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What Makes a Husband or Boyfriend Good in Bed so Women Want More Sex With Him?
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Too many men are anxious or rushed so eventually the wife has had enough of his horrible sex and refuses sex w him or cheats or divorces.
Here's the interview with Dr. Robert Glover
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Schahrzad Morgan I know that one of your goals is to help men who are willing to help themselves to be better men, better lovers and to have better relationships. However, I think we could use some insight into what makes a girlfriend/wife a good in bed. I can imagine that in your life you have heard plenty of men that you have been with complain about their wife or GF because they were not good in bed. How can we as men avoid women who are not good in bed and/or who are going to be pillow princesses?
This is absolutely pure gold. Anyone complaining about this hasn’t watched any other of your videos. I’m a 52 year old woman that left a sexless marriage. Same situation.
I have never had the pleasure of knowing someone like this lady. Being open and getting on with life without the bullshit that kills so many relationships. This was refreshing to hear about having honest communication. This was always missing. I was always in search of someone like her but in my experience they never existed.
The mental/ emotional connection is 95% of the overall success.
I totally agree! 💯
Absolutely
I friend a young woman on fb bc we had a spiritual connection
Once again, the men have to do all of the work/improvement while women can just continue on as they always have.
Pillow princess? Why would anyone want to fuck you if you just lay there or thrust like a rabbit??? Lmao
You obviously have seen none of her content.
Exactly what I thought …especially from a homely bitchy un appreciative type
Amen 🙏 Dude 🤔👍😏👀
Yeah let's talk about how women can improve instead of laying there like a dead fish
Why would a guy keep his eyes closed or look away? I mean, looking into a woman's eyes is one of the most enjoyable part of the experience.
Right? Avoidants do that.
@@schahrzadmorgan That's a pity for them and the woman they're with.
This is how people shout out the wrong name, closing their eyes and forgetting the right rider.
@@cruiser6260😂😂😂
The heartbreak kid
It has nothing to do with the bed and everything to do with emotions. Kissing is where it’s at. Not sex. We both need emotional connection for true satisfaction in the bedroom. The emotion comes first. That only comes in kissing. Getting off in sex is more of a feeling of relief, but it doesn’t make us feel closer which is what we actually want. The true fixation of both men and women shouldn’t be the bedroom but the lips. If we replace porn with something, it would be with kissing videos. As strange as that sounds, the real act that brings men and women closer together in sexual unity isn’t sex, it’s the kiss.
I love that you said this! I wish more men knew this. Kissing is so incredibly intimate. I love long kissing sessions. I wish I had more of that.
Very early in my relationship with my wife, I made it a goal to make sex as enjoyable for her as possible.
It's rare that she doesn't climax multiple times from multiple types of stimulation.
I'm a firm believer that the more a woman enjoys sex with you, the more frequently she wants it. I believe our friends who say they don't have often and just want to get it over quick when it does happen because they don't really enjoy it are doing something wrong and need to change their game.
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I also turned to women as I was fed up of terrible sex with men.
👏 appreciate your point of view, men need you
It’s crazy to me to think most men love sex more than anything yet don’t take time to learn how to do it properly.. research practice talk with your woman connect mindful sex is the key.. iv found if you do not get of on giving then you won’t be very good in bed !! Men and woman both need to know .. men need sex to feel loved woman need to feel loved to have sex… and never let your self go.. even if you have been married for 30 year still try to look good for each other never stop flirting. I am more than ever still attracted to my wife of 20 years.. sex just gets better I don’t know how that’s even possible it was unbeatable to begin with!!!
"don’t take time to learn how to do it properly." - there is no proper way. it's all imaginary.
As a 52 y/o man, you nailed it. This is so mature and down to earth conversations. It never made sense to me that men are complaining about women with “high body counts” and men with the same are not talked about. I am going to invest in your sessions.
Thank you so much for explaining to me the reason for no sex or affection from my wife for over twenty two years. I can relate to everything you have said. I was completely clueless regarding my wife’s needs and she eventually gave up and became a good friend to me. Wish I watched your posts before we married.
