Just a correction : yes ,we tradwomen use social media like Instagram but not for posting attention seeking pictures, rather so that we can follow pages that inspire us. Like cooking pages, gardening, parenting, fashion, interior decor, fitness etc. so yes we follow people.
Lemme tell you. I've been putting in the work for 3 years and I'm still only now in my late 20's finding a path, the education and discipline required to walk it, and the ability to stay consistent and get to where I need to be. Honestly it's good to stay alone and work hard rather than end up with a low quality/abusive woman. It can set you back years. I was stuck for 6 years before I wised up and left MY toxic ex. To the younger guys here, work hard, stay consistent, and stay away from the low quality women that will do everything they can to pull you to their level. Put in the work, feel people and ladies out, and you'll find a good one.
Women crave male attention. They get dopamine hits to their brain from. It is like a drug, they always crave. Especially when they are young. You give them a little too much they get addicted and expect more and more. Unintentional or not it is how they end up uncaringly wasting huge amounts of your time.
This right here. The ONLY sacrifice is when you do have a child one day, you'll be older. For example when they turn 20, you'll be in your 50s. If that doesn't bother you, then it's no problem at all. Men in their late 20s and even 30s can still attract women in their 20s easily .
Its a bit dangerous to tell your subscribers to go to church to find chicks. There's no point in going to church if you don't believe in god, and you don't really want to be a part of it except to get chick's. To get a traditional woman, you need to become a traditional man living a traditional life!
I would say if you already go to church or are religious, maybe the women that are going there are good honest trads and since your already there don’t be scared to talk to one of them but I get your point, don’t go there specifically for women but go there for Holy reasons and you may or may not meet an angel in the process. The sad part is most of the women that go to church around me go in there all dressed up, take some selfies, then leave immediately after or don’t take it at all seriously and most nowadays don’t act decent once they walk out them doors 😂🤦🏼♂️
@@philspaghetright I’ve possibly severed all chance I have to get in God’s grace again (long story) but I don’t think it’s morally right to date a believer as a nonbeliever. Reason being is because of the command from the quote that says “do not be unequivocally yoked with an unbeliever”
lately i’ve been trying to grow my social circle, and improve my confidence with approaching people mainly women. idk if i’ve gone at it the right way though, i’ve been going out every weekend for the past few months since i’ve been watching these videos and some others about socializing and dating. doing so, i have met new friends and now i’ve actually got a couple female friends who i meet other women through and doing it that way feels much better and more genuine and since it’s warmer approach i feel more comfortable being myself considering her friend has a good impression of me already. now though i think i’m going to go monk, work on myself get into the gym and save money so that i can grow my value and then start hanging out again.
I'd say don't let your current social circle die out. At least filter out the real ones to keep in touch with every jnce in a while. Other than that focus on your purpose man
Watching your videos as a college student studying technology, I realize that although I consider myself a well-rounded man in terms of my values, even though I have great “this dude can provide” credentials on paper, I don’t have the follow through or mental consistency yet to fight for the things I believe in on a daily basis; being a traditional guy and falling in love with a traditional woman in the best sense of the word traditional. I’m going to start leaving comments on your videos when I watch them to hold myself accountable since I’ve been Melvining your vids recently. Cheers
32:28 “ why are you pursuing women at all if you don’t have your life together” Because the crippling loneliness is twisting my mind and devouring my soul that’s why
Thats the funny part: if they sense your desperation they'll leave asap. Dont make another person the center of your happiness. I know its hard but I know what I am talking about. I am 25 now and never was really in love with someone and never had a gf. It was always mostly that I had a bad taste in women, tried to make it work with someone who just wasnt for me or that I was too immature / non masculine which always lead to failure... I am now hyperfocused on becomming the best version of myself and resisting the urge to NEED a girl because magic will happen as soon as youre finally whole again and fixed your mental and physical state. When this happens someone will sense your positive aura and the right girl will take advantage of it and see you as a right partner. trust me man I've seen this many many times with other people.
@@Kenji-117 Thank you Virgil very cool you should pay Neroes child support tho .guess I just gotta give up on that hug I always wanted ohh well Time to challenge Deontay Wilder to a fist fight🗿
Dude I get you, but the worse part is that if you are not OK by yourself the girls will notice and will not be attracted, i know it's hard I've been there, i got dumped because I was to needy too insecure, when I was left alone with my thoughts for months I felt like I was going crazy but then something broke inside me and make realize that if I'm not felling ok things must change, so i got into improvement, you already know what i'm going to say.. gym, reading, listening to educational podcast, tedtalks, improving my financial situation, making good plans and sticking to it, when you get to do all these and more you will feel truly secure inside and women will notice, when they trow you shit test consciously or in consciously and you will not care because you will know you're worth a lot and past then, that's very important, keep going you can do it
Been using your guidelines. I got my shit together, and am now studying engineering. Hooked up with some club girls and all but found some solid unicorns along the way. I've actually got a movie night tomorrow night with a nice girl that I've taken on a couple of dates. Been watching your pranks since I was 17, trying to figure out how you get those girls attention. I feel like it's all finally coming together(I'm 20 now)
Dude your videos just have helped me so much. I’ve been able to talk to so many girls with no nerves no more. I feel so confident and I talk to them like I’ve known them for a long time. Things are going are much better now for me now. Love you’re stuff you upload, it’s help me so much and will continue to watch your stuff :)
I met a woman in Chicago one time. She is definitely traditional. If i lived there, we'd be together now. But she is high quality traditional woman. And I met her in person as I just sat next to her at a restaurant.
Part of being a traditional man and not being overlooked by traditional women is not engaging in hookup culture. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. You can’t want a traditional women and then also reap the rewards of hookup culture by having sex with a ton of non traditional women. Sure it’s looked down in society to be a virgin, but a traditional woman will value that and see that you have impulse control. Also, by participating in hookup culture, you are actively a part of the problem that limits the traditional dating pool and makes modern women so unappealing.
Exactly. I think that Denmo misses this point. If a man is engaged in hook up culture he is not going to be what a traditional woman is looking for. Virginity in a man is very sexy because it shows self control and its nice to be able to learn and experience new things together instead of them already having memories of doing that with other people.
@@amyn3705 One of my only criticisms of him. I get that it’s hard to tell an audience of horny men that they shouldn’t have sex though. It requires a lot of discipline that not many people have
Excellent point. For hookup culture to end, there has to be constant push from young people to do it. If we can't, then it's up to the next generation. A great example is cigarettes, the millennial generation, and some of Gen Z pretty much ended the cigarette fad with them.
Thanks man for this video. This sort of opened my mind about all the things I am lacking so far and how can I improve myself in order to find a companion. Right now, I quit my addiction from corn, changed the way I eat food, started new hobbies that are beneficial to my creativity and mentality, and got a new career pathway that looks great on a resume. Thanks again and God bless. 🙏
This was exactly what I needed to hear Jack. Your channel is basically the only one that I watch, as I'm currently on my self-improvement journey and trying to find a girlfriend. Great content as always brother!
Most traditional women aren't using dating apps if they're smart because they've arrived at the same conclusion that a lot of traditional men have- In this instant gratification generation that we're living in, dating apps have to a great extent simply become hookup apps and realistically they're not a reliable way to find marriage material.
@Lee-km7qq You must not understand the meaning of traditional values. If a woman is out there "hooking up" then she's a 304 which is not traditional behavior.
I am fit, im tall and i lift weights I take care of my hair and beard, i have chest hair and i pay attention to how i dress I have a car and a place of my own (its a student apartment but still) I have a career (that is starting, i have a job ready but i need to graduate first) Still, i feel like i have no chance to get a traditional woman, i want one desperately, but holy shit its difficult.
