Ofcourse they did you idiot. We are actually more equipped these days, womens game is up, too much info out there about them. Guys now know what bs they are doing. Its harder for them now.
As someone who is 16 as of writing this comment, putting up with any of this seems incredibly ridiuclous. Even more so that things mentioned in this tierlist are so common entire videos need to be made about it
for me, it just seems like people with too much sex drive, might be try-hards at this type of level, making girls sound like alien difficulty, but truth is, they're not, they're more likely hearthbroken by someone else, trying to get confirmations from the guys they meet, to feel more comfortable, as they might be used to badboys who break their hearth even more
Nah it is about outsmarting her. Not just in a calm state of mind, but also by standing your ground. If she tries all the most popular TikTok trends it's an immediate red flag and it's then time to break up. She tries arguing just simply say nothing grab your stuff and leave. Simple as that.
It depends what shit test it is, whether its a reasonable test or not. Girls do this for many reasons, one of them is to see if the man is worth it as well, there's alot of risk for women when they get into relationships so they have to be picky, if they choose the wrong guy, it could cause them alot of trouble, which is why you see dumb girls with the wrong guy who treats them like shit.
Dont get me wrong, most of these so called tests in this tier list video are what you said, it tells us that the girl isnt worth shit, but if a girl reasonably does the right tests, she'll get with the right guy.
@@potxtoe The guys that pass these tests naturally are players that don't give them time or care. Only sometimes it's the ambitious types, which is why they talk shit about men based on the ones they date.
@samscorch8252 Masculine frame. Assert your dominance that her house now belongs to you, and that you will do as you please (don’t worry about the restraining order, it’s also another test)
boils down to date as much women as possible, build a circle, have options, and treat women as regular person. also being good looking as its core value.
You can love a dog, a tree, a video game, music and all sorts of stuff, and rarely women, so I wouldn't prioritize women, unless they behave and are the rare authentic person who's magical and not the boring domina drama loser.
The Less of these “tests” a woman does shows how mature and how high value she is. The fact that she can find qualities in you without testing you and being toxic, prove her qualities and intelligence as a queen. Toxic traits are hard to get rid of especially when they’re reinforced by society. So I usually give women three chances. I play along into the third test then I’m out. Stay strong kings.
Tests aren't toxic. Women need to know their men are strong, it's a matter of survival for them. Women never stop testing but passing the tests can get much easier.
Theres no queen man. That girl you start thinking is a queen or special and mature will shit test the guy she actually has genuine burning interest in.
@@gracefool iTs a MaTtEr oF sUrViVaL fOr ThEm When the gynocentric state can extract everything from you that she needs, be it child support, alimony, whatever, at her whim, no. No it's not. There's no survival, we aren't in the neolithic era. You don't need to pass shit tests, you need to find one who's willing to pay for her half, or gtfo, simple.
@@gracefoolI don’t know about that. If you can’t sleep well at night because you aren’t sure if the girl you’ve been after for who knows how long even likes you anymore I think it becomes not worth it anymore.
Biggest takeaway I’ve gotten from watching this vid is that the biggest shit test is life. You won’t know you’ve been shit tested until you’ve experienced it
The “we’re not hooking up tonight” part made me believe everything this guys saying. First couple of dates with this girl was just us watching movies in her living room with her housemate, I made no effort to try and hookup with her, just enjoyed watching movies and hanging out and the first moment that we have alone together she literally jumps on top of me and is crazy for me looool
Probably the best advice you'll hear if you haven't heard already considering dating and relationships: every test you see here is a sign of immaturity and toxicity and a sign for you to STOP. You should never be tested in a relationship, let alone during the "getting to know you" phase, it's extremely disrespectful and just plain out wrong. You are not her toy or test subject, always keep at least some of your dignity. If you see these things in your current relationship, have a talk about it with your partner asap, he/she might not realise what he/she is doing. One advice I've heard that really helped me decide whenever or not the girl is interested, is that she will make you picking her up/hitting on her so much easier IF she's interested (considering she's mature). I'm not talking necessarily about flat out flirting, but talking to you, letting you ask her out etc. If she doesn't, she's either not interested or she's playing some of these tests. In both of these situations the answer is to give up. Although it's quite stupid thing to say to someone who's in love, there are always other girls that could be interested in you and won't bs you with some stupid tests. But as everyone knows, if you are interested in someone, you do dumb stuff - but never be someone's test dummy, you'll eventually get hurt.
All people are different, even people who do shit tests can be keepers but its all about the tone, if there's no respect and no interest, don't waste your time. If you feel you are being disrespected, chances are YOU ARE! So don't stick around with people who see you as free entertainment or a conversation topic for her groupchat
@@mohidkhan6039There was this shy girl in my class that I liked and I would always try to talk to her and it went ok but I wasn’t getting a ton of reciprocation and I didn’t think she was into me so I kind of stopped talking to her. Then out of nowhere she sat next to me just started talking to me and I knew immediately that meant she was interested and I wasn’t expecting it all and my brain short circuited. I started stuttering and shit… yeah it was nightmare fuel bro
Can't agree with some of them. 1- if she says she has a bf, it means you can be an orbiter and nothing more; 2- if she breaks up out of nowhere, don't take her back. Because it is so disrespectful, and there is a high chance there is another dude that she preferred; Pro Tip: even if she does little and minor shit tests regularly, it means whether she has no interest/respect for you, or she is so toxic that cannot control her impulses to not do these behaviors. It will be hell, so just leave her.
Well in my experience, about a good 70%-85% of the women that has bfs that I asked out handed me their numbers right after I showed intimate vibes and some of them I got laid. Most girls with bfs that cheat are super easy once you say the right words and if you’re confident enough. Women cheat as much as men do if not more, because women are 100x sneaky than men when it comes to cheating.
Well in my experience, about a good 70%-85% of the women that has bfs that I asked out handed me their numbers right after I showed intimate vibes and some of them I got laid. Most girls with bfs that cheat are super easy once you say the right words and if you’re confident enough. Women cheat as much as men do if not more, because women are 100x sneaky than men when it comes to cheating.
Well in my experience, about a good 70%-85% of the women that has bfs that I asked out handed me their numbers right after I showed intimate vibes and some of them I got laid. Most girls with bfs that cheat are super easy once you say the right words and if you’re confident enough. Women cheat as much as men do if not more, because women are 100x sneaky than men when it comes to cheating.
After watching some your vids I am starting to realize that women do things to weed out emotionally weak/needy men. I think the best way to not be emotionally weak and needy is to realize you don't need a woman to be a man.
If you needed to have a gf/ wife to be yourself "a true man " then would you not exist anymore as a living individual being, and or have a complete body death, the moment you didn't have a gf?
@@conkreteeighty3015 We have to keep in mind that she could be emotionally weak too, or making decisions that she thinks are smart and beneficial but aren't. Men do this, everyone does this. The other person could also just be really cunning and deceptive. These are things that both genders go through. I think once more people realize that we aren't that different, things become a lot clearer.
Just came to say this BS doesnt go away with age. Im 38 and was talking to this 35 year old woman when I started noticing her doing certain things and playing games.absolutley nothing. Kept playing the "I swear ill jump" game but instead with I think we should just be friends, the second time she tried it, I told her "I think youre right, we should just be cool" She then tried to 180 on me "What?? I think we should go ice skating, you dont want to date anymore?" At this point the grand scheme dawned on me. dont fall for it boys, if something seems off and they are trying you, MOVE ON TO THE NEXT
It's a shame a 35 year old woman has to play any games. I would guess the games stop when they mature a bit, of course there are always games with women but yk what I'm trying to say. If you can't be straight to the point at 35 something's wrong.
The “we’re not hooking up tonight is spot on”. Not only do they do it to see if they get a reaction but also to see if all you want from seeing her is sec and some girls don’t like feeling used in that way. Whenever she says that just say “yeah that’s fine” or something along those lines, nothing defensive and TRUST me you WILL hook up.
You can be all that, but remember that once you sign that marriage contract she's got you by the balls and you have no recourse. Staying stoic won't do shit for you in divorce court.
You can never fail if you don't play, choose who chooses you - easy. If you can walk away at any time, you will always be the winner! Work on yourself so that you always have many options.
Bro, I'm gonna be real, this stuff looks exhausting. I don't think I could put up with this for very long. It's almost hard to believe that all women do this, because if that's the case, I don't think I can handle dating.
Just don’t give a F about them. Respect yourself and don’t fall for those stupid games. Feminine women unconsciously follow masculine men. Treat them indifferently unless they have the same energy ad you.
Some countries, and some women, do it more than others. Just develop yourself, work on you first, this shit comes natural to men who are confident and on their shit! Don't worry I felt intimidated about this shit when I first learned about it too! Its all a learning process, and its alright that this is part of how things work! Godspeed brother, you got this.
The one thing i learned about shit tests is they become effortless if you actually become that guy. If you're making money, you look good, and you've got options, anything a girl throws at you will just seem funny and insignificant
@@MrNemay obviously upon first meeting a woman she won't know what you're about, so she'll test you. By being 'that guy', you'll pass the test effortlessly, thus showing her what you're about. Hope that makes sense
@@kidgruesome407If you are 178cm (5’10) you are tall enough for 95% of women, shorter than that isn’t such a problem either if you take care of your body (you should do that anyway), and if you have wage with which you don’t barely make it to the next month you have “physical” qualities checked off.
