I love how all the girls (except 1 I think), bumped up the guy “if he’s rich”, but then when asked about him having a luxury car or a boat many said they’re “not into the material stuff”… yeah right! 🤦🏻♂️
As a guy, I think money is more of a sign that you've got your shit together and was smart enough to win at the game of life. Would you be surprised if a rich woman wanted a man who is also rich? By your logic that wouldn't make sense since she can already get the material stuff like cars and jewelry. Money is a way to signal competence.
@@sergioliveras9701 remember that women are more socially programmable and malleable. Their mode of survivability, as dictated by biology, is agreeability. So yes their answers are based off of what society has been hammering into them.
There's a difference. Being rich doesn't mean you need to spend money on cars or boats. I think what they prefer is rich, but spending/investing wisely. Look at famous athletes - many are rich during their careers, but end up broke. So I guess luxury car or boat is actually a kind of red flag.
So tall, wealthy, handsome, a boat, nice car, good body, no crocs, no thong sandals, no cargo shorts, keep your nails short and not painted. Wow ! Who would have thought it. Thanks for confirming what every man already knew.
I feel like modern culture and social media have an impact about what kind of man women are looking for. We all know that 90 percent of men are not over 6 foot tall, rich, have a boat and dress nicely. It has become harder for a guy to find a girl these days because all these expectations doesn't meet. I do understand that women want a secure man, but I feel like that if this trend is getting more popular and women expect more out of men, people won't find a significant other and the amount of singles would sky rocket.
I feel like one of the issues here is the sample of women in the video - they're all good looking, seemingly fun and confident, someone else in the comments mentioned they are in modeling and real estate. They will be looking for top of the crop and it's justified. The average standards will be lower for sure - find yourself a 7 that works at McDonald's.
@@JB-mh5xy I wish I wasn’t! Like why does it matter when the person saying it is 4’11 😭, I understand maybe wanting someone a bit taller than you, but ONLY you, don’t shoot for the stars when you have no arrows.
@@Nymph_Poppy same, I’ve found guys shorter than me attractive before. Ideally, I’d want same height, but I also like tall and short. Had experience crushing on both tall guys and short. Basically, I like guys in almost all heights lol.
I’m a tall guy 6’3 and I never realized how superficial women are nowadays to my shorter brethren. Like damn. Going from a 10 to a 1 just based off height. King if you’re watching this, keep strong. There’s non-superficial women still out there. 💪
there only 4 , one by continent, the rest is a bunch of superficial whores or pathological liars who will deny everything but will still proceed to discriminate men according to their height or their wealth WHILE refusing to be discriminate ( because they' re all 10 of course ) .
@@Criner05 exactly. Everything that women wants from a man....at least physically...is almost entirely genetic. Heught, facial structure, hair, d size. Yet a guy wanting a girl whos not overweight is a moster who will be shamed lol
moral of the story is to be yourself - from the start. imagine the women that con themselves into a higher class with world class makeup and have to keep up appearances for the rest of their lives. not gonna win against mother nature, sorry.
honestly she is still not worthy of your time. Just because the standard for women is so damm low does not mean you dont need to demand more. just think about it do you want your wife or life parter to be stupid!? Its a clear no for me i would rather die alone than bring more stupidity into this world.
I am 5'4'' and when I saw the "but he's short" I knew what was coming. I don't blame them as they can't control what they're attracted to but affects me a lot every time. I'm sad as it is something I can't change but affects me a lot. It's what it's.
Don’t worry too much about it, king. Trust me, if you’re funny, charismatic, and confident, women are going to be attractive to you. Not all of em, of course.
I feel the same way. I am under 5'6" living in a country where the average height for guys is closer to 6', maybe taller. And the fact that women under 5'4 want a guy who is at least 6' tall when guys like us in the 5'4 - 5'8 range would be enough is a sad reality. But like you said, that's how it is.
Me too, bro. I'm 5'3". Don't be sad about it though, the girls that won't give you/us a chance, they're not the ones we want anyway. Get fit (if you aren't already). Get your status up (if it isn't already). Get your money up (if it's not already). Go attract what you want. Don't chase these silly broads. Stay up!
This actually good thing. Means they can spend more time with the lady, not be out late, and focus solely on her. At the end of the day, as long as you provide for them, they could care less what you do on your free time.
@Joe trust me bro. I’m 5’10-5’11 and around 7 looks and for most woman you are first in line. You good my guy just be more confident if you are over 6 feet you should have nothing to worry about.
I love how girls can instantly dismiss a short guy (something that he can't help) but we're not allowed to bring up the fact that you're too fat. That would be "fat shaming".
Women are fare less judgemental then men are on the looks the pardment but they are alot more rough on other aspects like charm, funnyness, social intelligence and other parts of being the man.
@@Dylanfrias24 no height is on the looks department and as men we can make up for lag of height in other ways. Studies have shown that the female brain changes its preferences based on how attracted they feel towards your vibe and energy. Once in love with a guy they find those less attractive traits cute or adorable and change their preferences to match the guy she is with. Then that guy becomes her type. Their is of course a unilateral profil most women go after but thats not to say its the be all in a relationship. Survivel skills are fare more important to women as it determines your place in the tribe and how well your kids will do in life. Being determined on your goals as a man is something women look for because the change of getting anywhere in life is bigger if to go for it instead of backing down then things get tough.
One girl said if he's a 5 but super stylish and dresses well he's a 9. Sorry but no amount of clothing and / or accessories can take a guy from a 5 to a 9 lol
I'd say with a little extra weight on me, I'm still a 6.5 and I dress like I don't care, too. If I put on a super nice gulf shirt, drove my new BMW, flashed that I'm a millionaire all over the place and even smiled, I'm at best an 8. However, I'm feeling bold and only need to be an 8 at 58 yrs old, to get 1/5 women to go on vacation with me, while I pay and get lucky. We'll see how that works, in practice. I'll be damned if I'm willing to work for it anymore.
That's what I was thinking lol.. some of their drastic number changes seemed ridiculous. Like 3 guy to a 7 if he's funny or 4 going to an 8 just cause he smelled good. Or.a 9 but wear Crocs going down to a 2? Loll
Idk, in today's word women love a well dressed man, maybe being stylish it wouldn't be a huge 9 but it will definitely bump up to a 7 imo, a well dressed man turns heads everywhere, that's why it's called dress to impress, alot of men seem to forget that we like when women dress up and so do women like when men dress up, hell most women like a man with a juicy ass too 😂
The height thing is always weird. I had this girl reject me because I was 5' 9 and she needed "a guy above 6ft". Wanna guess how tall she was? 4'11. Like I totally respect preference, but if I tower over you as it is, what difference does a few inches make?
even if she was 5'5-5'6 I would be pissed off if she rejected u but 4'11 holy fuck she tryna look like a human standing next to a paraceratherium dating a 6ft guy some ppl be crazy af lmao
Yeah this just confirms the whole height thing for me. All these people try to gaslight short guys by saying "Not all girls care about height"...yeah so what maybe 2 out of 100 women don't care about height, and the rest are like the girls in this vid, who hear "he's a ten" and then hear "but he's short" and you can literally see the disgust in their faces, and of course the number drops WAY down. Courtney trying to save some face by asking them "what if he's the same height as you?"....still doesn't save it. All the girls who brought the number up slightly after getting asked that, just remember, they know they are on camera and basically being given a second chance by Courtney to not look COMPLETELY shallow, so they only knock the number down "a little". Liars.
But then if you say something like "I'm not really into women with small tits" or even that you don't like overweight women you are going to get cancelled. The double standard here is so disgusting.
It’s not shallow to have physical preferences bruh. It’s literally ingrained in our DNA to be attracted to certain traits. Being tall is a good indicator of genes in men, it displays masculine traits. The opposite is true for women, smaller and more petite women display feminine traits more prominently. I’d like to see how many men would jump at the chance to date a woman 8 inches taller that has biceps bigger than your head.
@@schlass8079 perhaps don’t state your tit preferences on Twitter then. And I don’t think a woman on Twitter saying “I’d only fuck a guy 6’2+” would go over super well either. Maybe some women back her up, but all kinds of men would call her out on it. The same would be true with the roles reversed. A guy saying “gotta have D-cups or don’t talk to me” would get a lot of backlash but there’d also be a lot of men there to agree. Everyone is allowed to be attracted to certain things. Telling a girl you wouldn’t date her because of small tits would get you the same reaction as what you guys are showing here and in the rest of this comment section because of what some women said about height. Yes, no matter your gender if you have a physical trait holding you back, it sucks. But it goes both ways.
He's a 9 but wears cargo shorts "oh he's a 3".. Sure slap a pair of Cargo shorts on Chris Hemsworth or Brad Pitt or whatever high ranked guy. They wouldn't even notice the shorts. What stupid thing is that.
I met a girl and we get along really well. She compliments me with you smell good, you're a good listener, you're a good person, you look good but you're a little too small. The only problem is that I'm the same size as her. I'm fucking sick of it
ify homie. height and facial features are hard or impossible to change. yet if you smell bad, or fat, or an unfunny guy you can change it with enough effort.
I loved how one lady kept the score unchanged when directly told that the guy was rich but when told that the guy had a luxury car she increased the score from 6 to 8 and when told that the guy had a boat, she doubled the score from 5 to 10 . That was super interesting!! Talk about Hypocrisy!!!
@@lukeschilperoort9934 agree. Luxury means comfortability for her and status and high value for him. Women don't care much about money more than the quality of life that money provides. The specific lady associated money with interest on her part, however a luxury car and a boat as high quality lifestyle which she has no problem with.
@@ronmexico8383 I grew up religious, fell out of it as I got older, but now I’m reconsidering 😂 in all seriousness, I have my gripes with Christianity, but I truly believe the only way to find an incredibly faithful women is one who is serious about faith
Yea, but most women really don't 'know' 6 feet when they see it. It is a generalization. They like to look at scruffy beards, but like kissing shaved baby-faces. And while their smart-assed 6' guy (not that all 6' guys are smart-assed) is showing off, you can catch them eye to eye, make a connection they appreciate. Remember, confidence is not the same as cocky, or smart-assed. They may initially go toward the cocky, but that is short-lived. Be there when they figure it out. If they don't notice you, you are better off. Similarly, we may want the bikini girl until we learn there is no substance. Once they're connected, they tend to hang on!! 😉 💯💫 💃🕺
@@ronmexico8383 I understand, and you may be right - as hard as it is to let go... If she is not sincere, you got to be strong, and move on. 💪 💯 ✨️ Stronger than me for sure, as I hardly could. I think what worked for me was avoiding the relationship before it started based on her character. Of course, I grew up in a very small town. Not that those girls were bad, but I knew them so well. By knowing people from age 5 to age 18, you learn a lot. Look at it from her side, sure they have different desires, characteristics they are looking for. Would you marry you? 🤔 You are a great guy, show it by being who you are. I am not perfect, and made plenty of mistakes. Still do. Been with my wife 26 years, so far. Yes, I am aware when I am jobless, I had better get something fast. They (family) need me. It is truly the wild west, still. If you think otherwise, that is the mistake. There are no technological advantages. Let's gooooo.... That has to be your mentality.
The height thing was honestly disgusting. And I am at 5' 11 so am not short. Even if they are shorter than the guy, they were still knocking points off. Just unbelievable. It's also hilarious to see how much fashion means, when fashion CONSTANTLY changes. It would be interesting to see the same girls' responses in few years when the same trends they hate currently come back into style.