A husband notice immediately if the woman is starfish constillation and he feels akward. He does not feel loved by the woman and he actually quickly loose interest in her. If he starts to believe or suspect that she is meeting someone else it will be the final straw, even though no words have been spoken. Very few women want to do anything about it as they do not really care, as they are confident in a divorce situation taking half of the property. Perhaps the guys wife gets bigger and bigger and does not want to have sex with her . He is supposed to and wants to be loyal and faithful, but without any bedtime action. Practice makes perfect but if you dont have practice how are you supposed to play. Its a fxxxing tragedy. In the end the man starts wondering how to get out of it and does not even want to sleep in the same bed. She acts like nothing has changed or happened, which is the final dagger and that nothing can be done and seems to be happy not to have a husband. Fffing depressing, and now the only thing holding him back is the kids, which will help in the ways ... Yes, now she has got her will.... Will he wake up ?
I think all of that anger is causing more unwanted wrinkles.
Give love to your anger
I appreciate your articulations. I hope the men are listening! Do you have a link to the interview you did with Dr. Glover that you can share?
Thanks for reminding me. I just added the card to the video at 5:50 and pinned the video link in the comments to this video.
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Great video! I always wanted to write a book on how bad it was for women in the bedroom. I’ve noticed that men don’t really understand a woman’s body at all. I can’t understand the only going for 1 to 2 minutes or the 2-5 pumps and it being over..I only started having good intimacy 5 years ago.
2 minutes in she doesn't realise she just said she was attracted to emotionally unavailable men 🤦
They all are. Subconsciously signals his value to them.
This was great! I’ve dated a lot in my 20’ & 30’s. I had long relationships with the guys that satisfied my high sexual needs. Otherwise, they were out pretty quick.
When I watch your videos, I experience a profound loneliness and emptiness I have never felt before.
Oh. ♥️
You're just sensing her emptiness.
You make me laugh out loud!
You tell the truth and lots of men don’t want to hear that
Greetings from Egypt 🌷😇🌷
Thank you so much for your effort
I would like an advice about things to take care of to get along with an older woman , if possible pls talk to us about that 😇
I like how you talk about truth in the bedroom.
Beautiful video , Schahrzad, .could listen to you all night, and day after day .
Thank you
Women never say what they really want, they want men to find that themselves. Well, good luck!
You make a good point, which is why I appreciate her video, she actually explains herself.
Imagine if more Women were honest like that. They might actually get what they say they want.
But that takes courge and integrity, and maybe a little empathy with the delivery.....See what I'm getting at?
It’s easy: have some skills, make her feel desired (lusted after), and then go slightly slower thank she wants.
Thanks for the video.
my best friend, his mother in law HATED him and loved me. He couldn't understand it. He said 'ci2mn" is just like me, but 10x as much". I THINK that the difference was I love kids and he does not. Women have HAD to have 'radar" about men for millennia, so they pick up on things by osmosis, and often are not even consciously aware of WHY they dont like a given guy. They just know that they dont, and that's good enough for them. There's not much the guy can do about it, so he's normally just wasting his time on THAT chick and needs to move on to somebody else.
Her list in the beginning makes me smile. There are amazing women that do not think like this one
She reminded me of my ex wife! I would have chewed off my own arm if I had too…
Candid. Learn a lot. Thank you
Thanks for giving men your perspective!
That demonstration was epic 😂😂
I respect your honestly in this matter as always, but women are always the one with the lists & will need to watch Mr Glover's interview. I chalk this up to communication both ways and practice always gets closer to what both partners want if they want to achieve this
That's a fair point in my humble opinion.
I’m 17 years younger than my wife and with prostate issues coming in also just feeling like just a 100% responsible paycheck it’s not just the woman who needs to be emotionally stimulated. 34 years in guess I made my bed my libido as a man is approaching the Mariana Trench right about now
Love your openness about how we should be in a sexual relationship our acceptance or non acceptance , I’m in my early 70,s he is in his late 70’s, I love to have a sex with my partner and love being adventurous but it pisses me off that I have to go to his place for our fun but that’s it, nothing else , is the 45 minute drive worth it but I do love what we do,
TO ALL WOMEN: Men encounter andropause (male menopause) when they reach a certain age. Educate yourselves and be understanding. We've learned about yours now learn about ours.
