Things Women Find Attractive That Men Have No Idea About

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  • @jkgaming0565
    @jkgaming0565 9 місяців тому +1341

    As a man who has hands and drives, I see this as an absolute win

    • @JD-xd4sy
      @JD-xd4sy 9 місяців тому +40

      Get really dry and flaky and you're an absolute winner

    • @timewarpdrive77
      @timewarpdrive77 9 місяців тому +11

      'Ryan Gosling memes intensify'

    • @twilightknight2333
      @twilightknight2333 9 місяців тому +16

      it's only a win if she finds you attractive, which includes a lot of other qualities.

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx 9 місяців тому

      ​@justingary5322
      TL;DR

    • @trojan403
      @trojan403 9 місяців тому +1

      Hahaha

  • @Ray03595
    @Ray03595 9 місяців тому +1486

    Not exaggerating, that is the only positive piece of media I’ve seen about men in years.

    • @richardhorne4963
      @richardhorne4963 9 місяців тому +8

      Ofcourse the eye to eye contact is obviously a killer in a goodway KILLER😊

    • @richardhorne4963
      @richardhorne4963 9 місяців тому

      Can I just say I think this is about the DOES and the DON'TS so eye contact will just come naturally I would suggest not trying this unnaturally as it would look fake so this is a thing OF YOU LIKE HER IT WILL JUST HAPPEN

    • @richardhorne4963
      @richardhorne4963 9 місяців тому +4

      The t shirt thing of take it off from back don't make an a hole of yourself something's just don't bother😂

    • @richardhorne4963
      @richardhorne4963 9 місяців тому

      Courtney your man is a lucky man I'm sure he's a sexy good guy gotta be.😂😊😂

    • @TheMeditatingPhilosopher
      @TheMeditatingPhilosopher 9 місяців тому +7

      That's a great point! I think appreciating the opposite sex is a sign of confidence and vice verse. I've never seen a video from this channel and am not sure how it got recommended but liked the title and such. A+
      Pet names are tricky, but playfulness is important and this was great. I wonder what 'hand nick names' would be good for ppl or what calling each other 'the Rock' ironically or 'Barbie and Ken' for a week would be like.
      Thanks for the great video!

  • @_israelferraro
    @_israelferraro 9 місяців тому +441

    Something I find attractive in women is when they are straight forward, transparent communicators. It tells me they're not interested in playing mind games and otherwise wasting time.

    • @boris1387
      @boris1387 9 місяців тому +22

      Where are these women you speak of??

    • @_israelferraro
      @_israelferraro 9 місяців тому +26

      @@boris1387 Either already in relationships or hiding somewhere. At least that's what it often feels like😂

    • @boris1387
      @boris1387 9 місяців тому +3

      @@_israelferraro I hear ya dude 😆👌👍🏻

    • @lexnite22
      @lexnite22 9 місяців тому +1

      Nah, you just described a man. No woman has ever been straight forward or transparent with their communication, it's just in their nature to be illogical.

    • @maximalsakerhet7930
      @maximalsakerhet7930 9 місяців тому

      You need to date a man for that bro🤣🤣. I mean that's textbook men's communcation. Men communicate overtly and directly, women are the polar opposite, communicating covertly and indirectly. Ofc there are exceptions but generally this is how it is.

  • @F_Du_Sea
    @F_Du_Sea 9 місяців тому +513

    Things that I find attractive in women:
    1.) Kindness towards animals and people (caring but not naive).
    2.) Long term prospects
    3.) Intelligence

    • @tyronelorenzovalentio3414
      @tyronelorenzovalentio3414 9 місяців тому +4

      Not animals😅😅

    • @sdott9751
      @sdott9751 9 місяців тому +9

      Gay

    • @jimx45
      @jimx45 8 місяців тому +6

      To me it's more of her caring and kindness towards anyone regardless of what they look like, their gender, their age. If she is only nice to girls for example that reeks of predatorial and self-gain and makes me feel disgusted as much as I feel about simps being only nice to girls.

    • @gregkareem9824
      @gregkareem9824 8 місяців тому

      ​​@@sdott9751who u? Oh man i didnt know to bad i dont care.

    • @neco5740
      @neco5740 8 місяців тому +2

      1. Being genuinely interested in you as a person

  • @MigsMcgee
    @MigsMcgee 9 місяців тому +503

    1. Dry callous hands, hands in general
    2. Calling a girl a "good girl" (will vary from woman to woman)
    3. Touching a girl's lower back. Opening a door and ushering her in.
    4. Ordering their food for them (Polarizing effect, some hate it others love it)
    5. Rolling up your sleeves on a button down shirt.
    6. Special attention in group settings.
    7. Taking your shirt off with one hand from the back 🤷‍♂
    8. Motioning for them to give you their hand while you're walking ahead of them.
    9. When you drive. (One arm on wheel and an other behind headrest or on lap)
    10. Vocalizing that you'll handle a problem or situation.

    • @TechieTard
      @TechieTard 9 місяців тому +14

      4.) You ask them what they generally want, fowl, chicken, beef, fish, etc, salty, spicy, sweet, etc, THEN suggest (order) for them.

    • @TechieTard
      @TechieTard 9 місяців тому +6

      ​@@FORS4KENThat's why you put them through the washing machine first.

    • @khem127
      @khem127 9 місяців тому +13

      @@FORS4KEN Well, if women can't tell youwhat they like, you're already lost. just stay in your head or listen to another man, sounds like a winning strategy. Good Luck with that.

    • @FORS4KEN
      @FORS4KEN 9 місяців тому +13

      @@khem127 if you ask fish about how to catch fish, it's not over for you, it never began in the first place.

    • @jetsdude8
      @jetsdude8 9 місяців тому +15

      basically serve them nonstop and give them constant attention. Spoiler alert they still won't be happy in the end because they don't have to be.

  • @PelvisPresley7294
    @PelvisPresley7294 9 місяців тому +1843

    Nice to hear Courtney say, 'I love men'- a sentiment from women that is becoming increasingly rare.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  9 місяців тому +258

      ❤️

    • @ericson_of_eric
      @ericson_of_eric 9 місяців тому +56

      Bro, that was WILD! I reposted it! 🤞😂❤️

    • @SharpBalisong
      @SharpBalisong 9 місяців тому +47

      I had to watch a few times. 🥲

    • @timothyrobinson2387
      @timothyrobinson2387 9 місяців тому +27

      As long as she's benefits from them.

    • @richardhorne4963
      @richardhorne4963 9 місяців тому +13

      Oh yes today's women are not good for men of today😢😢

  • @LatimusChadimus
    @LatimusChadimus 9 місяців тому +591

    I hate all of those voice effects. Whether it's the female one or that disturbing fake SpongeBob one but I'm not on tiktok yet other platforms still feature these videos

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  9 місяців тому +117

      Same 😭

    • @FiremanFrach
      @FiremanFrach 9 місяців тому +8

      💯

    • @philsky888
      @philsky888 9 місяців тому +7

      ditto

    • @scrappymark
      @scrappymark 9 місяців тому +20

      I thought I was the only one who thinks it sounds like sponge bob 😂

    • @jameslebeau7078
      @jameslebeau7078 9 місяців тому

      TikTok makes me support nuking China

  • @Sidewalkman1
    @Sidewalkman1 9 місяців тому +133

    I find it attractive when a woman huddles closer to me. It feels more personal, intimate, and trust in personal space. Or when talking and she casually says my name in a conversation.

