Wife Wants to Divorce and I Didn’t See it Coming
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2021
- Wife Wants to Divorce and I Didn’t See it Coming
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Trust me, when women go silent, it is a sign it could be over with* When they are crying, complaining, begging…they are fighting for the relationship…once all of that stops…it’s over.
Men never see it coming because when you try to tell them how you're feeling, they dismiss it as nagging...
"She's the center of my universe, even if I don't act like it." Dude, you sabotaged your marriage, it's obvious by your own statement.
Woman cries for help for years and man just ignores it. Suddenly he's surprised by a divorce
His heartbreak comes from the fact that he really thought she was going to tolerate his bullying and mistreatment forever. The divorce is not the problem.
As a woman who has divorced, once you start executing the exit plan there is no turning back. She’s found the lawyer, she’s served him with papers, she has made up her mind….she’s not trying to save her marriage, she’s given up on him and is working on starting her life without him. What he needs to do is find out why, so learns from this.
Why do men always care when we are finally fed up??
I think he fears being alone more than he mourns his wife leaving. She gone bud.
The wife was in a tolerable state of permanent unhappiness until she reached her breaking point.
The fact he didn't see it coming is probably exactly why the relationship didn't work. Was that disconnected.
The problem isn’t that your wife wants a divorce the problem is that you didn’t see it coming
"Battling honesty issues" - lol a master of the euphemism
Husbands, listen to your wives when they’re upset because this what happens when you are neglectful
He just sounds like he is scared to be alone rather than it being about her. He probably ignored all of her trying to talk to him and he is emotionally constipated at best. His wife crying in frustration probably wasn't a sign for him.
Sadly men often don’t listen to a woman’s words til they are forced to by her “shocking” actions (i.e. boundary setting). That’s why they never “see it coming.”
It's a shame he didn't show this kind of energy when they were going through "problems" before. I'm sure she was complaining/fussing/crying before but he probably ignored it. That's when he should've fought to keep the marriage alive.
I cried and begged my husband to be kinder and less angry. No change on his part. This went on for years,
This reminds me of guys when they say, "She was the best thing I ever had."
He said she tried to tell him what he was doing to her, he himself called it emotional bullying. I guess he didn't realize no one could put up with that indefinitely. She said no thanks because he did not listen or try to stop hurting her, that was his baseline problem. Some guys talk to their dogs nicer than they do to their women. If they ever figure that one out, they would be ahead.
Once the papers are served, it's been done...like waaayyyy long ago...