Things Women Find Attractive That Men Have No Idea About
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As a man who has hands and drives, I see this as an absolute win
Get really dry and flaky and you're an absolute winner
Avengers Endgame reference 🤣. I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals AMEN 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor so yeah I see unhealthy relationships in parents and people all of the time despite being single because I'm alone in DA ZONE 😂. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2020 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on UA-cam and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a fellow Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
'Ryan Gosling memes intensify'
it's only a win if she finds you attractive, which includes a lot of other qualities.
@@justingary5322
TL;DR
Not exaggerating, that is the only positive piece of media I’ve seen about men in years.
Ofcourse the eye to eye contact is obviously a killer in a goodway KILLER😊
Can I just say I think this is about the DOES and the DON'TS so eye contact will just come naturally I would suggest not trying this unnaturally as it would look fake so this is a thing OF YOU LIKE HER IT WILL JUST HAPPEN
The t shirt thing of take it off from back don't make an a hole of yourself something's just don't bother😂
Courtney your man is a lucky man I'm sure he's a sexy good guy gotta be.😂😊😂
You need to visit this channel more often
Things that I find attractive in women:
1.) Kindness towards animals and people (caring but not naive).
2.) Long term prospects
3.) Intelligence
Not animals😅😅
Gay
To me it's more of her caring and kindness towards anyone regardless of what they look like, their gender, their age. If she is only nice to girls for example that reeks of predatorial and self-gain and makes me feel disgusted as much as I feel about simps being only nice to girls.
@@sdott9751who u? Oh man i didnt know to bad i dont care.
1. Being genuinely interested in you as a person
1. Dry callous hands, hands in general
2. Calling a girl a "good girl" (will vary from woman to woman)
3. Touching a girl's lower back. Opening a door and ushering her in.
4. Ordering their food for them (Polarizing effect, some hate it others love it)
5. Rolling up your sleeves on a button down shirt.
6. Special attention in group settings.
7. Taking your shirt off with one hand from the back 🤷♂
8. Motioning for them to give you their hand while you're walking ahead of them.
9. When you drive. (One arm on wheel and an other behind headrest or on lap)
10. Vocalizing that you'll handle a problem or situation.
Let me fix and simplify that for you. What they actually care about is:
1.Height
2.Face
3.Money
4.Status
In fact, what you wrote is a complete joke and has nothing to do with reality.
4.) You ask them what they generally want, fowl, chicken, beef, fish, etc, salty, spicy, sweet, etc, THEN suggest (order) for them.
@@FORS4KENThat's why you put them through the washing machine first.
@@FORS4KEN Well, if women can't tell youwhat they like, you're already lost. just stay in your head or listen to another man, sounds like a winning strategy. Good Luck with that.
@@khem127 if you ask fish about how to catch fish, it's not over for you, it never began in the first place.
Nice to hear Courtney say, 'I love men'- a sentiment from women that is becoming increasingly rare.
❤️
Bro, that was WILD! I reposted it! 🤞😂❤️
I had to watch a few times. 🥲
As long as she's benefits from them.
Oh yes today's women are not good for men of today😢😢
Something I find attractive in women is when they are straight forward, transparent communicators. It tells me they're not interested in playing mind games and otherwise wasting time.
Where are these women you speak of??
@@boris1387 Either already in relationships or hiding somewhere. At least that's what it often feels like😂
@@_israelferraro I hear ya dude 😆👌👍🏻
Nah, you just described a man. No woman has ever been straight forward or transparent with their communication, it's just in their nature to be illogical.
You need to date a man for that bro🤣🤣. I mean that's textbook men's communcation. Men communicate overtly and directly, women are the polar opposite, communicating covertly and indirectly. Ofc there are exceptions but generally this is how it is.
I find it attractive when a woman huddles closer to me. It feels more personal, intimate, and trust in personal space. Or when talking and she casually says my name in a conversation.
government name to be specific
Your sincerity makes these videos be so empathetic.
1. As a man, pulling off your shirt from the back is easy once you master the technique 😊
2. One simple thing I find attractive is when you have been working around the house and your wife surprises you a freshly squeezed lemonade or home brewed ice coffee in the middle of a task, not at the end.
Keep it up, your videos bring awareness in such a kind and loving manner.
Why do you do though? All the guys I went to high school with would take off their sweatshirts like that too and I've never once (as a guy) had the inclination to try it
Granted I don't specifically know that I DON'T like to do it that way, I just don't get why everyone else does
@@samstromberg5593 It leaves the shirt the right way around. Pulling the shirt from the bottom inverts it.
@@samstromberg5593 It is a swift, smooth motion that leaves the shirt right-side-out (as noted by @forasago), quick, easy, even if the shirt if very sweaty or wet, and doesn't look or feel stupid like pulling each arm through. Sheesh. It's just the smoothest, smartest way to remove a shirt.