Tell us about it. I looked it up and it says low testosterone causes it.
You're so honest. I love it ! ♥
No responsibility for pleasuring her partner, all the responsibility on the man.
No society without the certainty of paternity,. The family breaks down, without that certainty, why should men invest in uncertainty. Only losers invest in uncertainty.
While I agree with her that Men need to do better, you make damn good points, and yes, many Women need improvement too in more than one area. Sorry Ladies, no way around that.
I lasted only 2 min watching this video. I'll never get those minutes back.
I agree with you 100%. I am glad you are speaking the truth.
Likewise, people are also not aware how common it is for wives who suffer within a sexless marriage, because their husband did not want to have sex them. These men do not necessarily have ED. They just have a very low libido in comparison to their wife. These women also divorce their husband due to frustration. I think a couple’s libidos need to match the majority of the time.
Couples need to be connected, intimate, sensual, etc. (i.e. everything you mentioned) with one another in a committed relationship. A couple needs to be mutually attracted to one another and authentically horny.
Selfish men are an automatic turn off who get rejected immediately.
I think women are actually more highly sexual than men. Women’s bodies have multiple ways to reach orgasm plus we can have multiple orgasms. Some women can have multiple orgasms in the tripple digits. Research it - it is true. Society/religion should never shame sex for anyone. God created sex for marriage, so no one should feel shame about sex. Also, if anyone who reads this who has been sexually abused as a child, then the person who abused you should be ashamed of themselves. You were always innocent. Do not allow someone else’s abuse of their power over you when you were physically weaker and shorter in height make you feel like your sexuality is somehow wrong. Sexuality is normal and healthy.
Much good advice for men!❤
Patriarchy actual has a very simple beginning. It has to with breeding animals. Breeders found out males played an important role produced offspring. And that started the shift. Great books are The Great Cosmic Mother and The Art of Loving
Thanks for the tips.
Girl i like how u tell it like it is ...
He was her backup plan. She was never into him.
I think there has to be a baseline of attraction. If she's not into you for whatever reason or if she considers you just baseline acceptable, no amount of stamina or technique is going to make any difference. She's not having great sex with you. Maybe ok sex, but not great. If she keeps you on the roster at all it will be as the last resort FWB!🤣
If that's not an issue, I find the rest of it is being in good enough health and conditioning to get the job done, but then beyond that, being attentive and affectionate. Don't treat it as a mechanical act you have to pound out to reach a finish line. What I do that works for them and makes them happy - as far as I can tell, is that I approach it as a sensual experience. It's not a job I need to get done, it's a blissful tropical island beach I want to experience every inch of and never have to leave.
With some people I meet at parties or clubs, it can be basic mechanical act, but with my regulars, the ones I truly love and adore, they can feel the truth, that there is is nowhere else I want to be in the world at that time than with them. Every curve, the feel of her skin, the sound of her voice, her scent, her energy, is a perfect and pure delight that no one else will ever hold for me in the same way.
I find if you have the connection and nurture it with real affection and attentiveness consistently, she will usually want more of you.
Extremely well said. Salute.
You are so right. excellent video.
I'm surprised you haven't met a good honest man your lovely XX
This was great! My advice: We run from our partners bc you literally can't touch us (massage our feet, etc.) without us KNOWING you'll NEED to F after. So, we start to remove ourselves from everyday things with you..bc we don't want sex if there's no connection/emotion/feeling beforehand....and the relationship disolves, eventually.. Also, when men F us, they are CONSTANTLY stopping and restarting - pulling it out - it falls out - they're switching positions......Porn sex. THAT KILLS OUR RYTHM and we lose EVERYTHING it built up to - vanishes - poof - gone in an instant..tiring to get back to that and get bored during.
Yessss to all of this. They have to touch us even when they don't want sex, they can't keep stopping. Thanks for adding to this.
YES! Well put-exactly! You're welcome and thanks, again.@@schahrzadmorgan
Dudes really need to hear that, so many of us are clueless. Do yourself a favor and tell your Man that respectfully. If he doesn't listen after that, then dump him.
