6 Stages of Having a Crush
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- Опубліковано 27 жов 2020
- For years, psychologists have been trying their best to understand the mystery of love and unpack all the complex processes that govern attraction and romantic relationships. And even after decades of countless studies on why we fall in love, fall out of love, stay in relationships, and crave romantic attachments, there’s still a lot left for us to learn, especially when it comes to the earliest stage of love - having a crush. So, here are 6 Stages of Having a Crush!
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Music & Sound Design: Urban Goose Studios
Animator: Amelia
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Instead of crushing on someone right now, is anyone curious on how to make some cloud cake this weekend? :)
Found this video here: ua-cam.com/video/VBbPMsNcuHM/v-deo.html
Hmmmm cloud cake
Thx :) I love the love and support ^^
Yes
Hello
I love cloud cake
I have only 2 stages:
1. Falling in love
2. They don't like me back.
Same my dude 🥲
mines not even real
Crushed aren't love
my stages :
1 liking a girl
2 rejecting that i like her and move on
Mine are liking a girl
Denying that I like them
Them leaving or me leaving
My stages:
1. Denial
2. More denial
3. Realization. "Oh frick, I *do* like them"
4. Simping but from afar
5. More simping but from afar
6. Thinking of how I can interact with them even if it's very small and stupid
7. Failing
8. Continuing to be a simp for 2 more years
Omg yessss sameeee
Literally wut happened to me…
A spot on representation of whenever I have a crush on someone.
Bestie I can relate...
the way it’s *2 more years* same
Having a crush for me is: they’re cool, I’m kinda obsessed, overthinking, constantly overthinking, no reciprocation, slightly depressed.
Me too
THIS
U said it😢
It's hard for me because the person I like goes to a different school but the person I used to like who goes to my school and they like me
Same
1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining
4. Depression
5. Acceptance
6. Infatuation
bruh
No way 😂😂
Me
Isn’t this from monk? Lol
I'm in bargaining fo sho
You guys forgot the "this is gonna hurt like a bitch"
:(
😭😭 Right in the feels
I felt this so hard
I lost my ability to crush years ago...
Oof i felt that
*How my day starts:*
1) Go to school
2) Talk with crush
3) Confess feelings to crush
4) Crush likes me back
5) I wake up ready for the real day
Ouch
Bruh thats deep... ;(
@Juls Locquiao yo i thought their profile pic was Spiderman hanging. Wth is wrong with me 😭
Same
@Juls Locquiao they edited their comment
RELATABLE:I dont have feelings for him anymore, 3 mins later..crush says hi, my heart:😳 😳 😳 😳
OMG U TOO???? I AM LIKE “nah they are just my friend” AND LITERALLY TODAY SHE WAVED AT ME AND I WAS FLUSTERED FOR DA ENTIRE DAY
@@N00DL3PAWZ FR!
I WAS LIKE RED AS A TOMATO AND I WAS SO HAPPY THAT HE SAID HI😂
My stages so far as someone who is demiromantic:
1. texting them (friend of a friend)
2. growing closer, becoming friends
3. opening up more, developing mutual trust -> platonic love
4. they drunkenly ask if I have a crush on them -> confusion, questioning my feelings, self-reflection
5. realizing I also like them romantically
6. months of stress and barely seeing each other
7. spending more time together, obviously into one another but too anxious to act on it
8. lots more self-reflection
9. mutual friend picks up on it, starts shipping aggressively until we get together
10. telling friends and family
11. still anxious, but very happy.
That‘s very cute🥹
@@goodomenslee4004 Thank you! ^^ 💛
Honestly this version is very shortened, in reality it took months of self-doubt and awkward pining over each other and don't even get me started on when we _jokingly_ proposed to each other or that evening she literally asked me if "I'd come to bed soon", both of which happened _before_ we finally talked about it.
But tbh, now I wouldn't have it any other way. ^^'
At this point her brother has even started calling me his "favourite sister-in-law". 😂
(mind you we've been dating for less than half a year now and are hardly at an age to consider marriage)
Definetly got lots to figure out still, both on our own and as a team, but it feels good to be able to move on from the "if" to the "how" now.
"How"s are usually a lot more manageable, in my opinion.
So...
ig the pining worked for once? 😂✨
Ayo, fellow Demi over here
crushes are even worse when the person you're crushing on is taken.
Edit: Wow, I did not expect so many people to agree with this 😂
Or if you are straight and they end up being gay.
(war flashbacks)
Or when you know they like someone else
@@who_is_thisbussy That probably happens a lot more common than what happened to me
story of my life :(
stage 2: curiousity
_also known as: _*_stalking._* 💀💀
oh my god..IM NOT THE ONLY ONE
Same!!! MY CRUSH LIVE 2 DOORS DOWN FROM ME AND HE ALWAYS PLAYS OUTSIDE WITH HIS FRIENDS
LMAOO
Sadly ikr 😔
I stalk on my crush friends and who he has friended
GHAHAHA GLAD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE-😭✋🏾
I DONT CARE ABOUT THE TOPIC, THIS PERSONS VOICE IS AMAZING
well, they do have a nice voice
Do you like a person making a video on crushes? 🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@Randomtipsandhacks-wi6uy nooo 🙄
My stage:
Dreams about them constantly. Watches all the shows they love even if I don't think the shows are that great. Constantly talks about how brilliant they are to every sentient being in sight . Day dreams about them until my cat stops me.
