Hi Patrick, I wish I had been with you Dec 31 2002 I'd be where I want to be at in life now. Well thank you and my life is now going to be better for listening to you now in 2021! Thank you a Million!
Tbh, I don't ever want the noise. It's one thing to talk about success on YT. It's another to have a bunch of cameras in my face everywhere I go. I never want fame. If I ever get it, it'll be a serious accident.
I watched this episode 2 years ago for the first time. Since then whenever I have hard times, doubt in my mind about the business and what I do, I come back and rewatch it again. It is really a medicine for keep going. Thanks Pat!
8:04 yup, that's exactly how it is for me. At night when I'm alone with my thoughts. I get panic attacks and doubt myself, keep saying I could not possibly do this and even mock myself for ever thinking I could. Then I wake up the next day and feel motivated again. It's an ongoing cycle, but I'm not giving up, even more so because there are people who keep telling me I will not make it.
That inspired me because a lot of times in my life I never knew the reasons why I would quit, I just did. Now I know the reasons why. It’s a MAJOR mental breakthrough for me. Thank you Pat!
Selective hearing "you should go work at Kaiser..." that was a sign I was thinking about health insurance." NO THERE WAS A SIGN ACROSS THE STREET but you ignored it. it said "You can have all your dreams" BOOM! LOVE THIS STUFF MAN! I need this. My grandma always said "garbage in garbage out" thats when i stopped watching TV and I started looking for more people lke Tony RObbins. ITS THE TRUTH! WE ONLY NEED ONE PERSON ( I HAVE TONS, like you, and TY SO MUCH for texting me back last night!) but I also have someone here in LA. I have a family. but i have a good friend I see every day and he's always like "I'm Proud of you" or "you're such a hard working woman" "i love an independent woman" he always feeds me good stuff before I go to bed. I see him last thing before I leave usually. "oooh look at you! You got the seal from the state of California" (when I showed him I'm Worth It Inc. got incorporated)
I'm not an entrepenuer,I'm a college student struggling to complete his degree,but i tell you man this is some of the BEST advice i have ever heard. I realise that I have more than 2 people in my life who believe in me and I guess the reason i don't succeed is because I don't always believe in myself. Your videos have made me realise that there is no success unless i believe in myself. You simply can't succeed if you don't believe in yourself. Thanks you very much for these videos man. They make me feel invincible and like i can do anything. God bless and keep up the good work!
Valuetainment lol this guy gathered inspiration from you and created indias probably largest platform for motivation. How does it feel pat? The amount of people youve influenced over the years.. how many people youve helped just from this video... must feel fucking good! Youre a hero if anything.
I have been watching your video's for the past two weeks and you have impacted my life in a big way. I appreciate your time and dedication in helping people. I also started reading all the books you have said are essential to read and I couldn't be happier. Four books down in one week, I feel that I just woke up and started life. Again, I am appreciative for the passion and effort you put into your videos. -Anthony
In your video you mentioned about "who has control over you", well to me it was always been my dad. He passed away 6 months ago to cancer and now I'm lost. I don't know who to talk to or even who will mentor or even control me in my entrepreneur journey as I'm the only child, single mom, a loner, and gosh...a strong header too. Just last night I felt like quitting and finding a job and I saw this. My 3rd time watching since I woke up at 7.30am. Every single time I feel like quitting or lost or feel that I haven't done good enough or my sales & marketing strategy is wrong, I hit UA-cam and click on your channel. Man, you are the next best ear feeder after my dad! If you ever come to Malaysia, please post it up so I can clear my schedule and be where you are, to just thank you in person. True what people said that a hero doesn't always wear capes...well mine wears T-Shirts =D
Greetings. My name is Ameera and i am from St. Maarten. An Island in the Caribbean. I just want to thank you for being you. Finally i found someone who is teaching what i need to hear and explain it in a way i can understand. Keep up the great work. I will be listening and applying your teachings to my businesses. Have a blessed, productive and safe 2017 :)
this came at the perfect time for me, I'm very stubborn and a non quitter once I am in that tunnel vision zone but there has been a LOT of outside pressure lately from people who I value . Thanks for the positive alternative.
Thanks for this video Pat! I've been feeling VERY overwhelmed lately. I think about going back to a job EVERY single day but your videos help motivate me keep me pressing forward! You constantly remind me that I'm not alone and I can do this with hard work and determination. I refuse to give up!!
I started a new job in a new city after 11 years at my old one. You don't know how bad I needed to hear this today. David thank you for this video and all of the work you do.
16:56 one of the most profound words I heard on your channel, Patrick: "I'm not buying that." These words are especially valuable to me because in my team of 5, when faced with a loss or a failure, I hear Pat's voice say, "I'm not buying that!", and I immediately go over what went wrong and as if by magic, a solution is found.
You have a true servants heart, Pat. I'm so grateful and appreciative. Thank you so much! No doubt, you are changing lives and making this world a better place. I love your no B.S. mentoring.
