The UGLY TRUTH About Being an Unattractive Man
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- Опубліковано 5 січ 2024
- In this video, I discuss the ugly truth of being an unattractive man.
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Being ugly is a double edged sword you will be lonely but you know who your real friends are
True
Nobody 😂
@@realperx1102 nah a good friend of mine is about 300 ponds but he is a true freind of mine
You will be lonely but you know who your friends are? You realise what you just said?
@@mstirlz i meant lonely like in terms of a partner but your friends will stick by you
The really messed up thing is when your looks are bad and you ask why your dating life suck, everyone will say it's your personality. Family, friends, therapists will just say it's your confidence or energy. No one will just be honest with you.
Yeah, it's the uncomfortable truth that your friends, family and therapist don't want to tell you because they are trying to spare your feelings or gaslight you. My personality hasn't changed drastically from when I was overweight and bald, just my looks and it's a 1000% night and day difference. It's not your energy or confidence, it's 100% looks. I'm living proof of that.
I think your 80% right, it is mainly your looks. But personality does change from being overweight to healthy body weight. If your obese, your hormones are different, and these hormones influence your impulse control e.t.c. @@ascended266
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I stopped believing the lies and just get and drunk.
Yet you can change your looks, you just need the proper guideline
Being a male is hard af. Being an unattractive male, is like living life on ‘insane difficulty’.
And *the hardest* to be a female that males collectively consider unattractive. And before anyone contradicts me, don't bother. I don't take into consideration the opinions that think the whole world functions like America, where women are *far* more free to be overweight.
Yeah, it's virtually pointless
@@anyamiranda9452I was thinking the same thing. It’s probably much worse to be an unattractive female since there looks hold so much weight with men.
Being an ugly guy, with borderline personality disorder is quite the CRAP.
Life: "Hey, wanna be in the 0.4% of the population??? GUY WITH BPD!.... AND UGLY WITH A BIGASS FOREHEAD!"
@@anyamiranda9452Yeah not going to disagree with you. Though in the USA the women in that lowest looks rating are far more likely to get guys than vise versa. For women below 50 at least.
There are plenty of stats to back this up, and intuitively it makes sense because there are over 21 males for every 20 females biologically, and because of how serial monogamy works with age differences.
A man aged 45 might have been married, divorced, then remarried a younger woman. Even if it's not common, the small difference in numbers has a big impact because of how the game of musical chairs works.
So it's harder for older women and younger men due to the ratios of singles in their ages.
You know you're ugly when you're told "you have a good personality"
You have a BAD personality.
👴🏻🥃 DATS WUT DAY TELLIN ME NOW.
No, you're just being believing that.
@@tungstenanderson5991 To be fair that IS an indicator. When a good looking person is described as having a good personality,people never actually say that. They just TREAT the good looking person like they have a good personality.
And me personally,I’m actually quite funny but I’m ugly (4/10 in the face) but people say I’m funny all the time BEFORE any other kind of compliment. Funny how people are saying specific things to specific people 😒
Let me ask you this?
Do you criticized overweight women or women who have children or women who are unattractive?
If you're attractive and shy, you are cute.
If you're unattractive and shy, you are a loser and have no confidence.
If you're attractive and getting good grades, you're smart.
If you're unattractive and getting good grades, you're a nerd.
It’s over bro
@@jeffyli7507 Damned if you do and damned if you don't
If you are unattractive and approach a girl you are a creep.
thats why i hate when people say looks dont matter
I agree with you, I just wanted to be a pretty boy😢
@@João-u8b I can't tell if you are joking or if you actually agree
@@jman3657 Why would I be joking?
@@João-u8b you said just you wanted to be a pretty boy and then you put an emoji so I got a little confused
Yeah, like that is supposed to make you feel better.
High school treatment definitely reveals the truth
School traumatized me
You guys are such wimps lmao
@@johngilliam6764 What's a wimp? It reveals reality
@@johngilliam6764 if you said that to me in person well go round for round , and i will get the best of you ..... lmao
@@johngilliam6764 …yet here you are making fun of people from behind the safety of your keyboard/screen.
The biggest discrimination in the world goes against ugly people. You can be black, white, Asian, Latino, if you are ugly they will discriminate against you in any country. For all the victim-hood people are trying to find to protest against, you will never see anybody complaining about ugly people being treated like crap. Even worst, in general, people assume is OK to mock, ridicule and discriminate against ugly men and women, even ugly kids get the raw end of the deal.
u xpose hard words!!.....are the end is some kind of new discriminate but probably is has been some ancient bully that is lookism (your face, height, and shape weight, youth appearance, and snob wearing xpensive accesories) all of this parallel to some of the income status (witih in or hand in hand with lookism) ......this are the main issues that in reality face today the society going falling down without moral and legal indiferrenca about it...
- Chads
-Tyrones
- Bad Ass with some kind of political power to Bully everyone
- Fake cool guys or "political popular" guys who are really ready to manipulatively proceed with indifference or to betray with impunity...
Yes. Ugly kids do get the raw end of the deal. I was an ugly kid. Sometimes, strangers just made it a point to mention that you're ugly. It's prevalent in the Hispanic culture.
@@notursavior1861 no way....is incredible!
Yes because genetics are the real bargaining tool in this lifetime
This is true even as a female. I’ve literally hired and trained a pretty girl at an old job and then she got promoted over me. Happened so many times! Now I work for myself so my merit stays where it should.
I was a late bloomer. Everything this guy says is true.
I'm glad you can resonate!
@@ascended266 Nope, it`s just incel bollocks lol.
@@funkriderx-djandproducer Because he was an incel. He's not any more.
Bro I looked so ugly in school that girls didn’t even wanna sit beside me
Br00tal
I'm so ugly I stood still in an elevator looking at my phone and the girl walking in jumped in fear like she saw Ted Bundy in her bathroom.
@@1whospeaksand they are the ones to say “mind your own business” when most of them wouldn’t if they see an unattractive person.
I can relate bro same with me
@@soldierofgod7412 same with me they always spitted on my shoes in school all the time
It’s like I’ve been saying for years; the more ugly you look, the more you see how rude the world is. While the more attractive you look, the more you see how shallow the world is.
bullshit, I see lots of "ugly" ppl living life to the fullest, tik tokers, influencers, youtube travellers you would consider below average looks that are simply making money and having fun.