One time she gave me one of the dumbest shit test, we were walking together on the street and without me realizing she started to accelerate to see if was gonna accelearte too, at the beginnning i walked a bit faster without realizing it then i i realized i was losing the shit test so i just got back to my normal pace while she was at that fast paced walking it looked ridiculus honestly
All of these shit tests can be passed by Focusing on yourself, not getting too attached and be willing to walk away, being your honest self, and if she doesnt like your honest self? who cares move on to the next girl who likes your honest self.
@@JCLightbringerthe next girl is the same because you're looking for your childhood trauma. I'm not speaking in a very serious sense like PTSD from accidents or very bad parenting or stuff. What I meant was it's obviously just a fact that not everyone's childhood is perfect. One will lack this, other will lack that. Then they look for it in the other person instead of healing themselves. When they keep looking, the cycle repeats.
Straight information, no fucking around, no saying the same shit in 5 different ways in a row, thanks for this, was a pleasure to listen to this before sleep, useful advices.
@ It’s rough out there comrade. To me that’s the worse one, when the men are too emotionally invested, they can destroy each other. I’m glad you resolved it the right way 🫡
Make a version of "shit tests" that man can do, like, how to test her fidelity, test if she is satisfied with our body, if she thinks we are ugly and is only dating out of pity or revenge for her ex-boyfriend.
She used me for revenge on her ex😂. I would have rather had genuine interest and dated her but nah im glad i found that out because at the end of the day k was still hitting lol
Shit tests are so difficult for guys who aren’t red pill aware. I passed the “don’t apologize” shit test, but I’d failed so many other shit tests before that, that my exwife was furious with me for not apologizing. I’d already lost so much frame in our relationship that she was baffled I would pass this shit test. She couldn’t handle it. Guys, You’ve got to pass ALL of these
I was not expecting the advisor giving us some of his dating experience but here we are. What is next, he will be honest to women about their behavior?
Shit tests are just girls that aren’t attracted to you making it difficult to test your ability to simp or endure. Chad doesn’t deal with shit tests unless the girl is a 9/10.
Or you can just avoid it all together. Being single and having a fwb is honestly and sadly the best thing today. No stress, i'm happy, im doing good in my career and i get 🐱 when I need it? Yeah, i'll keep this over these types of females.
This is one of the dumbest comments I’ve ever heard. Read this to yourself. Maybe she’s just mad you didn’t apologize. And I’m not woke or blue pilled in the slightest either, just appalled at the lack of cope/awareness
Hey guys try this: If she’s shit testing you all the time, wait until it’s over and things are cool, and then address the bullshit she’s doing directly. Explain that you know what she’s doing and that you’re not going to keep dealing with it every time. Let her know that the next time she accuses you of something you didn’t do, fake-breaks up with you, or overreacts to something that wasn’t a big deal, (or whatever it is that she does), that you’re going to walk away. Then walk away. Don’t flip out and walk away. Stay calm and walk away. Later on the next time you see her if she flips out for you “abandoning her”, explain that you had a boundary when it comes to this bullshit and you warned her to knock it off. If she doesn’t want you to walk away she’ll start acting right.
Many good points were made, but are overshadowed by many poor points. I pray someone can take the time to explain to you in greater detail where some of these stances of how to respond to women are toxic, regardless of if the ladies are rude or not. I say that as a man who is very confident in his masculinity. When listening to each response, ask yourself if you are denying yourself opportunities to improve yourself as a person and a respectable man by responding in that way. If you think you've responded in a petty way, you are both falling for the "test" and giving in to your unhealthy desire to embrace a toxic choice of words because you feel wronged by the woman. A good man does not need to bend over backward for a woman, but he should not desire to exert command over and take control of the situation. Many of these responses encourage this. That is not being a good man. That is not healthy. Be better.
2:44 the pulling away is literally the easiest test to pass. I mostly mirror their behaviour so if I know they don't like me, I'll just be like "I don't chase."
@kardosao re: "Just give up" Have you "given up" on all the women that are not interested in you, or that you're not interested in? What about the ones that are unavailable? What about the ones you've never met? You're not "giving up" because there's nothing to lose. The "giving up" is an illusion, created by the sunk cost fallacy of spending too much time thinking about someone who was never a part of your life. Simply remove them from play and shuffle them back into the deck, with the rest of the people you don't know.
@@kardosao That’s the best thing you can do. No msgs, no calls no attention. And she’ll come crawling back. In fact they always comeback, just now passed a shit test by having stoic and abundance mindset. Clapped some cheeks as well in the meantime 😉
Man, when I was in middle school, some random chick ask me to come get her purse, I did which I feel like a doormat afterwards, the next day she asked me again, I completely ignored her, and she was baffled that I ignored her.
@@scp-vp9uu Why would you buy drinks for poor peasants tho 😂😂😂 It's clear that she is after your money. You just dodged a bullet. She can always approach you cost free and just socialize like a normal human would.
Bro this is so helpful for me and I don’t even have a girl I’m chasing or anything I just use this knowledge on my sisters and mom. (I’m the only guy in the household) I constantly am being manipulated by them and when I confronted them about it they said I was acting crazy but then while they said that they continued to manipulate me without even realising it. I just started laughing then and there. I stopped caring about what they say and there arguments and now I feel free and unburdened if I just ignore it all and don’t care it all goes away. Thanks man!
Right, some of them don't really deserve your value, talent and future. Some women are just pretty, and besides that... why would you even care? Why not play around and still have a career dude?
@@kardosaoignore it it's best she will wonder if you do and continue talking and sleeping with you, never explain yourself, men don't explain themselves
There should be an extra tier that's outside of the tierlist and is optional, the purse one for example, its up to you, I held my girlfriend's purse all the time and she's nuts for me and is now my wife, the thing about holding the purse is you can either be whiny and tell her you dont want to hold her purse or you can just hold it, so maybe you'll tell her you dont want to hold the purse and you might look tough and confined in your principles and all or maybe it will look insecure like you're afraid of a purse as if holding a purse is all it takes to make you look like less of a man. To say it again in a different way maybe you'll agree to hold the purse, but you'll grab the purse and agree in a weak "okkkay" voice and then start looking all weak with bad posture like you just took a blow while holding the purse, or maybe you'll just grab the purse and hold it and still be the bad dude who you are like nothing and holding the purse doesnt phase you. So its just up to you how you handle it, whether you hold it or not, its the way you act and are perceived afterwards about it.
If all this stuff is true, then what's even the point of getting partner. The whole point of getting a partner is that they can support each other, arent they ment to support each other and chill down and have fun and feel comfortable to each other. I don't think that real relationships work like that, even if they do I don't care. I am sure there are girls who don't indulge in this low low things, they are the only one worth going for.
I've actually warned women at the start of a relationship that if they shit test me, its immediately over. I have had to follow through a few times now.
Its incredible to see all the tactics revealed so purely. I was dating a girl for 6 months, and even though she was really into me and overall I kept a good frame, she still shit tested me. Mainly apology fishing and trying to insult me, last one is very common with Latinas though they’re poking you all the time
Blocked one for it, she one morning blocked me on snap, and I was like okay if you don't wanna be w me then just don't be, I ain't ab this immature ass bs. So I blocked her on everything and moved on to other people/things and other person/things etc. plus my roster at the time. I feel very embarrassed to even admit ever having a roster. As in a woman it's disgusting.
Your take on "boundary setting" is actually extremely interesting. I thought I was being very masculine by communicating effectively and setting boundaries with this girl I was only seeing for a few months. It makes sense to me now that it showed a level of interest. I think I got confused with this specific relationship because I took her Love Bombing as a sign of high interest. The streets can be tricky out here.
I passed all these tests and she kept shit testing. I wasn’t super into her and told her that chemistry is not what I’m looking for. She laughed and said I hope you find what you’re looking for
Well, it is easier when you don't like her that much. Interesting that even then they keep testing, probably because they feel they can do something better
Another one is if she purposely misses or dodges your questions. She answers some but refuses to answer others-that’s a shit test, and I would crown it as disrespect. If you call her out on it and she refuses to acknowledge what she’s doing, then she just doesn’t like you that much. Leave her dry and delete her. Another one is if you’re the one constantly reaching out or starting the conversation. If the conversation wouldn’t move unless you initiate it, this shows she doesn’t respect or value you that much. Another red flag is if she creates way too many rules for you-like not allowing open communication or constantly denying you whenever you try to talk to her in a certain way or bring up intimate topics. If she truly wanted you, she would break down those unnecessary rules and talk to you freely. You’d be able to have intimate conversations without her shrugging you off or being too closed off.
