How To Attract The Right Partner

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  • Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
  • In this episode, I'm diving into the truth about choosing the right partner in life. It's not about looks or superficial desires. If you're out there swiping left and right, looking for attention, you're doing it all wrong. Because it's possible to find someone who shares your vision and values. But first you need to stop wasting your time on people who don't want to be saved or fixed. Focus on yourself by becoming whole, mastering yourself, and then finding the right woman or man.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 118

  • @mayamaranz2532
    @mayamaranz2532 Рік тому +180

    As a girl, trying to find someone who values connection, standards, and like minded thoughts has been a huge battle filled with a lot of loneliness. It is nice to know there is a community here where we are likeminded.

    • @romanpapec6735
      @romanpapec6735 Рік тому +9

      As a guy the same thing applies.

    • @StArkyBuildZ
      @StArkyBuildZ Рік тому +8

      As the guy I feel the same thing too

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 Рік тому

      They're out there, you just aren't attracted to them. You WANT to be, but biology is pulling you to the Chad Zone without you realizing it.

    • @Craftsingles1
      @Craftsingles1 Рік тому +3

      Ya it's really tough finding someone with all those "boxes checked" and It's extremely difficult to find someone who is perfect from the start... you need to be two people who are willing to do a fair amount of compromising.

    • @Putzl52
      @Putzl52 Рік тому +6

      As a guy, I feel the same way! I’ve been single for 6 years and it’s been rough.

  • @kuntkoalition
    @kuntkoalition Рік тому +59

    The best repellant for fake ass people is your own authenticity.💥 Also, do hard shit together. 💪 Nothing shows you a person's REAL self like stress and suffering. 💯

    • @aim-for-greatn3z947
      @aim-for-greatn3z947 Рік тому

      Wtf... or.... how about what they've accomplished. 😂
      I'm somewhat successful and due to certain sacrifice I've made I have certain privileges.
      Do you think I'm trying to connect with others using "stress"?
      As a man in my opinion I find my value by solving problems and problems cause stress to others thus I make money.
      People and women don't care about your struggles, society in general LIKES taking about their problems but aren't as eager to listen about yours.
      But hey there's a lot I still don't know but I've been able to create somewhat the life I want and 99% of the time I'm just solving stressful problems 😂

    • @kuntkoalition
      @kuntkoalition Рік тому

      @@aim-for-greatn3z947 I agree solving problems is important, and so are accomplishments. However, if a person can't handle stress well I really don't want their energy around me. Shit happens and I need to know my partner won't crumble or turn on me when I need them to be a strong leader. In turn, I offer the same stability and support because I hold myself to the same standards.

    • @BRMachiavelli
      @BRMachiavelli Рік тому

      Facts.

  • @Adira-Natali
    @Adira-Natali 6 місяців тому +1

    YES! EVERY WORD B said was totally true. Both have to do the work in their own life first for themselves first.

  • @DavidVelasquez9
    @DavidVelasquez9 Рік тому +91

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Рік тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому

      Her name is *Victoria Lee hess*, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Рік тому +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @toeknee3302
      @toeknee3302 Рік тому

      Lmao what a tool. Stop this bullshit advertisement.

  • @theblackphoenix447
    @theblackphoenix447 Рік тому +12

    I had a broken, angry man. My choice! After 20 years I’m leaving & working on myself. I agree with Bedros with 99% of what he says, but just because someone’s parents are still married doesn’t carry much weight. I’ve met & known a ton of people whose parents stayed together & had no business doing so! ❤❤❤

    • @Zethisis25
      @Zethisis25 Рік тому +1

      I disagree.
      Relationship is truly about deciding to be together.
      That's the only thing that matters. That ultimately means you are aligned.

  • @Eric.Fitness
    @Eric.Fitness Рік тому +25

    Want to find the right partner. Be the man you know a woman will love and trust and feel safe atound . Work on bettering yourself in all aspects of your life. Be patient and one day you will meet the other half you always dreamed of having.