@@dbf1dware Mm for me it’s harder cause I don’t have short hair so it’s really easy to mess up if I take it off like that
All the swim kids at my high school would do it cause it also pulls their shirt up but makes it look not intentional and they were just tryna show off so actually that’s another reason I don’t do it cause I don’t HAVE any muscles to show off😂
@@samstromberg5593 Fair enough. I have almost zero hair, so that is not an issue. I also have a so-called "dad bod" meaning I have a fat belly and no muscle. So I am definitely NOT trying to show off anything. Quite the contrary. I want to get this sweaty, dirty shirt off of me and put on a clean one as quickly as possible to AVOID anyone being subjected to my un-attractiveness.
I hate all of those voice effects. Whether it's the female one or that disturbing fake SpongeBob one but I'm not on tiktok yet other platforms still feature these videos
Same 😭
💯
ditto
I thought I was the only one who thinks it sounds like sponge bob 😂
TikTok makes me support nuking China
I've tried the "fix a problem" thing and it usually ended up with me in the friendzone.
100% correct
It only works if she already finds you attractive
Probably overweight
Try not to fix the problem , instead try to missed the part where that your problem 😂😂
@@QuintinHowelllike every other strategy then.
I'm 71, been happily married for 38 years, and some of these were a revelation. I have a few new things to try. 😂❤
Here's one thing I know my wife loves. When I'm getting dressed for say, church, I'll put on a long-sleeve dress shirt, button the cuffs, and then -- before I put my suit slacks on -- I'll walk over to the chair to sit down to put on my socks. She comments regularly how much she loves watching me walk across the room like that. 😂❤
Most of us men have no idea about these because we feel invisible - plain and simple.
Get jacked and get a 6-pack then you won't be invisible anymore.
@@komoru That could work for a guy who's 6+ feet tall, but what about the guy who's 5'8" and isn't Tom Cruise? Women want the triple-6 guy; the double-6 dude will still be invisible.
@@John_B52_HEMI to be fair its not every woman. If that were the case you wouldn't be seeing average men and women walking together with their child on the streets. Its just that social media has spread this idea so its become crazy.
vidfan men are probably NOT looking at the women who are looking at them
@@noaharthur9041 Its probably her X's child
About the shirt thing...
Guys do that because our shirts are cut different than women's. We don't want to stretch out the neck. We usually have wider shoulders than women. I personally don't like turning my shirts inside-out. It's just another step to folding it, or hanging it up, after we wash our clothes. It's mostly about not stretching out our clothes.
I was gonna say if I am working on a car and my shirt is dirty I will try not to pull that dirt to my face. For me the easiest way to keep the dirt out is to drag from the back.
I read through the comments to see if anyone had said the obvious (to men). I do it this way to keep from turning the shirt inside out, especially long sleeve shirts.
I used to never understand that method of taking off a shirt and never did it. Recently, though, I went on a bike ride and got so sweaty, and the particular shirt I had on stuck to me so bad, there was just no taking it off in the way I usually do.
it's from having wider lats too, like if my shirt's wet it suction cups to my lats and the only way I can ever get my shirt off until I've 'dried off' after the gym is by pulling it off from the backside like that
The biggest turn-on from women for me is when they respond calmly to unexpected events. Most women fly off the handle and start imagining worst case scenarios for everything making it difficult to communicate with them and work together to find a solution. Seeing a woman calmly think about the situation makes me feel like I can trust her.
The next best turn-on is finding a woman that is capable of self change. Someone who acknowledges they will inevitably change over time and are actively seeking to become a better version of themselves. Not everyone has the ability to see themselves from a 3rd party point of view and imagine different versions of their lives, choosing to become who they want to become. Most people are simply being tossed around like a leaf in the wind adapting to whatever situation they're in....Instead of having control over their future and CHOOSING to have you as a part of it.
So true
Constantly jumping to the worst case scenario instead of taking the time to see where the situation leads is very tiring.
It's one way to make me cranky in a hurry. I hate having to talk a woman off a ledge over something that is most likely nothing and very slim chances of being as bad as she is imagining.
@@thisdyingsoul76bruh what
@JACQUEZJOHNSON23 imagine if a woman googles symptoms she is having and there is a 99.9% chance it's just a minor condition (dry skin, for example) and a 0.1% chance it's cancer. So naturally she assumes she has cancer and it becomes a catastrophe.
Now imagine this logic is applied to every scenario in this woman's life and you are the one constantly trying to reel her back in and get to think rationally.
That's exhausting and hard on the head to have to do all the time, don't you think?
Cool under pressure x1000!. I work with all guys and any time there is a major issue in the field we calmly bounce ideas and solutions. At home a little tiny thing can make my wife go completely off the rails. I find her stress gives me stress. It's also very hard to work through solutions when she is so upset.
I think this only applies if she finds you attractive in the 1st place.
Cash
Oh yeah 100%.
That applies to all these kind of women's 'tips'.
Yeah. Step 1: Be the kind of man she wants to marry. Step 2: Drive a car or whatever every day thing you have to take care of that day and suddenly it's attractive.
@@BWater-yq3jx
They tend to romanticize a lot.
The rough hands thing they’re probably thinking of a guy like young Brat Pitt at the gym, not your overweight construction worker’s hands.
In other words how tall you are.