Looking great in lovely outfit. U talk solid from ur vast n wild experience n knowledge. I have seldom heard anyone expressing so accurately women sexual interests n feelings.
Women perspective n outlook on sex n feeling turned on sexually is widely different from men. M
I was in the mid of my response when it got accidentally submitted. Briefly I think women have a need to feel desired loved praised n wanted. This gives them a sense of assurance for support trust security & importance. Most things which u often mention as appealing to women mostly subconsciously reflect the above things like appreciation, verbal praise n romantic talk, physical energy fitness hard cock material gifts generosity attention emotional validation good dress etc all r signs of strength protection status power loyalty reliability lust to possess. Woman is ready to surrender to give her body n she get turned on in this trusting safe environment. Another factor in women's sexuality is the strong cultural suppression which has created sexual dissonance/disassociation. They don't directly connect getting hot with sex like men do. They want to believe they r pulled into sex or sexually taken by lusty man. They love to be dominated n made love to. Maybe women sexual response is changing with advancing economical independence n knowledge. They r reaching out for sexual pleasure n short term partnerships as Dr Glover was telling in the interview.
Ma’am, not all women are exactly like you..I think you are generalizing your own personality to all women. Ask the question: are all women shallow?
good video, thank you for sharing
Having had numerous lovers, both short and long-term, I'd say there are no absolutes. I've had women end our relationship but want to have sex one more time. I've had women end our relationship saying they wished the rest of the relationship was as good as the sex. So much for sex being dependent upon the rest of the relationship.
You do have a point in all honesty.
You are amazing ❤.
For my own curiosity, what zodiac sign is your ex??
I am a man over 50 and I have same 23x life.i don't know what to say 😢.I m a gemeni zodiac sign
Absolutely brilliant super valuable information for men
Very intelligent, thoughtful, and thorough explanation. Thank you for being honest about this. Dudes really need to hear this.
I wish more Women would be as honest as you. It would really help us all if they were. I would agree that many Men don't know what they are doing and or don't take their partners pleasure seriously.
However, in all honesty, I have to say the same thing about SOME Women. Ironically, the things you say you like, a sensual Man wants that too, and not all Women know what they're doing either.
So I agree totally that honesty and communication are key. You're insight and wisdom are magnificent. Great video.
By the way, most Women in my humble experience are not as smart or healthy minded as you. Salute.
A lot of men don't understand there is nothing wrong with you teaching them if inexperienced who is in control how do you teach a virgin who is big and willing to learn unwrap your gift you stated yourself
You have really nice teeth :)
"Me me me. It's all about me."
Probably helpful attitude, but i think it was Ben Franklin, who said if i had more time i would write a shorter letter.or in School you have learned that when you cut a 12 page paper down to a 3 page it is much better. so 42 minute,, how long is a Ted talk ? 20 min less.. and really if you just were to watch through this yourself do you want to watch this for 42 minutes? But how great if you took the best 3 minutes, and it would be incredible perhaps,, just a doable constructive suggestion, I hope you see the positive intent. I see your positive intent,
If I had an editor to make shorter cuts that would be a good idea!
@@schahrzadmorganNow I REALLY LIKE YOU!😘
Great Observations & Insights... 🙂👍 -70SomethingGuy
Awesome education. Thank you!
Hands up for all guys who treat their partners well, look after all their needs. have good barriers, are sexual towards them. do all your MANLY partner duties, and still get shit all from their partner. i agree with somethings. but also disagree with alot. good luck doing all this if you have kids and you both work long hrs.
I woujd love to have a personal conversation with you.
You can schedule a call! Links in bio.
You should ask a lot of questions of a person before sex what type of sex do they like to have. What type of lover are they if they don't want to talk about it then you go on to the next guy.
Or girl, because some of them are clueless at best, and horribly selfish and impatient at worst (yes females can be that too, not just guys). But I totally agree with your point. Great comment.
I theoretically knew nearly all of this. But at nearly 40 i might be a virgin. Too long of a story, just didn't use opportunities due to religious convictions until 25, but just as i changed my mind, my life collapsed and i haven't fully recovered since.