EXACTLY--fashion is so fickle! Saying one of these females would instantly ignore me or dump me for wearing cargo shorts when it's 99 is about as stupid as a female that once dumped me for showing I was learning how to play the guitar, doing a really good instrumental rendition of "Smoke on the Water" for her. While I get the height thing...it's very superficial and--you said it--disgusting. It's like they equated lack of height to lack of intelligence, success, no ability, no talent...silly, really.
i don't have a problem with the ladies having preferences on height and things of that nature all i ask for as a guy is for some women online to stop losing their minds and calling men all sorts of names because we don't like fat women or promiscuous women .....
Another slippy subject... beware, exposing double standard make them angry haha 🤷♂️🤣 tate ,freshand and other guys do it and are called realy badly, ofthen.
You can't tell them that you don't like promiscuous women or they'll pretend to have integrity. Have to keep that a secret and definitely make them wonder.
@@fusionoffire8416 You're not a solid 8. Go watch videos by Wheat Waffles to understand how to rate men. Even if you were a 7 you'd have a ton of options. And 8 is a near perfect man who has amazing jawline, hunter eyes, perfect eyebrows, and a gym body.
I am 5.3 and all my girls including current one are above 5.5. It all depends on men. Don’t let your height discourage you because height isn’t that important when it comes to healthy relationship.
No. A man who is shorter than his woman is not normal in a biological point of view, even animals understand that and always have the man who is taller and bigger than the woman. And we will not even talk of your masculinity who will just be destroyed by the fact that you woman is taller than you, let's be real one second. Short bros you can find a woman who is shorter than you, just have to find it, i know a short guy who find a 4"1 woman and he is in an excellent relationship with her.
@jundullah9869 Female clown fish are usually bigger than male clown fish. Insects, spiders, and other invertebrates usually have a bigger female mate. In reptiles, females are often bigger. Female owls are often bigger than males. As for mammals, smaller male wolves breeding with larger female wolves isn't unheard of. However, note that most animals aren't nearly as monogamous as 90% of bird species. Humans are not even biologically predisposed to monogamy. - Most of our relationship preferences, including monogamy, have cultural factors. There are cultures that have far less emphasis on height. For example, there are African tribal cultures that believe the best spiritual match are those with the same height.
Loved the video. Suggestions for part 2: He's a 6, and has a lot of hot female friends He's a 9, and doesn't text much He's a 5, and is a social media influencer He's an 8, and lives with his parents
@@CourtneyRyan - we also need a baseline # of guys each woman considers datable. Eg some might date a guy who's a 5 or a 6, but others might only date 7s and up. Thanks.
I dont ever wanna hear about "shitty men" ever again when you're getting duped by "stylish clothes". Yeesh one thing I've noticed in the dating scene is women are pretty much embracing everything they hated and becoming it themselves. Now you have women asking "where all the good men at?" Im sorry to say its not the men. Its you. ALOT of you
@@mediterraneandiet2483 Mastercard, Richelieus at your feet, bluefin tuna in the fridge, it's more important than having a personnality and a simple good hygiene. But these woman must worth it.
@@mediterraneandiet2483 Actually, you don't even need to be "fit", just dont be a big blob. Plus, most of these features are controllable with a good style.
I actually don't think it's very loving. It's sugar coating. The loving thing isn't to help men feel closer to societal standards in their own minds.......the loving thing is to give people the truth about how people really see the world....and then let people decide whether they want to participate in that or not.
The interesting point is not that height matters, but that while they say “6 foot minimum”, they each also say, “Oh, he’s taller than me? That’s okay.” Those are two different standards to these women (girls, actually): 1-what is his social status (6-foot); 2-does his presence make me feel feminine (taller than me). And the second is the more important to them, because social status can be had many ways
Courtney: He's a 10 but he wears flip flops, cargo shorts, has long nails, has a mustache, and he's short Girls: he's a 1 Courtney: He's a 1 but he wears flip flops, cargo shorts, has long nails, has a mustache, he's short.... But he's rich Girls: he's a 10
@@suprovo5117 you literally missed the point and it's not the wrong mindset. It's the reality of the situation and men need to be on their mission. Men need to realize they have to build their value. A man's value in society is built through acquiring resources. When you realize that you'll achieve your goals.
The reality is: a lot of superficial women care a lot more about what their (girl)friends will think of their boyfriend and the society in general than men do when picking a girlfriend. That's why money, height etc. matter to them as they want not only themselves but their boyfriends to be admired as well, even if they are miserable with those guys and they are not a good fit for them at all.
Yes. They want a man who is respected (better allies) and in-demand (an indicator that they made a good choice). And what's wrong with that? Nothing. Men are not clamoring for the kindest mate, or else they would pursue widowed grannies.
@Luc Germain I hear that. I'm a pretty frugal guy, and my former-gf started coming at me about "going out more." Where was this coming from? Her word choice was unusual. She was getting it from her friends. That said, evolution likely endowed women with an even stronger heuristic to go with the crowd. Peer-conformity is pretty reliable. Men tend to be less agreeable because males are nature's way of rolling the dice -- taking bigger risks for bigger rewards. Some men father dozens of children, many father none at all.
Most men date women that they can show off to their friends. They ignored the average girl, because they rather go after the ig model, because it looks better. Men have for years dated the wrong woman and been miserable. You won't date a woman pass a certain age, even if your a relic. The audacity to call out women, when men created the blueprint on how to be shallow.
That's why i have a bit less respect on average for women than I do men - man or woman...thinking for yourself is what makes you an individual. A large majority of women I've met in my life have this...they aren't truly sovereign individuals...they are HIGHLY influenceable by society. More than most men.
I would like to see (the flip side) how "guys rate girls" based on looks, personality, smarts and honesty as they discover these things about their dates. What matters most in the long run in dating and relationships?
Men are really fucking simple. If she is hot and she is kind thats an instant boner from every male. Personalty type of whatever shit it is doesnt matter if she has those two things while women want at least 9 different things
She's an 8 but a meth user... An 8. She's a 7 but an escort... Hmm, a 7. She's 3 but she has really cool ... Still a 3. She's a 9 but wants to meet your family... No.
@@zacharystapleton932 isn't it obvious? If you make 2 person stand together and both are 100% same in every way just one has more money than the other, girls will only go to the person who has more money
"He's a 10 but an introvert" : "Eww, major creep. A zero!" "He's a 2 but wears cargo pants, and every pocket is stuffed with $100 bills" : "Ooooh, a 10!"
This is perhaps one of the most cringey, but best videos I think I’ve ever seen. It grows on me with each viewing. My initial reaction was that the women were not being entirely honest with themselves but their sincerity is what is driving their answers to be so incredible. Let’s review the astounding findings: Hot guys can turn these women off significantly if they wear cargo shorts. I’m wearing cargo shorts as I type this (my wife bought them for me.) Another astounding finding: The least pretty girls (and yeah, if us men can be labeled from 1/10, so can they) are the ones who appeared to have the most demanding standards. On the man’s side, none of the Chads I know would have kicked an 8/10 woman out of the bed for wearing crocs and cargo shorts. This video begs the question on one of Courtney’s messages in that men should not play games, but for the less attractive women, gamers will be largely the ones hitting on them. I’m a 4/10, repeat a 4/10 by these women’s standards and I married an 8 when I was 35. My emotions are all over the place watching this and now I’m sort of sad. Imagine if a man who was ok looking, a bit frumpy, said he didn’t find women less than a cheerleader “attractive” and was turned off by women wearing pants or glasses. Such men are rare because they generally get a reality check when no women whatsoever approach them, much less the cheerleaders. Our society is full of plain looking women who are utterly useless for family relationships.
Idk about that my friend...gamers would approach women? Probably 99% of them don't. Sure, the nerds/gamers can be cocky in their comments behind a keyboard while watching a twitch girl playing videos games and i saw some comments like: "you're the reincanation of Aphrodite on earth", but that's behind a keyboard, everyone can do. Would they have the guts to say such a comment face to face? Probably not.
@@titansupes hum, ok...well, i guess that goes the same way...it doesn't matter if you're handsome and be still quiet in a corner. That's why some shy guys thought that because they would think themselves at least 7/10 if they were just quiet one girl would noticed them and would go talk to them or at least give some signs for the guy to approach * highschool memories intensifies * lol. But i would say that know what to say and act and if adding to that, good looks, a guy wouldn't need to try so hard to be sucesseful for those who don't have that attribute to play with.
Hahaha yeah these chicks are a trip. If he wears flip-flops or crocs he goes down 5 points, if he’s funny he goes up 3 points, if he’s short he goes down 2 points, if he’s rich he goes up 5 points. W/e. This small sample size of women is too all over the place to give anything of value other than cringe-entertainment. Plus, they’re all fairly young. At age 35, they’ll either be married or fighting with each other to get with a 5’3”, 200 lbs. bald guy divorced with two kids 😂
Courtney, how honest do you think these ladies are when they respond with these? I ask not because I believe they would intentionally lie, but when they said that a funny 3 would turn into a 7, for example, I would doubt it. I don’t think a young Danny DeVito could joke his way to a 7.
Yea some of their answers just seemed ridiculous at how low or how high the number went based on something innocuous. Like if a guy smells "delicious" that's a 4 goes up to an 8? Or a 3 going up to a 7? I highly doubt that lol
This was extremely entertaining and educational. The ladies replies and reactions are spontaneous and natural. It would be nice to see them described what these numbers mean to them.
"If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said a faster horse." - Henry Ford. This video has entertainment value, but the truth is that these girls would date many different types of guys, even ones they would rate below 5. Confidence trumps most shortcomings; laughter helps even more.
I agree, in fact if you're on the shorter side and have the confidence and charisma, that speaks volume about your character and women love that. It's a primal innate attraction to them.
The confidence nonsense again. Most of you don't even know what attractive confidence looks like. Nothing trumps most shortcomings. Love the quote tho. Very apropos. Women don't know what they like.
Yeah, maybe in the 90's they would date men they consider a 5, but now we have internet dating, so each of these women can match with thousands of men per night. They have so many options they don't need to drop their standards, and they'd only date guys they consider a 10.
MET A GIRL ONLINE - Told her I was 6'6". She was 5'10". When she met me she was surprised that I actually had told the truth. She said almost every guy she had met online had lied about their height. Somehow they said they were exactly 6' even. Then showed up and were anywhere from 5'7"-5'11".
The point of this video: do/wear anything you want. Somewhere in this big ass world is a girl waiting for you that is going to like how you act and look like! Stay strong brahs and work on yourselfs 💪💪
They want the guy that they wanna be seen with the one that all the girls will drool all over because it makes them feel "hey this is my man check it out" they dont want no 5'6 guy its an emberassment to them and their social status. they could care less if youre a great guy but if youre not meeting todays standards of being tall then they dont want u. the small percentage of women out there that do this tho and those are the ones that should be treated well but in the end its always the bad ones that treat them like a number that theyre attracted to cause they like drama and it keeps them thinking if they are good enough.
Even when TV shows from our childhoods, like the Bernstein Bears and Veggie Tales, taught us that the inside is far more important, yet many people would rather keep their insides locked up to strangers, so the outside is all we have to go off of.
@@grahamdamberger7130 I dont see it like that at all, its not difficult to see the inner person you just have to put some time into it. Most women just aren’t interested, it’s all about tall dark and handsome.
@@hughjohns9110 This. There has to be a willingness to appreciate what is inside. An appreciation and desire to get know someone's true self. I think many women actually have this appreciation, they just don't know that they do. Blame culture, animal nature...whatever you want. But they are under a very dense illusion.
