Filming STRANGERS for Social Media VIEWS (WITHOUT Consent) 🤯
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Filming STRANGERS for Social Media VIEWS (WITHOUT Consent) 🤯
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Intro 0:00-3:23
When did this start 3:24-4:35
Concerts 4:36-7:13
The Karen phenomenon 7:14-13:42
Catwalks in public 13:43-19:47
Find him 19:48-27:40
Outro 27:41-28:50
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Do you think it’s ok to film strangers for content?
Absolutely not. If it is for their content in a direct way then they need my consent but I am in a shot at a concert or aiemthing what can I do
I have escaped a stalker, I don't want him to know where I live, if some stupid narcissist films me and he would be on tiktok or it would go viral to another platform, I will have a problem again. it's not that hard to just blurr faces in the background.
No! Just NO! This is not cool or acceptable in any way.
This is so inappropriate most especially in the middle east. Don’t do this in an Arab country, you’ll end up in jail if you get caught filming strangers at the background of your photo or video.
It's gotten to the point where it's stressful to be out and about in public, especially during events and the like. I hate it when people bring up that stupid argument of "no expectation of privacy in public". It's an old and outdated law and mindset and it needs to be updated. Videos and pictures no longer stay private. They are uploaded online and have a massively global reach, forever, for anyone to do who-god-knows with, to pick apart, to use in ways I don't want to think about. Ugh.
It’s so weird that someone can be called a Karen for being alarmed that her 10 year old was stranded because of the airline
Yeah, can you imagine the amount of stress and anxiety you’d be feeling in that situation? Your kids stranded and you feel helpless to resolve the situation and your body is going to be pumping full of adrenaline that you’ve got no real useful outlet for. What a shock that she’s not able to come across as serene and polite to those around her.
@@garycheesman6821 I literally can’t imagine that. I would lose my mind if my cat was stranded for a day. I can’t imagine a child.
Also as a child I flew alone at 12. The whole experience was scary and I practiced the whole thing. If something went wrong I would have had an anxiety attack. Like staying in a hotel room alone? Absolutely not
She's pr0bably a really nice person and a loving mom. I would probably be as upset for my flesh and blood 😢@garycheesman6821
I find this extremely invasive and disturbing, and I absolutely despise it when people say it’s not illegal so it’s fine.
My Personal experience. An irritated tourist called me "Karen" because I wouldn't let him take a picture of my toddler playing on the beach in her bathing suit. If I'm "Karen" based on that, so be it then...
Omg people are insane!
That's literally insane ! Creepy vibes
Any woman in a public space: Hi, I would appreciate it if you didn't--
The internet: GOD-UH, SHUT UP-UH KAREN-UH!!!
The term 'Karen' has been weaponized against any woman standing up for herself or others in any context and for any reason, and it is SO annoying.
💯 The underlying glee with which this “Karen shaming” has taken off is rooted in misogyny. Just infer the “this uppity chick dared to say____” preface!?! 🤦♀️ I’ve seen so many examples where I didn’t see anything wrong with what the woman was saying, especially when children or personal privacy/safety were the concern; I’m really relieved that it’s Not Just Me! 😮💨
@@andreav2175 The Karen label gives losers who hate any woman who isn't a meek little mouse license to belittle and berate a woman publicly for daring to have a voice. It's wrong.
Yep
@@andreav2175I keep thinking the same thing. It’s so anti feminist and misogynistic. People shout “Karen” to women about anything to quiet them, to shut women up and discount their thoughts and feelings. It’s just the 2024 packaging.
No one should film you coming out of a financial institution. I would think they are targetting someone for a roberry and thats scary
"Karen" used to be used for the "i want to talk to the manager" type who would be offended bc your shoe store refuses to refund a tshirt, like ridiculous demands, not just... absolutely everyone who's upset and have genuine concerns...
There's this pervasive attitude nowadays of treating strangers as though they're not human, that they're just extras in your own social media life. It's symptomatic of narcissism. I'd hate being part of someone else's entertainment on Tiktok or Facebook live etc, and have people potentially make fun of me.
The bank lady: she discovered they were belligerent and went back in to inform the cops and change safety procedures. People filming banks or doorways of any business in general are a HUGE RED FLAG in professional security.
In most of Europe it's illegal to film people who are in spaces where privacy is expected. You can only film strangers without permission at events and large gatherings. A lot of influencer don't know this, especially Americans coming to Europe and they get really upset when you tell them that and establish a normal privacy barrier. It's crazy.
Honestly I‘m rlly glad that here in germany we have a right to our own picture, so ppl arent actually allowed to film you and post it on the internet.
