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Our modern day Machiavelli and whether we like it or not we act and sometimes it’s not pretty but not knowing can get you into very deep water. Read Laws of Power his book when it came out and changed how I interact with the world for the better
if it wasn't for Robert Greene I don't think I've ever would have really managed getting ahead in my career. This is also the knowledge that nobody teaches you just like financial literacy, manners, communication, and general psychology. I just want to say I do really appreciate the content you put out here from all the great people you interview and for being such a great human being yourself. Listening to this podcast each morning while I'm on my way to work and at work is really, really helpful in my life. And I can definitely imagine the impact you're having on everybody else's lives with the content you put out. Thank you very much again. 💯👍🏾👍🏾 Stay blessed 🙏🏾
The one thing that I love about this podcast over some other is that you actually allow your guest to talk and express their points without interruption. That is so amazing.
My husband and i met when i just turned 16 he 17. He was very poor. He took me for steak, gave me a rose and kissed my hand. First date. Hes the love of my life. He died of a heart attack at 43 almost 11 years ago. We were poor but we had love and roses.
@Meatriderphobic I'll take a hot masculine body and a courageous but kind sense of self over an overpriced bag. I have no problem with people making money, though, and a lot of it if they want, because we do need to survive and even leave money for family to survive. But relationships matter most. People over profits matter most. When we're dying, we're thinking of people we love and know.
Back when I was 19, I met this girl in a coffee shop. We both reached for the last blueberry muffin, and she ended up letting me have it. I offered to split it, and somehow, that turned into a two-hour conversation. We talked about everything-music, travel dreams, and life goals. I was broke and barely had enough for my coffee, but I’ll never forget that day. We didn’t end up together, but every time I see a blueberry muffin, I smile, remembering how one little moment can stick with you forever.
His book is incredible - the wrong people view it as a weapon, the right people view it as a shield. Protects me from the evil in this world, thank you Mr. Greene!
Shield or weapon… it should not be used as a core element in your life’s navigation. Shaping life with this as it’s root will never open you up and experience life as you should. It’s the wrong type of anchor imo. You should always search for the beauty of things, not the ugly.
@@futuronluc Yh no you can’t search for the beauty when someone is trying to do wrong to you - this is life, not a fairytale, good luck with it though!
I have never once acted like I was someone else and I have climbed from the bottom ranks to the top. Control yourself as in not being unlawful with your actions - yes. However, people hate insincerity and the only way you can take that quote fully is if you have a personality disorder.
I truly appreciate this interview because the interviewer not only asked questions that allowed the author to go deeper into his own philosophy, he also questioned or “challenged” his ideas in such a polite way. As an interviewer, you’re not supposed to be so starstruck that you take everything the interviewee says at face value. GET DEEPER into their perspectives!! Great job. AND he let him finish his thoughts/sentences! Super rare in interviews.
who is believing this? Did you hear him, some of the greatest seducers were not good looking? Obviously try to talk about himself, his books are BS, look at him, that's what you will become outside and INSIDE
The art of seduction helped me identify I was the ‘victim’ and the tactics the person was using to manipulate me, helped me see the truth and get out. Thank you Robert.
Robert Greene is the epitome of the wounded healer. So humble in the way he comes across. He is becoming one of my top favorite speakers. This is one of his best interviews as well.
Most definitely. Robert Greene is gift to this world. Especially, of those who have decided on a path of self construction. Studying the human sociology is such an amazing and very indepth project.
@@jelizabethpetrie6656when I read that comment...I wasn't even thinking for a second "wounded" due to his stroke. I was thinking wounded due to his obvious dismissive avoidant attachment style. Maybe he has overcome it some, but I wonder. He's textbook DA. From the saying his childhood was great, yet sharing obvious emotional disconnect (unavailability) and the distance of his parents. It's hard for most DA's to see...because how can you describe something that wasn't there? Overt abuse and neglect are obvious, more in your face, in realms of attachment wounding. Covert emotional neglect isn't. As a child you don't know what you've missed. So many DA's describe their childhood as great, fine, nothing wrong...and as you listen, you hear distante, loneliness, and deeper and underlying distrust of others. Robert has all those.
No one cared about the book until Hip hop stars started talking about it. It was never on the top or middle of the self help books around 2008 when I was deep into self help and self improvement. I remember coming across the title, but very few people actually read it until recently...2015 when hip hop people started mentioning it on media.
He mentioned "Wheel of Dharma". Finally I feel someone outside of south asia is able to grasp it as there is no equivalent word in english. Most people just understand what the word encompasses but cannot grasp it. I admire you Sir for mentioning it.
Wow this interviewer is amazing, he’s asking good questions and then *actively listening* , in a relaxed way, giving space for Robert Green to really delve into his explanations. So many interviewers have this frantic, frenetic energy and always interrupt, or try to pace too fast etc.
Honestly , he is amazing. Great speaker and he makes 100% sense. When I first read laws and seduction, I thought it's dirty and manipulative but when I think from perspective how others do it to you- it's a treasure.
yes, his books are like the records of human nature preserved and analyzed, with no bias or prejudice, its like he has completely seperated himself from humanity too analyze humans in a manner most introspective
I read it when I was 29yrs old! Now 20yrs later.... reading this book again and this one time I learned the advice Do not "outshine the master" Thank God in the end my ex-boss pushed me further in my career. But at my new job, I'm definately paying more attention. Boss ego's are something else. THANK YOU SO MUCH for this great interview.
This guy is my new addiction. A few months before I retired, I tore my meniscus, which is the cartilage underneath the kneecap and I may or may not be able to overcome this. This has motivated me to start on my 100 pound weight loss journey. I dream of a time when I may be able to walk normally again without pain. I took it for granted. This has been a blessing in disguise as it has opened my eyes. I count my blessings a lot more then I did. It's hard to exercise now, but I'm going to have to do what I can. I'm eating 500 calories less every day also.
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
I have many associates like this. We grew up on the same “boat.”However.. as soon as I turned 16y.o, my parents insisted that I had to get a job. For that, I’ll be forever grateful. I was only a cashier at our nearest grocery store, but I learned SO much.
This is so true, if you raise your child in a bubble and shelter them from everything (which is so tempting) they will never be prepared for anything in life. You have to let your children fall . So they know what it feels like to hit the ground. If they fall when they are young hopefully it isn't a bad fall but it gets their attention and they will be more prepared for future issues. .
I first read Art of Seduction and then got introduced to 48 Laws of Power. This man changed my life and this was one of the best interviews with him yet. I love this podcast and how the interview is conducted.
I was actually gonna say that Steven has this amazing ability to bring out the best of his guests with his questions, and be so intimate in their minds without losing the seriousness and professionalism that you expect in this type of podcast. Great chapter as always and thanks Steven for this wonderful content.
Women don’t need a book for this, they presence itself is all they need to seduce any man. Men have to work for it so that’s why theres seductive books for them
A Diary of a CEO is my favorite podcast because Steven's genuine curiosity and willingness to be an attentive listener naturally make him an amazing interviewer. This was the absolute best interview I have ever heard with Robert Green.
Personally, I think he is a very good formulator of questions, but he doesn’t necessarily latch on the things guests say and dive deeper. He gives them the space to speak, and maybe chimes in, but then will move on to his next question.
@@Crafting_Self kids don't like me, nobody likes me. I am toxic even for myself. What bible says? 😃 And how bible can help me to be more accepted by people? I am a typical adhd - self-centred, most people think I am an egoistic idiot, selfish, sometimes loud, sometimes too overwhelmed, not listening to people truly, even friends and family = they think I am not respecting them. Hmm, you say bible....I say another adhd therapies and to accept myself
@@mifluent accept yourself, doesn't mean you own your current self. Open a bible. And forget about what other people think or say. Will it matter in 10 years? No. Your first problem is loving yourself. Use what you are viewing as weakness right now as your drive to be better than your former self. Day by day, week by week, month by month. Years by years. Don't rush it. You are not a bad person.
Steve is the right person to be interviewing people like Robert Greene. His style is perfect to extract the most value out of his interviewees. Great job as always, from what I have listened to so far this is going to be a very good one.
Robert Greene gives more depth, substance, authenticity, helpful advice and context in 5 minutes, than many guests on various podcasts give in two hours!! ❤❤❤
No because nobody would care if he wasn't already successful. Least of all looking the way he does if he wasn't rich. He would just be a nobody that nobody listened to. Any of his bs can work for him because he's Robert green and has power to his name. Random people taking interest I'm you isn't seductive because you have nothing of value for them. Your interest isn't valuable unless you're already seen as valuable.
I had a stroke 10 years ago and that changed my life forever. It has become so much of a part of me that I even forget about it but I couldn't help tear up when he started talking about his experience. I connected with this so much. Thank you ❤
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
In order for a woman to sleep with you she needs to find you sexually desirable. No amount of mind tricks will convince her to sleep with you. Nature has a way of weeding out lies and bs
I second Mr. Greene's statement: you're a great interviewer. There were a number of times where you could've gone on a tangent or really challenge what was being said, but you kept your speaking time in moderation and you kept the dialogue focused and at a good pace. It was a pleasure to listen to!
Stephen has the interviewing skills of an iconic investigative reporter. The curiously, reasonable empathy, polite sense of timing combined with an authentic interest in the individual being interview is a dynamic combination. Investigative reporting at its best.
Yes and he comes across as confident, calm, reasonable, polite, interesting, and interested - and very handsome too 😍 So I’d say he could be a pretty good seducer himself haha!
@@mvp1518Too needy with the begs for likes and subscribes, and the endless ads…I appreciate this channel but he gets annoying with these constant money hungry distractions.
I've been watching for 4 consecutive days now on your channel. I've learned a lot. Write it down, process the thoughts, questions myself about my own opinion about the topics. I'm so glad this platform exist. I've been on the process of knowing myself clearly and being straightforward with my negative traits because I really wanted to change and grow for more better version of myself. I'm 35. And sometimes, I had this regret, because I feel like I've wasted so many years. I wish I had been wise at 17, or 20. I had a lot of trauma growing up. From my parents seperation to failed marriage, to single parenting. Fighting my own darkside while I didn't have any idea how to raise my kids while I had them early at a young age. Looking back, I can say, I'm now in the stage of my life to be really brutally honest so that I can heal. Thank you for this! I really appreciate all the member of the team, even I didn't know them, you and all the guests! Salamat! From The Philippines. ❤❤❤
Don't worry about that. Nobody's wise at 17-20 ))) Even if they're absolutely sure that they are. Wisdom requires experiences. A lot of 'em. Especially the negative ones. The losses and the heartbreaks, moments of hopelessness and overcoming those - that's what makes you wise... or it breaks you... But if it doesn't - it does make you very wise for sure))
I woke up this morning after going to sleep frustrated with my life. I woke up not very excited for today and i poured some coffee. I started watching this and I swear it is something about Roberts voice. I noticed this in other pod casts as well. His voice sounds like he really enjoys the conversation. It's really soothing actually. I feel better.
