How to Find A "Traditional Woman" (This Might Hurt Your Feelings)
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- Опубліковано 18 лис 2023
- I'm diving into why it's hard to find traditionally feminine women these days. You might find that it's not so much about females but about males in today's society. I also talk about how the media, big government, and societal shifts are messing with the natural balance of masculine and feminine energy.
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I've recently started taking, a lot more seriously, becoming a traditional man. It wouldn't be right for me to expect a traditional woman if I'm not going to be the traditional man in return; it's good to hear this idea reinforced.
Respect!
good take, nowadays it's gotten popular to blame feminists and hoes, but most men themselves do not correspond to the standard
This is a really positive and appropriate way to go about it. The guy in the video makes a lot of sense and he's giving out really good advice. While I like that F&F expose a lot of bad traits in women, I don't always like their advice for men -- definitely, I appreciate they encourage men to workout and build resources, but they don't focus on finding traditional relationships much.
@Billy-bc8pk I find F&F push a pretty good message about building yourself up. However, I feel completely the opposite when they talk about women/relationships. They push hookups and quickly moving on, and seem to embrace hookup culture generally, rather than pushing for long term, fulfilling relationships.
@@Billy-bc8pkF&F's advice for men basically boils down to either indulge in hookup culture & extract what your heart's desire or become a passport bro.
Everything else is just a buildup to either of these two.
I am a traditional woman who was married for over 23 years and my husband left our family 5 years ago so he could start a new life with a person who has no traditional qualities. He is now living a life he never wanted so, fast, cheap and easy is not what every man wants.
Men…. please cherish the good traditional wife you have before it’s too late.
I am sorry you had to experience that. Some people suck. That is the simple truth.
I'm sorry that happened to you. All the best to you.
I have doubts to women who claim they are traditional. Did you have seggs with him at least once a week? Or were you nagging him and drove him away?
I am so sorry! I totally get it. This is my 20+ years observation and research. I learn that the atrazine in our water and micro plastic (mimic estrogen) cause guys' testosterone to tank. They become passive, unmotivated and weak. However, that doesn't affect women the same way so women get stronger and more masculine (with a can do attitude!).
Like BK said, the masculine and feminine are still there but the balance shifts the weight between both genders. So, guys feel comfortable with women who aren't in traditional roles. They are ok with women telling them what to do while they take a backseat. Some women are really ok to plan, lead and run the household as a leader of the family.
How are you doing now? I found it difficult to reintegrate into the paid workforce after being a SAHM. Prospective employers don’t look kindly on a 20 year gap in one’s resume.
I don’t think enough men appreciate the position that women are put in when they become SAHMs. It involves a tremendous amount of trust. If their husband chooses to be disloyal and leave the marriage, where does that leave the betrayed wife? With limited employment experience and outdated or just plain lacking job skills, she’s suddenly thrust into the job market. Meanwhile, her erstwhile husband walks away with his career and earning potential intact.
Feminism can’t be blamed entirely for the current state of affairs. This whole trope of midlife men abandoning their first wives in exchange for a trophy wife has become embedded in women’s psyches. Most young women I know are keen to secure their careers. They either don’t want children at all and if they do, they don’t want to be SAHMs. They know they have to have a Plan B in case their husband decides the grass is greener somewhere else.
Great conversation. In essence, if you want a mental/physical picture of a "10" you need to be a 10 yourself. Iron sharpens Iron.
If a man is looking for a perfect looking woman, he's lost the idea of finding a wife. He doesn't have to settle for someone he's not attracted to but men who are looking for perfection in looks aren't considering character.
@@susannaCdonovan23 well said. Women are a total package as well as men!
Yessir. You are what you attract🔥
@@ethan.wroblewskiIn my youth I used to attract some very "been around" men but I wasn't that type of girl at all. I never actually dated them, but did go to lunch with one of them, and prayed that if he wasn't for me he'd cancel the future date to a movie, and lo and behold he cancelled the date, and I told him that his cancellation was an answer to my prayers. He was very attractive, but I was looking for husband material, not a mover. Found out that looks mean nothing, and character was everything.
That don't work either. If your too attractive she's gonna assume your a player. Even If your not.
After my first marriage went down in flames, I took a few years to collect myself and then found a blue-eyed, raven-haired beauty in a little town in Ireland. She's very traditional, no tattoos and she had zero credit card debt. We've been married now for ten years. She was raised without things like pizza or tacos, so I don't eat those as much now but the happiness and peace of mind far outweigh anything else.
Glad it worked out for you. Hard breakups and divorces ruin good men.
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Blue eyed Raven haired beauty? Wow.. lucky guy!
@@trojan403 Sounds like he married into house Baratheon.
Well you probably didn't find her in the USA...
Being able to trust a man’s leadership is huge!
A traditional woman wants a man who she can trust and shows up consistently in a way that demonstrates he’s looking out for the “tribe” or the family.
A man’s values are eventually seen and that is the most attractive part of a man.
Eventually, is the key word. No man wants to be second best. Settling for him after having your fun is not something men with options go for.
That's why it is a common occurrence to hear woman online saying "where are all the good men". I don't see any 20 year olds fighting for the consistent nice guys.
Imo of course.
@@TheChewbaca69this is why I ask a few basic questions that either turn me onto her or turn me away from her .
First question is what is your worldview and your religious beliefs . If she says catholic she’s already scored with me .
I then ask her if she believes in premarital sex . If she says yes then she scored again .
Third I would ask her if she’s also looking for a man that’s saving herself for marriage . This is the one that always fools them into speaking the truth .
If her response is she’s ok with dating a man that’s saving himself for marriage is dump her .
If she says she wants a man that knows what he’s doing in bed I’d dump her
If she says that she wants a man that’s saving himself for marriage because she wants moral and spiritual compatibility she’s the one for me .
Bonus question : what do you think of feminaziism . She’s says she hates it
That’s the girl I’m gonna marry
But I would never ask them the question in this way . I would want her to think that I’m a conformist wannabe like the rest of the sheeple .
This will catch her off guard .
In other words it’s fine to get that passport out ;)
These kinds of women just don’t exist on the west anymore .
Most women in the west are complete social and moral wannabes .