Don't know why i'm watching this, as i already accepted i'll stay that way al of this life - but every advice i've already heard, same as this special one, tells me i could have made them love it. And then reality hits - i've actually no clue if i'm still a virgin within my brahma-thing or not..
Late 30s guys are hot! Why did you give up?
Let us know why you gave up?
Let me explain i am Ed but it doe's not make me inhuman
Thanks!
Thank you for the tip.
I have difficulty accepting the shared-mated, sperm-competition thesis. It doesn't seem compatible with the behavior of higher primates, all of which display strong sexual dimorphism. Humans and hominin, too, are sexually dimorphic. The only exception to this is the bonobo monkey, where male and female are roughly the same size (weak sexual dimorphism) and the female mates with more than one partner.
The fact that women are significantly more choosy as to sexual partners than men suggests to me that it is the whole man that is consciously selected by the women and not rival sperm from multiple men battling it out in the vagina.
Thanks for the video.
Also, the fact that in all languages, ancient and modern, "bastard" and "cuckold" are swear words suggests that sexual fidelity of the women and male insecurity over parenthood is not a recent phenomenon.
Good point!
Do you have data on that? In tribal days paternity didn't seem an issue. It seemed like a sexual free for all
@@schahrzadmorgan Well, what happened in the pre-literate era can't be known, only imagined. But consider that in evolutionary terms, the literate era is an extremely brief modern phenomenon. Sexual dimorphism, on the other hand, is a reality that can be substantiated by skeletal remains and there is no time in human history where males are not significantly stronger, larger than females.
Spanish researchers have shown that sexual division of labor prevailed among Neanderthals. This is a logical consequence of marked physical differences between the sexes, and the sharing of tasks is pretty much what we see today. Dangerous, physically taxing work falls to the male, child-care and food gathering, the female. Again, most males did not reproduce which corroborates the thesis of male-male competition for females. Sharing females isn't compatible with the high rate of male evolutionary dead ends.
At 13.20... An art many women tends to forget about... Rgr
Anger issues personified
And you are so right X X
Your a Sweetheart ❤
35:39 thats true 😇
Communication and sex play
So ... I'm sad that you have had experiences with bad lovers. I don't get why guys wouldn't put in the work to have a woman adore their company in bed. (and not just imagine they do).
That said ... I did see one of your other videos where you made some ridiculous demands to which kind of guy you would date ... stuff that would make me running away screaming long before we got to the bed room.
When women are moaning and groaning, I'm actually bored and want to leave!
20:18 to 21:20 Thank you!!!
Very Awkward! Whining!
Too much work, sap of resources. Go to Asia / Europe by-pass this.
shower 🚿
Physical speed is just what we need...
Some people are very strong without muscles. I have always been in very good shape and strong. I can bench press 315lb for 8 reps and have been able to do this for 3 decades however my muscle's are really small. Not even steroids helps me put on enough muscles to get a women's attention. I guess I should look into getting some fake muscle implants so women will pay attention to me.
It is not about size! It's about strength. I myself love lean/thin toned guys. Believe me we feel and notice your strength.
You don't have to be huge and shredded. You just have to be strong enough and in reasonable enough shape to be able to hold yourself up and thrust without collapsing in five minutes. Work on flexibility and some good cardio conditioning, and you'll be ahead of 85% of the pack at any age.
@@kenofken9458 True, however a man can be extremely strong and be in very good cardio shape while at the same time having a very bad looking shaped body. this is what I'm talking about. there are some people who lack the ability to add muscle even when taking steroids'. Some people are skinny no matter how they eat or how they workout. I myself am extremely strong and athletic but I look weak and skinny. the fact of the matter is women want to be visually turned on by the way a guys body looks. They don't care about how much weight he can lift or how much endurance he has. Its all about the perception of what they think his body represents. a guy with a body that looks athletic is what women want.
The thing is, women are into a variety of body shapes and sizes. The reality is very few men have the sculpted proportions of elite bodybuilders, and believe it or not some women are actually grossed out by the look when it is taken too far.
If you look like you basically take care of yourself, you're not going to suffer a penalty for not looking super jacked at all times. Who you are and how you treat women in the end is going to make a lot more difference.
2nd comment - you are very pretty.