I'm a copier and large format service manager and engineer lol. I work with a bunch of guys that need telling what to do every half hour..... then I usually have to train them up to standard 😂 ..... I have to tie my hair up at work, wear uniform, polo neck, black trousers and flippin safety shoes 😓 try looking womanly in that getup 🙄 (my nails are always awesome though, until I break one)
@@theextramiles404 "it's all a lie" meaning men who think they are a woman, facts are they never will be a woman, no matter how many surgeries they have
@@Tonixxy yeah, most passing transgenders would rather not post about it as their transition was to hide the fact that they're trans and posting about it would defeat that fact. some are different tho. personally would rather hide it
You are so sweet. I like your openness and thoughtfulness for others so that they can level-set their expectations. I am so glad you had the surgery - and so glad that you share your experience.
CIS Female. I can ASSURE you that when we say "you are so lucky that you don't get a period" we are absolutely not insinuating the inability to conceive or carry a baby. I have PCOS and was told I'd never be able to conceive and it was devastating, I couldn't imagine not having kids, not ONCE did I ever get angry because my friends all had regular periods or tell them that they should consider themselves lucky ect. The few times I did get mine was a few to many. They have nothing to do with whether or not we want to have a baby. If anything the lack of one makes you want a child more. It's hard to explain but that correlation is just not there.
We understand the insinuation is not that but from a trans women's perspective it kinda just rubs salt in the wound because it's just a reminder of one of our biggest insecurities
I'd imagine a lot of these "Myths" vary person to person. Especially when it comes to things like regret, sensations down there, and desire to have those kinds of activities. I'm not trans, but when I had a c-section with my daughter, the nerves in the area where they cut for the c-section never got their feeling back and there is a spot on my stomach that is still numb to this day. She's almost 12 years old now, so it was not recent. I know a c-section is not the same as SRS, but surgery is surgery and depending on your body, the surgeon, and other factors, there is a chance that some people might lose sensations in that area permanently. Probably not everyone, but there is a chance. I'd imagine researching your surgeon before going under the knife would probably help decrease those chances a lot though.
Exactly. I had a tummy tuck and all the area around the scar is still numb 2 years later. Also had a breast reduction and regained full sensation in that area, and my scars disappeared completely. Very different results from each surgery, and I did the same scar management protocol. I’m super happy with my tummy tuck the aesthetic result is beautiful but the numbness is frustrating.
Surgery is surgery!! Wrong!!! Surgery done on a male is not the same as surgery in a female, just like if you going to pull your teeth,one question a dentist ask a woman they're not going to ask a man.Are you pregnant?
Glad it worked for you. I had a friend who had V surgery and during Intercourse her V broke thru to her Rectum and she had to have a Colostomy to give it time to heal. She lost a Kidney in the process . She had problems the rest of her life and she was born a female formed perfectly on the outside just no V or other female organs
@@Lil_5_8_Cross_Eyelol… the person you commented towards was reacting to a terrible situation where a female’s vag legit split /ruptured and then she lost a kidney. It does sound gross and quite unfortunate to say the least. I’m a female and it makes me squirm just thinking about it.
Wow. Horrible. I had a large tumour and ended up with my v to back area...know exactly what that's like. Very painful scary. Hope life gets easier for your friend.
From a cis girl point of view: yes period can feel like a burden and the relationship can be complicated around it a lot because of how society has been treated women just because of their period BUT it’s super rude to rub it into someone’s face like that especially women that suffers from the lost of it. It’s not like I speak about how lucky someone is to not have a mom just because my mom is a full time work😅
Trans women don't suffer from the loss of a period. They never had one. They are fully functioning males. Stop pretending they females. That's why they in the Olympics trying to take over Female sports.
SRS healing takes circa 12 months; most of the healing occurs within the first 6 months. It is highly invasive surgery and there is a significant risk that things go wrong, requiring revision surgery. Such SRS was first performed in the 1950's in Denmark as pioneering surgery.
as a cisgender male has had several cisgender females, and never had a trans female. I want you to understand that no two women I have had have felt exactly the same. So if it doers not feel the same QUIT WORRYINGF ABOUT IT!! You will still feel like YOU!
Just to throw this out there I'm super comfortable with my body but so many cis women MYSELF included have issues with self lubrication. I definitely don't get as wet as other women and my partner and I ALWAYS use lube. So that shouldn't even be a factor, lube is nothing to be ashamed of. :)
First off biological females don't use the word cis',soooo that I'm itself will let biological females know you ain't a biological female and this is the Internet anyone can say anything, second bottom surgery which is located in the prostate on the opposite side of a man's butt is no COMPARISON TO A BIOLOGICAL FEMALE 'S VAGINA NONE WHATSOEVER. STOP TRYING TO DISMISS BIOLOGICAL FEMALES TO SATISFY YOUR DILUSIONAL IDIOLIGY IDENTITY.
They can actually grow a vaginal canal using stem cells. They successfully implanted at least for in women who were born with underdeveloped canals. I think it’s pretty far off from some of the other more complex structures and organs though 🤷🏽♂️
Those women had underdeveloped vaginal canals, not NO vagina to start with. The vagina is actually quite complex, you can't just grow one and then implant it.
I understand why people have SRS and I say kudos to them for choosing to have such major surgery. I wish it was affordable in other places. I also worry that people will have the surgery they can afford instead of going to a really really good surgeon.
This will be my ignorance im sure. But why are trans still referred to as trans when they have already transitioned. Like in Mathildas case. She has already transitioned so isn't she just a woman. And if it was F to M they would just be a man. I'm just curious, probably a really stupid question. Surly after that its no ones business.
@@DAVING0 very good question! I have no idea. Hopefully Matilda is reading this and can answer. Maybe they don't usually, but only do it for education like in Matilda's case. I doubt any trans person when they meet someone new says hi, I'm John, I used to be a woman. And do nice to meet you too! We need more help with answers on this I guess.
@@susanmckee1406 Thanks for taking the time to answer back. I was just curious. I was half expecting it to be told it was a silly question but it was confusing me. As far as I'm concerned if they have transitioned then they are what they have transitioned into. Cheers Susan.
Mathilda, thank you so much for sharing your videos! Since finding your channel, I have watched them repeatedly! Through your transparency, I have learned so much. Many of my burning questions have been answered. Thank you so much beautiful lady! You’re an angel!
I somewhat wish science was faster (while not becoming unethical), as animal testing has (in 3 different projects) used stem cells to make valid sperm, stem cells to make valid eggs, and artificial wombs that can get mouse babies from day 0 fertilization to half or more of the term. Getting those three approved for humans will be huge for not just LGBT & disabled people, but also others that cannot currently have biological children.
You mite be able to answer a question for me. Is it possible to grow specific body parts from a persons stem cells ? Or even promote the growth of said body parts on the person.
@@DAVING0 Way above my amateur knowledge, but I know that we are in the process of being able to 3D print organs. I do not know if it uses stem cells or just regular DNA, but it is basically fast-growing your own organ which removes the possibility of it being rejected. As of 5-6 years ago, there was an issue in making sure they don't collapse/die without flowing blood through them, but I am pretty sure they are past that stage by now. A nifty side effect of this research is 3D printed meat products. You only need 1 cow to replace a farm full of cows, and there is no need for the muscle to be live-implanted, as it is just used for food~
@@unfortunatelyevil1767 This is amazing stuff. At some point there will be no need for anyone to kill animals for food. It seems like it would be a good thing for body dysmorphic people so they have full function without all the barbarity they have to go through. Thanks for your reply. I know this is a bit morbid but I'm fascinated with all this stuff. Iv not long learned about dysmorphia, its horrendous. It would be great if they had a fix that didn't come with any problems. Thanks for taking the time with your explanation. Cheers.
I apologize if I had been harsh in other videos. I really don’t understand what it would be like to be anything other than a man. You sound very happy with who you are so I wish you the best in life. God Bless!
I was born a man , it's amazing if you are happy as a man. For me I can't relate to men at all. But when I hang out with my female friends everything is so different I feel like one of them. We feel the same way, we like the same things , we laugh and cried together.
