7 Things Men Do To Ruin Their Lives | The Bedros Keuilian Show E023
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- Опубліковано 10 жов 2024
- In this episode of the Bedros Keuilian Show, I explain the 7 things men do to become cautionary tales and ruin their lives and what you can do to avoid them.
Look, in my 10+ years of helping high-performing individuals level up their businesses, lives, and purpose I’ve realized these 7 common threads ruin men’s lives. And I share this with you because I don’t want you to take the path of the cautionary tale.
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I’m pretty sure I watched this channel go from 10-20k subs to this in under just a few months.
I am thankful for the truth getting put in front of people through this channel.
Thank you for helping the message reach more men. We are a growing tribe!
Timothy 2:12 - look it up
@@BedrosKeuilian yes sir, the word you’re speaking is in manner the exact things I speak with others about daily.
I appreciate your content, and I hope that your channel does nothing but grow in a large scale so more people can be impacted in a positive way.
Nah, it's just a grift. You see this in a huge percentage of "social media" personalities. They hire a team to work a system to get up in algorithms and do professional production. There is absolutely nothing new being said here that hasn't been said countless times by figures in the mansophere many years ago.
Furthermore, it is a dead giveaway when you get these immigrant figures that start out as criminals, like he describes himself here, then "reinvent" themselves to become "wildly successful" by doing basically...entertainment. Translation; the small hat entertainment complex is always looking for the next "degenerate gone good' to promote and have them dance around and sell false hope to the average, working class Westerner while the same small hats debase and loot your country. It's kinda like Snoop Dogg and dozens of other "rappers". If they are ruthlessness enough and make the right connections, they can get out of the dope game and become "entertainers".
@@PROJECT-AMBITION 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Time stamps for “7 thing men do to ruin their lives”:
1. Choosing the wrong spouse @6:29
2. Vice dependency @9:07
3. Settle in a profession @13:44
4. They complain @16:36
5. Not finishing what they started @18:49
6. When they don’t have core values @21:36
7. They don’t keep a brotherhood of like minded men around them @24:13
Thank you for the wisdom Bedros 🙏🏽
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Tnx bro
Thanks ❤
Good looking
I slightly disagree with #1.
Women change (even though men desire they stay the same from the first date).
And, because of hypergamy: she just might want to leave her current situation, because she thinks* the grass is greener on the other side (ex: Larsa Pippen).
Man this hit home, im a drug addict who is now 8 months clean along with ny 39th birthday today, many mistakes have been made but every single thing you said has been running through my mind lately and is exactly how i want to shape the rest of my future. Love it.
Quitting alcohol was the best thing I ever did for myself. My life leveled up so much after that and I’m not stopping there.
I can attest to that!!
Same. Left my group of friends because I saw it destroying them
True indeed
I don’t drink because I have severe hangover reactions (kindling from over a decade of low dose anti anxiety meds)
It’s nice and all but being able to enjoy a few drinks once in a while is nice - some of the most fun I’ve ever had was with a nice buzz on a nice day/night
I smoke herb but I feel I have lost a lot on it and gained nothing. I hope I can stop and level up my life too
#1 is so true. I was broke for 10 years with my first wife who criticized every effort I made to get ahead. As soon as I dumpeed her my life turned around, my career headed in a new direction, and now I wouldnt change a thing.
It was harder for me to quit vaping than it was to drink and I was on a 3 year tequila bender going through a bottle every 24-36 hours. 124 days no drinking, 3 weeks no vaping today. This podcast is honestly great for me to hear, as reassurance I’m on my path again. Dieting, lifting, running, biking, reading and I’m down 35 pounds. While everyone is asleep I’m working on my project car and cleaning my kitchen. I feel so alive and aware again. In control of myself.
So inspiring to hear bro. Keep up the good work.
Hey if ever you have a bad day message me. I mean that !
Keep it up bro. There's no tequila or vape that's better then your best self. You didn't lose tequila and lose vape. You gained a healthier life to live longer for yourself and the people that love you. The people that know you that have the same issues you became an inspiration to them to do the same. Great job 👏 👍
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Animal! keep going @rockdiesel
Bedros, I am a 19 year old female and love your podcast. It is nice to find a role model that is not afraid to speak the truth, and set an example and standard that young men and women my age should strive for. I have changed my standards for myself and others, and strive to become better everyday. Keep posting! Thanks !
Maya! Welcome to the tribe! I love hearing that. Keep evolving
Wyd
19 year old female also here!
That is awesome Maya! Refreshing to hear the younger generation like yourself have a good head on tour shoulders. It shows we have hope for the future! Keep it up.
Haha 😂😂 I’m 51 years old in 22 days with 8 kids ages 18 down to 4. My wife and I have 5 boys and 3 girls. And I just think it’s absolutely incredible that there are young people here intelligent enough to recognize this great 👍🏻 life advice very early on!!! Incredible!!
It has to be said, as well, DO NOT GIVE UP!
I'm turning 60 in a few months. I've raised my kids, sacrificed my dreams, and changed career paths multiple times.
All of it was an education leading me forward.
Age = Experience....not an end.
