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My stages: 1. Denial 2. More denial 3. Realization. "Oh frick, I *do* like them" 4. Simping but from afar 5. More simping but from afar 6. Thinking of how I can interact with them even if it's very small and stupid 7. Failing 8. Continuing to be a simp for 2 more years
My stages: 1. butterflies 2. avoiding them 3. Dreaming about them 4. Crying in my room wondering when this would stop 5. Trying to find a girl that likes him too 6. Acceptance that I like him and that it won’t go away 7. Praying to god asking if he likes me or not so it might go away 8. Finally, I try to kill those feelings of them by asking them
Having a crush is like the best and the worst thing at the same time. The good part is the butterflies and the love songs that start to make sense. The bad part is the realisation of how little of a chance you have with them :')
@@ShedowGame Sometimes,but if you never talked to them,then you don't know what type of person they are and what things and qualities do they like.That person can even turn out to be rude or not your type.If you have never talked to them and just stare at them,it makes them uncomfortable.It also sometimes leave a bad impression.One thing you should do is try talking to them.If you are not good at starting a conversation then just go to them for some work.Slowly slowly talk to them,get to know them.Share stuff about each other.Try understanding each other and you'll become good friends.If you start loving your crush too much and you thing that she also thinks the same way about you then don't be scared to ask her out.Good luck buddy i hope it helped!! (In my case,i have a crush but she thinks of me just as friends,i can never ask her out cuz I'll get rejected)
more of stage 1: Interest stage 2: curiosity stage 3: falling in love stage 4: daydreams stage 5: imagines scenarios with them stage 6: realizing that it would never happen since my crush isn't even aware of my existence
As for me- Stage 1: get a crush stage 2: actually interact Stage 3: realize that I'm just wasting away Stage 4: see a nice pair of wheels Stage 5: realize that ur crush was nothing and that u have actually found someone(Yes I like to give cars a personality) Stage 6: Love cars and stay single for life Pretty much how I turned into a car guy
Same I had an obssesion on a classmate lol since he was tall and handsome but morely his voice was the chef kiss loolol but since I knew there's absolute no chance and I'm more like a fan simping on a hot character I letted go of him easily. Next after him is my seatmate he's lasting pretty long... I think it's because we're close together so it's able to last longer than it supposwd to be ... wonder who's next... kunda have a feeling it's my classmate behind me since I'm kinda starting to have interest on him TT but morely because his similar Instead of like a physical attraction like tge first one and my seatmate, he's rather cool and admiration I admire how he can draw so amazingly while mine sucks... hahhh... though he's cute👍🏻 but he's personality's not so, my seatmate's more cuter in personality.
My six stages: 1. Oh I think I like this person 2. They don’t like me, it could never work out. 3. You know what, I don’t like them. I just think about them a lot. 4. Actually I think I might like them. 5. Deny, deny, deny 6. Repeat Anyone else like this? Edit: thanks for the likes! This reassures me that I’m not a complete weirdo haha
I had a crush on someone, but then i thought she's out of my league, and now, that we're in other classes and we dont even talk, i now realize that she gave me, SUCH clear signs, and now i am sad i didn't make my move...
Same for me 1. I like him (joke) Then a few years later 2. I don’t like him I definitely don’t 3. NO I DONT 4. maybe? 5. NONO 6. Actually maybe..? And I don’t know till this day.
My stages as someone who has a crush on a friend: 1. Friends 2. Little interest 3. They show up in my dreams 4. More interest 5. Eye contact 6. The "no they wont like me back" 7. The "but they give me a subtle look" 8. Making up fake scenarios 9. The end
I don't know how to show my emotions, and get really uncomfortable with being affectionate and stuff, so it leads me to get obsessed, and usually checking what social media I have if they posted anything or are playing anything. It also leads me to become really jealous, and when they don't give me enough attention (Pretty neglected by my mom, and they're usually the one that gives me attention besides my sister). My crush knows about this, and is perfectly fine with it (thankfully). We both know what we've are going through and stuff, and we can't really be mad at each other for what we do.
Since I couldn’t find the summarizer, I’ll be it. 1. Interest 2. Curiosity 3. Infatuation 4. Sharing 5. Falling in love (might be skipped) 6. Falling out of love Hope this helps.
1. Interest: Meeting someone new. 2. Curiosity: Learning about them. 3. Infatuation: Excitement. 4. Sharing: Talking about them. 5. Falling in love: Getting to know them and loving them for who they are. 6. waking up...
It has been 2 years and just a mere glance at her makes my heart flutter, this feeling never died down. I wonder if I'll ever have the courage to approach her or it is better to stay as a secret admirer.....
Same man. I have a strong crush on this girl. She is so pretty and i'm an average. I know she will never accept me. But still i can't control me liking her everyday.
Who else thought their crush likes them back when their crush acts kind towards you, but sadly, in reality, you're just background character in their story.
6 stages of having a crush 1. cry 2. cry 3. cry 4. imagine a whole life together with them and consider talking to them but get scared you’re being too obvious 5. cry 6. cry
I felt like my crush was not responding me back i got frustrated and blocked him.. for days then he called me and asked did I block him? Then I unblocked him 🤷♀️ now I feel okay jus move on but I do have a small crush on himm
I have had a crush on my boy best friend for 3 years and I finally had the courage to tell him, now we are dating 😄. All the advice I have is just don't wait just tell him/her!
My stages: Stage 1- “he looks comfy, I like to hug him” Stage 2- “wait, what did I just thought” Stage 3- “bruh, what’s happening to me” Stage 4- “it’s not like I have a crush on him” Stage 5- “ok fine, I admit it” (But still, I don’t like being involved into romance yet because I’m still young) Edit: Oh shoot- i almost forgot abt this comment- anyways, so i moved on from that guy…
@@tumpamukherjee1036 I do not want to tell my age to the public even if you don’t know me irl. I also have other more important reasons. (Lmao, I sound mature. Because that’s just me :/)
Incoming rant: I feel like a crush can end without a relationship and still feel good. Unrequited love, as some call it, is such a beautiful thing. Social media makes us believe that if a crush ends without a relationship it was tragic, but I think the idea of having a crush in and of itself is not tragic at all, even if it ends without a spark. There’s something so pure about the idea of having your entire day made by simply brushing shoulders with that special person or feeling euphoric when they smile. Sometimes you might even go out of your way to see them, whether it’d be going down a different hallway at school or going somewhere you’ll know you’ll find them. Not to mention the urge to better yourself so they’ll notice you. You might start working out more or dressing up better. It’s funny to think about how us humans try to woo other people we like. It’s even better when the other person doesn’t know that you like them! It really goes to show how we impact others without even knowing it. Who knows? Maybe someone is crushing on you too. Maybe someone admires your smile from afar and goes out of their way to bump into you. Maybe you’re that special person they think about when they watch these kinds of videos. And maybe one day they’ll look back on their life at one point and an image of you will pop up in their head. Even 20 years from now, you can be the cause of someone to smile and not know it. See what I mean? One sided love is not always tragic. That special spark is one that, unlike many relationships, will last a lifetime.
im crying why did this hit so hard as someone whos had a hopeless crush for 4 years until quarantine started and is now possibly regaining feelings again, reading this made me happy :,) ily
@@kyreine You were definitely meant to see this then! No matter the outcome of your crush, try to look at your feelings in a positive light instead of stressing over them. It will make everything much easier :) Good luck !!
"Emotion is the father of all error. Chemicals in our brain that distract us, impede progress. And the most destructive and ridiculous imbalance of all is that thing you feebles call love. "
My stages are - Be completely happy with my life - Meet person - Think about them every once in a while - They are nice to me - Think about them literally all day - Develop intense self hatred - Get too nervous to ever tell them I have a crush - Fall out of love - Depression - Finding myself again - Being completely happy with my life - Meet another person
My stages: 1. Denial 2. More Denial 3. Realizing then denying 4. Questioning whether I like them or just overreacting 5. Realizing 6. Trying to forget that feeling 7. Slow Acceptance 8. Planning to tell them to let it out but backs out 9. Accepting and planning to tell them in the future-
ngl a day or 2 after commenting this- I confessed- and then he was like "Phase 1 complete" ... like bro- wtf?!- I am a huge overthinker so here I am still thinking whether he was serious about him liking me or just playing me 🙂
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. _ 1 Corinthians 6:18 that's why we get anxiety and depression once we do it, because we're committing a sin against ourselves. nothing on this earth is worth your ETERNAL LIFE and SOUL.
My 14 stages: 1. I don't really notice them at all but they end up being around a lot (friend of a friend, I have a lot of classes with them, etc) 2. someone else mentions them in a romantic context and I get curious 3. Thinking about them way more 4. catching myself watching them, physical attraction 5. stalk socials 6. denial denial denial 7. knowing my feelings but thinking they aren't justified or real and completely fantasized (this is usually true though lol) 8. acting different, being really nervous, trying to always catch their attention 9. realizing I actually don't know them very well 10. lowering the pedestal I put for them and trying to have more conversations/ trying to be emotionally closer to them 11. falling for them more realistically/ with less fantasizing 12. actually acknowledging my feelings completely 13. thinking about having an actual relationship but realizing they are out of my league and probably aren't interested or they aren’t the one 14. always ends in losing feelings and heartbreak:/// Edit: glad I’m not alone in this 🥴 Guys ik absolutely no one asked but rn I'm at stage 10 with the guy I'm crushing on and bro I swear idk where my feelings came from but I have absolutely no chance and I don't want to be rejected and I also feel like I don't actually know him that well but I genuinely really like him?? and I turn into someone who is so self-aware around him that it's a problem and we talked for like a second during class and it was all I could think about the entire day, I could not focus. anyways I'm gonna go watch "how to get over your crush" from this same channel....
Honestly, to me, having a crush is so bittersweet. On one hand, it’s nice to have someone to like bc it’s just this rlly nice and amazing feeling. On the other, it’s annoying for me bc I just can’t get this one person out of my mind. Plus I get paranoid and overthink a lot. I’m scared that if I do end up in a relationship with a person, I’ll find out I don’t actually like them and that’ll hurt the both of us. Another thing I’m scared of is rejection which is pretty common, mostly bc I don’t want our relationship to become awkward after a breakup like I still wish to laugh and joke around with u as friends. (Sorry that was a long rant thank you for reading) Edit: thank you guys for the helpful advice and being able to relate :) My next question: Are u able to like someone you don’t even know? Or is it just an infatuation or unspoken attraction? I’m conflicted lol
Rejection and conflicts are part of any human relationship and we deal with those in our daily lives pretty often, point being, it’s ok to feel bad about being rejected, it’s ok to think that you might mess things up somehow and make things awkward between the two of you due to your past, it’s all part of being human. What is not okay is to stay with these thoughts and not externalizing your feelings for that person, keeping it all bottled up to yourself and then once it’s too late wonder what might had happen if you said how you felt, and remain with a sense of regret when you think back on them. Give it a shot, go for it no matter what, believe in the end of the day wether of it works out or not, you’ll feel like you took a BIG weight of your shoulders. And who knows, maybe that person sees you in that same light but never found enough courage to say so until you took that step. You can do this all it takes is a little leap of faith. Take care and have a wonderful day! Next time around, listen to your heart.
