Why Are Narcissists Evil?
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- Опубліковано 19 лип 2024
- Why Are Narcissists Evil? There is an inherent evil in narcissists, an evil that spreads darkness.
You have probably witnessed this first hand and have had to live with the impact of it. I know I did.
I didn’t always believe there was “evil” in the world but now I understand this phenomenon differently and I see it for what it is.
In my latest Thriver TV episode, I will take you through this dynamite topic so you can understand how the psychic virus that is spread by narcissists affects you and how you can win against this toxic force.
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They refuse to self reflect..deny all negative emotions. They have them but refuse to acknowledge them..SICK OOOOSS!!!
And here I was trying to be a free therapist - feel your feelings! Be introspective! 🤦🏽♀️
"The light always wins"--yes, yes, yes!
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This year 👏🏾 Revelations
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Yes it does... but sometimes it takes years decades if not centuries or even millennia.... sorry to be the negative Nancy of the comments here
TOTALLY AGREE, they are extremely DARK and EVIL AND MY EX HUSBANDS FATHER WAS THE EXACT SAME, it's scary how alike they were.
What a horrible existence to be living in such a low state. not even animals live this way. shame. pure terror the narcs and minions live in.
It’s simply the contrast of “LIVE” that’s why it’s spelt backwards it’s the other side of true life force
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Brilliant!!👏👏👏
I prayed to God to deliver me from the trauma bondage inflicted by a narcissist, then this video appeared in my feed. This is an answer to prayer...it worked. Thank you :)
it`s like living in a nightmare
yes
A nightmare that inflicts real pain
Evil may have the first laugh, but good always gets the last one eternally.
"I have overcome the world." ~Jesus Christ
Kim Van Note Amen 🙏🏽
Yes , those still surviving off draining the energy of others are failing.
The thing is good doesn't even want to win. It just wants to live in peace
100%. Ultimately.
Trauma opens the door to evil, through the silenced/unexpressed anger over the injustice of abuse that was done to a person. Their anger was shamed and silenced, so they carry it inside and it literally opens the door to the devil in their lives. Unforgiveness makes a person Spiritually Ill and Evil.
Yes , when you don’t self-heal , you definitely become spiritually ill and allow something else take over your.
Some go through trauma and not only turn out well but actually stronger for it. And then there are those very weak individuals with very huge egos that turn everything into hate, no matter how small and inconsequential said trauma was. I have no pity, no sympathy for these creatures.
They allow their past hurt to become reprobate evil, and then choose to hurt other people.
John 8:44 verse applies, too.
Who has never experienced injustice in their lives? Why do some go on, learn from it and actually grow stronger for it? And then there are the weak ones aren't there? No sympathy for those.
I think you are right saying that powerlessness and unconsciousness are key factors in narcissism. Only through the desire and commitment to heal, can a person regain power and change for the better.
Thank you for shining the Light on this subject, they suck.
haha When you said, "shining the light", and Melanie was talking about vampires, it made me envision them all as vampires with all of us shining a light on them, wearing garlic around our necks and walking towards them with big crosses in hand! That would be funny. I hope they'd get the reference and then when they became angered by the insult, we could gaslight them or use some plausible deniability tactic back on them and say they are paranoid and that we weren't insinuating that they were blood sucking evil vampires!
This seems to be true whether the evil is coming from an individual in our personal lives or controllers associated with the government.
Yes. It is so very painful to watch someone you love fall into Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It's like watching a loved one descend into drug addiction.
Nevertheless, the best way to help is not to help, if that makes sense.
Yes that’s a great way to describe it!
My ex best friend omg it’s like I don’t even know who he is anymore.
My mother got worse over time to the point where I knew for certain that demons had gotten ahold of her. She scared the crap out of me. I left that transaction years ago and am still effected by it. She and my father got many flying monkeys involved too so it wasn’t just her acting alone in her evil ways.
I don't believe they "fall into it". I believe it has always been in them, maybe well hidden, but in there until something happens to make their true selves emerge. They are evil.
