I have thought many times that I had finally cured myself. But as an empath, many other narcs are drawn to me and I continuously relive the trauma and incur new trauma. My life seems to be an unending cycle of pain that I can't seem to dig myself out of. The narcs find you and dump their toxicity on you like a waste site. They love torturing vulnerable people and then blaming them for it.
Your very good.!!!people listen to her.!!!!THE MORE YOU SEE YOURSELF THE LESS YOU WILL TOLERATE OTHER PEOPLE NOT SEEING YOU...your outer relationship is a mirror of your inner relationships!!!!
♥ thank you. I am trying to heal my wounds without having a support system and just going to my inner child and self soothing it's really difficult when you just want a hug and someone to hold on but the trauma won't leave you alone until you recognize and love it to wholeness. I have trouble with PTSD at certain times of day like from 5 to 8pm when he would normally be coming home and we spend the most time together and even hearing loud engines sends shivers down my spine thinking it's him and trying to emotionally prepare. I think that changing scenery, moving to a new city would be good. If the surroundings stay the same it's very hard to heal those daily patterns but we are going through divorce and he has financially crippled me, closed our joint account, took everything of value and abandoned me so the only place I can afford at the moment is here. Maybe moving into another room or rearranging things would help. It's also hard to hold onto your strength and not extend their power over your emotions when entering a legal battle for assets and trying not to be left desolate. A part of me wants to give up and walk away start a new life abandon anything that would have been split because he says I will be left with nothing that he will rack up so much debt and the house will short sell, that I will be bankrupt, etc. but a part of me wants to fight, document everything he has done and hold him accountable so that it doesn't happen to his next victim. He married a woman from Japan and brought her to the states before we started dating, and discarded and abandoned her after a couple years marriage the same way he is doing to me. He has raped me repeatedly and locked me out of the bedroom afterwards telling me it was my fault and I deserved the way he was treating me, that I should kill myself because it would be cheaper than divorcing me, that he would never accept me or any offspring, etc. and he probably was no different with her only she didn't understand her rights and signed everything over to him in divorce. She deserved better than to be abandoned in a new country by a cold calculating man who likely raped and abused her, and I do too. For her sake and for other women he may plan to get involved with I feel it's important to bring him to justice but at what cost to my sanity? Lots of love and thank you for the videos and continued inspiration for healing. Prayers to all who are going through this program and big virtual hugs
It is so hard when you work with a team of narcs and feel too damaged to find another job. I want to quit so bad because I can just feel the damage being done to my brain daily. However quitting with no job lined up is trauma in and of itself. I'm praying for a rational way out!!!!
Tiffany Cherry Try vizualization and scripting! Think and write about how you want to feel in your new job. Be specific in terms of location, type of people, environment, etc... You can create what you want!
Tiffany Cherry I’m so glad to hear that! The key is to shift your focus: think about (and therefore create) what you want, not what you don’t want. Let us know how it goes!
when I left my narc last January, I threw myself into reading forums and stuff and I found that the more I read other people's trauma, the more I was reminded that I had trauma.I have since started looking at my survivalism as my responsibility and I don't completely blame myself because obviously my soon-to-be ex-husband was abusive but at the same time he doesn't care enough about anybody but himself and wouldn't help me to heal so I made myself the only person responsible for my healing. I have done a lot of self-reflection and try to activelychange things. I don't want anybody to take it wrong but ultimately, we let ourselves be treated that way for whatever reason. We don't have to take our healing one day ata time and we will heal when were supposed to. We can't put a deadline on healing our trauma. I know that I can't, simply because I am a perfectionist and I will beat myself up if I don't heal by that time but I think I'm supposed to be healed. Take it day-by-day and love yourself every day.
@@Immortal_Liberty my name on here has no bearing on what kind of treatment I should receive. Feel free to comment back your fave food bcuz if I'm gonna feed a troll, I would prefer they are happy. Lol. Have a good life. Your name indicates it will be along one.
Thanks Melanie! You're the best. Narp truly is better than joining forums. I got caught up in it again though because now there is so many new youtube channels that bring us back to victimhood. Good wake up call. Oh lord smoking social media and alcohol... that's me all the way. Guys trust me Melanie knows what she's talking about. I just relapsed during this covid crap. But this week I started back to Narp and already I feel so much better.