They don’t have the strength of inner conviction to stand their ground when the church of Hollywood lead by pope Alyssa Milano issues another Hollywood encyclical.
And women in the west these days are completely materialistic . I can’t begin to say how much materialism turns me off
@@angelbrother1238 really? Do we have to categorize all women in the west as this?
I know plenty of women “in the west” that aren’t.
@@lavenderkisses9461 I’m also an Uber driver who over 7 years of driving passengers only once heard conversation from a woman that was nonconformist in nature .
I’ve probably driven over 20000 women and the conversation was basically the same for 99.9999999999999% of these women .
Like I said I only heard one that was unique and if I wasn’t living in my car at the time I would have hooked up with her in a New York second .
Here is an example of what I’ve heard a zillion times .
The western have a new trend these days of calling each other bros . First with that they are masculine women .
Second type of conversation I’ve heard plenty of times “”Linda your boyfriend isn’t buying you enough nice gifts ?”
Linda : don’t worry Layla , that’s what I have the second boyfriend for , the first one is for his love making “”
Third type : any guy that’s a virgin last the age of 21 has serious psychological problems .
4th we’re gonna get wasted bro and I might take him home to my place .
Not one conversation about God , morals , family zilch .
It’s basically a microcosm of western society .
And most of the women from the local churches are the same ones you see at the clubs on Saturday lol
Like I said , when I’m ready financially I’m flying outside the west where good catholic family women exist .
Plus it’s much more cost effective to live there . Where ever there is 😂
Im Colombian and married an American man from NOLA and he end up being abused verbally, psychologically and physically now I’m divorcing him, some man want the perfect woman but they are the worst.
Sorry you had to go through all of that.
But not every man is the same.
USA military men have mental illness
I assume he was an asshole and didn't appreciate what he had.
@@TheRbruin10 a hidden narcissistic ediot
@@lionbolt2136 Instead of going the “not all men” route when someone tells you their trauma, you should either keep your mouth shut or offer condolences.
The feminist sell it as “independence”. And who doesn’t want to be independent.
I bumped heads with my husband about this before because I thought he was “taking away my independence” but I’ve learned that he’s actually taking care of me!! Allowing me to stay home and take care of the house. Instead of work 7-3pm and come home and still take care of the house.
I’m proud of my husband. He has really stepped up his game as a man, and he’s so much more disciplined it’s a whole new version of my husband and a whole new version of me, most importantly we now have the same vision for our future and I support him in all his visions because we are a team. It has brought us together so much more. No doubt Gods way is always the right way, this is how we bring back strong families!
Lovely to read. May God bless your family and mariage !
Good shit! 🔥💯
You are completely right. But me reading this won't change anything.
Please spread this message with your younger female siblings, cousins or friends
Lets just hope Tyrone doesn't cone your way. That whole family thing goes straight out the window with hypergamy 😂
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Be a traditional man, a provider, then expect a traditional woman.
You forgot to add: don't be a simp.
Fair enough bro
Define traditional man.
I'm married to a Colombian woman and couldn't be happier and more satisfied. She's a traditional woman and very feminine. Good luck fellas.
haha just wait until she goes crazy and throws everything in the house at you
@@chrispekel5709ummm better than western women man. Treat her well and she won’t need to go crazy. Roses/attention/support. I’m engaged to a Latina and they are the best.
Yep they do that. Western women divorce and take the house and everything in it along with your j come and retirement
I will have a Colombian girlfriend soon, she is absolutely amazing. It sucks other men may never have the chance to experience this.
@@rl7329 yeah man they all think they are gold diggers. Yes they want a better life but they want a good man. Red pilled guys will never get them and be virgins forever
I consider myself feminine. I stayed at home to raise my children. Ran a household and cared for my husband. I went back to work full time when they started school, ran a business and still managed to care for my family and run the household.
He is a masculine man, but fully participated in traditional female chores around the home, because he helped to dirty those things. A marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship.
His mother stayed at home her whole married life and did everything for her husband. She raised her Sons to be fully independent and able to care for themselves and to respect a woman’s right to be independent.
My father was an extremely masculine, strong man and taught (not conditioned) me to be independent and respect myself, my values and the values of others, but NEVER to be OWNED. He respected my Mother’s right to be independent and cherished her for it - THAT is a loving relationship and one that I model my desires on.
Women and men are equal. A man doesn’t lose his masculinity by being loving, helpful and respectful of a woman’s rights.
Listen to your language! “I’ve conditioned her…” “asset”, etc. A traditional woman to you sounds like property and that’s how it used to be. Women were ‘handed over’ from one man to another.
Women and men are not being conditioned by Governments.
Men have been in control for far too long, as evidenced by the current state of the world. Male dominated religions, dictatorships, etc that cause wars and chaos.
Rant over. I feel you might need to wake up to your need to control.
You don’t want a traditional woman. You want someone in which your personality aligns with. Cleaning the dishes or making you dinner isn’t going to make you less frustrated with someone who you just don’t get along with. It’s not that difficult of a concept to understand.
If you are a complete man with a clear vision, goals and purpose...how can you not align with a woman which adds value to your home and your life? I don't mind a bit of hippy dippy crap like having a unique bond with your wife, but seems to me that said trait is much more important the more inexperienced, young and mediocre you are as to value something so emotional such as "alignement" when you are a man. A man requires diligence and results, and the best way to complement those traits is through an obedient, submissive and dedicated wife that brings you peace. "Alignement" and connection are all traits that should be seeked by women, not by high value self-made men. So as dumb as it sounds and as much as women hate to hear it, doing the dishes will do more for your man than some intangible sense of "aligning" with you.
@@karimm9478 So if she's doing your dishes and is obedient and silent, but despises you, you are okay with it?
@@irinar3031 First of all, why would you take a woman which despises you? Makes no sense at all...Second, why would she despise me for doing my dishes? That is like me despising her for having to pay our bills. See that is the fucking problem with you broads, you want equality but only when it benefits you. I bet you would expect your man to defend you if another guy tried to put his hands on you, and yet expect him not to despise you for it, am i right? Seems to me, that instead of looking to add value as we men tend to do, you girls always try to get one leg up and leech off of everything you possibly can. As I said previously, both men and women should focus on bringing tangible value without expecting to be given an award for it, it's your bare minimal duty towards your significant other.