As a man I do a lot of these things , didn’t realize women notice it, it’s mostly things I watched my father do
1. Hand on lower back, ushering my mom when I was a kid
2. Driving her whenever she needed to go somewhere
3. Opening and closing her door no matter how long you’re together
4. When she walks behind reaching out to take her hand
5. Wiping her hair off her face if it falls on her face when she’s talking
Things done by the “right” woman not just any woman
1. Taking my hand when I least expect it , sitting somewhere relaxing
2. Hugging from
The back when we are doing something
3. Eye contact in a crowd
4. Being good with kids
5. Dressing feminine in dresses , especially long maxi cut dresses with flats
6. Being patient n kind
7. Thoughtfulness
8. When she’s late and shows up flustered and lets me calm her down and assuring her its ok
Men love handling problems and also calming down a flustered or stressed out woman they love!
@equalizedby12:
Sounds like you really miss your mom.
@@jeffro. Sounds like you just want to argue and need to deal with an inner anger you haven't dealt with yet
@@jeffro. I think you misread his comment. He was describing his dad doing those things.
we should get married baby girl
With so much negative stuff being said by women about men & men about women on line these days its so very refeshing to see young women make a video like this. It gives me much hope for the future & I really hope that we're past the worst of this stupid gender war. Then to hear Courtney beautify say "I love men" was just so wonderful to hear. This video has made me so happy. Oh, & I love women.
Sorry, but we are absolutely not past the worst of it. The worst of it is yet to come; just wait until 2030.... then you will see the real fireworks begin.
Things that I find attractive that women do.
- laughing
- logical thinking
- when she lifts her arms up, like doing things with her hair or stretching
- when she says “give me a kiss”
- holding my upper arm with both her hands
- well painted nails
- smiles
I love accountality. Owning up to their mistakes. It's so rare nowdays
yes, well painted nails and basically over all taking care of her look.
Those first and third points were things I overlooked, but dang if they don't get me... whew
-when she wears this two-tone button down little number and describes how sexy her husband is
women and logical thinking is an oxymoron, their decision process is entirely based upon how they feel and negative experience...that's called living in fear....any girl spoiled enough to never have experienced negative experiences you are just going to disappoint the hell out of her and set a new threshold bar for all men in her future to have to hurdle over like a boss. see Hoe_Math 1-10 scale men vs womens dating perception scale
You asked things we find attractive.
Core values - compassion, able to joke around with me, humility, feminine, humility, appreciating me, able to grow and able to listen. Tries to improve.
little things - Long hair and really love the spiral curls. Wearing a circular dress and seeing it twirl, a genuine smile, cute happy dances, happy laughs, playful teasing that doesn't get mean spirited. Cute facial expressions.
Nah. Those are their real voices.
Guys, don't let your hands get dried out. You'll have pains in you hands later in life. My dad said he regrets not taking better care of his hands. I try to lotion my hands at least once a week.
You are just jealous of my dry hands covered in calluses!
Just use soaps that have inbuilt moisturizer
@@user-qk7vv3mx1s The dry calloused hand thing makes no sense to me, I work with my hands daily... but I wear PPE... so I don't fuck up my hands lol
How will this cause pains later in life which can't be fixed within a week or so of moisturizing?
@@Youttubeuser20932Good question. I think it came from a gay accountant.
@CourtneyRyan - We take our shirts off from the back, because when the shirt is wet with sweat from working all day -- it tends to stick to the back side and not pull over. We typically do this with any shirt that is *not* button-down. We don't care what they do in the movies. It's just really as simple as a practical solution from trial and error in becoming a hard-working man.
Nailed it. It’s the shirt sticking to the back because of sweat.
As a man I've never done this. Guess there's no hope for me then welp. Please go on without me guys--I'll be fine!
This seems exactly the wrong way around. When I pull from the back (my normal technique) a truly wet shirt will stick to the skin too much. In these situations I'll make an exception and use the front technique because the shirt rolls off the skin rather than being dragged along the skin. No friction. How could it get/stay stuck when you pull from the front? Makes no sense.
1. Income
2. Income
3. Income
4. Income
5. Income
6. Income
7. Income
8. Income
9. Income
10. Hands
Also one arm on the window or leaning on the steering wheel; depends on what you're driving. Being married I give zero F's that I drive on old, reliable work truck that'll get dirty anyway on the gravel road I live on. It drives women nuts when you don't play their game but rather totally ignore them.
*big nob
@@astroboirap big hands
10 B: hands with which to make income…* 🤭
LOL
So glad that Courtney clarified the whole, Solve the problem, but sometimes they just want you to listen and not try to solve it. Can we get different colored chips/flags to help a brother out? Also love the subtle undertone of all three of them admitting that women are quite indecisive and often don't know what they want! It's nothing bad, just own it. Refreshing to hear some honesty and the girls just having fun!
Different colored chips, no, but you can ask the question, is this an "I need a solution" problem or is this an "I just want to vent about it" problem? Might sound stupid or counterintuitive, but it works for me and my lady. Contrary to what you might believe, she actually does answer that question with one or the other if it's asked directly.