Much love brother thank you for the wise words
What's next?
Great words, great outlook. 👌🏻👍🏻
must be nice to have had that life,
im a 42 year old male child support slave with no born American freedom! meaning, i have yet to own a passport, good credit, fishing/hunting/drivers/recreational license's, tax refunds, bank accounts, house, care, boat, personal property, because still today i owe $24k on child support. The sexist female judge still manipulated me when i was 20 and forced me to pay child support, regardless of MY DAUGHTER MOTHER taking the condom out of trash, placing the semen/sperm up in her and got pregnant.
MY daughter is now 19 lives' in Missouri, but her whole life, she was dragged everywhere in the states here in Kansas, Missouri and Arkansas, Moving from place to place to place to place, shelters, homelessness, using/abusing people, and it was my daughter, her mom grandmother and 2 uncles, basically a herd , sigh
I DON'T SMOKE, NO DRUGS, CLEAN BACKGROUND, had my own place at one time, and they take off all them years, again for financial selfish gain, financial sympathy you want to know what my daughters mom excuses were? lmao
"I WAS DRUGGED OUT OF A VAN, PEOPLE ARE EVIL, THE SYSTEM LET ME DOWN, I WAS RAPED, GUYS ARE AFTER ME AND WANT TO KILL ME, ON AND ON AND ON, " TALK ABOUT PSYCHO. but yet, the courts continued my daughter to be in their custody, AGAIN, DOESN'T CARE ABOUT THE BEST INTEREST OF CHILD
The child support why is it $24k? well, over the last 20 years, you can't rely on people to get you to work, you can't get home because of your credit and you can't get credit because of child support, i can't get a car because of child support so i have to rely and hope someone will help me, and times, cities didn't have buses etc. Legit lay offs,
CHILD SUPPORT IS A 3RD PARTY CIVIL, AGAIN THAT'S CIVIL VOLUNTEER ASSISTANCE PROGRAM SCAM PLAIN AND SIMPLE, THE SO CALLED *COURTS" ISN'T THERE FOR THE INTEREST OF THE CHILD, THAT'S WHY THEY FLY THROUGH THE DOCKETS SO FAST .
3rd party contract breakdown= government gives funds to every state in usa, the states give it to the "CSEA" - Child Support Enforcement Agency , then CSEA give the funds to the parent applying for aid (food, insurance etc) , requests DNA test to find the parent that'll be giving up their financial freedom and manipulate her/him and forced to give up their freedom.
thank god i didn't marry my daughter mom
but point is, i live in the capital of Kansas, and i hung out downtown a lot of traffic, and asking for people for help even to work, for this cash, money orders only made out to Kansas Payment Center, i included the case number and all info needed on a similar business card, and guess what folks? NOBODY GAVE A DAMN TO HELP ME! yet, they'd be eager to give the homeless money, down the block. AND I ASKED FOR MONEY ORDERS MADE OUT TO KPC AND THAT PERSON HELPING CAN MAIL IT OFF!
sigh sick world
Thanks for the valuable words
I was married to a woman who thought if you were self employed you were a loser! She thought 9 to 5 was considered a job and anything else did not qualify. I was making triple what people were making around me yet she never supported me spiritually. So she tried a hypergomy jump to another guy. Divorced me and her new boyfriend took off for the hills as well. Now I'm well off and the lucky one. I get to go where I want and buy what I want whenever I want and date whomever I want. Now she has to pay her bills when I'm the one who paid them before. There is justice in the world.
Not always - but it is nice to hear that it has worked for you as an individual.
First time reading a comment about divorce with a good ending👌
Thanks for sharing this. I'm 46 single live In a holiday park. Alcoholic. Do drugs not very often anymore. I'm In a place to change . I liked your video. Also I've shared it with my 20 year old nephew because I love him and don't want him to get stuck In the matrix. I've been stuck too and tomorrow I'm going to take my own advice. With inspiration from people like you.. Thank you ❤
I understand this is random internet advice…
Find and attend a local AA meeting, if you want to stop drinking - it’ll change your life!
Good luck brother!
I hope you’re sticking to your plan. You got this 💪🏻
Check in for accountability sir
1 year sober as of April 2nd and it has changed my entire outlook on life. Probably one of the hardest yet easiest things I've done thus far but after realizing I am in control of my outcome was the lesson that has defined my approach going forward. Great video and thank you for the much needed guidance to becoming a better version of myself!
Tribe! Just a reminder that you all are badass gangsters! Grateful for your likes, views and subs… and the weirdos who leave the strange comments too 😂
Is that me lol 😂 I
Joined one of your gyms today. Just took a new job and couldn’t believe there was one literally a mile down the road. Rated 5 🌟. 💪
@@gedwardnelson dude that’s awesome! Show up like a champ!!
SKATEBOARD ARMY GANGSTERS WORLDWIDE
What if you don't know your core purpose or what you're meant to be doing? I have been doing things to help myself grow like improving my finances, my fitness, I read non-fiction books on bettering myself. I just don't know my true purpose or what I'm meant to do....what I'm suppose to be doing with my life.