Same here I literally turned my life around and went full chad mode in 1,5 years of hard work, but its borderline impossible to meet someone who resonates with me and my energy and doesnt wave big red flags... My bro met his dream woman over tinder (no joke she's a gem of a wife and they wanted the very same thing from each other) and meanwhile I am going out as much as possible but there is just nobody for me. I also cant talk to every individual with a XX chromosome because its like pure desperation...
@@Kenji-117 I too have high standards, i feel like its a blessing and a curse, its a blessing because it prevents me from getting into a bad relationship, but its a curse because it feels like its impossible to get into ANY relationship. It would be much easier if i could consider literally every woman out there, but i only fall for the ones that are not interested in me while turning down others.
@@bigz5262 Never, im just starting this whole dating thing (literally 0 experience), but i know thats 1 of the next steps i should take, just never seem to find an opporturnity and only afterwards realise that there was an opporturnity.
When I was in a really dark place in my life, I went to a church and the people there welcomed me with open arms even though I wasn't religious. The girls there were traditional but very beautiful. I liked the idea of becoming religious and marrying one of the girls there, but no matter how hard I wanted to believe in Jesus, as a biology student, I couldn't bring myself to believe in something I didn't believe in. So if you guys want to marry a women from church, don't lie to yourself and don't lie to the good people there.
The truth is my guy, is to continuously struggle towards finding God and do this, by denying one's self (IE, rejecting your past self who was in a sinful state and outside the 'flock' of Christ) and to consistently pray. And it's not going to happen immediately or in a short amount of time judging by the background you're coming from.
On the day an amazing and good thing happened to me, I confirmed God exists when a clear voice then said to me “look what I did for you”. I have no problem believing now.
Spoiler, girls who do not go to club, drink and sleep around etc...what the hell they would like to do with a guy who was banging other girls and partying? Do not expect that it will not matter. Be a cool guy or settle down with one of your hook ups. Trad girls do not take these leftovers.
>implying that men can behave like modern vvomen in the first place >implying that men and vvomen are the same Ah, yes, let me just sift through the dozen chicas lined up at my door lmao.
You can’t make me stop watching your videos, Denmo lol. I’ll make that decision. I still really appreciate the message that you’re trying to spread because it’s really needed as you already know. I always hit the like button and to help advance the cause lol. Hopefully, someone else will see it and be quicker to act. As for me, idk, but I still like watching the vids.
So when I was in Moscow this summer I got 2 dates with these graft girls by cold approaching. They both were very beautiful and very traditional and ticked all the details that you mentioned in your podcast. They both were from a small city far away from Moscow but they had just arrived in Moscow for University. I blew both the dates!!!!!!!! I can’t get over that!!! Especially after listen to your podcast and finding out how hard they are to find 😢😢😢
Traditional women are an endangered species in the US lol 😂. But seriously they're out there, but you just have to go out there and find them because they're not online.
You see? THIS is the advice I want from you bro. I want a traditional women. This is the advice I needed. I'm not looking for no one night stand. I want a wife. I want kids bro. I want a damn house. 😂 Thanks Denmo!
This is maybe off topic but I want to point this out. Since I watched one of your videos about turning the phone black and white I remember I just did it without hesitation and since this time I don't feel I miss it how it was before. My phone turned it two times back to normal by itself and it f*cking hurts my eye lmao. I don't miss the color tbh. But the most hilarious thing about this is since I turned off the color and meet any new person, one of the first things they notice is when they see my phone that it has no color and everyone asks me why. I love it lmao
Bonus points: you find a traditional woman who doesn’t promote/condone, and would never engage in homosexuality/polyamorous activity. It’s fine if she respects them as people but no more than that. You found yourself a unicorn. Keep her. The modern world has fucked so many people hard mentally that people think there’s some sort of gay spectrum we exist on where everyone has a little bit in them.
I don't even see that as the biggest issue. There is one and only one issue with vvomen, and that is virginity. The only metric any man looking for trad-adjacent (I prefer that term because individuals are always going to differ a little) vvomen should be checking for 100% of the time is that they're not run-through. You can pretty much seek any other thing you want besides that.
I lucked out and basically got a traditional woman. She has a lot of those characteristics anyway. I think she's super hot too. I wasn't actually looking for someone like that though. I was a virgin and didn't have that much dating experience (kind of did in a way it's complicated) before her and she kind of fell into my life. She is older and divorced, that could be a demographic to check out. Only if that's not a turnoff for you though. She was married to her ex for many years and he was the one who called it off, that's part of the reason I know she's loyal.
Thank you for bringing this this topic forward. Now I better understand why it is difficult to get serious women on dating apps. I am all for traditional relationship, but I think nowadays it should include more work from both gender: men helping with the chores and women being properly educated so they can live in harmony.
church is the answer. i have 2 sisters and they marriage with the only boyfriend they have, and virgins! nowadays this is rare a lot. i left the church and I know how my life got worse, now I'm back to reading the bible and it's been a few weeks since I've watched porn, I'm looking to improve before going back to church and finding a good woman. it's no use approaching women on the street, because hardly a Christian woman is found these days. at the gym all you have are women showing their asses, I work out but I always look away, in everyday life finding a traditional woman is almost impossible
@@jbeezy126 I commented before watching the video, and he literally said that the church is the best place to find this type of woman. religion is still the best path, so much so that feminism and the lgbt agenda have only grown because people are abandoning religion
Yeah but how do we approach them in the church because me as an Christian orthodox I go to church but I don't talk to them only to God and then I leave because you are silent in there you know
I decided to watch this video as a woman to see the perspective of men. You are correct, the Internet highlights the worst of both men and women. It has certainly allowed me to lose hope which I take responsibility for. I’m working on that. But it is so nice to see men in modern times take responsibility. I and a few of my very attractive, traditional, Christian, conservative friends have had unfortunate experiences with men that show up pretending to be the type of man we seek. Unfortunately, these men do their part in ruining good women as I’m sure many women have done their part in ruining good men. I hope one day good traditional men and women can meet somehow. Appreciate your video🤍
There's definitely some things I agree with and some things I disagree with here lol. Overall, he is right that you should have your life together before dating. At the same time, meeting a girl in real life doesn't mean she'll have a lower body count than someone on a dating app. It's just my opinion, lol. Overall, good video. But definitely go to school and get a career going. Learn a valuable skill set that will make you a high income earner. That will definitely boost your confidence in the dating world. And girls love that. Just try not to be too cocky lol. 😅
Being in computer science got me a woman like this, she wanted to work on a project with me as a designer. She was impressed by the project and attracted to me so it was easy and straightforward. Low body count too, though I didn't even care about that. Higher than me though, I was a virgin before her. I lucked out so much.
@gamerunchained1212 That's funny because I am also a software engineer, lol. I already graduated from college with a degree in Broadcast Communications. But I wasn't making enough money and didn't want to go back to college wasting another 2 years, so I decided to switch careers doing a 4 month fullstack coding bootcamp. Now I'm a software engineer for a bank, lol.
@@norbs4004 That's wild, I got an associate's degree in CS and made some projects but still couldn't get hired so I'm doing a bachelors. Will be a junior this next year. That project that I did with her though is fucking legit now, it's like a dating app but for friends :) I better get a solid internship for next summer, already did one but it was unpaid.
Tradwives don't get asked out. I have had 2 men options in my adult years. I was 21 when I had my first relationship and 25 with my current one. Men assume we are taken and never bother to ask.