Just sat down to watch this episode. I've a condition that mimics having a stroke over and over again (Hemiplegic Migraine) and it has been SUCH a gift for my productivity. I don't take my ability to write for granted, because 1/2 the time I'm experiencing a 'stroke' and recovery from it. I rest knowing that if I rest well, I'm better faster, and I plan what I'll do when my body works again. I'm very lucky.
Bless you for sharing . I had a brain tumour and stroke last year at the age of 23. I’m still recovering and getting through it but it’s inspiring to see others who have been through similar things that have found a silver lining through the trauma. I just wanted to send some love . Keep going 🖤
That part that he says that basically when you come from worst to then better opportunities in life having that difficulty let’s you appreciate that current new position, status etc is truly a great gift to have…..
“You don’t have to abuse the laws of power. I don’t advocate crushing your enemy totally. I hope I don’t have enemies ever that I need to crush, EVER.” ❤❤ Love that!!
I DO have an enemy that I will need to crush, simply because they're hell bent on destroying me. it's been 7 years, and no signs of it ever stopping or getting any better. And when he said that, my first thought was "No, you really DO NOT want to have enemies that you need to crush. Because it means you've caught yourself a Terminator."
It’s such a blessing that my wife and I aren’t just married, but we’re also each other’s best strategic partner in business. I’m great at what she lacks, she’s great at what I lack and we have an Adviser to work with. Praise God!! And thank you for the awesome content!
You have done great for yourselves. I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do for me now because I have no idea of how and where to invest in. I would be happy if you could advise me based on how you went about yours, as I am ready to go the passive income path.
omg this guy is trying to bullsht you, most of the seducers were not good looking i.e. look at him. if you read and believe his bs, you will end up like him. Ugly on the outside, ugly on the inside
Robert Greene is a gem, his authenticity and intellect are his natural seduction. I just started reading the "48 Laws of Power" and then I saw this video and I was like "Oh that's him!". Now I have the face of the author. I really enjoyed every minute of this podcast. I did not finish it in one sit, but I kept coming back for more until the conversation is over. Learned so much. love the wisdom and honesty. Great conversation of two intellectual persons. Thanks for sharing it to the world.
The beginning where he teared up about losing half his mobility and said “don’t take it for granted” really hit me because I was incapacitated for six months due to infection from a tattoo. I couldn’t walk, couldn’t bathe, I could barely move without pain and for a moment I didn’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. I felt like I was stuck. So I imagined myself walking and going to the forest and eventually I began healing. Literally, be grateful for all your basic functions!
Thank you for this. I truly wish in 2003 when my dad passed, combination of cancer and stroke, that UA-cam had existed so we could have watched these inspirational talks together. I was 33 when he passed and still miss that man.
I can totally relate about seeing people going for walks. I've had long covid for 14 months, and what I wouldn't give to go for a nice long walk, unassisted, with zero chronic fatigue and "jello legs" the following week. The things we take for granted. I too, try to focus on those who have it worse than me, and I try to be grateful for what I do have.
I didn't know he was paralyzed at some point, because im going through that rn. i am not walking properly and i cannot run. hes right, please appreciate the fact that you can walk, run, see, hear, feel, talk, appreciate EVERYTHING. The same things youre taking for granted are the things that someone else would cherish
I am thankful my insomnia led me to this interview from midnight to 2:48 am. Only now discovering Mr. Greene through this interview having read none of his books I have now become a fan of you both for different reasons. I identify with Mr. Greene interests in human nature and behavior, and the challenges he currently faces . I have played the role of caregiver thrice in my short 65 years on earth. The first was a conscious choice to help my mother die with dignity in her home after a terminal cancer diagnosis(1998). The second was an ageing neighbor and friend estranged from family by distance and prison parole restrictions who suffered a stroke at least twice as well as fractured limbs eventually succumbing to Covid-19 in a state nursing home(2021). The third is a former lover I met in 1979 until 1987 when he left me because my crack addiction during the HIV epidemic. Our orbits intersected once again 20 years later. He was disabled by a fall on ice requiring double shoulder surgery and I was living in a bedbug infested single room but employed during the banking collapse at the end of Bush Jr. presidency. He had another accidental fall requiring doible knee surgery followed by a successful remission of prostate cancer. So yeah life is what it is but there's never a dull moment. Always grateful for a new day. I enjoy your interview style that lets viewers feel like their sitting right there at your table. KUDOS!
I am addicted and obsessed with this man’s intelligence….I’ve just read 48 Laws of Power and now reading The Art of Seduction - omg I cannot put this book down. ❤❤❤❤
Generally don't comment, but this is probably the best I have heard in terms from a podcast. The interviewer is very good at selecting the questions and the Expression of the answers from Robert are priceless.
Robert has a great formula for understanding the human condition and teaching vulnerable people how to be less vulnerable. It's an important skill to learn to be confident and aware of others' intentions (particularly when some people may take advantage of a kind-intentioned vulnerable person).
Only tonight had I heard of either of these guys, and tonight I just became a HUGE fan of both of these guys! What an amazing respectful and heartfelt interview.! Thanks to the both of you for allowing me to sit in! This kind of interview actually gives me hope in humanity again. WOW!
My first Robert Greene book was called Mastery. I read it in jail at probably the lowest point in my life. I was so inspired and was able to reflect honestly on my mistakes and the reality of my situation that I was able to begin my journey in sobriety. Im growing more and more everyday. Currently looking for an avenue to learn a skill set that I can give back and contribute value to my community. I love technology and science if anyone is looking for an apprentice :) Thank you for the interview! I thoroughly enjoyed it.
A mind blowing Episode of all time! He reminds me of my mom's condition, she had a mild stroke, when she fell the impact affected her brain side which is responsible for speech. Going through a roller coaster of emotions and trying to be strong her was a lot. This happened early 2011 if not late 2010. The last words I remember was "Tshabalala the man, he is going to marry my daughter" That was after he scored the first goal for South Africa during the World cup. She is still mute, from someone who was very funny to being mute. The communication adjustment was a lot to take in. She writes down when she wants something. More than anything I am forever grateful that she is still alive and can do everything for herself. Its sad at times when I miss her voice and jokes. Much love Steven from South Africa.
I needed this podcast 40 years ago...great interview. A lot of people figured out what was important during the pandemic. Then we were forced back into "normalcy" and we left it behind. Perhaps the next generation will find a good work/life balance.
@@xyz-pg3zd Me too. I spent my time learning about stocks and investment. I'm no expert, but the time out was wonderful and it allowed me to carve out a career working from home. I have interviews coming up with some major companies and they are going to have to bargain with me big time. It's on my terms and if they're not willing to bend I'm not going to offer my expertise. None of that would have happened without lockdown.
I really admire how the interviewer Steven Bartlett allows Greene to talk and listens and in fact Greene acknowledges this towards the end. Fantastic interview. Thank you.
Regarding his stroke, and my personal MH & Multiple Sclerosis struggles over the last 17 years, I would say that the positive focuses are obvious empathy for my fellow man, gratitude for my beautiful home I’m in on a coastline of Vancouver Island (so fortunate not to be poverty stricken) and genuine HUMILITY that cannot be faked. So many people are (like he said) are unaware of their good fortune (to be physically able) & yes, I feel utterly superior in the knowledge that life & all the ability one is usually born with, is so fragile…
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 5-year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart , leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without her. Despite attempts to purge her from my mind, I remain haunted by her absence , feeling compelled to express my longing here .
Releasing your grip on someone you deeply care about can be a formidable challenge. I found myself in a comparable predicament when my 12-year relationship came to an end. Despite the odds, I couldn't bear to let her slip away. I exhausted every avenue to reunite with her, eventually turning to a spiritual advisor for guidance, whose intervention ultimately facilitated her return.
Saying that it comes from wisdom that you wear a mask to play a role in society, that we are born this way, and that it's okay to be a fuckin fraud is garbage advice. This guy is a clown. I now have less respect for you, Shaun.