Alright some of these I understand but dude not all of these are tests. and if she’s testing you and being toxic and she loses interest because of it then you didn’t need to be with that woman in the first place. A woman disagreeing with you doesn’t mean she’s testing you that’s just dumb because women are people too who are allowed to have differing opinions from yours. Plus viewing women as “moldable” but thinking you’re a big masculine man who can never be wrong about anything is dumb and driven by ego. At that point she’s not trying to test you with those beliefs you’re trying to manipulate her instead and get her to bend to your will. You are ALLOWED to apologize to her if you come to the realization that you f*cked up. It’s different if she is fishing for an apology then yes stand firm in your beliefs but saying you should never apologize to your partner is ignorant. Especially because you as a man need to understand that you’re not perfect and you have faults and acknowledgement of those faults and improving yourself is a good thing. For example if she thinks you did wrong because you had been planning something and you bail on her last minute she would get understandably pissed off if you didn’t have a good reason for it. I’m just saying guys. If you think she’s testing you or being manipulative then leave, but don’t get into the red pill mindset that she’s moldable and controllable and you’re never wrong about anything ever because that’s damaging to relationships. Have some self reflection it’s healthy. If you come to the realization that you might be wrong about this then apologize. If you think she’s testing you then call her out on it. Never ASSUME that she’s testing you give her the benefit of the doubt but if you find out she is then she ain’t for you bud. This next part is just advice for dudes who want a real relationship that will last a long time and aren’t just trying to hook up with chicks. The difference between a woman who will test you and a woman who won’t is in how they view masculinity. A woman who tests wants a dream man who will be this stoic, idealized version of a man that’s gonna use them how they please and a woman who doesn’t will view masculinity as a man who is kind, isn’t afraid to bottle up their emotions when they’re stressed, isn’t afraid to have a conversation, loves them and views them as an equal. A partner.
The crazy part is you could actually be going through some shit like picking a career, your grandma is dying, etc and some girls will not let up with this. If anything they’ll actually increase it cause they pick up on how you’re not acting like your regular self. It gets to a certain point where she’s not even bringing much to your life outside of sex, don’t always feel like you need to be 100% bulletproof that’s how you end up as a wagon mule.
When she pulls away, she's got a huge rotation of dudes texting her. There is nothing us guys can do. Even if she's in a relationship, she is still going to have tinder or bumble downloaded on their phones.
How to properly deal with this, boys: I've been paying attention, and what I'm seeing is that you're playing games-not because you want to, but because your subconscious hasn't fully evolved yet. You're still testing, pushing boundaries in ways that only someone who isn't spiritually or mentally aware would do. And here's the thing: I'm not here to teach you, nor am I interested in guiding someone who isn't already operating on a level of deep self-awareness and emotional maturity. You're operating from a space that doesn't align with mine, and frankly, I'm not here to lower myself or change my energy to meet you where you are right now. If you're not willing to do the inner work, transform your mindset, and elevate your emotional intelligence, then this isn't something I can invest in. I've reached a place where I expect nothing less than total authenticity and awareness from the people around me -if you can't show up as that, then we're on different planes entirely.
@BARKYH The notion that "women live off drama" and will "leave or cheat" if they don't find it in their relationships is an unfair and reductive stereotype that overlooks the individuality and emotional depth of women. Drama-seeking behavior is not tied to gender; it’s a reflection of unresolved personal issues or a lack of emotional maturity, which can exist in anyone, regardless of gender. Many women, like men, value stability, honesty, and meaningful connection in relationships. Reducing an entire gender to a cliché like this only perpetuates harmful generalizations and ignores the countless women who operate from a place of self-awareness, authenticity, and emotional intelligence. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect and understanding, not on baseless assumptions or stereotypes.
Well said this is what I’m trying to say as well. Prioritize sed improvement first. Most of these guys in the comments are probably young and naive still and won’t accept that if you do nothing to better yourself why would a woman want you
the "active on social media but not replying to you" part is the worst type of disrespect, commonly done by influencer wannabes. I called one out a few days back and blocked her ass. Aint nobody making me a simp follower.
bro im gonna have to be completely honest. I totally get where all this concept come from. But this defense mechanism you’re conceptualizing is part of the problem. A relationships is not a war ground. You should not have to try to take control, or power or the “right” polarization of the masculinity/femminility situation. A functional and fulfilling relationship thrives with positive and constructive communication. So if my girl gets cold (to make an example of one concept you presented) and I am a man that doenst fear to get hurt can affird to work on my relationships with her, I won’t be needing to get dry and cold, cause that would be the same thing that she is doing, then we would both be doing two dumb immature fucks. In that situation I’ll try to talk to her and tell her how that behaviour make me feel and give her a chance to speak her thoughts and emotions over why she is needing to act like this. Again bro, I live in Italy, I am a psychologist, we have for sure different cultures, I get where this mechanism comes from, but I can assure you, in the most non aggressive way possible: this logic you’re using is as immature and manipulative as the one you’re trying to criticize. This kind of message can only spread toxicity over relationships and emotions. I’ll conclude saying that I’ve met women that do these shitty tests, and going forward meeting new girls I realized that the more tests I saw, the more immature and destructive that person was. But the solution to an immature behaviour is not an immature behaviour. Also I dont mean that if someone figuratively slaps u in the face you should only try to communicate. Sometimes we should acknowledge that we are mature enough to let that person go. I think that’s better than to degrade ourself at its level Love from italy
I agree, these shit tests being present in a relationship are signs of the woman being immature and toxic, which is why, ideally, one would like to meet someone that doesn't use them, but first one would need to be aware of them, know what the rationale behind them are, how to correctly or incorrectly react to them, and this is what this video is about. Being toxic back yourself (as a man) is more of a coping strategy with these (female) toxic aspects, although is still within itself a negative. However if all of this has to be pointed out due to prevalence around dating in x or y country, then we've certainly bigger problems to solve. If fingers have to be pointed, I'd do so at the prevalence and monopolization of dating apps (under the same megacorporation that also owns mobile gacha games, which are gambling in all but name).
This is legitimately one of the best videos I have ever seen on UA-cam, and I've been here since before 2007. I'm not even making this shit up, this is gold.
1. Ways to become confident talking to women tierlist 2. Ways to see that she‘s the right one for you (at the beginning and in the relationship) tierlist 3. Signs she (doesn‘t) respect you tierlist
Imo the idea of trying to pass a shit test automatically cucks you. If you have a vibe of "I dont need you, you need me" you will naturally pass all of these.
This man literally put on tierlist all my experiencies with women, the right choices and the wrong choices are clearly obvious when you lived this a lot before. Congrats bro, nice vid and channel.
I made the mistake of apologizing and explaining myself in my last relationship. I always thought relationships were about being open with each other, being equals, sharing thoughts and showing weaknesses and strengths as well as not ordering each other. now I'm more aware of manipulation, and how some girls don't want an equal relationship. and I need to express authority.
Men can easily test a woman by looking at her body to see how fertile it is. Women need to test a mans strength somehow. It's all unconscious. Women are more flow orientated. So they act on their subconscious more.
27:06 Women openly talk about using this tactic but it often backfires when they are dealing with confident men. The difference between a manipulation and a shit test is conciousness. Manipulation is concious, shit-tests are natural and thus subconcious.
Right now i'm in this situation, like she literally posted 10 min ago a story and i'm on delivered from yesterday night. The thing is she showed me a los of interest the first two weeks (we even had s*x) but then, she started to puling away or doing this sht test may I guess. Idk I think she's trying to fool me or whatever, i really don't think she's not interested anymore. I will say nothing and just continue, but if she does it again I think i'll tell her to not jking around.
If she says she has a boyfriend, I've always equated it to her either having one, or it's a polite way of saying she's not interested. I guess there's room for interpretation on that one.
I believe the premise of passing a shit test is to operate from your own mental point of origin. No matter how you respond to a shit test, if it's coming from your authentic & confident self, you're going to pass it.
This also works for women. When she sends a pic with a friend, only say: who's your friend? She looks great . This will make her jealous and will make her want to chase you
@@masonraasch6813 You can. Agree, my friend is a handsome guy. The response is always "I do not care" because we shouldn't, they're women, they run off of emotion/estrogen.
Thank you man, this video is really good. For the last one, just make sure you're not scheduling a date like 2 weeks in advance or else she's gonna forget and not show up. If you schedule it a few days from when you invite (NOT ASK) her, then she'll probably show up, and if she doesn't so what, you get to have a fun time doing something by yourself, and she'll like your confidence, like YBC said.
Yeah, if a woman makes plans with you weeks out and says she is "sooo busy" that is a sign of no interest. You might be in a friend zone or an orbiter where she does not want to reject you explicitly, but if she says she can only see you three weeks from now, she will not show up and if you try to confirm a few days before, it is 100% she will say "oh yeah, sorry! I have "x" and cant make it, raincheck?" It is a way of spinning your wheels. Even if you back off and she starts texting you again or whatever, she will usually do the same thing again. She wants attention only.
you’re a goddam scientist, i just keep these conclusions subconscious but the fact you’ve consciously articulated and RANKED these is profound. Godspeed brother 🙏
If a girl insults you and you ignore it or turn it into a joke like "Oh you just want me without my shirt off don't you" that's not a good way to deal with disrespect. A woman should respect you, you should either disrespect her right back or call out her behavior. Setting boundries as a man is important can't let shit slide
@@RoadToStrength-nv8ei That’s what you’d think, and maybe objectively this is true. But chads don’t really care, they play along. This boundary stuff has a lot of nuance
@@ybctoocold You really need to reconsider the information you're feeding to young impressionable men assuming this channel isn't a content farm (which it looks like it is). The part about her having a boyfriend is a common defense mechanism to ward off dangerous men, because they view having a boyfriend as a no-go zone compared to her just saying no. It's sad but it's the way it is, because men couldn't just take the no for an answer. Why you would even continue to push those boundaries if you have an abundant mindset is mind boggling to me, it doesn't make her feel any safer and it's an obvious no-go. Just keep it pushing unbothered. That was just one part of the video out of many parts where it didn't make any sense. But it's the most dangerous part I had to speak up about. If you want to become a dating coach or whatever, I highly suggest you do more in-depth studying about how the genders interact with each other.
