14 Common Negotiation Mistakes

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  • @VALUETAINMENT
    @VALUETAINMENT  5 років тому +14

    Share your thoughts with Patrick Bet-David by texting 310.340.1132 or click here my.community.com/patrickbetdavid

    • @theunvoicedvoice
      @theunvoicedvoice 4 роки тому

      Wow, I didn't realize some of these mistakes were so common. I will pay closer attention to the recordings of my closing calls and review them more in-depth.
      Thank you for the awesome video Pat. It has helped me elevate my thinking and awareness.

  • @dahabka5900
    @dahabka5900 6 років тому +15

    I learn English by listening to you brother everyday. At lest I watch 5 video every. Big respect my brother.
    God bless you

  • @Morphick
    @Morphick 7 років тому +75

    Best entrepreneur channel on YT 👌

  • @shaunonsite
    @shaunonsite 7 років тому +7

    I can relate to this because I made a lot of these mistakes around this time last year. I tried to negotiate with an agent of a model in Japan. I met the model herself and she was amazing. Thing is, I had to deal with her agency and her manager. This is when the lesson began.
    I went in too hard instead of getting to know the manager.
    I didn't know as much about the client like I thought I did.
    Was in the business for myself instead of all parties.
    Tried to do long term through crappy methods.
    Took it too personal after it fell through.
    Took zero interest in the manager's life story (which was interesting after the fact)
    Was SUPER impatient.
    As bad as it felt, it was an important lesson for me to learn to get better. Thanks for this, Patrick!

  • @johnnydaytrader1942
    @johnnydaytrader1942 7 років тому +8

    Can you make a video of going in depth about the three options idea? Like 3 options in a vacation home what you're looking for. 3 options deciding on what car to buy. 3 options of what a certain deal can provide you. Etc.

  • @derekvillarreal5207
    @derekvillarreal5207 Рік тому +4

    He has improved so much with his communication. Even though 5 yrs ago he was a top notch communicator

  • @quarantinelife.
    @quarantinelife. 6 років тому +22

    Your channel is so much value. I'm learning everyday.

  • @RonHarveySC
    @RonHarveySC 7 років тому +7

    before i head over to the next valutainment video, i have to say; what Pat just delivered here is pure gold. if you are planning on running a big $ biz (like I am), then learn this stuff.

  • @rafiqlnk
    @rafiqlnk 7 років тому +1

    This is easily the most valuable channel in UA-cam when it comes to bussiness

  • @RajBeats
    @RajBeats 5 років тому +14

    This is another fantastic (and easily digestible) video. I'm getting tremendous value from you Pat. Thanks so much!!

  • @joelow63
    @joelow63 7 років тому +88

    14 negotiating mistakes
    1letting emotion get in the way
    2 miscommunication
    3not enough research
    do4not getting their direct■■(talk to the source,ceo)■■■■■■
    5leverage know leverage
    6not listening
    7knowing when to leave time wise
    8too extreme soft/hard■■
    9not understanding personality■■■■■■■very important
    10letting people what you want in the deal time wise
    11caring too mych
    12focusing only on the money
    13trying to beat the other person
    14not seeking other options■■■always do
    know your BATNA
    best
    alternative
    to
    negotiated
    agreement
    so u have leverage

    • @ahmedkhayr8927
      @ahmedkhayr8927 6 років тому +1

      Valuetainment, Can you please do a video on, 5 Best Books On the art of Negotiating.This would be greatly appreciated by me and many others.I truly appreciate all this free information. Keep the videos coming.

    • @samsonsson328
      @samsonsson328 6 років тому

      Ahmed khayr this comment is a year old...

    • @56585656587
      @56585656587 6 років тому +3

      You just saved me 12:54 of my life. Thank you.

  • @sitifaizah9908
    @sitifaizah9908 4 роки тому +70

    I like him, he doesn't have to swear and using the "F" word to teach.

    • @SWISSMUSICFC
      @SWISSMUSICFC 3 роки тому +6

      Well that's happens when you stop listening to douchebags like Gary v! Control of vocabulary is a sign of intelligence!

    • @testicularhypertrophy
      @testicularhypertrophy 3 роки тому +4

      It is just words lol

    • @malibudolphin3109
      @malibudolphin3109 2 роки тому

      @@testicularhypertrophy no its a filler word of a dumbass who tries to sound tougher than the yellow belly is

    • @karabomothupi9759
      @karabomothupi9759 2 роки тому +2

      Like Gary Vee?