Robert writes about such interesting topics; power, human nature, seduction... I can't imagine his experience with the stroke from the wasp sting. I'm a very aware and grateful person, but his story has given me yet another layer of appreciation for my health and able body. Thank you for sharing 🙏
00:00 📚 Robert Greene discusses the qualities of a great seducer, emphasizing the power of understanding the language of seduction. 01:09 🧠 Confidence comes from understanding power dynamics and the realization that your abilities can be taken away, so don't take them for granted. 02:32 🏢 Robert Greene shares his upbringing and how he pursued various jobs to gain life experiences. 06:24 📖 Robert Greene talks about how he stumbled upon the idea for "The 48 Laws of Power" through a chance meeting in Italy and his desperate circumstances. 08:01 📚 "The 48 Laws of Power" gained global success, selling over 2 million copies, and continues to sell well, partly thanks to word-of-mouth and endorsements from figures like Jay-Z and 50 Cent. 10:04 📖 Robert Greene discusses his evolving feelings towards "The 48 Laws of Power" and its impact, acknowledging its dark side but still standing by its content. 11:54 🤔 Robert Greene defines power as an emotional need and the ability to understand and control oneself, emphasizing that power is a feeling more than external control. 15:29 🎭 Robert Greene discusses the importance of keeping up appearances and controlling one's behavior to navigate social dynamics effectively. 21:35 🎭 Robert Greene advises that while we all play roles in life, we should not confuse those roles with our true essence, striking a balance between authenticity and social adaptation. 22:28 🤝 When hiring or forming work relationships, avoid gravitating towards friends solely due to trust. Emotions in friendships can complicate work dynamics. Consider practicality over friendship in the professional realm. 25:16 🤐 Concealing intentions isn't a one-size-fits-all approach. It depends on circumstances. Share your vision with your team to inspire them. In a competitive business world, revealing everything can be counterproductive. Sometimes, creating mystery or deception strategically can be powerful. 30:23 🌗 Confronting your dark side and shadow traits is essential for personal growth. Acknowledge and use your dark side for positive purposes, such as channeling anger into productive causes. 34:27 🤝 Early childhood experiences can influence one's relationship with power. Secure and loving early experiences can lead to healthier power dynamics, but resilience can also emerge from challenging backgrounds. 43:58 💑 A great seducer is outwardly focused, attentive, and listens actively, entering the spirit of the other person. Seduction is not about domination but a mutual courtship ritual, a game where both parties seduce each other. 44:52 💑 The power of seduction lies in making others feel genuinely interested and validated; it involves being absorbed in the other person's world. 46:02 🚫 Anti-seductive qualities include preaching, moralizing, and failing to be generous with your spirit, time, or energy. 47:34 💔 Insecurity is anti-seductive, but vulnerability can be seductive because it signifies openness to the influence of others. 51:19 💖 Great dating advice includes putting effort into romance, avoiding the misconception that love should come easy, and understanding that seduction requires patience, skill, and genuine gestures. 55:42 🕺 Real confidence is built through actual achievements and skills, not through faking it or bravado. 57:23 👥 Developing social skills and reading body language is crucial for seduction, as genuine body language communicates more than words. 58:03 💼 Confidence also comes from creating things, achieving goals, and demonstrating competence in various aspects of life. 01:06:06 😃 Pay attention to genuine smiles, as they light up the entire face, and distinguish them from fake smiles which appear tight and insincere. 01:06:46 🗣 Voice tone and speed reveal a lot about a person's confidence, with nervousness often reflected in fast speech and voice tremors. 01:07:42 🕵♂ Body language reveals leadership qualities, like leaning forward in a business meeting or having engaged feet during a conversation. 01:08:49 🧠 Milton Erickson, a polio survivor, became a master at reading body language, emphasizing the power of this skill. 01:14:20 🌟 Mastery comes from dedicating significant time and effort to develop a skill, creating a vast neural landscape in the brain. 01:15:45 💡 Discovering your life's task is more important than finding a passion, and it's about feeling a deep connection to a specific field. 01:21:45 🤝 When choosing an apprenticeship job, prioritize learning opportunities over a higher paycheck. 01:24:04 🧩 Deep observation involves absorbing the codes, conventions, and skills of your field by being outwardly focused. 01:25:12 🤲 Skills acquisition in an apprenticeship phase is best achieved through hands-on learning, following the brain's natural inclination to learn by doing. 01:28:40 ⚡ Dealing with life-changing events like a stroke can lead to the need for new life skills and adaptations, even later in life. 01:28:54 😌 Robert Greene discusses the challenges of adjusting to life after a stroke, emphasizing the need for patience and acceptance. 01:31:57 🤔 Robert Greene reflects on the role of circumstances and unpredictability in life, highlighting the importance of appreciating what one has. 01:34:30 🌞 After experiencing a stroke and a long recovery, Robert Greene emphasizes the significance of finding joy in life's simple pleasures. 01:36:08 🤝 Robert Greene speaks about the importance of having support from loved ones during difficult times and how it has been crucial for him. 01:44:01 😕 Robert Greene shares his complex perspective on humanity, acknowledging the darkness within while also hoping for positive change, especially through the younger generations. 01:48:26 😄 Robert Greene recalls the happiest moment of his life, which came when he was given the opportunity to write the "48 Laws of Power," and how he continues to appreciate it. 01:51:20 🌑 Robert Greene discusses the importance of confronting the darkness within human nature objectively, acknowledging its existence. 01:51:35 🙏 Stephen Bartlett expresses gratitude to Robert Greene for his vulnerability, openness, and the lessons on perception, happiness, and self-awareness from their conversation. 01:52:01 🎙 Robert Greene compliments Stephen Bartlett as an exceptional interviewer and listener, acknowledging the quality of their conversation.
This interview was so amazing for me. I have been really struggling to find something I’m “passionate” about. Roberts points about the necessity of tedium were shockingly eye opening. I also struggle with relationships, even just friendships and I’ve been very lonely and feeling sorry for myself. When he mentioned not being able to walk a dog, I was literally walking my dogs and it’s was a very emotional moment for me. I have been really giving up on things here recently. I think this podcast just really reminded me to be grateful. I have a lot of abilities that I take for granted and I’ve let my own lack of motivation allow me to feel sorry for myself. I’m 30 years old and still figuring things out and this talk really helped me to remember that you can’t even imagine the places life can take you if you don’t make chasing pleasure and passion your only goals. I loved this so much and I really needed to hear it.
I can really relate to your feelings of worry, and the moment you expressed gratitude it literally shifted your whole vibe. I love that so much, seeing the power gratitude has over our self centered fear... I believe in you ❤
He really presented some solutions for your current stated issues. I feel the same way. Depression can eat us alive...challenge it very seriously....You sound like a woman who our planet needs very much...Blessings, Meg
Robert Greene is my favorite author and I feel extremely NBLESSED and fortunate I was able to meet him when he was here in Atlanta. This was a PHENOMENAL interview. THANK YOU to you BOTH!!! You made me realize to value the most important things in life.
Hey bro do you think 50th law is a book worth reading. I have struggled with fear all my life but I feel like the 50th law will be more of an entertainment book rather than a fearlessness manual. I know your comment is 2 months old but please respond
Wow. Feeling such gratitude to have been able to take part in this conversation as a listener. To all my fellow humans striving to learn and improve, keep going. The journey isn’t easy but it’s so worth it. I pray that we can all be graced with patience, faith and clarity as we partake in this beautiful and sometimes baffling experience we call life on planet earth. God bless
who is believing this? Did you hear him, some of the greatest seducers were not good looking? Obviously try to talk about himself, his books are BS, look at him, that's what you will become outside and INSIDE
who is believing this? Did you hear him, some of the greatest seducers were not good looking? Obviously try to talk about himself, his books are BS, look at him, that's what you will become outside and INSIDE
I admire this man so much. I can hear him for hours. So real, so truthful, so simple, so present. And I learn something new each and every time. The biggest takeaway is to adjust yourself, and so I continue in my journey, not stressing about anything. It was one of the greatest interviews here. Thank you!
This is exactly what Im going through. I have never really learned to act. I believed in honesty and authencity which doesnt mean that I occasionally held back in my conversation to figure out if could trust someone. Now Im allowing myself to actually act. Plus sometimes I have thoughts about whether Im acting like a narc too, I realized whats important is the intention behind it. Im not practicing confidence to stand above other people or put others down. Ive been hurt so much, I never wanted to hurt others. I dont act or say things to other people to purposely hurt them, and used to play myself down so others dont get intimidated or triggered until I realized what I was doing to myself. And that their intimidatoin shouldn't be my problem, that I should surround myself around people that dont feel intimidated by confidence.
Wow...Steve your guests are getting bigger and bigger it's crazy, I absolutely love Robert Green his one of my favourites. When he told his story I just wanted to cry my eyes out, what a mentally strong human being. This is in my top 5, what a great episode.🙏🏾
You are a great interviewer, and you ask GREAT QUESTIONS. I have never seen this calibre of consistently good interviews. (and the art of really listening) WELL done! I am 60 and have some life experience to say this.IMHO Wonderful Interview with Robert Greene, I will look out for his book.
This is the best interview I have ever watched. The interviewer is so great. He asked tough questions without any hesitation. It's not that usual interview where there are just normal and boring questions. Robert is my favourite author and you asked him some great questions especially about his personal life. I can sense it was hard for Robert to answer 'em.
I experienced two car accidents close to one another leaving me with a head injury among other injuries. I felt like a prisoner in my body and I also thought I would recover within 6 months. This really spoke to me on a personal level ❤️ meditation helped me with me deep depression and anxiety and calmed not only my mind but my whole nervous system. Thank you for sharing
Neville Goddard is worth listening to also, meditation is amazing, really is a game changer, wish you the very best, glad you made it out alive, take care
@@Greg-oe5wj 💜👍🏻🙏🏻 I like to kneel in prayer on the side of my bed, it's a nice quiet place! I started by saying Dear Heavenly Father, that's how I address God, then I talk about my life, and ask God to bless those I love, and talk about my concerns and the direction God would want me to go in. I also thank him for all he's blessed me and my family with! And you can pray whenever you feel you need to, and I ask for his spirit to be with me, that I can be comforted and strong in my life with good choices! And I finish in the name of Jesus Christ Amen ❗🙏🏻💜🕊️ I hope this is helpful to you! Praying daily has always helped me to stay focused on what is important in my life! Take care 👍🏻😊🕊️🙏🏻
This man is so well spoken and its like he put together all the words he was going to say before hand. Loved the way he answered these questions, especially in the beginning when he spoke about what he interpreted from the word Power and what it was.
0:32: 📚 Robert Greene discusses his journey to becoming a bestselling author and the success of his book 'The 48 Laws of Power'. 11:41: 🎭 Power is about understanding and controlling oneself, and appearances matter in the social realm. 22:47: 🤔 Robert Greene discusses the importance of separating personal relationships from the work world and the strategic use of concealing intentions. 34:34: 🔑 Seduction is about being outwardly focused, listening to and understanding the other person, and reflecting their needs and desires back to them 46:48: 💑 Seduction requires vulnerability and effort, while insecurity is anti-seductive. 59:35: 😌 True confidence comes from actual actions and accomplishments, not faking it. 71:05: 💡 Discovering your life task is more important than finding your passion, as it requires time, effort, and patience to develop mastery in any field. 82:39: 😔 The speaker experienced a stroke which left him physically disabled, leading to a greater understanding and empathy for others who face physical and material challenges. 94:22: 😔 The speaker has experienced a life-changing incident that has affected them personally and led to a journey of understanding the nature of happiness and struggle. 106:20: 💡 Robert Greene discusses his hope for young people to rebel against the current unhealthy world and create a better one. Recap by Tammy AI with useful timestamps =)
Steven, you are a powerful interviewer, you ask the exact questions that are half formed in my mind as I listen, and others I never thought to ask. Every interview is bursting with value. Thank you so much for offering this to the world!
This podcast made me realize so much about current self and the reasons why I am what I am. I deeply regret to have intentionally avoided reading the 48 Laws of Power because of the warnings about it not knowing the real intention behind the book. I feel like I missed a whole lot of opportunities to make my life better by not reading the book earlier in my life. Thank you both for the wonderful discussion shared free for everybody to learn from.
I had the same sentiment about the Art of Seduction. The concept, even the word, can be misconstrued without proper context. Refreshing to hear it from the man himself and plan on picking it up.
What about when you're 57 and you realized that you've totally wasted your whole life? That's how I feel most of the time. Even so, I still push forward and find that by doing so, good things happen.
Everyone’s on a different journey. Some left this life without even having this realisation. Think onwards, so many things you can still discover at this age.
Your podcasts bring me joy during my dark days. Thank you team. Robert is right about being grateful for the little things: the ability to feel, to read, to work, to run, to walk etc. I am grateful to be on this Earth.
@AMMBB I couldn't work for several years due to disability, and then once I got a little better and found an acommodation and was able to work again, I worked for 12 - 18 hours per day, partially because I was so grateful and happy to be able to work again.
I totally agree with Robert. You’re a great interviewer and the quality of your questions with your great ability to listen without interrupting makes your Podcast one of the top Elite podcasts. Thank you!!!