my stages:
1. denial
2. denial
3. denial
4. we don't talk anymore
edit: the guy I was talking about in this, we're dating now
by Charlie Puth ft. Selena Gomez
@@fine_stfine_stgirl7871 lol
@@fine_stfine_stgirl7871 like we used to dOo 😩
Same 😃 but not the "we don't talk anymore" its just that we are not classmates anymore
@@alyannasophia4117 literally tho
basically, when you crush on someone you can turn into a complete stalker
oh hell nah
Especially on instagram
I don't know how to show my emotions, and get really uncomfortable with being affectionate and stuff, so it leads me to get obsessed, and usually checking what social media I have if they posted anything or are playing anything. It also leads me to become really jealous, and when they don't give me enough attention (Pretty neglected by my mom, and they're usually the one that gives me attention besides my sister). My crush knows about this, and is perfectly fine with it (thankfully). We both know what we've are going through and stuff, and we can't really be mad at each other for what we do.
Yup
That’s why I always reach stage two and skip all the way to stage six immediately
My stages were:
-heart attack
-starting to understand that i’m attracted to them
-always think about them
-forgetting that they exsist
-remembering that they exsist
-start to be obsessed with them
-more obsessed
-not that obsessed but really liking them
-don’t care about them that much
~concentrating to school
-they comes to mind again
-noticing that loving the person
-loving them more
-depression cause we know we never will see the person in real life
-don’t really care about it and loving them more
-and more
-and more
-depression again
-trying to forget depression and then concentrating to them
And now i’m here, and that took me 2 years 🥲
Dude same 😭😭😔
im starting to feel that for a woman that is very gentle, but there are many reasons that there cannot be anything between us.
never crush on someone you dont talk too, its a waste of your life
@@inklazer3447 easy to say, impossible to do
My stages:
(1): Just friends
(2): You noticing they may be interested in you
(3): A very good chance they are
(4): You start falling for them
(5): You start falling harder but you too can’t be together
(6): Have to move away
(7): Your life feels empty without them
(8): You eventually find a way to contact them
(9): You ask your friends to send him letters for me to him
(10): You eventually cave in and tell him (hoping he hasn’t lost feelings for you)
(11): Go with the flow whatever happens next(that’s a lie I’ll probably be heart broken but ugh)
6 stages of having a crush
1. cry
2. cry
3. cry
4. imagine a whole life together with them and consider talking to them but get scared you’re being too obvious
5. cry
6. cry
*mood.*
I felt like my crush was not responding me back i got frustrated and blocked him.. for days then he called me and asked did I block him? Then I unblocked him 🤷♀️ now I feel okay jus move on but I do have a small crush on himm
@@noonaaa6489 good thing I hardly ever use block function
@@funplayer05.1 its all about ur own convenience bud
@@noonaaa6489 thats true tho
I don’t have a crush and here I am…well I guess it’s better to be prepared lol
Me too
Lmao yes
same
Same bro
How was this 2 months ago, am I a time traveler?
I'm 1 year out of a 24 year toxic relationship so im watching these videos to understand what normal is! At my age things are different- you're nearly always talking to someone who also has past experience of toxic relationships. I think in my position you actually need to get to stage 6 before you can trust yourself and the other person.
I actually need to get through any idealisation before i can do that. I'm currently in a situation where i've been messaging with a woman every day for months, and we've met 2 or 3 times in that time. We have a lot in common, but what's most important for me is consistency over time and understanding, warts and all.
My Stages
1.) im already friends with them and i start to like them
2.) tell my other friends about them
3.) flirt with them for a while
4.) find out they like me and I tell them I like them back
5.) we date
6.) we break up bc we fall out of love
I only have 3 stages 😭
1. Falling in love
2. Get anxious for everything
3. Give up
You will find someone one day. There is someone out there for you 😁
Me except for 3
As for me- Stage 1: get a crush
stage 2: actually interact
Stage 3: realize that I'm just wasting away
Stage 4: see a nice pair of wheels
Stage 5: realize that ur crush was nothing and that u have actually found someone(Yes I like to give cars a personality)
Stage 6: Love cars and stay single for life
Pretty much how I turned into a car guy
That's me every time I like someone
same :(
What is it called when your crush likes you back?
I M A G I N A T I O N
Stop ✋ ☹
😭😭😭🤣
🤣😂
Oof 🤣
Yeah sadly...
I’ve made it to stage 5 with my best friend, now partner who I’ve had a crush on for 4-5 years now and never really realized it until recently. I didn’t pick up on those feelings when we first became friends since I was already dating someone at the time but now that I’ve grown up and matured a bit, I’ve realized my feelings for them and they reciprocated so now we’re dating
Woooooooo
My stages with her
Stage 1 : Starting to have feelings (at first I thought it's just a small crush, I just started to have feelings for her after a year. But I still fully don't know her yet in that time)
Stage 2 : confession, but her answer is 'no' but we're still friends
Stage 3 : acting like a little bit too much of a lovely dovey to her, even we're not dating.