24:15 I would argue that the only way to pass this test is to straight up ghost her and don't look back. Some of them "break up" or "need to take a break" because they just saw a guy who they wanna cheat on you with (especially if it's out of nowhere) and when they have their fun, they want to come back to their safe and locked down guy. If you wanna pass this, don't let her do any of it and simply don't take her back. Bonus points if you manage to get with someone before she wants to come back 28:15 there are countless videos of girls saying they have a boyfriend and then giving away the number anyway. It doesn't always mean the boyfriend is made up, it just means they don't respect him 31:00 from my experience it's in the man's best interest not to text when the date is set up. Let her fantasize. If you don't text her the details (other than the time, place and what she's supposed to wear) and don't really talk to her about any other topics unprompted, you're living in her head rent free the entire time
@incumbentvinyl9291 There are two kinds of bride kidnapping. First is the traditional and right one where the bride gives consent to be kidnapped. It is done when her parents do not give the couple approval to marry. Second and the illegal one is kidnapping her without her consent. Dudes be literally kidnapping strangers and for some reason people think thats what the tradition is about. Unfortunately, it is still there.
This was one of the best videos I’ve seen this whole year regarding tips with woman. You are truly experienced and coming from someone that has experience as well, you are valid my guy you are not some fake you are speaking from real life experience and I respect that so much!
28:55 - I don't agree with you, because she can confuse it with beta traits. Relationships are made by phases. Maybe in the first stage, yes, you should not care because there's no commitment, but pay attention to the red flags. you should not be thristy to settle down in the first date, she should be passing by a trial where you analyse if she's fits to be your girlfriend. I'd recommend to date her as much as possible so you create an emotional bond as fast as you can, giving her good experiences in / outside bed where she has a lot of pleasure. And as the relationship progresses, you should be demonstrating these "masculine traits", by passing her tests. The first thing you should absolutely do if you want to keep dating her, is to positionate yourself after probably a month or 2, where in these months she is constantly dating you, seing you and you've did everything right. There are a lot of steps in these months, and I can't write it in the minimal details here, but you need to lead the relationship and you have to be willing to walk away (thats a positive trait). As I said, relationships are made by phases. You should first settle to keep the relationship only between you and her, both are not gonna be with another person, and by the time passes, you need to be pointing to her these red flags and be willing to walk away. She's gonna test you, so be ready to walk away and keep your composure. Never demand or yell at the girl. She must be more interessed than you and liking you more to create that relationship, you just set the parameters for her, and its her choice to "work" for the relationship or not, thats the catch. Being authentic and honest helps, because she sees that you're not easily manipulated and you are a man. But you need to show that you have options, etc.. (not literally, she has to think through your mistery, etc) while you are dating her, so she sees you as a good option. If she's a complete redflag, dont date her. Gold tip: Only fall in love with her AFTER everything is settle down, after things are "secured". Before that, be a rock. By letting her be passive, you let her be in her feminine energy, but its so subtle and thats the hard part, its not easy as it says and there are a lot of more steps, because its not a formula, you should know how to play the cards correctly by each situation, in order to keep the girl. If the cross the boundaries, just walk away. She doesnt see you as a man she respects and you're not her match. You cannot bluff with girls. They will test you. Be authentic.
maybe I’ll just try to find a relationship that doesn’t revolve around playing 4D chess 24/7
Good luck, all women do this though so
Most.
Find a man
@@Serpicouk😂😂😂
@@Serpicoukexactly what I've been thinking. modern problems require modern solutions. there is lesser demand on femboys, easier prey.
I fuckin swear, our dads and grandads didnt have to go through all this shit
They did just not as frequently and they didn’t have the internet fucking them up
Modern times require modern solutions
Ofcourse they did you idiot. We are actually more equipped these days, womens game is up, too much info out there about them. Guys now know what bs they are doing. Its harder for them now.
They did. Either they failed and became henpecked or they succeeded in a great relationship by having strong frame.
hoeflation is real
Oh man. Let me tell ya, fellas, once you get older and your sex drive calms down some, the idea of putting up with ANY of this becomes laughable.
As someone who is 16 as of writing this comment, putting up with any of this seems incredibly ridiuclous. Even more so that things mentioned in this tierlist are so common entire videos need to be made about it
I'm 60, and my sex drive is still a daily weight.
What are you? 80? 90?
for me, it just seems like people with too much sex drive, might be try-hards at this type of level, making girls sound like alien difficulty, but truth is, they're not, they're more likely hearthbroken by someone else, trying to get confirmations from the guys they meet, to feel more comfortable, as they might be used to badboys who break their hearth even more
@@somedude5951hahaha that's beautiful man, kudos to you
@@somedude5951I guess we’re all different, I’m 30 and my sex drive is almost dead.
*Passing these tests isn’t about outsmarting her - it’s about staying calm, self-assured, and not letting them affect your vibe.*
Nah it is about outsmarting her. Not just in a calm state of mind, but also by standing your ground. If she tries all the most popular TikTok trends it's an immediate red flag and it's then time to break up. She tries arguing just simply say nothing grab your stuff and leave. Simple as that.
What you just described is staying calming…and not anything about outsmarting her…check yourself my man…tests gonna be handed back with Fs!
My life improved after I recovered from the Covid Zeta Phi strain. (Zero Fu€ks)
Yawp so dumb haha
@@minecraftpro2074💯
in case you didn't know what a shit test is, is a test a girlfriend does to let you know she isn't worth shit
It depends what shit test it is, whether its a reasonable test or not. Girls do this for many reasons, one of them is to see if the man is worth it as well, there's alot of risk for women when they get into relationships so they have to be picky, if they choose the wrong guy, it could cause them alot of trouble, which is why you see dumb girls with the wrong guy who treats them like shit.
Dont get me wrong, most of these so called tests in this tier list video are what you said, it tells us that the girl isnt worth shit, but if a girl reasonably does the right tests, she'll get with the right guy.
@@potxtoe The guys that pass these tests naturally are players that don't give them time or care. Only sometimes it's the ambitious types, which is why they talk shit about men based on the ones they date.
@potxtoe thats why most of them have one night stands with guys they barely talked
i swear, if she does most of these shit tests, she's not wife material in my eyes
Girl told me my jacket was ugly. I told her “good thing you’re not wearing it then”
@@omokok1877 Nice one
Sigma
Bro your actually a sigma 🥶🥶🥶🥶 chills bro chills
@@agdunking3075 I do my best 😌
Then she will say I am not feeling cold.
But what do I do about the shit test: "Who are you and how did you get in my house?"
@samscorch8252 Masculine frame. Assert your dominance that her house now belongs to you, and that you will do as you please (don’t worry about the restraining order, it’s also another test)
@@ybctoocold 💀
@@ybctoocold😂😂😂
@@ybctoocold noted 🧐
This is wild but definitely works😂
What it boils down to pretty much is to not take them seriously😂
Yes!
nothing they do or say should truly be taken seriously.
That gender is too random.
Definitely take some of these seriously dude 😭😭
boils down to date as much women as possible, build a circle, have options, and treat women as regular person. also being good looking as its core value.
@@Looksmaxspartanism ngl great advice. from what i have seem this works best.
@@Looksmaxspartanismbros tryna build an irl harem😭😭💀
At this point, finding a wife requires a doctorate degree in dating😂
more like 3rd grade level understanding. but thats still 3 years XD.
why am i even watching this? i am too young for this!
Hack is to meet a girl wit little to no social media. Still a woman but a more serious woman.
This isn’t finding a wife. This is f****** around. Pure lust. Don’t mix the two, this kid doesn’t even know the topic he’s on
Facts
Bro in this generation you can't even love someone
You can love a dog, a tree, a video game, music and all sorts of stuff, and rarely women, so I wouldn't prioritize women, unless they behave and are the rare authentic person who's magical and not the boring domina drama loser.
The Less of these “tests” a woman does shows how mature and how high value she is. The fact that she can find qualities in you without testing you and being toxic, prove her qualities and intelligence as a queen. Toxic traits are hard to get rid of especially when they’re reinforced by society. So I usually give women three chances. I play along into the third test then I’m out.
Stay strong kings.
women dont test guys they genuinely attracted to. and she is only attracted to facial attractiveness. lmao over.
Tests aren't toxic. Women need to know their men are strong, it's a matter of survival for them. Women never stop testing but passing the tests can get much easier.
Theres no queen man. That girl you start thinking is a queen or special and mature will shit test the guy she actually has genuine burning interest in.
@@gracefool iTs a MaTtEr oF sUrViVaL fOr ThEm
When the gynocentric state can extract everything from you that she needs, be it child support, alimony, whatever, at her whim, no. No it's not. There's no survival, we aren't in the neolithic era. You don't need to pass shit tests, you need to find one who's willing to pay for her half, or gtfo, simple.
@@gracefoolI don’t know about that. If you can’t sleep well at night because you aren’t sure if the girl you’ve been after for who knows how long even likes you anymore I think it becomes not worth it anymore.
I'm a 5'5" Indian Janitor, can confirm.
stay hard king.😤
Rise mofo 😤
@@アマードコアおたくliterally
i'm 5'3 bro im worse
I am from India as well Brotha.
Thrilled to see Indians embracing the Red Pill awakening!