Yes.. you have to heal your own wounds. Like most phobias you need to face them head on, and learn to deal with them. This is what i did. I can now see what my ex has become or is.. I have learned what to look for.. now ive watched and learned all that i have been told, and and found a way to deal with it, with out reaction. Not reacting.. was proof.... I WAS IN CONTROL! of myself and my future!
My experience with the narc (the activator for spirituality) has opened my eyes so fundamentally, now I feel I want to Thank the Narc, from the bottom of my heart. Tho he wont probably get it at all. Guess Im just even moore crazy now! :)
I am in the process of bouncing forward and on the road to growth. Still grieving the loss of a kind, empathetic, genuinely remorseful and responsible brother I'll never have. It's like grieving the passing of someone you loved. Thank you Melanie.
I rose from the ashes over two years ago the narrssisitic world will never be the same again. I am a force to be reckoned with.... and hopefully in kindness. My mother, Sister, brother, grandmother, cousins a lot of narcs just in my family alone. I had cognitive disonance for many years unfortunately. Once when I started to assert myself my Sister just like my mother - hits below the belt. She nine years older than me said that I have intimacy problems after I told her I broke up with my girlfriend. I defended myself and she went into a narrssisitic rage. Due to also needing to borrow money during the great recession - blame, shame, bs etc too. She is a horrible person. I never forgot that gaslighting and other things like triangulation she has pulled on me. Believe it or not she respects me now, but I'm still holding my breath. She knows that I'm up to speed on handling narrssisitic people. I'm fine today but I never ever trusted a narrssisitic person. I have a very unorthodox method of dealing with narcissism these days as well. I know martial arts. Yes pain as in a joint lock not striking someone is a temporary but very effective way to get your point across to those inhuman fucks . I'll always be intolerant to narcissism and attempt to try to help others with cognitive dissonance. Since childhood I'm known as the truth teller and today happy but always intolerant of narcs. " I'll take on anyone not scared of a bloody nose " - Pete Townshend , Quadrophenia Nobody plays psychology on me anymore. Nobody blows smoke in my face ! Thanks, Brad Keenan
Miss Melanie....thank you so very much. This is exactly why I cant truly let go of the pain. It makes perfect sense. Wow...you are a blessing. I needed this. Have been having a rough time even though I educated myself 110% on narcissistic abuse. It doesnt help to move on once your out of the relationship. My soul is burned from this man. Turning over a new leaf today by your guidance in this video. Much love ❤I am ready to claim my inner phoenix now!!!
I'd already changed my name to contain Phoenix as a new middle name because I've survived and am healing from a violent narcissistic husband. Glad I'm on the right track!
Thanks Melanie for great informative videos. I am healing from Narc abuse well. the work and healing is hard but well worth it. there's alot of hope and joy for us when we heal and reclain our lives back. God bless everyone on this healing path to wholeness. we are winners in the end.
It is so true, we have a lifetime of different events that are not good for us that could hurt us, by not healing from the inside we are preparing ourselves to be hurt and traumatized by each event in life that comes towards us. By healing the inner self we are prepared to face life's events that inevitably will come to us but instead of being traumatized by them we are prepared to be able to see them as life's inevitable challenges and not as anything that could possibly hurt us to the core. X
Why are American therapists refusing to discuss or even acknowledge narcissists and the very real damage that they do? I found you and one other therapist in the UK that address narcissism but can not find one person in the US that addresses narcissism and the long term effects of it. We are told that men are damaged by their mothers and as women we have to understand that and deal with it. Terry Real and his books/ philosophy have caused more damage to women while letting narcissists get away with their abusive behavior. It is impossible to meet a real man here in the Northeast. We have the highest number of narcissists in the world concentrated right here! It is just awful.
@Melinda Scott So true! Thanks for the post. American men can not see how inappropriate/ rude/ abusive/offensive they are and they don't care how they treat people. Narcissism is the real pandemic here in America.