@@irinar3031if a women despise me she won't be at my house and silent just means none argumentive.
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I was raised in a military family and was taught that being feminine was weak. I've always been girly and had to hide. Now I'm learning my femininity is a beautiful thing! And now being married to a provider that appreciates that I stay home and homeschool my kids, make dinner, and look nice, I am so happy being exactly myself!
Yes, please, and thank you!! There's waaayyy more trad women right here in the U.S. than people believe, but we're below the radar hiding from non trad men and men who say they want a trad woman but don't want to be the complete trad man we are attracted to. Do what this guy says and you'll easily find us...
Completely agree. This term passport bros are the non traditional men wanting a traditional woman. If you truly are in your heart, a traditional man, you will not need to travel to find a traditional woman.
Absolutely! Don’t look for the right girl just become the right man. We are definitely here everywhere
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You "trad women" are old and over 30 with high body counts from your 20s.
@@soullessnight6539 not true
Everyone makes fun of Christian’s for traditional values they hold, yet they want a boyfriend or girlfriend with the same exact virtues…. If your not traditional , your probably not getting a traditional partner.
Truth.
I had a friend who met his wife at the shooting range at a gun club. Married happily ever after 😊
Better than the bar haha
From experience I can say this is true. I have virtually no social media footprint. I work a few jobs, workout everyday and live my beliefs. I found a traditional woman, who would do anything for me, and I her. They are out there brothers, but like they said, you can’t go out looking for one, they find you. Good luck brothers, being here, listening to this video is your first step 🔥 and if you’ve already found yours, then these words are what you can spread to help others find theirs.
You’ll never find a traditional woman if you don’t hold traditional values in yourself. All these men out here talking about how women should be traditional but ain’t shit traditional about these modern men either!!
I'm with ya on that !!
Very true. I had traditional conservative values long before my girl showed up. When she found out I had those values she was shocked actually. She can't stand modern guys, and I can't stand modern women. We are both lucky but we hold the same values.
Passport bros undefeated
@@myronbourne6937 lol that shii dead now
@@Unknown-yv1mw how?
4:37 Exactly! I’m a conservative traditional woman, and I’m looking for a loyal and kind Christian leader, not skinny nor fat nor muscular, smart, financially organized, loves Land Rovers (I need someone that shares my hobby), doesn’t smoke nor drink (except now and then for social occasions), flexitarian. In essence, I need to feel completely SAFE with him. Emotionally safe, financially safe, spiritually safe. Until then, I can’t give my body and everything I am to you.
You sound boring
Become what you want to attract. You want a traditional woman? You better be a traditional man.
A happy relationship is based on a partnership and friendship and a desire to be together that is reciprocated between both parties. I love my husband with all my heart and he makes me feel loved every day. I wish I knew how to show up and what type of man I needed earlier in life. I feel very lucky to have found my person.
I met my wife because through friends. Check your circle of friends as well. Understand you are who you hang out with.
Beautiful 22yr old woman in a blue sundress. I still remember that day.
Excellent point. Your circle of friends is key. Will the woman you are looking for be happy to hang out with your friends? Will your friends find partners that you could be friends with?
When I was single, an older, married friend asked me if my dad was handy around the house. She said her dad could fix things, but her husband could not. She struggled with respecting that her husband could not fix things. After pondering this deeply, I realized that the ability of a man to fix things was more important to me than a college degree. Because of my dad, my definition of masculinity is "one who fixes things."
That's my recommendation for young men who are looking to "step into their masculine energy". If you can't fix things, learn. If you do, pursue charitable activities that allow you to use your ability to fix things.
A woman who knows she is a woman doesn’t need pronouns to define her or sexy pics for bait.
And he is so right about the role of a mother, so very important to the future generation growing up as is a strong dad
I consider myself as a feminine woman with more traditional values and I agree with everything. In the case of us women, it is even more challenging to make the switch between masculine and feminine energy. Because work demands that we be in the masculine pole, it is challenging to move between these energies. But that's because I've always been attentive. In most cases, women don't switch off and stay in the masculine pole all the time, especially if they don't have children or don't have to take care of a loved one or if they don't do any activity that demands feminine skills. And then the effect is this: we have many men in the feminine pole, when it comes to relationships. The vast majority of couples around me are in inverted polarity and I think they only work because they are both comfortable "complementing" each other in this way. Masculine men are much harder to find than you might think. They are generally purpose-focused and disciplined men. And in today's world, there are many men lost in addictions, in search of pleasure, without a clear purpose, without a spirit of leadership, waiting for women to decide for them. If you don't have a plan, you will be part of their plan. The masculine man has a clear plan, he leads the woman into his world, he leads the family.
I agree to each and every word. I'm a boy just 17 years old and I'm building myself to be that masculine hardworking man so that I can get a good feminine woman by the age of 28. Wish me luck 😊
@@demongamerz4260 Wow! As a woman old enough to be your mother, I'm so happy to hear that! Your parents must be very proud of you. And you don't have to worry. With this mentality, when luck crosses your path, it will find you working and everything will be fine. Focus on your development and I wish with all my heart that you find a beautiful and good girl. God bless you, boy! 🌟
@@sayuri3917 Thank you very much 😊. You're also like a mother to me. In our religion every woman is a goddess. I respect you for encouraging me to work hard. Someday when I'll be successful I'll definitely tell you about that in this same comment section. I hope that you'll remember me till that day comes. I also want to make my parents feel proud of me and I want to be a successful man for all those people who look up to me.
Thanks again for your kind words ❤
Thank god I found one already. It's easier to come across ten million dollars, than it is a good traditional woman. Good luck everyone.
GOLD right now!! Im a respectful, strongminded, proud, hardworking blue collar who is a good provider to my respected wife and 14 year old daughter, your relationship with your family can be as good as you put into it, be yourself, do whats right, be a good role model for your child, let your spouse know how truly appreciative you are of them. Im a lucky man, i married my traditional woman 14 years ago, put in the work and make as good of memories as you can.