    • @tonyince859
      @tonyince859 9 місяців тому +5

      government name to be specific

  • @Mystefier
    @Mystefier 9 місяців тому +23

    You asked things we find attractive.
    Core values - compassion, able to joke around with me, humility, feminine, humility, appreciating me, able to grow and able to listen. Tries to improve.
    little things - Long hair and really love the spiral curls. Wearing a circular dress and seeing it twirl, a genuine smile, cute happy dances, happy laughs, playful teasing that doesn't get mean spirited. Cute facial expressions.

  • @Migu31m
    @Migu31m 9 місяців тому +68

    Your sincerity makes these videos be so empathetic.
    1. As a man, pulling off your shirt from the back is easy once you master the technique 😊
    2. One simple thing I find attractive is when you have been working around the house and your wife surprises you a freshly squeezed lemonade or home brewed ice coffee in the middle of a task, not at the end.
    Keep it up, your videos bring awareness in such a kind and loving manner.

    • @samstromberg5593
      @samstromberg5593 8 місяців тому

      Why do you do though? All the guys I went to high school with would take off their sweatshirts like that too and I've never once (as a guy) had the inclination to try it
      Granted I don't specifically know that I DON'T like to do it that way, I just don't get why everyone else does

    • @forasago
      @forasago 8 місяців тому +8

      @@samstromberg5593 It leaves the shirt the right way around. Pulling the shirt from the bottom inverts it.

    • @dbf1dware
      @dbf1dware 8 місяців тому +3

      @@samstromberg5593 It is a swift, smooth motion that leaves the shirt right-side-out (as noted by @forasago), quick, easy, even if the shirt if very sweaty or wet, and doesn't look or feel stupid like pulling each arm through. Sheesh. It's just the smoothest, smartest way to remove a shirt.

    • @samstromberg5593
      @samstromberg5593 8 місяців тому +1

      @@dbf1dware Mm for me it’s harder cause I don’t have short hair so it’s really easy to mess up if I take it off like that
      All the swim kids at my high school would do it cause it also pulls their shirt up but makes it look not intentional and they were just tryna show off so actually that’s another reason I don’t do it cause I don’t HAVE any muscles to show off😂

    • @dbf1dware
      @dbf1dware 8 місяців тому +2

      @@samstromberg5593 Fair enough. I have almost zero hair, so that is not an issue. I also have a so-called "dad bod" meaning I have a fat belly and no muscle. So I am definitely NOT trying to show off anything. Quite the contrary. I want to get this sweaty, dirty shirt off of me and put on a clean one as quickly as possible to AVOID anyone being subjected to my un-attractiveness.

  • @garystevens6369
    @garystevens6369 9 місяців тому +91

    About the shirt thing...
    Guys do that because our shirts are cut different than women's. We don't want to stretch out the neck. We usually have wider shoulders than women. I personally don't like turning my shirts inside-out. It's just another step to folding it, or hanging it up, after we wash our clothes. It's mostly about not stretching out our clothes.

    • @jeradw7420
      @jeradw7420 9 місяців тому +17

      I was gonna say if I am working on a car and my shirt is dirty I will try not to pull that dirt to my face. For me the easiest way to keep the dirt out is to drag from the back.

    • @MtnMan-yt9ir
      @MtnMan-yt9ir 8 місяців тому +11

      I read through the comments to see if anyone had said the obvious (to men). I do it this way to keep from turning the shirt inside out, especially long sleeve shirts.

    • @Hrocdol
      @Hrocdol 8 місяців тому +4

      I used to never understand that method of taking off a shirt and never did it. Recently, though, I went on a bike ride and got so sweaty, and the particular shirt I had on stuck to me so bad, there was just no taking it off in the way I usually do.

    • @nickstebbens
      @nickstebbens 7 місяців тому +2

      it's from having wider lats too, like if my shirt's wet it suction cups to my lats and the only way I can ever get my shirt off until I've 'dried off' after the gym is by pulling it off from the backside like that

    • @NosloJT
      @NosloJT 4 місяці тому +2

      Yeah, it's being too sweaty for it to come off any other way

  • @dylancooper3690
    @dylancooper3690 9 місяців тому +385

    I've tried the "fix a problem" thing and it usually ended up with me in the friendzone.

    • @jmmichael188
      @jmmichael188 9 місяців тому +42

      100% correct

    • @QuintinHowell
      @QuintinHowell 9 місяців тому +149

      It only works if she already finds you attractive

    • @kingyellowman5762
      @kingyellowman5762 9 місяців тому +19

      Probably overweight

    • @louisthemates999
      @louisthemates999 9 місяців тому +32

      Try not to fix the problem , instead try to missed the part where that your problem 😂😂

    • @HellCat_Kenny
      @HellCat_Kenny 9 місяців тому +8

      @@QuintinHowelllike every other strategy then.

  • @noel6302
    @noel6302 9 місяців тому +87

    With so much negative stuff being said by women about men & men about women on line these days its so very refeshing to see young women make a video like this. It gives me much hope for the future & I really hope that we're past the worst of this stupid gender war. Then to hear Courtney beautify say "I love men" was just so wonderful to hear. This video has made me so happy. Oh, & I love women.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 9 місяців тому +2

      Sorry, but we are absolutely not past the worst of it. The worst of it is yet to come; just wait until 2030.... then you will see the real fireworks begin.

    • @shigshug8581
      @shigshug8581 2 місяці тому

      one hundred percent!

  • @ApplesOranges123
    @ApplesOranges123 8 місяців тому +3

    I enjoy the positivity that you bring to the male female dynamic. Thanks again.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  8 місяців тому +1

      You’re so kind. Thank you ❤️

  • @Equalizedby12
    @Equalizedby12 9 місяців тому +35

    As a man I do a lot of these things , didn’t realize women notice it, it’s mostly things I watched my father do
    1. Hand on lower back, ushering my mom when I was a kid
    2. Driving her whenever she needed to go somewhere
    3. Opening and closing her door no matter how long you’re together
    4. When she walks behind reaching out to take her hand
    5. Wiping her hair off her face if it falls on her face when she’s talking
    Things done by the “right” woman not just any woman
    1. Taking my hand when I least expect it , sitting somewhere relaxing
    2. Hugging from
    The back when we are doing something
    3. Eye contact in a crowd
    4. Being good with kids
    5. Dressing feminine in dresses , especially long maxi cut dresses with flats
    6. Being patient n kind
    7. Thoughtfulness
    8. When she’s late and shows up flustered and lets me calm her down and assuring her its ok
    Men love handling problems and also calming down a flustered or stressed out woman they love!

    • @jeffro.
      @jeffro. 9 місяців тому

      @equalizedby12:
      Sounds like you really miss your mom.

    • @sterlingd1984
      @sterlingd1984 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@jeffro. Sounds like you just want to argue and need to deal with an inner anger you haven't dealt with yet

    • @forasago
      @forasago 8 місяців тому +1

      @@jeffro. I think you misread his comment. He was describing his dad doing those things.