Bostonscubachic Well, by golly, as a woman in her 60's and learning what a narcissist is, how they thrive, and our role, it's time to make changes!!! My mom was married to one (my father) and she enabled him and my brother to be GREAT narcs. I've had it. It's wrong and it's got to be stopped! It's our turn to thrive!!
Dr.Les Carter: Surviving Narcissism. Here on UA-cam. (Mostly help for recognizing Narcissistic patterns) Helped me a lot to recognize what was going on.
Introspection and self responsibility, don't chase the symptomatics, go to the root problem...I like that quote about the tree by D. Very good video Melanie.
I never been able to recover from the abuse from my narcissistic ex bear in mind I am away from him but I am constantly angry just recently I got out of a narcissistic friendship I don't know where to start I feel so lost and dealing with the wrong way of healing
Snazzy, I can't recommend my NARP Program enough... myself and so many others after many failed healing attempts did break through www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp To find out more about NARP, you can come into my free workshop www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar where you can experience a free Qunata Freedom Healing which will help you find real relief and clarity xoxox
This is so good! I remember in 2014, I was totally immersed in educating myself about the abuse I went through-- comparing all the signs and patterns to my ex. The more I learned and sought to understand, the more sad and miserable and stuck I was!! It took a long time to get here but I'm so at peace now in my thriver journey ♥️
I love this! Watching your videos helped me get over a devastating breakup a few years ago that lead me to take painkillers every day, simply to avoid the crushing weight of all the pain/trauma. I feel a lot of us are empaths and narcs are indeed drawn to our light because they can't access their own. Your videos on self-parntering really helped me feel more at home in my own body. Thank you for helping us reclaim our inner strength! Much love and blessings to you! ❤️
I have the Power of Healing regardless of what You are Doing. To me.. Actually we are Powerful beyond measure 🙏🙏🙏. Thank You Creator 🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏 I am Ready to claim My inner phoenix now.🙏🙏🙏 Thank You Melanie 🙏🙏🙏💞💕💕
Yes! Thank you Melanie. ❤ So great to hear this affirming and empowering message this morning. These are the very things that are helping me heal and strengthen from abuse trauma...Me showing up for me!
I'm sorry to disagree there on one point. Getting infos about the nature of my traumas helped me tremendously. Understanding the root of them got me out of the fog I was plunged into for many years. Stepping away from sheer ignorance helped me to walk forward. Understanding what happened definitely was for me the first step in the endless healing process.
Amesheures Amesheures, thank you for sharing. It's true that initially educating ourselves to be informed with knowledge about what we have endured is helpful and validating and it's important. I believe it's the prolonged period of staying stuck in the research of trying to understand everything about narcissism that can be counterproductive to our healing by keeping us focused on the outside. I hope that makes sense. Love and blessings xoxox
Can I like this 100 times? I wish I had extra funds for the NARP course right now. Family court is in 6 weeks and I want to be at optimal spiritual wellness. Thank you for these videos 💞💖🥰
Kori sweetheart I do not deny anyone healing with NARP. Please know you can apply for sponsorship if you have reduced financial means. Please email support@melanietoniaevans.com and my lovely team will be so happy to help you and meet you with this. Love and blessings xoxox
I am struggling so FUCKING BADLY. I keep contacting her and going through this cycle over and over and OVER again. Really losing my sense of reality anymore.
Sooooo, how do I know how to give myself something I've never seen? Praying it away hasn't worked; magical thinking hasn't been realistic. How do I manifest skills I don't have? Is it wrong to need a therapist with skill sets and experience???
No, of course not, these things are blessings, but many of these therapies are more about focusing on the narcissts rather than ourselves and our own healing & it's more about just surviving or fighting than thriving
Louniece, please come into my free webinar www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar it explains all of this, as well as takes you through a Quanta Freedom Healing. I promise you with all of my heart this is possible ... and the webinar will explain and show you much more as to how and why xoxox
Amazing. I’ve struggled on an off to completely heal from trauma. I start to make progress, but then emotional blocks start to pile up again. I realize I have to face my past, I’m just not sure if I know how to do that.