Drug addiction makes sense. Narcissists don’t
Thank you After 52 years of naccissist abuse seen the videos n acted on it NO CONNECT n it has worked wonders Got my self back
My brother is a narc and when we were young he would tell me at night he would be visited by a shadow friend and one time it was there and kept asking if I could see it and I couldn't. Every time when that thing showed up I would have horrific nightmares, sleep walk, and was told I had a really deep mans voice. Yeah, it's evil alright.
This is the creepiest thing!
If kids see those 'otherworldly things', I'd guess they have to be open and sensitive in a way. So sad when those good traits help pull them in the worst direction.
Omg , a family member of mine had the same experience and she is a big ol narcissist, meaning the disorder is obvious even when she walks in the room .
Thank you for the very precise explanation of what Evil really is Melanie. The vampire analogy is particularly apt. To understand and accept Evil at it's core is one of the most difficult experiences we will have on this planet. Most of us can cognitvely 'get it' but still act as if it's not real.
Our present day situation is a very clear example of this. We are in the grips, right now, of evil entities that have the power to lock us up in house arrest, muzzle ourselves, turn us against each other, withhold real solutions and make us believe that an invisible virus with a death rate of .026% is a valid excuse for doing so.
Whether you agree or not the truth is the World's economy is being destroyed and suicides rates are higher than death rates from any virus. Yet the abuse continues and is being ramped up daily. The end goal is our complete subordination to authority and Artificial Intelligence.
We're conditioned to believe in 'laws' and everything we see on TV. To see through this as the mechanisms for lies, control and our demise is a very difficult task.
Censorship on UA-cam, Google, Facebook is very real.
In hindsight we can acknowledge evil after the fact much more easily. Yes the Nazis were evil. But at the time it was happening most people did not think so.
We don't have much time left to shine the light on what's going on right now. Hindsight won't help us. The time for non-compliance to evil authorities is now or never.
I agree!!!
Wow , so insightful!!!!!! Keep speaking that truth .
I called my ex narcissist wife a “demon incarnate”. She is a creature of the “black void” and “a professional victim”. She has a human body, but whatever is within is not human, but something of a lower order.
Upon entering our home, some have said that there is evil within our home. I thought those statements and people to be weird.
Years after I separated, I had no contact, however I could feel the “evil” on my kids and I could feel it on those that had been around the ex. Those statements no longer are weird to me.
The last meeting I had with my narcissist 23 year old daughter, I told her to never return to my home, she is no longer welcome. It took me over an hour to get the sense of evil out of my home after she left.
Forgiving them is a misconception of mine. I learned to totally accept they are not capable of genuine human behavior and to stop projecting any belief that they are capable of any normalcy. That is how I was able to let go.
You know your daughter will get worse, since all she has now is her mom. I am not judging you. I have not been in your place. I know this is a different situation but my brother worked hard to keep relationships with his 3 children. His wife was a a zealot, convinced she was perfect and others were lesser. I know it must be hard. Many men I know love their children more than their wives, if the have gone through divorce. I am not judging you.
My dad viewed me this way and i was manipulated by my mother after the divorce, but i really needed my dad and he shrugged me off as being like my mom and started a new life with a new women so I suppose there are 2 sides to every story. We need love not hate in this world.
@@misha5570 Children did not ask for the disarray. I understand. I am male by the way.
@@misha5570 agreed
Do the demons actually CONTROL them? Is there no way for them to say “no” to what the demons tempt them to do? And resist it...?
I see a correlation with narcissism, attachment avoidant behavior, and people who compartmentalize feelings. They crave intimacy so they go towards empathic emotional people but they can never experience intimacy or feeling because they have spent their whole lives compartmentalizing their emotions so they can't feel. Because of that they come towards emotional empathic types and try to get our love, thinking it can cure them, but our love and emotions threaten to tear down the barriers they use to not feel. Then they try to hurt us with impunity any way they possibly can usually through infidelity because no matter what they do they can't feel anything so they resent those of us who can feel. They fill their lives with stage props of happiness (oh they love to brag about their sexual exploits and sexual prowess) but can feel no joy from them because they are trapped in a holding pattern. We want to rescue them and take them towards the light, to be there for them when they let their castle walls fall so they can feel but deep down they are too scared. Their entire lives have been lived behind these walls. So then they hurt us to make us go away but then they don't want us to leave and try to hoover us back - they want us to give up but then want us to try again. We have to take care of ourselves so we leave for good and establish no contact or gray rock to their attempts to get us to come back and rescue them from their own hell of numbness.