God I wish I had a dad like you growing up. Glad to have you here. Thank you for this! Much love brotha
I appreciate that 🙏🏼
Very sound advice. I'm 57 and my wonderful wife and I have made our mistakes but also managed to become mortgage free with a small passive income through real estate, and pensions...but the to get here the last decade has been very busy and demanding of our time and now I've found myself in the struggle of my life with alcohol. It's making her very unhappy....so when you said 'dont make yourself an island' it hit me like brick. Alcohol free for one month and feeling good. Thank-you and God Bless 🌿
Good job! Keep it up. I’m almost 40 and in the process of cutting down. I was drinking anywhere from 10-15 shots of Fireball from the time I woke up til the time I went to bed, plus 4-5 beers, daily for the last 18 months to 2 years. Probably been an alcoholic for 5 years where I drank nightly but not as much. I haven’t had a shot of liquor in 8 days. I’ve been waiting till late at night to have 2-4 beers. Which is a big step but I realize it’s still bad. I would like to be able to enjoy a few beers on occasion in the future but I will most likely need to quit for several years before that’s a viable option. I know I can do it..I kicked heroin/methadone 12 years ago “cold turkey” after being an addict for almost 10 years. Sorry for the rant. It’s just easier typing to a stranger than saying it out loud (which I have done with a couple friends)
@@anthonyesposito9953 It's good for others too see ❤ I hope you're doing good god bless you!
AHHHHH! stop it you are gonna make me cry.....
2 month check-in. How's it going bro?
I needed to hear this. Going back 5 years, I pretty much got all of these wrong. I was a student unsure of what's ahead, played a lot of video games and hung out with a lot of low-achievers thanks to that. I had a girl who was badly damaged despite me not seeing a future in us. All of this topped by those with no spine or bite I called my best friends. And when I finally started complaining over petty reasons the whole thing came crashing down on me.
But where's has to be light in order to cast a shadow. I've been granted a chance to start over and it's looking pretty good now. Living on my own working a job which fulfills me with purpose and actually aligns with my interests. Single by choice while happily living out new and creative hobbies. And after a long time, I found people who accept me for me and are genuinely making an effort to connect.
I'm writing this down hoping for someone to find it and have that aha-moment as well. Or perhaps being in the same situation but still in the beginning where everything seems pointless. Trust me, you will get over it and once you do... Good things will be ahead.
Everything you've just described in this episode is me currently. I'm about to lose my family which is all my fault really. I drink, I complain, I mistreat my wife. I cant let go of the past.
This is the time for me to change. It's like you knew exactly what I'm going through and I keep doing it to myself. CHANGE IS COMING
Damn I think you know me personally because I'm in the exact same boat but remember it takes 2 bro
Bro check, how's it going so far?
I hope you’ve pulled yourself together and become a man
How are you doing bro? Not to put any pressure on you but have you made some changes?
@@Lockthoselips10 I'm trying bro
So true. When I quit social drinking in the 1990s, I saved enough money to put a down payment on my first property with the money I waved on drinking, buying strangers drinks, etc. Now I own three properties free and clear.
Good for you! Proud of you!
what bourgeoisie bullshit 😂
I agree with the comment section, I feel an impact on my life from his words .I also find myself thinking back to some of the statements made that affect me the most on a daily basis. Suffering in silence affects men more than they want you to know. Having this positive force for awareness for men's and women's mental health will make us stronger . Love and respect 💯
I’m 32 years old, have recently taken a deep, hard look at myself and finally embraced things that are a problem in my life and change them. Just saw this video and all 4 things I had just come to realise myself, well you proved it to me. Thankyou. Subscribed
That's crazy I'm also 32 and just had a similar experience. I agree his first 4 points really hit home having dealt with those situations. Equipped with this new perspective I'm excited to see the man I'll be by 35-40.
Good luck in your journey bro! 🫡
Also just subscribed lol
Subscribed.
That's crazy!
I'm not 32.
Lol.
In seriousness,
if you look at it a certain way,
you got a huge headstart than many older dudes.
I'm 32. I have almost everything most people could want. I have my own business, a very nice house in a gated community, I make good money. But I'm a hell lot more talented in what I do then what shows. I'm just getting by and I started to feel like I'm playing with my life. The past is the psst there's nothing I can do about it except learn from it. I got some great advice the other day not sure if it will help. But a family member said I just need to make a 2mm change. It was something I needed to hear because I kept feeling like I needed to start all over and rewire everything. The small changes will reap big results. I say it to say your closer to your goals then you know. Use that as encouragement.
@@truthistruth4186way to humble brag and make it about yourself bro!
Grew up most of my life w/o a dad, In my late 20s im starting to realize most of the points you made on my own. Spent a lot of years of pain with the wrong types of friends and it ruined my life, I appreciate you making this video because its reinforcing the things im learning on my own about life. One year off pot, 4 years off drinking, Diets shaped up, Started exercising regularly.
Didn’t ruin your life though man you’re still here which means you can improve 💪🏾
God bless you and may he continue healing you, brother.
Hell yes Buddy!!! Keep up with that Awesomeness!!!
Respect man. We use the brotherhood as a “father figure”.