2 things: You're not a tradwife if you're not married. The traditional term is a maiden. The other thing is networking is a pain on both ends. I'm trying to network with the rural QTs right now, and it's just straight-up hard to meet people, and most of them seem like they don't take outsiders trying to network seriously. I'm not even non-rural--I just moved like 10 years ago and still struggle to network.
Me personally, i just like working on myself and doing my own thing. Im just here cuz i like watching your videos fr. But if these women wanna choose other guys, *LET THEM* in my opinion. They're gonna do what they're gonna do with all the guys she wants. So let them do what they want. They can have those guys, I'm not gonna do all that bs kust to get their attention because if women truly want you and like you they'll know where to find you! I like focusing on my life now instead of worrying about women and their emotional bs tbh.
Feminists ruined how much men make. Men used to make enough to take care of their families even with basic jobs it’s sad. I’m very traditional, all I ever wanted to be was a stay at home mom and raise my family. Should have been born in the 60’s
It's just harder now, not necessarily impossible. I also don't think it's unreasonable at all for vvomen to work part time due to labor saving devices in the home.
I’m new to the channel. Thanks for adding your voice to the conversation about men’s issues. The Redpill and Manosphere guys seem to have the monopoly on the conversation online. Although they make some really good points, they can seem a little extreme at times. Like when it comes to relationship, cultural and social issues I don’t think it is right to place all the blame on women. Men too need to take on some accountability for their actions and acknowledge that they have some agency in their own failures and lack of success with women. Society tells men that women will accept you for who you are on the inside. The conclusion there being that there is no need to further improve upon oneself, which rationalizes laziness. In which case men have no idea what they are doing wrong. It is nice then to have the truth and reality smack you upside the head so one can make some changes. So thank you, I look forward to any other insights you have.
The current manosphere and modern feminism are literally 2 sides of the same coin with their own extremes. Take basic principles about the red pill to heart like focusing on your grind and understanding female nature, but don't ever resent them like alot of clowns who claim they're RP do.
Women are the selectors. They get to decide whose DNA is passed on to the next generation. Not only that, but they must ensure that such children after they are born survive to adulthood so that they can have children too. And so on and so on. To make sure Human genetics stays strong and to ensure the perpetuation of the species. It is quite the responsibility, don’t you think? How is she 100% to blame if you don’t display those other peacock tail feathers? And one does not hone those attributes before hand.
@Lee-km7qq You're saying men don't have their requirements either? So we don't prefer shorter, younger, attractive, in shape women? We don't prefer feminine women who were born in a family oriented home? Women aren't the enemy bro, you're just another bitter incel that's mad that women don't choose you. They don't choose you for a reason, take a closer look in the mirror. Guarantee the issue is you, not them.
As a traditional women this is where I hang out: Libraries Antique stores Church fellowship groups Cafes Small townships (I like the little shops) Book stores Thrift stores Museums Little farms Really anywhere that’s cute, small, and pretty 😅 Less frequently: Green houses Baseball games Local fairs (not that many anymore) Petting zoos/ zoos Galleries Farmers markets
I think my biggest problem with women is being Autistic and ADHD. I only got diagnosed about 2 years ago, so for most of my life I did not know about it.
Traditional woman don't usually exercise. They look soft, juicy and gentle without their veibs popping out fron the weight lifting and countless hiit sessions. They lift kids, walk, make and eat simple and delicious hone food, they spend time grooming themselves, they enjoy women company over guy/gay friend company, they don't their energy competing with people, they pay attention to details and small goals instead of going crazy making money. They don't have a need to win every argument with a man. They like men, but and allow them to be men. They don't look the same as the vast majority of the women population (lip fillers, botoxed cheeks, tattooed eye brows or body parts). The traditional feminibe women are quietly confident and witty without loudness.
Approaching girls in the day outside isn't for me, they could well be party girls or always putting pics of them posing seeking validation, so it's just a time waste of approaching many girls that aren't the type you are after. I think going to classes doing meditation and yoga etc, farmers markets, churches etc are the places to meet more trad people not just a random hottie walking around the shops in the day
Im an older woman but a traditional one in a lot of ways. I live off the grid in a tiny house I built. I do not post photos of myself all over. I dont need the attention. I rarely go out at all. When I do I go to coffee shops and grocery shopping. I never go to bars. Im a bit of a hermit. Anyway, I had a channel sharing my life on UA-cam for a short time and this guy left a comment that said "Id drag my balls across broken glass for you"
@@Denmosocial it's not only this video but all of them, just so happens to currently be a daily wisdom bomb. Knowing we're all in these different stages of tackling similar rather essential problems, and are not alone. A daily reminder of what's kinda actually going on. Not just that, but even more so: in a constructive narrative. Again, genius, simple as that.
Through my life experience, I discovered four possibilities to find traditional women: 1- Join the Amish; 2- Go to the Amazon, pass the bullet ant rite of passage and become a member of the tribe; 3- Find a way to travel to the past; 4- Convince a granny with Alzheimer's to marry you.
It pisses me off how true this is. Everyman is a COUPLE decisions away from getting on the path to the man that gets the girl of their dreams! HAVE SOME DISCIPLINE AND GRIT FOR GOD’S SAKE!
@Denmosocial do you have a video on making money? I have decent Financials but am looking to level myself up but have a full time 7 day a week job. (I've saved up a good amount)
This is great except for the fact that you missed out the part which tells us how to obtain a Time Machine so that we can go back into the past and find one of these women.
I go to a Buddhist meditation class, the usual host wasn't there so another member of staff filled in, I hadn't seen her before, i'd been going for the last three weeks, anyway when i first walked into the reception area ahead of the meditation, i remember thinking she is cute and stylish in her green dress, i later found out she was the host for the night, anyway she sent an email out to us all with more info and so i've got her full name to add her on FB.....I am thinking of adding her and sending her a message on there. This could be one of the great ones and they only come along every 10 years like the great boxers lol, What's a good plan of action
Grew up in a trad community. One that had a culture of pairing the young men raised within it with the young women raised within it. Lots of people in my generation married before 25. No 304s but also, not really open to outsiders.
"Men are trying to spread seed as much as possible because we're probably going to die." Yep, that's a non-negotiable, we're Definitely going to die so we gotta find a fertile soil to incubate the seeds. A world where there's only one Jack Denmo and then he eventually just dies out would be a boring and depressing world. lol. I hope to see some lil Denmos running around one day so that eventually future young lads will have someone wise and entertaining to learn from which will be the next Denmo generation to carry the torch🙂
There is not many of them here in United States, I'm just being honest with you, but they are definitely here, somewhere, even outside the overseas. We all deserve a real love and its out there waiting for us. But in order to do that we to put that aside and work our efforts in our lives first.
I’m 20, live in the country/small small town, work as a junior engineer at a local business that my dad owns, I’m a private pilot working hard to become an airline pilot. I’ve been working out/bulking for the last 6 months. I feel like I have a solid vision for the future me, but I don’t feel like I’m in a position to start dating yet. Am I doing this right? Or should I prioritize dating rn more? I don’t have much time during the week bc of work and studying, and the weekends are usually just me studying/recovering from the week.