@@lumina5 its why Im not a psychologist or psychiatrist - they all seem the same - unfeeling uncaring insensitive
Oh my god this is SO accurate. Describes what I went through with that madman to a T
Interesting as always Melanie! The first victory is truly not caring about what others think (NARCS and non-NARCS) and being able to remain calm and focused through most attempts from others to manipulate, scare, or get a rise. Turns out remaining calm and focused are valuable traits in all areas of life. Working through your NARP and now Empowered Self programs are giving me life tools for all areas of my life. For me it is taking consistency and dedicated work. The best self care I have ever given myself.
Literally dealing with a sociopath narcissist right now. Truly corrupt and evil.
Some believe that they have sold their souls.
Some have.
I agree
They do seem soulless.
My husband literally told me that he had sold his soul to the devil. I was in a coma for two days and he said that a nurse with black hair came into the room and asked him what he would be willing to do to save my life. He said that he would give his soul. He said that after that happened the doctor came into the room and told him that they could try one more thing to save me and it worked. Guilt trip!
She said before we met for real " im not afraid of your energy and light",,, meeting me for real she souldestroyed me in 3 days....10 years of healing finding answers...."Rejection is Gods protection"
The “disconnect” described so effectively here is 💯 true for the narcissists I’ve known, but is ALSO key to understanding so many ills in our society today. It can be a lens through which to understand the “progressive” agenda which is moving people further toward godlessness & self-fulfilling victimhood.
This is all so true. I've lived in fear all my life from growing up with a narcissistic step-father who thrived from scaring everyone in the house. I tiptoed around him up until 6 months ago (I am 44 years old) and now I will never see him again even though it means never going to family holidays again. I've been in relationships with narcissists all my life trying to appease and fix them in order to feel safe. I'm done with this pattern.
Shawn, you can sign up for my free 16 Day Recovery course to receive daily support to empower you. It's a powerful starting point for anybody who has reached their 'enough is enough'. I hope it can support you.
www.youcanthrivebook.com/freecourse Love and blessings xoxox
I cannot tell you the amount of times I wish I had known what this was when I was trapped in it..... Thank the Gods for every piece of info and video you have ever done !!! Even more for creating NARP..... You literally saved my sanity, health, and given me back my soul !!!! I was crazy and broken when my last narc left me after destroying everything in my life and darn near killing me ~ and no I am not just being dramatic..... Mel ~ From the core of my heart and soul I cannot thank you enough ..... You are the only one who has a real answer to how to Heal from the damage, abuse, and insanity ..... I cannot even imagine what life would be like if I had not started and continued in the NARP program.... To say you are a Godsend doesn't even begin to cover it..... Thank you !!!!
Not my reality. Im standing up for myself and detaching. Ready to love myself like crazy and attract the same light-filled souls.
Just beautiful Michelle! Rooting for you all the way! Love and blessings xoxox
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So much love and gratitude for you! I began watching your videos a few years ago, after my awakening. I thought that I would never get here. But I just kept watching and listening.
Self-love was so foreign to me.
Now, I've turned a corner and I have begun to make amazing and loving friends. I planted a Self-Love garden with an Angel hugging herself. ❤
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Thank you SO much for this!!!! When my Husband of 20 years...(who was a covert narc....My intuition knew he was dark and evil...but he was so beautiful on the outside and played the game so well!!!! ...Talk about cognitive dissonance)...left me I literally vomited BLACK TAR for 2 days . I know that may sound crazy....but I was like what is this...after a shamanic healing....she shared I had a black hole in my gut where he was sucking my life force out. I was so wounded and fed him..... I even remember telling him...I feel like I am dying inside.......that is when I started to wake up!! When I healed and created boundaries..he LEFT and I started to purge and heal. Melanie...you have saved ME and so many. I have been following you for over 2 years now and have seen your growth as well. Yes the LIGHT WINS.....Forever grateful for you and your mission. You are DOING it and inspired all of us. Love you!!