It´s the same for girls who understand/feel better and more themselves around boys. So if it´s just it, enjoy the closeness and happiness with them; you are not alone. Nothing wrong with a man who is more on the feminine side; quite the opposite ^^
Not sure why you need to say you’re a straight man just to say they are brilliant. If however you are sexually attracted to them, you’re definitely not straight.
I think it's awesome that you did this video. I'm a cis guy, but this has always something I've wondered about (I think I have a far too scholastic interest in sex haha), and a woman talking about it from their perspective is both brave and enlightening. And selfless because this was clearly awkward for you to cover. I really hope transitioning options improve quickly over the next few decades, even though it sounds like it's in a pretty good state already. Cheers!
👌Your comment reflects what an empathetic, respectful, open minded person you are. I'm extremely curious about the world around me and other people's experiences as well; I just love to learn in general. I think taking the opportunity to be well informed helps us be more compassionate and sensitive humans! 😊
It’s not in a pretty good state. Hormone therapy is basically given out like candy and we don’t have a lot of research on how it affects people but we do know HRT brings early onset dementia to males and hormone therapy in general results in cancer, emergency hysterectomies, osteoporosis, etc. Big Pharma and politics are using the trans movement to their advantage by administering unsafe drugs and allowing malpractice to make lifelong patients with lifelong complications. Bottom surgery is an experimental cosmetic procedure done by surgeons who are in it for the profit. There is no such thing as surgically creating a vagina so instead they are creating open wounds prone to infections and lifelong dialation. Phalloplasty is also a major risk. So many trans people die young or end up with tumours. I am absolutely all for freedom of gender and identity expression, within the limits of social and fashion expression and not medical transition. I just feel the need to tell people medically transitioning is extremely dangerous and not well researched. It is destroying lives and the fertility of future generations.
Thank you for not being a sweaty boy behind their screens hating on trans, we need more accepting people like u who are actually curious and don’t watch to hate.
Please don't feel awkward, you are providing valuable and helpful personal testimony of what you actually experienced; and that can only help trans women understand the very relevant issues.
@@soniaess28 I am a bit baffled by you and other terfs coming to someone whose being positive and inspiring, and just crapping on others. Sorry you have so much hate in your heart.
Good job, I’m a woman by birth and love to know correctly how to address certain topics. Thank you. I won’t say your lucky because that really isn’t fair. I understand you while heartily. Peace and blessings
@@beatrix3336"Please research real stories" ?!? 🤨😳🤯 This story is as real as it gets. 🤔 Why do I have the nagging feeling that your true intentions are not as noble as you would like us to believe? While it is true that there are unfortunate transition stories and it's important to be aware that there are risks in SRS like in any other surgery, this channel tells a success story AND provides very useful information to those interested. I believe that this comment section is a place to share personal experiences, offer support and/or ask questions. Asking for one's age is inappropriate and leads me to believe that you're one of those people who think "children should not go through SRS because they're too young". If my impressions are wrong in any way, please accept my sincere apologies.
@@ironshoes1720 It’s pretty clear what and how this was meant - at least to me. The term “real” is unfortunate, yes, but the rest? I do not get what’s wrong with “children should not go through SRS because they’re too young” - because it’s true. They are not allowed to drive, drink, got a tattoo - and they should be allowed to go through such drastic changes? When their brain is still developing? You can’t be serious here - at least, I hope you are not. The original comment is curious in a healthy and polite way - showing some degree of care and making sure the shatteredmormon5005 got all the essential info - which is the good and the bad. People tend to believe in fairytales/positive and successful stories and fall for them quickly because they want things to happen - the risks and downsides could prevent this wish, so they close their eyes rather than face it/search for it. They should stand more on the middle ground for the best.
I'm almost 8 months into feminems myself and can't wait to have bottom surgery. That won't be for at least a year or so from now, though, depending on how long the hormones take to work their mojo. At least I know how to debunk these misconceptions in case someone tries to give me shit for it.
I would never say someone was "lucky" for not having a period. For CIS women, having a regular period is an important indicator of health. When we don't get our period and are not pregnant, it means something is wrong... And it's kind of rubbing infertility in your face. Id think it would be such a rude thing to say to someone Trans or cis.
I'm happy for you. It's great that reproductive health and sexual functions surgery are becoming more progressive for all women. Even surgery as a result of rape or malpractices in child birth relate to transgender women because all women feel gender dysphoria. Its just to bad ignorant orges feel like transgender women are less than any other woman, the same has been said about black people being less of a human being. I think it's safe to say most women want love and good sex.
Gender dysphoria is usually attributed to the misalignment between you mental gender identity and your physical characteristics which don't match that identity. So after SRS what does there remaining dysphoria look like? Are there certain "hot buttons" that trigger it? How does it differentiate from a non-trans person just having a bad day? Any or all answers will be appreciated. Thx.
How much does the surgery cost and how long does it take. Just curious. I’ve herd that allot of people go to Thailand to get it done cheaper for around £5000.
Duration: about 4 to 5 hours, depending on technique, surgeon, etc. I was narcotized for exactly 4:30 (according to my surgery record). Cost: well, german statutory health insurance does cover it (you've got to run a gauntlet of bureaucracy for it, though), so I've never seen any bill. Reports from people with private insurance range about 30k EUR +/- 5k (in Germany). Thailand is cheaper, yes, but I doubt that it's that cheaper. Last time I heard from him Dr. Suporn (the god of GRS there) charged about 25k EUR. It's possible that some 'backyard clinic' does do it for 5000, but I wouldn't go there. You've only one shot with this, so you better pick your surgeon and clinic carefully.
Uk surgery took about 2.5 hours, with 7 days in hospital, 2 weeks at home not allowed out. This was covered under the NHS so didn't directly cost me anything. Last time I looked Thailand surgery cost £18000. While there may be some who are a lot cheaper, I'm not sure I would trust them!
I had a friend (who was very supportive) who said I was lucky I wouldn't get a period when I first began to transition. I explained it to her it's the equivalent of a cis woman going through life knowing she could never have a child. After that she understood.
Thank you Mathilda. Really good video, nicely edited for UA-cam etc. Seriously though I'm really thankful for these videos ! I'm almost at surgery time, 1x private diagnosis 2x NHS (UK) funding approved and just waiting for a date 4 years after starting hormones. These videos really really help me feel more confident about the next step xxx
Counter one myth with another is a mythtake : consider this from Mayo Clinic After discharge, patients need to adhere to several activity restrictions. For example, avoiding baths for up to eight weeks, abstaining from sexual activity for approximately 12 weeks, and gradually resuming physical activities over six weeks. Diligent hygiene practices and long-term monitoring for potential complications, such as infections, are also essential. Lifelong follow-up care, including ongoing dilation if not sexually active, is necessary to maintain results and address any complications that might arise.
How could it feel fake? Obviously, Hayward feel like what it feels like. I don't know what that is? What I do know is it would be authentic for whoever it is you happen to be. So if you're a girl, or a trans girl, or trans boy, or whatever trans thing or whatever thing you are
I've had the good fortune to have sex (as a guy) with trans girls and cis girls. My wife is a trans woman. It doesn't feel the same. Doesn't mean it's fake or it's a deal killer. The internal vagina is just a complex organ that can't be fully recreated with this surgical technique.
“10 to 15 years after surgical reassessment, the suicide rate of those who had undergone sex-reassignment surgery rose to 20 times that of comparable peers.”- according to “the most thorough follow-up of reassigned people-extending over 30 years and conducted in Sweden.” I’m not convinced it saves lives.
@@MiaRosenbloom This is not the only source of these type stats. I’ll leave it to you to research as I don’t want to get into a debate over it. Unfortunately, this has become politicized.
I mean... as a woman I actually appreciate my periods but it can be annoying at times (like bleeding through clothes) so that might be why women complain about it every once in a while.
Bleeding through clothes and a whole list of other unpleasant symptoms is why natal females complain about our periods. It’s part of the genuine experience of biological women. We carry the cradle of life….literally
Ive read some horrible posts by troglodytes on your videos. And im sure you know this already. You are a very attractive woman. Youve done a great job transistioning. You should be so proud of yourself. The trogs are talking out of hate. Hate they feel for themselves if they could be honest. Thanks for these great videos. You answer a lot of my questions. You are a wonder.