@supramaniac502 I was kinda joking, but yes, I do agree with you. I do this with my wife and it does work. She will start talking about something and I ask her that same question. "Do you want me to just listen to you, or help you solve this?" And she does answer and then keeps going. It does help us as well!
I think an important takeaway from this is that while there are some things that a majority of women like, most turn ons and turn offs are very subjective and vary wildly from person to person. I think it’s good practice to take any advice that starts off with “All men …” or “All women …” with a massive grain of salt
I think it also depends a lot on whether she likes or dislikes you already anyway. Your hands will do nothing for her if she's already decided you're a low value a'hole, and if she's attracted to you then lots of random, small things will reinforce that positive perception.
@@BillPeschel I'd be curious to hear some examples of those many "red flags"
I love an ideal Lady who's nowadays a borderline imaginary chick with brains and beauty who is kind , accountable for their actions and words and doesn't hate people 😭💔. I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals AMEN 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor so yeah I see unhealthy relationships in parents and people all of the time despite being single because I'm alone in DA ZONE 😂. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2020 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on UA-cam and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a fellow Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
Spot on.. And most of these turn offs comes from what the guy they are already attracted to has.. If any of these things was on any other guy - it might be a huge turn off.. ;)
@@jonprince3237 This. Most women will like almost everything in this video IF they are already attracted to you. If a woman is very attracted to you she will match your energy and start liking everything you like and appreciating everything you do (within reason). Step one is being as attractive as you can, maximize your looks, your confidence, your masculinity. Then more women will find you attractive and suddenly the things you do will seem a lot more charming.
The reaction/responses from both Courtney and the two women in the video make me realize how much I miss having a woman in my life. All these things that got them excited had little to nothing to do with money or any of the other things you hear women want from men. They are getting worked up over men simply being themselves. I love it.
I agree. However, I work in a trade with all men, go to the gym and generally stay busy. I haven’t really found a scene where I can connect with women in the wild. Tried apps for like a month. Sometimes I’ll go to bars with my friends but I’m honestly not looking for someone who goes out every weekend. It seems like that’s where everyone meets if it’s not on an app. I feel like it would be easier if I had some avenue of access. Only dated one girl for 4 years and I still miss her after a more than a year of being apart. It’s so lomely out here
It's true that "don't need no man" has reached a wider audience of women. Nevertheless, in most of the "red pill" videos I watch, they poll scantily clad GIRLS (with their juvenile and entitled attitudes, I wouldn't call them women) on the street (beaucoup red flags flying just visually) and then use the voiceover at the end "she's for the streets!" You found her on the street, not engaged in anything worthwhile already. What did you expect? I live in the Kansas City area, and the women, though touched by feminist ideas, are generally much more conservative than the half-naked bimbos they talk to on the podcasts. I am shocked at how far-reaching the temporary fad of permanent tattoos has become. But what do I know, I'm an old guy who's not on the market. I'm schooling myself to the new realities so I can counsel my grandchildren with realistic and timely advice.
@@justinlane4153try some clubs or something where you can meet like-minded women? Best way to meet one is to know them already.
Where do you usually meet woman?
well... I guess then these aren't what's really relevant, before all. as in: who did lady chatterley fall for, or scarlett o'hara (fiction, yes).
Maybe it's just because I'm older and I stopped giving a f-- about what people think, but that list seemed awful silly.
Women are silly. Have you seen what Batman would look like if he was designed to appeal to women? Big eyes, thick lips, bare arms. Yikes! Not cool like a shadow of the night.
All those things, only if the guy already meets all the prerequisites. They are not describing an average guy doing those things. Instead, they are imagining a 10% guy.
I love it when women are sweet to not just me but to others as well. When she is considerate, warm, positive, easy going, energetic and fun and when you can be yourself around them without them judging you. A positive and good hearted women
I agree with you 100%
@@davidx5242 👌👌
@Via-Tele-gram-CourtneyRyan08 me? 😊
I like when women stay away from me
@@screwedupmystic2597 Ha! gayyyyyyy :)
I just wanted to say again, Courtney, that it's nice to know that you sincerely care about men. We don't often get the appreciation we deserve. A girlfriend of mine 30 years ago was very good to me that way and I still love her for it.
Remember, they only find these thing attractive if they are already attracted to you.
Only comment that's sensible
I agree. It was so nice to see women talk about enjoying men. It was refreshing.
Those voices really throw my concentration 😫 Like ladies, us men want to hear your voice! That’s what dig 😂 Great video, Courtney.
those sponge bob voice effects is a red flag for me,
A *red flag* bro? People just love to throw that around these days 😂
Bruh, the girls in the Tiktok video were walking red flags. Frigging Soviet Union is nothing compared to this shit.
"If he's just like driving a car.... Pull over" had me DEAD🤣🤣🤣
Love when women can take some initiative and be an upfront and mature communicator. Problems are impossible to solve if you don't know they exist.
These are all just completely basic normal things we already do. Easy. But this leads me to believe that you must already be attractive in order for these things to attract ladies. In that case, everything still boils down to just having to already be attractive.