Attraction isn’t just about dating…
Your career will suffer because you are less attractive. The “people don’t want to associate themselves with ugly people” applies to your boss as well. And if your boss has a negative attitude towards you because of your ugliness, you will not get that raise.
Absolutely true. This is why people should take work clothes and grooming seriously. Makes a huge difference in your workplace interactions and opportunities.
@@mylesgray3470no it doesn’t. If your face is a 3 or below, no matter what you wear no matter what hairstyle you have you will still will look ugly which means you still are getting builled. Why do you think ugly people with tattoos & per-icings are precived as a crackhead while the attractive person with tattoos or piercings (look 10x better)
@@Milkstoriez It’s really about showing you care about how you look and “making an effort” which shows you care about the job. People who show up in ragged misfiring clothes, unshaven and un-showered are assumed to be slackers and unsuccessful. People who don’t work directly with you will judge these things like your bosses boss, who may be deciding on promotion proposals or layoffs.
@@mylesgray3470 not true tho. I know from experience & from other people I know. If you’re ugly you can put the most cleanest neatest professional clothing on.& people don’t take you serious. What Ive learned is I get bullied more dressing nice & professional then when I dress like a white ghetto thug. Same with the hairstyle part I’ve been to hundreds of stylists & not one hair style looks good on my face not even bald looks good 😭😂 how do I know? No matter how good the cut is everyone will talk about my hair more than any other ugly part.
@@Milkstoriez9/10 employers are taking the ugly person who’s well taken care of, ie. clean haircut/beard, clean clothes with no wrinkles, physically fit, over an attractive person who puts minimal effort into their self image.
Why are some people so unempathetic? Do they not realize the amount of emotional damage they could do someone or are they just sociopathic? Really makes me realize that at the end of the day we are nothing more than biological creatures looking out for our own skin
People are naturally self Cantered
Nah bro i would never go out my way to disrespect someone for their looks nothing to do with human nature, if anything it's a choice to be rude.
@moggman6401
🎉That we are friend, ones known as primates in fact.
Because by agreeing with the premise that looks matter, it means that they kinda have to go down the rabbit hole about a lot of other things. Women especially hate to admit this because they don't only want to be liked for mostly their looks, they have to believe that they are super interesting or that their boyfriend would still like them if they were uglier. Also means they have to admit they are shallow, which to be fair all humans are shallow, but women do not want to be considered shallow, because that lessens their social credibility.
It’s genetic brother. We are outside of their structure. This is the first time in human history that our minds are free from this cycle and ironically our looks are what set us free.
I’m 49 years old , never married, no children , never had a girlfriend nor the prospect of one … I’ve always been unattractive inside and out.
Sorry to hear that. Learn comedy and game.
@@evelyna_paula1747Game is bullshit, attraction can't be created.
@@evelyna_paula1747 game is bullshit
@evelyna_paula1747 🙄
@@evelyna_paula1747 nah …. I’d rather just have my throat slit.
Being physically disabled made me experience the horn effect of my life during childhood
I'm really sorry, how are you now
@@ThatoRadebe-c6n Not great. I'm considering getting on antidepressants to numb myself to emotions.
@@tusk9901 I wish I could help you, I pray you get well.Dont lose hope
@@tusk9901 I wish I was your friend, I would show you a good time.I would make you feel happy, just remember God loves you, everything happens for a purpose good or bad.
@@ThatoRadebe-c6n Thanks, man. Such unexpected empathy online surprises me to be honest. How are you doing
I was a shut in. I would just go to work, grocery store and back home. Whenever I ate out it was to-go, I never ate dining in as I was alone.
Then one day while on Netflix I watched a health related show named " fat sick and nearly dead", it changed my personal outlook. I lived across the street from a nice gym. One day I stepped inside just to take a look around and have been going back every since. I'm addicted to it now and it feels great. 😅
Nothing else seems to matter anymore. 😊❤💯
That documentary got me into juicing for a bit.
@@adelgado854
Me too! The weight just fell off. 😊
Sounds like you have obsessive tendencies and your root issue is still present (lack of personal relationships/connections).
When you’re high off course nothing else matters😂
Right across the way? Wow the lord really set you to glow up! 🎉
110% facts. You have no idea how much different people treat you when you experience a glow up. The attention, respect, dialogue, and overall social interaction jumped for me when I lost 90lbs from 260.
People that say only the personality matters only ever say that to save face. Even the Beast from Beauty and the Beast was drawn charismatically.
I have told this to people many times, because it is absolutely true. Put on some torn jeans, ripped shoes, scuffed t shirt and go out to a restaurant. Compare that experience to when you go the same restaurant dressed in a suit or in nicer pants, and snazzy shoes and fancy shirt. You'll be treated like royalty by comparison, regardless of your gender or ethnicity. But yet we're supposed to believe looks don't matter, right??? Ha! Please.
It can be worse when you have a well meaning friend who tries to set you up with someone and invite you out and you can tell they are trying to get a female friend to take an interest in you yet the woman is standoffish and it just makes you fall even farther into humiliation because the friend had such hope it would work and even thats pressure on top of the normal pressure on a date
Yes! I've definitely been through that countless times. It's humiliating and exhausting.😢
That happened to me...horrible
That's the worst feeling, most women can't even be cordial, just outright rude
The worst part is that no one is honest with you. I think I was overall quite blessed genetically, being 6'2 tall, having a high IQ, good sense of humour and robust immune system. However, no matter how much I compensate for my ugliness with making others laugh and being a good man, I am friend zoned, ridiculed behind my back, rarely given the benefit of the doubt, and even repellent to children ffs. It is very hard not to be cynical and bitter about such a fate. It feels like a curse.
get plastic surgery
I swear bro I can relate to you I’m the same as you expect I’m have a fairly regular IQ and I’m a manlet 5”7 Hispanic male skinny unattractive face it’s brutal.
I have IQ 131, my height is 6'3, decent looking face, skinny (but a little bit muscular). I am 18 years old at the moment.
Don't care about girls, only care about my hustle
So no dating game for me too. I am a voluntary celebate
@@soldierofgod7412 time to become a femboy, lol jk life is unfair and cruel, such is the life of a man.