I know it may feel like you've fallen behind, just starting to shape things up but you're years ahead of so many, just the fact that you've managed to have self realisations and awareness. So many sleep right through it. I've done what you did in my late 20s I've now retired before I've hit my 40. When you put your energy and focus on the things you really need and let go of all the bs distractions, you'll be surprised just how far you can take it. Don't be afraid to take on, or dismiss, the opportunities that will present themselves either, once you get out of that slumber and you're on your way up, you will see them but will doubt yourself...
This one hurts but we all need to hear this stuff loud in our face in order to improve in life. Thanks for sharing!.
As a man of 76, I found your podcast a couple of days ago and the ensite you discuss is on the mark, it's a reminder to us to do better.THANK YOU
Thank you sir
I’m a 35 year old Mom & entrepreneur, I’m a am absolutely obsessed with your podcast & the content you put out. Thanks for sharing what you do & making this world a whole lot more KICK ASS 🙌🏼
Thank you! Keep crushing mama bear!
I'm just trying to imagine myself having this advice when I was 14 years old. I'm 44 now, so, I'm sure there's a deep neurological path in my psyche. I recognize a lot of these traits that ruin men, have been a part of my life. Everything mentioned in this podcast is true. I'm going to re listen to this weekly and track my growth.
Thank you.
I'm 51 now, and a lot of things on this list have ruined my enjoyment of life and growth as well. If only we had something like this 30 years ago... Right when we're just getting out there, being stupid and still not knowing anything about "life". I would gladly change the way things turned out, knowing now what I did not know back then. Hindsight is always 20/20. Especially when you get older.
Young men don't take advice they do what they want.
This is true. I've been away from that mind set for so many years, I forgot about that.
Get out of that trench. That fox hole holds nothing but death. Forward movement means life.
My younger brother send me the link to this video... So I watched it... and even before I finished it I talked to him & thanked him for it... This is my first time seeing you Bedros... and I am blown away... Loved it... Absolutely loved this video! Now I'm gonna hit the subscribe button, and go to the channel to check more of your videos! Thank you, Bedros.
That is awesome! Welcome to the tribe brother!
All these make so much sense!! I have been following them for years and my life is good. And I did it all myself. We are the designers of our life and everyone should know it.
Finally a dude with a podcast with sense and not trying to divide folks . Cheers 🥂
Bedros! - Much love and respect from London. I’m 23 years old and just finished reading your book. I think a key takeaway that links to this video is “Eliminate anything in your life that isn’t excellent” Keep inspiring the next gen!
You nailed it!
Reminds me of asking this one question for everything. "Is this essential?" helps figure out what you need and stuff you should get rid of.
Awesome man, I listen to your show every day on my walk before work. I'm 28 years old, and been living wreckless since I was a teen. You give me hope and motivation to push myself to be not only a man, but a man of high value. Thank you Bedros, for all of the knowledge, experience, and strength that you give me. Keep them coming!
That is awesome! Keep doing the SelfWork brother!
Same here bro just turning 28 next month and feel like life has taken over my life with shitty decisions I've made over the years.
Same
Timothy 2:12 - look it up
Recognition of the problem and researching ways to change is the biggest step! You can do anything you set your mind to man (in the words of Eminem)
Standing your ground and sticking up for yourself seems like a constant battle but each time I do it, I feel strengthened and more real. It’s a battle worth fighting.
I really liked the Don't be an island quote. That I found to be very helpful in a situation I am going through right now. Isolation killed my drive. No more me against the world mentality. Thanks for making this video, subscribed as soon as I finished the video. Keep up the great work!
Every since I watched a video on finding your purpose. I made a massive 180. I was 315 when I started watching these lessons. Now I'm 269 and still dropping. My field is UI/UX design and Im trying get so damn good at it so I don't have rely on paycheck from a big company. Find your why guys once you do you won't need to rely on motivation. And thank you Bedros for waking me the #$@# up. Piece out bros keep pushing keeping improving. 💯
Dude!!! Congrats! Stay on that path
If you made a 360 then you doing the exact same thing :)
@@prasad530 should probably fix that to 180 lol
I've been in UX/UI for 10yrs mostly in SaaS for large companies and web design/dev for 10yrs before that, Inc 5yrs as owner of web agency with staff b4 I got burnt out and went back to working 4 the man. Tell me how do you get so good at it you don't have to rely on paycheck from a big company? What can you do with UX/UI other than getting a paycheck? I've been stuck in career path doing 9-5 supporting wife and kids, and have no passion for it at all.😊
@@mmmmmmmmmmm10 Hey man Bedros has a video called finding your purpose. That's the video that helped me the most. I encourage to watch and really reflect on it. But if anything does come up with Ui/Ux I'll be sure to keep in touch. Stay strong and keep growing!
From continuously engaging myself with Bedros Keuilian success clips and the guild a Financial Guru Joseph Sullivan Anderson I feel when it comes to investments and the investment markets, everything boils down to having proper risk management & a system that is tested & proven, then opportunities become endless. Each to their own though & if you're profiting from the strategies you find on UA-cam videos that's also great!