You know gang, I just realized something that I thought I'd share. Im trying to get over this barrier in my business currently and being young and never having experienced this before, the stress that comes with building a business and trying to make it big is unwavering. I assumed that at some point it would subside, but a year into it and it hasn't. I'm not telling anybody this to discourage you. Hell embrace it and learn to cope with it, because if you're not stressing you're challenge and your dream is probably not big enough.
Pat, I've started and failed at more ventures than I have fingers and toes to count on and I believe I know why, but I would love your input. I'm a Loner. I have finally figured out what skills set me out from the rest, but they aren't enough to get anything off the ground. I keep thinking I need to build team of some kind, or at least find a way to find or attract the right resources needed to fill in the larger holes in the wings of the plane that would be my current (or future) business(s). So my question for you is... how do you go about either finding or attracting these types of people? and, almost more importantly, how do you go about finding a mentor? Maybe next time you're in Minnesota, we can hit a workout and possibly talk about things like this, together. I look forward to hearing from you. - Pete
VALUETAINMENT can you make a video on how to and where to invest your money , rules or thing's need to be consider while investing thanks in advance ! :-)
THANK YOU Patrick!!! Its sad. I have people like my own Dad, who are constantly trying to get me to quit this entrepreneur quest of mine by convincing me to take courses on IT to be a jerky ass computer engineer. But its not like the first time I have been discouraged to quit by someone who is or was meant to be trusted. Hell, nothing will ever stop me from (not trying) but reaching that brass ring. Even when I am not making money, I am still learning a lot and I am getting closer and closer to that very first CLOSE! Because I am. Thank you. There's no room for quitters! You are probably the best out of all the self-help/entrepreneurs on the internet. A lot has to do with your ethnic background because I come from the same one as yours. I know what the hardships are when coming from a middle eastern background trying to make it in the USA
God bless bro I have been following your contents for sometime now and they have really helped me in following up prospective clients and they have been 500% increase in closed deals since I have been watching Valuetainment. Thanks a lot.
Sir, this video couldn't have come at a better time. First time I saw you was at our Woodland Hills office 5 years ago. Now I'm trying to build a startup transportation company for people in wheelchairs. Your videos help me put everything back in to perspective. Thank you and God bless!
+Archangel “xOAzraelOx” Azrael I remember the Woodland Hills days. Looks like you're building a business that's making a positive impact. Keep charging.
Pat I'm sorry you guys stopped the channel. I'm still listening to your videos and hope you come back because your content is amazing brother. I hope whatever the reason for the channel being turned off gets resolved so you can come back stronger and with new amazing content! I am in the process of starting my own business and your channel has been one of the best resources I've been privileged to tap into. Thank you.
16:40 very good advice! My brother was one who caught me that I do self pity sometimes. He told me a couple of times. Simply catching myself helps me combat it! Now I'm not saying one shouldn't analyse their mistakes and think on what went wrong and how to better it - but one should know how to do that without dwelling in their mistakes and pitying themselves. And when I catch myself - guess what, my opinion doesn't change. I don't suddenly think I'm all awesome and such. But I sart thinking about productive things! That makes a huge difference! (And eventualy I _do_ think higher of myself, because silly things don't keep me from seeing my good sides and worth! Which is motivating and upbuilding and thus leads to progress.)
I have never quit in life! Ive always kept a positive outlook on my current situation. As of late i feel, broke! My spirit has been broke by the last 20 yrs of fighting.
Pat... I am a feminist and want to tell you how happy you make me when you always, always, always include girls & women in your examples. It's like a soothing balm on my heart. Thank you for being the person that you are.
I've been daily vlogging for a year. It's rough. I record and edit all of my stuff. It takes me 3-4 hours of editing per night. I also have a successful voice over business (10 years strong) and am practicing 4 hours a day to reach the PGA. I am almost a scratch golfer. It's extremely difficult to do it alone. Your words and energy are extremely encouraging. Thanks a ton, sir!
Thank you so much for this video Patrick I needed it. Quitting is a bad habit. We have to beat it. I think Im just surrounded by quitters so I had let them consume me with their way of thinking but this reset my mindset. 💯 Its so true we can motivate ourselves to either give up or try harder each day. Im learning so much with your channel🥺😭
I will be sending my pillow soon! I am almost finished making it! Thanks again to you and your team for the valuable information. You guys are so awesome
Pat, your concept ring powerfully in my heart!The way I see it, because you said bussiness is a math formula(hope it becomes a game for me someday), Multiplying a negative number with a positive one results in negative results. So I'm currently improving on procrastinating on bad habits.Let me be decisive: Over eating is Bad, Procrastinating is Bad; so if I combine them what results will I get?💥 BOOM 💥 Positive ones! Combing and Sperating habits= Multiplying and Divideing numbers!Thanks for sharing your ideas!
Pat, I like the idea that you talked about having someone who believes in me, besides myself. I like this proposition. I have never thought about this before, and I should go and get someone out there. My wife believes in me full heartedly. I just need one more person to fully believe in me too. Thanks for the advice and great work on your videos. I love them.