    • @TooLiveHam
      @TooLiveHam 2 роки тому +2

      It's pretty fuckin necessary

  • @EstudioLatinoMX
    @EstudioLatinoMX 7 років тому +2

    I have a special notebook named valuetainment. I take notes from these videos. This is a great classroom. And Patt is a great teacher.

    • @joshmiller4152
      @joshmiller4152 3 роки тому

      Very smart. Good luck in your business endeavors. You will do well.

  • @olgalevchenko3023
    @olgalevchenko3023 5 років тому +3

    Great tips, as always. I just can add my trick. Mirror people. If they speak slowly- you slow down. If they fast- you try to speak faster. Thats what I call being on the same wave:-) Always works!

  • @Dim4ik2012
    @Dim4ik2012 4 роки тому +2

    Pat, I am so happy to found this channel. Your hard work inspiring me a lot

  • @davistado7268
    @davistado7268 6 років тому +3

    this guy videos carries with em great value for business people, good work!

  • @justmeandmy
    @justmeandmy Рік тому

    Dude I miss these kinds of videos. They had a sort of simplicity, charm, and good deep lessons

  • @cobblestonenegotiations6872
    @cobblestonenegotiations6872 2 роки тому

    Great video with the most usual negotiation mistakes people make. I personally think that most people talk too much, trying to out-negotiate the other side. Pat mentioned the mistake of not listening, and I would add another one related to this: People too often break the silence, which means when they say their offer, instead of being silent, they continue talking to justify it, and by doing it they achieve exactly the opposite result - the offer loses credibility.

  • @octavianpiano694
    @octavianpiano694 7 років тому

    This is by far the best video about marketing i;ve seen in my entire life.

  • @kachaso
    @kachaso 5 років тому

    Always a great video with Pat

  • @soniagupta781
    @soniagupta781 Рік тому

    Thankyou Pat, it was indeed a valuable video

  • @Iamjoemedley
    @Iamjoemedley 7 місяців тому

    Very insightful and straightforward ❤

  • @varuntilwani6163
    @varuntilwani6163 7 років тому

    and I'm glad tht people like you are existing in this world

  • @gu17aman
    @gu17aman Рік тому

    After watching this video. I know what mistakes I have made in my previous deals. Well explained. Thanks

  • @ei8htbernal
    @ei8htbernal 6 років тому

    You didn't even have to ask me to hit the like and subscribe buttons and 3 minutes in I smashed tf outta them. Perfect delivery of information. Thank you Pat!

  • @avellinemochoge5561
    @avellinemochoge5561 7 років тому

    good every day energizer. good message to keep entrepreneurs going.

  • @harshkabra7645
    @harshkabra7645 7 років тому +2

    I was just finishing this book called GAIN THE EDGE! By Martin E Latz.
    And this video popped up.
    Helped a lot, THANKS

  • @georgeg2369
    @georgeg2369 4 роки тому

    Pat da man
    Gift to entrepreneurs

  • @NestorMaravi
    @NestorMaravi 3 роки тому

    I have pretty much made all of these mistakeS. Thank you for sharing. Valuable information!

  • @Faisalkhan-hy8fu
    @Faisalkhan-hy8fu 7 років тому

    Pat,you are the best my man.. it's so wise and so awesome of you to share all these things with us..And most importantly for free!.
    Thanks a lot man..
    I wish I can repay you back or the society in some way or the other..

  • @patrickp8446
    @patrickp8446 6 років тому

    #9 on personalities was great, I like the candidness of interrupting the interrupter.

  • @dkrejorgonzal4805
    @dkrejorgonzal4805 7 років тому

    Best source in youtube!!

  • @coachiwuaba514
    @coachiwuaba514 7 років тому +32

    I'm going to take over the fitness Industry with this information 😁

  • @ahmedkhayr8927
    @ahmedkhayr8927 6 років тому +1

    Valuetainment, Can you please do a video on, 5 Best Books On the art of Negotiating.This would be greatly appreciated by me and many others.I truly appreciate all this free information. Keep the videos coming.

  • @viratchhikara992
    @viratchhikara992 7 років тому +50

    Pat, what stocks do you own?
    Can we see some stock market related videos in the near future?

    • @viratchhikara992
      @viratchhikara992 7 років тому +9

      joscmc No thanks. I am only interested in stocks.

    • @Adam-td7xy
      @Adam-td7xy 7 років тому

      i dont think you understand cryptocurrencies. They go up and down like stocks. You REALLY should at least learn about them

    • @lassi3401
      @lassi3401 7 років тому +2

      Virat Chhikara Never take stock tips from ANYONE else!

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 6 років тому +1

      Dan Lok said to invest in something you understand. Plus you need to study the market trends and how a company performs. If one asks about what stock to invest in, then that means, that person is uninformed and did not do his/her research and will probably lose money or gain money through luck.