Bless you darling lady! I'm so delighted that my work has been able to help you so much! Love to you xoxox
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Mine was beautiful also ... everything I ever wanted .
Beautiful... perfect body , lovely speaking voice and beautiful name .
But as wicked as the devil himself
@@darcybarwick6404 I hope you are doing ok beautiful soul.
@@wendywilliams3962 my life has been decimated, part of the devils plans
Wendy what I’ve learnt from this experience is that the devil always goes after people who can do the most damage to his kingdom.. Acceptance has been the hardest part, I believe my ex is possessed. Thank you 🙏
I hope you are doing ok too , We must understand how strong we to have survived something like this ...Some people don’t ... God bless you
Thank you! I so needed to hear this right at this moment. Dealing with an attorney who was supposed to help me with some relatively simple estate planning and after taking my retainer, is now playing dumb and sending me draft after draft after draft containing things I never asked for and missing the things I did ask for in emails she is apparently too busy to read. Argh! After many attempts at being as kind as possible, I finally reached the end of my rope and let her know I cannot waste any more of my time.....and she thinks it's o.k. now to keep the $1000 retainer I gave her in good faith. Do I feel powerless? Yes! ...but I understand your message and I'm gonna work on it! I'm going to calmly proceed to file a complaint with the state bar association and refuse to let this suck my time/attention/energy/peace....and replace them with fear and powerlessness. "The light wins, always" I know this is ultimately true, but it's so easy to forget when you're in the midst of crazy making. I think I'm going to have to recite this as "my mantra" for a few days....
I love how you connect the psyche, the faith and the philosophy. This was great. Thank you and blessings.
I thought that was really good.
I told my ex he was evil but a coward with it lol
Perfect timing for this message. It was challenging to wrap my heart around it, but it truly makes sense to me. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 💖💖💖
MTE is a godsend. The vampire analogy is so spot on. Validating and affirming video.
God "The Light" wins always. Thank you for the reminder.
Melanie, can you unblock me from your instagram account so that I can follow you? My account is @dsmurfy1
Thank you for making your videos for as long as you have. Your a true survivor and I've learned so much from you. This video was amazing.
BEAUTIFUL! Light and truth is beautiful!! Thank you for sharing this message, Melanie 💛
The narcissist that I was married to would say, "I have 2 sides. A good man and a devil".
Do the demons actually CONTROL them? Is there no way for them to say “no” to what the demons tempt them to do? And resist it...
My ex, when introducing himself to new ppl, would always say his name was Lucifer. He would then laugh hysterically while the other person looked completely confused. I remember thinking how uncomfortable I would feel wen he said that. It wasn’t funny at all.
Do the demons actually CONTROL them? Is there no way for them to say “no” to what the demons tempt them to do? And resist it...?
WOW... just wow! Thank you so much for this Melanie, you get it and can eloquently explain it like no one else can!! Many blessings 🙏🏼
The narc even said to me " I cannot stand you". Yes, the light is a lot for you to bear. If you read between the lines they are always telling their truth it just comes out crazy in the moment.
Same mind said he “hates me so much”
But doesn’t know why 😑
Literally said “I hate you and I will hate you forever. I don’t care if it’s unreasonable” right after putting me through the WORST, most anguishing abuse
Thank you Melanie this is powerful... its like you keep on evolving ❤ and so am I... I can't wait for August 20th to attend your Free Master class I already registered.
Have a beautiful day ❤
Lol... I've been calling my ex a parasite for ages now.... so unknowingly I nailed that then. Love seeing these validating videos. Thought I was going nuts!
Many of these evil narcissists gravitate towards religion to make you feel bad. As Christ and Buddha and the rest said, love is essential. Narcs do nto love, no matter how much they talk about prayer and church.
This one needs to be listened to many times.
Yeah, they adopt the persona of good Christians to get friends, but they are only acting, manipulating.
@@patriciastewart2537 yep!
Yes, i often told my narc husband, “You got religious, but you have no relationship”, they use the power of religion to manipulate others.