    • @hopperskid381
      @hopperskid381 7 місяців тому

      we should get married baby girl

    • @rolandvasquez4758
      @rolandvasquez4758 5 місяців тому +1

      I completely agree with number 5 on your "right" woman list.

  • @TheEpicRacer01
    @TheEpicRacer01 9 місяців тому +122

    I think this only applies if she finds you attractive in the 1st place.

    • @TheVicar
      @TheVicar 9 місяців тому +6

      Cash

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx 9 місяців тому +17

      Oh yeah 100%.
      That applies to all these kind of women's 'tips'.

    • @forasago
      @forasago 8 місяців тому +7

      Yeah. Step 1: Be the kind of man she wants to marry. Step 2: Drive a car or whatever every day thing you have to take care of that day and suddenly it's attractive.

    • @19ars92
      @19ars92 8 місяців тому +10

      @@BWater-yq3jx
      They tend to romanticize a lot.
      The rough hands thing they’re probably thinking of a guy like young Brat Pitt at the gym, not your overweight construction worker’s hands.

    • @jimx45
      @jimx45 8 місяців тому +4

      In other words how tall you are.

  • @vaticancartel136
    @vaticancartel136 9 місяців тому +36

    ​ @CourtneyRyan - We take our shirts off from the back, because when the shirt is wet with sweat from working all day -- it tends to stick to the back side and not pull over. We typically do this with any shirt that is *not* button-down. We don't care what they do in the movies. It's just really as simple as a practical solution from trial and error in becoming a hard-working man.

    • @goingtocalifornia
      @goingtocalifornia 9 місяців тому +4

      Nailed it. It’s the shirt sticking to the back because of sweat.

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart 9 місяців тому +1

      As a man I've never done this. Guess there's no hope for me then welp. Please go on without me guys--I'll be fine!

    • @forasago
      @forasago 8 місяців тому +3

      This seems exactly the wrong way around. When I pull from the back (my normal technique) a truly wet shirt will stick to the skin too much. In these situations I'll make an exception and use the front technique because the shirt rolls off the skin rather than being dragged along the skin. No friction. How could it get/stay stuck when you pull from the front? Makes no sense.

    • @JasonPuckett-w9y
      @JasonPuckett-w9y День тому

      I do it because the shirt stays right side out, so I don't have to mess with flipping it from inside out.

  • @SleekDiamond41
    @SleekDiamond41 9 місяців тому +122

    What men find attractive in women:
    1. Not being the kind of person that uses TikTok

    • @tr11_
      @tr11_ Місяць тому +2

      Never downloaded tiktok. ✋

    • @bbqpitmaster1324
      @bbqpitmaster1324 Місяць тому

      That is a fact!

  • @tinymetaltrees
    @tinymetaltrees 9 місяців тому +34

    Nah. Those are their real voices.

  • @TheVicar
    @TheVicar 9 місяців тому +455

    1. Income
    2. Income
    3. Income
    4. Income
    5. Income
    6. Income
    7. Income
    8. Income
    9. Income
    10. Hands

    • @tomservo5347
      @tomservo5347 9 місяців тому +16

      Also one arm on the window or leaning on the steering wheel; depends on what you're driving. Being married I give zero F's that I drive on old, reliable work truck that'll get dirty anyway on the gravel road I live on. It drives women nuts when you don't play their game but rather totally ignore them.

    • @astroboirap
      @astroboirap 9 місяців тому +7

      *big nob

    • @TheVicar
      @TheVicar 9 місяців тому +1

      @@astroboirap big hands

    • @marcsequence
      @marcsequence 9 місяців тому +17

      10 B: hands with which to make income…* 🤭

    • @Film_Sushi
      @Film_Sushi 9 місяців тому +4

      LOL

  • @willhamilton927
    @willhamilton927 9 місяців тому +204

    The reaction/responses from both Courtney and the two women in the video make me realize how much I miss having a woman in my life. All these things that got them excited had little to nothing to do with money or any of the other things you hear women want from men. They are getting worked up over men simply being themselves. I love it.

    • @justinlane4153
      @justinlane4153 9 місяців тому +15

      I agree. However, I work in a trade with all men, go to the gym and generally stay busy. I haven’t really found a scene where I can connect with women in the wild. Tried apps for like a month. Sometimes I’ll go to bars with my friends but I’m honestly not looking for someone who goes out every weekend. It seems like that’s where everyone meets if it’s not on an app. I feel like it would be easier if I had some avenue of access. Only dated one girl for 4 years and I still miss her after a more than a year of being apart. It’s so lomely out here

    • @petermendelsohn4944
      @petermendelsohn4944 9 місяців тому

      It's true that "don't need no man" has reached a wider audience of women. Nevertheless, in most of the "red pill" videos I watch, they poll scantily clad GIRLS (with their juvenile and entitled attitudes, I wouldn't call them women) on the street (beaucoup red flags flying just visually) and then use the voiceover at the end "she's for the streets!" You found her on the street, not engaged in anything worthwhile already. What did you expect? I live in the Kansas City area, and the women, though touched by feminist ideas, are generally much more conservative than the half-naked bimbos they talk to on the podcasts. I am shocked at how far-reaching the temporary fad of permanent tattoos has become. But what do I know, I'm an old guy who's not on the market. I'm schooling myself to the new realities so I can counsel my grandchildren with realistic and timely advice.

    • @imperialsecuritybureau6037
      @imperialsecuritybureau6037 9 місяців тому

      @@justinlane4153try some clubs or something where you can meet like-minded women? Best way to meet one is to know them already.

    • @BGLEE001
      @BGLEE001 9 місяців тому

      Where do you usually meet woman?

    • @VaronPlateando
      @VaronPlateando 9 місяців тому +1

      well... I guess then these aren't what's really relevant, before all. as in: who did lady chatterley fall for, or scarlett o'hara (fiction, yes).

  • @mikejones4322
    @mikejones4322 9 місяців тому +62

    Guys, don't let your hands get dried out. You'll have pains in you hands later in life. My dad said he regrets not taking better care of his hands. I try to lotion my hands at least once a week.

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 9 місяців тому

      Just use soaps that have inbuilt moisturizer

    • @abaddon3735
      @abaddon3735 9 місяців тому

      @user-qk7vv3mx1s The dry calloused hand thing makes no sense to me, I work with my hands daily... but I wear PPE... so I don't fuck up my hands lol

    • @Youttubeuser20932
      @Youttubeuser20932 9 місяців тому +3

      How will this cause pains later in life which can't be fixed within a week or so of moisturizing?

    • @waynehendrix4806
      @waynehendrix4806 9 місяців тому +3

      @@Youttubeuser20932Good question. I think it came from a gay accountant.

    • @kevinlentz7604
      @kevinlentz7604 9 місяців тому

      Moistureizing ,is a great way to soften your skin ,all of your skin,caulluses don’t disappear,smell good too

  • @__-pl3jg
    @__-pl3jg 9 місяців тому +207

    The biggest turn-on from women for me is when they respond calmly to unexpected events. Most women fly off the handle and start imagining worst case scenarios for everything making it difficult to communicate with them and work together to find a solution. Seeing a woman calmly think about the situation makes me feel like I can trust her.
    The next best turn-on is finding a woman that is capable of self change. Someone who acknowledges they will inevitably change over time and are actively seeking to become a better version of themselves. Not everyone has the ability to see themselves from a 3rd party point of view and imagine different versions of their lives, choosing to become who they want to become. Most people are simply being tossed around like a leaf in the wind adapting to whatever situation they're in....Instead of having control over their future and CHOOSING to have you as a part of it.

