How To Transition Without Hormones | hrt mtf
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Summary
- get aware about gender identities.
-try a voice coach.
-try a feminine hairstyle.
-try hair removal methods to combat gender dysphoria.
-stay updated to new fashion, makeup, beauty trends and try them.
-try changing your pronouns and name.
thank you so much
Thanks
the pronouns part is bullshit.
@lexitnute1306 what's wrong with the pronouns part?
Completed my legal name change FINALLY.. and it was a real DRAG.. Just need passport done now. great video and great tips.
did you change gender on the certificate?
@@alyalenox2129 No. you need a letter from your doctor to do that on your license. it must state you are irrevocably comitted to whatever gender you are transitioning to. However it does state that it is ordered my birth cerfltificate be updated. only problem with that is, i have to goto germany to do that since i was born to german nationals. im considering making a youtube on this in the future.
Happy to hear that you got it done, and the "drag" was definitely worth it. :-)
Congratulations! 👏😀
@@andie_pants Thank you kindly. 🤗
The ability to access hormones is now in the uk is worse than pre-2000s in my opinion... hormone blockers are now forbidden for teens and waiting lists are over 4 years and not reliable at all. We are slowly dying from being cast out.. This video will help a lot of people due to the stupid regulations at least around where I live... thank you.
Hi Mathilda 😃
This was a really amazing video althoug I've thru allmost all the stages exept HRT. But I smiled when you talked about pronouns and names. It's a weird feeling that everone is calling me Lily right now. To some of my coworkers I'm just Lily. Some of the people at work says I'm so very feminine, some even say I speak feminine without any lessons. Or as one of my friends said: You don't have to learn as a woman you're already doing it. With this said I just want to thank you for all the amazing videos you have posted.
I forgot, I'm also Swedish. I've been out for more than half a year now and hasn't been hearing a bad comment about me as a woman.
@@Mrmestofolees glad to hear this, hope things are well :)
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Using a gender-netrual nickname is also a great way as a stepping stone to alleviate dysphoric stress. Also, you don't have to come out if you ask people to use that nickname.
That's how you end up with a stupid name like nex
I'm a fan of TheMakeupChair's tutorials. She's been a huge help for a beginner like me. She explains things so simply and pleasantly.
You're certainly right that everyone is different. I thought I was just a cross dresser who wished he were female. On March 15th, 2012, I was at a very welcoming salon as Shirley and I was so very happy and so very comfortable in the feminine role that suddenly I just couldn't stand the idea of going back to living as a very miserable man again. I didn't. So I call it the 6 second transition. I hit the family wall like a crash car followed by a 4 month battle but lived full time very happy as Shirley from that point on. Didn't start on hormones until mid 2014. Didn't have any surgeries until 2018. When people ask me how I'm doing I most often say, "Absolutely trantastic!". Ah, the pursuit of happiness. Go for it. ; )
Omg hello! i`ve been wondering where u been lately,and now i watch your new vid! You inspiring me everyday, girl.You actually made me believe that i might find someone who will love me as a woman who im really are.I started hrt 2 weeks ago at 17 y/o and im so excited for this journey.Send you love from Russia >3 >3
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Thank you very much Mathilda Högberg! You are a great inspiration for me and for thousands more!!😊😊😊🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I think your a amazing brave girl for standing up and helping people achieve their dreams you have such a kind heart and soul to put yourself out there ❤️ thankyou and keep that bright smile love from New Zealand
Hi Mathilda, just found your channel and love it! Both for the information and your personality. Glad to have you for a role model
I love your hair so much 😭😭 you're helping a struggling trans girl so much here
I’ve been waiting for you to make a video like this for a while. Gotta learn from the best.
Thank you so much for all your videos. Your openness and willingness to share your experiences is helping me at the start of my journey. ❤
Mathilda, you’re the best! Thx 4 this!💕✨
Thank you, Mathilda. Your videos have been so encouraging for my journey.
I’m not even kidding when I say I looked your Channel up 5 hrs ago to see if you posted yet and now you did purr
Thank you for these videos. They are so very useful and nice to watch.
omg it's been so long since I watched a video, loving the hair!!!
Is interesting on the video for the transition with the hormones to advices and new app Transfable, you're the best videos Mathilda💖❤✨✨
Nice clean video 😊 very informative too. Great work❤️
Omg yesssss the girl is back 🥺😱
Mathilda, Just great advice. you are a gift to this community and thank you for all of your videos. Jewel
Thanks. I love Mathilda videos!