Exactly
I am a sub 5. I was so cripplingly lonely. I married another sub 5. I've lost 60 pounds and want to get fit because I don't want our son to suffer the hell I did. I want his life to better.
Then make sure your spouse eats keto/carnivore diet before, during and after delivery. Feed that child plenty of fat soluble vitamin foods and plenty of protein and the child will have facial symmetry and be attractive and smart. Make sure the baby is breastfed for two years as well, no formula
Don’t have a kid. Gym does nothing. My dad was a roidcel. And I’m here. If that doesn’t tell you enough I don’t know what will.
@@ernesttrosman yeah ok
That’s so fucking noble
You don't want your son to suffer? The only thing you need to give him is a sense that he's safe to try things and learn. You give him that, you can relax. You don't give him that, you'll be practicing remedial parenting for decades.
Being fat/overweight can be associated with lack of control.
Poor skin conditions can be associated with poor hygiene.
Weak hair/balding can be associated with bad genes, same goes with height.
I have 2 and 3 (2 even with good hygiene)
Any skin conditions that are not related to your habits are consciously and subconsciously seen as defects.
From elementary to HS i was an ugly duckling . But one day i decided to do something about it . Got in shape removed my facial hair which gave me a youth full look Cut my long hair fix my thick eyebrows and everything change so much that i was constantly getting caught up in drama with women. So i just decided to stop dating but i met a woman one day fell in love and got married
Congrats buddy👏
But she didn't want your DNA in her eggs, so she got you a "dog child" so you can stop bothering her.
Idk guys… I think this dude used to be overweight and balding
Lmaooo
Best comment
I did not get it
@@Bozojimmythe OP is lowkey saying the guy in the vid is mentioning his balding and unattractiveness ad naseum.
Thank you for this vid. Most good looking guys never acknowledge the advantage their looks give them, and tend to give themselves too much credit for their personalities, confidence etc. Your perspective as someone who was unattractive, but no longer fits that description, is quite unique.
For real, for me personally I don’t think I’m ugly but at the same time I know I’m no model and that I am average. The kicker is that one of my really attractive friends keep giving me relationship advice…..that only works for him. So I just politely hear him out and then disregard what he says because I know damn well if I did what he did I’d be spending Friday/Saturday night in a squad car with my name on some list. He doesn’t understand that he can say the most diabolical shit about women to their face and yet she’s still gonna go home with him at the end of the night.
Both of you wrote a great comment. Just to let you know though, it's *exactly* the same dynamic on women's side.
@@kiravampira1456i think that your problem isnt being ugly, its more like the fact that u think youre a vampire
@@kiravampira1456 I appreciate your kind words but I don’t think that’s true. An average or less-than attractive woman dropping hints at a really attractive guy isn’t going to end with her spending the night in jail and put on some registry the way an average/ugly guy would. Oir sexualities works differently. A 5-6 woman is still going to get a lot of play compared to her 5-6, even 7-8 male counterpart.
@zubrifikusummuk I didn't ask you neither to evaluate my looks nor to say what you consider undesirable, especially since I didn't show any interest in you. Of course I'm not ugly. Never claimed I was.
I work in sales and 100% sex sells.
brutal field to go into
Huh, clapping cheeks as a selling strategy. Why did I never thought of that?
I've been rejected my whole life for my looks from family, women and people. I've given up going outside the door. No hope. Life is for the better looking.
It's true to life is a scam for people who look s certain way
Looks are really and truly only a small percent improve other areas
45 year old male here. Had the same experience all my life. Now fighting that decision to be a shut in from my formative experiences with people, especially women.
Hope you can find peace and a much better outcome than what you've been through.
I hope to share of my own plight with you.
I am now 68-year-old retired senior and to this very day continue to receive the nastiest and regular insults even from my fellow retired senior citizens because of my appearance.
There was a cover Time magazine story in the early 2010s on why parents favor one child over another and the #1 reason was looks (my own parents had nothing but loathing, neglect and disappointment for me). Wherever I go I'm regularly insulted, put down, eyes roll and faces grimace.
Since COVID, I began wearing a mask and continue to do so now in all public places, including my apartment building. That way I'm not insulted or looked down upon for my looks.
Sadly, I can say that in 68 years of living on this earth that I have never had a happy day in my life.
With the advent of present day cosmetic surgery, I certainly would have undertaken an operation to deal with my looks. But, life has passed me by and it's too late to turn back.
Minor cosmetic surgery should be considered. But for me, life has passed me by. I no longer go out in public.
@dreadpirate3159 . Tired of neurotypicals like you or Chads constantly telling people about thier experiences here on this matrix from your own biased lived experience. Pretty much gas lighting at this point. For some people, the phrase "you should improve" means fundamentally changing who they are as a person to be accepted. Specifically, changing thier looks (not appearance), personality, speech patterns, learning style, etc.) that is essential to who they are. Especially if they are neuro divergent and dont fit inside the societal hive mindset. At my age, im tired of the societal BS that seems to only work for a certain set of people. Dont want to play that game anymore, its exhausting and futile.
Im halfway through my life, if im lucky. Hopefully, I get to spend the final half accepting and being happy with who i truly am, not some stupid projection of what society at large or women expect me to be.
I work in STEM. It still helps to be attractive, people pay attention to your presentations and ideas more and trust you more with their own.
Uh huh humble brag or what?
I know there's a lot of black pill people here, but the moral of this story isn't that being attractive = better life. Once you become conventionally attractive those same stuck up women become like moths to a flame, and the result is that you're surrounded by the most toxic people all of the time.
My friend has this issue, instead of bullies he's literally being harrassed by these hypergamous women, who demand his attention even though they have boyfriends.
You know who else wants to be around attractive guys "mentally ill" guys and women. And when you say "No", or you want to spend time with your actual friends, then suddenly they yell and blame you for their problems, and threaten self harm, or even suicide if you don't give them enough attention.
Yes, being lonely sucks, but the truth is there has never been a better time in life to be lonely.
When people leave you the f--- alone, you can do whatever you want.
But when you're attractive, it's like you don't even own your own body anymore, and this sustained harrassment has a negative impact on your mental health.
Brilliant 👏 ❤
I agree with the lonely part.. being alone helps you build strength and focus on yourself..some of the most successful people in the world was alone at one point in their life
Whole lotta cope lol
@@jpurp5916 isolation arc is good if u use it, but it should be temporary
He can literally just cut contact with the toxic people and find a golden woman by approaching first instead of waiting for them to approach. Its really nowhere near the same.