American here, I really would love to know how many Millennials or younger do or will eventually be expected to live “a traditional life” man makes the money to afford a house and have wife stay home and raise the kids, there is no way excluding a few top percenters can live like that anymore. I live outside of NYC the housing cost are exploding and we have the highest property tax rate in the whole country. If I doubled my salary overnight I still wouldn’t be able to pay mortgage/taxes/home repair cost plus just saving up for needed items/food/gas/ retirement there is no way a family can run off one working parent anymore unless you choose to live in the cheaper states in the middle of nowhere or really rural areas, which a majority of women will complain about living in and in fairness I get it. What I think the updated goals should be for men, find a woman that is educated, doesn’t just mean schooling but doesn’t have debts(besides student loans) isn’t addicted to social media and other crap and you can actually talk to her about anything, conservative or moderate or hate politics and believes in not fu*king around, dates seriously not casually, doesn’t come from broken house/doesn’t have mental health issues(a lot of that is exaggerated or straight up excuses…) and CAN HOLD A JOB so many women hate working it seems like, sorry traditional life was ruined by feminism and it can’t be reversed get over it. Takes the man and woman to have a family now, financial responsibility is so underrated in todays world, no debt no new cars or leases, trying to get by minimalist and save save save if you aren’t making upper class money you really have to be in that mindset.
Find a woman that doesn’t believe in social media. Also, look at her friends and how they are as people. She may come across as “traditional” to win you over, but she eventually will turn into who she surrounds herself with.
Is there any way to get a girl whose trustworthy and not a hoe, but is also not some uptight "traditional" girl? If I ever marry or whatever I just want someone who I can click with, not some church chick. I'm not particularly liberal or conservative so shit like that turns me off because I want someone who is the same.
That’s tough. The reality is - it’s going to be hard dating someone with different values. Like really hard. You can’t live with someone who you fundamentally disagree with. Atheist women have no reason not to give into their sexual desires, so they are 304s. I highly recommend assessing your own values to find out what you want in a women. This is coming from a conservative. Good luck my friend.
@@equinox2655 It's extremely weird how I never hear people repeating the Pagan reasoning for vvomen to not be 304s: BASIC SELF-RESPECT. Seriously, what is the deal, English-speaking world? It's painfully obvious that such behavior is not self-respecting.
Yo denmo while I don't agree with you on everything I think you're reminding young men of a way to accept the modern world. In part because of your reminders or teachings I got two numbers in one day talked to three other woman. One is extremely hot, and intelligent she first said "normally people wouldn't even walk up to me people are addicted to their phones" I them proceeded to flirt with her on transit while 4 men watched, it made me nervous she even commented that people are staring. That isn't a flex either it's just that I normally wouldn't i gave too much of a shit thought online dating meant I had zero attractive qualities. But we were smiling ear to ear the whole time. Quitting dating apps stopping porn is key. And it's so much more fun to just meet girls. Anyone reading this go outside man
If you want to meet a sea of traditional woman trained up to be a good wife to you and a loving mother to your children, join the LDS Church. It's a great deal for guys.
Anything over 5 is gross, I don’t give af about averages. 10 might as well be 20 and 30 and all the way to 100. Couldn’t find the love of their life out of the 10 dudes they had inside them, they are ho3s. Once a ho3 always a ho3, Canadians are inherently cucks so they think fucking 10 dudes before 30 years old is considered conservative, and gladly wife up a girl “done” with her ho3 phase bs.
I've been thinking about relationships alot, and a question came and i'm trying to figure it out... Do women struggle to find someone for a date/relationship? becouse for me it seams much more like a man problem, like, if you are a shy/introvert man, you'll probably have some hard time to start a conversation and make someone interested with you. But in case you are a shy women this isnt a problem at all. Idk its just my perspective, what do you guys think?
@@mya6928 True, watching a video today I realized that the current generation and generations to come need to stop labeling social interactions, nowadays many things are called cringe or weird, when they are nothing like that. The solution, in my opinion, is to be more flexible when talking to people you don't know without automatic judgment, to be generous as well. Maybe these things I mentioned happen in big cities, I'm from São Paulo, a city with more than 12 million people, so I believe that similar situations happen in other big cities around the world.
Check for scar tissue around the holes. Check for the thousand c*ck stare also. Never accept tats or too much age. Check the family. Check backstories. Ditch any of them caught lying. That weeds out almost all of the 304s.
Hey man I agree with some of what you say. But A lot of your advice works better if you live out in the country or not in a big or middle sized city. I know you are giving your personal experience but the last example you used of finding and meeting foreign girls in your own country only works in the situation you were explaining. I still like most of your advice. Dating and love is just so frustrating even if you do have your shit together. sometimes is doesn’t feel worth it after getting rejected or feeling invisible long enough. I know you felt like that earlier in life but it’s hard when you have been starved of intimacy and or sex for so long.
Just a correction : yes ,we tradwomen use social media like Instagram but not for posting attention seeking pictures, rather so that we can follow pages that inspire us. Like cooking pages, gardening, parenting, fashion, interior decor, fitness etc. so yes we follow people.
I like posting projects I do at home. I just want someone to share the appreciation I have for what I’m working on or finished.
Agreed! I also post content like that or just pictures of animals.
Lemme tell you. I've been putting in the work for 3 years and I'm still only now in my late 20's finding a path, the education and discipline required to walk it, and the ability to stay consistent and get to where I need to be. Honestly it's good to stay alone and work hard rather than end up with a low quality/abusive woman. It can set you back years. I was stuck for 6 years before I wised up and left MY toxic ex. To the younger guys here, work hard, stay consistent, and stay away from the low quality women that will do everything they can to pull you to their level. Put in the work, feel people and ladies out, and you'll find a good one.
Sure you will
Women crave male attention. They get dopamine hits to their brain from. It is like a drug, they always crave. Especially when they are young. You give them a little too much they get addicted and expect more and more. Unintentional or not it is how they end up uncaringly wasting huge amounts of your time.
be positive, he is just helping out.@@mattm.5436
well said bro keep up the good work
This right here. The ONLY sacrifice is when you do have a child one day, you'll be older. For example when they turn 20, you'll be in your 50s. If that doesn't bother you, then it's no problem at all. Men in their late 20s and even 30s can still attract women in their 20s easily .
Cant wait to come to your wedding and hook up with your stepsister bro www.denmo.social/socializer
lol
Insane
Lol jokes on you don't have one. Though I have a secret uncle
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If you want a traditional women, you have to provide
Absolutely.
Well, yeah, we are the hunter gathers
@@TheBlessedQueen2000😂
Its a bit dangerous to tell your subscribers to go to church to find chicks. There's no point in going to church if you don't believe in god, and you don't really want to be a part of it except to get chick's.
To get a traditional woman, you need to become a traditional man living a traditional life!
Facts
I would say if you already go to church or are religious, maybe the women that are going there are good honest trads and since your already there don’t be scared to talk to one of them but I get your point, don’t go there specifically for women but go there for Holy reasons and you may or may not meet an angel in the process. The sad part is most of the women that go to church around me go in there all dressed up, take some selfies, then leave immediately after or don’t take it at all seriously and most nowadays don’t act decent once they walk out them doors 😂🤦🏼♂️
Well its not a bad idea to accept Christ in your heart. Church is what we all need
@@thekreativeculture9642 christ insanity is not traditional and certainly not European in any way.
@@philspaghetright I’ve possibly severed all chance I have to get in God’s grace again (long story) but I don’t think it’s morally right to date a believer as a nonbeliever. Reason being is because of the command from the quote that says “do not be unequivocally yoked with an unbeliever”
lately i’ve been trying to grow my social circle, and improve my confidence with approaching people mainly women. idk if i’ve gone at it the right way though, i’ve been going out every weekend for the past few months since i’ve been watching these videos and some others about socializing and dating. doing so, i have met new friends and now i’ve actually got a couple female friends who i meet other women through and doing it that way feels much better and more genuine and since it’s warmer approach i feel more comfortable being myself considering her friend has a good impression of me already. now though i think i’m going to go monk, work on myself get into the gym and save money so that i can grow my value and then start hanging out again.