Paul, have you heard about my NARP Program? www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp That's how we do this work in this community. It's very powerful and effective xoxox
I'd love you Laura to come into my free workshop - www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar It takes you through the Thriver Healing inner work process xoxox
Maciej, please check out my healing program NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp I developed this course specifically so people like myself and so many can do the deep energetic healing using inner transformational healing tools to target the traumas and release them and bring in Source and healing. We become our own healer. It's real hun and I promise you can heal too. If you'd like to discover more please join me in one of my free healing webinar melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar and you'll experience the process for yourself too. Love and blessings xoxox
I have thought many times that I had finally cured myself. But as an empath, many other narcs are drawn to me and I continuously relive the trauma and incur new trauma. My life seems to be an unending cycle of pain that I can't seem to dig myself out of. The narcs find you and dump their toxicity on you like a waste site. They love torturing vulnerable people and then blaming them for it.
You need to start setting healthy boundaries and cutting off anyone who dosent respect them its ok to put yourselves first
Anyone who cant respect your boundries and emotions is a narc
@@orionparsons7631 Mostly it's at work around people who you can't escape from
It was for me too get a new job lined up and quit your old one maybe even work from home if you can
Shit mine was a father forcing me to work i thought it would be impossible for me to leave theres also a 90% chance theyre doing something iilegal
Your very good.!!!people listen to her.!!!!THE MORE YOU SEE YOURSELF THE LESS YOU WILL TOLERATE OTHER PEOPLE NOT SEEING YOU...your outer relationship is a mirror of your inner relationships!!!!
I am ready to claim my inter Phionex and heal from the abuse that has me in a very bad place.
As someone who is thriving 3 years after starting the Narp program, all I can say is THANK YOU for saving my life.
Ednaopl, bless you sweetheart, you are so SO welcome and I'm thrilled you have NARP and you're thriving! Yayyy! Love and blessings xoxox
i am ready to claim my inner Phoenix now !
♥ thank you. I am trying to heal my wounds without having a support system and just going to my inner child and self soothing it's really difficult when you just want a hug and someone to hold on but the trauma won't leave you alone until you recognize and love it to wholeness. I have trouble with PTSD at certain times of day like from 5 to 8pm when he would normally be coming home and we spend the most time together and even hearing loud engines sends shivers down my spine thinking it's him and trying to emotionally prepare. I think that changing scenery, moving to a new city would be good. If the surroundings stay the same it's very hard to heal those daily patterns but we are going through divorce and he has financially crippled me, closed our joint account, took everything of value and abandoned me so the only place I can afford at the moment is here. Maybe moving into another room or rearranging things would help. It's also hard to hold onto your strength and not extend their power over your emotions when entering a legal battle for assets and trying not to be left desolate. A part of me wants to give up and walk away start a new life abandon anything that would have been split because he says I will be left with nothing that he will rack up so much debt and the house will short sell, that I will be bankrupt, etc. but a part of me wants to fight, document everything he has done and hold him accountable so that it doesn't happen to his next victim. He married a woman from Japan and brought her to the states before we started dating, and discarded and abandoned her after a couple years marriage the same way he is doing to me. He has raped me repeatedly and locked me out of the bedroom afterwards telling me it was my fault and I deserved the way he was treating me, that I should kill myself because it would be cheaper than divorcing me, that he would never accept me or any offspring, etc. and he probably was no different with her only she didn't understand her rights and signed everything over to him in divorce. She deserved better than to be abandoned in a new country by a cold calculating man who likely raped and abused her, and I do too. For her sake and for other women he may plan to get involved with I feel it's important to bring him to justice but at what cost to my sanity? Lots of love and thank you for the videos and continued inspiration for healing. Prayers to all who are going through this program and big virtual hugs
Call 911 and arrest that criminal
Please try to contact a safe home for women who have been abused. They will give you shelter, and help you get back on your feet.
Big Huggs and Kisses and much luv to u on yr healing path. thanks for sharing. yr just lovely XX
It is so hard when you work with a team of narcs and feel too damaged to find another job. I want to quit so bad because I can just feel the damage being done to my brain daily. However quitting with no job lined up is trauma in and of itself. I'm praying for a rational way out!!!!