This was so timely I was ready to quit. I got promoted. and there is so much new stuff I have to learn and I'm worried about not succeeding and even being demoted
Igor Hawkingz brother. You got promoted right? The moment you got here even then you were new to it. Learn new things that you need to. Again. I sometimes wonder life's too short and there's so much to learn. So if you have got the opportunity to learn new things do it. After getting promoted work even harder. That's what got you here right?? Do it.
Man I become emotional after this video. May be I was a quiter may be it raining snow in the morning of first day of new year in Paris. Don't know. But it touch my heart what you said. That's for feeling with tears and thanks for content. Love from Paris
When you get overwhelmed you either step up or let it get you down. Don't make quitting a habit. You need massive amounts of activity to start in the beginning. Your thoughts determine your level of belief. Some people like having problems in their life to use as a scapegoat. Failure can come from your own indiscretion. you need to have good friends around you. Doubting can lead to a spiral of negative thoughts. Don't let confirmation bias convince you to quit. Know who you're taking your advice from.
hello !! here from Palestine, i also watch your videos you are such a good motivator ! im going through a lot of difficulties everyday !! i want to build a business from scratch and it costs more money than i have and i have other sources to rely on :/ at some point i like it when i think how im going to tell my story in the next years ! of how i broke i was and had 0 support and still made it ! thank you for your videos and please keep doing what you are doing maybe you are inspiring me :) thank you indeeed
Quitting can be a very good thing. Especially if you are stuck in a job you hate. Getting out of it is excellent. Quitting a relationship from people who are toxic helps. Quitting smoking. Quitting drinking. Quitting a lot of the over the top luxries in life that you don't need every day. It's not about NOT quitting, it's knowing WHEN to quit something.
I was never a quitter b4 17 ,but I started quitting everything when I drop out of my first highschool at 17,since then I have been a quitter. I quit almost everything in my life now I'm 30 , been working on myself, need to find new direction in my life, my parents are getting old, I see them aging, I don't want them worrying about me and how am I going to survive after they leave the world. great vlog. thanks.
This video reminds me of back in 2010 when I wanted to attend IT school but my health didn't let me. I'm epileptic and I was having too many seizures. Neurologist prescribed different medications until the right one was found. But that not my point. My point is that I told myself if I wait for a miracle to happen I might never get my IT certificate. So I took the course online. I'm a hands on type of person. So to practice what was studying I'll buy damaged computers and practice with them. I got certified and started repairing computers at home. 2012 a surgery was done. Then I started doing On Site work. If I would had waited for the miracle it would have been time wasted. And one thing I always tell myself and to others too. IF THERE'S A WILL THERE'S A WAY.
At a point, it feels worse when you have early success because you feel you can almost never top that when things get difficult in a different phase of your life.
Awesome video! Definitely gave me some light and thinking. I think another reason why people quit is "LACK OF PATIENCE" lol. I learn it the hard way. Any type of business or anything u start out requires patience.
Thank you I'm so thankful my dad made me start watching you.You sir are a very intelligent human being and I'm really trying to get this mindset that you have and think positive seriously you are an inspiring person helping others
YAS!!!! This is the type of information a lot people crave to hear because it really is good quality truth of whatever great topics you bring out with each video!! Keep it up man
I believe that part about self sabotage was genius🔥🔥🔥, it’s really opened my eyes. Pat your videos are always something special. Can’t wait for valuetainment to hit 1M I’m excited
Thank you for these videos! I was going through a very rough time while in my insurance business journey! this videos give me so much value and i really needed it today! Thank you Valuetainment!
+TheDefkon1 there you go. He insurance business will kick your butt the first 2-3 years but it'll reward you heavy in year 5-10 if you work VERY VERY HARD.
I was about to quit copywriting after 3 months of struggle of not landing my first client. It was in my recommendation. God doesn't want me to quit. I'll comment after landing my first client Gs.
Great video as usual Pat! You're a great introduction to personal development and entrepreneurship for many people who don't know about these fields.. An untrained mind is a danger to you and those around you. The well trained mind is the greatest tool in your arsenal. Perspective in life helps. Time also helps/heals. Stand guard at the door to your mind. What thoughts, beliefs, values, ideas, attitudes, mindset do you have in your head/life? These affect your decisions, relationships, actions, habits.. And vice versa.. Ultimately all of these affect the quality of your life! Is your brain empowering you to lead a better, more connected, purposeful, fulfilling life? Or is it keeping you down and out.. Watch our for our brain's biases! Selective hearing and confirmation bias is a dangerous thing. Challenge your ideas, beliefs and so on. Question everything! John Demartini has a great quote about: "Any area of your life you're not empowered in someone will overpower you in" - I take that to mean think for yourself in all areas of your life, don't live unconsciously doing/thinking what you've always done.. Or someone else will tell you what to think/feel/do and what to do with your money, time, energy!
Great video. I looked for this video today, because I almost quit my position. After watching this video I regrouped, have a more positive mind set, and can focus on what is it that is making feel that way in order to over come it. Thank you.
So so so much incredible content in this video. This nailed it on the head, and re-wired me...and Pat I listen to growth content every day. This was something special. THANK YOU.