    • @PaulDouglas-Feddon
      @PaulDouglas-Feddon 9 місяців тому +6

      So true

    • @thisdyingsoul76
      @thisdyingsoul76 9 місяців тому +13

      Constantly jumping to the worst case scenario instead of taking the time to see where the situation leads is very tiring.
      It's one way to make me cranky in a hurry. I hate having to talk a woman off a ledge over something that is most likely nothing and very slim chances of being as bad as she is imagining.

    • @JACQUEZ23
      @JACQUEZ23 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@thisdyingsoul76bruh what

    • @thisdyingsoul76
      @thisdyingsoul76 9 місяців тому +6

      ​@JACQUEZJOHNSON23 imagine if a woman googles symptoms she is having and there is a 99.9% chance it's just a minor condition (dry skin, for example) and a 0.1% chance it's cancer. So naturally she assumes she has cancer and it becomes a catastrophe.
      Now imagine this logic is applied to every scenario in this woman's life and you are the one constantly trying to reel her back in and get to think rationally.
      That's exhausting and hard on the head to have to do all the time, don't you think?

    • @offthetrail5675
      @offthetrail5675 9 місяців тому

      Cool under pressure x1000!. I work with all guys and any time there is a major issue in the field we calmly bounce ideas and solutions. At home a little tiny thing can make my wife go completely off the rails. I find her stress gives me stress. It's also very hard to work through solutions when she is so upset.

  • @bfwebster
    @bfwebster 9 місяців тому +55

    I'm 71, been happily married for 38 years, and some of these were a revelation. I have a few new things to try. 😂❤
    Here's one thing I know my wife loves. When I'm getting dressed for say, church, I'll put on a long-sleeve dress shirt, button the cuffs, and then -- before I put my suit slacks on -- I'll walk over to the chair to sit down to put on my socks. She comments regularly how much she loves watching me walk across the room like that. 😂❤

  • @vidfan1973
    @vidfan1973 9 місяців тому +195

    Most of us men have no idea about these because we feel invisible - plain and simple.

    • @komoru
      @komoru 9 місяців тому +9

      Get jacked and get a 6-pack then you won't be invisible anymore.

    • @John_Caravella
      @John_Caravella 9 місяців тому +10

      @@komoru That could work for a guy who's 6+ feet tall, but what about the guy who's 5'8" and isn't Tom Cruise? Women want the triple-6 guy; the double-6 dude will still be invisible.

    • @noaharthur9041
      @noaharthur9041 9 місяців тому +19

      @@John_Caravella to be fair its not every woman. If that were the case you wouldn't be seeing average men and women walking together with their child on the streets. Its just that social media has spread this idea so its become crazy.

    • @khem127
      @khem127 9 місяців тому +9

      vidfan men are probably NOT looking at the women who are looking at them

    • @TheVicar
      @TheVicar 9 місяців тому +2

      @@noaharthur9041 Its probably her X's child

  • @MrTigerlilly68
    @MrTigerlilly68 9 місяців тому +75

    The reason for why I sometimes pull off my shirts from behind is because it is easier if the shirt fits tight over chest and shoulders.
    It is also quicker than to unbotton the whole shirt 😊

    • @multivariateperspective5137
      @multivariateperspective5137 9 місяців тому +3

      Exactly

    • @BillPeschel
      @BillPeschel 9 місяців тому

      I do this with my buttoned shirt, which I wear over several days. I suspect that men's shoulders are more flexible than women's.

    • @gambino883
      @gambino883 9 місяців тому +5

      Yeah and also it's not inside out when you do it like that.

    • @triathlontimmy
      @triathlontimmy 9 місяців тому +3

      hey now, save some ladies for the rest of us

    • @Mech-Mech
      @Mech-Mech 9 місяців тому

      We also don't have boobs to snag the shirt on accidentally

  • @tonywilliams1
    @tonywilliams1 9 місяців тому +16

    I just wanted to say again, Courtney, that it's nice to know that you sincerely care about men. We don't often get the appreciation we deserve. A girlfriend of mine 30 years ago was very good to me that way and I still love her for it.

  • @JonasMollerNielsen
    @JonasMollerNielsen 9 місяців тому +219

    Things that I find attractive that women do.
    - laughing
    - logical thinking
    - when she lifts her arms up, like doing things with her hair or stretching
    - when she says “give me a kiss”
    - holding my upper arm with both her hands
    - well painted nails
    - smiles

    • @derwoodhamburger
      @derwoodhamburger 9 місяців тому +34

      I love accountality. Owning up to their mistakes. It's so rare nowdays

    • @pochcalpadlos
      @pochcalpadlos 9 місяців тому +8

      yes, well painted nails and basically over all taking care of her look.

    • @DeltaVe
      @DeltaVe 9 місяців тому +5

      Those first and third points were things I overlooked, but dang if they don't get me... whew

    • @toddnakrosis4415
      @toddnakrosis4415 9 місяців тому

      -when she wears this two-tone button down little number and describes how sexy her husband is

    • @aprilgeneric8027
      @aprilgeneric8027 9 місяців тому

      women and logical thinking is an oxymoron, their decision process is entirely based upon how they feel and negative experience...that's called living in fear....any girl spoiled enough to never have experienced negative experiences you are just going to disappoint the hell out of her and set a new threshold bar for all men in her future to have to hurdle over like a boss. see Hoe_Math 1-10 scale men vs womens dating perception scale

  • @gangliongaming4618
    @gangliongaming4618 9 місяців тому +5

    Love when women can take some initiative and be an upfront and mature communicator. Problems are impossible to solve if you don't know they exist.

  • @Mystefier
    @Mystefier 9 місяців тому +4

    I agree. It was so nice to see women talk about enjoying men. It was refreshing.

  • @thethesaxman23
    @thethesaxman23 9 місяців тому +94

    I think an important takeaway from this is that while there are some things that a majority of women like, most turn ons and turn offs are very subjective and vary wildly from person to person. I think it’s good practice to take any advice that starts off with “All men …” or “All women …” with a massive grain of salt

    • @jonprince3237
      @jonprince3237 9 місяців тому +10

      I think it also depends a lot on whether she likes or dislikes you already anyway. Your hands will do nothing for her if she's already decided you're a low value a'hole, and if she's attracted to you then lots of random, small things will reinforce that positive perception.

    • @tappajaav
      @tappajaav 9 місяців тому +1

      @@BillPeschel I'd be curious to hear some examples of those many "red flags"

    • @andersnielsen6044
      @andersnielsen6044 9 місяців тому

      Spot on.. And most of these turn offs comes from what the guy they are already attracted to has.. If any of these things was on any other guy - it might be a huge turn off.. ;)

    • @chriswhinery925
      @chriswhinery925 9 місяців тому

      @@jonprince3237 This. Most women will like almost everything in this video IF they are already attracted to you. If a woman is very attracted to you she will match your energy and start liking everything you like and appreciating everything you do (within reason). Step one is being as attractive as you can, maximize your looks, your confidence, your masculinity. Then more women will find you attractive and suddenly the things you do will seem a lot more charming.