Your videos are very educational, Mathilda! I must confess, I had a few of these myths. (Not all of them, thank God!) Thank you for setting me straight. And thank you for being willing to go past the awkwardness, to explain all these things to us. So much of prejudice stems from ignorance. Enlightenment comes from learning the truth. I find you absolutely delightful, Mathilda. Your boyfriend is a very lucky man!
First off he is lying. She can not self lubricate. They don’t have the same vaginal walls as a woman. The don’t have the glands needed for that. So I personally don’t believe anything said here.
So you can guarantee I wont have to dilate everyday after a few years, thanks such a relief to know it wont go on for forever, thanx for assuring me that I wont be dilating everyday, such a relief. Hooray thanx for clearing that up, now I can go and have mtf surgery knowing it will be sucessful without long term complications. It means so much to have a trans people to say its worth it, and and I wont regret it, thanx so much for clearing it up and that its worth doing it to have full sexual function. Cheers Mathilda.
First, that piercing comparison was such a great comparison. Second, STOP. CALLING. YOURSELF. GIRLY! You are not a girl. You are a woman. Girls are like 9 years old. You are a beautiful adult woman so rock that shit. That is all. Positive vibes to you .
Second, STOP. CALLING. YOURSELF. GIRLY! You are not a girl. You are a man. Girls are like 9 years old and females. You are a beautiful adult man so rock that shit.
@@r5014 aw is someone upset that someone else made life choices without asking permission first? How does this hurt you in any way? Seriously, why exactly does this bother you so much?
@@bpdsweetheart8074 "Girl" can be used to describe a young woman, even a young adult one. Doesn't necessarely have to be a child. It depends on the context, tho. Same thing for "boy", but to describe young males
@@bpdsweetheart8074 it hurts me bu the fact they constant deny reality and try to change it to suit their childish whims he wants to be a girl I want to the richest man alive but I can't have that and neither can he. He needs to stfu accept who he was born as and move on
I think it's worth noting that with HRT many trans women do experience most of the common period symptoms, including cramping, diarrhoea, emotional changes, among many others. Essentially, all of them except bleeding.
@@jasongaffigan8758because the cramping is mostly done by the belly and back muscles. They will just react to the hormones, if the person has a uterus or not.
They don’t have period cramps because they don’t have a uterus. Also diarrhea is not a normal symptom you’re just eating shit. Emotional changes are caused by synthetic hormones if you’re messing with your hormones it is what it is.
Do like we did… keep our body parts and have a baby… DUH!! That’s how I had my child. I didn’t “change” into a “man” and then say oh darn I wish I could have kids. No!! I’m a woman, I got pregnant and had a baby
well Meka Doz, this would only works out with a "functional" relationship or u have to get a woman who is willing to carry it out. Because im pansexual and don't care about my partners gender at all,there are constellation where it is impossible to do so. I just buried my dream of children and keep looking forward. At the end I feel better with the fact, that the world is ugly, harsh and there are lots of lone and lost childs u could adopt instead. :)
When it comes to menstruation I don't think anyone should be calling each other "lucky". Some women don't have a period due to cancer or never had one and some women have horrible, painful, heavy periods that are debilitating and upsetting. Who's willing to tell either woman they're lucky? No one knows how they feel about it, so calling each other lucky for having or not having a period is a little short-sighted and insensitive.
You are so amazing and ty for being you cuz I relate a lot and I can't stand that almost every year at pride someone's representing us all wrong and ruining it for just normal trans women that aren't exhibitionist (about chest like this last year), etc 🤍🩷
You can wish for periods all you want, but as a bio female with endometriosis that has resulted in being cut open twice to remove massive cysts on my ovaries and the doc finding endometrial lesions in my pelvic cavity and pain attacks growing in frequency and severity over the past several years, I genuinely don’t want to hear it. I respect what you’re doing with you’re life to be who you feel you are, but seriously. Having a uterus for many women is absolute misery and with the pain and the impact endometriosis is having on living a full life at 25 years old, I have every right to tell you that YES, you are lucky that you can be a woman without the massive amount of physical ailments that I’m pretty sure 1 in 3 women have. I hate hate hate hearing this. Unless you can fathom having biology that may very well turn against you for the entirety you your childbearing years and be okay with the pain and scars and it may leave you while also robbing you of feeling like a functional woman, It’s so messed up to say that “cis-women” have no right to tell a trans woman how lucky they are that they don’t possess organs that wreck havoc on many women’s existences.enjoy what you have. Being a woman is more than just fetal incubation and wearing pretty things.
I agree with you for the most part; ovulation isn’t fun or something to be glorified. When trans people say they wish they could experience periods, they’re not saying it’s a fun and positive experience that they wish they could appropriate. They’re saying the idea that their body isn’t capable of pregnancy makes them dysphoric. I for one, am glad that I don’t have to experience that and the risks that come along with it, but I also understand why not experiencing it can be a trigger for some people’s dysphoria.
ur literally bitter. regardless of the realities of whatever tf you or other women go through. she will never get to experience certain parts of womenhood and it is sad for her. whatever u went through has nothing to do with her experience. and since u innately had that experience from birth, it’s really not your place to judge someone who wishes for something that they didn’t have.Theres so many women who view trans women as some sort of 3rd party. Shes a woman to u until she says she wishes she had periods and now all the sudden shes not woman enough because she has an opinion u dont like. but i know if i press it deep down u probably dont even accept trans ppl and thats why u are ranting on the internet
I had “ female” problems since my first period at 11 yrs old! 9:13 . Severe, excruciating pain for 5-7 days each month. Severe endometriosis that required surgery 11 x !! At the time the technology was not yet there. I’ve had 11 D&C procedures. Each time was pure hell! Finally had to get a hysterectomy ( total- incision from hip to hip) which took close to a yr to subside. When I was put on HRT, it was a dream come true. No more hemorrhaging every month. No more pain+ the ever present PMS symptoms. I had 6 pregnancies-/ only 3 went to full term. Sometimes you need to look at the context that a statement is in to understand why it’s being said. I think that in today’s “ politically correct, or incorrect has people almost afraid to say anything cause words get pulled apart beyond what makes sense. Just imho , we need to mellow out+ give people the benefit of the doubt. 😁💜
Thank yu for being brave and honest , even if it feels awkward . It•s nice to hear these kinds of testimonies from someone who has experienced it and can talk openly about it . Also , the technologies for Incubators and 3D Bioprinting are becoming very advanced , so hold out! . Yu might get the chance yet .
Ms. Girly, I’m so happy I found your channel! I’m a girl who’s just figuring things out regarding my sexuality and stuff-but I’ve always been-I guess-not as knowledgeable on trans people/experience as I really need to be-so thank you for that! And I love your hair😊
As an “educator” you don’t have to feel ackward about talking about it.. in 2021 especially when it comes to telling ppl the truth ... say what you mean and mean what you said... shouldn’t be ackward .. we’re all adults if grown adults can’t take you talking about Sex then they probably shouldn’t be watching... so for future videos you can leave out it’s awkward to talk about you’ve been through it ... we’re all mature and grown .. tell us what you know 😌
Mine is in a few weeks!!!! It's been 18 years in the making since I knew that this is what has to happen, about 4.5 years since beginning transitioning and HRT, 2 years since orchi, and one year since FFS.
Hi Mathilda sweetie, I have one question: "After seven year of having bottom surgery; can you vgg feel still hurt when having sex with your partner?" Thanks previously 🙏🏻
@Logical Rationalist wow that is absolutely disgusting!!! Can't believe that people are so messed up in the head to actually remove their weiner and mutilate it completely..... It's like, no......
The biggest part of the survey you left out is this.Of the monitored MtF TSs only 40% completed the survey. The rest fallen off the radar.The second biggest part of the survey you didn't include is that is ALL based on self report, not any verifiable data. The third misconception in the survey is that it mainly reports about the satisfaction from the procedure, not the functionality of it. A fourth misconception about the SRS (not related to this specific survey)is that alleviates GD. The Very thorough, population wise, long term research on TSs in Sweden(the only ones of their kind) show no impact or even worsening of the problems they were meant to address.