    • @aim-for-greatn3z947
      @aim-for-greatn3z947 Рік тому

      Uhhh...
      Literally the best times to be a man is now honestly!!
      Unfortunately it's more difficult for men to win.
      And honestly I'm up to a point I don't need much from a "partner" so now I found d exactly what I wanted someone who does as I say.
      Some might call her a slave, I call it happiness😂

    • @neonix01
      @neonix01 Рік тому +1

      No way, don't be a man a woman will love. Be yourself and wait for a woman that loves you for who you are to stick around. You certainly don't want to fake it till you make it in a relationship, you have to be yourself. (that does not mean don't improve yourself and change yourself cause YOU want to, but do not change your core self temporarily to attract a partner, never - EVER!).

  • @Royals_Mindset
    @Royals_Mindset Рік тому +6

    YES! 🤩 Stand on your values and know what you want in a partner!

  • @xJustBillyx
    @xJustBillyx Рік тому +7

    For me personally I don’t really want a partner I choose to by alone, I just think they would get in the way of what im going now. I work 12 hour shifts have a 6 year old little girl who is my whole world. My second home is the gym plus I’m trying to learn a new skill.

  • @GodxEnergy
    @GodxEnergy Рік тому +9

    Wow, this is the perfect message society needs today. 👏🔥

  • @Scott.lewis.8
    @Scott.lewis.8 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for this! I am soon to be a single father of 6. I can't live this way. Thanks again.

    • @BedrosKeuilian
      @BedrosKeuilian  Рік тому +11

      You got this man! Focus on being a great dad and building yourself into the man you love and respect.

    • @Scott.lewis.8
      @Scott.lewis.8 Рік тому

      Thank you both and yea I brought her back now I'm in a bad way now I learned my lesson and I don't need a women for a long time work on me and kids

  • @LauraMooreShay
    @LauraMooreShay Рік тому +7

    Amazing message here!! So much wisdom!

  • @MasteryOrder
    @MasteryOrder 11 місяців тому +1

    Great relationships are built on trust, character and reciprocity. If these basic elements are missing, anything that will be built on a shaky foundation is bound to fail.

  • @galdames.j
    @galdames.j 4 місяці тому

    best video advice of all time ¡ Saludos y un fuerte abrazo Bedros. ! Gracias ¡

  • @xrello254
    @xrello254 Рік тому +1

    absolutely the best advice for our generation

  • @rockstartonyx
    @rockstartonyx Рік тому

    I gotta go to one of your conference/meetups man we think very similar and have been through similar. You also have been a great teacher for me.

  • @8kobebryant243
    @8kobebryant243 Рік тому

    Your videos are like answers to all of my questions. Now I know that’s probably why that girl dumped me because I come from divorce parents and her parents still together and that was not matching. But also, she wasn’t the right one for me. Hasn’t heel yet from a 5 year relationship breakup, and likes to party and drink alcohol from Thursday to Sunday(which I hate) Definitely I dodged a bullet. Thanks again Bedros!

  • @znlaft
    @znlaft Рік тому +3

    BE THE RIGHT PARTNER.!!!

  • @sergezerkin
    @sergezerkin Рік тому +1

    Thank you brother ! Loved your video

  • @BoostedPastime
    @BoostedPastime Рік тому

    Ive actually seen what he described when it comes to women having more of a son than a boyfriend. My god he had this spot on.

  • @cahnrad
    @cahnrad Рік тому

    Phenomenal stuff as usual, I sent this to a couple women I know, wish me luck!

  • @Daniel-in-the-den.
    @Daniel-in-the-den. Рік тому +7

    Really needed this. My girlfriend wants me to move in with her.... I'm not too sure.

  • @azhaanebrahim4887
    @azhaanebrahim4887 Рік тому

    Another great episode much appreciated it😎💪🏽💯

  • @sebastienbla5546
    @sebastienbla5546 Рік тому

    Thanks for another great talk!

  • @benstanway3238
    @benstanway3238 Рік тому +3

    I don't think what you are saying about having a solid family is really a good marker. People who were abused as a child often treat their children very well as they know what the abuse was like. Not saying everyone is the same. Some people have dreams of living until the end with their husband or wife despite their parents not making it work.

  • @luxefalcon2730
    @luxefalcon2730 Рік тому +4

    Are any of these good women still out there? I disqualify nearly all of them immediately. It's rough out here.