Traditional women are out there. I met mine. We met at work, started off as co-workers, then friends, then best friends, then we realized we couldnt live without eachother. We're getting married. My advice: Don't try to find her at a bar, or social setting. Go to libraries, grocery stores, etc. The party girls are.. Fun, but not desireable.
Get intouch ❤
This is something similar I did to attract my girlfriend right now I read compound effect by Darren Hardy, also recommend that book and he wrote in the book that he wrote all the qualities of his dream wife, and he wrote down the qualifies a man that she’s looking for has, and he worked on becoming that, and attracted his wife I did the same thing, and I’m with my dream girlfriend, she’s sleeping right now as I’m typing this haha, Just focus on being the best version, and build the qualities that the woman you aspire to have wants in a man.
That's so wonderful
@@The-Oneness11agreed
Wonderful thing you did! But what about someone who has an ugly face? How can he improve that? (Let’s say they take care of themselves and have great body but still get rejected all the time)
@@alikhalil2863as a woman i can tell you we tend to care less about a man being handsome IF he is a masculine, competent, man and can make us feel good
I think the real test is after you've been married for ten years.
Don't chase attract find the right person you must become the right person😎💪🏼💯
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Traditional women typically do not approach what so ever. Not saying is impossible, but traditional values are very much in alignment with a biblical set of values, and most of these christian women aren't going to move at all unless they are getting close to their 40s and desperate.
With that said, I don't disagree with your generic advice, but not for the reason you imply, which is women will come to you... they typically wont.
None of this is a failure of policy, it's a plan coming together.
New new new new new NEW WORLD ORDER. thanks zionist Jews!
Yep
Don't forget the male traits of smart, kindness, and generous. Love my sweet, smart, provider man.
Become a rich muscular man and watch what type of woman you attract . Id rather have a woman that rode with me through the bad times instead of one that jumps on board during the good times .
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A feminine woman wants to know that the man she’s with is safe, secure and stable enough to actively fill the masculine role today, not that he might someday down the road. Women who want to grind and build from the ground up are going to be masculine.
Oh boi 😳 talk about the men who has done exactly that to women. That's why feminist was created because women were building up their men & they get lefted for another women . Why don't men check men on their behavior?
I agree 100%. I’m a woman that has been stuck in my masculine because I haven’t been able to find a man that will step up. I have tried with men but I lose respect for them when they won’t show up. I didn’t realize until now that that’s what it was. I just felt like I was their mom trying to do everything. It’s exhausting and now I’m just single waiting for my masculine man to show up if he does. There doesn’t seem to be a lot of them out there at least in this country. I really hope things turn around for our kids. I don’t want them lonely.
U a single mom?
@@harpersnyder2297 yes I was married.
CGA really seems to be the only "older" guy, really understanding the current game. He is up to date.
CoachGang4life!
Thank you, Bedros. I'm going through a break-up right now and I really needed to hear this to get my ass back in gear and work on myself.
It’s gets better over time bro. Sorry to hear that man
Yes, it does get better. But you need to do your part too. Stay busy. Stay positive. Have an abundance mindset. I almost lost it after my 15yr marriage fell apart. I refused to pity myself. Started working out (last almost 50lbs), read books, listened to good masculine content and groomed better. I had more women chase me than I would have ever guessed.
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Time will heal bro… your faith and life is more important.
So true my husband was raised in a jungle. He’s very capable. I wasn’t raised to be feminine, but he makes it possible for me to lean in to my feminine role. The husband is the natural leader. If you want a traditional woman be a traditional man.
I'm a traditional, conservative, strong and capable woman who wants a man who is stronger and more capable than I am. I would love to stay home and take care of traditional things, but its difficult to find a man who can do this. life has become a challenge for everyone in all sectors of life. I've given up on finding a man and have focused on being content with where God has my life at this time.
Best in the game! Bedros the GOAT
Thing is, in the west you will struggle to find or attract a woman that’s not a hoe no matter how much value you have as a man - they are simply too rare.
You're obviously looking in the wrong places I found one.
Yeah because guys who found one watch videos called 'How to Find A "Traditional Woman". LOL@@cameronjohn604
You attract what you believe.
He's so accurate with this its crazy. I am 30 and have dedicated the last 12 years to becoming the best version of myself. Everything else I have down packed EXCEPT my finances. Its true that you don't go looking for her but ATTRACT her. I've travelled the world extensively and have had multiple opportunities to settle down. But I always yearned to have my finance in check in order to provide for what could become. I have always attracted the true good girl which is the most feminine type of lady you can find. They all have one thing in common and its desiring a strong leader. In my feeling of inadequacy I let them go as in my head I feel I am not ready because I think my finances aren't where they need to be. I am now remaining single and putting all my focus on getting my finance right and I know as some point things will align for me.
Women do not need a leader WE NEED AN EQUAL PARTNER who will get up in the middle of the night and change diapers or give the baby a bottle. .
women don’t need a strong leader!! when most of you men leave the entirety of running a household on a woman’s shoulders!!
SHE IS THE HOUSEHOLD LEADER IF SHE HAS TO TELL YOU EVERYTHING THAT NEEDS TO GET DONE, or what day your babies were born or what clothing or shoe sizes they all are or what their favorite toy or best friend or favorite teacher or favorite color is.
When men and women move in together her DAILY WORKLOAD INCREASES BY 7 hours yes that says DAILY!!!, while the man’s decreases by 1 hour!!!
Most married women are married single moms who run themselves exhausted taking care of everything in the house and cleaning up after the man who can’t do anything without being told what to do and what needs to get done in the house including planning shopping and preparing most meals, knowing everything about those children and being the primary secretary and taxi for their appointments and activities.
while the husband goes golfing or fishing or playing video games when he gets home.
Most of y’all don’t actually have a clue how much work it is to run a household because the women do it all and you sit back and do nothing and then you have the Gaul to be annoyed or surprised when she doesn’t want to have sex after running her self ragged most days.
you think she’s eating bonbons and folding a few cloths when in reality while trying to keep kids from ending up in the emergency room when they climb and fall from the top of a bookcase while the dog just liquid pooped all over the living room carpet.
