14 Hard Truths About Life | The Bedros Keuilian Show E056
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- Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
- In this episode, I’m sharing these hard truths that most parents, teachers, and society won't tell you. These are the truths that are unknowingly keeping you docile and fragile.
This is what I wish someone had told me earlier and saved me from years of mistakes and stress.
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Success is a lonely journey
Find others on the same path. You’ll get there faster and enjoy it more along the way.
@@TideV2 hard to do when their aren't very many within my area, or maybe I'm not looking in the right places
It's a self fulfilling journey
That’s deep
Was lonely for me but not anymore
1. There is an opportunity cost to waiting in life. If you wait too long, you will lose the opportunity and live with regret.
2. On your journey to self mastery, you will lose 99% of your friends.
3. No one is coming to save you.
4. ALL Govt. and politicians are corrupt.
5. You're going to need a lot more moneyin life than you think. By the time you realize that it will be too late.
6. Stop blaming your parents for all your problems, you'll be happier.
7. Train yourself to let stupid people win arguments.
8. Learn how to direct and control your attention.
9. Women biologically detest weakness and they reject fragile men.
10. Most people will not understand your obsession your drive and your ambition.
11. The fastest way to losing yourself is by trying to make everyone happy.
12. Your body is a direct reflection of your mental and emotional state.
13. You're not special and no one owes you anything.
14. Your parents were wrong ab most things.
Thank you
Thank You & agree with every word...
Thanks bruv
"Women Biologically reject weak men" LOL You've never meet a women before man. Women love all kinds of men
Very true I was too slow
Quit smoking weed finally a little over a month ago, ready to take responsibility of all my actions!
I don’t subscribe to people usually , but this man is a mastery. He is logical and know what is he talking about !
Thanks brother
❤
Experience is wisdom!!
The world needs more of this honesty.
Make money. Workout. Focus. My life is changed now.
Yeah! Keep going 💪 I've been rebuilding myself since May. I'm in love with myself again
I really love how he is telling us the truth for free.
Oh he making bank
Dankie Bedros. Atleast someone tell ppl to man the f up. I am an South African "Afrikaans man" I immigrated to Australia and I wish some of the guys here listen to your message and try to adapt, I find it extremely hard to manage and lead workers here as they complain for no reason or try to push them beyond 70% of their own capabilities. Big up for this channel and the effort it takes 💪
I just subscribed and turned on “all notifications” after your “… don’t spend money you don’t have, buying shit that you don’t need, to impress people that you don’t like.”
This struck a code in me!🤗🤗
Thank you, for posting this and being your true self. I’m 36, married, four kids, and have a landscaping business. There is times where I question things and try to push on. I’ve been subscribed to you for a while. Watching your videos helps me get through life and for that I truly thank you.
You are so welcome!
I have to tell you thank you, Nobody gets down to the nitty gritty no more and tells it like it is. Everyone is to afraid of hurting some ones feelings. That was Great!
I’m 48 and I know my parents meant well, but the days going to college, running up debt, and working for 40 years is over. But we can change that cycle.
@@JT-oc2dndont worry youll reincarnate. Youre stuck in the cycle of Samsara.
@@JT-oc2dnliving as a human being with imbalance and all kinds of karma and pain is not the goal. Escaping the wheel of reincarnation is.
@@JT-oc2dnthis world is a test and it’s temporarily to see who’s the best of good actions. According to Islam and the Quran!
@@JT-oc2dnThanks for not being disrespectful while asking this. This is very hard to explain without gnosis or direct experience or insight. However, this has to do with the fact that we are constantly perturbed by the five hinderances and by our desires. For most of us, our minds are undeveloped and so unless we renounce the world, balance ourselves, and purify our minds, we are unable to recall such deeply recessed information. Once we can have access to “God,” or our highest self, after perfection of this work, then we don’t have to ask anyone else this question because the answer is found within. We no longer have to base our opinions or reality on the opinions of others who have not done the work to reach the mind-states which allow for us to understand this truth. We have a consistent string of lives resulting from desire and karma. You aren’t exactly the same person or soul going from life to life, but a consciousness/tab of karma that keep coming back until we understand we are “not-self.” The first words the Buddha uttered after enlightenment were “now there will be no birth for me, as the cause of rebirth is found and destroyed.” I suppose I do not believe in reincarnation of a “soul,” but instead, as I said above, a sort of “running tab” of karma kept in an individual consciousness which finds itself being reborn again into a human body due to the karma. When we become so balanced, such a “middle pillar,” that we no longer are a slave to the senses or karma, and we travel inward and experience enlightenment and so we know the truth, then we become enlightened and no longer have to come back and suffer. The consequences of our actions do not disappear upon death. We will keep coming back in one form or another until karma and desire cease. Only then are we freed from the cycle of constant rebirths. Let’s just say, every time you come back, you have a shot to find the truth and to stop creating karma for yourself, and to escape the wheel of Samsara.