Patrick , I would love to meet you one day,somewhere after 2-3 years and show you all the results I got because of YOU! I'm so grateful that you put this content up for free. A lot of guys charge more but bring far less value. Anyway, as a content creator/advertiser, you don't have to end your vids with "share and subscribe", people will do that even if you don't mention it, because the people who come here to watch this, are here because the want to help themselves and the world. If you'd be making prank reactions, then thats another story. Peace!
dont give up know things are going to work out if u are aggresively patient when u hit a wall u have a choice give up or keep on going dont make quitting a habiat
VALUETAINMENT I didn't have any quit in me. But the feeling of being overwhelmed caught up to me when I was alone. Performance, Crappy results, and financial pressures. I like what you said, 'we are great salesman, we've sold ourself on crap.' It takes the same energy to sell ourself on positive affirmations that produce the right type of activity. My Focus was on production instead of building a super gushing pipeline of people. I like what you said towards the end. 'You have to have one other person pour belief into you and you have to believe in yourself.' 10 years ago, my worry was financial, Cashflow. Our current overhead and liabilities put me in an overwhelmed state.
As someone with severe ADHD the procrastination thing hits home really hard. Like I know I should do it. But I can never motivate myself until consequences are right around the corner.
Watching these videos puts me in a state of clear and confident thought. All the challenges and hurdles seem so small in this mindset! Thank you for the great material.
Hey Brother Pat! This video just came to me right on time! I started a new job in sales and after the 3rd day I wanted to quit, now I know what I need to do! Thanks again God bless!
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Pat you are sharing diamond here!
Hi Patrick, I wish I had been with you Dec 31 2002 I'd be where I want to be at in life now. Well thank you and my life is now going to be better for listening to you now in 2021! Thank you a Million!
Work hard in silence, let success be your noise.
Just Jimmy legitimately true
100%
Tbh, I don't ever want the noise. It's one thing to talk about success on YT. It's another to have a bunch of cameras in my face everywhere I go. I never want fame. If I ever get it, it'll be a serious accident.
I like this advice thank you
@@manictiger hello friend i wanted to learn English as like western people with this can you help me some
I watched this episode 2 years ago for the first time. Since then whenever I have hard times, doubt in my mind about the business and what I do, I come back and rewatch it again. It is really a medicine for keep going. Thanks Pat!
"Lack of results is purely a reflection of a lack of activity."
Such an overlooked way of looking at it. Loved that one, Pat 👍
because of coaches & mentor like you. we will always be grateful.
I will be training my sales force on that.
When I start feeling like I want to quit I ignore myself and go with the flow and I've been happy and successful each time.
Needed this today, I am a salesman in the roofing industry in Dallas. I was letting excuses get me down. Great Content, came at the right time!
8:04 yup, that's exactly how it is for me. At night when I'm alone with my thoughts. I get panic attacks and doubt myself, keep saying I could not possibly do this and even mock myself for ever thinking I could. Then I wake up the next day and feel motivated again. It's an ongoing cycle, but I'm not giving up, even more so because there are people who keep telling me I will not make it.
That inspired me because a lot of times in my life I never knew the reasons why I would quit, I just did. Now I know the reasons why. It’s a MAJOR mental breakthrough for me. Thank you Pat!
Selective hearing "you should go work at Kaiser..." that was a sign I was thinking about health insurance." NO THERE WAS A SIGN ACROSS THE STREET but you ignored it. it said "You can have all your dreams" BOOM! LOVE THIS STUFF MAN! I need this. My grandma always said "garbage in garbage out" thats when i stopped watching TV and I started looking for more people lke Tony RObbins. ITS THE TRUTH! WE ONLY NEED ONE PERSON ( I HAVE TONS, like you, and TY SO MUCH for texting me back last night!) but I also have someone here in LA. I have a family. but i have a good friend I see every day and he's always like "I'm Proud of you" or "you're such a hard working woman" "i love an independent woman" he always feeds me good stuff before I go to bed. I see him last thing before I leave usually. "oooh look at you! You got the seal from the state of California" (when I showed him I'm Worth It Inc. got incorporated)
I'm not an entrepenuer,I'm a college student struggling to complete his degree,but i tell you man this is some of the BEST advice i have ever heard. I realise that I have more than 2 people in my life who believe in me and I guess the reason i don't succeed is because I don't always believe in myself. Your videos have made me realise that there is no success unless i believe in myself. You simply can't succeed if you don't believe in yourself. Thanks you very much for these videos man. They make me feel invincible and like i can do anything. God bless and keep up the good work!
#7 is an even bigger issue than you make it out to be. Not having a proper support network is the easiest way to fuck up your life.
I love you Pat. You're an online mentor for me.
+Hamza Amin love you too Amin!!!
Easiest decision to subscribe ever. 100% truth. Honest as crap.
Pat, you are a hope. Got inspiration from you. I've made around 1000 USD.
+yebook there you go 👍🏼👊🏼💯
1.5 million subscribers now! @Yebook :o
2 million subscribers, Good Job!