  • @Moe19922
    @Moe19922 9 місяців тому +42

    I love it when women are sweet to not just me but to others as well. When she is considerate, warm, positive, easy going, energetic and fun and when you can be yourself around them without them judging you. A positive and good hearted women

    • @davidx5242
      @davidx5242 9 місяців тому +2

      I agree with you 100%

    • @Moe19922
      @Moe19922 9 місяців тому

      @@davidx5242 👌👌

    • @Moe19922
      @Moe19922 9 місяців тому

      @Via-Tele-gram-CourtneyRyan08 me? 😊

    • @screwedupmystic2597
      @screwedupmystic2597 9 місяців тому +5

      I like when women stay away from me

    • @tappajaav
      @tappajaav 9 місяців тому +6

      @@screwedupmystic2597 Ha! gayyyyyyy :)

  • @BradFess-jo8to
    @BradFess-jo8to 9 місяців тому +20

    So glad that Courtney clarified the whole, Solve the problem, but sometimes they just want you to listen and not try to solve it. Can we get different colored chips/flags to help a brother out? Also love the subtle undertone of all three of them admitting that women are quite indecisive and often don't know what they want! It's nothing bad, just own it. Refreshing to hear some honesty and the girls just having fun!

    • @supramaniac502
      @supramaniac502 9 місяців тому +3

      Different colored chips, no, but you can ask the question, is this an "I need a solution" problem or is this an "I just want to vent about it" problem? Might sound stupid or counterintuitive, but it works for me and my lady. Contrary to what you might believe, she actually does answer that question with one or the other if it's asked directly.

    • @BradFess-jo8to
      @BradFess-jo8to 9 місяців тому +2

      @supramaniac502 I was kinda joking, but yes, I do agree with you. I do this with my wife and it does work. She will start talking about something and I ask her that same question. "Do you want me to just listen to you, or help you solve this?" And she does answer and then keeps going. It does help us as well!

  • @x_DaPrequel
    @x_DaPrequel 9 місяців тому +11

    All those things, only if the guy already meets all the prerequisites. They are not describing an average guy doing those things. Instead, they are imagining a 10% guy.

  • @Amalgam67
    @Amalgam67 9 місяців тому +14

    Maybe it's just because I'm older and I stopped giving a f-- about what people think, but that list seemed awful silly.

    • @Gillsing
      @Gillsing 9 місяців тому

      Women are silly. Have you seen what Batman would look like if he was designed to appeal to women? Big eyes, thick lips, bare arms. Yikes! Not cool like a shadow of the night.

  • @shyrusangoluan5509
    @shyrusangoluan5509 9 місяців тому +36

    those sponge bob voice effects is a red flag for me,

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart 9 місяців тому +4

      A *red flag* bro? People just love to throw that around these days 😂

    • @Maztergyl666
      @Maztergyl666 7 місяців тому +2

      Bruh, the girls in the Tiktok video were walking red flags. Frigging Soviet Union is nothing compared to this shit.

    • @roygbiv5164
      @roygbiv5164 14 днів тому

      It is interesting that people have issues with these two young ladies having fun and speaking the truth.

  • @TMCNJ
    @TMCNJ 9 місяців тому +25

    Those voices really throw my concentration 😫 Like ladies, us men want to hear your voice! That’s what dig 😂 Great video, Courtney.

  • @Leukick
    @Leukick 9 місяців тому +27

    These are all just completely basic normal things we already do. Easy. But this leads me to believe that you must already be attractive in order for these things to attract ladies. In that case, everything still boils down to just having to already be attractive.

    • @John_Caravella
      @John_Caravella 9 місяців тому +13

      If you're not a 6-6-6 guy to begin with, all the things discussed in this video are irrelevant.
      When women say "Men" or "All Men," they are in fact referring only to the top 5 or 10 percent of men. That's important to keep in mind.

    • @wargpug6084
      @wargpug6084 9 місяців тому +2

      @@John_Caravella ah i have found it, the truth in one of this ladies viewers.

    • @JD-xd4sy
      @JD-xd4sy 9 місяців тому +1

      I don't even have a drivers license and my academic hands will never be dry and worn, but somehow I suspect it comes down to looking and acting decent

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart 9 місяців тому +8

      ​@@John_Caravellaisn't it obvious though? If you made a video about what you find "secretly attractive" about women you're going to be referring to women that make it past your physical attraction filter and of course that varies from men to men. Let's be fair here.

    • @John_Caravella
      @John_Caravella 9 місяців тому

      @@ShaferHart I, like most men, don't have a "secret attraction" list for women. Men are basic, easy-to-understand creatures. We want a woman that looks decent (we don't demand or expect supermodels), is kind, and bathes regularly. That's it. Men are not hard to please. In comparison, women are PhD-level calculus, wrapped in feelings, and taught in Sanskrit.

  • @manuelromero2339
    @manuelromero2339 9 місяців тому +3

    The shirt thing is speed for sure. It’s faster and it’s 1 fluid motion. Once you’ve done it a couple times the shirt kind of just slides right off with incredibly little effort.

  • @ThulsaDoomr
    @ThulsaDoomr Місяць тому +12

    Disclaimer: You need to be attractive first of all.

    • @tr11_
      @tr11_ Місяць тому +2

      Sounds like you are coping.

  • @randyg22152
    @randyg22152 9 місяців тому +6

    To answer Courtney’s question, I usually pull my shirt off from the back when I’m sweaty and my shirt is sticking to my back (How else would you take it off? My back is what the shirt is sticking to. It doesn’t cling to the front for some reason, probably because my back is relatively smooth with more surface area to cling to, while my front is more “bumpy”). Also, I tend to pull my jacket or sweater off from the back and pulling it over my head toward the front, especially when I’m sitting in the car and there is limited space on either side of my seat, but there is ample headroom to pull something over my head. Taking off a shirt or sweater or hoodie by reaching back and grabbing the back and pulling it toward your front is usually the quickest way to disrobe, as the top comes right off. Grabbing a shirt from the front causes it to bunch up in the back for some reason, and you wind up tossing the shirt off backwards behind you, while grabbing the shirt from the back allows you to pull it over your head toward your front and toss it in front of you, which is less awkward (even if it bunches up in the front). Try it yourself.

  • @GurvanCustom
    @GurvanCustom 9 місяців тому +13

    "I Love Men!" 😂 Hahah that was indeed a cute video:)
    I miss having a giggly girl by me I gotta say, it's a great feeling to have someone who admires you for even those little things!

  • @gopherchucksgamingnstuff2263
    @gopherchucksgamingnstuff2263 9 місяців тому +10

    I will hold the door, but I will not put my hands on anyone that is not pre-approved.

  • @Nick-ij5nt
    @Nick-ij5nt 8 місяців тому +3

    I get why on a sort of biological level why women find driving attractive because you're being a leader and a navigator or something, but as a man I find driving pretty trivial and uninteresting, at least most of the time, it can be fun sometimes. I just find it funny that women get attracted by something I'd consider to be so mundane.