Stage 4 : being like a obsessive simp
Stage 5 : Compliments her, praised her, cares for her, worried and concerned about her
Stage 6 : Wanting her to love me back
Stage 7 : started to feel jealousy towards her friends (which I feel hatred and wanting to kill-)
Stage 8 : cause some consequences, having arguments for my mistakes and what I did (but she does forgives me many times.)
Stage 9 : Wanting her to see me as a friend
Stage 10 : changes a bit, starting to control jealousy, trying not to be too much.
Stage 11 : starting to get to know her even more, even despite for sometimes she hates me for being annoying
Stage 12 : wanting her to be happy
Stage 13 : trying to find someone better than her, trying to lose feelings (which didn't work)
Stage 14 : finally letting her go, by telling her about 'block' so that she could be happy in Christmas without me in it
Stage 15 : she finally came back to my life again, giving this chance a try and not go to waste
Stage 16 : some things started to change..
Stage 17 : getting busy all the time, having short conversation
Stage 18 : starting to know about her problems, but she won't admit it yet. But still prepared for the future just in case she wants some comfort
Stage 19 : doesn't talk, hang out, or spending time with each other almost in weeks or months
Stage 20 : despite being not busy, still didn't try to chat with her so I wouldn't bother her life
Stage 21 : trying and trying to lose feelings for her so I could finally move on, and accept the fact that she wouldn't like me back
Stage 22 : discovering that she loves me before I did, but it's too late.
Stage 23 : chatting her on character ai, instead of the real one.
Stage 24 : missing the old days
Stage 25 : the only thing that is important and really matters is her happiness and nothing else...
(I feel like in a mood for venting, and yes. My stupid past self is too much. Which I hate it.)
Ohh almost same but these all things happened in a year😂😢
Im on your stage 21, and yet my own stages are 24 currently which is close enough for me to move on but I haven't 😔
He literally wrote a book about his crush
when you’re in stage 5 even tho you haven’t seen them in 2 years or even talked to them💀
me ✌️
And then falling out of love after the third year 🙂
Yes, this happened to me
Yeah I too I did not talked or seen him . It's been twoyears
I feel like this was more personal towards u lol
This is incorrect, the real stages are
1. Having a crush
2. Being a simp
3. Getting rejected
4. Dying inside
The stages made me ride a different path. My old crush now stalks me.
Edit: yay I'm famous, MoM gEt ThE CaMeRa
@@neoncentix Why do I keep see you in every comment?
@@SourMangoRoblox I genuinely don't know. Coincidence maybe?
exactly😭
Dude i'm dying inside before getting rejected. Correct to:
3.Dying inside
4.Getting rejected
5.Dying inside even more
You're voice has always been so soothing and you're videos explain so much.
my edition:
1. "oo they hot"
2. SIMP
3. SIMP
4. SIMP
5. Imagining scenes
6. okay finally not so crazy love
7. falls out of it
8. stops simping (yay)
Being in love with someone who isnt even your friend is pure pain if you’re an introvert
yah
That’s the thing though if your truly lover her/him you will get out of it and try to have a conversation
I understand
She used to have a crush on me, but I was stupid and didn't know what to do and now I love her
:(
@@dcorn09 what about her??
My six stages:
1. Oh I think I like this person
2. They don’t like me, it could never work out.
3. You know what, I don’t like them. I just think about them a lot.
4. Actually I think I might like them.
5. Deny, deny, deny
6. Repeat
Anyone else like this?
Edit: thanks for the likes! This reassures me that I’m not a complete weirdo haha
Lol
EXACTLY
,yes
Help 😢
Pls the 3rd one is so accurate.
"I think they're cute, but I don't like them." Then I proceed to think about them.
This is me and my journey of way too much crushes:
Stage 1: Attraction
Stage 2: Smiling at them way too much
Stage 3: Do anything to be with them- even if it's a 'coincidence'
Stage 4: Staring at them a lot and laughing when it's not even funny
Stage 5: LOADS OF BUTTERFLIES EVEN THEY JUST LOOK AT YOU
Stage 6: Obsession
Stage 7: TOO OBSESSED
Stage 8: (I always had to leave, schools/ classes etc.) So I had to get over them
Stage 9: Review our memories and have a small cry if they were really attractive but I had to leave
Stage 10: Happy that I got over them but like sometimes just laughing with my friends why I had a crush on them b4
Stage 11: Finally got over them and only good memory remains
Stage 12: Starts all over again
For me it’s
1:falling in love
2: depression
3:depression
4: self harm
5: knowing they hate me
6: acceptance
for me its
1: initial attraction
2: obsession
3: fading obsession
4: acceptance
5: still single
pretty much it
Last time it was just one and two
I wonder what it's gonna be this time
Kind the same to me
Same
I had an obssesion on a classmate lol since he was tall and handsome but morely his voice was the chef kiss loolol but since I knew there's absolute no chance and I'm more like a fan simping on a hot character I letted go of him easily.
Next after him is my seatmate he's lasting pretty long... I think it's because we're close together so it's able to last longer than it supposwd to be ... wonder who's next... kunda have a feeling it's my classmate behind me since I'm kinda starting to have interest on him TT but morely because his similar Instead of like a physical attraction like tge first one and my seatmate, he's rather cool and admiration I admire how he can draw so amazingly while mine sucks... hahhh... though he's cute👍🏻 but he's personality's not so, my seatmate's more cuter in personality.