I'd like to thank this video, I'm going to start wearing black light washed ripped jeans, paint my nails black, and wear black cargo shorts for my whole goth wardrobe. I was having trouble finding good pants that were as well done as my shirt but now I know what I must do. This way I can filter as many materialistic basic women as possible and either die alone with dignity or find a woman who truly loves me. Thank you for making this video. I mean I am tall, and some women have said I look good, but I'll try as hard as I can to hold myself back.
I feel ya, I'm a good-looking woman and I've realized that hiding my "beauty" is in fact only getting rid of the shallow men who are after me only because of my looks. If the vibe is right, it doesn't matter what you wear or if you're perfectly polished.
Courtney great episode yet again , I would love to see this but roles reversed and get several of your guy mates to answer the questions?! Keep up the sick content
Will there ever be a video addressing the psychological immaturity , projection (mostly appearance based) cognitive distortions and dissonance pop culture women/men deal with?
I enjoyed this I'm 5'7 and I'm pretty successful with women even when their taller. It just shows me that I'm fighting against the odds but still winning must be doing something right.
Great to hear that, keep rocking man! I'm 5'6 and was very unsuccessful until I had one of the hottest girls in town who is even a little taller than me. Financially I'm doing very well but that was not the main reason. She had turned down countless rich, tall guys before she met me. These rules and generalizations are never useful because there are so many exceptions. You should never worry about that crap and just be confident and do your thing.
@@WorstPaperCut I agree with the countries listed by Rick. I was fortunate to find true love. Where it was understood it was about what we could give to another rather than what we could take, about building something together over seeking perfection, etc. Opposite from the general attitude in California where I reside.
This video was great, basically reinforced the idea I already had of what interests women most in the dating space. Continue working out 5 times a week, stay on the grind towards your financial goals and now I need to get into stand up comedy.
3:10 she looks like she's at the age that she doesn't get to make the choice anymore. Oh well lmao the wall is undefeated 🤣 I'm sure she's a fun conversation but sometimes you have to wonder if she gets any attention offline
@@LatimusChadimus lol sadly i fell for it; that girl gave me hope in the beginning. "hes a 4, but rich" and she didnt change the rating. but throughout the video, if the guy had some luxury item, she would rate him higher. so the money doesnt matter, but the material stuff does... alright then
I think the blonde is the most honest, always answering fast and with confidence, I think she was more clear about what she is looking for than the other girls and this is curious because to me she is the most attractive, maybe she has more options and that's why she can be more demanding.
Girls like a taller guy that’s in good shape because they feel inherently safer. They also like a guy with some money because again, more resources mean more safety, better quality of life for them. They like a well groomed, well dressed guy because it shows he cares about his partners likes and dislikes. Guys. Get a good job. Work out. Take care of yourself. Have interests and hobbies. Be interesting, be confident but never be afraid to laugh at yourself. When you’re living in a happy universe, you’ll attract women that want to share it with you. Would you want to date you? Start there
This was an interesting interview. The whole "girls love a tall guy" thing is clearly no cliche. I imagine, had you been specific and asked "would the guy benefit from being over 6ft tall?" there would have been a very marked uptick in the scores at almost any base level of attractiveness and from every woman you interviewed. That's pretty compelling.
Stay strong men. Spend your time with people who you ACTUALLY value. These ppl just seem shallow and honestly, quite dumb. THERE ARE SO MANY BETTER WOMEN OUT THERE, don't settle for less.
I don't think 9's or 10's exist in the eyes of men. At least not as a consensus. As a man I think guys can agree on a woman's attractiveness all the way up to an 8, after that 9's and 10's only exist in the eye of the beholder. What others may see as a 3 or 4 a man in love sees a 10. Sadly I don't think love changes a woman's eyes
I mean I've been with plenty of women taller than me so I guess it really is just a preference for some women because when you got personality and looks, some women just simply do not care how tall you are. Don't be discouraged fellas, these women are answering questions on the spot
Don’t worry men, soon they will also feel what we experience once they hit the wall. They develop a super power called invisibility for the rest of their lives.
Damm, as a 5'5'' dude the height one was brutal. But bothers, if you come in the CQB version, don't stress about it. Back in highschool almost of the girls in my class were taller than me, but the hottest and cutest girl ended up liking me because I was funny, had empathy, knew things that she didn't and payed attention. Work on yourself, get fit, healthy, smart, confident, and wealthy. Then get yourself out there and the right girl will appear. Stay strong brah, we will all make it!
The height one was just brutal and I'm 5'8 so not tall but not super short either. Kailee is 5'5 and a 5'7/8 goes from a 10 to a 6 jesus that's brutal. I get the whole being shorter/taller than someone. I don't think it's brutal when a tall girl says she wants a tall guy.. I just don't get how someone who is still taller than you (2-3" is a fair height difference) is so incredibly damning.
@@ellobopoderososdl4596 I'm afraid I have no idea who that is lol. I'll assume it's some sort of black pill YT'er which are honestly some of the worst channels out there. They take something that is reasonably true and then blow it out of proportion. I don't really see how it's black pill material to be dismayed by someone telling you that you're half as attractive (10 -> 6 is 40% which is basically half) because you're only 3 inches taller than them instead of 5 EDIT: Unless you were being genuine.. In which case please don't watch black pill shit
Rule 1 be tall Rule 2 don't be not attractive Rule 3 read minds, be funny, have money, be fit, be confident but not cocky, be good a de-escalating shit tests and crazy town if you want poon. yawn
These women who bring men from 10 to 4 or from 10 to 1 because he's not 6' are the same who repost stuff about how bad body shaming is for women. Imagine me telling "she's a 10 but she has 32A, she's a 4" The whole body positivity moment from TikTok/Instagram/twitter/Facebook will come to me and make posts about deplatforming me. But when you do it to men, ah, it's ok. nobody cares except other men, because we all know women will say one thing and do the other and then end up with cats and then come back, blaming us for not living up to their "standards"
Let's rate the same (or random women we've never met as they did) women on weight, facial symmetry, and education. Courtney, I think you should do a video on the reverse and then get your women's reactions to show the difference - you're good at that. Putting things in perspective.
The blonde (Stella) was brutal. I'm not sure if she just came across as frigid in this video, or if she really is like that, but some of the harshest ratings came from her.
Dear guys that are taking things to heart. It's all words until she meets you. Women bend their rules easily on things that aren't truly important if she is attracted to things that truly are.. and if she doesn't.. someone will
Society wants us to accept calling a man a female if he says he is a female trapped in a male's body and that's cool. I would accept that ONLY if I can tell the woman I'm a 6'2 man trapped in a short body (5'5) and she has to accept that and not reject me for being short. It should work both ways because in my mind and heart I think I'm equally good as a taller man and can achieve anything they can do. I've told women such things as I'm a tall man stuck in a short body for the past 32 years and it has never worked on any women that I've shown interest in.
Yeah no duh. Cause you also need to say I'm a fit dude stuck in a average body and a mega billionaire stuck in the body of a poor man. Then add your height, and the magic stick size you'll be golden. Also identify as their bf or husband
@@newlegend2402 DAMN! LOL! you just gave me a great idea hahaha Cheesy but funny. I can meet a woman and tell her "I identify as you being my girlfriend" LOL! I bet they would get a laugh hahaha Hey... women like to laugh right?
Courtney: "He is a 10, but short" The woman in green: "1" (blurt it out at no hesitation) For the sake of sympathy, it's not even necessary to humiliate a 10 guy to nearly no value whatsoever. While herself is only 5'3''.
An older lady revealed to me recently that she has to fight her shallow, surface level tendencies till this day! She said her husband of EIGHTEEN YEARS is less attractive whenever he puts his reading glasses on! Amazing! She HATES that about herself. This video TRULY reveals the pervasive superficiality of female nature.
bro, you really generalizing a whole subcategory of a species from these couple of girls in a video? jesus. This video definitely is an incel-maker, but damn, I do hope there are girls out there with more than half a brain
I’m 6’4 but I feel bad for the short guys out there. I know a couple people who struggle for being short. I feel like a women asking how tall are you is the same as asking them how much do you weigh
Enjoyable video. Would love to see a similar video about where men are asked the questions. For example “She’s a 9 but has tattoos” or “she’s an 8 but has had lip injections”, etc.
I really enjoyed all of the fun and honest answers from everyone. Was cool that it reinforces the obvious, that we are all unique and have different preferences. Video is a 10. Erica is a 10.
So a 5'10ft guy with broad shoulders, stocky-buff build(slight gut though), big strong arms,well groomed, stubbled out 7+/10 handsome face, swag walk, deep voice is probably a 3/10 to these goofy DODO birds. Yet, put a weak, ugly, goofy, 6ft 🤡 with a 6figure salary in front of them and they'd rate him an 8? 🤔😒
This was a good video. It lets me get a good feel of the female mindset. But, the question at the 9:41 mark was hilarious. Keep this kind of content coming.💯👍🔥
6:00 what do women have against slippers/flip-flops? 🤨 And westerners with feet in general? I'm the subcontinent, Arabia etc everyone always seats flip-flops
Ok wtf- height, something no one can actively control. They’re a ten and they’re taller than you and you still lower your rating??? Where as the mustache (if pulled off) something that is controlled- rating didn’t change! Women?! So what’s the height requirement that we can have to keep our ten spot? Let me guess- 6ft.
Some time ago I asked a couple of female friends what they thought about me physically, they looked at each other and one said I was an 8. I smiled back and said why an 8, she quickly responded cause you're short. Really? But I'm taller than both of you, they are 5'2 and 5'4, and I'm 5'7. I've lost a lot of weight in the last two years and changed my overall dress style and look so I had been feeling confident. It felt crappy that an 8 is the best I'll get since there's nothing I can do about height. The shorter of the two wanted to date me but I said no cause I don't date girls that weigh more than me - so there's that.
Actually this is the most informative video I've seen on dating. I see that you have another one in a similar vein that I'll watch after this one. It really answers a lot of the questions about some of the things that women look for or accept in men.
The way women have been trained by the media to write off short men is actually crazy. Every single response they give here is pretty accepting and logical (even of painted nails!!!) but if a guy is short he drops from a 10 to a 5 or 1? How is a guy painting his nails more acceptable than someone being born a little shorter? Truly a disconnect with reality. Lady, a shorter guy is still stronger than you and could have an 8 inch in his draws you don’t know about :)
Part of it could be from media yes. But a lot of it is biological. Women throughout history have been drawn to the stronger, more physically dominant men because they look more able to protect them. It's the same thing as guys liking women with an hourglass shaped body. That's also biology and is because men look for women that look like they're fertile and able to have their kids. Just accept that height plays a role and try to make up for it by building a good physique, being confident etc.
@@randomguy6221 as recently as like 150 years ago the average height of men was around 5’6-5’7. And there werent body builders back then. Women wanting a dude over 6ft is not biological lol, its vanity. Thats why I said as well, short guys are still stronger than women, especially if they lift. So if its about protection, arent they better off with a short guy than being alone? And tall guys arent more “physically dominant” theyre just taller…. Short guys who body build will beat a dudes ass who is 5’11 and doesnt lift. Ive known guys who were 5’8 and rep 235 on the bench and guys who are 6’4 who can’t rep 175
because..its just nails? Us women don't care that much for nails,and painting them means you're creative,too! Also,women bend their rules if the man is funny,that's rlly all you need to do,make them laugh
@@rmmm329 Your argument is really flawed. The average height of men currently is around 5'7.5. But just because that's the average doesn't mean that's what women want the most. It makes sense for women to want a taller man because they're usually bigger and stronger. Your argument that a short guy will beat a tall guy is based on extremes. Of course someone who is significantly stronger than the other person has an advantage. But if we're talking two average men where one is 6ft and the other 5'7, the 6ft guy is probably gonna beat the 5'7 guy. That's just facts. Bigger bones, weighs more, better reach etc. Tall guys are more dominant since they're bigger. There's a reason animals often go up on their back legs when trying to scare away others. Because it makes them look taller and more intimidating. You're wrong, just accept it.