Youve made my transition so much easier :)
Thank you mathilda i needed this video
Same ❤️
Thank you seeew much. The last part name was such a relief. 6:58…I knew me as Sophie, but to hear others say your name was weird at first, but totally relate
Concerning the last tip, I agree that having new pronouns and a new name can be weird sometimes and it lead to a lot of doubting for me, what I found helpful was to write my name a lot to really get used to seeing it and appropriating as much as possible for myself
Thank you, this is very helpfull for me ❤️
You definitely look amazing too I love 💗 your beautiful makeup style
Also, you are amazing and a very strong woman. Really glad to hear you're doing great! 🙂👍
Thanx girly for the tips xx
Thank you for these tips. There are so many trans women who want to start transitioning without hormones either to test the waters or because they can't take hormones or don't want to. So this was very helpful. But it was just a start. How about giving more tips like certain clothes for those who have yet to gain a nice figure through hormones? Or ways to carry or comport oneself to effect a feminine presence?
Hello. I just found your channel and started watching your videos and I have to say you are an inspiration to me. I'm a straight male and I've always felt like I am truly a woman, but I've never got the chance to make my transition due to my family. My family are very old fashioned and do not believe in being trans, but I really hope one day I can start my transition.
Don’t b deceived. Find happiness in being yourself.
My family is the SAME WAY.....but I finally decided that I was done worrying about what other people think. I spent my whole life making sure everyone else was happy and comfortable......one day I decided it was MY turn to be happy and comfortable. I haven't regretted it. I started hormones 2 months ago, and just knowing that I was able to take that step made a HUGE positive impact on my mental and emotional state. It quite literally saved my life !! And I really do mean that !!
I haven't experienced any positive or negative physical effects yet because it's too soon, but I know they're coming !! I've just gotta remind myself to be patient and take my hormones 2x a day as prescribed. It's been one heck of a battle with my insurance company as far as planning out surgeries and seeing what is now covered (it took them being sued and losing 3x before a court demanded that they begin providing transgender and non-binary Healthcare!!)....but I'm taking it one day at a time. I have an appointment later today with a psychiatrist to get the Gender Dysphoria diagnosis requirements that the insurance company and plastic surgeon demands, and then a consult with a plastic surgeon for breast augmentation in March 2024. It may seem like a long way away, but becoming our true selves cannot happen overnight !!
When I started transitioning I wanted to do hrt, but now I'm not sure cuz of my living situation. I kind of feel naturally fem enough to feel euphoria and it's easier to pretend to be "male" in safety situations. I need to do more research and therapy I think. 👍
What happened? Are you on hrt or not?
@@Seboskasforever No. My family sucks; they dislike and don't understand trans people because of what they hear on the news and I have a mentally ill bro who is also a violent transphobe.
I also found out I'm autistic which makes sense y it's so hard for me to get away from my family especially since my fam basically demands me to stay so I'm forced to help financially. I'm trying to distance myself and save money and build a support system of LGBTQIA+ friends IRL and move away. Maybe HRT one day hopefully. I also wish there were more HRT clinics in my area there are none even remotely close, makes me sad. Thanks for asking. 💙
I'm still new, and don't know if I want hormones yet, so this is really helpful
You're so sweet 🥰 thanks for these useful videos
I changed my name August last year, I’m on the Gender Identity Clinic waiting list and have just applied for a Gender Recognition Certificate! Really excited! Also got some cute clothes, some bags, sprays and I’m trying to do voice training at home using UA-cam as well as trying to grow my hair out (omg it takes forever)!
thank you so so much i kinda don't feel alone knowing you
I've been on HTR for year and I'm still stuck in transition. I tried hair removal both before and after starting and nothing has helped (Super pale and red hair). I do hope to one day get past all fear and am able to transition more one day
You should try electrolysis
Mathilda is the best
Thanks for sharing!
Your stunning Matilda you are a valid and beautiful person love you Matilda great to see you awesome video
Hello! I a Trans woman Thank you for your advice I really appreciate you talking about this I been dying to be myself thx❤
i’m doing all this for a friend who came out as trans a bit ago, love you kass
Why you have a trans friend? Unless you are a white girl because then it explains everything
@@LizardOfmonaco-uc7rd you are onto nothing bro
Thanks Mathilda! You said to grow out your hair. You see I’m in the beginning of my journey as a transgender, I’m mid age man and I’m bald. So I looked up some bald women and I’m gonna still be bald when I become a woman. But it’s a long way to go. Thanks for your advice ♥️🙏🏻♥️
Eve Salvail (French model) and of course Sinead O’Connor spring to mind. Good luck with your journey 🙏🏼💕
Wow you look beautiful Sis thank you for sharing lucky for you .