I’ve had a few crushes in my lifetime, but my biggest issue for the longest time was being too afraid to talk to them. This led to me going straight to stage 6 in a lot of those occasions
@@nievesrathbun6831 hmm , I don't know what to ask,to start a conversation 😕 I think i will talk to her at home,but when i am at school,i can't because i have nothing to ask
for me it's: 1. Become friends. 2. realising i kinda like them. 3. denial. 4. more denial. 5. realizing. 6. trying to gaslight myself that i'm still in denial. 7. in denial, but even more and more sad. 8. trying to cheer up. 9. heartaches for everytime that has a thought with them. 10. trying to move on. 11. brain and heart having a full on war. 12. depression. 13. trying to move on. 14. trying. 14. failed. 15. stuck in an endless loop. that's my story, it hasn't ended yet.
My stages: 1. "I want to talk to them more" 2. Trying to impress them 3. Daydreaming, Seeing them as "too good for me", simping 4. Daydreaming x3, making them my best friend 5. Regrets, fights, self-hatred, "I'm not good enough", ignorance 6. Realizing they are toxic + cruel ending 7. *Depression.*
Ye he told me to die and all on the New Year's day and that's when I finally decided to accept he was toxic for me, he's the only guy that welcomed me and make me feel confident so I believe he deserves way better the reason he told me mean stuff was not his fault, I kinda insulted his bestfriend cause she was bullying my bestfriend and he didn't know his best friend was bullying mine so ye he told me to die, no one loves me cause I'm fat and things like that which didn't really offended me but after that we rarely talked, he moved to another state now cause of his father's job and he's never coming back to my state again I'll miss him for sure cause he was a good friend but I think things will go alright with me now, learnt lots of lessons from him
My stage 1. Denial 2. Accepting it but denying when ppl ask 3. Accepting it 4.”he likes you back” “make a move!” 5. Wait he actually might like me? 6. PHYSICALLY CLOSER 7. Best friends (very touchy?) 8. I don’t know what to think
My stages: 1) person compliments or says something nice 2) I think they like me 3) i start liking them back 4) i try to engage more with them 5) i realise they actually dont like me 6) i continue liking them T_T
MY 8 stages of having a crush: 1. Denial - “I think they’re attractive but it’s not a crush.” 2. Acceptance - “ok i’d say I’m attracted to them” 3. Cool facade - *sees them* *doesn’t even look in their direction even tho my heart is going crazy* - but I also don’t look in the direction of people I dislike as well, so… It’s kinda hard to read me 4. Tries to snap myself out of it - “THEY’RE NOT EVEN THAT CUTE WHY DO I EVEN HAVE AN ATTRACTION TO THEM” 5. Rationalization - “Ok fine. I may be attracted to them, but I won’t even try to get their attention cuz it’s not worth it. Chances are, we will never see each other again after this school year, so why bother! Plus, they don’t match my very high standards personality-wise. And I need to focus on school not any crush.” 6. Mixed feelings - “I don’t like them like that. I like them, I guess? But it’s not anything special.” *pushes away any romantic feelings* 7. My dichotomy - *unintentionally thinks about them sometimes when I’m alone* *avoids them when I actually see them in public* *tries to get closer to them by only passing by them once and then avoiding them* 8. Move on and find a new victim Wow I am confusing.
I remember i started to watch this channel bcs i want to fell out of love from someone i used to have a huge crush on. She didn’t feel the same in fact she never will. I was heartbroken and desperate, i can’t think of any chance of me surviving that stage. But here i am around a year after, i finally feel way more confident. I’ve let it all go, i can’t blame her tho. I’m no longer upset for the fact that me and her will never workout. I can say now i’m right on the edge of acceptance. Thank you for Psych2Go, you guys helped me through the dark old days 🍀
my 6 stages: - talking to someone i never thought i would - getting attached easily bc they're giving me the slightest bit of attention - questioning back and forth whether i like them or not - realizing they like me back me too but i'm too scared to tell them - they move on and date someone else - repeat this has happened twice lol
Mine is getting consistent attention from him and questioning what it means since nobody usually pays attention to me and acts like I'm invisible. I'm now in the stage of questioning wtf my feelings are, and if they're even romantic or if I'm just so attention starved and neglected that I'm mistaking friendly connection for attraction. And it sucks 🥲
I'm now in stage 6 and it's because I got rejected and because I realised things that made me reconsider my feelings. Moving on was really hard for me but now that I fully moved on I will learn from my mistakes and not accidentally falling for someone that is like them
For me it was different 1. Meeting them 2. Realize I like her and a slight change in her behavior 3. Friends ship us together 4. We didn't want to be shipped like that and broke ways 5. Regretting choices 6. After looooong we start talking again 7. I didn't think we would make it this far 8. Help what do I do now.
I actually experienced this when i was 10, and ended it when i was 12 and accepted that the relationship would never work at all. I’m now 14 and single and happy, because I have found Someone that makes me even more happy as My Best Friend and I don’t want that role to ever change
My stages are: 1. Huh, I like this person 2. I’m not going to tell them 3. Wait ~1 year. (For my first crush, I went through this stage 5 times!) 4. Realize that I have a difficult time getting over the fact they probably don’t like me 5. I need to tell them 6. Confession 7. Get rejected 8. Cry myself to sleep
For me it’s: Denial Denial Denial Denial- no wait what’s happening Oh no Get out of my head Get out of my head Hmmm they kinda cool tho Get out of my head Get out of my head Aww they’re so cute Denial Denial Denial Denial- I just going to accept it
I’m sorry that it hasn’t worked out. Relationships can be very difficult, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t worth trying. It might not have worked out for you yet, but there is someone out there for you, and someday you will meet. Be hopeful, and hope will come!
From my personal experiences. Ive had this crush on a girl that seems impossible. Even though I feel like I should give up because of the anxiety and stress. I don't, I try to make it last as long as possible. Currently we look at each other frequently, well sometimes. After that anxiety kicks but always keep hold of your love. You'll learn deeper what love is truly about. I honestly just want to say hi to her, even just being friends is alright with me. You'll learn true patience and understanding, don't let thoughts be your reason for giving up love, if life gives you a reason to crush on someone, JUST DO IT. Totally worth it.
3 for me. I actually have a feeling that he might like me back but if I'm going to tell him, I want it to just be the two of us and that hasn't really been able to happen.
I'm the same... I have been in love with a girl from my class since I've met her, I'm in a 3rd grade right now and I haven't done anything about it. I knew from the start that I'm not good enough for her. And If I confessed to her I would get rejected for sure, but I just can't get her out of my head I love her so much. Anyone has some advice on how to fall out of love so I can finally stop tormenting myself over this? P.s Sorry for bad English.
I’ve had lots of crushes before, these are the stages I go through: 1. Falling in love with someone and thinking about them every day 2. Remembering my crush is a fictional character and realize I’ll never be able to be with them 3. Keep obsessing over my crush for a long time until I get bored of them 4. Repeat
I guess I got lucky, the only girl I was ever truly romantically interested in liked me back, it was like a dream come true for those nearly 3 years but she passed away in August. We knew that the 2 of us weren't going to live past 25 but it doesn't make it hurt any less. I was too nervous to ask her out myself but I'm so extremely thankful that she had the courage to try to confess to me. She got about half way through that sentence before trying to run off but I caught her and told her I liked her too. I've got roughly 4 or so years left and I don't plan on being with anyone else in that time. Regardless of if your circumstances are similar to ours or not, I truly hope whoever is reading this musters up the courage to try to confess to their crush/love interest, you never know when it'll be too late, and you won't know if your simple crush will sprout into something beautiful until you give it a go before you lose the only chance to. I love you Taylah and I always will.
@@arvindpadmanabhan7527 im sorry but fantasizing this person's comment when they are clearly talking about a difficult experiences involving death in both parties feels kind of wrong
@@kngbee07 Personally it doesn't bother me if my story is the fantasy of another, it's comforting to think that others look at me from a position of envy. I appreciate the thought though i'm no snowflake so people can speak their mind here.
At least you have a special place in your heart for her. A lot of people don't realize that you don't need to like somebody just for the sake of it. Just by remembering her dearly makes the relationship special.
The thing I'm scared about of when having a crush is that they like you back, and after a while you eventually get together. And I'm scared that while dating I will slowly loose love for them and not get those same butterflies and feelings I had when they were just a mere crush😔
i’m in a relationship, and i understand your thought process. for the first 3 months of my relationship, that spark kind of dwindled, but it came right back. my heart still skips a beat whenever i talk to him. true love will come your way, and you won’t have to worry about losing feelings :) hope everything’s going well!! 💗
For me it’s 1.noticing them more 2.confusion and small butterflies 3.sharing and thinking about them 4.excitement 5.little obsessed 6.obsessed 7.really obsessed for a while 8.less love 9.falling out of love 10.ending and repeat for different person
to me, sharing is not always an option. either a traumatic childhood or moving out in general can leave you alone. thats much scarier. i had the hugest crush on that girl, and it went on like that for 2 or 3 years, i had to go through 3 crushes to finally get my head strait now im not depressed and have an arguably better life, see sharing is possibly the gateway to help and without it you really r alone
i do have a crush. also we were dating last year but we broke up over a misconception but i know he likes me and i like him. we arent "dating" again but he HELD MY HAND (!!!!!) today. Multiple times. this was no accident. so last year i tried to hold his hand ONCE and it only happened ONCE but i *know* that he is more committed this time bc in only today he asked to hold my hand *SO* many times!!! OMG I THOUGHT I WAS IN LOVE BEFORE BUT THIS IS SOMETHING ELSE!! and guess what (?!?) he asked me to the winter formal, a VERY important dance that's tomorrow after school OMG!!! this dance is so important this year bc now that we a six graders (American style) so 11-12, we're both 11, and its our FIRST ONE (!!!!!!) now that we are in middle school, so, we can go!!!
Same.. he talked to me just once and i fall for her..my story is like a nerdy boy and the top female in our school... I think he realized im a simp becuz he unfollowed me on all social med.. shit feeels hard man.. but the thing i hate the most is that i still feel attached to her..