I'd say don't let your current social circle die out. At least filter out the real ones to keep in touch with every jnce in a while. Other than that focus on your purpose man
Watching your videos as a college student studying technology, I realize that although I consider myself a well-rounded man in terms of my values, even though I have great “this dude can provide” credentials on paper, I don’t have the follow through or mental consistency yet to fight for the things I believe in on a daily basis; being a traditional guy and falling in love with a traditional woman in the best sense of the word traditional. I’m going to start leaving comments on your videos when I watch them to hold myself accountable since I’ve been Melvining your vids recently. Cheers
32:28 “ why are you pursuing women at all if you don’t have your life together” Because the crippling loneliness is twisting my mind and devouring my soul that’s why
fair enough brother I support you
What a turnaround
Thats the funny part: if they sense your desperation they'll leave asap. Dont make another person the center of your happiness. I know its hard but I know what I am talking about. I am 25 now and never was really in love with someone and never had a gf. It was always mostly that I had a bad taste in women, tried to make it work with someone who just wasnt for me or that I was too immature / non masculine which always lead to failure... I am now hyperfocused on becomming the best version of myself and resisting the urge to NEED a girl because magic will happen as soon as youre finally whole again and fixed your mental and physical state. When this happens someone will sense your positive aura and the right girl will take advantage of it and see you as a right partner. trust me man I've seen this many many times with other people.
@@Kenji-117 Thank you Virgil very cool you should pay Neroes child support tho .guess I just gotta give up on that hug I always wanted ohh well Time to challenge Deontay Wilder to a fist fight🗿
Dude I get you, but the worse part is that if you are not OK by yourself the girls will notice and will not be attracted, i know it's hard I've been there, i got dumped because I was to needy too insecure, when I was left alone with my thoughts for months I felt like I was going crazy but then something broke inside me and make realize that if I'm not felling ok things must change, so i got into improvement, you already know what i'm going to say.. gym, reading, listening to educational podcast, tedtalks, improving my financial situation, making good plans and sticking to it, when you get to do all these and more you will feel truly secure inside and women will notice, when they trow you shit test consciously or in consciously and you will not care because you will know you're worth a lot and past then, that's very important, keep going you can do it
Been using your guidelines. I got my shit together, and am now studying engineering. Hooked up with some club girls and all but found some solid unicorns along the way. I've actually got a movie night tomorrow night with a nice girl that I've taken on a couple of dates. Been watching your pranks since I was 17, trying to figure out how you get those girls attention. I feel like it's all finally coming together(I'm 20 now)
Well done young man
Well done this is what accountability looks like
Dude your videos just have helped me so much. I’ve been able to talk to so many girls with no nerves no more. I feel so confident and I talk to them like I’ve known them for a long time. Things are going are much better now for me now. Love you’re stuff you upload, it’s help me so much and will continue to watch your stuff :)
I met a woman in Chicago one time. She is definitely traditional. If i lived there, we'd be together now. But she is high quality traditional woman. And I met her in person as I just sat next to her at a restaurant.
Part of being a traditional man and not being overlooked by traditional women is not engaging in hookup culture. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. You can’t want a traditional women and then also reap the rewards of hookup culture by having sex with a ton of non traditional women. Sure it’s looked down in society to be a virgin, but a traditional woman will value that and see that you have impulse control. Also, by participating in hookup culture, you are actively a part of the problem that limits the traditional dating pool and makes modern women so unappealing.
Exactly. I think that Denmo misses this point. If a man is engaged in hook up culture he is not going to be what a traditional woman is looking for. Virginity in a man is very sexy because it shows self control and its nice to be able to learn and experience new things together instead of them already having memories of doing that with other people.
@@amyn3705 One of my only criticisms of him. I get that it’s hard to tell an audience of horny men that they shouldn’t have sex though. It requires a lot of discipline that not many people have
Excellent point. For hookup culture to end, there has to be constant push from young people to do it. If we can't, then it's up to the next generation. A great example is cigarettes, the millennial generation, and some of Gen Z pretty much ended the cigarette fad with them.
100% a traditional woman will look at a fuckboy the same us guys look at promiscuous women, with disgust.
Society today is like a high school who belittled us for being old fashioned
"Ever see James Bond wearing a graphic tee?" so true lmao
lmao
Thanks man for this video. This sort of opened my mind about all the things I am lacking so far and how can I improve myself in order to find a companion. Right now, I quit my addiction from corn, changed the way I eat food, started new hobbies that are beneficial to my creativity and mentality, and got a new career pathway that looks great on a resume. Thanks again and God bless. 🙏
This was exactly what I needed to hear Jack. Your channel is basically the only one that I watch, as I'm currently on my self-improvement journey and trying to find a girlfriend. Great content as always brother!
I've been WAITING for this video! I'm a Christian man looking for a woman and honestly a lot of your advice is like half effective for me
boom welcome to the community homie
honestly I’d guess getting involved in parish events are the best ways to meet women but idk
I'm 16 yrs old brother, thank you for the great content, was so excited for this video, will definitely watch and re-watch, thank you Denmo
Most traditional women aren't using dating apps if they're smart because they've arrived at the same conclusion that a lot of traditional men have-
In this instant gratification generation that we're living in, dating apps have to a great extent simply become hookup apps and realistically they're not a reliable way to find marriage material.
@Lee-km7qq
You must not understand the meaning of traditional values. If a woman is out there "hooking up" then she's a 304 which is not traditional behavior.
@Lee-km7qq I don't think you know what traditional means
That's not even the real issue. The real issue is that they are a scam to begin with.
I am fit, im tall and i lift weights
I take care of my hair and beard, i have chest hair and i pay attention to how i dress
I have a car and a place of my own (its a student apartment but still)
I have a career (that is starting, i have a job ready but i need to graduate first)
Still, i feel like i have no chance to get a traditional woman, i want one desperately, but holy shit its difficult.
Same here I literally turned my life around and went full chad mode in 1,5 years of hard work, but its borderline impossible to meet someone who resonates with me and my energy and doesnt wave big red flags... My bro met his dream woman over tinder (no joke she's a gem of a wife and they wanted the very same thing from each other) and meanwhile I am going out as much as possible but there is just nobody for me. I also cant talk to every individual with a XX chromosome because its like pure desperation...
@@Kenji-117 I too have high standards, i feel like its a blessing and a curse, its a blessing because it prevents me from getting into a bad relationship, but its a curse because it feels like its impossible to get into ANY relationship.
It would be much easier if i could consider literally every woman out there, but i only fall for the ones that are not interested in me while turning down others.
When was the last time you asked out a stranger?
@@bigz5262 Never, im just starting this whole dating thing (literally 0 experience), but i know thats 1 of the next steps i should take, just never seem to find an opporturnity and only afterwards realise that there was an opporturnity.
Where are you from?
Love you man. (No homo) asked for this yesterday, dropped it today
Legend
i gotchu bro
Was soo exited for this♥️ love you Denmo your videos have helped me soo much
let me know if you like it
When I was in a really dark place in my life, I went to a church and the people there welcomed me with open arms even though I wasn't religious. The girls there were traditional but very beautiful. I liked the idea of becoming religious and marrying one of the girls there, but no matter how hard I wanted to believe in Jesus, as a biology student, I couldn't bring myself to believe in something I didn't believe in. So if you guys want to marry a women from church, don't lie to yourself and don't lie to the good people there.
The truth is my guy, is to continuously struggle towards finding God and do this, by denying one's self (IE, rejecting your past self who was in a sinful state and outside the 'flock' of Christ) and to consistently pray. And it's not going to happen immediately or in a short amount of time judging by the background you're coming from.
I have a Phd in cellular molecular biology, and the more I study the more I realize God exists.
You’re simply using “biology” as an excuse.