    • @Atlas65
      @Atlas65 2 місяці тому

      It's different when you are doing it alone or when you are doing it with a woman. When you are driving it puts your more in the masculine role and helps the polarity between you guys. Try doing it reverse, where you sit in the passenger seat and you drive. It works in reverse for the polarity between you

    • @Nick-ij5nt
      @Nick-ij5nt 2 місяці тому

      @@Atlas65 Ya, there's definitely a big difference between driving to work alone and driving with a girl on a night out. I do feel that driving with a girl sort of does increase my sense of masculinity, but it's not like a huge thing for me that I need to sustain my ego. My bigger issue with being a passenger to a woman is that women are generally just bad at driving, not because I feel like my sense of masculinity is at stake, I literally just don't really trust women to be in that role.

  • @neilswherethelightis
    @neilswherethelightis 9 місяців тому +4

    I think this is a positive video overall, so true in terms of eye contact and leading especially. I will say though that f you're a guy that's looking to become more attractive, you don't need to start rolling your sleeves up or manufacturing situations where women will see you drive. I see those as things where if a woman already likes you to some extent, she'll enjoy seeing those things.

  • @Imbasnap
    @Imbasnap 9 місяців тому +6

    Usually, as a guy, we take off our shirts from the back if we are sweaty or sticky. And the shirt sticks to our back, so the only way to take it off is to literally grip it from the back and pull it forward over our head. Otherwise, I'm not sure if it's a common thing for other guys.

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart 9 місяців тому

      As a man I didn't know this was a thing, thinking about it I guess I've seen it on TV. I can take off shirts just fine without doing that, then again, shirts are not what I wear when I'm going to do an activity that's going to cause me to sweat a lot.

  • @MeneerHerculePoirot
    @MeneerHerculePoirot 9 місяців тому +15

    My girl said what made her gooey about me straight away were my hands and right forearm as I'm a guitar player. What made me gooey about her was her posture, potential and posterior. What still makes me gooey about her is unfailing support, humor, forthrightness, grace and kindness.

  • @SpoonHurler
    @SpoonHurler 9 місяців тому +29

    1. Hand stuff
    2. Zaddy stuff
    3. Back and door stuff
    4. Ordering stuff
    5. Crispy sleeve stuff
    6. Notice me senpai stuff
    7. Shirts off stuff
    8. Come hither hand stuff
    9. Car stuff (Stop short, boys)
    10. Handling it stiff
    Also, Courtney being a scary driver is very funny. But women are out here looking at hands so how can they focus.

    • @fahadN72
      @fahadN72 9 місяців тому +2

      Thanks man

    • @rail7646
      @rail7646 9 місяців тому +1

      thats lots of stuff

    • @outhouse.wholesaler
      @outhouse.wholesaler 9 місяців тому +1

      3. Back and door stuff
      *record scratch*
      Hang on a minute. I don't remember that in the video.... oh right no yeah, back AND door stuff.

  • @supramaniac502
    @supramaniac502 9 місяців тому +1

    My girl just did this to me yesterday. Had some minor drama pop off at the house while I was at work and she called me and proceeded to tell me about it five times over the next hour. After a while, when she was better in the mood for that change of tone in the conversation, we exchanged a few thoughts back and forth about how to handle things going forward and then before we hung up she told me how much she appreciated it that I just listened first.
    On another note, she knows just how safe she is in the vehicle with me at all times because I drive a semi truck for work. When she is riding with me is one of the few times that I can think of that she will literally just check out of everything that's going on around her and totally focus on reading a book or replying to emails or some other such thing. Then as if by some Harry Potter magic, she has been transported to a place where I'm asking her if she's coming in with me or remaining in the car while I go in!😂

  • @natedogg7885
    @natedogg7885 7 днів тому

    11:05 the reason I do it is because is simply easier how would I criss cross my arms to remove it the front way?? I normally kinda roll up my shirt or sweater up then remove one arm at a time which results in my having to put my arm in the back to lift up said piece of clothing

  • @nsx1075
    @nsx1075 9 місяців тому +7

    Rolling up the sleeves 👌100% agreed. They like it and I love the look myself, it really does give your outfit a whole different look 😅

    • @jeffro.
      @jeffro. 9 місяців тому +1

      Except, men don't wear "outfits."

  • @teddychalgren
    @teddychalgren 9 місяців тому +5

    Congratulations on 700K subscribers. Another great video, thanks, Courtney.

  • @ben_spiller
    @ben_spiller 9 місяців тому +6

    I do the door thing all the time. Make sure you are walking on the correct side of her depending on which way the door opens. It's also super efficient because she doesn't need to stop walking.

    • @yepwhatever1142
      @yepwhatever1142 9 місяців тому +1

      Women hate chivalry. So I go ahead of her and hold the door closed and watch the puzzled look on their faces through the glass window.

  • @benigabor8425
    @benigabor8425 9 місяців тому +2

    When I'm taking off my jumper I first pull the neck hole up over my head so it doesn't get caught on my head on the way off. Then I reach back and grab at the back of the neck/top of the back and pull the thing off. The advantage if this method is my jumper isn't inside-out when it comes off. And it's pretty quick to do.

  • @HasanAli-ny7lg
    @HasanAli-ny7lg 9 місяців тому +1

    Nice to hear Courtney say I love men a sentiment from women that is becoming increasingly rare.

  • @slartibartfast2452
    @slartibartfast2452 9 місяців тому +4

    I can not remember the last time I saw a video of women talking positively about men.

  • @ReadingDave
    @ReadingDave 9 місяців тому +135

    Things that women do that I find attractive: sweat, good posture, dance, good pronunciation, locking eyes while noticing each other's symetry.

    • @Garbox80
      @Garbox80 9 місяців тому +6

      That last one is true, if they like you. If they don't like you, it can turn out as creepy.

    • @XxKINGatLIFExX
      @XxKINGatLIFExX 9 місяців тому +1

      Bruh

    • @ReadingDave
      @ReadingDave 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Garbox80 Ya, it took me a long time to figure out that was mutual trauma happening. It isn't like it was a thing I wished to do, but it comes out of the blue every once and a while.

    • @JeanPaulFernandes
      @JeanPaulFernandes 9 місяців тому

      I heard staring that can get you in trouble in the UK

    • @ReadingDave
      @ReadingDave 9 місяців тому

      @@JeanPaulFernandes Staring might be baned in the UK. What I'm talking about happens in a microsecond. I haven't found anyone else who expereinces it. No one really talks about it.

  • @ElGrandoCaymano
    @ElGrandoCaymano 9 місяців тому +4

    As Courtney alluded to, I'm not sure about the "Leave it to me. I'll fix it" I think this really is just for physical tasks, chores or checking on something, but that's probably it. Otherwise men will just try and jump to some unusable simple solution to a complex problem. This sounds almost sounds a tad simp. If women have problems why do they need the man to solve them. Why can't they talk to their girlfriends about it instead? Unless it's a physical task their friends or female relatives will probably come up with a betters solution anyway.

  • @elliotv5354
    @elliotv5354 8 місяців тому +1

    "Women don't always want solutions, they sometimes just need someone to listen" this is something that my ex had to teach me. Didn't make sense to me, but I realized it didn't have to.