Stage 1: interest Stage 2: curiosity Stage 3: infatuation Stage 4: sharing Stage 5: falling in love Stage 6: falling out of love THERE! I just saved you time
My stages ig… 1- meetings em 2- sparks fly 3- questioning emotions for em 4- ok I really do like em!! 5- ask their friends 6- two ways good new or bad… Good news: 7- getting to know more about em 8- full on conversations 8.5- seeing good flaws+bad flaws while having conversations 9- friends 10- it goes on and then I eventually just ask them and it’s yes/no idc rlly Bad news: 7- still simping 8- seeing no point in loving broski 9- finally seeing his bad sides 10- finally realizing how bad he would’ve been for you and ur in total disgust ^^ This is usually how having a crush goes for me since I get a new one every school semester but usually if they don’t like me im usually just their friend but im glad cause I know that my life would be ok without him but I enjoy the company So what did I learn, if you have a crush, be friends with them and we’ll let ur story continue ❤ Edit: just sum writing issues/ bad grammar
@@Emma-wq8bd I know that. I tried that too. But what really helps is all of their cons. Try remembering them, and see if any of these match with what is important to you
there’s this extremely cute and nice guy in my science class in school and oh god he’s made me feel so many things- i haven’t felt them since a year ago when i met my ex lol anyways, at first when he spoke to me i did feel really excited and felt butterflies in my stomach but i was really unsure. i just thought "it’s just a minor crush. you’ll get over him!" but i haven’t- and every single day i complain to my friends about having to wait so long for science since it’s my 5th period- he sits next to me in science and he actually talks to me, like he acknowledges my existence unlike a lot of other people. it makes me really happy, he actually notices me. after school today we were walking in the same direction and i built up the courage to walk up to him and talk to him, and he actually talked to me. i just feel so excited, especially with so many things that have happened, i feel so happy. many unfortunate things happened this summer, and i thought the world was turning on me. but then school started, and now ive met him. ive never felt so excited to go to school. ive never felt so close to a crush before. it makes me so happy, and for the first time, i feel confident. edit (9/23/21): hello!!! thank you so so much for all the likes! i did not expect this comment to blow up! also thank you so much for all the wonderful replies! it makes me really happy to read them. so, i decided to update you guys on my story! i confessed to my crush about a week ago or more, and unfortunately he did not specify if he liked me back or not. though, i can tell he only sees me as a friend. after that we were a little awkward, and we switched seats in science a few days ago since we have assigned seats. he kinda ignored me after i confessed but we still did talk. when we switched seats i was shocked when i realized that he started to stare at me! ive been catching him and it makes me really happy to know that he doesn’t actually hate me. he only actually talked to me yesterday in pe during dodgeball. he was helping me out and talking to me. im just glad that he doesn’t hate me after he found out my feelings for him :) once again thank you so much for the kind replies! edit 2 (10/20/21): ah so many replies!! thank you so much for all the support :) unfortunately him and i have not gotten any closer, and eventually stopped talking. i got over him though! i actually have a new crush now and he’s very sweet
Same. I'll probably never forget those embarrassing things i said or do in front of my crush. And it sorts of gets very awkward if there wasn't any conversation flowing between.
I didn’t have a crush. One day my mom said a girl wanted to speak with me. So I said ok. I saw her with my mom and we spoke. For the first few days I’d see her at school, I didn’t think much of it. I’m not the most social person out there, I’d always walk pretty much by myself to enjoy what’s around me. So then I’d see her and she asked if she can walk with me during lunch. Ofc, I said yes. We start walking, and we start learning who we are and what we enjoy doing. I’m still at the point of not having a crush yet, to me, it seemed like any other friend. So we hung out more and more, then Ias time went by, I started connecting with her more, and being able to share my thoughts and be myself around her more comfortably. She thought the same too. We had so much in common yet we were so different. As time went on, I could tell. WE could tell that we’d be more than just friends. And it’s worked out, I was the lucky one. It was just a matter of time.
does no one else get the “ick” phase where u realize they’re not actually perfect and get turned off by it until someone else starts to pursue them and then you’re driven into jealousy 😍
Oo god I thought i was over this one dude and them my now friend started clinging to them i got so stupidly jealous i found out later my friend was even a lesbian so you know
1. Oh wow she's rally charming! 2. Shopping at her job another day in case she's working 3. Wait for her to get off, take a pic of her license plate, look it up online, find out where she lives 4. Buy flowers and carve a picture of her into my left arm to show her 5. realize I can't really see her from these bushes 6. I need be inside her house when I ask her out
1. First eye contact 2. Can't talk to them 3. You wait 4. Tell your friends and they force you to go and talk to her while they talk with her friends 5. You get a good thing going with her. 6. You confess, she accepts. 7. You promise her the world and she loves you for it. 8. Then her friends manipulate her watching every move you do. 9. She breaks up with you because of her friends and she hates you. 10. You can't talk to her cause she won't allow you to, she blocked you and she doesn't want you anymore. 11. You get a glow up besides who cares ur feelings are dead now for everyone around even your parents at some point. Sorce my personal experience last month.
My stages: 1. Oh they're cool 2. I wanna hangout with them more 3. Realisation 4. Trying to impress them 5. Admiring them 6. Imaging scenarios 7. Getting courage to tell them 8. Chickens out/gets rejected TvT
I’ve had a crush on my best friend for a while, and recently she told me she liked me too. For us though, we’re actually in love with each other. Guess what? I finally asked her out yesterday and she said yes! Edit: As requested by a person in my comment section, you are all invited to my wedding even though it’d be many years down the line 😂 Another Edit: Y’all we broke up a LONG time ago 💀💀 but I’m okay!! It was for the best :) Instead of a wedding, I’ll invite you all to a get together dance and food party LOL
My own stage of getting a crush: Just kept looking at them Still. Still. Determined to confess but just gave up before I came up to them Overthinks Frustrated Cry myself to sleep Simple as that.
1) *Does not realize they exist* 2) “Wait, NO! I don’t like him!” 3) Realizes he is in two of my classes, “Well that is awkward” 4) “I don’t like him! No I don’t 5) “Okay, fine I do” 6) Starts looking for him everywhere i go 7) Starts being twitchy when around him 8) Starts a secret diary 9) Starts to doubt again That’s just me right now…
my stages of having a crush: 1. she's nice 2. it's quite cute when she smiles 3. thinks about her once in a while 4. and then all the time, would check my phone for her dms 5. fantasizing every moment if we were in a relationship 6. be completely straightforward about having feelings for her by giving hints 7. move on with my miserable single life
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. _ 1 Corinthians 6:18 that's why we get anxiety and depression once we do it, because we're committing a sin against ourselves. nothing on this earth is worth your ETERNAL LIFE and SOUL.
@@SleepyFunkin not a sin but it's like they're are not worth your eternal life and soul and if you can't give the eternal life and soul you don't love them enough It's just an opinion you don't have to take this seriously. :-)
Stage 1 : Attraction Stage 2 : Trying to start up conversations Stage 3 : Always thinking about them Stage 4 : Trying every bit of methods to start up any conversation Stage 5 : Feeling butterflies for everything she mentions about you Stage 7 : Obession, starting to do actions that will tell her that you like her Stage 8 : You try to convery ur feelings without telling them face to face (chats or thru someone) Stage 9 : She gets to know about your feelings, but doesn't give a yes or a no Stage 10 : You start feel the distance b/w you two Stage 11 : You are 99% sure that the answer is no. Stage 12 : You know its a no but you want to hear it from her mouth but you are too scared to start up a conversation abt it. Stage 13 : You are stuck in this dilemma where you know its a no but 1% hopes keep it up. Stage 14 : You move on without ever telling your feelings face to face and never knowing whether she actually likes you or not (99% she doesnt)
I know how this feels, like a lot. I liked someone for a while. She was like the perfect person. She liked sports, she was basically a genius, she always had an optimistic outlook on everything, and she seemed to not have a disdain for me like most of the other kids in school. I was always the fat kid in school, bigger than everyone, the butt of everyone's joke. But she would never join in against me, she'd always know what to say. She admired my sense of humor, my skills in music, and qualities I didn't even know I had. I didn't want to crush on her because I was afraid of losing a really good friend. This went on for 3 years until freshman year around Christmas time. By then I overheard that someone tried to shoot his shot with her and she didn't know who it was. I was beyond jealous, of the person who could ever be so brave and fearless to confess his love with risk. I wanted that. I wrote my own note and gave it to her during Bio. Later in the break, I confessed via email. The day after Christmas she responded. Basically said I was a good person but she wasn't interested in dating anyone. She had great reason to feel this way. I highly respected her decision, but deep down I was heartbroken. Worse of all, I didn't tell anyone, and I didn't want anyone to know, so I had to endure all these feelings sharing 3 classes with her, and hide it all. To my shock, she didn't tell anyone about my confession, but word got out about who sent the original note. He was the hottest, most popular, and most sought-after guy in our class. Now I felt 3x worse. If she ever did gain interest in dating she'd surely pick him over some fat kid who can crack a good joke from time to time. Even through it all she never made the environment awkward, despite me doing it a multiplicity of times. One time in bio another girl was talking to her about this guy's confession right in front of me. Talk about awkwardness. This went on for the rest of the year. 1st day into the new year I'm leaving my second-period class and I bump into her by the door and knock all my books down right in front of her. Great start to the year. This path was and still is difficult to pass. But no matter what I know I'm good enough for myself where I can get through it. Sometimes I wish I didn't tell her when I did, but I did. And I can't change that, nor can I change the events that followed. So why dwell on that when I can work towards being a better person. Not for her, or anyone else, but for me. That's my story... I know no one probably cares about some teenage fat kid's rejection story, but I hope it resonates with enough people where my story actually has value to someone.
just went through heartbreak with this girl i was really close with, she told me she didnt want to date me even though we had done a lot, wish she told me when i confessed to her a while ago. when she told me i already knew, her friend spilled the beans and it was better that way, i dont think me crying at school would've have gone well. she also hit me witht he "i love you like a brother". my friends say that is hard to deal with but i dealt with it pretty fine. we both agree we wouldn't work out together. we're still best friends though so yay. and i also agree with her that 15 is too young to truly date. good video as always!
1. Finding out they exist and kinda liking them but dont think I have a crush or feelings 2. Realizing I have a crush, confusion and thinking much about if I should do something 3. All those positive feelings 4. Realizing there is no reason for positive assosiations with having a crush and start feeling unwell 5. Depression without ever talking to her
If you have a crush, I swear you should tell her. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, you probably just made her feel really good about herself, like she's pretty and people like her. Also, if she doesn't feel the same way, you might feel down for a bit, but a week or so later you'll forget about it. If she does feel the same way, it's probably the most amazing feeling in the world
HELLO: 1. Stage one: Interest 0:35 2. Stage two: Curiosity 1:12 3. Stage three: Infautation 2:01 4. Stage four: Sharing 3:00 5. Stage five Falling in love 3:54 6. Stage six: Falling out of love 4:33 Thanks to the time stone i able to give summary early haha
For me it's 1. See a change in my feelings 2. start to imagine myself with them 3. listen to music that makes me think of them 4. keep it a secret in fear of denial 5. tell a friend 6. I get enough courage to tell them how I feel 7. Get rejected 8. rinse and repeat
Infatuation is the worst feeling for people like me, those who cannot bear love, those who do not trust anyone, those who hate themselves. Love is painful for me because it is impossible for me to know it, my mind and personality won’t allow it. It is just the way it is.