2 Stages of Anime Crushes:
1. See that one scene
2. Simp for a month
(Edit: Ya'll are making me really famous-)
3. *Simp for a year*
Ha Yes can relate LUCY HEARTFILIA(FAIRYTAIL)
Yeah killua from hxh
Or any other show
*Sees part where fictional crush risk life*
*Me* cries for 2838293838833 years%
@@lilithclawthorne2214 boiii you toooo?
I have a crush. She's the most beutiful girl ever, but my stupid sister ream my journal, and told her! And then, my crush told my sister she didn't like me back 😰. Please put your love any support down in the comments. I'm depressed right now
Sorry that you have to go through that man..i'll hope that you will be with a person that really deserves and loves you💚cheer up man!
I feel sorry for you. I have been thru that too, thats why I have no crush for 3 years. I hope you feel better now. Maybe there is someone out there who will like you back 💗💗
It’s okay to feel sad. I sure wish you guys remain friends. My advice to you is to not stress yourself out about what happened. take some time to recuperate ❤
The upside is - at least you now know that there was no chance for you to be with this girl. You will find someone that returns your feelings sometime soon and then wonder why the hell you wasted part of your life on someone that didn't feel the same as you.
There is somebody for everyone out there in a World of over 8 Billion People, more than half of whom are female.
Get out there, dress smart, look after yourself, work on your confidence, be engaging with girls, smile, say hello and you will find the right person for you real soon. Best of Luck.
Dang sounds like you need a bit of a…
Knife and your sister and the intersection of the two objects
Jk but that seriously sucks
My crush rejected me but did it in a very nice way.
The stages after that:
1. Feelings did not go away, at the same time, became even closer friends than before
2. Had a long conversation with him and accepted that he's not into me or guys in general
3. Staying as close friends but sometimes still have some feelings (current stage lol)
more of
stage 1: Interest
stage 2: curiosity
stage 3: falling in love
stage 4: daydreams
stage 5: imagines scenarios with them
stage 6: realizing that it would never happen since my crush isn't even aware of my existence
Lol same
Finally à Right one hahha
Are you stalking me because this is me 😭😭
Relatable
Aww, it’s ok (my crush has no interest in me at ALL)
Having a crush is like the best and the worst thing at the same time. The good part is the butterflies and the love songs that start to make sense. The bad part is the realisation of how little of a chance you have with them :')
I have no chance.
@@Frtizm literally same
@@wilmawehrle6878 mee tooo
guys i need some help, is it possible to have a crush on someone you never talked with, just by seeing them?
@@ShedowGame Sometimes,but if you never talked to them,then you don't know what type of person they are and what things and qualities do they like.That person can even turn out to be rude or not your type.If you have never talked to them and just stare at them,it makes them uncomfortable.It also sometimes leave a bad impression.One thing you should do is try talking to them.If you are not good at starting a conversation then just go to them for some work.Slowly slowly talk to them,get to know them.Share stuff about each other.Try understanding each other and you'll become good friends.If you start loving your crush too much and you thing that she also thinks the same way about you then don't be scared to ask her out.Good luck buddy i hope it helped!! (In my case,i have a crush but she thinks of me just as friends,i can never ask her out cuz I'll get rejected)
I can relate a lot with stage 3. Thank you for this video!
my stages: 1) obsession 2) realising that i am not the one and falling out of love
this man described my entire life
yah
now my stages of having a crush is just not having a crush. i dont find girls attractive anymore cause i know i'm just gonna be single forever.
Meanwhile me: *laughs in having a crush only on a fictional characters or celebrities*
I knooow lmaooo😂😂😂😂😂
Right?
Yessss
My love with Neville Longbottom in a nutshell
Same 😌
having a crush is NOT fun, it's absolutely terrible.
Ikr
Just the one who crushes suffer
It's Bester to never have a crush
It's fun but filled with pain and suffering 85% of the time for me
And when you watch ship videos of that one person who you have a crush on but pretend to ship it too-
Ya the fact that u want to get it over with and you always have the same feeling and can't focus
❤ Luv the new animating style btw ❤
My stages:
1. First interest on the person
2. Confusion cause idk how it happened
3. Secret Crush on the person (this lasted forever and it sucks)
4. Curiosity (but least severe)
5. Denying I'm in love even if I still am
6. Tell my friends about, but as if I'm already not in love
7. Realizing that this person will never be with me
8. Sadness / Trying to not be in love
9. Actually making good progress
10. The satisfaction of letting someone go (no feeling is better than this one)
1. Interest: Meeting someone new.
2. Curiosity: Learning about them.
3. Infatuation: Excitement.
4. Sharing: Talking about them.
5. Falling in love: Getting to know them and loving them for who they are.
6. waking up...
That all happened to me well some of them
XD
6. really hurts tho
@@syvj-xm2ti ho-
Going through 6 right now
my stages:
1.thinks he cute as a joke
2.soon realizes it isnt
3.falling hard asf
4.thinking about him 24/7
IKR THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME WITHIN A WEEK I AGREEE
Same for me
1. I like him (joke)
Then a few years later
2. I don’t like him I definitely don’t
3. NO I DONT
4. maybe?