  • @HarmonicWave
    @HarmonicWave 8 місяців тому +2

    A few things I like or find attractive:
    - long straight hair, and when she brushes it away from her face
    - a cute nose
    - When a women holds my upper arm
    - when she's with a group of friends and falls behind, then runs to catch up and it's kind of a hop
    - when she walks ahead of me and looks back at me with a smile
    - when she gets excited and bounces up and down

  • @ShemPayne
    @ShemPayne 9 місяців тому +19

    Remember, they only find these thing attractive if they are already attracted to you.

    • @neko_8315
      @neko_8315 9 місяців тому +1

      Only comment that's sensible

  • @thoumaster
    @thoumaster 9 місяців тому +4

    As a 38yo male, I don't find Courtney's advice actionable. Idk why. But fwiw, I struggle

    • @waynehendrix4806
      @waynehendrix4806 9 місяців тому +1

      Struggle is for everyone. On the brighter side, you probably have only 32 years more to struggle. Enjoy it. I have way less. Good luck.

  • @blairdonahue3351
    @blairdonahue3351 9 місяців тому +9

    Things women do that are attractive:
    - Genuinely laugh when she likes my jokes.
    - No valley girl/end sentence with an inflection question style of speaking.
    - Ask for something they want straight out instead of using manipulation to get it.
    - Use perfume and makeup minimally. This enhances instead of hides.
    - Gently caress the back of your neck/base of your skull.
    - Lingering eye contact with a smile.
    - Dressing with self-respect.
    - Maintaining their body's natural beauty and "softness"...no facial piercings and a few small to no tattoos.
    - Hugs.
    - Not saying I love you every 5 minutes because they want to hear it back...needy. Saying it and meaning it when she really feels it or when I am having a really bad day.
    - Speaking calmly and kindly.

    • @tappajaav
      @tappajaav 9 місяців тому

      -Intelligence.
      -Intelligence.
      -Intelligence.
      -Intelligence.
      -Intelligence.
      -Intelligence.

    • @troubleshooter5811
      @troubleshooter5811 5 місяців тому

      B Some good points I agree with. Natural beauty-softness-feminine, long hair in their natural color. I realize almost all women seem to have tattoos somewhere these days. It they are large and visible when dressed-gross. Piercings anywhere but the ears-gross. Minimal makeup. Too much and I call that war paint. Perfume should only be able to be smelled if you get really close to them, not arrive five minutes before they do. If they have something they want to discuss, get to the point. If they take 10 minutes of build up and include a whole roster of unrelated people I'm already starting to tune out by then. And smoking or vaping is an absolute deal breaker.

  • @itsblizzxrd
    @itsblizzxrd 9 місяців тому +1

    "If he's just like driving a car.... Pull over" had me DEAD🤣🤣🤣

  • @J.J._777_
    @J.J._777_ 8 місяців тому +1

    7:24 "I think a lot of women would hear this and think that's controlling," and those women are a lost cause that should be avoided by men.

  • @picabocowboy5313
    @picabocowboy5313 9 місяців тому +14

    Yeah the only problem with this list is that these are NOT women; they are post teenage girls. I don't think a woman of 35 gives a crap about most of these things.

    • @bluecollarkid
      @bluecollarkid 9 місяців тому +1

      I dunno about that. I see your point but... 1. the lady in this vid is young yet she's also married, she's a little more mature that post-teen girlie 2. I've seen the "kiddo" thing work with women in their 40s.

  • @Torombolo9696
    @Torombolo9696 9 місяців тому +8

    Things I find super attractive that women (may) have no idea about:
    1) walk barefoot
    2) doesn't paint her nails
    3) speak in another language (or accent)
    4) read a book
    5) dresses modestly
    6) is not addicted to the internet
    7) plays an instrument
    8) calmly and respectfully stands for herself when someone does her wrong (yes, including myself)
    9) when she's genuinely knowledgeable and passionate for a subject (history, biology, math, etc..)
    10) when she's good at a sport
    11) is generally innocent and inexperienced
    12) spends A LOT of time with her family
    13) is interested in listening and learning from good people with integrity.
    14) is turned off by men with tattoos

  • @suxix7312
    @suxix7312 9 місяців тому +5

    Most women don't even know what they actually like. And if they like something one time they may not like it the next. Again I think it all goes back to most women not knowing what they like or they're doing it out of emotions.

    • @lucri988
      @lucri988 9 місяців тому +3

      Yup. They change depending what day it is or what guy it is

  • @nCore01
    @nCore01 9 місяців тому +1

    10:24 I ALWAYS take my shirt off by pulling from behind. I wonder why people prefer to take it off the other way and have it inside-out all the time? It's also waaay easier for me (probably becuase this the way I'm used to).

  • @DiscoLizzard
    @DiscoLizzard 9 місяців тому

    I have eczema and if I don't put lotion on my hands they crack and bleed a lot. Is that hot? Should I just let them do that? I already have calluses from lifting.

  • @Adam_Bosscoe
    @Adam_Bosscoe 9 місяців тому +1

    @Courtney, your reactions are priceless 😂 "immediately unwell. I won't say anymore" 😂😂

  • @kitcassim4156
    @kitcassim4156 8 місяців тому

    It’s refreshing to see a video of women describing their attraction toward men. It’s great! Romance is part of joy of life!

  • @montecrucis7247
    @montecrucis7247 3 місяці тому

    10:54 is because of lack in shoulder joint mobility due to lat tightness and or the rest of the muscle chain flexibility. Physiologywise, pulling your shirt over your head by grabbing the lower ends of the shirt first is something women are statistically better at. Women are also better at othe flexibility exercises, like splits, spinal bending, yoga poses, etc.

  • @IfHistoryCanSpeak
    @IfHistoryCanSpeak 5 місяців тому +1

    The voice effect reminds of those teachers that would bang on my desk if I’m falling asleep during class work . That bloody voice effect gives me flashbacks😂

  • @gsutton219
    @gsutton219 9 місяців тому +2

    Just to be clear, they find that BS attractive if you look like Chris Hemsworth. If you look like Danny Devtito then it doesn’t matter if you take your shirt off from the back, front or upside down in a handstand 😂

  • @alkarinv1192
    @alkarinv1192 8 місяців тому +1

    For the shirt thing, I do it because I don't want to stretch it out and it also avoids turning it inside out, so if I have to put it back on I don't have to do anything extra.

  • @jeremiahallen1647
    @jeremiahallen1647 22 дні тому

    10:50 I think usually because it can be naturally harder to take most shirts off from the front when having longer arms and bigger chests. Basically I’m able to full extend my arms when I take the shirt off from the back and lean over and take it off compared to the front. It’s like more complicated for me at least from the front, and from the back it’s like 2 steps. Could be just me.

  • @edgarlarios4718
    @edgarlarios4718 8 місяців тому

    That moment when girls are in close proximity to you and you both are having a fun conversation, and then they tilt their head so that their hair readjusts, sometimes they readjust it manually, and it just brings out the cute features of their faces.

  • @Ironman4u
    @Ironman4u 5 місяців тому

    Honesty....trust....communication.......loyalty......dedication.... and. ...Pure Unconditional Love ❤️!!!!

  • @Bulletproof8421
    @Bulletproof8421 Місяць тому +1

    Since you asked - the reason I take off shirts from the back is because taking it off any other way stretches the F outta the shirt. Maybe this only applies to guys who are in good shape since the shoulders are by far the widest part of my body.