Btw I'm 6'0
Biggest takeaway I’ve gotten from watching this vid is that the biggest shit test is life. You won’t know you’ve been shit tested until you’ve experienced it
That’s the truth
The “we’re not hooking up tonight” part made me believe everything this guys saying. First couple of dates with this girl was just us watching movies in her living room with her housemate, I made no effort to try and hookup with her, just enjoyed watching movies and hanging out and the first moment that we have alone together she literally jumps on top of me and is crazy for me looool
Very.
Probably the best advice you'll hear if you haven't heard already considering dating and relationships: every test you see here is a sign of immaturity and toxicity and a sign for you to STOP. You should never be tested in a relationship, let alone during the "getting to know you" phase, it's extremely disrespectful and just plain out wrong. You are not her toy or test subject, always keep at least some of your dignity. If you see these things in your current relationship, have a talk about it with your partner asap, he/she might not realise what he/she is doing.
One advice I've heard that really helped me decide whenever or not the girl is interested, is that she will make you picking her up/hitting on her so much easier IF she's interested (considering she's mature). I'm not talking necessarily about flat out flirting, but talking to you, letting you ask her out etc.
If she doesn't, she's either not interested or she's playing some of these tests. In both of these situations the answer is to give up. Although it's quite stupid thing to say to someone who's in love, there are always other girls that could be interested in you and won't bs you with some stupid tests.
But as everyone knows, if you are interested in someone, you do dumb stuff - but never be someone's test dummy, you'll eventually get hurt.
Idk if the second part is true. I’ve had plenty of women where we’ll playfully flirt and joke about sex, but she was never interested in me.
All people are different, even people who do shit tests can be keepers but its all about the tone, if there's no respect and no interest, don't waste your time. If you feel you are being disrespected, chances are YOU ARE! So don't stick around with people who see you as free entertainment or a conversation topic for her groupchat
uhh, i got a date after the talking stage (none of these test at all) in 2 weeks. we are in our 10 months now. ez pz (im ugly asf lol)
I failed a shit test so brutally the other day. Needed this video
The test goes hard when they start drinking 😂
Wanna share more detail about it. Just asking to know what that shit test was
Live and learn
@@AdamJones-s4k hangin on the edge of tomorrow
@@mohidkhan6039There was this shy girl in my class that I liked and I would always try to talk to her and it went ok but I wasn’t getting a ton of reciprocation and I didn’t think she was into me so I kind of stopped talking to her. Then out of nowhere she sat next to me just started talking to me and I knew immediately that meant she was interested and I wasn’t expecting it all and my brain short circuited. I started stuttering and shit… yeah it was nightmare fuel bro
Can't agree with some of them.
1- if she says she has a bf, it means you can be an orbiter and nothing more;
2- if she breaks up out of nowhere, don't take her back. Because it is so disrespectful, and there is a high chance there is another dude that she preferred;
Pro Tip: even if she does little and minor shit tests regularly, it means whether she has no interest/respect for you, or she is so toxic that cannot control her impulses to not do these behaviors. It will be hell, so just leave her.
i mean breakups has some levels,and it depends
No, it means she likes u. She wants tp figure men out
Well in my experience, about a good 70%-85% of the women that has bfs that I asked out handed me their numbers right after I showed intimate vibes and some of them I got laid. Most girls with bfs that cheat are super easy once you say the right words and if you’re confident enough. Women cheat as much as men do if not more, because women are 100x sneaky than men when it comes to cheating.
Well in my experience, about a good 70%-85% of the women that has bfs that I asked out handed me their numbers right after I showed intimate vibes and some of them I got laid. Most girls with bfs that cheat are super easy once you say the right words and if you’re confident enough. Women cheat as much as men do if not more, because women are 100x sneaky than men when it comes to cheating.
Well in my experience, about a good 70%-85% of the women that has bfs that I asked out handed me their numbers right after I showed intimate vibes and some of them I got laid. Most girls with bfs that cheat are super easy once you say the right words and if you’re confident enough. Women cheat as much as men do if not more, because women are 100x sneaky than men when it comes to cheating.
After watching some your vids I am starting to realize that women do things to weed out emotionally weak/needy men. I think the best way to not be emotionally weak and needy is to realize you don't need a woman to be a man.
Duh
If you needed to have a gf/ wife to be yourself "a true man " then would you not exist anymore as a living individual being, and or have a complete body death, the moment you didn't have a gf?
Whats the end product? Despite all this weeding out they always seem to end up with a toxic bad boy that then goes on to traumatise them.
@@conkreteeighty3015people in general are bad at knowing what they want
@@conkreteeighty3015 We have to keep in mind that she could be emotionally weak too, or making decisions that she thinks are smart and beneficial but aren't. Men do this, everyone does this. The other person could also just be really cunning and deceptive. These are things that both genders go through. I think once more people realize that we aren't that different, things become a lot clearer.
Just came to say this BS doesnt go away with age. Im 38 and was talking to this 35 year old woman when I started noticing her doing certain things and playing games.absolutley nothing. Kept playing the "I swear ill jump" game but instead with I think we should just be friends, the second time she tried it, I told her "I think youre right, we should just be cool" She then tried to 180 on me "What?? I think we should go ice skating, you dont want to date anymore?" At this point the grand scheme dawned on me. dont fall for it boys, if something seems off and they are trying you, MOVE ON TO THE NEXT
It's a shame a 35 year old woman has to play any games. I would guess the games stop when they mature a bit, of course there are always games with women but yk what I'm trying to say. If you can't be straight to the point at 35 something's wrong.
The “we’re not hooking up tonight is spot on”. Not only do they do it to see if they get a reaction but also to see if all you want from seeing her is sec and some girls don’t like feeling used in that way. Whenever she says that just say “yeah that’s fine” or something along those lines, nothing defensive and TRUST me you WILL hook up.
So ultimate solution is to be yourself always, dont change, be stoic, prioritise your goals, respect yourself, dont put them on pedestal?
Yeah pretty much sums it up for how every single human being should treat every single situation
Be kind but be firm , I call it James Bond vs Zach Morris principle
You can be all that, but remember that once you sign that marriage contract she's got you by the balls and you have no recourse. Staying stoic won't do shit for you in divorce court.
Exactly
Ultimate solution is don’t put up with this shit at all.
You can never fail if you don't play, choose who chooses you - easy. If you can walk away at any time, you will always be the winner! Work on yourself so that you always have many options.
But I thought love was meant to be vulnerable
This
Even those that choose you still tests you
@@dumblockdubbed2455 it does, But for people who like they said pick YOU, if they dont pick you then that relationship is butt 😭
Those who chose you can still reject you lol
Bro, I'm gonna be real, this stuff looks exhausting. I don't think I could put up with this for very long. It's almost hard to believe that all women do this, because if that's the case, I don't think I can handle dating.
Unfortunately they all do it, it's a subconscious thing, alot of them don't even know they are doing it.
If you have a bit of a spine it's actually fun. Bro you've evolved to handle this
Just don’t give a F about them. Respect yourself and don’t fall for those stupid games. Feminine women unconsciously follow masculine men. Treat them indifferently unless they have the same energy ad you.
Some countries, and some women, do it more than others. Just develop yourself, work on you first, this shit comes natural to men who are confident and on their shit! Don't worry I felt intimidated about this shit when I first learned about it too!
Its all a learning process, and its alright that this is part of how things work!
Godspeed brother, you got this.
yeah too much work for little gain
Jeez this video is so valuable, great job bro
“We’re not hooking up tonight” is probably one of the only CONSCIOUS tests
The one thing i learned about shit tests is they become effortless if you actually become that guy. If you're making money, you look good, and you've got options, anything a girl throws at you will just seem funny and insignificant
Oh ok, just be a 7 foot tall billionaire with blue eyes.
Never thought of that before! Thanks for the help!
They're shit testing you because they can't see that you're "that guy" in the first place
@@MrNemay obviously upon first meeting a woman she won't know what you're about, so she'll test you. By being 'that guy', you'll pass the test effortlessly, thus showing her what you're about. Hope that makes sense
@@kidgruesome407No dummy you just need to have your life in order. Chase your goals and dont be led astray.
@@kidgruesome407If you are 178cm (5’10) you are tall enough for 95% of women, shorter than that isn’t such a problem either if you take care of your body (you should do that anyway), and if you have wage with which you don’t barely make it to the next month you have “physical” qualities checked off.
One time she gave me one of the dumbest shit test, we were walking together on the street and without me realizing she started to accelerate to see if was gonna accelearte too, at the beginnning i walked a bit faster without realizing it then i i realized i was losing the shit test so i just got back to my normal pace while she was at that fast paced walking it looked ridiculus honestly
What happened afterwards?
@@ekamonthewise2395 lol
@@ekamonthewise2395 he woke up
😂😂 women are literally kids ngl LOOL
What😭😭
All of these shit tests can be passed by
Focusing on yourself, not getting too attached and be willing to walk away,
being your honest self, and if she doesnt like your honest self? who cares move on to the next girl who likes your honest self.
Exactly. It's good to be a warrior. But you know what's even better? Simply being yourself 😂
But the problem is the next girl is exactly the same, so we're all just in a cycle of moving on to the next girl.
But the problem is the next girl is exactly the same, so we're all just in a cycle of moving on to the next girl.
@@JCLightbringeryou're almost right
@@JCLightbringerthe next girl is the same because you're looking for your childhood trauma. I'm not speaking in a very serious sense like PTSD from accidents or very bad parenting or stuff. What I meant was it's obviously just a fact that not everyone's childhood is perfect. One will lack this, other will lack that. Then they look for it in the other person instead of healing themselves. When they keep looking, the cycle repeats.