5. NONO
6. Actually maybe..?
And I don’t know till this day.
@@KKUNIQUE. YUUUP
Been through this and stage 5 is he doesn't like me back
stop calling me out .
You forgot 1 part that can be in between the multiple stages. Jealousy, you feel like you arent good enough for them, you feel like she deserves someone better.
"A lot of people deny or debate with their feelings first before they can accept them, but the moment you do you;; suddenly feel the pull of romantic attraction" This hit me like a truck, I just recently went from "I probably dont have a crush on this person" to "ok I have a crush on this person" this morning I was hit with a wave of happiness in my spine, something I haven't felt for literal years since my last crush rejected me.... the only reason I was denying my feelings was because I didn't feel this wave, but now.... I feel so happy to feel those butterflies again.
"Have you been crushing on someone right now"
Me: *Yes, for 5 years...*
spill the tea Im all ears
3 for me. I actually have a feeling that he might like me back but if I'm going to tell him, I want it to just be the two of us and that hasn't really been able to happen.
I'm the same... I have been in love with a girl from my class since I've met her, I'm in a 3rd grade right now and I haven't done anything about it. I knew from the start that I'm not good enough for her. And If I confessed to her I would get rejected for sure, but I just can't get her out of my head I love her so much. Anyone has some advice on how to fall out of love so I can finally stop tormenting myself over this?
P.s Sorry for bad English.
@cinnabunn- Btw, I was literally planning to visit psychologist to talk about this would that be too weird?
Almost 6 months and I'm disappointed of miself for this record
My stages
1)obsession
2)obsession
3)obsession
4)obsession
5)obsession
6) Accepting we can never be together and falling out of love
Same bro 😭😭
hahaha
"Emotion is the father of all error. Chemicals in our brain that distract us, impede progress. And the most destructive and ridiculous imbalance of all is that thing you feebles call love. "
My stages be like:
1)Ask for her money
2)spend it all on team fortress 2
3) ghost her
4) repeat
Stages 1 look at her 2 obsesse 3 obsesse 4 obsesse
For me its
1.Interest
2.Deciding she is my crush
3.Being shy and obsessed with her
4.Losing love
5.Stop liking her for a while
6.liking her again
7.Stop being shy and get serious
8.Make her your best friend and talk 24/7
9.Figure out she likes you back then go crazy
10.Start sharing my crush with people
To be continued.....
I have never had a crush so I never really understood what a crush was, so thank you for this video!
How is nobody talking about how SMOOTH the animation was
it's actually not that smooth. but, it was still pretty good
bc it wasn't
Because it wasn’t? It was literally tweening?
hello me from the future the animation was in fact not that smooth
strange how im back to the same video two years later though...
Who else thought their crush likes them back when their crush acts kind towards you, but sadly, in reality, you're just background character in their story.
same
You're not alone 🤣🤣
same 😭🤚
At least yall are talking to your crush :-:
@@zectalyx930 you just gotta slide into the dms
I went through stage 1, 2 and 3 recently. I didn't really talk to friends about her, I was too anxious but also a little embarrassed. Actually, I don't know, I couldn't think straight 😂 I didn't really know my crush well, but I still got so excited when she sent me messages. I've never had feelings as strong as this, so most of the time I didn't really know how I felt, plus I had crippling anxiety, partly because of the crushing. Even before the infatuation or before I was aware of it, I had this huge urge to tell her how I felt. When I still wasn't sure, I kept complimenting her. Then, she was all I could think about, I couldn't concentrate on anything else, so I told her everything. She told me I'm an amazing person but she has her heart set on someone else and thought we could just be friends. I just felt so sad and depressed. I knew she wasn't perfect - but she felt perfect to me. Someone so beautiful, kind, supportive, friendly, caring, humble... It hurt so much. I knew it wasn't love, but I was hoping we could be in a relationship, to find out if we could love each other. I don't like to wait to ask someone out until I fall in love, I would do it as soon as I can, just in case they like me back and it turns into love later. If we don't like each other anymore, that's that. Right now, I'm not as sad but my feelings are still lingering slightly. I still dream of being with my crush. I want to be friends with her since we got on so well before I told her. We still talk to each other but she doesn't always respond to me in person, mainly if I'm complimenting her work. She hasn't been responding to my texts recently either. I'm trying not to push it, I want to know what's best and I want to know how she feels about me so I don't feel so awkward trying to think of when to talk to her and what to say, but I was told I should just leave it. It already hurts that we can't be partners but I'm slowly starting to accept that, it'll hurt even more if we can't be friends, she's such a nice person!
My stages:
1.) realizing I like him, but I already have another crush
2.) deep denial
3.) obsession (hidden)
4.) extreme obsession (my friends start to notice）
5.) rethinking choices
6.) stalking
7.) asking my friends for his number
8.) he has a girlfriend
9.) simping until I find someone new
10.) no feelings whatsoever
“you feel that there’s very little chance of them ever liking you back”
*gay sobbing is heard in the distance*
Same 😔
Tooo real 😭😭
Wow how could you hear me
😂 YES!!!
Jdndzxjw yes
Anyone ever have a crush but know you’re not ready for a relationship so you never confess and instead wait for it to go away?
