Spot on! As guys were programmed to think we are supposed to go AFTER the woman. Persuade her in a sense. I stopped doing that YEEEEARS ago! That only leads to disappointment. My gf today CHOSE ME! She ALWAYS makes time for me, MY FAMILY LOVES HER. She has a positive spirit about her and dealing with her really changed my life. She’s been with me in the DARKEST times of my life. A lot of women will run away, but this woman just keep on desiring to be with me.
I’m a very passionate person when I comes to love and relationships. One problem I face is being to emotionally invested in it I struggle to keep a masculinity frame sometimes.
This couldn’t have came at a better time. I’ve been in a situationship for the past year with this girl who will want to spend 24/7 with me, but won’t commit. And I haven’t read this book in ages, and was the wake up call I needed
I’m 19 and I’ve never loved someone (romantically) or even had a crush on someone. But I still watched this video. I’ve been a bit concerned by the way I will approach this relationship “realm” in the future because I’ve never been in it and I have no experience in it. But watching your videos is very educational and is a major help to me. Thank you Ali you’re doing a huge favor to a lot of young men❤
Let me tell you one thing, it will probably be both the best and worst thing that will ever happen to you. Just be careful who you let into your space. Enjoy life
if she likes you but is ignoring you or playing hard to get it means you're her last resort. Her fallback incase the man she really wants doesn't want her
I think that if a man and a woman find each other and it’s obvious they are soulmates, there isn’t something such as obsessing too much. I think you two aren’t able to love each other enough on the contrary. Man and woman. If they both love each other they won’t hold back and they will make it work and never hold back on how they feel towards their partner.
I agree bro. It’s better for men to pursue women for marriage only not for fun… everyday I look at the west I feel bad because I’m Africa we don’t face this sort of values
Ali, you have no clue how powerful this video is. thank you so much for making and posting content because this really helps. i’ve been going through stuff and your channel just lightens up my mood. thank you 🙏
Great Video Ali! Brother I'm currently in a relationship and I'm just a very passionate and caring man, One Problem you mentioned is that I'm becoming too emotionally attached, as if I need her with me all the time but I'm tryna accept the fact that we both need downtime with friends and to do other things to balance out the relationship. I've been clear and communicated with her and she's a keeper but It's something I'm battling to this day. Keep up the videos man, Great Content!
Hey Ali, I’m 15 go to the gym everyday, have a job, am productive and read, i am talking to this girl and I feel like I could balance all of this I still think I could focus on self improvement while making a relationship work but I don’t want to get too distracted. Any advice?
If you can 100% make the relationship work while still keeping your self improvment journey, then go for it. Don't buy into this whole cringe "lonely demon arc" where people think you have to be lonely and suffer in order to succeed, life is too short for that and you can 100% do both. Follow your heart bro
Hey Ali, I used to have this burning desire to become the best. Now I ask myself why what’s the point. I let the doubt creep in. I am on the journey of taking action and a step back to find my purpose and why.
Hi Ali, What if the woman who chooses you/and knows she wants you, you have a hard time reciprocating that same energy? What if I love her, but sometimes it’s in a way conditional, and not the unconditional love that will allow a relationship last through tough times? I am trying to work with her, but we have our social differences. What’s hard to let her go is that she’s a good “teammate” as you’ve mentioned, but I question our marital compatibility sometimes, and for some reason something in my gut is “holding me back” from loving her in the way she deserves. In other words, I feel like I’m having the opposite problem. Lately, I’ll confess I’ve been the one to “open the door”, but it’s hard to unconditionally love her now in the way she wants/deserves. Any advice will be much appreciated.
Hey Ali. I’m 18 and this girl I was in an relationship broke up with me due to both of hurting eachother. We still both want the relationship and have forgiven each, but we both need time to heal the wounds we inflicted on one another and she has told me she wants space and time. But i became a bit too needy and now she wants more space because to her it feels like I want it more than her. Which shouldn’t be the case. And she said we will talk about everything including get back together after a month and resolving all the other issues I wanted to find out if she being honest or playing around?