Robert I think this affliction/event has made you a better person. It's touching. You have become more, not less. You sound stronger in your vulnerability. You have become like Yoda. The Force is with you now. I love your heart and intellect. I'm glad that you are broadcasting another aspect of what a man can also be. Bravo. Your wife, I love her too, now.
Topics: 00:00 Intro 02:14 Your book & its international success 11:44 What is power? 22:18 Learn how to use your enemies 24:53 Conceal your intentions & be a strategist 33:42 Is it being a narcissist good or bad? 42:10 The power of seduction 45:24 What makes you anti-seductive? 51:18 Best dating advice for single people 01:02:48 Your body language betrays you 01:11:26 Learn the art of mastery 01:26:16 Ads 01:27:17 A stroke changed my life 01:34:23 My struggles and how to overcome them 01:39:14 What have you learnt about happiness? 01:48:02 Last guest’s question
This interview was phenomenal. I purchased , “48 Laws of Power” in 2016 and after reading the titles put it on the shelf because I saw it as a ‘sword’ instead of seeing it as a ‘shield’. I appreciate what he shared about narcissism and how to shift that energy outward. By the end of the interview, I felt an overwhelming feeling of gratitude and am so thankful YT recommended this video. I immediately subscribed.
I read them of course, they are the two most powerful books I've read. I realized probably the best way to utilize the principles, which are ageless and universal, is to re-read the most relevant (to me) parts until they're imbedded (takes less effort than you'd think).
I just listen to this while my phone is being charge ended up watching about half and a hour. It's very interesting how greene is expressing so much emotion, imagine having that kind of confidence and so much self-awareness he has you can be unstoppable in everything you do
I love Robert Greene's wisdom, transparency & honesty. It's so calming & insightful to listen to him. He speaks eloquently with his words & sentences. I learned so much from all of his insightful experiences. Thank you Robert & Steven
I never heard of Robert Greene before, and I ran across this interview by accident, but as I kept NOT closing it out, I somehow kept listening... Robert Greene has taught me so much in this ~2 hour interview. This is such a powerful story and interview. Thank you.
I bought the ‘48 laws of power’ back when it was released. It blew my mind… and still does. Robert Greene has an uncanny sense for being able to dissect human behaviour and the psychology that underlies it.
I did too! I thought it was one of the more remarkable books in my collection and someone took it😢 then I bought the rest of them and repurchased 48 laws on audible(which is totally different then the actual print)
@@TheDiaryOfACEO I’ve not finished watching the entire interview…. But have enjoyed it thoroughly thus far. People such as yourself are the reason that old people, like me, have come back to youtube. It is no longer a baron wasteland of nothing but click bait and banal grabs for notoriety. Rather, a forum for which long form conversation and genuine desire to arrive at some kind of understanding seems to be becoming increasingly prevalent. So, Thank you. I now aspire to becoming noteworthy enough to be a guest. Keep up the amazing work.
Steven, your insightful interview with Robert Greene, one of the world's most influential authors, has provided a wealth of valuable knowledge accessible to a broad audience. Thank you for facilitating this enlightening conversation that allows the public to glean wisdom from both you and Robert Greene!
The discussion of passion was spot-on. Passion is no substitute for DEDICATION. Passion fades, but dedication pushes past disappointments and failures and always strives toward mastery, improvement, and perfection. Great interview!
I read this book in 1999 and as powerful of read it was, it is the only book that I had to be discerning about who I recommended it to. Robert definitely wrote a masterpiece and his grasp of the pros and cons of power as it relates to human consciousness is profound! Great interview!
Very well put. I love 48 laws, and I'm pretty sure I'm always, subconsciously, operating within its wisdom. Also, I am very careful with whom I recommend it to. Not everyone is ready for it and for those who are, not all of them need that amount of insight into how I operate.
I had a stroke two years ago, and everything that he said is exactly how I feel going through such a traumatic experience. It definitely changes you and you see things from a completely different perspective. I appreciate his message because he spoke some truths that I needed to be reminded of. Thank you so much for this interview.
At top of my career and life managing in several worldwide multinational companies while enjoying full benefits, i did fall into the pit of addiction and subst. Abuse and in 4-5 years my life turned the opposite and for the last 6 months im unemployed, down from GM positions. Likes of Greene, Huberman and Jordan Peterson made me re-connect with my power, soul, the real me and thanks God im on the way of recovery and coming back stronger than ever💎🙏🏻 DO NOT EVER ABANDON YOURSELF, NEVER!
I usually am too impacient to listen to a full podcast, or I do skip parts of it, to end it quickly. this one, I fully enjoyed it all. Great Interviewer, great pace. Job well done.!
I started reading the laws of power couple months ago… now I’ve finished that book, art of seduction, and mastery by Robert Greene. His style is so engaging, it’s fun to read and learned so much history from all his books
Thank you to both of you, and to the previous guest who left such a thoughtful question. I think I've been undervaluing the gifts of darkness, loss, weakness, all the things we try to avoid, conceal, minimize, while at the same time over-emphasizing them via depression and its devaluing of - not self, exactly, but perhaps identity. I appreciate these lengthy interviews - the format requires either moving on to something shorter, more easily "consumed", or stay and get more engaged, listen more deeply, think about the conversation long after the episode is over. I like that.
This is the first time I have heard of Robert and his work. This interview made me feel emotional! Robert's vulnerability and honesty about how the stroke has affected him hit home.
If you enjoyed this episode, please do me a little favour and like the video 👍 It helps us gauge what type of conversations you like! Thanks everyone ❤
Our modern day Machiavelli and whether we like it or not we act and sometimes it’s not pretty but not knowing can get you into very deep water. Read Laws of Power his book when it came out and changed how I interact with the world for the better
Great episode. I need to read more
if it wasn't for Robert Greene I don't think I've ever would have really managed getting ahead in my career. This is also the knowledge that nobody teaches you just like financial literacy, manners, communication, and general psychology. I just want to say I do really appreciate the content you put out here from all the great people you interview and for being such a great human being yourself. Listening to this podcast each morning while I'm on my way to work and at work is really, really helpful in my life. And I can definitely imagine the impact you're having on everybody else's lives with the content you put out. Thank you very much again. 💯👍🏾👍🏾 Stay blessed 🙏🏾
Thank you for inviting the great RG 🙌🏾
Fantastic Robert and Steven, thanks for getting a great guest. More intellectuals and original thinkers would be appreciated.
Thank you very much for having me on the podcast Steven.
Great podcast!
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Thank you so much for your words! You´re books are amazing!
I enjoyed hearing your perspective on disability ♿✊
Wish your are my mentor.
The one thing that I love about this podcast over some other is that you actually allow your guest to talk and express their points without interruption. That is so amazing.
And rare
How so true! Say for example Huberman lab is a great scientist but he over talks over his guest. I still like him but this guy is something else
It's probably impulsive. They prepare and are both nervous and excited which can be distracting
incredibly unselfish and the pillar of why this podcast is so successful
@@HalfMooN458no, it isn’t. What type of podcasts are you people listening to?
My husband and i met when i just turned 16 he 17. He was very poor. He took me for steak, gave me a rose and kissed my hand. First date. Hes the love of my life. He died of a heart attack at 43 almost 11 years ago. We were poor but we had love and roses.
Beautiful story. Sorry for your loss
Human beings, the loves of your life, are worth FAAAR MORE than riches. We're here for relationships, and truly nothing more
So beautiful
@@virtuosa69women don’t understand that. They all want to be gifted Birkin bags and rolls royces
@Meatriderphobic I'll take a hot masculine body and a courageous but kind sense of self over an overpriced bag.
I have no problem with people making money, though, and a lot of it if they want, because we do need to survive and even leave money for family to survive.
But relationships matter most. People over profits matter most. When we're dying, we're thinking of people we love and know.
Back when I was 19, I met this girl in a coffee shop. We both reached for the last blueberry muffin, and she ended up letting me have it. I offered to split it, and somehow, that turned into a two-hour conversation. We talked about everything-music, travel dreams, and life goals. I was broke and barely had enough for my coffee, but I’ll never forget that day. We didn’t end up together, but every time I see a blueberry muffin, I smile, remembering how one little moment can stick with you forever.
That's powerful ❤
aww..i wanted a different ending but a beautiful story nonetheless.
Dont worry one day you wll meet your blueberry mcmuffin
If she talked to you for 2 hours and you didn’t secure a phone number or socials, you fumbled that bag brolo 😬
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His book is incredible - the wrong people view it as a weapon, the right people view it as a shield. Protects me from the evil in this world, thank you Mr. Greene!
Shield or weapon… it should not be used as a core element in your life’s navigation. Shaping life with this as it’s root will never open you up and experience life as you should. It’s the wrong type of anchor imo. You should always search for the beauty of things, not the ugly.
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Which book?
@@futuronluc Yh no you can’t search for the beauty when someone is trying to do wrong to you - this is life, not a fairytale, good luck with it though!
@@sonnygL7 48 laws of power
Love this quote, "If you can't control yourself, how can you be a leader?"!
Same! This one fullyyyyy stuck out to me. I can relate to it so strongly
I can think of many where this fits like a glove
yep...love that quote
I have never once acted like I was someone else and I have climbed from the bottom ranks to the top. Control yourself as in not being unlawful with your actions - yes. However, people hate insincerity and the only way you can take that quote fully is if you have a personality disorder.
85% followers, 10% leaders and 5% observers aka real leaders
I truly appreciate this interview because the interviewer not only asked questions that allowed the author to go deeper into his own philosophy, he also questioned or “challenged” his ideas in such a polite way. As an interviewer, you’re not supposed to be so starstruck that you take everything the interviewee says at face value. GET DEEPER into their perspectives!! Great job.
AND he let him finish his thoughts/sentences! Super rare in interviews.
who is believing this? Did you hear him, some of the greatest seducers were not good looking? Obviously try to talk about himself, his books are BS, look at him, that's what you will become outside and INSIDE
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Truly agree ❤ what an engaging exchange!!! Kudos to this channel!!!😊
omg yes so true
Excellent questioning.
The art of seduction helped me identify I was the ‘victim’ and the tactics the person was using to manipulate me, helped me see the truth and get out. Thank you Robert.
Robert Greene is the epitome of the wounded healer. So humble in the way he comes across. He is becoming one of my top favorite speakers. This is one of his best interviews as well.
Wow, couldn't have put it better myself!
Most definitely. Robert Greene is gift to this world. Especially, of those who have decided on a path of self construction. Studying the human sociology is such an amazing and very indepth project.
He is not a wounded healer. Us strokers, deplore being told we’re victims. No.
He. Is. A. Wiser. Survivor.❤
He seduces us with his natural way of expression... what a lovely person!