I think a reasonable percentage of investments fail. For me, any strategy must start by looking at sentiment and opportunities in opposite directions. Being conversant with the Investment market is critical to successfully mastering the market and with a professional guiding me, I rarely fail.
I have been investing for almost two years & I barely even have a profitable portfolio. Ever since I got in, every Investment I've placed has slapped me in the face lol. I read your comment & I was wondering, please can you name your professional Investor? Who helps you with your Investments?
I'm quite grateful for this advice. It was simple to find your expert Joseph Suvillian Anderson online using his full name, and I was really pleased with the thorough background check I completed on him before making a contact. He's obviously very knowledgeable and experienced, and I'm thrilled to get the opportunity to speak with him.
The psychological effect of Investing is real. I ventured into the market as an extra source of income but the truth is all I've done is incure minor losses. So I feel you should be grateful that you have someone who assists, advises and helps you achieve positive results off the Investment markets
Wow. I'm a bit perplexed seeing Joseph Sullivan Anderson been mentioned here also. Didn’t know he has been good to so many people.
As a man that wants more from himself and his life. Your words help encourage what I know I need accomplish in my life. Peace out Bedros and have a prosperous day.
Likewise brother! 🚀
I’m sincerely appreciative that there is a real man having discussions on what men need to aim to be🎉💪🏿🙏🏿
Ahhhh this video is so good. I live by 6 of these, absolutely live by 6 of these. Number 3 is currently what my life revolves around now. That settling crept in and almost ended everything. I feel very relieved now after watching this, I know I'm on the right track, just can't bend.
This is the no BS talk that everyone need to hear. Thank you Bedros for being so direct every time. There's nothing like the BK show to keep you pushing through that one last rep at the gym!
I love hearing that!
Bedros, I am in my late 30s, and I am a first-generation American. My family is from the Azores. Listening to you, I feel like our childhoods are one and the same. I now have children, and my wife and I work tirelessly to instill good values and morals into them.
I don't hear about the Azores often. My friend Matt's grandma emigrated from there to NJ after WW2.
Thanks bro. I quit weed this year. Best decision this year. I quit TV and watching sports 3 years ago and that was the best at that time. I am working on myself and quiting the lone wolf mentality. I've been having the best year. I'm continuing the work and your podcast just gave me the fuel to keep on going. Thanks. Nobody will do it for me. It's hard at times but I would never go back. The best is yet to come. 💪🏼 Hard work pays off.
Hahahahahahah
12:00 - 13:45 revealed an incredible amount of self realization and steps to make the necessary changes to improve. I appreciate you Bedros for dropping the Jewels. Your service and wisdom to the people is exemplary. God bless.
beautiful "hope is not a game plan" well said! I quit gambling 5 years ago, its been 5 years at the end of July and I haven't looked back. I walked away knowing I was ruining my life trying to get rich that way. I was pretty degenerate, too. Any time I had money in my pocket it went to the casino. Best decision I ever made.
Lone wolf here, this is the most valuable yet concise information I needed to hear. I'm gonna go out there and find my pack 🔥
Good man! Find your brotherhood
I had a pack.. but one hung himself unexpectedly, closest one moved to a different state hours away to marry a gal that is great, but has a previous child with her ex husband so moving away so the ex can have partial custody of the child has him stuck there (we talk every week atleast, and he visits a few times a year), the other friend has so many vices I can't hang out with him unless he's doing tattoo work for me, and the only other guy has become successful doing body work, but he is a regular drinker and smokes a lot of pot, two things I've given up (besides the occasional slip up, need to work on that) I'd like to find people to do group rides with motorcycling.. but realized I don't like group rides, I enjoy riding alone. Trying to find some shooting buddies, but options on decent ranges are limited and the two friends left here either can't afford range time or see it as a waste of money. Plus having children makes it a lot harder. We plan on relocating somewhere warmer due to me and my wife's seasonal depression due to cold Midwest winters. Looks like I will have to find a new group to call my pack soon. Gonna be rough.
In times of confusion and despair, the world needs you! You're absolutely amazing brother
I hope success and happinness for you my brother
I'm 23, failed at mostly everything in life, have like $1k to my name, have a useless degree, live with parents and still can't get a job. I just train muay thai 6 days a week to be doing something as the only thing I really enjoy is binging netflix, good food and fighting. Working on building an online business to become location independent but man, I am very vice dependent and struggle a lot with depression.
Dont give up my friend,you will be alright,keep moving forward,have a really nice day.
20:30 I am with you on everything else except this bit... August 1996 I met my ten... Didn't immediately jump into our ever after [had one truly toxic experience first], but circled back to each other before too much time had passed and we've been together for parts of three decades now.
Thank you so much for spreading these ideas we cant shout them loud enough. We are small but doing our best to spread awareness and positive mindsets that promote masculine ownership and personal growth while realizing the value of their life.
so true, as men we have so many obstacles and traps we must overcome to be successful honest and happy men.
So so true. As a woman who has been with a man who has made and learned from many mistakes, it is so important to support and help men know their worth and that they are able to better themselves and be better/ more. Thank u Bedros!