My childhood friend was a “pillar of the community” - very involved in church activities and volunteerism, trying to mentor people with unsolicited advice bc her way was always the god chosen way. I was shocked one day when I referred to her spirituality and she kind of smirked and said “I’m not spiritual at all”. It blew me away...totally confused me until after she died and I started researching NPD and then everything became clear. It was a shock.
I am still so so angry at all the years of her deception and trying to come to terms with it.
Wonderful book “ Dispelling Wetiko” I read it a few years ago at your recommendation. Thank you! Recommend it more than ever with the arising of shadow energies with covid and other situations here on Earth now. I have a problem with understanding how fear that might be triggered by narcissism is inauthentic? Or rather I think you’re saying that the fear arises because of unhealed trauma which makes us feel powerless to the evil.
@seoreh -I'm so glad you spelled that book title out for me! Thanks!
Watching your vids over the last 5 years and dealing with my own personal encounters have taught me two things
1. Mel your a beautifully person
2. In some cases not all there was something more than the person inflicting the pain and abuse.
There was a power behind the person that not only empowered but protected the persons I have dealt with.
Fortunately with the help of law enforcement and other agencies that I have used these persons have been stopped.
I do not know the source of these persons power or where it came from but there is something more to some narcissistic people then meets the eye.
These people are the ones that scare me the most
Do the demons actually CONTROL them? Is there no way for them to say “no” to what the demons tempt them to do? And resist it...?
Wow, this is a very heavy topic.
My covert narcissist ex partner was not being her 'true self'.
She was not authentic in her whole being and behavior.
After the love bombing stage she started to devaluate me, gaslight me, shame and blame me.
And started to doubting myself of course.
Was it my fault that the relationship was going from bad to worst.
But my covert narcissist ex partner made several huge mistakes in a short period and with her family background I saw what really was going on here.
Her father, an overt narcissist, was in control and charge over his wife, his adult children and grand children.
He also tried to intimidate me.
My ex had took over this behavior as a covert narcissist person.
Her family (her father, mother, older brother, herself and her two young children) had no contact with others.
No social contacts further.
They were living very isolated.
I ended the relationship with my covert narcissist ex partner because I was not allowed to be me and couldn't be me.
It is almost two years now since we broke up.
I worked in my innerself and started healing from also things that happened in my past.
Covert narcissists are insecure, immature, angry, frustrated, damaged, sick and coward persons.
Regarding to faith and religion, I am not a 'believer' anymore.
Religion is also something that is used a lot by narcissists to hurt people.
Just see the world what religion does to people nowadays.
They hide their evilness behind religion but i hope u found the truth in god and Islam my god bless u and guide u to the truth
This is by far the most helpful, informative video on narcissists. High depth of information because it shines light on what really is going on - not only for the narcissists, but also anyone hooked into them.
Brilliant.
Well said... Thank you for that different inspiring insight... Cuz I just ditched a whole bunch of narcissists in my life and I am staying to myself and minding my business and they can stay out of the light for all I care... Cuz all they do is cause trouble and drama and pain and anger... And I want to be a peaceful person who does walk in the light...
I was never cut of from God! He helped me. For me it felt like a thick black blanket ON me, after years of abuse, and i threw it away...
So true Mel! Thank you. I really need to begin and commit to your NARP program to heal now.
I healed in a great extent, after reading mowlana, rumi, poems. They are always fresh and full of wisdom. He believes in a good ending. I wish you all a good life with a good ending.
How do you deal with/move on knowing you’ll never receive a real apology or accountability from the narc? I’ve found it very difficult not having “justice” in a way or some form of accountability on their part. Love your videos ❤️
Sweetheart please know NONE of us received that. It's the inner healing that grants you complete closure and wholeness from that terrible trauma. Please chack out my NARP Porgam for more details about this www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp xoxox
So beautiful and powerful Melanie - Thank you
Thank you, Melanie.
It's the middle of the night here. Working on this subject matter keeps me awake or wakes me up as the mind won't shut off and wants answers.
Your words have sealed my peace so I can go back to bed to rest comfortably in healing light and power.