As always thank you very much Matilda this is your SiS Kenzie I Love You, You look Very BeAuTiFul and like I've always said your videos are So So Helpful and yes pronouns do help because right now I'm staying in a hotel in the manager asked what my pronouns were and I said she/her and when she calls me she every time I talk to her she says Miss Kenzie and it feels so much like it was meant to be and makes me so Happy and I just can't imagine ever being a him... I thank you very much and LoTs of Love from your SiS Kenzie
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question i have been watching your videos for awhile and you have been very inspirational but i was wondering as a black trans woman how would you recommend going about using make up and clothing and such?
Thank you 🙏
you look and sound amazing
Thanks
Hips is my favorite part it gives smart look in elastic pant in boys also🔥🔥😎
I went full time at first place and let my name and sex marker changed. I don't have a dead name and pronouns don't matter.
I stopped to qualified me as trans, as I'm "not trans enough" according the lovely trans community.
If you don't mind me asking, why does the trans community say you aren't trans enough?
I don't know a trans person who would say ur not trans enough. maybe a few terminally online people but u definitely don't need to listen to that kinda thing
I will say you wouldn't be able to tell you were male before. Keep up the amazing work and remember your amazing :)
You look stunning.
I love your top
Love from Texas
I was born Intersex and had Uber high testosterone most of my life, but for the last three years, I’ve been dealing with Hyperestrogenism which is slowly causing my body to feminize itself a lot. I don’t know how helpful taking HRT would be in making me look even more Feminine. I have been practicing Female vocals just for fun for the last two years just to nail Fluttershy’s voice. Some Male eGirls’ tips have helped a lot.
So what's your pronouns now?
I love you channel
I need this I can not get on hormones even though I want to so badly. Social transitioning is the best thing I can do
For me my first step will be growing out my hair. I am (was) a buzz cut boy. So it will take a while. But when they reach a good lengh i will start from there.
Definitely make sure that your hair is very close to the same length all around your head, I was buzzing the sides and back of my head down to a 2 with the top a little long so I could slick it back straight down the top-middle of my head.
I tried growing my hair out for about a full year, about November 2022 until a couple weeks ago, and because of how my hair was cut…. It grew really terribly lol. The top of my head grew super long whereas the sides and back just stayed super short, so a couple weeks ago I made the choice to cut it all down and restart.
If you do not already, I’d suggest incorporating Hair-healthy foods like Salmon, Sweet Potatoes, Spinach, lean Turkey and Chicken, Greek Yogurt, Eggs, Oysters, Iron-Fortified cereals, Cinnamon and Guava.
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Breakfast could be Greek Yogurt with Guava, Banana and Strawberries with some kind of iron-fortified cereal mixed in or on the side. Or just eat cereal with the fruit mixed in and a little yogurt on the side.
Lunch could be a Spinach salad with Flaxseed, cucumber, tomato, Edamame (green soybeans), and some chicken.
Dinner could be lemon-herb Salmon with Sweet Potatoes and carrots.
I was lucky since i had long hair beforehand so it basically came preinstalled
Wow you look like you could be a movie star!
Wow it makes me feel my inner trans
Good video, Mathilada! Unrelated question: Do you celebrate Halloween in your country?
Yes we do ❤️
Heh, awesome, it is almost a dead holiday here! (UK)
You're a gorgeous young lady and I want to wish you all the best.
Bovine ovary and a noogleberry is a good place to start, if you have a thin hair then dermaroll it
IPL machines are safe on the face? I’ve tried looking that up before but haven’t found anything. You did that?
HI Mathilda, I had transioned from male to femal and had 2 main SRS surgeries and I am very happy now, I transioned since 3 years without hormones, I live in UK nowadays
Summary:
1 Do research, see videos, learn about other stories
2 Take voice lessons: she spent 4 months. Don't use UA-cam lessons because those can be dangerous
3 Growing out hair or try different haircut
4 Laser hair removal, even at home with some products
5 Makeup tutorials and outfit inspirations
6 Pronouns and name: tell your friends!
omg i wish i was pretty and feminine like you
Hi Mathilda I'm Lexi I'm a trans girl and I'm 13 and my parents don't support me do you have any advice? thanks!
you're so prettyyyyy you remind me of Gal Gadot in this vid, your face is very similar n.n
Is TransFable also for transfemmes/NBs (and is available for people in EU)?