If you're not a 6-6-6 guy to begin with, all the things discussed in this video are irrelevant.
When women say "Men" or "All Men," they are in fact referring only to the top 5 or 10 percent of men. That's important to keep in mind.
@@John_B52_HEMI ah i have found it, the truth in one of this ladies viewers.
I don't even have a drivers license and my academic hands will never be dry and worn, but somehow I suspect it comes down to looking and acting decent
@@John_B52_HEMIisn't it obvious though? If you made a video about what you find "secretly attractive" about women you're going to be referring to women that make it past your physical attraction filter and of course that varies from men to men. Let's be fair here.
@@ShaferHart I, like most men, don't have a "secret attraction" list for women. Men are basic, easy-to-understand creatures. We want a woman that looks decent (we don't demand or expect supermodels), is kind, and bathes regularly. That's it. Men are not hard to please. In comparison, women are PhD-level calculus, wrapped in feelings, and taught in Sanskrit.
To answer Courtney’s question, I usually pull my shirt off from the back when I’m sweaty and my shirt is sticking to my back (How else would you take it off? My back is what the shirt is sticking to. It doesn’t cling to the front for some reason, probably because my back is relatively smooth with more surface area to cling to, while my front is more “bumpy”). Also, I tend to pull my jacket or sweater off from the back and pulling it over my head toward the front, especially when I’m sitting in the car and there is limited space on either side of my seat, but there is ample headroom to pull something over my head. Taking off a shirt or sweater or hoodie by reaching back and grabbing the back and pulling it toward your front is usually the quickest way to disrobe, as the top comes right off. Grabbing a shirt from the front causes it to bunch up in the back for some reason, and you wind up tossing the shirt off backwards behind you, while grabbing the shirt from the back allows you to pull it over your head toward your front and toss it in front of you, which is less awkward (even if it bunches up in the front). Try it yourself.
I think this is a positive video overall, so true in terms of eye contact and leading especially. I will say though that f you're a guy that's looking to become more attractive, you don't need to start rolling your sleeves up or manufacturing situations where women will see you drive. I see those as things where if a woman already likes you to some extent, she'll enjoy seeing those things.
"Women don't always want solutions, they sometimes just need someone to listen" this is something that my ex had to teach me. Didn't make sense to me, but I realized it didn't have to.
"I Love Men!" 😂 Hahah that was indeed a cute video:)
I miss having a giggly girl by me I gotta say, it's a great feeling to have someone who admires you for even those little things!
My girl said what made her gooey about me straight away were my hands and right forearm as I'm a guitar player. What made me gooey about her was her posture, potential and posterior. What still makes me gooey about her is unfailing support, humor, forthrightness, grace and kindness.
this made my heart melt.
Congratulations on 700K subscribers. Another great video, thanks, Courtney.
Thank you so much 🥰
As a guy who takes his shirt off from the back (and who is black), it doesn’t mess with my afro too much and it is just far easier for me to pull off in one swoop 👕
Usually, as a guy, we take off our shirts from the back if we are sweaty or sticky. And the shirt sticks to our back, so the only way to take it off is to literally grip it from the back and pull it forward over our head. Otherwise, I'm not sure if it's a common thing for other guys.
As a man I didn't know this was a thing, thinking about it I guess I've seen it on TV. I can take off shirts just fine without doing that, then again, shirts are not what I wear when I'm going to do an activity that's going to cause me to sweat a lot.
1. Hand stuff
2. Zaddy stuff
3. Back and door stuff
4. Ordering stuff
5. Crispy sleeve stuff
6. Notice me senpai stuff
7. Shirts off stuff
8. Come hither hand stuff
9. Car stuff (Stop short, boys)
10. Handling it stiff
Also, Courtney being a scary driver is very funny. But women are out here looking at hands so how can they focus.
Thanks man
THANK YOU! I had to mute this video.
thats lots of stuff
3. Back and door stuff
*record scratch*
Hang on a minute. I don't remember that in the video.... oh right no yeah, back AND door stuff.
"tell me what I want"
"Okay, you want to choose your own damn food"
My girl just did this to me yesterday. Had some minor drama pop off at the house while I was at work and she called me and proceeded to tell me about it five times over the next hour. After a while, when she was better in the mood for that change of tone in the conversation, we exchanged a few thoughts back and forth about how to handle things going forward and then before we hung up she told me how much she appreciated it that I just listened first.
On another note, she knows just how safe she is in the vehicle with me at all times because I drive a semi truck for work. When she is riding with me is one of the few times that I can think of that she will literally just check out of everything that's going on around her and totally focus on reading a book or replying to emails or some other such thing. Then as if by some Harry Potter magic, she has been transported to a place where I'm asking her if she's coming in with me or remaining in the car while I go in!😂
I do the door thing all the time. Make sure you are walking on the correct side of her depending on which way the door opens. It's also super efficient because she doesn't need to stop walking.
Women hate chivalry. So I go ahead of her and hold the door closed and watch the puzzled look on their faces through the glass window.
Rolling up the sleeves 👌100% agreed. They like it and I love the look myself, it really does give your outfit a whole different look 😅
Except, men don't wear "outfits."
