seen

    • @lunak.8739
      @lunak.8739 5 років тому +6

      Actual Trash ree

    • @thr2648
      @thr2648 5 років тому +2

      Hm

    • @Producedby228
      @Producedby228 5 років тому +4

      B T S lol ur name is literally bts 😂😂😂🤣😂

    • @wishing4hope241
      @wishing4hope241 5 років тому +19

      I wish my fictional crushes were real

  • @shrawanideshpande
    @shrawanideshpande 2 роки тому +2

    "don't crush on someone who is mean and rude"
    My friend : (gets mistreated) oh, he's playing hard-to-get! 😏😏

  • @BIDY_bear
    @BIDY_bear 2 роки тому +1

    My my heart melted when I figured out my crush had it a partner I figured to stop and found someone else that was ultimately into me too so that worked out other than the first crush 🙄🥰

    • @swaggykitten8856
      @swaggykitten8856 2 роки тому

      Congrats if you and your new crush are a thing! But I just wanted to tell you about my crush, I don’t have a crush on him anymore, he sits next to me and someone who sits next to me ships us and I kinda developed a mega crush on him. One day I asked if we were friends and he said, “no, I hate you!” I literally was so heart broken and I said, “hate is a strong word..”. But it’s ok now, I found someone else to have a crush on that actually treated me with respect! Wish me luck and again congrats

  • @auraliax1323
    @auraliax1323 5 років тому +811

    Another type: Crushing on someone that you'll never have.

    • @larenssx2710
      @larenssx2710 5 років тому +10

      Abir 13 big facts

    • @voltron-eb6sx
      @voltron-eb6sx 5 років тому +26

      That's not unhealthy in of itself, even if it does hurt.

    • @auraliax1323
      @auraliax1323 5 років тому +9

      @@voltron-eb6sx but it...hurts!

    • @dankconspiracynut
      @dankconspiracynut 5 років тому +12

      So... everyone?

    • @pitbulls4life141
      @pitbulls4life141 5 років тому +9

      Abir 13 THATS LIKE ALL OF MY THREE CRUSHES!!! 😭😔

  • @7erunii
    @7erunii 5 років тому +285

    “Having a crush to someone who treats you poorly”
    Tsunderes:

    • @azadalamiq
      @azadalamiq 5 років тому +1

      @cooler than u
      umm that type of stuff exist irl, and is what inspied manga and anime writers. most grade school crushes where ppl teasing each other because they liked the person.

    • @anonymousgirl1276
      @anonymousgirl1276 5 років тому

      Being a tsundere I think it's true.

  • @silvyluvr
    @silvyluvr 2 роки тому +3

    "long distance relationship can't work"
    Me being in a 6years distance relationship: mkay

  • @Hey.Yall.7
    @Hey.Yall.7 Рік тому +1

    Having a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship could also cause you to have hatred for the other person out of jealousy. It happened to me before. I hated this girl just because she was dating my crush. She’s actually really fun and nice.

  • @rainiersoriano2175
    @rainiersoriano2175 5 років тому +640

    "1. Crushing on someone who's already in a relationship"
    Me: .......

  • @jessicawang9100
    @jessicawang9100 4 роки тому +970

    “it’s better to not like someone way older or younger than you”
    my celebrity crushes:.......

    • @idkutellme-rp9qe
      @idkutellme-rp9qe 4 роки тому +10

      Omg Billie Eilish

    • @idkutellme-rp9qe
      @idkutellme-rp9qe 4 роки тому +19

      And a friend of mine is now obsessed with Timothēē Chalamet and tried making a rap about him tf lol

    • @dannicoombe5466
      @dannicoombe5466 4 роки тому +6

      Colby brock tho 👌

    • @gamermapper
      @gamermapper 4 роки тому +12

      @@idkutellme-rp9qe bald guy

    • @idkutellme-rp9qe
      @idkutellme-rp9qe 4 роки тому +1

      Green Cappy ?? U mean bad guy

  • @vannilax4401
    @vannilax4401 2 роки тому

    Im happy that they didn’t say that crushing on someone you haven’t seen in 2 years cuz they were the only crush in your whole life is toxic…

  • @bumbabees
    @bumbabees 2 роки тому

    People always tell me that long-distance relationships are not good. But it's been about two years and we're still going strong. I know how to keep our relationship going. It is frustrating that people doubt me just because I'm young. But there's nothing I can do except prove them wrong.

  • @alyssa.s3440
    @alyssa.s3440 5 років тому +1682

    3.When a crush becomes a obsession
    Every fangirl in the kpop fandom
    (Its a joke guys)

    • @victoriamami1034
      @victoriamami1034 5 років тому +3

      You mean only you? Don't compare yourself to every girl just saying

    • @theo-wv7lf
      @theo-wv7lf 5 років тому +5

      Not EVERY fangirl }:v

    • @victoriamami1034
      @victoriamami1034 5 років тому +3

      @YouWereHere who said I was attacking her? There is something called I can use my own opinion have you heard of it?