Chances are she probably does the holiday cards, funeral flowers Mother’s Day and Father’s Day and birthday gifts FOR YOUR FAMILY!! because if she doesn’t she STILL ends up looking like a bad daughter in law in the eyes of your parents and siblings even though they are YOUR PARENTS because that’s still how our society works your laziness in not thinking of gifts and cards for your family WILL STILL REFLECT BADLY ON HER!!!! And chances are you don’t even know that fact!
Good man. It's encouraging reading these kind of posts.
You mentioned finances 4 times.
Clearly, not yet where they need to be.
Brother, you'll never get the girl even when you get your finances in order with that attitude. Either you talk to women or you don't. Things won't change when you get your finances in order. Start building confidence now.
Guys with no finances in order still get girls. Sure you need to be able to take care of yourself and another, but you dont need to be rich. there will always be another guy with more money than you. You need to offer more than just money to a traditional girl.
3:16 that’s another thing feminism stole from us: an objective standard of femininity. A young man just doesn’t know what to look for most times. We’re told you should want a woman that “challenges you”, even by our mothers. And then you try it out, it doesn’t work because you’re either too hard and masculine, and you two fight all the time or you deliberately suspend your ego to facilitate her, and she walks all over you, castrates you. Or, mor often, you’re too soft and. ..‘understanding’, and she steamrolls you or your get cheated on. And during all of this you don’t know why.
Real gold advice here Keuillian
Us women are masculine because we watch Bedros & take TRULEAN
Just woke up and this is what I needed to hear.
So refreshing to hear this from the man's perspective. Thank you...
Im tradionally feminine but forced to become masculine as a single mom so I can keep the household together with a teenage son going off to college.
Sending him to college is the best way to have him come home a socialist
Just because you may have found a traditional woman doesn't mean she's going to stay that way. People change. She can wake up any day and decide that she's not feeling it anymore, wield the system against you and destroy your life.
And this is one of the major problems. The system is entirely rigged against men. Coupling with any woman in the West is essentially like playing russian rouIIette.
Only difference is the government points the barrel only at your head, puts only her finger on the trigger, and there are only 2 chambers in the cylinder. Which then gets spun every single time she gets angry, sad, bored, or someone better comes along.
Maybe you should be a better judge of character my friend. Life is filled with risk, act accordingly.
Also, don't be such a baby.
@@cameronjohn604 Cameron: write us back after your divorce when you lose half (or more) your assets and only get to see your kids every other weekend because "it's in their best interest". That's what's waiting out there for you, bro. The government has given women the loaded pew pew and you're just hoping she doesn't pull the trigger... Hope is a bad strategy.
@@cameronjohn604 Karma will bite you badly. Mark my words. Now gfc.
@@dmark2639he’s right, you need to know how to pick them. You guys don’t know
I just Love your voice because I hear it so much on Absolute Motivation videos when i gym , when i walk, when i drive.
This is the BEST advice for men I’ve seen in awhile!! Those male qualities were on point.
Moved to the US in my late teens I’ve mimicked my grandpa who humbly raised me with discipline and respect to everyone, I was a pain in the ass growing up getting in trouble and lazy af he was on my ass the best he could making sure I wasn’t a Fucken peasant fast forward 40 years…as a grown man now I remember those traits grandpa taught me, have my two daughters in college, both have brand new cars cause I treat them like princesses they are just like their mom, I have a hot rod in my garage pay my bills on time, take my wife out on dates, I open and close the car door for her and do same for anyone entering or exiting any place…thank you grandpa and so sorry for letting you down many times hope I’m making you proud and you are watching over me 🙏🏽
Sending your daughters to be indoctrinated or dug out while giving them brand new cars they didn’t earn? Oof. You took away the struggles that taught your grandfather life lessons and humbled him.
@@carlosesturain3831 nah I’m sure they know their priorities believe me those cars are mine I’m a nice guy just don’t test me and they know it, they both work and get good grades, are respectful and responsible or otherwise, we are raised differently we all are respect your views tho 👍🏽
@@carlosesturain3831 got kids yourself? Unless you do and treat like a dad should you may not get it unless you broke and live pay check to pay check
@@julianskns I don’t have kids. I suppose I can ask if you’ve attended a college as a student in the last decade? You don’t need to have kids to know that 1) your struggles in life are what truly shape you and 2) most people aren’t going to college for education and effective career-building skills. Even if you taught and demonstrated good values, you’ve sent them to an environment that’s diametrically opposed to family and virtue. I’m sorry I have to say this, but don’t be surprised if your daughters are different people when you’re not around. This is common. You’re a valuable asset to them.
@@carlosesturain3831 we all act different when we are not around our parents normal, yes have a degree myself got it within the last decade 😉 while active duty, they both have tattoos and piercings too forgot to mention we set the example that’s all we can people will grow and make their own decisions and learn from them
Having a trad wife is not an easy life. I make 95% of our money, all that pressure to provide and make big decisions is on me. I value her input but she always wants me to make the tough calls and I do. If things go bad it’s all my responsibility, I accept that. Not easy being a single income household so you better have a good job. We carry lots of life insurance on me so family would still be provided for if I die early. They are correct for the most part, mine found me when I wasn’t even looking for a wife.
Sorry if this is too personal but do you resent her sometime bc you are the one making most of the money? You say she brings in about 5%; is that something she does from home? What does she do for you/the family that makes it all worth it for you? I'm only asking bc I want to be able to take care of my future husband, our kids and our home but I think about it sometime, how a man might get resentful. A lot of guys say they want it but then I see a comment like yours from someone who is living it and it makes me nervous.
That’s a fair question, you are wise to be aware of that up front. There were some times when I felt unappreciated or misunderstood because what I was going through was quite different than what she was going through as a stay at home wife but those were just seasons. If your foundations are built on the same rock you will get through that just fine. I made 100% for the first 18 years, she has developed some side hustles as our children have gotten older. A family is a small business, my wife is awesome at helping me manage that. Finances, taxes, keeping a clean and beautiful home, saving us money being thrifty and a smart shopper, a great cook, always 100% on top of kids needs: school work, dues, permissions etc. Really too much to list, you name it she’s on top of it. If I say in three years we will need a new HVAC system and we need minimum 10k saved up in three years she’ll have 12 set aside. She’s basically a professional home maker, and that deserves the same recognition as any professional would receive. If you aspire to be even half of that there should be a traditional man out there eager to marry you that knows how lucky he is to be able to do so.