Those comments from high school really stick with you. I've never forgotten those moments even as an adult.
Bro same I’m so damn hurt at 21 now over comments made in 6th grade I’m a full blown alcoholic now
Congrats on not giving up, rather putting in work and levelling up.
Thanks man!
Yes. Most kids these days have started using the phrase "it's over" just because they are 5'9".
Take a shot every time this guy says "overweight and balding " R.I.P 😅
Brutal
What I have experinced in my late child/early teen years (10-11yr) is that my friends were different with me when we were in a group. For example if me and my friend were doing something together and then another boy showed up on the scene, my friend would just act different and make jokes out of me etc., so it really just signalled that they were trying to prove to that other kid that they are not 'really' my friend at all, as if being seen with me was a shame. But they were always nice to me when we were alone. And this happened to all of my friends, no exceptions. That's when I decided that I don't need them because of this. I could say I had lots of friends in my child years, but I lost them all when I became a teen, and I didn't really have friends ever since. I am 31 now.
You didn’t deserve that, nobody does. I understand what you mean, I experienced some bad things as a teen for a couple years before I met my first girlfriend. From 12-14 I was in a new environment and I was treated as ugly and it was awful.
Yes as soon as I grew to full height I had a lot of female interest and girlfriends ask me out, so I know both sides. It’s undeniable.
Especially at 18 people are very very shallow.
It’s brutal.
They were never ur friends
Same
When i was 21y, went to a party and after trying to talk to a girl, minutes after she and her friends came to me giving some coins to get a bus and leave because i was the uglyest in there and i was ruining the party…
Such a “great” experince lol…
damn bro
Those girls are sociopaths
So I was super shy in high school and scrawny. Never got a gf, never once got laid. I actually just started focusing on my health more at 23 and I went back to my ten year highschool reunion last year. I was the best looking man there by a large margin. All of the former jocks were either bloated alcoholics or just plain morbidly obese. Pretty much all of their wives/gfs were the same girl that they broke up with and got back together with four times in high school. I had three women that night tell me they couldn’t believe I was single and how much I changed. After a few drinks I ended up sleeping with one of them that night. My point is that all of the people that bullied me in high school just ended up settling with the girls that got tossed around town like hackysacks. Going to the same bar every night, talking to the same people about the same things and never moving forward. Get out and work on your health. It’s pretty much the only thing that matters.
You shouldn't have given a one night stand
@@murderman8578 Nah I understand it, now he can close that chapter of his life and move on, you never know how much it hurt and bothered him to never get his way or have experiences simply just from the way he looked. He had a chance to rewrite the past and close the chapter and he did and had fun while he did it.
Congratulations on your victory. I mean it. I graduated in 2007 and I still haven't done my victory lap. I even have a mini list in my head of a girl or two I would love to reward for being nice to me in high school with my ultimate for my building now.
For example two girls Samantha and kate, we're nice to me when I was at my quote-unquote worst. It would be an honor to give them my best
@@DamienHanma they dont deserve anything more than the kindness you recieved, being nice is the least you can do for your character as a human
💀💀
When i was a kid i struggled with this shit heavily, until i understood people around my age are just shallow so it wasnt me.
Now im older and look better i just notice the slightests things like people smiling gets in my head. Its crazy that how you get treated in your younger years has a huge effect on how you grow.
Why put 3 old men in the thumbnail. As if older guys don't naturally lose their looks
Forget the thumbnail, focus on the message
You really gonna tell me with a straight face that Harvey was attractive ever in life? Because that face seems to have always been the kind only a mother could love, and in his case probably not even that.
We can't change our genetics but we can always improve our situation. Glad you decided to not give up and cleaned yourself up!
Is “hair club for men” still around?!?
@@davestewart2067 haha who knows but I heard there are options for hair loss. Luckily I still have hair at 47 so I'm good there. If only there was a way to make me 7 inches taller....hmm...
@@davestewart2067 nah, rogaine/minoxidil is the new thing
You look like a totally different person since your looks transformation. Good for you bro. Btw its easier to be funny if you are goofy looking. Good looking comedians are not that funny.
Thank you brother! Yeah, this is true. I've never thought Matt Rife was that funny. His improv is good though.
I don’t think that’s true
@@jeremys3951Matt Rife is a perfect example of why that person is wrong
Jim carrey is not ugly.
I thought Chevy Chase was much funnier when he had movie-star looks.
I’ve always been really thin, and why household I grew in really destroyed any confidence I had with women. Women were interested in me until I opened my mouth and they realized how non-confident I was. I married the first woman who gave me the time of day at age 24 which was a mistake. Confidence builds slow. Keep working at it and don’t sell yourself short.
I’m not ugly but I have autism so cannot hold conversation with women or strangers.
But listening to many of your videos I feel so bad for you and all other men in this situation
Hmm maybe that's my issue
Seek God and his Word and his Love and Guidance and Dicipline, Jesus Loves You Very Much ❤
I think you can get therapy to help with that issue?
Me too at least I’m not they only one
Im a pretty attractive dude and i have autism and i can speak to people and have conversations but i don’t know how to have regular conversations really like a normal person
Why is Danny DeVito on the thumbnail/video? He's peak human physicality!
Finally someone said it.
And why would you put him in the same picture as Weinstein?
It’s human nature. I’m annoyed by people who say “I don’t care about looks!”. Yes you do, even if it’s subconsciously. Stop lying to yourself.
But looks don't last forever do they
@@funkriderx-djandproducer fair enough!
@@princessmarlena1359 It`s true. Everyone ages. No-one on this planet is gonna look youthful, young and hot forever if they ever reach old age. Even margot robbie will age. So, with that been an fact why should anyone care so much about looks seeing as they will fade over time? It`s such an shallow and pretentious superficial concept that only lasts for an limited amount of time. 95% of relationships that are build on looks are just doomed to fail, epescially when father time comes knocking
@@funkriderx-djandproducer Yeah. I don’t condone superficiality, but unfortunately it is a fact of life, just like aging. The problem I have is with people who won’t admit to it…ironically they tend to be the most guilty of it, in my experience.