You won't believe how difficult all this can be, given one's past. Or maybe everyone could. If there's one thing being online has taught me, its that there is someone out there who has similar experiences to me... no longer thinking am I the only person in the world who does a certain thing or feels a certain way. My experiences have taught me to be very careful with my secrets.. that people can troll Facebook and give one the third degree about, eg pronouns etc. I have a safe community around me, as I did 8 years ago before I used the word trans and had the world of judgment close in around me. I suppressed and denied it for years to stay safe. People are scared of what they don't know, and the reaction is hostility and judgment. Also, like you say, everyone's experience is different, and medical circumstances can impose limitations already. So how to bé authentic, while portraying an image to the world that will keep one safe, is the challenge... how to be careful with your secrets, but still be you
Beautiful
Hi How Are you Doing and I have a question and that is I want to start wearing girl clothes now because I think I'm ready to do so now but how do I know what size I'm and tank tops and sports bras or in jeans and Daisy Dukes and of course panties and lingerie and nightgowns as well
I MISSED YOU
Don't stop believing. 😏 Journey reference lol.
Thank you I needed this cz I can't get my freaking hormones cz of my age
You're a wonderful wonderful special special flower. we love you so much gentle gentle cupcake, soft love. saty warm precious sweetheart, we love you gentle one; so warm and special
I want to transition, but aside from my hair, I'm not really into changing anything in regards to my outfits
I just want to know what kind of body would be acceptable to me, then turn myself into it.
You're super pretty.
It feels so weird to be called by my new name. So I told my parents they could call me by either name. But I guess they didn't want to have to choose which name to call me by, so now they don't call me by name at all. They just say, "Hey, kiddo..."
I guess I just need to ask people to call me by my new name, instead of being wishy-washy about it.
hi, do you have any tips on how to reduce wide shoulders?
Maybe try dressing in outfits for your body type. This person deff already had small shoulders
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Very beuatafil you
Can u do a sandal haul?
I have been on estrogen for a year now but definitely need something else to help make me feel more like a woman?
I definitely want to keep going and enjoy being a woman
That's an useful advice for people who wanted to do a transgender process, Miss Mathilda.
I can’t tell anyone I am I too shy and I don’t know how people will react. How did you do it?
The best advice I have is to mention a trans person you like, to the person you’re planning to come out to, just as a way to make sure they’re not transphobic. You can mention a UA-camr like NoahFinnce, or a singer, or celebrity. Then a couple days later, you just tell them casually over lunch or something. It’s scary, but there’s nothing you can do about the fear. They’ll probably be a bit surprised, but if you don’t want to answer some of their questions, you don’t have to. You’ve got this! And if they react negatively, (which I hope they won’t) just live however you want anyways. Also, makeup can be helpful whether you’re MTF, FTM, or non-binary. You can start wearing makeup and buying different clothes before even coming out so that people are less surprised. You don’t need HRT to do anything.
I wish you the best of luck!
Fine as hell ☺️
I want to start my transition but i just have a hard time getting confidence to tell my family. They arent religious so i dont have any of that to worry about but i still find it hard
I understand what you're going through. I'm really confused on my gender at the minute so I haven't opened up to my family yet, but the best thing I can tell you is this.
If a parent stops loving you over something like being trans, they aren't parents worth having
I know it's hard, but you have to remember that parents are supposed to love their children unconditionally. Maybe try testing the waters? See what their opinions on transgenderism is, maybe even pose a hypothetical and ask what they'd think if you were trans, without actually outing yourself as trans. It's hard to do because to do it without raising suspicion, you have to wait for an appropriate moment to bring it up.
Another suggestion from a friend of mine is to maybe come out to people you trust and have them there when you do it? Have you told any friends? Maybe have them over when you tell them.
Anyway, I hope everything goes well for you, and just remember, no matter what, you aren't alone in this
I'm pre hrt. Just waiting. Having people use the right pronouns and makes such a difference. I wish I could grow out my hair but I can't unfortunately.
I've been doing all those things my problem is my body shape