Yeah I feel you, I have a crush right now that's very obviously reciprocated, but my mind loves to make excuses as to why they don't like me and it's frustrating. It's also frustrating because my mind loves to make excuses as to why I'm not good enough for said person even though realistically speaking, I'm a good person, many people like me as a person and I attract a lot of people in my life because I have a likable personality to many and I'm easy to talk to, but I also hate myself at the same time. It's counterintuitive, but I can't help it.
For me, it's the opposite: I can't bear not liking people as people because it makes me feel like a bad person, even though I know I'm not a bad person. My mind literally forces me to stop thinking about people in a negative light, although I can make an exception for politicians, because politics is stupid.
Rip us, we all got some BS in our lives it seems. Can’t even die because I feel like my death will greatly affect everyone I know and those they themselves know in some shape or form, and that will haunt me even in the afterlife, if there’s one.
My stages: 1. Frens 2. Denial 3. Heavy Denial 4. Talking to crush 5. Both of us calling each others dad name. 6. Getting shipped by other frens 7. Imagining situations that would never happen with them 8. SIMP 9. Back to denial 10. More social interaction 11. Denial again 12. More denial 13. "I think i like her" 14. Acceptance 15. Die inside
Stages of me having a crush: - Denial - They're just a friend - I don't like them like that - Denial - They're just a friend - Do I like them more than a friend? - No - Realisation - Oh **** - They're still just a friend - Oh gosh, I do have a crush on them - Cries - Go away feelings *Waits* - Cries more - Still a friend - Go away feelings - Finally! Crush over! - Why does no one like me?! I'm lonely! 😭
Instead of crushing on someone right now, is anyone curious on how to make some cloud cake this weekend? :)
Found this video here: ua-cam.com/video/VBbPMsNcuHM/v-deo.html
Hmmmm cloud cake
Thx :) I love the love and support ^^
Yes
Hello
I love cloud cake
My stages:
1. Denial
2. More denial
3. Realization. "Oh frick, I *do* like them"
4. Simping but from afar
5. More simping but from afar
6. Thinking of how I can interact with them even if it's very small and stupid
7. Failing
8. Continuing to be a simp for 2 more years
Omg yessss sameeee
Literally wut happened to me…
A spot on representation of whenever I have a crush on someone.
Bestie I can relate...
the way it’s *2 more years* same
crushes are even worse when the person you're crushing on is taken.
Edit: Wow, I did not expect so many people to agree with this 😂
Or if you are straight and they end up being gay.
(war flashbacks)
Or when you know they like someone else
@@who_is_thisbussy That probably happens a lot more common than what happened to me
story of my life :(
I have only 2 stages:
1. Falling in love
2. They don't like me back.
Same my dude 🥲
mines not even real
Crushed aren't love
my stages :
1 liking a girl
2 rejecting that i like her and move on
Mine are liking a girl
Denying that I like them
Them leaving or me leaving
My stages:
1. butterflies
2. avoiding them
3. Dreaming about them
4. Crying in my room wondering when this would stop
5. Trying to find a girl that likes him too
6. Acceptance that I like him and that it won’t go away
7. Praying to god asking if he likes me or not so it might go away
8. Finally, I try to kill those feelings of them by asking them
Same but i'm stuck on stage six.
@@YupiEevee lol
I was about to leave a coment but figured having a 10 year old me as my profile pic would be humiliation for myself if a post a coment here
Stage 3 is my first stage lol
ONG THATS MY STAGES RN😭✋
Having a crush is like the best and the worst thing at the same time. The good part is the butterflies and the love songs that start to make sense. The bad part is the realisation of how little of a chance you have with them :')
@ಠ_ಠ literally same
@@wilmawehrle6878 mee tooo
guys i need some help, is it possible to have a crush on someone you never talked with, just by seeing them?
@@ShedowGame Sometimes,but if you never talked to them,then you don't know what type of person they are and what things and qualities do they like.That person can even turn out to be rude or not your type.If you have never talked to them and just stare at them,it makes them uncomfortable.It also sometimes leave a bad impression.One thing you should do is try talking to them.If you are not good at starting a conversation then just go to them for some work.Slowly slowly talk to them,get to know them.Share stuff about each other.Try understanding each other and you'll become good friends.If you start loving your crush too much and you thing that she also thinks the same way about you then don't be scared to ask her out.Good luck buddy i hope it helped!! (In my case,i have a crush but she thinks of me just as friends,i can never ask her out cuz I'll get rejected)
@@bluzoid_44 damn… i’m never gonna find the balls to talk to her
I don’t have a crush and here I am…well I guess it’s better to be prepared lol
Me too
Lmao yes
same
Same bro
How was this 2 months ago, am I a time traveler?
more of
stage 1: Interest
stage 2: curiosity
stage 3: falling in love
stage 4: daydreams
stage 5: imagines scenarios with them
stage 6: realizing that it would never happen since my crush isn't even aware of my existence
Lol same
Finally à Right one hahha
Are you stalking me because this is me 😭😭
Relatable
omg same i am way to obsessed, that they would never love me back, i learned to lucid dream just so that i can see them more i would do anything ahh
my edition:
1. "oo they hot"
2. SIMP
3. SIMP
4. SIMP
5. Imagining scenes
6. okay finally not so crazy love
7. falls out of it
8. stops simping (yay)
I came around full circle.
WHY IS THE "5. Imagining Scenes" SO TRUE 😂
I only have 3 stages 😭
1. Falling in love
2. Get anxious for everything
3. Give up
You will find someone one day. There is someone out there for you 😁
Me except for 3
As for me- Stage 1: get a crush
stage 2: actually interact
Stage 3: realize that I'm just wasting away
Stage 4: see a nice pair of wheels
Stage 5: realize that ur crush was nothing and that u have actually found someone(Yes I like to give cars a personality)
Stage 6: Love cars and stay single for life
Pretty much how I turned into a car guy
That's me every time I like someone
same :(
for me its
1: initial attraction
2: obsession
3: fading obsession
4: acceptance
5: still single
pretty much it
Last time it was just one and two
I wonder what it's gonna be this time
Kind the same to me
Same
I had an obssesion on a classmate lol since he was tall and handsome but morely his voice was the chef kiss loolol but since I knew there's absolute no chance and I'm more like a fan simping on a hot character I letted go of him easily.
Next after him is my seatmate he's lasting pretty long... I think it's because we're close together so it's able to last longer than it supposwd to be ... wonder who's next... kunda have a feeling it's my classmate behind me since I'm kinda starting to have interest on him TT but morely because his similar Instead of like a physical attraction like tge first one and my seatmate, he's rather cool and admiration I admire how he can draw so amazingly while mine sucks... hahhh... though he's cute👍🏻 but he's personality's not so, my seatmate's more cuter in personality.
My six stages:
1. Oh I think I like this person
2. They don’t like me, it could never work out.
3. You know what, I don’t like them. I just think about them a lot.
4. Actually I think I might like them.
5. Deny, deny, deny
6. Repeat
Anyone else like this?
Edit: thanks for the likes! This reassures me that I’m not a complete weirdo haha
Lol
EXACTLY
,yes
Help 😢
Pls the 3rd one is so accurate.
"I think they're cute, but I don't like them." Then I proceed to think about them.
I had a crush on someone, but then i thought she's out of my league, and now, that we're in other classes and we dont even talk, i now realize that she gave me, SUCH clear signs, and now i am sad i didn't make my move...
my stages:
1.thinks he cute as a joke
2.soon realizes it isnt
3.falling hard asf
4.thinking about him 24/7
IKR THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME WITHIN A WEEK I AGREEE
Same for me
1. I like him (joke)
Then a few years later
2. I don’t like him I definitely don’t
3. NO I DONT
4. maybe?
5. NONO
6. Actually maybe..?
And I don’t know till this day.
@@KKUNIQUE. YUUUP
Been through this and stage 5 is he doesn't like me back
stop calling me out .
My stages as someone who has a crush on a friend:
1. Friends
2. Little interest
3. They show up in my dreams
4. More interest
5. Eye contact
6. The "no they wont like me back"
7. The "but they give me a subtle look"
8. Making up fake scenarios
9. The end
Right? The past 2 or 3 crushes have begun with dreams.
Ya talk about sad stuff. I know exactly how you feel.
That’s my life LMAO.
SAME
Yeah, it’s pretty much the same for me.
basically, when you crush on someone you can turn into a complete stalker
oh hell nah
Especially on instagram
I don't know how to show my emotions, and get really uncomfortable with being affectionate and stuff, so it leads me to get obsessed, and usually checking what social media I have if they posted anything or are playing anything. It also leads me to become really jealous, and when they don't give me enough attention (Pretty neglected by my mom, and they're usually the one that gives me attention besides my sister). My crush knows about this, and is perfectly fine with it (thankfully). We both know what we've are going through and stuff, and we can't really be mad at each other for what we do.
Yup
That’s why I always reach stage two and skip all the way to stage six immediately
Since I couldn’t find the summarizer, I’ll be it.
1. Interest
2. Curiosity
3. Infatuation
4. Sharing
5. Falling in love (might be skipped)
6. Falling out of love
Hope this helps.
*How my day starts:*
1) Go to school
2) Talk with crush
3) Confess feelings to crush
4) Crush likes me back
5) I wake up ready for the real day
Ouch
Bruh thats deep... ;(
@Juls Locquiao yo i thought their profile pic was Spiderman hanging. Wth is wrong with me 😭
Same
@Juls Locquiao they edited their comment
my stages:
1. denial
2. denial
3. denial
4. we don't talk anymore
edit: the guy I was talking about in this, we're dating now
by Charlie Puth ft. Selena Gomez
@@fine_stfine_stgirl7871 lol
@@fine_stfine_stgirl7871 like we used to dOo 😩
Same 😃 but not the "we don't talk anymore" its just that we are not classmates anymore
@@alyannasophia4117 literally tho
Being in love with someone who isnt even your friend is pure pain if you’re an introvert
yah
That’s the thing though if your truly lover her/him you will get out of it and try to have a conversation
I understand
She used to have a crush on me, but I was stupid and didn't know what to do and now I love her
:(
@@dcorn09 what about her??
I swear, every major crush I’ve had, I came to this channel. Thank you so much :)
1. Interest: Meeting someone new.
2. Curiosity: Learning about them.
3. Infatuation: Excitement.
4. Sharing: Talking about them.
5. Falling in love: Getting to know them and loving them for who they are.
6. waking up...
That all happened to me well some of them
XD
6. really hurts tho
@@syvj-xm2ti ho-
Going through 6 right now
What is it called when your crush likes you back?
I M A G I N A T I O N
Stop ✋ ☹
😭😭😭🤣
🤣😂
Oof 🤣
Yeah sadly...