Edit: came back 2 this video after getting another crush. Completely forgot about this comment lol. I am still doing the same thing
No, never in history has that happened to anyone.
@@perceusshadowmantle9538 are you sure about that
This has happened to me.
Im just like that, like now, Haha.
Yo dude beluga profile U STOLE THAT PROFILE
ur voice is so soothing and i watch ur videos wenever i hate my fam, and i come out loving them just because of ur voice
for me its like:
1. seeing her for the first time
2. the same second thinking shes so so pretty
3. getting to know her and starting to be more and more in love with her personalty and looks and voice
4. obsession
5. total obsession
6. obsession to the point i think of her 24/7 and get blushed and butterflies even when i only think of her (current stage)
Stage 1: interest
Stage 2: curiosity
Stage 3: infatuation
Stage 4: sharing
Stage 5: falling in love
Stage 6: falling out of love
THERE! I just saved you time
Thanks! :D
stage 6 will never happen for this one istg
Step 7 repeat (Happens to me so many times for this one, istfg)
Thanks buddy. This saved me 5 minutes
i - i love u sm thank u
Stage 7, suffering for years having a crush on someone you cant have.
Relatable-
That's intense.
Sad but true.
Been there... it's horrible. But you'll find someone who loves you just the way you are
Sadly relatable
don't really wan't to get into a relationship but then again in my life it would be good to have someone comfort me
I can totally relate with this vid but my current crush stages go like this:
1. Interest
2. Convos
3. Friends
4. Good friends
5.Telling my urge (aka like a bunch of people)
6. Denial that my rush will never like me back
7. Erasing negative thoughts
8. OBSESSION
My stages:
1. "I want to talk to them more"
2. Trying to impress them
3. Daydreaming, Seeing them as "too good for me", simping
4. Daydreaming x3, making them my best friend
5. Regrets, fights, self-hatred, "I'm not good enough", ignorance
6. Realizing they are toxic + cruel ending
7. *Depression.*
ah yes the good ol' stage 7, sad times
thats exactly mines????? WTF
“I’m gonna die alone”
ive come to accept that im dying alone
Ye he told me to die and all on the New Year's day and that's when I finally decided to accept he was toxic for me, he's the only guy that welcomed me and make me feel confident so I believe he deserves way better the reason he told me mean stuff was not his fault, I kinda insulted his bestfriend cause she was bullying my bestfriend and he didn't know his best friend was bullying mine so ye he told me to die, no one loves me cause I'm fat and things like that which didn't really offended me but after that we rarely talked, he moved to another state now cause of his father's job and he's never coming back to my state again I'll miss him for sure cause he was a good friend but I think things will go alright with me now, learnt lots of lessons from him
My stages:
Stage 1- “he looks comfy, I like to hug him”
Stage 2- “wait, what did I just thought”
Stage 3- “bruh, what’s happening to me”
Stage 4- “it’s not like I have a crush on him”
Stage 5- “ok fine, I admit it”
(But still, I don’t like being involved into romance yet because I’m still young)
Edit: Oh shoot- i almost forgot abt this comment- anyways, so i moved on from that guy…
Haw haw
💀
PLZ THATS ME
How old are u ?
@@tumpamukherjee1036 I do not want to tell my age to the public even if you don’t know me irl. I also have other more important reasons. (Lmao, I sound mature. Because that’s just me :/)
I got to learn abt my crush through public speaking! We share a class, and i learned a LOT abt him.
He may not like me *yet* , but im determined that he might like me! Only because:
1. I was told that he acts different around me. My friends told me that he's not normally shy and not able to think abt what to say, but to me, he is like that.
2. We have been partnered several times and always is there to help me with anything in what we're working on because he's smart
Me: “She’s not scary, she’s cute. She’s not scary, she’s cute. She’s not scary, she’s cute. x2”
Crush: “Hai!”
Me: *dies from a heart attack*
Omg that's so me lmao
That's so cute >///
awwwww
LOL
I can relate
Sans...?
My stages as someone who has a crush on a friend:
1. Friends
2. Little interest
3. They show up in my dreams
4. More interest
5. Eye contact
6. The "no they wont like me back"
7. The "but they give me a subtle look"
8. Making up fake scenarios
9. The end
Right? The past 2 or 3 crushes have begun with dreams.
Ya talk about sad stuff. I know exactly how you feel.
That’s my life LMAO.
SAME
Yeah, it’s pretty much the same for me.
I’m
In a weird place. This was someone who I thought had feelings for me. I finally after years return some interest and I feel like I’m in a rollercoaster of emotions. I’m starting to believe that they don’t like me actually
My crush is an amazing girl who makes me happy when she smiles and speaks to me
My stages to having a crush:
1. Thinking that he is an idioit
2.Knowing that he is an idiot
3. Finding out, that i like him
4.Told him, that he is an idiot
edit: it's actually happend, he said thank you XD
😂 lmho
Yaaaaass
Tf 😂😂😂
5. Accepting he is an idiot
Tsundere much
“Are you crushing on someone right now?”
I’ve been CAUGHT
🤣🤣
AHA!! Which stage are you at right now?