@@volvet0384 thanks a lot for your insight this was actually helpful. She seems like a smart lady that works hard for your family and it sounds like you really value what she does for you/them. I'm sure she feels the same about all that you do :) Thanks again and have a great day!
We carry both energy’s within.. when you have done the work and got yourself good you will attract the perfect person at the perfect time. Love and light to all 🥰🥰💝
@Bedros you were cookin my man...good stuff 💪🏾
Get a woman from abroad, that hasn't been tainted with western ideologies. 😊
Dating international is a vibe. You trade culture and language if you find someone from a non-English speaking country.
You still need to work on yourself though because if you happen to get a traditional woman from another country and bring her here, but you are not her reciprocal, that relationship is going to fall through. Then all you did was bring her here so she can find someone else who is compatible.
@@The-Oneness11 business and in love there is always competition. You don’t treat your customer or partner right, they will leave you.
@@D.rod_riguez Exactly.
Brother she’s only gonna be with you because she sees you as a gringo price tag. Passport bros don’t want to acknowledge this lol.
👏 👏 👏 LOVE this! Great mental exercise here. Who exactly do you want to be with? What traits does that woman desire in a man? What do you have to do to become that man? So f*cking simple! Yet brilliant
As a traditional wife, who has been with my husband for 18 years, this is 100% correct. Great video, my friend.
I’ve been single 30 years - since 29. I CAN NOT find a REAL MAN. I go tor pedicures- only to wait my turn while men are in the chairs. Crazy ‼️
This is a good conversation to have. The biggest questions are of course how do do we rebuild that cultural value system and how do we find the honest ones? One will be a generational challenge, the second is that they (women) have to be in places where we can find them. With rare exception, the church is no help here, trust me!
Love you bedros
This is the best youtube video I have ever watched. It spoke to me. Thank you.
So simple. Why didn't I ever think of this?? Thanks Bro.
Multiple marriages, relationships, 40+ years experience here. If you want a genuine, REAL, traditional woman you need to go outside of the country.
It’s true, if my man is not masculine, it’s not attractive. Vice versa for a man with a woman. With that being said we have both energies and require a balance as he said Yin and Yang. attract one yes, by being your true authentic self!
❤I like how Bedros dropped this 😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My wife is very traditional. I am self employed though and she stays home with the kids. She absolutely loves it.
That does mean I had to do better in life so we had the life we have. That means I had to make 300-400k a year. I have 3 businesses I created and run. To have this life requires a lot of sacrifice time wise. But she plays her role taking care of the children.
So we are a pretty traditional household. 4 children with a mother who stays home with the kids while dad works to support them. It is possible but you have to earn it.
I really feel like too many people are just lazy. It’s not hard to achieve success in business. Most people are just lazy and expect things to be handed to them. Good luck getting a traditional woman like that and not being miserable while you struggle. Then divorcing over financial issues. Number one way to kill a marriage is financial instability or cheating. Avoid both at all costs or destroy your family is the way I see it.
@@shawnmartin1306 Well done, you have everything you have worked hard for, stay blessed.❤️
Very well put together 🦾
As a married traditional woman this is an easy one. Be a traditional man. Walk away from any woman who doesn't appreciate your strength, and tries to compete with you instead of compliment you.
FACTS 💯💯🔥🔥🔥
Man I'm lucky I guess. Got myself a hot athletic woman who cooks clean and takes care of kids. I work hard to keep our finances stable and one thing I can say what keeps a woman healthy and strong is God. We train our kids with moral. And she seen how different our children are from the world. She grasped the concept and herself different from the world. As a man work hard,workout,family time and believe in god. You will be different then the world and dominant it! Good luck guys
Sound advice Bedros, noted to take action on it. Thank you Bedros
My pleasure!
Such an amazing breakdown, whom you expect to attract make sure you are that man yourself 🙂
I envy guys that knew about masculinity and getting women from an early age. I'm 27 and I still struggle with being a proper man. Never had any real guidance, had none in my childhood and teenhood, my pop checked out and I had no male tribe. Never knew there was so much to being a man. Feeling stuck. At least my warehouse job gives me a sense of purpose. Blue collar workers unite.
Look to values that create heroes thru the ages: strength, goodness, control over your emotions, protecting the vulnerable, being respectful of others and not putting up with disrespect, be fair, loyal, truthful, understanding others but not falling for BS. Look to develop Godly qualities, and no matter what life throws at you, you will be OK. Best wishes on your journey brother.
Read books and keep practicing masculinity until it becomes second nature. Watch movies of your favorite masculine characters and role models. The fact that you want to increase your masculinity is such a breath of fresh air 🙌🏽😍 it’s never too late to improve! ❤
It takes some time, growth and maturation to figure all this out❤ but once done, it is worth it. the world needs to appreciate and be so grateful for woman and men and all that it means. We are meant to be different and it's wonderful
You state the obvious, and ignore the issue of today
The comments section is where people get to share their thoughts openly. There no need to be an asshole about it. ⛔️
@@danika9448 Asshole should be able to share their thoughts and opinions too, We got to many people concerned about hurt feelings, get tough, butter cup, so you can deal with the real 🌎 world
Well said @tanyaclifford9028
Great video!
What an amazing speaker!
i love being the traditional malewife to my gay husband ❤️
😎🤝😎
There is more. I have a real traditional beautiful feminine woman. But not only is she a natural I also cultivated her and brought it out of her. Women will typically pick up behaviors from their men. You need to teach her with expectations and behaviors. If you want a good woman you need to he a good man and provide money, protection and leadership.
Does any of this sound like a woman is a child to you? It does to me. This kind of talk is what is offensive to women.
If you had said "I fulfil the expectations she has for me, and in turn she fulfills the expectations i have for her.
(Knowing that ALL of this is voluntary not mandatory and she doesnt HAVE to do anything for me to love her and visa versa)
His previous statement truly felt male supremacism to me, a woman.
@@jjqchomes8443 I really dont care what you think or are talking about. Im sitting on a warming blanket watching tv with my kid as my wife is baking a cake for my daughters birthday tomorrow. She just got done making me chicken, eggs and hash potatoes for breakfast with a slice of home made apple pie. There is more to this that would make you head explode but im not trying to show off to much as its already getting there.