Tiffany Cherry Try vizualization and scripting! Think and write about how you want to feel in your new job. Be specific in terms of location, type of people, environment, etc... You can create what you want!
@@dellamonk6792 Thanks for your reply......I will definitely do that!!!
Tiffany Cherry I’m so glad to hear that! The key is to shift your focus: think about (and therefore create) what you want, not what you don’t want. Let us know how it goes!
when I left my narc last January, I threw myself into reading forums and stuff and I found that the more I read other people's trauma, the more I was reminded that I had trauma.I have since started looking at my survivalism as my responsibility and I don't completely blame myself because obviously my soon-to-be ex-husband was abusive but at the same time he doesn't care enough about anybody but himself and wouldn't help me to heal so I made myself the only person responsible for my healing. I have done a lot of self-reflection and try to activelychange things. I don't want anybody to take it wrong but ultimately, we let ourselves be treated that way for whatever reason. We don't have to take our healing one day ata time and we will heal when were supposed to. We can't put a deadline on healing our trauma. I know that I can't, simply because I am a perfectionist and I will beat myself up if I don't heal by that time but I think I'm supposed to be healed. Take it day-by-day and love yourself every day.
With a name like yours on here,no wonder you made bad decisions in life. Are you a sex addict ?
Wishing you lots of healing. You deserve the best life. All Narcissist Thrivers do.
@@Immortal_Liberty my name on here has no bearing on what kind of treatment I should receive. Feel free to comment back your fave food bcuz if I'm gonna feed a troll, I would prefer they are happy. Lol. Have a good life. Your name indicates it will be along one.
@@melodyharmony8448 thank you. Big hugs.
They put me through so much trauma I wanna move on .
Thanks Melanie! You're the best. Narp truly is better than joining forums. I got caught up in it again though because now there is so many new youtube channels that bring us back to victimhood. Good wake up call. Oh lord smoking social media and alcohol... that's me all the way. Guys trust me Melanie knows what she's talking about. I just relapsed during this covid crap. But this week I started back to Narp and already I feel so much better.
That's so great Sara that you came back to your centre and NARP! Well done! xoxoox
I am ready to Claim my inner Phoenix now!
I’m ready to claim my inner phoenix Now!
Yes.. you have to heal your own wounds. Like most phobias you need to face them head on, and learn to deal with them. This is what i did. I can now see what my ex has become or is.. I have learned what to look for.. now ive watched and learned all that i have been told, and and found a way to deal with it, with out reaction. Not reacting.. was proof.... I WAS IN CONTROL! of myself and my future!
I am ready to claim my inner phoenix now!
This is hope and power! 4 months out of narcissistic abuse, and Mel helped me heal faster than I could ever imagine❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aww this is gorgeous! I'm so pleased for you now you're healing! Love and blessings xoxox
With narc relationships your 'feelings' are invalidated altogether or you are dictated what you feel while being 'narctated'
My experience with the narc (the activator for spirituality) has opened my eyes so fundamentally, now I feel I want to Thank the Narc, from the bottom of my heart.
Tho he wont probably get it at all. Guess Im just even moore crazy now! :)
Beautiful! Love and blessings to you xoxox
Thank God for you and your message - I am getting it - slowly but surely. Many many years down unhelpful paths. - igniting the Phoenix here :)
Wonderful stuff Kate!
I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix NOW
I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix now!!! Thank you so much Melanie!
You got this Ashley! xoxox
This is all so very true! From a 69 year old war-weary woman still furious with her covert Narcissist ex for not loving and supporting her!
*I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix Now* ♥️
I am in the process of bouncing forward and on the road to growth. Still grieving the loss of a kind, empathetic, genuinely remorseful and responsible brother I'll never have. It's like grieving the passing of someone you loved. Thank you Melanie.
I rose from the ashes over two years ago the narrssisitic world will never be the same again. I am a force to be reckoned with.... and hopefully in kindness.