Frankly, if you have gender dysphoria over having a penis and get surgery to have a vagina, how could that NOT alleviate gender dysphoria? Please cite your references if you are going to fear monger.
I've been binging after i came out to my mom bout me wanting to transition, and I've been tryna get more information about everything so thank you so much
My misconception about the surgery was that it would make dating easier, being a heterosexual trans woman. Well, it made sex easier for me but surprisingly the amount of men who can be with a trans woman but only if she has had vaginoplasty isn’t really a bigger subset than the ones who can be with any kind of a trans woman. It’s challenging to find love (sex is easy to find though) but eventually you will. I’ve found other trans women youtubers end up with the same conclusion. I had sex before and after the op and I coudl say it was a lot better after. A lot more sensitivity and a set that is easier to deal with and you’ll be more at home with your body. And yes, I’ve been with some men I forgot to tell about my past in advance and some of them couldn’t tell.
@@ecommerceroutine2428 Not sure if I understood what you meant with your question. Feel different compared to what? I’ve had intercourse with men before and after vaginoplasty. Before transitioning I was mostly with women, afterwards only with men. Intercourse nowadays feels a little like I thought it would but not entirely.
considering "cis gender" woman are supposed to be so jealous of not having periods, is no cis gendered woman I know. They understand this is the gate waY TO HAVing children. I have no words.
OMG, the state of ignorance in comments on this entire thread are both comical and embarrassing...lol The FACTS are, that certain techniques such as the Davidov method does indeed provide a nearly identical vagina(self lubricating) to that of any cis woman. It was originated in Russia, and is in use world wide to repair/complete intersex and trans-women who do not have a working vaginal tunnel. It is made from the paretineal tissue of the abdominal lining. Those tissues exhibit nearly identical abilities as a vagina tunnel, and after some time healing look identical to a cis woman's vagina.
As I heard from other trans women, there is also skin from the internal abdomen inserted. That skin provides humidity also on their original places and so will provide some lubrication also in the vagina (however I doubt that it will so depending on arousal). It was also mentioned that some trans women experience bleaching of their underwear from their discharge so it works!
Really?!?!!? UA-cam allows you to say ovaries and uterus and periods, but not vagina or orgasm? What the hell is wrong with these people? Reminds me of my great-grandmother. We had to refer to chicken as light-meat and dark-meat. Couldn't say breast or leg or thigh. Straight to hell, I guess . . .
@?? So are orgasms. Did you even read my comment? Perhaps my ironic way of expressing myself failed me. My whole point was that UA-cam is wrong, inconsistent, prudish and hypocritical to penalize normal discussion of biological functions and body parts. And . . . what about my name leads you to label me "clueless?"
Question of today: What do you work with? ❤
I make asphalt just outside Alingsås.
I hope your vocal surgery goes well and that it helps with your gender dysphoria
I create 3D models for games.
I'm a copier and large format service manager and engineer lol. I work with a bunch of guys that need telling what to do every half hour..... then I usually have to train them up to standard 😂 .....
I have to tie my hair up at work, wear uniform, polo neck, black trousers and flippin safety shoes 😓 try looking womanly in that getup 🙄 (my nails are always awesome though, until I break one)
Can we go out for a cup of coffee
I can't imagine how awkward it is for her to talk abt it but I'm MTF and so I'm really glad that she does
@OceanGirl207 ur mtf?
@OceanGirl207 cool we should be online friends, wat ur snap?
Wow same
That's what we call strong spirits 👻
You spelled he incorrectly
i am not trans or even apart of lgbt+ but i like watching these videos bcs it helps me get educated and understand others and their backgrounds
Period
Same, I just like people to live a life of peace and freedom. To be the person they want to be.
@@ScupperMan I love how incoherent the backlash is. “It’s all a lie” - what is all a lie? Do you even know what you’re upset about?
@@theextramiles404 "it's all a lie" meaning men who think they are a woman, facts are they never will be a woman, no matter how many surgeries they have
Thanks for being here ❤ Your support is crucial and empowering.
Really proud of you for putting yourself out there to educate people and other transwomen who have questions but have no one to ask ❤️
😂...so you have to be educated to feel woman🤣
@@mimim6885 how about “informing people about a major surgery”. You’re making yourself look dumb.
@@mimim6885girl can u read? Bro I swear get some glasses
@@Likeno217 🤓
@@mimim6885 😂😂😂😂 that's funny,I got it!!
She's real pretty. Happy to know she's doing good and shares her experiences with others who may need to hear it.
I must say this is the best transition i have ever seen.
That 1 in 10 000 that actually succeeds 100%
@@Tonixxy yeah, most passing transgenders would rather not post about it as their transition was to hide the fact that they're trans and posting about it would defeat that fact. some are different tho. personally would rather hide it
@@Tonixxy I mean not really
Like 99 percent of ppl that transition before 16 pass quite well
@@Rainfallzz i mean might as well injected Testosterone and be male
@@Tonixxy until it doesn’t
Thanks for doing this video. Also, thanks for actually telling people to keep working on themselves.
You are so sweet. I like your openness and thoughtfulness for others so that they can level-set their expectations. I am so glad you had the surgery - and so glad that you share your experience.
I appreciate that you said you would like to have the complete experience of normal woman fertility.
In reality, that is never going to happen
I just watched another trans woman say that you DO have to dilate for basically forever
Shes inaccurate saying. The procedures vary. Anyway my does not dialate 24/7
CIS Female. I can ASSURE you that when we say "you are so lucky that you don't get a period" we are absolutely not insinuating the inability to conceive or carry a baby. I have PCOS and was told I'd never be able to conceive and it was devastating, I couldn't imagine not having kids, not ONCE did I ever get angry because my friends all had regular periods or tell them that they should consider themselves lucky ect. The few times I did get mine was a few to many. They have nothing to do with whether or not we want to have a baby. If anything the lack of one makes you want a child more. It's hard to explain but that correlation is just not there.
We understand the insinuation is not that but from a trans women's perspective it kinda just rubs salt in the wound because it's just a reminder of one of our biggest insecurities
@@SapphireBurns trans women should accept reality and not pretend to menstruate for attention.
@@r5014 Are you can leave trans women alone
@@Kaylakaykay1997 Do you also pretend to menstruate for attention?
@@r5014 No one does that again could you mind your business
I'd imagine a lot of these "Myths" vary person to person. Especially when it comes to things like regret, sensations down there, and desire to have those kinds of activities. I'm not trans, but when I had a c-section with my daughter, the nerves in the area where they cut for the c-section never got their feeling back and there is a spot on my stomach that is still numb to this day. She's almost 12 years old now, so it was not recent. I know a c-section is not the same as SRS, but surgery is surgery and depending on your body, the surgeon, and other factors, there is a chance that some people might lose sensations in that area permanently. Probably not everyone, but there is a chance. I'd imagine researching your surgeon before going under the knife would probably help decrease those chances a lot though.
Exactly. I had a tummy tuck and all the area around the scar is still numb 2 years later. Also had a breast reduction and regained full sensation in that area, and my scars disappeared completely. Very different results from each surgery, and I did the same scar management protocol. I’m super happy with my tummy tuck the aesthetic result is beautiful but the numbness is frustrating.
Surgery is surgery!! Wrong!!! Surgery done on a male is not the same as surgery in a female, just like if you going to pull your teeth,one question a dentist ask a woman they're not going to ask a man.Are you pregnant?
Glad it worked for you. I had a friend who had V surgery and during Intercourse her V broke thru to her Rectum and she had to have a Colostomy to give it time to heal. She lost a Kidney in the process . She had problems the rest of her life and she was born a female formed perfectly on the outside just no V or other female organs
Wow gross 🤮
@@ac61900you people stay hating regardless if it’s a cis topic or a trans topic 😐
@@Lil_5_8_Cross_Eyelol… the person you commented towards was reacting to a terrible situation where a female’s vag legit split /ruptured and then she lost a kidney. It does sound gross and quite unfortunate to say the least. I’m a female and it makes me squirm just thinking about it.