Bro the blonde one. She says her numbers with such confidence. Her face when she asked about height. The way she says it. Like she doesnt care. love that attitude
@@CourtneyRyan Fair point. Too many factors 😂. I was interested in how the woman would react if they see a real 3 or 6 via picture with description. But that would be too complex for the video maybe. Just some thoughts😋. It was a great video. Keep up the good work :).
All I learned from this is that one minor detail (ripped jeans) can drop you from a 10 to a 5 😂. Jesus, some women are harsh. I enjoyed the video tho. Basically, focus on what you can change, be in decent shape, dress well but not too flashy, and try to make as much money as possible.
Also, I think it would be interesting/helpful to ask other questions of a more personal nature, like,"he's a 4 but he's a good listener" or "he's a 10 but he's rude to service workers."
@@Spectacular-Spider-Dan I see it as a mix between truth and not the truth. Having your face on camera really does change your answer on things. It actually just a normal human behavior unless your on camera all the time
@@raptortown That is true, but then again there are a few women she's interviewing which helps you spot trends, and also some of them you can really tell don't care what anyone thinks of them, like Stella.
LOL! Damn! I'm a pretty confident guy even though I'm constantly rejected for my height (5'5) besides by some ver weight single moms... hearing women comment on short men's height makes me feel I was born with a birth defect. Notice when women have support for short men it usually stops at 5'7 and anything shorter than that is invisible to women. I have props for Courtney though being that she has dated a man before that was 5'6 (she's the 3% of American women that overlooks height). Psychology Today posted a study saying 97% of American women will reject a short man with no logical reason but superfictial.
@Laura UK That is true however it could be superficial on the reason a 5'9 woman rejects a 5'5 man solely for height. A lot of women don't really even know why they reject short men but merely cause society looks down on them. For example, if a woman rejects a short man by saying things such as if she sees a short man as not masculine strictly for his height then that could be a superficial matter of fact before 1972 when women say short men are not masculine it used to fall under sexism until society changed it to heightism where it doesn't sound as severe. Women have gone as far as telling me "GROSS! your like only 5 foot tall, you not even considered a real man" or " your short and bald and that's a sign of weak male genes". mind you these are all women under 5'2 that have said these things to me while taller women are more polite when rejecting shorter men as if it's a "given". I've been rejected by women 4'10 telling me 5'10 is their cut-off because they don't want short kids. I know a 5'6 man married to a 5'8 woman who had a 6'3 son.
@@CoolChevere That is comforting, I don't discriminate against anybody's type unless she has serious health issues due to her lifestyle. I would love to be in a relationship with a taller woman being that I've always been attracted to women taller than me but that's just a preference because I like breaking social norms. It really doesn't matter to me if the woman is 4 feet or 6-foot tall if she's missing both her arms so on and so forth. LOL! I only mention women with no arms because I was getting along well with one but she's the one that rejected me for being short "sorry but I don't do the short guy thing" That is the common rejection I hear from most women.
I love how all the girls (except 1 I think), bumped up the guy “if he’s rich”, but then when asked about him having a luxury car or a boat many said they’re “not into the material stuff”… yeah right! 🤦🏻♂️
Don't trust that much what they say. Because they answer partly by what they think and partly by what's more socially accepted and well seen
@@sergioliveras9701 That's what I was going to say, "listen" to their actions
As a guy, I think money is more of a sign that you've got your shit together and was smart enough to win at the game of life. Would you be surprised if a rich woman wanted a man who is also rich? By your logic that wouldn't make sense since she can already get the material stuff like cars and jewelry. Money is a way to signal competence.
@@sergioliveras9701 remember that women are more socially programmable and malleable. Their mode of survivability, as dictated by biology, is agreeability. So yes their answers are based off of what society has been hammering into them.
There's a difference. Being rich doesn't mean you need to spend money on cars or boats. I think what they prefer is rich, but spending/investing wisely. Look at famous athletes - many are rich during their careers, but end up broke. So I guess luxury car or boat is actually a kind of red flag.
Her now: "I don't care about style"
Her 5 min ago: "Cargo shorts? he's a 2"
LOL
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@@jordanleiva5562 any Sekt respecting women loves a man in cargo shorts, how else we gonna carry her shit cuz don’t have pockets 🤷♂️😂😂
heard a red pill quote which is 99% true
*"Don’t listen to what women say, watch what they do."*
Women
Exactly what I was thinking 💀
So tall, wealthy, handsome, a boat, nice car, good body, no crocs, no thong sandals, no cargo shorts, keep your nails short and not painted. Wow ! Who would have thought it. Thanks for confirming what every man already knew.
Lmao
be rich or hot= ignore the negatives
I feel like modern culture and social media have an impact about what kind of man women are looking for. We all know that 90 percent of men are not over 6 foot tall, rich, have a boat and dress nicely. It has become harder for a guy to find a girl these days because all these expectations doesn't meet. I do understand that women want a secure man, but I feel like that if this trend is getting more popular and women expect more out of men, people won't find a significant other and the amount of singles would sky rocket.
We knew yet come here and hope for some changes to women hearts to happen. Guess not
I feel like one of the issues here is the sample of women in the video - they're all good looking, seemingly fun and confident, someone else in the comments mentioned they are in modeling and real estate. They will be looking for top of the crop and it's justified. The average standards will be lower for sure - find yourself a 7 that works at McDonald's.
Women: Don’t judge women by appearance. We love our body.
Also women: If he is short and less than 6 ft, he is 4 automatically or lower. 🤦🏻♂️
I really didn’t understand that one, short guys are so attractive.
Nothing matters but height apparently so rip everyone under 6ft
@@JB-mh5xy I wish I wasn’t! Like why does it matter when the person saying it is 4’11 😭, I understand maybe wanting someone a bit taller than you, but ONLY you, don’t shoot for the stars when you have no arrows.
@@Nymph_Poppy same, I’ve found guys shorter than me attractive before. Ideally, I’d want same height, but I also like tall and short. Had experience crushing on both tall guys and short. Basically, I like guys in almost all heights lol.
@@fwoop4848 puh lease
I’m a tall guy 6’3 and I never realized how superficial women are nowadays to my shorter brethren. Like damn. Going from a 10 to a 1 just based off height. King if you’re watching this, keep strong. There’s non-superficial women still out there. 💪
my man
Thanks big dawg
Im 5'7 and that fact is suicide fuel for me.
@@isaac-p6126 bro what mate ur 5”7 you somewhat in the good range bro I’m 5”1 WITH shoes I wish u was 5”7 mate
there only 4 , one by continent, the rest is a bunch of superficial whores or pathological liars who will deny everything but will still proceed to discriminate men according to their height or their wealth WHILE refusing to be discriminate ( because they' re all 10 of course ) .
Women: "It's so misogynistic that men rank women"
Also Women: "He's a 7"
"It's so terrible men won't date an overweight woman. "
Also women: If he's shorter than me = 0.
@@DudeGuy82 Which is really fucked up because a fat person can lose weight but a short person can't grow taller.
@@Criner05 exactly. Everything that women wants from a man....at least physically...is almost entirely genetic. Heught, facial structure, hair, d size. Yet a guy wanting a girl whos not overweight is a moster who will be shamed lol
moral of the story is to be yourself - from the start. imagine the women that con themselves into a higher class with world class makeup and have to keep up appearances for the rest of their lives. not gonna win against mother nature, sorry.
It’s ok to judge men on uncontrollable things but to judge women on controllable things is apparently unconscionable
"she's a 5/10 but she treats you like a human being"
*10/10*
honestly the most wholesome comment in this comment section. Well done!
Yesss... if she loves me for me and nothing else, she wins my heart by default. But that's rare now sadly..
You are so right👍
Nah, she's still a 5. If she doesn't treat you like a human being she's a 9, she doesn't qualify.
honestly she is still not worthy of your time. Just because the standard for women is so damm low does not mean you dont need to demand more. just think about it do you want your wife or life parter to be stupid!? Its a clear no for me i would rather die alone than bring more stupidity into this world.
Courtney: “She’s a 10 but a guy’s height is an automatic deal breaker.”
Me: “Well then she’s a 1.”
You are very generous
I am 5'4'' and when I saw the "but he's short" I knew what was coming. I don't blame them as they can't control what they're attracted to but affects me a lot every time. I'm sad as it is something I can't change but affects me a lot.
It's what it's.
Don’t worry too much about it, king. Trust me, if you’re funny, charismatic, and confident, women are going to be attractive to you. Not all of em, of course.
Yep, agree as a 5'5" guy. It's over for us manlets lol
I feel the same way. I am under 5'6" living in a country where the average height for guys is closer to 6', maybe taller. And the fact that women under 5'4 want a guy who is at least 6' tall when guys like us in the 5'4 - 5'8 range would be enough is a sad reality. But like you said, that's how it is.
Yep. I totally feel you. This one girl said I was perfect except for my height and she stopped seeing me because of it.
Me too, bro. I'm 5'3". Don't be sad about it though, the girls that won't give you/us a chance, they're not the ones we want anyway.
Get fit (if you aren't already). Get your status up (if it isn't already). Get your money up (if it's not already). Go attract what you want. Don't chase these silly broads. Stay up!
A good one would have been “he’s a 9 but doesn’t have a lot of friends.” I’m interested to see how they’d respond.
Of Course it will be a lower rating. Why? Its called preselection
Can we add because he doesnt have time for friends due to his business? That would make him a 10/10 instantly
@MeRest damn, didn't know the term "sigma male". Had to look it up. Sounds like that's me exactly 😲
This actually good thing. Means they can spend more time with the lady, not be out late, and focus solely on her. At the end of the day, as long as you provide for them, they could care less what you do on your free time.
@@bern717 As long as you arent clingy. Most guys without friends are clingy when they have too much spare time.
Can you imagine what the dating scene would be like if the way you treat her was more important than your height? That's a society I want to live in.
Said every short guy.
Move to Asia
@@richardw1043 True, used to live in Asia and at 5'10 I used to tower over most people. But here in the States I am just average
@Joe trust me bro. I’m 5’10-5’11 and around 7 looks and for most woman you are first in line. You good my guy just be more confident if you are over 6 feet you should have nothing to worry about.
@@richardw1043 No, he has better move to Africa. All local men will be taller than him but all the girls will be on him, not the locals.
I love how girls can instantly dismiss a short guy (something that he can't help) but we're not allowed to bring up the fact that you're too fat. That would be "fat shaming".
Idk in what world you live in, but men say loud and clear when they find a girl unattractive
who said u're not allowed? if she's fat tell that B she's F fat
Women are fare less judgemental then men are on the looks the pardment but they are alot more rough on other aspects like charm, funnyness, social intelligence and other parts of being the man.
@@Lightflames85 you forgot height for other aspects.
@@Dylanfrias24 no height is on the looks department and as men we can make up for lag of height in other ways. Studies have shown that the female brain changes its preferences based on how attracted they feel towards your vibe and energy. Once in love with a guy they find those less attractive traits cute or adorable and change their preferences to match the guy she is with. Then that guy becomes her type. Their is of course a unilateral profil most women go after but thats not to say its the be all in a relationship. Survivel skills are fare more important to women as it determines your place in the tribe and how well your kids will do in life. Being determined on your goals as a man is something women look for because the change of getting anywhere in life is bigger if to go for it instead of backing down then things get tough.