My mother, Sister, brother, grandmother, cousins a lot of narcs just in my family alone. I had cognitive disonance for many years unfortunately. Once when I started to assert myself my Sister just like my mother - hits below the belt. She nine years older than me said that I have intimacy problems after I told her I broke up with my girlfriend. I defended myself and she went into a narrssisitic rage. Due to also needing to borrow money during the great recession - blame, shame, bs etc too. She is a horrible person. I never forgot that gaslighting and other things like triangulation she has pulled on me. Believe it or not she respects me now, but I'm still holding my breath. She knows that I'm up to speed on handling narrssisitic people. I'm fine today but I never ever trusted a narrssisitic person. I have a very unorthodox method of dealing with narcissism these days as well. I know martial arts. Yes pain as in a joint lock not striking someone is a temporary but very effective way to get your point across to those inhuman fucks . I'll always be intolerant to narcissism and attempt to try to help others with cognitive dissonance. Since childhood I'm known as the truth teller and today happy but always intolerant of narcs.
" I'll take on anyone not scared of a bloody nose " - Pete Townshend , Quadrophenia
Nobody plays psychology on me anymore.
Nobody blows smoke in my face !
Thanks,
Brad Keenan
So true. The only validation that matters to me is from the narc because I cannot self-validate...
I love the pheonix imagery , I often compare myself to a pheonix rising from the ashes of my pain. "I am ready to claim my inner pheonix now" 💪🔥🦅
Miss Melanie....thank you so very much. This is exactly why I cant truly let go of the pain. It makes perfect sense. Wow...you are a blessing. I needed this. Have been having a rough time even though I educated myself 110% on narcissistic abuse. It doesnt help to move on once your out of the relationship. My soul is burned from this man. Turning over a new leaf today by your guidance in this video. Much love ❤I am ready to claim my inner phoenix now!!!
Bless you sweetheart, I'm so pleased my guidance is helping you. Love to you xoxox
I'd already changed my name to contain Phoenix as a new middle name because I've survived and am healing from a violent narcissistic husband. Glad I'm on the right track!
Thanks Melanie for great informative videos. I am healing from Narc abuse well. the work and healing is hard but well worth it. there's alot of hope and joy for us when we heal and reclain our lives back. God bless everyone on this healing path to wholeness. we are winners in the end.
Bless you sweetheart! Love to you xoxox
I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix now.
I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix NOW !
I am ready to claim my inner phoenix now.
I am ready to claim my inner pheonix now
It is so true, we have a lifetime of different events that are not good for us that could hurt us, by not healing
from the inside we are preparing ourselves to be hurt and traumatized by each event in life that comes towards us.
By healing the inner self we are prepared to face life's events that inevitably will come to us but instead of being traumatized by them we are prepared to be able to see them as life's inevitable challenges and not as anything that could possibly hurt us to the core. X
Why are American therapists refusing to discuss or even acknowledge narcissists and the very real damage that they do? I found you and one other therapist in the UK that address narcissism but can not find one person in the US that addresses narcissism and the long term effects of it. We are told that men are damaged by their mothers and as women we have to understand that and deal with it. Terry Real and his books/ philosophy have caused more damage to women while letting narcissists get away with their abusive behavior. It is impossible to meet a real man here in the Northeast. We have the highest number of narcissists in the world concentrated right here! It is just awful.
@Melinda Scott So true! Thanks for the post. American men can not see how inappropriate/ rude/ abusive/offensive they are and they don't care how they treat people. Narcissism is the real pandemic here in America.
Bostonscubachic Well, by golly, as a woman in her 60's and learning what a narcissist is, how they thrive, and our role, it's time to make changes!!! My mom was married to one (my father) and she enabled him and my brother to be GREAT narcs. I've had it. It's wrong and it's got to be stopped! It's our turn to thrive!!
@@chinookvalley I am not in my 60's.
Dr.Les Carter: Surviving Narcissism. Here on UA-cam. (Mostly help for recognizing Narcissistic patterns) Helped me a lot to recognize what was going on.
Narcissist Chronicles is great. David Demars. Tracefaceit.
What is the best way to stop the repetitive loop that is PTSD?