@@masterofwit339 ok
Wow. Horrible. I had a large tumour and ended up with my v to back area...know exactly what that's like. Very painful scary. Hope life gets easier for your friend.
Don't feel awkward..cis women in general have problems. I have needed to lube for a long time! It's normal! No shame!!!
"cis ' women lol!!!!!!! Corny!!!!! Potatoe, potatoes
Bio Women
From a cis girl point of view: yes period can feel like a burden and the relationship can be complicated around it a lot because of how society has been treated women just because of their period BUT it’s super rude to rub it into someone’s face like that especially women that suffers from the lost of it. It’s not like I speak about how lucky someone is to not have a mom just because my mom is a full time work😅
So you dont mind being rename" cis" in order to add an subgroup
@@ninasimone1207 ?
@@emmaeriksson7155 She's the type to be mad about the label of "cis" because it's somehow offensive to cis people
@@enbeast8350 oh now I get it! Never heard of that before so was confused haha
Trans women don't suffer from the loss of a period. They never had one. They are fully functioning males. Stop pretending they females. That's why they in the Olympics trying to take over Female sports.
SRS healing takes circa 12 months; most of the healing occurs within the first 6 months. It is highly invasive surgery and there is a significant risk that things go wrong, requiring revision surgery. Such SRS was first performed in the 1950's in Denmark as pioneering surgery.
thank you for making this. iv been lied to so much, it is so hard to find real info.
as a cisgender male has had several cisgender females, and never had a trans female. I want you to understand that no two women I have had have felt exactly the same. So if it doers not feel the same QUIT WORRYINGF ABOUT IT!!
You will still feel like YOU!
Just to throw this out there I'm super comfortable with my body but so many cis women MYSELF included have issues with self lubrication. I definitely don't get as wet as other women and my partner and I ALWAYS use lube. So that shouldn't even be a factor, lube is nothing to be ashamed of. :)
First off biological females don't use the word cis',soooo that I'm itself will let biological females know you ain't a biological female and this is the Internet anyone can say anything, second bottom surgery which is located in the prostate on the opposite side of a man's butt is no COMPARISON TO A BIOLOGICAL FEMALE 'S VAGINA
NONE WHATSOEVER. STOP TRYING TO DISMISS BIOLOGICAL FEMALES TO SATISFY YOUR DILUSIONAL IDIOLIGY IDENTITY.
They can actually grow a vaginal canal using stem cells. They successfully implanted at least for in women who were born with underdeveloped canals. I think it’s pretty far off from some of the other more complex structures and organs though 🤷🏽♂️
Wow can u tell where u read that pls, i really need to know
Those women had underdeveloped vaginal canals, not NO vagina to start with. The vagina is actually quite complex, you can't just grow one and then implant it.
Becusse they were already women! Duh.
I understand why people have SRS and I say kudos to them for choosing to have such major surgery. I wish it was affordable in other places. I also worry that people will have the surgery they can afford instead of going to a really really good surgeon.
This will be my ignorance im sure. But why are trans still referred to as trans when they have already transitioned. Like in Mathildas case. She has already transitioned so isn't she just a woman. And if it was F to M they would just be a man. I'm just curious, probably a really stupid question. Surly after that its no ones business.
@@DAVING0 very good question! I have no idea. Hopefully Matilda is reading this and can answer. Maybe they don't usually, but only do it for education like in Matilda's case. I doubt any trans person when they meet someone new says hi, I'm John, I used to be a woman. And do nice to meet you too! We need more help with answers on this I guess.
@@susanmckee1406 Thanks for taking the time to answer back. I was just curious. I was half expecting it to be told it was a silly question but it was confusing me. As far as I'm concerned if they have transitioned then they are what they have transitioned into. Cheers Susan.
@@DAVING0 because transwoman are biological men.
@@DAVING0 still biological a man ♂️
Mathilda, thank you so much for sharing your videos! Since finding your channel, I have watched them repeatedly! Through your transparency, I have learned so much. Many of my burning questions have been answered. Thank you so much beautiful lady! You’re an angel!
I somewhat wish science was faster (while not becoming unethical), as animal testing has (in 3 different projects) used stem cells to make valid sperm, stem cells to make valid eggs, and artificial wombs that can get mouse babies from day 0 fertilization to half or more of the term.
Getting those three approved for humans will be huge for not just LGBT & disabled people, but also others that cannot currently have biological children.
You mite be able to answer a question for me. Is it possible to grow specific body parts from a persons stem cells ? Or even promote the growth of said body parts on the person.
@@DAVING0 Way above my amateur knowledge, but I know that we are in the process of being able to 3D print organs. I do not know if it uses stem cells or just regular DNA, but it is basically fast-growing your own organ which removes the possibility of it being rejected.
As of 5-6 years ago, there was an issue in making sure they don't collapse/die without flowing blood through them, but I am pretty sure they are past that stage by now.
A nifty side effect of this research is 3D printed meat products. You only need 1 cow to replace a farm full of cows, and there is no need for the muscle to be live-implanted, as it is just used for food~
@@unfortunatelyevil1767 This is amazing stuff. At some point there will be no need for anyone to kill animals for food. It seems like it would be a good thing for body dysmorphic people so they have full function without all the barbarity they have to go through. Thanks for your reply. I know this is a bit morbid but I'm fascinated with all this stuff. Iv not long learned about dysmorphia, its horrendous. It would be great if they had a fix that didn't come with any problems. Thanks for taking the time with your explanation. Cheers.
Does anyone else think that 75% success rate to be able to have an orgasm is actually pretty bad?
given how complex the surgery is, no
no
Far better than Boeing could manage with critical systems like the Oxygen masks.
Lmaoooo "you know what they did right?? You just had major surgery" 😂
I apologize if I had been harsh in other videos. I really don’t understand what it would be like to be anything other than a man. You sound very happy with who you are so I wish you the best in life. God Bless!
I was born a man , it's amazing if you are happy as a man. For me I can't relate to men at all. But when I hang out with my female friends everything is so different I feel like one of them. We feel the same way, we like the same things , we laugh and cried together.
It´s the same for girls who understand/feel better and more themselves around boys. So if it´s just it, enjoy the closeness and happiness with them; you are not alone. Nothing wrong with a man who is more on the feminine side; quite the opposite ^^
I’m scheduled for my surgery in May!!! Sooo can’t wait ❤
Happy for you girl! What surgeon?
@@andread5672 thank uuuu Dr Zamarias
@@peanusbirthday how did it go?? (In like a, how do u feel sorta way XD)
@@dsplays1 it hurt A LOT ngl. the dilating is not fun but necessary. But I now feel complete
@@peanusbirthday I am glad you got it done tho!! And now you know, it’s gonna be hard to go through anything more painful so you know you can do it
I'm a straight man and I think you are absolutely brilliant!
Your boyfriend is a very lucky man. 😊
Not sure why you need to say you’re a straight man just to say they are brilliant. If however you are sexually attracted to them, you’re definitely not straight.
@@jamesb4729 how come he isn't straight?
@@faziufaziowski4572 because the person he is attracted to is male?
You mean girl that made the video? I don't see any male there.
@@faziufaziowski4572 you’re blind then. It’s a biological male
Thanks!
Thank you so much 🌸
I think it's awesome that you did this video. I'm a cis guy, but this has always something I've wondered about (I think I have a far too scholastic interest in sex haha), and a woman talking about it from their perspective is both brave and enlightening. And selfless because this was clearly awkward for you to cover. I really hope transitioning options improve quickly over the next few decades, even though it sounds like it's in a pretty good state already. Cheers!