@@jelizabethpetrie6656when I read that comment...I wasn't even thinking for a second "wounded" due to his stroke. I was thinking wounded due to his obvious dismissive avoidant attachment style. Maybe he has overcome it some, but I wonder.
He's textbook DA.
From the saying his childhood was great, yet sharing obvious emotional
disconnect (unavailability) and the distance of his parents. It's hard for most DA's to see...because how can you describe something that wasn't there?
Overt abuse and neglect are obvious, more in your face, in realms of attachment wounding. Covert emotional neglect isn't. As a child you don't know what you've missed. So many DA's describe their childhood as great, fine, nothing wrong...and as you listen, you hear distante, loneliness, and deeper and underlying distrust of others. Robert has all those.
“Learn by doing, not by thinking”
- Robert Greene
Damn I got a billion books to write
I thought i was the only one who paid attention to it
I love this quote. I work in healthcare & we say” see 1, do 1, teach 1. I’m lucky enough to work with my hands on a regular basis.
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He literally said this quote at the exact second that I read this comment so crazy
This man embodies all that he has spent his life writing about. Such a mesmerizing mind. Thank you Robert Greene for your works.
He's just an old manipulative POS.
This comment!! Super agree!
Agreed x 100❤
They can't seduce Anyone... Especially not Robert... Look at them!!
No one cared about the book until Hip hop stars started talking about it.
It was never on the top or middle of the self help books around 2008 when I was deep into self help and self improvement.
I remember coming across the title, but very few people actually read it until recently...2015 when hip hop people started mentioning it on media.
He mentioned "Wheel of Dharma". Finally I feel someone outside of south asia is able to grasp it as there is no equivalent word in english. Most people just understand what the word encompasses but cannot grasp it. I admire you Sir for mentioning it.
Kevin bacons law from family guy
The fact that Robert Greene was still trying to figure it out at 38 gives me so much relief lol
... I'm 72... still trying to figure it out.
😂😂 I feel you
Yeah am only 28
Me too. Just turned 39 at the weekend 🫠🥲
I'm sure most of us are at any age.
Wow this interviewer is amazing, he’s asking good questions and then *actively listening* , in a relaxed way, giving space for Robert Green to really delve into his explanations. So many interviewers have this frantic, frenetic energy and always interrupt, or try to pace too fast etc.
May I buy you a coffee?
@@isaiahk6217 Lol sure 🤷🏻♀️
@Whitney Angelie ha ha. It's admiring that you are familiar with Mr.Greene, but your saved Playlist have absolute bangers in them!
@@isaiahk6217 What can I say, I have really good taste in music 😎.. and so do you it seems 😂😂😂
Respectful
Honestly , he is amazing. Great speaker and he makes 100% sense. When I first read laws and seduction, I thought it's dirty and manipulative but when I think from perspective how others do it to you- it's a treasure.
I have had the laws book For years. I had same thoughts and didn't finish it for this reason. I'm gonna pull it back out.
This guy is like the Voyager that went into the unknown, explored, survived and came back to record his findings for the good of all. Bravo!
yes, his books are like the records of human nature preserved and analyzed, with no bias or prejudice, its like he has completely seperated himself from humanity too analyze humans in a manner most introspective
Well said
absolutely agree!
Robert Greene isn’t seducing chicks and hiring enemies in real life. How much has he actually tried? Lol
Yes he still one shoulder higher that other
Sketchy to say the least
It’s ironic
I read it when I was 29yrs old! Now 20yrs later.... reading this book again and this one time I learned the advice Do not "outshine the master" Thank God in the end my ex-boss pushed me further in my career. But at my new job, I'm definately paying more attention. Boss ego's are something else. THANK YOU SO MUCH for this great interview.
This guy is my new addiction. A few months before I retired, I tore my meniscus, which is the cartilage underneath the kneecap and I may or may not be able to overcome this. This has motivated me to start on my 100 pound weight loss journey. I dream of a time when I may be able to walk normally again without pain. I took it for granted. This has been a blessing in disguise as it has opened my eyes. I count my blessings a lot more then I did. It's hard to exercise now, but I'm going to have to do what I can. I'm eating 500 calories less every day also.
I hope your year has been positive and you've made progress you are proud of, friend!
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
“Some people who have everything won’t go very far because they don’t know how to find things for themselves” 42:08
I have many associates like this.
We grew up on the same “boat.”However.. as soon as I turned 16y.o, my parents insisted that I had to get a job. For that, I’ll be forever grateful.
I was only a cashier at our nearest grocery store, but I learned SO much.
This is so true, if you raise your child in a bubble and shelter them from everything (which is so tempting) they will never be prepared for anything in life. You have to let your children fall . So they know what it feels like to hit the ground. If they fall when they are young hopefully it isn't a bad fall but it gets their attention and they will be more prepared for future issues. .
I first read Art of Seduction and then got introduced to 48 Laws of Power. This man changed my life and this was one of the best interviews with him yet. I love this podcast and how the interview is conducted.
so true! really enjoyed how the interviewer asked good questions and let him speak
Can you describe how it changed your life
How did it change your life?
@@tabethacarrasco9110 she is being un revealing remember that
In what ways did he change your life ? I’m just now getting introduced to this gentleman & I’m incredibly curious.
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I was actually gonna say that Steven has this amazing ability to bring out the best of his guests with his questions, and be so intimate in their minds without losing the seriousness and professionalism that you expect in this type of podcast. Great chapter as always and thanks Steven for this wonderful content.
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Yes, thank you pal
Don't overthink it
For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden". I have studied men before.
They know it instinctually. No need for a book
Women don’t need a book for this, they presence itself is all they need to seduce any man. Men have to work for it so that’s why theres seductive books for them
Im not into power games. I dont find that seductive.
is there anywhere online that i could find this book?
Powerful evil book right their banned in jails and prisons for a reason
A Diary of a CEO is my favorite podcast because Steven's genuine curiosity and willingness to be an attentive listener naturally make him an amazing interviewer. This was the absolute best interview I have ever heard with Robert Green.
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Personally, I think he is a very good formulator of questions, but he doesn’t necessarily latch on the things guests say and dive deeper. He gives them the space to speak, and maybe chimes in, but then will move on to his next question.
You said something really important : Children see through people easily. Its natural to see if a person is good or not
I am not a good person - what should I do to be happy?
@@mifluent Who decided that you are not a good person? Read the Bible.
@@Crafting_Self kids don't like me, nobody likes me. I am toxic even for myself. What bible says? 😃 And how bible can help me to be more accepted by people?
I am a typical adhd - self-centred, most people think I am an egoistic idiot, selfish, sometimes loud, sometimes too overwhelmed, not listening to people truly, even friends and family = they think I am not respecting them.
Hmm, you say bible....I say another adhd therapies and to accept myself
@@mifluent accept yourself, doesn't mean you own your current self. Open a bible. And forget about what other people think or say. Will it matter in 10 years? No. Your first problem is loving yourself. Use what you are viewing as weakness right now as your drive to be better than your former self. Day by day, week by week, month by month. Years by years. Don't rush it. You are not a bad person.
@@Crafting_Self self love..working on it. Thank you ❤️
Steve is the right person to be interviewing people like Robert Greene. His style is perfect to extract the most value out of his interviewees. Great job as always, from what I have listened to so far this is going to be a very good one.
read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper
Robert Greene gives more depth, substance, authenticity, helpful advice and context in 5 minutes, than many guests on various podcasts give in two hours!! ❤❤❤
One of the most beautiful things is when someone is vulnerable and open about life
What a strength most people lack !
No because nobody would care if he wasn't already successful. Least of all looking the way he does if he wasn't rich. He would just be a nobody that nobody listened to. Any of his bs can work for him because he's Robert green and has power to his name. Random people taking interest I'm you isn't seductive because you have nothing of value for them. Your interest isn't valuable unless you're already seen as valuable.
I’ve been a Robert Greene fan for decades and read his books every year. He’s been a distant mentor for me during my life. Thank you Robert!
are you CEO now? top of the food chain? have good day :)
That's sad
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Are you a seductive king?
@@schnitzel438 He said he reads his books every year, you already know the answer to that...
I had a stroke 10 years ago and that changed my life forever. It has become so much of a part of me that I even forget about it but I couldn't help tear up when he started talking about his experience. I connected with this so much. Thank you ❤
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
In order for a woman to sleep with you she needs to find you sexually desirable. No amount of mind tricks will convince her to sleep with you. Nature has a way of weeding out lies and bs
And you must be the man promoting it. There are like 2 google results for it
apparently it’s a portion of the memoir of the famous Italian adventurer, Giacomo Casanova from the 1700s. Solid recommendation
Most bot username I've ever seen. It's not on Amazon it's not anywhere on the internet except some random Gumroad website
Ohhhh the irony.
I second Mr. Greene's statement: you're a great interviewer. There were a number of times where you could've gone on a tangent or really challenge what was being said, but you kept your speaking time in moderation and you kept the dialogue focused and at a good pace. It was a pleasure to listen to!
Stephen has the interviewing skills of an iconic investigative reporter.
The curiously, reasonable empathy, polite sense of timing combined with an authentic interest in the individual being interview is a dynamic combination.
Investigative reporting at its best.
Yes and he comes across as confident, calm, reasonable, polite, interesting, and interested - and very handsome too 😍 So I’d say he could be a pretty good seducer himself haha!
@@mvp1518Too needy with the begs for likes and subscribes, and the endless ads…I appreciate this channel but he gets annoying with these constant money hungry distractions.
@@LisaValentine1 don't we all... as they said we all have to do what we have to do
I've been watching for 4 consecutive days now on your channel. I've learned a lot. Write it down, process the thoughts, questions myself about my own opinion about the topics. I'm so glad this platform exist. I've been on the process of knowing myself clearly and being straightforward with my negative traits because I really wanted to change and grow for more better version of myself. I'm 35. And sometimes, I had this regret, because I feel like I've wasted so many years. I wish I had been wise at 17, or 20. I had a lot of trauma growing up. From my parents seperation to failed marriage, to single parenting. Fighting my own darkside while I didn't have any idea how to raise my kids while I had them early at a young age. Looking back, I can say, I'm now in the stage of my life to be really brutally honest so that I can heal. Thank you for this! I really appreciate all the member of the team, even I didn't know them, you and all the guests! Salamat! From The Philippines. ❤❤❤
Don't worry about that. Nobody's wise at 17-20 ))) Even if they're absolutely sure that they are. Wisdom requires experiences. A lot of 'em. Especially the negative ones. The losses and the heartbreaks, moments of hopelessness and overcoming those - that's what makes you wise... or it breaks you... But if it doesn't - it does make you very wise for sure))
@@captainmorguen3431 Thank you!
@IAR88 Thank you! Be safe and let's always move forward
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@@RR-et6zp Thank you, for the reco! I appreciate it. Be safe.