Great episode! Got alot of value from u. I myself have stopped drinking socially and I’ve noticed the difference in my way of life. I go to bed early and I wake up early. My decision making through out the day is applied with proper discernment. Thank u
Good stuff!👊🏼
Been listening for a few months now. This one really hit home. Especially with the starting things and not finishing. As well as choosing the right spouse with the women in dating. Grateful to say I have some of the other things in check but thanks again for bringing tremendous value to my day. Godspeed !
Thanks for listening brother
This is exactly where I am now in life! I consider you part of my tribe, my brotherhood and seek to have men like you in my mastermind group. Very helpful, thank you!
No wrdz can describe how accurate u r!!!!!!! I'm 53 yrs young LOL, & I have 2 say I've achieved Zen status. Cause everything that u talk about I don't have in my life! Another wrdz,I've achieved what many men haven't but I hope many men do. Big ups to your for the upload and the subject
There’s been some real struggles and challenges lately. Hearing Bedros, I think instead of saying I’m ‘Hanging in there’ I can instead say something like “You know I’m okay. There’s been some challenges but I’m making progress and there’s been some real growth.”
Bingo! How you frame things matter
This segment went deep down to the core of many issues I have experienced and keep fighting in life
Sometimes you just need to hear from someone more experienced
I appreciate you BK
"Hope is NOT a Gameplan." Powerful.
His opening statement is all a man needs to hear. One of the best podcasts I've heard. I can relate to just about all 7 items on the list.
Incredible points all around. Work hard, embrace sobriety, create an environment and community of like-minded individuals, FINISH WHAT YOU WERE PUT ON EARTH TO DO!!
The 7th step is the hardest in my opinion. Thank God for books and YT. That's who I surround myself with. Bedros, Goggins, Jordan Peterson,Wes Watson, Les brown, Joe dispenza, Ryan Holliday, etc
Good man!
So glad I found your channel. Its great to hear other men have similar thoughts and values.
Do your thing Brother, I support you
I appreciate that 👊🏼
Your videos are literally the kick in the ass i need to start the day. It feels like your my boss and when i see you i feel the need to start working lol. Thank you Bedros, keep up the great content. Average is the enemy.
Thank you. I have learned the hard way like many other people. I have now nailed the first six with much emotional & monetary loss, however i am happier than i have ever been and am now embarking on finding my tribe. The work has already started. I love the fact that what you stated i understood and i salute you for that. Respect.
This guy is like a straight to the point Jordan Peterson. You popped up on my algorithm and I must say, solid points! Every man (and honestly woman) can learn from this!
Hey I just got recommended this video and it hit me on so many levels!! Great talk and great points all men ( young and old) should listen to. Quitting alcohol was the biggest turning point for me after my 2nd DUI almost killed me. Happy to be a live 10 yrs later! Still need these reminders to keep reaching cause life’s not over! Thanks!!!
My favorite: “After 11pm it’s stupid time, and we are not going to hang out at stupid hour, with stupid people, doing stupid things, because you get stupid outcomes.” 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯💯💯
Bedros you are the man! I had a pretty similar past but somehow, thru the grace of God and the amazing people in my life I turned things around.
However, there’s always room for improvement and you keep me on track. Just want to say thanks for putting out these videos. They are a blessing
Wow, thank you 🙏🏼
First time watching Bedros Keuilian, the UA-cam algorithm got me here. Honestly haven't even heard of him before, but I really enjoyed this video. I love how he is genuinely angry at about the 18:16 mark, asking "What the F are you doing man?!" He seems genuinely passionate about wanting people to be better versions of themselves. His words and energy are meant to have you take a long hard look at yourself and see where there is room for improvement.
when you mentionned making your son listen to this. it hit something in my heart . been pretty much left to myself by my father and got a one year old son .. i been fucking up my life consistently for years now . even started doing meth last summer, to my loved ones and my own dissapointment ... i feel renewed and healed after your video. something i havent felt ever. i want to change my life up and give my son the love and oppotunity to conquer everything in this life that his heart desires. i know some people will reply and sayvim a loser but i sont really care . today is another chance to do what i ought to do from the start . thanks man much love
Role model bro. I’m on a mission to become the best version of myself by 33
I’m at 32 living the beat I ever had. But this is just the beginning
In life, I have made a lot of mistakes. I'm 36 years old and I've burned out at work several times. It took me an incredibly long time to find a woman who supports me and my wild business ideas. I found such a woman 4 years ago. It's amazing how the points you made in the video apply to me and my past mistakes. In July, it will be a year since I stopped drinking alcohol, and this will be my biggest life victory. It gave me a lot, I was on the verge of suicide. Of course, I work with a psychologist, practice the Wim Hof breathing and cold therapy method, and it helped me with depression and anxiety. MOST IMPORTANTLY, finding my tribe helped the most. It may sound funny, but I started playing chess again and I meet people there who have similar traits to mine. It's amazing how it can change your perspective on the world. Thank you for what you do for all men in the world. Greetings from Slovakia!
Dont give up my friend,take it easy.
@@RedaReda-vl9ff thank you, yes, I am moving forward every day :-)
Truly Brilliant podcast episode, Bedros.