Valuetainment lol this guy gathered inspiration from you and created indias probably largest platform for motivation. How does it feel pat? The amount of people youve influenced over the years.. how many people youve helped just from this video... must feel fucking good! Youre a hero if anything.
I have been watching your video's for the past two weeks and you have impacted my life in a big way. I appreciate your time and dedication in helping people. I also started reading all the books you have said are essential to read and I couldn't be happier. Four books down in one week, I feel that I just woke up and started life. Again, I am appreciative for the passion and effort you put into your videos. -Anthony
Anthony bolerjack that's what it's all about. Falling down and making a great comeback to inspire the world that it's possible. Go getem.
In your video you mentioned about "who has control over you", well to me it was always been my dad. He passed away 6 months ago to cancer and now I'm lost. I don't know who to talk to or even who will mentor or even control me in my entrepreneur journey as I'm the only child, single mom, a loner, and gosh...a strong header too. Just last night I felt like quitting and finding a job and I saw this. My 3rd time watching since I woke up at 7.30am.
Every single time I feel like quitting or lost or feel that I haven't done good enough or my sales & marketing strategy is wrong, I hit UA-cam and click on your channel. Man, you are the next best ear feeder after my dad! If you ever come to Malaysia, please post it up so I can clear my schedule and be where you are, to just thank you in person. True what people said that a hero doesn't always wear capes...well mine wears T-Shirts =D
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Greetings. My name is Ameera and i am from St. Maarten. An Island in the Caribbean. I just want to thank you for being you. Finally i found someone who is teaching what i need to hear and explain it in a way i can understand. Keep up the great work. I will be listening and applying your teachings to my businesses. Have a blessed, productive and safe 2017 :)
+Shoe Solution SXM 👍🏼👊🏼 happy new year.
“I’m not buying it.” so powerful man so grateful for your videos.
this came at the perfect time for me, I'm very stubborn and a non quitter once I am in that tunnel vision zone but there has been a LOT of outside pressure lately from people who I value . Thanks for the positive alternative.
Thanks for this video Pat! I've been feeling VERY overwhelmed lately. I think about going back to a job EVERY single day but your videos help motivate me keep me pressing forward! You constantly remind me that I'm not alone and I can do this with hard work and determination. I refuse to give up!!
+Quadavia Chambers go getem.
Have no words to say how thankful i am to my self for watching this video. Your thoughts and speech brings so much positivity.
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I started a new job in a new city after 11 years at my old one. You don't know how bad I needed to hear this today. David thank you for this video and all of the work you do.
+Travis Schulz you got it. Go make the new opportunity work by giving your best. 👊🏼👍🏼
16:56 one of the most profound words I heard on your channel, Patrick: "I'm not buying that." These words are especially valuable to me because in my team of 5, when faced with a loss or a failure, I hear Pat's voice say, "I'm not buying that!", and I immediately go over what went wrong and as if by magic, a solution is found.
+Roman 👍🏼👊🏼
You have a true servants heart, Pat. I'm so grateful and appreciative. Thank you so much! No doubt, you are changing lives and making this world a better place. I love your no B.S. mentoring.
Great clip - we can never get-enough research/data about quitting, giving-up, walking-away.
Thanks again dude.
Thank you Mr. Bet-David! Those crazy words you feed yourself will never go away but I know that you can push through!
Good god this man, this personality holy moly he looks right through you. One the best I’ve ever seen
You know gang, I just realized something that I thought I'd share. Im trying to get over this barrier in my business currently and being young and never having experienced this before, the stress that comes with building a business and trying to make it big is unwavering. I assumed that at some point it would subside, but a year into it and it hasn't. I'm not telling anybody this to discourage you. Hell embrace it and learn to cope with it, because if you're not stressing you're challenge and your dream is probably not big enough.
Dang. That's what I'm talking about! Everything we can succeed or fail at is all in our minds. Phenomenal episode!
For detailed notes and links to resources mentioned in this video, visit www.patrickbetdavid.com/why-people-quit/
Pat,
I've started and failed at more ventures than I have fingers and toes to count on and I believe I know why, but I would love your input.
I'm a Loner.
I have finally figured out what skills set me out from the rest, but they aren't enough to get anything off the ground. I keep thinking I need to build team of some kind, or at least find a way to find or attract the right resources needed to fill in the larger holes in the wings of the plane that would be my current (or future) business(s).
So my question for you is... how do you go about either finding or attracting these types of people? and, almost more importantly, how do you go about finding a mentor?
Maybe next time you're in Minnesota, we can hit a workout and possibly talk about things like this, together. I look forward to hearing from you.
- Pete
Peter Lammi what business are you trying to do?
VALUETAINMENT can you make a video on how to and where to invest your money , rules or thing's need to be consider while investing thanks in advance ! :-)
+Shubham Dahale that would be good😉
VALUETAINMENT I'm planing to be like you in the future!!! I'm just 15 years old coming from Singapore
You're the man!!🕴🏼
Patrick bet David is by far one of the best mentors on the planet , I would do anything to work side by side with him and learn from him.