THANKFULLY I'M CHRISTIAN. It's a blessing, I believe in the Bible :) Thankfully I have this awesome community.
On the day an amazing and good thing happened to me, I confirmed God exists when a clear voice then said to me “look what I did for you”. I have no problem believing now.
I love these full guides that I’ve been recently seeing from Hamza and now you. I hope they take over the internet
Spoiler, girls who do not go to club, drink and sleep around etc...what the hell they would like to do with a guy who was banging other girls and partying?
Do not expect that it will not matter.
Be a cool guy or settle down with one of your hook ups. Trad girls do not take these leftovers.
Trad girls have a screw loose.
No shit Sherlock
@@zsedcftglkjhnah modern girls do
That's a point that many, if not most, men ignore. They have to master their urges if they want to succeed at being a traditional man.
>implying that men can behave like modern vvomen in the first place
>implying that men and vvomen are the same
Ah, yes, let me just sift through the dozen chicas lined up at my door lmao.
Denmo could not have said it better. For the men trying to become something in life. Thank you Denmo for the video.
You can’t make me stop watching your videos, Denmo lol. I’ll make that decision. I still really appreciate the message that you’re trying to spread because it’s really needed as you already know. I always hit the like button and to help advance the cause lol. Hopefully, someone else will see it and be quicker to act. As for me, idk, but I still like watching the vids.
Get off this channel
How is this free? Amazing guide. Love the content bro
im here to help. if you need my help personally you can get my courses in my socializer community
So when I was in Moscow this summer I got 2 dates with these graft girls by cold approaching. They both were very beautiful and very traditional and ticked all the details that you mentioned in your podcast. They both were from a small city far away from Moscow but they had just arrived in Moscow for University. I blew both the dates!!!!!!!! I can’t get over that!!! Especially after listen to your podcast and finding out how hard they are to find 😢😢😢
Так тебе и надо, инцел
Been waiting for this. This will be a banger for sure!
Traditional women are an endangered species in the US lol 😂. But seriously they're out there, but you just have to go out there and find them because they're not online.
And have money lol
@@Jedilord882 no you don't need money, you just need to find them, traditional woman aren't online they are in traditional churches.
You see? THIS is the advice I want from you bro. I want a traditional women. This is the advice I needed. I'm not looking for no one night stand. I want a wife. I want kids bro. I want a damn house. 😂 Thanks Denmo!
love how real you are. keep up the great work
This is maybe off topic but I want to point this out. Since I watched one of your videos about turning the phone black and white I remember I just did it without hesitation and since this time I don't feel I miss it how it was before. My phone turned it two times back to normal by itself and it f*cking hurts my eye lmao. I don't miss the color tbh. But the most hilarious thing about this is since I turned off the color and meet any new person, one of the first things they notice is when they see my phone that it has no color and everyone asks me why. I love it lmao
Bonus points: you find a traditional woman who doesn’t promote/condone, and would never engage in homosexuality/polyamorous activity. It’s fine if she respects them as people but no more than that. You found yourself a unicorn. Keep her. The modern world has fucked so many people hard mentally that people think there’s some sort of gay spectrum we exist on where everyone has a little bit in them.
I don't even see that as the biggest issue. There is one and only one issue with vvomen, and that is virginity. The only metric any man looking for trad-adjacent (I prefer that term because individuals are always going to differ a little) vvomen should be checking for 100% of the time is that they're not run-through. You can pretty much seek any other thing you want besides that.
I lucked out and basically got a traditional woman. She has a lot of those characteristics anyway. I think she's super hot too. I wasn't actually looking for someone like that though. I was a virgin and didn't have that much dating experience (kind of did in a way it's complicated) before her and she kind of fell into my life. She is older and divorced, that could be a demographic to check out. Only if that's not a turnoff for you though. She was married to her ex for many years and he was the one who called it off, that's part of the reason I know she's loyal.
Thank you for bringing this this topic forward. Now I better understand why it is difficult to get serious women on dating apps.
I am all for traditional relationship, but I think nowadays it should include more work from both gender: men helping with the chores and women being properly educated so they can live in harmony.
hey jack nice vid! I just have a question, how much would be a low body count? imo it would be around 0-5 but idrk uu
the best channel on dating for guys. focus on making yourself exceptional so you are confident to talk to women n they are attracted to you
Have you overdose yourself with copium?........simp......
Thank you sir, for reassuring the path that I need to take on. And man the facts are brutal, great video sir.
Cutting video games out of your life is such a pro gamer move. You will immediately have the time needed to become a man.
Underrated comment.
For real though. Once i started focusing on my goals i havent had the time or interest to play video games
Day by day denmo your thumbnail are 🔥🔥. You are looking handsome
This was interesting and so entertaining lol. Thanks for your insights.
glad you enjoyed bro
church is the answer. i have 2 sisters and they marriage with the only boyfriend they have, and virgins! nowadays this is rare a lot. i left the church and I know how my life got worse, now I'm back to reading the bible and it's been a few weeks since I've watched porn, I'm looking to improve before going back to church and finding a good woman. it's no use approaching women on the street, because hardly a Christian woman is found these days. at the gym all you have are women showing their asses, I work out but I always look away, in everyday life finding a traditional woman is almost impossible
You could do all of that without religion
Most people who attend church are retarded though too. And every church I've seen is a sea of silver haired people.
@@jbeezy126 I commented before watching the video, and he literally said that the church is the best place to find this type of woman. religion is still the best path, so much so that feminism and the lgbt agenda have only grown because people are abandoning religion
Yeah but how do we approach them in the church because me as an Christian orthodox I go to church but I don't talk to them only to God and then I leave because you are silent in there you know
@HL.Trollkinhurry
I decided to watch this video as a woman to see the perspective of men. You are correct, the Internet highlights the worst of both men and women. It has certainly allowed me to lose hope which I take responsibility for. I’m working on that. But it is so nice to see men in modern times take responsibility. I and a few of my very attractive, traditional, Christian, conservative friends have had unfortunate experiences with men that show up pretending to be the type of man we seek. Unfortunately, these men do their part in ruining good women as I’m sure many women have done their part in ruining good men. I hope one day good traditional men and women can meet somehow. Appreciate your video🤍
There's definitely some things I agree with and some things I disagree with here lol. Overall, he is right that you should have your life together before dating. At the same time, meeting a girl in real life doesn't mean she'll have a lower body count than someone on a dating app. It's just my opinion, lol.
Overall, good video. But definitely go to school and get a career going. Learn a valuable skill set that will make you a high income earner. That will definitely boost your confidence in the dating world. And girls love that. Just try not to be too cocky lol. 😅
Being in computer science got me a woman like this, she wanted to work on a project with me as a designer. She was impressed by the project and attracted to me so it was easy and straightforward. Low body count too, though I didn't even care about that. Higher than me though, I was a virgin before her. I lucked out so much.
@gamerunchained1212 That's funny because I am also a software engineer, lol. I already graduated from college with a degree in Broadcast Communications. But I wasn't making enough money and didn't want to go back to college wasting another 2 years, so I decided to switch careers doing a 4 month fullstack coding bootcamp. Now I'm a software engineer for a bank, lol.
@@norbs4004 That's wild, I got an associate's degree in CS and made some projects but still couldn't get hired so I'm doing a bachelors. Will be a junior this next year.
That project that I did with her though is fucking legit now, it's like a dating app but for friends :) I better get a solid internship for next summer, already did one but it was unpaid.
Good things can still come,
even to those who are late.
Don't give up the good fight!
Tradwives don't get asked out. I have had 2 men options in my adult years. I was 21 when I had my first relationship and 25 with my current one. Men assume we are taken and never bother to ask.