Posting video of perfect strangers online so you can make fun of them is not ok , it's a form of online bullying .
Filming people comimg out of a financial institution from where I'm from, is dangerous! 🚩🚩🚩. People have actually been tracked by robbers and kidnappers after leaving a financial situation. How? Someone was watching or filming them and gave a physical description to sophisticated robbers and kidnappers ahead. Its a major redflag. I applaud that 'Karen' for trying to stick up for people 😢
Uhm absolutely not! That was a credit union, I worked at a bank which is functionally the same in the US and if there are people filming the patrons going in and out that is a security risk. We would call the cops. Safety is the number one priority when you work at a bank for obvious reasons.
Here in the UK it’s suspect for anyone to film the outside of any financial institution or police station. You will be asked to leave, if you don’t comply you will be arrested. It’s also the same thing in Kenya, and after what happened in the shopping centre incident in 2013 you can’t film in these places too.
I had a guy film me at the bookstore and he was following me. It really freaked me out. He was also filming other young girls and he tried to follow me to my car. People have made it okay to harass people in public by intentionally filming them. I think its different if someone happens to be in video or picture and they just want to capture a moment but intentionally filming people is different. I don't like when they use real people in the background to get comments purposefully, they probably did multiple takes, they could blur their faces- they don't because it gets comments. This stuff impacts real peoples lives.
I do my absolute best not to film strangers in public! If I get someone close up and I can't edit it out, I blurr them! They didn't consent to being in my video!
I do the same thing and I don't have or use social media. Cut or blur them out completely since some people's bodies and clothes make them identifiable or ripe for ridicule. It takes us nothing to be considerate and respect public privacy. ❤❤
Respect for others is not longer a thing 😢
😢 I know. It's just really pathetic and sad.
Wow, this is super creepy. And why is it that we shame women by calling them Karens? If you're a woman with a voice, it seems like people must humiliate her. We, as women, shouldn't stand for this.
Agreed!
Imagine your husband being followed by some rude boundary-violating creep-chick posting him everywhere on the internet asking strangers for help to find him 😱😵💫🤬😤🤮
I work as a bartender. Last week I had to tell a customer not to film me when I was making a few espresso martini's. Luckily he stopped but it's not the first time I have had to tell people to stop filming me.
What’s even more disturbing is that most people don’t find this behavior disturbing or abnormal. People are so conditioned and don’t think for themselves.
I dont get why they need help finding the guy, when he's like 10-20m away... you found him yourself... go say hello
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People are foaming at the mouth these days to get a viral "Karen" video. Now that word is pure misogyny, basically any woman who stands up for herself is a Karen apparently. It's like the new way to say to women "why do you have to be such a bitch". Filming strangers for clout is scummy.
Yes Thankyou 🙌 say it louder for the people in the back
Almost every ‘Karen’ video I’ve seen is someone with a genuine concern or someone with mental illness. We shouldn’t be filming either of these groups of people
You’re 100% right about the find him stuff being stalking!!! So creepy. Also speaking of stalking, imagine trying to get away from an abusive ex? A cult? Being in witness protection? I only have ptsd and this sets me off so badly, I can’t imagine having social anxiety or something like that.
I genuinely feel bad if I photograph/film someone by accident in the background of something I will never post. I delete it. These people are so entitled to assume that others want to be plastered all over the internet for thousands or even millions of people to stare at and comment on
I have often thought about that too from a safety standpoint it’s so awful x
Its really not good. Imagine if you were in Witness protection.
Did you see the one of the woman recording another woman at the gym? The tiktoker was criticising the woman working out for having a BBL body. The woman with the BBL was just doing her own thing, minding her business. The tiktoker went viral. Everyone called her out and told her she was wrong. Hopefully this trend will stop soon.
That was crazy! I hope the personal filming got banned from that gym. She literally wanted the woman with the BBL to be banned because of her body shape
Omg no I didn’t see that 😮
Like I truly don’t understand how they can’t make laws against people recording you for no reason and posting it all over social media. Like this is a safety concern if they record your kids and post it etc. it makes me sick.
Such an important topic. My brother-in-law, brother and husband all got thirst-filmed at a resort when my family was on holiday. : | I did the only logical thing I could do. Move into position and pretend not to notice the I was standing right in front of the girl’s camera/blocking her shot. I then informed the guys they were being filmed and they had a word with her afterwards-seemed she didn’t like being called out and having them ACTUALLY talk to her. Coward. : D
Thanks for continuing to tackle some big issues. I don’t have social media other than UA-cam, so I always appreciate hearing what’s going on/trending. : )
Thankyou for sharing this!