@@princessmarlena1359 Yeah, sadly as you say it does exist that is unfortunate. But as long as people (whenever it be men or women) have realistic standards when it comes to the opposite sex in regards to attraction or dating, when the problem doesn't really appear much. It,s only say guys who aren't say Brad Pitt in looks for example try to pull an woman with looks like an supermodel this thing occurs. As obviously an women with supermodel looks would only (9 times out of 10) want to date "Chad" or gigachad. Though, this doesn't apply to all women. Hence why if guys try to date at their looks level, they shouldn't really be having this problem
Some of the comments I'm reading are true. Im an ugly guy and I know it. People I have pursued to start a relationship with say you are a nice guy , but what they are really saying is you are unattractive. At least I don't get unwanted attention. I prefer being ugly now because I'm not interested any more in connecting with someone. I'm not lonely now. I do what I want . And I like that. The pressure is off.
I was attractive throughout my 20s and 30s and I remember just always being able to attract positive attention from people. I could just walk up to random females and act silly and a fun time would ensue. Now if I try that, they'll call me a creep. Women will let an attractive guy they just met take them into an unfamiliar and isolated location but they'll call an unattractive guy a creep for saying hi to them.
True
Real beauty is on the inside, money can’t buy happiness and size doesn’t matter. The three biggest lies in modern society
Lmao
Copemaxxing lol
Afraid so…
I wouldn't call these LIES, but rather MISCONCEPTIONS.
The avereage person only sees skin deep
Lost weight n it was weird how everyone looks at you. Or (not to brag) but compared to when ur overweight EVERY woman’s interested in hearing the words come out your mouth. It was so much fakeness n weird
I was super fat in college and girls didn’t want to date me. It was hella sad. When I lost massive weight, dressed well, made 6 figures, bought 3 cars and a nice home, it was easy getting dates and banging chicks. Life is good now….one can always work on improving his looks and status if the will is there. Cheers gentlemen!
How do I even talk to girls when I live in the suburbs of Texas? There's no 3rd places here & most of the people living here are boomers
How did you make 6 figures?
Based on your 'banging chicks' comment, I'd go a step further and read books regarding emotional intelligence. Maybe look into meditation, art therapy classes, volunteer helping underserved communities-anything to destroy your inner Chad. Wealth is great but you will attract female scum if your personality is dumpster juice. Wealth, great personality and integrity are better and rare.
I doubt this story is true
@@sidecar7714 it isn’t lol. Unless he’s in his 50s bragging about it but I highly doubt he’s that old.
I think it is really important to distinguish between being ugly and being overweight/obese. Ugly people that are otherwise in good shape and good health can not fix the naturally unattractive structure of their face. On the other hand their are a lot of obese people who have a naturally pretty face who are essentially choosing to be unattractive. It really is a false equivalent.
Being ugly is a hidden blessing in many ways. You can quietly disappear into the background and enjoy the peace and quiet. Also you don't age as much as attractive people.
Are you insane?
@@Jay50113 Probably! 😅😂 It's true though attractive people in old age lose their looks while average to ugly people tend to look the same. Being nearly 40 I've noticed this a lot with a lot of the girls I went to high school with over twenty years ago.
@@adrianace1725 Who defines what is attractive or unattractive? It’s so sad that people are slaves to this Matrix.
@@Jay50113 We live in a looks based society. If you don't fit the image your not invited to the party. As a lifelong outsider it's not something I particulary care about anyway.
@@adrianace1725 your right man. Your face card is the key. 🔑 with no face card then no welcome. Your face card determines how easy or how difficult your life will be.
A lot of what you're describing and what you've experienced is "looks privilege". Interestingly enough, people say it doesn't exist....but it's VERY real. Like you said, even down to your own family smh lol This is why I advise "looksmaxxing" even if you lack other intangibles because some of the worst men are never alone, because their looks don't allow it lol
Looksmaxxing is gay just go to the gym and take care of yourself.
@@plasticlifee Although I said I advise looksmaxxing even if you lack other intangibles, nothing would work for you.
You can override bad looks through exuberance. I have an ugly friend who believes hes sexy and is so exuberant women believe in it. Ive seen better looking, jealous men not "get it". The girls that say they like personality are basically like "Ya. We tried to tell you". Being unattractive and analyzing what makes you unattractive, is unattractive. FUCK IT! KEEP IT PUSHIN
Not everyone has that mindset bro. In fact. I dont know if it can be taught either. It has to come from within and you have to be built for the harsh criticism/thick skin. I dont know many people who are capable of handling harsh criticism. Not even attractive people or fairly-good looking people can maintain that kind of tenacity.
Not everybody is born as Monkey D Luffy,but i can try😂
I became an addict instead
That obviously doesnt work all the time
He’s speaking facts in this video. I have been bald since I was in my early 30’s. Lol. That’s never been a problem for me in the past though because I was in shape. At some point I let myself go and got fat from partying too much and having a crap diet. I noticed getting dates was a lot harder. Got back into shape AGAIN and my dating life is smooth sailing. It’s a sad reality but looks definitely matter.
word. but that should be to no surprise... being fat is the biggest online dating killer for men. Bald is not even close. where i live, bald men are literally everywhere and just normally dating as anyone else. balding as a young man is so hard as bald men are barely represented in media. so you have no "grip" on visual culture and sex symbols. Its sad but it gets better the more you refuse social media as a whole and just focus on real life.
Im short, 4'10 and people will tell me that i just suck at dating wnd go on to tell me how their friend is short too .insert a height taller than 5'5. And they found someone. If they can find someone than i can too and height isnt a factor. Women will say im perfect but refuse to date me bc of my height...they literally say it. Yet ppl will swear up and down its not my height 😂...im like dude u arent me...it also doesn't help that i look very young, im 30 but can fit in with middle schoolers(not exaggerating). My face isnt ugly i am good looking but i only appeal to lil girls...ive had school age girls try to talk to me. It just sucks to always hear im perfect but something i cant change is the only thing stopping me from finding love. So ive stopped trying tbh...havent gotten a hair cut in a couple of months...dont even clean up my facial hair...pretty much wear the same thing all the time...i barely smile anymore(and that is one of the things im known for). It even stops me from making friends. The girlfriends and friends i do get usually just fk me over and use me. I have it all but love...and the loneliness is crippling
Damn that height is brutal. I’m 5’3” and it’s not any better. Bullied my whole life. Men don’t take you seriously and women don’t have any respect for you as a man. I’m 36 now and it gets easier with age. Being alone I mean. Just find hobbies to fill your time, chase money and a career you are interested in. And friends too.