    • @victoriamami1034
      @victoriamami1034 5 років тому +2

      @@theo-wv7lf that's what I'm saying it would be better if people would only talk about themselves and not comparing people with them cause we all not crazy and thirsty.

    • @victoriamami1034
      @victoriamami1034 5 років тому +3

      @YouWereHere are you trying to crack a joke?.... If so then that's some weird shit you just said.

  • @naty-chan6740
    @naty-chan6740 4 роки тому +1812

    U forgot:
    Being homosexual & crushing on straight people who u have no chance with:(

    •  4 роки тому +68

      Ooooo well, thanks, I'll be right here just crying a little; don't pay me attention if I sob

    • @pingunootnoot1165
      @pingunootnoot1165 4 роки тому +36

      Bruh moment

    • @thetimetraveller2671
      @thetimetraveller2671 4 роки тому +7

      Amen

    • @MonkeyDLuffy-gf3zq
      @MonkeyDLuffy-gf3zq 4 роки тому +6

      so true...

    • @Slashy.
      @Slashy. 4 роки тому +16

      Strvnger. mp3 u can just be James Charles

  • @luxle_aviation
    @luxle_aviation 2 роки тому +1

    I have a crush on a girl in my school who has a crush on one of my friends. I actually don't know how to react and it feels really messed up after one of my friends told them about my crush to her.

  • @platylaza8367
    @platylaza8367 2 роки тому +1

    I had a crush on someone a few months ago and I saw this video and I thought 1 of them maybe counted but really, there were 2 and a half or 3. I do still think about them a bit but, I’m defiantly close to getting over them completely.

  • @SMGYTCHAN
    @SMGYTCHAN 4 роки тому +2972

    *"Age is just a number."*
    You know what else is?
    *911*

  • @5taymix3r
    @5taymix3r 5 років тому +478

    "age is just a number"
    yeah, and prison is just a place

  • @The_goofy_person
    @The_goofy_person 6 місяців тому

    So glad to know this also I also know more what to look for so I won’t be too obsessed

  • @bristip679
    @bristip679 2 роки тому

    Thanks ❤

  • @leo-ny2zm
    @leo-ny2zm 5 років тому +1530

    What did the blanket say when it fell of the bed?
    *oh sheet*

    • @trashimjusttrash9211
      @trashimjusttrash9211 5 років тому +13

      YouDon’tKnowMe so don’t judge me bruh nice joke

    • @leo-ny2zm
      @leo-ny2zm 5 років тому +7

      I have my jams Back yeah lol

    • @aishahnabilah2745
      @aishahnabilah2745 5 років тому +13

      Your joke made my day thanks hahahaahahahaha

    • @leo-ny2zm
      @leo-ny2zm 5 років тому +6

      aishah nabilah YOUR WELCOME lol

    • @jessr.1662
      @jessr.1662 5 років тому +13

      When You Realize You Cant Take A Shit
      "Oh Shit"

  • @veecudi
    @veecudi 5 років тому +1008

    *realizes I know have an unhealthy crush on psych2go*

  • @superluigifangirl0142
    @superluigifangirl0142 2 роки тому +2

    “When a crush becomes a obsession”
    Me: *continue to collect Luigi pictures on Internet and buy anything related to him*

  • @magnoliaflower3310
    @magnoliaflower3310 2 місяці тому

    Having a crush on someone who is 12 years younger and lives on the opposite side of the world. No idea if the person is in a relationship or not. Life is complicated.

  • @unicraft1019
    @unicraft1019 5 років тому +1843

    "Age is just a number"
    Ya know what else is a number?
    *911 what is your emergency?*

    • @baldgagits2107
      @baldgagits2107 5 років тому +42

      Jail is also just a room

    • @accmoved7214
      @accmoved7214 5 років тому +23

      "Ladies and gentlemen, we got him"

    • @xseikowox139
      @xseikowox139 5 років тому +2

      and jails just a room

    • @mamamamamari
      @mamamamamari 5 років тому +10

      911: Hello, what is your emergency
      Someone: mY CRUSH IS WITH SOMEONE ELSEE!!!! *gets off the phone for a while screaming*
      911: Umm, Ma'am/ Sir, that is not an emergency, I'm sorry. Life is just unfair.
      Someone: bUTT CAN YOU ATLEAST SEND THAT B**** aWAY FROM MI SENP-
      *call ends*
      Someone: … ;-;

    • @serenasessou1373
      @serenasessou1373 5 років тому +1

      UniCraft 101 lmao 😭😭😂😂😂 you Lille me 😂😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @iamanonymoushoweveryousayi3163
    @iamanonymoushoweveryousayi3163 4 роки тому +1217

    “When your crush becomes an obsession”
    *Jokes on you, my crush isn’t real.*

    • @babaeggue
      @babaeggue 4 роки тому +13

      Me too

    • @humbertoherrera189
      @humbertoherrera189 4 роки тому +49

      My crush is an anime character
      Edit: which is your favorite anime character or crush 🥰❤

    • @Starlight_Emo123
      @Starlight_Emo123 4 роки тому +22

      Were same dude.. I had a crush on a fictional character and I belong to the 20% of the people who doesnt have a crush on school :3

    • @yogangstudios5715
      @yogangstudios5715 4 роки тому

      Number 9

    • @caterpurrler6356
      @caterpurrler6356 4 роки тому +3

      Same XD

  • @thedirectionerish8862
    @thedirectionerish8862 2 роки тому +2

    'When you develop a crush on someone who treats you poorly . . .'
    fanfictions: baby, I'm not even here. I'm hallucination

  • @QuietGuitaristfan
    @QuietGuitaristfan 2 роки тому

    I had an extremely unhealthy infatuation a few years ago. When it didn't workout the way I wanted it to, I stopped feeling anything romantic for anyone. I haven't felt romance in me at all. I have no desire to pursue anyone anymore. It sucks, but I don't think I can come back from it.