I also watch these first thing in the morning. This was the most impactful episode for me - thank you.
+Kortne Parkman What made this the most impactful for you?
THANK YOU Patrick!!!
Its sad. I have people like my own Dad, who are constantly trying to get me to quit this entrepreneur quest of mine by convincing me to take courses on IT to be a jerky ass computer engineer. But its not like the first time I have been discouraged to quit by someone who is or was meant to be trusted. Hell, nothing will ever stop me from (not trying) but reaching that brass ring. Even when I am not making money, I am still learning a lot and I am getting closer and closer to that very first CLOSE! Because I am.
Thank you. There's no room for quitters! You are probably the best out of all the self-help/entrepreneurs on the internet. A lot has to do with your ethnic background because I come from the same one as yours. I know what the hardships are when coming from a middle eastern background trying to make it in the USA
Point number 9 and 10 has changed my life. Selective hearing and Who is in your ear?
Great Pat. More power to you from Pakistan.
God bless bro I have been following your contents for sometime now and they have really helped me in following up prospective clients and they have been 500% increase in closed deals since I have been watching Valuetainment. Thanks a lot.
Thank you. Really valuable for me. Because I'm going through that stage in my life right now.
you are not alone
Ron Harvey same here
I'm also with you there.
Sir, this video couldn't have come at a better time. First time I saw you was at our Woodland Hills office 5 years ago. Now I'm trying to build a startup transportation company for people in wheelchairs. Your videos help me put everything back in to perspective. Thank you and God bless!
+Archangel “xOAzraelOx” Azrael I remember the Woodland Hills days. Looks like you're building a business that's making a positive impact. Keep charging.
Pat I'm sorry you guys stopped the channel. I'm still listening to your videos and hope you come back because your content is amazing brother. I hope whatever the reason for the channel being turned off gets resolved so you can come back stronger and with new amazing content! I am in the process of starting my own business and your channel has been one of the best resources I've been privileged to tap into. Thank you.
16:40 very good advice! My brother was one who caught me that I do self pity sometimes. He told me a couple of times. Simply catching myself helps me combat it! Now I'm not saying one shouldn't analyse their mistakes and think on what went wrong and how to better it - but one should know how to do that without dwelling in their mistakes and pitying themselves. And when I catch myself - guess what, my opinion doesn't change. I don't suddenly think I'm all awesome and such. But I sart thinking about productive things! That makes a huge difference! (And eventualy I _do_ think higher of myself, because silly things don't keep me from seeing my good sides and worth! Which is motivating and upbuilding and thus leads to progress.)
+essennagerry your brother gave you great counsel.
I have never quit in life! Ive always kept a positive outlook on my current situation.
As of late i feel, broke! My spirit has been broke by the last 20 yrs of fighting.
Thanks Pat. Saw this at the right time of the year. Back to the grind!
+Andy Lee There you go.
My business has been growing fast. Thanks Pat for all your videos
Just received my "I am an entrepreneur" shirt(s) and no quitter here! I appreciate the knowledge Pat. One day we shall meet.
+Anthony Heling 👍🏼👊🏼 send me a pic on snapchat with the shirt on. Betdavid19 is my user ID.
VALUETAINMENT ....snapchat pic sent.
I like the affirmations and the "I'm not buying that" line. Think that is important for ourselves and for others!
+New Future Builder the question is if you stopped the video and started your own affirmation list.
***** good question. I need to extend my list but I do keep powerful quotes in my workspace at all times
Pat... I am a feminist and want to tell you how happy you make me when you always, always, always include girls & women in your examples. It's like a soothing balm on my heart. Thank you for being the person that you are.
I've been daily vlogging for a year. It's rough. I record and edit all of my stuff. It takes me 3-4 hours of editing per night. I also have a successful voice over business (10 years strong) and am practicing 4 hours a day to reach the PGA. I am almost a scratch golfer. It's extremely difficult to do it alone. Your words and energy are extremely encouraging. Thanks a ton, sir!
+HOOA You're a stud. Sounds like you're real close to experiencing your own explosion... Keep charging and improving.
My new Defense, "Im not Buying That Mindset"- Patrick Bet David Thank you
+Luis Alvarez don't buy it. It's for sale. Pay FULL PRICE.
***** Thank you team for all that you guys do! See you on top!
A video about 10 reasons why people quit still fires me up 🔥
+I Am Alex 👊🏼👍🏼
wow!!, thanks for the refreshment of this principle , especially cause I'm in sales , one needs to be on top of his game.
+Lindani Mchunu 👍🏼👊🏼
Wow. The appointment factor seems to be one that would really help to manage over the rest of the other 9 reasons to quit.
Thank you so much for this video Patrick I needed it. Quitting is a bad habit. We have to beat it. I think Im just surrounded by quitters so I had let them consume me with their way of thinking but this reset my mindset. 💯 Its so true we can motivate ourselves to either give up or try harder each day. Im learning so much with your channel🥺😭
I will be sending my pillow soon! I am almost finished making it! Thanks again to you and your team for the valuable information. You guys are so awesome
Pat, your concept ring powerfully in my heart!The way I see it, because you said bussiness is a math formula(hope it becomes a game for me someday), Multiplying a negative number with a positive one results in negative results.