    • @mulutlewatmulut718
      @mulutlewatmulut718 6 років тому

      @@joscmc thank him still? Pat doesn't do crypto and look at the value of crypto now. LoL. Hope you re okay man. 19k down to 3K wow... It will even go worse to $50 ... I will buy that when it goes so low. Thank me later

  • @romariorofina7659
    @romariorofina7659 7 років тому

    growing! the channel is growing!

  • @JasonPaulRogers
    @JasonPaulRogers 5 років тому

    Excellent video

  • @danielm6263
    @danielm6263 7 років тому +4

    I try to watch your videos before I go to the gym trying to work towards a goal at the gym and your videos really motivate me to do more, and helping me with more things for my future.

  • @gautami6322
    @gautami6322 2 роки тому

    Thank you!!!

  • @NestorMaravi
    @NestorMaravi 3 роки тому

    Thank you for Sharing. Emotional intelligence is so important!

  • @springfieldselected
    @springfieldselected 4 роки тому

    #1 is so important and overlooked

  • @mikeashchian
    @mikeashchian 5 років тому

    Learning something every day on your channel. Thanks!

  • @mustafadayan2049
    @mustafadayan2049 7 років тому

    Pat - Always great videos!

  • @timvakulich2223
    @timvakulich2223 7 років тому +1

    man all these regulations ,,, that I'm only 15 years old and wanna be part of a business. its stopping me from learning sometimes...I dont wanna wait for a certain age ...📚🙏🔥🔥🔥love your stuff Patrick

  • @BECIELOFFICIAL
    @BECIELOFFICIAL 6 років тому

    TREE OPTIONS 🌲 🌲!!!

  • @alejandrohpcb
    @alejandrohpcb 3 роки тому

    great video. I also recommend 'Never Split the Difference'. best negotiation book Ive read, and implemented

  • @praveenModlier
    @praveenModlier 5 років тому

    Good compilation.. Useful tips.

  • @alexmotors8289
    @alexmotors8289 6 років тому

    Awesome video!!!!! Always learning something new!!!! Thank you..

  • @anthonywandowicz8084
    @anthonywandowicz8084 6 років тому

    Number 13 I will admit is extremely important. Burning a bridge might feel good st the moment but what feels better is potentially benefiting down the road.

  • @hezo4534
    @hezo4534 5 років тому

    Thank you. Patrick.

  • @georgefruean8276
    @georgefruean8276 4 роки тому

    Thanks Pat. Really helped uso

  • @mountaincenang6537
    @mountaincenang6537 5 років тому

    My man I salute you , you are the big boss , you have put sense into our head. My Eyes has opened . bless you brooo! For sharing!

  • @sentanunw
    @sentanunw Рік тому

    Thankyou Pat!

  • @brandonseenath2088
    @brandonseenath2088 6 років тому

    I love your videos. They are so helpful

  • @kaysong4015
    @kaysong4015 6 років тому +7

    Great tactics! Thank you. Getting back in the ring with my kid with these negotiating skills now. ;) Greetings from Germany!

  • @jikandlela181
    @jikandlela181 7 років тому

    thank u Pat, this is best information for a budding entrepreneurs and companies
    one love from Zimbabwe, Africa

  • @akshay6361
    @akshay6361 5 років тому

    Your content is so to the point. And your context is impressive. Idn why there are so less views.

  • @Ayushkumar-cv3er
    @Ayushkumar-cv3er 7 років тому +1

    this video will really help me in my rookie career

  • @roark09
    @roark09 7 років тому

    This is just gold..

  • @chetanasin9150
    @chetanasin9150 3 роки тому

    Thanks

  • @Zkullz69
    @Zkullz69 2 роки тому +1

    What a difference the hair makes. Here Pat looks like he wants to sell me work out formula. Today he looks so much more professional.

  • @jasonbean7296
    @jasonbean7296 7 років тому

    great tips, thanks.

  • @alpha-yw1mw
    @alpha-yw1mw 7 років тому

    love your videos

  • @Camcentral4532
    @Camcentral4532 11 місяців тому

    Thanks.

  • @atsporty
    @atsporty 5 років тому

    Good content and very well presented

  • @DJSUELTO1
    @DJSUELTO1 2 роки тому

    This is so helpful

  • @APerez89
    @APerez89 3 роки тому

    PAT SHOW US HOW TO FOLLOW UP WITH CLIENTS AFTER A SALES BID WHEN THEY ARE GOING THRU A CRISIS !