Sunshine Love my NARP Program heals that deeply at your core www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp xoxox
Melanie Tonia Evans Thank you. this is powerful I'm ready to heal ♥️
have a beautiful day
I'm so happy for you Nobi! xoxox
Introspection and self responsibility, don't chase the symptomatics, go to the root problem...I like that quote about the tree by D. Very good video Melanie.
I am ready to claim my inner phoenix now
I am free to claim my inner phonenix now
I never been able to recover from the abuse from my narcissistic ex bear in mind I am away from him but I am constantly angry just recently I got out of a narcissistic friendship I don't know where to start I feel so lost and dealing with the wrong way of healing
Snazzy, I can't recommend my NARP Program enough... myself and so many others after many failed healing attempts did break through www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp To find out more about NARP, you can come into my free workshop www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar where you can experience a free Qunata Freedom Healing which will help you find real relief and clarity xoxox
I am ready. I claim my inner Phoenix NOW! And now. And now and now. 🦋🌈
Gorgeous Karen! xoxox
Love having the last word-I am having an incredible life regardless of what you did to me. Bring on the joy.
I am also ready claim my inner pheniox now.
This is so good! I remember in 2014, I was totally immersed in educating myself about the abuse I went through-- comparing all the signs and patterns to my ex. The more I learned and sought to understand, the more sad and miserable and stuck I was!! It took a long time to get here but I'm so at peace now in my thriver journey ♥️
I love this! Watching your videos helped me get over a devastating breakup a few years ago that lead me to take painkillers every day, simply to avoid the crushing weight of all the pain/trauma. I feel a lot of us are empaths and narcs are indeed drawn to our light because they can't access their own. Your videos on self-parntering really helped me feel more at home in my own body. Thank you for helping us reclaim our inner strength! Much love and blessings to you! ❤️
I'm so glad they help Kelly! xoxox
I am ready to claim my inner Pheonix now
God Bless You Melanie! “ I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix NOW!!!”
I am ready!!! Currently 3 months no contact from covert narcissist, after 12 years of abuse. Thank you Melanie for another great video!!! :)
It's my pleasure Emily xoxo
Thank you Melanie for providing the only real solution to all of this I can see. You give me hope and a way forward, many blessings 💛🌼🌟
I am taking a stand and ready claim inner Phoenix now
Im ready to claim my inner phoenix
You are an inspiration, much gratitude. 🙏🏼💖 🔥
I am ready to claim my Phoenix now!
I have the Power of Healing regardless of what You are Doing. To me.. Actually we are Powerful beyond measure 🙏🙏🙏. Thank You Creator 🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏
I am Ready to claim My inner phoenix now.🙏🙏🙏
Thank You Melanie 🙏🙏🙏💞💕💕
I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix NOW!
This is so powerful, thank you 🙏🦋❤💪
I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix NOW! ✌️🙏🏼
Yes! Thank you Melanie. ❤ So great to hear this affirming and empowering message this morning. These are the very things that are helping me heal and strengthen from abuse trauma...Me showing up for me!
Love you Mel ... I’m a Phoenix ... love your NARP programme 🕊🙏❤️
I love you Melanie cause I feel like you're the only person who gets me
Awww Stephanie, I'm so pleased that I can help xoxox
I am ready to claim my Inner Phoenix Now!!!!! Thank you, from the depths of my heart to yours.
I AM ready to claim my inner Phoenix now!
I’m ready to claim my inner Phoenix!
#1 is exactly what I’ve been doing 😪
I'm sorry to disagree there on one point. Getting infos about the nature of my traumas helped me tremendously. Understanding the root of them got me out of the fog I was plunged into for many years. Stepping away from sheer ignorance helped me to walk forward. Understanding what happened definitely was for me the first step in the endless healing process.
Amesheures Amesheures, thank you for sharing. It's true that initially educating ourselves to be informed with knowledge about what we have endured is helpful and validating and it's important. I believe it's the prolonged period of staying stuck in the research of trying to understand everything about narcissism that can be counterproductive to our healing by keeping us focused on the outside. I hope that makes sense. Love and blessings xoxox
Im ready to claim my inner Phoenix now!
O am ready to claim my inner phoenix Now!