Straight information, no fucking around, no saying the same shit in 5 different ways in a row, thanks for this, was a pleasure to listen to this before sleep, useful advices.
5:30 brother if you hold her purse you are not her assistant. if you say no I am not holding you purse. you will come off as a weirdo.
i dont think u understood like holding it js to hold it like not because she needs you to or something like that
The accuracy is unreal.
They also like to pit you against other men subliminally, which is terrible.
Great tier list
Been there, however he was a friend of me and we manage the situation
@ It’s rough out there comrade.
To me that’s the worse one, when the men are too emotionally invested, they can destroy each other.
I’m glad you resolved it the right way 🫡
@@Truthseekingorb Thank you my boy truthseekingorb. Make sure y’all go check out his channel too. He has based takes 🫡
@ Thank you bro 🫡
It’s all a power play
Make a version of "shit tests" that man can do, like, how to test her fidelity, test if she is satisfied with our body, if she thinks we are ugly and is only dating out of pity or revenge for her ex-boyfriend.
IMPOSSIBLE lMAO. Women are hardwired to be dishonest, its like a survival tactic
She used me for revenge on her ex😂. I would have rather had genuine interest and dated her but nah im glad i found that out because at the end of the day k was still hitting lol
Yeah, good one!
like if u cant recognize that she dates you only out revenge and still has the other guy in her mind in a few days of talking stage, thats on you boss
women are really easy to see through
Shit tests are so difficult for guys who aren’t red pill aware. I passed the “don’t apologize” shit test, but I’d failed so many other shit tests before that, that my exwife was furious with me for not apologizing. I’d already lost so much frame in our relationship that she was baffled I would pass this shit test. She couldn’t handle it. Guys, You’ve got to pass ALL of these
if you played the test you lose. better leave these people alone because shit test are annoying asbhell.
I was not expecting the advisor giving us some of his dating experience but here we are.
What is next, he will be honest to women about their behavior?
Shit tests are just girls that aren’t attracted to you making it difficult to test your ability to simp or endure. Chad doesn’t deal with shit tests unless the girl is a 9/10.
Or you can just avoid it all together. Being single and having a fwb is honestly and sadly the best thing today. No stress, i'm happy, im doing good in my career and i get 🐱 when I need it? Yeah, i'll keep this over these types of females.
This is one of the dumbest comments I’ve ever heard. Read this to yourself. Maybe she’s just mad you didn’t apologize. And I’m not woke or blue pilled in the slightest either, just appalled at the lack of cope/awareness
Hey guys try this: If she’s shit testing you all the time, wait until it’s over and things are cool, and then address the bullshit she’s doing directly. Explain that you know what she’s doing and that you’re not going to keep dealing with it every time. Let her know that the next time she accuses you of something you didn’t do, fake-breaks up with you, or overreacts to something that wasn’t a big deal, (or whatever it is that she does), that you’re going to walk away. Then walk away. Don’t flip out and walk away. Stay calm and walk away. Later on the next time you see her if she flips out for you “abandoning her”, explain that you had a boundary when it comes to this bullshit and you warned her to knock it off. If she doesn’t want you to walk away she’ll start acting right.
Many good points were made, but are overshadowed by many poor points. I pray someone can take the time to explain to you in greater detail where some of these stances of how to respond to women are toxic, regardless of if the ladies are rude or not. I say that as a man who is very confident in his masculinity.
When listening to each response, ask yourself if you are denying yourself opportunities to improve yourself as a person and a respectable man by responding in that way. If you think you've responded in a petty way, you are both falling for the "test" and giving in to your unhealthy desire to embrace a toxic choice of words because you feel wronged by the woman. A good man does not need to bend over backward for a woman, but he should not desire to exert command over and take control of the situation. Many of these responses encourage this. That is not being a good man. That is not healthy. Be better.
2:44 the pulling away is literally the easiest test to pass. I mostly mirror their behaviour so if I know they don't like me, I'll just be like "I don't chase."
But if keeps closed off, what to do? Just give up?
@kardosao re: "Just give up"
Have you "given up" on all the women that are not interested in you, or that you're not interested in? What about the ones that are unavailable? What about the ones you've never met?
You're not "giving up" because there's nothing to lose. The "giving up" is an illusion, created by the sunk cost fallacy of spending too much time thinking about someone who was never a part of your life.
Simply remove them from play and shuffle them back into the deck, with the rest of the people you don't know.
@@kardosao That’s the best thing you can do. No msgs, no calls no attention. And she’ll come crawling back. In fact they always comeback, just now passed a shit test by having stoic and abundance mindset. Clapped some cheeks as well in the meantime 😉
Bro the purse one😭 same level as chicks asking u to buy em a drink
how should you respond if they ask you to buy em a drink ?
“You see that guy over there? He’ll buy you a drink. Then come back and talk to me.”
@@Martin14159 how do I know when to cold approach or not when there are no choosing signals
Man, when I was in middle school, some random chick ask me to come get her purse, I did which I feel like a doormat afterwards, the next day she asked me again, I completely ignored her, and she was baffled that I ignored her.
@@scp-vp9uu Why would you buy drinks for poor peasants tho 😂😂😂 It's clear that she is after your money. You just dodged a bullet. She can always approach you cost free and just socialize like a normal human would.
Bro this is so helpful for me and I don’t even have a girl I’m chasing or anything I just use this knowledge on my sisters and mom. (I’m the only guy in the household) I constantly am being manipulated by them and when I confronted them about it they said I was acting crazy but then while they said that they continued to manipulate me without even realising it. I just started laughing then and there. I stopped caring about what they say and there arguments and now I feel free and unburdened if I just ignore it all and don’t care it all goes away. Thanks man!
❤ Estrogen can't think straight
You’re a weirdo mate
hahah yeah same shit with my mother and sister
@@Sebastian-pi5ro I’m glad this helped you bro. No alabama though
At first I thought you say it as a joke for not having a girl
Forgot about this shit. Genuinely not unhappy about being single for about 8 years anymore, thanks. I don’t got time or energy for this shit 😂
Im realizing how much I've screwed up online dating lol
"Am I comparing women to peasants? No, but let's be real, a lot of them are"
"That's not a comparison, that's a fact" kind of statement, I like it
Right, some of them don't really deserve your value, talent and future. Some women are just pretty, and besides that... why would you even care? Why not play around and still have a career dude?
The amount of times I've got the "i bet you do/say this with other girls." from women is crazy.
What to say when she says that?
@kardosao Switch topics.
@@kardosao "well the other women were prettier"
Just the dumb ones
@@kardosaoignore it it's best she will wonder if you do and continue talking and sleeping with you, never explain yourself, men don't explain themselves
There should be an extra tier that's outside of the tierlist and is optional, the purse one for example, its up to you, I held my girlfriend's purse all the time and she's nuts for me and is now my wife, the thing about holding the purse is you can either be whiny and tell her you dont want to hold her purse or you can just hold it, so maybe you'll tell her you dont want to hold the purse and you might look tough and confined in your principles and all or maybe it will look insecure like you're afraid of a purse as if holding a purse is all it takes to make you look like less of a man. To say it again in a different way maybe you'll agree to hold the purse, but you'll grab the purse and agree in a weak "okkkay" voice and then start looking all weak with bad posture like you just took a blow while holding the purse, or maybe you'll just grab the purse and hold it and still be the bad dude who you are like nothing and holding the purse doesnt phase you. So its just up to you how you handle it, whether you hold it or not, its the way you act and are perceived afterwards about it.
Missinformation and fake news
I would always grab the purse and say ,” Do you have rocks in here?”
Nah, you should only hold it if she genuinely needs the help
If all this stuff is true, then what's even the point of getting partner. The whole point of getting a partner is that they can support each other, arent they ment to support each other and chill down and have fun and feel comfortable to each other. I don't think that real relationships work like that, even if they do I don't care. I am sure there are girls who don't indulge in this low low things, they are the only one worth going for.
I've actually warned women at the start of a relationship that if they shit test me, its immediately over. I have had to follow through a few times now.
Its incredible to see all the tactics revealed so purely.
I was dating a girl for 6 months, and even though she was really into me and overall I kept a good frame, she still shit tested me. Mainly apology fishing and trying to insult me, last one is very common with Latinas though they’re poking you all the time
Blocked one for it, she one morning blocked me on snap, and I was like okay if you don't wanna be w me then just don't be, I ain't ab this immature ass bs. So I blocked her on everything and moved on to other people/things and other person/things etc. plus my roster at the time. I feel very embarrassed to even admit ever having a roster. As in a woman it's disgusting.
I look better now. If a girl loves me despite my "ugly old pfp" on UA-cam , then .............................
Yup Latinas always testing everyone, it’s easy though you just make fun of them just a tiny little bit and than they crack
They do it unconsius to, and over and over again, and wait 10 years in marriage and kids.
You can’t control how they behave but you can’t control how you react. That’s why having a frame, principles and a backbone is important.
Your take on "boundary setting" is actually extremely interesting. I thought I was being very masculine by communicating effectively and setting boundaries with this girl I was only seeing for a few months. It makes sense to me now that it showed a level of interest.
I think I got confused with this specific relationship because I took her Love Bombing as a sign of high interest. The streets can be tricky out here.