I am my own (healthy) supply now.
God bless you, your staff, and familes. ✝🇨🇦
Well said Melanie!! Wise words 🌟🌟🌟💯 Thank you 🌹😘
OK... I commented at the beginning of the video .....now... Wow , thank you for your insight, you describe it all very well
Thank you so much for helping me to understand that last part of this video... It brought great insight to me thank you...
Evil.yes.melania is super smart and honest..love her truth.isnt the codependent also separated but has good intentions!!!
Melanie your course and free teachings are the only way. When yo feel it and take power back oh my goodness it’s quicker then the decades of life being a victim, and years of further abuse. Thank you I’ve done shadow work on myself and my base is solid. There are more then one of those abusers out there, so the only way forward is levelling up yourself 😘🙏🏼😇
Thank you Sally! Love to you sweetheart xoxox
Melanie Tonia Evans thanks to you, and I grow stronger each day, and I can see where I would have had heart attack or been sectioned if I hadn’t found your help. Still going through hell but not hiding with fear and confusion. Found my power my inner self and triggers😮 so many attacks and I’m not going under. Thank you and all that take their control of never interacting with these broken people ever again. Sadly there are a lot out there. 😘🙏🏼😇
This is huge!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Excellent as usual!
Thank you so much Melanie!!
You are drop dead gorgeous. Plus your a great life-coach.
Brag sometime you are very accomplished.
For the GLORY of GOD shines through anything!!
They believe that "They" are as GOD, a great fall from grace......nothing genuine about the kook I'm with,45 yrs now. I always thought something was not real about him, just learned about narcissist behavior about 3 yrs ago, Thank God !
Beautiful Melanie. Thank you ☺️ 😘
Thank you Melanie.
Thank you for this video my daughter has suffered so much from her narcissistic ex I really want her to get her light back He has done so much damage 💔
I saw the demon in him, the rage, the destructive force. I saw the hate in his eyes. But he did not realize who I am when I start to use my power and that scared him, he told me he is scared of me.
Do the demons actually CONTROL them? Is there no way for them to say “no” to what the demons tempt them to do? And resist it...?
Evil is false power. The Light (God) wins always. Yes! Yes! Yes!
Do the demons actually CONTROL them? Is there no way for them to say “no” to what the demons tempt them to do? And resist it...?
I am in recovery and recovering and still receiving terrible narcissistic abuse. I have subscribe to any channels and listen to many different points of view. No one and I mean no one has hit it spot on as you did in this video. Cheers
Wow Melanie! You are so beautiful. You truly are a solider for our loving God! Thank you
Such a GREAT video!!! 🙏❤🙏
Thank you so much. I thought I was crazy, noticing when I am feeling scared, even driving, I attract crazy people, mean people. It's not in my head. I am struggling with a narcissist and I need to empower myself because I notice this, he tries everything to constantly berate me, he will never give up. I feel guilt, he will use the guilt almost psychically to hurt me. It's sickening especially when it's a relentless parent.
Melanie, I need prayer and help with breaking this demonic hold my mother and her narcissistic family members are keeping on me to have me as their supply as their scapegoat to maliciously abuse me by isolation, verbal abuse and by keeping the one thing they know are most precious to me, my children. Now my mother and aunt are threatening to have them put with a foster family and keeping anyone who will listen to believe the lie that I am not working to become better and have my kids home with me. It's their attacks and the fact of them keeping my kids from seeing me and and using the child support money to keep me under fear. I know God has said enough is enough!!! Finally proof about how brutal and malicious my mother and aunt really are was recorded on a voice-mail and I played it for my CAS worker. A new worker who has faith and finally believes me that this woman who says she loves me and my kids is an abuser
You're brilliant, Melanie and have been one of the major inspirational people in my ever-evolving healing journey. One question if I may: Before I woke up enough to realize that the necessary thing for me to do was to go no contact with my highly toxic family of origin whose dynamic is one where our mother has major covert malignant NPD traits, dad enabler, flying monkey siblings, me the scapegoat . . . and as is the case with many others who identify with scapegoat role, once I began to try to set healthy boundaries the mobbing began and (much more to story), but I realize now that walking away quietly would have been the wise thing to do. Instead, I basically let them get the best of me and angrily spoke my mind and called out their behavior and character traits (never used word narc, but may as well have). Smear campaign followed and on-going. It's been a year now and undiagnosed covert malignant vengeful mother is still attempting to bait me and contacting anyone I know who will listen to her to spin a web of ridiculousness. Thankfully, the people who matter most to me (my life-long family of friends, my husband, kids and in-laws) haven't been fooled. Almost everyone else has, including church members. So here is my question: Do you think I should try to show my absence of fear and simultaneously ward off any continued vengeful obsession by sending anything in the way of an acknowledgement that I recognize that my anger and frustration is no longer something I feel or take personally and that time has allowed me to realize that while we may never see eye to eye, I wish them well and did not wish to end on notes of unkind words?