How is nobody talking about how SMOOTH the animation was
it's actually not that smooth. but, it was still pretty good
bc it wasn't
Because it wasn’t? It was literally tweening?
hello me from the future the animation was in fact not that smooth
strange how im back to the same video two years later though...
Because the quality is always so amazing
It has been 2 years and just a mere glance at her makes my heart flutter, this feeling never died down. I wonder if I'll ever have the courage to approach her or it is better to stay as a secret admirer.....
Tell her trust me bro wots her nam
Same man. I have a strong crush on this girl. She is so pretty and i'm an average. I know she will never accept me. But still i can't control me liking her everyday.
This is incorrect, the real stages are
1. Having a crush
2. Being a simp
3. Getting rejected
4. Dying inside
The stages made me ride a different path. My old crush now stalks me.
Edit: yay I'm famous, MoM gEt ThE CaMeRa
@@neonctx Why do I keep see you in every comment?
exactly😭
Dude i'm dying inside before getting rejected. Correct to:
3.Dying inside
4.Getting rejected
5.Dying inside even more
@@1brytol well yes but if we are just talking about the crush then my stages of a crush a correct
Who else thought their crush likes them back when their crush acts kind towards you, but sadly, in reality, you're just background character in their story.
same
You're not alone 🤣🤣
same 😭🤚
At least yall are talking to your crush :-:
@@zectalyx930 you just gotta slide into the dms
6 stages of having a crush
1. cry
2. cry
3. cry
4. imagine a whole life together with them and consider talking to them but get scared you’re being too obvious
5. cry
6. cry
*mood.*
I felt like my crush was not responding me back i got frustrated and blocked him.. for days then he called me and asked did I block him? Then I unblocked him 🤷♀️ now I feel okay jus move on but I do have a small crush on himm
@@noonaaa6489 good thing I hardly ever use block function
@@funplayer05.1 its all about ur own convenience bud
@@noonaaa6489 thats true tho
I have had a crush on my boy best friend for 3 years and I finally had the courage to tell him, now we are dating 😄. All the advice I have is just don't wait just tell him/her!
My stages:
Stage 1- “he looks comfy, I like to hug him”
Stage 2- “wait, what did I just thought”
Stage 3- “bruh, what’s happening to me”
Stage 4- “it’s not like I have a crush on him”
Stage 5- “ok fine, I admit it”
(But still, I don’t like being involved into romance yet because I’m still young)
Edit: Oh shoot- i almost forgot abt this comment- anyways, so i moved on from that guy…
Haw haw
💀
PLZ THATS ME
How old are u ?
@@tumpamukherjee1036 I do not want to tell my age to the public even if you don’t know me irl. I also have other more important reasons. (Lmao, I sound mature. Because that’s just me :/)
Incoming rant:
I feel like a crush can end without a relationship and still feel good. Unrequited love, as some call it, is such a beautiful thing. Social media makes us believe that if a crush ends without a relationship it was tragic, but I think the idea of having a crush in and of itself is not tragic at all, even if it ends without a spark. There’s something so pure about the idea of having your entire day made by simply brushing shoulders with that special person or feeling euphoric when they smile. Sometimes you might even go out of your way to see them, whether it’d be going down a different hallway at school or going somewhere you’ll know you’ll find them. Not to mention the urge to better yourself so they’ll notice you. You might start working out more or dressing up better. It’s funny to think about how us humans try to woo other people we like.
It’s even better when the other person doesn’t know that you like them! It really goes to show how we impact others without even knowing it. Who knows? Maybe someone is crushing on you too. Maybe someone admires your smile from afar and goes out of their way to bump into you. Maybe you’re that special person they think about when they watch these kinds of videos. And maybe one day they’ll look back on their life at one point and an image of you will pop up in their head. Even 20 years from now, you can be the cause of someone to smile and not know it. See what I mean? One sided love is not always tragic. That special spark is one that, unlike many relationships, will last a lifetime.
Then why am I dead inside?
This honestly made my day
im crying why did this hit so hard
as someone whos had a hopeless crush for 4 years until quarantine started and is now possibly regaining feelings again, reading this made me happy :,) ily
@SAM STROMBERG I’m glad it got you thinking :)
@@kyreine You were definitely meant to see this then! No matter the outcome of your crush, try to look at your feelings in a positive light instead of stressing over them. It will make everything much easier :) Good luck !!
My stages
1)obsession
2)obsession
3)obsession
4)obsession
5)obsession
6) Accepting we can never be together and falling out of love
Same bro 😭😭
hahaha
"Emotion is the father of all error. Chemicals in our brain that distract us, impede progress. And the most destructive and ridiculous imbalance of all is that thing you feebles call love. "
My stages be like:
1)Ask for her money
2)spend it all on team fortress 2
3) ghost her
4) repeat
Stages 1 look at her 2 obsesse 3 obsesse 4 obsesse
My stages are
- Be completely happy with my life
- Meet person
- Think about them every once in a while
- They are nice to me
- Think about them literally all day
- Develop intense self hatred
- Get too nervous to ever tell them I have a crush
- Fall out of love
- Depression
- Finding myself again
- Being completely happy with my life
- Meet another person
HOLY SHIT SO TRUE
You guys forgot the "this is gonna hurt like a bitch"
:(
😭😭 Right in the feels
I felt this so hard
I lost my ability to crush years ago...
Oof i felt that
My stages:
1. Denial
2. More Denial
3. Realizing then denying
4. Questioning whether I like them or just overreacting
5. Realizing
6. Trying to forget that feeling
7. Slow Acceptance
8. Planning to tell them to let it out but backs out
9. Accepting and planning to tell them in the future-
Future…. What a beautiful word. For me it’s like very very far away🫠
I’m like, the denial queen for some reason 🙄
Thats my current situation
OMG YES OMG ONG
ngl a day or 2 after commenting this- I confessed- and then he was like "Phase 1 complete" ... like bro- wtf?!- I am a huge overthinker so here I am still thinking whether he was serious about him liking me or just playing me 🙂
For me it goes something like this:
1. Denial
2. More denial
3. Still, denial
4. Eye contact
5. Once again, denial
6. Confusion
7. End
8: *genocide on a mass level in a Geneva conference in the United Nations.*
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
_ 1 Corinthians 6:18
that's why we get anxiety and depression once we do it, because we're committing a sin against ourselves.
nothing on this earth is worth your ETERNAL LIFE and SOUL.
Same lmao
@@lunantix i feel you...
@@lunantix Accuracy 100%
Watching these after my crush has been my boyfriend for 3 months is even more fun haha
My 14 stages:
1. I don't really notice them at all but they end up being around a lot (friend of a friend, I have a lot of classes with them, etc)
2. someone else mentions them in a romantic context and I get curious
3. Thinking about them way more
4. catching myself watching them, physical attraction
5. stalk socials
6. denial denial denial
7. knowing my feelings but thinking they aren't justified or real and completely fantasized (this is usually true though lol)
8. acting different, being really nervous, trying to always catch their attention
9. realizing I actually don't know them very well
10. lowering the pedestal I put for them and trying to have more conversations/ trying to be emotionally closer to them
11. falling for them more realistically/ with less fantasizing
12. actually acknowledging my feelings completely
13. thinking about having an actual relationship but realizing they are out of my league and probably aren't interested or they aren’t the one
14. always ends in losing feelings and heartbreak:///
Edit: glad I’m not alone in this 🥴
Guys ik absolutely no one asked but rn I'm at stage 10 with the guy I'm crushing on and bro I swear idk where my feelings came from but I have absolutely no chance and I don't want to be rejected and I also feel like I don't actually know him that well but I genuinely really like him?? and I turn into someone who is so self-aware around him that it's a problem and we talked for like a second during class and it was all I could think about the entire day, I could not focus. anyways I'm gonna go watch "how to get over your crush" from this same channel....
Ah yes stage fourteen i know it well
@@TheWizardApple story of my life 😅
How do you have time for all that? I'm practically a hermit and I still feel busy.
@@sarahmchugh4169 I really don't lmao, I'm very busy I've had only a total of like 2 serious crushes my entire life
THIS IS SO TRUE TF
Honestly, to me, having a crush is so bittersweet. On one hand, it’s nice to have someone to like bc it’s just this rlly nice and amazing feeling. On the other, it’s annoying for me bc I just can’t get this one person out of my mind. Plus I get paranoid and overthink a lot. I’m scared that if I do end up in a relationship with a person, I’ll find out I don’t actually like them and that’ll hurt the both of us. Another thing I’m scared of is rejection which is pretty common, mostly bc I don’t want our relationship to become awkward after a breakup like I still wish to laugh and joke around with u as friends.
(Sorry that was a long rant thank you for reading)
Edit: thank you guys for the helpful advice and being able to relate :)
My next question: Are u able to like someone you don’t even know? Or is it just an infatuation or unspoken attraction? I’m conflicted lol
Same thing
I can relate
So relatable !
most relatable thing ive read all day today
Rejection and conflicts are part of any human relationship and we deal with those in our daily lives pretty often, point being, it’s ok to feel bad about being rejected, it’s ok to think that you might mess things up somehow and make things awkward between the two of you due to your past, it’s all part of being human. What is not okay is to stay with these thoughts and not externalizing your feelings for that person, keeping it all bottled up to yourself and then once it’s too late wonder what might had happen if you said how you felt, and remain with a sense of regret when you think back on them. Give it a shot, go for it no matter what, believe in the end of the day wether of it works out or not, you’ll feel like you took a BIG weight of your shoulders. And who knows, maybe that person sees you in that same light but never found enough courage to say so until you took that step. You can do this all it takes is a little leap of faith. Take care and have a wonderful day! Next time around, listen to your heart.
I’ve had a few crushes in my lifetime, but my biggest issue for the longest time was being too afraid to talk to them. This led to me going straight to stage 6 in a lot of those occasions
I am afraid to talk to her too
I don't think she knows i am alive
@@redditstories69e I believe in you just ask about shared interest and make small talk but not to much to overload tham
@@nievesrathbun6831 hmm ,
I don't know what to ask,to start a conversation 😕
I think i will talk to her at home,but when i am at school,i can't because i have nothing to ask
My crush hates me so yea, I wish she didn’t but I can’t change it.
@@lexiconicus wowoho
So you told him/her that you love him/her and he/she rejected it😕
You are brave to say that
for me it's:
1. Become friends.
2. realising i kinda like them.
3. denial.
4. more denial.
5. realizing.
6. trying to gaslight myself that i'm still in denial.
7. in denial, but even more and more sad.
8. trying to cheer up.
9. heartaches for everytime that has a thought with them.
10. trying to move on.
11. brain and heart having a full on war.
12. depression.
13. trying to move on.
14. trying.
14. failed.
15. stuck in an endless loop.
that's my story, it hasn't ended yet.