@@JT-oc2dnBesides if you lived forever you would become incredibly weary and disillusioned, especially when all of the people and things you loved came and went and you witnessed centuries of suffering and vexation around you. It is good not to remember things. It would hurt very much to remember loved ones from a past life too, or better times, or to remember deaths or traumatic events. Consider it a clean slate in order to experience life freshly and a new chance to find the truth.
This guy really does know what hes talking about. He speaks the truth.
I woke up an hour before my alarm, just listening to this episode. Thank you bedros I'm going for a swim gsd
Let’s go!!
"Taking imperfect action" definitely changed my life", actually a favorite quote of mine "action over perfection" 🔥💪
I can’t get enough of this. I love the way you speak. The raw truth. I share this with my like minded friends.
Motivational speech is a drug
I have recently subscribed to your BK show! 🇺🇸 ❤ Respect from Russia 🇷🇺! Keep it Up and Never give up! 👍
@bedroskeuilian..1 it will be done, Sir!
Great words bro! No offense in any of your words, just truth. As a teacher of History and the Social Sciences, I try hard to share many of these ideas and now I have many more to inspire my young adults. Unfortunately, many are already caught in the entitlement of their feelings and " specialness". They may wake up some day.
Thanks for the reminders and the blunt motivation!
💯 truth #1 hit home hard. needed to hear that
Appreciate all the major inspiration! Today is my first contract in a large real estate deal!!! Started it out with nothing! All because of you
Spot on
I don't need sugar anymore or to have words sugar coated. Love the real raw talk as it should be. This life is not easy and we need to be as tough as life.
My parents were WRONG 🚫 about a lot of things when they were raising me in the early stages of my life in the LATE 1980’s to the early 2000’s when it came to telling me how to be a grown adult. I literally had no idea what I wanted to be when I was 18 years old up until I was about 27 in 2012. But I always knew that I wanted to be an entrepreneur/ businessman and own my own company. I must’ve been told by my parents that “you’re gonna FAIL son so you just better go work for the “MAN” instead and get 40-60 hrs” … you’re right “I absolutely DID fail in my business ventures but I did learn from my mistakes and I leveraged my mistakes to start NEW business ventures. I currently have paying clients that I am working for and assisting them with their business ventures and projects. I’m just getting started honestly but it does feel great bc I stopped caring and listening to my parents and proving them wrong 😁
I love the small jokes you throw in man. Motivational yet still throws a little commodity in 😂 5:38
This UA-cam channel is underrated.
Thank you B, I couldn't agree more to everything that you say. I have listened to every single episode more than once and every time I pick up something new. I learned about you from my 16 yo daughter, Mariana, you are her hero, literally. 🤩
I will ❤
Drinking my @Trulean wellness shot right now !!! Its actually really good. #BedrosForPresident
I was listening on Spotify but I wanted to come and comment about the 3 C's. Really it's the serenity prayer and I love how you put it in regular terms for those of us who tend to shut away from religious stuff. Not speaking about me in general but I know a lot of times when certain demographics hear spiritual jargon, it kind of turns them off. But this is a great example of the same theory in life's terms. Great job man. Love the podcast. I'm gonna share it to a local community group on Facebook. I listen every week and it's inspiring to hear ya. Keep it up brother 💯💪
1. This was a great episode. Thank you Bedros!
2. The only fans references are now making me laugh harder than the Cheeto dust references
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My biggest thing for arguments, is that when they become heated and emotional, ill back down, and if I don't know something, I'll stay silent on the matter and then research it for later.
Bedros - love what you have to say. In regards to college, I went to Johns Hopkins Uni and Stanford MBA but dropped out b/c my company was crushing it. Seeing it firsthand a lot of the kids at top Universities are now in great networks, can get crazy funding for projects and do go on to build some really good companies. If you come out debt-free it's a leg up on all these other "internet entrepreneurs." It's also an excellent place to meet co-founders (Paypal mafia). There are also professors at Harvard and Yale that are legit and have built multi-million/billion dollar companies.
If you play sports, it's even more fun (which I did) and it was an excellent 4 years. College and life is what you make of it. The stupid thing to do is to go into massive debt for a degree that doesn't make dough. So I'll give you that :)
Hey bedros, I don't have alota words to say to you but since I started listening to you I been different and even you are a different motivator...God bless you for everything that's all I can say!!!
I appreciate that
thank you Bedros you keep me in check mentally.