Bottom line is simple. You become the man that women want to make happy your life will change forever.
There are men out there who dont just watch these shows for a quick dopamine hit. There are actually men out there who live and succeed the way Bedros is describing and thats why we watch him.
Good luck to you brother. The sooner you realize that women WANT to become your servant and make you happy IF you do the right things your life will change.
@@jjqchomes8443
Oh, I guess you’re a chick.
In that case, good luck to you SISTER.
I’ll give you a tip. Bake a cake or cook dinner in your favorite robe with nothing but his favorite panties under it and watch him just go crazy with pride and lust.
@@jjqchomes8443 It absolutely does. These posts are why I unsubscribed from the channel.
Yessir bro.
There are good men & women everywhere. I often felt in my youth that the role of a mother was not valued in our country... But recently I've become more hopeful for us. Thank you for putting a light on this.
Very well stated !
I’m not saying you’re wrong but it’s obvious you haven’t been in the market for a while sir. You can be all the things and it’s still like finding a needle in a needle stack.
Kind of gets old, doesn’t it, these men who have been out of the game for a while, wanting to lecture other men, who are actually in the game, on how the game works. It’s ridiculous.
There's lot's of needles in the church. Somehow I feel you may not have tried that, most men don't.
@@seneca1932 They sell diapers at Walmart if you need a few.
This gives me hope. Thank you for this discussion. I’m thrilled to have discovered your channel.
You have made a point that I have not heard from anyone else and it is so healthy and productive that I want this to spread far and wide. It is healthy and normal for women to have masculine energy when needed. Likewise, it is healthy and normal for men to have feminine energy to tap into when needed. It is very healthy for there to be a balance and sharing of these energies in a relationship. It is not healthy when these energies are out of balance.
I think this distinction is lost with all of the nonsense talk about traditional, modern, or western women. Traditional compared to what? Modern compared to what? Because the uncomfortable fact is that so much of the stereotypes surrounding “traditional” women are only traditional compared to the stereotypical housewife of the 1950’s who is still very modern compared to all of history!
Gentlemen, you say you want a traditional woman. What does that mean? Really think about it. I think of my great-grandmother who was born in the 1890’s. She is too masculine for you. She is as traditional as they come and you would reject her outright for being too modern.. Too argumentative. Too western. So what does traditional even mean? To my grandmother it meant holding down the homestead. Raising livestock. Killing livestock. Chopping wood. Digging a garden by hand. All of the things that needed to be done while my great-grandfather was farming in the outer acres. Because while the manly-man was out doing manly things, that meant that my great-grandmother had to step into her masculine energies and get stuff done while he was doing his part.
Several of my friends are military wives and it’s the same thing. Guess who’s taking on the masculine role while their husbands are off on deployment? These men chose well in their partners. They are secure enough in their own masculinity to not feel threatened by competent women.
So many other commenters have made excellent posts about where traditional women can be found. They can be found doing stuff. They’re still out there, I promise. But you won’t find them in the clubs.
Can things be skewed to the extreme? Sure. We see it all the time. But I hope that more conversations like this will find their way into the greater discussion and provide that much needed balance.
Damn this dude nailed it, literally described the perfect man better than I could
Spot on! Pure facts
I'm 38 and I have been with women across the entire spectrum. Yes I'm 6'1 and fit and all that but let's not start whining about all that please. Maybe I can add some value here. Interestingly the feminist/masculine type women were the least capable of handling a masculine guy like myself. This was primarily because they are used to feminine guys that would pander to them and agree with them etc. They couldn't handle that I would stick to my frame and not waver. Those girls were the easiest to weed out because I could tell right away they didn't like being challenged. I ain't got the time for all that.
Subsequently, I found that feminine women would respond the complete opposite way when they entered my frame. Women are biologically hardwired to respond to masculine men, never forget that. For example, I have a great woman right now that loves being in my frame. I have been with her for some time now and anytime I have said "no," she has never asked why. She trusts my decision making and knows I'm always trying to make the best decisions for us both. I don't have to give an explanation. If a woman is constantly questioning you and asking you to explain yourself you haven't done your job.
Most young guys now are confused thinking they need "game" to get a woman. You don't.
You want to know what my game is?...I walk in the room. That's it.
Tony Robbins said it best. "You get rewarded in public for what you do in private." That's very true. If you handle your business and develop yourself into the man you want to be you will never struggle to find a good woman.
Women are very good at sensing these things in men. They have survived for thousands of years using their intuition. They are way better at it than you think. They can smell it on you.
And for any guys that are in the camp of "dating has never been harder" because of Instagram, "I'm not a billionaire" blah blah blah. Suck it up son. Your looking at it the wrong way. Also don't give me "there's no more good women left anymore." There's lots. They just don't mess with you that's all, could be for good reason too.
Have you taken a look or talked to the average man lately? I wouldn't want to date them either. So in fact, it's actually never been easier to find a girl. You just need to be marginally more masculine and put together than these weaker guys and I promise you will stick out like a sore thumb.
No more game BS, or trying to trick women into bed. You might get laid but you will NEVER be able to actually keep a woman. There's a huge difference between sleeping with a chick and her wanting to come back to you again and again. Remember that.
Honestly if you are under the age of 25 you probably have no good reason to be trying to date seriously unless you are way ahead of your time. I'm not saying you shouldn't have fun and learn about female nature you for sure should. But don't be so desperate man, they can smell that shit a mile away.
The more time you spend developing yourself into the man you want to be the better you will do in the long run. You get that right, and you will have your pick of the litter from 25 onward.
Ps. I got hotter and hotter women after the age of 30. Just saying.
Stay strong men. You can do it.
Spoken like a true Chad in the top 5%. Way to go, bro. I'm proud of you. The other 95% have you to look up to.
Idk what would classify me as a feminine and/or traditional woman (there are a few things I’m still working on but overall I think I’m feminine) but I personally know these types of women, they’re out there. Most of them are Christian since I was Christian my whole life and those are just most of the people I know. I think my non Christian friends aren’t too bad either. I’m kinda picky with who I make friends with
"I think my non Christian friends aren't too bad either" this was cute lol
@@CrystalBbyUSA Well that’s because I don’t know all of their personal life when my Christian friends strive to keep up with a certain exception. But I guess that could be the same for my Christian friends too. They probably still think I’m a Christian and lived a “pure” wholesome life.