I woke up this morning after going to sleep frustrated with my life. I woke up not very excited for today and i poured some coffee. I started watching this and I swear it is something about Roberts voice. I noticed this in other pod casts as well. His voice sounds like he really enjoys the conversation. It's really soothing actually. I feel better.
Blessing to you.
Wow…get a life.
@@DaniValanceyou lack compassion.
Doesn't seduction and manipulation have similarities?
Just sat down to watch this episode. I've a condition that mimics having a stroke over and over again (Hemiplegic Migraine) and it has been SUCH a gift for my productivity. I don't take my ability to write for granted, because 1/2 the time I'm experiencing a 'stroke' and recovery from it. I rest knowing that if I rest well, I'm better faster, and I plan what I'll do when my body works again. I'm very lucky.
Bless you for sharing . I had a brain tumour and stroke last year at the age of 23. I’m still recovering and getting through it but it’s inspiring to see others who have been through similar things that have found a silver lining through the trauma. I just wanted to send some love . Keep going 🖤
@@silvasilva6337 thank you. Keep going too. I hope you recover fully. It's a lot of work, I know 🖤
Best of luck to you
That part that he says that basically when you come from worst to then better opportunities in life having that difficulty let’s you appreciate that current new position, status etc is truly a great gift to have…..
“You don’t have to abuse the laws of power. I don’t advocate crushing your enemy totally. I hope I don’t have enemies ever that I need to crush, EVER.” ❤❤ Love that!!
I DO have an enemy that I will need to crush, simply because they're hell bent on destroying me. it's been 7 years, and no signs of it ever stopping or getting any better. And when he said that, my first thought was "No, you really DO NOT want to have enemies that you need to crush. Because it means you've caught yourself a Terminator."
Were IS thé LOVE in All this ????❤❤❤❤
Go to church and learn with GOD' se Love ABOUT HEALTHY RELATIONSIPS And LOVE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Terminators can be hacked……
To terminate themselves.
Leo casted in the Titanic. 😜
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Flirtosphere Seduction on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
that website is sketchy
scam book
It’s such a blessing that my wife and I aren’t just married, but we’re also each other’s best strategic partner in business. I’m great at what she lacks, she’s great at what I lack and we have an Adviser to work with. Praise God!! And thank you for the awesome content!
You have done great for yourselves. I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do for me now because I have no idea of how and where to invest in. I would be happy if you could advise me based on how you went about yours, as I am ready to go the passive income path.
Great job with your wife! I bet you’re living your best life right now.
I’m a young dad, I’m really glad to hear your story it inspires me. can you share how you earn weekly.
Thanks so much I was able to find her page and I already leave her a message.--
omg this guy is trying to bullsht you, most of the seducers were not good looking i.e. look at him. if you read and believe his bs, you will end up like him. Ugly on the outside, ugly on the inside
If it’s ok to say.. this man’s voice is really soothing, has some kind of peace to it.
seduction
@@osmos2017 exactly !!
@@osmos2017😂
Robert Greene is a gem, his authenticity and intellect are his natural seduction. I just started reading the "48 Laws of Power" and then I saw this video and I was like "Oh that's him!". Now I have the face of the author. I really enjoyed every minute of this podcast. I did not finish it in one sit, but I kept coming back for more until the conversation is over. Learned so much. love the wisdom and honesty. Great conversation of two intellectual persons. Thanks for sharing it to the world.
Confidence is believing in yourself and being fully accepting of who you are
Like lizzo
@GGxri Lizzo doesn’t accept herself. She’s fat and not proud
The beginning where he teared up about losing half his mobility and said “don’t take it for granted” really hit me because I was incapacitated for six months due to infection from a tattoo. I couldn’t walk, couldn’t bathe, I could barely move without pain and for a moment I didn’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. I felt like I was stuck. So I imagined myself walking and going to the forest and eventually I began healing. Literally, be grateful for all your basic functions!
I’m sure he would tear up more if he lost some of his millions
Thank you for this. I truly wish in 2003 when my dad passed, combination of cancer and stroke, that UA-cam had existed so we could have watched these inspirational talks together. I was 33 when he passed and still miss that man.
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I can totally relate about seeing people going for walks. I've had long covid for 14 months, and what I wouldn't give to go for a nice long walk, unassisted, with zero chronic fatigue and "jello legs" the following week. The things we take for granted. I too, try to focus on those who have it worse than me, and I try to be grateful for what I do have.
I didn't know he was paralyzed at some point, because im going through that rn. i am not walking properly and i cannot run. hes right, please appreciate the fact that you can walk, run, see, hear, feel, talk, appreciate EVERYTHING. The same things youre taking for granted are the things that someone else would cherish
I am thankful my insomnia led me to this interview from midnight to 2:48 am. Only now discovering Mr. Greene through this interview having read none of his books I have now become a fan of you both for different reasons. I identify with Mr. Greene interests in human nature and behavior, and the challenges he currently faces . I have played the role of caregiver thrice in my short 65 years on earth. The first was a conscious choice to help my mother die with dignity in her home after a terminal cancer diagnosis(1998). The second was an ageing neighbor and friend estranged from family by distance and prison parole restrictions who suffered a stroke at least twice as well as fractured limbs eventually succumbing to Covid-19 in a state nursing home(2021). The third is a former lover I met in 1979 until 1987 when he left me because my crack addiction during the HIV epidemic. Our orbits intersected once again 20 years later. He was disabled by a fall on ice requiring double shoulder surgery and I was living in a bedbug infested single room but employed during the banking collapse at the end of Bush Jr. presidency. He had another accidental fall requiring doible knee surgery followed by a successful remission of prostate cancer. So yeah life is what it is but there's never a dull moment. Always grateful for a new day. I enjoy your interview style that lets viewers feel like their sitting right there at your table. KUDOS!
Me too. Never sleeping again.😂
I’ve learned more during insomnia than any other moments of my life
And I read your comment and now it’s 2:46 am 😂
Lol love it. Timeless wisdom brought to you by insomnia 😂
I am addicted and obsessed with this man’s intelligence….I’ve just read 48 Laws of Power and now reading The Art of Seduction - omg I cannot put this book down. ❤❤❤❤
next will be The Prince ...
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Generally don't comment, but this is probably the best I have heard in terms from a podcast. The interviewer is very good at selecting the questions and the Expression of the answers from Robert are priceless.
Robert has a great formula for understanding the human condition and teaching vulnerable people how to be less vulnerable. It's an important skill to learn to be confident and aware of others' intentions (particularly when some people may take advantage of a kind-intentioned vulnerable person).
Only tonight had I heard of either of these guys, and tonight I just became a HUGE fan of both of these guys! What an amazing respectful and heartfelt interview.! Thanks to the both of you for allowing me to sit in! This kind of interview actually gives me hope in humanity again. WOW!
I knew of both of them but I’m so happy they got to come together. Double wow!
@ TheDiarryOfACEO huh?
Welcome to the club!! Your life will change
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My first Robert Greene book was called Mastery. I read it in jail at probably the lowest point in my life. I was so inspired and was able to reflect honestly on my mistakes and the reality of my situation that I was able to begin my journey in sobriety. Im growing more and more everyday. Currently looking for an avenue to learn a skill set that I can give back and contribute value to my community. I love technology and science if anyone is looking for an apprentice :) Thank you for the interview! I thoroughly enjoyed it.
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Well, if you’re gonna be a Machiavellian phony, then this is the guy for you!
A mind blowing Episode of all time! He reminds me of my mom's condition, she had a mild stroke, when she fell the impact affected her brain side which is responsible for speech. Going through a roller coaster of emotions and trying to be strong her was a lot. This happened early 2011 if not late 2010.
The last words I remember was "Tshabalala the man, he is going to marry my daughter" That was after he scored the first goal for South Africa during the World cup.
She is still mute, from someone who was very funny to being mute. The communication adjustment was a lot to take in. She writes down when she wants something. More than anything I am forever grateful that she is still alive and can do everything for herself. Its sad at times when I miss her voice and jokes.
Much love Steven from South Africa.
@@Yunglesedi Thank you queen, there is no other option but to soldier on. Nothing beats gratitude and working on one's perspective.
Robert Greene is such a gem. I listened to this episode a second time after months, again with open ears, and enjoyed it so much. It's amazing.
I needed this podcast 40 years ago...great interview. A lot of people figured out what was important during the pandemic. Then we were forced back into "normalcy" and we left it behind. Perhaps the next generation will find a good work/life balance.
Left it behind?? It made me open my eyes.
You were not ready then.
I'm sure back in your day they said there was no internet.
Why do we have this word normalcy? I don't like it. Why can't we use the word normality?
@@xyz-pg3zd Me too. I spent my time learning about stocks and investment. I'm no expert, but the time out was wonderful and it allowed me to carve out a career working from home. I have interviews coming up with some major companies and they are going to have to bargain with me big time. It's on my terms and if they're not willing to bend I'm not going to offer my expertise. None of that would have happened without lockdown.
I really admire how the interviewer Steven Bartlett allows Greene to talk and listens and in fact Greene acknowledges this towards the end. Fantastic interview. Thank you.
Yes, he's a great listener...
Regarding his stroke, and my personal MH & Multiple Sclerosis struggles over the last 17 years, I would say that the positive focuses are obvious empathy for my fellow man, gratitude for my beautiful home I’m in on a coastline of Vancouver Island (so fortunate not to be poverty stricken) and genuine HUMILITY that cannot be faked. So many people are (like he said) are unaware of their good fortune (to be physically able) & yes, I feel utterly superior in the knowledge that life & all the ability one is usually born with, is so fragile…
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 5-year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart , leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without her. Despite attempts to purge her from my mind, I remain haunted by her absence , feeling compelled to express my longing here .
Releasing your grip on someone you deeply care about can be a formidable challenge. I found myself in a comparable predicament when my 12-year relationship came to an end. Despite the odds, I couldn't bear to let her slip away. I exhausted every avenue to reunite with her, eventually turning to a spiritual advisor for guidance, whose intervention ultimately facilitated her return.
Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?
Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.
Thank you for this invaluable information; I've just checked her out online. Very impressive indeed!
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You can't get enough of Robert Greene excellent interview
Glad you enjoyed this one Shaun! Thanks for listening
Saying that it comes from wisdom that you wear a mask to play a role in society, that we are born this way, and that it's okay to be a fuckin fraud is garbage advice. This guy is a clown.
I now have less respect for you, Shaun.
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Shaun Atwood!
I can get enough.
He's just some dude with traditional views that preaches his opinion. Which is not even all that deep. O_o
Robert writes about such interesting topics; power, human nature, seduction... I can't imagine his experience with the stroke from the wasp sting. I'm a very aware and grateful person, but his story has given me yet another layer of appreciation for my health and able body. Thank you for sharing 🙏
00:00 📚 Robert Greene discusses the qualities of a great seducer, emphasizing the power of understanding the language of seduction.