My stages:
1. "I want to talk to them more"
2. Trying to impress them
3. Daydreaming, Seeing them as "too good for me", simping
4. Daydreaming x3, making them my best friend
5. Regrets, fights, self-hatred, "I'm not good enough", ignorance
6. Realizing they are toxic + cruel ending
7. *Depression.*
ah yes the good ol' stage 7, sad times
thats exactly mines????? WTF
“I’m gonna die alone”
ive come to accept that im dying alone
Ye he told me to die and all on the New Year's day and that's when I finally decided to accept he was toxic for me, he's the only guy that welcomed me and make me feel confident so I believe he deserves way better the reason he told me mean stuff was not his fault, I kinda insulted his bestfriend cause she was bullying my bestfriend and he didn't know his best friend was bullying mine so ye he told me to die, no one loves me cause I'm fat and things like that which didn't really offended me but after that we rarely talked, he moved to another state now cause of his father's job and he's never coming back to my state again I'll miss him for sure cause he was a good friend but I think things will go alright with me now, learnt lots of lessons from him
when you’re in stage 5 even tho you haven’t seen them in 2 years or even talked to them💀
me ✌️
And then falling out of love after the third year 🙂
Yes, this happened to me
Yeah I too I did not talked or seen him . It's been twoyears
I feel like this was more personal towards u lol
stage 2: curiousity
_also known as: _*_stalking._* 💀💀
oh my god..IM NOT THE ONLY ONE
Same!!! MY CRUSH LIVE 2 DOORS DOWN FROM ME AND HE ALWAYS PLAYS OUTSIDE WITH HIS FRIENDS
LMAOO
Sadly ikr 😔
I stalk on my crush friends and who he has friended
GHAHAHA GLAD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE-😭✋🏾
My stage
1. Denial
2. Accepting it but denying when ppl ask
3. Accepting it
4.”he likes you back” “make a move!”
5. Wait he actually might like me?
6. PHYSICALLY CLOSER
7. Best friends (very touchy?)
8. I don’t know what to think
Meanwhile me: *laughs in having a crush only on a fictional characters or celebrities*
I knooow lmaooo😂😂😂😂😂
Right?
Yessss
My love with Neville Longbottom in a nutshell
Same 😌
My stages:
1) person compliments or says something nice
2) I think they like me
3) i start liking them back
4) i try to engage more with them
5) i realise they actually dont like me
6) i continue liking them T_T
OMG! Same!
daeng right
I only like someone if I think they like me back 🥲
MY 8 stages of having a crush:
1. Denial - “I think they’re attractive but it’s not a crush.”
2. Acceptance - “ok i’d say I’m attracted to them”
3. Cool facade - *sees them*
*doesn’t even look in their direction even tho my heart is going crazy*
- but I also don’t look in the direction of people I dislike as well, so… It’s kinda hard to read me
4. Tries to snap myself out of it - “THEY’RE NOT EVEN THAT CUTE WHY DO I EVEN HAVE AN ATTRACTION TO THEM”
5. Rationalization - “Ok fine. I may be attracted to them, but I won’t even try to get their attention cuz it’s not worth it. Chances are, we will never see each other again after this school year, so why bother! Plus, they don’t match my very high standards personality-wise. And I need to focus on school not any crush.”
6. Mixed feelings - “I don’t like them like that. I like them, I guess? But it’s not anything special.” *pushes away any romantic feelings*
7. My dichotomy - *unintentionally thinks about them sometimes when I’m alone*
*avoids them when I actually see them in public*
*tries to get closer to them by only passing by them once and then avoiding them*
8. Move on and find a new victim
Wow I am confusing.
Bro I can relate so much I'm going through the same
OH MY GOD ITS ME
...AH, well, it's the same as me AHAHAH
Hey I can actually relate
Thats me.. Im in straight up denial
I remember i started to watch this channel bcs i want to fell out of love from someone i used to have a huge crush on. She didn’t feel the same in fact she never will. I was heartbroken and desperate, i can’t think of any chance of me surviving that stage. But here i am around a year after, i finally feel way more confident. I’ve let it all go, i can’t blame her tho. I’m no longer upset for the fact that me and her will never workout. I can say now i’m right on the edge of acceptance. Thank you for Psych2Go, you guys helped me through the dark old days 🍀
That moment you've had a crush on the same person for 3 years.....
Legit me rn
Same here!! Three years, yes three years! 😓😓💔
I'm not at 3 years yet I'm nearly there though
That ain't crush that means you are in love.
TRUE
I had a crush on someone for 3-4 years,but I got over them already
(At least I think so-)
@@sakurai6176 what about 1,5 years am i midway
“Are you crushing on someone right now?”
I’ve been CAUGHT
🤣🤣
AHA!! Which stage are you at right now?
@@Psych2go stage 3 :)
@@Psych2go stage 3 i won't even gonna share
@Psych2go stage 0 because I am only 9
my 6 stages:
- talking to someone i never thought i would
- getting attached easily bc they're giving me the slightest bit of attention
- questioning back and forth whether i like them or not
- realizing they like me back me too but i'm too scared to tell them
- they move on and date someone else
- repeat
this has happened twice lol
Break the cycle friend it's never the answer to keep emotions inside
I get you-
Ugh same >3
Mine is getting consistent attention from him and questioning what it means since nobody usually pays attention to me and acts like I'm invisible. I'm now in the stage of questioning wtf my feelings are, and if they're even romantic or if I'm just so attention starved and neglected that I'm mistaking friendly connection for attraction.
And it sucks 🥲
@@WorriedtheCircusDemon i feel ya there 😪✋🏻
I'm now in stage 6 and it's because I got rejected and because I realised things that made me reconsider my feelings.
Moving on was really hard for me but now that I fully moved on I will learn from my mistakes and not accidentally falling for someone that is like them
2 Stages of Anime Crushes:
1. See that one scene
2. Simp for a month
(Edit: Ya'll are making me really famous-)
3. *Simp for a year*
Ha Yes can relate LUCY HEARTFILIA(FAIRYTAIL)
Yeah killua from hxh
Or any other show
*Sees part where fictional crush risk life*
*Me* cries for 2838293838833 years%
@@lilithclawthorne2214 boiii you toooo?
Stage 1: Interest
Stage 2: Curiosity
State 3: Infatuation
Stage 4: Sharing
Stage 5: Falling in love
Stage 6: Falling out of love
I'm in stq
stage 3
lol almost year and i still like her-
tysm!
Thair is one more Hart brack
1. talking to them
2. catching feeling
3. getting harassed by your friends about ti
4. you tell them
5. they reject you
6. depression
that happened to me. :,)
For me it was different
1. Meeting them
2. Realize I like her and a slight change in her behavior
3. Friends ship us together
4. We didn't want to be shipped like that and broke ways
5. Regretting choices
6. After looooong we start talking again
7. I didn't think we would make it this far
8. Help what do I do now.
😢
@@neonctx Accept it and, ask her out maybe? If you want to?
@@lucaspaixao3808 that's the hard part, I'm bad at social interaction and she's an introvert.
I actually experienced this when i was 10, and ended it when i was 12 and accepted that the relationship would never work at all. I’m now 14 and single and happy, because I have found Someone that makes me even more happy as My Best Friend and I don’t want that role to ever change
My stages are:
1. Huh, I like this person
2. I’m not going to tell them
3. Wait ~1 year. (For my first crush, I went through this stage 5 times!)
4. Realize that I have a difficult time getting over the fact they probably don’t like me
5. I need to tell them
6. Confession
7. Get rejected
8. Cry myself to sleep
Some day you will get accepted and you will be so happy :) At least you dare to confess..
For me:
1.Oh shit i like this person
2.ill tell them tomorrow
3.wait 3 years
4. I dont like this person
At least you can actually confess you're definitely better than me I never confess
For me it’s:
Denial
Denial
Denial
Denial- no wait what’s happening
Oh no
Get out of my head
Get out of my head
Hmmm they kinda cool tho
Get out of my head
Get out of my head
Aww they’re so cute
Denial
Denial
Denial
Denial- I just going to accept it
I’m sorry that it hasn’t worked out. Relationships can be very difficult, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t worth trying. It might not have worked out for you yet, but there is someone out there for you, and someday you will meet. Be hopeful, and hope will come!
Having a crush for me is: they’re cool, I’m kinda obsessed, overthinking, constantly overthinking, no reciprocation, slightly depressed.
Me too
THIS
U said it😢
It's hard for me because the person I like goes to a different school but the person I used to like who goes to my school and they like me
Same
having a crush is NOT fun, it's absolutely terrible.
Ikr
Just the one who crushes suffer
It's Bester to never have a crush
It's fun but filled with pain and suffering 85% of the time for me
And when you watch ship videos of that one person who you have a crush on but pretend to ship it too-
Ya the fact that u want to get it over with and you always have the same feeling and can't focus
From my personal experiences. Ive had this crush on a girl that seems impossible. Even though I feel like I should give up because of the anxiety and stress. I don't, I try to make it last as long as possible. Currently we look at each other frequently, well sometimes. After that anxiety kicks but always keep hold of your love. You'll learn deeper what love is truly about. I honestly just want to say hi to her, even just being friends is alright with me. You'll learn true patience and understanding, don't let thoughts be your reason for giving up love, if life gives you a reason to crush on someone, JUST DO IT. Totally worth it.
Is no one gonna talk about how soothing her voice is? 🥺😍✨
It is
Hi
It’s amazing insist it
I want to talk about it but I thought lots of them already talked about it..
I’m not afraid to be called a simp so I’m gonna say it
“That voice is amazing”
"Have you been crushing on someone right now"
Me: *Yes, for 5 years...*
spill the tea Im all ears
3 for me. I actually have a feeling that he might like me back but if I'm going to tell him, I want it to just be the two of us and that hasn't really been able to happen.
I'm the same... I have been in love with a girl from my class since I've met her, I'm in a 3rd grade right now and I haven't done anything about it. I knew from the start that I'm not good enough for her. And If I confessed to her I would get rejected for sure, but I just can't get her out of my head I love her so much. Anyone has some advice on how to fall out of love so I can finally stop tormenting myself over this?
P.s Sorry for bad English.
@cinnabunn- Btw, I was literally planning to visit psychologist to talk about this would that be too weird?
Almost 6 months and I'm disappointed of miself for this record
I’ve had lots of crushes before, these are the stages I go through:
1. Falling in love with someone and thinking about them every day
2. Remembering my crush is a fictional character and realize I’ll never be able to be with them
3. Keep obsessing over my crush for a long time until I get bored of them
4. Repeat
....
This is the most relatable comment i have seen today.