I also don’t know if my non Christian friends want a traditional life or care too but I think they’re all lovely women who do fit an ideal woman a traditional man would consider. I have a friend who goes to parties but for the most part she lives a decent life and is pretty chill and reserved.
@@sunnyblue1244 yes, think non Christian women can want traditional relationships too. I wasn't trying to be passive aggressive or anything I just thought that part of your comment was cute lol 😊
Cool bro, i love you bro, i feel you bro
Spot on I agree with you 100%
Line up in the deli section for the roast chickens 15 mins before they are ready, other people do that too waiting for a super hot fresh one, I’ve been chatted up in that line 😂
And that ladies and gentleman, is what we call "spittin' facts"
Maybe 100 years ago. But today, this advice only works for 5% of men at most. There just are not enough suitable traditional women in the West for more than 5% of the male population.
Not enough traditional women because there aren't enough traditional men. Women are what they are because men became what they are nowadays. At least that's how I see it. @@dmark2639
I believe the personality of some women has changed simply due to the domineering characteristics men evolved into, i.e infidelity, dishonesty, and (abrupt) irritability. Anger from some men is at the top of the list why women’s independence evolved. Men always had hierarchy in the home and women were submissive till abuse (verbally, emotionally, physically) entered the relationship. Control is the beast that causes the divide in any relationship. NO ONE wants to be controlled.
Yet some do like to be controlled. Why else would the American people push socialism so much? Yes, even in a relationship some need told what to do. Too each their own.
Blabla let's blame the men as usual, yet I find the complete opposite to be true, women infidelity at all time high (because even the ugliest girl can get easy D by going on Tinder), women with anger issues at all time high, and you can tell by the number of fake accusations of sexual harassment/abuse, etc.
This is exactly the truth!!
@@jacobmasters438 I don’t believe the topic has to do with women who want to be controlled. I understood the podcast to speak on the evolution of the traditional woman; however, your perspective is subjective. Anyone (male or female) who condones any level of control in a relation is an individual who doesn’t know their true identity, their self-worth is fragmented.
Sounds like you attract some really crappy men. You always attract what you are.
Bedros, you are a phenomenal role model.
So much about this was 100% - but dudes talking about what women want, is starting to grind.
Women give birth - to humans, to ideas, to businesses, to empires, to grand plans... we have since time immortal. Women are also creative beings - not just sitting at home managing the kids. What kind of conversation does a woman have whose been 12hrs talking to babies all day? None. She's also going to want to play sport, create things (art, clothes, businesses) and be a social, interested and interesting being. All these men that somehow think that just cleaning up after others is some kind of fulfillment,...? It's only part of it. And it only lasts for a few years. A woman married and bearing children in her 20's in done by her 40s. Then what? Husband leaves her for a new 30yo because she's got no conversation and doesn't 'understand' him because she hasn't lived and had no life.
Life is a partnership. Each person has their role with common goals to build something. It's not about men going off to work and just handing out morsels for gratitude. That's such a shallow existence for both parties.
A couple's life, purpose, ambitions should be a shared thing - children are part of that but it's so much more, Else, it's short term and doesn't last.
And a woman who is "capable" is not 'masculine'. OMG - a woman who can take care of the house, grow a vegetable garden, preserve food, etc. etc. is not a wispy little urchin and she sure isn't "masculine" - she's just capable. Capable women are just what your grandmother was.
To paraphrase, the only line in the bible about finding your wife, says 'choose a partner you'd go to war with'. The woman beside you in battle is not useless. She's a goddess. That's not to be feared, it's to celebrated. Get a chick who can do stuff - they're so much more mentally stable and happier and they don't want to be you - they want you to play your role. Be amazing and let her be her own version of amazing as well.
Well said I come from a long line of strong,capable women & take great pride in that. We raise our daughters to be strong & not take crap from anyone. That’s not being masculine but a survivor in a harsh world.
The bible also says you would be better off living alone on the corner of a roof than marrying a quarrelsome wife. Horse people are always a little special.
@@cameronjohn604 Not taking crap from anyone does not necessarily mean quarrelsome to your husband.
Wow, to read such a balanced comment on a thread like this gives me hope. You are awesome! Partnership is the key.
I get it with traits and character but I've found that a list for looks is kind of useless for long-term dating. When you connect with a girl by talking to her, specific things like hair color, height will go out the window while you'll probably found that you are more attracted by the way she treat you and how she acts. Then again, it's just my own experience but I can say that I got my biggest relationships "L" by focusing on physical appearance too much.
Cool bro, i love you bro, i feel you bro
This is a brilliant talk
Spot on advice man.
No such thing as a traditional woman when she has the laws in her favor.
Get intouch ❤
At the end of the day, it still sadly all comes down to marketing. As the speaker said, you have to show off your masculine stoic self on social media, which means marketing a specific image of yourself. You could be the paragon of traditional masculinity, but if you don't play the marketing game, it seems like you will not have much of a chance, regardless. The quality of your marketing image is more important than your actual quality as person. This is the unfortunate reality social media has created.
spot on, learning how to sell oneself
Sounds like I might be doomed.
If it's a smart woman she will look at many things other than your "advertising". Nothing as disappointing as lack of substance behind a shallow veneer.
Great man
Love the back wall covering. Beauty
A good woman will only say yes to a GOOD man. So first and foremost yo7 have to have integrity . My husband and I attracted each other because we are the same. 15 years marries. You have to be what you want to attract. Be a cheater for example and the woman who will accept that and be ok with it, will be a cheater too. Values cant be opposite. They dance to the same melody.
4:19 i am not on social media only LinkedIn professional profile.
Traits must be a strong mindset, not weak. Very strong mentally. The rest is bonus.
thanks man. needed that ass whooping today. now back to work 💪
Great, great video
You guys need to join the "Passport Bros Club", and go find traditional women overseas, because there aren't any traditional women left in "Woke America".😂😂😂😂😂
I’d extend that to the woke west.