As Courtney alluded to, I'm not sure about the "Leave it to me. I'll fix it" I think this really is just for physical tasks, chores or checking on something, but that's probably it. Otherwise men will just try and jump to some unusable simple solution to a complex problem. This sounds almost sounds a tad simp. If women have problems why do they need the man to solve them. Why can't they talk to their girlfriends about it instead? Unless it's a physical task their friends or female relatives will probably come up with a betters solution anyway.
My Dad has one hand so as I grew up I would learn and copy ways he did things. I think that's what made me start pulling my shirt off from the back but now it really is the quickest way with the least motion required.
1) tall 2) rich 3) European decent
Kazakhstan is in the Eurovision, so borat voice is acceptable
Nope
4) spelling
@@mattslabb1822 descent
You need to watch Melanie King, Pearl Davis, Fresh & Fit, Michael Sartain, Psychacks. Also need to learn to spell. Try reading. Edit: Read edited works, not social media content. You’re welcome, btw.
I’ve got somethings I like about girls that girls might not expect, sorry it got so long but I guess I’ve been thinking about this stuff and I’ve gotta put those thoughts somewhere. If you meet a girl who likes the same thing that you like that you think nobody else likes, it’s great to meet anyone who likes the same things as you but when it’s a girl it’s like, I had no idea that the thing I was doing was cool I thought I was just weird, it feels like you’re doing something useful with your life when a girl likes it. When girls laugh, when they’re happy, something about it just touches my soul, particularly when I’ve made them happy but just seeing girls happy is just such a pure and joyful thing to see. When you make a joke that seems a bit rude and then she is into it, I was expecting you to be upset with me but now we’re just having a fun time. When you’ve been hurt either physically or emotionally and they look after you, it’s just so nice to feel safe and taken care of. When girls emote in any particular way, like if they’re crying then like sure it’s sad and I want to cheer you up and look after you but it’s also kind of cute, I’m not gonna tell you that but it’s true. I think that for me personally the emotions that girls feel have a pretty big impact on me. I like girls who are talented musicians, I’m a musician myself and I always feel sad when I see that hardly any of the girls who I know play music and most of the musicians I know are guys, and when they do it feels like they just stick to a very conservative range of styles, I like seeing girls express themselves with music because they can reach emotions that I can’t and when I see the really good ones play, it scares me because of how good it is. Basically I just find that girls have such a strong impact on how I feel and when they are nice to me, it just makes me so happy.
1. FORMATING. NO WALLS OF TEXT
2. "When girls emote in any particular way" What if it's not default dance?
I can not remember the last time I saw a video of women talking positively about men.
What men find attractive in women:
1. Not being the kind of person that uses TikTok
As a 38yo male, I don't find Courtney's advice actionable. Idk why. But fwiw, I struggle
Struggle is for everyone. On the brighter side, you probably have only 32 years more to struggle. Enjoy it. I have way less. Good luck.
Things I find super attractive that women (may) have no idea about:
1) walk barefoot
2) doesn't paint her nails
3) speak in another language (or accent)
4) read a book
5) dresses modestly
6) is not addicted to the internet
7) plays an instrument
8) calmly and respectfully stands for herself when someone does her wrong (yes, including myself)
9) when she's genuinely knowledgeable and passionate for a subject (history, biology, math, etc..)
10) when she's good at a sport
11) is generally innocent and inexperienced
12) spends A LOT of time with her family
13) is interested in listening and learning from good people with integrity.
14) is turned off by men with tattoos
The shirt thing is speed for sure. It’s faster and it’s 1 fluid motion. Once you’ve done it a couple times the shirt kind of just slides right off with incredibly little effort.
Honestly it was very refreshing to see a video where girls do state some things they love men do, that are far beyond the typical "he has to be 6 feet and 6 figures" and that stuff. Also - as Courtney already pointed out - their reaction said it all. They were giggling and shoving air in their faces, because of the blushing. This made the two girls (at least for me) far more attractive from a character POV than other videos about those lists did.
TLDR Loved the video
Things women do that are attractive:
- Genuinely laugh when she likes my jokes.
- No valley girl/end sentence with an inflection question style of speaking.
- Ask for something they want straight out instead of using manipulation to get it.
- Use perfume and makeup minimally. This enhances instead of hides.
- Gently caress the back of your neck/base of your skull.
- Lingering eye contact with a smile.
- Dressing with self-respect.
- Maintaining their body's natural beauty and "softness"...no facial piercings and a few small to no tattoos.
- Hugs.
- Not saying I love you every 5 minutes because they want to hear it back...needy. Saying it and meaning it when she really feels it or when I am having a really bad day.
- Speaking calmly and kindly.
-Intelligence.
-Intelligence.
-Intelligence.
-Intelligence.
-Intelligence.
-Intelligence.
Women and their lists. A list of icks, A list of what they demand, never a list of what they bring/offer to a man
Sure, you could complain about it, or just enjoy a fun and insightful video.
It's not complaining, just an observation. Women are quick to say what they want but not what they give and it gets old once you've heard it over and over.