Contacting them will change nothing. Just keep up with no contact and hope that they eventually find a new target.
@@slipthru2554 Thank you. That reassurance is so helpful, especially when the rumination monster wakes me up at night!
Wow.. that was great.
Evil, period
Thank you!
My malignant npd ex husband is a sadistic demonic creature. He thrives off evil he causes and then slithers back down to his hole and hides while blaming everyone else for his evil
Do the demons actually CONTROL them? Is there no way for them to say “no” to what the demons tempt them to do? And resist it...?
Thank you ❤️🙏 Truth be told
You are a ROCKSTAR MELANIE THIS IS SO AWESOME 😎!!!!!!!
Thank you so much Christy! xoxo
Oh I surely understand cuz I just did it amongst a group of people in my life...family and kids
you used a few words that have echoed in my soul... thank you,
You are so welcome Charla xoxo
My narc husband of 30 yrs straight up told me that he was attracted to my light. He decieved me soo bad. When they find God can they change?
NO ! they use GOD.to cheat others
They won't find God, unfortunately, but you can pray for them from afar. My narc straight up told me at the end when he finally admitted the truth to me because he knew I knew too much "but Satan is pleasure baby and it was so delicious to slowly destroy someone so pure, loving, and innocent. I wish you could join my harem of delight. I know I told you you were my soulmate and I loved you, but I've been doing this to so many people the whole time...men, women, transvestites, anyone who is damaged or perverted. Too bad you can't just join in willingly. I love you"
After I first fell for him, he would change personalities and have several different demons come forth to torture me. They had names. I thought he had D.I.D and felt sorry for him. Once when he presented a demon to me and said he was possessed, I laughed out of exasperation and dared it to enter me. The next night it did try. Something evil came into my room, entered like a black ink through the veins of my left arm, made me extremely ill, lights turned off. When I finally went to see a priest, the next day my car flipped over. I was in literal Hell for about two years until I escaped and have been healing with Jesus since. I swear I could write a book lol
@@Veronica.John10-10 You have been through horror friend. I am happy to hear you separated yourself from it now. I wish you mercy, blessings and power of Allah to shine in your soul for this is a battle and you are now an awakened soul.
@@Veronica.John10-10 Wow!! So glad you got away. My narc had a a black widow spider on a web crawling right up his arm. Freaked me out.
@@anlfrat8411 I appreciate your sentiment
You are a so wonderful. Thank you .
speak the word
I Love this Video ❤️🙏🏻❤️
Wow... You hit it in the nose. So, what is this QUIZ? I want to take it actually. Where do I find it again?
Hi Toni, here it is, I hope this helps... www.melanietoniaevans.com/quiz xoxox
Do the demons actually CONTROL them? Is there no way for them to say “no” to what the demons tempt them to do? And resist it...
I am so glad that you have gone into the "territory" that you have. Crazy town is Hell.
Gratefully i am in a SPACE & TIME ib my life where "there really is nuthin left.to do" thank you Melanie for believing in YOURSELF & thee higher power of the souls oneness!!
See you in thrive sessions! In'Lakech
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I haven't watched this yet but I feel like the battle between empathic person and narcissist is rather like the dark side versus the light side in star wars!