2 things: You're not a tradwife if you're not married. The traditional term is a maiden. The other thing is networking is a pain on both ends. I'm trying to network with the rural QTs right now, and it's just straight-up hard to meet people, and most of them seem like they don't take outsiders trying to network seriously. I'm not even non-rural--I just moved like 10 years ago and still struggle to network.
Me personally, i just like working on myself and doing my own thing. Im just here cuz i like watching your videos fr. But if these women wanna choose other guys, *LET THEM* in my opinion. They're gonna do what they're gonna do with all the guys she wants. So let them do what they want. They can have those guys, I'm not gonna do all that bs kust to get their attention because if women truly want you and like you they'll know where to find you! I like focusing on my life now instead of worrying about women and their emotional bs tbh.
“You won’t find steak in a vegan restaurant” is how I look at it
Lets go hamzas style is spreading
New viewer to this channel. Great content!!!
Feminists ruined how much men make. Men used to make enough to take care of their families even with basic jobs it’s sad. I’m very traditional, all I ever wanted to be was a stay at home mom and raise my family. Should have been born in the 60’s
It's just harder now, not necessarily impossible. I also don't think it's unreasonable at all for vvomen to work part time due to labor saving devices in the home.
I'm a traditional woman and I'm proud of it....
I’m new to the channel. Thanks for adding your voice to the conversation about men’s issues.
The Redpill and Manosphere guys seem to have the monopoly on the conversation online. Although they make some really good points, they can seem a little extreme at times. Like when it comes to relationship, cultural and social issues I don’t think it is right to place all the blame on women. Men too need to take on some accountability for their actions and acknowledge that they have some agency in their own failures and lack of success with women.
Society tells men that women will accept you for who you are on the inside. The conclusion there being that there is no need to further improve upon oneself, which rationalizes laziness. In which case men have no idea what they are doing wrong. It is nice then to have the truth and reality smack you upside the head so one can make some changes.
So thank you, I look forward to any other insights you have.
The current manosphere and modern feminism are literally 2 sides of the same coin with their own extremes. Take basic principles about the red pill to heart like focusing on your grind and understanding female nature, but don't ever resent them like alot of clowns who claim they're RP do.
Women are the selectors. They get to decide whose DNA is passed on to the next generation. Not only that, but they must ensure that such children after they are born survive to adulthood so that they can have children too. And so on and so on. To make sure Human genetics stays strong and to ensure the perpetuation of the species.
It is quite the responsibility, don’t you think? How is she 100% to blame if you don’t display those other peacock tail feathers? And one does not hone those attributes before hand.
@Lee-km7qq You're saying men don't have their requirements either? So we don't prefer shorter, younger, attractive, in shape women? We don't prefer feminine women who were born in a family oriented home?
Women aren't the enemy bro, you're just another bitter incel that's mad that women don't choose you. They don't choose you for a reason, take a closer look in the mirror. Guarantee the issue is you, not them.
@Lee-km7qqWhy should a woman struggle with a man ? Do u hear how dumb that sounds 😂
@@robholleb9896 Dude, please. Vvomen are the ones failing in their role.
As a traditional women this is where I hang out:
Libraries
Antique stores
Church fellowship groups
Cafes
Small townships (I like the little shops)
Book stores
Thrift stores
Museums
Little farms
Really anywhere that’s cute, small, and pretty 😅
Less frequently:
Green houses
Baseball games
Local fairs (not that many anymore)
Petting zoos/ zoos
Galleries
Farmers markets
Zen with denmo=zenmo
I think my biggest problem with women is being Autistic and ADHD. I only got diagnosed about 2 years ago, so for most of my life I did not know about it.
U should do a video about Canada during the pandemic
I dont want "traditional" i just want someone i like
Thank you for your content, you’re an amazing guy
Traditional woman don't usually exercise. They look soft, juicy and gentle without their veibs popping out fron the weight lifting and countless hiit sessions. They lift kids, walk, make and eat simple and delicious hone food, they spend time grooming themselves, they enjoy women company over guy/gay friend company, they don't their energy competing with people, they pay attention to details and small goals instead of going crazy making money. They don't have a need to win every argument with a man. They like men, but and allow them to be men. They don't look the same as the vast majority of the women population (lip fillers, botoxed cheeks, tattooed eye brows or body parts). The traditional feminibe women are quietly confident and witty without loudness.
That's cope. Just meet them at church.
False. They always got exercise. Tats are an automatic deal breaker in any form though because they signal impurity.
Approaching girls in the day outside isn't for me, they could well be party girls or always putting pics of them posing seeking validation, so it's just a time waste of approaching many girls that aren't the type you are after. I think going to classes doing meditation and yoga etc, farmers markets, churches etc are the places to meet more trad people not just a random hottie walking around the shops in the day
i went to a couple of churches in my city. Its just old people. rarely any under 30s AND single
Exactly that advice is done and I don’t respect a lot of the churches anymore, religion is dying…
Christ insanity is a disease for sure. I would definitely be fine with courting QTs out of a Pagan Kindred though.
Im an older woman but a traditional one in a lot of ways. I live off the grid in a tiny house I built. I do not post photos of myself all over. I dont need the attention. I rarely go out at all. When I do I go to coffee shops and grocery shopping. I never go to bars. Im a bit of a hermit. Anyway, I had a channel sharing my life on UA-cam for a short time and this guy left a comment that said "Id drag my balls across broken glass for you"
Virtue signaling at its finest..........
This was a good one
Genius insight, simple as that.
glad this video helped you mate
@@Denmosocial it's not only this video but all of them, just so happens to currently be a daily wisdom bomb.
Knowing we're all in these different stages of tackling similar rather essential problems, and are not alone.
A daily reminder of what's kinda actually going on. Not just that, but even more so: in a constructive narrative.
Again, genius, simple as that.
Through my life experience, I discovered four possibilities to find traditional women:
1- Join the Amish;
2- Go to the Amazon, pass the bullet ant rite of passage and become a member of the tribe;
3- Find a way to travel to the past;
4- Convince a granny with Alzheimer's to marry you.
Lmao those hypotheticals are crazy
Move overseas
@@jB..33b854 lol
Join the Amish😂
@Lee-km7qq There, you go. Just spread that hopelessness around like smooth butter. The more, the better.
They're at Barnes and Noble
lmao im from canada we dont have em here but ive heard that
I've been waiting for this.
send it to your friends brother
It pisses me off how true this is. Everyman is a COUPLE decisions away from getting on the path to the man that gets the girl of their dreams! HAVE SOME DISCIPLINE AND GRIT FOR GOD’S SAKE!
we all gonna make it
Bs im nearly 30. No way to fix my life lol
nah you got plenty of time bro.. don't let your age hold you back
@Denmosocial do you have a video on making money? I have decent Financials but am looking to level myself up but have a full time 7 day a week job. (I've saved up a good amount)
I love how you phrased this. That’s so true. We are only a few decisions away from truly changing our lives and becoming the man we NEED to be.
This is great except for the fact that you missed out the part which tells us how to obtain a Time Machine so that we can go back into the past and find one of these women.
Traditional women exist.
I go to a Buddhist meditation class, the usual host wasn't there so another member of staff filled in, I hadn't seen her before, i'd been going for the last three weeks, anyway when i first walked into the reception area ahead of the meditation, i remember thinking she is cute and stylish in her green dress, i later found out she was the host for the night, anyway she sent an email out to us all with more info and so i've got her full name to add her on FB.....I am thinking of adding her and sending her a message on there. This could be one of the great ones and they only come along every 10 years like the great boxers lol, What's a good plan of action
The "plan" is talk to the chica if you want. There is such thing as planning, you just need to have the nerve to go for it.