4'10 and 5'3 are death sentences for men.
be trans
"ive had school age girls try to talk to me"
jailb@it slayer
It is all about finding a way to turn your loneliness into solitude!
You’ve nailed it on the head!! I was a late bloomer.. had a major glow up .. and now aging into my 40s and lost the halo effect.. that dim checked out look in people’s eyes when I talk to people can be soul crushing..
Even if you have many features that aren't seen as desirable, it doesn't mean there is NO hope. If you're balding, its better to just cut it all off. Then you can at least have that bald/buff aesthetic going on after you hit the gym. Especially training your neck helps a lot, it makes your jaw more pronounced and makes you seem bigger overall. You can still have a good career and make good money which helps a lot. You can have a healthier lifestyle to have more energy and have a more positive attitude.
But there are some things that are closer to being out of your control. Like facial deformities, severe acne, messed up teeth. Especially if you come from a poor family that can't afford things like braces when you are young to fix your teeth.
For these things it is better to just ignore them. There is no point in worrying about what you can't change. Best of luck in your life :)
Giving advice is easy tho
Did u not watch the videi
@@antonionatalvenancio6131
Facts!!! Especially when you don't have to live it.
Looks, btw, are objective and not so much subjective.
cope
WHY=? tell me pls@@evelyna_paula1747
Cope harder
@@evelyna_paula1747 you are coping
Bullshit quit lying
The same rejection I feel for being a foreigner. Nobody listen to what I say and sometimes they ignore what I say and correct me. It’s really horrible.
Being attractive is literally easy mode in life. I was buying a bunch of timber flooring. The store manager was a woman and she literally took over the entire store trying to get me discounts using her manager privileges. I ended up getting $60 off the retail price and she gets my number.
For small purchases, I just ask the cashier if I can get a discount. 7/10 will just straight up give me staff discount. Zero effort, just say "Hey, can I get a discount please?"
u just put me on unc ima start sayin that 😂😂
Being attractive is like being wealthy. Life is on easy mode only because people want something from you. They don't care about you but only what you can do for them. In this sense being unattractive is better since at least if you succeed in life while being unattractive you know it's due to your own individual merit not somekind of privilege. It's not good thing in terms getting extra sex or free discounts if that's what you value most.
This video has so much truth in it not just about looks but what people think your social status is. So many times people have been rude to me but once they see me with people that they like then they tell me oh I misunderstood the type of person you are or they try to invite me places once they find out I'm friends with someone that can help them. They think saying a fake sorry to me means I owe them an introduction to my friend(s). Then after a few failed trys and I still tell them to leave me alone they go right back to insulting me. I didn't even know them that well or had any reason have an on going fued with them. Some people just can't see that they are being shallow /fake.
I do want to say to everyone struggling. Im a taller guy, was chubby as a kid im just thick now with a bit of a belly as an adult. Ive had women who have no business wanting me make passes at me. And ive had women who have no business rejecting me reject me...its subjective be cool , and honestly make friends with women they might have a good friend for you you never know. Dont give up tho
When youre a handsome goodlooking guy..."oh he is hot n confident and a chad" if you approach....if youre unattractive theyre gonna say " Oh he is creepy and a weirdo" ...and all the social cues they dont wanna be around you or they trynna distance themselves from you
I'm a late bloomer. Ugly in my teens, now in my mid 20s and I look amazing
@@evanmcclure67aren’t we all ugly in our teens?😂 The glow up process on average starts in our early-mid 20’s
I have never, ever heard more honesty on a sensitive topice as expressed by you in this video. As an unattractive woman I can very much relate to what you said. It is, by the way, the same for women....
It's sad and true. The most awkward and cringy situations I've seen are when they are trying too hard to be cool or cute with someone who won't give them the same energy.
I treat everyone with respect and same, but i know if you try to be someone you're not or don't have the looks; you stand out like a negative, annoying person.
Dating is 90% looks. That's all anyone needs.to know.
Unattractive here.
There is an advantage to it: you learn how things really are. You are not bound by 'gratitude' and other shit towards mankind.
It means you can evict elderlies out of their home when they owe you money. It means you don't need to give up your seat for the weak. "Well you're weak now, but 30 years ago you were hot and you were not there for me, why should I be there for you now".
It's liberating.
Exactly this
Facts
How about another joke murrayyyyyyyyy
Elaborate? Im interested
@@Edrd.o he's basically saying remember how y'all avoided my existence and treated me differently now you feel what I felt.
As a 6,4" balding guy i wouldn't say balding is the worst thing ever, gym helps, style helps, cologne helps.
It is the worse thing ever
@@blacklyfe5543 yeah I'm sure lol. Ok
@@humblewoodcutter3000 I was saying balding is not the worst card one can be dealt.
Being 6'4 also helps
What does it feel like being 6'4?
In high school the class did an exercise. We would talk to another student and say what we like/envy about them. The kid I talked to wished he was as tall as I am because women like tall men. I said it hadn’t helped me but he was the warm friendly guy.
In the years after I did have women that were attracted to me until they got to know me. They may want to talk to the tall decent looking guy but lack of charisma won’t let the relationship go anywhere.
There is more to attraction than just looks.
This just makes you want to become super attractive to rule everything. It's true, the times I felt most attractive, I was funnier, more charming, more successful. In my 40s I have learned it is so important to maintain your looks it's crazy. I have a receding hairline and seriously considering getting a hair transplant just to see what the difference in attitude would be.
I'm 24, 6'6, an engineer, workout regularly, but overweight. Women my age care so much about looks and body fat is a major debuf. I've been starved down and it was MUCH easier to get women. I put on some weight going through school and ive been getting rejected more often. Having it happen first hand confirmed how important looks are. I will be getting abs and becoming chad
I like how people completely forget that unattractive women exist too. It’s weird how unattractive men boo hoo but then they don’t want anything to do with unattractive women.