  • @zapharatu
    @zapharatu 2 місяці тому

    I can say something about the shirt thing. I hadn’t thought of it until I saw this video, but I’ve down the “over the back” shirt removal sometimes without even putting much thought into it. But now that I’ve thought about it, it’s because if you do it right (or with the right shirt) it’s actually the quickest way to remove it. I can pull it over with one hand and have my head and one arm through, and the shirt on one arm, all in one motion, and then simply toss the shirt aside. I’ve only really done this with undershirts though.

  • @cameronmckay3504
    @cameronmckay3504 8 місяців тому

    To taking your shirt off from the back: reach back stretched and emphasizes your triceps and lats. Your extension of the arms forward activates your back muscles as well. In short, your flexing and activating muscles while doing this process to look ripped in the motion.

  • @coleevans8763
    @coleevans8763 8 місяців тому

    Normally it’s the fastest way to take a shirt off and the most convenient way. However it’s really dependent on the shirt size and your confidence in your physique.

  • @ctninh
    @ctninh 9 місяців тому

    10:48 We do it because the hair is super short, the shirt gets stuck to your head like Velcro. Also, this usually applies to one hand.

  • @APELAYT
    @APELAYT 9 місяців тому

    1:05 Callusy, rough, manicured hands
    2:33 Words & phrases
    5:05 Maestro of touching
    6:28 Leading her
    8:48 Playing with your attire & veins
    9:45 Eye-contacting
    10:28 Get Wider Back
    11:19 Hand Gestures
    11:57 Drive
    13:27 Leave it on me & Be a Listener

  • @daemonwolf1
    @daemonwolf1 8 місяців тому

    Best piece of advice I can give to women: let your man know when you just want to vent. We're natural problem solvers so if you come us upset and with a problem, our brains go straight to 'how can I fix this to make her happy again'. If you just want to vent *say so*. That way we can control the 'have to fix this' impulse and not piss you off (and there by making us wonder what we did wrong as we don't understand).

  • @yoch5383
    @yoch5383 4 місяці тому

    7:59 english is not my french language i don't understand what they said even when you repeat after, what does that mean ?

  • @calebevans2258
    @calebevans2258 9 місяців тому +1

    5:40 , weird how since I’m so touch starved I love it when girls will randomly touch me during conversation. Like a hand on my arm or something. Or even that specific example if they touched my lower back. I would love it

  • @seriously195
    @seriously195 9 місяців тому

    It has to do with broader shoulders and really stretching the shirt out if trying to cross-arm pull them up from the bottom to get them over flexed shoulders. Another reason I pull the shirt off from the back (really, the back of the collar) is so it does not turn inside-out. I wash clothes so the way they come out of the dryer they are ready to fold or hang (without needing to turn them right-side-out). It is just a means of reducing wasted effort/motion. My wife pulls shirts up from the bottom to take them off which then turns them inside-out. She also believes washing shirts inside-out makes them last longer.

  • @izzy.cooper
    @izzy.cooper 8 місяців тому +1

    As a guy who takes his shirt off from the back (and who is black), it doesn’t mess with my afro too much and it is just far easier for me to pull off in one swoop 👕

  • @chrisserran3524
    @chrisserran3524 9 місяців тому

    Honestly, taking a shirt off from the back is the only way I've ever done it. Don't think I would know how to do it any other way. I had no idea anyone notices or would ever think about it. Love the point you made that there is no actual "right or wrong" for almost all of these situations, everything works for someone. BTW, love your voice Courtney - it's really smooth and nice to listen to.

  • @spacewolf363
    @spacewolf363 8 місяців тому

    10:48 - becauce I don't want to mess up my hair by the collar so i hold it with my chin from the bottom and my hand from the other side.

  • @theaccountinator2836
    @theaccountinator2836 8 місяців тому

    Why I take my shirt off "from the back":
    1. Less likely to stretch it out. If I remove it by grabbing and pulling the fabric around my ribs and pulling it over my head, the neck may get caught on my head, and I'll have to extend my arms to pull it off, which may stretch its neck or body.
    2. Keeps the shirt outside out. Using the alternative method in #1 also turns it inside out, and I might wear it again before throwing it in the laundry. For instance, when I change at the gym, I'll almost certainly change back into my street clothes once I'm finished working out. The "from the back" method removes the extra step of turning it right side in.
    3. Less cumbersome and mechanically complex. The only other alternative method for taking off my shirt I know of is to pull an arm through the sleeve into the body, extend that arm down through the tail, reach outside the shirt to grab the other sleeve to pull that arm into the body, reach down through the tail with that arm, bring both arms up in front of the shirt, grab the neck, then pull it off. Obviously, that method is much less efficient, and it requires me to flail my arms about like I'm having a fit.

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx 9 місяців тому +1

    Her: "I don't trust that woman, I feel like she's after you."
    Him: "Leave it with me."

  • @MrHoll87
    @MrHoll87 9 місяців тому +2

    One that absolutely floored me is the "taking off the shirt from the back" one. That's bizarre to me. My brother and I have ALWAYS taken our shirts off that way, and it's NOT because that's what we see hot guys do in movies. In fact, I think most movies with RIPPED men show them take their shirts off much like women do, just to showcase the abs. I don't have abs, I just pull my shirt off from the back because that's the way I've done it my entire life, literally as long as I can remember. I don't know if I was trained to do it that way as a little kid, if it's genetic or just natural. I don't know, but that's just how I do it.

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 місяці тому +1

    *I’ve found that being genuinely interested in what a woman has to say can create a strong connection. What are some specific examples of traits that have worked for you in the past? Would love to hear different perspectives!*

  • @neco5740
    @neco5740 8 місяців тому

    Glad to see something like a positive role model for men pushing them in a right direction. Something we sorely lack

  • @marcelotoniolo4434
    @marcelotoniolo4434 8 місяців тому

    @CourtneyRyan - I recently found your UA-cam channel and am going through your videos. I really like your style and the subjects you cover.
    Maybe you have already covered this (and I haven't got there yet), but it seems that the large majority of the videos you make as well as your advice, will fit well for relatively young men (late 20's and 30's maybe), particularly the ones who just started the dating game now and are getting serious about it.
    How about dating advice for older men (over 50) who are either divorced or widower ?
    Just as an observation, dating women who are over 50 is quite a challenge as the majority seem to fall into two distinctive categories: the ones who are looking for a well-established man with properties, a boat, horses, nice cars, often take international travel for holidays, etc......OR....the ones who are seeking young men (early 30's) usually only for fun.
    Do you have any insights about this ?

  • @williamjenkins9
    @williamjenkins9 2 місяці тому

    I’m glad you interpreted what they were saying because I couldn’t understand a single thing because of that voice….. and I agree with your recommendations, and often say “I got this”…. I do open doors, even for strangers, but never touch… and I always offer my arm to my wife , and I love for her to take it and move in tight to me…

  • @chrispewkreme
    @chrispewkreme 7 місяців тому +1

    Just something us guys ABSOLUTELY LOVE: a woman that’s naturally beautiful and doesn’t feel a need for makeup.
    You guys have absolutely no damn clue how attractive it is.