👌Your comment reflects what an empathetic, respectful, open minded person you are. I'm extremely curious about the world around me and other people's experiences as well; I just love to learn in general. I think taking the opportunity to be well informed helps us be more compassionate and sensitive humans! 😊
You're not a cis guy. You're a man. Do not adopt their ridiculous verbage as your own
It’s not in a pretty good state. Hormone therapy is basically given out like candy and we don’t have a lot of research on how it affects people but we do know HRT brings early onset dementia to males and hormone therapy in general results in cancer, emergency hysterectomies, osteoporosis, etc. Big Pharma and politics are using the trans movement to their advantage by administering unsafe drugs and allowing malpractice to make lifelong patients with lifelong complications. Bottom surgery is an experimental cosmetic procedure done by surgeons who are in it for the profit. There is no such thing as surgically creating a vagina so instead they are creating open wounds prone to infections and lifelong dialation. Phalloplasty is also a major risk. So many trans people die young or end up with tumours. I am absolutely all for freedom of gender and identity expression, within the limits of social and fashion expression and not medical transition. I just feel the need to tell people medically transitioning is extremely dangerous and not well researched. It is destroying lives and the fertility of future generations.
Thank you for not being a sweaty boy behind their screens hating on trans, we need more accepting people like u who are actually curious and don’t watch to hate.
Funny "cis" gave it away, ummm 🤔🤔 straight men don't use the word "cis" and have no interest in a man who cuts off his genitals.
Okay, but the earring metaphor was so smooth.
I like how you keep saying «obviously» 🌞
There was an article saying that uterus transplants for trans women will be possible in not that long
That's never gonna work that's as possible as me taking your gamates and producing spr, literally impossible lol.
@@slimthickaz. it was an article written by scientists, so they must know what they are talking about
Not me tto
@@Viktoria_Selene Doesn't matter who wrote it. It never happened and will never ever happen, it's impossible.
@@slimthickaz. literally a profesional said this, idk
@@Viktoria_Selene It's impossible stop doing this to yourself.
you look amazing girl really improved natural glow yay
I stepped away to get water and came back to Matilda at 10:16 flaliling her hand around wildly going "Mmmmm give it to me!".
lmao😂
Tack snälla fina Matilda för denna film :)
Please give us a tour of Sweden 🇸🇪!! Vlog of northern lights please !!! Nature and snowy mountains and the crystal blue water!! Enjoy the fresh air!!
Please don't feel awkward, you are providing valuable and helpful personal testimony of what you actually experienced; and that can only help trans women understand the very relevant issues.
Thank you, I know this couldn't have been easy. I've been waffling between vulvoplasty and vaginoplasty, and videos like this help.
YWNBAW
@@soniaess28 I am a bit baffled by you and other terfs coming to someone whose being positive and inspiring, and just crapping on others. Sorry you have so much hate in your heart.
@@davivignola5895 how fascinating that you view demands for women's rights as hate.
@@soniaess28 and that’s a blocking.
@@davivignola5895 stay out of women's spaces, you creepy perve.
Good job, I’m a woman by birth and love to know correctly how to address certain topics. Thank you. I won’t say your lucky because that really isn’t fair. I understand you while heartily. Peace and blessings
Thank you for being so open and honest. I am considering transition and you are helping me figure out my stuff. ❤
🤔🤨
How old are you please 🙂 there are many very true unfortunate stories regarding transition. Please research real stories.
@@beatrix3336"Please research real stories" ?!? 🤨😳🤯
This story is as real as it gets.
🤔 Why do I have the nagging feeling that your true intentions are not as noble as you would like us to believe?
While it is true that there are unfortunate transition stories and it's important to be aware that there are risks in SRS like in any other surgery, this channel tells a success story AND provides very useful information to those interested. I believe that this comment section is a place to share personal experiences, offer support and/or ask questions. Asking for one's age is inappropriate and leads me to believe that you're one of those people who think "children should not go through SRS because they're too young". If my impressions are wrong in any way, please accept my sincere apologies.
@@ironshoes1720 It’s pretty clear what and how this was meant - at least to me. The term “real” is unfortunate, yes, but the rest? I do not get what’s wrong with “children should not go through SRS because they’re too young” - because it’s true. They are not allowed to drive, drink, got a tattoo - and they should be allowed to go through such drastic changes? When their brain is still developing? You can’t be serious here - at least, I hope you are not.
The original comment is curious in a healthy and polite way - showing some degree of care and making sure the shatteredmormon5005 got all the essential info - which is the good and the bad. People tend to believe in fairytales/positive and successful stories and fall for them quickly because they want things to happen - the risks and downsides could prevent this wish, so they close their eyes rather than face it/search for it. They should stand more on the middle ground for the best.
This video helps a lot, seriously, it helps a lot ❤
I'm almost 8 months into feminems myself and can't wait to have bottom surgery. That won't be for at least a year or so from now, though, depending on how long the hormones take to work their mojo. At least I know how to debunk these misconceptions in case someone tries to give me shit for it.
Feminems 😄
@@Viktoria_Selene And now here I am, two and a half years along. It's been a hell of a ride.
@@DarDarBinks1986 so cool!
I'm still waiting for an appointment and it's taking ages 😭
@@DarDarBinks1986I hope it's going well still
@@talkingonthespectrum I'm coming up on three and a half years of HRT and it sure is going well.
I would never say someone was "lucky" for not having a period. For CIS women, having a regular period is an important indicator of health. When we don't get our period and are not pregnant, it means something is wrong...
And it's kind of rubbing infertility in your face. Id think it would be such a rude thing to say to someone Trans or cis.
I'm happy for you. It's great that reproductive health and sexual functions surgery are becoming more progressive for all women. Even surgery as a result of rape or malpractices in child birth relate to transgender women because all women feel gender dysphoria. Its just to bad ignorant orges feel like transgender women are less than any other woman, the same has been said about black people being less of a human being. I think it's safe to say most women want love and good sex.
You are less than a woman because you’re not a woman at all. You can call yourself a dog but that don’t make it factual
Gender dysphoria is usually attributed to the misalignment between you mental gender identity and your physical characteristics which don't match that identity. So after SRS what does there remaining dysphoria look like? Are there certain "hot buttons" that trigger it? How does it differentiate from a non-trans person just having a bad day? Any or all answers will be appreciated. Thx.
How much does the surgery cost and how long does it take. Just curious. I’ve herd that allot of people go to Thailand to get it done cheaper for around £5000.
Duration: about 4 to 5 hours, depending on technique, surgeon, etc. I was narcotized for exactly 4:30 (according to my surgery record).
Cost: well, german statutory health insurance does cover it (you've got to run a gauntlet of bureaucracy for it, though), so I've never seen any bill. Reports from people with private insurance range about 30k EUR +/- 5k (in Germany). Thailand is cheaper, yes, but I doubt that it's that cheaper. Last time I heard from him Dr. Suporn (the god of GRS there) charged about 25k EUR. It's possible that some 'backyard clinic' does do it for 5000, but I wouldn't go there. You've only one shot with this, so you better pick your surgeon and clinic carefully.
Uk surgery took about 2.5 hours, with 7 days in hospital, 2 weeks at home not allowed out. This was covered under the NHS so didn't directly cost me anything. Last time I looked Thailand surgery cost £18000. While there may be some who are a lot cheaper, I'm not sure I would trust them!
@@miriamn1075 good point. As the saying goes if you be cheap you buy twice due to bad quality.
The problem is that you can't buy twice in this case. Botched is botched, correction a complicated and agonizing thing.
It's not cheap anymore.
I had a friend (who was very supportive) who said I was lucky I wouldn't get a period when I first began to transition. I explained it to her it's the equivalent of a cis woman going through life knowing she could never have a child. After that she understood.
Thank you Mathilda. Really good video, nicely edited for UA-cam etc.
Seriously though I'm really thankful for these videos ! I'm almost at surgery time, 1x private diagnosis 2x NHS (UK) funding approved and just waiting for a date 4 years after starting hormones. These videos really really help me feel more confident about the next step xxx
Counter one myth with another is a mythtake : consider this from Mayo Clinic After discharge, patients need to adhere to several activity restrictions. For example, avoiding baths for up to eight weeks, abstaining from sexual activity for approximately 12 weeks, and gradually resuming physical activities over six weeks. Diligent hygiene practices and long-term monitoring for potential complications, such as infections, are also essential. Lifelong follow-up care, including ongoing dilation if not sexually active, is necessary to maintain results and address any complications that might arise.