  • @madanmohan4817
    @madanmohan4817 7 років тому

    Great video. Thank you

  • @johnhoude1340
    @johnhoude1340 4 роки тому

    My three life options. Wife in the Morning. Work during the day. Patrick in the evening. The Dog is not an option, she always gets her walk!

  • @Williamggs
    @Williamggs 7 років тому

    Great video pat, thank you

  • @jimsystem
    @jimsystem 5 років тому

    Pat that was a fantastic video, thanks so much for all your good stuff that you share with us

  • @Jojo-hr7il
    @Jojo-hr7il 7 років тому +2

    one more great content, thank you, pat.

  • @Iamagod888
    @Iamagod888 5 років тому

    Great advice thank you!!

  • @hotchills9925
    @hotchills9925 2 роки тому

    2022 here we are....found this information so helpful.

  • @shivamandani5287
    @shivamandani5287 6 років тому

    Thankyou for this video.

  • @tomm.5191
    @tomm.5191 7 років тому +162

    Who the hell dislikes these videos?

    • @basedexo119
      @basedexo119 7 років тому +27

      Haters and jealous people I guess. Can't find a single reason to hate on these free videos myself tbh, some people could ask for money for these jewels PBD is dropping on a weekly basis.

    • @carloslara3346
      @carloslara3346 7 років тому +7

      there are bots that go around youtube disliking videos. thats why no matter how great a video is, if it is well know it will have dislikes

    • @richardfry5991
      @richardfry5991 7 років тому +1

      Not everyone learns the same way.

    • @calisthenicschicken8812
      @calisthenicschicken8812 7 років тому +37

      The people who are trying to sell $5000 courses.

    • @dafakeshai5111
      @dafakeshai5111 7 років тому +4

      loooool I was just thinking that too

  • @MetalMan6772
    @MetalMan6772 7 років тому

    dude this video is f*****g GOLD I SWEAR

  • @RCh.1
    @RCh.1 4 роки тому

    All in good time, Pat! Thanks for your excellent effort 🙏🏻

  • @yvonneruvinski8065
    @yvonneruvinski8065 7 років тому

    Negotiation means the process of discussing something with someone in order to reach an agreement with them, or the discussions themselves.

  • @ohhRobs
    @ohhRobs 7 років тому

    Gonna use these tactics for cold calling thanks Pat!

  • @syednadeemmuhammed5675
    @syednadeemmuhammed5675 6 років тому

    I love the valuable advice you have given in this video. Thanks.

  • @wuzgoanon9373
    @wuzgoanon9373 5 років тому

    Powerful.

  • @opmvision2921
    @opmvision2921 4 роки тому

    Peace & Blessings

  • @gila7058
    @gila7058 7 років тому

    Still the best best advice to get

  • @jakeford1560
    @jakeford1560 7 років тому

    -Awesome man, keep it up! 👍

  • @kgpublicationsinc
    @kgpublicationsinc 3 роки тому

    It came up on my feed AT JUST THE RIGHT TIME!!! lol!!!😄 #forwardmotion #upwardandonward #slayinit

  • @fpolarrrr
    @fpolarrrr 5 років тому

    Helps alot

  • @andreastevens3146
    @andreastevens3146 7 років тому

    Very good .

  • @paramvala
    @paramvala 7 років тому +3

    Hello Patrick, fascinating content really helped me learn.
    Thank you for your effort

  • @PGA911
    @PGA911 7 років тому

    Amazingly smooth plug!

  • @CabdiraxmanQoys
    @CabdiraxmanQoys 7 років тому

    thanks I liked the family examples you talked about

  • @mohammedhashim7668
    @mohammedhashim7668 7 років тому

    Pure gold

  • @Seth-xi7ox
    @Seth-xi7ox 7 років тому

    Knowing your BATNA is priceless. Thank you so much for the info!!

  • @lastcall9998
    @lastcall9998 5 років тому

    Mate, I loved this video, very good insight and lessons. Cheers.

  • @raghavm6512
    @raghavm6512 7 років тому

    Nice Video. Thank you.

  • @sanchy1826
    @sanchy1826 7 років тому

    You are awesome Pat, thanks for the amazing value you put out. Keep it up

  • @RahulPahuja1991
    @RahulPahuja1991 7 років тому

    Superb!

  • @Izzysai
    @Izzysai 7 років тому

    This is solid information. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom.

  • @rorycavanagh5475
    @rorycavanagh5475 3 місяці тому

    I really like #13 trying to beat the other person. It’s interesting because you can screw the other person down as much as possible, but how do you get the best long term arrangement?

  • @breakablec
    @breakablec 6 років тому

    High quality content