@@baleflash5856hey bro. Disclaimer, I’m not qualified to answer this at all. But, from a simple viewpoint, I think you should remind yourself of your youth and your opportunity. You are incredibly young at 18 years, and you have a massive amount of time to look forward to. In this time, you will meet thousands of people and have the opportunity to build yourself into a top tier man. You need to think about what man you will become in the next decade, and prioritize that above another person. Then, think about if she really is the perfect girl for you. If you have some doubts, I advise that you start to let go. Or, at the very least, stop caring as much, because either 1 of 2 things will happen. A. You stop caring as much, and when you split up, it hurts less, and you’re ready to get out there again and build yourself up. Or B. You stop caring as much, which will make her more attracted to you. Either way, just remember that at your young age, you should prioritize your own development. It sounds selfish, but when you’re 35 and you’ve spent a decade and a half building yourself into a capable man, you will be able to help other people way way way more than you ever could have today. Think about what’s best for you long term- not what’s best for her. I hope this helps! Good luck brother
What if someone is into someone so much they try to study them, because they are obsessed with that particular person they want to know much more about them, and they keep trying to just get liked and it's not working no matter how much hard they try? I don't understand how a man works but I always believed being true to that person always is the best thing, just weird how people work nowadays it's very sad and upsetting, I'll carry on making dua inshallah one day it will happen maybe one day! I'll get to see the rainbow would that person inshallah! 😔
My opinion probably won't be welcome but if you want a female point of view-here it is. Neediness is a complete turnoff. Make us work for your attention-at the beginning anyway. We like a challenge.
Ali, I wasted so much time ignoring women who want me and instead chasing women who don’t want me. Your videos are saving so much young men.
Happy to help my brother 🤝
But be selective, too. Don’t just accept anyone thrown your way.
Spot on! As guys were programmed to think we are supposed to go AFTER the woman. Persuade her in a sense. I stopped doing that YEEEEARS ago! That only leads to disappointment. My gf today CHOSE ME! She ALWAYS makes time for me, MY FAMILY LOVES HER. She has a positive spirit about her and dealing with her really changed my life. She’s been with me in the DARKEST times of my life. A lot of women will run away, but this woman just keep on desiring to be with me.
I’m a very passionate person when I comes to love and relationships. One problem I face is being to emotionally invested in it I struggle to keep a masculinity frame sometimes.
This couldn’t have came at a better time. I’ve been in a situationship for the past year with this girl who will want to spend 24/7 with me, but won’t commit. And I haven’t read this book in ages, and was the wake up call I needed
That’s it brother. Sometimes we just need to take a step back & be honest with ourselves.
Realest shit
I’m 19 and I’ve never loved someone (romantically) or even had a crush on someone. But I still watched this video. I’ve been a bit concerned by the way I will approach this relationship “realm” in the future because I’ve never been in it and I have no experience in it. But watching your videos is very educational and is a major help to me. Thank you Ali you’re doing a huge favor to a lot of young men❤
Let me tell you one thing, it will probably be both the best and worst thing that will ever happen to you. Just be careful who you let into your space. Enjoy life
Your 19 lol calm down
You may be right lol im focusing on other stuff @@BoerboelBladeandAriaTV
Welcome back to another video my brothers todays video is titled Choose A Woman Who CHOOSES YOU
if she likes you but is ignoring you or playing hard to get it means you're her last resort. Her fallback incase the man she really wants doesn't want her
Love watching theses videos instead of redpill content creators. Keep up the good work brother.
Yeah but if the woman that chooses me is unattractive or fat I'm not choosing back.
Lol
I think that if a man and a woman find each other and it’s obvious they are soulmates, there isn’t something such as obsessing too much. I think you two aren’t able to love each other enough on the contrary. Man and woman. If they both love each other they won’t hold back and they will make it work and never hold back on how they feel towards their partner.
damn you got super lean since the last time i viewed you. it inspires me to get shredded again from my recent bulk
Appreciate it brother 🤝 you got it!
I agree bro. It’s better for men to pursue women for marriage only not for fun… everyday I look at the west I feel bad because I’m Africa we don’t face this sort of values
That’s right brother
Ali, you have no clue how powerful this video is. thank you so much for making and posting content because this really helps. i’ve been going through stuff and your channel just lightens up my mood. thank you 🙏
Another solid video with grand advice thank you for your support
And ideally meet her father, shake his hand “I WANT YOUR WOMAN!”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah I realize that the effort a person puts into you is attractive trait. I guess I gotta keep looking
I want your woman 😂😂😂😂
Anyway great videos bro.. u earned a subscriber
Great Video Ali! Brother I'm currently in a relationship and I'm just a very passionate and caring man, One Problem you mentioned is that I'm becoming too emotionally attached, as if I need her with me all the time but I'm tryna accept the fact that we both need downtime with friends and to do other things to balance out the relationship. I've been clear and communicated with her and she's a keeper but It's something I'm battling to this day. Keep up the videos man, Great Content!