That would make it a dating profile so yeah, they wouldn't make a video about that.
Also nobody would care, that's not an interesting video.
@@Steve_Ragnarsonbro gets no play
As someone who works in men’s fashion, it is nice to hear Loro Piana mentioned - very classy choice. Stefano Ricci is stunning as well👌🏻
@Courtney, your reactions are priceless 😂 "immediately unwell. I won't say anymore" 😂😂
Yeah the only problem with this list is that these are NOT women; they are post teenage girls. I don't think a woman of 35 gives a crap about most of these things.
I dunno about that. I see your point but... 1. the lady in this vid is young yet she's also married, she's a little more mature that post-teen girlie 2. I've seen the "kiddo" thing work with women in their 40s.
Most women don't even know what they actually like. And if they like something one time they may not like it the next. Again I think it all goes back to most women not knowing what they like or they're doing it out of emotions.
Yup. They change depending what day it is or what guy it is
wow, again I am amazed with your video Courtney. 🤘❤ it's funny when I hear some things I already know about, and sure I do subconsciously, but at the same time I need to have a reminder to know better and more. It gives a real booster to my journey!!
@CourtneyRyan - I recently found your UA-cam channel and am going through your videos. I really like your style and the subjects you cover.
Maybe you have already covered this (and I haven't got there yet), but it seems that the large majority of the videos you make as well as your advice, will fit well for relatively young men (late 20's and 30's maybe), particularly the ones who just started the dating game now and are getting serious about it.
How about dating advice for older men (over 50) who are either divorced or widower ?
Just as an observation, dating women who are over 50 is quite a challenge as the majority seem to fall into two distinctive categories: the ones who are looking for a well-established man with properties, a boat, horses, nice cars, often take international travel for holidays, etc......OR....the ones who are seeking young men (early 30's) usually only for fun.
Do you have any insights about this ?
Courtney always gives solid advice. Love her channel
Men..if you are rich you will get any woman you want. Everything else is bull. Just ask Courtney!
Or the potential to. But this is categorically wrong anyways
😂😂😂😂 Facts
When I'm taking off my jumper I first pull the neck hole up over my head so it doesn't get caught on my head on the way off. Then I reach back and grab at the back of the neck/top of the back and pull the thing off. The advantage if this method is my jumper isn't inside-out when it comes off. And it's pretty quick to do.
Thank you for your balanced, respectful and honest videos.
You can tell that Courtney is trying her best not to burst out laughing with that voice affect😂
One that absolutely floored me is the "taking off the shirt from the back" one. That's bizarre to me. My brother and I have ALWAYS taken our shirts off that way, and it's NOT because that's what we see hot guys do in movies. In fact, I think most movies with RIPPED men show them take their shirts off much like women do, just to showcase the abs. I don't have abs, I just pull my shirt off from the back because that's the way I've done it my entire life, literally as long as I can remember. I don't know if I was trained to do it that way as a little kid, if it's genetic or just natural. I don't know, but that's just how I do it.
@6.29 I already have to think for myself. Why do I need to think for you too? 😂
I take my shirt off from the back because after a good sweat the back will be like setting glue. Either you separate the freshly glued items and don’t reunite them or you slide one until it sets. I have had shirts set with arms, throat, head…in every bind you can imagine trying to slide it off after it started setting. Better for me to grab the back, break the seal, remove before releasing that handful of material so it doesn’t start setting again.
I've never seen one of your videos before, this was great. Refreshing takes
Wth with spongebob voice 🤣😭, i cant stop laughing , im imagining that spongebob actually talking this topic with Patrick 😭😭😭
Why I take my shirt off "from the back":
1. Less likely to stretch it out. If I remove it by grabbing and pulling the fabric around my ribs and pulling it over my head, the neck may get caught on my head, and I'll have to extend my arms to pull it off, which may stretch its neck or body.
2. Keeps the shirt outside out. Using the alternative method in #1 also turns it inside out, and I might wear it again before throwing it in the laundry. For instance, when I change at the gym, I'll almost certainly change back into my street clothes once I'm finished working out. The "from the back" method removes the extra step of turning it right side in.
3. Less cumbersome and mechanically complex. The only other alternative method for taking off my shirt I know of is to pull an arm through the sleeve into the body, extend that arm down through the tail, reach outside the shirt to grab the other sleeve to pull that arm into the body, reach down through the tail with that arm, bring both arms up in front of the shirt, grab the neck, then pull it off. Obviously, that method is much less efficient, and it requires me to flail my arms about like I'm having a fit.
Speaking from experience, I've almost always taken my shirt like that for two reasons. First, it doesn't wrinkle the shirt as much, of course it won't matter if it has been worn for long, and second, it goes off already ready for the hanger, meaning, it isn't inside-out. Courtney said it could be more difficult and get stuck on your head, maybe because my shirts have wider necks, but I've never had that problem. I most likely had it crossing arms because the shirt is folding on itself but it is such a 1st world problem...