Yeah of course. But that's a topic for women to discuss and acknowledge - just like this guy is doing for men. From what I see, a lot of women seem to dismiss other women's expressions of struggles with unattractiveness with borderline gaslighting responses - "OMG you're so beautiful", " You haven't found the right person to appreciate your beauty" and all that jazz. Unattractiveness is a net negative for both genders. I don't think any honest person with real world experience will dismiss that.
Yeah, for the most part when I was my least attractive, I did not want to have anything to do with ugly/less attractive women.
It's actually the unattractive women that don't want unattractive men and it's the unattractive women that all seem to think that they're entitled to an attractive partner just because they're women.
Not true...
I've seen morbidly obese women get sexual attention from men. Having the right plumbing automatically gives them a higher value status. Sure, they won't get the top men, but they'll get some for sure.
I've experienced all this except the physical bullying in school, (they knew i would fight, if I had to) i was basically invisible in high school and basically hanged around with the rest of the unpopular kids. One point you made that hit really hard is women find something bad about you if they don't find you attractive, that's very true, they call you a creep or feel really uncomfortable around you for no real, reason, that's why a lot of women get s3xually abused or graped by guys they deem as attractive because they're so superficial that they think a guy's looks determine his character
Also people bully attractive men and women so I'm not sure what this man is talking about. People will bully you if you they are jealous of you, if they are insecure about themselves, if you are competition or you have something they want.
@@9395gbUsually its unattractive people though
Confidence and energy are vitally important and unfortunately, more difficult to build up as a ‘physically’ unattractive person. The more you develop your personality, the less your looks will matter - especially in the long term. Looks are a temporary benefit and usually don’t last.
It's a vicious cycle. If you're fat/unattractive you'll develop insecurities. You won't be able to make friends because you're insecure. You'll resort to eating/avoiding people people because they'll make fun of your insecurities. And you'll grow fatter.
Something similar happened to me in high-school. I'd say my main flaws were being fat and shy. I got bullied because of it, but noone cared. This made me isolate myself from others. Because of it, I now struggle to socialize in public. If I had friends, I would have been more sociable, perhaps even lost weight and gotten a girlfriend. But noone wants to be a friend with a fat shy guy.
Also, I can confirm people will treat you like you're less intelligent based on your looks. Whenever I solved a problem in class, people would act surprised or pretend the answer was obvious. They would also be shocked when they found out I can speak multiple languages and I love swimming. It's weird, but they expect you to be less capable because you're ugly.
I've now graduated from college and lost my hair at the same time. I'm too scared to try any procedures. This hit me hard.
But now I care less what people think of me. I want to grow muscles and practice martial arts. I want to become rich and meet a beautiful and loving woman. I want to show the middle finger to all the douchbags and their girlfriends who treated me like trash. Or at least die trying. Because DAMN IT I REFUSE to live my whole life as a loser.
Good for you! You can get back at those mfs! Good luck!
The stock video footage used in this is ridiculously hilarious and hypnotizing
...this was a brilliant video mate.
it's terrible how true all these things are...
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How many times will you say "when I was overweight and balding" 3000? 😂
My thoughts exactly 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just having a couple friends is enough to keep life amusing. Even if it’s gamer friends that will never see us
The black pill always wins fellas. Once you fully understand it, you will be a master of keeping your distance from folks and also your ability to read body language and I’ll be elevated to heights you’ll never realized
People today, especially women are just plain mean, rude disrespectful, discriminating, superficial, shallow, belittling, bullying, etc. It just sickens my spirit to the core. I'm better off being alone & staying away from people altogether as much as possible. I'm short too which doesn't help my case at all.
Thank you for posting this video
I am not overweight. I am healthy and eat healthy food. Still i am short, balding and ugly at 16. I guess i did horrible things in my past lives to live a life like this.
Surrogacy brother. Find a tall blonde and you're good to go. Make some money ASAP. Make fast money if you know what I mean. You'll soon find out investing years in clean money isn't working out if ugly.
@@xadion6866fail. The chick will just want him for his money. Just get and drunk all day.
@@xadion6866 Earning money won’t make them attracted. It’ll only make them PRETEND to be attracted. It’s glorified śèx wòrk.
Like robbing banks?@@xadion6866
It all depends on what kind of "healthy" food you're talking about. Being vegan is considered "healthy" by a lot of "health experts" but when you look at vegan men, they look stunted. I'd recommend high quality meat like grassfed beef and lamb, pasture raised chicken, wild caught seafood etc. even though "health experts" want you to believe these are all not good for you. I have no idea what's causing your balding but it could possibly be from lack of sunlight exposure and too much masturbation, castor oil could help. Everything isn't always genetic. You're genes are expressed in response to the environment you grow up in. I just hate how incels make it out like it's over and there's nothing you can do when in reality you can improve if you put the effort in. Sure being short is something you can't change but the more masculine you look, the more serious people will take you even if you're short which is why every man should strive to increase testosterone levels.
Idk as a kid i was pretty scrawny and tall usually got mixed reactions to how i looked
I had a lot of facial features that seemed pretty weird when youre young like a protruding brow and a big head for my skinny body
Basically grew into my body and face and now those facial features seem to be more attractive as you age
So for younger people maybe just hold out until youre older focus on yourself instead of what others think cause you're really only gonna get yourself into those negatives thought processes if you just keep focusing on that shit
Facts
Thanks for making this video dude! ✌️
Devito has been happily married forever. How unattractive can he be? Weinstein allegedly had to force women to be with him despite his wealth and influence. It wasnt his looks but his personality that was a problem. I don’t even know the 3d guy but we are told black is beautiful. Just not enough to keep a youtuber from calling him ugly.
The 3rd guy is Flavor Flav rapper and Star of the reality dating show Flovor of Love where he had dozen women women LITERALLY fighting over him. 8 kids from 4 different women. He even got with Danish actress,singer and model Brigitte Nielsen.
As a short man, i never saw being short as something that makes you unnatractive. It may not help but i think im a mega cutie and my personal experience with girls and being short seems to show that there can still be a lot going on. Of course my life doesn't mean there aren't people who struggle with height as something that doesn't help but being 4'11 and still getting decent matches and talking to girls in person and getting compliments and flirting. I never had an issue talking with girls. Idk
lol mega cutie 😂
my dad was short (168cm) and bald and had a massive sexlife even beyond his 60s, which almost ruined our family, because he walked out on my mother more than once. she stayed. and she was taller than him and a very beautiful woman. the thing my dad had was high intelligence and high emotionality, which a lot of woman love when in direct 1o1 contact. he was an interesting guy who knew how to talk to women. not even in the joker/funny guy way. just deeply emotionally intelligent and invested while still having massive frame because he always did his thing in life with business, travel and so on.