Thank you! You are a force of nature. I see you and your mission proceeding on an even more staggeringly successful trajectory over the ensuing years….because of the wisdom, pragmatic optimism and hard truths you share from first hand experience. You’re saving lives! Helping to Flip The Switch in people’s minds and hearts.
Bless you!!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Definitely made great points “WEED” was my vice and it really held me back in life at 40 I’m just kicking it got abt 2 months off of it and I realize it did nothing but made me lazy & paranoid and now I’m actually on a natural high I laugh more more productive and most important more money cnt forget I’m jus way more involved instead of backing out of things or ducking certain ppl jus cause
I just quit smoking cigarettes over 2 months ago, quit drinking too. What a better life I am feeling. Saving money, feeling more energetic and better calculated in my thoughts. Happy I found this video.
This was what I needed this week. I made a decision to move on from something big and something toxic and it requires resolve to not cave into the obstacles that come in its path. I will be strong and this video hit the nail right on the head
Man that story in the beginning got me in chills.. I can't say I've been that deep in, but pretty close, and I've presumably made a similar choice.. I haven't excelled necessarily, but I've taken the path that has made me a better person in most ways and happy about it.. much love man, glad you made it out ❤
Appreciate what you do for us Bedros!
Listening to your podcast is literally me just picking your brain every day and I’m so grateful to have the chance to learn
THIS CONTENT IS SO VERY NEEDED!
Love your videos ! Your a true Role model for us youngsters trying to become the best version of ourselves! I appreciate you OG
I appreciate that 🙏🏼👊🏼
@@BedrosKeuilian keep ‘em coming 💯👏🏼
He's a grifter, you don't need someone to twll you you're great, you were already a good person probably, if you feel the need for validation then guys like this will find ways to profit off of you
@@bobjenson4950 I don’t need somebody to tell me I’m great, I never even said I was because I’m not, I have a lot to work on myself & he’s just there as a motivational speaker & that’s how I take it. I haven’t spent any money and he hasn’t done any negative in my life so I can’t say he’s a “grifter.” Why is it that you call him that? You have any evidence? I would be happy to hear you out.
@@Amek909 *yet.
I wish this type of content was out when I was growing up. On your point about brotherhood, I had likeminded people around me that we’re always ready to fight with me but as I matured I realised that this type of friendship group was holding me back from evolving, with that I never replaced them with entrepreneurs. I became that island! Great content and you hit the nail on the head with all 7 points. It’s really got me reflecting.
Sometimes,
Islands come in groups.
Wow! I watched the Millionaire episode and was about to turn this one off thinking I didn’t need it. And blew my mind how much of me you described. I appreciate you sharing and holding that mirror up. I needed it. Thanks and keep it coming. I’ll be watching. ✊🏽
Hey I’m 27 years old. Your videos are very meaningful to me. I didn’t have much of a father figure growing up and I only wish I watched these videos as a teenager. Thanks so much
this is so true. i was trying to lecture a friend not to long ago about quiting all the small things thats gives him short term happiness to allow him to focus on achieving something that will give you more happiness then all the small things put together
It was a long 6 days wait for this episode kept checking back before every workout. I listen to your podcast every day at the sauna before hitting them weights! Keep it up love the motivation
Thank you! 🙏🏼
The part about having a career you feel fulfilled.. I'm 38 and have done facility maintenance for over a decade. I keep hopping between properties and feel fulfilled for maybe 2-3 months until I realize I've just fallen in to another trap where I feel trapped in another dead end job. I've gained a lot of skills and knowledge that I never thought I'd never gained. While that's great I'm not fulfilled.. I dread going to work every week more and more. I have a lot of HVAC knowledge and electrical knowledge. I'm leaning towards getting into HVAC, whether it's thru an apprenticeship program or getting licensed with enough certs to land a job. I like to troubleshoot electronics, I like the technical side of things. I worry that HVAC will lead to the same situation I'm in now however.. I was always the person who just assumed I'd join the military (which I did, hated it and was discharged honorably after completing my active duty obligations). I'm the type of person who has few hobbies.. motorcycles, automotive work, firearms.. that's about it. Growing up I never had a clear vision of what I wanted to be, besides becoming a writer or artist. At 38, I'm not ancient.. but the feeling of time working against me is becoming all too real. Has anyone had success with career coaching? Is it worth it?
I went to a Leafs game last night. They were playing the Florida Panthers. Before the end of the first period I went to use the washroom. I ended up taking a shit. It was the very first time I had ever taken a shit while attending a live hockey game. Oddly enough, I felt fulfilled.
@@schmingusss Fulfilled by being unfilled. Now that's a good way to think about it 😂
@@crack1666 I feel honoured to have received a response by someone who goes by the name Turd. Everything is as it should be.
@@schmingusss I need to become a famous UA-camr simply just to make "Turd McGee" a household name. My channel would probably be better than 99.99% of what my 6 year old watches. Which isn't setting the bar very high
The lone wolf dies the Wolfpack thrives finding the right group and avoiding the wrong ones that do not align with your core values is imperative
@Generic Name everything is easier said than done, that doesn’t take away its value.
The lone wolf thrives.