I should start each day with this video! I am ready to claim my inner phoenix now💗 Thank you so much, Melanie!
You're so welcome! xoxox
Can I like this 100 times? I wish I had extra funds for the NARP course right now. Family court is in 6 weeks and I want to be at optimal spiritual wellness. Thank you for these videos 💞💖🥰
Kori sweetheart I do not deny anyone healing with NARP. Please know you can apply for sponsorship if you have reduced financial means. Please email support@melanietoniaevans.com and my lovely team will be so happy to help you and meet you with this. Love and blessings xoxox
Your a Blessing thank you!
I am ready to claim my inner phenix now
I commend you for healing as many as you can reach.
Very powerful and true content!
Thank you! Love and blessings to you dear One xoxox
I AM READY TO CLAIM MY INNER PHOENIX NOW!!!!!😁
Melanie I just wanted to say that you really do help people! You are such an inspirational person that shines and spreads all your wisdom 🙏🙏
Aww it is such a pleasure to be able to help and thank you for your lovely words Silvina! Love and blessings xoxox
You're my hero... no wait, I'm my hero!!!! :D :D Amazing advice as always
Renee you're the best! xoxox
So grateful for all of the wonderful videos that you put out. The messages are always so timely, so gentle, and profound. Blessings xx
Hey sister! Nevermind! I figured it out! NAMASTE 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘
I'm ready to claim my inner phoenix now.
I remembered and said this again as I was falling asleep late night. I certainly feel like a pile of ashes right now.
It's always about us never the other
Thank you
I am.ready to claim my inner phoenix now
I am ready to claim my inner Phoenix now 🐛->🦋
Melanie why no more videos on letting ppl know that narcs are angels??? Thanks for spreading the truth.
I am struggling so FUCKING BADLY. I keep contacting her and going through this cycle over and over and OVER again. Really losing my sense of reality anymore.
I'm pretty tired right now. But I'm ready to claim my inner Phoenix maybe tomorrow 😏
Seems like he thinks hes won though😕
Sooooo, how do I know how to give myself something I've never seen? Praying it away hasn't worked; magical thinking hasn't been realistic. How do I manifest skills I don't have? Is it wrong to need a therapist with skill sets and experience???
No, of course not, these things are blessings, but many of these therapies are more about focusing on the narcissts rather than ourselves and our own healing & it's more about just surviving or fighting than thriving
Louniece, please come into my free webinar www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar it explains all of this, as well as takes you through a Quanta Freedom Healing. I promise you with all of my heart this is possible ... and the webinar will explain and show you much more as to how and why xoxox
I am ready to take myself back
I AGREE.... beauty for ashes rise up
my healing my truth.. self partner... what is my first step in this journey?
Kitty, my NARP Program is the direct and most powerful path to self-partner and heal from within www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp xoxox
Thanks
Amazing. I’ve struggled on an off to completely heal from trauma. I start to make progress, but then emotional blocks start to pile up again. I realize I have to face my past, I’m just not sure if I know how to do that.
Paul, have you heard about my NARP Program? www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp That's how we do this work in this community. It's very powerful and effective xoxox
I see you understand the stars 🤗
I am ready to claim my inner phoneix now !
No Mud, no Lotus...I AM READY O CLAIM MY INNER PHOENIX NOW!
Narcissist will even try to trauma bond trauma's, they don't even know you have. 😂
Nice video, thanks. You always look so nice and feminine.
I am ready to claim jybinner phinex now.
Yay! I get to be a phoenix!
One good thing about Covid....it's a fixed opportunity to be alone with your damaged self...
What IS the inner work??
I'd love you Laura to come into my free workshop - www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar It takes you through the Thriver Healing inner work process xoxox
Hello. What kind of therapy would be best for recovery in this case?
Maciej, please check out my healing program NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp I developed this course specifically so people like myself and so many can do the deep energetic healing using inner transformational healing tools to target the traumas and release them and bring in Source and healing. We become our own healer. It's real hun and I promise you can heal too. If you'd like to discover more please join me in one of my free healing webinar melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar and you'll experience the process for yourself too. Love and blessings xoxox
pretty lady!