    • @perzival5821
      @perzival5821 Рік тому +1

      Yeah, I remember in 2004 internet being a niche nerd thing, but now with the whole world being so sexual and digital, is quite hard. Now there is less competition to be a good financial free man to provide to a wife and family... cool, but who's gonna be your wife if 95% of this new woman generation are dead brains, angry, sexual divas and everything but feminine.
      People is not talking about this, maybe you and me are safe, but what about in 20-30 years... that's what scare the sh*t out of me.

    • @aim-for-greatn3z947
      @aim-for-greatn3z947 Рік тому +1

      In America I WAY MORE DIFFICULT NOW!

  • @DougCam-ed5tc
    @DougCam-ed5tc Рік тому +2

    Proverbs, 31

  • @David-DB1993
    @David-DB1993 Рік тому

    This is exactly what i think as well

  • @johntay3831
    @johntay3831 Рік тому

    How to find a good partner. Step 1: self development. U can’t attract a good partner if you, yourself is shit. Apart from that this is one of the best video on relationships

  • @JPFitness123
    @JPFitness123 Рік тому

    Awesome advice

  • @lalogonzalez8536
    @lalogonzalez8536 11 місяців тому

    Bro dat shit was funny as hell cant stop laughing😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Thrasher5251
    @Thrasher5251 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Bedros!

  • @CJ22930
    @CJ22930 Рік тому

    Whatever you look for in a partner, be that person. - Jordan Peterson

    • @Gabriel_Blair
      @Gabriel_Blair 8 місяців тому

      jordan peterson says to become what you look for in a partner and then gets mad that trans people exist
      they're just doing as directed ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

  • @tamakaramaena
    @tamakaramaena Рік тому

    Thank you, you know me too well

  • @DMurray404
    @DMurray404 Рік тому +4

    Thanks! B. K.

  • @MiaStayingCreative
    @MiaStayingCreative Рік тому +3

    In terms of “having other men lust after my woman” … I would like to debate this. I’ve been a working model for 13 years, I make money because of my looks. Any man who enters my life or my heart must be secure enough within himself to know that other men are going to stare and drool, but at the end of the day I choose HIM.
    I know you’re not insecure, Bedros, and I admire you.. but that’s my perspective on the statement as a female. That statement sounds insecure and possessive.

    • @BlackLion76
      @BlackLion76 9 місяців тому +1

      That's because it is possessive. A man is supposed to possess his woman. It's very secure for a man to possess her as he truly knows what he wants out of life and his woman. Dont like it? Then choose a different job where other men aren't lusting after you. You made a choice when you decided to use your looks to make money instead of enhancing your natural feminine features to attract the masculine man you really want. That man does not want other men lusting after his woman. A feminine man might put up with that nonsense, but you don't want a feminine man. So you have a choice to make & you're only getting older by the day...

  • @SIATPhoenix
    @SIATPhoenix Рік тому

    HOW DO I GROW AND BECOME WHOLE 😢

  • @randyredman
    @randyredman Рік тому +1

    God many would kill to have the problems we have as successful Americans

  • @ElasticAndStrong
    @ElasticAndStrong Рік тому

    I like that

  • @kasforai
    @kasforai Рік тому +1

    Aids?

  • @hrvojatusun4517
    @hrvojatusun4517 Рік тому

    So this guy who is probably taking trt and isn’t married is telling u this advice

  • @BraveAbandon
    @BraveAbandon Рік тому

    The title is a lie

  • @haveanicetree
    @haveanicetree Рік тому +5

    delusional, its all about the money now sadly, be honest

    • @SharonKenny
      @SharonKenny Рік тому +9

      Absolutely not. Be careful who you bring into your life ❤

    • @haveanicetree
      @haveanicetree Рік тому

      @@SharonKenny you are also delusional, and the only reason you reply for is to hopeful;;y eventually gain money from your response in any form you can , be honest

    • @negrosuave9315
      @negrosuave9315 Рік тому +18

      Get off the red pill content and go outside bro. There’s good and bad ppl in this world

    • @haveanicetree
      @haveanicetree Рік тому

      @@negrosuave9315 motherfucker i work outside ,

    • @escapethematrix4204
      @escapethematrix4204 Рік тому

      @@negrosuave9315I needed to hear that, thanks dawg

  • @gray1333
    @gray1333 Рік тому +1

    I wonder if bedros was referring to Wes Watson as the motivational speaker.
    Man, if guys like Wes are having trouble 😂
    Crazy out here.