Honestly, taking a shirt off from the back is the only way I've ever done it. Don't think I would know how to do it any other way. I had no idea anyone notices or would ever think about it. Love the point you made that there is no actual "right or wrong" for almost all of these situations, everything works for someone. BTW, love your voice Courtney - it's really smooth and nice to listen to.
that's insane I would never presume to order for someone. Even if we were talking about it beforehand....what if she changed her mind and didn't verbalize it? That's wild.
This list only applies to Chad. If an average man tried any of this with them he’d be a creep.
Man the timing of that is funny.
I was thinking about the condition my hands just yesterday... which have become quite calloused on the inside from pullups, on the outside from bareknuckle bagwork, and on the tips from playing guitar.
And wondering how that might feel to girls that I do salsa classes with, one in particular. 😏
Sounds like it's not a problem. 🙂
Her: "I don't trust that woman, I feel like she's after you."
Him: "Leave it with me."
😆
1 thing that men love for their partner to do is to show our accomplishments off (unless we say otherwise about specific accomplishments). UA-cam recently recommended a short to me of this woman showing off how she hated the open I-beam ceiling in their basement. So her male partner got a bunch of sheets of drywall, cut them to fit between the I-beams like drop ceiling tiles, and painted the drywall tiles and bottoms of the I-beams the same color. Sure he could have gotten drop ceiling tiles to do this, but those tend to be more expensive than what he did so it not only showed his creative thinking, but it also showed his skill at being budget conscientious. On top of that, throughout the video, he was trying to act and sound nonchalant like his idea was simple and his work wasn’t a big deal demonstrating how humble he is. However, I could tell that he was over the moon on how appreciative he was that his partner was showing off not only his work but also these qualities he has.
I just got a fresh, new knife cut (by accident) on my left middle finger, so I guess since we live in crazy times, tossing a left-handed FU might be green light for women ?
As a man I agree with these things, also making multiple 6 figures and bienhechor 6 feet tall helps
I grab my shirt from the back because that’s how I’ve done it since I was a kid. I tried taking my shirt off the way a girl does and got stuck and had to get help
Taking shirt off from my back is mainly to protect the shirt. A well fitted cotton shirt can be quite difficult to take off the normal way if you have wide shoulders. Pulling shirt off from the back would make your shoulders squeeze in making shirt removal much easier. With wider shoulders, trying to take off a well fitting cotton shirt the normal way might rip the shirt.
In case anyone is curious about guys taking their shirt off from the back:
I can only speak for myself, of course, though I'd imagine there is some universality to this. I'm quite muscular, and shirts get caught around my lats and shoulders quite easily. In particular, if a shirt is not quite stretchy, then taking it off in any way other than from the back becomes really awkward and annoying and prone to getting stuck in a make-shift straight jacket when lifting it over the upper back & shoulder area. That said, most clothing is made from stretchier materials these days, so it might be something that phases itself out.
The woman in the video said "from the back" to mean grabbing the shirt by the neck. You're describing the opposite.
@@forasago I mean either from the back of the neck or from the back of the bottom of the shirt; either method works better than from the front for either.
It has to do with broader shoulders and really stretching the shirt out if trying to cross-arm pull them up from the bottom to get them over flexed shoulders. Another reason I pull the shirt off from the back (really, the back of the collar) is so it does not turn inside-out. I wash clothes so the way they come out of the dryer they are ready to fold or hang (without needing to turn them right-side-out). It is just a means of reducing wasted effort/motion. My wife pulls shirts up from the bottom to take them off which then turns them inside-out. She also believes washing shirts inside-out makes them last longer.
Taking the shirt from the back is more convenient when the shirt is a bit tight. In a way, it prevents the shirt from getting ripped when taking it off from the front or the sides.
10:50 If the shirt is snug or fit around your waist the shirt will catch on your shoulders if you don't take it off that way. By putting your elbows above your head, it helps the shirt not catch.
My hands are rough and dry from work but I use hand lotion and make sure they are clean and warm before I give you a massage. I don't want to scratch your smooth skin.
One thing i love about my fiance is that he's generally pretty reserved through out the day, he also code switches allot depending on who hes talking too(hes told me its an old deflection tactic he built because he grew up in a very bad area and had to cater his personality to different people to avoid hostile confrontations)
But in the early morning or late at night when its just us, usually wrapped in bed or on the couch, he speaks with his true voice, very deep and quiet with a slight twang, and speaks directly from his heart despite deflecting people all day. Its like a whole other man that belongs only to me and no one else gets to see ❤
There are a few reasons why the shirt is pulled off from the back or neck. First, a man's chest is generally broader and wider than a woman's, so the front pull-up and crossover is a little trickier to do. Secondly, when you pull the shirt up from the back, you have an option to take off the shirt outside out (normally) or hold the sleeves and turn it inside out and have it ready for washing. Lastly, its a quick workout for the triceps.
14:29 brings a tear to a lot of mens eyes. You rarely ever hear that . Hits deep in the feels
This was quite helpful, thanks for making the video.
I don’t know if other guys do this, but I personally like to get something from my car or throw something away before talking to women or anyone. It’s kind of a routine of mine. Feels good, too. Like You’re taking care of business, then getting down to business. Super Satisfying!