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Choose a Woman who Chooses YOU : Approach Tips For Men
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- Опубліковано 24 гру 2022
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In some African villages, it's the women who choose the men. Men do not ask women out or hit on them. They do their own thing and the women decide if he's worth approaching or attracting. The men are perfectly masculine and manly. This is how dating and mating is done in these communities.
Interesting.
That's how it works in our culture to. The worst thing is when women try to collect men in a sort of mini haram as backups just in case.
thats interesting ty
Thanks for uploading this video. He made a lot of great points! You have said similar things in your previous videos as well, but for some reason these hit home. I believe as men, we want who we want so we don't always go to the open door. I believe women do the same as well. Part of it is just plain human nature.
I've had that feeling of not being noticed or invisible for many years! I used to be shy but as I've aged I'm not but still feel like I'm invisible!
Do you make yourself invisible? And not letting people get to know you?
@@schahrzadmorgan As a young man i dressed in the fashion of the time but still could'nt get noticed! As an older guy it does'nt bother me ! I like women but don't really want a full time relationship! I dont think i make myself invisible i dress for my age but have a personal style that i like so I 'm not sure if I'm repelling women with my clothing or demeanour!
There are not a lot of videos about dating I can say they are good, but this one is definetely one of them.
Thank you.
I've definitely had times where I chose an open door and the women were hotter than anything I could have imagined, but I'd say like 90% of the women who choose me, I cannot stand at all. I would seriously rather die than end up with them for the rest of my life. And I know that there have been times where I was just completely oblivious to indicators. This one Japanese girl seriously wanted to fuck me and I just had no clue at all and I really should have done it. People just need to go out in the real world and talk to more people. That's the only way anything is going to happen. Online is just getting worse and worse for relationships.
Thank you for making the video, it's excellent.
I really enjoyed your interview on another video!
Well done 👏👏👏👏
2:00 Intresting
God! This man is so right. I made negectful mistakes in the past due to loyalty 😑
The ones i get..i dont want, they ones i want i dont get
I don’t know what to tell you. Same goes for me.
@@jbissainthe I've learned to live without them
@@skyking6989 , yessir!
Two Seinfield bits cover this:
When I like them they don't like me, and when they like me..... I DONT like them.
and
A relationship is what happens when both people feel like they are getting someone too good for them.
--In other words, people always want a great deal, they want to walk into a store with a $20 and come out with $100 worth of stuff (or better). The stuff you can get is never quite what you want is it?
I assumed only men thought immediately that they want to fuck a woman they just met! Good to know that women feel that way!
We can and it's usually gentler like "would I want this man near me or on top of me?" This is gentler than the male version of seeing a woman naked
Ive had more women want me in the short term sexually than in the long term. Sounds like im talking myself down right but its not like that. Women like a new mysterious man who ticks the boxes, they go crazy for it
Yes, absolutely! Go after the woman who chooses you! That's always been the "natural" way to get to know a woman. No one can take credit for inventing the idea. I don't like the word "date" (or dating since both words carry a lot of negative connotations, almost as if going on a date is more of a chance to "get lucky." I prefer the phrase " get to know" someone. Sad thing is that many guys are not “chooseable.” And "dating coaches" are trying to teach such men how to be attractive to women. It doesn't work in the long run. In the end, it doesn't matter because it very likely won't last. You'll split up, get divorced, and be unhappy and angry for the rest of your life.
Choose someone that truly wants to be with you.
@@sherriflemming3218 Yes, but for how long? Seems almost all relationships have an expiration date stamped on them. Never been interested in "getting lucky," picking up girls, one-night stands, and so on--although surrounded with countless tempting situations. Instead, I looked for a woman that would be everything a woman is supposed to be to the man she "loves": wife, mother of their children, supportive, loyal (committed), generous, honest, smart, mentally and physically healthy, aware of the need of men and women to adhere to customary social roles where the man will lead in a loving and kind way, not the other way around. Found such a woman a long time ago. Unfortunately, I was a struggling student and couldn't afford to start a family and pursue my educational goals at the same time. So, I lost her and never found another remotely like her. The physicality of love means nothing to me in the absence of a comprehensive loving relationship that’s built to last forever.
It's an agreement it's an Accord. Do you want it do you like. Do you need it.
…if, is a very powerful word
I couldnt disagree more... a real man goes after what he wants, he doesn't need a permission from anyone. If a man is waiting for a woman to choose him, he is automatically putting himself into a submissive frame.
Uh, no. If she’s picking you, she is already stepping into yours. You just need to give her a reason to stay.
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There’s absolutely no point in chasing girls, because once a woman decides that she isn’t interested in you romantically/sexually, there’s absolutely nothing you can do to change her mind. Just go after the girls that have decided they want you.
@@Me-eb3wv You can change it, but you will have to expend a lot of energy with a low probability of success.
Choose someone who truly wants to be with you. All in
Understanding your attachment style is how you behave in relationships.
Women's mating standards are higher.
Wounded birds need to multi date. They have unhealthy attachment. Healthy love is dating one person at a time.
The Paradox Of Choice Ted Talk
The Mask You Live In Documentary
Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller
Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO
Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin
These books model the mechanics of healthy relationships Personal development is empowering!
8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman
If The Budda Dated by Charlotte Kasi
Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel
The 7 Principles Of Making A Marriage Work by John and Julie Gottman
Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg PhD
I Hear You by Micheal Sorenson
Are You The One For Me? by Barbara DeAngelis
What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay
Safe People by Dr Henry Cloud
Boundaries by Dr Henry Cloud
The 10 Essentials Of A Secure Partnership-by Dr Stan Tatkin
@@Me-eb3wv as if women's opinion matters. In reality, men compete against each other to gain the right to choose the women THEY want, not the other way round.
You: "we women want to be approach"
Women on forums: "men need to leave us alone and stop bothering us in the streets." "We need a woman only gym so that we won't be bothered by men."
Approach women who've given you choosing signals. Ladies, we must do that!
Women need to feel safe with a man. We follow our intuition. If a guy is overly aggressive or an obvious PUA it's a turn off for many women publicly. Exactly choosing signals.
I think some of you are getting the whole context wrong… What this means is go find a woman who actually wants you back ….and you want them as well.
It means learn the signals of what a woman is interested in you so that you have a better determination on if you would pick her so that she could pick YOU.
That’s because she’s obviously out there looking for someone like you!
It doesn’t mean to literally chase after a bunch of women that you know are not going to pick you and forcing them to pick you
It means you need to stay within your level… So if you know you’re a 6 you need to pick a woman that’s a 5,6,7… not a 10.
At least pick a woman within your range! This same logical advice should go for women as well.
This is great advice!
Wow great shower thoughts.
Choose someone that really wants to be with you.
For the average man, a more realistic depiction would be 4 out of the 5 doors shut, and maybe now and then one is open. Mess that up, and wait a long time to come across another open one.
My problem is finding a door I like. Same result.
Problem is most of the women who choose me i dont want, however i would sleep with them (dont mean to be rude). But really maybe thats perfectly natural thoughts and maybe it could or should be like that hmmmm
Was that Dr Robert Glover?
Yes.
Choosing make me feel like I'm listening to some pimp shit 😂
Block who you need to block. Do what must be done