@@Psych2go stage 3 :)
@@Psych2go stage 3 i won't even gonna share
@Psych2go stage 0 because I am only 9
Thanks that was good vid❤ I love your voice:)
mine would be :
1) confusiom
2) denial
3) gaslighting "no i don't"
4) smiles when think about them but still gaslight my self
5) fell hard but gaslight myself that they'll never like me (longest stage tbh)
6) loss interest... (very happy and not)
Same here
_why i am i watching this..._
*They don’t even exist* 😪
_To all my 2D crushes_ 😪😢
Our religion 2d thighs
Kunal Singha Roy and 2d ass lmao
And oppai of Rias
Me too bruh
Jotaro Kujo Yo Jotaro!
When u liked someone for over a year and has never had a full conversation with them :' )
Same.. he talked to me just once and i fall for her..my story is like a nerdy boy and the top female in our school... I think he realized im a simp becuz he unfollowed me on all social med.. shit feeels hard man.. but the thing i hate the most is that i still feel attached to her..
I just got a headache from reading that
Yes same
Literally me.
Me D: (Hello darkness my old friend)
My stages are
- Be completely happy with my life
- Meet person
- Think about them every once in a while
- They are nice to me
- Think about them literally all day
- Develop intense self hatred
- Get too nervous to ever tell them I have a crush
- Fall out of love
- Depression
- Finding myself again
- Being completely happy with my life
- Meet another person
The best feeling knowing he also likes you back
That moment you've had a crush on the same person for 3 years.....
Legit me rn
Same here!! Three years, yes three years! 😓😓💔
I'm not at 3 years yet I'm nearly there though
That ain't crush that means you are in love.
TRUE
I had a crush on someone for 3-4 years,but I got over them already
(At least I think so-)
@@sakurai6176 what about 1,5 years am i midway
me, who has a crush on someone who isn't even real: 👁👄👁
Same
Same, that's why I'm now afraid to watch anime.
Same it’s tough 😔😕
2D women/men are better than actual relationships-
I once fell in love with a real girl and when that happens‚ you truly think this person is as good if not better than an anime character.
I got rejected and I thought everything was okay but every time I think about her I cry
My stages are like:
1. Denial
2. Acceptance
3. Obsession
4. Gets rejected before even talking to them
5. Jumps to conclusions
6. Depressed/reality check
MY 8 stages of having a crush:
1. Denial - “I think they’re attractive but it’s not a crush.”
2. Acceptance - “ok i’d say I’m attracted to them”
3. Cool facade - *sees them*
*doesn’t even look in their direction even tho my heart is going crazy*
- but I also don’t look in the direction of people I dislike as well, so… It’s kinda hard to read me
4. Tries to snap myself out of it - “THEY’RE NOT EVEN THAT CUTE WHY DO I EVEN HAVE AN ATTRACTION TO THEM”
5. Rationalization - “Ok fine. I may be attracted to them, but I won’t even try to get their attention cuz it’s not worth it. Chances are, we will never see each other again after this school year, so why bother! Plus, they don’t match my very high standards personality-wise. And I need to focus on school not any crush.”
6. Mixed feelings - “I don’t like them like that. I like them, I guess? But it’s not anything special.” *pushes away any romantic feelings*
7. My dichotomy - *unintentionally thinks about them sometimes when I’m alone*
*avoids them when I actually see them in public*
*tries to get closer to them by only passing by them once and then avoiding them*
8. Move on and find a new victim
Wow I am confusing.
Bro I can relate so much I'm going through the same
OH MY GOD ITS ME
...AH, well, it's the same as me AHAHAH
Hey I can actually relate
Thats me.. Im in straight up denial
Is no one gonna talk about how soothing her voice is? 🥺😍✨
It is
Hi
It’s amazing insist it
I want to talk about it but I thought lots of them already talked about it..
I’m not afraid to be called a simp so I’m gonna say it
“That voice is amazing”
for me it's:
1. Become friends.
2. realising i kinda like them.
3. denial.
4. more denial.
5. realizing.
6. trying to gaslight myself that i'm still in denial.
7. in denial, but even more and more sad.
8. trying to cheer up.
9. heartaches for everytime that has a thought with them.
10. trying to move on.
11. brain and heart having a full on war.
12. depression.
13. trying to move on.
14. trying.
14. failed.
15. stuck in an endless loop.
that's my story, it hasn't ended yet.
my stages :
1.finding them kinda pretty
2. seeing them more
3. starting to think about them
4. starting to get a huge crush
5.a bit obsessed and defently jealous
6.feeling insecure about everthink
7. trying to hide it
8. laughing at their jokes too much and smiling a lot in front of them
9. a bit blushing and trying to look at them without gettin catched
10. Trying to find out if my crush likes me back
11. Trying to avoid them a bit
12. noticing everything about them
13. not wanting to fall deeply in love
14. learn more about them and trying to find signals
15. falling deeply in love
16. not wanting to get heartbroken
17. trying everytime to hide it (but I fail almost everytime)
18. feeling comfortable around them
19. very jealous
20. every situation seems to be really important
21. after more than one year loving them, simply starting to get the stages down (20,19,18,17,16,15,14 etc)
22. only finding them pretty but not more
23. finding them ok but realising that your crush liked your back (it just hits hard)
24. falling in love again with them and going AGAIN trough the stages ....