12:30 bro "lets be real but a lot of them are" thas crazy 😭
I passed all these tests and she kept shit testing. I wasn’t super into her and told her that chemistry is not what I’m looking for. She laughed and said I hope you find what you’re looking for
Annoying ahh women
She is now obsessed with you.
you're so in there...
Your him dude
Well, it is easier when you don't like her that much. Interesting that even then they keep testing, probably because they feel they can do something better
It's a good day when YBCTooCold drops a vid
@@ErenYeager-tz8rj ❤️❤️
Another one is if she purposely misses or dodges your questions. She answers some but refuses to answer others-that’s a shit test, and I would crown it as disrespect. If you call her out on it and she refuses to acknowledge what she’s doing, then she just doesn’t like you that much. Leave her dry and delete her.
Another one is if you’re the one constantly reaching out or starting the conversation. If the conversation wouldn’t move unless you initiate it, this shows she doesn’t respect or value you that much.
Another red flag is if she creates way too many rules for you-like not allowing open communication or constantly denying you whenever you try to talk to her in a certain way or bring up intimate topics. If she truly wanted you, she would break down those unnecessary rules and talk to you freely. You’d be able to have intimate conversations without her shrugging you off or being too closed off.
Alright some of these I understand but dude not all of these are tests. and if she’s testing you and being toxic and she loses interest because of it then you didn’t need to be with that woman in the first place. A woman disagreeing with you doesn’t mean she’s testing you that’s just dumb because women are people too who are allowed to have differing opinions from yours. Plus viewing women as “moldable” but thinking you’re a big masculine man who can never be wrong about anything is dumb and driven by ego. At that point she’s not trying to test you with those beliefs you’re trying to manipulate her instead and get her to bend to your will. You are ALLOWED to apologize to her if you come to the realization that you f*cked up. It’s different if she is fishing for an apology then yes stand firm in your beliefs but saying you should never apologize to your partner is ignorant. Especially because you as a man need to understand that you’re not perfect and you have faults and acknowledgement of those faults and improving yourself is a good thing. For example if she thinks you did wrong because you had been planning something and you bail on her last minute she would get understandably pissed off if you didn’t have a good reason for it. I’m just saying guys. If you think she’s testing you or being manipulative then leave, but don’t get into the red pill mindset that she’s moldable and controllable and you’re never wrong about anything ever because that’s damaging to relationships. Have some self reflection it’s healthy. If you come to the realization that you might be wrong about this then apologize. If you think she’s testing you then call her out on it. Never ASSUME that she’s testing you give her the benefit of the doubt but if you find out she is then she ain’t for you bud. This next part is just advice for dudes who want a real relationship that will last a long time and aren’t just trying to hook up with chicks. The difference between a woman who will test you and a woman who won’t is in how they view masculinity. A woman who tests wants a dream man who will be this stoic, idealized version of a man that’s gonna use them how they please and a woman who doesn’t will view masculinity as a man who is kind, isn’t afraid to bottle up their emotions when they’re stressed, isn’t afraid to have a conversation, loves them and views them as an equal. A partner.
The crazy part is you could actually be going through some shit like picking a career, your grandma is dying, etc and some girls will not let up with this. If anything they’ll actually increase it cause they pick up on how you’re not acting like your regular self. It gets to a certain point where she’s not even bringing much to your life outside of sex, don’t always feel like you need to be 100% bulletproof that’s how you end up as a wagon mule.
When she pulls away, she's got a huge rotation of dudes texting her. There is nothing us guys can do. Even if she's in a relationship, she is still going to have tinder or bumble downloaded on their phones.
Yup and only fans. It's a whole lot of prostitutes and I'd rather not
Nah bro never take a girl seriously that has Tinder or Hinge or Bumble installed on her phone.
if you met her over dating apps she's for the streets by default
Even if she in a relationship and she doesn’t have tinder or bumble, she can still cheat on you no matter what.
yeah chances are others dudes are in her day to day activities when she pulls back on you.
How to properly deal with this, boys:
I've been paying attention, and what I'm seeing is that you're playing games-not because you want to, but because your subconscious hasn't fully evolved yet. You're still testing, pushing boundaries in ways that only someone who isn't spiritually or mentally aware would do. And here's the thing: I'm not here to teach you, nor am I interested in guiding someone who isn't already operating on a level of deep self-awareness and emotional maturity. You're operating from a space that doesn't align with mine, and frankly, I'm not here to lower myself or change my energy to meet you where you are right now. If you're not willing to do the inner work, transform your mindset, and elevate your emotional intelligence, then this isn't something I can invest in. I've reached a place where I expect nothing less than total authenticity and awareness from the people around me -if you can't show up as that, then we're on different planes entirely.
They will either leave you or stay and cheat lol. Women live off drama and if she can't find it from you she will find it somewhere
@BARKYH The notion that "women live off drama" and will "leave or cheat" if they don't find it in their relationships is an unfair and reductive stereotype that overlooks the individuality and emotional depth of women. Drama-seeking behavior is not tied to gender; it’s a reflection of unresolved personal issues or a lack of emotional maturity, which can exist in anyone, regardless of gender. Many women, like men, value stability, honesty, and meaningful connection in relationships. Reducing an entire gender to a cliché like this only perpetuates harmful generalizations and ignores the countless women who operate from a place of self-awareness, authenticity, and emotional intelligence. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect and understanding, not on baseless assumptions or stereotypes.
Well said this is what I’m trying to say as well. Prioritize sed improvement first. Most of these guys in the comments are probably young and naive still and won’t accept that if you do nothing to better yourself why would a woman want you
That only works if the man is more mature than the woman, which is rather unlikely.
Dude keeps yapping like a wizard about energy and planets 💀💀💀
Discovered your channel tomorrow loving it man. It’s like free revision.
Tomorrow? 😭
lool@@havocmg
My nigga u come from the future or what cuh
@@Flootyyyeah I am from 3024
damn near had an aneurysm trying to understand this comment
the "active on social media but not replying to you" part is the worst type of disrespect, commonly done by influencer wannabes. I called one out a few days back and blocked her ass. Aint nobody making me a simp follower.
bro im gonna have to be completely honest. I totally get where all this concept come from. But this defense mechanism you’re conceptualizing is part of the problem. A relationships is not a war ground. You should not have to try to take control, or power or the “right” polarization of the masculinity/femminility situation. A functional and fulfilling relationship thrives with positive and constructive communication. So if my girl gets cold (to make an example of one concept you presented) and I am a man that doenst fear to get hurt can affird to work on my relationships with her, I won’t be needing to get dry and cold, cause that would be the same thing that she is doing, then we would both be doing two dumb immature fucks. In that situation I’ll try to talk to her and tell her how that behaviour make me feel and give her a chance to speak her thoughts and emotions over why she is needing to act like this.
Again bro, I live in Italy, I am a psychologist, we have for sure different cultures, I get where this mechanism comes from, but I can assure you, in the most non aggressive way possible: this logic you’re using is as immature and manipulative as the one you’re trying to criticize. This kind of message can only spread toxicity over relationships and emotions.
I’ll conclude saying that I’ve met women that do these shitty tests, and going forward meeting new girls I realized that the more tests I saw, the more immature and destructive that person was. But the solution to an immature behaviour is not an immature behaviour. Also I dont mean that if someone figuratively slaps u in the face you should only try to communicate. Sometimes we should acknowledge that we are mature enough to let that person go. I think that’s better than to degrade ourself at its level
Love from italy
I agree, these shit tests being present in a relationship are signs of the woman being immature and toxic, which is why, ideally, one would like to meet someone that doesn't use them, but first one would need to be aware of them, know what the rationale behind them are, how to correctly or incorrectly react to them, and this is what this video is about.
Being toxic back yourself (as a man) is more of a coping strategy with these (female) toxic aspects, although is still within itself a negative. However if all of this has to be pointed out due to prevalence around dating in x or y country, then we've certainly bigger problems to solve.
If fingers have to be pointed, I'd do so at the prevalence and monopolization of dating apps (under the same megacorporation that also owns mobile gacha games, which are gambling in all but name).
This is legitimately one of the best videos I have ever seen on UA-cam, and I've been here since before 2007. I'm not even making this shit up, this is gold.
🙏🏻🙏🏻 I’m honored to hear that
1. Ways to become confident talking to women tierlist
2. Ways to see that she‘s the right one for you (at the beginning and in the relationship) tierlist
3. Signs she (doesn‘t) respect you tierlist
Imo the idea of trying to pass a shit test automatically cucks you. If you have a vibe of "I dont need you, you need me" you will naturally pass all of these.
It shouldn’t feel like you’re trying to do anything. That’s the point
This man literally put on tierlist all my experiencies with women, the right choices and the wrong choices are clearly obvious when you lived this a lot before. Congrats bro, nice vid and channel.
I made the mistake of apologizing and explaining myself in my last relationship.
I always thought relationships were about being open with each other, being equals, sharing thoughts and showing weaknesses and strengths as well as not ordering each other. now I'm more aware of manipulation, and how some girls don't want an equal relationship. and I need to express authority.
The timing of this video is actually insane, I was on the verge on failing one of these tests accidently.
Dude this will help out upcoming generations so much.
I respect you so much man ty very much!
@@Akash-hu3vb Thank you for your support bro. We going strong 💯
Aren't shittests toxic and unhealthy for a good releationship?
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bro literally mentioned that in the video lol
imo they are harmless if you are immune to these
Every single women on the planet does them so
Men can easily test a woman by looking at her body to see how fertile it is. Women need to test a mans strength somehow. It's all unconscious.