01:09 🧠 Confidence comes from understanding power dynamics and the realization that your abilities can be taken away, so don't take them for granted.
02:32 🏢 Robert Greene shares his upbringing and how he pursued various jobs to gain life experiences.
06:24 📖 Robert Greene talks about how he stumbled upon the idea for "The 48 Laws of Power" through a chance meeting in Italy and his desperate circumstances.
08:01 📚 "The 48 Laws of Power" gained global success, selling over 2 million copies, and continues to sell well, partly thanks to word-of-mouth and endorsements from figures like Jay-Z and 50 Cent.
10:04 📖 Robert Greene discusses his evolving feelings towards "The 48 Laws of Power" and its impact, acknowledging its dark side but still standing by its content.
11:54 🤔 Robert Greene defines power as an emotional need and the ability to understand and control oneself, emphasizing that power is a feeling more than external control.
15:29 🎭 Robert Greene discusses the importance of keeping up appearances and controlling one's behavior to navigate social dynamics effectively.
21:35 🎭 Robert Greene advises that while we all play roles in life, we should not confuse those roles with our true essence, striking a balance between authenticity and social adaptation.
22:28 🤝 When hiring or forming work relationships, avoid gravitating towards friends solely due to trust. Emotions in friendships can complicate work dynamics. Consider practicality over friendship in the professional realm.
25:16 🤐 Concealing intentions isn't a one-size-fits-all approach. It depends on circumstances. Share your vision with your team to inspire them. In a competitive business world, revealing everything can be counterproductive. Sometimes, creating mystery or deception strategically can be powerful.
30:23 🌗 Confronting your dark side and shadow traits is essential for personal growth. Acknowledge and use your dark side for positive purposes, such as channeling anger into productive causes.
34:27 🤝 Early childhood experiences can influence one's relationship with power. Secure and loving early experiences can lead to healthier power dynamics, but resilience can also emerge from challenging backgrounds.
43:58 💑 A great seducer is outwardly focused, attentive, and listens actively, entering the spirit of the other person. Seduction is not about domination but a mutual courtship ritual, a game where both parties seduce each other.
44:52 💑 The power of seduction lies in making others feel genuinely interested and validated; it involves being absorbed in the other person's world.
46:02 🚫 Anti-seductive qualities include preaching, moralizing, and failing to be generous with your spirit, time, or energy.
47:34 💔 Insecurity is anti-seductive, but vulnerability can be seductive because it signifies openness to the influence of others.
51:19 💖 Great dating advice includes putting effort into romance, avoiding the misconception that love should come easy, and understanding that seduction requires patience, skill, and genuine gestures.
55:42 🕺 Real confidence is built through actual achievements and skills, not through faking it or bravado.
57:23 👥 Developing social skills and reading body language is crucial for seduction, as genuine body language communicates more than words.
58:03 💼 Confidence also comes from creating things, achieving goals, and demonstrating competence in various aspects of life.
01:06:06 😃 Pay attention to genuine smiles, as they light up the entire face, and distinguish them from fake smiles which appear tight and insincere.
01:06:46 🗣 Voice tone and speed reveal a lot about a person's confidence, with nervousness often reflected in fast speech and voice tremors.
01:07:42 🕵♂ Body language reveals leadership qualities, like leaning forward in a business meeting or having engaged feet during a conversation.
01:08:49 🧠 Milton Erickson, a polio survivor, became a master at reading body language, emphasizing the power of this skill.
01:14:20 🌟 Mastery comes from dedicating significant time and effort to develop a skill, creating a vast neural landscape in the brain.
01:15:45 💡 Discovering your life's task is more important than finding a passion, and it's about feeling a deep connection to a specific field.
01:21:45 🤝 When choosing an apprenticeship job, prioritize learning opportunities over a higher paycheck.
01:24:04 🧩 Deep observation involves absorbing the codes, conventions, and skills of your field by being outwardly focused.
01:25:12 🤲 Skills acquisition in an apprenticeship phase is best achieved through hands-on learning, following the brain's natural inclination to learn by doing.
01:28:40 ⚡ Dealing with life-changing events like a stroke can lead to the need for new life skills and adaptations, even later in life.
01:28:54 😌 Robert Greene discusses the challenges of adjusting to life after a stroke, emphasizing the need for patience and acceptance.
01:31:57 🤔 Robert Greene reflects on the role of circumstances and unpredictability in life, highlighting the importance of appreciating what one has.
01:34:30 🌞 After experiencing a stroke and a long recovery, Robert Greene emphasizes the significance of finding joy in life's simple pleasures.
01:36:08 🤝 Robert Greene speaks about the importance of having support from loved ones during difficult times and how it has been crucial for him.
01:44:01 😕 Robert Greene shares his complex perspective on humanity, acknowledging the darkness within while also hoping for positive change, especially through the younger generations.
01:48:26 😄 Robert Greene recalls the happiest moment of his life, which came when he was given the opportunity to write the "48 Laws of Power," and how he continues to appreciate it.
01:51:20 🌑 Robert Greene discusses the importance of confronting the darkness within human nature objectively, acknowledging its existence.
01:51:35 🙏 Stephen Bartlett expresses gratitude to Robert Greene for his vulnerability, openness, and the lessons on perception, happiness, and self-awareness from their conversation.
01:52:01 🎙 Robert Greene compliments Stephen Bartlett as an exceptional interviewer and listener, acknowledging the quality of their conversation.
Thank you so much!
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@@opreadumitru1 I guess I'll follow your advise. Cheers!
Thanks you so much for this effort you made.. I will read this whenever I want a summary.. Firstly I am watching the whole video😅
Thank you for this!!
This interview was so amazing for me. I have been really struggling to find something I’m “passionate” about. Roberts points about the necessity of tedium were shockingly eye opening. I also struggle with relationships, even just friendships and I’ve been very lonely and feeling sorry for myself. When he mentioned not being able to walk a dog, I was literally walking my dogs and it’s was a very emotional moment for me. I have been really giving up on things here recently. I think this podcast just really reminded me to be grateful. I have a lot of abilities that I take for granted and I’ve let my own lack of motivation allow me to feel sorry for myself. I’m 30 years old and still figuring things out and this talk really helped me to remember that you can’t even imagine the places life can take you if you don’t make chasing pleasure and passion your only goals. I loved this so much and I really needed to hear it.
You got this! ❤
I can really relate to your feelings of worry, and the moment you expressed gratitude it literally shifted your whole vibe. I love that so much, seeing the power gratitude has over our self centered fear... I believe in you ❤
He really presented some solutions for your current stated issues. I feel the same way. Depression can eat us alive...challenge it very seriously....You sound like a woman who our planet needs very much...Blessings, Meg
Robert Greene is my favorite author and I feel extremely NBLESSED and fortunate I was able to meet him when he was here in Atlanta. This was a PHENOMENAL interview. THANK YOU to you BOTH!!! You made me realize to value the most important things in life.
After reading all of Robert Greene book’s, people noticed my self-esteem and confidence improved and asked me what I was doing ❤
Which books do you recommend reading? I haven't read anything from him yet.
@@shysmama09 each and every!!! I think his books build on each other chronologically, start with 48 laws and continue 😊
@@shysmama09 I recommend the laws of human nature. Valuetainment channel also recommends that book.
What are the things are you doing differently ?
Hey bro do you think 50th law is a book worth reading. I have struggled with fear all my life but I feel like the 50th law will be more of an entertainment book rather than a fearlessness manual. I know your comment is 2 months old but please respond
Wow. Feeling such gratitude to have been able to take part in this conversation as a listener. To all my fellow humans striving to learn and improve, keep going. The journey isn’t easy but it’s so worth it. I pray that we can all be graced with patience, faith and clarity as we partake in this beautiful and sometimes baffling experience we call life on planet earth. God bless
who is believing this? Did you hear him, some of the greatest seducers were not good looking? Obviously try to talk about himself, his books are BS, look at him, that's what you will become outside and INSIDE
who is believing this? Did you hear him, some of the greatest seducers were not good looking? Obviously try to talk about himself, his books are BS, look at him, that's what you will become outside and INSIDE
I admire this man so much. I can hear him for hours. So real, so truthful, so simple, so present. And I learn something new each and every time. The biggest takeaway is to adjust yourself, and so I continue in my journey, not stressing about anything. It was one of the greatest interviews here. Thank you!
This is exactly what Im going through. I have never really learned to act. I believed in honesty and authencity which doesnt mean that I occasionally held back in my conversation to figure out if could trust someone. Now Im allowing myself to actually act. Plus sometimes I have thoughts about whether Im acting like a narc too, I realized whats important is the intention behind it. Im not practicing confidence to stand above other people or put others down. Ive been hurt so much, I never wanted to hurt others. I dont act or say things to other people to purposely hurt them, and used to play myself down so others dont get intimidated or triggered until I realized what I was doing to myself. And that their intimidatoin shouldn't be my problem, that I should surround myself around people that dont feel intimidated by confidence.
"I realized that what's important is the intention behind it". I like that.
Wow...Steve your guests are getting bigger and bigger it's crazy, I absolutely love Robert Green his one of my favourites. When he told his story I just wanted to cry my eyes out, what a mentally strong human being. This is in my top 5, what a great episode.🙏🏾
An interviewer who lets the guest answer the question to its full extent is refreshing! #sub
You are a great interviewer, and you ask GREAT QUESTIONS. I have never seen this calibre of consistently good interviews. (and the art of really listening) WELL done! I am 60 and have some life experience to say this.IMHO Wonderful Interview with Robert Greene, I will look out for his book.
This is the best interview I have ever watched. The interviewer is so great. He asked tough questions without any hesitation. It's not that usual interview where there are just normal and boring questions. Robert is my favourite author and you asked him some great questions especially about his personal life. I can sense it was hard for Robert to answer 'em.
I experienced two car accidents close to one another leaving me with a head injury among other injuries. I felt like a prisoner in my body and I also thought I would recover within 6 months. This really spoke to me on a personal level ❤️ meditation helped me with me deep depression and anxiety and calmed not only my mind but my whole nervous system.
Thank you for sharing
I've been in three car accidents and 🙏🏻 praying helped me heal the most!
@@stardustgirl2904 nam myohorenghe kyo
Neville Goddard is worth listening to also, meditation is amazing, really is a game changer, wish you the very best, glad you made it out alive, take care
@@stardustgirl2904but how did you pray? I got injuries and not sure how to pray
@@Greg-oe5wj 💜👍🏻🙏🏻 I like to kneel in prayer on the side of my bed, it's a nice quiet place! I started by saying Dear Heavenly Father, that's how I address God, then I talk about my life, and ask God to bless those I love, and talk about my concerns and the direction God would want me to go in. I also thank him for all he's blessed me and my family with! And you can pray whenever you feel you need to, and I ask for his spirit to be with me, that I can be comforted and strong in my life with good choices!