One girl said if he's a 5 but super stylish and dresses well he's a 9. Sorry but no amount of clothing and / or accessories can take a guy from a 5 to a 9 lol
I'd say with a little extra weight on me, I'm still a 6.5 and I dress like I don't care, too. If I put on a super nice gulf shirt, drove my new BMW, flashed that I'm a millionaire all over the place and even smiled, I'm at best an 8. However, I'm feeling bold and only need to be an 8 at 58 yrs old, to get 1/5 women to go on vacation with me, while I pay and get lucky. We'll see how that works, in practice. I'll be damned if I'm willing to work for it anymore.
That's what I was thinking lol.. some of their drastic number changes seemed ridiculous. Like 3 guy to a 7 if he's funny or 4 going to an 8 just cause he smelled good. Or.a 9 but wear Crocs going down to a 2? Loll
I thought it was pretty dramatic also. We change clothes everyday.
Idk, in today's word women love a well dressed man, maybe being stylish it wouldn't be a huge 9 but it will definitely bump up to a 7 imo, a well dressed man turns heads everywhere, that's why it's called dress to impress, alot of men seem to forget that we like when women dress up and so do women like when men dress up, hell most women like a man with a juicy ass too 😂
These chicks dont know what they want
The height thing is always weird. I had this girl reject me because I was 5' 9 and she needed "a guy above 6ft". Wanna guess how tall she was? 4'11. Like I totally respect preference, but if I tower over you as it is, what difference does a few inches make?
Forget her, bruh. She hides her true intentions. Probably a gold digger. Super tip: a sense of humor&confidence beat everything.
@@ArtoReinikainen yeah I knew obviously that wasn't her actual issue with me, it is what it is
even if she was 5'5-5'6 I would be pissed off if she rejected u but 4'11 holy fuck she tryna look like a human standing next to a paraceratherium dating a 6ft guy some ppl be crazy af lmao
Oh, so she can brag on social media about her man's height.
Its always the 4 foot nothings that want a shaq
Yeah this just confirms the whole height thing for me. All these people try to gaslight short guys by saying "Not all girls care about height"...yeah so what maybe 2 out of 100 women don't care about height, and the rest are like the girls in this vid, who hear "he's a ten" and then hear "but he's short" and you can literally see the disgust in their faces, and of course the number drops WAY down. Courtney trying to save some face by asking them "what if he's the same height as you?"....still doesn't save it. All the girls who brought the number up slightly after getting asked that, just remember, they know they are on camera and basically being given a second chance by Courtney to not look COMPLETELY shallow, so they only knock the number down "a little". Liars.
i feel that bro!
It's sad. What u gonna do bro? Tall guys get all.
But then if you say something like "I'm not really into women with small tits" or even that you don't like overweight women you are going to get cancelled. The double standard here is so disgusting.
It’s not shallow to have physical preferences bruh. It’s literally ingrained in our DNA to be attracted to certain traits. Being tall is a good indicator of genes in men, it displays masculine traits. The opposite is true for women, smaller and more petite women display feminine traits more prominently. I’d like to see how many men would jump at the chance to date a woman 8 inches taller that has biceps bigger than your head.
@@schlass8079 perhaps don’t state your tit preferences on Twitter then. And I don’t think a woman on Twitter saying “I’d only fuck a guy 6’2+” would go over super well either. Maybe some women back her up, but all kinds of men would call her out on it. The same would be true with the roles reversed. A guy saying “gotta have D-cups or don’t talk to me” would get a lot of backlash but there’d also be a lot of men there to agree. Everyone is allowed to be attracted to certain things. Telling a girl you wouldn’t date her because of small tits would get you the same reaction as what you guys are showing here and in the rest of this comment section because of what some women said about height. Yes, no matter your gender if you have a physical trait holding you back, it sucks. But it goes both ways.
He's a 9 but wears cargo shorts "oh he's a 3"..
Sure slap a pair of Cargo shorts on Chris Hemsworth or Brad Pitt or whatever high ranked guy. They wouldn't even notice the shorts. What stupid thing is that.
I met a girl and we get along really well. She compliments me with you smell good, you're a good listener, you're a good person, you look good but you're a little too small. The only problem is that I'm the same size as her. I'm fucking sick of it
ify homie. height and facial features are hard or impossible to change. yet if you smell bad, or fat, or an unfunny guy you can change it with enough effort.
@@socringe2217 you can defo change face shape and get a jawline and get rid of spots but height yh it sucks if Ur short
Leave her bro, its not worth it.
@@socringe2217 how do you change being an unfunny guy, like i have a sense of humor but i just cant come up with jokes and make people laugh
@@meyr1992 i mean you can learn some stand-up
I loved how one lady kept the score unchanged when directly told that the guy was rich but when told that the guy had a luxury car she increased the score from 6 to 8 and when told that the guy had a boat, she doubled the score from 5 to 10 . That was super interesting!! Talk about Hypocrisy!!!
I’m not even sure you’d call it hypocrisy. It’s just typical
@@lockyp204 At the end of the day they’re all materialistic. The idea of money isn’t what they care about. It’s the things they hope to buy with it.
@@lukeschilperoort9934 agree. Luxury means comfortability for her and status and high value for him. Women don't care much about money more than the quality of life that money provides. The specific lady associated money with interest on her part, however a luxury car and a boat as high quality lifestyle which she has no problem with.
Like the numbers are "biasvalues" not knowing realy the worth of a number realy
That’s women they are such big hypocrites the biggest group on earth.
“Luxury items don’t impress me… but it’ll bump him up”. 🤦🏽 makes sense.
Women logic 😂
Oh, he is still taller than me? only drops from a 10 to a 6. Much more reasonable.
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@@ronmexico8383 I grew up religious, fell out of it as I got older, but now I’m reconsidering 😂 in all seriousness, I have my gripes with Christianity, but I truly believe the only way to find an incredibly faithful women is one who is serious about faith
People need to stop calling things "preferences" when its straight up discrimination from social biases
The way the number dropped for height in literally every instance was heartbreaking. Even worse was if he was taller than her but still under 6 feet
Yea, but most women really don't 'know' 6 feet when they see it. It is a generalization. They like to look at scruffy beards, but like kissing shaved baby-faces. And while their smart-assed 6' guy (not that all 6' guys are smart-assed) is showing off, you can catch them eye to eye, make a connection they appreciate. Remember, confidence is not the same as cocky, or smart-assed. They may initially go toward the cocky, but that is short-lived. Be there when they figure it out. If they don't notice you, you are better off. Similarly, we may want the bikini girl until we learn there is no substance. Once they're connected, they tend to hang on!! 😉 💯💫
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@@ronmexico8383 I understand, and you may be right - as hard as it is to let go... If she is not sincere, you got to be strong, and move on. 💪 💯 ✨️
Stronger than me for sure, as I hardly could.
I think what worked for me was avoiding the relationship before it started based on her character. Of course, I grew up in a very small town. Not that those girls were bad, but I knew them so well. By knowing people from age 5 to age 18, you learn a lot. Look at it from her side, sure they have different desires, characteristics they are looking for. Would you marry you? 🤔
You are a great guy, show it by being who you are. I am not perfect, and made plenty of mistakes. Still do. Been with my wife 26 years, so far. Yes, I am aware when I am jobless, I had better get something fast. They (family) need me. It is truly the wild west, still. If you think otherwise, that is the mistake. There are no technological advantages. Let's gooooo....
That has to be your mentality.
@@davidlemons5650 but I’m 5’0, have a close to micro size penis, and I’m just unattractive from the face😔😔
Apparently it's ok for a woman to be fat/overweight but not ok for a guy to be short.
No you can’t this is cope lmao.
The height thing was honestly disgusting. And I am at 5' 11 so am not short. Even if they are shorter than the guy, they were still knocking points off. Just unbelievable.
It's also hilarious to see how much fashion means, when fashion CONSTANTLY changes. It would be interesting to see the same girls' responses in few years when the same trends they hate currently come back into style.
I mean, I think people are allowed to have preferences on what they find physically attractive. It's just a normal thing.
💯 they are obsessed with height and knocking off points for fashion. I didn’t have any suits 9 years ago and now I have several.
i think her friends are skewed to fashion, so that may not be realistic.
Would you be attracted to a woman that is 8 FEET TALL???
EXACTLY--fashion is so fickle! Saying one of these females would instantly ignore me or dump me for wearing cargo shorts when it's 99 is about as stupid as a female that once dumped me for showing I was learning how to play the guitar, doing a really good instrumental rendition of "Smoke on the Water" for her.
While I get the height thing...it's very superficial and--you said it--disgusting. It's like they equated lack of height to lack of intelligence, success, no ability, no talent...silly, really.
i don't have a problem with the ladies having preferences on height and things of that nature all i ask for as a guy is for some women online to stop losing their minds and calling men all sorts of names because we don't like fat women or promiscuous women .....
Another slippy subject... beware, exposing double standard make them angry haha 🤷♂️🤣 tate ,freshand and other guys do it and are called realy badly, ofthen.
@@Mykhos Can confirm as a solid 8, you turn into a 1 when you expose double standard like that haha
You can't tell them that you don't like promiscuous women or they'll pretend to have integrity. Have to keep that a secret and definitely make them wonder.
@@fusionoffire8416 You're not a solid 8. Go watch videos by Wheat Waffles to understand how to rate men. Even if you were a 7 you'd have a ton of options. And 8 is a near perfect man who has amazing jawline, hunter eyes, perfect eyebrows, and a gym body.
@@dextermorgan2117 Yes, and you think that impossible?
I am 5.3 and all my girls including current one are above 5.5. It all depends on men. Don’t let your height discourage you because height isn’t that important when it comes to healthy relationship.
So all the other ones ended up leaving you when they realized what am I doing dating this guy that is shorter than me, gotcha.
It doesn't depend on men at all, it all depends whether the particular girl is okay with your height or not
No. A man who is shorter than his woman is not normal in a biological point of view, even animals understand that and always have the man who is taller and bigger than the woman. And we will not even talk of your masculinity who will just be destroyed by the fact that you woman is taller than you, let's be real one second. Short bros you can find a woman who is shorter than you, just have to find it, i know a short guy who find a 4"1 woman and he is in an excellent relationship with her.
This is BS. Stop spreading these lies. They actually hurt short men.
@jundullah9869
Female clown fish are usually bigger than male clown fish.
Insects, spiders, and other invertebrates usually have a bigger female mate.
In reptiles, females are often bigger.
Female owls are often bigger than males.
As for mammals, smaller male wolves breeding with larger female wolves isn't unheard of.
However, note that most animals aren't nearly as monogamous as 90% of bird species. Humans are not even biologically predisposed to monogamy. - Most of our relationship preferences, including monogamy, have cultural factors. There are cultures that have far less emphasis on height. For example, there are African tribal cultures that believe the best spiritual match are those with the same height.
Loved the video. Suggestions for part 2:
He's a 6, and has a lot of hot female friends
He's a 9, and doesn't text much
He's a 5, and is a social media influencer
He's an 8, and lives with his parents
Noted! 👀
Also, he’s a 9 but he’s broke financially
If he's already 9 and doesn't text much it makes him 11 but girls will probably say 4 or 5
@@CourtneyRyan Hes a 7 and has a physical disability
@@CourtneyRyan - we also need a baseline # of guys each woman considers datable. Eg some might date a guy who's a 5 or a 6, but others might only date 7s and up. Thanks.