I had a young girl film me as i was walking thru a parking lot…. It was so obvious she was filming me. Why, no clue! I felt on edge and somewhat violated the rest of the day… film your friends and family but random people is not cool, and should be illegal!
That’s so creepy!
I have a lovely child and I have actively hidden her from public filmers and glared at them. Also, I guess witness protection is impossible. I'm glad you're bringing awareness to this issue.
When I have children they’ll never be posted on social media. I’m very afraid of them being filmed and put on social media as well. There’s a lot of filming in public that results in bullying 😢
I always duck any visible camera lenses. I also dislike it a lot when relatives try to take family selfies. Even with friends, although I would acquiesce to selfies, I always ask them not to post them.
It is disgraceful it should not be considered normal it's a bloody invasion of peoples personal rights and space especially if it is used to make fun, bully or degrade people. The idea we have to film everything is just weird and is definitely going to lead to further issues as time goes on. The fact that if you speak out about it and get attcked on social media for saying it's wrong shows you in itself that we have problems 🥲 people need to put the bloody phones and camera's away and get on with life. Just my opinion xx
There is a trend called are you into me and even TikTok is promoting it as a stalker trend. People are filming targeted individuals they “like” from afar often repeatedly over several videos, this is promoted behaviour that will get someone hurt.
I’m a hobbyist photographer. Some of my favorite photographers are street photographers. They would document what they saw, the people they saw just going about their day, out of a sense of beauty, admiration, and art. These videos are being shot out of a sense of narcissism.
As for the people filming others with the intention of the internet introducing them, you are not putting the person being filmed in a position where they cannot reasonably reject you. There is a lot more pressure for that person to just go along with it, whether they want to or not.
Sometimes I feel this new generation just do not have shame, literally, or inhibitions. They think this is ok, and if someone calls them out then she is a Karen. It is not okay to film someone and put it on the internet without consent. Worst thing is they do not even understand why.
This is actually something that bothers me.
When I’m out I want to be living my life enjoying myself not feeling uncomfortable because someone at the table in the restaurant next to me is filming and pointing a camera my way while I’m eating, bloated and slouching 😂
I don’t need to be completely switched on and “posing” all the time and then there’s the whole safety aspect that you’ve touched on here that makes me really quite uncomfortable.
Any stranger filming/posting me without my permission will get their phone shoved under an oncoming truck.
I would never film anyone and then post it online without their consent, nor would I take photos of them either. It’s disrespectful, invasive and not to mention rude. And I would hate if someone filmed me without my knowledge and then posted it online for everyone to judge, laugh at or insult.
Unhinged behavior, it really is!😱
Re: the last segment: I'm a woman and a feminist through and through, but it's absolutely true that certain behaviours that we (rightly) stigmatise when it's men doing it to women seem to be treated as okay when it's women doing it to men (sexualising, stalking behaviours like the ones in the video, dismissing their valid issues etc.). It's so not okay. I mean, yes, statistically a lot of these behaviours on the part of men come on the back of centuries of an established power imbalance and bigger physical strength, so it may hit a bit differently - but the specific man in the specific situation where the tables are turned is not a representation of a whole power structure and shouldn't be treated like that. He's just a person and just because he belongs to a gender that's typically considered to be the perpetrators instead of the victims doesn't change the fact that in this specific situation he is, in fact, the victim.
This is so uncomfortable. I used to have a business stand at an air show and I was putting merchandise on the table. I was wearing a dress and some creepy guy was trying to take photos from behind me as I was leaning on the desk to arrange the products. My husband at the time went and yelled at the guy to back off. I caught men with cameras zooming in from a distance a few times at those events 😖
“Let me pull out my camera phone and film him, hnnrrrrr 🥴” omg, I’m howling. You’re right, Caitlin. It’s all extremely creepy and invasive. I really dislike it. Honestly, I want to “accidentally” trip that tw@t mincing around in front of luxury stores. I mean, I would never actually, obviously, but what a tempting thought…What is the point of his tik toks anyway? Don’t get me started on the “Karen” video. It’s not funny. The way my heart would stop at the thought of my kid in another city without me at that age. I love your videos and am so happy when I see one pop up. Keep it up!
😂 I feel the same way!