I know that my malignant narc husband of 21 years *today* -which he has successfully ruined, from the *moment* we got up this morning. Before my eyes had even opened all the way at 5am, he was calling my precious kitty Gizmo a "fucking bastard" for meowing for breakfast. Seriously? From there nothing was right. Complaining.. passive aggressive behavior, silent treatment, then he's *back* to bed at 9am, with no word to me, on and on.
*Then* he leaves, comes back and presents me with red roses and says "Happy Anniversary" we do a kiss. Later on I see this card on the counter still sealed in plastic. Evidently his card to me, but he strangely left it there like that instead of actually giving it w the roses.. 🤔😐How utterly weird!
So here I am, sitting in my car in the garage typing this comment.
I know he has no light in him.
He's not connected at all to source, to himself, to anything. When he's verbally attacking me, his eyes are pitch black. There are no windows to a soul. They lead to nowhere. Once like shimmering pools of green & gray... They have died and gone flat. No compassion.
I have deeper and more meaningful conversations with strangers, like at the store or whatever, who seem to gravitate towards me/me to them and we can talk for hours! I can make a friend wherever I go and he hates it. He can be awful to *me* but if someone should call on his phone or come up to us, wow! he switches into a super nice, polite, gracious guy. 🤢🤮🙉
Oh well. My light out shines his darkness a million times over. I'm solid with my authentic self and no longer react to his spoiled toddler ways.
Love to all here who can understand and related to what I just said.
Namaste 🦋🌺🕊️
Thank you for sharing Jane and my heart goes out to you sweetheart
They wreck special occasions a lot. I feel your pain and confusion. Been there so many times. Keep your own beautiful light shining - it will protect you.
@Melanie Tonia Evans With much, much respect to you, it threw me listening to this. Firstly, the 'new age spirituality' terminology used eg 'Source' and 'Oneness', etc. emphasised like a mantra, which I found very difficult to cope with given the lack of neutrality ie not everyone in your audience subscribes to new age ideology and I felt like I was subtlely being indoctrinated into the ideology via narcissism. I know I never felt that before, which is why I'm a subscriber.
Also, I didn't quite understand why you didn't believe evil existed before. To me, that's like saying you didn't believe good existed before. Both are all around us and being played out in our actions. How can one not think a psychopathic serial killer is not a worldly example of evil???
I'm just curious as to why you didn't believe evil existed prior? Thank you.
You are nice :). Good Channel! ;).
Ok, so who is going to read vampire myths?
Ummm....just wow. 😳
I'm in an immediate crisis with my mother. I will go to your website and see if I can purchase an EMERGENCY (for me) situation consultation or coaching session. I have 6 weeks to level up and leave. Explain later.
You're saving lives.
Hi Rhian, please write into my support team at support@melanietoniaevans.com and someone will be able to help you with options xoox
This song has been going through my head all day after watching this video.....
Patty Griffin's "No Bad News"
"And we won't be afraid, we won't be afraid, and though the darkness may come our way
We won't be afraid to be alive anymore
And we'll grow kindness in our hearts for all the strangers among us
Till there are no strangers anymore"
"Don't bring me bad news, no bad news
I don't need none of your bad news today
You can't have my fear, I've got nothing to lose, can't have my fear
I'm not getting out of here alive anyway
And I don't need none of these things, I don't need none of these things
I've been handed
And the bird of peace is flying over, she's flying over and
Coming in for a landing"
Probably her best performance of it here: //ua-cam.com/video/Jac5tXhMUrE/v-deo.html
My kids father still the same narc I haven't been with him over 10 years he still the same insulting rude mean person they never change calling me names running me down lol i told him have a nice day!!
very helpful for me, but it's my daughter who needs awakening to narcissism and I can't reason with her on this, so I have had no choice but to go no contact and it's hurting me like hell. If I send her a video on this, she tells him and he replies that you can't believe everything you see on the internet or it's your mother whose the narc and is jealous of what we have. He had nothing when he got involved with my girl and now has a lovely house, nice suv etc. etc. My daughter and I just received our share of our inheritance and she's sharing it all with him. I have been completely discarded from my daughter and grandkids because of him and it makes me sick. I pray each night that God will make her see what she's dealing with. Heaven help me.