Women are more flow orientated. So they act on their subconscious more.
I don't like to be tested or played with. Guess that's why I am single.
My honest advice, if she's putting you through a lot of these js dont go for a immature girl tryna play games
It’s all subconscious bro
TLDR : Treat them right, but overcompensating and overdoing it doesn't fall under treating them right. Don't take them seriously and don't overthink
Also, don’t be emotional, and set solid boundaries.
27:06 Women openly talk about using this tactic but it often backfires when they are dealing with confident men.
The difference between a manipulation and a shit test is conciousness.
Manipulation is concious, shit-tests are natural and thus subconcious.
This shit happened to me bro and I just dipped immediately.
Right now i'm in this situation, like she literally posted 10 min ago a story and i'm on delivered from yesterday night. The thing is she showed me a los of interest the first two weeks (we even had s*x) but then, she started to puling away or doing this sht test may I guess. Idk I think she's trying to fool me or whatever, i really don't think she's not interested anymore. I will say nothing and just continue, but if she does it again I think i'll tell her to not jking around.
If she says she has a boyfriend, I've always equated it to her either having one, or it's a polite way of saying she's not interested. I guess there's room for interpretation on that one.
Reply to her with, "That's cool. You can keep him busy when you're not around me."
I believe the premise of passing a shit test is to operate from your own mental point of origin.
No matter how you respond to a shit test, if it's coming from your authentic & confident self, you're going to pass it.
Bros been treated so wrong from women he’s about to go to men fr
This is probably the best video you’ve made on your channel
@@genix5700 glad you got value from it man
Worst shit test I ever got was when i sent my ex a photo of me and my friend hanging out and she said that he was hotter than me
This also works for women. When she sends a pic with a friend, only say: who's your friend? She looks great . This will make her jealous and will make her want to chase you
Not a shot test, pure disrespect
you can't even reply to that. you have to go silent until she apologizes or just end it
@@masonraasch6813or make it a joke like don't even think he's into hot chicks? How about that ?
@@masonraasch6813 You can. Agree, my friend is a handsome guy. The response is always "I do not care" because we shouldn't, they're women, they run off of emotion/estrogen.
Thank you man, this video is really good. For the last one, just make sure you're not scheduling a date like 2 weeks in advance or else she's gonna forget and not show up. If you schedule it a few days from when you invite (NOT ASK) her, then she'll probably show up, and if she doesn't so what, you get to have a fun time doing something by yourself, and she'll like your confidence, like YBC said.
Yeah, if a woman makes plans with you weeks out and says she is "sooo busy" that is a sign of no interest. You might be in a friend zone or an orbiter where she does not want to reject you explicitly, but if she says she can only see you three weeks from now, she will not show up and if you try to confirm a few days before, it is 100% she will say "oh yeah, sorry! I have "x" and cant make it, raincheck?" It is a way of spinning your wheels. Even if you back off and she starts texting you again or whatever, she will usually do the same thing again. She wants attention only.
@@bobross1829 literally happened to me
This guy can teach understanding girls as a subject. Mad respect.
you’re a goddam scientist, i just keep these conclusions subconscious but the fact you’ve consciously articulated and RANKED these is profound. Godspeed brother 🙏
At this point idk how you guys have patience to deal with women 😂
our own biology is curse and a blessing. sometimes we just need a lil break
The stats show that most guys have given up and are not having sex
If u have a little bit of a spine it can fun
Does anyone else feel like they tend to chalk up shit tests as signs of disinterestedness and just pull back? Feels bad man.
All the time, probably for the best though, we shouldn’t put up with this shit.
If a girl insults you and you ignore it or turn it into a joke like "Oh you just want me without my shirt off don't you" that's not a good way to deal with disrespect. A woman should respect you, you should either disrespect her right back or call out her behavior. Setting boundries as a man is important can't let shit slide
@@RoadToStrength-nv8ei That’s what you’d think, and maybe objectively this is true. But chads don’t really care, they play along. This boundary stuff has a lot of nuance
@@ybctoocold You really need to reconsider the information you're feeding to young impressionable men assuming this channel isn't a content farm (which it looks like it is).
The part about her having a boyfriend is a common defense mechanism to ward off dangerous men, because they view having a boyfriend as a no-go zone compared to her just saying no. It's sad but it's the way it is, because men couldn't just take the no for an answer. Why you would even continue to push those boundaries if you have an abundant mindset is mind boggling to me, it doesn't make her feel any safer and it's an obvious no-go. Just keep it pushing unbothered.
That was just one part of the video out of many parts where it didn't make any sense. But it's the most dangerous part I had to speak up about. If you want to become a dating coach or whatever, I highly suggest you do more in-depth studying about how the genders interact with each other.
My rule of thumb is if the insult is about something you can change or no, but in most cases, and not only for girls, it’s best to just dgaf
sometimes you know its a test but you're no going to waste time and leave.
Out of all the dating advice I've gobbled up on this app, this is by far the best, most honest video I've ever seen
Babe can you hold my purse for a sec?
YBC: 😡😡😡
it's great to know all these test lead to successful relationships and high marriage rates.
24:15 I would argue that the only way to pass this test is to straight up ghost her and don't look back. Some of them "break up" or "need to take a break" because they just saw a guy who they wanna cheat on you with (especially if it's out of nowhere) and when they have their fun, they want to come back to their safe and locked down guy. If you wanna pass this, don't let her do any of it and simply don't take her back. Bonus points if you manage to get with someone before she wants to come back
28:15 there are countless videos of girls saying they have a boyfriend and then giving away the number anyway. It doesn't always mean the boyfriend is made up, it just means they don't respect him
31:00 from my experience it's in the man's best interest not to text when the date is set up. Let her fantasize. If you don't text her the details (other than the time, place and what she's supposed to wear) and don't really talk to her about any other topics unprompted, you're living in her head rent free the entire time
This is something every man wishes they understood at a younger age. Glad you are sharing the knowledge for the younger guys to learn from.
14:48 “watch the Netflix eat the popcorn” 🤣🤣
shout out from kazakhstan 🇰🇿🇰🇿 love your content man, this is peak entertainment right here
@@hollowwings 🇰🇿 🇰🇿
Is bride kidnapping still a thing there?
@incumbentvinyl9291That's kyrgyzstan
@incumbentvinyl9291 There are two kinds of bride kidnapping.
First is the traditional and right one where the bride gives consent to be kidnapped. It is done when her parents do not give the couple approval to marry.
Second and the illegal one is kidnapping her without her consent. Dudes be literally kidnapping strangers and for some reason people think thats what the tradition is about. Unfortunately, it is still there.
Watching this and getting flashblacks of all the shit tests like when the guy swallows the super pill in limitles
Ur opinion on crossing boundaries was very unique and beneficial.
Bro u shoulda given me this video 2 years ago 😭 Learned a lot of this over so many talking stages
"You seem like a player"
"No, I'm a coach"
Just don't care, if it's not easy it's not worth it
Highly underrated video, YBC must be havvin aimbot cause he never miss
Smooth
@@Qntmmchncs 👑👑
Underrated? Bro it just came out like 2 days ago. you expect it to go billions😅
This right here is the only channel you need to understand women to the absolute fullest
This was one of the best videos I’ve seen this whole year regarding tips with woman. You are truly experienced and coming from someone that has experience as well, you are valid my guy you are not some fake you are speaking from real life experience and I respect that so much!
this video was hilarious, it reminds me of those alpha male videos 😂
28:55 - I don't agree with you, because she can confuse it with beta traits. Relationships are made by phases. Maybe in the first stage, yes, you should not care because there's no commitment, but pay attention to the red flags. you should not be thristy to settle down in the first date, she should be passing by a trial where you analyse if she's fits to be your girlfriend. I'd recommend to date her as much as possible so you create an emotional bond as fast as you can, giving her good experiences in / outside bed where she has a lot of pleasure. And as the relationship progresses, you should be demonstrating these "masculine traits", by passing her tests. The first thing you should absolutely do if you want to keep dating her, is to positionate yourself after probably a month or 2, where in these months she is constantly dating you, seing you and you've did everything right. There are a lot of steps in these months, and I can't write it in the minimal details here, but you need to lead the relationship and you have to be willing to walk away (thats a positive trait). As I said, relationships are made by phases. You should first settle to keep the relationship only between you and her, both are not gonna be with another person, and by the time passes, you need to be pointing to her these red flags and be willing to walk away. She's gonna test you, so be ready to walk away and keep your composure. Never demand or yell at the girl. She must be more interessed than you and liking you more to create that relationship, you just set the parameters for her, and its her choice to "work" for the relationship or not, thats the catch. Being authentic and honest helps, because she sees that you're not easily manipulated and you are a man. But you need to show that you have options, etc.. (not literally, she has to think through your mistery, etc) while you are dating her, so she sees you as a good option. If she's a complete redflag, dont date her. Gold tip: Only fall in love with her AFTER everything is settle down, after things are "secured". Before that, be a rock. By letting her be passive, you let her be in her feminine energy, but its so subtle and thats the hard part, its not easy as it says and there are a lot of more steps, because its not a formula, you should know how to play the cards correctly by each situation, in order to keep the girl. If the cross the boundaries, just walk away. She doesnt see you as a man she respects and you're not her match. You cannot bluff with girls. They will test you. Be authentic.
Great comment, thanks brother!
That's a lot of words
too bad I'm not reading them.