As a person who has lived some life and learned a lot the hard way, I don't think I've ever heard so much real truth and valuable wisdom condensed into the best 25 minutes you'll ever spend in your life! Well done Bedros! Thank you for putting this out so others can benefit. 💪💯
God bless everyone on the path 🎉 it’s worth it.
Yo Bedros, I found your content at the right time! You're helping my to change my life brotha!
Love your show my friend! Always so inspiring and empowering! Thanks for all you do!
Family, finance, fitness, and faith = fulfillment
Keep the hard work up, everyone. I just got married this past Sunday. Ready to be the husband and man I gotta be.
Love it all! Keep preaching brother!
Love your work, greetings from Northern Ireland. I just read about your mum passing on instagram, my condolences for your loss brother!
Thank you brother!
Thank you for this! Amazing and incredibly impactful!
Bedros has that real talk that can be applied to practically any mans life. There hasnt been a topic or subject hes spoken that couldnt help me in some shape or form. Thats why i listen and comeback for the next one.
Sounds like your waiting to hear what you want to hear…..
Keep leading the way, Bedros, because you're truly one of a kind! #BedrosTheGOAT
Got to Love Bedros, Wes, and Gary V. Best motivational speakers of all time...
I love this video. I shared it with my adulting children and all their cousins (my nieces and nephews).
Thank you 🙏🏼
Bedros says it like it is!!!! Love this guy.🤩🐐
You're awesome Bedros. Very proud Armenian
Highly appreciate this , we need someone like yourself that can lay down and expose the real facts and truths we dont necessarily want to but have to face in real life.
Your show is life changing appreciated it Bedros💪🏽🔥💯
What's been the hardest thing for me is letting go of several friends who all died several years ago. I am getting better, but it's been a long hard journey.
Appreciate the true talk my man.
Can't grow without hard truths, you're a living legend
I listen to your podcasts on apple and I havnt found a way to comment and don’t know if you’ll see this but u refer mostly if not all the time to just men in your podcasts what about independent women who want to grow their mindset and entrepreneurial skills! I don’t take offense to it but just wish you included us women into the topics u speak of more! It would mean a lot! :) much love ❤️ your a great speaker and I’ve learned a lot for ya! 😊
Success is the key
"Burlap potato sack" 😂 BK you made my day. 🤝
Love the content. Life saving reinforcement!
I started following you yesterday, and yeap, you show the truth and how to improve yourself.
And yes I need that in my life and take control of it thank you for the content 💯
Thank you for everything you share Bedros!
You just earned a subscriber Bedros, I appreciate your brutal honesty and wisdom! This is the type of content I want in my "everyday diet". Stay blessed
Just what needed to today great one💪🏼
I truly enjoy the content you make
Appreciate all the work you do for us Bedros🔥💯
I appreciate that
“Professors profess, they don’t practice”.
That has to be one of the hardest hitting lines regards to nowadays educational system 🙏
Thank you Bedros for doing what you are doing and spreading truth!
TRUE!
My first year Bio professor is literally an on the field scientist when he doesn't teach. A lot of professors do practice what they do.
Mate, love your content. Since incorporating your lessons into my life I’m slowly becoming the man I wish I had of been for my ex wife and children. I hope others find you in time to save their families from my own fate. My only gripe is that your wellness shot is out of stock.
I put down the bottle and began focusing on building an art business and from that lost some friends who didn’t understand I didn’t want to drink all night every weekend but I wake every morning enjoy my coffee in the early morning happy I don’t feel like a mess. Not drinking is the best thing one can do for themselves
“If want success of any kind Be comfortable being uncomfortable “ Tim Grover
My fave podcast for the gym. Period!!
thank you
Thank you Sir for everything you share to make us grow.
I resonate so much with these perspectives. Well said. Awesome vid Bedros!
Love these talks man.
YES SIR! Thank you for your service. Lots of love from Brazil!
Bedros with another banger ! Love your videos boss man 👏🏼💯
Appreciate it!!
Everything in this video is 100% i wish i had found this ten years ago i just started to learn most of these on my unfortunately at 36 years old especially the letting stupid people win thats a big one for me, thank you for this video
Keeping as real as possible
Thanks to all these podcasts, lots of knowledge is being shared.
I treat your show like a AA meeting. Every time i wanna get lazy, I listen to a podcast lol
loving how frequent these episodes are coming 🔥
Let’s go!
In this UA-cam video, Bedros Keuilian discusses 14 hard truths that are often overlooked or avoided in life. These truths cover various aspects, from taking action and self-mastery to personal responsibility and relationships.
Highlights
- 💡 Truth #1: Avoid the curse of waiting and take imperfect action.
- 💡 Truth #2: On your journey to self-mastery, you may lose most of your friends who don't understand your commitment to personal development.
- 💡 Truth #3: No one is coming to save you; it's your responsibility to save yourself.