So I'm currently improving on procrastinating on bad habits.Let me be decisive: Over eating is Bad, Procrastinating is Bad; so if I combine them what results will I get?💥 BOOM 💥 Positive ones!
Combing and Sperating habits= Multiplying and Divideing numbers!Thanks for sharing your ideas!
Good video. Reminds me of all the reasons when I wanted to quit and helps me move on.
+Peter Istrate 👊🏼👍🏼
Pat, I like the idea that you talked about having someone who believes in me, besides myself. I like this proposition. I have never thought about this before, and I should go and get someone out there. My wife believes in me full heartedly. I just need one more person to fully believe in me too. Thanks for the advice and great work on your videos. I love them.
+Min Chuan Kueh you got it.
Thanks so much, Patrick, you really are changing lives!
+Carlos Ruben Quinones Jr. Isn't that the purpose of our life?
This was so timely I was ready to quit. I got promoted. and there is so much new stuff I have to learn and I'm worried about not succeeding and even being demoted
+Igor Hawkingz Keep at it.
Igor Hawkingz brother. You got promoted right? The moment you got here even then you were new to it. Learn new things that you need to. Again. I sometimes wonder life's too short and there's so much to learn. So if you have got the opportunity to learn new things do it. After getting promoted work even harder. That's what got you here right?? Do it.
Thank you guys, I very much appreciate the encouragement.
How are you doing now?
BOOM LESSON THANK U SO MUCH🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Man I become emotional after this video. May be I was a quiter may be it raining snow in the morning of first day of new year in Paris. Don't know. But it touch my heart what you said. That's for feeling with tears and thanks for content.
Love from Paris
+Dogan Ulusoy much love to you as well.
some people actually find more inspiration alone than any other time. everyone gotta find a strategy that works for them
When you get overwhelmed you either step up or let it get you down. Don't make quitting a habit. You need massive amounts of activity to start in the beginning. Your thoughts determine your level of belief. Some people like having problems in their life to use as a scapegoat. Failure can come from your own indiscretion. you need to have good friends around you. Doubting can lead to a spiral of negative thoughts. Don't let confirmation bias convince you to quit. Know who you're taking your advice from.
hello !! here from Palestine, i also watch your videos you are such a good motivator !
im going through a lot of difficulties everyday !! i want to build a business from scratch and it costs more money than i have and i have other sources to rely on :/ at some point i like it when i think how im going to tell my story in the next years ! of how i broke i was and had 0 support and still made it !
thank you for your videos and please keep doing what you are doing maybe you are inspiring me :)
thank you indeeed
You can do it. Just one step after another. =)
thanks for the support (Y)
crowdfund? do something people need and they should fund you..?
I wish you success and all the best!
Hello
Fella you can do it, I am from Syria and I know what does it mean to have difficulties in your life , keep believing in yourself , rely on Allah
Quitting can be a very good thing. Especially if you are stuck in a job you hate. Getting out of it is excellent. Quitting a relationship from people who are toxic helps. Quitting smoking. Quitting drinking. Quitting a lot of the over the top luxries in life that you don't need every day. It's not about NOT quitting, it's knowing WHEN to quit something.
I was never a quitter b4 17 ,but I started quitting everything when I drop out of my first highschool at 17,since then I have been a quitter. I quit almost everything in my life now I'm 30 , been working on myself, need to find new direction in my life, my parents are getting old, I see them aging, I don't want them worrying about me and how am I going to survive after they leave the world. great vlog. thanks.
Pat, you are changing lifes! Keep it up my friend!
+mikkel jensen 👊🏼👍
This video reminds me of back in 2010 when I wanted to attend IT school but my health didn't let me. I'm epileptic and I was having too many seizures. Neurologist prescribed different medications until the right one was found. But that not my point. My point is that I told myself if I wait for a miracle to happen I might never get my IT certificate. So I took the course online. I'm a hands on type of person. So to practice what was studying I'll buy damaged computers and practice with them. I got certified and started repairing computers at home. 2012 a surgery was done. Then I started doing On Site work. If I would had waited for the miracle it would have been time wasted. And one thing I always tell myself and to others too. IF THERE'S A WILL THERE'S A WAY.
At a point, it feels worse when you have early success because you feel you can almost never top that when things get difficult in a different phase of your life.
I watch this videa evertime I doubt on myself. Works every time. Thank you Pat!
Just bumped into the channel. Absolute gold. 👍
Awesome video! Definitely gave me some light and thinking. I think another reason why people quit is "LACK OF PATIENCE" lol. I learn it the hard way. Any type of business or anything u start out requires patience.
+Binary Panda yes it does.
Love you Pat! Never quit. 2020 let's go!