Thanks for watching x
People even filming their friends and family expecting them to put on and be entertainment. That would be annoying and so invasive. Creators just expect that people will be okay being filmed.
if you can film a dude, you can walk up to him and use your words
As for the karen with kid atuck somewhere: only people who have kids can make some form of judgement. Ill be darned if someone tells me to calm down if my kid is stuck somewhere. Think logically
i feel like the “help me find them” trend started as a modern version of like the missed connections columns/forums. but it was usually smth like “i met this person at __, we talked and had a connection, and i got their first name but nothing else… please share this video so hopefully they see it and reach out”
like that version of it is totally fine!! but straight up someone you’ve never spoken to? gross
I agree with you 100% about the Karen trend, both this specific situation and in general: women who are angry seem to be a joke no matter what they’re angry at. And "findhimforme" is totally nuts; imagine a guy doing that to women! The backlash would be nuts! That said … the guy swimming through the shot is hilarious, and I have to say I would probably posted that on my channel. There is a big difference between a casual accidental funny good naturedly funny moment and a direct shot at an unsuspecting individual.
This is so inappropriate most especially in the middle east. Don’t do this in an Arab country, you’ll end up in jail if you get caught filming strangers at the background of your photo or video.
I would not be ok if someone put me in their random video when I'm out and about.
If I ended up in someone’s video I would sue.
The issue is that those "influences" thinks it is ok to take over the street, public location to film themselves. in this case, they should blur the faces of strangers. To me, I do not like it at all! It's annoying me so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why the women film men this way?!?!? It is very creepy and you're so right, if it was the other way around, the men should be in trouble. Not ok at all!
I have gained weight in the last few months. I definitely will not like to be filmed.
No matter what weight I am I would be mortified if I found myself in a viral video without my consent
Thanks for watching 😘
The video of the man at the 21:00 is for sure his idea to put that on tik tok 😂😂 no one is doing that show at the beach 😂😂
The cringiest one for me is people who film at the gym.
So it is fine for girls to post boys to the internet but not actually speak to them? What is happening? Poor kids are never going to date or get married.😢
Film yourself as much as you want. Leave strangers and others who haven't consented out of it. What the hell is it about his generation that they are so entitled that they think it's okay? I follow Joey Swoll. He calls out those who do this at the gym. Don't film others for likes and content. It's just wrong. Pure and simple. As Joey says "Mind your own business". You need to do better".
To answer your 1st question about we'd feel if we were in a viral video that we never knew was being filmed: mortified. Absolutely mortified! And Ive been thinking about this a lot lately actually, hopefully its not a foreshadowing! But it makes me want to never be perceived at all anymore and more than ever ensure im never with anyone whos even slightly unhinged (and I have a few people close to me who definitely are), or too loud and/or likely to complain. And thats no way to live! And yet this is real life...
And i agree that some of these "Karens" are not really Karens. Social media has made people lose their minds, almost literally.
I'm fed up with "Karen trap" videos.
only 11:40 mins in and I def am taking your side as well. SMH.
The man filming the bank???? Sounds like he is about to rob someone. It sounds so fishy. I would call the cops, so fast. I wouldn't let any of my clients do banking till he leaves. Wouldn't trust him for a second!
The first guy recording the "2 Karens going at it" ... that was clearly a private conversation they should have been having but I'm not a mom at all and yeah moms and dads and step parents and grand parents would freak over a child's well being and can't control their mouths. So yeah it should have been pulled to the side and in private. But they probably thought they were private enough to have a conversation.. nope. I just try to ignore arguments like that. This guy... nope he films it and then posts it on social media... what?! Why?!
So my feed suddenly started showing me a lot of those videos of people recording in public spaces and building and peoples reactions to asking them to stop. I found it strange at first but then I realised there are several channels that do this as job/hobby in US. They call it auditing their first amendment freedom or something. Basically just to prove they are allowed to do it even if it makes people uncomfortable and call the cops. Had to block any suggested videos or similar channels suggestions because I didn't want to give them any extra views because surprisingly they were getting a lot of views which ofc is a financial incentive to continue doing this kinda stuff.
I was hit on by a few woman while working in a Pharmacy. I got tired of it and married and had two kids with the most beautiful one. 😄
I don’t usually comment on UA-cam but you came up on my recommended and I’ve watched a few of your videos now and I have to say I’m really enjoying them! The way you come across is very genuine and interested and addressing some good topics, you hold yourself very well and have some humour about you, really happy to of found your channel 😊
Another great video!!! I really hope more people watch this video and learn some common sense.
Valid points ❤
Thank you for raising this topic. I would be annoyed if I was photographed or video taped while in public. I would respect other people's privacy and not photograph or videotape them. Here's the hypocrisy, I sometimes watch these types of videos.
I agree with everything you said in this video.
i dislike when people film at the gym. i try so hard to not get into their shot and respect their filming. but its come to a point where I don't care anymore. if you want to film come when there's no one around or get your own gym at home. i am no longer being nice and care if I ruin your shot.