Grew up in a trad community. One that had a culture of pairing the young men raised within it with the young women raised within it. Lots of people in my generation married before 25. No 304s but also, not really open to outsiders.
Yeah, that's where I'm trying to network in my 30s. It is definitely challenging, but I would do any amount of work to not deal with 304s.
"Men are trying to spread seed as much as possible because we're probably going to die."
Yep, that's a non-negotiable,
we're Definitely going to die so we gotta find a fertile soil to incubate the seeds.
A world where there's only one Jack Denmo and then he eventually just dies out would be a boring and depressing world. lol.
I hope to see some lil Denmos running around one day so that eventually future young lads will have someone wise and entertaining to learn from which will be the next Denmo generation to carry the torch🙂
There is not many of them here in United States, I'm just being honest with you, but they are definitely here, somewhere, even outside the overseas. We all deserve a real love and its out there waiting for us. But in order to do that we to put that aside and work our efforts in our lives first.
this is a mad w viddd💯
send it to your friends if it helped you brother
@@Denmosocial i will
I’m 20, live in the country/small small town, work as a junior engineer at a local business that my dad owns, I’m a private pilot working hard to become an airline pilot. I’ve been working out/bulking for the last 6 months. I feel like I have a solid vision for the future me, but I don’t feel like I’m in a position to start dating yet. Am I doing this right? Or should I prioritize dating rn more? I don’t have much time during the week bc of work and studying, and the weekends are usually just me studying/recovering from the week.
American here, I really would love to know how many Millennials or younger do or will eventually be expected to live “a traditional life” man makes the money to afford a house and have wife stay home and raise the kids, there is no way excluding a few top percenters can live like that anymore. I live outside of NYC the housing cost are exploding and we have the highest property tax rate in the whole country. If I doubled my salary overnight I still wouldn’t be able to pay mortgage/taxes/home repair cost plus just saving up for needed items/food/gas/ retirement there is no way a family can run off one working parent anymore unless you choose to live in the cheaper states in the middle of nowhere or really rural areas, which a majority of women will complain about living in and in fairness I get it.
What I think the updated goals should be for men, find a woman that is educated, doesn’t just mean schooling but doesn’t have debts(besides student loans) isn’t addicted to social media and other crap and you can actually talk to her about anything, conservative or moderate or hate politics and believes in not fu*king around, dates seriously not casually, doesn’t come from broken house/doesn’t have mental health issues(a lot of that is exaggerated or straight up excuses…) and CAN HOLD A JOB so many women hate working it seems like, sorry traditional life was ruined by feminism and it can’t be reversed get over it. Takes the man and woman to have a family now, financial responsibility is so underrated in todays world, no debt no new cars or leases, trying to get by minimalist and save save save if you aren’t making upper class money you really have to be in that mindset.
Find a woman that doesn’t believe in social media. Also, look at her friends and how they are as people. She may come across as “traditional” to win you over, but she eventually will turn into who she surrounds herself with.
Biggest factor is her family life and if she has “mental health issues” many people outgrow their friends over time.
Is there any way to get a girl whose trustworthy and not a hoe, but is also not some uptight "traditional" girl? If I ever marry or whatever I just want someone who I can click with, not some church chick. I'm not particularly liberal or conservative so shit like that turns me off because I want someone who is the same.
That’s tough. The reality is - it’s going to be hard dating someone with different values. Like really hard. You can’t live with someone who you fundamentally disagree with. Atheist women have no reason not to give into their sexual desires, so they are 304s. I highly recommend assessing your own values to find out what you want in a women. This is coming from a conservative. Good luck my friend.
@@equinox2655 It's extremely weird how I never hear people repeating the Pagan reasoning for vvomen to not be 304s: BASIC SELF-RESPECT. Seriously, what is the deal, English-speaking world? It's painfully obvious that such behavior is not self-respecting.
@@HateBear-real but they consider it “liberating”
More full guide brother 👍
join my socializer group it has 20+ hours of guides like this
Here's a video idea - how to meet people in a small town.
Now you can't say I'm a hater because I offered a suggestion.
Thank you
Let’s go, been attracting a lot of women but I cannot discern between the hood and the bad. Need this
Yo denmo while I don't agree with you on everything I think you're reminding young men of a way to accept the modern world. In part because of your reminders or teachings I got two numbers in one day talked to three other woman. One is extremely hot, and intelligent she first said "normally people wouldn't even walk up to me people are addicted to their phones" I them proceeded to flirt with her on transit while 4 men watched, it made me nervous she even commented that people are staring. That isn't a flex either it's just that I normally wouldn't i gave too much of a shit thought online dating meant I had zero attractive qualities. But we were smiling ear to ear the whole time. Quitting dating apps stopping porn is key. And it's so much more fun to just meet girls. Anyone reading this go outside man
9:24 I know better than to do something repeatedly that has never worked once. We call that insanity.
Since i watched little house in the prairer that had been my dream family
homeboy be insulting me the entire video and it motivates me haha
If you want to meet a sea of traditional woman trained up to be a good wife to you and a loving mother to your children, join the LDS Church. It's a great deal for guys.
This was really, really, really valuable man.
Definetely easier if you are religious.
Pretty silly question Denmo, but what constitutes as a low body count in your opinion?
tough to say, depends by age, location, etc. But anything under 10 in the west is considered decent
Anything over 5 is gross, I don’t give af about averages.
10 might as well be 20 and 30 and all the way to 100.
Couldn’t find the love of their life out of the 10 dudes they had inside them, they are ho3s.
Once a ho3 always a ho3, Canadians are inherently cucks so they think fucking 10 dudes before 30 years old is considered conservative, and gladly wife up a girl “done” with her ho3 phase bs.
@@Denmosocial I'm gonna kill myself
Is there an installment payment option to pay the 599$ for socializer before starting the monthly subscription?
Why is the thumbnail: Denmo asking out his twin sister?
stepsis stoppp
I've been thinking about relationships alot, and a question came and i'm trying to figure it out... Do women struggle to find someone for a date/relationship? becouse for me it seams much more like a man problem, like, if you are a shy/introvert man, you'll probably have some hard time to start a conversation and make someone interested with you. But in case you are a shy women this isnt a problem at all. Idk its just my perspective, what do you guys think?
It's not just a guy problem. I think its just hard in general these days.
@@mya6928 True, watching a video today I realized that the current generation and generations to come need to stop labeling social interactions, nowadays many things are called cringe or weird, when they are nothing like that. The solution, in my opinion, is to be more flexible when talking to people you don't know without automatic judgment, to be generous as well.
Maybe these things I mentioned happen in big cities, I'm from São Paulo, a city with more than 12 million people, so I believe that similar situations happen in other big cities around the world.
That AI thumbnail is dope
if i live in florida, what should i wear instead
How can u tell if she’s being honest about her body count
Check for scar tissue around the holes. Check for the thousand c*ck stare also. Never accept tats or too much age. Check the family. Check backstories. Ditch any of them caught lying. That weeds out almost all of the 304s.
Hey man I agree with some of what you say. But A lot of your advice works better if you live out in the country or not in a big or middle sized city. I know you are giving your personal experience but the last example you used of finding and meeting foreign girls in your own country only works in the situation you were explaining. I still like most of your advice. Dating and love is just so frustrating even if you do have your shit together. sometimes is doesn’t feel worth it after getting rejected or feeling invisible long enough. I know you felt like that earlier in life but it’s hard when you have been starved of intimacy and or sex for so long.
friend met his wife on bumble, probably the most traditional women I have known. exceptions exist.