I dont ever wanna hear about "shitty men" ever again when you're getting duped by "stylish clothes". Yeesh one thing I've noticed in the dating scene is women are pretty much embracing everything they hated and becoming it themselves. Now you have women asking "where all the good men at?" Im sorry to say its not the men. Its you. ALOT of you
Welcome to another episode of: "Thank you for making me feel more insecure, because they want perfect guys."
Just smell nice, be funny, get fit, make money, buy a boat and a nice car, be organised, and your flying high.
@@mediterraneandiet2483 Mastercard, Richelieus at your feet, bluefin tuna in the fridge, it's more important than having a personnality and a simple good hygiene. But these woman must worth it.
@@mediterraneandiet2483 Actually, you don't even need to be "fit", just dont be a big blob. Plus, most of these features are controllable with a good style.
LOL
Stop wasting time on modern woman and focus on yourself.
Courtney trying to damage control the short guy thing LOL we appreciate you
🥲😂 I try
No we dont
I actually don't think it's very loving. It's sugar coating. The loving thing isn't to help men feel closer to societal standards in their own minds.......the loving thing is to give people the truth about how people really see the world....and then let people decide whether they want to participate in that or not.
@@CourtneyRyan mission impossible starring Courtney R. :D
The interesting point is not that height matters, but that while they say “6 foot minimum”, they each also say, “Oh, he’s taller than me? That’s okay.” Those are two different standards to these women (girls, actually): 1-what is his social status (6-foot); 2-does his presence make me feel feminine (taller than me). And the second is the more important to them, because social status can be had many ways
Courtney: He's a 10 but he wears flip flops, cargo shorts, has long nails, has a mustache, and he's short
Girls: he's a 1
Courtney: He's a 1 but he wears flip flops, cargo shorts, has long nails, has a mustache, he's short.... But he's rich
Girls: he's a 10
That's the wrong mindset n attracts all the bad women
Underrated comment
@@suprovo5117 you literally missed the point and it's not the wrong mindset. It's the reality of the situation and men need to be on their mission. Men need to realize they have to build their value.
A man's value in society is built through acquiring resources. When you realize that you'll achieve your goals.
x"D Perfect short abstract. It's exactly like this video, sadly.
@@yellowsnowman9157 resources and looks
The reality is: a lot of superficial women care a lot more about what their (girl)friends will think of their boyfriend and the society in general than men do when picking a girlfriend. That's why money, height etc. matter to them as they want not only themselves but their boyfriends to be admired as well, even if they are miserable with those guys and they are not a good fit for them at all.
Yes. They want a man who is respected (better allies) and in-demand (an indicator that they made a good choice). And what's wrong with that? Nothing. Men are not clamoring for the kindest mate, or else they would pursue widowed grannies.
@Luc Germain I hear that. I'm a pretty frugal guy, and my former-gf started coming at me about "going out more." Where was this coming from? Her word choice was unusual. She was getting it from her friends. That said, evolution likely endowed women with an even stronger heuristic to go with the crowd. Peer-conformity is pretty reliable. Men tend to be less agreeable because males are nature's way of rolling the dice -- taking bigger risks for bigger rewards. Some men father dozens of children, many father none at all.
Yep, dunno y most peeps in the comments didn't understand this part
Most men date women that they can show off to their friends. They ignored the average girl, because they rather go after the ig model, because it looks better. Men have for years dated the wrong woman and been miserable. You won't date a woman pass a certain age, even if your a relic. The audacity to call out women, when men created the blueprint on how to be shallow.
That's why i have a bit less respect on average for women than I do men - man or woman...thinking for yourself is what makes you an individual. A large majority of women I've met in my life have this...they aren't truly sovereign individuals...they are HIGHLY influenceable by society. More than most men.
I would like to see (the flip side) how "guys rate girls" based on looks, personality, smarts and honesty as they discover these things about their dates. What matters most in the long run in dating and relationships?
Yeah, dude, you wanna get Courtney banned from youtube?
@@air1das nah she needs to do that video for equality
Men are really fucking simple. If she is hot and she is kind thats an instant boner from every male. Personalty type of whatever shit it is doesnt matter if she has those two things while women want at least 9 different things
She's an 8 but a meth user... An 8.
She's a 7 but an escort... Hmm, a 7.
She's 3 but she has really cool ... Still a 3.
She's a 9 but wants to meet your family... No.
It would be more homogenous in the answers and ranges i expect.
From now on, every time i hear the "girls aren't superficial or shallow" or "don't focus on that stuff" arguments, I'm gonna show this
“Same as it ever was.”
tell me one thing that was shallow
He’s a 5 but has a boat. “He’s a 10” goku…….💀
@@zacharystapleton932 isn't it obvious? If you make 2 person stand together and both are 100% same in every way just one has more money than the other, girls will only go to the person who has more money
@@gokumidoriya6340 "He's a 10 but he's short."
"He's a 10 but an introvert" : "Eww, major creep. A zero!"
"He's a 2 but wears cargo pants, and every pocket is stuffed with $100 bills" : "Ooooh, a 10!"
haha i liked the pocket/cargo short play/money a lot. intelligent comment
brah 10s that are introverted are just considered cute and mysterious, whereas 6s that are introverted are creeps. But yeah men cant judge LMFAO
@@momov4060so true
This is perhaps one of the most cringey, but best videos I think I’ve ever seen. It grows on me with each viewing. My initial reaction was that the women were not being entirely honest with themselves but their sincerity is what is driving their answers to be so incredible. Let’s review the astounding findings: Hot guys can turn these women off significantly if they wear cargo shorts. I’m wearing cargo shorts as I type this (my wife bought them for me.) Another astounding finding: The least pretty girls (and yeah, if us men can be labeled from 1/10, so can they) are the ones who appeared to have the most demanding standards. On the man’s side, none of the Chads I know would have kicked an 8/10 woman out of the bed for wearing crocs and cargo shorts.
This video begs the question on one of Courtney’s messages in that men should not play games, but for the less attractive women, gamers will be largely the ones hitting on them. I’m a 4/10, repeat a 4/10 by these women’s standards and I married an 8 when I was 35.
My emotions are all over the place watching this and now I’m sort of sad. Imagine if a man who was ok looking, a bit frumpy, said he didn’t find women less than a cheerleader “attractive” and was turned off by women wearing pants or glasses. Such men are rare because they generally get a reality check when no women whatsoever approach them, much less the cheerleaders. Our society is full of plain looking women who are utterly useless for family relationships.
Idk about that my friend...gamers would approach women? Probably 99% of them don't. Sure, the nerds/gamers can be cocky in their comments behind a keyboard while watching a twitch girl playing videos games and i saw some comments like: "you're the reincanation of Aphrodite on earth", but that's behind a keyboard, everyone can do. Would they have the guts to say such a comment face to face? Probably not.
@@jvam16 I think he means gamers as in play mind games with women when it comes to dating etc.
@@titansupes hum, ok...well, i guess that goes the same way...it doesn't matter if you're handsome and be still quiet in a corner. That's why some shy guys thought that because they would think themselves at least 7/10 if they were just quiet one girl would noticed them and would go talk to them or at least give some signs for the guy to approach * highschool memories intensifies * lol. But i would say that know what to say and act and if adding to that, good looks, a guy wouldn't need to try so hard to be sucesseful for those who don't have that attribute to play with.
Hahaha yeah these chicks are a trip. If he wears flip-flops or crocs he goes down 5 points, if he’s funny he goes up 3 points, if he’s short he goes down 2 points, if he’s rich he goes up 5 points. W/e. This small sample size of women is too all over the place to give anything of value other than cringe-entertainment. Plus, they’re all fairly young. At age 35, they’ll either be married or fighting with each other to get with a 5’3”, 200 lbs. bald guy divorced with two kids 😂
What did you expect from average chicks
He's a 9 but has nothing wrong with him.
Ooo that's a red flag, he's now a 3.
Courtney, how honest do you think these ladies are when they respond with these? I ask not because I believe they would intentionally lie, but when they said that a funny 3 would turn into a 7, for example, I would doubt it. I don’t think a young Danny DeVito could joke his way to a 7.
Great points. Of course she's not going to answer.
@@warfossil it’s only been an hour.
THIS RIGHT HERE. Was thinking the same thing
Also Danny a 3? I thought he was a 10
Yea some of their answers just seemed ridiculous at how low or how high the number went based on something innocuous. Like if a guy smells "delicious" that's a 4 goes up to an 8? Or a 3 going up to a 7? I highly doubt that lol
This was extremely entertaining and educational. The ladies replies and reactions are spontaneous and natural.
It would be nice to see them described what these numbers mean to them.
Dont take advise from women
@@gerardoa9179 lol
💯 That's a great idea!
I wouldnt believe most of this kind of stuff to be genuine. Women are usually dishonest in these scenarios .
Considering how all of them answered the "10 but short" question, I'm inclined to take them at their word. You're going down two points at least.
"If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said a faster horse." - Henry Ford. This video has entertainment value, but the truth is that these girls would date many different types of guys, even ones they would rate below 5. Confidence trumps most shortcomings; laughter helps even more.
I agree, in fact if you're on the shorter side and have the confidence and charisma, that speaks volume about your character and women love that. It's a primal innate attraction to them.
That means that before Henry Ford started making cars, people didn't even know cars existed?
@@wss33 yes. They could not conceive of the automobile before he mass produced it.
The confidence nonsense again. Most of you don't even know what attractive confidence looks like. Nothing trumps most shortcomings.
Love the quote tho. Very apropos. Women don't know what they like.
Yeah, maybe in the 90's they would date men they consider a 5, but now we have internet dating, so each of these women can match with thousands of men per night. They have so many options they don't need to drop their standards, and they'd only date guys they consider a 10.
MET A GIRL ONLINE - Told her I was 6'6". She was 5'10". When she met me she was surprised that I actually had told the truth. She said almost every guy she had met online had lied about their height. Somehow they said they were exactly 6' even. Then showed up and were anywhere from 5'7"-5'11".
Thats why if I was single I would put : "6,2" online and in real life" on my profile.
The point of this video: do/wear anything you want. Somewhere in this big ass world is a girl waiting for you that is going to like how you act and look like! Stay strong brahs and work on yourselfs 💪💪
Heck yes!
🙌
@@CourtneyRyan epic
@@maximbury1358 bro responded with epic 💀
@@vorpalz2356 and?
“super fit is too fit for me.”
Yep that describes it. They don’t know what they want and constantly change their mind.
Think they talking about steroid abusing hulk looking dudes , which alot of girls dont find attractive. They perfer a more athlete body
That was one woman’s opinion bruh
@CJ P. "I want pizza, wait no, I want sushi"
@CJ P. for real, its You Decide and then when you do they dont like your decision...
They want the guy that they wanna be seen with the one that all the girls will drool all over because it makes them feel "hey this is my man check it out" they dont want no 5'6 guy its an emberassment to them and their social status. they could care less if youre a great guy but if youre not meeting todays standards of being tall then they dont want u. the small percentage of women out there that do this tho and those are the ones that should be treated well but in the end its always the bad ones that treat them like a number that theyre attracted to cause they like drama and it keeps them thinking if they are good enough.
I can't even imagine the backlash, if this video was reversed.
Gender equality bro.
Courtney should do it for the culture lol
Funny how they all have high standards when they’ve all got so little to offer
That would be an Andrew Tate video
3:15 "im 5ft3 so if he's shorter than me he's a 1" 😂 she meant that from the bottom of her soul.
She's the shallowest female of the entire group; a complete waste of beauty (or perhaps because of it).
shorter than 5'3 is a dwarf i think
"He's a 10 but he's only 2 inches taller than me so he's a 6"... oof right in my manlet heart.