I don't even want to understand how dumb it is to have real love interest for fictionnal characters
@@Sholver No one asked you tho
@@samarthpraveen6109 Great, you share the same stupid overused argument as the majority of people
Help the world suddenly started feeling so much more vibrant and better to me I’m so happy I might like someone again no way 😭
I guess I got lucky, the only girl I was ever truly romantically interested in liked me back, it was like a dream come true for those nearly 3 years but she passed away in August. We knew that the 2 of us weren't going to live past 25 but it doesn't make it hurt any less. I was too nervous to ask her out myself but I'm so extremely thankful that she had the courage to try to confess to me. She got about half way through that sentence before trying to run off but I caught her and told her I liked her too. I've got roughly 4 or so years left and I don't plan on being with anyone else in that time. Regardless of if your circumstances are similar to ours or not, I truly hope whoever is reading this musters up the courage to try to confess to their crush/love interest, you never know when it'll be too late, and you won't know if your simple crush will sprout into something beautiful until you give it a go before you lose the only chance to.
I love you Taylah and I always will.
@@arvindpadmanabhan7527 im sorry but fantasizing this person's comment when they are clearly talking about a difficult experiences involving death in both parties feels kind of wrong
@@kngbee07 Personally it doesn't bother me if my story is the fantasy of another, it's comforting to think that others look at me from a position of envy. I appreciate the thought though i'm no snowflake so people can speak their mind here.
I’m sorry for your loss, and what you said was inspirational. Thanks man (sry if your a girl)
@@mathmanmalachi3171 I'm a guy, I'm happy to know my story is inspirational to someone else in the end.
At least you have a special place in your heart for her.
A lot of people don't realize that you don't need to like somebody just for the sake of it.
Just by remembering her dearly makes the relationship special.
The thing I'm scared about of when having a crush is that they like you back, and after a while you eventually get together. And I'm scared that while dating I will slowly loose love for them and not get those same butterflies and feelings I had when they were just a mere crush😔
Same
i’m in a relationship, and i understand your thought process. for the first 3 months of my relationship, that spark kind of dwindled, but it came right back. my heart still skips a beat whenever i talk to him. true love will come your way, and you won’t have to worry about losing feelings :)
hope everything’s going well!! 💗
@@chimmyslayin thank you, I feel much better about it now, and I'm glad you're in a happy and healthy relationship. I hope you have a blessed day 💗
@@trizzyy_dogg i’m glad ! have a blessed day as well. 💗
@@chimmyslayin Exactly it’s been 4 years and to this day my heart skips a beat💕💖
For me it’s
1.noticing them more
2.confusion and small butterflies
3.sharing and thinking about them
4.excitement
5.little obsessed
6.obsessed
7.really obsessed for a while
8.less love
9.falling out of love
10.ending and repeat for different person
Fr
to me, sharing is not always an option.
either a traumatic childhood or moving out in general can leave you alone.
thats much scarier. i had the hugest crush on that girl, and it went on like that for 2 or 3 years, i had to go through 3 crushes to finally get my head strait
now im not depressed and have an arguably better life, see sharing is possibly the gateway to help and without it you really r alone
yuri headass
Bruh fr.
Repeat
i do have a crush. also we were dating last year but we broke up over a misconception but i know he likes me and i like him. we arent "dating" again but he HELD MY HAND (!!!!!) today. Multiple times. this was no accident. so last year i tried to hold his hand ONCE and it only happened ONCE but i *know* that he is more committed this time bc in only today he asked to hold my hand *SO* many times!!! OMG I THOUGHT I WAS IN LOVE BEFORE BUT THIS IS SOMETHING ELSE!! and guess what (?!?) he asked me to the winter formal, a VERY important dance that's tomorrow after school OMG!!! this dance is so important this year bc now that we a six graders (American style) so 11-12, we're both 11, and its our FIRST ONE (!!!!!!) now that we are in middle school, so, we can go!!!
When u liked someone for over a year and has never had a full conversation with them :' )
Same.. he talked to me just once and i fall for her..my story is like a nerdy boy and the top female in our school... I think he realized im a simp becuz he unfollowed me on all social med.. shit feeels hard man.. but the thing i hate the most is that i still feel attached to her..
I just got a headache from reading that
Yes same
Literally me.
Me D: (Hello darkness my old friend)
Stage 1: interest
Stage 2: curiosity
Stage 3: infatuation
Stage 4: sharing
Stage 5: falling in love
Stage 6: falling out of love
THERE! I just saved you time
Thanks! :D
stage 6 will never happen for this one istg
Step 7 repeat (Happens to me so many times for this one, istfg)
Thanks buddy. This saved me 5 minutes
i - i love u sm thank u
Y'all ever just accidentally have a crush and never realize it until after you not crushing anymore.
me
Yep. I never realised I liked this guy in my class until he left school.
That was me when my crush told me that he liked me and then I realized I liked him back
Yes. And I’m horrible with socializing with people. ;-;
Me: this’d why I deserve being lonely 😞
Mind: glad we’re on the same page.
@@angry_pomeranian818 I am also horrible at socializing with people outside my friend group. 😔
My stages ig…
1- meetings em
2- sparks fly
3- questioning emotions for em
4- ok I really do like em!!
5- ask their friends
6- two ways good new or bad…
Good news:
7- getting to know more about em
8- full on conversations
8.5- seeing good flaws+bad flaws while having conversations
9- friends
10- it goes on and then I eventually just ask them and it’s yes/no idc rlly
Bad news:
7- still simping
8- seeing no point in loving broski
9- finally seeing his bad sides
10- finally realizing how bad he would’ve been for you and ur in total disgust ^^
This is usually how having a crush goes for me since I get a new one every school semester but usually if they don’t like me im usually just their friend but im glad cause I know that my life would be ok without him but I enjoy the company
So what did I learn, if you have a crush, be friends with them and we’ll let ur story continue ❤
Edit: just sum writing issues/ bad grammar
“are you crushing on someone right now?”
sigh
sadly.
Then stop
@@mhumanworldm i wish it was that easy 😂
@@Emma-wq8bd I know that. I tried that too. But what really helps is all of their cons. Try remembering them, and see if any of these match with what is important to you
@@mhumanworldm that’s true
@@mhumanworldm thanks
there’s this extremely cute and nice guy in my science class in school and oh god he’s made me feel so many things- i haven’t felt them since a year ago when i met my ex lol
anyways, at first when he spoke to me i did feel really excited and felt butterflies in my stomach but i was really unsure. i just thought "it’s just a minor crush. you’ll get over him!" but i haven’t- and every single day i complain to my friends about having to wait so long for science since it’s my 5th period-
he sits next to me in science and he actually talks to me, like he acknowledges my existence unlike a lot of other people. it makes me really happy, he actually notices me. after school today we were walking in the same direction and i built up the courage to walk up to him and talk to him, and he actually talked to me. i just feel so excited, especially with so many things that have happened, i feel so happy. many unfortunate things happened this summer, and i thought the world was turning on me. but then school started, and now ive met him. ive never felt so excited to go to school. ive never felt so close to a crush before. it makes me so happy, and for the first time, i feel confident.
edit (9/23/21): hello!!! thank you so so much for all the likes! i did not expect this comment to blow up! also thank you so much for all the wonderful replies! it makes me really happy to read them. so, i decided to update you guys on my story! i confessed to my crush about a week ago or more, and unfortunately he did not specify if he liked me back or not. though, i can tell he only sees me as a friend. after that we were a little awkward, and we switched seats in science a few days ago since we have assigned seats. he kinda ignored me after i confessed but we still did talk. when we switched seats i was shocked when i realized that he started to stare at me! ive been catching him and it makes me really happy to know that he doesn’t actually hate me. he only actually talked to me yesterday in pe during dodgeball. he was helping me out and talking to me. im just glad that he doesn’t hate me after he found out my feelings for him :)
once again thank you so much for the kind replies!
edit 2 (10/20/21): ah so many replies!! thank you so much for all the support :)
unfortunately him and i have not gotten any closer, and eventually stopped talking. i got over him though! i actually have a new crush now and he’s very sweet
aye good for you, hope y’all get together someday :)
This is so wholesome!!
this comment made me cry
This is really sweet! Hope he likes you back :>
I’m replying to keep updated on the story
the video: 6 stages of having a crush
Me: *cries in flashbacks of the cringy things I did around my crush when I was in third grade*
Same sh*t, that's why I don't allow myself having crushes on anyone anymore for 3 yrs already
That’s me
Same. I don’t think it was even a crush, I was just bored. Oh well...
Same. I'll probably never forget those embarrassing things i said or do in front of my crush. And it sorts of gets very awkward if there wasn't any conversation flowing between.
AUGHHHHHHHH THE CRINGE
I didn’t have a crush. One day my mom said a girl wanted to speak with me. So I said ok. I saw her with my mom and we spoke. For the first few days I’d see her at school, I didn’t think much of it. I’m not the most social person out there, I’d always walk pretty much by myself to enjoy what’s around me. So then I’d see her and she asked if she can walk with me during lunch. Ofc, I said yes. We start walking, and we start learning who we are and what we enjoy doing. I’m still at the point of not having a crush yet, to me, it seemed like any other friend. So we hung out more and more, then Ias time went by, I started connecting with her more, and being able to share my thoughts and be myself around her more comfortably. She thought the same too. We had so much in common yet we were so different. As time went on, I could tell. WE could tell that we’d be more than just friends. And it’s worked out, I was the lucky one. It was just a matter of time.
does no one else get the “ick” phase where u realize they’re not actually perfect and get turned off by it until someone else starts to pursue them and then you’re driven into jealousy 😍
YES
YES
Oo god I thought i was over this one dude and them my now friend started clinging to them i got so stupidly jealous i found out later my friend was even a lesbian so you know
So true
Yes sadly 😔
Who else gets so convinced their crush likes them than realises its all just your imagination 😂
*me* 😭
me :,)
Me dude it fricken suuuuucks ass
Me 💀💀💀 I had a crush on someone for a whole year before realizing that they do not like me but they liked my best friend. Life is great.
@@Woberly dam.. thats gotta hurt-
my stages of having a crush
1. see them
2. developed feelings
3. fall inlove
4. realized they dont know i exist
That hurts
Shit thats so sad better luck next time
1. Oh wow she's rally charming!
2. Shopping at her job another day in case she's working
3. Wait for her to get off, take a pic of her license plate, look it up online, find out where she lives
4. Buy flowers and carve a picture of her into my left arm to show her
5. realize I can't really see her from these bushes
6. I need be inside her house when I ask her out
@@The3rdGunman either someone who is just too smart and skillful or someone who needs to stop right now
@@whatsomeonesaidwastaken9216 ???
1. First eye contact
2. Can't talk to them
3. You wait
4. Tell your friends and they force you to go and talk to her while they talk with her friends
5. You get a good thing going with her.
6. You confess, she accepts.
7. You promise her the world and she loves you for it.
8. Then her friends manipulate her watching every move you do.
9. She breaks up with you because of her friends and she hates you.
10. You can't talk to her cause she won't allow you to, she blocked you and she doesn't want you anymore.
11. You get a glow up besides who cares ur feelings are dead now for everyone around even your parents at some point.
Sorce my personal experience last month.