Are the girls 5'5 355 Ib ???😮
That’s miraculous. I’d have to see it to believe it.
I'm 5'3" and my height wasn't much of an issue.
I've put in serious work though restoring a full head of long hair and exercise. I'm 175 lbs with a 32" waist.
I've been with women between 5' to 5'7", average weight 115 lbs. Most of them with a cute girl next door look, I can't say I've been with an absolute knock out that people stop and stare at when she enters a room.
I have no complaints, I'm grateful.
I dont believe i was ever attractive honestly.
I dont know if im ugly or not, but personally i just dont care about it. Frankly, for all the crap in my life, i know I'm not living out a fake life, surrounded with the internet, plastic surgery and a million bot accounts, all telling me "yasss queen slayyyyyy".
Lots of people were blessed with good genetics, and a good supportive honest family. Cant say the same, but i xan only be grateful im not living worse than other people do.
Rule of life, no matter what top shXt you think you are, theres always going to be someone who has it better or worse than you.
If im ugly, thats fine, i think we're all ugly in our own ways, and true, nobody's inclined to love me or be attracted to me, you cant force love.
But having said that, i cant stand the patronising attitudes some people have, talking down to you like you need their pity.
There are some upsides to unattractiveness. aging doesn't really seems to affect unattractive people as much as it does for attractive people. I see plenty of attractive people struggling mightily with aging. Losing pretty privilege is like coming down from a life long high. The higher you're, the harder it seems to hit. Also, you know who your real friends are because they chose you for who you're as a person, not as a token to boost their social currency. Then there is the fact you know what you've got in life in terms of achievement is the result of your own hardwork and skill. You definitely dont get any free rides to get to where you're or will be.
Now im stuck because im trying to figure out if my ideas that got me promoted or the parties i get invited to were because im likable or people only want me for my looks.
How many times can he say ‘overweight and balding’ in one video?!?
Pointless video
We shouldnt judge by looks but people should do their best to take care of themselevs and be the best version of you
Uh, but you do judge by looks. We shouldn't. But just because we said we shouldn't doesn't mean we DO.
@@eigelgregossweisse9563But that doesn't make it okay to do so.
So, I went from “unattractive” to “desirable”. I’m still the same cool person and realized during my transformation from the friend zone that the Women I wanted to attract are complete ass. Then the ones that YOU reject get upset and think you’re stuck up when you’re simply not attracted to them. Real shit, now getting to be on both sides of the blade, it’s better to try and be comfortable with yourself. Being seen as a “shiny piece” of meat or “competition” instead of a person has hurt a lot more sometimes than when I’d be called the worst names in front of people. I was always the fat, funny, ugly friend so I was always outside looking in. Please work on your Mental, I can’t stress that enough. We’re in this bitch together! No one left behind!
I’m glad I was born good looking. It made life a lot easier. My condolences.
I'm commenting for the algorithm. You're speaking the truth that the normies don't want to hear.
Thank you brother! More content coming soon.
With you being so attractive these days I'm surprised you didn't deliver this to camera. The stock footage is really annoying.
Thanks for the compliment and for the feedback. I definitely want to get on camera in the future. I don't have a camera/lighting at the moment. I get mostly good feedback about the stock footage but I see where you're coming from, some of it is cringe.
My friend out there,never give up on Yourself.i also consider nyself late bloomer.i was so ashamed of my complexion.here in indonesia if u have darker skintone people see u as ugly.and i conscious about it.i also little bit chubby and tbh idk nothing about what looks good on me even until in my early college years.yes i do have relationship when i was at school but i feel it was fake and pretentious.now at 28 i still single,but at least i try to improve myself.
No matter how u feel my friend,get up,take shower,put on your best clothes put on parfume and look urself at mirror and say u r the best.and get through your day.never give up👍
Im almost 31 and never had a relationship basically never had any friends either. When i worked at a deli women would walk up to where i was working just to ignore me when i tried to serve them that always baffled me though because it would always be a full staff there so why not just get one of the other workers attention if a customer walks up to me i had to greet them or ask if they needed help i hated working with customers because women would do that all the time like wtf im only talking to you because you literally walked up to me. Eventually i moved to the kitchen in the back of the house to avoid all that. I dont even im ugly im just a frail ass dude 115 pounds my metabolism is insane smh
I dont know if im attractive or not , but women i approach they first act like they're interested , then when i ask them out they say yes and when we go to dates thats when I get the rejections , and the women i get approached by are usually unattractive or women i cant take seriously at all. I'm either really dumb or the women i've went out with probably didnt know what they wanted and at this point i've given up trying.
Same
You can get bullied for being handsome by jealous guys.
Or one female coworker talks to you more than her fat friends. Thats my experience. She doesn’t mind me texting her and talking to her throughout the day whereas I cant even get a good morning or a hi out of her fat friends. I dont understand it. Then again I dont get invited to any happy hours or anything. Ive been working at this job since late January. Most of my coworkers are 30s at the youngest, with the average age being mid 40s, and I am the youngest guy there at 26. My one coworker laughs at my jokes more than my other coworkers. It’s weird because she doesn’t want to interact with me as much in front of her fat friends but seems to open up a bit more when they’re not around.
Yeah, it’s such a horrible disadvantage to be handsome as a young man… handsome guys have it so incredibly tough, am I right?
Ikr!
Its like those billionaires being bullied by poor people right???????????
From seeing this happen, if there are 3 handsome men, the wealthier and having famous parents is the one that gets bullied. Seen it at HS
This is actually true and it may actually make it harder to get a job as a lot of guys will be jealous as they know they will be watching you get attention from women all the time and not hire you.
You are very right abt working harder than most. They also treat you different if you are different mentality. When u are unattractive the bullying ramps up. If u have an issue abt anythg ... ppl will target you. In some cases they can work together to make situations for you worse.
This is so relatable, I remember me and this other guy started a new job. This one girl walked right past me and invited him out to a networking event. It can be very rough and you can't lash out because you look crazy
Ah sorry to hear man! That's brutal.