There is no 10 ihhhhhh At all
Short in height but we got big hearts
@@orkanat7705 cope it's over for u if u are under 6ft
eternale hellfire for anyone below 6ft inshallah.
That was quite funny, but it really showed how important “the outside” is to most women, even those who are themselves far from being a 10.
Even when TV shows from our childhoods, like the Bernstein Bears and Veggie Tales, taught us that the inside is far more important, yet many people would rather keep their insides locked up to strangers, so the outside is all we have to go off of.
@@grahamdamberger7130 I dont see it like that at all, its not difficult to see the inner person you just have to put some time into it. Most women just aren’t interested, it’s all about tall dark and handsome.
Yup
First of all, rude. Second of all, yeah.
@@hughjohns9110 This. There has to be a willingness to appreciate what is inside. An appreciation and desire to get know someone's true self. I think many women actually have this appreciation, they just don't know that they do. Blame culture, animal nature...whatever you want. But they are under a very dense illusion.
So a short guy who is a 10, who wears flip flops will never have the chance to show off his boat. Great job ladies, your winner!
LOL
I'd like to thank this video, I'm going to start wearing black light washed ripped jeans, paint my nails black, and wear black cargo shorts for my whole goth wardrobe. I was having trouble finding good pants that were as well done as my shirt but now I know what I must do.
This way I can filter as many materialistic basic women as possible and either die alone with dignity or find a woman who truly loves me. Thank you for making this video.
I mean I am tall, and some women have said I look good, but I'll try as hard as I can to hold myself back.
I feel ya, I'm a good-looking woman and I've realized that hiding my "beauty" is in fact only getting rid of the shallow men who are after me only because of my looks. If the vibe is right, it doesn't matter what you wear or if you're perfectly polished.
Courtney great episode yet again , I would love to see this but roles reversed and get several of your guy mates to answer the questions?! Keep up the sick content
That would be so fun! Thank you, Adam 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan hell yeah it would be awesome if you can make it
Cargo shorts are the only reason women talk to me. LOL. They need a place to store stuff.
The black one doesn't like funny guys! Weird
That wouldnt be socially acceptable.
Will there ever be a video addressing the psychological immaturity , projection (mostly appearance based) cognitive distortions and dissonance pop culture women/men deal with?
Yes. Alexander Grace has an entire channel dedicated to that:
ua-cam.com/channels/eY3vg1r0KrvuyPOi7T39eA.html
NO!!!!!
@@brutalieri Thanks!!
Wrong channel pal…
Women are just very childish creatures. I’m not sure why but it seems to be biological
I enjoyed this I'm 5'7 and I'm pretty successful with women even when their taller. It just shows me that I'm fighting against the odds but still winning must be doing something right.
Good to hear it. I'm 5'8" unsuccessful in my opinion. I don't have much of an idea how women see me lol
Maybe u have a 10 face
or you are rich enough :)
Great to hear that, keep rocking man! I'm 5'6 and was very unsuccessful until I had one of the hottest girls in town who is even a little taller than me. Financially I'm doing very well but that was not the main reason. She had turned down countless rich, tall guys before she met me. These rules and generalizations are never useful because there are so many exceptions. You should never worry about that crap and just be confident and do your thing.
Rich or a 10 ?
Dating abroad really restored my self esteem. Just being a man with a job was respectable!
May I ask where did you go aboard to date? And also what country did you live in before going abroad.
@@WorstPaperCut I agree with the countries listed by Rick. I was fortunate to find true love. Where it was understood it was about what we could give to another rather than what we could take, about building something together over seeking perfection, etc. Opposite from the general attitude in California where I reside.
I feel you there ..
@@nature0956bur wait what countries did you go to? Also I can't seem to find the comment you are referring to.
This video was great, basically reinforced the idea I already had of what interests women most in the dating space. Continue working out 5 times a week, stay on the grind towards your financial goals and now I need to get into stand up comedy.
And even then, it's often not good enough, as I have discovered, lol
Become a famous comedian, dude. No pressure.
Look if your not a real sugar daddy don't you dare approach her 😤
🙌🔥
If your below 6 feet your screwed lol
“I *need* tall guys”
…girl you don’t *need* tall guys, you *need* therapy
3:10 she looks like she's at the age that she doesn't get to make the choice anymore. Oh well lmao the wall is undefeated 🤣
I'm sure she's a fun conversation but sometimes you have to wonder if she gets any attention offline
Having a preference doesn't mean you need therapy.
@@PlaytowinT to be fair, if it’s a preference, you wouldn’t say that you “need” something. That just sounds entitled as hell.
@@LatimusChadimus lol sadly i fell for it; that girl gave me hope in the beginning. "hes a 4, but rich" and she didnt change the rating. but throughout the video, if the guy had some luxury item, she would rate him higher. so the money doesnt matter, but the material stuff does... alright then
@@LatimusChadimus she’s a model, go check her IG. Seems like the type that would end up on Fresh and Fit 💀
I think the blonde is the most honest, always answering fast and with confidence, I think she was more clear about what she is looking for than the other girls and this is curious because to me she is the most attractive, maybe she has more options and that's why she can be more demanding.
I was thinking she seems like a terrible person but mayby you are right and she is just honest.
She has tons of options dude.
@@SystematicMechanic So this mean she can treat people like trash?
She's the most attractive to you - and maybe some others, but not to me. Yes i got options 🤠
@@bananaemon2339 you're just coping hard ^
Girls like a taller guy that’s in good shape because they feel inherently safer. They also like a guy with some money because again, more resources mean more safety, better quality of life for them. They like a well groomed, well dressed guy because it shows he cares about his partners likes and dislikes. Guys. Get a good job. Work out. Take care of yourself. Have interests and hobbies. Be interesting, be confident but never be afraid to laugh at yourself. When you’re living in a happy universe, you’ll attract women that want to share it with you. Would you want to date you? Start there
This was an interesting interview. The whole "girls love a tall guy" thing is clearly no cliche. I imagine, had you been specific and asked "would the guy benefit from being over 6ft tall?" there would have been a very marked uptick in the scores at almost any base level of attractiveness and from every woman you interviewed. That's pretty compelling.
Stay strong men. Spend your time with people who you ACTUALLY value. These ppl just seem shallow and honestly, quite dumb. THERE ARE SO MANY BETTER WOMEN OUT THERE, don't settle for less.
there responding to questions why does that make you so mad that women have standards
Cope, my guy. These women are representative of the vast majority of western women.
3:05 women☕
Bro, we as guys do that too. I'm sure you have conditions.
Woman ☕
I love these “interviews” type videos. As a man, this helps me a lot because I love to listen to a woman’s perspective!
I’m so glad it helps! I like bringing other ladies on my channel too
Well, there's what they say, and then, what they actually do... 🤔
@@marcmays48 2 completely different things
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A womans perspective usually isnt honest. Youre better off asking men who have experience in dating for their advice.
I don't think 9's or 10's exist in the eyes of men. At least not as a consensus. As a man I think guys can agree on a woman's attractiveness all the way up to an 8, after that 9's and 10's only exist in the eye of the beholder. What others may see as a 3 or 4 a man in love sees a 10.
Sadly I don't think love changes a woman's eyes
I mean I've been with plenty of women taller than me so I guess it really is just a preference for some women because when you got personality and looks, some women just simply do not care how tall you are. Don't be discouraged fellas, these women are answering questions on the spot
Agreed!
@X-man Supreme I'm 5'3 and also
like tall women, but never thought of being short a blessing. Interesting and positive take, I love that!
Don’t be discouraged they’re just revealing everything we say 🙄
Don’t worry men, soon they will also feel what we experience once they hit the wall. They develop a super power called invisibility for the rest of their lives.
Bro that’s not true. They will always care
As someone whos 5'7-5'8, the "but he's short" part were expected, but still sucks every time :( haha
Just find these women and drive a truck through their house
The irony of none of these women being a 7 or above lol
3:29 "Sorry... I really need attractive girls"
Bruh your a mysygynyst
At 5'10 its understandable
Damm, as a 5'5'' dude the height one was brutal. But bothers, if you come in the CQB version, don't stress about it. Back in highschool almost of the girls in my class were taller than me, but the hottest and cutest girl ended up liking me because I was funny, had empathy, knew things that she didn't and payed attention. Work on yourself, get fit, healthy, smart, confident, and wealthy. Then get yourself out there and the right girl will appear. Stay strong brah, we will all make it!
Great comment
The height one was just brutal and I'm 5'8 so not tall but not super short either. Kailee is 5'5 and a 5'7/8 goes from a 10 to a 6 jesus that's brutal. I get the whole being shorter/taller than someone. I don't think it's brutal when a tall girl says she wants a tall guy.. I just don't get how someone who is still taller than you (2-3" is a fair height difference) is so incredibly damning.
Im 5,5
we pretty much have to be jacked and a little wealthy to make up for it. Basically work 10 times harder.
Woah nice to see that Zyzz fans are everywhere
@@ellobopoderososdl4596 I'm afraid I have no idea who that is lol.
I'll assume it's some sort of black pill YT'er which are honestly some of the worst channels out there. They take something that is reasonably true and then blow it out of proportion.
I don't really see how it's black pill material to be dismayed by someone telling you that you're half as attractive (10 -> 6 is 40% which is basically half) because you're only 3 inches taller than them instead of 5
EDIT: Unless you were being genuine.. In which case please don't watch black pill shit
I like the girl who always starts with "huh" like the world just collapsed and then gives her opinion normally.
Agreed! She's very entertaining, and I found myself anticipating her turn for each question.
With the tats? I don't think she should be so picky.
@@jameswalker590 she should be whatever she wanna be, and you like-wise
@@jameswalker590 agree, cant understand how somebody likes tats like this on a girl, but to each his own
Rule 1 be tall
Rule 2 don't be not attractive
Rule 3 read minds, be funny, have money, be fit, be confident but not cocky, be good a de-escalating shit tests and crazy town if you want poon.
yawn
And even then, it's often not enough, as I have found (except for the mind reading ability....that's not on my resume, lol)
@Bioman Smith😅😅 and be at least somewhat physically attractive, lol
These women who bring men from 10 to 4 or from 10 to 1 because he's not 6' are the same who repost stuff about how bad body shaming is for women.
Imagine me telling "she's a 10 but she has 32A, she's a 4"
The whole body positivity moment from TikTok/Instagram/twitter/Facebook will come to me and make posts about deplatforming me.
But when you do it to men, ah, it's ok. nobody cares except other men,
because we all know women will say one thing and do the other and then end up with cats
and then come back, blaming us for not living up to their "standards"
Let's rate the same (or random women we've never met as they did) women on weight, facial symmetry, and education. Courtney, I think you should do a video on the reverse and then get your women's reactions to show the difference - you're good at that. Putting things in perspective.
Yep, I prefer a girl who is thick with a nice ass and definitely not tall and not too skinny
It's been "reverse" for decades lmao
He’s a 10 but short. Her: 1. And everyone tells me, “oh you just gotta have confidence”. FOH and f this society
The blonde (Stella) was brutal. I'm not sure if she just came across as frigid in this video, or if she really is like that, but some of the harshest ratings came from her.
I've been told way too many times that I'm a 8-10 but I'm 5'5" and that's not what they're looking for.
Height supercedes everything for women.
Ironically I've been told the same thing by my looks and I'm 5ft6 haven't had intimacy in 5 years
Look up average height by country and get on a plane to find your dream woman. ✈️ 👄
Dear guys that are taking things to heart. It's all words until she meets you. Women bend their rules easily on things that aren't truly important if she is attracted to things that truly are.. and if she doesn't.. someone will
Yeah, it's real hard to see why dudes just have no interest in dating or wifing up the modern woman.