And I finish in the name of Jesus Christ Amen ❗🙏🏻💜🕊️ I hope this is helpful to you!
Praying daily has always helped me to stay focused on what is important in my life! Take care 👍🏻😊🕊️🙏🏻
This man is so well spoken and its like he put together all the words he was going to say before hand. Loved the way he answered these questions, especially in the beginning when he spoke about what he interpreted from the word Power and what it was.
0:32: 📚 Robert Greene discusses his journey to becoming a bestselling author and the success of his book 'The 48 Laws of Power'.
11:41: 🎭 Power is about understanding and controlling oneself, and appearances matter in the social realm.
22:47: 🤔 Robert Greene discusses the importance of separating personal relationships from the work world and the strategic use of concealing intentions.
34:34: 🔑 Seduction is about being outwardly focused, listening to and understanding the other person, and reflecting their needs and desires back to them
46:48: 💑 Seduction requires vulnerability and effort, while insecurity is anti-seductive.
59:35: 😌 True confidence comes from actual actions and accomplishments, not faking it.
71:05: 💡 Discovering your life task is more important than finding your passion, as it requires time, effort, and patience to develop mastery in any field.
82:39: 😔 The speaker experienced a stroke which left him physically disabled, leading to a greater understanding and empathy for others who face physical and material challenges.
94:22: 😔 The speaker has experienced a life-changing incident that has affected them personally and led to a journey of understanding the nature of happiness and struggle.
106:20: 💡 Robert Greene discusses his hope for young people to rebel against the current unhealthy world and create a better one.
Recap by Tammy AI with useful timestamps =)
Thanks friend. Not all heroes wear capes 😅
I love your recaps. You're the Real MVP 🏅
Thank you for the synopsis. Aloha❤
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AI...actually naturally very intelligent!
Steven, you are a powerful interviewer, you ask the exact questions that are half formed in my mind as I listen, and others I never thought to ask. Every interview is bursting with value. Thank you so much for offering this to the world!
His technique, active listening, and questions are absolutely perfect!
This podcast made me realize so much about current self and the reasons why I am what I am. I deeply regret to have intentionally avoided reading the 48 Laws of Power because of the warnings about it not knowing the real intention behind the book. I feel like I missed a whole lot of opportunities to make my life better by not reading the book earlier in my life. Thank you both for the wonderful discussion shared free for everybody to learn from.
I had the same sentiment about the Art of Seduction. The concept, even the word, can be misconstrued without proper context. Refreshing to hear it from the man himself and plan on picking it up.
@@channel6ixtyyep. the intent at first can be concieved as almost evil, when in reality his intent is based on nothing but past experience.
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It’s NEVER too late
What about when you're 57 and you realized that you've totally wasted your whole life? That's how I feel most of the time. Even so, I still push forward and find that by doing so, good things happen.
Hearing you
Everyone’s on a different journey. Some left this life without even having this realisation. Think onwards, so many things you can still discover at this age.
You still can pursue things you love. You are still alive!
I don’t think you’re alone with this thought.. open ur mind. Don’t be so hard on urself
Im 42 and in that position lol
Your podcasts bring me joy during my dark days. Thank you team. Robert is right about being grateful for the little things: the ability to feel, to read, to work, to run, to walk etc. I am grateful to be on this Earth.
I concur they do the same for me. Best wishes to you.
@AMMBB I couldn't work for several years due to disability, and then once I got a little better and found an acommodation and was able to work again, I worked for 12 - 18 hours per day, partially because I was so grateful and happy to be able to work again.
I just purchased the entire set of this man's books, he has intrigued me to no end!
Honestly, self-confidence is the most important thing.
What a waste of good money
I totally agree with Robert. You’re a great interviewer and the quality of your questions with your great ability to listen without interrupting makes your Podcast one of the top Elite podcasts. Thank you!!!
Robert I think this affliction/event has made you a better person. It's touching. You have become more, not less. You sound stronger in your vulnerability. You have become like Yoda. The Force is with you now. I love your heart and intellect. I'm glad that you are broadcasting another aspect of what a man can also be. Bravo. Your wife, I love her too, now.
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00:00 Intro
02:14 Your book & its international success
11:44 What is power?
22:18 Learn how to use your enemies
24:53 Conceal your intentions & be a strategist
33:42 Is it being a narcissist good or bad?
42:10 The power of seduction
45:24 What makes you anti-seductive?
51:18 Best dating advice for single people
01:02:48 Your body language betrays you
01:11:26 Learn the art of mastery
01:26:16 Ads
01:27:17 A stroke changed my life
01:34:23 My struggles and how to overcome them
01:39:14 What have you learnt about happiness?
01:48:02 Last guest’s question
u got no life
Big THANKS!👍💯
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This interview was phenomenal. I purchased , “48 Laws of Power” in 2016 and after reading the titles put it on the shelf because I saw it as a ‘sword’ instead of seeing it as a ‘shield’. I appreciate what he shared about narcissism and how to shift that energy outward. By the end of the interview, I felt an overwhelming feeling of gratitude and am so thankful YT recommended this video. I immediately subscribed.
THIS IS EXACTLY what happened to me...read the titles of the book and decided no thank you
I read them of course, they are the two most powerful books I've read. I realized probably the best way to utilize the principles, which are ageless and universal, is to re-read the most relevant (to me) parts until they're imbedded (takes less effort than you'd think).
Knowing how to make a bomb does not make you a bomber
@@niklasjohansson-kn2lg Well, like anything, putting into action makes the suffix -er make sense...means to do xD
@@niklasjohansson-kn2lg remember that silly song with this lyric? I've got sole but I'm not a soldier? I'm not sure why that sprang to mind. 🤔
I just listen to this while my phone is being charge ended up watching about half and a hour. It's very interesting how greene is expressing so much emotion, imagine having that kind of confidence and so much self-awareness he has you can be unstoppable in everything you do
This is one of the BEST guest speakers you have had. So much to learn from 👏🏾
I love Robert Greene's wisdom, transparency & honesty. It's so calming & insightful to listen to him. He speaks eloquently with his words & sentences. I learned so much from all of his insightful experiences. Thank you Robert & Steven
I never heard of Robert Greene before, and I ran across this interview by accident, but as I kept NOT closing it out, I somehow kept listening... Robert Greene has taught me so much in this ~2 hour interview. This is such a powerful story and interview. Thank you.
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I read his book Mastery. It was so good I immediately started reading it again. I was less interested in 48 Laws but his insights are valuable.
His book Power is eye opening. I enjoyed listening to it on audio form.👍
I bought the ‘48 laws of power’ back when it was released. It blew my mind… and still does. Robert Greene has an uncanny sense for being able to dissect human behaviour and the psychology that underlies it.
I did too! I thought it was one of the more remarkable books in my collection and someone took it😢 then I bought the rest of them and repurchased 48 laws on audible(which is totally different then the actual print)
🙌🏽 Hope you enjoyed this episode Paul!
@@TheDiaryOfACEO I’ve not finished watching the entire interview…. But have enjoyed it thoroughly thus far. People such as yourself are the reason that old people, like me, have come back to youtube. It is no longer a baron wasteland of nothing but click bait and banal grabs for notoriety. Rather, a forum for which long form conversation and genuine desire to arrive at some kind of understanding seems to be becoming increasingly prevalent. So, Thank you.
I now aspire to becoming noteworthy enough to be a guest. Keep up the amazing work.
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Steven, your insightful interview with Robert Greene, one of the world's most influential authors, has provided a wealth of valuable knowledge accessible to a broad audience. Thank you for facilitating this enlightening conversation that allows the public to glean wisdom from both you and Robert Greene!
The discussion of passion was spot-on. Passion is no substitute for DEDICATION. Passion fades, but dedication pushes past disappointments and failures and always strives toward mastery, improvement, and perfection. Great interview!
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I read this book in 1999 and as powerful of read it was, it is the only book that I had to be discerning about who I recommended it to. Robert definitely wrote a masterpiece and his grasp of the pros and cons of power as it relates to human consciousness is profound! Great interview!
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Very well put. I love 48 laws, and I'm pretty sure I'm always, subconsciously, operating within its wisdom. Also, I am very careful with whom I recommend it to. Not everyone is ready for it and for those who are, not all of them need that amount of insight into how I operate.
@Gormen Freeman Psychology is mostly BS. His books are mostly BS because humans have an innate understanding of fair or not etc
@Gormen Freeman Psychology is mostly BS. His books are mostly BS because humans have an innate understanding of fair or not etc
I had a stroke two years ago, and everything that he said is exactly how I feel going through such a traumatic experience. It definitely changes you and you see things from a completely different perspective. I appreciate his message because he spoke some truths that I needed to be reminded of. Thank you so much for this interview.
Wishing you the very best for your recovery.
Your point is well-reasoned, and I fully agree with your stance on the matter.
@@dcoughla681 thank you so much! I am doing better every day 💜
I hpe you are doing well now. Take care
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At top of my career and life managing in several worldwide multinational companies while enjoying full benefits, i did fall into the pit of addiction and subst. Abuse and in 4-5 years my life turned the opposite and for the last 6 months im unemployed, down from GM positions. Likes of Greene, Huberman and Jordan Peterson made me re-connect with my power, soul, the real me and thanks God im on the way of recovery and coming back stronger than ever💎🙏🏻
DO NOT EVER ABANDON YOURSELF, NEVER!
I'm thrilled to have watched this podcast. Robert talks so much sense. Not pretentious on empty words, just straight to the point talk. Loved it!
I usually am too impacient to listen to a full podcast, or I do skip parts of it, to end it quickly. this one, I fully enjoyed it all. Great Interviewer, great pace. Job well done.!
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I started reading the laws of power couple months ago… now I’ve finished that book, art of seduction, and mastery by Robert Greene. His style is so engaging, it’s fun to read and learned so much history from all his books
Thank you to both of you, and to the previous guest who left such a thoughtful question. I think I've been undervaluing the gifts of darkness, loss, weakness, all the things we try to avoid, conceal, minimize, while at the same time over-emphasizing them via depression and its devaluing of - not self, exactly, but perhaps identity. I appreciate these lengthy interviews - the format requires either moving on to something shorter, more easily "consumed", or stay and get more engaged, listen more deeply, think about the conversation long after the episode is over. I like that.
This is the first time I have heard of Robert and his work. This interview made me feel emotional! Robert's vulnerability and honesty about how the stroke has affected him hit home.