I’m horrified of being filmed at the gym
@@artbygilik same its embarrassing and also idk if they will use the footage to make fun of me.
@@lolipena8051 I sweat so much and make funny faces lol. Literally try to ignore everything around me and focus on what I’m doing 😅 I don’t even like taking candid photos with friends and family and they have to force me. I hate invasion of privacy with everyone recording whatever they want now at any place and time
Dude in the green boots looks insane.
Extremely wrong and disrespectful
There should be a law about it, honestly, a stronger law. Atleast to some degree. Cause most of the time, these videos that are taken out of context ruin someones life.
I agree!
I had a photo taken of me by a random stranger. I thought it was hilarious and creepy. In the states you can sue people for filming you without your permission or consent.
It depends on the states as there are laws in place for this reason.
It is a interesting thing, especially with how everyone is being filmed 24/7 in public areas just by camera's around houses, streets but especially around stores.
By law you not allowed to film anyone in their own private home, even in their yard, but *in public you have no rights actually.*
The ones that super annoy me are the "everyone is staring while I walk down the street". Of course they are, you're being followed by a cameraman. Or you're wearing an attention getting outfit. I'm seriously considering making cute shirts that say "I do not consent to being filmed"
I agree with you
I think the find him trend is a little bit dangerous.
I feel the woman in the airport, it is about a 10 year old. My kids went with a plane to denmark from switzerland, to visit my parents, they were 7 and 5 years old and on the flieght home they had 4 hours delay from the airport in copenhagen, where my mother was not aloud to stay with them, but had to wait outside, and they were in a separat room with a lady, who did not speak german, and my kids only speaked german then, i extra told this when i booked the flights, and i was assured that the person taking care of my kids would talk german, i mean they were tiny❤. Everything went well ans my kids were not scared at any moment, but my mother and i were very worried until they landed. Fun fact my Name is Karen 😂😂but i am not a Karen.love from switzerland❤
Great listening i think its rude for people to film strangers for content i agree
Ah I can’t like your video Caitlin (it keeps bouncing) but this sounds so interesting. Once I’m finished watching what I am on tv, making a beeline to watch your video
Hope you are enjoying what you’re watching on tv ❤
@@CaitlinPawlowskijust boxing (could I be any more stereotypical blokey haha) but I just sent you a DM there about an incredible rude girl on my course and how her behaviour actually backfired. We had a class party yesterday and she wasn’t there an after a few drinks everything came out. People actively said they would warm companies off her…thought it would be interesting as you mentioned the people at the TS concert but yeah would love your thoughts on this…is it a society thing? If you encountered anyone this bad etc
My friend went Tiktok viral and Tyra Banks ended up commenting on his video and he was featured on Oprah!
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If like the person why not just ask the man or woman out instead of filming them and asking the whole world who the person is.
An asteroid might be the only way to put us out of our misery. We are off to hell in a handcart.
I don’t blame that mum she was worried for her daughter ✈️
The most strange thing about all of this is d fact that we have a need to have this conversation.
How is this even questionable ? Since when.
Yes it's a straight up invasion of my privacy.
Have we lost all of our manners, respect, common sense and integrity .. 🙄
Ohh .. imagine working in a customer service long shifts every day for a minimal wage, puttin up with been called names and screamed at by all kinds of people.
Only to come home to find out that You have gone viral in some kind of made up storyline video with all d flattering angles.
All because You got somebody's pizza order wrong and it wasn't even Your fault in the first place.
Bottom line is the people today have no respect for another .Time they banned that tik tok .
Womp womp
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I’m filming a Karen, sorry, that’s evidence that saves lives. But the overall conversation of not filming strangers, I agree with.
Edit to add, I don’t think the woman asking for her daughter was a Karen.
The problem is that now any woman who is angry or just stern about something in public is now labeled a Karen when it used to be used for a certain type of white woman who’d call the police at the drop of a dime.
14:04 no one would of noticed the woman or made 1 comment about her if she didn't give a nasty look to him and glare at him up and down clearly judging him. That's why people judged her in the comments. That mother was also way out of pocket. Their a children's hospital, it's not their first time dealing with a child, she just wanted ultimate control.
People are allowed to dislike things and have facial expressions… Publicly shaming people for minor things like this is wildly disproportionate. That’s what is actually judgmental imo
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I don’t think it was a children’s hospital but even if it was super creepy and wrong for a guy to be filming someone else secretly
Unhinged behaviour
Thank you so very much Caitlin for the video and your videos are always so so so helpful to me in my life🥹🥹♥️♥️♥️ and I wish you have a blessed weekend
Thanks for watching hope you have a wonderful weekend ❤️🥰
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