How could it feel fake? Obviously, Hayward feel like what it feels like. I don't know what that is? What I do know is it would be authentic for whoever it is you happen to be. So if you're a girl, or a trans girl, or trans boy, or whatever trans thing or whatever thing you are
I've had the good fortune to have sex (as a guy) with trans girls and cis girls. My wife is a trans woman. It doesn't feel the same. Doesn't mean it's fake or it's a deal killer. The internal vagina is just a complex organ that can't be fully recreated with this surgical technique.
Actually, all these myths were essentially true 30-years ago, which is why they persist as myths, despite advancements in science.
Gender affirmation surgery saves lives .anything that does that can do that is A ok . ❤
Not really it mask it temporary as you get older it gets harder to hold back.
“10 to 15 years after surgical reassessment, the suicide rate of those who had undergone sex-reassignment surgery rose to 20 times that of comparable peers.”- according to “the most thorough follow-up of reassigned people-extending over 30 years and conducted in Sweden.” I’m not convinced it saves lives.
@@kalvinflowers6178 Sweden admitted that study was biased and the statistics are wrong.
@@MiaRosenbloom This is not the only source of these type stats. I’ll leave it to you to research as I don’t want to get into a debate over it. Unfortunately, this has become politicized.
I mean... as a woman I actually appreciate my periods but it can be annoying at times (like bleeding through clothes) so that might be why women complain about it every once in a while.
Bleeding through clothes and a whole list of other unpleasant symptoms is why natal females complain about our periods. It’s part of the genuine experience of biological women. We carry the cradle of life….literally
No one wants periods, and if you were able to experience one, I assure you, you'd change your tune. For some women, periods are excruciating.
Not all women experience periods
Not all of us don't like ours. Mine are completely 100% painless and come like clockwork every 28 days.
@@ellaellaeheheh All healthy ones do.
Autogynephiliacs fetishize ALL aspects of a woman, including our cycles sadly
@@slimthickaz. so you're saying MtF aren't healthy
Ive read some horrible posts by troglodytes on your videos. And im sure you know this already. You are a very attractive woman. Youve done a great job transistioning. You should be so proud of yourself. The trogs are talking out of hate. Hate they feel for themselves if they could be honest.
Thanks for these great videos. You answer a lot of my questions. You are a wonder.
Your videos are very educational, Mathilda! I must confess, I had a few of these myths. (Not all of them, thank God!) Thank you for setting me straight. And thank you for being willing to go past the awkwardness, to explain all these things to us. So much of prejudice stems from ignorance. Enlightenment comes from learning the truth. I find you absolutely delightful, Mathilda. Your boyfriend is a very lucky man!
First off he is lying. She can not self lubricate. They don’t have the same vaginal walls as a woman. The don’t have the glands needed for that. So I personally don’t believe anything said here.
This takes courage to talk about so kudos to you
I’m happy I got this recommendation it fits right into my dreams. I also want to feel completely happy. ❤️💕
So you can guarantee I wont have to dilate everyday after a few years, thanks such a relief to know it wont go on for forever, thanx for assuring me that I wont be dilating everyday, such a relief. Hooray thanx for clearing that up, now I can go and have mtf surgery knowing it will be sucessful without long term complications. It means so much to have a trans people to say its worth it, and and I wont regret it, thanx so much for clearing it up and that its worth doing it to have full sexual function. Cheers Mathilda.
If your afterwards have enough sex you won’t have to dilate at all. Something has to go in ones in a while. It is totally fine if that is a penis
You're really brave to talk about this so openly. Liked and subbed
First, that piercing comparison was such a great comparison.
Second, STOP. CALLING. YOURSELF. GIRLY! You are not a girl. You are a woman. Girls are like 9 years old. You are a beautiful adult woman so rock that shit.
That is all. Positive vibes to you .
“They had us in the first half not gonna lie”
Second, STOP. CALLING. YOURSELF. GIRLY! You are not a girl. You are a man. Girls are like 9 years old and females. You are a beautiful adult man so rock that shit.
@@r5014 aw is someone upset that someone else made life choices without asking permission first? How does this hurt you in any way? Seriously, why exactly does this bother you so much?
@@bpdsweetheart8074 "Girl" can be used to describe a young woman, even a young adult one. Doesn't necessarely have to be a child. It depends on the context, tho. Same thing for "boy", but to describe young males
@@bpdsweetheart8074 it hurts me bu the fact they constant deny reality and try to change it to suit their childish whims he wants to be a girl I want to the richest man alive but I can't have that and neither can he. He needs to stfu accept who he was born as and move on
Cis woman here; I can only take 5" (12.7 cm) & I always have to use lube. Even the "downsides" of neovaginas can also occur in natal vaginas.
I have to say that the bottom surgery of my friend is phenomenally good!! :)
By the way, 15 cm is 6 inches.
I think it's worth noting that with HRT many trans women do experience most of the common period symptoms, including cramping, diarrhoea, emotional changes, among many others. Essentially, all of them except bleeding.
How can they feel cramping if they do not have a uterus?
@@jasongaffigan8758 It's the abdominal muscles that cramp.
@@jasongaffigan8758because the cramping is mostly done by the belly and back muscles. They will just react to the hormones, if the person has a uterus or not.
They don’t have period cramps because they don’t have a uterus. Also diarrhea is not a normal symptom you’re just eating shit. Emotional changes are caused by synthetic hormones if you’re messing with your hormones it is what it is.
@@jasongaffigan8758they’re just lying to feel validated. They should get pepdo for gas
Totally agree with u with the period topic... Lots of cis friends told me so and it hurts knowing to be never able to get own children.
Uh… you could’ve had children!!! You just chose not to have it with your ACTUAL body parts
Do like we did… keep our body parts and have a baby… DUH!! That’s how I had my child. I didn’t “change” into a “man” and then say oh darn I wish I could have kids. No!! I’m a woman, I got pregnant and had a baby
well Meka Doz, this would only works out with a "functional" relationship or u have to get a woman who is willing to carry it out. Because im pansexual and don't care about my partners gender at all,there are constellation where it is impossible to do so. I just buried my dream of children and keep looking forward. At the end I feel better with the fact, that the world is ugly, harsh and there are lots of lone and lost childs u could adopt instead. :)
Lol be happy, I'm on mine right now😂
@@slimthickaz. fr
When it comes to menstruation I don't think anyone should be calling each other "lucky". Some women don't have a period due to cancer or never had one and some women have horrible, painful, heavy periods that are debilitating and upsetting. Who's willing to tell either woman they're lucky? No one knows how they feel about it, so calling each other lucky for having or not having a period is a little short-sighted and insensitive.
Thank you for sharing with us Mathilda. You seem to be a wee bit happier. I really hope so. All the best.
You are so amazing and ty for being you cuz I relate a lot and I can't stand that almost every year at pride someone's representing us all wrong and ruining it for just normal trans women that aren't exhibitionist (about chest like this last year), etc 🤍🩷
Sorry for before the last edit I feel like the definition of that word used to be a lot tamer
Thank you for talking breathe in and breathe out it helps
You can wish for periods all you want, but as a bio female with endometriosis that has resulted in being cut open twice to remove massive cysts on my ovaries and the doc finding endometrial lesions in my pelvic cavity and pain attacks growing in frequency and severity over the past several years, I genuinely don’t want to hear it. I respect what you’re doing with you’re life to be who you feel you are, but seriously. Having a uterus for many women is absolute misery and with the pain and the impact endometriosis is having on living a full life at 25 years old, I have every right to tell you that YES, you are lucky that you can be a woman without the massive amount of physical ailments that I’m pretty sure 1 in 3 women have. I hate hate hate hearing this. Unless you can fathom having biology that may very well turn against you for the entirety you your childbearing years and be okay with the pain and scars and it may leave you while also robbing you of feeling like a functional woman, It’s so messed up to say that “cis-women” have no right to tell a trans woman how lucky they are that they don’t possess organs that wreck havoc on many women’s existences.enjoy what you have. Being a woman is more than just fetal incubation and wearing pretty things.
I agree with you for the most part; ovulation isn’t fun or something to be glorified. When trans people say they wish they could experience periods, they’re not saying it’s a fun and positive experience that they wish they could appropriate. They’re saying the idea that their body isn’t capable of pregnancy makes them dysphoric. I for one, am glad that I don’t have to experience that and the risks that come along with it, but I also understand why not experiencing it can be a trigger for some people’s dysphoria.