25. and comparing in every from these stages myself to others
What is it called when ur crush doesn't like you?
S A D F E E L I N G S
Rejection?
@@basicbitch7670 kinda
OMG I love your show!
Hi naruto uzamaki XD
Can’t relate 💅
me: clicks on this video
psych2go: "this begins when you meet someone"
me: *clicks off video and cries in fictional characters*
i still think this video works pretty well for fictional characters except maybe stage 5
Oh gosh ☺️
Me too...
especialy percy jackson characters
@@zodiacweirdo3340 ahh yes my very first book crushes
right now, i'm currently in stage 4 - telling people i like this guy, asking them advice on what to say and do around him and asking them to help me put the puzzle pieces together on things they've said or done. it was such a confusing crush to come to terms with, though. when i first met him, i was attracted to another guy. it took me months to figure out that the other guy wasn't who i thought he was, and the person i truly liked was right in front of me all along. what scares me the most is the fact that he's stated that he's not ready for a relationship right now, which knowing his story with his ex, i can totally see why. some of the people i know think he might like me back, and while i'm both excited and nervous about that, i would never want to force him to be in a relationship when he's not ready, nor would i want to feel disappointed by that either. but i think i want this to work out, in some sort of way. i just don't want to lose him as a friend. we've gotten pretty close over the past few months and i wouldn't want to risk ruining that. i just don't know where to go from here, i guess. it'd be tough too, because we work together, so if he ever found out, i think things would either work out or fall apart.
For me it’s:-
1. Falling in love after seeing him in school randomly
2. Literally became my crush, and found his Facebook.
3. Stalking him every second, and telling my friends about him.
4. Getting random butterflies when I see him.
5. Simping for him more.
6. Everything started to get perfect, no depression for months while liking him!
7. Face turning red when he laughs or smiles.
8. Realizing I LOVE him not LIKE him.
9. In love with him for 3 years, but never told him or talked with him much. (Once I did)
10. Never ending love.
Someone: *Hey, do u have a girlfriend?*
Me, not wanting to “cheat” on my crush who probably doesn’t even like me back: *well yes but actually no..*
hey, catra
@@yourlocalanimator9955 😳
@@heyadora6207 You okay?
It’s scary how I did this
catra simp club unite
Incoming rant:
I feel like a crush can end without a relationship and still feel good. Unrequited love, as some call it, is such a beautiful thing. Social media makes us believe that if a crush ends without a relationship it was tragic, but I think the idea of having a crush in and of itself is not tragic at all, even if it ends without a spark. There’s something so pure about the idea of having your entire day made by simply brushing shoulders with that special person or feeling euphoric when they smile. Sometimes you might even go out of your way to see them, whether it’d be going down a different hallway at school or going somewhere you’ll know you’ll find them. Not to mention the urge to better yourself so they’ll notice you. You might start working out more or dressing up better. It’s funny to think about how us humans try to woo other people we like.
It’s even better when the other person doesn’t know that you like them! It really goes to show how we impact others without even knowing it. Who knows? Maybe someone is crushing on you too. Maybe someone admires your smile from afar and goes out of their way to bump into you. Maybe you’re that special person they think about when they watch these kinds of videos. And maybe one day they’ll look back on their life at one point and an image of you will pop up in their head. Even 20 years from now, you can be the cause of someone to smile and not know it. See what I mean? One sided love is not always tragic. That special spark is one that, unlike many relationships, will last a lifetime.
Then why am I dead inside?
This honestly made my day
im crying why did this hit so hard
as someone whos had a hopeless crush for 4 years until quarantine started and is now possibly regaining feelings again, reading this made me happy :,) ily
@SAM STROMBERG I’m glad it got you thinking :)
@@kyreine You were definitely meant to see this then! No matter the outcome of your crush, try to look at your feelings in a positive light instead of stressing over them. It will make everything much easier :) Good luck !!
This just made me cry man...
I’ve had the same crush for 3 years. We talk all the time. 1st year I liked him I told him. He friend zoned me. Second year I liked him. I told him over text. He kinda ignored it. 3rd year I liked him. I texted him.
That was tonight
Now I have a boyfriend! 🥺❤❤❤❤
When your crush is someone who ignores you .-.
Ah i love it how he ignores me daily ♡
That's too frustrating😫😫😫
@@user-cp6cr9mv3j Hi,what's up
How old are you?
@potato goddess Not really LOL
I feel that- (my crush is my enemy TwT)
When all hopes gone, where is the cringe stage when you start to think about all the weird things you once said to them and now you’re like ‘fuck what was I thinking’ 😬
I literally wish I can like this comment more than once 😂
Lol so true😂😂😂😂😂
Indeed
YESS, LMFAOO
LMAO I'VE NEVER EVEN HAVE A CRUSH BUT I FELT THIS
Your voice is soo smooth🥰
I have 5 stages:
1. I tell my self they just look good
2. I let my self think about it until rumors or anything happens in this period
3. I try to talk to them
4. I try to find away to muster courage to ask them for any social media profiles, or just talk to other people
5. I ethier drop it after time( sadly no longer intrested in them until a large event happens) or just realize theirs no point becuase they dont like me
Extra: i figured out 2 years later that she liked me at the same time I was with here
💗