  • @sephykyun
    @sephykyun 5 років тому +1803

    4. When you develop a crush on someone who treats you poorly
    Me: *Oh HeY BAkUgoU*

    • @plasmablue3950
      @plasmablue3950 5 років тому +7

      Omg nO

    • @hermioneakabane6270
      @hermioneakabane6270 5 років тому +5

      Omg 😂😂😂😂

    • @Mulzaa
      @Mulzaa 5 років тому +9

      I THOUGHT THE SAME THING WJEGSVDWJWKEHD

    • @sephykyun
      @sephykyun 5 років тому +10

      @@mom416 I tought you would be more angry XD

    • @sephykyun
      @sephykyun 5 років тому +9

      @@mom416 ahhh, here you are

  • @nicolle456
    @nicolle456 5 років тому +21123

    all my crushes are unhealthy lmao

    • @crablovesyou9214
      @crablovesyou9214 5 років тому +400

      nicolle,
      this is nothing to laugh about. :( i’m sorry for you

    • @4l1y4h9
      @4l1y4h9 5 років тому +544

      All of mine are band members so same lmao 😂

    • @voughklry8362
      @voughklry8362 5 років тому +72

      Nightmare realized

    • @cryptictriscuit207
      @cryptictriscuit207 5 років тому +83

      Do you like fat asses or something

    • @hannahbeath
      @hannahbeath 5 років тому +90

      aaaa same. I broke up with my bf for one of my crushes cause I couldn't control my feelings....I don't know why I did that, he has a gf

  • @Shadoweh91
    @Shadoweh91 2 роки тому +1

    I'm in love with my best friend who's in a happy and committed relationship with his childhood friend and they plan on getting married some day. They both even told me I'm more than welcome at the wedding as well. I'm happy for them I just wish I could always have my best friend in my life in a more intimate way.

  • @Gachanora
    @Gachanora 2 роки тому

    I have a crush on this dude that moved away a year ago, and when i think about him I start to wonder if he likes someone else or if he's in a relationship.I wish for him to come back all the time but i don't ever think that's gonna happen and i didn't even know that he moved until 2 months later my friend told me this messed me up and now i still like him.

  • @mackie8471
    @mackie8471 5 років тому +584

    When your best friend is dating your crush and you HAVE to be supportive.
    Life SUCKS

    • @frogoruu
      @frogoruu 5 років тому +5

      Yea it does suck

    • @clownz_gutz5681
      @clownz_gutz5681 5 років тому +4

      Yup

    • @saucydog4143
      @saucydog4143 5 років тому +19

      Ikr?! When you have a crush but you didnt tell a friend and your friend and your crush start dating each other... I wonder if that's unhealthy, having a crush on a someone before someone else but you didnt make a move so someone else takes your crush and you start dying on the inside...

    • @oxauthoralicexo7854
      @oxauthoralicexo7854 5 років тому +5

      Its just bitchy of you if you got a crush on him after. Like no. No, no, no, no.

    • @storm9930
      @storm9930 5 років тому +2

      Yup...

  • @chiara8145
    @chiara8145 4 роки тому +1379

    Why I like my crush:
    He hates me
    He reminds me he hates me every day
    He barely shows any interest in me
    Lives 9478272938383874 miles away
    Has a girlfriend

    • @Stormxx3
      @Stormxx3 4 роки тому +37

      Lmfao same and i still crush him

    • @lucapasa4519
      @lucapasa4519 4 роки тому +10

      Cognitive Dissonance 100

    • @alienfromtheplanetoftoes1646
      @alienfromtheplanetoftoes1646 4 роки тому +43

      He is my best friend
      He cares for me
      And his girlfriend hates me 😊

    • @rein3935
      @rein3935 4 роки тому +9

      I just think of my crush as an admiration of someone, i am aware that (probably) my crush has already a bf but i can't be too sure

    • @eukarya_
      @eukarya_ 4 роки тому +3

      Why does your crush live at an astronomical distance?

  • @val.juarezzz
    @val.juarezzz Рік тому +1

    also the crush that u still have on a person that has already rejected you

  • @keigos3ggsual412
    @keigos3ggsual412 2 роки тому +4

    “Don’t be obsessed “
    Me: *screaming over a hot edit of Tamaki amajiki*

  • @biancum7
    @biancum7 4 роки тому +1562

    "When a crush becomes an obsession"
    me: *looks the other way nervously*