Thank you for the consistent uploads brother!
I got you brother! Plenty more coming🤝
Hey Ali, I’m 15 go to the gym everyday, have a job, am productive and read, i am talking to this girl and I feel like I could balance all of this I still think I could focus on self improvement while making a relationship work but I don’t want to get too distracted. Any advice?
What are you asking? If you think you can still focus on self improvement while keeping the relationship going, then keep the relationship going.
If you can 100% make the relationship work while still keeping your self improvment journey, then go for it. Don't buy into this whole cringe "lonely demon arc" where people think you have to be lonely and suffer in order to succeed, life is too short for that and you can 100% do both. Follow your heart bro
Thank you for this man fr
Thank you 😔
Hey Ali, I used to have this burning desire to become the best. Now I ask myself why what’s the point. I let the doubt creep in. I am on the journey of taking action and a step back to find my purpose and why.
Thank you for this.
You believe in God? Now I respect you even more my guy. Keep cushing it!!!
Hi Ali,
What if the woman who chooses you/and knows she wants you, you have a hard time reciprocating that same energy? What if I love her, but sometimes it’s in a way conditional, and not the unconditional love that will allow a relationship last through tough times?
I am trying to work with her, but we have our social differences. What’s hard to let her go is that she’s a good “teammate” as you’ve mentioned, but I question our marital compatibility sometimes, and for some reason something in my gut is “holding me back” from loving her in the way she deserves.
In other words, I feel like I’m having the opposite problem. Lately, I’ll confess I’ve been the one to “open the door”, but it’s hard to unconditionally love her now in the way she wants/deserves.
Any advice will be much appreciated.
There is no couching course available it says the account has expired?
@@adam3561 website is being revamped. You can still book a call though. Go to
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Very real video brother
Hey Ali. I’m 18 and this girl I was in an relationship broke up with me due to both of hurting eachother. We still both want the relationship and have forgiven each, but we both need time to heal the wounds we inflicted on one another and she has told me she wants space and time. But i became a bit too needy and now she wants more space because to her it feels like I want it more than her. Which shouldn’t be the case. And she said we will talk about everything including get back together after a month and resolving all the other issues I wanted to find out if she being honest or playing around?
I’m kindly asking for advice
@@baleflash5856hey bro. Disclaimer, I’m not qualified to answer this at all. But, from a simple viewpoint, I think you should remind yourself of your youth and your opportunity. You are incredibly young at 18 years, and you have a massive amount of time to look forward to. In this time, you will meet thousands of people and have the opportunity to build yourself into a top tier man. You need to think about what man you will become in the next decade, and prioritize that above another person. Then, think about if she really is the perfect girl for you. If you have some doubts, I advise that you start to let go. Or, at the very least, stop caring as much, because either 1 of 2 things will happen. A. You stop caring as much, and when you split up, it hurts less, and you’re ready to get out there again and build yourself up. Or B. You stop caring as much, which will make her more attracted to you. Either way, just remember that at your young age, you should prioritize your own development. It sounds selfish, but when you’re 35 and you’ve spent a decade and a half building yourself into a capable man, you will be able to help other people way way way more than you ever could have today. Think about what’s best for you long term- not what’s best for her. I hope this helps! Good luck brother
What if someone is into someone so much they try to study them, because they are obsessed with that particular person they want to know much more about them, and they keep trying to just get liked and it's not working no matter how much hard they try? I don't understand how a man works but I always believed being true to that person always is the best thing, just weird how people work nowadays it's very sad and upsetting, I'll carry on making dua inshallah one day it will happen maybe one day! I'll get to see the rainbow would that person inshallah! 😔
So why women don't care about memories
Hey man, thanks for your content. I'm just curious as to what stones you have set in your rings?
Thankyou.
My opinion probably won't be welcome but if you want a female point of view-here it is.
Neediness is a complete turnoff. Make us work for your attention-at the beginning anyway.
We like a challenge.