- 💡 Truth #4: Governments and politicians are often liars and corrupt, and they won't fix your problems.
- 💡 Truth #5: You'll need more money than you think, so prepare for financial challenges.
- 💡 Truth #6: Stop blaming your parents for your problems and take personal responsibility.
- 💡 Truth #7: Learn to let stupid people win arguments; it's not worth the frustration.
- 💡 Truth #8: Focus on controlling your attention as a valuable superpower.
- 💡 Truth #9: Women biologically detest weakness in men, so work on emotional discipline and mental toughness.
- 💡 Truth #10: Most people won't understand your obsession and drive, so embrace the lonely journey to success.
- 💡 Truth #11: Trying to make everyone else happy will lead to disappointment; happiness is an inside job.
- 💡 Truth #12: Your body reflects your mental and emotional state, so prioritize your health.
- 💡 Truth #13: You are not special, and no one owes you anything; success is earned.
- 💡 Truth #14: Recognize that your parents were wrong about many things; question and learn from your own experiences and knowledge.
I good to hear the explanation of each one.
The content you’ve put out has been incredibly thorough, helpful, and insightful. Love the show and hopped over from the podcast on iTunes just to like, subscribe and comment on this. Keep it up! I share you and your show with anyone I encounter in life who may gain value from it.
Was a great episode! Learned a lot! Sticking to the goals and the plan that is in place for me at the moment. Continuing to grow and learn as I enter my late 20s! 💪🙏
Well said … Much respect for all the content you are providing !
I definitely needed to hear this!
Great spill, I learned a lot from this one. Will be replaying. Have a Blessed Day!
Awesome video Bedros. 14 laws to die for 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thanks bruh
Hey Bedros, I am an entrepreneur, and what I can say, all what you've said it 100% true. 👍
This was awesome! Your videos have helped me so much. Thanks Bedros 🙏🏻
Happy to help!
The best way, I've had to deal with 'stupid people' and their comments is by replying with "Well, if you think so". 😂😂😂
Hard truths are the best truths. I see more and more people wanting to be defined by their weaknesses and it drives me insane.
You kicked me into gear a few weeks ago. I found a workout plan that works around my injuries. Doing it. Once the weight starts coming off, there will be less strain on the injuries and I can ramp it up. That was basically the last hurdle. I've taken command of so many other things. There are people out there that have lost 200+ pounds without those awful surgeries, so I can lose 40. Luckily it's _only_ 40
The arguing with stupid people point is a huge one. I've got a longtime friend who is a very smart dude, makes good money as a web app developer for a *huge* company, etc. He'll tell me about how he argued with someone on Twitter or wherever else about some absolutely stupid topic, and I'm like...Kevin...stop it bro, you're smarter than this. I love that dude. Known him for like 25 years. He drives me nuts sometimes though.
That's was great brother, I appreciate you, thank you 🙏
I love this guy, damn no bullshit here!!!
Ooooh this was good!
Thank you, Bedros jan. Words of wisdom.
Thanks for listening
Excellent advice! My favorite... Learn to let stupid people win arguments.
@bedroskeuilian..1shut up
Dude I love you 💯❤
Thank you so much for your hard real life advice!
Thank you so much for explaining how a woman feels towards men who are weak….. let me take a step back, and words out a little bit differently….. women are disgusted, repulsed by men who display extreme weakness. When I say weakness, I mean the wall with me, the crybaby, the helpless guy, the guy who needs you to believe in him, and micromanage him step-by-step in order for him to do something that he should be able to do on his own. Personally, if a man is showing emotion, then it needs to be something that’s going to push him harder and faster and higher up. That should be the outcome of any emotion. A man feels it should only drive him. It should not destroy him. For example, : If a man is feeling upset that he didn’t get a position that he wanted, it’s fine that he gets upset, but that feeling should lead him to being more determined and more driven even if that means going a different route. But if a man gets emotional about something, and it causes him to crumble and become consumed with angst and worry and pain that he is both verbally and physically displaying that it is just completely detestable to woman.
Thanks B! Always great stuff! I am a student of yours daily man!
@bedros_keuilian2I wanna find my tribe bro! I'm in Lincoln NE Heartland originally from Cali, single dad raising 14yr old daughter wanting 2b the version 2.0 of me that she can be proud of. Your videos and podcasts are my daily drive time university! I work crazy hrs driving mail to post offices rural route and have listened to Man Up, your podcast and others like Outwitting the devil and recently As a man thinketh. If there is any others in my area I would like to connect and eventually afford an event. Almost made it to BK LIVE in Sept but things didn't quite work out...but they WILL!
Awesome episode Bedros. Thanks for bringing it every week! Thank you for all that you do!!
Dude I look forward to you gems daily !