My stages:
1. Oh they're cool
2. I wanna hangout with them more
3. Realisation
4. Trying to impress them
5. Admiring them
6. Imaging scenarios
7. Getting courage to tell them
8. Chickens out/gets rejected TvT
I’m sorry :((
@@ioana4310 im fine dont worry were still friends :)
Rip
I’ve had a crush on my best friend for a while, and recently she told me she liked me too. For us though, we’re actually in love with each other. Guess what? I finally asked her out yesterday and she said yes!
Edit: As requested by a person in my comment section, you are all invited to my wedding even though it’d be many years down the line 😂
Another Edit: Y’all we broke up a LONG time ago 💀💀 but I’m okay!! It was for the best :) Instead of a wedding, I’ll invite you all to a get together dance and food party LOL
Soooo happy for you!!!
@@spookyspikes6576 Aww thank you!🤗
Yesss!!!!! I’m so happy for you
Good job maaaan
@@deepxenon69 I’m a girl but thank you😂❤️
My own stage of getting a crush:
Just kept looking at them
Still.
Still.
Determined to confess
but just gave up before I came up to them
Overthinks
Frustrated
Cry myself to sleep
Simple as that.
Oof
not alone
Then you repeat next week
@@louispatterson3407 more like the next day
Same
1) *Does not realize they exist*
2) “Wait, NO! I don’t like him!”
3) Realizes he is in two of my classes, “Well that is awkward”
4) “I don’t like him! No I don’t
5) “Okay, fine I do”
6) Starts looking for him everywhere i go
7) Starts being twitchy when around him
8) Starts a secret diary
9) Starts to doubt again
That’s just me right now…
my stages of having a crush:
1. she's nice
2. it's quite cute when she smiles
3. thinks about her once in a while
4. and then all the time, would check my phone for her dms
5. fantasizing every moment if we were in a relationship
6. be completely straightforward about having feelings for her by giving hints
7. move on with my miserable single life
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
_ 1 Corinthians 6:18
that's why we get anxiety and depression once we do it, because we're committing a sin against ourselves.
nothing on this earth is worth your ETERNAL LIFE and SOUL.
..........
This is the story of my life right now...
@@elijahgreen2479 so basically what you are saying is:
Liking someone is a sin?
@@SleepyFunkin not a sin but it's like they're are not worth your eternal life and soul and if you can't give the eternal life and soul you don't love them enough
It's just an opinion you don't have to take this seriously. :-)
Stage 1 : Attraction
Stage 2 : Trying to start up conversations
Stage 3 : Always thinking about them
Stage 4 : Trying every bit of methods to start up any conversation
Stage 5 : Feeling butterflies for everything she mentions about you
Stage 7 : Obession, starting to do actions that will tell her that you like her
Stage 8 : You try to convery ur feelings without telling them face to face (chats or thru someone)
Stage 9 : She gets to know about your feelings, but doesn't give a yes or a no
Stage 10 : You start feel the distance b/w you two
Stage 11 : You are 99% sure that the answer is no.
Stage 12 : You know its a no but you want to hear it from her mouth but you are too scared to start up a conversation abt it.
Stage 13 : You are stuck in this dilemma where you know its a no but 1% hopes keep it up.
Stage 14 : You move on without ever telling your feelings face to face and never knowing whether she actually likes you or not (99% she doesnt)
Bro stole my whole identity ☠
Bro described my life real quick💀
I know how this feels, like a lot. I liked someone for a while. She was like the perfect person. She liked sports, she was basically a genius, she always had an optimistic outlook on everything, and she seemed to not have a disdain for me like most of the other kids in school. I was always the fat kid in school, bigger than everyone, the butt of everyone's joke. But she would never join in against me, she'd always know what to say. She admired my sense of humor, my skills in music, and qualities I didn't even know I had. I didn't want to crush on her because I was afraid of losing a really good friend. This went on for 3 years until freshman year around Christmas time. By then I overheard that someone tried to shoot his shot with her and she didn't know who it was. I was beyond jealous, of the person who could ever be so brave and fearless to confess his love with risk. I wanted that. I wrote my own note and gave it to her during Bio. Later in the break, I confessed via email. The day after Christmas she responded. Basically said I was a good person but she wasn't interested in dating anyone. She had great reason to feel this way. I highly respected her decision, but deep down I was heartbroken. Worse of all, I didn't tell anyone, and I didn't want anyone to know, so I had to endure all these feelings sharing 3 classes with her, and hide it all. To my shock, she didn't tell anyone about my confession, but word got out about who sent the original note. He was the hottest, most popular, and most sought-after guy in our class. Now I felt 3x worse. If she ever did gain interest in dating she'd surely pick him over some fat kid who can crack a good joke from time to time. Even through it all she never made the environment awkward, despite me doing it a multiplicity of times. One time in bio another girl was talking to her about this guy's confession right in front of me. Talk about awkwardness. This went on for the rest of the year. 1st day into the new year I'm leaving my second-period class and I bump into her by the door and knock all my books down right in front of her. Great start to the year. This path was and still is difficult to pass. But no matter what I know I'm good enough for myself where I can get through it. Sometimes I wish I didn't tell her when I did, but I did. And I can't change that, nor can I change the events that followed. So why dwell on that when I can work towards being a better person. Not for her, or anyone else, but for me. That's my story...
I know no one probably cares about some teenage fat kid's rejection story, but I hope it resonates with enough people where my story actually has value to someone.
Dude that stage 12 is so true.😐
Yep that is whats happening to me right now
Me: “She’s not scary, she’s cute. She’s not scary, she’s cute. She’s not scary, she’s cute. x2”
Crush: “Hai!”
Me: *dies from a heart attack*
Omg that's so me lmao
That's so cute >///
awwwww
LOL
I can relate
Same
just went through heartbreak with this girl i was really close with, she told me she didnt want to date me even though we had done a lot, wish she told me when i confessed to her a while ago. when she told me i already knew, her friend spilled the beans and it was better that way, i dont think me crying at school would've have gone well. she also hit me witht he "i love you like a brother". my friends say that is hard to deal with but i dealt with it pretty fine. we both agree we wouldn't work out together. we're still best friends though so yay. and i also agree with her that 15 is too young to truly date. good video as always!
1. Finding out they exist and kinda liking them but dont think I have a crush or feelings
2. Realizing I have a crush, confusion and thinking much about if I should do something
3. All those positive feelings
4. Realizing there is no reason for positive assosiations with having a crush and start feeling unwell
5. Depression without ever talking to her
Same
number 5 relates to me so much
I feel you
this
If you have a crush, I swear you should tell her. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, you probably just made her feel really good about herself, like she's pretty and people like her. Also, if she doesn't feel the same way, you might feel down for a bit, but a week or so later you'll forget about it. If she does feel the same way, it's probably the most amazing feeling in the world
HELLO:
1. Stage one: Interest 0:35
2. Stage two: Curiosity 1:12
3. Stage three: Infautation 2:01
4. Stage four: Sharing 3:00
5. Stage five Falling in love 3:54
6. Stage six: Falling out of love 4:33
Thanks to the time stone i able to give summary early haha
thank you!!
I'm in stage one:>
@Alex 999 there's some from months ago 💀😭😭
Always has been
I'm in stage 6..
For me it's
1. See a change in my feelings
2. start to imagine myself with them
3. listen to music that makes me think of them
4. keep it a secret in fear of denial
5. tell a friend
6. I get enough courage to tell them how I feel
7. Get rejected
8. rinse and repeat
Same but without 6 and 7
Same but I end at 4 😂😂😂
Edit: I graduated but I do reminisce from time to time 😭😔
Same but end is 4
Same here
It’s the same but half of 7
1:47 I can’t go up to my crush cause he knows I like him,and whenever I get close to him I have a heart attack😭🙏
I am to scared to she’s just so beautiful
@@Ash-x9mfr I just can't sit still even when I think about my crush 🫤
It is so hard but if it works good XD
@@greysonwright8708 he knows bc my crush and my bsf were on the swings and she told him EVERYTHING, I was cooked.
Lol
Infatuation is the worst feeling for people like me, those who cannot bear love, those who do not trust anyone, those who hate themselves. Love is painful for me because it is impossible for me to know it, my mind and personality won’t allow it. It is just the way it is.
Yeah I feel you, I have a crush right now that's very obviously reciprocated, but my mind loves to make excuses as to why they don't like me and it's frustrating. It's also frustrating because my mind loves to make excuses as to why I'm not good enough for said person even though realistically speaking, I'm a good person, many people like me as a person and I attract a lot of people in my life because I have a likable personality to many and I'm easy to talk to, but I also hate myself at the same time. It's counterintuitive, but I can't help it.
Me and my friends just plain believe that is getting a relationship it impossible. Like: Why us? Why not chad over there.
@@DanielLopez-ob9jz lucky, hope it ends up well for you
For me, it's the opposite: I can't bear not liking people as people because it makes me feel like a bad person, even though I know I'm not a bad person. My mind literally forces me to stop thinking about people in a negative light, although I can make an exception for politicians, because politics is stupid.
Rip us, we all got some BS in our lives it seems. Can’t even die because I feel like my death will greatly affect everyone I know and those they themselves know in some shape or form, and that will haunt me even in the afterlife, if there’s one.
When your crush is someone who ignores you .-.
Ah i love it how he ignores me daily ♡
That's too frustrating😫😫😫
@@ミキリンP Hi,what's up
How old are you?
@potato goddess Not really LOL
I feel that- (my crush is my enemy TwT)
1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining
4. Depression
5. Acceptance
6. Infatuation
bruh
No way 😂😂
Me
Isn’t this from monk? Lol
I'm in bargaining fo sho
My stages:
1. Frens
2. Denial
3. Heavy Denial
4. Talking to crush
5. Both of us calling each others dad name.
6. Getting shipped by other frens
7. Imagining situations that would never happen with them
8. SIMP
9. Back to denial
10. More social interaction
11. Denial again
12. More denial
13. "I think i like her"
14. Acceptance
15. Die inside
When you aren’t friends with your crush anymore but your brain is just thinking about them constantly
Me: how the hell are you here?-
Someone: *Hey, do u have a girlfriend?*
Me, not wanting to “cheat” on my crush who probably doesn’t even like me back: *well yes but actually no..*
hey, catra
@@yourlocalanimator9955 😳
@@heyadora6207 You okay?
It’s scary how I did this
catra simp club unite
Stages of me having a crush:
- Denial
- They're just a friend
- I don't like them like that
- Denial
- They're just a friend
- Do I like them more than a friend?
- No
- Realisation
- Oh ****
- They're still just a friend
- Oh gosh, I do have a crush on them
- Cries
- Go away feelings
*Waits*
- Cries more
- Still a friend
- Go away feelings
- Finally! Crush over!
- Why does no one like me?! I'm lonely! 😭
What?
@@sisishhbnsi7 I know I'm messed up, lol
You have summed up my whole life pretty much up to this point
@@THESuperFalcox Idk if that's a good thing😂
@@ebe_fritz The few times I have confessed it's always ended in rejection so I think at this point it's just to save myself