Society wants us to accept calling a man a female if he says he is a female trapped in a male's body and that's cool. I would accept that ONLY if I can tell the woman I'm a 6'2 man trapped in a short body (5'5) and she has to accept that and not reject me for being short. It should work both ways because in my mind and heart I think I'm equally good as a taller man and can achieve anything they can do. I've told women such things as I'm a tall man stuck in a short body for the past 32 years and it has never worked on any women that I've shown interest in.
Yeah no duh. Cause you also need to say I'm a fit dude stuck in a average body and a mega billionaire stuck in the body of a poor man. Then add your height, and the magic stick size you'll be golden. Also identify as their bf or husband
@@newlegend2402 DAMN! LOL! you just gave me a great idea hahaha Cheesy but funny. I can meet a woman and tell her "I identify as you being my girlfriend" LOL! I bet they would get a laugh hahaha Hey... women like to laugh right?
@@warbaby1975 i don't know man cause here in reality woman don't exist. Its been us men for years ever since the 2012 extinction
Imagine being objectively perfect looking (a 10) but your average height, and with that sole reason alone you are considered undateable.
Courtney: "He is a 10, but short"
The woman in green: "1" (blurt it out at no hesitation)
For the sake of sympathy, it's not even necessary to humiliate a 10 guy to nearly no value whatsoever. While herself is only 5'3''.
An older lady revealed to me recently that she has to fight her shallow, surface level tendencies till this day! She said her husband of EIGHTEEN YEARS is less attractive whenever he puts his reading glasses on! Amazing! She HATES that about herself. This video TRULY reveals the pervasive superficiality of female nature.
Human nature*
bro, you really generalizing a whole subcategory of a species from these couple of girls in a video? jesus. This video definitely is an incel-maker, but damn, I do hope there are girls out there with more than half a brain
@@octaviano7360 no
Damn...
As if we don't do the same
I’m 6’4 but I feel bad for the short guys out there. I know a couple people who struggle for being short. I feel like a women asking how tall are you is the same as asking them how much do you weigh
Enjoyable video. Would love to see a similar video about where men are asked the questions. For example “She’s a 9 but has tattoos” or “she’s an 8 but has had lip injections”, etc.
Sadly it wouldn't happen it would count as "hate speech or he's misogynistic " 😭😭😭☠ all the feminists is gonna come over and say who hurt you
Who doesn’t like a woman with tats??
I love watching these to actually see what girls think. I just wish you would do a series of older women 45+.
I really enjoyed all of the fun and honest answers from everyone. Was cool that it reinforces the obvious, that we are all unique and have different preferences. Video is a 10. Erica is a 10.
Erica had the best priorties, IMO
Erica was the best to choose but I like Stella's style of answering.
Alot of answers here weren't honest dude
So a 5'10ft guy with broad shoulders, stocky-buff build(slight gut though), big strong arms,well groomed, stubbled out 7+/10 handsome face, swag walk, deep voice is probably a 3/10 to these goofy DODO birds. Yet, put a weak, ugly, goofy, 6ft 🤡 with a 6figure salary in front of them and they'd rate him an 8? 🤔😒
This was a good video. It lets me get a good feel of the female mindset. But, the question at the 9:41 mark was hilarious. Keep this kind of content coming.💯👍🔥
6:00 what do women have against slippers/flip-flops? 🤨
And westerners with feet in general?
I'm the subcontinent, Arabia etc everyone always seats flip-flops
because feet look bad
Ok wtf- height, something no one can actively control. They’re a ten and they’re taller than you and you still lower your rating??? Where as the mustache (if pulled off) something that is controlled- rating didn’t change! Women?! So what’s the height requirement that we can have to keep our ten spot? Let me guess- 6ft.
i wonder who started men only 6ft + drama 😂. Like who just says ye i want 6ft like it is some special number or something
It is notable that for some 'short' is below 6' when the average US male height is around 5'9".
do you want them to lie
Some time ago I asked a couple of female friends what they thought about me physically, they looked at each other and one said I was an 8. I smiled back and said why an 8, she quickly responded cause you're short. Really? But I'm taller than both of you, they are 5'2 and 5'4, and I'm 5'7. I've lost a lot of weight in the last two years and changed my overall dress style and look so I had been feeling confident. It felt crappy that an 8 is the best I'll get since there's nothing I can do about height. The shorter of the two wanted to date me but I said no cause I don't date girls that weigh more than me - so there's that.
You can actually increase your height a few inches if you don't care about pride. Wear boots and get those items that you stuff to increase height.
Get some air forces brotha
Dude you're an 8 you're good dude go out there and take em down like last year's calendar
@@Caparisplato lol that's a good one. Believe me, i get around
@@gryfenfer1037 having preferences isn't mistreatment. Since you weren't there you can't understand. And not worth my time to convince
"He is a 10 but...". Doesnt matter if you are perfect they will find something against you. So, why even botter?
Actually this is the most informative video I've seen on dating. I see that you have another one in a similar vein that I'll watch after this one. It really answers a lot of the questions about some of the things that women look for or accept in men.
The way women have been trained by the media to write off short men is actually crazy. Every single response they give here is pretty accepting and logical (even of painted nails!!!) but if a guy is short he drops from a 10 to a 5 or 1? How is a guy painting his nails more acceptable than someone being born a little shorter? Truly a disconnect with reality.
Lady, a shorter guy is still stronger than you and could have an 8 inch in his draws you don’t know about :)
Part of it could be from media yes. But a lot of it is biological. Women throughout history have been drawn to the stronger, more physically dominant men because they look more able to protect them. It's the same thing as guys liking women with an hourglass shaped body. That's also biology and is because men look for women that look like they're fertile and able to have their kids. Just accept that height plays a role and try to make up for it by building a good physique, being confident etc.
@@randomguy6221 as recently as like 150 years ago the average height of men was around 5’6-5’7. And there werent body builders back then. Women wanting a dude over 6ft is not biological lol, its vanity. Thats why I said as well, short guys are still stronger than women, especially if they lift. So if its about protection, arent they better off with a short guy than being alone? And tall guys arent more “physically dominant” theyre just taller…. Short guys who body build will beat a dudes ass who is 5’11 and doesnt lift. Ive known guys who were 5’8 and rep 235 on the bench and guys who are 6’4 who can’t rep 175
because..its just nails? Us women don't care that much for nails,and painting them means you're creative,too! Also,women bend their rules if the man is funny,that's rlly all you need to do,make them laugh
@@rmmm329 Your argument is really flawed. The average height of men currently is around 5'7.5. But just because that's the average doesn't mean that's what women want the most. It makes sense for women to want a taller man because they're usually bigger and stronger. Your argument that a short guy will beat a tall guy is based on extremes. Of course someone who is significantly stronger than the other person has an advantage. But if we're talking two average men where one is 6ft and the other 5'7, the 6ft guy is probably gonna beat the 5'7 guy. That's just facts. Bigger bones, weighs more, better reach etc. Tall guys are more dominant since they're bigger. There's a reason animals often go up on their back legs when trying to scare away others. Because it makes them look taller and more intimidating. You're wrong, just accept it.
@@CharaDreemurrfan If I see a guy painting his nails I immediately think man-child/desperate for attention
I enjoy this change of format for your content. It's informative and entertaining. Thanks Also, your and Teddy's fragrance channel is amazing too.
Thank you so much for your kind comment! 🤍
Hes a 10 but short but still taller than you? And the rating still went down cmon!
And guys are superficial lol
We definitely need a guy version.💯
Bro the blonde one. She says her numbers with such confidence. Her face when she asked about height. The way she says it. Like she doesnt care. love that attitude
You should do one with pictures. I think it's hard if you only have a number.
But I love the great persective tho. Thanks Courtney .
It’s difficult with pictures because everyone has a different idea of what each number is in their head! Lol
@@CourtneyRyan Fair point. Too many factors 😂.
I was interested in how the woman would react if they see a real 3 or 6 via picture with description.
But that would be too complex for the video maybe. Just some thoughts😋.
It was a great video. Keep up the good work :).
Good on you for pressing the height issue further.
I like how honest they are and introspective with their opinions.
(Nov 2023)
“He’s a 10 but hes short(er than you)”=
3:05 “im 5’3”, but if hes 5’7” then hes an 8”
3:15
3:30 3:36 4:07 4:36
I really enjoyed this video! Super fun to hear their thoughts on these scenarios
All I learned from this is that one minor detail (ripped jeans) can drop you from a 10 to a 5 😂. Jesus, some women are harsh. I enjoyed the video tho. Basically, focus on what you can change, be in decent shape, dress well but not too flashy, and try to make as much money as possible.
What if he puts on normal blue jeans with a black t-shirt? Ladies? 10
@@mikebingham9700 if he forgot to trim his fingernails that morning, then he would drop to a 3
I learned that if you are funny it will jump you up 2 to 3 points.
I think they are kind of exaggerating
Also, I think it would be interesting/helpful to ask other questions of a more personal nature, like,"he's a 4 but he's a good listener" or "he's a 10 but he's rude to service workers."
I feel like they would give a modest answer. Not many on camera is gonna go "eww no idc"
@@raptortown Hm, maybe, but it seems like most of the women Courtney picks for her interview style videos are pretty honest.
@@Spectacular-Spider-Dan I see it as a mix between truth and not the truth. Having your face on camera really does change your answer on things. It actually just a normal human behavior unless your on camera all the time
@@raptortown That is true, but then again there are a few women she's interviewing which helps you spot trends, and also some of them you can really tell don't care what anyone thinks of them, like Stella.
Rude to service workers
Probably grandiose narcissitic
Ugh! It sucks being only 5’6”. It also doesn’t help when you’re working two jobs and still living at home.
LOL! Damn! I'm a pretty confident guy even though I'm constantly rejected for my height (5'5) besides by some ver weight single moms... hearing women comment on short men's height makes me feel I was born with a birth defect. Notice when women have support for short men it usually stops at 5'7 and anything shorter than that is invisible to women. I have props for Courtney though being that she has dated a man before that was 5'6 (she's the 3% of American women that overlooks height). Psychology Today posted a study saying 97% of American women will reject a short man with no logical reason but superfictial.
@Laura UK That is true however it could be superficial on the reason a 5'9 woman rejects a 5'5 man solely for height. A lot of women don't really even know why they reject short men but merely cause society looks down on them. For example, if a woman rejects a short man by saying things such as if she sees a short man as not masculine strictly for his height then that could be a superficial matter of fact before 1972 when women say short men are not masculine it used to fall under sexism until society changed it to heightism where it doesn't sound as severe. Women have gone as far as telling me "GROSS! your like only 5 foot tall, you not even considered a real man" or " your short and bald and that's a sign of weak male genes". mind you these are all women under 5'2 that have said these things to me while taller women are more polite when rejecting shorter men as if it's a "given". I've been rejected by women 4'10 telling me 5'10 is their cut-off because they don't want short kids. I know a 5'6 man married to a 5'8 woman who had a 6'3 son.
Don’t give up hope. I’ve dated women taller than myself. One of them went on to marry a guy shorter than me.
@@CoolChevere That is comforting, I don't discriminate against anybody's type unless she has serious health issues due to her lifestyle. I would love to be in a relationship with a taller woman being that I've always been attracted to women taller than me but that's just a preference because I like breaking social norms. It really doesn't matter to me if the woman is 4 feet or 6-foot tall if she's missing both her arms so on and so forth. LOL! I only mention women with no arms because I was getting along well with one but she's the one that rejected me for being short "sorry but I don't do the short guy thing" That is the common rejection I hear from most women.