Thank you I'm so thankful my dad made me start watching you.You sir are a very intelligent human being and I'm really trying to get this mindset that you have and think positive seriously you are an inspiring person helping others
+ED_GAA you got a very smart Dad. Keep listening to him. 👍🏼👊🏼
I thank God for you, Pat! God bless you! 🙏😊
Loved this one - Great Motivator - Don't quit
thanks for your inspiration , ultimately believe yourself is possible everything , the last one is bench mark word , you and only one another person .
This is really great. l am really fired. l am starting a hedge fund management company and many times l feel the force of quitting. Thanks Pat.
Pat is a man of greatness .He teaches me a lot about business Thanks Pat 🤝
Wow!! I got a little emotional with this one! Thanks Patrick, I just discovered you and now I watch your videos daily :-)
YAS!!!! This is the type of information a lot people crave to hear because it really is good quality truth of whatever great topics you bring out with each video!! Keep it up man
+Lumenous 👍🏼👊🏼
I believe that part about self sabotage was genius🔥🔥🔥, it’s really opened my eyes. Pat your videos are always something special. Can’t wait for valuetainment to hit 1M I’m excited
Please keep doing this. Thank you!!!!!!
Thank you for these videos! I was going through a very rough time while in my insurance business journey! this videos give me so much value and i really needed it today!
Thank you Valuetainment!
+TheDefkon1 there you go. He insurance business will kick your butt the first 2-3 years but it'll reward you heavy in year 5-10 if you work VERY VERY HARD.
I was about to quit copywriting after 3 months of struggle of not landing my first client.
It was in my recommendation.
God doesn't want me to quit.
I'll comment after landing my first client Gs.
Great video as usual Pat! You're a great introduction to personal development and entrepreneurship for many people who don't know about these fields..
An untrained mind is a danger to you and those around you. The well trained mind is the greatest tool in your arsenal. Perspective in life helps. Time also helps/heals. Stand guard at the door to your mind. What thoughts, beliefs, values, ideas, attitudes, mindset do you have in your head/life? These affect your decisions, relationships, actions, habits.. And vice versa.. Ultimately all of these affect the quality of your life! Is your brain empowering you to lead a better, more connected, purposeful, fulfilling life? Or is it keeping you down and out..
Watch our for our brain's biases! Selective hearing and confirmation bias is a dangerous thing. Challenge your ideas, beliefs and so on. Question everything!
John Demartini has a great quote about: "Any area of your life you're not empowered in someone will overpower you in" - I take that to mean think for yourself in all areas of your life, don't live unconsciously doing/thinking what you've always done.. Or someone else will tell you what to think/feel/do and what to do with your money, time, energy!
Great video. I looked for this video today, because I almost quit my position. After watching this video I regrouped, have a more positive mind set, and can focus on what is it that is making feel that way in order to over come it.
Thank you.
So so so much incredible content in this video. This nailed it on the head, and re-wired me...and Pat I listen to growth content every day. This was something special. THANK YOU.
This channel is a vital part of my day :) Thank you!
I sooooo much needed this at this very moment. Thank you to the entire team.
Wow, as a 23 year old man early in his sales career I have to appreciate PBD for this. Thanks Patrick
Patrick , I would love to meet you one day,somewhere after 2-3 years and show you all the results I got because of YOU! I'm so grateful that you put this content up for free. A lot of guys charge more but bring far less value.
Anyway, as a content creator/advertiser, you don't have to end your vids with "share and subscribe", people will do that even if you don't mention it, because the people who come here to watch this, are here because the want to help themselves and the world. If you'd be making prank reactions, then thats another story. Peace!
dont give up know things are going to work out if u are aggresively patient when u hit a wall u have a choice give up or keep on going
dont make quitting a habiat
this is exactly what I need right now. A fat thanks to you Pat :)
This episode is a life saver.
+Rav Barring 👍🏼what did you get out of it?
VALUETAINMENT I didn't have any quit in me. But the feeling of being overwhelmed caught up to me when I was alone. Performance, Crappy results, and financial pressures.
I like what you said, 'we are great salesman, we've sold ourself on crap.' It takes the same energy to sell ourself on positive affirmations that produce the right type of activity.
My Focus was on production instead of building a super gushing pipeline of people. I like what you said towards the end. 'You have to have one other person pour belief into you and you have to believe in yourself.' 10 years ago, my worry was financial, Cashflow.
Our current overhead and liabilities put me in an overwhelmed state.
I love your content Pat. Thanks for doing this. I can't wait to learn more and more from you.
+Eder Abogabir 👍🏼👊🏼
As someone with severe ADHD the procrastination thing hits home really hard. Like I know I should do it. But I can never motivate myself until consequences are right around the corner.
Watching these videos puts me in a state of clear and confident thought. All the challenges and hurdles seem so small in this mindset! Thank you for the great material.
+Shane Arsenault 👊🏼👍🏼
My I wish I had a coach like you. But your videos has been amazing help as a business owner
Hey Brother Pat! This video just came to me right on time! I started a new job in sales and after the 3rd day I wanted to quit, now I know what I need to do! Thanks again God bless!
+jojog23 Stick to it. Sales is by far one of the best skills you'll ever learn in life.
This is the best video yet in my opinion