@@BujjuIsABee Ovulation is nothing serious it's just clear sticky liquid.
ur literally bitter. regardless of the realities of whatever tf you or other women go through. she will never get to experience certain parts of womenhood and it is sad for her. whatever u went through has nothing to do with her experience. and since u innately had that experience from birth, it’s really not your place to judge someone who wishes for something that they didn’t have.Theres so many women who view trans women as some sort of 3rd party. Shes a woman to u until she says she wishes she had periods and now all the sudden shes not woman enough because she has an opinion u dont like.
but i know if i press it deep down u probably dont even accept trans ppl and thats why u are ranting on the internet
I had “ female” problems since my first period at 11 yrs old! 9:13 . Severe, excruciating pain for 5-7 days each month. Severe endometriosis that required surgery 11 x !! At the time the technology was not yet there. I’ve had 11 D&C procedures. Each time was pure hell! Finally had to get a hysterectomy ( total- incision from hip to hip) which took close to a yr to subside. When I was put on HRT, it was a dream come true. No more hemorrhaging every month. No more pain+ the ever present PMS symptoms. I had 6 pregnancies-/ only 3 went to full term. Sometimes you need to look at the context that a statement is in to understand why it’s being said. I think that in today’s “ politically correct, or incorrect has people almost afraid to say anything cause words get pulled apart beyond what makes sense. Just imho , we need to mellow out+ give people the benefit of the doubt. 😁💜
@BujjuIsABee Ovulation is the fun part. It's the uterine shedding that is a nightmare.
Thank yu for being brave and honest , even if it feels awkward . It•s nice to hear these kinds of testimonies from someone who has experienced it and can talk openly about it . Also , the technologies for Incubators and 3D Bioprinting are becoming very advanced , so hold out! . Yu might get the chance yet .
Ms. Girly, I’m so happy I found your channel! I’m a girl who’s just figuring things out regarding my sexuality and stuff-but I’ve always been-I guess-not as knowledgeable on trans people/experience as I really need to be-so thank you for that! And I love your hair😊
Congrats that you made the right decision❤
So close to being first darn it didn’t make it Matilda you are exactly right on all of this
I have been watching all your videos for a longtime but never had a chance to comment. You absolutely look and sounds like Gal Gadot! Omg!
As an “educator” you don’t have to feel ackward about talking about it.. in 2021 especially when it comes to telling ppl the truth ... say what you mean and mean what you said... shouldn’t be ackward .. we’re all adults if grown adults can’t take you talking about Sex then they probably shouldn’t be watching... so for future videos you can leave out it’s awkward to talk about you’ve been through it ... we’re all mature and grown .. tell us what you know 😌
Mine is in a few weeks!!!! It's been 18 years in the making since I knew that this is what has to happen, about 4.5 years since beginning transitioning and HRT, 2 years since orchi, and one year since FFS.
Hi Mathilda sweetie, I have one question: "After seven year of having bottom surgery; can you vgg feel still hurt when having sex with your partner?" Thanks previously 🙏🏻
@Logical Rationalist wow that is absolutely disgusting!!! Can't believe that people are so messed up in the head to actually remove their weiner and mutilate it completely..... It's like, no......
I think they lie about removing it. I think they still got the man parts.
Thank you so much for sharing!
It’s beautifully gorgeous Matilda obviously
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Thank you so much for talking Abt this I can't imagine how uncomfortable it is to talk Abt this
Have you had any other surgery? Facial feminization, adam's apple removal or anything like that?
never mind wow you answered all my questions lmaooo nice video
The biggest part of the survey you left out is this.Of the monitored MtF TSs only 40% completed the survey. The rest fallen off the radar.The second biggest part of the survey you didn't include is that is ALL based on self report, not any verifiable data. The third misconception in the survey is that it mainly reports about the satisfaction from the procedure, not the functionality of it.
A fourth misconception about the SRS (not related to this specific survey)is that alleviates GD. The Very thorough, population wise, long term research on TSs in Sweden(the only ones of their kind) show no impact or even worsening of the problems they were meant to address.
Frankly, if you have gender dysphoria over having a penis and get surgery to have a vagina, how could that NOT alleviate gender dysphoria? Please cite your references if you are going to fear monger.
I've been binging after i came out to my mom bout me wanting to transition, and I've been tryna get more information about everything so thank you so much
My misconception about the surgery was that it would make dating easier, being a heterosexual trans woman. Well, it made sex easier for me but surprisingly the amount of men who can be with a trans woman but only if she has had vaginoplasty isn’t really a bigger subset than the ones who can be with any kind of a trans woman. It’s challenging to find love (sex is easy to find though) but eventually you will. I’ve found other trans women youtubers end up with the same conclusion.
I had sex before and after the op and I coudl say it was a lot better after. A lot more sensitivity and a set that is easier to deal with and you’ll be more at home with your body. And yes, I’ve been with some men I forgot to tell about my past in advance and some of them couldn’t tell.
Does male partner feel different during intercourse
@@ecommerceroutine2428 Not sure if I understood what you meant with your question. Feel different compared to what? I’ve had intercourse with men before and after vaginoplasty. Before transitioning I was mostly with women, afterwards only with men. Intercourse nowadays feels a little like I thought it would but not entirely.
I mean after vaginoplasty when any cisguy intercourse in Neo vagina he feels any difference as compared to natal vagina or both are same in function
I found sex easily but love seems impossible 🫠🫠
Not telling your partner is foul asf. Sorrry you’re fucked up for that
Very helpful! Regards from Baltimore.
considering "cis gender" woman are supposed to be so jealous of not having periods, is no cis gendered woman I know. They understand this is the gate waY TO HAVing children. I have no words.
Right & Not all women can have kids but not one man has ever had a child
I'd give mine up. Someone else can have it. I was planning to adopt anyway because I don't want to produce children in this world.
thank u so much for sharing this theme!!!!❤
How could a trans woman possibly self lubricate?
They don't. It's an inverted colon.
OMG, the state of ignorance in comments on this entire thread are both comical and embarrassing...lol The FACTS are, that certain techniques such as the Davidov method does indeed provide a nearly identical vagina(self lubricating) to that of any cis woman. It was originated in Russia, and is in use world wide to repair/complete intersex and trans-women who do not have a working vaginal tunnel. It is made from the paretineal tissue of the abdominal lining. Those tissues exhibit nearly identical abilities as a vagina tunnel, and after some time healing look identical to a cis woman's vagina.
It's not possible they have no cervix.
As I heard from other trans women, there is also skin from the internal abdomen inserted. That skin provides humidity also on their original places and so will provide some lubrication also in the vagina (however I doubt that it will so depending on arousal). It was also mentioned that some trans women experience bleaching of their underwear from their discharge so it works!
Medical professional here, it is impossible for this fake hole to self lubricate. These people lie for some reason. It’s really quite sad.
I feel your wish to have children and it’s unbelievable to me that so many women don’t want to have children but that’s just me
Are there really people out there that thought this would allow you to get pregnant?
Ikr smh
Thanks Matilda!❤️🔥
Really?!?!!? UA-cam allows you to say ovaries and uterus and periods, but not vagina or orgasm? What the hell is wrong with these people? Reminds me of my great-grandmother. We had to refer to chicken as light-meat and dark-meat. Couldn't say breast or leg or thigh. Straight to hell, I guess . . .
OK Groomer.
@@kaylykellys7414 What's a Groomer? Should I be insulted?
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So are orgasms. Did you even read my comment? Perhaps my ironic way of expressing myself failed me. My whole point was that UA-cam is wrong, inconsistent, prudish and hypocritical to penalize normal discussion of biological functions and body parts. And . . . what about my name leads you to label me "clueless?"
thank you so much for your experience and vulnerability with us....im grateful.
I can't say anything except a big Thank You! :-)
I love how you explain it, it realy helped me a lot, thank you so much! also nice ur from Sweeden, im from Norway so hello neighbour
"Thing" call it SEX, You're an adult. Omg this is 2021. You are the only one making it sound weird.
you are fantastic Mathilda.