@@AndI0td763 this has never been and never will be the case
@@BoxOfCurryos It depends what you define as a lone wolf but many great thinkers and achievers have thrived in solitude. You don’t really need a group or close friends but everyone should certainly have some friends and family to rely on and be close to. Then I guess that wouldn’t be a true lone wolf, but few are.
People tend to underestimate the lone wolf. The lone wolf is actually the greater animal between itself and the alpha wolf of the pack. The lone wolf can lead a pack but doesn't need a pack.
God gave you an opportunity to touch people the way you are doing it now my brother, it's more than money and material things, but the power to recognize the opportunities his given us to serve others from the experiences we've had in life. Love your channel.
I’ve got extremely high standards. My problem is that I continually fail to meet them. I have noticed that my level of acceptance has dropped off slightly, but it is across the board. I’m not functioning as I know I could be and should be. I’m pleased to say that my values and the common decency i afford others is still in tact. The recent epoch of mediocrity has gone on for too long. I’ve been treading water with the awareness of what is occurring, but it’s a case of being prepared to fool yourself into not being proactive. I have a lot of time for the notion that alludes to information, or the fact of bumping into a certain person can be response to your thoughts and emotions.
I feel that it is the reason I came across this video. Tomorrow I start to address matters before they are permitted to cause any further harm.
Thanks for channel, great content.
Peace.
“Captain Save-A-Ho” had me ☠️
I struggle with the last one. Always been a loner. The biggest thing I can say and point out about this is the “like-minded brotherhood” part. I see far too many dudes who literally can’t just be home by themselves and they will call around looking for someone to hang out with and they go down the list until someone finally comes over and it’s usually not like-minded People.
I stopped being lonely after having 'acquired' many and realizing after running into older friends that I'd fallen out of touch with that,
'I really don't want this person around me'
After that you don't feel like you're missing out. Very rare to find a good friend nowadays that's right there with you and for each other.
Choosing the wrong spouse. I got me the best one. Took me 6 years living in a foreign country to find her and got married at 31. Seeing the crap that my father went through and is still going through with my mother was enough to teach me this very important lesson at a young age.
what foreign country was that?
China
dude, I am at such an impactful time in my life and this is making me feel so much better. I made a lot of mistakes in my early 20s now I'm 27 and changing everything in my life I was scared I wouldn't ever be successful but now I know no matter how bad my past the future is always there. Thanks for showing that you can make bad mistakes but still become a good man and be successful in life. The universe is showing me that my world isn't over because of my past its only just beginning.
Yes brother realize we are still so young but not as young as we were at 20-25. Now’s they time to put in the work
Yesterday is over brother. Everyday is a new start to be the person you want to be. Keep pushing forward and that will only be a short chapter in your life that you will once be soo far ahead of you won't even remember that person anymore. Create that new you that you want go be. You need the WILL. That's all.
The 27 club all coming off the sauce together! I get fucking AMPED to see people of our year all getting clean at the same time unknowingly all together it seems, like an awakening. Makes my heart happy and excited for all of our individual futures. God speed brother!💪🏽👏🏼
I need to hear more , how can I get in touch
@@josephmusyimi1570 mail him a selfie of u doing duck lip in your bathroom
This is one of the most impactful videos I have ever seen on UA-cam. Seriously, you are completely on target. Thank you 🙏🏻
Very powerful and well articulated. All men shouild live by these tenants.
Yes feed my brain brother Bedros 🎯💪
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☝🏾🔥1 LOVE & DEEP APPRECIATION for this show. This advice and this platform is helping daughters make better decisions
Thank you! 🙏🏼
26 minutes for a UA-cam video felt like 5 minutes… I couldn’t be happier to have found your channel, and with the fact that so many ideas are already aligned 👍🏼
Thank you so much for these words..I’m living a suffering period in while the person that said to love me said me I was a wrong person..listen to you I’ve understand that this breakdown is really a blessing for me to reborn and in my heart and in my soul I feel close to your core values and your mentality. I want give an advice for all people who are suffering in this moment..don’t give up! Let’s listen your parents and your real close friends, they are the only people who want your best! Greetings from Italy 🇮🇹 Stay Hard!
I’m a woman and I love hard talks like these.. maybe I’m a bit too masculine. I admit it.. but damn we need more badass women with this mindset. I’m trying to become her.. and this message resonates deeply! Thanks man 😫♥️
No we don’t. We need modest quiet submissive women paired with real men
As someone who has believed in being a “lone wolf”, I definitely feel what you said is 100% correct- I have started to build my strong circle! Thank You B
Good man! Build your band of brothers
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wow that’s stirring! Do you mind connecting me to your advisor please. I desperately need one to diversified my portfolio.
Do you mind sharing info on the adviser who assisted you? I’m 40 now and would love to grow my stock portfolio and plan my retirement.
Best thing I did on social media is follow this man everywhere got the chance. Thank you for the content Mr Bedros!!! And to all of you guys that are at that stage where you are still trying to figure some things out, just press the subscribe button and the bell icon, I promice you that you will not regret it.
Man I’m so glad I found this channel. Man is speaking the gospel!